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| 11 | 2 Girls, 1 Tinder Date | Field Report | tsargorgi | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/17 10:54 PM |
| 4 | "As long as we're relatively monogamous..." | tsargorgi | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 03:44 AM | |
| 1 | Therapy Feedback Request | tsargorgi | /r/askTRP | 19/08/17 06:29 PM |
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| 5 | Don't PM/DM/Text Women...LMAO | /r/MGTOW | 10/01/18 05:49 AM |
| 2 | I am a well-known Hollywood actor who has been closeted Red Pill for some years now. AMA!100% Keanu | /r/askTRP | 15/11/17 04:00 PM |
| 2 | I am a well-known Hollywood actor who has been closeted Red Pill for some years now. AMA!What do you think of being compared to Keanu Reeves? | /r/askTRP | 15/11/17 12:45 AM |
| 6 | I am a well-known Hollywood actor who has been closeted Red Pill for some years now. AMA!DiCaprio is listed as having 44 relationships on whosdatedwho | /r/askTRP | 15/11/17 12:27 AM |
| 4 | I am a well-known Hollywood actor who has been closeted Red Pill for some years now. AMA!Reeves’ father abandoned the family when he was 3 according to Wikipedia | /r/askTRP | 14/11/17 11:52 PM |
| 39 | I am a well-known Hollywood actor who has been closeted Red Pill for some years now. AMA!You’re Keanu Reeves. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/17 11:43 PM |
| 2 | I am a well-known Hollywood actor who has been closeted Red Pill for some years now. AMA!??? I️ think there’s plenty of info here to grab at who this guy is??? | /r/askTRP | 14/11/17 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys eat ass?Attraction is a symptom of oneitis. be careful. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/17 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Living in a small town, feels close to suicide. Advice?Sure, but it’s just shitty snacks! | /r/askTRP | 10/11/17 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Strange question about female orgasm. Please enlighten me.Keep going after that clit until she can’t even fucking breathe! | /r/askTRP | 10/11/17 04:10 AM |
| 1 | In need of psychotherapy for PTSD, social anxiety, depression, etc? Make sure to choose a *male* therapist.Huge... I’ve been thinking about this myself. I had a female therapist for 2 years. Very attractive, and like others this got in the way of me being completely honest because I wanted to make myself attractive to her. I finally tell her about this and about my attraction, and it’s ok. She’s not bothered, and now I can be honest about when this is getting in the way of my conversation with her. I moved recently and started working with a male therapist. It’s almost as if the female therapist was … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/17 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Kissing a girl who may not want to be kissed?Don’t worry about it so much. If you’re aware of kino and tension and choose the right moment, it’s not a big deal. You’re on a date - the context suggests that you want to make a move. If she blows up at you trying to kiss her, she will look like an idiot. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/17 03:04 AM |
| 2 | What are your views on social media with girls? (only guys under 25)https://www.facebook.com/gary/ Social is your highlight real. Use it for social proof, to showcase your accomplishments, and your gains at the gym. I think it's going to be important for more than picking up chicks - it helps make business connections and market yourself. You can literally use social to raise money to do whatever you want, so why not learn how to use it? I wouldn't worry about the numbers of your follower count unless you're starting to do business / marketing yourself for sales… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/17 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Something no one ever wants to talk about: Going after girls who aren't really single. Is it moral? Perhaps more importantly to some, is it a good idea?I feel like this topic comes up on the sub with some regularity. You can game girls who have boyfriends no problem. You can game girls who don't have boyfriends no problem. People do both | /r/askTRP | 05/11/17 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Ask number if she mentions a boyfriend?No ragrets. You're learning. "Soccer players can still score goals even though there's goalies". | /r/askTRP | 04/11/17 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Plate knows where I live, where I work, and my full name. How bad did I fuck up?No??? | /r/askTRP | 04/11/17 04:06 AM |
| 1 | How to keep a positive mindset very high in any circumstanceGaryVee | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 05:35 AM |
| 3 | First car?You can get a 10 year old Japanese car with 100k mikes and get another 200k miles out of it. Honda, Toyota, Acura, etc | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Plate wants to use condoms againAre you trying for an exclusive LTR? Just ask her | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Does "don't shit where you eat" ALWAYS apply?What's the industry? | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 04:29 AM |
| 2 | What are some nice efficient ways to find the time for dates when you're on full-time?There are no "nice efficient ways to find time," you have to make the time. You're "a bit of a workaholic," but you can change this or at least make the time to go out. When you sit on the toilet, you can swipe right through tinder matches. When you match, you can set up dates. You just have to let go of working every day and commit to make time for the date | /r/askTRP | 31/10/17 02:32 AM |
| 3 | What are some nice efficient ways to find the time for dates when you're on full-time?Tinder and not letting work be an excuse | /r/askTRP | 31/10/17 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Am I missing something by not having snapchat or instagram?Yes, you 100% should start adapting and becoming comfortable wth social media. Follow Gary Vee on Facebook, Instagram, and Snapchat for free advice on how to use the mediums effectively. The world is only going to become more digital, and you'll be at an advantage financially/commercially if you are strong with the platforms. Girls 100% notice your social media presence. It's a form of social proof that will complement your in-person game. Your in person game should be such that she's thinking a… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Had a good interaction with a girl last night, she has to leave (pre-drinks flat party) and I go to kiss her. She says 'I'm not that kind of girl' - what to do?Rock salt lamp game is good. Innocent reason to get them upstairs. Boom. I'm not much farther along than you-maybe 2 years since losing my virginity. I'm all about the newb gainz, and I know my own kiss closes increased my confidence and taught me the lesson to wait out the seduction. Do what you want to do. You'll keep getting girls to figure out what works best. Early on, you're tempted to kiss close as soon as you notice the mutual attraction and IOI. This is good because validates that intui… | /r/askTRP | 29/10/17 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Had a good interaction with a girl last night, she has to leave (pre-drinks flat party) and I go to kiss her. She says 'I'm not that kind of girl' - what to do?"Took her hand, pulled her in" Great job leading. That builds attraction. How did you ask for her number? How did you go in for the kiss? Which came first? Did she pull away and say I'm not that kind of girl? Were there still IOIs after that? I'd chalk up the ASD to two things: 10 minutes is a short time and she was on her way to another party. Did she see you gaming other girls? Noticing who sees you gaming a girl gives you an opportunity to leverage preselection. The logistics of escalation ar… | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Had a good interaction with a girl last night, she has to leave (pre-drinks flat party) and I go to kiss her. She says 'I'm not that kind of girl' - what to do?How long was the interaction? Was this your first interaction with her? What other kino were you employing before you went in for the kiss? Did you build enough rapport to even begin kino? If she was on her way to leave, why didn't you grab her number? Did you start gaming other women after she left? Did she see you gaming other women before you talked to her? Could you sense sexual tension between the two of you? What do you mean by a 'good' interaction? We're you and she flirting? ASD let's a … | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Depedastalling womenkindGftow | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 01:45 AM |
| 5 | URGENT: Play fightingDid she punch your arm? I get the vibe that girls just want to feel a guys muscle - it's a flirtatious move or a turn on for them, not a shit test. It's a version of kino. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 01:44 AM |
| 1 | My main plate saw a text pop up on my phone from another girl, which reminder the main plate that I'm dating around and made her very sad.Update? | /r/askTRP | 20/10/17 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Should I make an instagram account?Yes, check out Gary Vaynerchuk for free social media and business education. I'd also say he's red pill although I don't know what the community would say. Instagram is a highlights reel. It let's you display your SMV remotely and will improve your probability of success when playing the field. Online dating also becomes easier. Social media is part of the landscape of today. To GaryVee's credit, "Adapt or die." Sure, it's not essential but it can give you an edge if you use it well. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/17 10:00 PM |
| 2 | How can a teen find a place to have sex?Car sex in mall parking lots at night. I def don't want to do it anymore but it's good if you don't have anywhere to go. The chance that you'll get caught can be exciting | /r/askTRP | 11/10/17 09:48 PM |
| 1 | escalated with girl then this happenedThis. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Spinning two plates -> Turn one into an LTRYou're shitting where you eat really hard with the HB7.5. Recognize that. I get the feeling that you think it's better that she's the same major as you and in all your classes. This has the potential to blow up in your face. It did for me when I didn't know anything about RP, and the general advice here is to stay clear of situations like this. Maybe you can handle it if you know enough RP, idk. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Question for recovering nice guys"I'm afraid that I'll appear mean or hurt their feelings" - if people are giving you shit, you can give them shit back / make fun of them. It's not mean. It's funny and "what guys do" "I also don't want to cause friction". If you're in a friend group where you have a problem with someone, someone else has a problem with that person too. Standing up for yourself will create respect and give you allies. Part of swallowing the pill is that you want to create friction - or you understand that fricti… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/17 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Question for recovering nice guysI had to cut a 'friend' out of my life that was disrespectful to me. I had to recognize that I was just being a nice guy and not taking a stand for myself. For a while, i wanted to teach him to respect me or show him that he needed to respect me; but that didn't work. When you're the guy who's been getting shit on for a while, directly standing up for yourself will bring the shit down even more. What's interesting is that since I cut out the guy who brought the most shit, my other friends / the … | /r/askTRP | 07/10/17 05:07 PM |
| 2 | I am hurt, anti-social, and an abuser, how can I save myself?Maybe that's the rub. What are your goals aside from getting pussy? So much of what we do is an attempt to attract sex. Do you have goals aside from that? Now that you're getting pussy easy, what do you care about aside from that? | /r/askTRP | 05/10/17 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Is this normal behavior for a plate?This happened to me when a girl wanted to sleep with me and "didn't really have a boyfriend". This is hypergamy at work. You weren't available, so she went back to her ex. Now your available, she wants to get back with you. If you want to sleep with her again, it's worth having her over despite the change in her "relationship status". You could easily escalate | /r/askTRP | 01/10/17 07:21 PM |
| 11 | My fuck buddy gave me a shit test last night. She told me she wouldn't blow me unless I go down on her. What's my next move?Learn how to make a girl cum with your tongue, and you'll increase her sex drive when she's with you. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/17 05:14 AM |
| 7 | Does it get easier??It'll become more natural like a habit. But it's always work. The type of work will change. At first it's discipline to a routine. Then commitment to the routine despite whatever other changes might happen. Your pain tolerance must increase. Do not look for the easy way out. Do not think you just don't have it. You have to make yourself to have it. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/17 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Inadvertently ignoring girls/IoIsIoIs (indications of interest) and lols (laughing out loud) look way too similar | /r/askTRP | 01/10/17 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Best way to show intent in a girl other than say it?Is there a problem with directly telling a girl that she is cute or attractive? Works for me | /r/askTRP | 30/09/17 04:39 AM |
| 7 | Convince me not to get married.Someone might say she's in it for the status of being married. Being married gives her status over women who are not married. It sounds like she wants that because she doesn't have much else. If she's religious, it might even feel like it's her purpose to get married in the religious sense. She'll marry you thinking it's her purpose, realize that that there's more to life than marriage, and then go find herself AWALT you. You should not do this. A marriage unites families and you do not like her… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/17 02:42 AM |
| 1 | 2 Girls, 1 Tinder DateLol ok. I never know with this sub | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/17 01:00 AM |
| -1 | There’s this hot ass D1 volleyball player chick at my school. She has a huge crush on me, but I have no social status whatsoever. However, I take school seriously and am aiming for Harvard, Yale, etc. for law school. Should I tell her my plans in full detail or leave some details out for mystique?I mean your goals sound very good and I think would give you status in her eyes. How can she like you if you have no social status whatsoever? | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 03:49 AM |
| 2 | 2 Girls, 1 Tinder DateHairy arms. Boring. I'm not attracted to her. The 2nd girls knows I'm seeing/talking to multiple people on Tinder. I think that's enough | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:14 PM |
| 1 | 2 Girls, 1 Tinder DateInteresting. I'm all about trying things once. Was that a first night lay? How'd that happen? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 08:15 PM |
| 1 | 2 Girls, 1 Tinder DateI like this one - I wear tighter pants so I don't think I can guide her hand down there easily. Taking it out just becomes easier | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 08:13 PM |
| 2 | 2 Girls, 1 Tinder DateThank you guys, looks like there's some consensus on this. It feels like I'm good at taking the initiative, i.e. Taking her dress off, going for her bra. Idk why taking my dick out feels different. I like the explanation for bringing her hand down to it and bringing it into my pants. Will employ | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 08:11 PM |
| 2 | 2 Girls, 1 Tinder Date100%. The second girl never told the first girl. The second girl was joking about it to me privately.. like she thought it was hilarious and strange because it was a weird situation. The first girl didn't think anything was weird because she didn't know what was happening | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 12:09 PM |
| 1 | 2 Girls, 1 Tinder DateWhat could I do to give her more pleasure? What are some examples? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 01:27 AM |
| 4 | 2 Girls, 1 Tinder DateFuck that's like an integral part of the story. They're each other's friend. Like the first girl was "at a bar with a friend". The second girl was "out gal palling it". And they were talking about each other. They didn't check each other's matches to know that they were talking to the same guy from tinder Edit: this is a small city | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 01:21 AM |
| 1 | 2 Girls, 1 Tinder DateMaybe took the resistance too much at face value? Is just taking my dick out a thing? Idk if that's a move? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 01:18 AM |
| 3 | 2 Girls, 1 Tinder DateSorry for the comments, my questions are getting clearer, and I didn't know what points to focus on in my first field report. My first post was a wall of text, so I tried to leave out unnecessary details this time. I didn't mention this above, but one of their friends we met up with was a lesbian that was pursuing the second girl. They made out a couple times while we were out, and I just bring this up to ask if anyone has similar experiences with a girl. Like what can I expect from a girl who's… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 01:05 AM |
| 2 | 2 Girls, 1 Tinder DateI mentioned I'm attracted to the 2nd girl and not the 1st girl. My plan is to ghost the 1st girl and try to see the second girl again. We're texting logistics. They're mainly acquaintances. The 1st girl just moved to our city a week ago. They're also not friends to the point where they would have checked each other's tinder matches which led to Friday's events. My intuition says the 2nd girl might not want to complicate the relationship with her friend by continuing to see me. Is that a concern?… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 12:56 AM |
| 3 | 2 Girls, 1 Tinder DateMmm, yeah, I didn't go into enough detail there. So we get into her room, we're making out standing next to her bed. I unzip the back of her dress. She giggles and says ok. While we're making out, she pulls away at one point and says "so I want to kiss you and everything it's just also that it's that time of the month for me. I also have to get up for work at 10 and need to get some sleep". It's 5am at this point. And I say, "oh, ok," genuinely a little surprised about the period thing. Has anyo… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 12:54 AM |
| 1 | How on earth does one respond to a text like this? (Partner is genuinely upset)I'm impressed. Can you make your own Red Pill sub? I've found my new messiah lol | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend blowing into mouth while making out?Tell her to stop | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 03:09 AM |
| 8 | "I'm quite a handful" or "are you sure you can handle me?""I think I'm handling you pretty well already" Had a similar shit test where a girl said "well you can't tame me" or "I can't be tamed". I laughed and said "im doing a good job already". She smiled and said yeah | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 02:51 AM |
| 2 | "I believe in only two things: Boobs and The First Amendment"In line with that not being about sexual strategy, mods delete this | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/17 03:16 AM |
| 7 | Guys in here who remained single on their way to achieving success in life (mainly financial but also SMV in general) or those that know guys who did, how did it end up?Lol shit maybe he's the guy that's not lurking on reddit 🤣😂 | /r/askTRP | 19/09/17 03:09 AM |
| 3 | My main plate saw a text pop up on my phone from another girl, which reminder the main plate that I'm dating around and made her very sad.Very true. My frame is weak with inexperience. There was a moment early on when she asked if I used tinder a lot. I said that I had been on a few first dates and that nothing really panned out front there - missed opportunity. TBH kind of nice to have a discourse on here that's not "fuck you and lift" lol. You're treading ground slightly ahead of me, so that's cool to see. Would love to hear how things go next - pretty susrpised y'all still banged. I would not expect that from this girl over her… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/17 12:51 AM |
| 3 | My main plate saw a text pop up on my phone from another girl, which reminder the main plate that I'm dating around and made her very sad.Hmm, so what does it look like if you don't have the candid conversation? What do you do instead? I'm feeling this beta guilt about it even though I know we haven't talked about it. It's just I also know I didn't manage her expectations properly. I had a girl out of state for a bit and we both knew when I was leaving and so when it would be called off. That made it very easy to be honest. When I think about wanting to date around and GFTOW, lol Idk how to be honest about that | /r/askTRP | 18/09/17 11:46 PM |
| 4 | My main plate saw a text pop up on my phone from another girl, which reminder the main plate that I'm dating around and made her very sad.Hey, so I'm in a similar situation I think. We haven't talked about it at all, but I get the vibe that the girl thinks/wants us to be exclusive. I feel like I didn't make my intentions clear enough and have acted pretty beta/boyfriend although there was no explicit conversation about exclusivity. What are some of the lessons learned you got from this? I'm starting to think there'd be value in explicitly telling her and other girls that I'm not looking for an exclusive relationship. Has the commu… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/17 11:08 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to one word text answers on tinder?For sure, if you google search Tinder guide the red pill, you'll get a good breakdown of what some of the endorsed contributors say about it. I'm having succes with tinder now thanks in part to their guides. Some key takeaways I think about are "texting is just for logistics" and the "go for the number close and set a date to meet quickly". It doesn't take much to get a date from tinder. Any more than 10 messages and you're just giving a girl attention when you could be setting up a date with so… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/17 12:30 AM |
| 10 | How to respond to one word text answers on tinder?Ask for her phone number. Say let's get a drink sometime. And move on. Tinder is a numbers game. Go quickly for a # close / set a date to meet. And then move on. Game can only help you close with a girl so much. Abundance mentality reminds you that there's plenty of people who'll swipe right | /r/askTRP | 17/09/17 11:15 PM |
| 1 | I find only texting for logistics doesn't work.I started employing the tactic of canceling day of if they don't respond to a morning text. This has only happened twice out of the 5 dates I've set up. For 1 of the girls, she immediately responded, "that's totally fine!". We set up another date, and she flaked again, so hard next. For the 2nd girl, she immediately responded "aw whyyy?". I said "lol you didn't confirm 7 and someone else did". And then sent "another time". She responded with "hahahaha omg. I can't believe this. Well, another tim… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/17 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Girl I kinda know lives outta town. Asking for the sex.Also, one idea is to assume attraction. Or to assume that you've already fucked her and will again. Integrate that in against your skepticism | /r/askTRP | 14/09/17 01:40 AM |
| 10 | Girl I kinda know lives outta town. Asking for the sex.Sext her and just chill on it. Keep her as an orbiter until you travel there or she travels here. Just leave it as "lmk when you come in town". And then randomly text her you're thinking about all the things you want to do to her. Keep gaming other women and just chill on it. Nbd. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/17 01:39 AM |
| 16 | Sum up The Red Pill in One QuoteThat's great, man. He's probably an awesome fuck | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 12:24 AM |
| 9 | [Meta] Have any of you actually followed our advice?I'm very grateful for all the work being done here. Thank you. Continue to support this community. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 07:49 PM |
| 2 | On PDA, pushing too hard and ending dates"Trying to force shit without any plausible deniability" - that's it | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 07:17 PM |
| 8 | On PDA, pushing too hard and ending datesHonestly, I've been in the same situation the past couple weeks. There was a thread on here where some of the endorsed contributors advocated for not pushing for sex on the first date in order to create a better opportunity for long term plate material. It might have been the same thread where an EC wrote, "Kissing reduces sexual tension." Looking forward myself, I'm going to wait to k-close until I'm at her place. Starting in private creates a better opportunity for you to f-close. Think about … | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 03:27 PM |
| 2 | This good pick-up/conversation starting idea?This is about day-game and number closing with a classmate. Just sit next to her without saying anything. Act like you don't care. Say hey. Ask where she's from. What's her major. Don't shit where you eat. (!). This Is said a lot about the workplace but school is your workplace. Your goal with day game is to build rapport and number close. Not give iois by saying she's cute. You'll be seeing her 2-3 times/week. Relax and take your time. If she's smart, get her number in case you have any questio… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice regarding staying in engineeringLuxury car sales | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Need some advice regarding staying in engineeringSales | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 09:09 PM |
| 5 | I've never been denied sex by my gf, yet she never initiates it.You're the goat. She's submissive. Enjoy it. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 07:08 PM |
| 2 | August 18 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadGood -Committed to 5 meetings with a personal trainer to build confidence in and knowledge about going to the gym -Chatting up girl online. Noticing shit tests. Maintaining frame. Will see what results are -Building confidence in taking leadership role with on campus robotics club. Plans and habits developing to become a leader in the engineering department -Shopped around for a CBT to assist in my keeping track of issues with DPDR. Was able to recognize and say no to a therapist who I was confi… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/17 04:29 PM |
| 29 | While you're talking to her about TRP, I'm fucking her in the assThis whole post is hilarious | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/17 06:36 AM |
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