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1

You should’ve asked her name before asking her out.
/r/seduction03/09/18 11:45 PM
1

No idea what FR means, but uh.. do you know her name?
/r/seduction03/09/18 11:30 PM
1

I don’t think that person actually found it funny. They were right: the unless you piss me off was too aggressive.
/r/seduction01/06/18 01:24 AM
0

How dare women know what they want.
/r/seduction23/03/18 12:47 PM
0

Lmao @ your last sentence
/r/seduction23/03/18 02:09 AM
-3

Please don’t do this. When I go to the grocery store, my goal is to get my shit and get home. I’ve had someone hit on me in a grocery store out of nowhere. I didn’t enjoy it. If someone used one of these lines on me? I’d eye roll so hard.
/r/seduction23/03/18 01:58 AM
11

Girl here. I call both men and women dude/buddy/bro/man all the time. It’s just sort of how I talk, I guess? I’ll use those names even if I’m attracted to the guy. My former FWB and I called each other dude/bro all the time. Had no impact on the sex or my attraction to him.
/r/seduction11/03/18 07:52 AM
2

Girl here. Don’t over think the text. Just say “hey! Last night was fun. How’re you?”
/r/seduction24/02/18 04:36 AM
0

So what do you want from her? A FWB?
/r/seduction30/10/17 02:16 AM
0

I have no idea what IOI means and I rarely enter this sub because I don’t believe in dissecting another person’s behavior. But if you’re into her, ask her out. Worst she says is no.
/r/seduction30/10/17 02:06 AM
2

No. Source: I am a girl.
/r/seduction21/10/17 02:05 AM
1

Are you friends on facebook? I’d start chatting with her that way.
/r/seduction14/10/17 01:48 AM
2

....you took that way too far. You could have just specified what you meant, but okay.
/r/seduction04/02/16 06:38 AM
1

If a strange man came up to me while I was walking trails, I would most likely be terrified.
/r/seduction04/02/16 06:34 AM
1

Depends where you are approaching them.
/r/seduction04/02/16 06:18 AM
0

Therapy.
/r/seduction08/09/15 04:56 AM
1

Seddit hates this opinion, but I would not go out with a guy whose first words to me were, "Let's go on a date." Do you have any mutual friends? Any way to establish a bond whatsoever?!
/r/seduction13/08/15 03:03 AM
1

Have you ever spoken to her? Are you Facebook friends?
/r/seduction13/08/15 03:00 AM
1

Girl perspective here (I know seddit tends to hate that, but whatevs). What is your question?
/r/seduction13/08/15 02:50 AM
1

Can someone tell me what PUA is?
/r/seduction24/07/15 04:47 AM
0

Yes, you need to say something. Say "just kidding!" ANYTHING. You need to repair this.
/r/seduction23/09/14 03:06 AM
1

From a female perspective, it sounded like, "Ok, so we're not going to be friends. Oh well."
/r/seduction23/09/14 02:45 AM
1

As a girl, I can say it is definitely possible.
/r/seduction20/09/14 03:51 AM
1

And if you do ask, the answer will sometimes be no. And you should respect that. But still go out on a limb and take the chance.
/r/seduction04/09/14 03:42 AM
1

Do you go with friends?
/r/seduction27/08/14 04:15 AM
2

Do something to get noticed! Start a game of beer pong, dance around, etc. And if you see a girl just standing there, just go up to her.
/r/seduction27/08/14 03:49 AM
1

Good point. Thanks!
/r/seduction21/08/14 03:48 AM
1

I have a boyfriend, so it's a bit different :)
/r/seduction20/08/14 04:10 AM
5

Good for you, man! From the female perspective, if I got a "you were such a hot fuck" text the next day, I WOULD BE SO HAPPY. Bless you for doing that
/r/seduction20/08/14 01:54 AM
1

I disagree that it's a must, but it's a nice thing to do.
/r/seduction17/08/14 05:06 PM
2

Brief. Very brief.
/r/seduction17/08/14 12:59 PM
6

Say "hey!" with a hug.
/r/seduction17/08/14 12:46 PM
1

I'm sorry, I figured that it was pretty easy to come up with questions to ask about someone.
/r/seduction09/08/14 10:58 AM
2

You're right! I didn't mean I actually go on forever. I meant that I can make the conversation easy enough once you start asking a question about me. I go on for a bit. I asked you. You go on for a little. Back andforth.
/r/seduction09/08/14 05:12 AM
3

Agreed with all of this, especially the first couple sentences. Girl here. If you ask me about myself, I will talk on and on forever and you don't have to do much. WIN.
/r/seduction09/08/14 04:47 AM
1

You'd have better luck if you sent a message!
/r/seduction09/08/14 04:12 AM
7

Ask the girls about themselves. People LOVE talking about themselves!
/r/seduction09/08/14 04:09 AM
1

You can invite them, but honestly, if I got an invite to a party from a guy I haven't spoken to in years, I probably wouldn't go.
/r/seduction09/08/14 04:09 AM
2

Maybe you could find some type of club? Also, bro, you're in college. Look at the girls in your college classes.
/r/seduction09/08/14 04:08 AM
1

No.
/r/seduction08/08/14 04:13 AM
1

I would take out the curse word from there. And this is from a girl who curses like a sailor.
/r/seduction08/08/14 04:00 AM
3

Yes. I would say no and walk away. Edit: Unless you look like a supermodel. Then proceed to say this.
/r/seduction08/08/14 02:07 AM
0

That's exactly what I'm saying. I think seddit puts too much pressure on MUST GET GIRL MUST BE DOMINANT. It kind of feels... unnatural? Act naturally. If it doesn't work out with this girl, there will be more. :)
/r/seduction07/08/14 05:07 AM
0

Uh, if she's not ready for a relationship, that sounds like, "I'm not too into you right now and I'm just into having fun with you." Seddit confuses me with the whole "MUST. BE. DOMINANT." angle. If I tell a guy I don't want a relationship... I don't want him to keep pushing me. Go and have fun. Read her body language.
/r/seduction07/08/14 05:01 AM
0

This question is way too broad and there are too many variables. Getting a girl in church is different than getting a girl in a bar which is different from getting a girl at a bus stop. You need to be more specific. If I can offer ONE, just one single piece of advice though: get a wing man. Okay, I lied, let me offer a second: make her laugh and make her feel comfortable.
/r/seduction07/08/14 04:52 AM
3

This may mean something, or it may mean nothing. No way to tell. Just ask her out.
/r/seduction06/08/14 03:56 AM
-1

As a female, I agree with every single one.
/r/seduction06/08/14 03:56 AM
1

I'm sure he does.
/r/seduction05/08/14 08:41 PM
2

If a guy ever tried to finger me in the club, I would walk the fuck away from him so fucking quickly he wouldn't know what hit him.
/r/seduction05/08/14 08:34 PM
1

Getting suuuuper handsy with boobs, possibly taking off my shirt.
/r/seduction05/08/14 08:28 PM
1

I think she probably started seeing someone. Or she decided she just wasn't that into you. I don't know. I'm not her and I'm no mind reader. Get back on the horse, dude. This is just one girl.
/r/seduction05/08/14 03:49 AM
4

No, she wasn't. No one is perfect. Accept that now.
/r/seduction05/08/14 03:47 AM
1

I don't think you were purposely being played.
/r/seduction05/08/14 03:46 AM
2

She's not into you
/r/seduction05/08/14 03:31 AM
4

Move on, buddy. No matter what her deal is, she's just not that into you. Who cares that you guys are still friends on Facebook? I can almost guarantee it doesn't mean anything. I almost never delete people. Get back on the horse. Go on tinder again, start talking to new girls, let this rejection slide off your back.
/r/seduction05/08/14 03:31 AM
2

It seems awfully sexist.
/r/seduction05/08/14 03:29 AM
2

I have no idea what OP is going for.
/r/seduction05/08/14 03:26 AM
0

In all seriousness, I don't include the word slut in my vocabulary. I don't like it.
/r/seduction05/08/14 03:20 AM
-11

I also have a boyfriend now ;)
/r/seduction05/08/14 12:54 AM
-9

You're approaching things the wrong way if you assume all girls are the same. I would move a guy's hand away. I'm not up for that much PDA in a club.
/r/seduction05/08/14 12:24 AM
-4

Nope, and if a guy tried to be super handsy with my boobs inside a club, I most likely wouldn't let him. Unless maybe I was super drunk. The point is, I think it's great for guys to initiate, I want a guy to initiate, but don't assume the reason I don't initiate is because I'm scared of being called a slut.
/r/seduction05/08/14 12:17 AM
0

Uh. Females don't feel like a slut for initiating. There are many things she could feel, but slutty isn't one of them. Source: Girl here.
/r/seduction04/08/14 11:59 PM
2

In my opinion, it's easier at a frat party. There seems to be less of "stranger danger" fear at a frat party (warranted or not), frat parties are more casual and social than bars/clubs, etc.
/r/seduction04/08/14 04:40 AM
1

Sometimes people just aren't into you. I can't tell you where you went wrong, because I wasn't there.
/r/seduction30/07/14 05:44 PM
2

Yes it's possible to come on too strong, but I doubt that it's the kissing, or ONLY the kissing, that is making her stone wall you. Bottom line, she doesn't want to go out with you again if she's acting like that. Onto the next, bud.
/r/seduction30/07/14 02:48 AM
1

Ah, okay. Makes more sense now!
/r/seduction22/07/14 08:32 PM
3

Ugh. I don't even know what to make of this post. But I'll try. You don't have to wait an hour to respond. That's weird. Sure, if every response is within seconds, maybe slow it down a liiittle, but you don't need to wait like that. Don't play games. Sending another text saying you're looking forward to tonight isn't needy.
/r/seduction22/07/14 04:29 PM
7

You have to know when to stop. If people are laughing, great. Once you see the laughs fade, it's time to stop.
/r/seduction06/07/14 03:53 AM
1

A lip bite is not an inherent sign of interest. Get her number, ask her out on a date, on the date, sit closer, hold her hand, end with a kiss.
/r/seduction02/07/14 04:57 AM
2

Yes, you should wait instead of looking clingy/like an asshole.
/r/seduction29/06/14 02:32 AM
1

Yes, I am a female. It's most likely not going to happen.
/r/seduction29/06/14 02:08 AM
1

So why would you say that if it was over?
/r/seduction29/06/14 02:06 AM
1

It potentially could have. And a lesson going forward is just not to say that. That would really turn me off.
/r/seduction29/06/14 02:04 AM
6

Never text that again.
/r/seduction29/06/14 01:29 AM
1

I'm sorry. Good experience, no matter what.
/r/seduction29/06/14 01:26 AM
1

Chill out. It's been only 30 minutes. Maybe she got busy. Maybe her phone is on silent. Maybe she doesn't want to reply right away. Either way, chill.
/r/seduction28/06/14 10:34 PM
1

If she's comfortable, go for it! I personally find FaceTime awkward, so I may say no, but it wouldn't be because I didn't like the guy.
/r/seduction27/06/14 06:45 AM
1

I think texting is easier, more convenient, and FaceTime should be reserved for when you know each other better.
/r/seduction27/06/14 06:38 AM
1

Tips for making it seem like a date include casually touching her arm/leg, kiss at the end, etc. Physical contact, IMO, is key.
/r/seduction24/06/14 05:18 AM
1

Do you think if I used the word to ask a girl she would assume I would be dating her strictly for a girlfriend type deal? Yeah, sort of. For reference, my boyfriend and I met at a party. When he asked me out, he didn't use the word date at all. Not once. In some ways, the word "date" often seems rather out dated and formal? I could tell based on how he was talking to me, and how he acted on the "date," etc. that he liked me and that it was a "date." In fact, now that I think of it, I think he ca…
/r/seduction24/06/14 05:08 AM
2

It removes ambiguity, but it also makes it seem far less casual, which can be good or bad, depending on your intentions. If you want to date and have a relationship, use the word date. If you want a hook up or casual dating, don't use the word date. That being said, I think most women, myself included, typically assume pretty easily that a one-on-one hang out with a guy like this is typically a "date" style thing, whether it has the title of date or not.
/r/seduction24/06/14 05:00 AM
9

Be honest.
/r/seduction23/06/14 05:52 PM
5

You don't have to dance to get women
/r/seduction23/06/14 05:10 AM
1

Don't meet with someone before talking over text. That's just weird.
/r/seduction18/06/14 05:29 AM
3

You have a girlfriend. Stop trying to hook up with someone else. Also, hitting on women in the gym is creepy.
/r/seduction14/06/14 01:44 PM
-2

Most likely not. Though I had never heard of shit tests til now. And I'm a female.
/r/seduction14/06/14 05:56 AM
2

What's an AFC?
/r/seduction07/06/14 05:00 PM
3

Your ego gets a little bruised, but you swallow your pride and move on.
/r/seduction06/06/14 11:51 PM
1

A therapist.
/r/seduction04/06/14 03:46 AM
1

I think you need help. Sex addiction, maybe.
/r/seduction04/06/14 03:18 AM
1

I don't notice mirroring so I don't see it have any effect. If anything, it'll bug me if it occurs too much.
/r/seduction28/05/14 12:34 PM
1

No, it doesn't really mean anything. It means the girls just want the guy to go away and the best way to make a guy go away is to say, "I have a boyfriend, see!" Now, if there is one specific girl who is always doing it, maybe that means something. Maybe.
/r/seduction01/05/14 04:08 AM
-2

Uh. Run away. Or give a high five.
/r/seduction30/04/14 03:11 AM
6

If you want to, do it. If you don't want to, don't.
/r/seduction30/04/14 02:55 AM
2

I'm not saying the question isn't valid. I'm saying the way the picture was taken. Like, dear god, just stand in front of a mirror and take a picture of yourself shirtless. The angle, the whole holding the crotch... ugh.
/r/seduction28/04/14 05:00 PM
2

Dear lord you should never take a picture like that again. This is not a comment on your body. This is a comment on the fact that you look like those guys from AIM chat rooms by taking this type of picture.
/r/seduction28/04/14 04:51 PM
-1

Also to realize when she won't be interested and when to move onto another girl.
/r/seduction24/04/14 09:10 PM
-4

Because to me that would signify someone who isn't interested in talking to you.
/r/seduction24/04/14 04:04 PM
-4

I wouldn't really approach someone who was glued to their phone.
/r/seduction24/04/14 05:09 AM
2

I'm just speaking from a position of, dude, I've been there. You are so me in some ways (from myp ast, haha).
/r/seduction21/04/14 04:31 PM
1

Exactly. It sounds realllly desperate and like OP has a great need for validation.
/r/seduction21/04/14 04:04 PM
4

Shit. I can't read. OP needs to back off with his intense style questioning.
/r/seduction21/04/14 03:57 PM
1

She keeps saying, "No hanging out tonight?" and she keeps asking questions. And then her "or do you mean you feel overwhelmed by me?" question set up a huge red flag for me. That style of questioning WOULD overwhelm me.
/r/seduction21/04/14 03:40 PM
1

Uh, based on that text exchange she seems super, super insecure, and she sounds way too attached based off of just one date. Wait for her to come to you.
/r/seduction21/04/14 03:32 PM
2

Go out for lunch. If she's interested in you, she's interested and you didn't blow it. If she's not, she's not. That being said, next time, ask to meet for dinner.
/r/seduction18/04/14 05:59 AM
2

Don't do it. Don't risk making the work place awkward/uncomfortable, and many businesses have policies against this. Truly. Do not.
/r/seduction18/04/14 05:54 AM
-6

It's illegal, so if you do it, don't get mad when you get caught and thrown in jail. I'm against it.
/r/askTRP18/04/14 12:03 AM
1

Um. That's different. That's reddit. And it's not like I'm saying you should say, "Hey, I saw this on your wall, will you go out with me?" Never go straight to asking someone out.
/r/seduction17/04/14 09:06 PM
1

Not really, as I would assume it was genuine.
/r/seduction17/04/14 04:45 AM
1

Eh, I think both are fine, as a female. Different strokes.
/r/seduction17/04/14 04:27 AM
0

Just message the girls to say, "Hey! I saw your post about [topic here] on Facebook and [something about the post]. How have you been?" For example if you saw the girl had recently run a marathon, say, I saw your post about running a marathon... congratulations! Something like that.
/r/seduction17/04/14 02:28 AM
-1

No. Don't. Stop right there. You are 31. Stop going for teenagers.
/r/seduction14/04/14 05:25 PM
0

She has a boyfriend. No. Your next step is ending this "relationship" and going for a girl who's single. This is not a road you ever want to go down.
/r/seduction14/04/14 01:10 AM
1

Agreed!
/r/seduction14/04/14 12:11 AM
3

Fake it til you make it. Seriously.
/r/seduction13/04/14 11:50 PM
1

Ask her out.
/r/seduction13/04/14 09:21 PM
1

If I'm so not interested to the point where my responses consist of, "I'm fine" and I'm not saying, "oh, I'm good, how are you?", it's probably a pretty bad situation.
/r/seduction12/04/14 04:46 PM
0

Eh, I say that's a pretty annoying attitude as a girl.
/r/seduction12/04/14 04:28 PM
8

If she gives you those really, really short answers... she's not interested.
/r/seduction12/04/14 01:58 PM
4

You don't have to do anything. Just be there to support your friend in whatever choices he makes.
/r/askTRP05/04/14 11:02 AM
9

If you end up being roommates, I guarantee this "flirty" thing could end. Because she'll have some obnoxious habit, or some gross habit, and it'll turn you off. Find her disgusting habit. Focus on that. No more desire to flirt! Other than that, find a new girl to flirt with.
/r/seduction19/03/14 04:02 AM
25

Wow. Great list.
/r/seduction14/03/14 02:53 AM
1

You didn't blow it. Go in for a kiss this time. See what happens. Don't try and plan too much.
/r/seduction13/03/14 11:48 AM
1

Ah, okay. And yes, so true on the needing improvement. Goodness. I cringe sometimes.
/r/seduction11/03/14 04:21 PM
1

Haha, thanks, but I'm a girl! Not a guy :P
/r/seduction11/03/14 02:46 PM
2

I love this comment. I'm on my phone so I would write more but... Yeah, no, I hate commenting on my phone. But I just love you for this. You're very articulate.
/r/seduction11/03/14 05:16 AM
2

I agree with this comment. That being said, I don't like receiving a DTF message. That, IMO, is objectifying.
/r/seduction11/03/14 04:56 AM
1

I have.
/r/seduction11/03/14 03:55 AM
2

I'd probably hate you for that comment, too, and I'm not super conservative about my religion.
/r/seduction11/03/14 02:15 AM
1

What's the tattoo idea?
/r/seduction11/03/14 02:04 AM
5

Saying DTF is just creepy as fuck. Don't. Stop right there.
/r/seduction11/03/14 01:07 AM
1

I've done this with friends before: I know we have sort of vague plans, but I feel bad cancelling on them, so I kinda wait for them to text me to "bail" or something. I'm kind of banking on and hoping they forget about the plans or something, haha. Not saying this went through the girl's mind, but it's possible. I'm not saying it was a nice move of hers, but my guess is maybe she's having second thoughts. Yeah, I think you should have said something back. I would've said, "Oh ok. Well let me kno…
/r/seduction07/03/14 10:42 AM
1

I guess it's not!
/r/seduction07/03/14 04:21 AM
1

The whole concept of going to the mall to pick up girls and referencing "first base" just sounded juvenile. Wasn't meant to sound rude!
/r/seduction07/03/14 04:14 AM
1

Um, how old are you?
/r/seduction07/03/14 04:07 AM
3

Your own neediness or neediness of the girl/guy you're dating?
/r/seduction05/03/14 01:35 PM
-1

Two things here: You should get fit for the purpose of being healthy, not getting girls. Your interactions with women won't change too much based on your level of fitness (not talking obese vs fit, but average vs. fit) if you're awkward with women or don't know how to talk to us.
/r/seduction01/03/14 05:23 PM
1

It would bother me. If we'd been dating for awhile or something, that'd be fine, but just beginning chatting? I'd assume the worst.
/r/seduction28/02/14 05:24 AM
1

As a woman, I think this is a dangerous assumption and can lead to some failure for you.
/r/seduction26/02/14 12:53 PM
3

That makes two of us!
/r/seduction26/02/14 12:44 PM
1

Now you have a reason to ask her out again, saying something like "I realize leaving you at the bar like that was a dick move, you seemed like a nice person so let me make it up to you - I still want to be friends with you". To this I'd say, "lol no, bye." Pissing me off also just leaves me pissed. Doesn't give you any hope of sleeping with me. This is a really bad interpretation.
/r/seduction26/02/14 12:43 PM
20

Just because you once went to a party school and slept with strangers in the same night, doesn't mean that you are going to do it a few years down the line. Or one night later. It's a dick move to assume she should, because she did before. I also would be more likely to sleep with a random in college than I would be to sleep with a random from OKC and the bar. You're an asshole.
/r/seduction26/02/14 10:51 AM
1

Maybe try and hang out, like as study buddies at least?
/r/seduction26/02/14 03:09 AM
1

I don't think you can really tell if someone likes you until you, at the very least, have some conversations or, more likely, hang out together.
/r/seduction26/02/14 03:07 AM
2

There's not enough to go on here, sorry. Maybe she likes you, but I really can't tell from this post.
/r/seduction26/02/14 03:03 AM
2

Do you have a friend? Have a friend critique your technique. Or, even better, have a wing man (best: wing woman).
/r/seduction15/02/14 02:53 PM
2

Heck no. Don't invite yourself. Yes, that's creepy.
/r/seduction15/02/14 03:23 AM
3

Fun to use with friends. Don't use it for "seduction" though.
/r/seduction07/02/14 04:00 AM
1

Study buddies! It's a win win situation. You get close to a cute girl and you do better in class.
/r/seduction31/01/14 04:05 AM
1

Good for you for working with trainers, and again, congrats on the weight loss!! I lost a significant amount of weight and man, I know it's hard! I also gained some weight back now, blahhh. :P
/r/seduction29/01/14 05:18 AM
1

Well, it's good to know you're friendly and not awkward! ;) What type of work outs does she do? Maybe compliment her and say something like, "Damn, you can lift a lot! You're really good!" or something like that.
/r/seduction29/01/14 04:10 AM
1

Congrats on the weight loss! I understand seeing someone super attractive. Maybe try one more time?
/r/seduction29/01/14 03:55 AM
1

I'm a girl here who goes to the gym, and I probably wouldn't respond super well to being hit on at the gym (ain't nobody got time for that! ;)): my bet is she probably finds you appealing in some way-- you're attractive, you can lift heavy, you run fast, etc. But I think if she was interested in talking to you, she wouldn't give you the cold shoulder. In my opinion, it's not a matter of shyness, it's a matter of just not wanting to talk.
/r/seduction29/01/14 03:32 AM
1

Who is Sasha? If she doesn't seem interested in talking to anyone, don't bother her. Her signs that she is giving off are clearly saying Don't Talk To Me. So respect her, respect her clear wishes. Also, maybe she has a boyfriend and is sick of being hit on, so she's more reclusive.
/r/seduction29/01/14 03:23 AM
1

Maybe, but not enough to go on.
/r/seduction25/01/14 04:18 AM
1

Perhaps doing it on purpose, but sometimes I do that, too. Not nearly enough to go on.
/r/seduction25/01/14 02:57 AM
1

Good point! Practice makes perfect and all. I also recommend wing men in the instance where a guy isn't good with girls. Never devalue the use of a good wing man :)
/r/seduction23/01/14 02:08 AM
1

That would be a good line!
/r/seduction23/01/14 02:06 AM
1

I love to talk about myself (who doesn't?) so I would respond to that well. Especially if it was a drink that looked to be something beyond like, rum and coke.
/r/seduction23/01/14 02:00 AM
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Perhaps I should have said, I consider some posts in here to be kind of like a wannabe Mystery but needing his boot camp type of deal, haha. I was not referring to your post, for the record... so you got that going for you ;)
/r/seduction23/01/14 02:00 AM
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I have a super dry sense of humor, too! My patience for those who don't have a dry sense of humor tends to be pretty low. At the same time, not only can it be hard to convey that over the Internet, but also, IRL, not everyone can tell your tone upon first meeting them. IDK, I still use sarcasm all the time haha
/r/seduction23/01/14 01:57 AM
1

I prefer a guy to make a comment about something I'm ... doing or to ease in naturally, if that makes sense? I.e. I'm playing pool, say "nice shot!" or something.
/r/seduction23/01/14 01:52 AM
1

I would agree with this. It reminds me of the VH1 show, Pick Up Artist
/r/seduction23/01/14 01:51 AM
1

For the record, while a "hey I like your pants, where did you get them?" may not be the best opening line to me, if they're fun pants (and not like, jeans or something... that's weird), I'd take the joke and laugh a little.
/r/seduction23/01/14 01:50 AM
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I didn't mean to be controversial! I was just trying to help out by saying hey, depending on the situation, this may work against you. I think some people may read this and say "Oh, I can just say this anywhere" and not quite realize the situational calibration, as you eloquently phrased it. That being said, I disagree about intent. Intent is good and all for personal reasons, but even if a guy means well, his words coming out horribly could still be his fatal flaw.
/r/seduction23/01/14 01:46 AM
1

I just don't understand it at all even with sarcasm haha
/r/seduction23/01/14 01:00 AM
2

It's really inappropriate for a guy to tell a woman that she doesn't know what she wants. I do know what I want, and yes, it matters what he says. The cutest guy in the world can turn ugly in my eyes by being a creep and saying creepy things.
/r/seduction22/01/14 07:46 PM
1

I mean, if you're drunk at a bar and she just made the perfect pool shot, it is okay to say OH GOD I LOVE YOU FOR THAT. If you're in a supermarket, don't go up to a girl saying I love you. You know?
/r/seduction22/01/14 07:45 PM
1

What?
/r/seduction22/01/14 07:44 PM
1

Haha, woo! Glad I'm not alone in being weirded out.
/r/seduction22/01/14 07:44 PM
1

I'm in my mid-20s.
/r/seduction22/01/14 06:26 AM
1

I guess it would also depend on the tone and the place!
/r/seduction22/01/14 06:20 AM
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As a girl, I honestly don't think any of these would work for me, and I would be creeped out by most. Maybe I'm not good at being seduced.
/r/seduction22/01/14 06:11 AM
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That makes sense, too. If a guy offered to buy me a drink before ever speaking to me? I agree with you that that's a big no. For one, I'd assume (perhaps inappropriately, but I don't care) that he was just interested in getting me drunk, I'd worry about something being slipped, etc. That being said, I don't think I would buy a guy a drink.
/r/seduction20/01/14 05:43 PM
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Oh, I didn't mean to imply that it's the only way to get my attention. And yeah, I think some women (perhaps too many?) expect it and some may take it the wrong way. But hey, I'm a nice girl, so I don't need a drink to get my attention, but if you buy me a drink after talking to me (not just right away, I'll be creeped out then!), then I'll think it's a really nice gesture.
/r/seduction20/01/14 05:22 PM
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Duck, lol. Also, girl here. Not sure if your experiences with girls are different, but if a guy buys me a drink, I assume he likes me. Being bought a drink wouldn't hurt a guy's chances at all. If anything, it'd help.
/r/seduction20/01/14 04:21 PM
1

Experience for me, buying me a drink is good.
/r/seduction20/01/14 04:17 PM
1

Because it's the first date, the girls don't want to take it too far (and may even regret going into your house or whatever), but obvs temptation and hormones, so they keep kissing you for a bit.
/r/seduction20/01/14 05:30 AM
1

Why do you say that?
/r/seduction18/01/14 03:45 AM
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Offer to buy her a drink. Get her away from her friends (but in a non-creepy way)
/r/seduction17/01/14 05:28 AM
1

Whatever is on the radio.
/r/seduction08/01/14 10:34 PM
5

No.
/r/seduction26/11/13 04:56 AM
1

To be honest, I wouldn't until close to her end date. It could make things really awkward at work.
/r/seduction26/11/13 03:53 AM
2

Overall attraction matters a lot, but that does not include just looks. Looks is just a piece of the puzzle of attraction.
/r/seduction18/11/13 05:50 AM
1

What the fuck? Respect her.
/r/seduction14/11/13 07:05 AM
6

Ask her out for a second date.
/r/seduction29/10/13 04:13 AM
1

Ask him.
/r/seduction29/10/13 04:12 AM
1

No problem. I understand!
/r/seduction29/10/13 03:52 AM
1

Unless she was absolutely hammered (and maybe even then), this sounds like it was probably a rejection, especially because she said, "No, I'm giving you mine!" It was just a random girl from a club. Move on! Also, this post needs a TL;DR or some paragraph breaks. YOu definitely didn't need so many details. In short: you hung out and danced, she gave you a number insisting she be the one to give it, it was too long to "really" be a number.
/r/seduction29/10/13 03:28 AM
3

Ha, that may be true. But not everything you do has to be expensive or even cost money!
/r/seduction26/10/13 02:36 AM
1

Well, you've identified your own problem. You don't go out to have fun, you go out with a critical goal in mind: to get girls. Girls probably pick up on that and are turned off by that. Go out to have fun, and if you meet a girl, then turn on the "seduction game" or whatever.
/r/seduction26/10/13 02:32 AM
6

Definitely not. Both sexes struggle with this.
/r/seduction26/10/13 02:30 AM
6

I think that just shows how your efforts don't just stop at asking the girl on the date. You still have to make yourself seem attractive and great and interesting while on the date. Does this make sense?
/r/seduction26/10/13 02:26 AM
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Nah, not necessarily, I guess. But I also think you'll drive yourself crazy wondering her true intentions for going out with you. Just go on the date and judge whether she likes you based on her behavior.
/r/seduction26/10/13 02:19 AM
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