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support requesttwentydogs/r/MenSupportMen05/11/21 06:31 AM
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I appreciate this response a lot. I don't have too much meaningful to respond, just know that I took it all deeply to heart and appreciate it, means a lot. You're a good person, I'm very happy for you and your partner.
/r/MenSupportMen05/11/21 09:36 PM
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I appreciate that and you’re absolutely right. But theres one thing I come back to, and that’s the fact that I struggle with differentiating between if I love someone and if they’re an addiction I need to shake. How do I know now and how do I know in the future? What if I fall in love with someone in the future and times get tough - how do I differentiate between “relationships take work” and “I need to get out”? This is absolutely not a rhetorical question.
/r/MenSupportMen05/11/21 07:47 PM
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Of course man, would love to hear it. I’m in a deep internal battle every day, input from others is super helpful and meaningful.
/r/MenSupportMen05/11/21 06:05 PM
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Wow, thanks for this. I need to respect myself emotionally the same way I do physically. And that guy has some incredible videos, a few others helped me as well. It’s a journey to get through this but I’ll pull through ❤️
/r/MenSupportMen05/11/21 04:54 PM
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Oh it’s clear as day to me. But I understand now why junkies relapse, or just don’t want to quit in the first place. That poison, when she tells me she stills loves me, is quite the fucking dopamine rush. With a brutal comedown
/r/MenSupportMen05/11/21 03:00 PM
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I haven’t been good at that thus far
/r/MenSupportMen05/11/21 02:33 PM
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This is absolutely true. I used to be super stoic, unemotional, independent, what society wants a man to be. Started therapy just over a year ago, met this girl and did a 180 and became extremely codependent. I have some things I still need to work out and am still in therapy.
/r/MenSupportMen05/11/21 02:30 PM
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It’s so hard bro. It’s hard to watch myself. A lot of self loathing. I hate myself for wanting her, I really do. I am so blessed in other areas of my life and so proud of who I am and I know it’s wasted on her, and I’m wasting it being miserable.
/r/MenSupportMen05/11/21 02:26 PM
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I appreciate that man, and yeah I’m 24, I guess most would consider that young. I just… don’t know if I’ll ever feel this way again. Like despite all her faults she’s just the one. Or maybe not. How can I possibly know? All I know is that I can’t imagine being with anyone else still. I’m torn between, she’s the one and sometimes you gotta fight, and she just isn’t the one and I’ve gotta let go. I tried distancing myself and it kind of works but it never lasts. Is that a sign that she really is t…
/r/MenSupportMen05/11/21 06:54 AM
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