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Disagree. Feminism has conditioned women to never accept accountability and behave in shitty ways for every woman like this, there is a man of equal terror. ​ Please remember - men see the worst of women, and women see the worst of men. This is because we are friends with our own gender, and we will only befriend the peers that are likeminded and good enough humans to want to engage with. Odds are, if you saw the worst of the men, you'd hate them to, but you wouldn't have to deal with them or li…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:53 AM
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On which basis are you the expert on feminism? I would argue your fixation on its definition is indicative of some bizarre need to assert that this is what feminism is, and this is what it does to women - as if our lives are all one cookie cutter rendition of a few anecdotes you've collected. All i see is a hopeful move away from the obsession with what men and women are meant to do, and a readjustment towards the scientific realities of sexual dimorphism. For example, a man totally can be a nai…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:42 AM
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Here's the thing - there are nuts in every group of people, it doesn't make them representative of the general consensus. In Australia, there are nuts running down the streets on lockdown protesting lockdown and being antivax, but that doesn't mean the vast majority of Australians are anti vax. Most feminists are normal women with normal boyfriends/husbands (or wives lol) who believe in equality, but also believe in the scientific reality of sexual dimorphism. And so the ones you are talking abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:33 AM
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Yeah man i'm one of these kinds of ladies and i've been trying to make this point for a long time. You can't win. Make money as a lady = too empowered and emasculating to guys like the above, don't make money = gold digger. Glad to see a man valuing other attributes on here other than how ladies look.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:44 PM
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he fact that I still find men more attractive than woman is proof that at least some aspects of sexuality are nature, not nuture Yes, that is completely true. I am still biologically attracted to men (that sounds dirty!) I see what you mean now, sorry i think i misinterpreted!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 03:39 AM
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Gay bomb you say? I'm not gay, but that sounds ridiculous. How would they make lesbian porn anymore? Talk about cutting your nose off to spite your face!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 03:15 AM
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If men say i'm hot and I have hot boyfriends, am i somehow not hot because someone called pooppeebuttmcnuggets implied I wasn't on reddit purplepilldebate? Please do tell me, all knowing one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 05:46 PM
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That's 'hot Karen' to you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 05:43 PM
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Guys don't choose women for their brains. They choose women for their birthing capabilities. They choose women for the possibility of starting a family with her in future. It sounds like you are a victim of feminism here that convinced you with these wildly misplaced life ideals. No, i'm not your token feminist. i really like men, have lots of male friends. It's like you ignored everything I wrote. I DO earn more than a lot of men, including all the ones I've dated in the past, I have three qual…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 05:17 PM
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On paragraph 4: Lets just agree to disagree here lol because we both know that's one hell of a bullshit. Women zone the fuck out like that because they abuse their previleges by taking advantage of the options they have. oo, I see I have hit the incel in the feels. Look, I'm 27. If I dont meet a guy who i find cool and hot, I will happily die alone. Most people do, anyway. I see that as a success, to get old at all and do so happily. Why the fuck would I want some boring man in my life who adds …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 04:28 PM
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THe thousand cock stare is basically "hello, someone has abused me or something traumatic has happened at some point" and men have it too - only men can't see it, because they don't date men. All the men saying "oh we can see it in women" - yeah man, we can see it in men too. It isn't a thousand cock stare, it's just "my brother killed himself and i had to identify him" or "my mum abused us". And you know what we say to those men? "Wow man, so resilient, wow". When women have this? "Stay away, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:58 PM
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She was being abused and beaten. Um do you think maybe the stare is related to - I duno, but maybe uh BEING ABUSED AND BEATEN as opposed to having sex with a lot of men? Does that not sound like a pretty fucking valid reason to have a thousand YARD stare due to trauma, which is what the stare is actually from? I like how in all of this, your ex is the bitch when you just described her being abused and beaten by another man. Have you ever thought maybe he was the person you should be angry at? Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:51 PM
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"you can just tell"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:47 PM
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yeah, i call it "she's sick of your/men's bullshit 101" "Oh no, she see's through my bullshit - she's obviously met more than one man in her life, what a slut!"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:46 PM
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But women tend to have that routine canned expression that don't respond to men's cues like they supposed to. I do this, and I call it "i've been on like 20 dates in 3 months and not a single one of these men are funny or make my vagina remotely wet. Why the fuck am I a woman, can i teach myself how to be a lesbian. Please God." He probably sits across from me like, "damn this chick zoning out and barely reacts to my bullshit, that's one thousand yard stare on her". Meanwhile, my brain is like "…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:40 PM
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haha that's funny, because when i was a teenager (female) the group of boys at the brother school used to snigger that I was a slut when I would get on the school bus. I was pretty, and little, and had a normal school uniform on. I also had big boobs. Lots of men seem to have viewed me this way. I don't know why. I was a virgin until I was 21, and lost it to my at the time fiance. I still have younger guys thinking this about me. But I'm in no way slutty. I absolutely hate it and it made me asha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:30 PM
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Absolutely. Everyone who tells you what you should do is unlikely to be there when that thing they told you to do falls apart - it will be you stuck with the decision. I no longer listen to people who think they know what's best for me. If they know me at all, they'll know that I know what's best, and not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:26 PM
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i'm one of those women guys at work talk about, and I haven't had sex for over a year since breaking up with my last long term boyfriend. I'm confident, funny and self assured. I think if women aren't meek and submissive, they get labelled one of two things. If they are hot as well, they are a slut. If they are not hot/fat/ whatever, they are a 'feminist/peer/ colleague/ that-annoying-opinionated-fat-chick-in-the-office. I hear so much shit from my male friends about who they think are sluts and…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:03 PM
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True. It's a tired, worn, jaded, mercenary, joyless look. Sometimes they are trying to be sexy and come across as nasty. There is no innocence or joy left on them. I look like this after being in the office for 40+ hours a week after a particularly big project. If you saw me and thought I looked thousand yard, i'd say i've only had a few dicks in my life one of which i nearly married, and am actually really fucking tired and not in my early 20s anymore so perhaps look 'more worn out' because, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:57 PM
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You’re trying to be snarky/sarcastic, but you speak the truth I also find that when I marry high earning men who are good looking and good at sex, they tend to be more financially stable, hotter and more satisfying in bed. You don't have to say it for me - I know I speak the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:46 PM
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it's almost like all humans can be manipulated and deceived, but when women do it to men it means all women are manipulative and deceitful and the man is clearly the victim. Whereas when men do it to women, they get a thousand cock stare and should have known better. Funny how at no point is anyone saying maybe the person, regardless of gender, who behaved like an absolute piece of shit should be called out for being an absolute piece of shit, instead of victim blaming every person who got screw…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:43 PM
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"ALL WOMEN ARE SLUTS" he yelled, projecting-ly. "I AM NOT THE PROBLEM, THE PROBLEM IS ALL THESE THOUSAND COCK STARED WOMEN" And the woman looked at him in pity, cooing softly, "please just go to therapy, my new boyfriend is emotionally intelligent and actually cares about resolving conflicts with me. He actually cares who I am as a person. I am very happy, which is great after years of dating guys who initially seemed like they were this kind of guy but ended up bullshitting me and became abusiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:40 PM
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basically everything that happens to women at the hands of a man being a piece of shit is a woman's fault, and everything a woman does to a man is also a woman's fault.Women are the problem because they tempt men and their naughty hormones into having sex. They trap men by getting pregnant even though he didnt wear a condom. They lose value if they have a child with a man who cowards out and pisses off. They lose value if they age. They lose value if they achieve career success because manly. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:18 PM
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And? I'm a guy who grew up in a poor shithole, was abused most of my life and wish I had the resources and means to spend my twenties traveling overseas. What's your point? Travelling? I said moving, as in i had to move so they wouldn't track me down and infiltate my life. I got a high paying job after doing years of education, working fulltime while studying fulltime. Most people I know haven't done that. That's ok, i did it so i could be safe and not have to be abused. Here's the thing - abusi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 03:30 AM
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This is when women hold all the cards an get to choose their partners. They are in complete control of the dating world. Hm. I'm a woman, who had a traumatic upbringing and spent most of my twenties escaping that environment, moving overseas, studying so I could be financially safe. The only men I encountered on that journey were men who knew I was vulnerable and became abusive. How many guys do you think women who are always working for their own safety actually have? We don't expect men to ahv…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 11:36 PM
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what about being ugly or older though? That's something women can't control, but they are at significant disadvantage more so than men, as men are not as likely to be won over by her humour/personality/income etc etc. And those are active steps men can take to improve things - women are often desired based almost entirely off of how they look. Which is extremely dehumanising, when you think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 10:04 AM
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they won't date men under like 6' when most of them don't even know the difference anyways they do know the difference though. I'm 5 ft and dated guys who were like 6ft, and guys who were 5ft 6, and omg huge difference when spooning and shorter guys can't pick me up the same way... lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 09:53 AM
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Yes, your ANECDOTE is obviously all that is required to prove this is the case. For example, i am a woman and have never had drunk black out sex with a man, and if i did, i wouldn't view him as a chad and would feel disgusted with him and myself. My ANECDOTE has equal standing to yours, given neither are extensive studies. However, my claim that it is not 'ALL WOMEN' is clearly correct as I;'ve just clarified i am in fact a woman, and have in fact never done the thing you claim 'women' do and ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 01:27 AM
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man, this is such incelly brain stuff/ 'women' - it isn't ALL women, it's just the caricature of a woman you imagine. Lots and lots of women don't ever have blackout drunk sex with a 'chad', nor would a guy prepared to have sex with them in such a state even appeal to them or leave them wanting more. They'd probably feel taken advantage of because is someone is blackout drunk they're....probaby not consenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 12:27 AM
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You mean the one that bailed out? I know it isn't about me. Most things are rarely about us alone - we dont live in a vacuum. Read the edit and you'll understand. Why YOU find it so hard to believe that sex is highly emotional for men and often used as a means to satisfy their ego and improve their own ideas of themself is beyond me, because men know this. Stop telling women it's their fault the guy was a douche. It's the guys fault he was a douche. I wasn't exactly devastated, the guy was obvio…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 10:45 AM
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Bahahahahahaha please, i've dated high value men before for years. Every woman gets pumped and dumped at some point -that's my point. Stop making it about the woman - it genuinely isn't. It's about the men, Some men will love her, some won't - whatever. Literally every man i've been with who already had a thing for me thanked me after sex, and i don't think i'm exceptional - i think they just liked who i was as a person and felt happy to have finally got there with me. Please don't tell me what …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 10:05 AM
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If the woman likes the man, the sex will be good. If she doesn't like him, it'll be shit. Enthusiasm isn't a choice-you either feel it or you don't. SOmetimes men rush women to sex and act surprised she isn;t enthusiastic. Like no shit? who even are you? LIkewise, it isn't women's job to impress you via sex - trust me, most men are just so glad to be there anyway, and if they aren't and expect me to perform in order to gain their attention (as if sex is all i'm good for) then adios, there's some…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 07:57 AM
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A guy who knows what he's doing learns to hide personal views from women who would avoid him for it though, at least until well into the relationship. i'll agree with that, because i've been there and done that. It was dreadful. I do stand by the point though that character flaws are in everyone, and everyone disagrees on what they are to a degree. There is no overarching authority/God who dictates 'this is bad/ too far, and this is closer to acceptable/tolerable' when it comes to personality an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 10:10 AM
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yea you are about as close to a wall as a human can be, so i'm not going to bother restating everything i've written throughout this thread which would provide answers and retorts to everything you've just said. You wrote what you believed women needed, despite me saying that that is not what women need. It's as if you haven't bothered to ask women what they need. When you say "i want respect", i say back "not all people are respectable to all others - so if you need respect, you need to find so…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 12:03 AM
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No, that's not even remotely what happens. https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/neurosagacity/201701/the-brain-can-work-against-abuse-victims Have a read. If your key caregivers who are your template for love are abusive (remembering parents are providers and children are dependent upon them), then you'll go on to mimic that dynamic with romantic partners because the environment feels familiar and the brain recognises the control dynamic as love. Abusive people don't start off that way. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 02:17 PM
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Oh - i wasn't that keen on casual sex, but i knew that i wouldn't be getting more than that from him so i settled at that time for that. It wasn't my preference so i wouldn't say it was a deliberate choice. I don't like casual sex but the recent movement is telling women that they should embrace it, so i tried it only to find yep, i did not like it. Don't get me wrong, i enjoyed the sex, but i wouldn't do it again and i did still feel blergh afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 11:14 AM
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erm... sorry? How is my decision to engage in something i wanted one time and never did again any evidence of lack of equality? I do criticise men like this. I'd rather they weren't around, and i'd rather he be a guy was keen to commit. I just knew he wasn't and so why push it? This is not a strong argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:32 AM
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And then when they hit 30 they cry about how all their potential girlfriends are not chaste when theyve just spent their whole 20s putting their dick in them. He could have saved his energy and invested in a young girl when he was young too and maybe focused on his career and finances instead of fucking worthless sluts This this this. I was one of those holding out girls for ages. It didn't mean anything to anyone i don't think, and eventually i started dating and was not chaste anymore, as one …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 12:51 AM
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Well, speaking of seeing women as terrible monsters who eat babies (which I don't), all I can say is women kill waaaay more children then men due to abortions - it's not even close so you guys win - but that's for another debate. guess how many women were pressured into abortions by men.... " As for respect, I'll leave it as this: in a relationship men need to be respected, women need to be loved. Simple as that. " No, i assure you that I, as a woman,need to be respected to feel loved. I assure …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 12:25 AM
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Most women i know don't spend that much, i guess it depends on the kind of women around you. or that you see. I just showed up to a skype meeting for work with no make up on, and it was all good. I think you're missing the thing about humour and personality. The guys i liked who werent attractive knew full well and played on it -they were confident despite it. The best guy i ever knew, who i wish i could've dated but timing didn't line up, was bald, had a big nose, and a receded chin. But my god…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 11:37 PM
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why plastic surgery? Women aren't that caught up in looks. I've liked a lot of ugly men because they were hilarious. What is so wrong with you that you feel the need to get plastic surgery? And i'm asking this because i'm really sorry you feel the need to do this in order to just get with someone, and i think that sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 11:28 PM
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​ 50% of people are born to single moms so this is unlikely the case. Hm. I think you'll find that not all of that 50% well single when they conceived, but in fact the guy decided to bugger off. This is hwat my grandfather did to my grandmother, leasing to my mother being adopted out, which has led to years and years of family trauma that I, now, as an individual have to deal with. I think you also need to stop assuming that single moms are women who are terrible people or undesirable, and see t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 11:26 PM
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Is there nothing you could be doing to possibly pump up your attractiveness, like education, earnings, humour, wit... etc? i mean i don't think people 'get' anyone, and i don't really expect to 'get' a man - i perhaps hope to connect to a man in a meaningful way. I'm an attractive woman and I really don't know if I'l meet someone i'll end up with. I'm okay with that. We don't all get what we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 11:25 PM
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This has always been the feminist dogma- to be equal to (or superior to) men you must not just become LIKE men but BECOME men - and this included a lot of negative behaviour like putting career ahead of family, drinking and smoking and engaging in promiscuity. Mimicking the positive aspects of masculinity I can understand, by why the negatives as well As a woman who played the tomboy role for years, i'll fill you in on why I dressed down and lowered my voice. I got harassed on the street everywh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 11:22 PM
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Because they’re hot and knows how to play the game. Meanwhile the average and homely looking girls nearing 30 are single I was actually a hot girl all through college and uni, just not that promiscuous or in to partying. I'm still pretty good and in my mid 20s. I think what you'll find is that sluttiness is actually a numbers game, and eventually if you fuck enough guys one sticks. I wrote about this in another post. My homely room mate was on number 63 when she was 21, i was on number 1. She fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 11:10 PM
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Guess who got those ugly women pregnant? Oh my God it's like we've come full circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 10:30 PM
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You're calling out this guy for playing both sides of the coin? What do you think women have been doing for the last 15-20 years? Guess where I was then? In high school. I think you might want to check yourself and realize both parties play the system by equal measure in all likelihood, and take some time to realize MGTOW is ant the like are breeding this behaviour in men that is incredibly damaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 10:20 PM
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that's what i always try to bring these discussions back to - we are all humans and want the same things, we just have different vessels so we have different ways of getting the same thing. I believe fully that all people want to be accepted and loved for who they are - PROVIDED that that acceptance does not excuse things such as abuse or mistreatment ( a lot of abusers will use 'you can't accept me for who i am' as a means of excusing their abuse/temper etc, so i always put the disclaimer in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 07:33 PM
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cool man. I have literally everything to offer a man, and ive found overwhelmingly that men feel shit about themselves when women have more to offer than they do and end up either negging or leaving because of feeling emasculated. They say they dont want a woman depending on them until they get a woman who doesn't and realise they have nothing to laud over her, thus no control, and suddenly they can't cope without that power. That's why women can't date down - the men below them end up resenting…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 06:58 PM
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Yeah, and if you read on you might realize i use myself as an example of a very common kind of woman that makes up a large portion of your supposed 'general'. Real talk: most slutty girls i know have boyfriends, husbands and babies. Most of the more modest, educated, down to earth women i know are single. Sure, it's an anecdote. But if you think your advice is advice, i suggest you reread what i wrote about men not being prepared to step up for the best women and ask yourself why you assume the …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 06:41 PM
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People hate anything even teetering towards eugenics despite living in a world that clearly functions with a concept of better thans and less thans. It's kind of wild to deny the thing that underpins our entire society while getting so offended when the same concept is applied elsewhere. ANYWHO yes, agreed. I am single and i'm only mid 20s and i'm attractive and all that shit. But i came from a rough upbringing and that has meant getting involved with abusers a lot. I have a bunch of degrees, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 06:35 PM
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Cheers. Yeah that's correct. I know women who were absolute sluts (self described, might i add) who cheated on their boyfriends and who got married to the fiance they cheated on. He forgave them. Lovely guy. I also know exceptionally insightful, caring, attractive women who have been in abusive relationships, or who simply haven't met someone that clicks. The slutty women i am more inclined to believe get picked over the equally attractive but intellectual girls because she knows how to play the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 06:24 PM
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um... i don't really wear make up. And i have a low number of partners. I also earn like 6 figs and have a masters degree... and my own apartment. I'm petite and weigh like 45kg, blonde. I would in fact have to lower my expectations if i wanted to have a boyfriend tomorrow. The thing is, i'd rather marry a chick for companionship than be with a guy i didn't respect and it would hardly be fair on him... so yeah man, it would actually require me to lower my expectations. Why do guys always think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 06:09 PM
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damn males for being so shit it's better to be alone than with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 05:46 PM
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Feminism did this on purpose to thwart the efforts of cis-gendered women looking for hetero relationships with men. All that happened with feminism is that it gave women choice. It gave her the freedom to not have to say yes to a man because she couldnt survive without one, because she couldnt work. Oppression only existed so that the most useless men could still get married and retain some kind of morale. I would suggest the higher male suicide rate is a reflection of a lack of nurturance previ…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 05:42 PM
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Don't men do this with women at any given opportunity? Like boo hoo she was really sexy but she used me? Sorry - i just dont see how this adds anything to the conversation that hasnt already been revealed to be basic human behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 05:35 PM
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would you have sex with a woman who you couldn't get your dick hard for? Seems like the sex would be pretty bad. Almost as bad as when a woman has sex with a man she dosent find attractive and can't get wet because her body is screaming 'noooooooooooooo' the entire time. ​ Kind of the same shit different day, not entirely sure what your point is man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 05:16 PM
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ding ding ding. Thanks for stating the obvious. I've heard this from so many women and it blows my mind it has not yet dawned on men that this very predictable series is just common sense, and very openly discussed if you listen to the experiences of women. The problems men have with women are caused by men, and the problems women have with men are caused by women.Shocking. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment, or so I am told. If i had a penny for every guy in the world who implied he's commit…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 05:12 PM
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With some people's flaws being considerably worse than others Well that is entirely a matter of opinion! We all find different things insufferable or appalling. I find excessive neediness to be an enormous character flaw, but those same people might find my unwillingness to embrace enmeshment cold or uncaring. Sure, someone being a bigot or a misogynist is a pretty enormous flaw, bigger than being say, a little bit naive about the world. But i really have trouble with naive adults, and a part of…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 05:00 PM
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The fact you know their body counts speaks volumes about you, because most of my ex partners dont have a clue what my count is because they never gave enough of a shit to ask. Players are terrible at making smart people feel connected - they are generally pretty easy to see through. The one time i hooked up with a player, i knew he was playing me but i didn't really care because i was just keen for the d. I knew the entire time he was full of shit and so it came as no surprise that he was indeed…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:41 PM
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Hmm, I don't think you read this situation completely right. Attractive men have the luxury of choice, yes, as well as your attention and so they don't have to act desperate. That doesn't necessarily mean that they care about you anymore than an unattractive man. This isn't to tell you to give ugly men a chance but realise that you are already failing to vet if you approach with pre-assumptions like that. I'm pretty good at vetting to such a degree i barely date, so i'd say i'm ok. My experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:28 PM
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And if you taught more women proper morals and values, and taught them to respect men, taught them to respect themselves, taught them to compliment men and not compete with them and taught them to actually love more then what a man can do for her, maybe we'd get somewhere Can i ask you a serious question... do men not also love women for what they do for them? Is not this whole statement basically demanding things women must do for men in order for them to be treated well by men? I respect peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:17 PM
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hm... no, i disagree. I think men are superb liars. Why? They have to be good at it because so much of them getting what they want depends on it, When women are on apps, for example, they are inclined to just tell the truth about what they want and their life because they aren't going to gret rejected for it. Men, on the other hand, will be rejected if they reveal anything untoward. Therefore, men are often in a state of at least some minimal bullshitting just to get over the threshold. I think …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:09 PM
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no, women who have masters degrees and 'low n counts; and who dress conservatively and who have professional jobs (and who are attractive) also get used for sex. Most of the time it's an issue with the guy, not the girl. A lot of sex that happens after meeting on tinder / a bar whatever is a girl getting swept up in thinking the guy really likes her, she's taken a punt and finally put herself out there - meanwhile the guy is reeling from his break up which he won;t disclose and just needs to fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 03:57 PM
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Well, I wouldn't describe it as vengeful at all actually. I don't feel particularly vengeful to men... in the least. Do i feel angry that i've been socially conditioned to always believe my needs are the problem because i'm female? I mean yeah, i feel a little bit pissed off about it, and yeah, maybe it gets me riled up to see the same shit coming out the mouths of babes day after day, with so much cognitive dissonance. It's frustrating. There is absolutely nowhere i describe not dropping standa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 03:44 PM
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That's sort of the point though, isn't it? The largest complaint on this thread is the height of expectations women have, and how they only select the top 20%. If more men were prepared to up their game, perhaps that 20% could become 30, or they stand a better chance of being in the 20. Instead, it becomes about women's expectations being too high as opposed to men's efforts being too low. This is in reference to the statement about the term metrosexual - self care in men being so rare that ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 03:34 PM
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hm, as someone who dated a momma's boy - he was actually just very entitled and expected the women in his life to pick up after him, appease him, and basically mother him. There is nothing attractive about a man who still wants to be 'looked out for' like he's a little boy. Most adults look out for themselves. And to be honest, having a partner is about being an equal - not her simply putting his needs first. It's this entitled mindset that being a momma's boy creates that makes such men mostly …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 03:19 PM
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funny how they always say that women need to lower their expectations. It's about time we turn the tables on human mediocrity and instead encourage them to up their game - it's a lot easier to improve yourself than it is to be less brilliant. I don't think any man would be happy knowing a woman literally lowered herself to have a workable relationship with him due to his relative mediocrity - that can't feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 03:08 PM
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women are generally the selectors because they carry and nurture the baby. It doesn''t serve anyone, men or women, to produce children that might be less capable, unattractive, or carrying a bad genetic mash up. The whole point of genetic diversity is to get create opportunity for selection. There will be rejects in that process. Because women are the selectors, and men are the selected, women tend to have a much more targeted scope for what they would consider carrying. Men aren't really affect…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 02:55 PM
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.... sorry, do men not also choose the attractive women? Is this not just an inherent reality about humans? Could we not also say the men who chose attractive but less than kind women as partners are in fact equally to blame if this is what you want to run with? I don't think you'll ever convince men to start dating ugly women in order to avoid heartbreak. It's just never going to happen. Expecting women to do the same is equally unrealistic. People pick attractive people to make good quality ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 02:44 PM
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By run, do you mean sex? How was it not visible you were not compatible with someone prior to sex? As a woman i can tell very quickly, say within a few weeks of dating, if i have a connection with a guy. That connection, if felt, has ALWAYS translated into good sex, because the enjoyment we get from sex is largely about CONNECTION.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 02:34 PM
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you can download the pdf for free, just google around and you'll find the whole book There are 10 behaviour patterns that they generally will conform to on all fronts, as they are symptomatic of a mindset and so in order to get 1 or 2 bad behaviours you end up getting all of them (because otherwise the 1or 2 wouldnt be happening).
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