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You are kidding right? sir you know creepy because you are one. Hitting on housewives and someones GF at a grocery store is the definition of weirdo creepy LMAO. This is why you are still single dude
/r/seduction22/09/18 06:26 PM
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How long have you subscribed to this SUb? Anything but cold approach is negative. Your own comment glosses over what OP said about being uncomfortable about guys coming up to her in public. You have drank the kool-aid LMAO
/r/seduction22/09/18 02:17 PM
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Him getting upvotes is, I feel a problem in this community
/r/seduction22/09/18 02:14 PM
-13

Dating apps/sites dude. Make all the excuses you want for not using them but if you put in the work you will meet girls
/r/seduction22/09/18 02:11 PM
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Not OP but I'll answer. Met current S/O on Craigslist's (RIP) "friends" section. The current online/App situation is way greater even without Craigslist then when I was looking. ​ Look, we all know it's a numbers game and you have to be resilient and take rejection lightly. You also have to be realistic and able to change who/what you are looking for if your 1st, 2nd, or 3rd strategy isn't working. Girls who post online/App ARE looking for something. ​ I am stunned that cold approach is preached…
/r/seduction22/09/18 02:09 PM
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I think cold approach though is too much a part of this sub's mantra. As OP said it makes her feel uncomfortable and even stalked (I took this from her comments)
/r/seduction22/09/18 01:56 PM
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> Catcalling and cold-approaches has really affected me deeply over the years. I feel unsafe walking alone - day or night - even in my own neighborhood. ​ I preach and get downvoted continually by telling guys to limit or not cold approach. For some reason it is mantra in here
/r/seduction22/09/18 01:48 PM
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Had a neighbor (>50) who did this and traveled due to work (offshore drilling) and met a very nice looking girl in Tokyo. Also, another friend <50 with bad game, met a very nice girl in Brazil. I've heard Columbia (Bogota( is a hotspot for American men. Foreign girls are a good idea
/r/seduction18/09/18 02:45 PM
6

Damn that's some good info!
/r/seduction18/09/18 02:30 PM
1

Yup
/r/seduction17/09/18 09:24 PM
5

This is a great story and *you* the service industry worker approached which is the correct thing to do! Congrats on the big balls!
/r/seduction17/09/18 09:23 PM
1

heh i disagree. But whatever
/r/seduction16/09/18 08:02 PM
1

I understand your comment. I am really talking about OP's experience though and reversing the sexes. If she is in to you while waiting on your table and you show interest let her give you her number. I am just saying don't hit on service industry workers (mainly women) as they are trying to do a job which may include mild flirting to initiate tips ​
/r/seduction16/09/18 01:35 PM
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I understand your comment. I am really talking about OP's experience though and reversing the sexes. If she is in to you while waiting on your table and you show interest let her give you her number. I am just saying don't hit on service industry workers (mainly women) as they are trying to do a job which may include mild flirting to initiate tips
/r/seduction16/09/18 01:34 PM
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I don't know about giving numbers to service industry workers. I mean it worked in your situation, so good. But really the working individual should initiate, not the other way around no matter the sex
/r/seduction15/09/18 10:05 PM
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send her a last txt since this mis dial situation. (btw her calling you back like that I would’ve picked up the phone and said “yeah I hit your# by mistake sorry”. If you want to get together just hmu sometime.blah blah “). You might wait a day or so then send her a text middle of day (not drunk) “would like to see you, busy tonight? and leave it. don’t contact her anymore. you’ve communicated your need/intention as to wanting to rekindle so nothing more maybe two or theee weeks down the line sh…
/r/seduction01/09/18 02:23 PM
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yes. You have to tell them upfront that “you are not looking for a relationship”. they are used to guys who drop this line then resort to neediness with a flood of texts and controlling types of phrases. Women do not want to date desperate Men. Period! This is a fact you should be telling yourself over and over again. This is why you limit texts and affirmation type of questions. Never appear desperate or she will be answering a request for a date with someone else. Sometimes it happens anyway a…
/r/seduction01/09/18 01:56 PM
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His message is spot on though. One thing I dud while dating (married now) was always tell girls “I wasn’t looking for a relationship”. and I meant it. Many thought I was lying as they woul also confirm that they too weren’t looking for serious but when they realized I was still looking. they learned I was for real and would want to make it a real relationship. lol. dating is complicated but if I turned single again I would do the same thing
/r/seduction01/09/18 01:20 PM
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I am not a big follower of these PUA videos but Julien to me is different. I recommend watching his vids to guys all along. hell i think women could even follow this advice. I’ve had a few stage one clingers attach after one date. You will too if you just learn to not put them on a pedestal Date to enjoy life and get experience.
/r/seduction01/09/18 01:08 PM
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Julien on oneitis and scarcity based mindset
/r/seduction01/09/18 03:20 AM
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they don't want to be bothered. gym is the same. I always get downvoted but dating sites/apps is your best option
/r/seduction31/08/18 08:36 PM
1

this is interesting. I don't say anything specifically, just move in and act on my actual lust/feelings. Stop over thinking sexual attraction. Women want men who act on their feelings. Stop talking and act. What's the worst that can happen? She moves her head / says no I'm not interested? At least you went for it!
/r/seduction31/08/18 12:09 PM
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being downvotes means nothing height doesn’t matter to everyone but it does to many.
/r/seduction28/08/18 10:07 PM
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keep telling yourself that
/r/seduction28/08/18 10:44 AM
1

Is she legal? I mean seriously she acts very immature
/r/seduction21/07/18 04:30 PM
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be upfront that you are Not monogamous and you would aprreciated it i they respected you for who you are Say your poly (even look it up)
/r/seduction12/07/18 11:58 PM
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> It was really hard for me to tell her my feelings.... Don't do this, ask her on a date, meet for coffee then attempt kiss.
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:37 PM
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accountant here who would love an auditor job. lol. sounds like you two have chemistry. my advice is to close the deal on her with kissing etc to show that you are also into her like those other guys.
/r/seduction11/07/18 12:15 PM
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love this show
/r/seduction20/06/18 10:31 AM
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my 2 cents: approaching women in public is bordering on creepy. chances are they are married/have bf. Good work in the Bar though stay with it
/r/seduction10/06/18 12:57 PM
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don't settle. you may have fwb or casual dating believe in yourself and have fun
/r/seduction05/06/18 12:20 AM
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treat them as equals. "chivalrous" is now seen as being desperate and Imo for good reason
/r/seduction01/06/18 09:44 PM
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and said I hadn't kissed many girls. don't overshare any of your perceived weaknesses. fake it to you make it.
/r/seduction01/06/18 09:40 PM
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and 4. Stay away from alcohol. It clouds your mind and can lead to bad decisions. Stay clear headed let her drink if she wants
/r/seduction01/06/18 09:37 PM
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glad you are getting your confidence. So, just some advice it's Service Industry people's job to be nice. Let them make the first move next time
/r/seduction27/05/18 12:32 PM
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Because you are her FRIEND
/r/seduction28/04/18 05:55 PM
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i doubt you'll see her again. as others have said she probably thinks you aren't into her. If you get another chance kiss her dammit and don't wait till the end of the date either.
/r/seduction24/04/18 01:05 AM
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i've had girls approach. it's usually when i'm in a relationship though
/r/seduction18/04/18 11:34 PM
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you just have to try with different girls. Don't expect models to give you their number. be realistic
/r/seduction17/04/18 06:20 PM
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if you must cold approach this is the best write up/script I've seen
/r/seduction17/04/18 05:06 PM
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getting laid takes more then having success and money. 1) inner confidence 2) I say this all the time. Meeting girls is like a job. Have goals of how many contacts you make per week, face to face conversations etc. they both take time and effort to do.
/r/seduction14/03/18 02:07 PM
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drinking is a no no. stay in control
/r/seduction02/03/18 04:00 AM
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terrible advice
/r/seduction18/02/18 01:39 AM
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you have nothing to lose by talking to her. Don't put her on a pedestal. if you don't do try, it you'll regret it
/r/seduction17/02/18 05:09 AM
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step one: be good looking
/r/seduction17/02/18 02:02 AM
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Why don't you go up to girls he's interested in... ask them what they like/dislike about him. I think you know his issues. Is he trying to ask girls above his level out? I mean has he looked anywhere but the cheerleader pool? Has he tried tinder?
/r/seduction16/01/18 03:20 PM
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You may be seeking 10's for a date or your picker is off. If it was easy everyone would get laid, every night of the week. You don't need to make every time you talk to a girl a "get digits/date moment". Start out talking to someone you feel may be below you in looks etc. Let's be real if you've never been laid/had a date etc start small as it's easier to work your way up. Just be nice witty smile. If they aren't interested just MOVE ON to the next one
/r/seduction25/12/17 03:35 AM
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I think this is "Pick Up Artist" or some dumb shit like that. If you instantly want every woman to look at you like a creep just mention it to her
/r/seduction25/12/17 03:28 AM
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If it was easy everyone would get laid, every night of the week. You don't need to make every time you talk to a girl a "get digits/date moment". Start out talking to someone you feel may be below you in looks etc. Let's be real if you've never been laid/had a date etc start small as it's easier to work your way up. Just be nice witty smile. If they aren't interested just MOVE ON to the next one
/r/seduction25/12/17 03:24 AM
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with sales rejection imo it’s easier to not take it personally.
/r/seduction18/12/17 12:45 PM
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It's just confidence. Assume she wants you to kiss her. Until she says no or pulls away she is yours. edit It may sound creepy in a way but you have to have confidence to pull it off. If you DON'T ATTEMPT IT you may forever wonder what if?
/r/seduction10/12/17 10:39 PM
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Just make a pause. When you are alone (even in public) maybe near a car. Look her in the eyes and lean in. If she doesn't retreat or turn her head lay a soft one on her.
/r/seduction10/12/17 10:35 PM
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kinda sad tho at 19. Stop fapping; take control of your manhood. You can do it
/r/seduction10/12/17 06:31 AM
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herpes isn't a real scare btw HPV esophageal cancer is though. herpes is a silly non dangerous virus. HPV tho it will take you out
/r/seduction10/12/17 06:29 AM
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i like how you emphatically bolded and italic to really give meaning yet he still doesn't get it lol
/r/seduction10/12/17 02:11 AM
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If OP wants to be ready for epic one night stands he has to sacrifice the daily temptations
/r/seduction09/12/17 03:40 PM
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You aren't the only one. The odds of scoring with random is really low. Unless you are a rejection junkie I say stick with the tried and true methods that work for you.
/r/seduction06/12/17 06:25 PM
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I’m scared of not making it and losing someone who supports me. focusing on your goals should be your main focus right now. Become someone who has worked hard and achieved meaningful goals that will leave you financially dependent will make you more desirable to future mates. Have you ever watched Groundhog Day? seriously it's a great watch and I always recommend it when i see a similar post as yours
/r/seduction03/12/17 05:52 PM
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I read stories all the time about guys after their second/third date and asking for advice about how to proceed as they feel like the girl is feeling distant to them. Inevitably, they haven't even attempted a kiss.
/r/seduction10/11/17 02:28 AM
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I don't know about tricks but if you like her go for a kiss during the date. don't wait till the end when the pressure and anticipation are sky high.
/r/seduction01/10/17 12:59 PM
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the resources I have (a small social circle, Expand this group. If any person in this group asks you to do something. Do it. Even if it something you don't really find fun or interesting. It's not the event that matters it's the relationship. Next time invite them to something you find fun to do. ALso, invite others (all?) in this group to the same events.
/r/seduction07/09/17 10:11 AM
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re read your post you sound like a fratboy
/r/seduction06/08/17 08:48 PM
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It sounds like you hang around guys a lot. Maybe spend that dead time learning a new hobby and stop comparing yourself to others
/r/seduction06/08/17 08:04 PM
1

tat's, grow a beard, change your hairstyle/clothes
/r/seduction12/07/17 07:14 PM
0

No one "puts" you there . You chose to be friends with someone who only wants to be friends.
/r/seduction10/07/17 10:03 PM
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I can say the same thing about people who go to clubs. Or people who go to church. Etc, etc... the point is people that post on dating sites post specifically to meet people. No B.S.
/r/seduction07/07/17 12:24 AM
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The focus to meet girls IRL is real in this sub. i always bring up dating sites where you know, women post that want to meet men. I get shot down though.
/r/seduction07/07/17 12:19 AM
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have an upvote
/r/seduction30/06/17 09:06 PM
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My read would be if they look back then they are insinuating that an approach would work or at least they want to know more about the guy who has caught their attention
/r/seduction30/06/17 05:03 PM
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yeah that would convey a sense of cockiness and self confidence. So after you wink and smile do you hold eye contact to see what they do?
/r/seduction30/06/17 04:53 PM
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dick pic
/r/seduction18/06/17 05:50 PM
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If you are single and out to meet (hookup?) drinking should be off limits for you. keeping your mind clear gives you control while at a club/bar. Tell the bar tender you want a sparkling water with a lime twist. Tip him/her well then tell them that is what you want the rest of the night.
/r/seduction18/06/17 05:23 PM
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bad boy most likely very good looking. he isn't husband material but he is seen as a high value conquest. Not all women are looking for husbands either but err in not using birth control. Not all women are mature or have the self confidence to appreciate a high value male
/r/seduction24/05/17 02:23 PM
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julien is awesome
/r/seduction13/05/17 01:33 AM
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girls like to know where a guy stands. they respect knowing that you are into them. So that being said. THe nice guy mode leaves them wondering what you are actually interested in. Have the balls to be upfront. If you are into them and want a sexual relationship escalate kissing them light groping lets them know... He desires me, he wants a sexual relationship believe it or not this IS what girls want. If they aren't interested THEY AREN'T interested. Move on
/r/seduction13/05/17 01:29 AM
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are you trying to meet girls? have you tried dating apps? stay off tinder. set your profile to "looking for serious relationship" (you don't have to be) this will attract girls who will want to get to know you before moving on to something serious. Work your 1 on 1 skills on dates with these girls. Don't worry about find a/the "dream girl" actually wipe that thought from your mind it's a trap. Just talk and get to know girls. Move to escalate. this is just practice time have fun
/r/seduction06/05/17 06:45 PM
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I don't want to seem desperate for being the one to tell him that I like him. welcome to what guys go thru. Don't tell him that you like him. what does he like to do? What is he good at? Ask him to help you work/wash your car. You NEED help. Help you do something so that you can get him one on one
/r/seduction03/05/17 01:26 PM
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deep breath. Once you leave high school these peons will be in your rear view mirror. Just ignore the losers attempting to bring you down. focus on goals like grades and achievements that will make you stand out on your college applications. volunteer hours and other projects that set you apart. Worry about the future not about the present
/r/seduction28/04/17 12:24 AM
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really good looking guy telling others how to "be better". !st step: Be good looking
/r/seduction11/04/17 04:45 AM
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you are too young for "..getting in a girls heart" just work on your career/education and grow as a person. You'll meet someone that will see you for more then a fun one night stand
/r/seduction08/04/17 12:23 AM
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masturbation leads to contentment of not looking for sex/partner. it also creates a false expectation of what all women look like and/or act like in bed. And those are just the non-physical issues that could happen. best go cold turkey if getting a partner in bed is your goal
/r/seduction04/04/17 12:12 AM
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you have to be open to meeting different types of people. if you will only hook up with 10's you are going to be lonely
/r/seduction01/04/17 10:57 AM
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i agree with you mostly. i guess online was more satisfying for me. getting rejected on cold approach (i have a bf/spouse etc) or even "not interested" was more rejection then i could take. i used a multiple website plan to meet girls. i believe one problem many guys have is using narrow filters on beauty/ looks and looking for the "one" instead of a girl that you may not want to marry but can have fun with also really focusing on what segment of girls that are looking for "them". everyone wants…
/r/seduction21/03/17 06:49 PM
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you mean evolve right? i agree with you, my point is that improving yourself doesn't mean shaming people who meet girls via online dating vs cold approach. we should support all ways to meet girls . that is the real reason that everyone is here right?
/r/seduction21/03/17 12:22 PM
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ha wow so now you answering a question about stats with a biased generalization. this thread is a circle jerk
/r/seduction21/03/17 12:01 PM
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it seems that this sub continually finds new angles to hate online dating and PUSH cold approach. a lot of guys are going to get frustrated with rejection if they follow this advice.
/r/seduction21/03/17 11:59 AM
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just don't then. Why do you think online dating was invented???
/r/seduction05/03/17 01:32 AM
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be young, good looking, successful, and any two of the 5 he listed
/r/seduction10/02/17 02:53 PM
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i forgot the /s OP is setting himself up to be used by his dream girl
/r/seduction09/02/17 06:21 AM
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she'll let you buy her dinner and be really nice. Maybe let you buy her a few drinks after work before she heads out to meet her date.
/r/seduction09/02/17 03:59 AM
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"you had to become a different person to just "pick up" women" I think you are missing the point
/r/seduction09/02/17 03:57 AM
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you must be a fan of the new administration https://www.thefix.com/trump-chooses-drug-war-supporter-mike-pence-vp
/r/seduction26/12/16 01:57 PM
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escalate faster when she shows interest. playing games is silly if she wants a hook-up don't waste the opportunity. It sounds like your dates and you aren't on the same page. Read the signs and act faster
/r/seduction10/12/16 09:53 PM
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you are saying escalate a lot. could you elaborate?
/r/seduction10/12/16 04:57 PM
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People seem to treat no fap like a religion, fair enough if it works for you but you can also fap all the time and live an amazing sex filled happy life. Don't believe the hype. thats cool man no one ever said it was for everybody. so what are you doing in /r/seduction is you are so successful?
/r/seduction19/11/16 08:32 PM
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it's primal. focus your energy on becoming a better person. Gain value not bravery. Fapping gives you excuses. Excuses to stay home, excuses not take a chance with a girl. Excuses not to initiate cause she isn't hot like this or that porn actress. You can lurk in /r/nofap if you want to learn more.
/r/seduction19/11/16 04:56 PM
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stop fapping. seriously it helps
/r/seduction19/11/16 02:45 PM
4

or Jujitsu
/r/seduction22/10/16 08:52 PM
1

Tinder
/r/seduction22/10/16 08:51 PM
1

asking a girl that you workout with out is a no-no jus saying
/r/seduction17/10/16 12:46 AM
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ok i'm unsubscribing
/r/MensRights09/10/16 01:14 PM
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er umm don't waste time with a girl if she's not into you go for the kiss on first date or at first intimate moment; don't wuss out, just go for it. If she isn't into you, MOVE ON TO THE NEXT GIRL
/r/seduction01/10/16 07:10 PM
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it's appalling. every once in awhile there is a story about a woman being held accountable for raping a child and then you read about a piece of garbage judge in this case and the other pathetic people in this boys life atm. It's sad
/r/MensRights17/09/16 09:09 PM
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i think the point is if a girl goes out of her way to seek help/attention/ask questions etc there is a really good chance that she is into you
/r/seduction16/09/16 06:34 PM
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work on your self to become the person ppl want to know more about... See the movie "Groundhog Day" for reference
/r/seduction01/09/16 04:49 AM
0

so how is that working for you?
/r/seduction01/09/16 04:48 AM
1

people enjoy hearing more. like "How did xxxxxx at work really get under your skin?" instead of "how so.." see the difference? listening is one of the hardest skills to learn and even harder to perfect
/r/seduction01/09/16 04:47 AM
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as long as you aren't smitten w oneitis. focus energies on other girls. if she decides the current dude on her radar isn't what she desires she will come after you.
/r/seduction01/09/16 04:43 AM
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quality stuff. learning how your prey thinks his likes/dislikes makes you a better predator
/r/seduction01/09/16 04:41 AM
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the ignorance on this subject hurts. literally hurts
/r/PussyPassDenied21/08/16 05:01 AM
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it's one thing to have a grope session at the theater with another 14/15 yr old then is is to have a relationship with a grown adult woman who WAS HIS TEACHER> for the love of god the ignorance
/r/PussyPassDenied21/08/16 04:59 AM
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nope somehow thats different
/r/PussyPassDenied21/08/16 04:57 AM
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ikr. keep reading in this thread and you will want to punch your computer at some of the comments
/r/PussyPassDenied21/08/16 04:56 AM
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innocence taken... wait till you have kids one day. you won't take adults having sex with 15yr old(s) so lightly.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/08/16 07:47 PM
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Google the you tube oneitis it'll help. the guy is genius
/r/seduction05/08/16 10:16 PM
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the title.... hurts
/r/MensRights02/07/16 02:07 PM
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white knight alert
/r/PussyPassDenied02/07/16 02:03 PM
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I like the list but advocate for getting that first kiss earlier in the date. It: shows confidence, breaks the dreaded end of date tension related to said event. If it doesn't work just friend it out. (it wasn't going to work anyway) use the time to see if she has friends that she think are right for you
/r/seduction14/06/16 10:21 PM
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So "How to put off physical approach. till she is so confused about your intentions she finds someone else first?" no thank you
/r/seduction06/06/16 09:48 PM
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that first story is seriously disturbing
/r/MensRights04/06/16 08:22 PM
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it's a sad state of affairs when you have to install cameras and mics to protect yourself from the possibility that your wife may file false assault charges against you
/r/MensRights30/05/16 01:17 PM
27

divorce is ugly. Johnny don't get married again.
/r/MensRights30/05/16 01:05 PM
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if (and I guess she is) the only woman teacher in that dept she would literally have to physically assault someone with a weapon to get fired
/r/MensRights23/05/16 05:38 PM
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obligatory 'if this were a man....' comment
/r/MensRights23/05/16 05:35 PM
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I preach this all the time. here is how i speak to people i want to know better. Before meeting them or having any interaction, research what you know about them from their profile (if a dating site) If meeting irl these topics will provide info for good conversation age education job history just by asking her about these simple life experiences that everyone has you can learn a lot about her and show her your interest by listening completely By this I mean do not interrupt her. If she pauses d…
/r/seduction23/05/16 01:10 PM
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she may wonder why you took so long to ask her out. life is too short.
/r/seduction05/05/16 02:02 AM
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all she had to do was roll the damn window all the way down, sign the ticket and there wold have been no incident. it was that easy. don't make something very simple into a federal case the hard part was her being a bitch and not following the officers wishes
/r/PussyPassDenied20/04/16 04:49 PM
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imo (MY OPINION) cold approaching is the single most difficult way to meet girls. it is devastating to your confidence and the conversion rate is lowww. I would stick to dating sites. yes there are auto bots and the girls who play games, but finding girls to date was/is way easier.
/r/seduction11/04/16 02:54 PM
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yeah this is a pro tip. girls don't dig over-aggressive mouthy kisses
/r/seduction30/03/16 08:56 PM
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I read that she was retaliating for being groped and she is 15
/r/PussyPassDenied30/03/16 06:38 PM
3

so are you going to see her again?
/r/seduction23/03/16 04:29 PM
1

heh I always sucked at cold approach. Dating sites were way easier for me.
/r/seduction28/02/16 06:29 PM
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so you meet groups of (new) people first or you meet established friends you know at the bar?
/r/seduction27/02/16 11:11 PM
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I'm just commenting on whats worked for me in the past. It's great you've scored at clubs, but it's not for everyone
/r/seduction27/02/16 11:09 PM
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i heard a guy had some luck at a club and here was his strategy. He started taking naps like from 12:00pm til 1:00/:30 ate something (pretty important). headed to club around 2:00 ish he DIDN'T DRINK any alcohol. (very imp) ask a bartender for perier and lime. Tell him you are a designated drier tip him just like getting a drink. he nailed a drunk college girl who he admitted was - 4/5 but he really wanted to get laid
/r/seduction27/02/16 10:13 PM
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i hate clubs. i was always disappointed when i went there to pick up girls so I just started going with friends and had fun. find girls on POF cupid or tinder. at least most of them actually want to meet guys
/r/seduction27/02/16 05:01 PM
1

so you really think "a 14 year old and a 19 year old want sex, the 19 year old has malicious intent". That's retarded on it's face are you kidding me? I remember when I was 14 and yes I wanted to have sex with other teens my age. Didn't do it though, You know why? I nor they had an apt, a hotel room etc etc. and it's for the BEST. To allow 14 yr olds to have sex with 19yr olds (or older as you seem to think thats fine) without facing the consequences is allowing the loss of a childs life. They d…
/r/MensRights24/02/16 07:30 PM
68

tldr: make a move quickly or females will take doing nothing as dis-interest and move on
/r/seduction19/02/16 09:38 PM
1

you would be shocked at people who never follow any of the points in Part 2 on dates or just in everyday life
/r/seduction17/02/16 12:31 AM
1

when i was dating if i felt the date was going well I wold get a kiss in the middle of the date. Waiting till the end tends to make it awkward and there is a build up of pressure or expectation that can make it difficult. look for a moment when you are: both standing/walking. pause in convo. Like when opening a car door, after a dance or something the both of you have done together is finished,
/r/seduction15/02/16 09:37 PM
34

As of today (Feb. 12), Soest had not been taken into custody on the charges, a Madison County State's Attorney’s Office spokeswoman said. charged but not incarcerated.. pussy pass intact
/r/PussyPassDenied15/02/16 03:04 AM
3

i agree. all the Mgr would need to do (i imagine) is tell the guy to cut it out or lose his membership. i bet that would of got the msg over to him
/r/seduction29/01/16 04:03 PM
6

i was a bit longer. he gets real dickish after a couple of minutes. it sounds like he found his juliette now he's doing this crap to appease her and of course to further his own self
/r/seduction24/01/16 05:00 PM
1

reread. Just learn and move on to the next girl i don't advocate rape. when a girl says no move on to the next girl
/r/seduction22/01/16 06:05 AM
1

the problem is you. practice escalation. the only way to get better is to do it and honestly??? Don't give a shit if she says no. the reasoning is that you need to hear No several times and DGAF about it! Just learn and move on to the next girl
/r/seduction21/01/16 01:51 PM
1

how about not rushing to form a life long, move in relationship when she has sex with you??? oneitis runs deep in /r/relationships. if you just mention not taking it too serious, you get downvoted and ridiculed.
/r/seduction21/01/16 04:53 AM
5

very sick; the ease that society dismisses the loss of innocence when the victim is a boy
/r/MensRights07/01/16 03:18 AM
1

You know my biggest regret still to this day? I NEVER FUCKING MADE A MOVE. it seems every other post in this sub has something similar
/r/seduction03/01/16 12:23 AM
3

Interests? Join groups that truly interest you or that you have had a passing interest in the past and would like to try.
/r/seduction14/12/15 01:16 AM
3

depended on what you wanted. You acted hurt and therefore may have hurt the FWB relationship. I would've been friendly with her. Just treat her like a spinning plate you know. You never mention meeting or attempting to meet other girls during your time with her
/r/seduction13/12/15 11:05 PM
1

so, teachers and students sexting during school hours and hooking up at night is okay with you? F the laws about teacher/student fraternization? I really think you need to rethink your position on this.
/r/MensRights13/12/15 02:35 PM
1

have plans with a friend. wait for response, go from there
/r/seduction10/12/15 01:32 AM
2

:7. Be aware of Oneitis which happened to you in college. TBH it happened to me too, but I didn't know anything about "game" (before internet) I know, I'm a dinosaur
/r/seduction04/12/15 11:57 PM
7

The Judge Morris [said]...: 'I have watched the video of the first police interview and that was not, in my view, a woman struggling with a mental health problem.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/12/15 05:27 PM
1

which I regret simple. If you find her attractive ask her out next time you have a chance.
/r/seduction01/12/15 08:20 PM
2

and shit at all hmmm
/r/seduction01/12/15 07:21 PM
3

dating is sort of like a 2nd job on sales commission. The more you put into it the more you "earn". OkCupid, POF Tinder Put effort in natural pics taken outdoors. invest in decent clothes and a good haircut. SMILE a lot for your pics. Be pretty honest in your profiles but don't harp on the gaming thing too much. Get more social hobbies. Try joining a meetup for dancing (like swing) there are always more girls at these things than guys and guess what? You get to touch and hold girls! Easy to meet…
/r/seduction30/11/15 09:55 PM
3

good vid. I preach this stuff to guys all the time great quote: "when in a relationship girls never leave the game, guys do..." why? "girls continually get hit on all the time... not their fault it just happens"
/r/seduction24/11/15 10:54 PM
2

it's a mindset. Your friends attitude will land them a bad ltr with the first women that sleeps with them IMO. Make dating many a priority not looking for the perfect one
/r/seduction24/11/15 10:51 PM
0

came here to say this^ body camera protects the officer
/r/PussyPassDenied23/11/15 08:53 PM
1

should be sidebar stuff. When I do/did this I had the most luck
/r/seduction22/11/15 02:17 PM
4

let's hear it for equal opportunity
/r/MensRights21/11/15 03:42 PM
0

yes. it would be a mistake. the wounded bird story is her saying she wants to play around and not leap into another relationship/ Next time you text with her (and this story or a form of it comes up) tell her "I am not looking for a relationship either" You have to become the one that has control. Go out tonight with a friend and meet some new girls. swipe right on tinder refocus. If she is interested she will ask you to meet. Stop pursuing, she already knows you are ready to move the relationsh…
/r/seduction20/11/15 07:33 PM
107

this isn't pussypass denied/ to me the bitch got off lightly for assault with a vehicle
/r/PussyPassDenied20/11/15 01:00 AM
2

the best way to attract more women is to never get lost in the feels for one women (oneitis) it'll help you get the IDGAF attitude. Start small (or big if you know what i mean) this strategy if used correctly will get to the type of women you want. WIll you land your 9/10 right off the back. hell no but have fun and watch the girls line up.
/r/seduction16/11/15 09:32 PM
2

weird. ask her why she wants/needs "paul" to be part of the date?
/r/seduction10/11/15 08:53 PM
0

I hesitate to guess that even if the perp had been male the outcome would be the same.
/r/MensRights07/11/15 06:09 PM
1

you must have watched Groundhog day; if you haven't do it
/r/seduction05/11/15 02:54 PM
2

cold approaching is really difficult and most guys (including me) hate it. I suggest trying dating sites like OKCupid and Tinder. Think of meeting girls as a type of job. DOn't stop cold approaches but widen the net per say. Consider what type of girls you are attracting vs what types are attracted to you and what types you are attracted to. It is sort of like an algebraic equation. Focus your profiles on girls that fall into each of the groups (age/weight/height - status single, single with kid…
/r/seduction04/11/15 03:15 AM
1

so is cold calling your only form of meeting girls? If it is, you aren't alone in your fear of rejection
/r/seduction04/11/15 02:24 AM
1

this is scary it's a fricking witch hunt. Glad i'm old and in a relationship
/r/MensRights18/10/15 02:22 AM
2

well theres a way to tear a family apart. nice going auntie
/r/PussyPassDenied14/10/15 12:28 PM
1

next time plan the next date while on the date. talk about places/activities you like together "like I noticed on your profile you like riding go karts have you been to Go-Kart Xpress yet?" plan it
/r/seduction13/10/15 04:33 PM
1

good response. it's like the poker saying "If you can't spot the donkey, you ARE the donkey
/r/seduction13/10/15 04:28 PM
1

dude never send 8 txts without a reply....never
/r/seduction13/10/15 12:59 PM
1

I've had a few dates like this. I've even paid for a few things. Some girls will tell you what you want to hear but really not be serious about hooking up. It sounds mean but it is a coping mechanism. THey play nice with no intention of taking it further. keep on meeting girls they aren't all like this. Also, go over your Tinder profile. REview the date. Did she say anything like: I didn't realize... or you sound/look different then your profile? even if she said it in a nice way. Sometimes the …
/r/seduction13/10/15 12:58 PM
1

this belongs in /r/rage
/r/MensRights06/10/15 02:26 AM
3

seriously. the only thing I undstand from it is the family is losing their shit over a 34yr old disabled person having sex
/r/PussyPassDenied05/10/15 07:45 PM
1

yeah. "sorta seeing someone" can be a test or a wall to hide behind to keep guys away from her. Just find out where she is soon and don't spend too much time/ just my opinion
/r/seduction14/09/15 03:13 AM
1

yeah. I mean they aren't married, right? You might say that is she throws that "You know I'm seeing so-so right!?!?"
/r/seduction14/09/15 03:10 AM
1

meet to hang out; kiss her
/r/seduction14/09/15 02:52 AM
9

keep telling yourself: girls are people just like you. Treat them as equals have you ever had a girl crush you that you didn't find attractive? Maybe she was chubby, had braces whatever trait you didn't like? Whatever, remember how silly you felt her awkwardness was and how goofy it was to you? That's how girls perceive you when you idolize them. stop it
/r/seduction11/09/15 01:45 AM
1

I had that problem too. I finally got tired of losing out and the what if's. If they aren't into it so what??? At least you'll know not to waste your time anymore and at least you have tried. Try to make the move before you get the feels. Sometimes it's on the first date. Just remember girls appreciate you letting them know that you are interested
/r/seduction10/09/15 11:00 PM
2

don't freeze up; initiate. If you do want to get this girl in bed go in for a kiss. You have to show her (not tell her!) that you want to F her
/r/seduction10/09/15 02:17 AM
1

/r/rage seriously if the roles were reversed????
/r/MensRights28/08/15 01:52 AM
2

at least get a kiss on the first date. girls need to know that you are into them and want sex. If you don't at least makeout/grope on the 1st date they don't know that you want them and will look for someone that does. Hell, if she turns you down at least you tried.
/r/seduction21/08/15 06:19 PM
2

not really, it comes off like you are interested in her for more then friendship. if she turns down the kiss, part ways. No need wasting time with someone not into you. The more you wait the worse the tension becomes.
/r/seduction21/08/15 06:11 PM
2

We'll have you kissed her yet? I am assuming not. This needs to be done soon; I usually initiated on the first date. Look for a moment when you are physically close to her and stare into her eyes if she doesn't immediately divert slowly (but steadily) move in and kiss her
/r/seduction21/08/15 11:42 AM
5

you have to get past your fears. just have a NoFucksGiven attitude. Be genuine and friendly. Not everyone responds positively and when they don't tell yourself.. they have an issue, they have a bf already etc etc important thing is too keep on, keeping on
/r/seduction16/08/15 03:48 PM
-1

I understand the men's rights issue but this is also Race discrimination. Another backhanded slap at Native American culture. Gooo Redskins! /s
/r/MensRights07/08/15 10:17 PM
3

call her. if it goes to voice mail or she answers tell her you would like to ask her out/meet up/hang out; be specific with place and time. If you don't hear back or are shut down, move on.
/r/seduction05/08/15 05:48 PM
10

It's not the only way to meet girls and it shouldn't be. To increase you chances of meeting your goal you need several online, phone and in person contact tools. No one should rely on just one method
/r/seduction18/07/15 08:56 PM
0

escalate. go for a kiss. it is usually sorta awkward the first time. but you need to do it. get over the fear
/r/seduction13/07/15 01:00 PM
2

yeah "I have a lot on my mind" sorry
/r/seduction09/07/15 04:16 PM
1

well, the silent part. if she just sits there and doesn't ask what is wrong she doesn't give a shit about you and that's your answer If she asks whats wrong, just say "I have a lot on your mind" and "sorry" reply, sound a little sarcastic. then go back to being silent if she apologizes for the stupid ass txt'g BS (make her figure it out DON'T TELL HER). Go with it, Make her feel bad then lean over and try to kiss her in the car. You'll have to play this one by ear and you may not get to this poi…
/r/seduction09/07/15 04:12 PM
1

I wouldn't mention the txt'g as you may sound needy. remember until you are in a sexual relationship, girls compartmentalize you based on your actions or in-actions. That tension you felt when the moment seemed right to kiss her but you talked yourself out of it? Don't let that happen again. It may be too late with this girl but remember that in the future. As for this girl? Let your actions tell her you are upset with her txt'g treatment. Stop with the over communicating!!! Stop with being her …
/r/seduction09/07/15 03:56 PM
2

girls dig confident guys and they can be pretty intuitive. as soon as she recognizes your interest, you need to act... like go in for a kiss not just asking for a date. you should of made one of the going home rides into a mini date maybe like lets stop for a drink, food something. stop over texting with her. you sound like her BFF in those exchanges not like someone who wants to bang her
/r/seduction09/07/15 03:44 PM
1

the honeymoon is over edit: moving in together exposes issues
/r/seduction06/07/15 11:49 PM
3

can you get rid of hesitation? just keep doing what you are doing. it will get easier.
/r/seduction04/07/15 12:56 PM
0

to me the whole punish more do to someone labeling it a "hate crime" was a mistake in the first place. It's like double jeopardy, a crime is a crime punish as it is
/r/PussyPassDenied30/06/15 09:45 PM
1

pretty much all of Reddit. Political Correctness everywhere
/r/PussyPassDenied30/06/15 09:42 PM
1

you, are correct
/r/PussyPassDenied30/06/15 09:41 PM
4

they aren't all like that; but yeah, many more are than are not sadly
/r/seduction24/06/15 04:02 PM
3

i did but it was different. the second time was actually way better. Don't believe the Disney there is only "one true love" story-line
/r/seduction24/06/15 04:00 PM
1

maybe his goals have changed and he is having difficulty figuring out what he actually wants right now
/r/seduction24/06/15 03:57 PM
1

congratulations I guess? I mean do you want a real relationship? I think you are just finding out what you don't like and are moving on so you'll know what to look for in the next girl. If you want to settle down just review what you prefer and cull girls before sleeping with them. Maybe take a break from girls for awhile. Take up a hobby.learn to play an instrument or something
/r/seduction24/06/15 03:54 PM
5

that's ridiculous. the legal system is so broken
/r/MensRights20/06/15 07:03 PM
49

and why should anyone take offense to her because it took her 21 mths to decide she didn't consent to going down on him while he was blacked out
/r/MensRights20/06/15 05:41 PM
3

move on to the next
/r/seduction06/06/15 06:08 PM
-1

okay tiger lol confidence is definitely not a problem for you which is great. just don't be the guy that can't take "No" for an answer 'kay?
/r/seduction06/06/15 06:04 PM
1

The better you get isn't this just learning to recognize if their is a real chemistry to build on? I mean wasting time with smoke and mirrors on a girl you don't have a chance with is something beginners do
/r/seduction06/06/15 05:36 PM
1

yeah that's what i would say too. Also, she is lacking in a social skill that reflects on her (not in a positive way? what do you think?). This is a good time in your relationship to be positive and encourage her. ALso, observe how (or if?) she pulls herself out of this situation
/r/seduction26/05/15 08:49 PM
11

take a deeeep breath. and re-read your post. Imagine that it is your brother or a good college friend telling you about their gf/fiance, what would be your advice to them?
/r/seduction26/05/15 08:35 PM
4

well that escalated quickly
/r/MensRights22/05/15 06:15 PM
1

true, the DA could bring him to trial but with her on Rices side a guilty verdict would be impossible thus a waste of time and $
/r/MensRights21/05/15 11:02 PM
2

County Prosecutor Jim McClain, who handled the case, says he signed off on it after reviewing the circumstances and consulting with Palmer, who married Ray Rice after a grand jury indicted him. she didn't want to press charges. what type of witness do you think she would of been on the stand?
/r/MensRights21/05/15 09:49 PM
2

as long as it doesn't drive you bat shit crazy (like it does me) then cool
/r/seduction19/05/15 07:59 PM
1

it should be these girls and their families that have to pay, not the govt
/r/MensRights19/05/15 07:20 PM
3

That is opening a can of worms my friend. Strippers (for the most part) are messed up people
/r/seduction16/05/15 03:41 PM
1

if you are seeing her tonight, then I am guessing the orig slut defense was just to see how you would react and/or she has an amt of times she dates before putting out. I would just try what you did before, confident and straightforward. She most likely is ready now
/r/seduction12/05/15 05:45 PM
1

totally agree. setting goals I think is important. Making 3-5 contacts a day online and several cold approaches. Stick to it. Don't make excuses
/r/seduction12/05/15 02:16 PM
1

awesome.
/r/seduction09/05/15 05:09 AM
1

don't ask, get a kiss show her with your passion that you want more
/r/seduction09/05/15 01:54 AM
1

how far physically have you escalated the relationship so far?
/r/seduction08/05/15 11:47 PM
2

My tip is to find a bar and sit at it. Not rocket science but usually single/lonely people sit at bars so just do it
/r/seduction05/05/15 07:41 PM
17

disgusting
/r/MensRights28/04/15 10:01 PM
4

excellent remark (way better than I was able to say)
/r/seduction21/04/15 08:58 PM
0

I think you are putting more into dry hole mining than it's worth. Honestly I think it's a bit irresponsible to give guys that will never get a chance with this girl they've put on a pedestal. What is your motivation?
/r/seduction21/04/15 08:55 PM
8

I respectfully disagree. My time is too valuable to be wasting time on the possibility of a very low % pity fuck
/r/seduction21/04/15 08:50 PM
1

you aren't doing yourself any favors. masturbating eases the need to get out of the house/apt and meet girls.
/r/seduction11/04/15 02:09 PM
1

I agree.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/04/15 02:30 PM
2

dammit
/r/PussyPassDenied08/04/15 01:07 AM
3

she met a guy In Real Life (IRL) You need to move faster. She probably thinks you just want to be friends. You have to make a move, Ask her out. CALL her.
/r/seduction06/04/15 07:36 PM
3

being 6'0 explains a lot. you deserve a better s/o
/r/MensRights01/04/15 02:26 AM
6

240 w a 34" waist??? I must see pics to believe this. (I am 5"10 198 w a 36 in waist)
/r/MensRights01/04/15 02:21 AM
1

/r/fatpeoplehate would enjoy this
/r/MensRights01/04/15 02:18 AM
39

If you had a penis you wouldn't make that statement
/r/MensRights21/03/15 07:50 PM
5

after I watched this all I thought of was: Entitled good looking chick has been told she is perfect at everything and wrong at nothing her entire life
/r/PussyPassDenied20/03/15 04:07 PM
3

stolen youth, no matter the gender, is lost forever
/r/PussyPassDenied19/03/15 01:57 PM
3

I like that the Judge was Female. I wonder if it would've been different if the judge were a male
/r/PussyPassDenied19/03/15 01:55 PM
1

He needs to petition the league (through his lawyer) to be released from SF, so he can be picked up by another team (err um the Cowboys have a history of picking up Guys with way MORE issues)
/r/PussyPassDenied19/03/15 01:39 PM
3

nicely done!
/r/seduction13/03/15 03:17 PM
2

simply said "it gets easier the more you do it" yes, it will feel awkward the first few times you do it. The faster you get past that awkwardness the better. no excuses just do it
/r/seduction13/03/15 03:07 PM
14

O.P. also, try to RELAX. think "Soft lips, soft lips (keep saying this while in the act)" important, be the first to pull away. this isn't talked about much but is important. It's the whole "act like you've been here before" thing. It'll leave her wanting more, which is the end goal, right?
/r/seduction09/03/15 03:32 PM
1

you've seen this right? watch it again and again. repeat and rinse. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GdnYedTpToA
/r/seduction05/03/15 10:45 PM
1

for every drop-dead gorgeous girl you see there is most likely a guy tired of fucking her
/r/seduction05/03/15 10:43 PM
1

spend some time working on your inner game. You ever watch Groundhog day with Bill Murray? Watch it today.
/r/seduction01/03/15 05:16 PM
0

the first time usually isn't the best and I agree condoms suck. You might look at Japanese brands. I hear they are super thin and are more personalized with sizing. You can order them over the great interweb
/r/seduction01/03/15 05:14 PM
1

i am confused
/r/seduction01/03/15 05:03 PM
4

"And so he received a light sentence, according to Dillon—no suspension, no expulsion. All of that effort cost the family tens of thousands of dollars, just to get something as basic as a fair hearing," said Dillon."
/r/MensRights20/02/15 03:50 PM
2

disturbing on so many levels
/r/MensRights19/02/15 06:56 PM
1

came here to say this O.P. needs to file a police report
/r/MensRights08/02/15 04:35 PM
3

those friendships have come from ex-bedpartners though. Never from friendzoned (no-sex girls) in my experiences
/r/seduction26/01/15 07:12 PM
4

i suggest to stop masturbating. I think it may be holding you back and keeping you from getting over the hump. Believe me, the need will overcome any fears and you will be more likely to act i the future. Also, you won't have to look back on any regrets anymore. /r/nofap for reference
/r/seduction25/01/15 11:01 PM
1

are you sure you are hetero? I mean do you really want to have sex with a female? Do you masturbate? Tp what?
/r/seduction25/01/15 09:55 PM
0

fuck it. ignore her. tell her you won't "hang out" unless she is DTF. I did this with a FB girl I was seeing for awhile/ She had told me she wasn't into me but still wanted to see if it was posssible to make something work. I layed this stipulation on her and moved on. got to do it to keep your sanity.
/r/seduction19/01/15 12:45 AM
1

invest in yourself. learn an instrument, learn a new language, take on a hobby, volunteer, learn how to dance...
/r/seduction09/01/15 02:31 AM
1

plan dates. go in for a kiss if you feel there is a romantic moment (alone,eye/physical contact, etc) What are you scared of? (age?)
/r/seduction09/01/15 02:23 AM
2

guys. If ANY girl uses any excuse to meet you take it as an opportunity. This video just shows that even a big star like Jimmy Fallon can't read the signs and/or not have the confidence and game when an opportunity arises.
/r/seduction07/01/15 04:00 PM
2

difficult situation. try to text her with something. your friend has passed she sounds like something positive in your life (are you willing to lose this?)
/r/seduction15/12/14 06:06 AM
8

tried to explain this to a girl (36) once on reddit. Her post was that she couldn't do FWB relationships. "each time she tried she fell for the guy" So after a few exchanges I determined that she was picking her Ideal life partner traits in every FWB relationship (correct age range/race/etc). I suggested she start seeing guys that were 19-20. She came unglued saying she was repulsed by the idea etc etc. My point was she could have all the sex she wanted and that there would never be the chance o…
/r/seduction15/12/14 04:23 AM
2

what is it that you are scared of?
/r/seduction09/12/14 12:48 AM
0

If drinks go well, ask her if she wants to get something to eat, then dessert, then to a book store, back to your place etc etc (a little kidding on the last one) if it goes well have in mind a "second date' time/place etc to go and ask her before it's over
/r/seduction06/12/14 09:01 PM
1

Others: Don't be too aggressive or press in. This is not the time to be forceful. LESS is MORE be the first to pull away. leave her wanting more tap her tongue playfully, don't thumb wrestle it
/r/seduction02/12/14 07:34 PM
1

careful of single focusing or oneitis
/r/seduction30/11/14 07:31 PM
1

at least she told you fairly quickly. Try to get a kiss on the first date if you are into them.
/r/seduction30/11/14 03:17 AM
2

If anything just give her a note with your number. If she doesn't call leave her alone. Remember service workers are paid to be nice to customers.
/r/seduction24/11/14 11:54 PM
0

the issue is that you are focusing on a girl having sex with another guy who also happens to be a co-worker, what part of this sounds like a good idea?
/r/seduction22/11/14 08:41 PM
3

Sensitivity is a GOOD thing. Being "inflexible" is just a sign of a healthy erection. You have nothing to worry about physically
/r/seduction21/11/14 05:04 PM
1

If you want to progress with a girl you have to show her you want to sleep with her. Girls cannot read your mind. If you get a girl to kiss you in public (and you think she enjoys it) ask her to go back to your hotel room with you. You have to put yourself out there and realize rejection is just part of the game. It happens, don't take it personally just say "okay,no problem" Turn/walk away and focus your attention on the next girl
/r/seduction21/11/14 05:01 PM
2

are you really worried about performance issues? do you have nay experience to show that it might be a valid reason to worry?
/r/seduction21/11/14 04:42 PM
10

ignore her. date other girls. show her she isn't the center of your life
/r/seduction19/11/14 08:44 PM
1

I'm one of those 17,000 men on the waiting list. Some of the interview was condescending to men yeah
/r/MensRights19/11/14 05:23 AM
4

your reply leads me to this she is in a service job. leave these people alone as it is their job to be nice to you. how you feel towards her most likely happens A LOT. If she makes a move outside of her work responsibilities then go with it. Otherwise, date people you meet on dating sites or other social situations
/r/seduction18/11/14 12:58 AM
2

you need to go into detail
/r/seduction18/11/14 12:42 AM
7

you handled it fine and your feelings about it now are spot on too
/r/seduction17/11/14 06:07 AM
0

Maybe after finals cook dinner for her at her place. Girls LOVE this and the location is instantly a place to take it to the next level. If you want to text her something "ask her how studying is going"
/r/seduction17/11/14 01:34 AM
4

One thing I read from some posts here is to "Not drink" when looking for girls. It may be holding you back
/r/seduction17/11/14 12:06 AM
3

you still live with your parents? you need a place to go for sex it sounds like?
/r/seduction16/11/14 11:50 PM
1

besides what /u/thatspecialplace said, one of the most often repeated mantra given to people with low self esteem "You have to love yourself before being able to love someone else" or in /r/seddit terms "Accept and/or love yourself before getting girls"
/r/seduction16/11/14 11:46 PM
2

Well you actually did it in your post. Stop focusing on one girl or "her" as you put it. You sound like you go on autopilot with throwing everything behind getting that one girl. Keep searching and looking for 2-3 girls to have in the texting to meet pool. Girls ARE doing the same thing and that is the feedback you are getting from them so go figure. It tells me that they aren't ready to be the 'one" girl that gets all of your attention. The clues are right in front of you
/r/seduction16/11/14 10:51 PM
39

I think you nailed it. OP should look at bank accounts and other liquid assets. Also, look around for a lawyer, first visit is free for consultation.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 03:18 PM
2

Well that clears it up (not!) :) I would assume she mean't you are putting her in the friendzone sense you said I don't generally care about her like that because I consider her a little sister but my question is : that she is hinting that she wants more then just a friendship with you
/r/seduction09/11/14 10:09 PM
1

so, she thinks YOU have friend zoned HER?
/r/seduction09/11/14 10:01 PM
2

just do it man. what's the worst they can do? Say "thanks but I just like you for a friend?" SO what? At least you know and can move on to the next girl. She may just turn her head and not say anything. Who cares at least you know she isn't in to you and you won't waste anymore time. The more you try and get responses you can start assessing whether she is into you or not BEFORE you try to kiss her. But for now if you are into her TRY AND GET A KISS
/r/seduction08/11/14 11:10 PM
2

you are friendzoning yourself (I know that term is hated but IDGAF) YOu have to show more interest then just meeting for coffee. You have to make a physical step like gong in for a kiss or asking her to come to your place. If you are interested in more then a "coffee date" let her know. Think about it what actions did you take that she/they could interpret that you were interested in more then just being friends?
/r/seduction08/11/14 10:55 PM
1

any sub that is man centric is generally looked down upon in some way /r/seddit /r/nofap /r/theredpill /r/mensrights etc. it's the politically correct natiure of the web don't let it bother you
/r/seduction02/11/14 09:29 PM
2

IM her on FB see if she is up for meeting for a drink/lunch/hangout etc. Have a definite plan like. "hey, I was just headed (or am planning to go tomorrow night) to see/hear some great dance music @ (club) I'll be there around X:XXpm
/r/seduction02/11/14 09:25 PM
2

we learn from our failures. the only real loss is quitting
/r/seduction02/11/14 03:59 PM
4

like you need to be able to love yourself before being able to love someone else? I like that analogy and I like your take of it
/r/seduction02/11/14 03:31 PM
1

Many people who are single believe in the love at first sight or Prince/Princess one person for everyone theory. This is a false media made (or some say pseudo religious derived) idea. This is simply false and leads to many unhappy relationships. I know it may seem cold but identifying a target group of potential mates and marketing yourself to what they are looking for will help get you results and maybe find Mrs Right now (or forever :)). Just floating around and hoping something "happens" is …
/r/seduction02/11/14 03:24 PM
1

1a) Just know that having a woman like you enough to sleep with you is like being a salesman with you as the product. You have to sell yourself, be confident and close the deal. This may sound silly but it is how it works. Playing a role can work just to bust the cherry but yeah it will fade in the long run. Again focus on a goal 2a) Take pics (or have then taken of you) smiling/having fun, after a good (not home done) haircut, and wearing a nice fitting new shirt to use in a profile. You should…
/r/seduction02/11/14 01:01 AM
1

first things first. 1) what are you looking for? It's important to have a plan. Identify the age and life situation of the females you want to meet and are comfortable meeting. I lived in the south and have a liberal personality. I understand how hard it is to meet girls when everyone has a different outlook on life that you do. Sometimes to get laid you need to play a role. Be the confident and fun guy you normally aren't. 2) Where and how are you meeting girls?
/r/seduction01/11/14 08:14 PM
1

yeah. next time try and get her phone # and then you will find out what the situation is
/r/seduction31/10/14 06:07 PM
2

she probably had a bf. many girls enjoy flirting in public but have a FWB or someone else to bang
/r/seduction31/10/14 05:58 PM
1

that's awesome! I wish more couples could be as adult as the both of you guys are
/r/MensRights28/10/14 09:48 PM
2

you may never have a sexual relationship, but stay close for your sons sake. she has really thrown the olive branch your way. Work together so your son can be as happy as he can
/r/MensRights28/10/14 06:08 PM
5

have a plan on what to say. I would approach her directly and have something specific in mind to say. Let her then decide how to respond maybe she'll introduce you or maybe not who the f cares
/r/seduction28/10/14 12:42 AM
21

aren't girls on tender mainly just to hook up? He sounds like he is making long range plans. OP - just chill and keep dating
/r/seduction19/10/14 09:17 PM
3

Start the cave man diet /r/keto. soy and sugar/carbs are crap and stop eating fast food
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 03:50 PM
0

yeah, life sounds really rough for you
/r/seduction17/10/14 11:33 PM
3

so UO?
/r/MensRights14/10/14 12:25 AM
1

she was bored? maybe she thought you were cute but chickened out, leaving you to very awkwardly try to figure it all out
/r/seduction08/10/14 04:10 PM
1

I was out when he started bashing Aethists
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 12:07 AM
3

yeah and exchanging #'s is awkward wit a rugrat hanging around
/r/seduction07/10/14 10:17 PM
3

yeah I wonder the same. If the lady was serious she should have given him her number. I think he is making more of the encounter then it was but it sounds like it gave him a confidence boost
/r/seduction07/10/14 10:16 PM
1

I have rarely dated women my age so I would've probably done the same. If she was truly serious about you she should have closed by asking for a number (or giving you hers)
/r/seduction07/10/14 10:15 PM
1

well played, well played. shows that you were not wishy washy and that you made it clear what your intentions were so if she turned you down then fine, move on to the next prospect
/r/seduction07/10/14 07:47 PM
3

I like how you said "she became confused.. so I said I'm asking you out on a date" can't tell you how many times I've tried asking girls out that I met on dating sites and the same thing happened to me.
/r/seduction07/10/14 05:27 PM
10

don't waste being 25, in college and good looking enough to have chicks look at you.
/r/seduction06/10/14 11:51 PM
1

when any girl (not just a oneitis (google it)) rejects you, tell her "Okay, I'm glad I know now". [period] then walk away, hang up, stop texting, end conversation (are you getting my hints here). Don't talk to her, ignore any attempts she makes to engage you. Move on and meet others and decide to not take a year this time to find out if said girl wants more then a friendship
/r/seduction05/10/14 04:55 AM
1

follow her after the bell rings, as the class empties in the hall. say something... anything about the class, then say "would you like to go to [dinner] or [out to eat] Friday/Saturday night. here's why, You need to let her know ASAP that you are interested in her for more then a friend. She is wondering right now "what does he want?" "is he interested in me??" all she can say is no which you need to find out so you can move on to your next target.
/r/seduction04/10/14 05:43 AM
1

just ask... seriously grow some balls and talk to her after class and ASK her for her number and/or ask her out on a date DO IT! and google oneitis
/r/seduction04/10/14 05:13 AM
2

oneitis google it
/r/seduction04/10/14 04:55 AM
1

very few stop, engage with me and are creeped out Obviously, a rare few do intrinsically find the notion of being stopped on the street "creepy", perhaps they tell their friends about me "the weird guy" who stopped them. But that's cool with me as long as it is a minority. you changed directions there so many times and I'm calling you out for it. Why? because you should of just said But that's cool with me this is all that should matter. None of us should give a shit about what a girl says and d…
/r/seduction01/10/14 04:36 PM
1

Well said. You were able to get your thoughts on the subject out better than I. If guys think "how can I be less creepy" every time they approach they will never leave the house much less talk to people they are attracted too.
/r/seduction01/10/14 04:29 PM
4

creepy - girls use this tag for many different uses. if a guy is more than 2 yrs older he may be "creepy" if he has facial hair he may be "creepy" or has tattoo's etc. Or if he is direct, honest whatever. To me it is a turnoff to hear a girl say it, even when describing other guys
/r/seduction29/09/14 05:32 PM
4

i would of thrown the bitch a $20, Might have saved him a lot of bullshit
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 10:17 PM
3

I imagine my wife would tell our Daughter the same thing. I'm divorced and speak to neither of them
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 05:25 PM
12

this is seriously very good advice. I thought and acted similarly many times (both sides) When I was younger a beautiful redhead friend (never made it past a peck on the cheek) would enjoy teasing and flirting with me but date and F*** my friends. I was seriously nuts about her. Hard lesson learned.
/r/seduction10/08/14 03:02 PM
1

we each have to use what we have. being blind is unique
/r/seduction08/08/14 08:24 PM
1

dating sites. This is just a great way to let someone get to know your personality and know about your blindness before meeting you in person. If you have a friend that can screen the girls you chose to respond too it would be helpful of course as well as taking a couple of good pics. Be direct and act fast though. Don't waste time with a lot of messaging. Get a meet up planned in under 3-4 messages.
/r/seduction08/08/14 08:22 PM
1

what is the saying that "you'll find girls with the least self esteem at a beauty pageant"?
/r/seduction28/07/14 06:41 PM
2

good advice. You have to be motivated by rejection or at least impervious to it. Similar to being a salesman and in a sense you are selling yourself each time you approach.
/r/seduction28/07/14 02:53 AM
1

that guy is brilliant
/r/seduction17/07/14 02:30 PM
1

For some meeting in person is easier. I think the younger a person is in general makes it easier. You do have to get over the amount of rejection online dating has but who cares I mean it's all a numbers game anyway. To really get away from the oneitis it's the next step. You've already recognized that you are hooked on her which is really important. You said she has daddy issues right? What are your ages?
/r/seduction17/07/14 02:22 PM
2

I would put as much effort to "bone" another chick ASAP. Tinder POF whatever throw your energy into that. Make it ALL you think about (well besides a real job or work that is) The more you look at other girls profiles and meet and F other chicks you will put this little user in your rear view mirror. edit: It's obvious you can't ignore her since she is part of your friend circle. Next time you are out with your friends do a little experiment. Instead of engaging her, observe her. Watch how she i…
/r/seduction16/07/14 04:09 PM
1

not really (been there but) still had sex
/r/seduction15/07/14 12:30 AM
2

mostly most of the time
/r/seduction15/07/14 12:29 AM
3

It's just a mental block. You have to have a IDGAF attitude. You will never see these girls again right? Who cares if they think you are a horny perv who just asked them to give you a BJ or for sex? Just DO IT man! Keep going from girl to girl untill you get a yes.
/r/seduction12/07/14 02:42 PM
2

very nice and inspiring!
/r/seduction30/06/14 04:52 PM
1

You just have to be more aggressive when you are in that situation and kiss her. What is the worst thing that could happen???
/r/seduction30/06/14 02:14 PM
1

Have you tried Tinder or OKCupid? I mean just go on and open up your list of negs, meet and do it. Don't waste a lot of time with Txts or Emails (3- 4) before making a "date" at a public place. Place and time Do both and don't ask her when or if she is available just do it.
/r/seduction29/06/14 11:12 PM
1

Learn to be a good listener. What I mean is work work into conversation small things she has already mentioned or you have observed about her from knowing her. This can be very small things. She will be impressed that you have listened or just noticed and remembered it. While she is talking keep eye contact (don't look at cell or be distracted) and make mental notes about her story. Nod (to agree) or vocalize a short response (don't interrupt). Too many people don't know how to do the above and …
/r/seduction29/06/14 10:59 PM
1

Your chances will go up but still having relationship conversational skills will help you get more sex from higher quality babes. Listening (really listening) where you make comments and remember key points of your partners convo is so under-used in the technology age.
/r/seduction22/06/14 02:45 PM
9

I couldn't afford a lawyer the second time. The judges advice to me was to "guess what?" get a lawyer. He didn't do a damn thing to stop the process edit: Oh I forgot... my wife bribed the kids (sweetheart huh?) into signing a "I want to live with my mother order" as my Daughter was old enough 12 I believe to do so. I was hurt, terribly. When I read his note a lot of that hurt came back.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 01:52 AM
55

My first wife left her two children (9 & 10) and me for a slutty party lifestyle. I was granted custody because she didn't give a shit and only for that reason. The children though benefited by being in a stable household where they did chores and made high grades in school. Then, the bitch found a sucker to marry, went back to court and for no other reason then she was tired of paying child support she took them away from me... for good. No visitation etc. The system is truly fucked. and btw My…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 06:02 PM
2

word
/r/seduction09/05/14 07:29 PM
3

show interest, get girl, tell her you aren't ready for relationship but really want "to stay friends" get other numbers. the more "friends" you get the seemingly easier it will be to get more girls... not sure what this effect is called but it works. When females see you hanging out with other cute girls your hot factor goes up or so it goes
/r/seduction07/05/14 12:48 AM
9

if I had gold I would give....
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 08:45 PM
1

someone else said to not put "the pussy on a pedestal" I concur. Also, dating & getting laid just doesn't happen. It takes work (look at it as a part-time job) with being on several dating sites (OKCupid, POF, Tinder, etc) checking it every day and working at it. edit... You should also put yourself out there like doing Meetups with ppl with similar interests. Going to places where you have an opportunity to meet ppl. you should set min hrs per week to put into ea of these endeavors and stick to…
/r/seduction07/04/14 11:48 PM
10

i really like the last one "PLAY THE REJECTION GAME". Knowing or even expecting rejection before getting to club. Interesting take.
/r/seduction16/02/14 08:25 PM
4

http://www.newmalecontraception.org/vasalgel/
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 11:16 PM
1

I generally agree with this that is until you have sex with them and/or have a sexual relationship. You can be nice to them then and still have sex but it gets harder and harder to end relationship.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 11:53 PM
2

good useful post.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 04:09 PM
8

good point.. i should add, look for issues she is discussing that you can identify with, then tell your story/instance to her. great bonding technique
/r/seduction18/01/14 09:55 PM
9

Funny thing is when I meet girls I listen intently to what they are saying and formulate a conversation then. If I say "How did your day go?" and she says "It was shit, my boss dumped a load of work on my desk..." I would say "That sucks... Does he do that a lot?" then keep it going. Girls many times want guys who listen really.
/r/seduction18/01/14 05:26 PM
18

yes and no... depends on what your motives are IMO. It's a good point though. If you just want to get laid and walk away don't talk about that stuff... If you want a relationship talk about it early don't wait
/r/seduction18/01/14 05:23 PM
16

i've seen some shit videos posted in here and this isn't one of them.... so many guys could use this info. good stuff
/r/seduction18/01/14 05:21 PM
1

this type of "Bro" banter has kept me from being one. I'm not very social with guys. I've had some bad experiences with Bro romances so I'm basically done. Girls? Very different
/r/seduction15/01/14 12:57 AM
-2

seriously??? I am feeling female cashiers cringe at your comment and are fearing a deluge of dudes hitting on them.
/r/seduction14/01/14 04:08 AM
1

just make casual comments... if they are interested they will let you know. As everyone else has said leave Service Industry chicks alone. It's their JOB to be nice to you.
/r/seduction14/01/14 04:07 AM
3

there is a lot of advice about face to face club style meetings in r/seduction. I suck at this type of interaction so I have met most of the women in my sex life online. I have a friend with an Apple AP that you pick out 5 girls you like in your area then the girls are shown your pic in the same search and if they pick you, Voila date and 1 step closer to closing (I think this app is similar to grinder...) So, anyway I suggest getting this app, OK Cupid, POF and go for it. Don't focus too much o…
/r/seduction13/01/14 12:11 AM
1

7,8,9 & 11 for sure
/r/seduction24/12/13 08:35 PM
2

well said. I make general comments about weather, how crowded/empty this place is or about something general or relevant to the situation along with a smile. From there (as you said) a comment about either her response or something I have more background knowledge. I know this isn't groundbreaking information but it is something to use not just with a target female but with people in general. A real key is to take in all that she is saying with interest and tailor your replies with what she has …
/r/seduction07/12/13 03:28 PM
2

interesting as I have felt the same. It's like the inhibition is lowered when in a different location
/r/seduction28/11/13 05:32 PM
5

"Never put the pussy on a pedestal"
/r/seduction16/11/13 01:07 AM
1

way to go man... keep on keeping on!
/r/seduction25/10/13 04:44 PM
7

that style of hair looks nice on you
/r/seduction08/10/13 05:49 PM
2

alright I'll admit that's good
/r/seduction23/09/13 07:51 PM
5

what if you don't smoke?
/r/seduction23/09/13 06:29 PM
-1

I think meeting girls through dating sites is 100% easier. I hate single bars with a PASSION edit: forgot that I don't smoke and second hand smoke makes me sick
/r/seduction23/09/13 06:29 PM
1

x/post from /r/sex
/r/seduction22/09/13 01:08 PM
7

Yeah but you crossed over at first. You made the correct moves in the beginning which to me dis qualifies any future breakup as a friendzone tag
/r/seduction17/09/13 04:25 PM
26

so at first you had a physical relationship with her, then she dumped you for popularity, then you got back together? Not sure if this is a real friendzone situation but it is a great story
/r/seduction17/09/13 03:14 PM
0

More than likely when girls give a number out and chat (flirt) they typically have a boyfriend or a FWB already. Many girls who are very attractive are naturally flirts. New guys become "friends". Distance from girls who give you these lines and focus on moving on to girls who you have a real chance with. EDIT: or do what Chris_Baratheon said. Get to the point immediately. I've given others advice like this also. If you get a date or a hangout opportunity with her attempt a kiss at this time....…
/r/seduction16/09/13 01:30 PM
3

Well Hot guys marry Hot girls... No one said hot guys are just players.
/r/seduction15/09/13 04:06 PM
1

I understand. But this guy telling me how to converse? I don't mean to be negative but sheesh.
/r/seduction06/09/13 08:35 PM
9

It doesn't hurt that he is maybe 22, 6'2 and good looking either. Jus saying
/r/seduction06/09/13 03:39 PM
3

yeah that dude has something for sure... I never had that
/r/seduction23/08/13 03:30 AM
70

nice... do follow up with updates about how the dates went. I know there have been times (for me) when I get a verbal/txt acceptance but then get stood up. IF that happens slough it off and keep after the other commitments. Don't waste any time or seem disappointed if you get stood up, just brush it off like you could care less.
/r/seduction21/08/13 05:30 PM
2

like watching those bass experts fishing. you don't see them sitting them 20-30min not getting a bite
/r/seduction21/08/13 12:39 AM
4

it's a growing up lesson. next time be more aggressive and let the female of your desire KNOW that you want her sooner then later. I know it's risky but you need to learn to move quickly. If they say they aren't interested FINE! You now know and can move on to the next girl and so on till you find one that is. Never spend more then a week to 10 days finding out if a girl is interested or not. Life is too short!
/r/seduction21/08/13 12:07 AM
1

Sometimes it's the women who post. I can only imagine.
/r/seduction08/08/13 06:26 PM
2

Or just freeze up. I learned along time ago to have no regrets. Seize the moment, which is what is talked about a lot here.
/r/seduction08/08/13 06:25 PM
5

I've read those missed connection posts. I've always thought they were really lame. If you can't go up to someone and talk to them in public why would they want to start an email relationship with you???
/r/seduction08/08/13 04:28 PM
1

As an older guy who does like to bang younger girls, you have good points. Some of your assumptions about experience and such are just that assumptions, each person he meets will have a different past. I have met most everyone including my wife through online dating sites as well as CraigsList (Friends only) lol
/r/seduction16/07/13 05:58 PM
1

tried posting ads on dating sites like Craigslist?
/r/seduction15/07/13 02:33 AM
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