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Red Pill Exampletyofwa/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 03:05 AM
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Field Reporttyofwa/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 04:07 PM
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Red Pill Theorytyofwa/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 09:41 PM
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Red Pill Exampletyofwa/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 06:56 PM
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Field Reporttyofwa/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 01:00 AM
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Red Pill Theorytyofwa/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 09:03 PM
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Red Pill Theorytyofwa/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 05:00 AM
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Red Pill Exampletyofwa/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 04:24 AM
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Red Pill Exampletyofwa/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 12:45 AM
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Blue Pill Exampletyofwa/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 05:50 PM
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Great post. As I read this I think about my evening tonight. Got into a verbal fight with my wife and really wanted to talk about it. Although I decided not to share the story with the group, I often listen in on the other stories about people's lives and for a moment I think I found a pub somewhere with just the sort of people I want to have a beer with. When I see a newcomer walking through the front door I want to welcome them in more than I want to set them straight. I think there's merit in…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 07:33 AM
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In the immortal words of John Goodman, "Fuck you".
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 05:19 AM
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More to the point, set the right precedent and she will find a way to support you.
/r/askTRP02/02/15 10:21 PM
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early '40s here.. Agree with this in principle, but I agree that breaking a beta pattern of vagina worship is possible through prostitution. Like Aristotle said, "Moderation in everything"
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 06:03 PM
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One approach would be to wait for her to seek affirming comments about her appearance. Every girl I know does this with the men close to her. You can initiate a conversation balanced with compliments about her characteristics you like. Then, as the dialogue flows, ask her how long she has struggled with acne. Get HER opinion of it, what she has had to endure because of it, and more importantly WHAT SHE HAS TRIED TO DO ABOUT IT. You may be surprised to learn that what appears to you to be no acti…
/r/askTRP31/01/15 05:22 PM
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If cage fighting is who you are, then that is the high-order bit. If who you are isn't right for her or her social circles, then it may be a something she has to accept or this isnt the right relationship for her. cage fighting is a pretty extreme example, but the precedent it sets is vital. Perhaps you will want to race a car at the local county track, or get into rock climbing, or any number of risky hobbies. F#@king do it and kick ass at it! It is how you choose to lead your life and she can …
/r/askTRP31/01/15 05:01 PM
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e guilt and shame at hurting someone who is not a bad person... for feeling like I stabbed someone in the back... for inevitably feeling selfish -- you know -- how do I keep Beta thoughts from killing my drive to be a better me? The 1st step is introspection which you clearly show with this statement. The reality is that you will miss her for a while; and you would not be human if you didnt. Your path in life isnt compatible with who she is. That isnt a flaw in either person's character; it simp…
/r/askTRP31/01/15 04:27 PM
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I told her that doesn't mean I don't have my own plans, and her response was "Fine, whatever. Do your shit then lol". Wow!! She literally puts the SHIT in Shit Test. Reading the comments you failed, bro. I bet the sex will be cooler tonight.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 02:57 AM
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(Married man).. Meaningful gift and flowers. Surprise restaurant, probably sweaty sex later.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 02:53 AM
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Highly unlikely in 5 years. It will change when the Marxist / Feminists no longer own the narrative. That is unlikely to occur until we feel catastrophic pain. Here is a touch of optimism - Traverse the world enlightened; like Neo walking the matrix. Enjoy the positive benefits of less competition!
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 09:34 PM
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41 this year. No question about it - I would not have married 18 years ago. Typical disclaimers apply; I love my kids. We are still married, but Im walking the tightrope between a divorce [rape] and a happy life on my terms. My youngest son learned BP traits from me and I deeply regret that the most. Though I may have swallowed the pill over a year ago, I didn't practice it until last Aug. Nearly everything changed for the better. Now I'm faced with the task of re-raising my nearly grown childre…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 09:28 PM
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There is a lot of merit to the concept that we grow as human beings based on experiences serving others. That said, you could plant a tree, serve food to the homeless, or any number of charitable causes. Three years before my marriage I dated a Single Mom Crazy. My BP mind tolerated most of it, up until the moment she yelled at her 3YO son - "If you dont shut up right now I'm going to drive you out to the woods and leave you there" That moment crystallized in my mind; over 20 years ago and I can…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 06:23 PM
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Never stick your dick in crazy. The sex is indeed amazing, but not worth the risk. Imagine every consequence you read in the RP forum, then add to that stalking, car keying, "frienimies" on fb, etc.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 06:17 PM
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Holy shit that site is fucked! Check out their "Cad list".
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 05:22 PM
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As someone who studied, wrote about, and taught classes on the Constitution, I can say with conviction that there are no longer limited and enumerated powers constraining the Federal Government. Furthermore, only the loosest tatters of our Bill of Rights remains. Right is irrelevant; even the Wiemar Republic had a Constitution!
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 05:11 PM
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This is a terrific proof point that men can be "situational alphas". How many badass marines, firefighters, and oil rig workers are BP-pussies at home?
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 07:03 PM
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This is known as the "Anger" phase.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 01:22 AM
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Been married 18 years so cant comment on how this would impact the dating scene directly. Indirectly, I recall dealing with the date who would always answer her phone. I was so BP back then my course of action was to occupy myself while she would talk. If it went on more than a couple of minutes I would give her a look. Ugh. Just typing these words makes me long for a time machine so I could go kick my younger ass.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 09:30 PM
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"I can't" needs to be there too
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 09:05 PM
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August 22 was my RP-wakeup call for fitness. Those around here know that as the day the "Dont be like Bruce" thread came up. Now 5 months later I'm getting noticed at the office for my physique. On occasion a colleague will ask me "what are you doing?" Initially I would answer with a long diatribe about StrongLifts 5x5 and nutritional changes. Now I simply say "Investing in myself". Other than the colleagues who are close to me, I don't offer tips / encouragement / advice, etc. Even to the inner…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 05:22 PM
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Well this wasn't supposed to be a Chad McThundercock story of which I have read enough. That made me laugh outloud. Thanks for sharing incremental progress and not some pseudo-bullshit conquest.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 05:10 PM
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Again, time to summon Eddie Murphy raw orgasm scene.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 04:57 PM
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Time to cue up Eddie Murphy Raw.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 04:47 PM
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If the kitten did not want me, then I don't want the cat.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 04:40 PM
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Many bitchy, crazy women seem normal, even nice, when you first start getting to know them. Then three months into the relationship you unwisely agreed to, you’re dealing with a psychopath. Okay; I'w with you.. this pertains to the age-old saying "dont stick your dick in Crazy". Now the $1m dollar question: how do you know they are crazy before the 3 month point?
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 01:03 AM
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Okay, now rephrase your statement in a more stoic / OI frame.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 10:17 PM
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Upvoted because I laughed out loud
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 07:30 AM
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We talk about Alpha and Beta as binary terms. I believe that people start out at different spectrums of these levels. I also believe that for us we can become the "AMOG" situationally. For some it may be the Police Chief showing leadership at work. Alternately, it may be the Uber geek getting dressed up for Comic Con. Some of the most reprehensible betas Ive known were Alpha gods when playing online Quake matches or playing WOW. So what we are really talking about is how to demonstrate alpha beh…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 07:26 AM
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Excellent post. The RP journey begins in frustration, grows into anger, and matures into stoic awareness; akin to a new level of awareness for our reality. I made a similar decision to focus on preserving my marriage following the ingestion of our fabled "red pill". My wife and I crossed the tipping point you speak of. The details are in a thread regarding a food-based shit test. As I type this my wife and daughter returned with me from working out. Im stronger than any point in my life; and we …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 07:10 AM
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This would be a seriously amazing AMA. At a minimum we would appreciate pointers on getting started with many of your suggestions.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 10:17 PM
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I’m 41 this month. If a time machine enabled me to talk with my 20-YO self, here is my advice: Accomplish shit. Remember that 1st computer you built in 1993 and the day it took to figure out your SLIP/PPP settings to surf the internet from your modem? More of that. Remember all those cool ideas you had which would use technology to make the world a better place and you a lot of money? GO DO THEM. FAIL. DO SOME MORE. FAIL SOME MORE. Then you will succeed. Build your circle. Friends, colleagues, c…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 08:39 PM
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Eddie's classic Johnny Carson bit is in order here
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 07:57 PM
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Classic stuff. Now for some RP truth from a woman's POV. Pay close attention to where she placed the fun zone. Also, notice how she instantly rules out >$250k men at 6:30. What she was positing as safety really translated to "these men were always out of my league and should be for you too".
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 07:03 PM
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You attempted to have civil discourse with someone steeped in negative emotions and attitudes of institutionalized victimization. What outcome did you expect?
/r/MensRights26/12/14 06:45 PM
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Seriously consider taking a 200 level public speaking class at your local college. I considered myself to be a strong public speaker and the class was NOT an easy A. Colleagues report that my speaking ability is much better now.
/r/askTRP24/12/14 07:13 AM
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Ill stick with "dont talk about Fight Club". Every day I learn more about RP, the more it becomes obvious that there is a shortage of Real Men (TM). It is fun seeing how hungry women are for real masculinity. Just dont go overtly against the narrative. :-)
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 06:52 AM
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Thanks OP for raising this topic. The behavior OP complains about will ALWAYS happen from women, but this is a key BP manifestation in males too. When you are practicing RP techniques, be on the lookout for this tendency in your own behavior, and be on the lookout for it in your male friends. Instant tells are statements like- "I know just how you feel.. Once when I..." "Yeah, that sucks.. I remember when I..." No man is an island. We need safe zones to vent and BE HEARD. When you are the one pr…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 10:05 PM
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Excellent advice in the replies, but I encourage you to heed it AFTER the following - Your post was well thought out and captured your core thoughts and feelings. But re-read it. Count how many times you blame others for your situation. Before any real changes can happen, you must accept that your situation is of your own making. Take responsibility for both the negatives and positives. Know that every step you make in the coming months to better yourself are choices solely in your control. Each…
/r/askTRP22/12/14 04:46 AM
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"Ill give you a closer view of one"
/r/askTRP22/12/14 04:20 AM
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what is your question?
/r/askTRP22/12/14 04:19 AM
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Consider going Monk for a while; your attitude is full of self-pity and external obligation.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 03:23 AM
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The parallels between personal and business life are staggering. TL;DR of this post is to never burn a bridge when it can be avoided. OP's strategy is to make it her idea which is also another key tactic in business. More than once in the working world my team was paired up with a person or group with inept capabilities to deliver. Severing those relationships required a finesse such that ultimately it turned out to be the idea of the other party to close things down.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 03:18 AM
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You have it under control. Never stick your dick in crazy. Now you know, time to NEXT her. Great call on keeping your cool. If there is ever a next time you should casually turn your phone on open mic with a recording app. Get the audio of everything. If things get too aggressive, I would recommend overtly pointing the phone at her and let her know she is about to be the next 1m view youtube video.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 03:09 AM
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Similar experience Friday.. Wife picked me up from work, we were headed out to a movie with the kids. I asked where we were picking up my daughter and wife was pissed over their last conversation and proceeded to take me through EVERY FUCKING DETAIL of their interaction with full editorial on each statement. After 3m of this I cut her off and insisted she focus on answering my Q. Wife gets REALLY pissed and insists I listen to her. it is "how she processes" and I need to get used to it. I let he…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 09:23 PM
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[Race agnostic reply] Grow a pair. Dont "beta up" like the comments suggest. If you are really improving your masculinity then a beta fake will look like bullshit, AND it might actually backfire. Hypergamy's 1st rule - Women will seek to land the highest status male they can. You need to set expectations that you are not in her league. That means - Straight up tell her that you are not attracted to her romantically. Turn into a ghost on texts / phone calls. Let the communication run cold. DONT h…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 11:00 PM
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He is playing with fire (almost literally in the case of Gonorrhea). Atol's MMSL spells out how to deal with a wife's closed pussy the right way. Your buddy was not willing to wait. I get that it sucks that the wife is playing that game, but the chips are stacked against us in court and that $60 will cost a helluva lot more if it comes to light. If there are kids in the marriage it will cost as well. This is NOT the high road. Throughout TRP's lessons, there is an underpinning of what makes a ma…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 10:50 PM
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Ill consider it after the holidays.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 05:19 PM
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In other words, I'm responsible for the big picture and the motivation, she's responsible for the details. This is the heart of TRP influences in my marriage. Each day I become more convinced that most women seek this style of complimentary relationship balance. Three key words - Complimentary, Relationship, and BALANCE. In our marriage we moved past the political influences / bullshit. We defined our roles based on what suits our personalities, interests, and talent. She REALLY likes the direct…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 05:11 PM
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OP frames this phenomenon as abundance for a woman and he is spot-on. As a father of a 21YO daughter I can sadly confirm that the observations from the woman's POV are correct in our house. Let me share some additional ones – The thing is that messaging to many young women became a source of personal affirmations; something like a security blanket of attention. Naturally the HB8+ crowd considers her group of texters to be primarily in the friend zone; like little teddy bears neatly arranged on h…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 09:17 PM
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i don't know who i am, and it feels like there is too much to work on. A couple re-reads through and this appears to be the essence of your message. 99% of the replies to you have spot-on advice so Ill keep it brief. Accomplish SOMETHING WORTHWHILE. Anything. Could be a sport, could be skateboarding, could be programming an app, could be running a marathon. Set a meaningful goal and bust your ass to achieve it. Then achieve another goal. And another. The recipe is simple - the more time you focu…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 04:53 PM
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I took a public speaking course last fall. Thought it was an easy A. Turned out to be the hardest A- I ever earned. Seriously.. the course was fundamental. Not only do I deliver better speeches, but my writing style for formal presentations improved too. Another benefit - Most courses will dive into the academics of argument styles. The course armed me with a rich understanding of argument fallacies (like strawman or false comparatives). We learned to speak better as well as think critically.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 04:54 PM
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OP is SPOT ON with This - Stare Death in the face, and head straight in its direction. This boy has become a Man. He is Living his Mission and is able to do so because he's accepted Death. The reason He's able to Live out his Mission, or His life experiences, is because He fearlessly moves in the direction towards Death. Shakespeare quote "‘By my troth, I care not; a man can die but once; we owe God a death and let it go which way it will he that dies this year is quit for the next." can be foun…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 04:32 PM
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As of tonight, he is dumped. I recapped this experience from the perspective of us (the parents) because we were able to hold frame and not take her actions personally. It would have been a much larger strain on all of us if we had let our emotions drive our response.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 07:12 AM
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The scorpion is primal. We (the parents) teach the pragmatic.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 07:07 AM
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Please ellaborate on why my daughter's observation that I'm more "alpha" caused you to cringe. As for the video, Ill provide some additional context - We talked from 12:30 - 2:15 am Sat night / Sunday morning when she broke down. I explained how "relationship momentum" can cause us to stay in a situation we otherwise would not. 3 months in, she may have not broken it off because he will be "crushed", he bought a ring, he may stalk her if she leaves, etc. I asked her to imagine getting to this po…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 07:06 PM
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This may be worth a separate post.. I framed running our household like "rolling a boulder". It is hard as hell to get started but much easier when it has momentum and we both push from the same direction. My side of the boulder includes (but not limited to..) the following: Most long-term money matters. Retirement, keeping major bills covered, bringing in the income, saving & planning for vacations, holding the line on no debt (sans primary residence). Keeping the mechanical stuff in good shape…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 06:29 PM
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Post was deleted, so this is probably for just you - I want a marriage like Rollo's. The more I move that direction the happier my wife has become (her own words). Again, the AIT context is about a lesson plan and journey.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 06:11 PM
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My recommendation: "Figure out a reasonable incremental delivery point, and get a meeting with your customer called right away. You need to set expectations on current progress and the remaining time necessary to complete the project." Her boss doesnt care about sleepless nights or underestimated workloads. The boss doesnt care about earning a 93 in college. This is real world and performance affects bottom lines and reputations. She needs to get in front of this ASAP. So, take a melatonin pill …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 06:05 PM
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Im upvoting this to get the conversation going, but agree that this is a borderline concern troll. I agree in principle that your citations don't define Alpha. However, the true Alphas are probably not hanging out in this forum unless they have a teaching motivation (like Rollo's occasional posts). Consider the rest of us to be Alphas in Training (AIT). Through this lens, consider any progressive academic process; Ill use math as an example: If you are confident performing addition with four-fig…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 05:54 PM
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At that point in your life would you have listened?
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 04:59 PM
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In 18 years of marriage, my wife still asks indirectly. She will deny wanting to know officially, but it is clear she keeps a mental tally of all the "confirmed" history. There is nothing positive to gain by sharing the information. Conversely there is a lot to lose because it will come back in one form or another.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 04:48 PM
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Great question. I have to take responsibility for that. 2014 was a year of change for me, and my journey to be a better man made me a better father too. I have a lot of bad training to undo.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 06:33 AM
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Just commit to the change. Tired? That will pass. Weak? That will change. Depressed? Probably based in a lack of accomishment. If that guy on the tele was your wake up call, then DONT HIT THE SNOOZE BUTTON. Two months from now the man looking back at you in the mirror will be more fit, more assertive, and more successful.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 01:04 AM
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Modern cast iron is better than no cast iron, but I would strongly recommend getting an "old-school" pan. They have a ground surface, made from better material, and hold seasons longer. Grizwold, National, or Wagner are all good bets. They can be found on ebay regularly. Prep the pans this way: Test them for lead!! Many pans were used for melting down lead at some point in their life and you don't want to risk exposure Place the pan into the oven on a brick over a cookie sheet, and then run a "c…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 05:31 PM
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You didn't say why you want to quit. Either you need to stop for some Work related reason like a job or you are concerned about how consuming cannabis affects you. If it's the latter, then it may be effective to taper off the habit. I prefer to toke up late at night right before bed. I do this for two reasons- to limit the possibilitty of munchies, and to get a good night 's sleep. As you can see from the comments, weed isn't intrinsically bad; it can be mentally addictive. If you sense that thi…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 03:24 AM
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Kudos and thanks! Things are going better, but I have lots of legacy habits to undo in myself and the family. Both children are responding positively, but in the larger context this change is still really new. Enjoy the journey..
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 04:58 AM
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because it even keeps me back from joining in gym, i feel like other people will mock me. I had to jump in on this one. I'm three months into hitting the gym regularly and now my former fat ass is looking better. What was day 1 like? Pretty strange. Here is a room full of machines, weights, and people. Most of them knew what they were doing or at least acted like it. what the hell did I know? I wandered from one thing to the next, not knowing what weight setting to apply... and I felt small, unw…
/r/becomeaman22/11/14 12:49 AM
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Ill do a separate post on it. Lots of dynamics at play, but at the core of it I laid out that the only reason I care is that my daughter and future grandkids will be happier if they are in a family with a happy, well balanced, and in-control guy. If he wants my blessing then it requires demonstrating that he can be a leader in this relationship with respect and demonstration of high value. It may be feedback falling on deaf ears, but if I dont speak up now then I have to quietly watch the train …
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 12:07 AM
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A key struggle for me is to keep up the "mystery". Im in my 18th year of marriage and for the most part she knows me. I naturally discuss my thoughts on matters and my RP thoughts are no different. If I dont consciously stop myself from RP truths, they just come out. This has been particularly hard considering our daughter and her new guy. The wife and I are EXACTLY on the same page, and yet I cant tell her why I feel the way I do because it will tip my hand regarding tactics and techniques Im u…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 12:02 AM
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My intention to keep the posts separate regarding my daughter centered around these exact issues. Traversing my role as dad and her desire to.. well.. hamster is tough! Things are unfolding pretty positively now, but I need to give it a couple more weeks before sharing it with the group. Ill say this - - when it comes to rational discussions with her there is extremely little logic and prudence; it is nearly entirely emotion. Try making RP arguments in that context! Ugh!
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 11:58 PM
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Maybe Im missing a key point in this message, but something about the "seeking approval" part turns me off. This group is like Fight Club. Therefore we don't get to LEARN from many outside sources because they simply don't exist. Furthermore, as we all make progress to become more alpha / masculine / assertive / fit / <insert accomplishment/> ... most of us seek out coaching, mentorship, and encouragement during the transition. Think back to Mr Miaguai (sp?) and DanielSon... he made him wax cars…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 04:21 PM
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Lots of personal growth, keep it up! Staying with the ship metaphor, think of your early 20's as the last phase of "Drydock" before your ship sets sail. Get the hard work for your career and life direction done now! The journey never ends, but education, large financial risk, understanding the type of women you prefer, working out habits etc.. all of these things are best accomplished before your professional life & serious LTR/marriage phase is solidly underway. You will always make course corr…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 03:44 PM
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I strongly recommend reading "Married Man Sex Life Primer". For those of us in LTRs we intend to keep, the information is vital. It is worth noting that being 100% red pill probably isn't going to work in an LTR. The more I learn the more I realize it is about proportions; I was 20% alpha and 80% beta 6 months ago. I inverted that and the relationship turned around for the better. Would I dial it up to 100% and abstain from ANY beta behaviors? Nope. There is a time and place to provide support a…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 10:00 PM
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The feedback regarding leadership is excellent, and the root cause of your situation. I strongly recommend reading "Married Man Sex Life Primer". Along with a healthy dose of humor, the author lays out plans for males in scenarios similar to yours. The more you act like a leader, the more she will positively respond to following your lead.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 03:58 PM
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My son went with me to the gym and saw the whole thing go down. He is torn because it was a clear power play in front of him. Not ideal IMHO. If more crap comes in, I'll pitch it in front of the wife away from the kids. TRP / holding frame is all well and good, but as much as possible parents need to be a united front for the kids. Forcing a child to take a side is dangerous and damaging.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 12:36 AM
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I genuinely had a visceral reaction to the Mac and cheese comment. Routinely I will come home to find that my son has cooked and downed a WHOLE BOX of that shit as an after school snack.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 12:22 AM
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Give a woman any responsibility over anything significant and she will weaponise it to fuck with you at some point. It's just how they are. Cooking your own shit and learning to cook is all a part of independence. The family LOVES it when I cook. Typically it happens on the weekend but sometimes on the weekday too. To your point about gating significant responsibility, Ill respectfully disagree. I would rather not be married than be in a marriage where I have to harbor 100% of all responsibility…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 07:59 PM
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Yeah, in hindsight I should have worded that differently. The key message was to paint a bright line indicating that should she decide to use that tactic again, the next action will be divorce papers without the chance to reconcile. Without the additional context, that may seem harsh. Its debatable whether or not explaining the basis for my position was a mistake. Frankly, I think she knew she had that card and my statement let her know I knew about it too. Strategically one could argue both cou…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 07:54 PM
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Thanks. I crossed 214 this morning and dont plan to slow down until 190. I wont be a dick about it, but next week Ill sign up for a class and let her know that I want to go together as partners. It may be a bit blue pill, but I do recognize that I'm pulling a 180deg change in my life quickly. I want to be careful about how quickly she will alter to accommodate. I wont wait forever, but I do think she could use more than 5 weeks.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 06:01 PM
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Im using a separation tactic - It is my place as a father to ensure that my children are properly nourished. Though it is an implied statement about her eating habits, I'm not going to directly call her out about what she consumes. I see the Jack-in-the-box bags in the trash from time to time, and every now and then I find boxes of donuts stashed around the house. There is a very real psychological problem happening. After 17 yrs of blue-pill "encouragement", it is clear that she must decide how…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 05:45 PM
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Straight up masturbation? I'm calling bullshit on that one. The "Bruce" thread was a big one and made the sticky list. A key component of that thread was the message of getting off your ass and start making changes. The TRP forum informs, motivates, and celebrates masculinity. When a lurker (like I was) chooses to engage instead of just read, it is inspiring. Giving credit to the OP of "Bruce" also carries value too. For the record, I didn't wipe the sweat off of my face pushing the extra mile p…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 10:56 PM
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Excellent book. It continues to change my life for the better. My 14yo son started high school this week. He could use more help than simply my encouragement. I hope a future version of this book could be targeted for teens. There is a lot of deprogramming needed at the youngest possible age.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 07:41 PM
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Brilliant post. Some additions worth consideration: Neg SMV For women: Fat = "BBW" Ugly = Great personality Unshaven = Natural Childish = Sensitive Unaccountable = Indecisive (they can drop task commitments by changing their minds) Homely or unkempt = Independent Misogynist = Anything other than fully accepting modern feminism This cheat sheet is a great idea. Thanks for starting!
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 10:25 PM
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How about something like "get ahold of yourself" or "How is that crying going to help?" Perhaps something a little more direct like "you are acting like a child. why are you crying about such trivial shit?"
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 09:04 PM
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The Y was open till 10 last night. I was really angry and pushed pretty hard. After a cool down it felt really great. The embarrassing part was watching others in there running reps on stacks I used to do, and I was winded on 1/2 the weight. Oh well; gotta start ( or restart ) somewhere. Thanks for the boot in the ass.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 03:36 PM
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Fuck.. This hit too close to home. I turned 40 this year. Got the 2 kids, the fat wife, the 225lb body on my 6'3 frame. And to top it off, I drive 1 hr each way to my cushy software job. Worse yet (no shit..). I packed workout clothes this morning to start a routine this afternoon. Traffic sucked and I was tired to headed home instead. Chowed down on some pasta and red sauce.. Picked up my iPad and read this post. I'm mad and ashamed at myself. Gotta go; the gym closes in 45m and I'm not losing …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 03:43 AM
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Follow up.. So at 12:22 my phone rings; it's the wife. I send it straight to voice mail. She was calling to ask a trivial question about some dinner plans we have tonight. Follows up with a text. At 1:01 I txt reply with an answer. There is NO DOUBT she wanted to interrupt my lunch with a random no -time sensitive question. She is still wondering who was with me for lunch, but in order to profess trust in me she can't nag me about it too much... So what is left? She proceeds to text flirt with m…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 12:02 AM
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Nice move. The hard part is I learned is staying in character (remember to fake it till you can make it)... After a RP action gets the woman pissed. Last week I downloaded The Rational Male and then this morning I had my first shit test from my wife of 18 years. Last night wife and I have amazing sex after a week of Alpha flirting.. This morning she asks to drive in and meet me for lunch. I say sorry, I can't today. She asks "oh, ok... Who are you having lunch with?" (Me)- " it doesn't matter". …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 04:09 PM
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The responses in the main thread are even more pathetic! The key theme is "go to counseling" rather than "grow a pair". Those in my sphere of friends who suffered the gauntlet of counseling all faced the worst kind of BP indoctrination. A person wrapped in the cloak of professional authority calmly and condescendingly will instruct men to bow down for their wives. My buddy questioned his own sanity trying to grapple with the conflicting emotions of being a man with the clearly clinically "correc…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 03:42 PM
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