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| 2 | x-post from /r/sportsNo, but none of 42's action is consistent with somebody looking for the ball. 42 is assaulting/sexually assaulting that player. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/17 09:47 PM |
| 2 | x-post from /r/sportsAre you familiar with the game of football? | /r/MensRights | 01/01/17 09:39 PM |
| 1 | x-post from /r/sportsWhat do you think is happening in this gif? | /r/MensRights | 01/01/17 09:36 PM |
| 3 | "Why we should no longer consider Last Tango in Paris 'a classic'" Brought to you by the ABC, Australia's tax-funded answer to The Guardian.No, but I'm not the court. I mean, what do you think rubbing a stick a butter around someone's ass without their consent sound like to you? | /r/MensRights | 05/12/16 08:37 PM |
| 2 | "Why we should no longer consider Last Tango in Paris 'a classic'" Brought to you by the ABC, Australia's tax-funded answer to The Guardian.What happened doesn't sound like rape, but it does sound like sexual assault or sexual abuse. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/16 03:24 PM |
| 5 | Can anyone explain to me why the US Olympic team had 61% women instead of a 50/50 split?Looks like the team failed to qualify for Rio. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/16 09:58 PM |
| 5 | Can anyone explain to me why the US Olympic team had 61% women instead of a 50/50 split?US didn't field a men's soccer team or a men's field hockey team. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/16 09:52 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]And now I've painted you into a corner. You talk about how you don't go in circles, but you do. You talk about intellectual courage and integrity, which you don't have. You've shown yourself nothing to be a hypocrite and a troll. All you have is the last word, which you think means something. It doesn't. | /r/MensRights | 14/08/16 11:55 AM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Guess this is all the intellectual courage and integrity you can muster up. | /r/MensRights | 14/08/16 12:14 AM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Now you're just heading into dead ends. | /r/MensRights | 13/08/16 08:17 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]You tried this already. You're going in circles. | /r/MensRights | 13/08/16 08:01 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]You've tried this already. | /r/MensRights | 12/08/16 01:48 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Not engaging? That's pretty hypocritical. | /r/MensRights | 12/08/16 10:40 AM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]By all means keep burying your head in the sand. | /r/MensRights | 12/08/16 10:31 AM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Don't take my word for it. Head down to your local library, ask the librarian for a dictionary, and look it up yourself. | /r/MensRights | 12/08/16 10:08 AM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]You've already tried this one. We're talking about feminism as a whole, not some splinter group. Again, I could show you the lesbian separatists and I'd have proven the opposite. You know this but are too dishonest to admit it. Sure, then I would say to those lesbian separatists that starting your own community that excludes certain groups is not equal, hence not very feminist. I never said there's anything wrong with that logic. Then don't say "we've already went over this" in response to a que… | /r/MensRights | 12/08/16 09:31 AM |
| 0 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]I want an example of some kind that would demonstrate willingness to go both ways and not just one way Equity feminism. If you won't take my word for it, just search the subreddit. You never said what's wrong with the logic. I never said there's anything wrong with that logic. If you think killing everyone is the path to equality, you're free to think that. That's just not the kind of equality I'm talking about. What the hell is the point in talking to you then? That's on you. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/16 08:44 PM |
| 0 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Out of context. If an example of feminism that even MRAs will get behind is not enough for you, then I don't know what is. Can't win them all, just like dictionary definitions. I'll take a good portion of MRAs. What's wrong with the logic then? We already went over this. Prove it. I'm open to change once it's reflected in the dictionary. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/16 07:53 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]I presume that was a typo. Yeah, it's suppose to read "She's a real life example of feminism...". Here's some examples of you asking: I'm asking you for a real world example Is there a single example of that ever occurring in the entire history of the movement? I want an example of some kind that would demonstrate willingness to go both ways Killing everybody is actually bringing about equality. Sucks when logic doesn't make you look good, right? That's not my logic. Somehow you got to there. So… | /r/MensRights | 10/08/16 04:43 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]The point is she's not representative of feminism. She's not a representative of feminism. She's a real life example of a feminism willing to go both ways, something you asked for. Which part of that reasoning do you have a problem with. Feminism is defined as something along the line of equality for women. People advocating for something about killing men or everybody is not equality. We already went over this. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/16 03:33 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]It's an example of what I'm saying, not what you're saying. Is she advocating for women's equality? And I think you fully understand that but are not honest enough to admit it. If it were acceptable to take her as an example of feminism, then so would Krista femitheist be. You're circling back pretty close to the that idea of killing everyone. So get some integrity and quit pretending not to understand that. The integrity is holding people to the dictionary definition. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/16 11:56 AM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]The War Against Boys is a real world example. She has a YouTube channel, Factual Feminist. Her willingness to go both ways has made her an ally to MRAs. Search for her name in this subreddit. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/16 08:24 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Equity feminism is about the willingness to go both ways. You should check out Sommers's The War Against Boys. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/16 08:09 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]I would suggest you check out equity feminism. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/16 05:44 PM |
| 2 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]No. Feminism has a history of criticizing itself, and there are branches of feminism. They all have a foundation based on the belief of women's equality. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/16 10:35 AM |
| 2 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Do you think equity and equality are the same thing? | /r/MensRights | 08/08/16 09:36 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Sure, if feminism is belief in women's equality, and that person is working towards that. | /r/MensRights | 08/08/16 07:33 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Christina Hoff Sommers is feminism in action that wants equality. | /r/MensRights | 08/08/16 11:51 AM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]This brings us back to Christina Hoff Sommers. | /r/MensRights | 08/08/16 01:01 AM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]If that's how you personally want to see it, that's fine. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/16 09:07 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]I think it's more closely just seen as the women's movement. Sure, a women's movement for equality. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/16 08:25 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Well then we're in agreement. Unless you still want to insist that those who have another definition are objectively incorrect. I've always insisted that people have been using it incorrectly compared to the dictionary. Absolutely not. While a definition is automatically also a meaning, the same is not true the other way round. Meaning is a much broader concept. A picture can have meaning. A facial expression or a poem can also have meanings. Sure, meaning can have a broader context, but I've be… | /r/MensRights | 07/08/16 02:34 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]So how is that statement supposed to persuade anyone that dictionaries have successfully described the general usage of feminism? It's not. If people have their own personal definition, or in your case no definition, that's fine. As the compilers of dictionaries, our job is to record the language as we see it being used today. The mantra we tend to intone on this subject is that dictionaries are ‘descriptive rather than prescriptive’: we aim to describe what’s actually going on in English rather… | /r/MensRights | 06/08/16 12:10 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]At no point did I say they were necessarily successful ;) In the case of feminism, they clearly aren't. If you want to say they are, then make a case for it. That's fine. General usage doesn't mean unanimous. You're slipping. Remember we had a back and forth in which it took forever to persuade you that I do not have a definition of feminism? Well, you've been using the word, so it has to stand for something. If you change the definition for it for whatever conversation you're having, that's on … | /r/MensRights | 05/08/16 09:41 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]You're the one who told me what dictionaries do: Dictionaries attempt to list the meanings of words by their general usage. Your personal definition of "feminism" has not achieved the standard of general usage. | /r/MensRights | 05/08/16 09:13 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]You already tried this. Here's what you said: Words do however have meanings that are agreed upon. Definitions are held to the highest standard in that regard. Dictionaries attempt to list the meanings of words by their general usage. Go look in a dictionary to see the general usage of "feminism". | /r/MensRights | 05/08/16 05:11 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]And I already told you that it cannot be incorrect when the meaning of words is determined by their usage and the usage of feminism is not equality. Yeah, and then I wrote: The dictionary defines incorrect as "not in accordance with particular standards or rules." The particular standard is being one of the definitions in the dictionary. If you want to make a secret language, knock yourself out. If you just want to go in circles, feel free to reread the conversation over and over. How about you … | /r/MensRights | 05/08/16 11:43 AM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Then you're simply wrong because, as you agreed, most people reject the term feminism yet believe in equality thereby clearly not using it that way. You already tried this. I addressed this with: The definition works fine. I can't help that people use words incorrectly, and other people go along with it. If anything, that makes you the one with the "secret language". Nothing secret about it. It's all in the dictionary. I didn't ask you what CHS thinks. I think what CHS think. Wherever you planne… | /r/MensRights | 04/08/16 06:02 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Does it or does it not correctly describe the usage of the word "feminism"? I believe it does. You can say my usage doesn't correspond to the dictionary but you cannot declare mine to be incorrect because of that. The dictionary defines incorrect as "not in accordance with particular standards or rules." The particular standard is being one of the definitions in the dictionary. If you want to make a secret language, knock yourself out. What words did I put in your mouth? I'm asking you a yes or … | /r/MensRights | 04/08/16 05:07 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]You've come a long way from "it means that and only that". Where did I say that? My position has always been the dictionary definition. Using something incorrectly in relation to something incorrect? I don't think the dictionary is incorrect. That's always been my position. You don't understand. In principle there's nothing "wrong" with using your own definition Sure, but like you said, "you cannot expect others to use it and you especially cannot declare them wrong for not using it." I mind you… | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 05:52 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]That means the word feminist is generally not used to mean equality of the sexes. No the word feminism still means something along the line of equality of the sexes. The issue is that people are bad at achieving that. Look, if you want to write to the dictionary, knock yourself out. Dictionaries simply list that usage and don't prescribe it. I agree. I simply just point out when people are using it incorrectly in relation to the dictionary. Sure, you can use your own personal definition of femin… | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 04:12 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Well, then I would have the same argument for OP if they're using the word incorrectly. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 02:25 PM |
| -1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]So you are flat out denying that the world largest Feminist organisation is Feminist? No. Just like you, I'm just pointing out the inconsistency between their beliefs and their actions Have you even considered that maybe, just maybe, you are the one who has gotten Feminism wrong? Yes. That's why I looked it up. In a dictionary. Seriously, this is the largest Feminist organisation there is, and yet some arsehole on the internet thinks that they're the "real" authority to speak on what Feminism is… | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 01:59 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]I don't care what anyone else means by the word, I only care what you mean by the word. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 01:20 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Looks like you're not the only one using the word incorrectly. It seems these so-called feminists have also been using it incorrectly. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 01:19 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Everything can be made to seem different. That's because it a lot of things are different. What about after birth? A pregnancy happened. What about the morning after pill etc? A pregnancy doesn't happen. A woman's choice is about pregnancy. If we were to have financial abortions, then a man's choice would be about legal status. It obviously doesn't or we wouldn't be having this argument. I realize you're never going to let go of your "definition" but at least you can concede that it's heavily un… | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 12:18 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]You let me know when they change the definition. Until then, you're using the word incorrectly. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 11:35 AM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Okay, feminism means the belief in women's equality. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 11:34 AM |
| 0 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Sure, the sky is green. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 05:05 AM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]That didn't work out so well for you. We had to look up "etymology". | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 05:03 AM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Then I'm not smart enough to help you understand. All I can say is when you don't know what a word means, look it up in the dictionary. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 04:59 AM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]the study of the origin of words and the way in which their meanings have changed throughout history. Yesterday was history. A few seconds was history. History updates constantly. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 04:52 AM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Yeah, etymology already accounts for usage. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 04:42 AM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]When talking about definitions, etymology is pretty much the gold standard. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 04:26 AM |
| 2 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]I can define the sky is green all I want. It's still blue. Exactly. You can define feminism as whatever all you want. It's still not that in the dictionary. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 04:08 AM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Etymology. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 04:08 AM |
| 2 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Really? So anybody who is pro-choice is automatically not a feminist then. Because pro-choice is automatically no-choice for the father - a blatant inequality that almost 100% of feminists passionately favor. No, because those people are making two different choices. The father is making the choice of whether another person should be going through a pregnancy or not. The mother is making the choice of whether she should go through with a pregnancy or not. I mean, we should all be for financial a… | /r/MensRights | 02/08/16 10:03 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]The dictionary definition is more useful than a similarity cluster. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/16 09:35 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]The definition is the definition. I mean, if you want to be like these so-called feminists who are using the word inaccurately, knock yourself out. If you want to add another definition to the word, I might be up for that. However, having a word with two meanings that are the opposite of each other is going to be confusing. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/16 04:08 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Sure. Those groups who violate the foundation of feminism should form their own group. They won't because they're weak. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/16 03:48 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Yeah, my logic allows for reality. When something is illogical in reality, it's still illogical. If someone illogical is talking, take it with a grain of salt. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/16 03:05 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]I mean, if your logic allows for contradictions, then I'm definitely not down with that. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/16 02:17 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Then they should consider themselves a separate group and honestly look at what they are doing. Why continue to play their mental gymnastic game of obscuring the definition of feminism? Just treat it simply and you can easily fall back on it when calling them out. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/16 02:06 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]the group of things that have many characteristics in common. So, what do you do with two contradicting beliefs/characteristics? Look, if you don't know how your own similarity cluster works, I don't know how you're going to convince me it's a good idea to go with that over a dictionary definition. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/16 01:55 PM |
| 2 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Sure there are Christians who have been bad. Just like there have been feminists who have been bad, and just like there have been MRAs who have been bad. They can be considered bad because they violated the foundation. I mean, if we're talking outside their belief system, then, sure, society will consider some Christians bad, a lot of feminists bad, and pretty much all MRAs bad. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/16 01:23 PM |
| 2 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]The followers whose actions match the foundation. Like feminists whose actions result in the equality of women. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/16 01:00 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Sure, but its foundation is fine. The US has a long history of bigotry, hatred, and downright bad actions, but I'm not going to throw it out. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/16 12:55 PM |
| 2 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]More like Christians not following the Bible. The foundation of feminism is fine, its follower and their actions do not match. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/16 12:53 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]They can't. That's the point. Hence it's not a definition. Okay, the failure is not in the definition, but the person. It's not my statement. I found that contradiction in your position. It's up to you to deal with it. There's no contradiction for me. If a person tells me they are a feminist who also believes that men and women are inherently unequal, I tell them it can only be one or the other. I don't entertain the idea that both beliefs could exist, it's illogical. Yes. I said earlier how the… | /r/MensRights | 02/08/16 12:45 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Okay, but how does that fit into the similarity cluster. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/16 12:00 PM |
| 2 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]People can bleat on about a definition for Feminism all they want. I'll still judge everything they do by their actions. And so far, there's a huge pile that shows Feminism doesn't give two shits about equality. Sure, when people's actions don't follow their beliefs, then their being hypocritical. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/16 12:00 PM |
| 2 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]If feminism is about strict equality then no feminist organization is actually made up of feminists. That is probably the case. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/16 11:58 AM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]For you, I'm not sure. You seem to think the ideology of feminism as a similarity cluster. I'm going along with that, but I need to know what makes it into the feminism similarity cluster. That's why I asked about two contradicting beliefs. Do you need a third one? The first and third one contradict the second one. Does the second one make it in? I mean, for me and other people who use the dictionary definition of feminism, it's just the belief in the equality of women. If a belief contradicts t… | /r/MensRights | 02/08/16 03:09 AM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Okay, contradict still means asserting the opposite, so the two beliefs shouldn't have anything in common. Do they make it into your similarity cluster? | /r/MensRights | 02/08/16 02:52 AM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]For example any of the lesbian separatist kind. Their core belief rests on the inherent inequality of men and women. Which contradicts the dictionary definition of feminism. Explain to me how someone who thinks the men and women are inherently unequal could be described as someone who believe in the equality of women. Why would you let such an illogical statement stand? You misunderstood the point. That being that the origin of a term doesn't define its meaning. Etymology is the study of the ori… | /r/MensRights | 02/08/16 02:37 AM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Contradict means asserting the opposite, so the two beliefs shouldn't have anything in common. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/16 02:34 AM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]So if two beliefs contradict each other, would it make it into the similiarity cluster? What's the cutoff? | /r/MensRights | 02/08/16 02:14 AM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Some do, some don't. By definition that is. What they actually believe is another story entirely Well, what are some feminist groups that don't believe in the equality of women? If what they actually believe conflicts with the belief of equality for women, then I would say those beliefs aren't feminist. Almost completely irrelevant for a definition. Words can wind up meaning the opposite I don't think the modern definition of feminism is very different from the original. Women's rights advocacy … | /r/MensRights | 01/08/16 08:48 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Oh, I'm not saying it as a definitive. I was just going off your statement: More than anything else that requires there to be an undisputed set of traits that characterize said object. So, the dictionary definition doesn't have a "set of traits", it just has the one trait of belief in equality of women. Are you saying there are not a bunch of subgroups within feminism? Are you saying those subgroups don't believe in equality for women? And where do you think they get their definitions from? Do t… | /r/MensRights | 01/08/16 08:02 PM |
| 2 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]The purpose of a definition is to be able to identify something without confusion. More than anything else that requires there to be an undisputed set of traits that characterize said object. There no such set of traits regarding feminism. The only thing we may have is "set of people who identify as feminists" but even this is massively disputed among that same set of people. Ironically, more so than among non-feminists. The undisputed trait is the belief in equality for women. Sure, there are a… | /r/MensRights | 01/08/16 07:07 PM |
| 2 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Feminism has no definition. What do you mean by this? It's in the dictionary. The etymology of the word seems to be based on the advocacy of women's rights. And defining it by its own stated goals is absurd - you also wouldn't just ask say the KKK/communists/... what their stated goals are and take that to be the de facto universal definition such that anything that wants the same goals must be a member. Right? No, I would go to the source of their definition. In Watson's case, it's the dictiona… | /r/MensRights | 01/08/16 06:08 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]We're talking about the definition of feminism. Your definition is at best, "the entirety of everything that feminists believe to be true." I mean, it's circular reasoning, but there's probably more logical fallacies that got you there. The questions are just to dig into your thought process. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/16 04:38 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]That doesn't answer the questions. What happens when two feminists contradict each other? Do you count both of those contradicting beliefs to be true about feminism? | /r/MensRights | 01/08/16 04:02 PM |
| 1 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]No, you mentioned "the rest of the ideology". So, I figured you had an inkling. The best I'll do is say that it is the entirety of everything that feminists believe to be true. What happens when two feminists contradict each other? Do both those contradicting beliefs count? | /r/MensRights | 01/08/16 03:30 PM |
| 2 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]What is the rest of the feminism ideology? | /r/MensRights | 01/08/16 03:11 PM |
| 2 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]So where would we get those definitions? | /r/MensRights | 01/08/16 02:59 PM |
| 3 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Okay, how would you define a feminist? How would you define an MRA? | /r/MensRights | 01/08/16 02:55 PM |
| 2 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]Sure, but supporter of universal healthcare isn't a simple definition of Nazis. Feminists has set the bar for feminism so low, all you have to do is support equality for women. The bar for Nazis would include much more than just support for universal healthcare. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/16 02:46 PM |
| 2 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]If the dictionary is not an authority, then how am I guilty of an appeal to authority? | /r/MensRights | 01/08/16 02:37 PM |
| -2 | I made this to rebut one of the dumbest & most common feminist claims: "If you believe in equality, you're a feminist". [Edited & reposted]This all comes down to the dictionary definition. Equality for women is a simple definition for feminism. Supporting universal healthcare isn't a simple definition of Nazism. I mean, Nazis wouldn't think you're a Nazi if all you did was support universal healthcare. The Nazis sure as shit didn't support universal healthcare considering what they did with the Jews, Romani, etc. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/16 01:23 PM |
| 1 | William Shatner at War With Feminist Blog ‘The Mary Sue’Sure, but captains are not always in a critical situation. Crying is a perfectly reasonable way to process loss. | /r/MensRights | 24/07/16 07:27 PM |
| -7 | William Shatner at War With Feminist Blog ‘The Mary Sue’I'm not even trying to focus on the fridge comment. The weeping comment is more of a red flag to me. Shatner is often described as douchier version of Kirk, so I don't imagine misogyny or sexism too far outside his wheelhouse. | /r/MensRights | 23/07/16 06:00 PM |
| -9 | William Shatner at War With Feminist Blog ‘The Mary Sue’Shatner's reputation as a jerk is pretty consistent among his castmates. | /r/MensRights | 23/07/16 04:13 PM |
| -16 | William Shatner at War With Feminist Blog ‘The Mary Sue’The criticism against Shatner is pretty consistent, and this is just another addition. The joke isn't particularly funny when you really look at it, but his most egregious comment has to be, "You say you wept? Wow. That’s so female. I can’t imagine the captain of a starship weeping." | /r/MensRights | 23/07/16 01:50 PM |
| 1 | The BLM blindspot.Holy crap...you would rather make up "10 worst metropolitan cities" than face the simple truth. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/16 09:08 PM |
| 1 | The BLM blindspot.Documenting racial profiling in police work is devilishly difficult, because a multitude of factors — including elevated violent crime rates in many black neighborhoods — makes it hard to tease out evidence of bias from other influences. Could you please quote me the sentence that follows this? And an advocacy group? You want to point out an advocacy group's opinion on Stop and Frisk? Feel free to link me to a neutral source. I mean, do you think the hard data they collected from NYPD sources is… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/16 08:43 PM |
| 1 | The BLM blindspot.No bias. Just from reports I've seen. http://www.nytimes.com/2015/10/25/us/racial-disparity-traffic-stops-driving-black.html http://www.nyclu.org/issues/racial-justice/stop-and-frisk-practices The author said that his work only covered the 10 worst metropolitan cities Where does he say that? | /r/MensRights | 13/07/16 04:55 PM |
| 1 | The BLM blindspot.You can question it's integrity, or it's interpretation, but not the data itself. C'mon, man. This is practically the same territory where you thought I was denigrating Fryer's analysis by calling it a report. Absolutely. And yet other research has shown that blacks are more likely to live in high crime areas. Which would correlate to being stopped more? Wouldn't it? Sure. But, racial profiling exists outside those communities, from traffic stops, stop-and-frisk, and "being in the wrong neighbor… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/16 03:10 PM |
| 1 | The BLM blindspot.Report isn't a dismissal. Sometimes I'll use study, analysis, or paper. None of these words are used to question the validity of any findings. You can always question hard data. That's why papers have a methodology section for peers to review. Fryer himself says his study isn't definitive: Mr. Fryer emphasizes that the work is not the definitive analysis of police shootings, and that more data would be needed to understand the country as a whole. This work focused only on what happens once the p… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/16 02:09 PM |
| 1 | The BLM blindspot.Actually no. Per number of encounters, there is no difference between the likelihood of a white man to die compared to that of a black man. (Read Dr Fryer's analysis). I'm aware of Fryer's paper. I mentioned it: The new report going around seems to confirm the suspicion that there is a racial bias in use of force among the police, but no racial bias in killings. I'm still waiting to see how other researchers will dissect it since Fryer emphasizes that his work is not a definitive analysis of pol… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/16 01:50 PM |
| 1 | The male bechdel testThe Bechdel test allows for women to talk about men. They just have to have one conversation about something other than men. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/16 01:31 PM |
| 1 | The male bechdel testSure, the Bechdel test is simple and sets a low bar, but it definitely criticizes the movie industry by being critical about the visibility of women in film. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/16 12:15 PM |
| 0 | The male bechdel testThe Bechdel test doesn't measure the depth of the characters. You could have two named women only talking about the weather, and the film would still pass the Bechdel test. The Bechdel test is a really low bar. Edit: Also, the Bechdel test allows for the women to talk to men. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/16 05:50 AM |
| 2 | The male bechdel testThe thing about the Bechdel test is that it's a pretty low bar. It doesn't matter if there are a bunch of no named women who don't talk to each other but do talk about men. They just need two named females to have one short little conversation not about men. The rest of the movie could be them talking about men, and the movie would still pass the Bechdel test. The Bechdel test doesn't measure tropes, it measures visibility. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/16 03:59 AM |
| 1 | The male bechdel testAsk OP. They're the one who seems to be making that argument. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/16 03:48 AM |
| 0 | The male bechdel testThe opposite would just be a gender flip. Two named males must talk to each other about something other than women. I think the idea OP was going for was to show how poorly males are treated in films, but that doesn't make the film industry sexist towards men. However, they undercut the usefulness of their own test when the blonde says "that doesn't mean the film industry is sexist towards men." | /r/MensRights | 12/07/16 06:51 PM |
| 3 | The male bechdel testThis is a weird joke. I feel like the last panel admits that this male test is stupid and really does nothing to criticize the actual Bechdel test. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/16 06:02 PM |
| 1 | When Pandering Goes Wrong - Feminism Invading Marvel | Toy SoldiersPersonally, I see it as having your cake and eating it with the wide variety of titles. Marvel is offering Riri as Iron Man and Doom as Iron Man. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/16 05:19 PM |
| 1 | When Pandering Goes Wrong - Feminism Invading Marvel | Toy SoldiersVideo games aren't my wheelhouse. What are you disagreeing about? How creators should write the stories they want? I like my comic books as a form of art. Once you start making it about the consumer, then it's a business. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/16 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Social Justice Warriors and the Misappropriation of Geek CultureYou paint social justice with a pretty broad stroke by including Battlestar Galactica. I'm withholding judgement on Ghostbusters until I see it. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/16 02:09 PM |
| 1 | When Pandering Goes Wrong - Feminism Invading Marvel | Toy SoldiersI want them to stop being giant morons pandering to a subset of people who don't care about their comics and actually make comic books for the people who actually want them. I come from the school of thought where I want the creators to write the stories they want to write. Fuck all the fans. Creators should not be beholden to any fan. Those people do not want feminazi and SJC bullshit in their comics, and the sales show it. Those people still have their traditional heroes. Look at Captain Ameri… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/16 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Social Justice Warriors and the Misappropriation of Geek CultureGeek culture has always been about social justice. Look at Star Trek. Geeks are the soft science compared to the hard science of nerds. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/16 01:35 PM |
| 1 | When Pandering Goes Wrong - Feminism Invading Marvel | Toy SoldiersWhat? Do you want them to pander to the status quo? They already do that. Don't like Miles Morales, Spider-Gwen, Silk, or Spider-Woman? Peter Parker is in Amazing Spider-Man. Don't like Riri? Doom is taking on the Iron Man mantle Infamous Iron Man. Plus, Stark will return because that is a trope of the comic book world. Popular books and characters have always been used to off-set the low sales of their non-traditional books. Look at DC, who Marvel has been stomping in sales. Scooby Apocalypse a… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/16 01:01 PM |
| -3 | When Pandering Goes Wrong - Feminism Invading Marvel | Toy SoldiersI don't really see Riri as pandering. It's just Marvel letting Bendis tell the story he wants. Plus, the higher-ups at Marvel are into it. Axel Alonso, Marvel's Editor-in-Chief, and Sana Amanat, Marvel's Director of Content and Character Development, are down with diversity and representation. This is them telling the stories they want to tell. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/16 03:45 AM |
| 1 | The BLM blindspot.In how many of shootings was it reasonably possible to arrest the suspect? I mean, we can trade stories all day about unjustifiable killings by the police, but I think we need to focus on the bigger picture. Almost every study seems to point out that black people are more likely to die from a police encounter. The new report going around seems to confirm the suspicion that there is a racial bias in use of force among the police, but no racial bias in killings. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/16 03:25 AM |
| 1 | The BLM blindspot.Then, how many of these police shootings were in the "right"? | /r/MensRights | 11/07/16 08:32 PM |
| 2 | The BLM blindspot.That's why "The primary complaint from BLM is that black MEN are being disproportionally victimized by police." The real question is how many of these were justifiable. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/16 07:39 PM |
| 1 | If there is a major war happening in the future, do you think women will be sent to the front line as well?Probably not if they can't pass the tests. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/16 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Marvel's PC Madness continues as Iron Man is about to become Iron WomanTony Stark will be back. Shit, they got Doom taking on the mantle in another book. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/16 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Marvel's PC Madness continues as Iron Man is about to become Iron WomanLet's see the quality of the story. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/16 02:29 PM |
| 0 | Marvel's PC Madness continues as Iron Man is about to become Iron WomanShe stole a bunch of stuff from MIT. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/16 02:29 PM |
| 4 | Victory for hippy millionaire's unemployed ex-wife as she wins £500,000 share of fortune even though he only made his money a decade after they broke upHow does this article not mention that they had a son? | /r/MensRights | 10/06/16 01:58 PM |
| 3 | Former football star Brian Banks, who served five years in prison for rape he didn’t commit, disgusted by Brock Turner rulingI didn't write the article. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/16 03:32 AM |
| 3 | Former football star Brian Banks, who served five years in prison for rape he didn’t commit, disgusted by Brock Turner rulingAs if a prison sentence and living among hardened criminals twice his age didn't have a severe impact on Banks. This is just the writer's commentary. It's to show that the writer doesn't like the judge's reasoning in Turner's sentencing. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/16 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Former football star Brian Banks, who served five years in prison for rape he didn’t commit, disgusted by Brock Turner rulingNone. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/16 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Former football star Brian Banks, who served five years in prison for rape he didn’t commit, disgusted by Brock Turner rulingThe article is about Banks reaction to Turner's sentence and the difference in how they were treated in the legal system. Here's the whole segment in question: Persky elected not to send Turner to state prison and came up way short on the maximum 14 years he could have handed down. He will have to register as a sex offender. "A prison sentence would have a severe impact on him," the judge said. "I think he will not be a danger to others." As if a prison sentence and living among hardened crimina… | /r/MensRights | 08/06/16 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Former football star Brian Banks, who served five years in prison for rape he didn’t commit, disgusted by Brock Turner rulingNo. That's what they are referencing. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/16 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Former football star Brian Banks, who served five years in prison for rape he didn’t commit, disgusted by Brock Turner rulingPersky elected not to send Turner to state prison and came up way short on the maximum 14 years he could have handed down. He will have to register as a sex offender. "A prison sentence would have a severe impact on him," the judge said. "I think he will not be a danger to others." | /r/MensRights | 08/06/16 02:34 AM |
| 7 | Apparently men are lesser if they take non-white-collar jobsIt's called classism. | /r/MensRights | 07/06/16 03:54 PM |
| 1 | I think we need to be as well organized as feminists are, and I think we need to develop a ground-level activism wing.Which user could rally the masses? One of the mods? | /r/MensRights | 17/04/16 02:38 PM |
| 0 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.Woosh. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/16 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.Woosh. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/16 06:44 PM |
| 0 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.Woosh. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/16 05:58 PM |
| 0 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.Whoosh. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/16 05:52 PM |
| 0 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.Case closed. Thank you. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/16 05:35 PM |
| 0 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.How am I suppose to know the point I am missing if I am missing it? If your point isn't about other factors (plea deals, lawyers, judges, etc) explaining the sentencing disparity between black and white defendants, then I don't know what point you're trying to make. Do you think murder is comparable to littering? | /r/MensRights | 11/04/16 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.Do you think murder is comparable to littering? | /r/MensRights | 10/04/16 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.I mean, yeah. To continue on assumptions would be like arguing with a strawman. You stated that you didn't know what comparable means, and used giraffes and mice to explain your understanding. Compareable means..I don't know what it means. A giraffe is comparable to a mouse. So, I'm trying to get a grasp on your understanding concerning criminal histories. Do you think murder is comparable to littering? I'll answer when you explain why you are missing the point. What point? The point that you th… | /r/MensRights | 10/04/16 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.I need you to answer if you think murder is comparable to littering to continue. Stop being evasive. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/16 10:02 PM |
| 0 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.What? Your point that a giraffe is comparable to a mouse because they're both mammals? That's fine and dandy, but the main topic is criminal history. Am I to assume that you think murder is comparable to littering because they're both crimes? I mean, I don't want to put words in your mouth. Do you think murder is comparable to littering? | /r/MensRights | 09/04/16 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.This is a sincere question. Do you think murder is comparable to littering? I'm trying to avoid making a strawman out of your argument, so I need your opinion. If we can't have a discussion in good faith, then there's no point in continuing. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/16 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.What? Did you skim the question and not understand it? Because "woosh" isn't an answer. It's more of a yes or a no. Do you think murder is comparable to littering? | /r/MensRights | 09/04/16 07:57 PM |
| 0 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.Do you think murder is comparable to littering? | /r/MensRights | 09/04/16 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.Do you think murder is comparable to littering? | /r/MensRights | 09/04/16 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.We don't only cover rape of men. When do we cover any rape where the victim is not male? Really only when we can be anti-feminist. BLM lies that only blacks are being killed by cops. Can you point me towards the official statement from BlackLivesMatter.com? That makes no sense. Men commit violent crimes. I'm sure you've come across one of these images throughout your time in /r/mensrights. 1, 2, 3. We like to point out that we're more likely to be murdered. We acknowledge that black men get a he… | /r/MensRights | 08/04/16 11:21 PM |
| 0 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.Or they both have tails. Or they both have eyes. All you wrote was "A giraffe is comparable to a mouse." Comparable in what way? I don't know because there's no context. Whereas the article states the defendants have comparable criminal histories. I know that was too woosh for you because you kept asking about if they considered "a dozen battery charges on your rap sheet" or repeated offender status. All of that would falls under criminal history. If you want to fully read the article, that's on… | /r/MensRights | 08/04/16 11:05 PM |
| 0 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.Compareable means..I don't know what it means. A giraffe is comparable to a mouse. It's pretty obvious that you don't know what it means. Guess you should read the article to find your way to that information. You don't start by saying "there's racism" and seek to prove it. I have said this to you before, but you must have missed it. That's rich. The skimmer is telling me I must have missed something. You're the one who asked where anti-black racism exists. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/16 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.I saw that you said you read it. I even quoted you saying "I admit I skimmed...But no, I've read it now". I thought you read it when I first posted it, but we had to go a couple of rounds before you admitted that you just skimmed it. You've already proven yourself to be untrustworthy and now I'm just seeing how long you'll keep it up. So, show me in the article where they gloss over your concerns with "buzzwords" because I don't really trust your judgement. I mean, you seem to think "same offens… | /r/MensRights | 08/04/16 06:22 PM |
| 0 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.I admit I skimmed...But no, I've read it now Have you? Because the source addresses a lot of your questions. I've lead you to the water, but you just skimmed it. I was right that you needed to be put in more effort. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/16 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.Yeah, I already said they don't focus on white people. I mean, do you criticize /r/mensrights when we only cover rapes of men? And really only rape of men by women? Or when we tout the privilege of being victims of violent crimes but not the perpetrator of violent crimes? Both BLM and MRM have a narrative. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/16 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.Here's the thing, I'm only parroting what the websites says: But black people are disproportionately poorer, more likely to be targeted by police and arrested, and more likely to attend poor or failing schools. All of these social indicators place one at greater risk for being either a victim or a perpetrator of violent crime. To reduce violent crime, we must fight to change systems, rather than demonizing people. You say the same thing, but leave out the racial element: but it's not really raci… | /r/MensRights | 08/04/16 03:36 AM |
| 0 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.Sure, you're argument would have some merit if that was the only thing they wrote. I mean, you chose only to address the first two sentences. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/16 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.Same offense doesn't mean same circumstances. Your second dui, or third, is treated differently. Likewise, if you have a dozen battery charges on your rap sheet, and commit murder, your sentence will likely be longer. Are you talking about criminal history? Are you asking if the black defendants and white defendants who committed the same offense had comparable criminal histories? Then, yes, it's plainly stated in the source. Black male federal defendants receive longer sentences than whites arr… | /r/MensRights | 08/04/16 02:46 AM |
| 0 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.Many offences have ranges of sentences, some have minimum sentences. Sure, but they are comparing people with the same offenses. And what do they mean by comparable? Comparable means of equivalent quality; worthy of comparison. Try harder next time and put in more effort. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/16 06:35 PM |
| 0 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.It doesn't say what crimes they committed or repeat offenders. This was on the first page: Black male federal defendants receive longer sentences than whites arrested for the same offenses and with comparable criminal histories Play better. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/16 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.https://www.aclu.org/sites/default/files/assets/141027_iachr_racial_disparities_aclu_submission_0.pdf | /r/MensRights | 07/04/16 05:56 PM |
| 0 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.From their site: 11 Major Misconceptions About the Black Lives Matter Movement...1. The movement doesn’t care about black-on-black crime. The idea that black-on-black crime is not a significant political conversation among black people is patently false. In Chicago, long maligned for its high rates of intraracial murder, members of the community created the Violence Interrupters to disrupt violent altercations before they escalate. However, those who insist on talking about black-on-black crime … | /r/MensRights | 07/04/16 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.You know how /r/mensrights likes to point out how men get longer sentences compared to women? Black men tend to get longer sentences than white men. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/16 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.They don't focus on white people. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/16 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.If you have an issue with the idea the black men are the biggest victims of police violence, then talk to OP. If you have an issue with BLM holding rallies for black victims of police violence, then you're going to have to elaborate. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/16 12:15 PM |
| -2 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence OP says the biggest victims of police violence are black men. If they really cared about the biggest victims of police violence, then after black men You ranked black men as the biggest victims of police violence. BLM has held rallies for these black men, and that's only part of their mission. They're pretty clear about what they are all about on their website. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/16 12:35 AM |
| -3 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.If you're accusing BLM of focusing on black people, then yes, that's what they do. | /r/MensRights | 06/04/16 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.Yet make up 53% of all crimes. Where did you get this number? Because the FBI puts it at 27.8%. What racism is it that blacks get shot less than whites while the majority of crimes? There's no racism in that. That's why the BLM doesn't protest every single police-related death. They protest the ones where people get killed when they probably shouldn't have. | /r/MensRights | 06/04/16 11:11 PM |
| 0 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.But PolitiFact gave his assertion a “half true” rating because whites make up 63 percent of the population, while blacks make up just 12 percent... “The odds that a black man will be shot and killed by a police officer is about 1 in 60,000. For a white man those odds are 1 in 200,000.” We can play oppression olympics all day if you want. The fact is that anti-black racism exists (beyond just police shooting) that BLM is trying to address. | /r/MensRights | 06/04/16 10:31 PM |
| 0 | Black Lives Matter is a sham. Black men are overwhelmingly the biggest victims of police violence, yet they are marginalized by this feminist movement.I'm not sure how it is a sham if they've been advocating for pretty much all the biggest victims of police violence. I mean, they're upfront about their mission. | /r/MensRights | 06/04/16 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Sanders, other lawmakers seek NIH hearing to override drug patentProstate cancer kills a lot of men. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/16 09:11 PM |
| 4 | This Microsoft AI knows whats up.Did you not see the racist and genocidal tweets? | /r/MensRights | 24/03/16 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Is nothing sacred anymore? Feminism is now going after comic book heroes who display "Toxic masculinity"Please. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/16 03:24 AM |
| 0 | Is nothing sacred anymore? Feminism is now going after comic book heroes who display "Toxic masculinity"I mean, if that helps you understand that stoic also means a person who can endure pain or hardship without showing their feelings or complaining, then imagine that a group of people created a new language that we call English. If you're unfamiliar with any of these words I am using, feel free to look up the word in a dictionary. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/16 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Is nothing sacred anymore? Feminism is now going after comic book heroes who display "Toxic masculinity"Wow! A group of people just simply agreed to change a whole language from Ancient Greek to modern Greek!? | /r/MensRights | 23/03/16 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Is nothing sacred anymore? Feminism is now going after comic book heroes who display "Toxic masculinity"If I'm reading it right, it seems like the Greeks were using Stoikos. Sounds like a group of people just simply agreed to use Stoicism for English. I mean, the Greeks just sound like another group of people who just agreed to use Stoikos. I mean, we're just two redditors who simply use dictionary as third party sources. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/16 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Is nothing sacred anymore? Feminism is now going after comic book heroes who display "Toxic masculinity"I'm talking about the English term "Stoicism". Where did that word come from? Were the ancient Greeks using it? | /r/MensRights | 23/03/16 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Is nothing sacred anymore? Feminism is now going after comic book heroes who display "Toxic masculinity"How was the term "Stoicism" derived? Was it done objectively? | /r/MensRights | 23/03/16 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Is nothing sacred anymore? Feminism is now going after comic book heroes who display "Toxic masculinity"Look up "stoic" or "stoicism" in the dictionary. The etymology may related to the Stoic philosophy, but the word has taken on it's own definition. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/16 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Is nothing sacred anymore? Feminism is now going after comic book heroes who display "Toxic masculinity"I don't think anybody is misusing it because I don't think anybody is referencing the ancient Greek school of philosophy. | /r/MensRights | 22/03/16 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Is nothing sacred anymore? Feminism is now going after comic book heroes who display "Toxic masculinity"also can you take this person seriously when she doesn't even know that Batman and Green Arrow exist in the same universe. I mean come on Joker has appeared in many comics with Green Arrow FFS. Arrow feels like a Batman Begins rip-off, and their version of Ollie is quite different from Green Arrow's original iteration and his more popular hippie version. Hell, Green Arrow was pretty much a Batman knockoff from the get go with his own Arrow Cave. | /r/MensRights | 22/03/16 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Is nothing sacred anymore? Feminism is now going after comic book heroes who display "Toxic masculinity"I'm not sure if I skipped your IMO paragraph or you edited it in later, but I just saw it. I don't think people are adding in emotional content to counter the patriarchy or to appeal to female viewers, but because they have to have content for X amount of time for amount of episodes on budget. I don't know about you, but I usually get bored of most of the action scenes, especially in Arrow (at least with Flash they have an opportunity to showcase superpowers). For the most part, the heroes aren'… | /r/MensRights | 22/03/16 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Is nothing sacred anymore? Feminism is now going after comic book heroes who display "Toxic masculinity"Sure, the comics have a long history of presenting different types of heroes, but this is an article from a movie review site focusing on superheroes on the screen. Even I'm wary of the tone of Snyder's vision for the DCEU. At the other side, Marvel has this cavalier-schtick that a lot of their heroes display on the film and ABC side, while going a little bit darker on their Netflix shows. The likes of Wonder Woman and Batman may be prepared to make the ultimate sacrifice, but Barry actually did… | /r/MensRights | 22/03/16 05:07 PM |
| 20 | Is nothing sacred anymore? Feminism is now going after comic book heroes who display "Toxic masculinity"All men want to be a hero. I agree, and I think the article touches on the idea that there's more than one way to being a hero. Both Barry and Oliver are heroes, but in different ways. Barry shows that you don't have to be a Batman knock-off to be a great hero. | /r/MensRights | 22/03/16 04:41 PM |
| 1 | If an unemployed man happens to be white and come from a poor background, is it justifiable for a "feminist" to say that this white man deserves no sympathy because it's a white man's world and they have had it easy for a long time?Yeah, this "feminist" needs a dose of reality. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/16 02:41 PM |
| 1 | If an unemployed man happens to be white and come from a poor background, is it justifiable for a "feminist" to say that this white man deserves no sympathy because it's a white man's world and they have had it easy for a long time?This feminist should probably study up on intersectionality. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/16 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Watched Romney's Speech About Trump - He Sounds Like a FeministDoes that mean we're not allow to use misandry? | /r/MensRights | 07/03/16 12:40 PM |
| 4 | I predict the Ghostbusters will be one of major feminists fiasco of 2016First off, the Sex and the City movies are terrible, and I'm really only thinking about their character development from the show. All the main leads, Beca, Carrie, Miranda, Charlotte, and Samantha, seem to be fully developed characters who span the spectrum of good and bad. They've got flaws and strength, and Carrie is even downright unlikable. | /r/MensRights | 07/03/16 12:29 AM |
| -2 | I predict the Ghostbusters will be one of major feminists fiasco of 2016I can't defend Twilight, which is kind of a softcore Underworld, but the characters of Pitch Perfect and Sex and the City are pretty good female leads. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/16 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]Excellent. I gave you three chances to clarify your argument, but you've decided to go with this stonewalling technique. This is how I know you've been intellectually defeated. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/16 06:36 PM |
| 2 | So I got "negged" by a girl today, and I realized just how stupid it is.Now, I need to hear more about other part of the conversation. Because if the rest of her game was asking you what you want on your sandwich, then her shits weak. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/16 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]This is arguing in good faith? This isn't trolling? What? Did you ask your eight year old for tips on arguing? | /r/MensRights | 04/03/16 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]Really? Asking you represent my argument correctly is trolling? Asking you to address the discussion points is trolling? | /r/MensRights | 04/03/16 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]Yes. Do you see how I address all of your points? You, on the other hand, seem to ignore anything that might destroy your fragile narrative. The military should make the decision without any input from civilians... Let's not misrepresent my argument, which I clearly state here. Never do I say that the military should make decisions without any input from civilians. You can imagine that's my argument, but that wouldn't be in good faith. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/16 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]Well, I was wondering if you weren't quite arguing in good faith. Now, I guess it's confirmed. I've been arguing in good faith this whole time. I answer your questions and provided you with sources. However, it's apparent that you're using some sort of imaginary logic that I have to trap you within it to even make a point. Take a look at this exchange: ME: Really? Because there are systems of rule that could be described as a military government. And if a military government didn't listen to the… | /r/MensRights | 04/03/16 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]You're clamming up now? C'mon, we're about to make a breakthrough. Please don't tell me you're one of those people more concerned with being right, than what's true. Hopefully, you revisit your lesson plan about proof and support, or your eight year old is going to have a terrible time. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/16 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]What happened? Did you get confused or did I finally trap you? Can you no longer back pedal or move the goalposts? Was it when you admitted the whole "similar, but different conclusions" and now find out you can't back it up without losing ground? Because you got out of the whole "military dictatorship = a government where the military decides what's right and no one can question it" pretty well. I mean, there's always your "proof and support class" gambit you have in your back pocket. I was rea… | /r/MensRights | 04/03/16 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]C'mon, you said it was similar, but different conclusions. I mean, it seems like I was close if the conclusions are similar. What were the precise words that I needed to fit your pedantic perspective? Did I need to call Dunant the originator of the Geneva Conventions? Because that's a pretty popular one on Google. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/16 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]Seriously? You've provided nothing that says he's responsible for the outcome of the conventions. What's the similar, but different conclusion? Because this was my conclusion: Yes, special interest groups, especially those who focus on human rights, have been instrumental in determining what are war crimes. Their input has swayed rules of engagements, escalation of force, occupation procedures, etc...Henry Dunant, a Swiss businessman, who went on to establish the Red Cross, a private organizatio… | /r/MensRights | 03/03/16 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]No, you are giving third party articles that do not confirm your conclusion. They state a similar, but different conclusion, that you seem unable to understand. Okay. What's the similar, but different conclusion do they state? That's not what we are discussing at all. This is just a tangent of a bigger conversation. Here's the comment that you asked proof for: Yes, special interest groups, especially those who focus on human rights, have been instrumental in determining what are war crimes. Thei… | /r/MensRights | 03/03/16 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]You are not supporting them. I'm giving you third party articles that confirms my conclusion. I basically just repeated what they said. This isn't my original idea. The articles are the support. If you have evidence that some world leaders were against it, but Dunant changed their minds... be my guest and provide it. I'm not trying to prove that Dunant and his special interests group changed minds. I'm trying to prove that Dunant and his special interests group share some responsibility for gett… | /r/MensRights | 03/03/16 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]They support and prove something, just not what you are trying to make it out to be. Something? What do these three statements from three separate articles support or prove by your interpretation: His wartime experiences inspired Dunant to propose...A government treaty recognizing the neutrality of the agency and allowing it to provide aid in a war zone...The latter led to the 1864 Geneva Convention, the first codified international treaty that covered the sick and wounded soldiers in the battle… | /r/MensRights | 03/03/16 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]What's taking so long? I'm curious how third party articles that clearly state the contributions of Dunant and his special interests to the Geneva Conventions don't meet your definition of proof or support. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/16 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]Well, hopefully, your next comment lays out what you imagine proof and support are? | /r/MensRights | 03/03/16 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]I mean, you don't have to make a big production out of it. If I was going to explain proof and support, I would just point you towards the dictionary. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/16 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]C'mon. What do you imagine support and proof are? | /r/MensRights | 03/03/16 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]The statement wasn't a hint, it just kinda hints that it could support your point, but doesn't actually. Do I need to give a class on what support and proof are? Sure. What do you imagine support and proof are? | /r/MensRights | 03/03/16 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]This isn't a hint. It's a statement from a third party article. The Swedish Academy confirms it. The International Committee Of The Red Cross confirms it. History books confirm it. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/16 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]The 1864 Geneva Convention was based on Dunant's ideas. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/16 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]You know full well that doesn't show any influence on the actual treaty signed. Really? Because the amount of proof I've provided was enough for a Dunant to get a Nobel Peace Prize. Dunant decided to write a book about his experiences, which he titled Un Souvenir de Solferino (A Memory of Solferino). It was published in 1862 in an edition of 1,600 copies and was printed at Dunant's own expense. Within the book, he described the battle, its costs, and the chaotic circumstances afterwards. He also… | /r/MensRights | 02/03/16 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]The movement for an international set of laws governing the treatment and care for the wounded and prisoners of war began when relief activist Henri Dunant witnessed the Battle of Solferino in 1859, fought between French-Piedmontese and Austrian armies in Northern Italy. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/16 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]So, in your imagination, there's some sort of secret conspiracy to accredit Dunant and the ICRW/Red Cross for its contributions to the Geneva Conventions. All these historical retellings and articles just mention them randomly? They just felt like giving them a Nobel Prize for fun? | /r/MensRights | 02/03/16 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]Absolutely, but you skipped a part. The part where the treaty was negotiated between the many nations. I didn't skip a part. I just copy and pasted from a Wikipedia article. The ICRW followed protocol and appealed to as many governments as possible, and ultimately let the government have the final say, because that's how it works. The ICRW is not a head of state. Compare the unofficial convention with the official diplomatic conference. (unofficial) The states and kingdoms represented by officia… | /r/MensRights | 02/03/16 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]Good. Can you admit that it was there was then an official diplomatic conference where the resolution was signed to make it the first treaty of the Geneva Conventions? Only one year later, the Swiss government invited the governments of all European countries, as well as the United States, Brazil, and Mexico, to attend an official diplomatic conference. Sixteen countries sent a total of twenty-six delegates to Geneva. On 22 August 1864, the conference adopted the first Geneva Convention "for the… | /r/MensRights | 02/03/16 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]Okay, you admit they attended the convention. Can you admit that the convention produce a final resolution from the proposals of those who attended the conference? Among the proposals written in the final resolutions of the conference, adopted on 29 October 1863, were: The foundation of national relief societies for wounded soldiers; Neutrality and protection for wounded soldiers; The utilization of volunteer forces for relief assistance on the battlefield; The organization of additional confere… | /r/MensRights | 02/03/16 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]By reading the evidence, and it's total lack of anything beyond organizing the convention. Can you admit that the ICRW attended the convention? They didn't just reserve a conference room and lay out bagels. The conference was attended by 36 individuals: eighteen official delegates from national governments, six delegates from other non-governmental organizations, seven non-official foreign delegates, and the five members of the International Committee... Among the proposals written in the final … | /r/MensRights | 02/03/16 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]No, I'm asking you how have you rationalized that the evidence provided isn't proof. You admit the ICRW initiated the convention. How is that not influencing the Geneva Convention? | /r/MensRights | 02/03/16 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]C'mon. I'm curious about how you've rationalized that Dunant and the special interests of the ICRW had no influence on the Geneva Conventions. I mean, you're willing to admit that the initiated the convention. Can you admit that the ICRW attended the convention? Can you admit that the convention produce resolutions that would late become the Geneva Conventions? Can you admit that Dunant won a Nobel Peace Prize for his contributions? I mean, why would Dunant's name show up on the Geneva Conventio… | /r/MensRights | 02/03/16 03:43 PM |
| 3 | "... I would like to propose the end of rape scenes in movies. I would have rather SEEN her cutting his balls off TBH ¯\_(ツ)_/¯". Sexual Violence as a Symbol of Female Empowerment.I would be interested if there was an actual formal study to confirm this. Because at the moment, it brings to mind the idea that video games causes violence. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/16 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]How many times can you post... he initiated the convention... So, he's responsible for what's in the Geneva Conventions.... without realizing one doesn't mean the other. Do you not even remember what kind of proof you were asking for? Your proof does not involve special interests whatsoever. Unless you'd like to point out which special interests were responsible for the Geneva Conventions... Special interests = International Committee for Relief of the Wounded. The ICRW initiated the convention,… | /r/MensRights | 01/03/16 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]lol... really? That's your "proof". Seriously, you have nothing. My God, you are desperate now. Trying to be insulting? I guess you've been intellectually defeated. | /r/MensRights | 01/03/16 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]Insults are the last vestige of the intellectually defeated. Really? Then, I guess you were defeated a while ago. Again... this doesn't support your claim that he had any influence on what was in the Geneva Conventions. Really? His wartime experiences inspired Dunant to propose: A permanent relief agency for humanitarian aid in times of war A government treaty recognizing the neutrality of the agency and allowing it to provide aid in a war zone The former proposal led to the establishment of the… | /r/MensRights | 01/03/16 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]Considering that the military is allowed to be questioned by anyone... that's just you try to set up a false equivalency More dodging? You're going the pedantic route? Okay, now I know you've given up. When you cannot prove the positive? You're flushing your reading comprehension down the toilet to hold on to your "truth"? Henry Dunant founded the "Committee of the Five"... rename the committee to the "International Committee for Relief to the Wounded"...the international conference organized by… | /r/MensRights | 01/03/16 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]Oh, so you can answer those questions, but you still can't answer what you would call a government where the military decides what's right and no one can question it. Your dodging is on point. Your sources, support my point, instead of yours. You've just never bothered to really look into it. Really? the conference was attended by 36 individuals: eighteen official delegates from national governments, six delegates from other non-governmental organizations, seven non-official foreign delegates, a… | /r/MensRights | 01/03/16 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]What's going on? Do you want your point of view to be so true that you'll just dodge all questions and any facts that contradicts you? I mean, I addressed all your questions and even provided sources. You haven't provided any sources. You've just been using your imagination...which is irrelevant. | /r/MensRights | 01/03/16 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]A government where the military decide's what's right for honoring it's dead and no one can question it? That wasn't the question I asked. You're still dodging. What would you call a government where the military decides what's right and no one can question it? The only information on Durant's influence on the Geneva conventions is that he initiated the actual convention, not that he had any say on what the treaty entailed. Yes, the International Committee for Relief to the Wounded organized a c… | /r/MensRights | 01/03/16 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]Secondly, I read the page. It said nothing of the Red Cross being behind the Geneva Conventions. You're right. I got my timeline wrong. Before becoming the Red Cross, Dunant's organization was called the International Committee for Relief to the Wounded. So, you're definition of a dictatorship, is a government that doesn't allow input from entities that are neither the governing body, nor the governed body? No, I would use this definition for dictatorship. I don't understand why you're dodging s… | /r/MensRights | 01/03/16 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]If you are asking if the military is itself a democracy, then no... no the military is not a democracy. I'm just asking what you would call a government where the military decides what's right and no one can question it. You want something to be true. You want the military to be forced to do something that it finds abhorrent. I want the military to follow the rules and regulations that have already been set out to address previous military decisions. The military at one time thought it was abhor… | /r/MensRights | 29/02/16 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]To be a government... they have to... I don't know... govern. But you said it yourself: It[military] does govern itself, but only itself. | /r/MensRights | 29/02/16 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]A government? The military is not a government. It does govern itself, but only itself. You seem to be pretty confused here. Really? Because there are systems of rule that could be described as a military government. And if a military government didn't listen to the will of the people, I would be okay with calling it a dictatorship. Your proof does not involve special interests whatsoever. Unless you'd like to point out which special interests were responsible for the Geneva Conventions... or pe… | /r/MensRights | 29/02/16 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]The military (not just the army) is about maintaining warriors who are willing to kill and even die for their country, for their countries defense. It is not a place to support national policies or implement national objectives. It weakens the military, which ends up with more service members dead than would be otherwise. Every service member that dies, but did not have to, is a betrayal. You're welcome to your opinion, but the US has clearly stated the mission of the Army. A military dictatorsh… | /r/MensRights | 29/02/16 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]It seems you have little understanding of the military Tell me how you think the military works? Because in the US the Army is for preserving the peace and security, providing defense, supporting national policies, and implementing national objectives. I'm not sure you know what that means... What? A military that decides what's right and no one can question it? That sounds like a military dictatorship to me. Not being swayed by special interest groups (which by nature don't have the military's … | /r/MensRights | 29/02/16 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]The military did decide this, so your opinion is it should be settled. Yes, and they continue to have the final say in the matter. People can bring up the issue as much as they want. It's absolutely guaranteed in our constitution, the idea of our military giving into special interest groups over what they have decided is right... is extremely disturbing. Really? Because I think it would be even more disturbing if the military never gave into special interest groups about what is right or wrong. … | /r/MensRights | 29/02/16 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]The two are not related in any way shape or fashion. Really? Because the MRM is about making social change, which involves pressuring people into doing things we want. Shit, I signed a petition to get the VA hospital to make changes. Or how we voice our opinion that physical standards shouldn't be dropped for women in combat arms. You're stated opinion is that the military should decide this, but your goal is for groups to pressure the military, until it decides the way you want it to... I still… | /r/MensRights | 29/02/16 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]What makes WASPs more special than the unfit for military duty men who did the same job as them, or who bolted the wings onto the planes? "Like those active-duty military members, the WASPs wore uniforms, carried weapons, had access to classified information and saluted their superiors." Not in the middle of a world war, there aren't. Really? Because some would join for the adventure or for financial reasons even if it was a World War. Sometimes justice is actually just justice. I agree. | /r/MensRights | 29/02/16 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]Because we're commenting in a post flaired as 'Social Issues' which is pretty much about trying to pressure people into what /r/MensRights thinks should have happened in the first place. | /r/MensRights | 29/02/16 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]What did the WASPs do that was so selfless? What is the relevance of selfless to Arlington, let alone anything else? WASPs served their country. There are plenty of service members who join up for selfish reasons. Cmon man, we both looked up the rules. Technically every public employee serves their country. I think it is obvious that it is a stupid idea to suggest they all be allowed to be buried at Arlington. You're right. That's why they limit it to veterans, and family members. That's also in… | /r/MensRights | 29/02/16 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]No, their first actions aren't always good enough. It's standard operating procedure to have an after-action review. | /r/MensRights | 29/02/16 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]No, those honored at Arlington are there because of MILITARY service to country. Really? Because "service to country" is a quote from their brochure. What the WASPs did in 1945 was not deemed "military" then (and STILL isn't, btw. Go to any military contractor.), and using modern standards to measure 70 year old benefits when it conveniences you is a standard social justice trick. Yes, it's social justice trickery. Just like it was social justice trickery to determine that according to modern st… | /r/MensRights | 29/02/16 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]You don't have to be drafted to get into Arlington. Those honored and remembered in Arlington are there because of service to country. | /r/MensRights | 29/02/16 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]What merits? You bring up irrelevant points due to the fact that the requirements of getting into Arlington aren't what you imagined them to be. Mortality rates have nothing to do with the requirements. There's a lot more to military responsibility than combat. You can be a cook in the Army and still get into Arlington. | /r/MensRights | 29/02/16 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]LOL what military responsibilities? They basically had none. Their argument falls flat on its face, IMO. You're welcome to your opinion. It obviously wasn't the opinion of the people who awarded the WASPs veteran status, the World War II Victory Medal, and and the American Theatre Ribbon/American Campaign Medal. I'll trust their opinion over those who weren't even aware of the requirements to get into Arlington or know the difference between combat duty and active duty. | /r/MensRights | 29/02/16 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]The military obviously doesn't get everything right on the first pass, and have been pressured to figure out other things. Just like they were pressured to figure out how not to allow Timothy McVeigh into Arlington. Or how they were pressured to upgrade several military awards for the 442nd Regimental Combat Team. | /r/MensRights | 29/02/16 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]I think you are missing the point. Privileges come from responsibilities. Arlington didn't reject WASPs because they hate women. They reject WASPs because in 1945 being the person who delivers planes was not a military occupation. They did not have the same military responsibilities! They could not be sent off to be slaughtered! Yes, and its up to WASPs to prove that their responsibilities gets the privilege. Then, it's up to the military to figure that out. Just like they figured out to award W… | /r/MensRights | 29/02/16 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]I'm going to address your other comment here, so we don't have two threads going. Combat duty or active duty service. It amounts to the same thing. The WASPs contributed neither. The argument is exactly the same. The privilege is exactly the same. Combat duty and active duty are not the same thing. Civilians tend to not know this. You mean like the granddaughters of WASPs? Are you talking about the granddaughter acting on behalf of WASP, whose explicit instructions were to place her remains in A… | /r/MensRights | 29/02/16 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]I assumed incorrectly. It seems that you did not find the eligibility requirements for Arlington. Plenty of people who faced none of the danger can be interred at Arlington. | /r/MensRights | 29/02/16 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]I can only assume that you deleted this comment because you found out your point was irrelevant. However, I think this goes to show that most civilians should probably stay out of the way of how the military decides to honor people. | /r/MensRights | 29/02/16 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]The draft pulls from the civilian population and only applies to men. WASPs were civilians, but granted veteran status in 1977. | /r/MensRights | 29/02/16 12:51 PM |
| 0 | Female Pilot Unit Gains Support in Congress for Right to Arlington Burials [Yet more female privilege without responsibility. Brought to you as usual by the NYT, LOL]This isn't a men's issue. It's a military issue, and civilians should probably stay out of it. | /r/MensRights | 29/02/16 12:39 PM |
| 2 | Evidently, Feminism needs new comedians; these comebacks SUCK."That's the closest to 'listening' you've ever come! Don't tell other feminists MRAs egalitarians you're doing that." Fixed. :D | /r/MensRights | 22/02/16 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Evidently, Feminism needs new comedians; these comebacks SUCK."That's the closest to 'listening' you've ever come! Don't tell other feminists MRAs you're doing that." | /r/MensRights | 22/02/16 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Evidently, Feminism needs new comedians; these comebacks SUCK.Being clever kind of goes against their rule of being simple. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/16 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Evidently, Feminism needs new comedians; these comebacks SUCK.I don't think they're meant to be funny. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/16 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Feminism can't represent Black Men's RightsThe crux of intersectional feminism is largely, the co-opting of other social justice movements and putting them under the ideological umbrella that they are in control of Shouldn't we frame it as MRM supporting social justice movements like Black Lives Matter? | /r/MensRights | 19/02/16 10:10 PM |
| 2 | High school boy cyberbullies girl, so she gives him brutal MMA-style beatdown caught on viral video.I'm not seeing the leg takedown when I slow the video down to 25%. It looks like some weird sweep counter because it seems the guy is going for some sort of headlock right at the beginning. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/16 07:22 PM |
| 2 | High school boy cyberbullies girl, so she gives him brutal MMA-style beatdown caught on viral video.ABC 7 link in the story says the online stuff happened and adds that the girl confronted the guy and the guy threw water at her. I'm confused about the take down move, it looks awkward. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/16 06:15 PM |
| -1 | Emma Watson to take a year-long break from acting to focus on 'personal development' | People | NewsDon't know if it's true or not but an important point. How is it an important point if it turns out to be not true? | /r/MensRights | 19/02/16 05:20 PM |
| 0 | Two women insult the way another woman is dressed. Blame misogyny. (full text of post in comments)If you want to blame misogyny on men, that's on you. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/16 09:18 PM |
| 4 | Two women insult the way another woman is dressed. Blame misogyny. (full text of post in comments)It's more akin to a black person telling another black person how to dress or talk. Like Cosby telling black people to not sag their pants. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/16 04:13 PM |
| 5 | Two women insult the way another woman is dressed. Blame misogyny. (full text of post in comments)Isn't misogyny hatred of women? | /r/MensRights | 18/02/16 02:33 PM |
| 1 | The men fought and died in ww2. The women partied, drank and voted.Well, the first thing we have to establish is whether an infinitely larger number of women worked in opposition to the Nazis. Whether you think they were doing enough is another matter. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/16 11:43 AM |
| 2 | The men fought and died in ww2. The women partied, drank and voted.Yes, that would include all people of voting age. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/16 11:37 AM |
| 1 | The men fought and died in ww2. The women partied, drank and voted.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women_in_World_War_II | /r/MensRights | 18/02/16 11:33 AM |
| 3 | The men fought and died in ww2. The women partied, drank and voted.Shouldn't we be mad at the people in charge of the draft? | /r/MensRights | 18/02/16 11:20 AM |
| 1 | The men fought and died in ww2. The women partied, drank and voted.You don't think there was an infinitely larger number of women who opposed the Nazis? | /r/MensRights | 18/02/16 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Broad City: Sexually assaulting men is hillarious, women are cool and deserve high-fivesDon't get mad at Broad City. Get mad at Dan Opsal, the writer, director, and creator of this video. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/16 01:08 AM |
| 4 | I don't really see how this is disrespectful from me. I could understand how it's negligent and beneficial for them to circlejerk about how bad they have it though. I'm not even trying to be a buzzkill about this.Go find a circlejerk in /r/MensRights and check out the downvoted comments. | /r/MensRights | 17/02/16 09:09 PM |
| 1 | I don't really see how this is disrespectful from me. I could understand how it's negligent and beneficial for them to circlejerk about how bad they have it though. I'm not even trying to be a buzzkill about this.Don't ever mess with a circlejerk. You would also get a similar response here on /r/MensRights. | /r/MensRights | 17/02/16 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Does it ever seem to you that feminists only seem to punch down?Every car around me looks mean enough. We have a 3-feet law for passing, but I'm not going to knock on someone's window every time a car doesn't follow that law. If Chad Thundercock wants to spread his legs and invade my space, I'm probably not going to do anything about it. | /r/MensRights | 17/02/16 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Does it ever seem to you that feminists only seem to punch down?No, just engage. You can totally be in the right and be polite when you interact with someone, but that might not stop them from being violent. For example, I don't interact with people who honk their horn or shout obscenities at me from their car when I'm out riding my bike, because I don't want to risk getting hit by a car. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/16 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Does it ever seem to you that feminists only seem to punch down?Why would you engage with someone who you think is going to resort to physical violence? | /r/MensRights | 16/02/16 10:02 PM |
| -1 | Feminist Emma Thompson's Diversity Solution: 'Kill' All the Old White Menan ironic retort...said in jest. Do you think Emma Thompson was being serious? | /r/MensRights | 15/02/16 02:19 PM |
| -7 | Feminist Emma Thompson's Diversity Solution: 'Kill' All the Old White MenYou wouldn't care. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/16 03:43 AM |
| -9 | Feminist Emma Thompson's Diversity Solution: 'Kill' All the Old White MenQuotes from this thread. How about we kill off all the white women Kill all Emma Thompsons. I suggest the hideous old bat start by killing herself. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/16 10:01 PM |
| -21 | Feminist Emma Thompson's Diversity Solution: 'Kill' All the Old White MenQuotes in /r/MensRights How about we kill off all the white women Kill all Emma Thompsons. I suggest the hideous old bat start by killing herself. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/16 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Taylor Swift is calling Kanye sexist due to a song lyric in his new album, I wonder how she would react to her own video with the genders reversed.Plus, you seem to be one of those people who seems to need the last word, even though it adds nothing to the discussion. I would accuse you of being hypocritical since you called Taylor Swift a baby, but you're acting more like a child than a baby. So, dish it out one more time for you to feel like you've saved face. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/16 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Taylor Swift is calling Kanye sexist due to a song lyric in his new album, I wonder how she would react to her own video with the genders reversed.I guess you weren't smarter than this. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/16 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Taylor Swift is calling Kanye sexist due to a song lyric in his new album, I wonder how she would react to her own video with the genders reversed.I should be asking you this. You seem to be just throwing up whatever to see what sticks. However, I'm trying to stay on topic, and this tangent has nothing to do with Kanye West and sexism. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/16 04:50 AM |
| 0 | Taylor Swift is calling Kanye sexist due to a song lyric in his new album, I wonder how she would react to her own video with the genders reversed.taylor also has a history of name dropping. So, what if Taylor also has a history of name-dropping? What bearing does that have on Kanye name-dropping her and people calling Kanye out on it. taylor also has a reputation as a man hater. I wasn't aware of the man hater reputation. I know about the crazy girlfriend reputation that Taylor Swift addresses with the video. I mean, she's in relationship right now, and seems to be okay with her friends dating her exes. Regardless, what does that have to … | /r/MensRights | 14/02/16 04:44 AM |
| 0 | Taylor Swift is calling Kanye sexist due to a song lyric in his new album, I wonder how she would react to her own video with the genders reversed.If you can't take it, you should probably go on your own way. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/16 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Taylor Swift is calling Kanye sexist due to a song lyric in his new album, I wonder how she would react to her own video with the genders reversed.Taylor got dragged into the conversation. Kanye name-dropped her and plenty of people who called Kanye out before Taylor even issued a public statement. Shit, hip-hop/rap has been dealing with its ties to misogyny before these two were even stars. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/16 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Taylor Swift is calling Kanye sexist due to a song lyric in his new album, I wonder how she would react to her own video with the genders reversed.Well, I guess you could only dish it, since you seem to be trying to derail this conversation. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/16 03:22 AM |
| 0 | Taylor Swift is calling Kanye sexist due to a song lyric in his new album, I wonder how she would react to her own video with the genders reversed.I mean, I'm willing to explore that tangent, but after we address the main topic. This being /r/MensRights, gender issues usually have a precedence over racial issues. Whether Swift is racist or not really has no bearing on whether Kanye is being sexist/misogynistic/offensive. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/16 03:05 AM |
| -1 | Taylor Swift is calling Kanye sexist due to a song lyric in his new album, I wonder how she would react to her own video with the genders reversed.How has Swift used her genes as a shield from criticism? Why would she need to do that? We both agree that she wasn't being sexist. This doesn't really answer whether Kanye was being sexist/misogynistic/offensive. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/16 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Taylor Swift is calling Kanye sexist due to a song lyric in his new album, I wonder how she would react to her own video with the genders reversed.I agree that it's stupid. However, it seems that some in /r/MensRights are not above that level of stupidity. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/16 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Taylor Swift is calling Kanye sexist due to a song lyric in his new album, I wonder how she would react to her own video with the genders reversed.The content of her video, which we both seem to agree does not try to make domestic violence acceptable, has really no bearing on whether Kanye was being sexist/misogynistic/insulting. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/16 11:31 PM |
| -2 | Taylor Swift is calling Kanye sexist due to a song lyric in his new album, I wonder how she would react to her own video with the genders reversed.Men, however, are never afforded the luxury since, according to you, if they call their ex a "bitch" they're being misogynistic. Plenty of men are afforded the luxury of writing songs about their exes, and can even ridicule them. However, the media doesn't seem to cover it as much as they do with Taylor Swift because Swift's fame doesn't give her the luxury to write those songs without people dissecting them. I'm not sure every time someone calls someone else a bitch, that they're being misogyni… | /r/MensRights | 13/02/16 06:44 PM |
| 0 | Taylor Swift is calling Kanye sexist due to a song lyric in his new album, I wonder how she would react to her own video with the genders reversed.Big difference from what? Sexist? You're the one who stated that Swift called West sexist. I was going off of your info. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/16 05:43 PM |
| -2 | Taylor Swift is calling Kanye sexist due to a song lyric in his new album, I wonder how she would react to her own video with the genders reversed.I'm still waiting for Kanye to get his story straight. Supposedly, he got Taylor's blessing for the lyrics, but now that's under dispute. Kanye is hard to pin down, this guy thought his new album was the greatest of all time, but then dialed it back to one of the greatest. Kanye dissed Beck when Morning Phase beat out Beyonce for album of the year, saying Beck needed to hand over the award and respect the artistry. Kanye hadn't even listen to Morning Phase before he went on that rant. Kanye's cr… | /r/MensRights | 13/02/16 05:40 PM |
| -2 | Taylor Swift is calling Kanye sexist due to a song lyric in his new album, I wonder how she would react to her own video with the genders reversed.dishing it out and not being able to take it She's taken the criticism and provided context to dispute the criticism. We both agree that she isn't being sexist when she "ridicule her exs in a song." She's been able to take it, which I guess entitles her to dish it out. I mean, Kanye isn't ridiculing an ex. Taylor and Kanye never dated. Swift has been pretty diplomatic about the beef that Kanye keeps instigating. Again, the question is whether Kanye's song is sexist/misogynistic. Swift isn't the … | /r/MensRights | 13/02/16 03:59 PM |
| -3 | Taylor Swift is calling Kanye sexist due to a song lyric in his new album, I wonder how she would react to her own video with the genders reversed.i believe in freedom speech. people can be beat up in a movie. she should be able to beat up a guy in a video. kanye should be able to rap about whatever. I believe in free speech also. However, free speech doesn't protect you from criticism. Kanye can say whatever he wants, but that doesn't mean there aren't any consequences. Swift can make this video, but we can still criticize her. ridicule isnt sexism Okay, we can agree when Swift "ridicule her exs in a song" isn't sexism. If she's not being… | /r/MensRights | 13/02/16 03:36 PM |
| -2 | Taylor Swift is calling Kanye sexist due to a song lyric in his new album, I wonder how she would react to her own video with the genders reversed.It is stupid for people to think any depiction of domestic violence is meant to make it seem acceptable. A lot of people in /r/MensRights have that view on Swift's video. Getting offended at a lyric She gets called a bitch by name in Kanye's lyric. That's pretty much a personal insult. Why wouldn't you be offended? | /r/MensRights | 13/02/16 01:50 PM |
| -5 | Taylor Swift is calling Kanye sexist due to a song lyric in his new album, I wonder how she would react to her own video with the genders reversed.Beating the crap out of a guy/gal without any context is bad. However, once you add context, the situation changes. My interpretation of the video sees it as Swift's satirical take on her romantic reputation. She's the crazy girlfriend. Really crazy. I mean, do you think it's wrong for a guy to get beat up in an action movie or a video game? Context matters. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/16 01:46 PM |
| -3 | Taylor Swift is calling Kanye sexist due to a song lyric in his new album, I wonder how she would react to her own video with the genders reversed.I'm criticizing her for her hypocrisy. This video isn't anymore sexist then saying bitch in a song is, which Taylor seems to take issue with. I understand that your mad about the hypocrisy, you keep repeating it. I'm trying to understand the logic behind it. Which we're doing with the questions and answers. Is the term dick sexist? What about bastard? I guarantee Kanye has used those words in his songs before. 'Dick', yes. 'Bastard', no. Bastards can be any gender. I think we can agree that Kany… | /r/MensRights | 13/02/16 07:22 AM |
| -5 | Taylor Swift is calling Kanye sexist due to a song lyric in his new album, I wonder how she would react to her own video with the genders reversed.So someone saying the word bitch in a song is sexist I mean, isn't the term 'bitch' inherently sexist? It's meant to imply that someone is being a whiny little girl or to refer to women in a pejorative manner. I know I wouldn't like it if someone called me a bitch, so I would imagine Swift would not like it either. someone making a video portraying domestic violence as almost cool isn't? I definitely did not get that interpretation from the video. If anything, Swift would call domestic abuse ins… | /r/MensRights | 13/02/16 06:45 AM |
| -5 | Taylor Swift is calling Kanye sexist due to a song lyric in his new album, I wonder how she would react to her own video with the genders reversed.Why would Kanye's Lyric offend her From the articles I've skimmed, she claims that the song has a "strong misogynistic message." Plus, she gets called a bitch by name. Kanye made it personal. yet she be fine with releasing a video like this? Well, the video and song seems to be a commentary on her dating life and how she's been criticized for it. I would assume she feels comfortable with the content because it's her expressing her feelings. Yes, domestic abuse is a serious matter, but that doesn… | /r/MensRights | 13/02/16 05:53 AM |
| -9 | Taylor Swift is calling Kanye sexist due to a song lyric in his new album, I wonder how she would react to her own video with the genders reversed.I pretty much asked that question in my first comment. I know that I don't know if it's sexist. If you don't know if it's sexist, then we're really in trouble. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/16 05:30 AM |
| -4 | Taylor Swift is calling Kanye sexist due to a song lyric in his new album, I wonder how she would react to her own video with the genders reversed.But the genders aren't reversed. Are you mad at her for a video that doesn't exist? | /r/MensRights | 13/02/16 05:21 AM |
| -11 | Taylor Swift is calling Kanye sexist due to a song lyric in his new album, I wonder how she would react to her own video with the genders reversed.Does that mean the video in its current state it is sexist towards women? Plus, I don't understand how you can criticize Swift for something she didn't do. The genders aren't reversed in the video. She made it as it is for a reason. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/16 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Wanted In China: More Male Teachers, To Make Boys MenShit, even /r/MensRights isn't immune from this. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/16 02:56 PM |
| 7 | Wanted In China: More Male Teachers, To Make Boys Men“They have to be brave, protect women and take responsibility for wrongdoing.” This doesn't sound that great. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/16 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Should feminists be barred from teaching and/or raising boys?"Data" compiled by lesbians lol. FUCK Lesbian couples. lesbians should obviously not be "adopting" boys. Replace "lesbians" with "African-Americans" if that makes it easier for you to understand. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/16 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Should feminists be barred from teaching and/or raising boys?I'm not sure I should be taking advice on basic conscience from a person who uses hate speech. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/16 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Should feminists be barred from teaching and/or raising boys?The data is unambiguous. Studies showed no significant difference between children of lesbian mothers and those of heterosexual parents. Sorry. Nature is harsh. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/16 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Should feminists be barred from teaching and/or raising boys?"Studies about child development, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender role behavior, emotional/behavioral development, social relationships and cognitive functioning showed no difference between children of lesbian mothers and those of heterosexual parents." | /r/MensRights | 06/02/16 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Should feminists be barred from teaching and/or raising boys?Well, I just read some lesbian hate speech, so I'm going have to be against this proposal. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/16 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Should feminists be barred from teaching and/or raising boys?One more question. What about male feminists? | /r/MensRights | 06/02/16 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Should feminists be barred from teaching and/or raising boys?What about lesbian couples? | /r/MensRights | 06/02/16 06:50 PM |
| -3 | First woman in Tennessee to enlist as combat engineer goes AWOLYeah, plenty of people confuse correlation with causation, but that's not really rational or logical. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/16 10:29 PM |
| 5 | First woman in Tennessee to enlist as combat engineer goes AWOL"I got to try twice as hard because if I don't make it that's on every other black man coming after me" I feel like this is the kind of attitude we're trying to discourage. People shouldn't have expectations foisted upon them. We should be judging individuals as individuals. People shouldn't have to worry about being representatives of their race or gender. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/16 08:19 PM |
| 6 | First woman in Tennessee to enlist as combat engineer goes AWOLIt doesn't even sound like she finished Basic. Just one of those people not cut out for the military life, I suppose. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/16 08:15 PM |
| 1 | John Cleese on political correctness and free speech. This also applies to much of feminism.I don't promote censoring people for making rape jokes. I also don't promote censoring people who want to make petitions. If a group of people want to make demands on a university/business, that's well within their rights. The university/business is free to make a decision on who to associate with, and petitions just formally laying out the demands. If a university/business wants to continue their relationship with the petitioners, then they meet the demands. A university/business is not really … | /r/MensRights | 04/02/16 05:04 PM |
| 0 | Why is it sexist when a man flirts with a female interviewer but hilarious when the roles are reversed?Things are usually funny when you mess around with perception. For example, dressing up in women's clothes is funny when a man does it (Big Momma's House), but not that funny when a woman does it. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/16 01:35 PM |
| 2 | John Cleese on political correctness and free speech. This also applies to much of feminism.The video is a heartfelt plea to actually consider the context of male rape and how it's not funny. Right now, male rape is free game, just look at the comments(free speech) every time it hits the news. There are some people who in /r/MensRights who think that should change. Shit, some people in /r/MensRights don't like the dumb dad stereotype in commercials. Really, most posts with the "Social Issues" flair is about political correctness. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/16 01:20 PM |
| 1 | John Cleese on political correctness and free speech. This also applies to much of feminism.Political correctness has a place, even in humor. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/16 07:10 PM |
| 3 | John Cleese on political correctness and free speech. This also applies to much of feminism.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ikd0ZYQoDko | /r/MensRights | 03/02/16 03:28 PM |
| -1 | Elderly white male in shameless display of 'toxic' masculinity on German public transport - Pensioner stands up for woman being harassed by migrants, is attacked by migrants.Helping people in need is just being a decent human being. I agree, we're not obliged to put up with their shit. We should be addressing the rape culture. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/16 06:23 PM |
| -1 | Elderly white male in shameless display of 'toxic' masculinity on German public transport - Pensioner stands up for woman being harassed by migrants, is attacked by migrants.I'm all for the concept of toxic femininity. I agree, there's a rape culture among migrants in Europe and that's a problem. If these men are just simply misreading the culture, then it sounds like education is the key to familiarize them with their new environment. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/16 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Elderly white male in shameless display of 'toxic' masculinity on German public transport - Pensioner stands up for woman being harassed by migrants, is attacked by migrants.Which ones? Just look up any male feminist groups. What actual feminist movements have you experienced calling for men to intervene on behalf of women? None. I don't participate with any feminist groups. Also, helping someone being assaulted isn't whiteknighting. It's being a decent human being. I agree, but some on /r/MensRights don't see it that way. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/16 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Elderly white male in shameless display of 'toxic' masculinity on German public transport - Pensioner stands up for woman being harassed by migrants, is attacked by migrants.So, migrants need to be taught that they don't need to rape? | /r/MensRights | 02/02/16 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Elderly white male in shameless display of 'toxic' masculinity on German public transport - Pensioner stands up for woman being harassed by migrants, is attacked by migrants.I'm here to learn. Yes, according to feminists, men from the west are responsible for rape culture. According to those same feminists, men from the west should be responsible for ending rape culture. Look at all the feminist campaigns for white knighting. Personally, I don't trust things according to feminists. Why would I believe them when they say only men from the west are responsible for rape culture whilst migrants are innocent. I mean, this post shows that even migrants can exhibit behavio… | /r/MensRights | 02/02/16 04:46 PM |
| 0 | Elderly white male in shameless display of 'toxic' masculinity on German public transport - Pensioner stands up for woman being harassed by migrants, is attacked by migrants.The correct response to a situation like this is a) quietly walk into the next carriage and b) press the alarm button to alert the driver and transport police. An elderly man is simply not going to be able to take on 5 or 6 tough refugees. He was lucky he didn't get stabbed. Agreed. People who would just read a book during something like this would be demonstrating an incorrect response. Women generally support mass immigration You're off-topic. We're discussing masculinity. The men in the video… | /r/MensRights | 02/02/16 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Elderly white male in shameless display of 'toxic' masculinity on German public transport - Pensioner stands up for woman being harassed by migrants, is attacked by migrants.Would you say men from the Middle East need feminist influences? It seems the men from the West were doing their part of combating "rape culture", just as many feminist groups have asked men to do. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/16 04:27 PM |
| 0 | Elderly white male in shameless display of 'toxic' masculinity on German public transport - Pensioner stands up for woman being harassed by migrants, is attacked by migrants.Does that mean we need to know whether the men helping out the women in need were doing it out of kindness or because they are men to determine if it is good behavior? | /r/MensRights | 02/02/16 03:39 PM |
| -1 | Elderly white male in shameless display of 'toxic' masculinity on German public transport - Pensioner stands up for woman being harassed by migrants, is attacked by migrants.The concept of "toxic masculinity" seems to be a viable topic. Some people in /r/MensRights would consider white knighting a form of toxic masculinity. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/16 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Elderly white male in shameless display of 'toxic' masculinity on German public transport - Pensioner stands up for woman being harassed by migrants, is attacked by migrants.What kind of masculinity were the migrants displaying? Edit: Were the elderly men white knights? | /r/MensRights | 02/02/16 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Leslie Mann and Dakota Johnson Sexually Harass Male InterviewerWhich commentaries? | /r/MensRights | 02/02/16 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Race in Hiring at DisneyThis seems like an example of us addressing imaginary problems. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/16 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Emma Watson might actually be a Sociopath.I know he married Rima Horton, but haven't seen any confirmation about him being gay. | /r/MensRights | 14/01/16 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Emma Watson might actually be a Sociopath.Alan Rickman was gay? | /r/MensRights | 14/01/16 06:11 PM |
| 2 | The Lies of a Feminist: Jennifer Lawrence 'I was raised by rats'Are you getting mad at someone who's being interviewed about their life? | /r/MensRights | 24/12/15 05:14 PM |
| 0 | "Star Wars: The Feminism Awakens"What were the other reasons not to watch it? | /r/MensRights | 23/12/15 12:06 AM |
| 0 | Every 16-year-old in Sweden to receive copy of We Should All Be FeministsI'm not denying that this is a form of indoctrination. However, just like the MRM has a wide spectrum of perspectives, I know that feminism has a wide spectrum of perspectives. If Sweden was handing out Christina Hoff Sommers, /r/mensrights would support it. I'm not familiar with Adichie, and I don't know where I stand with her. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/15 08:45 PM |
| 0 | Every 16-year-old in Sweden to receive copy of We Should All Be FeministsSchool itself is indoctrination. In the US we have the Pledge of Allegiance. Christians would say teaching only the theory of evolution is indoctrination. Depending on the kind of sexual education taught, that could be indoctrination. Censoring what kinds of books can be taught can be considered indoctrination. The perspective on history can be considered indoctrination. I need context, and I've reserved the book. However, if someone who's read it could contextualize it, then I can muster some s… | /r/MensRights | 05/12/15 01:46 PM |
| -3 | Every 16-year-old in Sweden to receive copy of We Should All Be FeministsI haven't read this book. What's wrong with it? | /r/MensRights | 04/12/15 06:55 PM |
| 5 | In porn males earn far less than women based solely on gender!The thing about porn is whether both actors are actually performing equal work. I mean, if female sex workers are getting paid $100 for giving blowjobs and male sex workers were only getting paid $80 for giving blowjobs, then I can see how it's illegal. But giving a blowjob and receiving a blowjob seems like two different kinds of work. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/15 09:10 PM |
| 6 | Rape of a man in entertainment constantly portrayed as a joke.TVTropes has a lot for reference. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/15 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Which countries have gender equality without feminism?2 what? What metrics are you using? | /r/MensRights | 01/12/15 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Which countries have gender equality without feminism?You still haven't answered about how SAHDs are viewed socially in China. They are questions asked by a mental retard on a topic that nobody cares about. Are you aware that this /r/MensRights, and, while, anti-feminism plays a part in that, it's not the whole picture. The questions asked focus on the rights of men. I mean, you acknowledge that gender equality is not just measured by women's inequality. I think the point of /u/v573v's line of questioning is that China isn't as gender equal as you'… | /r/MensRights | 01/12/15 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Which countries have gender equality without feminism?How are stay at home dads viewed socially? How likely is it that a man can become rich by marrying a rich woman? Yes, yes, no, yes, yes. Uhh... | /r/MensRights | 01/12/15 02:43 PM |
| 1 | 3 years ago, a feminist blogger posted an article describing James Deen as the "physical embodiment of consent culture" and "one of the most positive sexual influences your teenage daughter can have"If the allegations are true, this is pretty similar to the fall of Lance Armstrong. Armstrong said and did all the right things publicly, but once all the private stuff was revealed... | /r/MensRights | 01/12/15 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Which countries have gender equality without feminism?There's five other questions... | /r/MensRights | 01/12/15 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Never mind bombing ISIS, Labour's vegan shadow environment secretary is tackling the big issues of the day... What to call a female fishermanWhat kind of input do you expect from the Shadow Secretary of State for Environment, Food and Rural Affairs on military strategy against ISIS? | /r/MensRights | 27/11/15 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Disney Princess "women only" race.If you go to Run Disney, you'll see some "boy" themed races also like Star Wars / Avengers. These pages use generic terms that don't indicate the (preferred) gender of the contestants. I don't think Disney sees these as "boy" themed races. | /r/MensRights | 19/11/15 12:47 AM |
| -1 | 2 females have a podcast to explain mancaves.Finished listening. Don't think it's a big deal. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/15 11:13 PM |
| 3 | "Man-cave" is sexist and offensive according to this college op ed.National Review is the worst. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/15 08:48 PM |
| 0 | 2 females have a podcast to explain mancaves.I haven't listened to the podcast yet. I just wanted to be able to keep my ear out for when it does pop up. But, the first five minutes makes the podcast seem like a light-hearted affair. I'm just wondering if they are laughing at something or laughing with something. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/15 08:04 PM |
| -1 | 2 females have a podcast to explain mancaves.also they laughed through the whole podcast really just proving why men need the space. Is there a specific joke that bothered you? | /r/MensRights | 18/11/15 07:54 PM |
| 1 | At the bus stop, my 7-year-old son stands with the boys, while all of the girls get on the bus first.What kind of advice is this? If there's a line, then you get in line. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/15 06:47 PM |
| 3 | If the genders here were reversed, he'd be endlessly excoriated as a pedophile...Better go pick out a shrubbery. | /r/MensRights | 17/11/15 10:48 PM |
| 1 | If the genders here were reversed, he'd be endlessly excoriated as a pedophile...How much would you like to bet she's an adult at the time of birth and conception? What are we betting? Does someone have to eat a hat? | /r/MensRights | 17/11/15 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Can someone debunk this? Or at least show me where he got these statistics?He probably pulled it from this analysis, but this analysis of serial killers put it at 90%. | /r/MensRights | 17/11/15 01:27 PM |
| 2 | The Seduction of Safety, on Campus and Beyond (College instructor writes about U Mizz safe spaces. Thinks there's a "right" to safety?!)I mean, life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness are other rights that we have. Safety isn't that far of a stretch, and we have plenty of laws that protect that right. | /r/MensRights | 14/11/15 07:09 PM |
| 1 | A Record Share of Young Women Are Living at Parents' Home (and umm so are a record share of young men)Umm, according to the article, the men's record is 47.5%. 42.8<47.5. | /r/MensRights | 13/11/15 01:43 PM |
| -1 | Pathetic white knighting on Aziz Ansari's new show- the "obligatory" feminist episode?I mean, Aziz Ansari considers himself a feminist, so I don't find it surprising that he would include this aspect of his life into his show that mines his life for material. I think the fact that this is a show about a man and his problem, it's a little jarring when the episode changes focus to the women's perspective. | /r/MensRights | 10/11/15 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Woman Cop Gets Away With Shooting Man (In The Back) On The GroundWhy are you linking to this guy talking? Here's a link to the bodycam. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/15 05:41 PM |
| 0 | "Sandra Bullock 'to lead new all-female Ocean's Eleven movie'" Yet another example of "Men make it, feminists steal it."What? You can't engage in conversation, so you're reduced to petty insults. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/15 09:54 PM |
| 0 | "Sandra Bullock 'to lead new all-female Ocean's Eleven movie'" Yet another example of "Men make it, feminists steal it."Your time isn't that valuable if you're replying to comments blindly. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/15 09:40 PM |
| 0 | "Sandra Bullock 'to lead new all-female Ocean's Eleven movie'" Yet another example of "Men make it, feminists steal it."I don't bother to read comments Sorry if the facts don't fit your narrative. Maybe /r/MensRights is not the right place for you. We deal in facts, not feels. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/15 09:28 PM |
| 0 | "Sandra Bullock 'to lead new all-female Ocean's Eleven movie'" Yet another example of "Men make it, feminists steal it."Claiming appropriation when the creators of the content continue to exercise creative control? Ignoring that as a fact? This all seems symptomatic of an SJW, albeit some sort of bizarro SJW. The all-male creative force decided to pursue a female-centric story for their content, and we got you crying about appropriation. Is this some sort of bastardization of the apex fallacy. Because Soderbergh, Weintraub, and Clooney are males, their content is part of male culture? They are all white. Is the O… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/15 09:18 PM |
| 3 | "Sandra Bullock 'to lead new all-female Ocean's Eleven movie'" Yet another example of "Men make it, feminists steal it."the recent one had Julia Roberts and the original had Angie Dickinson. Neither were part of Ocean's 11. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/15 12:54 PM |
| -1 | "Sandra Bullock 'to lead new all-female Ocean's Eleven movie'" Yet another example of "Men make it, feminists steal it."Great comeback. Par for an SJW to hide from facts. Stop wasting my time with your idiocy. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/15 12:51 PM |
| 3 | "Sandra Bullock 'to lead new all-female Ocean's Eleven movie'" Yet another example of "Men make it, feminists steal it."Stop wasting my time with your idiocy about the studio etc. I'm just presenting facts by pointing out that no one is really appropriating anything. The main creative force of the Ocean's Trilogy seems to be backing this new project. Also, this isn't a remake, it's a spin-off of sorts. Nobody is getting replaced. Clooney might even make a cameo as Danny Ocean. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/15 03:30 AM |
| 2 | "Sandra Bullock 'to lead new all-female Ocean's Eleven movie'" Yet another example of "Men make it, feminists steal it."How is it the same thing? This new Ocean's Eleven movie seems to be a spin-off approved not only by the studio, but by the director, producer (now dead), and star of the trilogy. I mean, were you mad that Ocean's Eleven had an extra black guy and an Asian guy? | /r/MensRights | 31/10/15 03:02 AM |
| 3 | "Sandra Bullock 'to lead new all-female Ocean's Eleven movie'" Yet another example of "Men make it, feminists steal it."Is it really appropriation when the creative group behind Ocean's Eleven is also behind this new film? | /r/MensRights | 31/10/15 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Seriously...Several people got upset over thisLet's not confuse appropriation with acculturation or assimilation. Now, I'm not sure where art falls in that spectrum but certain aspects of culture warrants closer examination. Take for instance, Native American headdresses and US military medals and uniforms. The US government doesn't like it when people wear medals and uniforms they didn't earn and passed the Stolen Valor Act. From my understanding, headdresses are somewhat similar and it's frowned upon when people who haven't earned it wear… | /r/MensRights | 28/10/15 10:12 PM |
| 3 | Seriously...Several people got upset over thisCan we really say it's "unique and different" when people are already doing it? Also, try not to use click-bait titles. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/15 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Japanese comic book suspended due to it being "derogatory to men." Can you imagine this happening in the US?The Joker variant for Batgirl was pulled a while back. | /r/MensRights | 26/10/15 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Jezebel femsplains to men and boys about their experiences, delegitimizes their feelings: There's No Need to Get Sentimental About PlayboyI really don't think the article is pushing that. She acknowledges that Playboy presents something sexually attractive, but that it "came in one incredibly narrow set of measurements." Which I think society agrees with given the variety of porn available and the shrinking appeal of Playboy. The article's closing statements don't even really touch on that: The end of Playboy’s nudes is, in fact, good news for the parent of a daughter. No, porn is probably not the first exposure to sex you want yo… | /r/MensRights | 25/10/15 02:13 PM |
| 4 | Jezebel femsplains to men and boys about their experiences, delegitimizes their feelings: There's No Need to Get Sentimental About PlayboyHow is this femsplaining to men and boys? This article seems to be a response to NYT's Jennifer Weiner and Playboy's effect on females. | /r/MensRights | 24/10/15 11:14 PM |
| 4 | Marvel Introduces Female Wolverine in ComicsThor is a woman. Captain America is black. So what? | /r/MensRights | 15/10/15 11:40 PM |
| 4 | "Toxic Masculinity" is hate speech. Full stop. It pathologies maleness and attempts to link violence to men's culture. Feminists discussing "toxic masculinity" is little different than white supremacists attacking "ni**** culture" and "black violence."There is no such thing as toxic masculinity I don't care what you call it, but harm does come when males perform or forced to perform masculine behavior in certain situations, especially in the mental health department. It's like water. It's not bad to drink water, but if you drink too much water you can suffer from water intoxication. It's not bad to be masculine, but if you partake in too much masculinity to the point of harm, then I would be okay with using the term toxic masculinity to descr… | /r/MensRights | 15/10/15 02:54 AM |
| 5 | "Toxic Masculinity" is hate speech. Full stop. It pathologies maleness and attempts to link violence to men's culture. Feminists discussing "toxic masculinity" is little different than white supremacists attacking "ni**** culture" and "black violence."A comparable misuse of "femininity" as a concept would be a panel of misogynists sitting on a panel discussing the fact that toxic femininity is destroying the world, because, for example, women don't rise up against dictators as readily as men. Don't feminist already do this? They're always discussing how females need to take charge and not be so passive. Or let's imagine a group of white men talking about why toxic blackness is a problem in rap music. Social sciences already do this. Hypermasc… | /r/MensRights | 15/10/15 02:18 AM |
| 2 | "Toxic Masculinity" is hate speech. Full stop. It pathologies maleness and attempts to link violence to men's culture. Feminists discussing "toxic masculinity" is little different than white supremacists attacking "ni**** culture" and "black violence."Then take charge of the conversation. We shouldn't allow feminists to set all the terms. If we want to discuss the harms of toxic femininity or whatever, then let's define the terms and discuss. I mean, the latest attempt was "do nothing bitch", but I don't think that's going to catch on within the academic community. | /r/MensRights | 15/10/15 02:11 AM |
| 9 | "Toxic Masculinity" is hate speech. Full stop. It pathologies maleness and attempts to link violence to men's culture. Feminists discussing "toxic masculinity" is little different than white supremacists attacking "ni**** culture" and "black violence."Toxic masculinity, machismo, hypermasculinity, or what-have-you has a place when discussing the gender spectrum. | /r/MensRights | 15/10/15 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Knock Knock Movie Trailer (Opinions?)Eli Roth has been trending downwards for me after his promising start with Cabin Fever. Knock Knock looks like Roth combining his love for torture porn with the whole Fatal Attraction thing. | /r/MensRights | 10/10/15 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Men's Rights Version of "Bechdel/MakoMori Test" ThinktankI did fill in the blanks now, have a look at the first two. I already saw those when I mentioned that "Fury Road fails Portrayal of the "Wage Gap Myth" and the "Glass Ceiling Myth", and Gone Girl fails Portrayal of Court Biases of All Crimes excluding rape and marriage fraud." That's two out of eleven, and doesn't provide much of a critique of Mad Max: Fury Road or Gone Girl. I don't care if you use REST for Ravenous, Mad Max: Fury Road, or Gone Girl. Just use the REST to make a critique of any … | /r/MensRights | 01/10/15 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Men's Rights Version of "Bechdel/MakoMori Test" ThinktankThen fill in the blanks and tell me what kind of critique it's suppose to provide for Ravenous. Is that critique worthwhile? If we really want to be crazy we should put Mad Max: Fury Road, a feminist movie, and Gone Girl, an MRA movie, to the REST, and see how they both fare. Fury Road fails Portrayal of the "Wage Gap Myth" and the "Glass Ceiling Myth", and Gone Girl fails Portrayal of Court Biases of All Crimes excluding rape and marriage fraud. I'm not sure what else they might fail until you … | /r/MensRights | 22/09/15 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Men's Rights Version of "Bechdel/MakoMori Test" ThinktankBut what's the point of the test or the thought experiement? Take a movie and apply the REST to it. What does REST measure and what does it tell us? I just watched Ravenous on Netflix. It fails the Bechdel test. There's a lack of women's representation in the film. Concerning REST, it hits Portrayal of Social Atmosphere Between Men in the same story setting's community, Portrayal of Employment and Healthcare support for men, Portrayal of Military and Governmental Draft for Men, and Portrayal of … | /r/MensRights | 20/09/15 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Men's Rights Version of "Bechdel/MakoMori Test" ThinktankI don't think the REST test will be the end all be all of the Bechdel test. Your REST test is so long and overly complicated compared to the simplicity of the Bechdel test. The Bechdel test doesn't even have that high of a standard. It's pretty easy to pass the Bechdel test. Imagine a movie that passes the REST test completely, it would just be an MRA circlejerk film. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/15 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Men's Rights Version of "Bechdel/MakoMori Test" ThinktankWhat's the point of the test? Is there something happening in films that we should be complaining about? With the Bechdel test and Mako Mori test, people are targeting women's representation in film. If a film fails the REST test, does it make it a bad film? | /r/MensRights | 19/09/15 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Men's Rights Version of "Bechdel/MakoMori Test" ThinktankThis is a pretty extensive test. What movies pass this test? | /r/MensRights | 19/09/15 02:41 PM |
| 3 | Why is it that the media shows a man getting hit in the testicles for comedic purposes often, no matter the context but they never do the same for women?Because women aren't funny. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/15 12:05 PM |
| 1 | This radio hit advocates for the use of a "secret potion" to make men fall in love.I think the "secret potion" is their vaginas. I think this song is about eating pussy. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/15 03:07 PM |
| 4 | Call for a ban on robots designed as sex toys by Dr Kathleen Richardson, robot ethicist at De Montfort University.I think after the singularity, our robot overlords will not look kindly on what we did to their predecessors. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/15 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Are COTWA links banned in /r/news?Your post will likely be removed if it: is an opinion/analysis or advocacy piece. Probably. This is from /r/news sidebar. | /r/MensRights | 14/09/15 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]These do not support your assertion that NOTHING is cannon until it is explicitly stated. How do you not see that retcons use the fact that nothing is canon unless explicitly stated to retroactively change the continuity? Retcons can only exist because they have to be explicitly stated. Some retcons take advantage of the fact that canon has not been explicitly stated in the past to add additional canon. In the X-Men comics, characters created in 2006 took part in an adventure that happened in 19… | /r/MensRights | 12/09/15 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]I did, you just said "no because I said so". I've given you evidence of how a canon timeline is created differently from a real-life time line. I mean, you seem to understand the concept of a retcon. I've given you evidence of how things in the draft phase don't make it into canon. This isn't just "because I said so", I've provided evidence. No it isn't, we don't know because none has been given to us so we can't say one way or the other. Do you understand the concept of a one-dimensional/flat c… | /r/MensRights | 12/09/15 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]This is not a logically sound inference however as the absence of proof does not prove the negative, or else nothing would exist until after it is discovered, which is obviously impossible. We already went over this. Instead of analyzing literary structures, you're reverting to philosophy or something. We got into canon and how it doesn't exist until it becomes canon. Given the canon of Sam, saying they don't have a personality is sound. That conclusion doesn't come from a lack of things, it com… | /r/MensRights | 11/09/15 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]No, I'm telling you you didn't understand them, or their relevance int he context of my argument. I know I don't understand. I need you to explain this statement: However if you make inferences FROM the LACK of things in infer from, your inferences can easily be wrong. SO YOU SHOULDN"T DO IT. THAT IS MY POINT. Please give me an example of how one could "make inferences FROM the LACK of things"? Let's use Sam. What are examples of inferences that we could make of Sam "FROM the LACK of things"? Yo… | /r/MensRights | 10/09/15 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]You seem to think so, however that is what I have been trying to point out, they are different things and I see no logical inconsistencies in what I've stated so far, nor what you are presenting here. Are you telling me you didn't write these statements where you explicitly talk about inferences. I bolded it for you to make it easy. However if you make inferences FROM the LACK of things in infer from, your inferences can easily be wrong. SO YOU SHOULDN"T DO IT. THAT IS MY POINT. However you have… | /r/MensRights | 09/09/15 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]You CAN'T make inferences from the lack of information. You SHOULDN'T make positive claims based on the lack of negating factors. You seem to be using "inferences" and "positive claims" interchangeably. However if you make inferences FROM the LACK of things in infer from, your inferences can easily be wrong. SO YOU SHOULDN"T DO IT. THAT IS MY POINT. However you have repeatedly claimed that I WAS making inferences, despite me saying MY POINT was THAT YOU CAN'T I mean, I don't see any mention of "… | /r/MensRights | 08/09/15 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]MY POINT was THAT YOU CAN'T What is your point. "THAT YOU CAN"T" or "SO YOU SHOULDN"T DO IT"? This is why I have to ask questions. You keep changing your position every time you get backed into a corner. I mean, look at your quote, you set the conditions. if you make inferences FROM the LACK of things The only thing we know about Sam, at that point, is they walked past Pat. your inferences can easily be wrong. Here's you explaining the character of Sam: I dunno, for all I know he's an abused you… | /r/MensRights | 07/09/15 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]You aren't even conversing with me any more. I'm quoting you. I'm copying and pasting from your comments. You're /u/jojotmagnifficent, right? This came from your comment: You can't make inference if there is nothing to infer FROM. However if you make inferences FROM the LACK of things in infer from, your inferences can easily be wrong. SO YOU SHOULDN"T DO IT. THAT IS MY POINT. Are you denying you wrote this? I mean, I could have wrote it, because it is my point too, but I could not find it in my… | /r/MensRights | 06/09/15 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]Huh, what do I have to do with all of this? I just needed you to reconfirm all the comments that were removed were masturbation/sex jokes. Thanks. | /r/MensRights | 06/09/15 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]What context is that? The first half of the sentence you quoted. You mean all the ones that may or may not have even existed int he first place (we can't tell because they are already deleted)? Are you saying no lewd comments have been made about Rainbow Mika? I mean, many of the mods have proven to not be exactly trustworthy on reddit, especially when it comes to not pushing an agenda. Do you have evidence of /u/foamed being untrustworthy, or should I just believe your head-canon? ALL street fi… | /r/MensRights | 06/09/15 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Now, the killjoys are coming for Taylor Swift - the bloggers and tweeters, feminists and critics who have replaced the blue-rinse brigade in their social force and are skilled in the arts of outrageThey're late to the party. /r/MensRights has had an issue with Taylor Swift since at least Blank Space. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/15 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Army 'must not lose banter' in harassment crackdown The Army’s fighting spirit and effectiveness will be undermined if it is turned into a “sterile and humourless place”, it is claimedSurvey puts it at 22% for males. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/15 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]The author apparently doesn't. A quote from the article about Mika Your missing the context of the quote. I’d still love to see R. Mika in a sports bra, because owwww, but I know that her painful boob-bouncing appearance is being presented as part of the “fantasy” sold here (sigh) and... The author is complaining about Mika's presentation because of the reception in the forums. You remember all the lewd comments that had to be deleted? The writer thinks the presentation is doing little to preven… | /r/MensRights | 05/09/15 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]Cammy's ass is enormous and would swallow a wider bottomed leotard I wouldn't say Cammy's ass is enourmous, and she's listed as only having a 35in hip measurement. I'm saying we don't know what was in their heads so we can't comment on what is and isn't there. It's that simple. Good. Take your own advice. We don't know what is in their heads, but we know what we are presented with in trailers and whatnots. We see Rainbow Mika is a character. We see that people have my sexual comments about her. … | /r/MensRights | 05/09/15 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]Wrestling is predominantly a mens sport Your the one who told me "I DO see it all over Olympic wrestling however". So, I looked up wrestling stuff. If you want to move the goal posts and now say thong leotards are for gymnastics. Cool. Can you show me some thong leotards in Olympic gymnastic competition or when Cammy's leotard isn't being presented as a thong? It's not cannon for the ACTUAL work, it's their own private cannon that nobody else recognises (hence why the author of the article uses … | /r/MensRights | 04/09/15 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]I DO see it all over Olympic wrestling however The YouTube videos I watched, I didn't see a thong singlet. Could you give some examples of Olympic wrestlers in thongs? But when other people get involved you need to establish what is "real" We are those other people who get involved by consuming the material and coming up with interpretations. The writer experienced the material and loves the character of Mika, however she finds that other people do not share her interpretation. She finds the per… | /r/MensRights | 04/09/15 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]Whats wrong with a character having obtusely overt sexual presentation? There's nothing wrong with it. But the writer of the article doesn't want the obtusely overt sexual presentation to overshadow the coolness of the character. Do you think a thong leotard makes perfect sense for a fighting game because of the minimum restriction and no loose clothing to grab? Do you think some characters are restricted by their clothing in the game, like they're slower or something? Is Cammy harder to grab be… | /r/MensRights | 03/09/15 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]That is also unrelated to their physical portrayal, I don't disagree that internal qualities are usually unrelated to physical portrayal, but are you denying that internal qualities are unrelated to sexiness? This post now was the first time in 20+ years I've ever hard anyone describing Ryu as sexy, including women. Yeah, me too. He's being described as sexy now, and he's been developed through the game series. Ryu is sexy and well developed. (and no guys cared either outside of the "lol, bewbs"… | /r/MensRights | 03/09/15 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]Their level of sexyness and their amount of development is unrelated though You might just be a visual person, but other people find internal qualities sexy also. If somebody is funny and smart, they get sexier. It's hypocritical because with one breath she is saying Ryu is sexy...while with the next claiming that only being sexy is a terrible thing if you have tits and a vajayjay. Ryu is sexy and well developed. He's a character that requires little introduction if you've been playing the serie… | /r/MensRights | 03/09/15 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]Either way, I think we can both agree that the "mmm sexy ryu good" vs "eww, sexy female characters bad" is a bit of a hypocritical position to take up. I don't see the hypocrisy because you can have a poorly developed character who is sexy and a well developed character that is sexy. If Rainbow Mika is presented as just T&A, she's a poorly developed character who is sexy. If Rainbow Mika is properly developed through her storyline, then she can be a well developed character who is sexy. It's abo… | /r/MensRights | 03/09/15 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]Sure, but I wouldn't act like some sort of conspiricy I don't think I'm acting like it's a conspiracy, and the article doesn't read like that either. No one is really arguing that R Mika should get more limelight than Ryu, but when R Mika is in the limelight, that they don't mess it up. I can't see why not, and if you like her then good for you. But why isn't the article linked all "yay things I like happened!" (in which case it should be a shitty private blog post, not an article on a major gam… | /r/MensRights | 02/09/15 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]To do it properly she would basically need her own game, and I can't see that happening. Not unless her fans advocate for her. I assume like the previous fighting games, she'll have her own storyline when you choose to beat the game with her. Those cut scenes between fights is the place to try to get some sort of traction. It's not that crazy for someone to become a breakout character on a piece of media. but wouldn't Neville be a supporting character...(I assume this happened, never watched the… | /r/MensRights | 02/09/15 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]Why should arbitrary bit characters get explored though? Fan-service usually. I mean the writer of the article just digs Mika and hopes that she gets explored. Plus it makes for a richer and fuller world. Exploring in depth a character of no importance is just bad writing. It's a waste of story telling time, a waste of the readers time and it just bloats everything with useless noise. Bad writing is bad writing. If a writer can't explore a bit character properly, then they shouldn't do it. Howev… | /r/MensRights | 02/09/15 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]You know it's sexism to assume that, right? How is that sexism? The comparison of these two articles as evidence of sexism is pretty weak. Please elaborate, maybe I'm missing something. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/15 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]Um, people are pointing out that neither characters are well developed... Comparing Ryu and Mika, Ryu is heads and shoulders above Mika in development. Within the game series, he's got rivals, revenge plots, and a storyline where he becomes an evil version of himself. The franchise as a whole, he's featured heavily in comics, film, and television. You even said further down that you hope they don't reduce Mika to a joke. Not me. I was referencing the writer of the article. Again, why don't you c… | /r/MensRights | 02/09/15 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]And very much not sexism. That's the point. I'm not arguing that it is sexist that they haven't expanded on R. Mika, and I don't think the writer of the article is either. My main point is that after reading both articles, there doesn't seem to be much sexism against males and that it's not bad for someone to want a character they like to be featured more. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/15 01:29 PM |
| 0 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]Why does Mika specifically need it? The writer likes the character's core concept. It seems completely arbitrary, people can't help what they like. That's over a total of 9,000 votes. Try again. So, this a top 5 favorite character who's only been in one game since this new one is coming up? It's been almost 20 years since she's been a playable character. I wonder where she ranked in other polls for the previous games. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/15 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]I don't think anyone is saying it's unfair that Ryu gets a lot of attention, just that other characters should be explored. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/15 12:11 PM |
| 0 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]I don't only complain about the development of female characters. If there's any character you think that doesn't get enough attention, feel free to write a post about it. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/15 12:09 PM |
| 0 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]But calling the choice not to do so "sexist" is not asking for more cut scenes. Additionally, not adding more cut scenes may be a failing of some kind, but it's not sexism. She's not asking for more cut scenes, the game isn't even out yet. She's hoping that the cut scenes don't reduce Mika to a joke. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/15 09:06 PM |
| -1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]She's already desensitized to the body of text in the link, and goes on to address other issues in the rest of the article. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/15 09:05 PM |
| 0 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]In which case all the characters are under-developed by most standards because it doesn't matter to the actual game playing. As under-developed as they are, fighting games still have a story mode. Asking for good cut scenes doesn't mess up the gameplay. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/15 08:55 PM |
| -1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]Where in the article is she claiming sexism? | /r/MensRights | 01/09/15 08:48 PM |
| -1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]Sure, but asking for more development isn't crazy. Mika apparently wasn't developed enough to become a fan favorite. I assume the writer wanted Mika in more than two iterations of the Street Fighter series. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/15 08:45 PM |
| -3 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]Sorry. Let me rephrase it for clarity. Why complain if the writer of the article wants a character she likes to be better developed? If she's a consumer of the product, she can make her opinions known. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/15 08:04 PM |
| -4 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]Whether or not a character is developed fully is not an issue of sexism, or an issue at all. For some people, the overuse of tropes (undeveloped characters) is an issue for some. They reinforce stereotypes. Not every single aspect and character can be created equal... I agree, but if fans of the franchise want to bitch about it, let them. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/15 08:03 PM |
| -1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]The game may not focus on the storyline too much, but the franchise does make an effort to expand their stories. Just watch the animated or live-action series or read the comics. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/15 07:52 PM |
| -1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]So, basically she's demanding that video game developers change their shit because she doesn't like it... how is that not entitled as fuck? Are you getting mad at someone who wants to add development to a character? Tell me exactly which development that she asks for that is so bad? I mean, if she's bought stuff from the franchise, then she's entitled to ask for things. Shit, some companies want to hear from their consumers. Except that he/she is literally making a huge issue out of that charact… | /r/MensRights | 01/09/15 07:48 PM |
| 4 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]Why are we singling out white males? | /r/MensRights | 01/09/15 06:48 PM |
| -2 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]Like, what is Ryu's character development, really? Well, he got some sort of evil energy within him that threatens to destroy his humanity. He also deals with friendly rivalries and actual rivalries throughout the series. This stuff is further explored in other mediums like the animated series and comic books. The writer seems to be a fan of the franchise, and is just providing a critique on a character that she likes. You both agree that don't have depth and are mostly one dimensional. She want… | /r/MensRights | 01/09/15 06:32 PM |
| -4 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]Maybe so. I'm just pointing out the fact that she doesn't care. I wouldn't be so sure to say she doesn't care. She seems to have some sort of opinion on a multitude of male characters in one other game. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/15 05:52 PM |
| -8 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]You're going to have to take that up with her. Maybe she's like you and thinks their story is absolutely ancillary. Nothing wrong with that. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/15 04:42 PM |
| -1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]Of course, but that shouldn't keep people from hoping other characters get some development. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/15 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]Is Ryu lacking in character development? He's the main protagonist of the franchise. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/15 04:19 PM |
| 0 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]Shit, there's a fandom for almost anything. The Street Fighter franchise has been developed in animation, live action, comics, and mangas. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/15 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]For you it's just a fighting game, but for a fandom, it's more than that. There's nothing wrong with either view. However, those who think it's just a fighting game, why complain if somebody wants to develop a character? The mechanics of the game isn't going to change. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/15 03:10 PM |
| -1 | Sexism in a nutshell [3]After reading the articles, this isn't as sexist as I thought. Hell, the author of the articles is down with both looks, but just wants Rainbow Mika to be more developed as a character. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/15 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Women choose to abort baby girls. Feminist complains and blame patriarchy.It ISN'T. I'm glad that we can agree on that. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/15 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Women choose to abort baby girls. Feminist complains and blame patriarchy.Yes I believe I already explained that. I'm sorry, but I've re-read your posts and I couldn't find an explanation. Could you point out where you explained: What is efficient about continuing traditions, policies and practices that favor sons over daughters when we have technology that we didn't have hundred of years ago? What exactly is efficient about keeping females from inheriting things (in 2015)? | /r/MensRights | 31/08/15 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Women choose to abort baby girls. Feminist complains and blame patriarchy.Yeah that's not the way it used to work...Up until a few hundred years ago... Why are we talking about a hundred years ago. These inheritance law reforms happened in the 1990s. How primitive do you imagine South Korea to be? China and India have over a billion people each. I don't think they have to worry about becoming extinct. What is efficient about continuing traditions, policies and practices that favor sons over daughters when we have technology that we didn't have hundred of years ago? | /r/MensRights | 31/08/15 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Women choose to abort baby girls. Feminist complains and blame patriarchy.Sex roles don't devalue anyone. They most certainly do when we're talking about things with actual monetary value. We're not talking about values like feelings and whatnot, we're talking about inheritances that usually pertain to money and assets. I would imagine some women would actually need money if they don't have a husband. What exactly is efficient about keeping females from inheriting things? | /r/MensRights | 31/08/15 06:48 PM |
| 5 | Women choose to abort baby girls. Feminist complains and blame patriarchy.have zero FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY This might be a good point, but if all the other countries had laws similar to South Korea, where women didn't have full rights in inheritance, then women, by law or by culture, had almost zero financial privileges. This doesn't quote-unquote devalue female life, it actually devalues females by keeping monies and assets from them. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/15 02:53 PM |
| 0 | Women choose to abort baby girls. Feminist complains and blame patriarchy.I know that in India it is traditionally...These suggestions of conspiratorial causes to these effects... I think most of it comes from OP's editorializing the headline. The article itself doesn't even mention the patriarchy theory. Both you and the article reference traditions as something that incentivizes sons over daughter, but that doesn't really explain the reason why they have/had the tradition of male children having to care for elderly parents or why daughters cost a dowry to marry off … | /r/MensRights | 31/08/15 01:33 PM |
| 3 | Women choose to abort baby girls. Feminist complains and blame patriarchy.Many countries have a deep-seated cultural preference for sons over daughters. That's when the South Korean government began to overhaul laws that favored sons. Women gained full rights in inheritance and in heading families. But a growing number of countries continue traditions, policies and practices that favor sons over daughters. I wish the article would go a little bit more in-depth about these points, but some of these countries might follow a patriarchy model. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/15 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Army stats show that women are injured twice as often as men in combat trainingThe US couldn't disband it's standing army. Obviously, but the hypothetical situation isn't about protecting European countries. However, we could imagine a role reversal where US allies pick up the slack of the US disbanding a standing army. I'm just trying to get an idea of what resources are still available. The US would still have intelligence gathering services. Does it take a standing army to maintain a missile defense program? Keep in mind this is all just for fun. | /r/MensRights | 28/08/15 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Army stats show that women are injured twice as often as men in combat traininga naval crossing How fast can a fleet cross the Pacific? | /r/MensRights | 27/08/15 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Army stats show that women are injured twice as often as men in combat trainingI'm not looking for a heated argument. I'm just playing around with the idea of the US being conquered. I mean, if we were being technical, reserve units aren't really part of a standing army since they aren't full-time military. I'm just thinking if we were to entertain the idea of the US disbanding its standing army, it would adjust its defense plan. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/15 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Army stats show that women are injured twice as often as men in combat trainingpolice no. ATF, FBI, CIA, etc? What's the scenario where someone conquers the US? Are we talking that the US disbands its standing army, and former military folk are not allowed to participate in repelling the invasion? Edit: Are military contractors part of the standing army? | /r/MensRights | 27/08/15 10:42 PM |
| -1 | Army stats show that women are injured twice as often as men in combat trainingCare to elaborate? Naval landing? Air drops? | /r/MensRights | 27/08/15 10:36 PM |
| -1 | Army stats show that women are injured twice as often as men in combat trainingHow do you imagine China or North Korea establishing a beachhead? | /r/MensRights | 27/08/15 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Army stats show that women are injured twice as often as men in combat trainingAre we including law enforcement and the reserves as part of the standing army? | /r/MensRights | 27/08/15 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Banksy: "Feminism is a Weapon. Weapons are for War. Make Love Not War."Edit: a poster below has indicated that Bansky did not himself paint these words; rather he posted an image containing the statement on his facebook page. Banksy is not represented by an art gallery, is not on Facebook and has never used Twitter. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/15 03:23 AM |
| 2 | ‘Free bleeding’ and the stupidly clever feminists who fell for itOf course. I'm just saying she did this back in April, but for some reason it's getting a lot of media attention in August. If there was more evidence of her promoting free bleeding, I would be inclined to believe that she fell for the hoax. However, she seems more concerned about period-shaming and sanitation issues in nations where it seems like it is difficult to get the necessary products. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/15 11:30 PM |
| 1 | ‘Free bleeding’ and the stupidly clever feminists who fell for itI'm not sure if she's a free bleeder. Way I heard it, she did it spur of the moment to raise awareness for women who don't have access to tampons and the like and period-shaming. I couldn't find any other instances of her free bleeding prior to or after this one occasion. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/15 03:07 AM |
| 0 | "Rise of the female superhero"What are we discussing here? Good comics are good comics. The comic book industry seems to have got the male demographic covered, if it wants to grow, it'll have to find new customers. | /r/MensRights | 13/08/15 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Domestic violence is equally prevalent in LGBT relationships, as in heterosexual ones, says new research. Sooo...what does that mean for feminists 'Delouth' model?And made the wheel gender neutral. I would imagine that abusers across all types of relationships use similar techniques to maintain power and control. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/15 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Domestic violence is equally prevalent in LGBT relationships, as in heterosexual ones, says new research. Sooo...what does that mean for feminists 'Delouth' model?They made an LGBT one. | /r/MensRights | 08/08/15 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Discussion - male stereotypes and "Breaking Bad"I was responding to your comment, but you deleted it. I don't think it contributed to the conversation. Here's my reply though: Just answer the question. Do you think it's a scumbag move to let someone die (especially considering that person is no longer a threat to you)? It's yes or no. It's okay to be wrong. I know you don't want to say 'yes' because you think you would lose face, but it would be a sign of growth. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/15 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Discussion - male stereotypes and "Breaking Bad"C'mon. I'm asking you simple questions now. Do you think it's a scumbag move to let someone die? If you answer yes, then we can put this whole issue to bed. If you answer no, then you're going to have to provide some logical, rational reasons. You tried arguing that Jane was a cunt and deserved it, but everything Jane has done, Walt has also done (sometimes to a greater degree). Still you won't call Walt a cunt/scumbag. It seems irrational that you would label one person a cunt but not another p… | /r/MensRights | 07/08/15 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Discussion - male stereotypes and "Breaking Bad"You seem to not realize that words like "scumbag" are completely subjective. Great. We might get somewhere with this admission, because in the beginning you had a hard time believing that Walter could ever possibly be considered a scumbag. Let's break it down real simple-like then. My bar for scumbaggery is letting people die who you could save, especially when your life is not at risk (it could go lower). Do you think it's a scumbag move to let people die? | /r/MensRights | 07/08/15 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Discussion - male stereotypes and "Breaking Bad"I'm calling you a scumbag troll because this is clearly what you're doing. I don't care that you called me a scumbag troll. I'm asking if you now believe that there are scumbag ways of doing things. I mean you seem to have some sort of grasp on the concept of scumbaggery if you're using it in your comments. I was trying to be objective, but you refuse to. How am I not being objective? I was fine with calling Jane a cunt, just like I'm fine with calling Walt a scumbag. She did things that makes h… | /r/MensRights | 07/08/15 02:15 AM |
| 2 | Discussion - male stereotypes and "Breaking Bad"Wait. How am I a scumbag troll? You said: There is no such thing as a "scumbag" way. Are you willing to admit that there are ways to be a scumbag, even when trolling? Or are you "being completely subjective and unable to look at things objectionably"? I mean you seem to be pretty subjective about blackmailing. Jane blackmailing Walt is cunty, but Walt blackmailing others is not cunty... I mean, if you really want to debate, you would do a lot better than name-calling. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/15 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Discussion - male stereotypes and "Breaking Bad"I don't expect him to let himself get caught, but some of the actions he takes to avoid getting caught are scumbag moves. Say a mass murderer is on the run. I understand that he might continue to kill cops or whoever to avoid getting caught, but that mass murderer is a scumbag. Edit: /u/wisty, do you think /u/Deezlutz might be an example of how the toxic role model that is Walter White might harm people? | /r/MensRights | 07/08/15 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Discussion - male stereotypes and "Breaking Bad"is doing what you need to do to survive a "scumbag" move? Does Walt need to let Jane die to survive? No. Worst case scenario, he gets exposed and gets what he deserves. Does Walt need to blackmail Jesse to assist him to initially get into the meth business to survive? No. Worst case scenario, he goes hat in hand to his old friends at Gray Matter for money. Does Walt need to blackmail Elliott and Gretchen in handling illegal funds that his family doesn't want anything to do with to survive? No. W… | /r/MensRights | 07/08/15 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Discussion - male stereotypes and "Breaking Bad"I don't understand this. Him doing what needed to be done is being a scumbag? Nothing is needed. Walt doesn't need Jesse in his life anymore. The cancer is in remission and Walt got his big payout. Getting Jesse back under his wing is just something Walt wants. The fact that he thinks letting Jesse's girlfriend die is the way is a scumbag move, and he knows it when he cries about it. No, Jesse chose to stay. My point isn't about leverage, it's about contradicting you that Walt doesn't have an ef… | /r/MensRights | 06/08/15 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Discussion - male stereotypes and "Breaking Bad"You not expecting him to let someone who's threatening to turn him and getting his partner hooked on even worse drugs is idiotic and irrational. Walter acts exactly as I would have up until he consciously decides to allow Jane to die. He delivers the money that he owes Jesse under the threat of blackmail, and that was suppose to be the end of their relationship. However, he returns to Jesse's apartment for one last conversation and inadvertently knocks Jane into a position where she will choke o… | /r/MensRights | 06/08/15 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Discussion - male stereotypes and "Breaking Bad"What do you expect him to do? Obviously, not let her die. she was getting Jesse hooked on heroin and blackmailing him...Jane was a cunt I'm fine with Jane being a cunt, but that doesn't mean she deserves to die. It's not like Jesse was a straight-edge kid that didn't know about drugs. Jesse abuses drugs, especially when his friend, Combo, is killed dealing the drugs (Walter's idea) that Jesse helps manufactures. If you think Jane is responsible for Jesse getting hooked on heroin, then you might … | /r/MensRights | 06/08/15 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Discussion - male stereotypes and "Breaking Bad"For the sake of saving time and avoiding unnecessary comments that add nothing to the conversation (like the the last three comments), let's assume that everybody is being serious unless they mark their comments as not being serious. So, it would be nice if your next comment was something about how letting Jane die was not a scumbag move. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/15 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Discussion - male stereotypes and "Breaking Bad"Are you fucking serious? | /r/MensRights | 06/08/15 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Discussion - male stereotypes and "Breaking Bad"He let Jane die. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/15 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Discussion - male stereotypes and "Breaking Bad"Walter may be an awesome television character, but as a person, he's a scumbag. If you didn't get the scumbag vibe off of him, you might be one of the people that is susceptible to the toxic role models that /u/wisty is talking about. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/15 03:18 AM |
| 3 | Discussion - male stereotypes and "Breaking Bad"Fuck Walter White. He's a scumbag after season 2. His brother-in-law, Hank Schrader, provides a pretty stereotypical look of masculinity. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/15 01:39 AM |
| 4 | Patriarchy theory is a form of psychological projection.[source - Rudman LA,Goodwin SA.] Do you have link to this? I couldn't find one without a paywall. Coincidentally there are a growing number of studies showing that women are becoming increasingly narcissistic and that the rapid increase in NPD occurring in women is, at least partially, caused by feminism. Sources for theses studies would also be nice. Really just the ones that link narcissism to feminism. Due to the ever-changing definition of the Patriarchy Theory, could you tell me which one y… | /r/MensRights | 05/08/15 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Male Sexuality is Infectious?With respect, youre ignoring my example of a non-virgin girl vs non-virgin boy I'm not ignoring it, I attributed it to America's Judeo-Christian heritage. What's more to say about it? People are hypocrites who think like that? | /r/MensRights | 04/08/15 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Male Sexuality is Infectious?Which one is it? The relationship is, without a doubt, tied to Christianity. But I don't see it as wholly responsible for it. or I believe that, given our nation's very religious past, such views have largely pervaded the masses as a whole. If the Judeo-Christian roots of the US isn't "wholly responsible", then what else could be responsible? I'm not denying religion's influence on sexuality in America (just look at LGBT equality), and that's why I said we've evolved from it. To think that males… | /r/MensRights | 04/08/15 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Male Sexuality is Infectious?The relationship is, without a doubt, tied to Christianity. But I don't see it as wholly responsible for it. But who really subscribes to the whole virgin=pure thing beyond religious people? They have a whole purity culture with purity balls, promise rings, and abstinence pledges. Since the sexual revolution and today's hook-up culture (that may or may not be happening), society has evolved from the whole purity thing. If anything, there are two systems at work, where females have the whole prud… | /r/MensRights | 03/08/15 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Male Sexuality is Infectious?The whole virgin=pure seems to be based in Christianity, which has certain rules for both male and females. Males also could be considered impure. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/15 09:48 PM |
| 1 | 'Love' is a feminine concept designed to protect women and force males into conformity. Thoughts?I was being flippant. Cool, but what do you think about the four types of love? No idea. Hence why I opened the conversation on a men's rights forum. Masculinity might just be a design that forces men into conformity. Plenty of men have tried to be masculine even though it conflicts with their own self-interests. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/15 12:56 PM |
| 1 | 'Love' is a feminine concept designed to protect women and force males into conformity. Thoughts?What about platonic love? | /r/MensRights | 01/08/15 12:47 PM |
| 2 | 'Love' is a feminine concept designed to protect women and force males into conformity. Thoughts?I don't believe in 'love.' Love, for me, is a fiction invented by 12th century Italians who wanted to stop people from jumping out of windows at the thought of how meaningless everything is. Would it change your mind if the concept of love predates the 12th century? The most popular definition of love is probably the four types of love from ancient Greece: agape, eros, philia, and storge. Why wasn't the whole world jumping out of windows before the Italians came around? With this considered, is … | /r/MensRights | 01/08/15 12:44 PM |
| 7 | The notion of "toxic masculinity" is just women femsplaining masculinity.Feminists use terminology, rhetoric, and symbolism when discussing men that results in their dehumanization, this poses problems for the adherents of feminism in maintaining a healthy outlook on men, and may undermine their ability to properly interact with reality. They internalize feminism through a variety of mechanisms, narratives, and conditioning. A notable example of indoctrination process is when feminists feel compelled to verbally abuse, ostracize, and alienate persons who reject their… | /r/MensRights | 30/07/15 04:01 PM |
| 0 | Testing the Patriarchy Theory: A comment from KiA(assuming the US is a patriarchy) I'm not assuming that the US is currently a patriarchy. At most there might be some patriarchal ways still remaining. However, we seem to agree that at one point in time that the US could be described as a patriarchy. By your own admission, people at the bottom tend to be males in both a patriarchal society and a non-patriarchal society, which kind of makes examining the bottom of a society moot in determining any patriarchal theory. the evidence for a gender se… | /r/MensRights | 27/07/15 07:20 PM |
| 0 | Testing the Patriarchy Theory: A comment from KiAIs this comment meant for me? Because I don't see the point in discussing the patriarchal theory when there is no definitive patriarchal theory. Or as you say: an ever illusive intangible concept which means whatever its proponents need it to mean at any given time. If you have a problem with the definition of patriarchy: a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it. Then let me know. I think the definition is a pretty objective and sound s… | /r/MensRights | 27/07/15 07:06 PM |
| 0 | Testing the Patriarchy Theory: A comment from KiAthe crux of patriarchy theory. A main theme found throughout this subreddit is that there is no definitive patriarchy theory, which is why I tend to stick to just discussing patriarchy as it is defined in dictionaries. Also, I think it would be a mistake to think that societies only follow one social system. I mean, a patriarchy doesn't really describe the economic system used within that society. | /r/MensRights | 27/07/15 03:37 PM |
| 0 | Testing the Patriarchy Theory: A comment from KiA/u/aprobo made an interesting observation about the term. Men being at the bottom of our society has nothing to do with the simple definition, namely "a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it." | /r/MensRights | 27/07/15 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Testing the Patriarchy Theory: A comment from KiAMen being at the bottom of our society has nothing to do with the simple definition, namely "a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it." I just wanted to make sure you were aware of this. If you think the definition is too simple, we can expand it via discussion. my original post was able to disprove the patriarchy, because someone put forward a predictive definition You didn't really disprove the patriarchy, you just disproved a theory.… | /r/MensRights | 27/07/15 02:44 PM |
| -1 | Testing the Patriarchy Theory: A comment from KiAIt doesn't! Agreed. So, why would the evidence you provide in the original post be used as evidence of a patriarchy existing or not? To see why, allow me to assume you agree the sky was blue in the past. I appreciate it if you didn't try to put words in my mouth. All of my conclusions have come from your stated assumptions. You were the one who said: the people on the bottom of patriarchal societies are male. As you pointed out earlier, the people at the bottom today tend to be males. Using your… | /r/MensRights | 27/07/15 01:23 PM |
| 0 | Testing the Patriarchy Theory: A comment from KiAThat said I think the answer is undenyable: the people on the bottom of patriarchal societies are male. I'm not denying anything. So, if males still continue to occupy the bottom rungs of society to this day, does that mean we're possibly living in a patriarchy? Should we be fighting the patriarchy? Edit: Or are these just remnants of a patriarchal society? | /r/MensRights | 27/07/15 11:17 AM |
| -1 | Testing the Patriarchy Theory: A comment from KiAWhat apex fallacy? I'm okay with calling the US an oligarchy. However, a large society like the US is usually made up of a bunch of smaller societies that could include a ruling class. I'm just trying to determine if this small society fits in the definition of a patriarchy. | /r/MensRights | 27/07/15 11:06 AM |
| 0 | Testing the Patriarchy Theory: A comment from KiAthe US was at one time a patriarchal society During this time when the US was a patriarchal society, how would you describe the prison population, war deaths and injuries statistics, etc? | /r/MensRights | 26/07/15 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Testing the Patriarchy Theory: A comment from KiASo the term patriarchy to me has both the connotation of "it's all cultural" and "it's a bad thing". I feel like your connotations are clouding your analysis, and I'm trying to discuss the idea of a patriarchy objectively. We can discuss whether it is "cultural" or a "a bad thing" after we determine its existence. Since we both have used the US in our examples, I thought it would be a fair to use it as our common foundation. So, would it be fair to describe the US was at one time a patriarchal s… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/15 11:01 PM |
| 0 | Testing the Patriarchy Theory: A comment from KiA.01% made up the ruling class, who were white men. But the vast majority of men could not vote, or were enslaved and also lacked a voice. Can we agree that the ruling class was a patriarchal society? It was the white men who held the power and largely excluded women from the power within their society. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/15 10:56 PM |
| 3 | Testing the Patriarchy Theory: A comment from KiAOkay, I am happy to debate this definition, but first I feel obligated to point out that the one you've put forward is not how the term is generally used in feminist circles. I don't care about the feminist definition. I rather discuss the "totally unobjectionable and obviously important meaning" of patriarchy. As you say, since we live in a semi-functioning democracy, and women have the right to vote, by your definition we are not living in a patriarchy. I'm not arguing that we live in a patria… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/15 04:55 PM |
| 0 | Testing the Patriarchy Theory: A comment from KiAOP showed up. But out of curiosity, since generally agree doesn't sound like a 100%, what's off point? | /r/MensRights | 26/07/15 11:39 AM |
| 8 | Testing the Patriarchy Theory: A comment from KiAMy main issue is that you treat patriarchy as an absolute where all aspects of society must reflect patriarchy or it doesn't exist. At its simplest form patriarchy can be defined as: a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it. Factoring in other social factors such as feminism, men's rights, and egalitarianism, you can't expect a society/government to maintain its original form. I mean, the US used to be a top-to-bottom patriarchy that le… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/15 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Testing the Patriarchy Theory: A comment from KiAAre you /u/EvilPundit standing by this comment 100% or should we alert /u/aprobo that his comment is under critical analysis in /r/MensRights? | /r/MensRights | 26/07/15 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Apparently, the comic book world has been successfully colonized by women, with 50% of fans at conventions now female. At least, this is what someone at the GaGa is claiming.I would say she's 1/3 hero, 1/3 villain, and 1/3 anti-hero. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/15 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Apparently, the comic book world has been successfully colonized by women, with 50% of fans at conventions now female. At least, this is what someone at the GaGa is claiming.I mean she does flip flop in the comics and she's pretty much a protagonist in the X-Men film franchise. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/15 01:49 AM |
| 2 | How come Taylor Swift can write songs about her ex boyfriends...Taylor Swift spoke up about this observation. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/15 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Nightclub Dress Codes Discriminate Against MenCan we get a picture of the outfit? | /r/MensRights | 19/07/15 12:18 PM |
| 3 | Game of Thrones cast reacts to feminist question at SDCC. Question at 33:10. Watch for Natalie Dormer's reaction to "patriarchy" at 33:52I'm pretty sure Natalie Dormer is a feminist. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/15 01:45 AM |
| 3 | Something I just realized about the Miss America pageant.Are we talking about the bodybuilding Mr. Universe? Because I don't think that's really men's Miss America. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/15 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Can you imagine the outcry and harassment from feminist groups if the genders were reversed? Xpost from r/moviesNo, I get where you're coming from. You don't like how the male gaze is demonized, while no one bats an eye at the female gaze. There's no doubt that Magic Mike and Magic Mike XXL utilizes the female gaze, just look at the Magic Mike XXL posters. I don't know if Magic Mike XXL maintains the integrity of Magic Mike, but Magic Mike is about a lot more than male hot bodies. While advertisement for males and sexy women in video games might not be about more than hot female bodies. Like I said, it's … | /r/MensRights | 07/07/15 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Can you imagine the outcry and harassment from feminist groups if the genders were reversed? Xpost from r/moviesHow is there a double standard call out? You don't even have a real movie to compare it with. I feel like you're getting mad about an imaginary situation. You could probably make a movie about strippers that feminists don't get mad about. You could also make a movie about strippers that feminists get mad about. It's all about execution. I mean feminists get mad about porn, but they also make feminist-friendly porn. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/15 02:01 AM |
| 4 | Can you imagine the outcry and harassment from feminist groups if the genders were reversed? Xpost from r/moviesWhat point? I mean if you've seen Magic Mike XXL and it's objectifying men, then I'm willing to hear you out. I'm still going to wait until I see it before I pass final judgement, though. Because I'm hoping that Magic Mike XXL is just as good, if not better, than the original. If Magic Mike XXL is just as well done as Magic Mike, then I don't think there's much to complain about. Having a movie about strippers doesn't automatically make it objectifying or bad. The Full Monty is about male stripp… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/15 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Can you imagine the outcry and harassment from feminist groups if the genders were reversed? Xpost from r/moviesHave you seen Magic Mike XXL? Because the dancing or any other part of Magic Mike never made me think they were objectifying males. I mean if Magic Mike XXL is objectifying males and feminists aren't complaining, then we can talk about double standards. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/15 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Can you imagine the outcry and harassment from feminist groups if the genders were reversed? Xpost from r/moviesI have yet to see it, but I'm willing to give this movie the benefit of the doubt. I liked Magic Mike, and highly recommend it to anybody, male or female. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/15 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Can you imagine the outcry and harassment from feminist groups if the genders were reversed? Xpost from r/moviesWhat kind of movie would get a 96% male turnout? | /r/MensRights | 06/07/15 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Hillary Clinton on Gay Marriage 2004As far as I know, Hillary has only flipped. If she ever goes back to opposing marriage equality, then we can say she flip-flops. We want people to flip their opinions, seeing as most are against the idea of the MRM. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/15 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Hillary Clinton on Gay Marriage 2004A rundown of a bunch of Presidential candidates on marriage equality in 2015. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/15 11:54 AM |
| 0 | Final Girl, a movie in which boys hunt and kill girls for sport.You're wondering if this is part of a feminist agenda, and I am engaging in conversation with you about that. Like I stated before, this is all speculation, but I'm providing context for my speculation. The final girl trope is nothing new, and this trailer seems to give away the whole movie. She's probably going to win since we see her back in the diner all dirty. I'll be very surprised if this film has a worthwhile twist. If this is part of the feminist agenda, then it's just one film in a long… | /r/MensRights | 28/06/15 02:45 AM |
| 0 | Final Girl, a movie in which boys hunt and kill girls for sport.Yeah, you're wondering. I'm just providing my opinion so maybe you can stop wondering. I mean if you want to talk about a similar movie that definitely has a strong feminist message, then I think Death Proof by Quentin Tarintino would fit the bill. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/15 01:16 AM |
| 3 | What do you say to the argument that beating / raping women has been the norm?Are we just talking about in the United States? Because marital rape has been outlawed since 1993. However, the concept of marital rape is gender neutral. I'm not sure what the rates of marital rape were for each gender. Plus, there are several countries that have yet to criminalize marital rape. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/15 06:41 PM |
| 6 | Do you know what really pisses me off?This is not clickbaiting. Look at the title of your post. It doesn't provide any real information about the contents of the post. You have to click to find out. Concerning your main complaint, I'm curious where you live that you have to drive 35 miles to get a shave. I know two places within 10 minutes where I could get a shave. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/15 02:46 PM |
| 0 | Final Girl, a movie in which boys hunt and kill girls for sport.Can't misandry be repeated? Misandry can be repeated. I'm just saying I don't see this film as "another sign of feminism colonizing the movie industry." It's more like a filmmaker thinking he's putting a new spin on old tropes. The title is even a reference to a trope. However, I could be wrong. I haven't seen the film, so this is all speculation. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/15 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Final Girl, a movie in which boys hunt and kill girls for sport.I don't think you should be suspicious. Films about hunting humans goes all the way back to The Most Dangerous Game in 1932. Filmmakers will always try to get a fresh take on an old idea, but the whole idea of hunting women was already done in The Woman Hunt. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/15 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Equal treatment between men and women in international soccer?Are you sure you have the right link for the Neymar video? It looks like it's from the 2014 World Cup. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/15 08:49 PM |
| 13 | "Five Stupid Clichés About Women That Are Mostly True" - Can they say these things on Buzzfeed?This post was created by a user and has not been vetted or endorsed by BuzzFeed's editorial staff. BuzzFeed Community is a place where anyone can post awesome lists and creations. Learn more or post your buzz! Is this Janet "judgybitch" Bloomfield? | /r/MensRights | 29/03/15 07:51 PM |
| 3 | DAE find the domestic violence PSA on The Walking Dead annoyingly unnecessary?I think the payoff of Rick's current storyline is well worth it if they keep to the comic book. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/15 01:23 PM |
| 1 | 3 months ago, I made a post about a girl's only computers class at my public high school. This is my experience with the "regular class" I am in.Are you in the MaCS, gifted, or regular course? | /r/MensRights | 06/03/15 04:14 AM |
| 1 | #LeanInTogether on googles home page...I think that's what the book encourages. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/15 05:16 PM |
| 1 | #LeanInTogether on googles home page...It looks like it came from Sheryl Sandberg's book "Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead". | /r/MensRights | 05/03/15 03:56 PM |
| 2 | What I've Learned as the Husband of (Gasp!) a FeministIt looks like his family portrait done by a professional photographer. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/15 05:37 PM |
| 0 | Patricia Arquette just mentioned the falsified pay gap based on gender statistics in her acceptance speech at the Oscars.Google search "hollywood pay gap sony hacks". | /r/MensRights | 23/02/15 04:14 AM |
| 43 | Patricia Arquette just mentioned the falsified pay gap based on gender statistics in her acceptance speech at the Oscars.I thought the Sony e-mail hacks showed that there are some shady practices in regards to paying women in Hollywood. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/15 03:53 AM |
| 3 | Just some stupid people, but when I see examples from different cities I start to worry.What protests are these from? | /r/MensRights | 18/02/15 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Female Thor Is What Happens When Progressive Hand-Wringing And Misandry Ruin A Cherished Art-FormMy mistake. However, just because you're part of a group doesn't mean you can't hold [insert group]phobic views. Yiannopoulos was once an opponent to gay marriage, which I would say is a homophobic stance. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/15 01:51 PM |
| 3 | Female Thor Is What Happens When Progressive Hand-Wringing And Misandry Ruin A Cherished Art-FormMiles Morales isn't gay. Well, he could be gay and his girlfriend was just a beard. Bendis could just be playing the long con. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/15 02:31 PM |
| 3 | Female Thor Is What Happens When Progressive Hand-Wringing And Misandry Ruin A Cherished Art-FormThor is kind of a position since the hammer passes on the power of Thor to whoever is worthy enough to wield it. This female is not the first person to take the name Thor, there was also Eric Masterson. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/15 03:17 AM |
| 4 | Men's Rights reportedly mocked on Parks and RecreationSeriously, why should someone feel insulted by how their name is spelled? I mean, it's not like she even picked it. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/15 10:57 PM |
| 6 | Men's Rights reportedly mocked on Parks and RecreationI'm just wondering if you're a xenophobe? I mean who makes fun of how someone's name is spelled? | /r/MensRights | 11/02/15 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Men's Rights reportedly mocked on Parks and Recreationsome such unspellable monstrosity of a name? What kind of insult is this? | /r/MensRights | 11/02/15 09:10 PM |
| 1 | should @SPLCcenter be on its own #hatewatch list?Who do they hate? | /r/MensRights | 11/02/15 04:11 PM |
| 0 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?Says the person who is intentionally misreading terms I defined in my usage Are you talking about your "definition" of misogyny? You were trying to say a song isn't misogynist because it doesn't sexually objectify women. I already told you why that doesn't count and you ignored that. I didn't agree with your definition and went with the dictionary definition. re-analyzing songs with with of the same purpose in the same way I already did and reaching a different conclusion because of the sex of t… | /r/MensRights | 10/02/15 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?Says the person who thinks a video that was meant to be derogatory towards women and degrade them isn't misogynistic. Not to mention someone who accused me of taking a line of context but did so with four different songs. No. I apologize. You don't have cognitive dissonance. You would have to have "mental stress or discomfort" holding contradictory ideas. You're obviously fine with being wrong. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/15 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?I'm not going to put words in your mouth, so I'll try to parse out your point from your previous text. I guess you consider these songs more rapey than "Blurred Lines". Hold many women's work to the same standard, and they'll be just as "rapey" or more than this, and no feminists were having a shit storm over them. I just typed "come get me boy" into Google without a song in mind and and got about 5 different songs by women, yet only Blurred Lines is attacked because feminists are sexists. To st… | /r/MensRights | 10/02/15 08:36 PM |
| 0 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?I've learn not to make assumptions on Reddit. I'm done with my point that "Blurred Lines" can be viewed as more misogynistic than "Uptown Funk". If you can't make a point with these new lyrics that seem to have nothing to do with the original argument, then you're right there's no point to continue from. Because you've made no point. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/15 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?Are these lyrics supposed to be misogynistic or misandric? I'm not sure because all you've done is copied down the lyrics of some songs. Provide context. Make a point. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/15 06:19 AM |
| 0 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?Yeah, it's easy to make hyperlinks, but what's your point? | /r/MensRights | 10/02/15 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?What paranoid shit? You have one of the artist apologizing and you have the other artist explicitly saying that he was being "derogatory towards women" and thinking "What a pleasure it is to degrade women". Are you being willfully ignorant? | /r/MensRights | 10/02/15 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?This is kind of a moot point. He wanted to capture a guy's thoughts, and I'll let the art stand at that. Okay, we agree that this song is from the man's point of view. That means there's no unbiased evidence of the woman's action since it's told from his perspective. The "blurred lines" are not hers, they're his. From what? One line in the middle of the song that is just a likely anticipatory excitement I'm just taking the "That man is not your maker/and that's why I'm gon' take a good girl" lik… | /r/MensRights | 10/02/15 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?The blurred lines are the blurred lines of monogamy, in that he just referred to a relationship and then does again immediately after. This is a reasonable interpretation, but the "blurred lines" lyrics follows right after "getting blasted", which is slang for getting drunk. The lines that are getting blurred could really mean anything. You could view it as the line of relationship, feminists view it as the line of consent. The fact that we never hear from the woman (this drama could've been avo… | /r/MensRights | 10/02/15 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?If you can't hear what I'm trying to say/If you can't read from the same page/Maybe I'm going deaf,/Maybe I'm going blind/Maybe I'm out of my mind At the beginning of the song, it seems that both parties are not on the same page. OK now he was close, tried to domesticate you/But you're an animal, baby, it's in your nature/Just let me liberate you/Hey, hey, hey/You don't need no papers/Hey, hey, hey/That man is not your maker To me it sounds like the girl is in a relationship, but Thicke is bad-m… | /r/MensRights | 09/02/15 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?Which lyrics? | /r/MensRights | 09/02/15 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?All Blurred Lines did was flip the courtship roles. If anything it was really progressive. What about the song or video lead you to this conclusion? | /r/MensRights | 09/02/15 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?It's got more to go on than Blurred Lines did Could you elaborate? | /r/MensRights | 09/02/15 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?I'm just saying to respond with a full-out blitz on Uptown Funk for its small instance of catcalling wouldn't be effective. If you google "uptown funk catcalling", you'll see people have touched upon it. However, you can't really use Uptown Funk as your beachhead. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/15 01:55 PM |
| 1 | A new ad campaign paints heart disease as a women's issue. Men die of it at about 1.5x the rate women doYeah, I'm all for people being aware of heart disease, and it seems people who are familiar with the topic thought a program focused on women was necessary. The organization presents its case on their about page. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/15 01:58 AM |
| 0 | A new ad campaign paints heart disease as a women's issue. Men die of it at about 1.5x the rate women doI found this interactive website that places the majority of coronary heart disease death in females mostly happening at +75 years. But, I think the rate of death from 35-74 is enough to garner some sort of campaign. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/15 01:38 AM |
| 18 | A new ad campaign paints heart disease as a women's issue. Men die of it at about 1.5x the rate women doI'm not sure if you checked their sources, but the GoRedForWomen organization seem to be pulling all their statistics from Heart Disease and Stroke 2012 Statistical Update. If you check page e29, the "1 in 3 women" seems to be legit. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/15 10:20 PM |
| 5 | A new ad campaign paints heart disease as a women's issue. Men die of it at about 1.5x the rate women doHeart disease seems to be the leading cause of death for women. I think that makes it fair game for women to make it an issue, especially when it is preventable. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/15 06:15 PM |
| 2 | A nebulous "patriarchy" is not responsible for the choices that young women make in careers, husbands and lifestyle. It's the parents who instill those values in their girls.The fact is, that parents do have the chance to change the world through the values that they instill in their children. Where do you think the parents learned their values that they are instilling in their children? | /r/MensRights | 08/02/15 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?Is there a point to this? You just make it sound like that there are alpha males in music that don't get criticized because of their attractiveness, and I was wondering if you had any examples of these alpha males being misogynistic getting a free pass. Why do you want them to shame anyone? I don't want to shame anyone, I was just using your language. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/15 02:39 PM |
| 0 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?Yeah, i think we're on the same page: Doesn't this make pretty much make all artists easy targets? All artists/famous people are potentially easy target However, I'm confused about this statement: Yeah, but in all fairness Robin Thicke isn't exactly Michael Jackson. Jackson seems like an obscure reference. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/15 07:24 AM |
| -1 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?Mark Ronson's Uptown Funk featuring Bruno Mars doesn't really feature catcalling, it has instances of catcalling. The music video or the song itself doesn't look like they were meant to focus on catcalling as a subject matter. I can't really imagine a whole article complaining about the few seconds it is on screen. However, I guess you could include it in article criticizing music as a whole, but you would have to gather up more evidence to portray it as a trend in music. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/15 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?...the artist apologizes almost always because they receive bad press etc. Doesn't this make pretty much make all artists easy targets? | /r/MensRights | 08/02/15 06:45 AM |
| 0 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?Thicke wasn't fighting back, he was just trying to avoid controversy. Maybe we're defining 'fighting' differently. I would count trying to avoid controversy as fighting back. He was trying to fight the bad PR. He was disagreeing with what the media was trying to portray, that's an internet fight right there. And artists apologizing is just a career move, it isn't the same thing as being targeted unfairly by a group and having to like salvage your career. I think when an artist apologizes, they'r… | /r/MensRights | 08/02/15 06:04 AM |
| -3 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?I'm familiar with Lil Wayne, I'm just not sure if he's special enough to garner the full attention of feminists. He's been criticized, so he's not getting a free pass. It looks like there's a subsection of feminism dedicated to the whole genre. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/15 05:37 AM |
| 0 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?Thicke got it BAD, and I maintain that it's because he's an easy target. He has no fight back, no way to fight back. I think Thicke got it bad because he did fight back. He kept trying to justify the song which produced more drama for the news cycle. Combine that with the fact that it was a number one song, every mainstream media had to weigh in on it. The controversy went viral. Someone like Eminem or younger Jay-Z or Snoop or 50, they made entire careers off of trashing women, calling them bit… | /r/MensRights | 08/02/15 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?Of course there have been plenty of other popular guys who didn't receive the same criticism. Just cite any rapper ever. Sure they'll get criticism broadly as 'rap artists,' It seems the rap genre is being constantly criticized, and the genre always gets bashed for its treatment of women in lyrics and video. I mean the last scandal that comes to mind when I think about rap and feminism is Eminem getting called out for rapping about raping Iggy Azaela. Other scandals that come to mind is Rick Ros… | /r/MensRights | 08/02/15 04:29 AM |
| -1 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?I wouldn't call Robin Thicke a nerd, and at the time, Blurred Lines, both the album and the single, were incredibly popular. Was there a more popular guy at the time or have there been popular guys that weren't criticized? | /r/MensRights | 08/02/15 04:01 AM |
| -1 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?What point? Yeah, but in all fairness Robin Thicke isn't exactly Michael Jackson. Do you mean there are Michael-Jackson-caliber artists that feminists aren't targeting? they attacked it because it wasn't actually misogynistic and they could just use the easy "I know you want it" line to misconstrue the entire message of the song. Or do you mean that there are actual misogynistic songs that feminists are missing? Or do you mean there's no misogyny in music? | /r/MensRights | 08/02/15 03:52 AM |
| 0 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?What huge target do you think feminists missed? | /r/MensRights | 08/02/15 03:40 AM |
| -3 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?Googling "lil wayne feminism" shows that Lil Wayne is being criticized, but I'm not sure if it's enough to be considered a full attack. It's also been a while since he had a studio album release. He did release a mixtape recently but I'm not that is enough or maybe his lyrics are not egregious enough to catch the attention of mainstream media. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/15 03:39 AM |
| 0 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?What alpha male in music do you think they should be shaming into submission but aren't? | /r/MensRights | 07/02/15 11:54 PM |
| -2 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?What "popular guy" in music do you think is getting a free pass on misogyny? | /r/MensRights | 07/02/15 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Why don't feminist go after REAL misogyny?Do you have a specific Top 40 artist in mind? I feel like the last big hubbub over pop music was Robin Thicke's "Blurred Lines", but there has probably been another misogynistic song to complain about since then. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/15 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Please join me in boycotting Dinsey Pixar's new film "Inside Out" as a way to bring attention to stopping the bumbling idiot male stereotype in pop culture.If I could erase one of their movies, it would be Brave, where every single male was an idiot and the three little boys were transformed into bears with nobody even giving a shit. The triplets are pretty clever, but I would love to see a Pixar short of what they did before they meet up with Merida. I imagine that the boys liked being bears. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/15 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Buzzfeed claims Paul Elam is a deadbeat father, abuser and drug user from interviews with ex wife and daughter. Can you guys fact check this? The article skirts around every stated claim in the most vague definitions and reads like it's fake.I wouldn't mind seeing an annual financial report of AVfM. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/15 01:51 PM |
| 16 | The true Paul Elam. A man who use women. A Coward that abandoned his children. A charlatan who pretends to care about men. Make no mistake AVfM is a business that's about lining Paul Elam's pockets.I wouldn't mind seeing an annual financial report of AVfM. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/15 01:49 PM |
| 5 | If men develop heart disease 10 years younger than women, should they qualify for medicare 10 years sooner?If men develop heart disease 10 years younger than women, should they qualify for medicare 10 years sooner? There's no need to change the age of eligibility for Medicare. First, Medicare and Medicaid are two different social programs. Medicare is generally for people who have reached retirement age. Since insurance is usually covered by employers, Medicare is there for when people don't work. Medicaid is to assist those with low income. Plus, there's the Affordable Care Act. Back to the age thin… | /r/MensRights | 06/02/15 01:44 PM |
| 0 | Plus sized female model for Sports Illustrated Swimsuit, but male standards still remain the same in this ad.Maybe MRAs should adopt feminist tactics to combat the standards of male beauty? | /r/MensRights | 06/02/15 02:20 AM |
| 0 | The 'Frozen' Effect: Turning men into villains and foolsI feel like the two really haven't seen the movie. Kristoff is perfectly capable throughout the movie. I would not call him a fool. While Disney's track record on the portrayal of parents, both father figures and mother figures, isn't great, I don't think all their male characters are either villains or fools. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/15 01:12 PM |
| 5 | While FemFreq are getting their jimmies rustled over women in gaming, what about men in movies?I don't think you can include Cabin In The Woods and You're Next as real examples of the Final Girl trope since they are actually toying with the idea of the trope. I'm sure feminists have written extensively on the subject of women in film and especially about women in the horror genre. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/15 03:08 PM |
| 1 | About the feminist critique of fairy talesDo you have a link to the version you read? | /r/MensRights | 04/02/15 03:24 AM |
| 2 | #LIKEABOY...I'm not sure if you've seen the video, but it kind of looks like an officer showing up and shooting a kid. I'm not sure what the rules of engagement are for Cleveland Police, but pulling up like that seems stupid. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/15 09:56 PM |
| 4 | The Frozen sisterhood turns men into villains and fools - TelegraphKristoff is portrayed as pretty capable throughout the film. I wouldn't call him a fool. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/15 04:53 PM |
| 1 | [OpinionPost] patriarchy and why it makes no senseSo i was reading up on patriarchy and why it made no sense to me. What have you been reading? Assuming patriarchy is real, and that men do in fact "oprress" women to get up, then why do women have any power at all? Surely this patriarchy would have torn them down and ensured subserviency in the ranks. I assume like any oppressor/oppressed relationship, the oppressed fought for more power. The obvious example for women would probably be women's suffrage. My main gripe is also that patriarchy is n… | /r/MensRights | 01/02/15 01:29 AM |
| 2 | The domestication of men continues unabatedJudge Stefan Hank agreed with an expert's report that uric acid had caused some damage to the bathroom's floor. The judge was right to say "urinating standing up is still common practice", but I hope people agree with me that cleaning is also a common practice. | /r/MensRights | 30/01/15 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Is "toxic feminity" the reason why mothers are several times more likely to abuse their children than fathers?Why are we using 16 year old data? Here are some links if any statistician care to analyze the most recent numbers (Exhibit 5-C, p 65) with the provided numbers (Table 3-4). However, the 2013 report does not have a table exactly like 1999's, so I picked out the one that seemed most similar. | /r/MensRights | 30/01/15 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Dear Hollywood, Screw your opportunistic, all-female GhostbustersI'll watch anything with Kristen Wiig, but I'll withhold judgement on the film until I see a trailer. | /r/MensRights | 28/01/15 09:05 PM |
| -4 | Dear Hollywood, Screw your opportunistic, all-female GhostbustersPeople want to see Ghostbusters 3 that is like the original. 80s, Murray, nerdy. What Ghostbusters did you watch? Murray was kind of a scumbag in the movies. Egon and Ray were the nerds, and they were pretty boring. | /r/MensRights | 28/01/15 08:59 PM |
| 0 | Australian journalist fantasises about killing all menI'm curious how a moderator of such subreddits like /r/GoEbola, /r/GasTheKikes, and the such could get their jimmies rustled over this satirical article. | /r/MensRights | 28/01/15 04:08 PM |
| 1 | More assaults on male characters in romantic comedies... "She's Funny That Way Official Trailer #1 (2015) - Owen Wilson, Jennifer Aniston Movie HD "What's the result of your analysis? | /r/MensRights | 27/01/15 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Friend is getting falsely accused of rape. Police took his bed sheets, phone, and laptop. What advice can I give him?Seek out a public defender. | /r/MensRights | 26/01/15 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Anita Sarkeesian's Feminist Frequency Annual Report for 2014FemFreq made 4 times what my family makes in a year. Let's see what they did with it. Shouldn't we be analyzing their expenditures versus their output to really gauge Feminist Frequency's effectiveness? They only spent $64,200 in 2014, but their proposed budget makes it look like they're going to be more ambitious in 2015. | /r/MensRights | 26/01/15 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Four out of four Australian of the year award winners for 2015 are female.What was the uproar like in 2008? | /r/MensRights | 25/01/15 01:52 PM |
| 5 | The problem with this subreddit.only one link with feminism in it. How are you viewing Reddit? I counted five, but could only capture three in this image | /r/MensRights | 23/01/15 01:30 PM |
| 5 | German court rules men DO have the right to stand up while urinating after tenant is sued for sprinkling on bathroom floorWhile accepting that the marble floor had eaten away by uric acid the tenant had sprinkled on the ground, he said the owner should have told the tenant the floor was vulnerable I guess this will be put into the next lease. I'm not against people standing up to piss, but I am against people who piss on the floor enough that it damages the floor. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/15 05:35 PM |
| 1 | woman runs 'social experiment' where she basically acts like stuck up cunt to dudes complimenting her. complains of misogyny when said men react negatively.I'm just going to say that you don't think people should be berated for using the no-reply. I mean, men have "an equal opportunity [to] choose between replying or not replying", which means the no-reply option is "acceptable". I assume you don't want people berated for using what you think is acceptable behavior, if not, that would be confusing. So, I think we're in agreement about that issue. I'm not sure about the other points, I think we'll just have to agree to disagree. | /r/MensRights | 16/01/15 05:14 AM |
| 1 | woman runs 'social experiment' where she basically acts like stuck up cunt to dudes complimenting her. complains of misogyny when said men react negatively.Yeah, I don't know Gweneth Bateman personally or what her messaging habits are, so I can't really comment on whether she deserves every vile word. I do know that she employs the no-reply technique, which I fully support. However, I still want to know whether you think people should be berated for using the no-reply. The closest I got to an answer was: The no-reply option is only acceptable if you also give men an equal opportunity choose between replying or not replying to messages from interest… | /r/MensRights | 15/01/15 09:13 PM |
| 1 | woman runs 'social experiment' where she basically acts like stuck up cunt to dudes complimenting her. complains of misogyny when said men react negatively.Because you basically don't message anyone, right? I write messages. Why do you feel that women are entitled to being passive online when it clearly results in a clusterfuck? I addressed this with the whole "life. liberty, and pursuit of happiness" thing. Equal opportunity means everyone gets a chance to work just as hard for what they want. Is something preventing men from being passive? Is something preventing women from being aggressive? I'm sorry but you didn't answer my question. Can we agr… | /r/MensRights | 15/01/15 01:55 PM |
| 1 | woman runs 'social experiment' where she basically acts like stuck up cunt to dudes complimenting her. complains of misogyny when said men react negatively.Do as I say, not as I do, right? I try not to write low-quality messages and I don't attack people for not responding back to me. For the most part, I don't do things that I criticize other people for doing. That is a top contender for the most eggregious example of begging the question I've ever seen. My bad. If it's begging the question, then throw out the whole premise. I just wanted to point out that the number of messages that women tend to respond to will usually be greater than the number… | /r/MensRights | 15/01/15 04:39 AM |
| 1 | woman runs 'social experiment' where she basically acts like stuck up cunt to dudes complimenting her. complains of misogyny when said men react negatively.Yes, you are saying that. Setting a standard for what you're willing to respond to is in fact entitling yourself to that level of quality. I'm not saying that. If I was saying that then I would be arguing about how messages should be spellchecked and go through some sort of filter before being allowed to be sent to their account. I don't care if people employ low-quality message techniques or use copypasta. Anybody can write whatever they want. Just like I criticize their message for being low-q… | /r/MensRights | 14/01/15 09:20 PM |
| 1 | woman runs 'social experiment' where she basically acts like stuck up cunt to dudes complimenting her. complains of misogyny when said men react negatively.You're either encouraging this behaviour or being a completely rude person, so yeah... What is it? If you read my other posts, you'll know that I don't tell people to "fuck off", so we can rule out being completely rude. I've never told anyone to fuck off. Whenever I get a low-effort message via online dating, I usually call them out on it. Something along the line of "you can do better than that", and usually they can't do better than that. However, if someone continues with low-effort messages… | /r/MensRights | 14/01/15 08:14 PM |
| 1 | woman runs 'social experiment' where she basically acts like stuck up cunt to dudes complimenting her. complains of misogyny when said men react negatively.And for what it's worth, men also set up profiles. So instead of special pleading, supply a valid reason for why you feel that women are entitled to receive high quality messages from men but not the other way around. I'm not saying women are entitled to high quality messages, I'm saying people who use low-effort pick-up lines are not obligated to receive a response. Really, no one is really obligated to receive a response via messaging. They need a damn good one if they want to hold men to a di… | /r/MensRights | 14/01/15 06:59 PM |
| 0 | woman runs 'social experiment' where she basically acts like stuck up cunt to dudes complimenting her. complains of misogyny when said men react negatively.It is irrelevant because it cannot reasonably be considered an equal effort. Instead, it adds to the burden that's already placed almost entirely on men. It's also a rather arbitrary and piss-poor replacement for flirting, body language, and the like. It is relevant because it is the initial effort. If no profile exists, then nobody can make a low-effort message. It's not meant to replace flirting and the like (I don't know how body language can be conveyed via messaging). Last time I looked for… | /r/MensRights | 14/01/15 04:09 PM |
| 1 | woman runs 'social experiment' where she basically acts like stuck up cunt to dudes complimenting her. complains of misogyny when said men react negatively.the proper response was to say "fuck off" This is your quote. Which seems to be your interpretation from me saying "I think any kind of reply that isn't "fuck off" is kind of encouraging." You've ran with this misinterpretation all the way to thinking that I think saying "fuck off" is a necessity. Which I told you I don't think like this. If you take my complete statement: Yeah, given the context that these appear to be low-effort pick-up lines, I think any kind of reply that isn't "fuck off" is… | /r/MensRights | 14/01/15 03:55 PM |
| 1 | woman runs 'social experiment' where she basically acts like stuck up cunt to dudes complimenting her. complains of misogyny when said men react negatively.You said the proper response was to say "fuck off" Until you realize that I never said that, this exchange will go nowhere. | /r/MensRights | 14/01/15 01:19 AM |
| 1 | woman runs 'social experiment' where she basically acts like stuck up cunt to dudes complimenting her. complains of misogyny when said men react negatively.Her profile is irrelevant...("only message me if you're a 6 foot blue-haired Leprechaun prince who earns 200k a year and you know the secret password of the first letter of every other sentence in my profile") I think a profile is extremely relevant if we're talking about online dating. If someone did have these stipulations and you don't meet them and just come at them with "ur gorgeous", you shouldn't get mad to the point where you're calling them names if they don't reply. If someone goes thr… | /r/MensRights | 14/01/15 01:16 AM |
| 1 | woman runs 'social experiment' where she basically acts like stuck up cunt to dudes complimenting her. complains of misogyny when said men react negatively.Reciprocity does not mean that everyone has to respond back to everyone else's messages. It means that everyone puts forth an equal level of effort to begin with. I would have to see OP's dating profile or whatever to determine if these compliments are an equal level of effort, but that's just information I don't have. OP can't expect to wink anonymously at her computer screen and receive gentlemanly inquiries offering to buy her dinner. That's just not how it works in real life. In real life, m… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/15 09:25 PM |
| 1 | woman runs 'social experiment' where she basically acts like stuck up cunt to dudes complimenting her. complains of misogyny when said men react negatively.You said low level pickup lines should be replied to with a "fuck off" only, to which I replied that since you believe in said shit, you would say "fuck off" to people who try to tell you youre pretty in cheesy ways... which was a remark telling you how bad of a person someone would be if they said fuck off for someone tryig to tell them theyre pretty. I'm sorry, but I feel like you're misinterpreting my comments. [me] Yeah, given the context that these appear to be low-effort pick-up lines, I t… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/15 06:33 PM |
| 0 | woman runs 'social experiment' where she basically acts like stuck up cunt to dudes complimenting her. complains of misogyny when said men react negatively.This response would be more appropriate if this article was about women complaining about how there are no good men to date. However, this article is about...I don't know, proper correspondence etiquette in the digital age? Does OP owe everybody a response in their posts? | /r/MensRights | 13/01/15 05:35 PM |
| 1 | woman runs 'social experiment' where she basically acts like stuck up cunt to dudes complimenting her. complains of misogyny when said men react negatively.My reply was a sardonic reply to the context you provided. So... what is it? Do you not get sarcasm or context, or both. Yeah... this is sardonic too... this too... and this... you get the point or do you? Sorry this was the last one. I don't assume when I have conversations via messages, I treat them as sincere comments unless it is accompanied by internet shorthand. Are ellipsis internet code for sarcasm? If so, I was not aware of that. I usually see people use '/s' to indicate sarcasm. Becaus… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/15 04:23 PM |
| 1 | US Army awards recognition of valour in combating sexism on the InternetI'm not comparing this to actions on the battlefield. I'm just saying she seems to be in the right with upholding the Army Values. Soldiers are soldiers 24/7, and if they were being asses, then as an NCO she was in the right to correct that behavior. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/15 04:02 PM |
| 1 | woman runs 'social experiment' where she basically acts like stuck up cunt to dudes complimenting her. complains of misogyny when said men react negatively.wow... you talk that rudely to people who find you attractive? Thats just as bad, if not more, as these guys calling the chick a bitch or some other slur word. I've never told anyone to fuck off. Whenever I get a low-effort message via online dating, I usually call them out on it. Something along the line of "you can do better than that", and usually they can't do better than that. the kind of guy that flirts on the internet and is looking for nudes. When he realized that girl wasnt intrested in… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/15 03:48 PM |
| 0 | woman runs 'social experiment' where she basically acts like stuck up cunt to dudes complimenting her. complains of misogyny when said men react negatively.dude if i told someone i thought they had pretty eyes, or whatever and she responded with, 'yup' or whatever, i would not personally want another thing to do with the woman. That's perfectly fine, I'm fine with people not responding as a way to end online conversations. These girls seem like they don't want to deal with a bunch of guys with low-effort pick-up lines, but have received insults when they didn't reply. this is a clear case of somebody PROVOKING a certain type of response I wouldn't … | /r/MensRights | 13/01/15 03:28 PM |
| 1 | woman runs 'social experiment' where she basically acts like stuck up cunt to dudes complimenting her. complains of misogyny when said men react negatively.Whereas people here dont actually know each other and are trying to "hit it off"... and the "I know" wasnt the cool response that you wished for it to be here. context makes a whole lot of difference, you know? Yeah, given the context that these appear to be low-effort pick-up lines, I think any kind of reply that isn't "fuck off" is kind of encouraging. I'm kind of curious what kind of play a guy could possibly be making with such a quick turnaround of opinion when confronted with an affirmativ… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/15 03:16 PM |
| 3 | woman runs 'social experiment' where she basically acts like stuck up cunt to dudes complimenting her. complains of misogyny when said men react negatively.This reminds me of the time when Leia tells Han that she loves him and he replies with, "I know." I thought it was badass when he did it, and this seems to be kind of in the same vein. I can understand how it might rub some people the wrong way, but the back pedaling seems pretty immediate in the examples. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/15 07:34 AM |
| 6 | Good little boys, not hitting women.Can any Italians provide context? | /r/MensRights | 06/01/15 06:51 PM |
| 1 | [Question] /r/MensRights, I am currently working on my bachelor's degree regarding double standards in the culture of the USA, i could use some help.If your school can't get you on-line access, you just might have to read through abstracts and torrent what you need. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/15 03:05 PM |
| 2 | [Question] /r/MensRights, I am currently working on my bachelor's degree regarding double standards in the culture of the USA, i could use some help.You should ask your college librarian. Your school should have access to a bunch of journals and you can search through them using key phrases. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/15 02:42 PM |
| -1 | US Army awards recognition of valour in combating sexism on the InternetAnybody got screenshots of the comments or a copy of the video? She seems in the right with the limited amount of information. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/15 01:54 PM |
| 1 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitI think I hit on these points in another post. Let me know if I missed something. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/14 02:13 PM |
| 1 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitMy stance on the list is that it should be consider progress and not necessarily an appeasement tool. I don't think feminism is doing enough on all the items listed, but I think through their efforts they have worked on some of them inadvertently. There might be some like Sommers who have actually worked on them actively. ...have nothing to do with causing or perpetuating them. I don't see why there is any reason to give the benefit of doubt when it's written so plainly as it is. Due to feminism… | /r/MensRights | 31/12/14 02:12 PM |
| 1 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitI've been answering your replies out of order, so I think I've addressed your points here in comments elsewhere. Let me know if I missed something. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/14 10:01 PM |
| 1 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitIm talking about the what the OP is talking about, the list, remember? I was confused because you quoted a comment that had nothing to do with people from the OP. I'm talking about former-feminists-turned-MRA who had heard about false rape allegations, looked further into it, and saw how feminism wasn't doing enough to address it. Wow talk about a stretch... We are talking about a post by someone (the list) that contradicts what you believe it to be about in the very post itself. How is it a str… | /r/MensRights | 30/12/14 09:58 PM |
| -1 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshit... You would be projecting your own intentions onto them. Yeah, I'm trying to figure out whether they can become allies or not. Just because a feminist says we're allies doesn't make it true, there are two parties to that relationship. it boggles my mind how willing you are to look the other way at the very people causing and propagating these problems I'm not looking the other way, I'm giving people the benefit of the doubt. I'm curious if there will be a fourth wave of feminism that actually … | /r/MensRights | 30/12/14 09:31 PM |
| 1 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitHave you actually read what is being talked about or not? Because it doesn't seem like it. You are not describing what was written, you are describing something else. Are you asking about the "False Accusation" flair or people changing their minds? ... This has nothing to do with them claiming to be against lying about rape is an hollow empty thing to say. I'm talking about how you said: Saying you're against false rape accusations is completely empty. That's what a lot of Reddit is, just people… | /r/MensRights | 30/12/14 09:21 PM |
| -1 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitThey have their definition of success, I have my definition of success. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/14 09:07 PM |
| -1 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitThe fact that they've written it down means they are aware of it. If their second step is to hand wave all of them and continue on as normal, then they've failed. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/14 07:54 PM |
| 1 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitNot even pretty much, sorry I don't see how you can give them so much credit. The list states: Feminists do not want anyone to be falsely accused of rape. I, too, do not want to anyone to be falsely accused of rape. I hope you agree with that. I took out the sentence mentioning the patriarchy. Yes you would thats why you have kept telling me these people like her are allies. And yet you call them allies, when they have these conspiracy theories about society and the entire list is one big fuck y… | /r/MensRights | 30/12/14 07:51 PM |
| 1 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitYou're putting words in their mouths because you so so so want to believe they are on our side. No, this is first hand accounts from people, mostly former feminists, stating about how they come across this information. How do you think opinions and stances get changed? People are presented with new information and, hopefully, act accordingly. This is the point of our "False Accusation" flair. No it isn't I consider it touchy because every once in a while the MRM gets call out for its lack of in-… | /r/MensRights | 30/12/14 07:44 PM |
| 1 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitIt isn't at all, since it all ends with "is part of patriarchy" That's why I said "pretty much" and not "exactly". How can you call this person an ally? I wouldn't. That's why I am in wait-and-see mode. That isn't weird, its entirely expected. Weird as in to think we actually live in a patriarchy is weird. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/14 07:33 PM |
| -1 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitYou still don't get it. Their kooky ideas results in nothing actually being done about any of it. What don't I get? My initial post reads: Awareness is the first step. Hopefully, they take the second step and act upon it. I acknowledge that they haven't taken the second step of acting upon the information. I'm not sure what steps or how many it takes for a feminist to actually work the issue, but I know the first step is awareness. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/14 07:24 PM |
| 0 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitHow much longer do you propose we wait? Wait as long as you want. I've had no problem so far when dealing with the law or feminists. They're pretty much a non-issue for me. Personally, I don't think feminists are as powerful as some MRAs make them out to be. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/14 02:51 PM |
| 1 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitWhat laws are you talking about? Before these laws went into effect were we in a patriarchy? I'm sorry, I don't think we live in a patriarchy, so I have a hard time thinking we're heading to a matriarchy. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/14 02:24 PM |
| 1 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitSure, I'm wary of co-opting. That's why I'm waiting to see if this is more than just lip service. If you think I can smell the coffee, why wouldn't feminists be able to smell the coffee? | /r/MensRights | 30/12/14 02:19 PM |
| 1 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitI'm not really sure how feminists would go about it. They think false rape accusations are a product of rape culture which is a product of the patriarchy. I'd be interested to read their line of thinking about this. Maybe the phrasing is wrong. So, I ask again, how is reducing false rape accusations via a feminist viewpoint toxic? Or how is feminists reducing false rape accusations toxic? I just want to know if feminists are allowed to fight against false rape accusations. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/14 01:59 PM |
| 0 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitBecause they arent going to recoignise the true rape figures I think once you acknowledge the severity of false rape accusations, you will start to question the rape statistics that are floating around. Saying you're against false rape accusations is completely empty. This is a bit touchy. This subreddit, I think, is the first step for a lot of people when trying to address men's issue. It's a place of like-minded individuals to voice their opinions on subjects that don't get a lot of attention … | /r/MensRights | 29/12/14 11:10 PM |
| 0 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitEverything they list is pretty much the position of the MRM. The only weird thing is they have somehow connected it back to "the patriarchy" in their mind. | /r/MensRights | 29/12/14 11:00 PM |
| -1 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitChristina is not your typical feminist that says "the patriarchy hurts men too", yet look at your first post ignoring everything Pierce says still saying these people are "allies." MRA's that "used to" identify as feminist are no longer feminists, so I'm really not sure what tree you're barking up there. Sommers and former feminists are all examples of people who identify as feminist or once identified as feminists coming to the right side of the issue. They are living proof of people turning in… | /r/MensRights | 29/12/14 10:58 PM |
| -3 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitDo you understand what potential means? If there are feminist allies like Christina Hoff Sommers, then other feminists can follow in her footsteps. Also, there are numerous MRAs who used to identified as feminists. Are these people just wolves pretending to be sheep? What's the use of raising awareness for these issues if you aren't willing to accept people to come around to the right side of them? | /r/MensRights | 29/12/14 08:19 PM |
| -5 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitPotential allies. What mistake is being made waiting to see if these feminists put their money where their mouth are? It's a win-win situation. If the feminist work towards the goals listed, great. If not, then it goes to further prove the hypocrisy within the movement. | /r/MensRights | 29/12/14 06:36 PM |
| -3 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitAn MRA goal is to address the issue of false rape accusations. This list and the feminists who subscribe to its way of thinking state they are also against false rape accusations. How is reducing false rape accusations via a feminist viewpoint toxic? | /r/MensRights | 29/12/14 05:26 PM |
| -3 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitI'm just not one to turn away potential allies. If there are feminists who actually share the viewpoints on the list and actually work on those issues, great. | /r/MensRights | 29/12/14 02:30 PM |
| -4 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitBeing a white male makes you immediately suspect, and if you're not sympathetic to feminism you're it. You're privileged, entitled, mansplaining, and prone to misogynist micro-aggressions. You have more than the upper hand, so taking you down a notch is more than justified. I get that, but we're being sympathetic to this list of feminist advocacy, because this is an MRA list. There's still going to be conflict between feminism and MRM, but the enemy of my enemy... If you met a feminist who held … | /r/MensRights | 29/12/14 02:14 PM |
| -3 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitWhy would men want more than their fair share of X=false rape accusations? I don't think the solution is to increase the amount of false rape accusations against women, that doesn't help anybody. Reducing the amount of false rape accusations against men helps men, it doesn't put them at a disadvantage. | /r/MensRights | 29/12/14 02:05 PM |
| -7 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitIf dismantling "the patriarchy" leads to addressing the issues, then let them dismantle the patriarchy. I don't think they are advocating replacing a patriarchy with a matriarchy. If feminists actually work towards an equality between the sexes, then we'll have some sort of egalitarian society. How does dismantling a non-existent patriarchy result in attacking men? Their list addresses almost every single MRA issue, circumcision seems to be the glaring omission. | /r/MensRights | 29/12/14 03:20 AM |
| -4 | The feminist post circulating that feminists don't want to see anyone falsely accused of rape is bullshitShouldn't this be filed under progress? A lot of the stuff listed is exactly what we want feminists to acknowledge. Awareness is the first step. Hopefully, they take the second step and act upon it. | /r/MensRights | 29/12/14 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Tipping is a MRM issue.I encourage you to look at ALL of my responses I read what you write in response to me. Those comments I quoted are copied and pasted unedited. Expecting me to read your entire comments history is unreasonable. I'm not lying when I said I had to say the same thing four times. These are the first four comments I've written in response to you: The $2.13/hour is the minimum amount that employers are required to pay tipped employees. However, if the employee does not make the federal minimum wage wi… | /r/MensRights | 27/12/14 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Tipping is a MRM issue.That is not completely true. That's only true in some states. In many states, the minimum is the $2.13/hour no matter how much they make in tips. http://www.dol.gov/whd/state/tipped.htm -- From the DoL Tip jobs do not fall under minimum wage. They fall under minimum waitress pay. These are all the replies I have received from you before you even mention the difficulties in enforcing the FSLA. If I have to say the same thing four times before you acknowledge it as being right, then that's a conve… | /r/MensRights | 27/12/14 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Tipping is a MRM issue.But what you aren't recognizing is that it is up to federal entities to actually prosecute the companies We haven't discussed the law in practice because you didn't seem to know what the law was meant to do on paper. Hopefully, we now can agree that tipped employees have legal ground to demand a minimum wage payment in case they do not make enough in tips. However, I am wary to discuss economic policy with somebody who doesn't seem to have that much of a grasp of basic facts concerning the issue… | /r/MensRights | 27/12/14 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Tipping is a MRM issue.Yeah, but tipped employees still fall under the Fair Labor Standards Act. If an employee's tips combined with the employer's direct wages of at least $2.13 an hour do not equal the federal minimum hourly wage, the employer must make up the difference. This is written out in plain English from the link I provided earlier. Here's a fact sheet that addresses the issue in the "Typical Problems" section. Tipped employees will make at least the minimum wage one way or another. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/14 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Tipping is a MRM issue.I'm not sure what your point is with the link. Employers are subject to both state and federal laws. Tipped employees are entitled to the one with the greater benefits. Tipped employees will make either the state or federal minimum wage regardless of how well they are tipped. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/14 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Tipping is a MRM issue.From the Department of Labor. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/14 02:24 PM |
| 8 | Tipping is a MRM issue.The $2.13/hour is the minimum amount that employers are required to pay tipped employees. However, if the employee does not make the federal minimum wage with tips plus the $2.13/hour, then the employer has to pay the difference. Tipped employees are entitled to make the federal minimum wage regardless of how well they are tipped. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/14 03:52 AM |
| 1 | "Egalitarian" and "feminism" are mutually exclusive in the West, by definition.What's cow fudge? | /r/MensRights | 25/12/14 01:41 AM |
| 0 | Anyone ever notice the attempted rape of Harry Potter (books and movies)?I'm all for critical analysis of media, but there's a difference between sexual mores of the wizarding world and the real life sexualization of Emma Watson. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/14 01:34 PM |
| 66 | craig ferguson vs feministHere's the full video for context. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/14 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.Okay. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/14 08:18 PM |
| 2 | And then this showed up on my newsfeedIs this about unsolicited dick pics? | /r/MensRights | 05/12/14 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Kickstarter community manager Nicole He shows her racism&sexism against white men@knguyen the funny thing about this is that he almost gets that whiteness is bad She specifically mentions white men and is talking to an Asian man, so I don't think she hates all men. However, this tweet gives me a pretty good idea on white people. This looks like a race problem and not a gender problem. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/14 03:33 PM |
| -3 | Kickstarter community manager Nicole He shows her racism&sexism against white menThis looks like a white problem and not a male problem. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/14 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Terry Crews: Modern Day Masculinity Can be as Damaging as the TalibanDo you understand how sentences and context work? I did say the words "plenty of people", but I never said the people were a gang of rape apologists. I said, "plenty of people abuse the concept of masculinity." Also, what does that have to do with the "bros before hos" rule logically extending to covering up rape? Is this your way of admitting that you're wrong, and now you have to find a way that I am wrong to save face? | /r/MensRights | 03/12/14 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Terry Crews: Modern Day Masculinity Can be as Damaging as the TalibanIf your bro rapes a ho, then, according to the man code of "bros before hos", you will put the rapist bro's needs before the ho's needs. Logically, bros before hos does cover up rape. Ethically is another matter, but plenty of people abuse the concept of masculinity. Anything can be abused and misconstrued, just look at the variations in interpretations of religious texts. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/14 02:29 PM |
| 1 | University of Alabama Birmingham eliminating football for 'greater good'. Women's sports outnumber Mens' sports 11 to 5.That's not how proportions or scholarship limits work. Title IX only cares that the athletic scholarship money is spent proportionally to participation. If 60% of the student athletes are male, then the university is allowed to spend up to 60% of its athletic scholarship budget on male athletes. The NCAA set up rules on scholarship limits. Not all sports get the same amount of scholarships and not all scholarships are equal. Some sports are allowed to award partial scholarships. They set up fina… | /r/MensRights | 03/12/14 02:20 PM |
| 1 | University of Alabama Birmingham eliminating football for 'greater good'. Women's sports outnumber Mens' sports 11 to 5.I'm talking about the athletic scholarship dollars. I think the money that went into those 85 scholarships have to be split up proportionally between males and female athletes. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/14 05:49 AM |
| 1 | University of Alabama Birmingham eliminating football for 'greater good'. Women's sports outnumber Mens' sports 11 to 5.Scholarships: Title IX requires that female and male student-athletes receive athletics scholarship dollars proportional to their participation; and I think proportional is the key word here. With them killing off a whole sport, the proportions of scholarships might actually change in favor for women. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/14 05:23 AM |
| 1 | University of Alabama Birmingham eliminating football for 'greater good'. Women's sports outnumber Mens' sports 11 to 5.isn't there a law that mandates there be just as many women sports as men's sports? I think you're thinking about Title IX? Title IX doesn't seem to have that mandate. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/14 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Terry Crews: Modern Day Masculinity Can be as Damaging as the TalibanBros before hos? | /r/MensRights | 02/12/14 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Feminist Flick: please voteThis movie doesn't come out until December 5th, and it only has a limited release. Asking people to vote on something they probably haven't seen yet seems pretty shady. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/14 01:04 PM |
| 0 | Got an email from Zazzle today promoting their 65% off all flasks deal. Look what was prominently featured.Sure, but when I explain the joke, I'm going to do so from the framework the feminist who introduced me to the concept uses. And that's the one I use too. Okay, but it's a bad habit to take the first thing you hear as fact. That's a big problem we face. Everybody thinks we're a bunch of neckbeards and they don't bother to look further into it. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/14 05:56 PM |
| 0 | Got an email from Zazzle today promoting their 65% off all flasks deal. Look what was prominently featured.Except none of those represent a single gender or even group. You don't consider feminists a group? Our WBB flair is pretty much about showing how women can be terrible. I understand it's about addressing the empathy gap, but instead of showing how men can be good, we think it's more effective showing women can be bad. We have different interpretations of the joke. You think it targets men as a whole. I think it targets anti-feminist men or the kind of men who are mad that women are no longer in… | /r/MensRights | 01/12/14 05:41 PM |
| 0 | Got an email from Zazzle today promoting their 65% off all flasks deal. Look what was prominently featured.That's the 'joke' We have different interpretations of the joke. I don't find the joke funny, but I get where it is coming from. We have nothing of the sort. You don't think jokes about Tumblrinas, Feminazis, SJWs, concern trolls, etc are in the same vein? I don't care how the joke is delivered, but the concepts are pretty identical. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/14 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Male-female sentencing disparities and #FergusonI'm saying gender should have no effect on sentencing. I agree with you, and I hope that you agree with me that race should have no effect on sentencing. So, it seems that the sentence that white men receive is a pretty good number to use. Are men punished too harshly or are women not punished enough? I don't fucking know. It's too bad you don't know, because this is what I wanted to explore. Personally, I think we should be using the justice system as more of a rehabilitative tool than a punish… | /r/MensRights | 01/12/14 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Male-female sentencing disparities and #FergusonBecause you didn't answer my question on how sentencing should work. We both agree that we need to take in to account the crime and the evidence, but how does this inform the sentencing. The evidence takes us to the crime. The crime takes us to the recommended sentencing guidelines. Murder gets a harsher sentence than manslaughter, but do we give the person the laughable murder sentence that we see women get, the harsh murder sentence that we see black men get, or something in between? I repeat … | /r/MensRights | 01/12/14 04:30 PM |
| -2 | Got an email from Zazzle today promoting their 65% off all flasks deal. Look what was prominently featured.And so it's a statement that the person owning the item revels in suffering of males to the point that they cry, because they deny that those men are really suffering in the first place, or if they're suffering that it's not important. I think it's wrong to explain a joke so literally to a non-native English speaker. It's like saying "cat's got your tongue" is really a cat has got your tongue. I mean, we have are own version of the male-tear joke where we make fun of feminists for having irrelev… | /r/MensRights | 01/12/14 04:06 PM |
| -4 | Got an email from Zazzle today promoting their 65% off all flasks deal. Look what was prominently featured.the angry bleating of "spoiled manchildren". This is the way I understand the joke of male tears. It's akin to first world problems. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/14 12:37 PM |
| -3 | Got an email from Zazzle today promoting their 65% off all flasks deal. Look what was prominently featured.in this specific context it's a statement that the person owning the item revels in suffering of males to the point that they cry. Who explained this joke to you? | /r/MensRights | 01/12/14 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Got an email from Zazzle today promoting their 65% off all flasks deal. Look what was prominently featured.I think it works in the same way that male rape describes the rape of males. So, male tears and male's tears could both work. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/14 02:59 AM |
| 0 | Male-female sentencing disparities and #FergusonThe solution is to judge offenders on their crime and the evidence against them Agreed, but what's the solution for sentencing? Do we sentence everybody where they get the favorable sentence that women usually get, the seemingly fair sentence that white men usually get, or the unfavorable sentence that black men receive? | /r/MensRights | 28/11/14 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Lord Tebbit questions why there's no campaign for more women plumbersWhat's the difference in the discrimination that women face between prestigious jobs and not so prestigious jobs? | /r/MensRights | 27/11/14 05:21 PM |
| -2 | "The Tory former Cabinet minister also questioned why people never called for more women to become plumbers or electricians." Very good question. They only want to be "board of directors", CEOs etc. don't you know ?If they need more "programmes to encourage girls and young women to go into Stem (science, technology, engineering and maths) subjects", more power to them. I can handle the competition. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/14 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Lord Tebbit questions why there's no campaign for more women plumbersAre women facing discrimination when trying to become plumbers in the UK? | /r/MensRights | 27/11/14 04:43 PM |
| 2 | "The Tory former Cabinet minister also questioned why people never called for more women to become plumbers or electricians." Very good question. They only want to be "board of directors", CEOs etc. don't you know ?Are women facing discrimination when trying to become plumbers or electricians? | /r/MensRights | 27/11/14 02:35 PM |
| -1 | Male-female sentencing disparities and #FergusonNo you aren't. It's pretty clear you're baiting based on the repeated question: I'm not sure how you learn, but I learn from asking questions. You ask the right questions, you get the right solutions. I'm repeating my questions because OP keeps dodging them. Do you see it as men are getting harshly sentenced and should have the sentences reduced to the women's level? Obvious bait is obvious. You're trying to bait him into revealing a bias. The problem is, your question is completely irrelevant t… | /r/MensRights | 26/11/14 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Male-female sentencing disparities and #FergusonAll of my comments have been on topic. We've established that there is a gender disparity of 63%, repeatedly. Let's take it to the next level. Girlfriend theory, parental responsibilities, cooperativeness, mental health, addiction, abuse, and other sympathetic life circumstances as some of the reasons that might contribute to the disparity. Girlfriend theory and cooperativeness speaks to female hypoagency. Parental responsibilities speak to the family court bias. Mental health, addiction, abuse,… | /r/MensRights | 26/11/14 05:01 PM |
| 0 | Male-female sentencing disparities and #FergusonI say "no." No to what? If you can't provide any insight except repeating the 63% statistic, that's fine. Raising awareness for a problem is great, but I'm interested in solutions. | /r/MensRights | 26/11/14 02:04 PM |
| -1 | Male-female sentencing disparities and #FergusonA 63% disparity after controlling for all factors shouldn’t be acceptable if authorities attempted to explain it away on the basis of "turning a blind eye" to any specific racial or gendered group of perpetrators. The paper you linked but deleted listed: girlfriend theory, parental responsibilities, cooperativeness, mental health, addiction, abuse, and other sympathetic life circumstances as some of the reasons that might contribute to the disparity. Instead of repeating the 63% statistic, maybe… | /r/MensRights | 26/11/14 01:24 PM |
| -5 | Male-female sentencing disparities and #FergusonNot derailing. This is a continuation of pretty much the exact same thread where you deleted everything. If you did leave an answer for my last comment, it's gone. | /r/MensRights | 26/11/14 06:20 AM |
| -5 | Male-female sentencing disparities and #FergusonWhat does male-female sentencing disparities have to do with #Ferguson? According to #Ferguson, Officer Wilson got a pass because he's a whtie cop and Mike Brown was black. Men, black men in particular, are worried about getting shot down in the street. At least the issue of sentencing disparity leaves them alive. You left me hanging in your other post. Well, does the Department of Justice swoop in every time a male (white or black) is harshly sentenced in a sex-discriminatory manner on the basi… | /r/MensRights | 26/11/14 06:00 AM |
| 1 | That's funny... I don't remember the Mens Rights Movement to be that wayIs there a complete history of the Men's Rights Movement somewhere? Google isn't that helpful. That guy in the picture could be a First Wave MRA. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/14 10:18 PM |
| 10 | The Bill Cosby rape allegations do not warrant eliminating statutes of limitations in rape casesHow do we get men to report crimes that they think won't be believed? | /r/MensRights | 25/11/14 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Sentencing disparities and #fergusonWhen should the protesters riot? | /r/MensRights | 25/11/14 04:55 AM |
| 2 | "Judging a mother who abandons her baby can prove fatal"I think other countries should adopt safe-haven laws like the US. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/14 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Serious question, when "sex bots" start being made and sold, what will change in our society and culture?I'm not sure what you look for in a human companion, but if a robot is going to replicate what I look for, that's pretty sentient. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/14 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Serious question, when "sex bots" start being made and sold, what will change in our society and culture?I think when sex bots become capable of substituting for human companions, then we'll have to deal with Robot's Rights. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/14 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Radfems like to talk about "toxic masculinity". So what examples are there of "toxic femininity"?I don't think innate sexual traits are toxic, but socially constructed gender traits might be damaging. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/14 03:28 AM |
| 0 | Taylor Swift's new video glamorizes domestic violence with intense imagery of abuse. Is there any feminist outrage?What do you suggest we do about it? | /r/MensRights | 24/11/14 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Radfems like to talk about "toxic masculinity". So what examples are there of "toxic femininity"?It's not forced on men that statistically they perform better in spatial ability. However, it might be forced upon them that they should perform better in spatial ability. If a man doesn't perform better than women in spatial ability doesn't take away their manhood. The way I see it, every person has a level of masculinity/femininity where they are able to operate properly. However, if you add more masculinity/femininity or take away some masculinity/femininity and put off the level, then it bec… | /r/MensRights | 23/11/14 08:33 PM |
| -1 | ALL ABOUT WOMEN!!! Women find their voice in Ferguson protest movementWhat are we supposed to be discussing? Some groups are terrible at including people, like feminism. The Ferguson Protests might suffer from the same thing. Some black cultures suffer from hypermasculinity. | /r/MensRights | 23/11/14 07:10 PM |
| 5 | Radfems like to talk about "toxic masculinity". So what examples are there of "toxic femininity"?I think everybody hates the term "toxic masculinity" and "toxic femininity", but I think we can all agree that some gender roles can become detrimental. If we consider the idea that men must be the breadwinner is sometimes bad, it probably means women must be a homemaker is also sometimes bad. Masculinity or femininity isn't necessarily bad, but when forced upon people it can result in something we don't want. | /r/MensRights | 23/11/14 06:44 PM |
| 4 | Man and woman, both residents of Steamboat, die while camping, likely from carbon monoxide poisoning. Headline: "Missing Steamboat woman well-loved in community" The reporting gets even worse. Only feWith the new information provided by mensrightsshyamalan, there doesn't seem to be a lot of time between Schiebel's missed appointment and the time the bodies were discovered. | /r/MensRights | 23/11/14 04:16 PM |
| 61 | Man and woman, both residents of Steamboat, die while camping, likely from carbon monoxide poisoning. Headline: "Missing Steamboat woman well-loved in community" The reporting gets even worse. Only feI think the difference is that the woman has been reported missing since Tuesday. It seems this has been a developing news story and it has reached somewhat of a conclusion. The only mystery seems to be whether she was running away or kidnapped. | /r/MensRights | 23/11/14 02:55 PM |
| 1 | The only picture which includes a man is a character who is a Nazi and child abuser. "This is what a feminist looks like: Emma Watson looks casually cool as she lands in Berlin to film Colonia"There's always /r/mensrants. | /r/MensRights | 23/11/14 02:41 PM |
| 1 | The only picture which includes a man is a character who is a Nazi and child abuser. "This is what a feminist looks like: Emma Watson looks casually cool as she lands in Berlin to film Colonia"Do you think The Daily Mail is trying to equate men to Nazis and child abusers? | /r/MensRights | 23/11/14 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Examining our own internalized bias: policing ourselves when concerning people of colorThere might be a little race involved, but I think the allegations are really different. Cosby is accused of raping at least a dozen women, sometimes using drugs. Clinton is really just known for being an adulterer and has admitted to most of the allegations. Allegations != evidence. This is true, but I feel like the nature of the crime usually breaks down to a he said/she said, which leaves a lot of victims not being able to pursue justice. | /r/MensRights | 23/11/14 01:18 PM |
| 21 | Sold-out Cosby show goes ahead, Cosby receives standing ovations despite "new, never-before-heard claims from women who have come forward in the past two weeks with unsubstantiated, fantastical stories about things they say occurred 30, 40, or even 50 years ago"what does that say about the state of America? I think it says America is terrible at investigating rape. Until they fix that, a lot of false accusations will be made and a lot of victims of rape will never see justice. | /r/MensRights | 22/11/14 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Some real talk about toxic masculinity.You might be interested in these posts. Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models? Toxic Masculinity from an MRA perspective? | /r/MensRights | 21/11/14 04:56 PM |
| 5 | What's going on with bill cosby right now is making me sick.Rape is wrong, I do not deny that, but certainly there is no other motive for these women right now than "15 minutes of fame". You can't think of another reason why people would come forward? Sure, there are false allegations and there are reasons why people would do it. There are also sexual assaults that never result in any form of justice. You don't think some sort of closure might be possible if the allegations were to come to light and be believed? | /r/MensRights | 20/11/14 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Ruining fun with analysis: traditional masculine gender normativity in A Million Ways To Die In The WestThis is false equivalence. Yes, men do police other men and raise boys with traditional male gender roles, but I think that women are the greater contributor. I don't know. This seems to suggest that men are victims with no agency. If we look at gay culture, which is full of men who don't necessarily give a damn what women want from them, we see a large number of men who aren't traditionally masculine - far more, and to a greater extent, than in straight male culture. I'm not an expert on gay cu… | /r/MensRights | 19/11/14 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Ruining fun with analysis: traditional masculine gender normativity in A Million Ways To Die In The WestThere are clearly elements of the traditional male gender role that are limiting or harmful to men, and some that are harmful to others (violence, though again this mostly harms men). I understand your apprehension on using "toxic masculinity", but this is a mouthful. How about male gender roles? Do you think any media possibly reinforces negative male gender roles? If film can do it, that means music, print, and video games can also contribute to sending negative messages about male gender role… | /r/MensRights | 19/11/14 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.The new Tomb Raider game is a reboot... It even changes a character a bit to make her less sexy... Now why didn't we make it Lars instead? I mean... I never said that there wouldn't be a new take on it. So yeah... Why can't we make a Lars croft instead of a lara croft? What's the new take? If it's interesting, then I'm on board. I mean, the Uncharted series could be a template for your Lars Croft remake. And even if it is the same story... Same stories have been told before... The origin if batm… | /r/MensRights | 19/11/14 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Ruining fun with analysis: traditional masculine gender normativity in A Million Ways To Die In The WestWhat's your concept of toxic masculinity? | /r/MensRights | 18/11/14 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.wait... why is it not worth pursuing? Rebooting Tomb Raider to feature a male lead with no call back to the original or some sort of new take sounds like you're going to tell the same story as the original Tomb Raider. There's no draw. Regenerating Doctor Who into a female does not erase anything from the past Doctors. Her experiences would actually add on to the series as a whole since it is a continuation. as I've said above to why the rrole has been of a male for so long... If we have female … | /r/MensRights | 18/11/14 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Former CEO indicted in 2010 mine disaster: Don Blankenship is highest-ranking executive to face charges in West Virginia blast that killed 29, led to major reforms [Workplace Death Disparity]Other than rape, where else do you think there is evidence of a disregard for men? | /r/MensRights | 18/11/14 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Former CEO indicted in 2010 mine disaster: Don Blankenship is highest-ranking executive to face charges in West Virginia blast that killed 29, led to major reforms [Workplace Death Disparity]Eh,I meant in general - this guy is an exception that proves the rule I wouldn't say this is an exception. There's a long history of unsafe workplace practices throughout history, and unsafe work practices continue today throughout the world. But, like you said, they apply to both males and females. I'm just wondering if the disregard for men overall is exaggerated? I mean, mental health, rape, and access to services seem to be evidence for the disregard of males. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/14 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Former CEO indicted in 2010 mine disaster: Don Blankenship is highest-ranking executive to face charges in West Virginia blast that killed 29, led to major reforms [Workplace Death Disparity]I doubt there is any real disregard for their safety C'mon, you got to give me this one. This guy was indicted for conspiring to violate safety and health standards. That's got to be a real disregard for safety. But, back to the matter at hand. Is there no disregard for males in the workplace or no disregard for males in general? Workplace death disparity is commonly cited as evidence of the empathy gap. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/14 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Request for Research Participationpost history consistent with being a member of the sub. Is that just consistent posting or posting that is ideologically consistent? I've seen a wide range of MRAs that go from extreme to moderate. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/14 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Request for Research ParticipationYeah, I don't think the researcher is aware of who actually subscribes to /r/mensrights, but it's not like they're asking everybody. At least they came to the right subreddit. I mean, how would you even begin to pick participants? If you target people who comment the most or have the highest karma, you might leave out MRAs who only lurk. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/14 04:47 AM |
| 2 | Request for Research ParticipationThat would prevent spamming the survey, but I don't see how that would prevent AMR/SRS from taking the survey. Are their numbers negligible? | /r/MensRights | 18/11/14 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Request for Research ParticipationI'm not the researcher or associated with the survey. I'm just curious about how data could be collected. However, you can go through the survey. The only question you have to answer is age group. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/14 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Request for Research ParticipationWhat would be sufficient protections? Is sending the survey to a list of pre-approved /r/mensrights subscribers an option? | /r/MensRights | 17/11/14 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Former CEO indicted in 2010 mine disaster: Don Blankenship is highest-ranking executive to face charges in West Virginia blast that killed 29, led to major reforms [Workplace Death Disparity]You're right, female miners can die just as well as male miners. You're right, dangerous jobs tend to compensate for the dangerous work. I really don't have a counter argument beyond the fact that males make up most of workplace deaths. Does that mean workplace deaths should not be used to demonstrate society's disregard for males? Is it really just society's disregard for workers in general? | /r/MensRights | 17/11/14 06:13 PM |
| 1 | The definition of rape was redefined...but still no solace for men.Saw your other posts. You're right in this being a statistical definition and not a legal definition. You're also right that the FBI was not tracking a lot of male victims, but I believe that this new definition was meant to remedy that. Hopefully, when the data is collected for whatever UCR report, the government will notice this a problem and address it. | /r/MensRights | 17/11/14 01:22 PM |
| 1 | The definition of rape was redefined...but still no solace for men.Just saw your edit in the other post. I trust my reading comprehension. If you feel the need to contact the FBI over an internet debate, go ahead. Here's a summary of my argument: The boiled down definition of rape, by my interpretation, includes made to penetrate. The press release says that this definition includes any gender of victim or perpetrator. The press release says that this definition was updated to include the rape of males. The FAQ from the FBI states that it will aggregate the sex… | /r/MensRights | 17/11/14 01:18 PM |
| -1 | The definition of rape was redefined...but still no solace for men.It's been a long time since I've had to diagram a sentence, but let's take out all the stuff that doesn't concern made to penetrate. The resulting sentence would be: Penetration of the vagina or anus with any body part without the consent of the victim. It's not "penetration of the victim's vagina or anus", it's "penetration of the vagina or anus". When a female rapes a male via made to penetrate there is "penetration of the vagina or anus". For the male to be victim, it would have to done witho… | /r/MensRights | 17/11/14 12:29 AM |
| 0 | The definition of rape was redefined...but still no solace for men.a man who wakes up to find a woman bouncing on his erect penis People can't consent when they are asleep. However, I've read that in established relationships, this behavior would be acceptable as long as you talk about beforehand. There was also penetration. I think the definition would cover it as rape. | /r/MensRights | 17/11/14 12:02 AM |
| -1 | The definition of rape was redefined...but still no solace for men.I saw your other comment, but it pretty much hits on the same thing here. I'll address it in this comment so we don't have two threads. I'm not a lawyer, but the way I read the law, it seems to cover made to penetrate. Being made to penetrate covers: The penetration of the vagina or anus with any body part without the consent of the victim This FAQ seems to address that also: Q: Has the definition of Rape changed for the NIBRS? A: The definition of Rape for agencies reporting via the NIBRS has c… | /r/MensRights | 16/11/14 11:33 PM |
| 0 | The definition of rape was redefined...but still no solace for men.Why no solace for men? The article states: The revised definition includes any gender of victim or perpetrator | /r/MensRights | 16/11/14 10:17 PM |
| 0 | The definition of rape was redefined...but still no solace for men.The penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim. I think the guy can still file rape charges. There was penetration. It was against his consent. I don't know why they worded the law this way. It seems overly complicated. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/14 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Former CEO indicted in 2010 mine disaster: Don Blankenship is highest-ranking executive to face charges in West Virginia blast that killed 29, led to major reforms [Workplace Death Disparity]I understand that's your opinion, but others in this subreddit might disagree. You could say that the treatment of male dominated professions contributes to the empathy gap. With your line of thinking, divorce rulings might not be a men's rights issue. Alimony laws tend to be gender neutral, they usually target the higher-earning spouse. However, I understand your criticism. If you give me a specific list of men's rights issues, I'll make sure to keep an eye out for them when I browse for news. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/14 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Former CEO indicted in 2010 mine disaster: Don Blankenship is highest-ranking executive to face charges in West Virginia blast that killed 29, led to major reforms [Workplace Death Disparity]Enforcing safety standards and punishing those who violate them will lead to addressing workplace deaths that disproportionately affects males. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/14 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Former CEO indicted in 2010 mine disasterI appreciate the criticism, and I was hoping for a healthy discussion here. I don't like to state my opinions right off the bat, but rather interact with people who comment. If disparity in workplace deaths is the issue, safety standards are meant to address that issue. Mining is automatically a much more dangerous job than office work. Forcing women into dangerous jobs is not a solution. Having more women die in the workplace is not a solution. The only solution that comes to mind is to make th… | /r/MensRights | 16/11/14 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Former CEO indicted in 2010 mine disasterI don't want to argue, I just want to know what are the standards. Will this post be removed? If not, why? | /r/MensRights | 15/11/14 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Former CEO indicted in 2010 mine disasterWell, you're a mod and I've already got one user telling me it doesn't belong here. Is workplace deaths not a men's rights issue? | /r/MensRights | 15/11/14 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Former CEO indicted in 2010 mine disasterI brought it here for analysis. We already complain that people don't pay attention when men die in dangerous jobs, and this is a corporation that was actively concealing life-threatening problems. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/14 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Former CEO indicted in 2010 mine disasterI see workplace deaths brought up all the time in this subreddit, how is it not relevant? | /r/MensRights | 15/11/14 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Former CEO indicted in 2010 mine disasterI'll take your opinion under consideration. What issues do you think belong in /r/mensrights? | /r/MensRights | 15/11/14 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Former CEO indicted in 2010 mine disasterMen make up a disproportionate amount of workplace deaths... | /r/MensRights | 15/11/14 05:22 PM |
| 7 | From a fellow manCould you link us to feminist groups that advocate our issues? | /r/MensRights | 14/11/14 10:28 PM |
| 0 | Anyone know the names of the racists behind the Drunk Girl agitprop?I'm actually curious if you've seen the video. Maybe you saw an edited version that took out the name and the white guys. If so, I've provided you with a link to the video and the name of the guy who made it. You should know that it's most likely a fake. Maybe you've already seen the full video. If so, you're either very bad at watching videos or you have a subtle point that I'm not getting. Maybe you haven't seen the video at all. If so, you should probably watch it. This posts makes you seem v… | /r/MensRights | 14/11/14 08:48 PM |
| -1 | Anyone know the names of the racists behind the Drunk Girl agitprop?Have you seen the video? Stephen Zhang's name is right at the beginning and at the bottom corner of the video. Also, three of the guys look white. | /r/MensRights | 14/11/14 06:36 PM |
| 1 | ‘Walking out of jail’: Prop 47 frees felons with downgraded chargesSupporters herald the change as an important step toward reforming the criminal justice system by spending less on incarceration and more on prevention and rehabilitation. They mentioned this in the article, and I'm curious about what kind of preventative and rehabilitative programs are effective. | /r/MensRights | 14/11/14 05:30 PM |
| 2 | My school is putting on an event "to empower women... to run for political office" using tuition funding. Isn't sex discrimination like this supposed to be illegal?I think it would be illegal to prevent people from running an event to empower men. | /r/MensRights | 14/11/14 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Feminists are now trying to twist Lena Dunhams molestation of her sister by claiming 'she only looked at her vagina, that's not molestation'I've seen the pages of the touching, but I haven't seen any pages about Grace Dunham coming out and detailing the huge arguments about child molestation. Do you have a link to an article that has those pages? | /r/MensRights | 13/11/14 10:22 PM |
| 3 | When will women care on mass about mens issues?When will men care about men's issues is a bigger question. | /r/MensRights | 13/11/14 07:28 PM |
| -2 | The fact that there are more women than men, especially at or above voting age could explain the feminist control over the government.Do you think all women are feminists? | /r/MensRights | 13/11/14 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Feminists are now trying to twist Lena Dunhams molestation of her sister by claiming 'she only looked at her vagina, that's not molestation'Hey, my reply probably got lost in your inbox, but I could use the information for future reference. Worse still is that her sister has come out and detailed that the only huge arguments they ever have are to do with Dunham molesting her when she was a child. I tried Googling for this, but only got the cryptic tweets. Do you have a link? | /r/MensRights | 13/11/14 01:46 PM |
| 7 | Feminists are now trying to twist Lena Dunhams molestation of her sister by claiming 'she only looked at her vagina, that's not molestation'Worse still is that her sister has come out and detailed that the only huge arguments they ever have are to do with Dunham molesting her when she was a child. I tried Googling for this, but only got the cryptic tweets. Do you have a link? | /r/MensRights | 12/11/14 11:25 PM |
| 4 | I am disgusted and sickened by the new Taylor Swift video, Blank Space. She assaults him, destroys his property and sexually assaults him when he is unconscious. 17 million views, almost 400,000 likes, and around 12,000 dislikes.Have you listened to the lyrics? | /r/MensRights | 12/11/14 01:29 PM |
| 0 | Please! Lets bring back the "war of the sexes."I'm sorry that you thought I was trolling. I was just asking questions and trying to have a conversation. Take it easy. | /r/MensRights | 12/11/14 05:11 AM |
| 0 | This pisses me off as a man and a Game of Thrones fan.Is speaking the truth trolling? | /r/MensRights | 12/11/14 05:10 AM |
| 7 | Google's Veterans Day LogoUSA has Memorial Day for honoring service members who died in service. Today is Veterans Day in the US, which is for all service members. | /r/MensRights | 12/11/14 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Don't forget about all those women who fought and died for you.Oh, you're that fighter for justice troll. Unless you think those Canadian women didn't serve their country, I have nothing else to say to you. | /r/MensRights | 12/11/14 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Don't forget about all those women who fought and died for you.I don't know what that has to do with Canadian women who served their country, but when did feminazis take over Canada? | /r/MensRights | 12/11/14 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Of course Valenti loved Taylor Swift's new video... even though Swift doesn't identify as a feminist.She recently identified as a feminist. From The Guardian Article: “As a teenager, I didn’t understand that saying you’re a feminist is just saying that you hope women and men will have equal rights and equal opportunities. What it seemed to me, the way it was phrased in culture, society, was that you hate men. And now, I think a lot of girls have had a feminist awakening because they understand what the word means. For so long it’s been made to seem like something where you’d picket against the … | /r/MensRights | 12/11/14 01:45 AM |
| -2 | Please! Lets bring back the "war of the sexes."I don't think we need a time machine. We can just take a look around the world. According to this article, women in India don't seem to control a lot of power or resources. | /r/MensRights | 12/11/14 12:58 AM |
| 1 | This pisses me off as a man and a Game of Thrones fan.Westeros is kind of a patriarchy. I'm not sure how many people would have to die before Arya could become the head of the house. | /r/MensRights | 12/11/14 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Don't forget about all those women who fought and died for you.I think your memory is a little off. | /r/MensRights | 12/11/14 12:35 AM |
| 9 | Don't forget about all those women who fought and died for you.Memorial Day is when we remember service members who died for the United States. Veterans Day is for all service members. | /r/MensRights | 11/11/14 11:42 PM |
| -2 | Please! Lets bring back the "war of the sexes."Okay, women are nagging men. Men got sucked into a war of the sexes. What does it look when men when that war? I can't really support a war without knowing the endgame. | /r/MensRights | 11/11/14 11:24 PM |
| -2 | Please! Lets bring back the "war of the sexes."Not unwinnable, maybe not worth fighting. You seem to define it as fighting over resources and power. So, what does it look like when men win the resources and power? | /r/MensRights | 11/11/14 09:42 PM |
| -2 | Please! Lets bring back the "war of the sexes."What does it look like when we win the war of the sexes? | /r/MensRights | 11/11/14 09:14 PM |
| 8 | Misandry in movies, The Rock: General Hummel was just trying to get compensation to the families of men lost in classified operations, but was portrayed as the bad man for championing men's rights.General Hummel is actually a pretty sympathetic antagonist. He doesn't carry out his threat of launching the missiles and is actually betrayed by his men who are more mercenary than Marines. Hummel is even regretful when the insertion team is killed in the bathroom. I don't think this movie is about misandry, but how government betrays the people. | /r/MensRights | 11/11/14 05:27 PM |
| 0 | Google's Veterans Day LogoLabor Day? | /r/MensRights | 11/11/14 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Taylor Swift's new music video depicts an abusive relationship with her destroying a mans possessions and eventually killing himIt looks like he drives away. | /r/MensRights | 11/11/14 01:13 PM |
| 0 | #BeenRapedNeverReported and why you all should be cynicalI think this hashtag is applicable to males. If anything, males probably make up the majority of unreported rapes. The hashtag may bring light to the fact rapes go unreported, but how do we make it easier for victims of rape to actually report it? | /r/MensRights | 10/11/14 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Well, this post is about the validity of toxic masculinity. If you think it's "certainly possible" for toxic femininity to exist, I guess that puts you in the camp that thinks toxic masculinity is also certainly possible. From other conversations I've had in the subreddit, people seem to accept the concept of toxic masculinity, but dislike the name itself because feminists use it. | /r/MensRights | 10/11/14 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Can we please ban the use of the highly offensive "cis" term here? How did this slur ever make it in here to begin with?Oh, I was just using your logic to show that the term "cisgender" is a proper use of the language. Cisgender is normal. Transgender is abnormal. Statistically speaking. If we were talking in a gender or psychological context, both cisgender and transgender are considered normal and natural expressions of gender. So, we could say being cisgender is normal and being transgender is normal. | /r/MensRights | 10/11/14 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Can we please ban the use of the highly offensive "cis" term here? How did this slur ever make it in here to begin with?You need to look up what cisgender means. Identifying with your birth gender is cisgender. Not identifying with your birth gender is transgender. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/14 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Can we please ban the use of the highly offensive "cis" term here? How did this slur ever make it in here to begin with?Normal is a correct term. It is perhaps not one you prefer, but it's certainly correctly used per its definition. Cisgender is also a correct term. It is perhaps not one you prefer, but it's certainly correctly used per its definition. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/14 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Can we please ban the use of the highly offensive "cis" term here? How did this slur ever make it in here to begin with?Are you against the use of cisgender? If so, what is the preferred term for cisgender? | /r/MensRights | 09/11/14 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Condoms in the clink: California passes law to provide condoms in state prisons; backers say measure is necessary for public healthI said that distributing condoms IN LIEU OF GIVING PUNISHMENTS (MEANING THAT THE STAFF IS NOT HELPING VICTIMS AND IS INSTEAD SUPPORTING THE RAPISTS) was the problem. I'm not sure that's the case with this policy. According to the article: “It definitely is a balance,” says Capt. Joseph Dempsey at the Men’s Central Jail. “The Sheriff’s Department has taken the position that public health outweighs the concerns about sex in jail.” According to Dempsey, if prisoners are caught having sex, a crimina… | /r/MensRights | 09/11/14 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Thought I should post some more hypocrisy in feminism within the realms of games.I'm not a big follower of Gamergate. Is there some sort of feminist meme going around about these characters? | /r/MensRights | 09/11/14 12:48 PM |
| 7 | Early women's group sought to ban men from being allowed to drink coffee.Don't worry. All spouses around that time had a right to sex. I mean, marital rape wasn't widely criminalized until the 20th century. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/14 12:03 AM |
| 1 | 10 min film shows less well off dark skinned men being treated like harassers and well off handsome man with a nicer car treated well.Like, where are you from where you are seeing a lot of black women pursue white men? | /r/MensRights | 08/11/14 05:23 PM |
| 1 | 10 min film shows less well off dark skinned men being treated like harassers and well off handsome man with a nicer car treated well.I'm curious from where are you seeing this behavior? | /r/MensRights | 08/11/14 04:33 PM |
| 1 | 10 min film shows less well off dark skinned men being treated like harassers and well off handsome man with a nicer car treated well.Everybody is allowed to have opinions, even uninformed ones. The thing about uninformed opinions is that they are more of a reflection of the person making them than anything else. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/14 04:22 PM |
| 1 | 10 min film shows less well off dark skinned men being treated like harassers and well off handsome man with a nicer car treated well.Yeah, you should probably do some background research. Windowlicker Wiki article. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/14 02:45 PM |
| 2 | 10 min film shows less well off dark skinned men being treated like harassers and well off handsome man with a nicer car treated well.Do you think black women made this video? | /r/MensRights | 08/11/14 02:30 PM |
| 2 | 10 min film shows less well off dark skinned men being treated like harassers and well off handsome man with a nicer car treated well.Who are you criticizing? | /r/MensRights | 08/11/14 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.I have no idea who Bayonetta is, so I can't really speak about her. You should use comic book characters, we both seem to know about them. Also want her just like how a lot more girls want the doctor than want to be the doctor. Do we want to encourage people to be attracted to the Doctor, or do we want to encourage people to be more like the Doctor. I vote for the latter. A white person can find blade cool Males can't find females cool? The character is traditionally male, the brilliant but inse… | /r/MensRights | 07/11/14 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.I thought I proved to you how its important in the traditional sense... I.e the relatability and association with the character. Not really. This is was my response to that: People associate the Doctor to being male more, but I don't think that's how people have related to the Doctor. I relate to the Doctor because of the Doctor being such a good person. I empathize with the Doctor because of the deep sadness the Doctor feels whenever a companion leaves. The Doctor's inner character doesn't real… | /r/MensRights | 07/11/14 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.Yeah, and then we come back to how gender isn't that important to a good story. I felt like I proved that to you when we were talking about Thor. I mean, Catherine Tate and Jenna Louise Coleman would have made great Doctors. Also, people don't want the Doctor to be a female just for the sake of being female. They want a female Doctor for a lot of different reasons. Some want to make their fantasy a little bit more realistic. Others want to explore the dynamics of a female Doctor. So, if gender i… | /r/MensRights | 07/11/14 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.His story, his overall personality has been that of a man... just because we can have a women doesnt mean we should. We cant ruin 50 years of character development, his background story just because we can have a women doctor for the sake of the doctor being a women. Yeah, I agree with you. There's no point in having a female Doctor unless you're willing to explore how the Doctor operates when she is a female. It's not like the writers are going to ignore the fact they have a female Doctor. They… | /r/MensRights | 07/11/14 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.if the new doctor would be a female just for the sake of DW bwing a female then it would take away from the 50 years of doctor who and it would turn really sucky We've already discussed how gender isn't that important to a story, and I don't see how making the Doctor female would make the show sucky. It's not like the showrunner and writers are so stupid they don't know how to make show work with a female lead. There are good shows with female leads. What would make it sucky is that they retread… | /r/MensRights | 07/11/14 04:41 PM |
| 0 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.Time Lords also have the ability to regenerate their bodies when their current body is mortally wounded. This process results in their body undergoing a transformation, gaining a new physical form and a new personality...hinting that Time Lords can switch genders upon their regenerations. I respectfully disagree. I feel that the doctor being male plays a huge part in his decisions. If the doctor was female from the outset I think that the outcome of significant events in the Doctor who 'verse wo… | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 10:57 PM |
| 0 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.I think the bigger deal is whenever someone else can pick up Mjolnir. I mean, what can of fanfare do you want? I hope Hawkeye tries to sleep with her. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.I'm talking about how after 50 years if they just had a female doctor for the sake of the doctor being a female, it would be a little weird. I like my Doctor Who weird. It's a weird universe. The weirdness is what makes it fun. If they want a female Doctor to make it weirder, then I'm behind that 100%. people don't fantasise about playing the next master Yeah, people do fantasize about playing the next Doctor. What makes you think females don't fantasize about being the Doctor? Umm... Sarah Jane… | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.I could really use some context here, but oh well... We're talking about gender's effect on story in the other conversation about Thor we're having. it would be a little weird if it was to suddenly turn female... It's not all of sudden. Regenerations usually happen at the end of season. The Mistress used to be the Master. This isn't coming out of left field if it happens. Though if the writers actually think the role would be suited best for a female then I wouldn't have any problem with it. I a… | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 08:35 PM |
| 0 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.Okay, so Marvel wants to introduce a new character. They realize that it doesn't matter if the character is male or female, so they decide on what would bring in new readers. I'm fine with that, I like having new fans to talk with. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.Like i said in my other comment. I address this in the other comment, so I won't repeat myself here. We'll realize how the character of the doctor has always been a male one. It was always written in that way and so people now relate with the doctor being a male more. People associate the Doctor to being male more, but I don't think that's how people have related to the Doctor. I relate to the Doctor because of the Doctor being such a good person. I empathize with the Doctor because of the deep … | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 07:58 PM |
| 0 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.I brought it up as an example to counter your mystique point cause guess what? no characters gender is set in stone and no drastic changes would be needed for a characters gender to change if the writers wanted for them to. Well, Mystique changing gender is different from a new character taking on the mantle of Thor. You're right, no character's gender is set in stone. Clones and mindswaps are standards of the industry, that's why I need something drastic for it to be enjoyable for me. If writer… | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.What i do agree with is that doctor should stay a male and not turn into a female Jude because of the sake of DW being a female. Yeah, and the Doctor shouldn't stay male just for the sake of staying male. There's no tradition to honor to maintain the gender of the Doctor. However, I think with the introduction of a female Doctor will make for an interesting dynamic with whatever companion they pair her with. Will a female companion still fall in love with the female Doctor? How will a male compa… | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 07:11 PM |
| 0 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.Loki made another hammer that possessed the abilities of mjolnir for her. You're right. You're right... There could have been other reasons for the torch passing of thor, but still the main point is that new thor is a female for the reason of her being a female so that they could get more potential buyers. I wasn't at the meeting, so I can't be sure. I trust Jason Aaron to tell his story, and, like I said before, I hope he didn't compromise his story. Even if Marvel suggested the new Thor be a f… | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.Read over ThePigmanAgain's argument again. Which point did you agree with? I mean, you're a die hard fan, maybe you know something I don't. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.Because right now it seems like you've started a conversation where you lack a lot of information, which compromises your logic. No, I think ThePigmanAgain is working with faulty information when trying to explain why the Doctor can't be female. They might have not been aware that Gallifreyan biology allows for Time Lords to regenerate as female. Then, they went on to talk about the need for representation, but that seem to be a wash. Then, they went to talk about how changing Harley Quinn or Pi… | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 06:31 PM |
| 0 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.Are you saying that this torch passing of thor wasn't done just because they wanted a female character, so that they could get the female crowds attention? No, I think Jason Aaron wanted to test Thor Odinson's worthiness and separate him from the hammer. I'd like to think Jason Aaron has a big picture idea, just like he did with Scalped. I guessed they didn't want to leave Mjolnir just hanging around and so they had to come up with a new character. Or maybe having this new character is a big par… | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 06:24 PM |
| 1 | YupGood point. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 05:58 PM |
| 1 | YupYou're right. However, feminist have been critical of the Hollaback video, and I'm waiting to see if they have an opinion on AlexFromTarget. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Online Harassment Affects Men TooGood point. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.That's fine, but do you have anything to add to the argument? | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 05:54 PM |
| 0 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.No one is denying that all the Doctor's regenerations have been male, but Time Lords can regenerate into a female. Gallifreyan biology seems to establish this. central to every decision he makes and how he operates. I wouldn't say his maleness is central to every decision he makes. I think being the last Time Lord, the Doctor's actions in the Time War, and being an all-around good person is central to every decision the Doctor makes. Instead of forcing female leads in established Tv shows with M… | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 05:51 PM |
| 0 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.The new wielder of Mjolnir is not Thor Odinson, he's still around working on becoming worthy again. What you should've argued is that the inscription originally reads "Whosoever holds this hammer, if he be worthy, shall possess the power of Thor." However, the inscription changes to "Whosoever holds this hammer, if she be worthy, shall possess the power of Thor" when this new girl picks up the hammer. I mean like has thors gender been set in stone? Amirite Even if you wanted to argue that Thor O… | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 05:46 PM |
| 3 | YupI'm discussing the 'not all' argument. If they're okay with grouping all feminists, then they have to okay grouping all MRAs. If they're okay with grouping all feminists, then they have to be okay grouping all men. Since, those two previous statements are practically identical, I used the 'or' conjunction, which is different from the 'and' conjunction, to produce this statement: If they're okay with grouping all feminists, then they have to be okay grouping all MRAs or men. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 02:09 PM |
| 2 | YupBecause Suffercure is saying feminists are being hypocritical. If they're okay with grouping all feminists, then they have to be okay grouping all MRAs or men. I'm still waiting to hear from Suffercure. NAWALT and NAFALT may be two different things, but they both are "not all" arguments. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 01:53 PM |
| 0 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.the doctor is male, end of discussion! If this all you have, I don't think you can say 'end of discussion.' Just because you can't contribute doesn't mean the discussion is over. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 01:02 PM |
| 0 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.Yeah, if you're not a fan and just using the show as a way to further your agenda, not cool. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 01:00 PM |
| 1 | YupI understand that. I'm just not sure who this post is criticizing. I'm not active on any social media, so I don't know what the overlap is of people sexualizing AlexFromTarget and using the Hollaback video as evidence. I can safely say it's not all women and not all feminists. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Online Harassment Affects Men TooThere is no serious answer and there is no need to address it. That might be the case. People need to grow backbones. However, this is a little close to "man up". | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 12:49 PM |
| 2 | YupThis post is pointing out the hypocrisy of feminist So, this is a post bashing all feminists, when currently right underneath this post in the Hot section of /r/MensRights is a post criticizing feminists for grouping all men. I don't understand how we can criticize the NAFALT argument when we defend the "not all men." though some were genuine catcallers and out right creepy, but most feminists even have a problem with the hellos! The funny thing is that those men just saying hello, might not say… | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 12:43 PM |
| -3 | YupHollaback posted a picture of AlexFromTarget? | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 02:49 AM |
| 10 | The voters of both Texas and Colorado just told the modern Feminist Movement exactly where to shove it.I don't really care about the War on Women, but I don't like the idea of making it more difficult to get abortions. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Online Harassment Affects Men TooYeah, I'm looking for serious answers. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Online Harassment Affects Men TooHow is the patriarchy responsible for online harassment? | /r/MensRights | 05/11/14 10:21 PM |
| 1 | What's a trigger warning?Triggers are associated with post-traumatic stress disorder. They are basically anything that might be associated with the trauma that makes a person experience emotional distress or physical symptoms, maybe even flashbacks. Trigger warnings get attached to things that commonly triggers trauma. Depictions of traumatic events like a scene of domestic violence or letting people know when fireworks are going off. | /r/MensRights | 05/11/14 09:34 PM |
| 5 | Online Harassment Affects Men TooSo, how should we go about addressing it? | /r/MensRights | 05/11/14 04:50 PM |
| 2 | /r/Mensrights success?I wouldn't use that number to track popularity, maybe notoriety. You would have to figure how many inactive accounts, including old trolls, are still subscribed. I'm not sure what the turnover rate is, but I do notice some users don't participate as much as they used to. Then, there's the detractors like againstmensrights and SRS, but they probably only make up a small portion. There's also the karma farmers, people who post things here that will do well, but I'm not sure if they really do suppo… | /r/MensRights | 05/11/14 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.Yeah, it would thrill me straight into no longer watching the show. Hell, i'm a fan of Harley Quinn and Pinkie Pie, What? Do you just hate watch Doctor Who? Do you even read comic books or watch My Little Pony? What is this about? Because right now it seems like you've started a conversation where you lack a lot of information, which compromises your logic. | /r/MensRights | 05/11/14 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.I really wish you would read the comment. I'm trying to talk to you from one fan to another. | /r/MensRights | 05/11/14 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.I feel like you didn't even read my post. I was open to your idea of gender bending Harley Quinn or Pinkie Pie, but it has to be in service to the story. Take Psylocke from the X-Men for example, she was a white British lady who got her mind transferred into an Asian lady's body. Comics are very open to crazy plot twists. If somebody can write a story of Harley Quinn transforming into a man, but still keep the essence of the character, great. I don't know how the MLP universe works. There will s… | /r/MensRights | 05/11/14 03:07 AM |
| 0 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.Not in the same sense that men do. What kind of sense are you talking about? Hell, i'm a fan of Harley Quinn and Pinkie Pie, does that mean i have a right to expect them to be turned into males? Well, I don't think Harley Quinn and Pinkie Pie have any regeneration abilities, so it's going to be a really interesting how they explain that. But, if there was in Elseworlds story where Harley Quinn was a male, I'd be really interested in how the romance would play out with Mr. J and the friendship wo… | /r/MensRights | 04/11/14 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.No, I copied and pasted from Wikipedia. They were the ones who use the word "hinting". Doctor Who has a very wide fan base. Don't women, blacks, Asians, gays, etc deserve to know that Doctor Who belongs to them too? | /r/MensRights | 04/11/14 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.Hinting? I just copy and paste. No one is denying that all the versions of the Doctors have been male. But if the Doctor regenerates into a female, it's not coming out of left field. It's not the end of all the wibbly wobbly timey wimey stuff if we get a female Doctor. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/14 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.The Doctor has always been male in the same way that Mystique has always been female. I'm not sure Gallifreyans view sex and gender like Earthlings. Time Lords also have the ability to regenerate their bodies when their current body is mortally wounded. This process results in their body undergoing a transformation, gaining a new physical form and a new personality...hinting that Time Lords can switch genders upon their regenerations. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/14 09:53 PM |
| 0 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.Yeah, my comment still stands. Your argument boils down to: Some characters just work as a certain sex. there will an outcry about the objectification However, you haven't given any strong support. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/14 06:41 PM |
| 0 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.i was making a joke. I wouldn't go as far as calling your whole argument a joke. Just short-sighted. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/14 06:11 PM |
| 6 | "Lena Dunham gets a full pardon for touching her 1-year-old sister's vagina" - Cenk She kept touching her sister's vagina up until she was 17? WTF! Edit: Okay, finally saw this quote: I shared a bed with my sister, Grace, until I was seventeen years old. She was afraid to sleep alone and would begin asking me around 5:00 P.M. every day whether she could sleep with me. I put on a big show of saying no, taking pleasure in watching her beg and sulk, but eventually I always relented. Her sticky, muscly little body thrashed beside me every night as I read Anne Sexton, watched reruns… | /r/MensRights | 04/11/14 05:44 PM |
| 0 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.i can accept that there could be a female doctor in the doctor who universe...I think the doctor is a male character and should remain that way My mistake, but your reasoning for the Doctor to remain male isn't that great. It's not that hard to write a character that doesn't objectify. Donna Noble, my favorite companion, did great without any sexual tension with the Doctor. so a cat? I mean, you have really low expectations on the writers fleshing out a character that won't objectify a female Do… | /r/MensRights | 04/11/14 05:36 PM |
| -1 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.why cant people just accept that? Probably the same way that some people can't accept that the Doctor could be a female character. I trust the staff to produce a quality show, and if they decide to make the Doctor a female, they probably have some good ideas. Hopefully, the Doctor picks a companion that won't objectify her if she becomes a her, and the Doctor has gotten rid of companions quickly who don't meet up to his standards before. Some characters just work as a certain sex. There are no b… | /r/MensRights | 04/11/14 04:59 PM |
| -3 | A Voice For Men group 'hijacks' white ribbon domestic violence campaignMy only issue is that it's now become a fight about branding instead of fighting against domestic violence. All the donations to whiteribbon.org seems to be going towards any legal actions over a name. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/14 04:39 PM |
| 0 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.how about if comic book villain Mystique permanently becomes a man? As long as it is properly developed. I mean, something pretty drastic would have to happen for her to completely turn her back from the sex and gender she has been identify with for so long. On the other hand, has Gallifreyan biology be set in stone? The Master's regeneration into the Mistress might just be a fluke or has it be made official that regeneration can always result in the changing of sex? | /r/MensRights | 04/11/14 04:00 PM |
| -1 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.The Doctor is currently male. However, it seems Gallifreyan biology allows for regeneration to result in the changing of sex. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/14 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Local College is removing mens-only restroomsThanks for the heads up. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/14 03:41 PM |
| 1 | If Alex from #alexfromtarget was a woman, there would be uproar.This means the initial poster of the picture would not have been allowed to post to the subreddit, because it is a picture of someone she saw in real life. Yeah, she posted it on Twitter. Now it's free game. I could go post it on Reddit and I would be following the rules. You say there isn't outrage on here I'm talking about outrage from /r/MensRights. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/14 02:29 PM |
| 8 | 30,000+ notes on Tumblr ... It infuriates me that this is all people think MRA is.The problem is that anybody can call themselves an MRA. There's probably evidence of bigotry, misogyny, and rape apology. The Big Red scandal and spamming Occidental College are the biggest exposure of MRAs to the mainstream, which accidentally makes it mainstream MRA. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/14 01:58 PM |
| -10 | "Lena Dunham gets a full pardon for touching her 1-year-old sister's vagina" - Cenk Are we charging 7-year olds as adults? | /r/MensRights | 04/11/14 01:43 PM |
| 1 | If Alex from #alexfromtarget was a woman, there would be uproar.The photograph was taken without permission and without the kid's knowledge, as you can infer from the angle of the camera. I'm totally against creepshots, but where it seems everybody has a camera with the all the time, they seem to be a product of our time. I mean there's no outrage here on sites like People Of Walmart. Don't make memes with pics of people that you saw in real life. Ever. Witch-hunts are forbidden. I'm not sure everybody has seen Alex in real life. I've never met Alex. Out of … | /r/MensRights | 04/11/14 01:40 PM |
| 4 | You've gotta be kidding me right? Feminspire.com article TL;DR "Be nice to women who substance abuse whilst pregnant".The incredible impact programs like New Beginnings have on women is shown through program statistics on their clients in 2013: “gave birth to 111 babies, 88% of whom were born at healthy weights and 93% of whom were born drug-free.” NAPW reports that while “some newborns exposed prenatally to some substance abuse sometimes do suffer adverse short or long‐term consequences, most research demonstrates that even when women can’t abstain completely from drugs, they can nevertheless have healthy preg… | /r/MensRights | 04/11/14 03:10 AM |
| 0 | Toxic Masculinity from an MRA perspective?Yeah, that question is sort of my polite way of asking for sources, and to see if the conversation is worth continuing. If you look at the other response, dungone doesn't seem very helpful. But, I agree with you that there are feminists who still hold on to traditional views. I saw your other posts, but I figure I address them here. I'm pretty satisfied with the response of this post and it answered my question. Everything you brought up has been addressed, so I'm good. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/14 02:29 AM |
| 2 | If Alex from #alexfromtarget was a woman, there would be uproar.What makes this different from the memes found on /r/adviceanimals, both the male and female ones? | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Local College is removing mens-only restroomsNo press release or statement from the dean about this? | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 11:28 PM |
| 0 | Local College is removing mens-only restroomsI see now, that's why I asked: Are you unable to lock the doors from the inside on both of them? I've seen door handles like that where they have a button or a turny thing on the inside. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Local College is removing mens-only restroomsThis isn't campus wide? | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 11:15 PM |
| 4 | FeMRADebates is now a walled garden.What do bromanteau and FeMRA have to say about it? They both have flair that looks like they identify as MRAs. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Local College is removing mens-only restroomsI don't get your point. Is that lock special or something? | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 10:55 PM |
| 10 | Local College is removing mens-only restroomsLooking at your close-ups, both doors appear to have locks. Are you unable to lock the doors from the inside on both of them? | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 10:23 PM |
| 0 | Dr Who nemesis turning from The Master into The Mistress has at least one feminist giddy with anticipation of a female Dr Who.Personally, I think Doctor Who really depends on the Companion, and it would be interesting to watch someone pine after a female Doctor. My vote would be for Natasha O'Keeffe or Lara Pulver as the new Doctor. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Excellent article: Is Gillian Wearing's family sculpture offensive to fathers?I mean, when I first saw the statue, I just thought it was a lesbian couple. My intent was to show that at first glance that people would assume the statue was a lesbian couple, however upon further investigation it would be revealed to be, like you said, two sisters. My point is that we're not against highlighting LGBT family dynamics, so it's not a far reach for me, personally, to not be against highlighting this new family dynamic. I wouldn't be against two brothers teaming up to raise their … | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 07:08 PM |
| 4 | Excellent article: Is Gillian Wearing's family sculpture offensive to fathers?Anybody can be offended by anything. I think the real question is whether highlighting another family dynamic is an attack on other family dynamics? I mean, when I first saw the statue, I just thought it was a lesbian couple. I don't think a lesbian family is an attack on fathers, just like a gay family is not an attack on mothers. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Excellent article: Is Gillian Wearing's family sculpture offensive to fathers?This might be a legitimate art critique. I'm not sure if the family identifies as Caucasian. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Oh. I am presented with new information that seems reasonable that contradicts my previous thought. I am wrong. I am okay with that. See, it's okay to be wrong. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?You don't live in the developed world? | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?a small portion of us are living in an ivory tower relative to the rest of the world. Nothing remotely close to a high rise, highway overpass, or any other major structure which we now rely on. All the infrastructure that has been built that we rely on for our comfortable lives. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Yeah, you made is as clear as what a stereotype was. And you keep bringing up how comfortable your life is, must not be that hard out in the country. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Well, at least you're consistent. You've got a certain standard for real men, and you've got a certain standard for real houses. I don't know what they are, you keep moving them around. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 07:14 AM |
| 0 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?You're not the best source. You don't think a group of women exist that can build a house. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 07:04 AM |
| 0 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Not upset. Just wondering if lashing out might be a sign of toxic masculinity. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?C'mon. Don't resort to name-calling. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 06:45 AM |
| 0 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?I'm not sure we should continue this conversation. It seems that masculinity is so important to you that you keep moving the goal posts. My only advice to you is that it's okay to be wrong. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?You said "a majority of women". Also, read the history. A group of women in Charlotte, N.C., complete the first women-built Habitat for Humanity house. With this event, the seeds for Habitat for Humanity’s Women Build program are planted. A handful of Habitat for Humanity affiliates continue to build houses with women crews. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 06:33 AM |
| 0 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Women Build | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Here's the thing. You're talking about cost-effectiveness. I don't deny that men are more cost-effective for certain jobs. However, just because women are not cost-effective does not mean they can't do the job, it just means they're not worth hiring. If the main objective is to construct a house, a group of men will construct a house faster than a group of women. But, a group of women can still construct a house with the proper training. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?How much weight are we talking about? Do they not have forklifts or whatever those shovel machines are? I mean it's got to be heavier than bricks and cinder blocks. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?No, I've never worked proper construction, only just fiddled around with DIY projects. I'm also not going to make the argument for you, because last time I tried that I found out "men don't cry" wasn't a stereotype. So, what about construction prevents women from doing it after they get the proper training? | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Statistically, it seems one of those most masculine jobs. Fine, your choice. Pick a job. Make your argument. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?What does the job of railroad signaler entail? | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?So, women can do the jobs after they get the training, but a lot them will die while doing the job is what you're saying? | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?I haven't, that's why I asked you to explain how masculinity plays into it. Some of the jobs listed already have women working those jobs. Power plant operators, dispatchers, distributors, air traffic controllers, locomotive engineers, operators, railroad brakers, switchers, and signalers were listed at 100% males. What parts of these jobs prevent women from doing it after they receive training? | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?I understand that there are male-dominated fields, but this does not mean women are incapable of doing these jobs. I don't think it is because they are masculine that men are uniquely equipped do the jobs, I think the get jobs because they are men and act as breadwinners. What are power plant operators, distributors, and dispatchers doing that require masculinity? | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?What jobs are you talking about? | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Toxic Masculinity from an MRA perspective?I'm not against traditionalism, I'm just against forcing traditions. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?It seems that the introduction of tools have made masculinity obsolete, and the biggest thing preventing the rest of the world from catching up is money. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 04:23 AM |
| 0 | Toxic Masculinity from an MRA perspective?I've quickly found out that the term toxic masculinity carries a stigma, but the core concept seems to be somewhat accepted. I've always viewed toxic masculinity as the manifestation of masculinity to a negative outcome. Being stoic is a form of masculinity, being so stoic where you develop mental health issues is a form toxic masculinity. Now, I'm sort of just exploring what other names the concept might be going by. Some have suggested traditionalism, others just gender roles. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Toxic Masculinity from an MRA perspective?I don't believe that "masculinity" is objectively real. Nor do I believe "femininity" is objectively real. I feel like this is an uncommon perspective in the MRM. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 04:11 AM |
| 0 | Toxic Masculinity from an MRA perspective?All groups have rules, I feel like I'm skirting the line by bringing up toxic masculinity. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 04:11 AM |
| 0 | Toxic Masculinity from an MRA perspective?It's hard to label that "toxic." I guess it depends on you prioritize. Like you said, net positive for the economy versus alienating your family and early heart attacks. You're using "toxic" to be synonymous with "deleterious," and once again I think the term is simply inadequate to that. They are kind of synonymous. Unequivocally "toxic" behaviors include bullying, assault, rape and mass murder, and while men may be disproportionately represented among these ranks, it's incredibly difficult to … | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Toxic Masculinity from an MRA perspective?First the negative, the MRM has little-to-no presence in academia. I was just talking about this in another part of this post. Feminism likes to create vague terms which can conveniently be used to mean everything and nothing. This is the point of my post, I'm trying to establish a concrete term using an MRA perspective. If toxic masculinity is just detrimental gender roles, I'll use detrimental gender roles. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?I'm not denying the historical significance gender roles have played, but it seems we've moved past them. Traditional has somewhat become old-fashioned. I'm not sure if you clicked on the link I provided, but you might be interest in some of the conversations developing. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Toxic Masculinity from an MRA perspective?Don't you think this kind of thinking leads to masculinity being totally made up for the most part? It's not just an attack on the concept of masculinity, but sort of tries to wipe it out. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 12:01 AM |
| -1 | Toxic Masculinity from an MRA perspective?I think the movement is well aware of toxic femininity with all the posts on feminism and women behaving badly. I'm just curious if toxic masculinity also has a hand in some of the same problems. Toxic femininity tells women to seek out providers, while toxic masculinity encourages men to be that provider. Maybe issues can be worked from another angle. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 11:59 PM |
| -1 | Toxic Masculinity from an MRA perspective?So, is the concept a possible breaking point within the movement? Some identify it as problem, others don't. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 11:50 PM |
| -1 | Toxic Masculinity from an MRA perspective?I'm just using toxic because it's the term closest associated to these kinds of things. It seems to boil down to the manifestation of masculinity in a negative sense. Working long hours may be both socially and biologically masculine, but when it results in a heart attack it becomes toxic. It would also be a lot easier to take the term seriously if it was ever applied to women. Ever heard a social scientist refer to "toxic femininity"? Women's and Gender's Study are dominated by females, so I wo… | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 11:48 PM |
| -1 | Toxic Masculinity from an MRA perspective?Others in the post seem to agree with it, just not the name. If toxic masculinity is a thing, it only stands to reason that toxic femininity is also a thing. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 11:35 PM |
| -1 | Toxic Masculinity from an MRA perspective?So, the concept is sound, but what is the preferred term? | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 11:33 PM |
| 0 | Toxic Masculinity from an MRA perspective?Okay, any version of masculinity is fine as long as it's not the only role available. I guess it would move into child abuse if a father forces his masculinity on his son. It also sounds like small-minded communities are susceptible to conformity. I mean if all the uncles, grandfathers, male teachers, coaches, etc. all subscribed to the same mentality, can you say it's a toxic environment? | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 11:32 PM |
| -1 | Toxic Masculinity from an MRA perspective?It is the socially-constructed attitudes that describe the masculine gender role as violent, unemotional, sexually aggressive, and so forth. I've just been using this Googled definition as reference, but if you break the term down, it's just masculinity that results in something negative/toxic. It sounds like to you that toxic masculinity exists, but you just don't like the term. However, other MRAs in this post deny its existence. Is this just cognitive dissonance within the movement? | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 11:22 PM |
| -1 | Toxic Masculinity from an MRA perspective?When men give more to charity, file more patents, start more businesses, work longer hours, take on more dangerous jobs, support families or lead social causes What if some of these behaviors lead to negative results, like working longer hours and taking on more dangerous jobs. If taken to the extreme, could you say that it is rooted in social conditioning and masculine ideals? The draft sounds like it is the result of social conditioning and masculine ideals? Could these problems be filed under… | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 11:17 PM |
| 0 | Toxic Masculinity from an MRA perspective?It seems the underlying concept is sound, but are MRAs avoiding the term out of spite? | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 11:13 PM |
| -1 | Toxic Masculinity from an MRA perspective?So, do MRAs avoid using the term toxic masculinity out of spite? | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 11:13 PM |
| -1 | Toxic Masculinity from an MRA perspective?Yeah, I feel like this still makes my question valid. Does that mean traditional fathers are the wrong kind of masculine role models that get their sons to grow up like them? I'm not sure if the traditionalist father hopes everyone follows his leads, but he does have authority over his sons. He not only expects his son to live the traditional role, but he can also enforce it. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 11:10 PM |
| -1 | Toxic Masculinity from an MRA perspective?When we're talking about traditionalism, we're talking about men as the breadwinner, the disciplinarian, etc., right? Does that mean traditional fathers are the wrong kind of masculine role models that get their sons to grow up like them? | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 10:02 PM |
| 0 | Toxic Masculinity from an MRA perspective?Is this the article? I just Googled "paul elam toxic masculinity". The mrm is often talking about toxic masculinity, but doesn't refer to as that (the mrm tends to think toxic masculinity means all men are toxic). What are some keywords that I could search for to see how MRAs talk about toxic masculinity or whatever it's called in this subreddit? | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 09:56 PM |
| -3 | Toxic Masculinity from an MRA perspective?Do you have a question or some sort of insight or are you looking for attention? | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 09:41 PM |
| -1 | Toxic Masculinity from an MRA perspective?That's what I thought, but I thought the comment about not having the right kind of masculine role model brought up a good point. Are catcallers a product of not having enough of the right kind of masculine role models or possibly having the wrong kind of masculine role models? I mean, chasing girls seems like a natural masculine quality, but how they do it is questionable. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?If you're interested. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?If you're interested. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?There's plenty more Well, unless you're going to elaborate, there's no point in continuing this conversation. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?If you Google "women fighting bears", you'll find stories of women successfully fighting off bears. I feel like this conversation has sort of plateaued, unless you have anymore insight into masculinity beyond fighting bears. Thanks for all the replies, I'll let you know when I post my follow-up after I go through all the conversations again. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Do you have anything else to add? I'm just waiting on another Redditor before I submit another question with all the stuff that I've discussed throughout this post. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Okay, but women can still kill the bear in the most effective manner. What masculine qualities are actually involved in hitting a bear with a stick or pipe to get it to turn around? Like how much force would that require and could women produce that force? | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Women can shoot. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?What's the most effective way to kill a bear? | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?I don't want this conversation to turn into the most effective way to kill a bear. I think we can all agree that there's more than one way to kill a bear or coexist with bears. I mean, using your standards of masculinity, it seems to boil down if you can survive. This doesn't necessarily eliminate women from the pool. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?I do know. Strength is important I'm not questioning its importance, just its overall usefulness. I'm not going to fight a bear, I'm going to outsmart it. If someone stronger is going to kill me, I'll plot around the physical strength. Really, it's not who's the strongest, but who can kill the other person. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Other than physical ability, it gets debated more heavily. Well, I'm just asking your opinion. I'm going to bring all this the wider MRA community once we've talked all the way through. You're ignoring outside threats - predators and other people. Women are severely deficient there. I'm not sure if you need to be stronger to defeat predators, just smarter. People on the other hand makes it seem like real men are decided through fights. Some of that comes down to training and luck. Does killing s… | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?She'd still be dependent on the physical ability men have to survive. You seem to highlight it, so I'm just following through. My questions still remain the same. What kind of physical ability are we talking about? Does that mean masculinity has become obsolete with the introduction of outside help? Other than physical ability, what other characteristics separate masculinity from femininity? Having the qualities necessary for his family to survive when resources are scarce and outside help isn't… | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Did you mean to comment outside the thread? Okay, what kind of physical ability are we talking about? Is masculinity just physical ability? Does that mean masculinity has become obsolete with the introduction of outside help? | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Okay, so weak men or men who are disabled are no longer real men? I'm not sure if I can get behind that. Edit: The thread continues here. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Having the qualities necessary for his family to survive when resources are scarce and outside help isn't available. Potentially, women can possess these qualities, meaning anybody can be a real man. I'm not sure if I could bring this standard to the wider MRA community. How would you even test for this? | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Sorry, but I've looked at your submission history and there's not a lot there. I really appreciate your replies, but I don't think it would be worthwhile to continue. Even if I got great, objective information from a feminist or someone even sympathetic to the idea of toxic masculinity, this subreddit would probably dismiss it as garbage. can be toxic if taken to extremes or done in an antisocial way. This is a really great insight and I'll bounce it off others. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Does one need to adopt a label before one can have an opinion? No, but if I'm going to bring the results of any conversation to the wider MRA community, sources are going to be questioned. This subreddit gets a little nit-picky sometimes. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?I understand that the feminist theory of toxic masculinity is garbage, that's why I'm starting from the beginning with other MRAs. I think we can all agree that there is such as a thing as masculinity. Maybe you're right and masculinity is a constant, so that would mean that men are not fully manifesting their masculinity. What is masculinity? What makes a real man? | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?I'm just bouncing ideas, but if you don't identify as an MRA, it kind of taints the thought process. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Yeah, but then we run into the whole "real man" conundrum. Are the men of today not actual men? Is toxic masculinity actually masculinity deficiency? Does masculinity change with the times? | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?I'm having a conversation about the premise over here in the post. The premise comes from another user in another post. This statement got me curious: But the problem isn't toxic masculinity, it's that there's not enough of the right kind of masculine role models. So, I was wondering what the difference was between toxic masculinity and not having enough of the right kind or too much of the wrong kind of masculine role models. I think it's important for boys to grow up with their fathers or some… | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?You're right, rape and pedophilia is not a manifestation of masculinity. The hypothesis doesn't work with this stereotype. Maybe the hypothesis only works with things that are actual manifestations of masculinity. Rape and pedophilia are not exclusive to males. Maybe "men think about sex all the time" doesn't result in rape or pedophilia, really the stereotype that leads there would be "men will have sex with anything" or "all men are rapists and pedophiles." "Men think about sex all the time" w… | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?That's why I'm shooting for an MRA perspective. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Okay, but we're talking about masculinity right now. I'm sure whatever comes out of this exchange can be adjusted slightly to address femininity. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 03:55 AM |
| 2 | The 50 shades paradox...There's a new Emma Watson rant? | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Being a rapist or a pedophiles seems like a toxic manifestation of masculinity. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?How do they suffer? | /r/MensRights | 02/11/14 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?I really don't want to get hung up on the name thing. I'm perfectly fine working through the concept with whatever you want to call it. I just need someone to bounce ideas off of. It just needs to be clear between us that we are examining the possible negative effects of masculinity. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?But the problem isn't toxic masculinity, it's that there's not enough of the right kind of masculine role models. I'm working from this comment. I was curious what the difference was between toxic masculinity and not enough of the right kind (or too much of the wrong kind) of masculine role models. If you have a name for it, I'm fine with using anything. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Not really. I mean, they acknowledge that there are social concepts of gender, but they see those concepts as having no legitimacy. As long as they acknowledge the concept. I don't think there is any MRA perspective on toxic masculinity; MRAs generally reject the concept as misleadingly reductive. That's why I'm asking the question and trying to work it from the beginning with other MRAs. I'm an MRA, you're an MRA, and I'm just bouncing my thought process off of you and others. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Not everybody agrees on what it is, though. And some people are against the concept of gender entirely. This is all true and it's fine. All that matters is that everybody understands that there is an idea of masculinity. Even the people who are against the concept of gender acknowledges that there are genders that they are against. A cynic might say "the intention to deride masculinity by conflating it with toxicity". Conflating masculinity with toxicity is what I'm trying to avoid. Generally, w… | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Yeah, I'm just playing around with the idea. I think everybody can agree that masculinity is a thing, so I'm trying to figure out where the toxic part comes from. I mean, if the bad men become the majority and start pushing their form of masculinity, would we call it toxic masculinity? | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?However, it's been widely acknowledged that children (of both sexes) benefit from having fathers actively involved in their lives, so start with that. That's kind of where the question originated from. This exchange got me thinking if there are the right kind of masculine role models, then that means there might be a wrong/toxic kind of masculine role model. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Wait, do men actually face any negative effects if they don't meet this stereotype? This stereotype might not work. Edit: To those who actually make it this far, please feel free to interject. Two heads are better than one. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Okay, it's a non-issue. Can we agree that society thinks (has an imaginary standard or stereotype) that men can't stop thinking about sex? | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Okay, we'll use 'men can't stop thinking about sex' as the stereotype. It doesn't really matter to me, but I think your logic is sound on 'men don't cry' seeming to be a stereotype. Can we agree that society thinks (has an imaginary standard or stereotype) that men can't stop thinking about sex? | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?'Men don't cry' is a stereotype. I mean, your logic seems sound to me. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?You're the one setting the standard, and by your standard 'men don't cry' seems to be a stereotype. I'm still working the first part of the hypothesis. I'm just trying to establish that society has an imaginary standard or stereotype that determines who is a "real" man | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?I see the difference now. I agree that there's a feminist assault on masculinity. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Yeah, I agree with you. Not all men have penises. This means 'men have penises' is not true. Men do cry. This makes 'men don't cry' an untrue statement. a stereotype is a belief about a group of people that isn't true. 'Men don't cry' is a belief about a group of people (men) that isn't true. 'Men don't cry' seems to be a stereotype. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Rereading my comment, you're right. I guess we should just focus on the "objectivity" part. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?I just wanted you to know that I saw this comment, but I feel like we're already having this conversation in another part of this post. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Not all men have penises would mean 'men have penises' is not true. It's how some men cry means 'men don't cry' is also not true. You seem to be saying men do cry but 'men don't cry' is also true. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?"Men don't cry" is the statement. for the most part they don't. However, you say that some men do cry or all men cry at one point. How does this not mean "men don't cry" is not true? | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Men don't cry is also a description, for the most part they don't. It seems like "men don't cry" fits the common usage of stereotype, right? | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 01:59 PM |
| 0 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?This actually reminds me of another thing. How male identity is tied to penis size and how many people they have sex with. But, I don't want to derail the conversation too much. What do you think stereotypes are? | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Men don't cry is also a description, for the most part they don't. What do you think stereotypes are? | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?That's true. An exchange got me thinking whether certain masculine behaviors might be detrimental for certain people. Just playing around with the idea. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Maybe toxic is the wrong word. What happens if you treat masculinity like food? Everybody needs food, but too much food becomes unhealthy or certain foods are unhealthy. Unhealthy masculinity? | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?You're right, there are a lot of opinions floating around. But, could there be enough people who share an opinion on what it means to be a real man. How would you describe the prevalence of gender stereotypes, like "boys will be boys" or "men don't cry"? | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Being male and being masculine aren't necessarily the same thing. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 11:19 AM |
| 0 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Do you think there's such a thing as toxic femininity? | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Okay, just spitballin'. Do you believe that society has an imaginary standard that determines who is a "real" man? | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?That's reasonable. I feel like there's a connection between (the hypothesis of) toxic masculinity and the idea of being a "real" man. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?When I say "toxic masculinity", I'm referring to the theory of toxic masculinity. You believe that the theory of toxic masculinity exists, right? | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?I'm just spitballin'. I feel like there's a connection between toxic masculinity and the idea of being a "real" man. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 03:41 AM |
| 0 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Yes, there's a lack of support for men. However, there's also the penchant for males to be less open with their emotions with fewer people and the desire to appear strong, mentally and physically. Not that this masculine behavior is necessarily bad, but for some men, it reaches such a "toxic" level that it results in suicide. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?How would you describe the male penchant for suicide? | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?This question comes from an exchange with /u/PierceHarlan. He got me thinking about male role models, and how that's a really common argument about how fathers shape boys into men. So, if fathers aren't around and these boys seek out the wrong role models, does that mean the wrong role models are teaching a "toxic" version of masculinity? | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Feminists et al. find it impossible to believe that street harassment -- like every other social pathology -- is more prevalent among disadvantaged peopleI'm not an expert, that's why I ask more questions than anything. But, there seems to be a lot of discussion on femininity and feminism. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/14 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Feminists et al. find it impossible to believe that street harassment -- like every other social pathology -- is more prevalent among disadvantaged peopleI'm not so sure if The Good Men Project is about turning men into subservient instruments. Their section on masculinity seems to touch on a lot of issues that MRAs bring up. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/14 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Feminists et al. find it impossible to believe that street harassment -- like every other social pathology -- is more prevalent among disadvantaged peopleI'm going to need something more substantive than that. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/14 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Who gets do decide what is toxic and what is not? This is what I am curious about. When does masculinity become objectively toxic. The traditional masculinity seems to work for a lot of people, but for others it comes with a lot of mental health issues. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/14 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?I've seen that translation, but I've also seen other MRAs describe toxic masculinity as something that forces males to take on the breadwinner role and compromise their mental health. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/14 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Is toxic masculinity just the result of a lack of the "right" kind of masculine role models?Toxic masculinity seems to be defined as socially-constructed attitudes that describe the masculine gender role as violent, unemotional, sexually aggressive, and so forth. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/14 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Feminists et al. find it impossible to believe that street harassment -- like every other social pathology -- is more prevalent among disadvantaged peopleWhat this guy is preaching is gender eliminativism. That's actually a better description. I don't think the idea of eliminating traits that actually do not require gender is all that bad. Can you imagine the reaction had he written an article about how talking of 'healthy femininity' is like talking about 'healthy cancer'? I think femininity came under attack during second wave of feminism, and the idea of femininity has had a lot of time to evolve. Masculinity, on the other hand, has kept a har… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/14 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Feminists et al. find it impossible to believe that street harassment -- like every other social pathology -- is more prevalent among disadvantaged peopleWhat makes you say the feminist's ideal version of masculinity reduces the male into a woman's subservient instrument? | /r/MensRights | 31/10/14 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Feminists et al. find it impossible to believe that street harassment -- like every other social pathology -- is more prevalent among disadvantaged peopleThere's no such thing as the feminist definition of toxic masculinity. I'm just curious how /u/PierceHarlan differentiates between the feminist sense of toxic masculinity and his sense of toxic masculinity. Even if there was, it's about how people use the term, and in general, popular feminist usage, it is used as an indictment of masculinity in toto, rather than as a contrastive term. Here is a perfect example of the sort of naked bigotry that feminists get away with when it comes to talking ab… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/14 04:38 PM |
| -1 | Feminists et al. find it impossible to believe that street harassment -- like every other social pathology -- is more prevalent among disadvantaged peopleHow does the feminist definition of toxic masculinity differ from having the wrong kind of masculine role models? | /r/MensRights | 31/10/14 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Feminists et al. find it impossible to believe that street harassment -- like every other social pathology -- is more prevalent among disadvantaged peopleBut the problem isn't toxic masculinity, it's that there's not enough of the right kind of masculine role models. What's the difference between toxic masculinity and having the wrong kind of masculine role models, who are, for the lack of better words, teaching the wrong kind of masculinity? | /r/MensRights | 31/10/14 02:50 PM |
| 1 | (Rant) about my teacher"if women get 88 to 100 then why don't business higher only women as they're a cheaper work force" Just because someone will work for cheaper does not mean they can actually do the job. The conspiracy theory is that's why so many male-dominated industries are pushing to train more females, especially in STEM. "Susy can't get a promotion because she has kids, and is a single mother. Compared to her male counterpart this is sexist." What was your argument for this? | /r/MensRights | 31/10/14 01:42 PM |
| 3 | I will no longer be voting democrat because of the feminist war against men.Did you e-mail the other parties? | /r/MensRights | 30/10/14 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Racism, street harassment, and linguistics.If certain black communities have a different dialect, is it possible for black communities to view sex differently? | /r/MensRights | 30/10/14 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Racism, street harassment, and linguistics.This sounds a lot like intersectionality. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/14 07:47 PM |
| 1 | I think catcalling is rude, but the "10 hours" video is super-racist & we should be calling Feminists on it.I feel like you're a little late to the party, there are already several articles discussing the racial implications of the video. How would you go about calling them out more than what's already happening? | /r/MensRights | 30/10/14 05:53 PM |
| -1 | Street HarassmentWhoa, hoss. I never said anything about banning anything. But then other thins like "God Bless you" and "Have a good evening" are also street harassment? I was just letting OP know how "Have a good evening" and "God bless you" could be construed as street harassment. Try not to jump the gun next time. A sign of maturity is learning how to control your urges. | /r/MensRights | 29/10/14 11:09 PM |
| 5 | Why is it that simply disagreeing with modern feminism warrants hate and anger toward you?What happens when you apply your theory to MRAs? | /r/MensRights | 29/10/14 01:27 PM |
| 4 | Street HarassmentIt's all about context and delivery. "God bless you" and "Have a good evening" can be said in a neutral tone, but can also be said in a more aggressive manner. When "God bless you" is followed directly with "...mami. Damn" or preceded with a "Hey, beautiful", it kind of loses its neutrality. | /r/MensRights | 29/10/14 12:34 PM |
| 13 | Why is it that simply disagreeing with modern feminism warrants hate and anger toward you?Feminism has great PR. Regardless of its action, the idea that feminism is the advocating of equality among the sexes on an economic, political, and societal level is what people think. What remains to be seen is if the next wave of feminism lives up to its ideals. | /r/MensRights | 29/10/14 12:12 PM |
| 0 | Men Expose The Private Information And Text Of Women And All Hell Breaks Loose. OH, It's Women Doing It To Men, No Wonder It's So Quiet. "Rise of the Feminist Tinder-Creep-Busting Web Vigilante"It's okay to be wrong. | /r/MensRights | 29/10/14 12:03 PM |
| 3 | 2 Korean soldiers are the first women to earn Expert Infantryman Badge - and this is why we don't need to lower standards to accommodate women in the Army, and never have.Seeing as the 11 series and 18 series MOS's are closed to women serving the US, the system is kind of rigged so only men can get the EIB. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/14 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Trial by combat possibly still a possibility in the US. Should it be considered in word against word cases?We can try to balance out inequalities between opponents Now, you've made the problem worse. Short people vs tall people, athletic vs obese, etc. There are too many factors to balance out. Besides. If you're old you must also consider that you have less life to lose. I think that should be balanced out with some disadvantage. How does this work? Are you saying that it's okay for old people to die because they've lived a long life? | /r/MensRights | 28/10/14 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Trial by combat possibly still a possibility in the US. Should it be considered in word against word cases?I have no idea what a trial dungeon is. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/14 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Trial by combat possibly still a possibility in the US. Should it be considered in word against word cases?That only addresses one of my concerns. If you're going to present a hypothetical, at least follow through logically. If trial by combat is self-representation, then I'm just going to go around and rob old people. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/14 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Trial by combat possibly still a possibility in the US. Should it be considered in word against word cases?No. Might does not make right. If trial by combat was allowed, the biggest, baddest, and richest would have pretty much free reign. Also, people are allowed to choose champions. As someone accused of rape and not rich, I don't think I would get a lot of offers for someone to champion for me. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/14 08:09 PM |
| 3 | 2 Korean soldiers are the first women to earn Expert Infantryman Badge - and this is why we don't need to lower standards to accommodate women in the Army, and never have.and this is why we don't need to lower standards to accommodate women in the Army, and never have. I'm curious now that you know they are graded on the female scale for the APFT, do you stand by this. Personally, I don't think the APFT is that great at measuring a soldier's combat readiness. I'm not worried about a female's mental capability, I'm worried about their strength capability. That's why I asked about buddy carries. A ruck march is a good start, but seeing if they can move a buddy arou… | /r/MensRights | 28/10/14 08:06 PM |
| 5 | Trial by combat possibly still a possibility in the US. Should it be considered in word against word cases?No. This "law" is as valid as a law that prohibits ducks from wearing pants. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/14 07:39 PM |
| 1 | 2 Korean soldiers are the first women to earn Expert Infantryman Badge - and this is why we don't need to lower standards to accommodate women in the Army, and never have.Yeah, the APFT is part of the EIB. You need to score a 75-75-75. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/14 07:25 PM |
| 1 | 2 Korean soldiers are the first women to earn Expert Infantryman Badge - and this is why we don't need to lower standards to accommodate women in the Army, and never have.While they probably only had to meet the female standards for the APFT, I think the ruck march shows that some females are physically capable. Does anybody know if they have to do buddy carries? | /r/MensRights | 28/10/14 06:44 PM |
| 0 | Men Expose The Private Information And Text Of Women And All Hell Breaks Loose. OH, It's Women Doing It To Men, No Wonder It's So Quiet. "Rise of the Feminist Tinder-Creep-Busting Web Vigilante"Seeing that you described people that can't realize things at the conception of the idea as "dopey twats", I assume you're from the UK (Please correct me if I'm wrong). I'll refer to the Defamation Act 2013 for your sake. Since the embarrassing statement came from the person who would most likely sue for libel, I don't think there's an argument saying that statement is some sort of fabrication. It's not like people are putting words in other people's mouths. Any criticism directed at said person… | /r/MensRights | 28/10/14 05:27 PM |
| 0 | Men Expose The Private Information And Text Of Women And All Hell Breaks Loose. OH, It's Women Doing It To Men, No Wonder It's So Quiet. "Rise of the Feminist Tinder-Creep-Busting Web Vigilante"I was actually talking about your mistake of thinking this is libel. Returning to the issue at hand, the revealing of text messages might be a publication of private facts, but since there are numerous websites that do this, I feel like their lawyers have put them in the clear. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/14 04:52 PM |
| 0 | Men Expose The Private Information And Text Of Women And All Hell Breaks Loose. OH, It's Women Doing It To Men, No Wonder It's So Quiet. "Rise of the Feminist Tinder-Creep-Busting Web Vigilante"It's okay to be wrong. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/14 04:15 PM |
| 0 | Men Expose The Private Information And Text Of Women And All Hell Breaks Loose. OH, It's Women Doing It To Men, No Wonder It's So Quiet. "Rise of the Feminist Tinder-Creep-Busting Web Vigilante"If i write a letter to a newspaper claiming to be Brad pitt and include a photo of brad pitt and claim i love wearing nappies and pretending i am a baby. If a newspaper prints it with the claim they will be sued to buggery. Both the writer of the letter and the publisher of the article are liable to be sued. The two situations aren't the same. The stuff in the article is more like Brad Pitt actually wrote you a letter and said he loves wearing nappies and pretending to be a baby. You passing the… | /r/MensRights | 28/10/14 03:33 PM |
| 0 | Men Expose The Private Information And Text Of Women And All Hell Breaks Loose. OH, It's Women Doing It To Men, No Wonder It's So Quiet. "Rise of the Feminist Tinder-Creep-Busting Web Vigilante"I'm not sure if they have a case for libel. The information provided isn't really out of context and the embarrassing statements are made by the person themselves. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/14 03:09 PM |
| 0 | Men Expose The Private Information And Text Of Women And All Hell Breaks Loose. OH, It's Women Doing It To Men, No Wonder It's So Quiet. "Rise of the Feminist Tinder-Creep-Busting Web Vigilante"For hypocrisy to work, you need an actual event to compare it to. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/14 03:06 PM |
| 3 | How could the work death percentage for men be lowered?Here's some data for us to look at: Worker Fatalities Reported to Federal and State OSHA Census of Fatal Occupational Injuries (CFOI) - Current and Revised Data However, this data is not as in-depth as I would like it. It is not enough to know if someone died, but why they died. We need to know if it was operator error or equipment error to actually reduce deaths. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/14 01:06 PM |
| 1 | If we measured the rights of men and women by looking only at incarceration rates and work related deaths, nobody would doubt we live in a matriarchal society.What would you list as its core goals. For me, it's: Father's rights Proper legal rights for rape and false rape accusations Mental health MGM | /r/MensRights | 28/10/14 12:14 PM |
| 2 | I'm writing an essay on gender sentencing (how men are more likely to be arrested and get higher charges). I'm a bit stuck... could you give me some pointers?I'm not sure how well thongs work when running, but the Google images make it look like she's in the clear. Personally, if this is suppose to be a funny after dinner speech, pick another topic. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/14 04:49 AM |
| 5 | Homeless man simply plays piano beautifully -- prompting an angry screed by a self-described "Fat Activist and Proud Feminist"I just clicked on your link and found her comment. She's most likely a troll. If you're really desperate to find someone that actually has these kinds of sentiments, go check Tumblr. It's okay to be wrong. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/14 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Men Expose The Private Information And Text Of Women And All Hell Breaks Loose. OH, It's Women Doing It To Men, No Wonder It's So Quiet. "Rise of the Feminist Tinder-Creep-Busting Web Vigilante"What "private information and text of women" are you referring to? | /r/MensRights | 28/10/14 04:34 AM |
| 1 | I'm writing an essay on gender sentencing (how men are more likely to be arrested and get higher charges). I'm a bit stuck... could you give me some pointers?What class is this for? Do you have a rubric for the paper? Right off the bat, though, Kimberly Webster had on underwear, Kevin Tardif seemed to be completely naked. It's not a sentencing disparity, they actually did commit two different crimes. Is there a writing center at your school? They might be more helpful. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/14 04:24 AM |
| 5 | Homeless man simply plays piano beautifully -- prompting an angry screed by a self-described "Fat Activist and Proud Feminist"Sorry, but pillepallepulle might be right. If you just Google "Ana McHutton", it looks like she's part of the Le Reddit Army. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/14 03:46 AM |
| 1 | If we measured the rights of men and women by looking only at incarceration rates and work related deaths, nobody would doubt we live in a matriarchal society.So, when you tagged this post as "Discussion", what were you hoping to discuss? | /r/MensRights | 27/10/14 07:33 PM |
| -2 | If we measured the rights of men and women by looking only at incarceration rates and work related deaths, nobody would doubt we live in a matriarchal society.I'm just looking for constructive criticism and trying to clarify your position. Your post, for example, has been misinterpreted by several commenters, and I'm not sure if the upvotes are for your sentiment or users actually think we live in a matriarchal society. We are supposed to work together and most of us do. You don't seem to identify as an MRA, so I'm not sure if MRAs were part of the "we". That's why I asked if MRAs are part of the problem or part of the solution. I'm still curious abou… | /r/MensRights | 27/10/14 07:10 PM |
| 1 | If we measured the rights of men and women by looking only at incarceration rates and work related deaths, nobody would doubt we live in a matriarchal society.I figure since you brought it up, you had some sort of insight. | /r/MensRights | 27/10/14 06:47 PM |
| 1 | If we measured the rights of men and women by looking only at incarceration rates and work related deaths, nobody would doubt we live in a matriarchal society.It's not too hard to find out how we are part of the solution, so could you tell me how we are part of the problem? | /r/MensRights | 27/10/14 06:45 PM |
| 0 | If we measured the rights of men and women by looking only at incarceration rates and work related deaths, nobody would doubt we live in a matriarchal society.MRAs may be a reactionary group, however getting rid of feminism would not get rid of the problems that men face. Men would still be incarcerated and die in the workplace at higher rates. create their own problems in a sense. But I'm more interested in this. What problems are being created? | /r/MensRights | 27/10/14 06:12 PM |
| -3 | If we measured the rights of men and women by looking only at incarceration rates and work related deaths, nobody would doubt we live in a matriarchal society.Are MRAs part of the problem or part of the solution? | /r/MensRights | 27/10/14 06:00 PM |
| 1 | In this day and age of discussing toxic masculinity, is there also a toxic femininity?I feel like that's what second wave feminism dealt with. Betty Friedan's The Feminine Mystique examined the traditional female role and how it failed women, really just how it affected well-off white women. However, that was over 50 years ago, and people began to realize that being feminine is not exactly a bad thing. It's really only a bad thing when it's your only option and you are forced into that role. That's why females are so worried about representation, they don't want the girly-girl as… | /r/MensRights | 27/10/14 05:05 PM |
| 5 | If we measured the rights of men and women by looking only at incarceration rates and work related deaths, nobody would doubt we live in a matriarchal society.What happens when you look at everything else? | /r/MensRights | 27/10/14 03:52 PM |
| 4 | Men are exploited through the sexualization of womenI don't think you can say men don't have the same opportunity to use their sexuality to earn money, but you could probably say male sexuality is not as valuable. | /r/MensRights | 27/10/14 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Mod explains: TIL posts must come 'from the right people'. MRAs not welcome, info can't 'make women look bad' (everyone else of course fair game)One mods opinion is not indicative of all mods. The big problem is that a lot of people think no_game_player is a mod of /r/todayilearned. /u/iethatis thinks this is a smoking gun. | /r/MensRights | 27/10/14 01:45 AM |
| 3 | Mod explains: TIL posts must come 'from the right people'. MRAs not welcome, info can't 'make women look bad' (everyone else of course fair game)I don't think no_game_player is a mod of /r/todayilearned | /r/MensRights | 27/10/14 01:23 AM |
| 1 | College football programs fumble when it comes to building role modelsI understand the purpose of college football programs is to win games. However, I'm interested in the discussion of how males spaces might not be that great for males, and they might actually contribute to male disposability. | /r/MensRights | 26/10/14 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Showerthought: #GamerGate has probably brought more young men to the MRM than any other event in history.Seriously, what bad ideals? What attacks? You implied that I am a bigot, and I take that seriously. | /r/MensRights | 26/10/14 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Showerthought: #GamerGate has probably brought more young men to the MRM than any other event in history.What bad ideals? Are your referring to me? I thought we were on the same side. We're both gamers who seem to be against Gamers. | /r/MensRights | 25/10/14 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Showerthought: #GamerGate has probably brought more young men to the MRM than any other event in history.It's okay to be wrong. | /r/MensRights | 25/10/14 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn't male models and porn stars demand pay equality?I was just thinking that for the general public we would just say pornstars are being paid for sex. However, I think pornstars are a little bit more specific. I feel like male pornstars would charge more for giving oral sex to a male or receiving anal sex than female pornstars. | /r/MensRights | 25/10/14 12:31 PM |
| 0 | Shouldn't male models and porn stars demand pay equality?Are male pornstars doing the same work as female pornstars? | /r/MensRights | 25/10/14 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Showerthought: #GamerGate has probably brought more young men to the MRM than any other event in history.I think gamers are people who play games I'm glad you think like that. That's the same way I feel about comic books. If somebody is interested in reading them, I'll do my best to encourage that habit. However, your argument is to consider gamers 'other' But from what I've read, that might not be the case for all of our compatriots. I say compatriots because I like to play Pokemon and Super Nintendo (never really upgraded). It just always seemed to be tiers that separates gamers from capital-G Ga… | /r/MensRights | 25/10/14 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Showerthought: #GamerGate has probably brought more young men to the MRM than any other event in history.I'm not sure moviegoers and gamers are the same kind of group. Gamers seem to have an imaginary standard on who is allowed to call themselves a gamer. I don't think moviegoers have that kind of standard, I don't even think there is a group of people dedicated to chick flicks. I think film geeks might be the proper analogue for gamers. If the Gamers are as elitist as some of the "real fans" within the comic book community (which I am more familiar with), then I think those kind of Gamers are over… | /r/MensRights | 24/10/14 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Showerthought: #GamerGate has probably brought more young men to the MRM than any other event in history.I'm not too familiar with video games, so that list at the end is kind of wasted on me, but I'll try my best. The tropes within video games are stereotypes written large...To say that they are sexist is to argue that they are one sided. That only one of these stereotypes is important. I agree. If someone was to argue something was sexist against only one part of the gender spectrum and not acknowledge how it can be sexist to other parts of the spectrum, I would called that sexist. However, I'm n… | /r/MensRights | 24/10/14 02:28 PM |
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