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Inner Game ultra-sapien/r/seduction11/03/26 01:06 AM
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Outer Game ultra-sapien/r/seduction17/03/26 03:34 PM
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ultra-sapien/r/seduction16/11/19 02:35 AM
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Very specific question: ever went on a few dates with a girl with damn near perfect chemistry as in, she love-gazes into your eyes, holds your hand, has passionate sex with you and then ghosts? How do you explain that? I just want answers I’ve been fucked up about this girl who did this to me
/r/seduction24/07/26 08:02 PM
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Bro I couldn’t fuckin do it. I came this close but my body would just either stop or avoid the cute girl every time. Was it this hard for you when you started? And don’t get me wrong, I wanna try at this until it happens. Giving up ain’t an option
/r/seduction08/10/22 06:49 AM
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I’ll come back to this thread and let y’all know👌
/r/seduction07/10/22 05:57 AM
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Bro thanks. This feels like it might finally get me doing it. Cause my biggest resistance came from worrying about a bad reaction. But if she hates me for being honest like that I’d think she’s the one with the problem lol. I’m gonna try this tomorrow
/r/seduction07/10/22 05:54 AM
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Yeah I don’t like canned pickup lines either they just feel disingenuous. But I like your idea, and it would probably help to just be honest about the fact that I’m not very good, making her feel at ease even if I’m nervous and shit Also it’s prob a good starting point to start getting better from
/r/seduction07/10/22 05:47 AM
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I really need help. I’ve technically been approaching women every day but it’s always been general questions or compliments. I just can’t get myself to convey my intentions to a girl and say, “I think you’re cute”. Anyone (who’s actually done it please) have any advice to finally get me to do it? It’s hard when you go at it solo and you’re all you’ve got.
/r/seduction07/10/22 03:56 AM
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Oh certainly. That’s something I forget to appreciate sometimes
/r/seduction02/09/22 08:59 AM
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While it does take time, intimacy can be established quite quick if you’re good. This is where the skills of approaching come in, because as you approach more, you become your best, most charismatic, confident self. And it all depends on what you want man. Whether you want to find a gf or a FWB, or have multiple FWBs, it doesn’t matter. If you want a gf then you may not have to start the whole cycle again if you really click with each other. That to me, is the beauty of it. It works for whatever…
/r/seduction02/09/22 08:45 AM
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If you have lack of experience in this, then you have no merit to judge. And also, you can’t become intimate with strangers unless it’s prostitution. The point of going out is to meet a stranger, develop a connection, become acquainted(therefore, no longer strangers), and set up a date to get things moving to intimacy.
/r/seduction02/09/22 08:29 AM
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I’m a straight man so of course. But another huge motivation is pushing past all your fears and insecurity to prove to yourself that you can take action and achieve anything you want.
/r/seduction02/09/22 08:12 AM
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Yes, you have to WORK at this if you want to reap the benefits. I’m starting out and am currently doing a 30 day challenge of talking to women everyday. The first 5 days I could barely look at a girl, now at day 28, I’m complimenting them and introducing myself. Slow progress is still progress, so yeah get out there.
/r/seduction01/09/22 04:58 AM
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As a shy introvert myself, who’s still learning but made progress, I’d add on to your title to make it more accurate: “Cold Approach is Not For Everyone, Except For the People Who Are Willing to Put in the Work” What you said about making a shy guy who’s terrible at dating go out and cold approach (0-100) IS bad advice, and because it’s too hard for them at the moment they are more likely to quit. However, if they can learn to progressively desensitize themselves, then their learning curve could…
/r/seduction07/07/22 09:31 PM
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You have almost perfectly described me, all the way down to 21(I’m 23) 5’7’’ and of Asian descent. Also have been described as attractive by many girls and guys, and yet there’s always this damn barrier that prevents me from doing a cold approach with direct intent. I don’t what it is and why I shut down sometimes when I’m around people, but I’m sick and tired of it, and I know that if I were to do it, I’d definitely get dates. That’s why I’ve been progressively desensitizing myself, slowly work…
/r/seduction07/07/22 01:35 AM
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OP, did you just jump right into it cold Turkey or do gradual desensitization? I’ve been struggling for literally years to do cold approaches on the regular. Right now I’m approaching women just asking for opinions and stuff and working my way up to direct approaches
/r/seduction15/05/22 02:32 AM
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Like all things we learn, it’s a skill. A skill level we can only get to by being terrible and cringy at first. I don’t know how long you’ve been doing trying this out but I highly encourage everyone who feels this way to give it their all. Results aren’t gonna come at all at first, but once you get better you’ll start to see them. There’s treasure to find if you face your fears and insecurities.
/r/seduction25/10/20 03:34 AM
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It’s definitely gonna work for you with that attitude
/r/seduction25/10/20 03:21 AM
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This is the best post I’ve seen on this sub. Got any books for us to read OP? Something that touches up on what you’ve posted here?
/r/seduction09/07/19 02:43 AM
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