Daygame trouble with AA and Volume

No-Lobster-4646 · 2026-03-11T01:13:10+00:00

Normal. Try warming up with workers of stores near by. And try doing night game sober just to see if you get the same results as being buzz.

Budget-Kick822 · 2026-03-11T02:21:05+00:00

Work your way up. Common starting point is asking for directions. You can even start with men or women you dont find attractive. Then once youre super comfortable doing that you can progress to asking for a recommendation like youre a tourist looking for something to do or a restaurant/bar. Then progress to giving random compliments. Then progress to opinion openers. Work your way up to how you actually want to open whether its direct/semi direct/indirect.

During the process of working your way up to actual approaches you can just do the approach and walk away. If you get strong IOIs you can turn it into a real approach but the goal is just to get comfortable talking to strangers during the day.

Theres also stuff like the 3s rule or day gaming with a wing and giving him a lump sum of money to hold on to where he gives you back a portion for every approach you do.

FlowingMagic · 2026-03-11T07:42:11+00:00

your problem is how your parents raised you

I dont know what they did bad, but they did something bad. So you wanna know whats your problem, well idk, but look over that angle is where youll find answers

as to do things better, you should look at smaller quests

right now you be like "I need to approach a girl. I need to approach a lot of girls. I need to shoot my shit."

I suggest smaller goals.

"Today, I'm going to X to do Y. If I exchange a smile with a girl, that's a win."

That's it. See how little pressure im putting you. You dont need to approach her, you dont need to talk. No expectations. No agenda. No need to explain nothing. A smile can be interprered a thousand ways.

Just look, smile. Done. You did it. She smiles back, nice that builds you up.

epimpstyle · 2026-03-11T08:48:56+00:00

If that's how you feel, why do you still want to go through with it? It’s almost masochistic, like, I don’t enjoy it, but I do it anyway.

doing a bad, embarrassing, cringy approach + getting ignored

You said you use direct openers but that’s not a normal way to start a conversation with a stranger. Most of the time a strong opener triggers a strong (and not always good) reaction.

Also, you won't always get a positive reaction because women on the street aren't always high-energy or enthusiastic. They’re human beings with their own thoughts and problems.

What you see on YouTube is a colection of videos and they upload those who look the best. IRL isn't like that. Most of the time, interactions are actually quite boring. You’re the one who has to drop a subtle joke and see how she reacts than push the things forward.

- people watching/hearing me

When you initially approach a girl, people watching don't know if you already know her. For all they know, you could be a classmate, a colleague, a cousin, a neighbor...

Hearing you - that's just stupid. You really think people are out there eavesdropping on strangers? If you see two people chatting, do you honestly stop just to listen in? Of course not, neither do they.

accidentally approaching the same girl

The odds are slim, and even then, it literally doesn't change anything.

beginner guys who’ve started racking up volume, numbers, and dates relatively quickly.

It's simply stupid. It’s like trying on every single item in the store hoping for a match, instead of just checking the size and the cut. If you know what you're doing, you'll find the right one in 2-3 tries.

They don't actually know what they’re doing. They turn an approach into a challenge... but just imagine how weak their skills must be if they need a massive volume.

Sean04_k · 2026-03-11T11:22:00+00:00

Pretty same here I struggle with day game much more than night game but I think they key part is just to keep trying

ImpossibleWaiting · 2026-03-11T14:53:19+00:00

It's hard because you're afraid of something, most likely rejection. Being unconsciously outcome attached is one of the biggest hurdles in Daygame. Now if instead of pursuing some goals you instead just approached to say Hi and make small talk, you'd put a lot of pressure off of yourself.

Title	Daygame trouble with AA and Volume
Author	ultra-sapien
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	March 11, 2026 1:06 AM UTC (4 months ago)
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