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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Field report of weekendFor the 5th girl you should’ve escalated kino if she seemed interested asking her to move to a different spot only after a good convo and not even a kiss will probably not work | /r/seduction | 07/07/26 08:54 PM |
| 7 | Anyone feel like it’s a shame how much energy is being diverted away from things that truly matter to this?Human intimacy is important and needed there’s nothing wrong with putting time towards it | /r/seduction | 07/07/26 08:36 PM |
| 1 | How often do women approach you?In a club environment like 5 times it’s very rare. I’m 5,9 and like a 6/10 if that helps | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 08:55 AM |
| 1 | First time going out aloneSounds like you just don’t like clubbing/night game | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 09:38 PM |
| 3 | Don’t Forget To Get Your Reps In Today!!!YESSIR | /r/seduction | 13/06/26 01:43 PM |
| 1 | I blew it today (cold approach story)Same | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 07:00 PM |
| 1 | I want to try going to a club but I have some questions..Just go out and see how it goes you’ll never know unless you try. If you search “solo” on this reddit you’ll see a bunch of peoples filed reports and what they done to get girls when they went out solo. There are some really good ones that’s helped me when I went solo you should read them. | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Regretting Not Approaching a Girl at My Society GymIf you’ve only ever cold approached once then it makes sense that you hesitate to do it in the moment you have an approaching issue that you need to fix. | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 06:12 PM |
| 3 | Is There Anyone Else Here Who Likes Going Out By Themselves?I do as well no friends to baby and can move at my own pace | /r/seduction | 22/05/26 09:47 PM |
| 1 | The best example of flirting on YT.Mariah Carey - The Ozone Interview by Jamie Theakston (1997) | /r/seduction | 21/05/26 04:22 PM |
| 9 | Fumbled a 10 that stared at me the entire semester-should i add her on Instagram?Wait till next semester and ask in person. It shows lack of confidence if you just decided to follow her when the semester ended and didn’t even speak to her once. And if you are in the same class then don’t just ask her out then and there you can build rapport with her because you will see her on a weekly basis and can make excuses to hang out like a library session or something. | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 08:47 AM |
| 5 | It’s possible to turn around and have success within 24 hours. By tomorrow you CAN have success even after weeks or months or potentially years of a drought. (Motivation from recent experience).Needed this my last few night games have been terrible | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 11:01 PM |
| 5 | Having wing-men makes a HUGE differenceHow on earth does a wing girl work | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Tips on opener in night gameYeah I felt like my opener only works when the girl really wants it. It won’t work on what I call “maybe girls” which are girls who I think would be down but I have to have a lot better game to get them. Throughout the 20 sets there were maybe girls but I failed with all of them. Your way of going for a spin is much better and builds rapport so I’ll probably try that from now thanks. | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 10:39 AM |
| 1 | How far from a bar/club is too far? Roommates in 30s, do they make it a definite "no?"A filed report is someone explaining how their pick up attempt went his name is 5’7 Asian or something like that he made a lot of | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 09:28 AM |
| 7 | How far from a bar/club is too far? Roommates in 30s, do they make it a definite "no?"100 percent not a pro at this but a guy who made a lot of filed reports had similar circumstances and he said it wasn’t ideal. You have to build rapport for pretty much the most of the journey and if you fail she could decide not to smash. 25 minutes is a very long time and if ur driving you might not be able to focus on her which could sell the pull. Obviously still try anyway but that’s my opinion on it | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 10:39 PM |
| 1 | My face literally twitched every time it was time to close!Night or day game? | /r/seduction | 26/03/26 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Fix my club game + how tf did he pull!If you just wait for IOis or girls dancing near you ur doing night game wrong. This would only work for really good looking guys who are tall (I’m not either of these things btw). If you see a girl who you think is pretty approach her don’t wait for them. Edit: and I used to make friends with a lot of guys too lol I thought it was better than talking to no one cause I was also scared to talk to girls and didn’t want to be seen alone. This was bad though because it made me less likely to approach… | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 07:21 PM |
| 1 | two man?Not trans but don’t see how this would change anything | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Daygame trouble with AA and VolumePretty same here I struggle with day game much more than night game but I think they key part is just to keep trying | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Ok picture thisAs soon as you thought she was pretty you should’ve approached her you shouldn’t need iois. But yeah you definitely should have approached | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong to get demoralized after this rejection?Asking for the number was crazy | /r/seduction | 02/03/26 11:33 AM |
| 1 | I am glad this community exists.Same with me I never would’ve done cold approaches or solo clubbing before this reddit. I’m not tall or jacked but this seddit gave me the boost I needed in approaching women it gave me hope. | /r/seduction | 26/02/26 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Night game sober is soo much harder but it’s got to be done.I’m 5’9 and black and it’s definitely possible | /r/seduction | 26/02/26 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Advice on dancing and flirting with women at the club?Yeah maybe I wasn’t clear, I didn’t mean just instantly try dance with the girl but in ops case he ses to be having good conversations with them but doesn’t escalate it. And in that case I would try and dance with her to see if she’s receptive. | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Advice on dancing and flirting with women at the club?I’m not saying don’t say a word to the girl if ur already touching her elbow and she’s receptive that’s a good sign. But to advance the interaction I think dancing would be the next play it can lead to kisses/grinding which is the next step. And the hand of god is old as hell I only found out about it after reading hella filed reports and someone mentioned doing it. I’ve enjoyed doing it a lot when I go out it’s an easy dance opener after some talking and some girls go straight to grinding which… | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Advice on dancing and flirting with women at the club?I do I’m not saying don’t talk at all Im just saying don’t focus on having a long ass conversation with her in the middle of the dance floor. It could work for others but in my experience dancing with a girl is better cause it’s easier to transition to a kiss and breaking the touch barrier. | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Advice on dancing and flirting with women at the club?Clubs are for dancing not a convo. Do hand of god when you introduce yourself and give her a spin and see how receptive she is | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 01:42 PM |
| 1 | People who use wingmen for night game what are the benefits?Yeah this is good advice but if the person doesn’t really know about “game” then I’m not sure how I would bring it up. I have a friend who I think would be good with it but me adding all these rules and stuff would feel like I’m doing too much and kind of teaching him which I don’t want. I also like being solo a lot of the time in the club I’m not sure if my friend would be down for that maybe I should just look for more solo clubbers until one is on the same vibe with me | /r/seduction | 23/02/26 12:18 PM |
| 4 | Y’all going out tonight?OF FUCKING COURSE IM GOING OUT | /r/seduction | 14/02/26 11:09 PM |
| 20 | how to meet girls in 2026 without appsIt 100 percent is an excuse and it’s said a lot on tik tok I’m shocked someone on this reddit is saying it. No one is going to jail or getting called a weirdo for talking to women on the street. | /r/seduction | 14/02/26 11:11 AM |
| 14 | Are singles going clubbing/bar during valentines day?The only way to find out is to go. | /r/seduction | 14/02/26 11:09 AM |
| 16 | How to Hit on Girls and Get Laid at a Night Out this Valentine’s Day?Go on Friday and Saturday to prep for it so you know what ur getting yourself into | /r/seduction | 05/02/26 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Any beginner who made 2026 goals how are you doing?Good luck my guy. I’m in a similar situation as you where I struggle to approach and my social circle isn’t the best but we just gotta keep trying | /r/seduction | 26/01/26 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach week another failure but progress.Nice man I’m curious how this week went for you if you don’t mind sharing | /r/seduction | 26/01/26 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach week another failure but progress.Yeah agree with this I just didn’t wanna do night game on valentine but I might have too | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 11:41 PM |
| 1 | List of the Excuses I've Used Over the Years to Not Make a MoveYeah that’s probably the only valid one I make sure I don’t do it at night anyway now | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 11:40 PM |
| 2 | List of the Excuses I've Used Over the Years to Not Make a MoveSome of mine were: Haven’t shaved Could be too young Of course that’s she in a 2 set or there’s multiple people with her It’s dark I could scare her I’ve said or made other excuses but now I just accept that’s its approach anxiety and that I was too scared to do it. The main one I have is that theres other people in the area and they will hear what I say that gets me the most. I’ve gotten better but still haven’t got it down but I just gotta keep trying | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach week another failure but progress.Yeah might try this | /r/seduction | 20/01/26 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach week another failure but progress.lol I haven’t even unlocked that part yet. I know all the theory(build rapport, suggest date, ask for number) I just don’t have the guts yet to go for it yet. | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Cold approach week another failure but progress.Thanks I’m just hoping it clicks soon | /r/seduction | 18/01/26 08:10 PM |
| 2 | What to do after approaching girl from the side?I go direct so I just compliment her and say I wanted to introduce myself. “Hey excuse me, I saw you and thought you were pretty and wanted to say hi” | /r/seduction | 15/01/26 12:53 PM |
| 1 | What to do after approaching girl from the side?Let’s say I stop her and we are going to walk in the same direction after I get her number do I just zoom off? | /r/seduction | 15/01/26 10:02 AM |
| 2 | A few issues about going out aloneUr negative thoughts are holding you back. Your already thinking that others thoughts of you are negative even though you don’t know that I doubt anyone cares. And if you enjoy going out with friends then do that a lot of people just find it better to “game” solo. | /r/seduction | 15/01/26 12:33 AM |
| 7 | Here is current META of meeting women, based on analysis of my life dating scenariosAlcohol helps but I think I’m just a person who likes dancing so it’s easy for me. You don’t need to be doing anything crazy or have the best moves just don’t be one of guys that’s just standing there doing nothing or just barely moving their hand. Good music also helps. | /r/seduction | 14/01/26 12:27 PM |
| 47 | Here is current META of meeting women, based on analysis of my life dating scenariosBeing able to dance at clubs/parties has improved my night game a lot. I’m not even good at dancing but girls will see you having a good time and will come towards you to dance I’ve even been approached by girls just by being on the dance floor. | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 02:06 PM |
| 1 | How often do girls hit you up/approach you?Think girls approach is looking at someone I didn’t include that though + my eye sight is terrible so I struggle to see it | /r/seduction | 07/01/26 07:31 PM |
| 0 | How often do girls hit you up/approach you?Twice. One was a first kiss and the other just complemented me but was with friends or something both were at club btw. | /r/seduction | 07/01/26 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Just reading and no theory has been done. Anyone else have/had this issue?Ok thanks and I have a question if you don’t mind. So surprise surprise I went out again today and couldn’t do any. Do you think I should go down the route of just asking for the time/complimenting girls to get comfortable or should I just try and push through and do a cold approaches. I don’t want to do this though because tbh I just feel like I’m better than that. I found out about cold approach and “game” last year in October and have managed to do 4. I also got better at night game (aa isn’t… | /r/seduction | 07/01/26 05:43 PM |
| 1 | People who go clubbing alone, tips?Type solo in this reddit and read away there’s lots of advice and filed reports to learn from | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 12:16 AM |
| -1 | There’s a lot of hate and judgment coming my way but who cares it is what it is.Sorry I have no advice but ignore the people giving hate they don’t understand how terrible an arranged marriage is especially if ur not attracted to them. People don’t know how fortune they are to not be in that situation and can’t see it from ur point of view. I hope you find what ur looking for my man good luck. | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 11:59 PM |
| 3 | How i met my first, second and third girlfriend. Becoming somebody i hated later.How serious did you take cold approaching? | /r/seduction | 03/01/26 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Having 5 f*ck buddies at the same timeUr post helped me as well people are just hesitant to believe anything | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 06:12 PM |
| 3 | [ADVICE/MOTIVATION/INSPIRATION] - Beginners/late bloomers - how far did game take you in 2025 and what do you want 2026? Reflections from a 27M total newbieHey bro I’m also gonna take this stuff more seriously I only learned about “game” in October last year and only managed 4 cold approaches so I want to increase it a lot. I think im going to use the direct opener more but since I’ve started learning about game I’ve become a much more social person so even though I haven’t had that much success from it I’m still having benefits | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 02:43 PM |
| 4 | [Field Report] Solo New Years Eve party, Kiss close and 2-setNice filed report my man. I didn’t get a kiss directly on new years (which I was pretty down about) but kissed and danced with a girl for a while after it and got her number so was still a good night for me. | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Who else is going out for NYES?Yeah I’ll try something like this because I’ve sold myself in approaches for night game where I just couldn’t handle the group and left without being told too. I don’t like the idea of starting small but I feel like for groups I need too | /r/seduction | 30/12/25 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Who else is going out for NYES?Good luck man | /r/seduction | 30/12/25 02:27 AM |
| 1 | 20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ]Wdym by all night game led to dates? | /r/seduction | 30/12/25 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Who else is going out for NYES?Tbh as soon as I read ur original comment my instant thought is that the girls would just wait until I put the bracelets on them and then they would just leave. But I’ve had a deep thought about ur question “why are you not hopeful” and i figured out it’s because I don’t believe in myself to be able to pull or get somewhere while opening to the group tbh. I agree it’s a good opener for a group but my lack of skills was probably the reason I instantly thought negative about the idea. I’ve opened … | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Who else is going out for NYES?Yessir we got this | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 04:21 PM |
| 5 | Who else is going out for NYES?Idk seems like I would just be buying girls bracelets tbh | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 02:49 PM |
| 4 | Who else is going out for NYES?Pretty much the same with me but I’m thinking of hitting town around 6 to hit some bars and then go to a club | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Could new years eve be the greatest night of my life?Lmao I’m wishing you luck man prove the doubters wrong | /r/seduction | 25/12/25 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Curious, what was your easiest lay?Went club drunk asf opened to a girl and she was clearly down for it so we left. Didn’t even have to kiss or build rapport for it I didn’t even kiss her before we came back to mine. Another thing I want to add is that I actually left this girl because she wasn’t showing any signs of interest but she took my hat, left the club and I followed her like a good boy. | /r/seduction | 14/12/25 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Am I just fooling and lying to myself with not well planned cold approaches?Don’t bro I haven’t done much as well but a quote I like to think of when I’m being a pussy is get laid or die trying | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 10:11 PM |
| 1 | 12/11 Dating Event and Social meetup eventWhen I see men “game” or get with an attractive girl I try to see it as motivation to make me keep going | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Am I just fooling and lying to myself with not well planned cold approaches?Giving up after 4💔 | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Drunk or sober for night game?Thanks for this. Do you also think going solo> going with other people? | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Done 2 cold approaches but bag was open…Went shops and got chocolate and it was hanging out of my bag | /r/seduction | 06/12/25 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Done 2 cold approaches but bag was open…Appreciate the positive feedback! | /r/seduction | 06/12/25 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Done 2 cold approaches but bag was open…One of main things I struggle with when talking to the opposite sex is making it man to women so I thought the direct opener probably works best for me. It’s either that or a cheesy pick up line and after some advice from this reddit I agreed that a direct opener would be better for me. I would probably agree that a non direct opener would be better if you can make it work but I doubt I could. Hopefully down the line I can though. | /r/seduction | 06/12/25 06:30 AM |
| 2 | Just paid friend £5 because I did not cold approach.Yeah good point I’ll try upping it | /r/seduction | 02/12/25 04:51 PM |
| 0 | What Flipped the Switch with Cold Approaching for You?Damn a shot might do it for me but I wanna leave that to night game | /r/seduction | 01/12/25 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Do you go cold approaching alone? I'm especielly interested in night game.Never know until you try so I say to for it. I don’t do bars but when I go club with friends I find more success being solo | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 12:29 AM |
| 1 | 2nd Cold approachI’m struggling with approaching and even when I do I feel like there’s nothing to say so I leave early | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 06:31 PM |
| 2 | 2nd Cold approachYep gonna try again tomorrow | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 12:41 AM |
| 1 | First cold approachWhy do you think cheesy lines are not ideal? I agree that just complimenting them is probably better but I don’t think cheesy lines are bad. Edit:spelling | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 06:09 PM |
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