Done 2 cold approaches but bag was open…

seduction-ModTeam · 2025-12-06T18:11:40+00:00

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hunterpua · 2025-12-06T01:18:04+00:00

Anyway I realised that I can’t approach with people around so I’ve set a goal of doing at least one approach with people around so I can get over that fear.

Another goal i have is to talk to a girl and make it last a few minutes because the first 2 cold approaches I done (these 2 make it 4) I couldn’t keep the convo going and ruined the approach.

Excellent goals! I really like how you directly address something that makes you nervous instead of avoiding it.

Don't be discouraged by the downvotes or negative comments. Most people here have less experience than you. Take it from someone who has been doing this for 16 years and has gotten everything I could possibly want out of dating, you're on the right track for your level of experience.

What you're doing right now is very similar to what I would have you do if you had asked me what to do in this stage.

Also, your bag being open with the chocolates hanging out isn't a big deal.

lastflower · 2025-12-06T13:06:56+00:00

Well done.

watuphoss · 2025-12-06T16:19:45+00:00

Maybe it would’ve been different if my bag wasn’t open with white chocolates fingers I brought hanging out but it doesn’t matter now I guess.

What?

Prestigious_Water336 · 2025-12-05T23:14:53+00:00

Stop complimenting

Just comment about the situation,place or something happening then introduce yourself.

Title	Done 2 cold approaches but bag was open…
Author	Sean04_k
Upvotes	15
Comments	28
Date	December 5, 2025 11:09 PM UTC (8 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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