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Outer Game Prestigious_Water336/r/seduction18/10/25 02:29 AM
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1

Yeah that's a bit better Make her laugh and bit
/r/seduction25/07/26 05:37 AM
1

Yeah that's not exactly a show stopping line. Remember you want her to reciprocate back with a mutual response.
/r/seduction25/07/26 05:14 AM
4

Why don't you just snap some pictures of her naked for future reference
/r/seduction23/07/26 04:14 PM
1

You could You could say where'd you get that bikini from?
/r/seduction12/07/26 12:12 PM
2

Like if your at the beach you could comment about the weather,the surf, other people etc.
/r/seduction12/07/26 12:04 PM
1

Your trying too hard Just comment on what grabs your attention
/r/seduction12/07/26 12:02 PM
2

I usually comment about the situation,place,,or something happening.
/r/seduction12/07/26 11:53 AM
9

In my experience indirect usually always works best. The interaction feels more organic and natural and you two have something to continue talking about after you two have introduced eachother.
/r/seduction12/07/26 10:01 AM
0

Read my guide It goes over everything. https://drive.google.com/file/d/13Jc4ip2fb1IqxnNC7NSNX0y-SXQIm6wz/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction11/07/26 08:53 PM
2

You don't let the husband find out. Loose lips sink ships. If they do accuse you, you deny any claims. I've never had any problems.
/r/seduction11/07/26 08:50 PM
1

This I've hooked up with plenty of married women
/r/seduction11/07/26 05:36 AM
2

Just comment about the situation,place, or something happening then introduce yourself.
/r/seduction10/07/26 10:54 PM
1

You could try that
/r/seduction10/07/26 07:27 PM
25

You can't really do much I never understood another woman speaking for another woman
/r/seduction10/07/26 07:18 PM
39

Uh yeah How much more IOI (indicator of interest) do you need? Do you even know her name? Next time you see her introduce yourself and make some small talk. Then ask for her number and text her back that same night to make plans for dinner. You got this
/r/seduction09/07/26 08:22 PM
3

Sounds like you got it
/r/seduction08/07/26 08:45 AM
10

No I never do I think gifts are a little cringe
/r/seduction07/07/26 09:34 PM
1

I guess Vocal tonality you're talking about
/r/seduction07/07/26 09:02 PM
1

In my experience not commenting about her looks had always yielded better results And it makes you more original
/r/seduction07/07/26 11:09 AM
2

That's the thing. If you say I think you're hot/gorgeous/cute/adorable you're putting her on a pedestal. Which is exactly what you don't wanna do. You wanna be on the same level as her. That's why I always recommend not commenting about her looks.
/r/seduction07/07/26 08:45 AM
3

True Later on she might change her mind It can't hurt And she'll know how you feel about her
/r/seduction06/07/26 04:23 PM
27

Just being comfortable around women. Being confident and comfortable in your skin. Not commenting about their looks.
/r/seduction06/07/26 03:52 PM
1

No You have to remember other guys are "friendly" competition. You still wanna be friends with them and talk to them. If you're struggling approaching it means you need more practice.
/r/seduction06/07/26 08:05 AM
1

Here you go https://youtube.com/@honestsignalz?si=zy4i2I8iY38zmZsL
/r/seduction06/07/26 07:34 AM
1

He is He goes over the very subtle things most others don't talk about
/r/seduction05/07/26 07:49 PM
1

Honest Signlaz is a great guy to watch He goes over everything
/r/seduction05/07/26 09:36 AM
11

Flirting makes her comfortable around you. Escalation is what changes the dynamic from friendly to sexual.
/r/seduction05/07/26 09:34 AM
1

No that's not stalking
/r/seduction04/07/26 07:51 PM
1

In all my years of interacting with women I think maybe 2 or 3 ever approached me It's up to the guy to initiate and approach If you were a woman would you approach a guy
/r/seduction04/07/26 01:46 AM
3

That's too much
/r/seduction01/07/26 09:42 PM
2

Then after a slight pause go for the kiss
/r/seduction01/07/26 09:37 PM
3

I do And get closer while you say it and laugh at little
/r/seduction01/07/26 09:28 PM
3

You mean accentuating? It's when you drag out the word more to emphasize it So if you say the word really you could say it like "reeaally" to make it sound more sensual
/r/seduction01/07/26 09:22 PM
6

This ^ The ingredients to the fuck me sauce are escalating, good eye contact, and word accentuating.
/r/seduction01/07/26 09:07 PM
2

It's all psychological If you slow down and don't think about what your going to say and just let it flowing comes out fine
/r/seduction01/07/26 03:45 PM
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Mine used to be terrible. After watching a speech therapist he taught me a couple things. Don't preform your words. For instance don't take your tongue and put it on the roof of your mouth anticipating your going to struggle with the word. Also normal speech isn't perfect. There's gaps,pauses, stutters, in normal speech. You think your going to stutter but your not if you just talk and don't think about it. It's you thinking your going to stutter is causing you to stutter. It's ironic. By you tr…
/r/seduction01/07/26 03:12 PM
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Dressing good Confidence Good posture
/r/seduction30/06/26 07:56 PM
2

Thanks for your feedback
/r/seduction30/06/26 09:12 AM
1

Your welcome
/r/seduction29/06/26 09:27 AM
2

I'm glad you enjoyed it I tried to be as honest and straightforward as I could
/r/seduction29/06/26 09:08 AM
3

Read my guide It goes over everything https://drive.google.com/file/d/13Jc4ip2fb1IqxnNC7NSNX0y-SXQIm6wz/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction29/06/26 07:58 AM
1

I don't see why not
/r/seduction28/06/26 10:55 AM
3

I mean this is all theoretical If the logistics are there and she's ready and willing I'd assume most if not all of them
/r/seduction28/06/26 01:31 AM
3

This really depends on the woman If she's receptive if my advances than my odds are usually pretty good
/r/seduction28/06/26 01:21 AM
5

Sure
/r/seduction27/06/26 07:47 PM
5

5 foot 9
/r/seduction27/06/26 07:45 PM
12

Read my guide It goes over everything https://drive.google.com/file/d/13Jc4ip2fb1IqxnNC7NSNX0y-SXQIm6wz/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction27/06/26 06:25 PM
1

I prefer something new each time The novelty wears off pretty quick
/r/seduction26/06/26 02:06 PM
1

This
/r/seduction26/06/26 02:00 PM
2

It doesn't really matter who's place you go back to.
/r/seduction26/06/26 01:59 PM
1

Yeah 25 is bit long Honestly anything more than 5 minutes is too much in my opinion This is why I always say tell her "its just five minutes away" if she asks how far away your place is. Keep talking to her and keep that sexual tension going on the way back to your place
/r/seduction26/06/26 01:56 PM
1

You could say "could the sun be any brighter?"
/r/seduction25/06/26 06:27 AM
1

Your getting approach anxiety which means you're not comfortable around women If she's at the beach comment about the weather or a local event that's going on then introduce yourself If she's walking you can ask her a question about something like "what do you think is better, a home cooked meal, or going out?" And then wait for her reply and then comment about her response then introduce yourself You're putting these women on a pedestal You need to talk to other random women to get comfortable …
/r/seduction24/06/26 08:40 PM
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Yeah it does work for daygame If she's at a store comment about what she's looking at and then introduce yourself Try to comment about the situation or what she's doing then introduce yourself Make some more small talk for a bit then go for her number or take her on a insta date
/r/seduction24/06/26 08:04 PM
1

Try making small talk with other women first to get warmed up
/r/seduction24/06/26 07:55 PM
1

I always comment about the situation,place,something happening or what she's looking at or doing then introduce yourself. Then continue what you were talking about.
/r/seduction24/06/26 07:47 PM
2

This Being desensitized and comfortable around all kinds of women is key
/r/seduction21/06/26 10:26 AM
1

This Say would you be open to the idea of a third girl?
/r/seduction21/06/26 09:02 AM
1

That's why I recommend guys read my pickup guide It goes over everything
/r/seduction21/06/26 08:50 AM
1

He can learn and move on from it That's the point of history
/r/seduction21/06/26 07:17 AM
1

I personally like the dresses that show your butt peeking out But I also love tight fitting low rise jeans Rock them both depending on the occasion
/r/seduction20/06/26 11:59 PM
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Some people are just weird. Don't let it get to you. Even the security guy said you didn't do anything wrong. Just move on to the next one. Maybe after she rejects you say "you have a nice day." Finish off the interaction on a positive note. This way she's can't really complain about anything. Keep approaching and grinding your social skills and social inution. Remember to try and look for the wedding ring first before you approach. Comment about what she's looking at or doing then introduce you…
/r/seduction20/06/26 09:55 PM
2

Most women won't go back to your or her place after the first date It makes them seem too easy Sometimes after the second or usually third date they're down for sex
/r/seduction19/06/26 06:07 PM
4

You gotta "let the pussy marinate". Make the interaction feel organic and natural Be leading
/r/seduction18/06/26 10:12 AM
1

Sometimes you gotta ask "Are you seeing anyone?" and if she's not hint at going on a date and then get the number. Make the intent known first.
/r/seduction16/06/26 11:18 AM
4

They make you go through shit tests. Too many guys fail said shit tests and just accept defeat. You gotta learn how to play the game. Also most 9's and 10's are taken. If they are single they don't stay single for long. You gotta strike while the iron is hot.
/r/seduction15/06/26 09:40 PM
1

I approach where I go. I feel this feels more organic and natural rather than seeking out an opportunity.
/r/seduction15/06/26 09:11 PM
4

Stores like Walmart,Target,Best Buy, Grocery stores, etc. The Beach Downtown area and shops Parks Malls Really anywhere out in public
/r/seduction15/06/26 04:23 PM
2

I tried to keep it as concise as I could. A lot of people will just refuse to read something longer. I tried to cover the essentials. The rest doesn't matter as much. It's really personal preference for a lot of how you go about it. You can also use vanilla extract as a cologne/perfume. Fun fact,vanilla is the most universally liked scent. I just give out the guide for free. I've been slowly adding more to it every now and then. It's like when I think it's done, I add some more. I tried to add t…
/r/seduction15/06/26 11:01 AM
1

Yeah I tried to be as detailed as I could while keeping it as concise and straightforward as possible. You don't wanna go too in depth and be boring or over complicated. I think it pretty well balanced.
/r/seduction14/06/26 11:44 AM
1

I put a decent amount of work into it. It's basically a culmination of over 10 years worth of infield experience that's worked well for me. I'm glad you enjoyed it!
/r/seduction14/06/26 02:32 AM
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You should read my guide It goes over everything https://drive.google.com/file/d/13Jc4ip2fb1IqxnNC7NSNX0y-SXQIm6wz/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction14/06/26 01:59 AM
1

I think they say males with tattoos are seen as less trustworthy
/r/seduction10/05/26 06:55 PM
1

Not much you?
/r/seduction08/05/26 05:56 PM
1

Hello
/r/seduction08/05/26 05:53 PM
1

It's a bar where the music is loud but not overly loud like a nughtclub It's a party environment People are dancing and doing shots of alcohol
/r/seduction05/05/26 06:39 AM
1

It's not as loud and chaotic You can still talk and flirt
/r/seduction04/05/26 06:44 PM
3

Not really I hooked up with one of her friends and she hooked up with another guy and we all did it in the and house that night We took the upstairs and they took the basement After we got done upstairs I took a little trip downstairs and heard them doing the deed along with kissing noises Sorry if that was TMI lol
/r/seduction03/05/26 10:19 PM
10

It's a bar where the music is loud and people are dancing and doing shots of booze
/r/seduction03/05/26 02:59 PM
1

Most girls go there to just dance and have fun
/r/seduction03/05/26 05:34 AM
19

That's true They go there to be a tease Much like a strip club
/r/seduction03/05/26 04:55 AM
7

I think a nightclub in Europe is a party bar here in the US
/r/seduction03/05/26 02:57 AM
1

It's not as chaotic It's more toned down You can talk to someone at a normal conversation level for the most part
/r/seduction03/05/26 02:22 AM
17

The music is loud People are dancing and doing shots It's a party in the bar
/r/seduction03/05/26 01:43 AM
1

As an introvert not really I enjoy the flirting but not the loud and chatic environment
/r/seduction03/05/26 01:13 AM
5

No it's not That's too loud 70 at the most
/r/seduction03/05/26 01:11 AM
4

Yeah nightclubs are about the table/bottle service
/r/seduction03/05/26 01:10 AM
12

It's a bar where they play music real loud and people are dancing and doing shots of booze It's a more energetic environment
/r/seduction03/05/26 01:09 AM
11

First off do you know what a party bar is?
/r/seduction03/05/26 01:06 AM
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How I usually do it is I show her my house then we sit on the couch and talk for a bit Then I like to use the line "you know, I have been dying to know, what kind of underwear you got on." Say it in kind of a laughing joking manner Then start unzipping her pants and take off her underwear Then take her by the hand and guide her to your bedroom and plop her down on your bed and take the rest of her clothes off Then have at it
/r/seduction03/05/26 12:54 AM
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Nightclubs have a dj that blasts music way too loud and they have misters and confetti etc. How do you flirt with a girl in an environment like that? That's why party bars are a more relaxed but yet still party environment
/r/seduction03/05/26 12:50 AM
360

Nightclubs aren't good for pulling Party bars are good for pulling women
/r/seduction03/05/26 12:45 AM
0

I'm about average Like a 5.5 maybe a 6.5 on a good day It's definitely more about game if you ask me Being able to be leading and being confident in your own skin are HUGE Much bigger than looks You can be a perfect 10 and have a junk personality and no game and take home no one or be average loking with great game and pull girls
/r/seduction02/05/26 04:48 PM
1

How are you coming off and who are you approaching?
/r/seduction02/05/26 04:59 AM
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It's not just about the money Women wanna be along for the ride They want the guy to lead You wanna be the alpha nice guy The guy that's dominant and leading but is also nice to everyone Approach with confidence and make her laugh,smile, and feel at ease Ger her number and text her back to make plans to meetup for a date like drinks or dinner
/r/seduction02/05/26 04:54 AM
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Confidence Dress good Look good Have good social skills and a good social intuition
/r/seduction02/05/26 04:43 AM
26

Always the number It's more personal
/r/seduction01/05/26 07:31 AM
4

Um never
/r/seduction01/05/26 06:12 AM
1

Your making her comfortable the more you talk to her
/r/seduction30/04/26 02:19 AM
1

There are no shortcuts You just have to self improve and practice
/r/seduction27/04/26 07:50 AM
1

Read my guide https://drive.google.com/file/d/13epRH0_XvIDOnX0GAqAwsnYw7FmMpBsc/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction22/04/26 06:47 PM
1

Some play hard to get The easy ones are well, easy They tougher ones are more of a challenge which makes it more fun
/r/seduction22/04/26 07:11 AM
1

Try to talk about topics you can both relate to Let the conversation branch and flow
/r/seduction21/04/26 04:32 PM
1

Really anything "What were they thinking when they made that sign?" And your hoping she says something like "I know right?"
/r/seduction21/04/26 06:44 AM
2

Yeah that could work Try to make the comment something you both can relate and talk about after you introduce eachother This way the interaction flows and feels organic
/r/seduction20/04/26 07:15 PM
12

This is why I always say comment about the situation place or something happening first so afyer you two introduce eachother you still have something to talk about
/r/seduction20/04/26 07:07 PM
2

Sure
/r/seduction20/04/26 10:11 AM
3

Started at 19 in my mid 30's now
/r/seduction20/04/26 10:10 AM
1

More than 40 less than 50
/r/seduction20/04/26 10:09 AM
6

I didn't yet but thanks for asking
/r/seduction20/04/26 09:55 AM
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Study up on game and approach a lot If you want my guide here's the link for it It'll be game changing after you read it https://drive.google.com/file/d/13epRH0_XvIDOnX0GAqAwsnYw7FmMpBsc/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction20/04/26 09:51 AM
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My body count is considered "high" compared to the average but it's really not that high if you ask me I have noticed two major things change that came with the higher count First thing is sex isn't as fun as it used to be. Don't get me wrong. I still enjoy it. But it's not special to me anymore. I've become desensitized towards it. I can get a one night stand really easily. My game is really good for both day and night game. It's easy for me to approach any random woman and start talking and fl…
/r/seduction20/04/26 09:30 AM
1

Make small talk with random women
/r/seduction19/04/26 05:59 PM
1

You need to practice your skills This doesn't come overnight
/r/seduction19/04/26 05:47 PM
1

Who cares what your past was Do you care if you died on a boss in a video game 20 times before you beat it?
/r/seduction19/04/26 05:37 PM
1

Well don't think that You deserve that chance like anyone else does
/r/seduction19/04/26 05:33 PM
1

Do you feel like an NPC (non playable character) talking to her? Or do you feel like a unique person confident in their own skin?
/r/seduction19/04/26 05:18 PM
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Are you calm,cool,and confident in your own skin? Do you feel the same talking to a perfect 10 as you do sitting playing video games? If not you need to get to that level
/r/seduction19/04/26 05:06 PM
1

I mean are you getting girl's numbers and texting them back to meetup for a date? Are you approaching during the daytime at malls,parks,stores,shops,beaches, etc. Are you grinding your social skills and social intuition? Are you talking to random women to get comfortable approaching? These are all things you should be doing
/r/seduction19/04/26 04:50 PM
1

Exactly Take the initiative and start to conversation interaction
/r/seduction18/04/26 11:28 PM
2

Well intoxicated At least feeling it a little
/r/seduction18/04/26 11:09 PM
1

I'm not saying she's always drunk But if that's the case We both know why we're there. If she's coming home with you we both know what's up.
/r/seduction18/04/26 10:59 PM
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Read my guide https://drive.google.com/file/d/13epRH0_XvIDOnX0GAqAwsnYw7FmMpBsc/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction18/04/26 09:56 PM
4

Good luck with that Chat with her for a bit and see where things go Worst comes to worst, nothing will co.e if it other than friendly banter
/r/seduction18/04/26 04:45 PM
46

You have to understand that women are more subtle They're not direct It's up to you to pickup on the subtle hints which I'm this case thrre were about 3 of them
/r/seduction18/04/26 04:35 PM
1

They want a guy that's not shy or nervous and leads
/r/seduction17/04/26 05:54 PM
4

They're confident and calm in their own skin which is a huge turn on for women
/r/seduction17/04/26 05:52 PM
1

Google drive Make the link open to the public
/r/seduction16/04/26 04:45 PM
3

Approach in real life at stores,malls,shops,beaches,parks etc
/r/seduction14/04/26 10:54 PM
1

Work hard Get that better lifestyle
/r/seduction14/04/26 09:22 AM
1

Arousal is like making her wet or fingering her Sexual tension is leading up to sex which is what you want/are after You're priming her for sex You gotta let the pussy marinate before you eat it
/r/seduction14/04/26 08:21 AM
1

In the clubs with the women showing their asses
/r/seduction14/04/26 01:59 AM
2

The main drag where the dirty martini is Any of those places
/r/seduction13/04/26 07:53 PM
3

A 5/10 guy can get a perfect 10 if he's got money and status
/r/seduction13/04/26 07:17 PM
0

Here's the thing You don't have to take their word for it You can go out and experiment and see for yourself
/r/seduction13/04/26 07:11 PM
1

You can do it that way I prefer to keep the tension going from the bar/club This way she's primed and ready to go when you two are home I've noticed they're more excited and eager for sex vs just sitting there casually and trying to build the tension on the couch After we're both back home we usually sit on the couch and talk for like 5 minutes then I use the line "you know, I have been dying to know, what kind of underwear you got on lol." Then I start unzipping her pants and take off her under…
/r/seduction13/04/26 04:26 PM
3

Yeah night works better by far Like from 8 p.m. to 3 a.m. Yeah, you just take a cab back to your hotel Ideally, you want to hang out in the casino you're staying at, with a bar that's right by the elevators going up to your room That's why I like the Vespar bar so much The elevators are literally across from the bar
/r/seduction13/04/26 08:16 AM
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Certain bars out there were better I noticed I prefer the Vesper bar at the cosmo and baccarat bar at the Bellagio Both had great prospects that weren't working girls I've tried the baccarat bar at the Wynn too That one was decent
/r/seduction13/04/26 08:02 AM
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Yeah the women are definitely have a different mentality over there
/r/seduction13/04/26 07:55 AM
20

For vegas it's the Casino bars For new york is the party bars like everywhere else
/r/seduction13/04/26 07:52 AM
22

The plethora of bars and high population make it a prime place for pulling
/r/seduction13/04/26 07:36 AM
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1.Las Vegas 2.New York 3.Manchester 4.Miami 5.Londom
/r/seduction13/04/26 07:29 AM
3

Yeah Try to go directly back to your or her place after the bar Your too far away from the bars for pulling Like 5-10 minutes should be the limit It kills the interaction and sexual tension
/r/seduction12/04/26 08:00 PM
2

Some women just aren't out for that It doesn't matter how much fire you spit at her
/r/seduction12/04/26 07:38 PM
2

You got it It's pure numbers The guy who gets laid the most gets denied the most
/r/seduction12/04/26 07:26 PM
3

Yeah if you were just on an app you didn't talk to her in person Meetup at a bar first for some drinks and get loosened up then go back to yours or her place If you go back just to her place its too quick and abrupt You gotta ease into the sex
/r/seduction12/04/26 07:26 PM
5

Where did you pull her from?
/r/seduction12/04/26 06:31 PM
26

This is why you should be keeping the sexual tension going on the way back to yours or her place. If you two are walking together stop and kiss every once in a while If you two are in the back of a car or bar van or limo be kissing her while lightly rubbing her crotch area Keep that sexual tension going You want to marinate her before you bang her When you get back to your or her place she should be excited and ready for sex not waiting for you to build the sexual tension there Remember, your jo…
/r/seduction12/04/26 06:26 PM
3

Last minute rejection/resistance
/r/seduction12/04/26 06:20 PM
1

That's exactly what I do You're going to be going "next" a lot
/r/seduction12/04/26 05:48 PM
2

You don't know the next step After the initial approach introduce yourself Make some small talk Then ask for her number for day game If it's nightgame then start flirting and sexually escalating
/r/seduction12/04/26 11:24 AM
1

You want my pickup guide I feel like it would help you out
/r/seduction12/04/26 08:38 AM
1

Good, you're doing one main thing that most guys don't do You go out and approach That's like 80 to 90 percent of success The rest is just a numbers game You'll get a better social intuition for who looks DTF
/r/seduction12/04/26 08:32 AM
3

I get that But some places are better for hookups than others Any bar will technically work But party are best in my experience
/r/seduction12/04/26 08:23 AM
3

Yeah your location sucks Go to party bars
/r/seduction12/04/26 07:54 AM
1

The reason your comment worked so well on the first girl is you both had something to talk about This is why I always say comment first then introduce yourself The interaction feels more organic and flows better If you're not feeling the interaction going anywhere within the first couple minutes move on to the next girl Don't waste your time on losing prospects But yeah keep going out and grind your social skills and social intuition
/r/seduction12/04/26 07:54 AM
3

I feel like your going to bars with mainly bar flies that just drink and chill You need to go to party bars where the music is loud and people are dancing and doing shots of booze
/r/seduction12/04/26 07:47 AM
2

What kind of bars are you going to? Most people that go out, go out to just "drink and chill" You wanna go to party bars and sit next to the women that are alone and start flirting with them
/r/seduction12/04/26 07:40 AM
2

This is a good question Not a ton to be honest Definitely under 50% But if you keep getting numbers it does help Many women will give you their number just to be nice and not be serious about meeting up again
/r/seduction12/04/26 06:27 AM
1

Usually party bars are best
/r/seduction11/04/26 07:49 AM
2

It's the teasing The eye contact And accentuate your voice
/r/seduction10/04/26 08:16 PM
8

You want a friend with benefits Ask to exchange numbers and be fwb's after the initial hookup
/r/seduction10/04/26 05:10 PM
3

Read my guide https://drive.google.com/file/d/13epRH0_XvIDOnX0GAqAwsnYw7FmMpBsc/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction09/04/26 02:10 AM
0

Not if she agrees
/r/seduction07/04/26 04:51 PM
4

Read my guide https://drive.google.com/file/d/13epRH0_XvIDOnX0GAqAwsnYw7FmMpBsc/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction07/04/26 09:56 AM
28

You just ask how old they are
/r/seduction07/04/26 09:54 AM
2

You just gottago out and socialize a lot Guy,girls,old people, young people, anyone
/r/seduction06/04/26 06:30 PM
6

You make her feel comfortable You make her laugh and smile You give off positive friendly vibes with high energy
/r/seduction05/04/26 09:35 PM
1

Read my pickup guide https://drive.google.com/file/d/13epRH0_XvIDOnX0GAqAwsnYw7FmMpBsc/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction05/04/26 05:26 PM
1

Also anything that's damaged or torn
/r/seduction02/04/26 05:37 PM
5

I mean you both get drunk together
/r/seduction02/04/26 02:03 AM
22

I think it's common sense Pro tip: Don't ask if she wants a shot or another drink. Just order them and give them to her.
/r/seduction01/04/26 02:08 AM
28

Not in the US you don't
/r/seduction31/03/26 09:50 PM
50

This too Hotel bars are decent Look for women dressed in Professional clothing and get her drunk and hint at going back to her room
/r/seduction31/03/26 08:48 PM
146

Maybe in the coffee shops Nightlife is what creates hookup culture
/r/seduction31/03/26 07:57 PM
1

Just stick to normal game Comment about the place,or situation Introduced yourself Make some small talk Flirt Sexually Escalate Kiss Then hint at going somewhere more private Then you know what to do from here
/r/seduction30/03/26 09:50 PM
1

Get closer to her Lightly touching her Make good eye contact Accentuate your words
/r/seduction30/03/26 07:29 PM
26

Have high energy
/r/seduction30/03/26 06:50 PM
48

Usually these types of women get by on their looks They're usually not super intelligent
/r/seduction29/03/26 07:43 PM
15

A hole is a hole
/r/seduction29/03/26 05:12 PM
0

You always comment first about the place,situation, or something happening. Then you introduce yourself Then you make some small talk Then you flirt Then you sexually escalate Then you kiss Then you pull That's the system
/r/seduction29/03/26 09:39 AM
3

This is where your social intuition comes into play. If your insure you need to practice this skill more
/r/seduction29/03/26 07:57 AM
3

Sometimes it takes a while for a woman to get comfortable around you
/r/seduction29/03/26 07:07 AM
17

I really don't like to comment about her looks. The interaction just fades as she's says "thanks". Versus you commenting about what she's looking at or doing or the place. This way you both have something to talk about after you introduce yourself. The whole interaction feels more organic and flows better in my opinion You also stand out more by not commenting about her looks especially if she's really attractive
/r/seduction29/03/26 06:22 AM
28

I tell that to guys all the time NEVER COMMENT ABOUT HER LOOKS
/r/seduction28/03/26 11:28 PM
49

Yeah Going out early always yields better results Also not commenting about her looks tends to always yield better results
/r/seduction28/03/26 10:56 PM
1

Yeah I've hooked up with all the local bar flies here
/r/seduction22/03/26 05:09 PM
1

I told myself it's not my fault You just gotta rise out the bad times
/r/seduction22/03/26 05:05 PM
3

Usually Saturday
/r/seduction21/03/26 05:19 PM
1

Try to talk about topics you both can relate to
/r/seduction16/03/26 05:33 AM
2

Yep that's me I love flirting and mingling with random women I think the flirting is more fun than the sex is
/r/seduction15/03/26 06:32 PM
-9

Be clear with your intent Say "just looking for something casual/a hookup
/r/seduction10/03/26 10:49 PM
3

See you got it down It's not that hard to do
/r/seduction07/03/26 08:29 PM
3

The gym is a very common place for guys to want to hit on girls because of all the really attractive women in there. I really don't recommend guys hit on girls at the gym. They're really tired of it and want to be left alone in peace. Hit on them outside of the gym
/r/seduction07/03/26 07:58 PM
1

Yeah people are weird I like to get a lot of girls numbers so I can text them at anytime and have lots of options
/r/seduction07/03/26 07:53 PM
8

Yeah people In real life are better quality. They're not just gonna walk away from you if you've been talking to them You can't gauge a person's aura or vibe just by pictures alone
/r/seduction07/03/26 07:43 PM
88

I did the same thing I have no problem approaching any random woman and flirting with her The apps kill your esteem and confidence
/r/seduction07/03/26 07:34 PM
1

I mean more in a sense of how a woman would wanna be approached and talked to.
/r/seduction28/02/26 03:05 AM
3

I tell this to guys all the time If you were a woman how would you wanna be approached and talked to? This really upped my game big time
/r/seduction28/02/26 02:24 AM
1

Yiu fet to know them and you usually have something in common since you work in the same field
/r/seduction19/02/26 03:09 AM
28

It's a numbers game Approach like crazy If your not feeling the conversation going anywhere within the first couple minutes move on to the next one. Say "well it was nice talking to you" or "it was nice meeting you". Then go approach a different woman
/r/seduction15/02/26 05:43 AM
1

Just go to a bar dude
/r/seduction14/02/26 11:23 PM
34

People are attracted to energy This is no exception
/r/seduction14/02/26 01:24 AM
1

Most if not all have a camera man. Just get a friend to do it for free. This is a great way to see how you're coming off to people.
/r/seduction13/02/26 11:02 AM
4

If she's out and about she's approachable You don't have to wait for a "sign" Just walk up by them or sit next to her and comment about the situation,place,something happening, or ask her a silly question and then introduce yourself. Make some small talk then transition to flirting. Then start sexually escalating by getting closer to her. Then when there's a break in the conversation and she looks at your lips or gives you a smile go for the kiss. Then ask "what are doing after this?" Then hint …
/r/seduction12/02/26 10:35 AM
14

Have you ever thought about approaching them?
/r/seduction12/02/26 10:05 AM
2

Yeah a lot of times they want a sugar daddy
/r/seduction11/02/26 07:54 PM
2

I agree
/r/seduction11/02/26 07:23 PM
3

I agree They want financial stability And guys wonder why they can't get with high class woman They don't just adopt the guy they also adopt his lifestyle
/r/seduction11/02/26 06:59 PM
2

So many guys tell me "oh money doesn't matter." Oh yes it does lol. Look at all the guys these 9's and 10's are with. They ALL have a lot of money. They all drive newer nicer vehicles. They all live in a big luxury style house or apartment. Think about it. If you were a 9 or a 10 would you settle for a guy making 55K a year driving around in a 10 year old Honda and lives mediocre apartment? Think about it.
/r/seduction11/02/26 06:46 PM
0

If your talking about 9's 10's then probably at least 150K-200K plus a year. You should be driving around in a newer nicer vehicle and living in a nicer place like one that has a duel shower head and sinks They want that luxury lifestyle and if you can't provide that for them they'll find someone else that will.
/r/seduction11/02/26 06:38 PM
1

Or just read my guide
/r/seduction11/02/26 09:57 AM
3

They can help a little with the initial attraction but the rest is your game. This is why I don't like colognes. Some people like the scent while others hate it. And once you get past the initial "oh that smells good" the rest is up to you.
/r/seduction11/02/26 04:03 AM
1

Any woman out in public is approachable Start approaching
/r/seduction11/02/26 01:16 AM
9

One of the big things I've noticed is not making a big deal out of it. Tease her a little over text or the call When you meetup talk for a little bit, like 5 minutes to catch up before doing the deed And most importantly, provide them with good sex. They can get it from anyone so stand out a bit more. I always do oral on them before I go in. If she wants to go multiple rounds give her what she wants. Go above and beyond to be that A1 alpha number 1 FWB.
/r/seduction10/02/26 11:21 PM
3

Yeah it's where you got like 5 or 7 girls you can hit up to be FWB's
/r/seduction09/02/26 01:57 PM
1

If you live in a big city with great nightlife. Your game/ looks are good. And you live right next to the bars. Then yeah it's not that hard to pull lots of women.
/r/seduction08/02/26 06:58 AM
1

I just comment about the situation,place, or something happening and then introduce myself. I find canned openers to not feel organic and natural and feel forced and awkward. After you introduce yourself make some small talk and then transition to flirting.
/r/seduction08/02/26 06:56 AM
2

It is The warm breathe stimulates her ears
/r/seduction07/02/26 02:36 AM
5

After party can mean two different things. Keep partying or have sex. And she can't tell which is which That's why I don't like to use that line You need to be more direct in a subtle manner like hint at seeing your house or her place. Say "I'd love to see your house. Let's go after this drink." If you've been flirting and sexuallity escalating with her the message should be clear as to what you're hinting at.
/r/seduction06/02/26 10:53 PM
2

I don't like to use the phrase "after party" or "after bar". It can confuse the girl into thinking you just wanna keep drinking and partying instead of having sex. I prefer to use things like "I'd love to show you my house" or " I'd love to show you the view of my room". Or suggest showing her your collection of so and so thing. Or if you play an instrument hint at playing her a song on it. Say "I'd love to play you a song on my (insert instrument here) They key is to be subtle I've had women dr…
/r/seduction06/02/26 10:48 PM
6

I like to whisper something in her ear And get closer to her Make good eye contact Make her laugh and smile Kiss her
/r/seduction06/02/26 10:32 PM
5

It's easy to find both if you ask me. Go to a bar for a one night stand. Approach during the day for a relationship.
/r/seduction06/02/26 02:36 PM
2

Wow that was a very long story To answer your question it depends on the vibes the woman is giving off
/r/seduction05/02/26 09:39 AM
3

Read my guide https://drive.google.com/file/d/13epRH0_XvIDOnX0GAqAwsnYw7FmMpBsc/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction04/02/26 05:45 PM
1

You should read my guide https://drive.google.com/file/d/13epRH0_XvIDOnX0GAqAwsnYw7FmMpBsc/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction02/02/26 12:14 PM
2

Read my guide https://drive.google.com/file/d/13epRH0_XvIDOnX0GAqAwsnYw7FmMpBsc/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction31/01/26 08:44 PM
1

https://drive.google.com/file/d/13epRH0_XvIDOnX0GAqAwsnYw7FmMpBsc/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction31/01/26 08:33 PM
1

You want my pickup guide?
/r/seduction31/01/26 08:30 PM
4

Go to events that have your activities and interests going on.
/r/seduction30/01/26 04:00 PM
0

It can be I'm not saying all girls so say that is a shit test. But a lot of them yes it is.
/r/seduction30/01/26 03:08 PM
1

A lot of them just say that You gotta pry a little further and say "what's his name?" Or ask "are you in a serious relationship with him?" It's a shit test that you need to pass. If your confident you shouldn't have any problems passing them. Ask for her number or ask to get a drink at a nearby place.
/r/seduction30/01/26 11:03 AM
1

Of course not It's a lot of things Like your personality,aura,vibe,aesthetic Some people are more attracted to certain types of people.
/r/seduction30/01/26 09:21 AM
1

My guide
/r/seduction29/01/26 06:06 AM
2

There's so many women out there Most of them are the same It's just the smaller things that separate them
/r/seduction28/01/26 12:51 AM
2

Read my guide It goes over everything https://drive.google.com/file/d/13epRH0_XvIDOnX0GAqAwsnYw7FmMpBsc/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction27/01/26 07:19 AM
1

Learn a new skill like programming Go on learncpp.com That'll keep you busy for a while. Like a couple months while.
/r/seduction26/01/26 09:45 PM
1

Watch youtube Read about stuff Learn new skills
/r/seduction26/01/26 01:18 PM
1

Going to Vegas my first time Playing blackjack(with the good 3:2 odds) with the dancing girls and free drinks made me feel like ancient royalty Now that's changed and it's not like that anymore but when it was I had an absolute blast
/r/seduction26/01/26 01:14 PM
1

This has happened plenty of times to me. I think what happens is they change their mind. I remember being at the bar plenty of times and talking to a woman that didn't seem that interested in going home with someone. Until later in the conversation I could feel her tone change and she'd say the classic line "what are you doing after this?". And then I'd take her home and give her a much needed lay. The bottom line is they change their mind. Or their mood changes.
/r/seduction25/01/26 02:42 AM
0

When you two are watching the movie, about 15 minutes in turn and start making out with her. Then slowly start taking off her clothes. If she resists then you know she's not interested in that.
/r/seduction24/01/26 11:13 AM
-1

To convince someone to have sex with you Or entice someone into having sex
/r/seduction22/01/26 12:50 PM
1

Have good social skills and a social intuition Think about if you were a woman how would you want to be approached and talked to
/r/seduction22/01/26 03:14 AM
1

I'm not a big texted so no I prefer face to face interactions
/r/seduction21/01/26 10:41 PM
0

Please do
/r/seduction19/01/26 10:44 AM
0

Yeah it's free It'll help you out https://drive.google.com/file/d/13epRH0_XvIDOnX0GAqAwsnYw7FmMpBsc/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction19/01/26 10:43 AM
0

You want my pickup guide?
/r/seduction19/01/26 10:42 AM
6

You'd not gonna get girls by DMing You gotta approach in real life
/r/seduction19/01/26 10:37 AM
1

It's over 40 but under 100
/r/seduction16/01/26 08:04 AM
1

Why does that matter?
/r/seduction16/01/26 07:47 AM
1

Read my guide It will help you https://drive.google.com/file/d/13epRH0_XvIDOnX0GAqAwsnYw7FmMpBsc/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction16/01/26 06:09 AM
33

Go to Manchester There's a shot ton of attractive women out and ready to mingle
/r/seduction15/01/26 12:58 PM
1

Being confident A smooth talker Good eye contact Making her laugh and smile
/r/seduction11/01/26 01:57 AM
3

Usually high energy high populated resorts
/r/seduction10/01/26 12:47 PM
2

I try to go bar hopping until I find a bar with a lot of people in it. I prefer party bars vs just drink and chill and bars. There's usually more women in them and they're in more of a party mode. I'm not gonna lie. If I'm not flirting with a girl or see any opertunities I just go home. Especially if it's after midnight.
/r/seduction10/01/26 09:12 AM
1

I agree
/r/seduction10/01/26 02:39 AM
34

Yep Worst comes to worst nothing will happen
/r/seduction10/01/26 02:37 AM
4

Normally you gotta hookup with someone first and then exchange numbers to become FWB. That's how I got all my FWB's. I like to have a decent amount on rotation just in case they're not up for it. Normally, like 5-7 girls you can text or call up and ask to hang out or come over.
/r/seduction09/01/26 07:10 AM
55

Yep Don't talk about pickup or game Loose lips sink ships
/r/seduction08/01/26 04:03 PM
1

It's the playful teasing Making her laugh and smile
/r/seduction07/01/26 09:46 AM
3

You flirt and tease her and subtly hint at going back to your or her place.
/r/seduction06/01/26 02:35 AM
1

Every nightlife scene is different That's why I like to travel to places that are known for great nightlife.
/r/seduction05/01/26 08:23 PM
2

Read my guide. https://drive.google.com/file/d/13epRH0_XvIDOnX0GAqAwsnYw7FmMpBsc/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction05/01/26 06:28 PM
1

Read my guide https://drive.google.com/file/d/13epRH0_XvIDOnX0GAqAwsnYw7FmMpBsc/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction05/01/26 10:57 AM
1

I help out guys all the time. If you want my guide let me know I hand it out to guys that are struggling
/r/seduction04/01/26 10:36 AM
1

Sorry i updated the guide and link Here's the updated version of both Enjoy! https://drive.google.com/file/d/13epRH0_XvIDOnX0GAqAwsnYw7FmMpBsc/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction04/01/26 08:30 AM
0

The only way to get comfortable is to keep doing it. The anxiety will go away eventually. It's like that with anything really. I think you're looking too deep into it
/r/seduction04/01/26 06:06 AM
0

Just start talking to random women. You'll get more confidence the more you do it. Remember to comment first (and not about her looks) and then introduce yourself.
/r/seduction04/01/26 03:20 AM
4

There's none in my tiny city But if you're in a place like New York I'm sure there are some there.
/r/seduction31/12/25 12:50 PM
1

Are they really your friends if they don't answer?
/r/seduction30/12/25 10:57 AM
1

This isn't a black and white question or topic. Some answers can't be simple
/r/seduction30/12/25 09:16 AM
1

You gotta get a vibe for her and what you can and can't get away with
/r/seduction30/12/25 09:11 AM
1

I mean being in the moment not really Keep in mind your tonality really matters too
/r/seduction29/12/25 11:43 PM
1

It's a thing where hindsight is 20/20. Every woman and situation is different so sometimes it's hard to come up with something right in the spot
/r/seduction29/12/25 11:08 PM
1

A line I've always wanted to use but always slips my mind is "well get a load of you, you're a tough little cookie and a righteous baby all in one." It's from the anime Outlaw Star. It's supposed to make her laugh.
/r/seduction29/12/25 09:02 PM
1

I agree that's why I tell guys to avoid the nightclubs
/r/seduction27/12/25 10:35 AM
7

Wrong sub reddit Go post to a casual encounter in Arizona
/r/seduction26/12/25 11:48 PM
5

Ready my guide https://drive.google.com/file/d/13epRH0_XvIDOnX0GAqAwsnYw7FmMpBsc/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction26/12/25 07:09 PM
18

Give her some shit in a playful way You gotta make her laugh and smile Ger closer to her, whisper in her ear, and when she just stops and stares at you go for the kiss. Then lead by saying "what are you doing after this?" Then say "I'd love to show you my house."
/r/seduction25/12/25 12:14 PM
1

I find people aren't out for that they're just out to have fun and party.
/r/seduction24/12/25 09:37 AM
2

Then go there for a weekend and find out
/r/seduction24/12/25 08:41 AM
-7

It's better trust me The women are way hotter
/r/seduction24/12/25 08:40 AM
-12

No it doesn't
/r/seduction24/12/25 08:37 AM
-9

Doesn't matter I've been there before Checkout nightlife videos for both places
/r/seduction24/12/25 08:36 AM
24

Definitely Miami With all the clubs and warm weather there's no comparison
/r/seduction24/12/25 08:30 AM
3

I've never taken home someone on new years. Just saying.
/r/seduction24/12/25 02:05 AM
2

Very true They keep harping on us they men and women are equal but in reality we are different.
/r/seduction24/12/25 01:13 AM
3

It's about improvising on the spot. Teasing them and getting closer
/r/seduction23/12/25 10:46 PM
3

I meant to say party
/r/seduction22/12/25 03:10 AM
13

They can but rarely do in my experience.
/r/seduction21/12/25 10:44 AM
132

It depends on the types of bars. I think party bars are best for pickup. I think a reason why guys aren't pulling after the kiss is because they aren't leading. They're not asking "what are you doing after this?" And then invite them back to their place. You gotta be leading the interaction.
/r/seduction21/12/25 08:22 AM
15

I'd say "We should get a drink sometime. Friday night sound good?" Then exchange numbers and meet-up. Be sure to be really flirty and get close to him. If he's not getting the hints go for the kiss and say "I'd love to show you my house." Then when you two are back at your place sit next to him and talk for a bit then start undoing his pants.
/r/seduction20/12/25 04:33 AM
21

When a girl you've been talking to just stops and stares and you and smiles that's the code/sign for "kiss me". So many fail this one. Or another one is when you two are back at your or her place after the bar or club and you two are on the couch and she doesn't say anything. She's waiting for you to make a move on her. Just go for it.
/r/seduction19/12/25 07:54 PM
1

This is the way Subtle easy opener Then end with number and a date Applause 👏
/r/seduction19/12/25 08:47 AM
3

Try to talk about topics you both can relate to. Tease her a bit. Whisper something in her ear. By doing this you're in her personal space and your warm breathe stimulates her ear. You want it to where she's really engaged and focused on you.
/r/seduction18/12/25 10:31 PM
1

You gotta find someone that's comfortable having sex with another couple. Not exactly easy to do. I'd love to try it with 2 other women but I've had no success.
/r/seduction17/12/25 09:10 PM
30

All apps are a waste. As you've seen IRL is much better There's way more guys to women on there and most women don't respond back.
/r/seduction17/12/25 01:25 PM
2

They kind of put up a natural defense until they get to know you. This is very common in the bar scene. They come off as bitchy but change their demeanor. Reminds me when I approached two girls at a bar that came from a wine walk. They were really up front and said "we're not interested in going home with anyone. We're not those type of girls. Those type of girls are over there. You should go talk to them." But I didn't and ended up taking one if them home lol. You gotta persist but not be annoy…
/r/seduction17/12/25 12:30 AM
8

Go to a casino and teach her how to play craps. Go fishing together Go swimming play video games together Watch TV together
/r/seduction16/12/25 11:14 AM
1

That and be more leading. Say, "Let's get dinner sometime." See how I'm not asking her, I'm telling her. I'm leading the interaction. If you say "oh did you wanna get dinner sometime?" It sounds weak, and you're giving her the option to say yes or no. You wanna be leading. It's more confident and more masculine.
/r/seduction15/12/25 09:36 PM
1

I think we have. Change your demeanor. Remember to still be you, but be that side of you. Say things like "oh really?", "Tell me more about that", "No way", "I don't believe you". Remember to accentuate your words so when you say "really" say it like "reallllly".
/r/seduction15/12/25 09:04 PM
1

What kind of vibes are you giving off? A cheery positive can do attitude? Or a dominant,leading, good eye contact, accentuating words vibe?
/r/seduction15/12/25 08:23 PM
2

How did you not succeed? Try to take her out to a casual fine dining place. So a place that's higher end than say a chain but not overly fancy. A steak place or seafood place would work well
/r/seduction15/12/25 08:13 PM
1

Dinner is always a classic. Just say something like "I'll take you out to dinner. What type of food are you feeling like?" Then recommend a place based on that food. And setup a time to pick her up. Don't overyhink it. And after the date you can invite her back to your place to watch a movie.
/r/seduction15/12/25 07:57 PM
22

Always comment first about what she's doing or looking at or the place. Then introduce yourself. Then make some small talk for a little bit. Then ask for her number
/r/seduction15/12/25 09:23 AM
2

Don't get me wrong I like all women as long as they're not overweight. But yeah that's the type that I prefer
/r/seduction14/12/25 05:18 PM
1

I used to be same and way. The short hair,the muscle shirt,the camo pants. I outgrew it. I prefer tattooless women in a super tight short mini dress with heels. They usually have their butt hanging out halfway too.
/r/seduction14/12/25 04:14 PM
1

I ain't paying for no guide. I hand guide out for free
/r/seduction14/12/25 03:19 PM
9

If she shows no interest move on. There's so many women out there lol. Take your pic.
/r/seduction13/12/25 09:47 PM
8

It feels awkward It shouldn't hurt, but it might feel hard to get inside her. But once your in, your golden. Try to stay in her because if you pull out it ruins the rythym and it can be tough to get find it again. Start off slow and build up the rythym/speed.
/r/seduction13/12/25 09:37 PM
4

It's 100% normal to lust over people. To me it's like saying "don't get hungry when you look at food". It's a normal reaction. There's nothing wrong with looking or fantasizing.
/r/seduction13/12/25 08:35 PM
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I wasn't talking about those guys she's going out there with being smashed by her. I was just talking about hooking up in general. Deleting/temporarily suspending the socials. Going to a big city. You do the math. It adds up to she doesn't want people to know wheres she's at or who she's with.
/r/seduction13/12/25 09:06 AM
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Do you have to even ask this question? Of course they get smashed. I remember going out to Vegas and sitting at the casino bars and hooking up with married women or girls that had boyfriends back home. It's a when in Rome kind of thing
/r/seduction13/12/25 07:53 AM
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She was just being nice. She have you her number. If she doesn't seem interested or serious move on to another one.
/r/seduction13/12/25 05:03 AM
1

Yep Very common in the nightlife scene.
/r/seduction13/12/25 03:11 AM
2

I feel like the entire interaction was very casual and they had no interest in hooking up. I highly doubt they were lesbian. Less than 3% of women are. It's just an excuse to not hit on them. This is where your social intuition comes in. You guys are a bit older than they are. For some that's too old and they don't wanna go that far.
/r/seduction13/12/25 02:43 AM
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I usually say "I'd love to show you my house." Or if you have a hobby or collect something hint at showing them that. So if you play an instrument say "I'd love to play a song for you on my________" The key is to be subtle Make her feel like she's coming back to your place for an innocent reason. And when you two are back and after you've showed her you stuff then you can try to initiate sex.
/r/seduction12/12/25 07:41 AM
14

Yep lightly touching her is a great way to escalate.
/r/seduction11/12/25 09:30 AM
2

Read my guide. https://drive.google.com/file/d/13epRH0_XvIDOnX0GAqAwsnYw7FmMpBsc/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction10/12/25 06:55 PM
2

You gotta make yourself date worthy Improve yourself and take steps to make yourself better dress better, go to the gym, eat healthier, keep up to date with the news and stock market, grind your social skills, go out and make friends and network.
/r/seduction10/12/25 02:33 AM
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It puts the situation in a more sensual toned down mood. Much like dimming the light and lightning candles sets a sexy sensual mood. Talking in that style/mode gets her more in the mood and she knows what's up. She's also a lot less likely to reject physical escalation.
/r/seduction10/12/25 02:29 AM
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Lol I can see him saying in his cowboyesqe persona "first, I'm gonna make out with you. Second, I'm gonna start taking off your pants. Third, we'll you can guess what's third."
/r/seduction09/12/25 11:03 PM
0

If it's cold out like it is now, you're gonna have to go somewhere warm. Would a cigar bar work? Or a piano bar I mean, you don't have to drink alcohol. You can drink soft drinks. If you both have to work then you can't stay out too late
/r/seduction09/12/25 08:53 PM
1

That's why drinks or just walking around works to get a vibe and feel off the person.
/r/seduction09/12/25 08:37 PM
3

When you draw out your words more and use vocal tonality to convey what you mean. If you say "oh really?" Draw the word really out more and slower. Like "oh reaallly?" Make good eye contact and smile. Get close to her. Start lightly touching her. Be leading by holding her hand and guiding her to a new area. When you two are alone and you wanna make the move to initiate sex I like to say in a laughing joking manner "you know, I've been dying to know what kind of underwear you got on lol." Then st…
/r/seduction09/12/25 08:32 PM
2

Sounds like Madison to me But anyway I'd go bar hopping in the main drag. The bars should be close together
/r/seduction09/12/25 08:18 PM
3

I mean if you're worried about losing $50-$60 I guess. You gotta eat too. I always like to walk to city/town afterwords. And go bar hopping.
/r/seduction09/12/25 08:09 PM
0

Now you know. Or you can text her back and say "let me rephrase that" and then copy and paste what I said.
/r/seduction09/12/25 07:57 PM
1

If you did who cares there so many women out there.
/r/seduction09/12/25 07:56 PM
2

I wouldn't have said, "I know you'll love it" To me it's like someone saying that with one of their arms swinging accentuating the phrase like someone from the 1950's lol Just say "you,me, museum tonight. Afterwords w'ell get a couple of drinks and walk the town." See how I'm saying what we're going to do instead of hoping she'll say yes. You always wanna frame it as this is what were gonna do because if you're asking for her to say yes your giving her that chance to say no and it makes it seem …
/r/seduction09/12/25 07:45 PM
2

It's not what I would've said There's a reason why dinner dates are so popular. People gotta eat. I always recommend dinner because it's a free meal for her and it's not too awkward. I try to aim for casual fine dining. You don't need to dress up but it's still higher end than a casual sit down place
/r/seduction09/12/25 07:24 PM
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If you ask me the key ingredient to the fuck me sauce is to be sexually escalating. Also be accentuating your words more.
/r/seduction09/12/25 11:21 AM
1

That's too much Say it in a more tact way. Say "you must like eating healthy and spending time at the gym"
/r/seduction09/12/25 01:08 AM
2

Yeah that's a bit overused You gotta ask her a question like what her opinion on something is or make an observation about something so you both can comment on it
/r/seduction09/12/25 12:16 AM
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It's not so much what you say it's how you say it. Accentuate your words. Say it slower and more sensual
/r/seduction09/12/25 12:04 AM
4

Flirting isn't about getting dirty It's about getting to know someone in a teasing manner Look save the dirty talk when you two are back at your or her place You should say things like "no way" "really?" "Come on " " I don't believe you" "tell me more about that" You wanna be friendly and not creep her out. And you want to subtly hint at going back to your place. You could say "I'd love to show you my house" Or "I'd love to show you my so and so collection"
/r/seduction08/12/25 10:06 PM
3

Do you know how to flirt?
/r/seduction08/12/25 09:53 PM
12

Women have been told they're hot, cute,pretty,beautiful so many times by so many guys it means nothing to them. Try to be more original and start off with something you both can talk about and relate to. Then introduce yourself then make some small talk and then start to flirt. You gotta make smooth transitions so the interaction feels organic and natural and flows good.
/r/seduction08/12/25 09:48 PM
10

That wasn't an opener. That was your opinion which you should keep to yourself. You should comment about the place or something happening or really anything. Then introduce yourself and then make some small talk
/r/seduction08/12/25 09:43 PM
1

It's part of the process I remember one point and time banging every bar fly in my city It felt weird knowing I was in the same room as like 5 people I banged lol. You see them out a lot and then one day they change their mind. You'll be chatting them up at the bar and they'll be laughing and smiling and then they hit you with "so what are you doing after this?" With a devil smirk on their face.
/r/seduction07/12/25 04:35 PM
1

https://drive.google.com/file/d/13epRH0_XvIDOnX0GAqAwsnYw7FmMpBsc/view?usp=drive_link Read my guide
/r/seduction07/12/25 02:52 AM
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You're going out too late You need to go out early around 9:30-10 so you have time to approach Comment about the situation,place, or something happening then introduce yourself. Make some more small talk then start flirting and getting closer to her. When here's a gap or break in the conversation go for the kiss and then go for the pull Say "What are you doing after this?" then offer to show her your house/apartment
/r/seduction06/12/25 10:09 PM
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I agree Live in the moment and adapt to how she acting towards you
/r/seduction06/12/25 09:13 PM
2

Yeah see they find that creepy and probably won't respond
/r/seduction06/12/25 08:37 PM
2

Yiu need to talk to her first and get her number then text her back what you were talking about earlier with her
/r/seduction06/12/25 08:25 PM
2

This depends Have you talked to her already or is this a random text she'll be getting
/r/seduction06/12/25 08:19 PM
1

I never said it was Be different Imagine you're a woman. Would you want a guy to say "oh I just thought you looked really cute, and I just wanted to say hi."
/r/seduction06/12/25 06:47 PM
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Here take my guide https://drive.google.com/file/d/13epRH0_XvIDOnX0GAqAwsnYw7FmMpBsc/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction06/12/25 06:18 PM
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Just comment about the place or something happening. Then introduce yourself Make some more small talk then ask for her number or ask what she's doing at the moment. If she's not doing anything offer to get a drink at the nearest bar or something to eat at a nearby restaurant.
/r/seduction06/12/25 07:02 AM
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I agree So stand out more and be more original Put your own personal twist on it
/r/seduction06/12/25 04:18 AM
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But to me, they've heard it a million times. You're gonna stand more if you don't say anything about her looks, especially the hot ones. The 8' 9's and 10's know they're hot they don't need that validation. And a lot of them will automatically disqualify you if you do comment about her looks like most guys do. Imagine you buying a nice car and every guy saus "oh nice car". Didn't that get old quick? Now Imagine guys saying that to you for years on end. It gets annoying and loses it's meaning. It…
/r/seduction06/12/25 01:27 AM
2

In my experience if you complement her she just always says "oh thanks" and then the conversation just dies and it didn't go anywhere. If you do a situational opener she's not the main piece of the conversation and you both have something to talk about and relate to.
/r/seduction06/12/25 01:16 AM
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Saying "oh i thought you looked really cute" or "You look so stunning I had to come over and say hi" They've heard it a million times and it means nothing to them. But if you comment about something you both can relate and talk to it makes the interaction feel more organic and natural
/r/seduction06/12/25 01:03 AM
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I highly disagree. The situational openers work much better.
/r/seduction06/12/25 12:59 AM
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Stop complimenting Just comment about the situation,place or something happening then introduce yourself.
/r/seduction05/12/25 11:14 PM
1

You need to be 100% focused mentally on the woman your talking to in the club. She can sense when you're not. She'll see the gears turning in your head. Remember to enjoy yourself and have a good time. Flirting should be fun for both for you and not feel like a chore.
/r/seduction04/12/25 07:40 AM
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I'm talking about when you two are already in bed and naked. He said he's doing oral on her and then they stop him.
/r/seduction02/12/25 07:51 AM
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Sometimes you gotta talk her into it a bit and ease her into it. I'd say "Girl, we both know why we're here. Let's get to it." I have had LMR before the foreplay and sex when we're sitting on the couch, but I've solved this by getting closer to her and talking slower and more sensual and saying "You didn't come back here just to hang out." Sometimes you have to remind them and reinforce their reasoning for their actions and their thought process. So hopefully she replays back the night and remem…
/r/seduction02/12/25 06:13 AM
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Read my guide it goes over everything https://drive.google.com/file/d/13epRH0_XvIDOnX0GAqAwsnYw7FmMpBsc/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction02/12/25 04:07 AM
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I just go for it It sounds and feels weak to ask
/r/seduction01/12/25 09:39 PM
1

You've gotten them in the mood, and they want to mingle with you. You've drawn them in.
/r/seduction01/12/25 06:56 PM
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They've been taken and captured by your aura and ebay you've said and done
/r/seduction01/12/25 06:53 PM
4

Yep Go out a lot. Approach. Use your social intuition and get a feel for if she's interested in talking to you or not.
/r/seduction30/11/25 03:52 PM
1

You want my pickup guide? It goes over most topics and is concise and straight to the point https://drive.google.com/file/d/13epRH0_XvIDOnX0GAqAwsnYw7FmMpBsc/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction29/11/25 10:42 PM
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Good question! It really depends on how the night is. Every night is different, and you should be getting a feel for how the night is. I usually go bar hopping until I find a bar with women . If there's no women out, I'll have a drink at each bar to see what happens. Nightlife is funny. One minute, the entire bar is dead, and the next, the whole bar is packed. I find party bars to work best for hookups.
/r/seduction29/11/25 08:43 PM
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I did it all the time Who cares what others think go watch nightlife vids of other countries like the Uk. you see hot women walking alone to bars all the time.
/r/seduction29/11/25 07:30 PM
5

Start making small talk with women workers at their job. It's literally their job to talk to you and be friendly.
/r/seduction29/11/25 04:53 PM
4

Comment about the situation,place, or something happening. Then introduce yourself Then make some small talk This way the interaction feels organic and natural
/r/seduction29/11/25 07:03 AM
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Go to events and gatherings where your interests and activities you enjoy are going on and approach the women there and get their contact information.
/r/seduction29/11/25 05:47 AM
1

Yeah your inhibitions get lowered. That's very common.
/r/seduction29/11/25 05:17 AM
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None lol You shouldn't need liquid courage to talk to women. That means you need to go out more and get more comfortable talking to random women. I do like to do some shots with her to get loosened up.
/r/seduction29/11/25 04:28 AM
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I just make some small talk a bit before dropping the hint. Me "How's your weekend going?" Her "not too bad, how's your's?" Me "Alright. You wanna come over?" Her "Yeah just give me a couple minutes I gotta finish up here." Me "ok no problem." I keep it short and to the point
/r/seduction29/11/25 03:47 AM
1

Stop assuming Talk to her like anyone else. Be sure to smile and make good eye contact. Make her laugh,smile, and feel at ease. Then ask for her number not her Instagram
/r/seduction28/11/25 09:26 PM
1

Exactly. You wanna stand out and be different. Try to talk about topics you both can relate to.
/r/seduction28/11/25 09:21 PM
1

How are you opening? Never comment about her looks. If you do comment about her looks the conversation just dies and it doesn't go anywhere. They just say "thanks" and that's it. Approach in a bright excitable tone. Comment about the situation,place, or something happening. Then introduce yourself. Make some small talk for a couple minutes and then ask for her number. The number is more personal than the Instagram. You can also call her and talk to her vs just texting. Call her back or text her …
/r/seduction28/11/25 09:14 PM
3

You need to be teasing and sexuallity escalating.
/r/seduction28/11/25 08:11 PM
1

Dm me
/r/seduction28/11/25 03:16 AM
2

Start getting closer to her, make good eye contact, whisper something in her ear, lightly touch her like giving her a high five or resting your arms on hers arms when you're sitting. When she just stops and stares at you go for the kiss. Then make a subtle hint to go somewhere more private like your house or your room.
/r/seduction28/11/25 12:13 AM
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If you like to take the reigns and lead, you're a dom If you like to let them take the lead and follow along, you're a sub Many people are both
/r/seduction26/11/25 02:12 AM
1

Attractive people are attracted to other attractive people. If you're not on the same level of looks, they're probably not going to be interested in you.
/r/seduction25/11/25 12:15 PM
1

This is all situational. If you wanna do shots, do them. If you don't wanna do shots then don't do them. The choice is yours.
/r/seduction25/11/25 01:44 AM
1

Those things do indeed help and work. And you don't always needs to do shots with her depending on the hints she's giving out. If she's smiling laughing and even hinting at seeing your cabin then of course you don't have to do shots with her. Use your intuition to gauge the situation.
/r/seduction25/11/25 01:33 AM
1

It's not to take advantage of her. It's to get her in a party mood and loosened up more. I swear shots are a natural aphrodisiac. Yeah drinks are good. But shots make it a party. And to keep the party going we go back to the cabin.
/r/seduction25/11/25 12:50 AM
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I'd imagine the bars would be your best bet. Buy her some shots, get her a bit drunk/tipsy, and hint at going back to your cabin. Say "Let's go have a drink in my cabin". Or "I'd love to show you my cabin, take you drink with."
/r/seduction24/11/25 10:28 PM
1

If you're out on the town like going to bars and clubs, wear heels with a super tight short mini dress that just BARELY covers your butt. Even having your butt hanging out just a little bit is ok. It creates that sexy tease. If you watch nightlife videos that's how most women dress.
/r/seduction24/11/25 02:09 PM
1

That's good
/r/seduction23/11/25 07:01 PM
1

that is true. This why experimentation is key.
/r/seduction22/11/25 09:48 PM
4

These guys aren't trying to be creeps. They're just misinformed and don't realize they're coming off that way. That's why they're on here trying to get educated about it.
/r/seduction22/11/25 04:16 PM
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I agree 100% It gives you both something to talk about. If she agrees with you, you got something to talk about. If she disagrees with you, you still have something to talk about. It's a can't lose / win win situation.
/r/seduction22/11/25 11:52 AM
1

You can say I'm passionate about safe sex. I really care about it. Vs I'm really interested in ancient languages. I find so fascinating
/r/seduction21/11/25 10:40 PM
4

lol Yeah the European girls can be very attractive.
/r/seduction20/11/25 07:05 AM
8

How are you coming off to women? Are you approaching in a bright excitable tone? Are you commenting first about the situation, place or something happening and not commenting about her looks? Make her laugh smile and feel at ease. Have a happy, fun, energetic aura and vibe.
/r/seduction19/11/25 09:13 PM
10

Like over a year Sometimes there's just nothing out. It helps if you live in a bigger city. This is why I recommend guys move to a larger and preferably warmer city for more attractive people.
/r/seduction19/11/25 09:04 PM
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Keep going out grinding your skills and keep approaching.
/r/seduction19/11/25 08:52 PM
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This keep going out and grinding your social skills and social intuition.
/r/seduction19/11/25 08:26 PM
1

I never said I did.
/r/seduction18/11/25 06:14 PM
1

You think you're going to fail
/r/seduction18/11/25 06:05 PM
4

Talking to a random woman is the same as talking to any other random woman. you think it's different because you have a different intent. But it's not.
/r/seduction18/11/25 03:14 PM
1

Yeah. Be sure to laugh smile and make her feel the same way.
/r/seduction18/11/25 10:08 AM
2

Just talk with her for a bit like 3-5 minutes and then say "well you seem pretty cool/chill can I grab your number real quick?"
/r/seduction18/11/25 10:06 AM
1

Talk with her. Make her laugh. Ask her out on a insta date. Say "lets go grab a drink". Or ger her number and text her back that night for drink dinner or a meet-up
/r/seduction18/11/25 10:01 AM
1

Look if she stops you or says something like "not now" or "maybe next time" Then you know to stop. She's going to be expecting you to take the lead. I call it the "underwear test". If you've reached her underwear and you're taking them off and she hasn't stopped you or said anything, you're good to go all the way.
/r/seduction18/11/25 09:17 AM
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You should read my pickup guide. It goes over everything. I encourage guys who don't go out much to read it. It goes over everything. It tells you how to dress where to go when to go when to say it and how to say it. I go over logistics and transitioning from talking to sex when you're back at your or her place. . I'll give you the link for it. It's about a 15-20 minute read. It'll be game changing for you https://filebin.net/7qn5nh5cqpydqgwj Your gonna be pulling a lot more ladies after it.
/r/seduction18/11/25 09:09 AM
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32 is not old lol. I've taken home many women in their 50's from bars. go to a party bar early aroud 9:30-10:00 P.M. and start approaching. Ideally you want to find a woman sitting or standing alone.
/r/seduction18/11/25 02:09 AM
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It's different for everyone. But yeah I encourage everyone to have a hoe/slut phase. Sleep around experiment and have some fun! If you're out at a bar and you're talking to a woman and you two are getting along good, hint at going back to your place afterwords. Say "What are you doing after this?" if she says nothing say "I'd love to show you my house".
/r/seduction18/11/25 02:05 AM
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My hoe phase was like 21-28.
/r/seduction18/11/25 01:45 AM
2

you need to escalate. Get closer to her, make good eye contact, whisper something in her ear, hold her hand. When there's a gap in the conversation and she just stares at you go for the kiss. If you two are someplace secluded or alone start taking off her clothes. If you've taken off her underwear and she hasn't said anything you're in the clear.
/r/seduction18/11/25 12:30 AM
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interests,hobbies,passions,traveling, dreams, preferences. The point is to get to know them.
/r/seduction16/11/25 04:29 PM
6

Body count is just a number much like age is just a number. As long as you have game aka confidence and you know what to say, when to say it, and how to say it, body count doesn't matter. To me that's like saying I haven't done 50 math problems. I've only done 3 even though I know how to do it. It's a numbers game approach.
/r/seduction16/11/25 12:57 AM
2

Don't overthink it. Just act normal and be yourself.
/r/seduction14/11/25 07:47 AM
1

Buy her some after you've been talking for her for a little bit and she seems receptive to you and the conversation. Just ask you wanna do a shot? or say lets do some shots"
/r/seduction13/11/25 11:01 PM
2

Well now you know for next time
/r/seduction13/11/25 10:49 PM
6

Start making some small talk with her. If she's receptive ask for her number. It's as simple as that.
/r/seduction13/11/25 10:42 PM
2

If you're out to pull for sex never get her number. It ruins the needs for her to be around you. Only exchange numbers after you've done the deed to become FWB. You get closer to her. I like to buy a couple rounds of shots. I don't really ever buy her drinks. Whisper in her ear. Hold her hand. Make good eye contact. When she just stops and stares at you or looks down at your lips try and go for the kiss. Then ask "What are you doing after this?" Then say "I'd love to show you my house" Then leav…
/r/seduction13/11/25 10:26 PM
1

Women by design are emotional creatures. It's up to you on how to gauge them individually
/r/seduction13/11/25 09:32 PM
1

As per usual I'll post a link to my pickup guide here. It goes over everything for the most part. https://drive.google.com/file/d/13epRH0_XvIDOnX0GAqAwsnYw7FmMpBsc/view?usp=drive_link
/r/seduction13/11/25 11:03 AM
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You gotta find the common bond with someone. That's what keeps you together. If you have nothing in common there's no reason for her to be with you. I recommend you go to events and gatherings where your hobbies and interests are going on nd approach the women there and exchnage contact information for a future meetup/date.
/r/seduction13/11/25 10:39 AM
1

Teasing a playful way to get to know someone. You'll get a better feel for someone's aura and vibe the longer you talk to them. You'll know what you can and can't get away with
/r/seduction13/11/25 07:51 AM
1

you need to comment first about what they are doing so if shes looking at mystery books say "You must like mystery novels." or if she's listening to music you ask "What are you listening to?" Say things like "Tell me more about that." "Really?" "No way" "Come on" "I don't believe you." Tease her a bit. instead of this asking/interviewing her.
/r/seduction12/11/25 10:52 AM
1

It's just a one night stand. She'll wake up maybe not even say bye and leave. odds are you'll never see her again. When it comes to one night stands height doesn't really matter.
/r/seduction12/11/25 12:58 AM
2

Anyone can do it. Especially if she's drinking booze/beer odds are she's DTF.
/r/seduction11/11/25 09:13 PM
1

Just make small talk about everyday relatable things. Make her laugh and smile. Make good eye contact. She'll get more comfortable around you the longer you talk to her and are around her.
/r/seduction11/11/25 08:49 PM
2

If she doesn't stop you ro say anything she's going to be expecting you to lead.
/r/seduction11/11/25 08:35 PM
6

As usual, comment about the situation place or something happening then introduce yourself, Make some small talk, then flirt and talk about relatable topics. Get closer to her and when there's a break/gap/pause in the conversation and she just looks at you try to go for the kiss. If she's receptive hint at going somewhere more private and take her by the hand and guide her to an empty room or a more quite private place and start taking off her clothes. Remember to always bring and wear a condom.
/r/seduction11/11/25 08:22 PM
1

I have a guide I wrote that goes over how to get laid or get a girlfriend.
/r/seduction11/11/25 06:32 PM
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I talk about this in my guide.
/r/seduction10/11/25 08:01 PM
2

There's so many people out there you can probably make it work with. Much like choosing a vehicle or house/apartment. They all get the job done it's just the smaller nuances they have to them.
/r/seduction10/11/25 03:30 PM
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Confidence > Than looks Being calm,cool, confident in your own skin helps a lot. Making good eye contact making her smile and laugh and feel at ease helps too. Ask for her number in a non big deal way. Say "Well you seem pretty cool can I grab your number real quick?" Just go out and grind your social skills and social intuition.
/r/seduction09/11/25 04:56 PM
9

Try to act friendly. You wanna be friends with everyone in the nightlife scene. If she sees you as his competition she's gonna think of him as another option. If she sees you and him and friends or just two chill guys she's gonna like that a lot more. Introduce yourself to him. Make some small talk and then focus on her. If he comes around again say something like "Anything good out tonight?". Just come off as friendly and as another guy helping out another guy trying to get some action.
/r/seduction09/11/25 10:49 AM
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You can try and steal her back. But this is why it's so important to go out early and build a connection with a girl. If she's been with you for a while odds are she's not going to go off with another guy. Be sure you're close to her and sexually escalating with her. Hold her hand, whisper in her ear, smile with a devil/menacing look on your face. Kiss her every once in a while to keep the magic going. If you do all those things a random guy even with good game is going to have a much harder tim…
/r/seduction09/11/25 10:25 AM
1

I always comment about what she's looking at or doing. Maybe what she's wearing and then I introduce myself. I try to not comment about her looks. They've heard it so many times it means nothing to them. Make some more small talk then ask for her number or ask her what she's doing right now. If she's not doing anything ask her to get a drink or a meal at the nearest bar or restaurant.
/r/seduction09/11/25 07:23 AM
117

Dude you're just now realizing this? All women are crazy to an extent. The key is to find one that's not as crazy as the others are.
/r/seduction08/11/25 12:22 PM
1

I think most are. This really varies on the woman and the vibes she's giving off. If she's staring at you smiling after the date outside and not saying anything I'd go for the kiss. If she just keeps talking and talking but shows no sign she wants to kiss I'd just keep going along and talk with her. If you two are outside her apartment/house and she's looking down playing with her keys I'd go for it. You gotta use your social intuition and read the situation.
/r/seduction08/11/25 08:40 AM
5

You sexually escalated in the wrong place. That would've been ok to do back at your place. I mean what are you going to do? Strip her clothes off right there and do it? There's a time and a place for certain actions. So now you know for next time, don't sexually escalate until your back and yours or her place.
/r/seduction08/11/25 06:23 AM
2

Porn isn't the best place to get educated on sex, but I have used some of what I've seen in porn to spice up my sex life and it has helped. I'm talking about positions and speed/intensity mainly. Once you get a good rhythm going stay at that speed. It makes her build up and then once she's on the cusp go full force to make her go over the edge. Or you can slow down and edge her a bit. You can keep doing this to tease her.
/r/seduction06/11/25 09:22 AM
4

Masturbate but try to increase your stamina and time it takes to cum. Read about techniques and tactics to be different and experiment around with.
/r/seduction06/11/25 09:02 AM
2

That's kind of true You don't want her to just keep rambling on and on. I've had that before. I just go for the kiss.
/r/seduction05/11/25 03:03 PM
2

Try to accentuate what you say more. Try to talk about relatable topics. Make her laugh and smile. Try to be higher energy than you normally are. Get excited when she shows you something. Try all these things and see if that works better for you.
/r/seduction05/11/25 10:43 AM
3

how are you coming off to women? Are you grinding your social skills and social intuition? Are you talking to her for a bit and then if you can tell she's kind of interested ask her on a date. Say "You like steak? I know a great steakhouse." It's a numbers game. Approach,Approach,Approach
/r/seduction02/11/25 02:04 PM
1

I get that. The bars and clubs in Manchester look great.
/r/seduction02/11/25 11:49 AM
1

I mean I've gamed in Vegas and the casino bars are the best place to pickup at out there. I've gone to all the nightclubs out there like Omnia,XS, Marquee and have never pulled from there. To be honest the women weren't that receptive to guys hitting on them. It was like they were just there to drink and party. After the club was done they were open to hooking up. Maybe I needed a table.
/r/seduction02/11/25 11:41 AM
1

I disagree at least the clubs I've been to. The music so loud and the misters and strobe lights and the huge crowds. It's not exactly to ideal place to game ladies.
/r/seduction02/11/25 11:27 AM
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You can But my luck has been significantly better at bars.
/r/seduction02/11/25 11:25 AM
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I can't stress this enough. The clubs are for partying it up. Not for pulling If you want to pull a girl go to a party bar.
/r/seduction02/11/25 11:00 AM
1

Just studying game in general. Also improving myself as well. Setting higher standards for myself.
/r/seduction02/11/25 12:23 AM
4

Learning seduction has indeed improved my quality of life. Not only has my sex like improved but also my social life. I can approach anyone anywhere at anytime (man or woman) and start making conversation with them. I always wanted to get up the level of seeing a perfect 10 in the daytime and approaching her with no anxiety and just start talking to her and getting her number or taking her out on a insta-date.
/r/seduction31/10/25 06:34 AM
2

Yep
/r/seduction29/10/25 02:34 PM
2

I meant the interaction and how she's responding to you.
/r/seduction29/10/25 01:49 PM
4

I act myself But I tend to accentuate my words more and make better eye contact. I don't treat her any different than anyone else. I try to make her laugh and smile and feel at ease. The overall mindset is how can I change and adapt to take this woman back home with me.
/r/seduction29/10/25 10:42 AM
1

Pretty much
/r/seduction29/10/25 10:37 AM
1

You can try but most of the time she ends up going with someone else.
/r/seduction29/10/25 09:50 AM
2

You gotta keep adapting and changing to the woman and situation.
/r/seduction29/10/25 09:29 AM
102

You gotta play the game my man. For guys it's more difficult to get with a girl. It's just a fact. You'll get better at your social skills the more you go out and interact with women. You'll get more comfortable in your own skin.
/r/seduction29/10/25 08:30 AM
27

Have a energetic aura and vibe. People are attracted to energy. Look at the top content creators on the platforms. They're all high energy and enthusiastic.
/r/seduction29/10/25 03:39 AM
1

I agree not all women look at that. But a lot if these higher end ladies want a certain type of lifestyle. And that lifestyle costs money.
/r/seduction28/10/25 03:53 AM
5

Get off the apps. They're a complete waste of time Start approaching in real life.
/r/seduction27/10/25 09:30 AM
5

You look fine bruh. Remember to approach in a bright, energetic. excitable tone. Always approach her from the front not the back Remember to not comment about her looks. Comment about what she's doing or looking at and then introduce yourself. Make some small talk and get her number. Say "Well you seem pretty chill, can I grab your number real quick?" Text her back that same night to make plans to meetup for drinks or dinner. Keep approaching until one of the girls follows through.
/r/seduction27/10/25 08:24 AM
0

This ^^^^^^^^^^^^^ They're a complete waste of time for both men and women. 'Approach in real life
/r/seduction27/10/25 07:26 AM
2

They can have their opinion.
/r/seduction26/10/25 06:29 PM
6

Who cares if that stare at you. I've had many people stare at me when I was making out with girls. You think I cared? Not in the least.
/r/seduction26/10/25 06:27 PM
1

you gotta have confidence and calm cool and confident in your own skin. Be leading. Make her laugh,smile, and feel at ease.
/r/seduction25/10/25 10:50 AM
31

It's not so much appearances it's game. If you have arms but have poor social skills and bad social intuition you aren't pulling any ladies. She'll probably comment a little about it and that'll be about it.
/r/seduction25/10/25 09:03 AM
2

Sometimes they say "Oh I'll walk you home". That;s code for "I wanna go back to your place and have sex with you without actually saying I do" lol.
/r/seduction25/10/25 08:01 AM
2

It's purely personal preference. I'm completely clean shaven/bald downstairs and have gotten multiple compliments from women. I also prefer women to be completely bald/shaven. I don't mind a landing strip. But not full bush.
/r/seduction25/10/25 04:06 AM
1

That too Go with your gut. Improvise
/r/seduction25/10/25 01:29 AM
2

Why thank you!
/r/seduction25/10/25 12:34 AM
2

The way I see it is if you've taken off her underwear and she hasn't said anything your in the clear.
/r/seduction25/10/25 12:32 AM
7

That too. The bottom line is to be prepared. I even have a small box of regular absorbant tampons just in case she needs one. And yes, there's been plenty of times it was her time of the month, and she needed one. You'd think they'd have another one on themselves but I guess not.
/r/seduction25/10/25 12:29 AM
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This 100% ^^^^^^ There's no other reason for her to go back to your place. She knows what's up and it waiting for you to make a move on her.
/r/seduction24/10/25 11:07 AM
3

I see now
/r/seduction24/10/25 10:42 AM
25

yeah I make sure my couch is nice and clean so if she wants to do it on the couch we have plenty of room.
/r/seduction24/10/25 10:20 AM
4

Well what's a better line you use? You have to keep in mind she's DTF and is waiting for you to make a move on her. You don't wanna be abrubt and say "Oh lets have sex now"
/r/seduction24/10/25 10:19 AM
134

I scrub my bathroom sink and toilet down real good before I go out to pull a girl.
/r/seduction24/10/25 10:17 AM
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Graped?
/r/seduction24/10/25 10:15 AM
12

They go out to have a good time. To drink,socialize, and hookup.
/r/seduction24/10/25 10:12 AM
9

I will admit me and her both drink but we don't get that intoxicated. She's very well coherent and can walk and talk just fine. Tipsy is the word I'd use. You don't want her to be drunk becasue you need her to be able to make her own moves and decisions. And you still want to be able to talk to her. Nightclubs are just for partying it up Party bars are for hooking up. She's not stumbling when we walk back home. But she is walking slower than normal. I don't know about you but having sex with a d…
/r/seduction24/10/25 10:08 AM
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This system works. I've using it for over 10 years. It's a smooth way to transition from talking to the sex. They usually laugh and giggle as I take their underwear off.
/r/seduction24/10/25 09:54 AM
14

This really varies on her mood and level of drunkenness. I like to sit on the couch and talk for a bit (like 5 minutes). Be sure to sit right next to her. And then I say the classic line "You know, I've been dying to know what kind of underwear you got on." As I say it in a laughing joking manner. Then I start unzipping her pants or reach up her dress and take off her underwear. Then I take her by the hand and guide her to my bedroom and plop her down on the bed and then proceed to perform oral …
/r/seduction24/10/25 09:39 AM
3

Keep making small talk with random women until your comfortable approaching any woman and make small talk with her.
/r/seduction24/10/25 06:40 AM
1

If your looking for a woman for just sex go to a party bar and approach there. Dating is for something deeper and not as superficial.
/r/seduction23/10/25 07:55 PM
1

Would you pay to talk and meet random women out and about?
/r/seduction23/10/25 12:36 PM
1

Yep I stay off of them. Waste of time
/r/seduction22/10/25 05:57 PM
2

That's why you have to talk to them and let them get comfortable around you.
/r/seduction22/10/25 05:52 PM
2

Vadim from honest Signalz is great. Very honest straight forward advice
/r/seduction22/10/25 05:30 PM
3

You gotta text back what you were talking about like continuing the conversation. Tease her a bit to incite her to respond back and defend herself. Then make plans to meetup again like drinks or dinner or go to an event.
/r/seduction22/10/25 03:56 AM
4

you asserted something which wasn't true. I get you were trying to give her shit and be playful but that was teh wrong way to do it. It comes off wrong. When I sse that text it sounds like your saying it in a looking down on someone tone.
/r/seduction21/10/25 03:50 AM
4

There's a difference between playful tease and a smack in the face.
/r/seduction21/10/25 03:30 AM
13

Eat healthy, exercise, take care of your appearance aka be trimmed and groomed well. Also dress good.
/r/seduction20/10/25 09:16 PM
1

If she's going home with you she knows what's up. The only two reasons are for her to come back to your place are she wants a place to stay for the night, or she wants to get laid. There are no other reasons for her to come back to home with you. She'll be tipsy and bit intoxicated but she won't be stumbling drunk. She'll still be coherent and be able to talk and know what's going on.
/r/seduction20/10/25 06:47 AM
11

Definitely indirect I always comment about the situation,place, or something happening then I introduce myself. This makes the interaction feel more organic and natural
/r/seduction19/10/25 09:41 PM
2

You don't have to drink. You can do soft drinks. You can do a shot of something else like water or a soft drink while she does the alcohol.
/r/seduction19/10/25 07:30 PM
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If you read "same night sex system" by Vince Kelvin he talks about safe sex and condoms. Most guys don't wear them. And they end up getting some random girl pregnant. I call them bar babies. It's positive reinforcement. Everyone knows smoking is bad for you, but you hear it preached all the time. But yes, depending on the venue and crowd, you should be adapting your wardrobe/outfit. The outfit I recommend is good for a place like vegas
/r/seduction18/10/25 03:57 AM
5

For the fashion I said "I recommend" that's what guys wear. I've seen that style have the most success. It's a numbers game. Women are generally attracted to guys that are dressed nicer. I really encourage safe sex. Most guys refuse to wear a condom because they say they can't feel anything. So I address this issue by telling then about a condom where they can feel almost everything.
/r/seduction18/10/25 03:39 AM
1

Thank you I hope it gives guys a good baseline to work off of
/r/seduction18/10/25 03:05 AM
16

The one night stands lose their lust after a while. They were fun for me until I reached about age 28. After that, I felt kind of numb to them.
/r/seduction17/10/25 02:11 AM
17

Anytime you want to take a girl on a date like drinks or dinner etc. always do it in person. If you DM it's a sign of you being shy and she's going to laugh and ignore it. You have to talk to her a little bit first and then say "I'd love to take you out to dinner sometime" You could try and stop her and say "What are you listening to?" and then ask what her favorite artist/band is and what other songs and bands she likes. Then introduce yourself. make some small talk for a couple minutes and the…
/r/seduction16/10/25 09:25 AM
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/r/seduction15/10/25 01:35 PM
3

you should read my pickup guide
/r/seduction15/10/25 01:28 PM
2

you gotta "seed the pull" So you could mention that you play guitar and say "I'd love to play you a song" or you could say "I'd love to show you my so and so collection" the key is to be subtle about it You could say "I'd love to see your apartment" If your staying at a hotel you could say "I'd love to show you my room" remember be subtle
/r/seduction15/10/25 10:13 AM
2

Everyone's different
/r/seduction15/10/25 03:55 AM
6

You'd be amazed how many guys think pornh is real
/r/seduction14/10/25 10:41 PM
97

Porn is other people being paid to have sex. It's 100% fake and staged. If they weren't getting paid they wouldn't be getting laid anywhere near as much
/r/seduction14/10/25 02:32 PM
1

Back when I first starting going out I saw other guys just introducing themselves first and it didn't seem to work very well but I tried it as well and got little to no success. So I studied game and all of the pickup artist/ seduction coaches all commented first before they introduced themselves.
/r/seduction13/10/25 12:28 PM
1

I just feel it's the same thing as saying "Oh hey by the way the water is wet, the sky is blue, and the grass is green"
/r/seduction13/10/25 12:00 PM
1

I've always had more luck commenting first. You both have something in common to talk about which makes the interaction feel less tense and more natural. I recommend never commenting about her looks. They've heard it a million times and it means nothing to them. Also after she says " oh thanks." the conversation kind of dies and it doesn't really go anywhere.
/r/seduction13/10/25 11:10 AM
2

I always say to comment first becasue it makes the interaction feel more organic than just introduction yourself.
/r/seduction13/10/25 10:24 AM
18

Always comment about the situation, place or something happening first then introduce yourself. Make some small talk and then ask for her number or take her on a insta date
/r/seduction13/10/25 09:50 AM
1

Text her back that same night to make plans to meet up for dinner.
/r/seduction12/10/25 08:32 PM
15

Making sure my hair is trimmed up good like ear , eyebrow,unibrow hair. Finishing off my showers cold to give my skin a healthy glow. Dressing better. I like to wear a solid color full sleeve collard shirt. Having your hair tame.
/r/seduction12/10/25 08:31 PM
1

Yeah it's a one night stand book.
/r/seduction12/10/25 08:51 AM
2

Same night Sex System was decent by Vince kelvin
/r/seduction12/10/25 05:30 AM
1

Birds?
/r/seduction11/10/25 02:43 PM
1

An autistic guys opinion
/r/seduction10/10/25 10:16 PM
1

It's still just someones opinion
/r/seduction10/10/25 09:55 PM
1

Not all of them Some live in the moment and go with the flow
/r/seduction10/10/25 09:43 PM
1

I never give them my number because they'll never take the initiative to talk or text you back. Always get hers and then text or call her back.
/r/seduction10/10/25 09:15 PM
1

Manchester United?
/r/seduction09/10/25 02:22 PM
1

I'm just saying I don't think I'd have that many problems
/r/seduction09/10/25 12:36 PM
1

Chav?
/r/seduction09/10/25 02:02 AM
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I look young I dress good And have good game
/r/seduction08/10/25 12:21 PM
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Then I'd have no problem.
/r/seduction08/10/25 12:16 PM
-24

I'm just curious. The way the women dress out there seems like it would be easy pickup.
/r/seduction08/10/25 12:05 PM
36

This It's like applying for a job you spam apply and maybe you;;l hear back from a a few and maybe 1 or 2 will actually follow through.
/r/seduction07/10/25 03:13 AM
9

Los Angeles and San Diego
/r/seduction07/10/25 01:46 AM
2

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/r/seduction05/10/25 09:58 PM
2

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/r/seduction05/10/25 09:58 PM
2

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/r/seduction05/10/25 09:58 PM
0

You want my pickup guide?
/r/seduction05/10/25 10:46 AM
1

You want my pickup guide? I hand it our for free to people that are struggling
/r/seduction05/10/25 02:21 AM
1

Tease her by saying "no way" "come on" "I don't believe you" Get closer to her Make good eye contact
/r/seduction30/09/25 11:29 PM
47

It's just a one night stand Move on from it
/r/seduction29/09/25 09:40 AM
2

It's tough out there. Remember any woman out in public is approachable. Grocery stores,gas stations, target, wal-mart, etc. Just start approaching
/r/seduction27/09/25 01:39 AM
3

The bars of late have been dead. Try approaching in a coffee shop during the day.
/r/seduction27/09/25 12:56 AM
1

To me it's like the poster you saw in school "You'll always miss 100% of the shots you don't take"
/r/seduction26/09/25 09:27 AM
7

hot girl, not hot girl who cares as long you are approaching that's what matters most.
/r/seduction25/09/25 12:50 PM
11

read the last paragraph It is what he;s talking about
/r/seduction25/09/25 12:45 PM
56

They don't get approached anywhere near as much. So when they do they're happy and excited about it.
/r/seduction25/09/25 12:41 PM
1

If you live near a beach just go there. No one is at the beach at night. I've pulled many girls to the beach and things got steamy.
/r/seduction23/09/25 07:34 PM
2

I can for the most part I'm nor nervous or anxious or scared anymore And if she's not interested I just go "next!" in my head.
/r/seduction22/09/25 06:39 AM
2

Yep Drink and chill bars aren't where it's at
/r/seduction20/09/25 03:27 AM
1

No It's hard to approach and talk to someone in a club Clubs are really just for partying it up
/r/seduction19/09/25 09:40 PM
1

A club is where the music is almost deafening too loud and it's dark with strobe lights, confetti, and misters.
/r/seduction19/09/25 09:39 PM
3

It is! Remember to comment about the situation place or something happening. Then introduce yourself. This makes the interaction feel more organic and natural.
/r/seduction19/09/25 11:29 AM
1

All approaches are cold approaches
/r/seduction19/09/25 11:21 AM
3

You don't have to dance I never dance You just do the usual nightgame routine system
/r/seduction19/09/25 11:17 AM
5

I've found that party bars are by far the best bars for one night stands. A party bar is a bar where the music is loud and people are dancing and doing shots of alcohol. The more you go out you'll get a better intuition for who looks approachable.
/r/seduction19/09/25 11:10 AM
1

I agree After you kissed her you could've puled her to the bar for some drinks or shots and then asked her what she was doing after this. And then offer her to show you our house/room.
/r/seduction17/09/25 04:18 AM
3

Exactly Talk to anyone anywhere anytime
/r/seduction17/09/25 02:22 AM
7

I always say to comment about the situation, place, or something happening. Then introduce yourself. Then make some small talk. Then ask for her number. Or go on a insta-date If you see her holding a bag or something in her cart ask if she's getting anything good. Then introduce yourself.
/r/seduction17/09/25 01:41 AM
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I think your escalating too quickly. You gotta "let the pussy marinate". If you kiss her too fast I think she'll think you just want to kiss her and that's it. You gotta flirt and sexuallity escalate and then go for the kiss and then go for the pull.
/r/seduction17/09/25 12:40 AM
2

Yeah it's almost as if they get cold feet for some reason. I think they just get nervous.
/r/seduction17/09/25 12:28 AM
4

Exactly You can talk to anyone. You don't have to buy their stuff. Walk into a jeweler store and ask about their stuff. Talk to them. Ask questions. This goes for any place Don't treat her any different than anyone else.
/r/seduction16/09/25 10:59 PM
14

Try approaching and talking to store employees. Keep doing this until you're comfortable talking to anyone. You gotta be comfortable talking to random women before you approach.
/r/seduction16/09/25 10:29 PM
58

Remember to approach in a bright excitable tone. If she's holding a bag ask "did you get anything good?" And then have her show you what she bought. Then introduce yourself. Then ask where she's going to next. Tag along and shop with her. Then ask to get something to eat at the food court or a nearby restaurant
/r/seduction16/09/25 10:01 PM
1

No I used to watch infield interactions before I went out. The problem is that I'd say the things they'd say in their interactions instead of adapting to the situations I was in.
/r/seduction16/09/25 08:22 PM
3

Yep They already know this Just act normal and make casual conversation
/r/seduction11/09/25 02:06 AM
3

Yep all that effort and talking for nothing
/r/seduction10/09/25 08:58 PM
4

I don't think commenting about the environment is "overthinking it"
/r/seduction10/09/25 08:47 PM
10

Yep the classic "oh I have a boyfriend" line. It's their natural defense
/r/seduction10/09/25 08:35 PM
14

I can act natural and say, "I just wanted to say you look absolutely beautiful and wanted to say hi". And then they normally respond with "oh why thank you!" And then you introduce yourself and then make some small talk This does work. But to me commenting about the situation,place, or something happening feels more organic and natural.
/r/seduction10/09/25 08:23 PM
85

Always comment first when initiating and making the first approach. This makes the interaction feel more organic and natural. Never comment about her looks. Comment about the situation,place, or something happening. This gives you both something to relate too and talk about. Too many guys comment on her looks. Not only does it mean nothing and she's heard it a million times but the conversation just fades.
/r/seduction10/09/25 06:06 PM
54

It depends on her vocal tonality. If she says it in an annoyed manner then you know she wants to go home alone. If she says it in a slow sensual tone she's hinting at you suggesting to come see her place. This is why vocal tonality really matters. It;s up to you to pickup on the subtle hints and body language and vocal tonality.
/r/seduction10/09/25 11:28 AM
2

I'll tell you what I wear going to out to a bar or club. I like to wear a full sleeve solid color(women tend to make fun of patterns and designs) button up collard shirt with nice jeans that aren't torn and black dress shoes. I like to wear a belt too. Be sure your shirt is tucked in. You'll look pretty sharp and will stand out from the rest of the guys that don't try. It's a good look for fancy restaurants and weddings too. Heck even a job interview it would work too.
/r/seduction09/09/25 10:48 AM
4

Don't get so drunk Make her want to be around you and not go with someone else Make her laugh,smile,feel at ease Get close to her and lightly touching her Make good eye contact and use vocal tonality to accentuate your voice
/r/seduction08/09/25 08:15 PM
1

You'd think they'd be common sense, but a lot of guys struggle. Some of these more attractive women have "shit tests" too. But by dressing good, being trimmed, and having confidence is going to set you apart from the guys that don't do those things.
/r/seduction06/09/25 08:55 PM
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Comment about the situation,place or something happening to make her agree with me. Then I introduce myself. I make some small talk then transition to flirting. I get closer to her and start lightly touching her. When there's a gap in the conversation I go for the kiss Then in a slow sensual tone I ask her "What are you doing after this?" Then I say "I'd love to show you my house" Then we both start walking back to my place.
/r/seduction06/09/25 10:06 AM
1

Just comment about what she's looknig at and then introduce yourself. Keep making some small talk then ask for her number. It's pretty easy.
/r/seduction06/09/25 03:45 AM
1

I never said they were rules This has been what's worked well for me Some guys are naturally more attractive and don't have to put as much effort forth
/r/seduction05/09/25 07:24 PM
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Confidence is the main ingredient if you ask me that matters most. Women LOVE confidence and a guy that's calm,cool, and comfortable in his own skin. Make good eye contact and accentuate what you say with vocal tonality. Get closer to her. This changes the vibe from friendly to sexual. Be leading. say "Let's get a drink" "Let's go over here" "let's do a shot" Take her by the hand and guide her to the place you and her are going Never comment about her looks. This is going to really set you part …
/r/seduction05/09/25 08:21 AM
7

26 and 27 God I pulled so many girls back then. It was great!
/r/seduction04/09/25 11:06 PM
3

Tienes que hacer que la conversación se sienta orgánica y natural. Comenta sobre un evento actual, una situación o algo que esté sucediendo en la zona. Preséntate y luego charla un poco más. Puedes decir cosas como "hablando de" para convertirlo en una nueva conversación. Quieres seguir diversificándote. Insúltala de forma amable, bromeando un poco. Hazla reír y sonreír. Asegúrate de despedirte.
/r/seduction03/09/25 05:08 AM
0

in that situation probably.
/r/seduction03/09/25 01:31 AM
0

Yep Stock market,real estate,youtube, entrepreneur, make 100K+ a year.
/r/seduction03/09/25 12:40 AM
1

You gotta see it from a woman's perspective. What do high quality women want?
/r/seduction03/09/25 12:29 AM
1

You gotta surround yourself with higher quality people.
/r/seduction02/09/25 11:40 PM
3

Then go for it
/r/seduction02/09/25 10:56 PM
-1

You can try to get with the hot 8's 9's and 10's with your 55K a year job 8 year old Honda civic and 800 sq ft apartment. When they see your lifestyle they say "I don't think this is gonna work out".
/r/seduction02/09/25 10:54 PM
0

Only if you let them You gotta bring value to the table If you donlt there's no point or need for them to want you.
/r/seduction02/09/25 10:50 PM
-1

A lot of them yes. they don't have to be rich but upper middle class. People that have standards and care about themselves
/r/seduction02/09/25 10:49 PM
1

Where higher quality people hang out/with others at. Fine dinning restaurants. expos where they sell expensive products fly first class hang out in places and areas that are expensive.
/r/seduction02/09/25 10:46 PM
-3

Have a lot of money / a good income stream coming in. Have a nice vehicle (aka newer year) Dress good/nicer Take care of yourself. Exercise more eat healthier (whole foods). Live in a luxury apartment or nicer place The bottom line is bring value to the table Also hang out in a place with higher quality people aka not bars and clubs
/r/seduction02/09/25 09:48 PM
4

It does! That's why I always use it. And they end up laughing and giggling as I take them off.
/r/seduction30/08/25 07:38 PM
6

Also vocal tonality Talk slower and more sensual To transition from talking to the sex I like to say "I've been dying to know what kind if underwear you got on." Say it in a laughing joking manner. Then start unzipping her pants and take off her underwear. If she's wearing a skirt or a dress scrunch it up and take off her underwear. Then take her by the hand and guide her to your bedroom and plop her down on the bed.
/r/seduction30/08/25 07:03 PM
39

I agree. If you see the indicator of interest approach. The longer you wait the worse it gets. The anxiety and awkwardness builds up. Just go for ut and make the move.
/r/seduction30/08/25 07:08 AM
1

I've never gotten this to work. Just go to a party bar and approach a random woman sitting or standing alone.
/r/seduction29/08/25 10:43 PM
1

Yeah it is a numbers game. Approach Approach Approach.
/r/seduction29/08/25 10:13 AM
1

Are you just sending women you've never met request to talk to them? This almost never works. You have to approach in real life, get their number and text her back that same night. When your texting be sure to tease her in a playful manner so it entices her to respond back to you. Make plans to meeting again like a drink or dinner.
/r/seduction28/08/25 08:47 PM
1

Talk in a slower sensual tone with good eye contact. Laugh at the small things he says and get in his personal space
/r/seduction22/08/25 09:16 AM
5

The way I see it is this. I give myself one second to determine whether or not I'd bang her. If it's a yes I engage. It's just a lay. Good enough my friend.
/r/seduction20/08/25 09:49 AM
1

LOLZ
/r/seduction18/08/25 09:08 AM
3

I have kissed her back home but I usually don't. It really depends on the situation and woman. If she's giving off the kiss me vibes go for it. We already know what's going to happen next. That's why I usually go for the classic line "I've been dying to know what kind of underwear you got on lol". And then I start unzipping her pants or I reach up her dress and take off her underwear.
/r/seduction18/08/25 08:56 AM
0

In my experience if you haven't kissed her in the bar or club then don't try to go for the kiss when you're back home or in the room. I try to go for the kiss in the place I initially meet her. That way it really sets the mood for sex. Also, I like to say in a slow sensual tone "What are you doing after this?". That really sets the mood for sex even more. Even when I'm back home or in the room I try to talk a bit slower and sensual and make good eye contact. All these things help set the mood.
/r/seduction18/08/25 07:04 AM
1

It's about being subtle. She can pickup on the hints.
/r/seduction12/08/25 07:55 AM
3

I like to "seed the pull" as they say. Say something like I'd love to show you my collection of so and so. If you play an instrument say "you should come over, I'll play you so and so song.
/r/seduction11/08/25 02:15 AM
1

I comment about the situation place or something happening then I introduce myself then I proceed to get her number or go on an "insta-date".
/r/seduction06/08/25 09:40 PM
2

Try to talk about simple relatable topics. Put a funny twist on them.
/r/seduction04/08/25 11:50 AM
5

Comment about what she's looking at or doing and then branch off from there. You can really talk about anything. The key is to keep talking to get her comfortable around you. Try to make her laugh and smile. You can branch off of topics into other topics by saying "You know that reminds me of _____________" . or "did you hear about ____________?" "Speaking of ____________". You can ask silly questions too.
/r/seduction04/08/25 11:33 AM
9

If I recall he used to have his whole seminar on YouTube for free. He'd have the TV going as he'd review in field footage. There are no real secrets out there. Go watch the youtube channel "Honest Signalz". He does great infield footage and review.
/r/seduction04/08/25 08:34 AM
3

Just comment about the situation,place, or something happening. Then introduce yourself. Then make some small talk. Then say "well you seem pretty chill/cool can I get your number real quick." Then text her back that night to make plans for a drink or dinner. It's not too hard to do.
/r/seduction04/08/25 02:19 AM
6

Don't treat them any different than anyone else. Don't hold them on a pedestal. Just make casual small talk with them or other women to get desensitized towards talking to them.
/r/seduction03/08/25 08:48 PM
19

Sometimes going outside to talk is better. If you or her smoke say "you wanna go out and have a smoke?" Or ask to go to a different bar.
/r/seduction03/08/25 06:26 AM
7

And when you get back to your place show her your collection of said thing. Then either sit on the couch and talk for a bit or say "I'd love to show you my bedroom".
/r/seduction02/08/25 02:54 AM
5

I've fucked plenty of women that never kissed me. Every situation is different.
/r/seduction02/08/25 12:53 AM
6

In that situation it works. What if she's not leading or not being super receptive.
/r/seduction02/08/25 12:50 AM
12

That's not pushy. The guy is supposed to be leading. If he doesn't lead, nothing happens. Is he just supposed to be all shy,reserved, and quite?
/r/seduction02/08/25 12:43 AM
8

Ot you could say "I'd love to see your place. "
/r/seduction02/08/25 12:39 AM
27

You gotta seed the pull as they say. Say something like "oh I have this awesome collection of so and so, you should come check it out after this." Give her a reason to come see your place that's subtle that doesn't involve sex.
/r/seduction02/08/25 12:09 AM
6

All dating apps for guys suck. Approach in real life.
/r/seduction27/07/25 09:57 AM
2

Yes I've watched all of that content. It's great stuff. It's true about life and that topic.
/r/seduction27/07/25 05:09 AM
2

Imagine yourself as a woman. How would you want to be approached and talked to.
/r/seduction27/07/25 02:48 AM
-2

Trump?
/r/seduction25/07/25 11:23 AM
14

As long as she's at least 21, I see no problem. Reason being is so that the both of you can go into a bar together and get to know eachother. Legally as long as she's 18 your good but that's very young.
/r/seduction25/07/25 11:17 AM
1

Say "hey we're looking for another player for volleyball."
/r/seduction24/07/25 08:56 PM
60

If your just looking to get laid go for it. This why people go to bars and hookup. It's a "good enough" mentality.
/r/seduction24/07/25 10:05 AM
14

Tell her "as fast as they come, they tend to go just as quick. Let's not rush this. "
/r/seduction23/07/25 11:55 AM
2

Yeah FWB don't last very long. They usually end up moving on. This is why it's so important to have a lot of girls in your rotation. I like to have at least 5-7 in my phone/ contacs that I can text or call at any time and drop the hint. Sometimes they drop me the hint. Some are either busy,not in the mood, or have moved on. This is why it's so important to have options.
/r/seduction22/07/25 08:18 PM
1

Just because you're talking to someone, it doesn't mean anything. If they're interested in going home with you, they'll put forth at least some effort. Sometimes they just wanna be social and be out and about. And there's nothing wrong with that.
/r/seduction21/07/25 11:33 PM
1

Right, use what you've said earlier in the conversation to leverage it layer.
/r/seduction21/07/25 09:06 PM
3

The classic line "I'd love to show you my house" works well, too." You can also say, "I'll walk you back home." Then, when you two are standing out front, she might invite you in for a drink. Or you can say, "I'd love to see your house/apartment." If you're staying at a hotel you could say "I'd love to show you the view of my room" Or "let's go have a drink in my room." The key is to be subtle. Drop subtle hints that she can pickup on.
/r/seduction21/07/25 08:57 PM
8

You can say something like "I'd love to show you my so and so collection." Give her an excuse to come back to your place that doesn't involve sex. This way your just showing her something. And she won't feel slut shamed.
/r/seduction21/07/25 08:36 PM
1

Exactly
/r/seduction20/07/25 09:44 PM
1

She was a tall bitch. Like 6 foot.
/r/seduction20/07/25 08:24 AM
1

What's SW?
/r/seduction20/07/25 08:22 AM
1

Did you take steps to improve yourself, or did you just stagnate?
/r/seduction20/07/25 03:24 AM
1

That's why they need to understand why they're not getting picked.
/r/seduction19/07/25 12:44 AM
0

How about indirect daygame.
/r/seduction18/07/25 01:00 PM
1

That too. Ask her if she knows about any good places to eat and ask to go there.
/r/seduction18/07/25 12:54 PM
1

Or planned "serendipity" on your part. "Oh hey excuse me could you tell me a good place to eat around here?" She responds with a couple places You respond back with "So what are you doing right now? Wanna come with me to so and so place?"
/r/seduction18/07/25 12:18 PM
-2

I never said they always go home with someone. If they do want to go home with someone they might pick you because you're there. I never said they'd always pick you but they might pick you. You don't know unless you go. Most women don't care too much about a one night stand. As long as you don't come off as a weirdo or a creep they'll go home with you for the most part.
/r/seduction18/07/25 11:42 AM
4

Seeming as though like 80% of hookups probably take place at a bar or cocktail lounge out there, that's where all my encounters have been at. I've tried to approach at a blackjack table before but I think I spooked her and she left. The encounters I've had at with women walking on the strip never really go anywhere. We talk for a bit then we part ways. I do remember one time walking at the Cosmo near the Vespar bar and me and woman locked eyes as we were passing by each other and she grabbed my …
/r/seduction18/07/25 11:16 AM
0

Just showing up is 80% of success. They're going to go home with someone. And if you're there is could be you. I remember going out in my early 20's when my game was pretty poor and I still got laid just because I was there. You don't have to be inherently good at any of these but just being there as an option for the ladies is what really matters and counts if you ask me.
/r/seduction18/07/25 11:03 AM
3

Yes this is very true. Unless someone tells you what you're doing wrong you'll just keep making the same mistakes over and over again. This is why self improvement is so important. Watch how other successful people act as to what they say, and how they say it, and improve upon yourself by mimicking what they do. They can be a good baseline for you to go off of.
/r/seduction18/07/25 10:51 AM
7

Certain types of people are attracted to certain types of people. Certain types of women want a certain type of lifestyle. Some women don't care. Some women care. I personally rank the attributes in this order. Confidence Social Skills Social Intuition Looks Money Lifestyle This is just my opinion. The confidence and social skills are what hooks them in. The money and lifestyle keep them hanging around.
/r/seduction18/07/25 10:39 AM
2

You got the comment thing right. After this you introduce yourself. Then make some small talk and then ask for her number. Say "well you seem pretty pretty cool/chill can I get your number real quick?"
/r/seduction18/07/25 08:45 AM
1

Great
/r/seduction14/07/25 07:57 AM
1

Hey what
/r/seduction14/07/25 07:42 AM
5

This is why you never comment about her looks.
/r/seduction12/07/25 10:25 PM
1

Go out to have a good time. If it happens it happens if it doesn't it doesn't.
/r/seduction11/07/25 07:44 PM
-1

I'd say it's subjective.
/r/seduction11/07/25 10:30 AM
13

Game means he knows how to talk to women in a sexual way to get closer to them and get in their comfort zone to kiss them and take them home to have sex with them or get her number.
/r/seduction11/07/25 09:34 AM
2

Ask them how they do it. Maybe they know something you don't. But at least your smart enough to figure someone out pretty quickly. A lot of people take years (which it shouldn't) to figure someone out. What I say is if you're not serious or feeling it with the person break it off and move on to the next one. Don't waste any more of yours or her time. Unless you want to be FWB's. It seems to me that the people that want to be around each other enjoy each others company. They're like minded. Go to…
/r/seduction11/07/25 08:48 AM
4

Same The novelty of a person wears off extremely quickly for me. This is why it's important to have something in common with them besides just sex. You need to find an activity that you two can share and bond over. An activity where you two can go to events together, go to expo's, talk to other people about said activity. This makes the relationship worthwhile in my opinion. If you have nothing in common their just another name,face and body.
/r/seduction11/07/25 08:10 AM
4

Tight fitting condoms. Seeing those veins stick out and that latex being held tight against a dick. Turns me on.
/r/seduction11/07/25 02:16 AM
2

You need to grind your skills. Grind your social skills and social inution.
/r/seduction10/07/25 01:47 PM
3

Sometimes, they date the wrong people. I mean, what kind of women are they dating. That's a common problem I've seen. They have nothing in common with the other person. It's poor partner selection. You gotta have something in common with the other person. A common bond you two can meld and share together with.
/r/seduction10/07/25 12:08 PM
-1

It's a balancing act. Women look for a guy that's calm,cool, confident and comfortable in his own skin. And also knows what to say, when to say it, and how to say it. The rest if you ask me is his lifestyle. Which this you can definitely change.
/r/seduction10/07/25 11:36 AM
0

Well put
/r/seduction10/07/25 11:10 AM
130

If you got looks you don't need much game. If you got game you don't need much looks. If you got looks and game nothing is stopping you but since you got either one or the other your good. Attractive people have it easier. It's a fact, they do. Guys with game have taken steps to improve themselves. There comes a point where you can only improve yourself so much. dressing nicer, working out, eating healthier can all help. But it can only get you so far. Game usually triumphs over looks most of th…
/r/seduction10/07/25 10:54 AM
-1

Try to approach and talk to her in a bright excitable tone at the very start. Comment about what she's doing or looking at then introduce yourself. Make some small talk then ask for her number. Say "Well you seem pretty chill can I get your number quick?"
/r/seduction09/07/25 09:21 AM
2

Your vocal tonality matters here. Whe you say things say it slower sometimes and more sensual. I like to do what I call the "oh really" loop. That's where you say "oh really?" And she says "really" and you say "really?" And she says "really" again. You keep going back and forth and you keep getting closer to her. It's fun to do.
/r/seduction09/07/25 01:09 AM
1

I'm not. Guys think I am for some reason.
/r/seduction08/07/25 10:13 PM
2

Every woman and situation are different. I get guys asking me all the time "what's the one universal line that will make a woman's panties drop." And I always say "there isn't one". What one woman might find cringey and roll her eyes another might make her laugh out loud. This is why you should be getting a feel for the woman. Her aura,vibe, and personality. And what you can and can't say around her.
/r/seduction06/07/25 10:28 AM
1

let's do it!
/r/seduction04/07/25 08:57 AM
1

This isn't a shit test. This is her telling you the way she feels about the situation/ interaction. A shit test would be like her telling you she has a boyfriend and then you asking her what his name is and then she has to come up with some random name because she's lying.
/r/seduction03/07/25 09:44 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction02/07/25 11:19 AM
1

I used to treat celebrities differently than anyone else. But the thing is, they aren't different than anyone else. So I don't see them any different now. That's how I want you to see these women.
/r/seduction30/06/25 10:22 PM
1

When you're around all these super attractive women you should get desensitized towards them eventually. They're no different than you or I. Try not to let the looks influence you. It'll be a game changer for sure.
/r/seduction30/06/25 01:51 PM
1

Treat them no different than anyone else. Also NEVER comment about her looks, ever. you might as well tell them the grass is green, water is wet, and the sky is blue. You might have to pass their shit tests.
/r/seduction30/06/25 01:36 PM
1

yes tell whole story please
/r/seduction30/06/25 01:33 PM
1

https://www.filemail.com/d/fgmgwvexplcftzv
/r/seduction30/06/25 01:32 PM
0

It's really up to you and how well you can feel and gauge the other person and the aura and vibe they're giving off. I'd say the third date is usually the one for sex. but if you're feelnig it you could try and go for it on the second.
/r/seduction30/06/25 01:30 PM
1

You want my guide? It goes over EVERYTHING if you're brand new to game and pickup.
/r/seduction30/06/25 01:28 PM
3

This ^^^^^^ If you already know your efforts are going to be in vain don't put forth the effort. You can try and approach and get her number or make plans to meetup at night for a drink at a bar and then go the beach afterwords for sex if you want to. I think you're better off going to the bars and approaching someone that's already there with the same intentions as you.
/r/seduction30/06/25 09:42 AM
1

I was talking to these ladies at a bar after a wine walk and the one says "you should go talk to those girls over there. They'll go home with you. We're not those type of girls." But I kept talking to them and ended up taking one of them home. Stick with it.
/r/seduction29/06/25 12:46 PM
1

Not everyone is approachable when you're going out. Some people wanna be left alone. so don't talk to them. This is where your social intuition comes in. the gut feelnig of who looks approachable and who you can talk to.
/r/seduction28/06/25 11:57 AM
4

Try to talk about relatable topics. Keep it light and flirty. Be confident and comfortable in your own skin. (this is a big one) Know how to say things. Vocal Tonalities and completely change the meaning of a word or sentence. Be adapting to the situation and woman.
/r/seduction26/06/25 10:21 AM
1

Just comment about what she's looking at and then introduce yourself. Make some small talk for a bit then ask for her number. Say "Well you seem pretty chill, can I grab your number real quick?". Then text her back that night to make plans to meetup for drinks or dinner. If you're looking for a hookup/FWB then get a drink(s) at a bar. If you're looking for a LTR get dinner somewhere. You can get drinks after dinner too.
/r/seduction26/06/25 07:17 AM
0

Welcome to dealing with women.
/r/seduction25/06/25 10:58 AM
0

It took you that long to realize that? They're very strange give out mixed signals all the time.
/r/seduction25/06/25 10:52 AM
2

Lesson learned
/r/seduction25/06/25 10:47 AM
3

Sometimes it's hard to tell. I've also had it where she wasn't really that interested in me at the start but she warmed up to me and she changed her mind. She gave me the look and said "What are you doing after this?"
/r/seduction25/06/25 10:30 AM
3

This is where your social intuition comes in. You should be getting a vibe and feel off of her. If she just has that friendly vibe, she's not DTF or even looking. If she's giving off flirty vibes with her vocal tonalities and body language and eye contact then she might be DTF.
/r/seduction25/06/25 10:20 AM
1

What I always say about tattoos is the way you feel about the tattoo when you get it won't be the same way you feel about it down the road. So be careful.
/r/seduction25/06/25 01:48 AM
2

Do what feels organic and natural to you.
/r/seduction25/06/25 01:44 AM
3

It's my personal policy to always wrap it up. No condom,no sex. Exceptions are for someone like a girlfriend.
/r/seduction25/06/25 01:34 AM
1

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/r/seduction24/06/25 08:10 AM
1

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/r/seduction24/06/25 08:10 AM
1

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/r/seduction24/06/25 08:10 AM
1

After you pull a woman from a bar for a one night stand, ask for her number and ask if she's down to be FWB. That's how I got all of my FWB's.
/r/seduction24/06/25 02:32 AM
1

I peaked your curiosity eh?
/r/seduction24/06/25 12:13 AM
0

I mean this is like one of the cardinal rules of hookup. Always wrap it up. ALWAYS. This is why I always carry 2 condoms on me at all times. Thete been multiple times I've needed them. It takes like 5 seconds to put one on.
/r/seduction23/06/25 11:53 PM
2

They're why I said the 9's and 10's.
/r/seduction23/06/25 05:05 PM
1

I'll get you the link for it
/r/seduction23/06/25 01:27 PM
1

If you want my pickup guide let me know. It goes over when,where,and what to say to ladies to get laid.
/r/seduction23/06/25 12:49 PM
13

What I tell guys is women look for confidence and a guy that's comfortable in his own skin. They also look at him him and see the type of lifestyle he lives. If they don't want to live that type of lifestyle, they aren't going to get with him. These 9's and 10's don't wanna be with a guy that makes 55K a year driving a 10 year old vehicle and living in a regular apartment. They want a guy making six figures driving in a near new vehicle (preferably a luxury or exotic sport vehicle) and lives in …
/r/seduction23/06/25 11:03 AM
10

Bring more condoms and hand them out to everyone.
/r/seduction20/06/25 09:54 AM
1

The point is to branch and keep branching out. That's how conversations develop and flow. You start at point A and move to point K. You ended up talking about something completely different in the end. Say things line "speaking of....." Then roll that into a different topic. Or "did you hear about......" and roll that into something else. It's a skill/artform. It's takes a bit to know how steer conversations.
/r/seduction19/06/25 01:05 PM
1

Ask her what she likes to do for fun and say "Tell me more about that". People love to talk about themselves.
/r/seduction19/06/25 10:09 AM
1

You should read my guide ittl help you out
/r/seduction10/06/25 09:51 PM
4

Every woman feels different. Some are tight some are loose. Some are bumpy some are ridgey. Keep trying more women (I know that sounds bad) until you find one that feels good.
/r/seduction09/06/25 11:48 PM
1

Pickup lines are cheesy and corny. Just make a situational comment first then introduce yourself. I've found this works SO much better!
/r/seduction08/06/25 06:53 PM
2

I know from experience. I've been to both L.A. and Miami Hot women everywhere. And the guys they were with all had a lot of money, drove nice cars, and lived in nicer places.
/r/seduction08/06/25 09:22 AM
1

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/r/seduction08/06/25 08:17 AM
2

Let me get a download link for it.
/r/seduction08/06/25 07:47 AM
3

It's about a 20-minute read. Some guys complain it's too long. I think I covered darn near everything.
/r/seduction08/06/25 07:41 AM
1

I guess. You want my pickup guide I wrote?
/r/seduction08/06/25 07:35 AM
4

I mean. That can only go over the same stuff so many times.
/r/seduction08/06/25 07:26 AM
6

They went over the material and they left. They did what they needed to do and that was it.
/r/seduction08/06/25 06:14 AM
-2

There's a couple of factors to getting hot women. First off, if you're not in a place like Miami or L.A. there's not going to be as many hot women out and about. Secondly, your game needs to top-notch. You need to be a good talker and get past her shit tests. Thirdly, they want a quality guy. If you're not making good money,driving around in a nicer newer vehicle, and live in a nice luxury apartment or nice house they want nothing to do with you. If you can do all three of these things you can g…
/r/seduction07/06/25 03:41 PM
2

You say "I'm looking for something casual." That's code for im looking for a hookup/one night stand.
/r/seduction07/06/25 12:26 PM
1

Just two people being together. That doesn't mean they can't have some fun.
/r/seduction06/06/25 05:08 PM
1

It's called an open marriage and swinging. I encourage both.
/r/seduction06/06/25 07:41 AM
1

I get that. But if I had a wife (which I don't), I'd be fine if she had sex with other guys.
/r/seduction06/06/25 06:29 AM
8

I've been with many married women. It's just a man made concept. It doesn't mean anything. That ring has never stopped me. (Expecting to get lots of down votes).
/r/seduction06/06/25 06:04 AM
9

As long as she's 18+ were good. I've been with married women and women that were dating. Did I care? No. They wanted sex and I was more than happy to provide that to them.
/r/seduction06/06/25 02:22 AM
0

This is more doable in a place like Europe. Over there casual sex isn't stigmatized like it us here in the US.
/r/seduction05/06/25 07:50 PM
4

You donlt ask for a kiss lol. When you two haev been flirting and talking for a bit, get closer to her and make good eye contact. When there's a break in the conversation and she just stops and stares at you or she looks down at your lips, go for the kiss.
/r/seduction04/06/25 09:00 AM
2

You could say "I'd love to show you my house. " Or "I'd love to show you my room it has a great view."
/r/seduction03/06/25 08:30 PM
5

I'd say anywhere Just sit at a bar and men will approach you and start flirting with you. That's one of the advantages of being a woman.
/r/seduction03/06/25 01:04 AM
2

Fairly high if you pick the right woman to approach. This is where social intuition comes in. You don't wanna approach and talk to the women who are just out to drink and chill. You wanna approach the ladies that are out to get laid and hookup. Try to look for ladies that are dressed slutty. Aka, they wear revealing clothing like a tight, short mini dresses with their butt and underwear showing. Or tight fitting clothing. Those are the subtle cues and signs that she's probably DTF. They dress to…
/r/seduction02/06/25 10:46 PM
3

Because it was relatable to both of them. That's what makes that comment work.
/r/seduction02/06/25 10:33 PM
2

For the street you could ask "are there any good places to eat around here?." Cafe you could say "what's the best thing on the menu?" For a bar you could comment on another person or a current event. It's just something small you two can relate to that helps engage the interaction and keeps it going.
/r/seduction02/06/25 10:30 PM
2

You can say that. I'd say "what's up with that guy? As I'm describing him. And she'll respond back and we'll both laugh. Then I'd introduce myself. To me this feels much more natural and organic than just approaching and introducing yourself. If you don't comment first it feels too rushed.
/r/seduction02/06/25 09:44 PM
89

The key thing I've found is to comment about the situation place or something happening. Never comment about her looks. Introduce yourself and then go from there. It makes the interaction feel much more organic and natural. And not forced or awkward. This is especially important when approaching the 8's,9's, and 10's. If you don't comment about her looks you're going to be in the small percentage of guys that aren't saying something about their looks. Which is what they want becasue they're tire…
/r/seduction02/06/25 12:29 PM
1

Yep. Just be you and go with the flow. See where the night takes you.
/r/seduction27/05/25 08:27 AM
1

You can know exactly what to do and when to do it. But if you're nervous,not confident, and not good at reading body language, of course you're not going to be able to pull.
/r/seduction27/05/25 08:11 AM
1

You can. But you gotta have a ton of confidence and be able to pass shit tests.
/r/seduction26/05/25 07:40 PM
3

Some women love it. Some women hate it. Some don't care. You do you.
/r/seduction25/05/25 08:44 PM
5

You're not doing something right. How are you coming off to these women? If you're giving them a bad vibe, then of course they want nothing to do with you. Are you nervous? Are you a good talker? Do you have confidence? Are you making her laugh,smile,and feel at ease? Are you making good eye contact? These are all very important. They don't want some shy,anxious, unconfident guy. That's not attractive. Work on yourself. Dress good. Be well trimmed as in shave your unibrow,trim your ear and nose …
/r/seduction25/05/25 01:01 AM
2

Dye it People do it all the time Either do it yourself or go to a salon
/r/seduction25/05/25 12:41 AM
1

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/r/seduction24/05/25 09:10 PM
-2

Well yeah But you'll still know what to say, when to say it and how to say it.
/r/seduction24/05/25 09:10 PM
-5

You can approach literally any woman and start talking to her and making a connection. You can read her body language and vocal tonality. You can choose to sleep with her that night or take her out on a date.
/r/seduction24/05/25 07:40 PM
13

This about right. I started at 21 and didn't get good until about 25-26.
/r/seduction24/05/25 05:42 PM
1

You want my pickup guide? It'll help you out
/r/seduction24/05/25 09:30 AM
2

If your not feeling the conversation going anywhere the first couple minutes move on to the next woman. Say "it was nice talking to you." Maker her laugh,smile,feel at ease. Get closer to her. When she just stops and smiles at you go for the kiss. Then go for the pull. Say "what are you doing after this? "
/r/seduction24/05/25 08:56 AM
12

This takes longer than just 1 year to get good at. I started doing game at 21. I didn't get good at it until around 26-27. You gotta keep going out and grinding your social skills and social intuition.
/r/seduction24/05/25 08:29 AM
1

Small talk is necessary to build a connection and get a vibe and feel for a person. It is a necessary evil unfortunately.
/r/seduction24/05/25 12:33 AM
7

Very often. It's one of the main proposes of going out is to get laid. Not all people go out to get laid but many (including myself) do. You need to go to party bars where the music is loud and the people are dancing and doing shots. The drink and chill bars aren't as good for pickup. Be sure to go out early so you have time to approach and make a connection with someone.
/r/seduction23/05/25 07:36 AM
5

These work after you've made the initial approach.
/r/seduction21/05/25 08:53 AM
10

Every woman and situation is different. There isn't a universal line for all women. That's what these pickup artists try to sell you on. And besides, "lines" are lame and don't feel organic and natural. It feels like you're trying too hard. Just comment about something going on,the place, what she's looking at or doing. And then introduce yourself. From here you can really talk about anything. But try to keep it light and flirty.
/r/seduction21/05/25 05:41 AM
4

Pretty much
/r/seduction21/05/25 05:29 AM
88

I always comment about the situation,place,or something happening. I introduce myself then I go from there
/r/seduction21/05/25 03:25 AM
1

So what do you think?
/r/seduction18/05/25 08:16 PM
1

It's about a 15-20 minute read.
/r/seduction18/05/25 11:55 AM
2

Be sure to tell me what you think about it after your done reading it.
/r/seduction18/05/25 11:48 AM
0

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/r/seduction18/05/25 11:46 AM
2

You want my pickup guide I wrote? It'll help you out tremendously. It goes over night game and everything from the basics like approaching to escalating and pulling. And when your back at yours or hers place it goes over how to transition from talking to sex.
/r/seduction18/05/25 11:42 AM
1

I've never had any problems pulling alone. You just ask the classic question in a slow sensual tone, "west are you don't after this?" And if she says nothing that means she's interested/DTF. You say something like "I'd love to show you my house/room/apartment." It's pretty easy, don't overthink it.
/r/seduction17/05/25 08:06 AM
2

Make her laugh,smile,feel at ease. Joke around with her.
/r/seduction16/05/25 04:35 AM
1

They're great places (if not the best) to look for a hookup. For a long term dating partner,no. They're terrible places for that. If you want a girlfriend approach women outside of and bars and clubs.
/r/seduction15/05/25 12:05 AM
1

You have to realize that there's a naturally higher concentration of 10's in the warmer bigger cities like Miami and L.A. So if your not in one of those cities your odds are naturally lower. Also most 10's don't wanna be with some guy that's average looking guy that makes under 150K a year. You need to be in good shape and be making a good amount of money. Attractive people wanna be with attractive people. It's not too hard to figure out.
/r/seduction14/05/25 06:24 PM
2

you know what her interests are. Say things like "Tell me more about that". Give her some shit in a playful manner.
/r/seduction14/05/25 07:10 AM
1

The clubs are beyond full. They're too full. That's one of the problems too many guys with too many women. It's overstimulation in the clubs. That's why the bars are better. It's a bit more toned down.
/r/seduction14/05/25 01:31 AM
1

I've been to many clubs. I've gone to most of the nightclubs in Vegas. Lots of hot women. But most aren't too approachable, I noticed. After the club, the ones that go to the casino bars, that's when you can make your move on them.
/r/seduction14/05/25 01:04 AM
1

I guess. I still line bars more.
/r/seduction14/05/25 12:55 AM
1

I guess that's the system for the clubs. Dance,kiss, then get her away from the action to flirt with her.
/r/seduction14/05/25 12:22 AM
1

I think everyone (for the most part) should go through a slut phase. It helps you get better with the ladies, and it will improve your confidence to approach and talk to women. You'll know what to say,when to say it, and how to say it. This makes approaching a random woman you see out and about significantly easier. I'm sure you've walked by a woman out in public, and you wanted to approach and talk to her, but you lacked the confidence and didn't know what to say to her if you did approach. Thi…
/r/seduction13/05/25 11:06 PM
1

I make it almost a habbit if I see a woman that looks bored to talk to her. Comment about the situation or place and make her laugh and smile.
/r/seduction13/05/25 09:20 PM
1

So you're saying places like ukraine,czech,russia are the places hot European women hang out at.
/r/seduction13/05/25 07:31 PM
0

Then why do i see so many hot women in the manchester nightlife videos?
/r/seduction13/05/25 07:19 PM
-3

It's not just about looks. If you know what to say,how to say it, and when to say it. you can take home women.
/r/seduction13/05/25 07:35 AM
14

A lot of them are with the women they came there with. If you're so curious as to how they do it, ask some of them. Say "Hey I'm new to game can you give me some pointers." or "How do you approach and make out with these girls?" They might know something you don't.
/r/seduction13/05/25 07:27 AM
35

Clubs aren't the best for picking up women. It's very loud and chaotic in clubs. This is why I recommend party bars or cocktail lounges.
/r/seduction13/05/25 07:16 AM
200

Make good eye contact. Make her laugh,smile, feel at ease. Tease her in a playful manner. Say things like "No way" "I don't believe you" "Come on" "For real?" For example if you two are playing a carnival game and she misses the target say "God you suck". It's a playful tease. When you two are talking be sure to say things like "Oh really?" "tell me more about that." Get close to her. When there's a break in the conversation and she just stops and stares at you or she looks down at your lips, go…
/r/seduction12/05/25 12:03 PM
13

After we've been talking for a while and I've been sexually escalating by getting closer to her and touching her a bit there's usually a break in the conversation. She'll either look at me and just pause and smile or she'll look down at my lips and that's when I know it's the right time to go for the kiss. You'll get a feel for when the right time to kiss her is.
/r/seduction12/05/25 04:45 AM
1

I've been wanting to go there for years to do the nightlife scene. So many hot women.
/r/seduction11/05/25 08:46 PM
2

No.
/r/seduction11/05/25 08:34 PM
19

Go watch the nightlife videos of the place. It's crawling with tattoo free hot blondes rocking super tight short dresses with thier butt and underwear showing.
/r/seduction11/05/25 08:22 PM
53

Manchester UK. Tons of hot women out and about.
/r/seduction11/05/25 07:13 PM
3

You want my pickup guide? It'll help you. It's meant to help any guy that's new to game struggling to pickup women.
/r/seduction11/05/25 07:11 AM
2

I'd ask to go out to a bar so you can talk to her and drink. Get her not too drunk and pull her back to your place.
/r/seduction11/05/25 05:09 AM
1

Not unless she's REALLY into you I think most will pass. Imagine a woman that's hitting on you, but mid interaction, she tells you, "My apartment is a 50-minute train ride away." Ate going to keep talking to her or are you going to hit on a different woman that lives closer? The answer should be obvious.
/r/seduction07/05/25 07:48 AM
5

The closer you live to the bars/area of pickup the better. Most women don't wanna walk more than a 5 minute walk. Let a lone a 50 minute train ride. Get a hotel room close by on a weekend and see if that helps. If you're serious about picking up the ladies you might wanna think about moving closer to the bars. Think about it. You're a random stranger they just met and now they gotta take a 50 minute train ride back to your place and then they gotta take a another 50 min ride back just to where t…
/r/seduction07/05/25 01:36 AM
3

Women are never happy They don't like the shy nice guys and don't like the asshole guys with lots of confidence. And don't like the "players" with great game and know what they're doing.
/r/seduction07/05/25 01:25 AM
5

Yep tease and play with the ladies everywhere you go. That way when you approach on a Friday or Saturday it won't feel any different than what you normally do.
/r/seduction06/05/25 11:40 PM
1

I mean if she's out at the bars flirting with you, odds are she's DTF. Most don't have the anti-slut force fields up. Maybe the 9's and 10's do. But I very very rarely see 9's and 10's out at bars. You gotta learn to read women and flirt with them. Make them laugh,smile,feel at ease. Tease them a bit too. If she's not responding well to you, change it up. Keep adapting. If she rolls her eyes or looks disinterested, you know you're doing something majorly wrong. This never happens to me anymore a…
/r/seduction06/05/25 06:22 PM
-3

It depends on the situation and woman. Back at my place, we usually sit on my couch and then we recap the night and talk about the weird situations and people. Then I transition by saying "you know, I've been dying to know what kind of underwear you got on." Then I start unzipping her pants. After I take her pants off, I take her by the hand and guide her to my bedroom and plop her down on the bed. It's not hard but you gotta take the lead. The ladies are expecting you to make a move on them. Th…
/r/seduction06/05/25 04:40 PM
6

Never "get her number". It eliminates the need for her to be around you. It eliminates that sense of urgency that she can't leave you. Secondly you need to be sexually escalating which It seems like you're doing but then you need to go for the kiss. When she just stops and stares at you go for it. If she looks down at your lips go for it. Then go for the pull. The key for pulling is to be subtle. The more subtle you can be the better it is. So say in a slow sensual tone of voice "what are you do…
/r/seduction06/05/25 04:30 PM
6

I know. I think he's too scared to approach.
/r/seduction04/05/25 07:39 PM
13

How fancy of a place is this.
/r/seduction04/05/25 06:42 PM
26

You can still talk to her. Just walk up by her and start talking. Say "what's up?" You guys are overthinking this.
/r/seduction04/05/25 05:53 PM
1

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/r/seduction04/05/25 04:48 PM
1

Yeah vegas and manchester UK
/r/seduction04/05/25 04:42 PM
3

Yeah that too. I've banged many married ladies. But trying to daygane them is another story.
/r/seduction04/05/25 09:59 AM
2

Why not? It's a numbers game my friends the more you approach the better your odds are.
/r/seduction04/05/25 09:25 AM
1

What do you mean by "burn"?
/r/seduction04/05/25 09:23 AM
3

Approach the next one. The others don't know what your doing. For all they know your doing a survey or asking people's opinion.
/r/seduction04/05/25 09:21 AM
5

If you see an approachable woman aka not on the phone and no wedding ring, you can approach and make your move. If she's out in public she's approachable. I don't keep count how many I've approached. I just approach. If I'm not feeling it with her I move on to the next one.
/r/seduction04/05/25 09:10 AM
1

I have a pickup guide that I wrote that I hand out/give out for free to those want it. It's a culmination of over 10 years of experimentation and analysis of infield interactions. And it's the amalgamation of things that have worked well for me. Everyone that has read it has said it's completely changed thier game. So I think I'm qualified to comment about this topic.
/r/seduction04/05/25 08:09 AM
3

NYC is one of the easiest places to get laid. I believe that number. If he loves close to the bars it's very easy to pull women.
/r/seduction03/05/25 05:03 PM
2

Yes try those
/r/seduction29/04/25 04:06 PM
1

Go to divey bars
/r/seduction29/04/25 04:04 PM
1

No I mean like just then alone at the bar
/r/seduction29/04/25 04:03 PM
1

Yeah if they're in a group it's tougher to tell. Try to go to bars where people are sitting alone or not so much in groups.
/r/seduction29/04/25 04:01 PM
1

If your at a bar, and the person is sitting at the bar, that usually means they're open to being approached. If they're sitting at a table it means they wanna be left alone. You'll get a better social inution for who looks approachable the more you go out.
/r/seduction29/04/25 03:58 PM
2

Always look and feel your best. Be trimmed up, as in trim your ear hair,nose hair, shave that unibrow,trim up any long hairs on your eye brows. Take a cold shower to give your skin a nice soft smooth healthy glow. Wear collard shirts that are tucked in.
/r/seduction28/04/25 03:13 PM
2

status,fame,money,big houses,fancy cars.
/r/seduction28/04/25 08:54 AM
0

This ain't the movies. That's not how real life works. Maybe if you offer a hug.
/r/seduction28/04/25 02:11 AM
1

Why? It works just fine
/r/seduction27/04/25 10:28 PM
7

Remember all the flaws they had and dumb stuff they said and did.
/r/seduction27/04/25 05:09 PM
1

I always say "look we can still be friends but it was just a one night stand/hookup."
/r/seduction27/04/25 04:18 PM
1

Then don't worry about the drinks. Just make some small talk for a minute or two and then say "well, shall we?" As you motion your arm towards the bed like you're showing a prize.
/r/seduction27/04/25 03:25 PM
1

You don't have to drink booze. Get some orange juice or milk or soda.
/r/seduction27/04/25 02:46 PM
2

Go to the hotel bar and have a couple drinks. Flirt with her and invite her back to your hotel room. Say "let's go have a drink in my room."
/r/seduction27/04/25 02:44 PM
4

Be silly,goofy,playful, and most importantly, teasing in a playful manner. Get closer to her and make good eye contact. When she just stares at you or looks down at your lips, that's when you go for the kiss. Then you ask in a slow sensual voice "what are you doing after this?" Then say "I'd love to show you my house house/room_apartment."
/r/seduction26/04/25 07:49 PM
1

You gotta hookup with a girl first. Then after you two have had sex, ask if you wanna be fwb's. Exchange numbers and text when feeling horny.
/r/seduction26/04/25 05:16 PM
4

Dude that's all of us. Get like 3 girls that are willing to be friends with benefits. Get thier numbers and text them when your feeling randy (horny).
/r/seduction23/04/25 09:19 PM
9

Most of them are the same. They like hanging out with friends,watching movies,traveling. Find someone with more substance than that. Go to events/activities that you enjoy and talk with the women there. Like for example if you like anime go to an anime convention. Approach and talk to the women there.
/r/seduction23/04/25 05:21 PM
7

All of my experiences with older women have been great. They're more experienced and know what they want. Most give phenomenonal head. They're great for making friends with benefits with too. So overall They're pretty good.
/r/seduction23/04/25 01:19 AM
26

If she doesn't know, she's pretty oblivious. There's also teasing involved too. The push pull.
/r/seduction23/04/25 12:46 AM
154

When she laughs at everything you say and makes really good eye contact. Yeah she's flirting with you. It's not too hard to pickup on the signals she's putting out.
/r/seduction22/04/25 11:43 PM
2

Yeah, that's your problem. You gotta comment about the situation, place something happening, then introduce yourself. Make some small talk and then ask for her number. Never comment about her looks. You can lightly comment on what's she's wearing. Text her back that same night to make plans to get a drink or dinner. Approach and get as many numbers as possible.
/r/seduction22/04/25 09:11 PM
1

Approach at grocery store, walmart,target, anywhere out in public.
/r/seduction22/04/25 08:43 PM
2

Either place works to be honest.
/r/seduction22/04/25 11:39 AM
4

Maybe get a light meal at the food court. Then pull back to her place.
/r/seduction22/04/25 02:22 AM
65

Be nice and don't give off desperate vibes. Meet at a bar and get some drinks. Ask to see her house/ apartment.
/r/seduction22/04/25 02:13 AM
1

As I always say, comment first then introduce. This is so important. It makes the interaction feel more organic and natural. Versus walking up to someone and just introducing yourself right away. Make some small talk then transition to flirting. Tease her, say things line no way, come on, get out of here, I don't believe you. Make her laugh, smile, feel at ease. Get her number and text her back that night for a future meet up.
/r/seduction21/04/25 03:40 PM
2

As I always say, comment first then introduce. This is so important. It makes the interaction feel more organic and natural. Versus walking up to someone and just introducing yourself right away. Make some small talk then transition to flirting. Tease her, say things line no way, come on, get out of here, I don't believe you. Make her laugh, smile, feel at ease. Get her number and text her back that night for a future meet up.
/r/seduction21/04/25 03:40 PM
1

Just comment about the situation,place,or something happening. It can be as simple as "hey do you know of any good places to eat around here?" And then proceed from there. Introduce yourself,make some small talk. Get her number. And bam you got it.
/r/seduction20/04/25 07:17 PM
1

Just going out a lot and being comfortable in my own skin. Reputation i guess.
/r/seduction17/04/25 09:52 PM
1

I usually like to sit on the couch (right next to her) and talk for a little bit first. I like to talk about the night. Do a quick recap talk about the situations and weirdos that were out. Then I say "You know, I've been dying to know what kind of underwear you got on." And I start unzipping her pants and take them off. Then I comment about her underwear and then take her by the hand and lead her to my room and plop her down on my bed and have at it. You could also say "I'd love to show you my …
/r/seduction17/04/25 07:42 AM
1

It's going to be pretty obvious what you're hinting at but that's the point. It should be subtle yet obvious enough what you're hinting at. I've had women ask me "wanna have an after bar?". It's quite apparent what they really want. They don't wanna have an after bar they wanna get laid. I knew that from the very start. but she knew that I knew that.
/r/seduction17/04/25 07:14 AM
1

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/r/seduction16/04/25 09:36 PM
1

You want my pickup guide I wrote? It should help you out.
/r/seduction16/04/25 09:28 PM
3

They know what's up. Or when she says "oh I'll walk you home." You really think she just wants to walk you home?
/r/seduction16/04/25 07:32 PM
3

Illegal online streaming sites.
/r/seduction16/04/25 07:29 PM
1

Yep. I always do oral on her first for like 5 minutes. Then the main (inter)course.
/r/seduction16/04/25 07:25 PM
3

I do the same. When me and her are sitting on the couch talking about the night, my transition is to say, "I've been dying to know what kind of underwear you got on." And I start unzipping her pants and take them off and comment on her underwear. Then I take her by the hand and guide her to my bedroom and plop her down on the bed.
/r/seduction16/04/25 07:15 PM
26

Yeah she's hot, but minus that it's the same as being with any other one. She's a trophy girlfriend to show off to people. that's what they are in a sense the 9's and 10's. You take them on a vacation or out to eat and watch everyone "oooo" and "aaaahhhhh" over who your partner is. That's why it's not just about looks.
/r/seduction16/04/25 04:07 PM
2

I mean Friday and Saturday are the main nights everyone goes out. People do go out on Sunday-Thursday but no where near as much. So your longer weekend won't equate to everyone else's longer weekend. Just do normal night game on Friday and Saturday. If you wanna try Sunday or Monday go for it. I never had much luck those days.
/r/seduction16/04/25 11:18 AM
3

Why thank you!
/r/seduction16/04/25 07:31 AM
75

This is why you pull. After the kiss, you say in a slow, sensual tone. "What are you doing after this?" Or if you're staying in a hotel room, you say, "I'd love to show you the view of my room." Or "let's go have a drink in my/your room." It's about being subtle. The more subtle you can be, the better.
/r/seduction15/04/25 03:16 PM
1

You say something like "oh I should/ would love to show you my so and so collection. Just name something up as an excuse for her to come over. Then that's when you make a move on her.
/r/seduction15/04/25 06:53 AM
2

When my confidence was high and I was good at talking.
/r/seduction13/04/25 06:31 AM
3

Yes report back.
/r/seduction10/04/25 09:50 PM
18

Just do the usual. Meet,chat,get to know eachother, and once you two are comfortable ask to see your place or hers. It's pretty basic game.
/r/seduction10/04/25 08:50 PM
1

There you go. I thought I was old back when I was 24, my anxiety was so bad. Then I told myself "you're not even old enough to rent a car and you're brain isn't fully done developing." Your fine. That's what too much booze will do to you.
/r/seduction06/04/25 12:36 AM
1

If you drink a lot that causes anxiety. It depletes the brain of GABA which makes it so the brain can't relax. So yeah drink in moderation too.
/r/seduction06/04/25 12:25 AM
3

Eat healthy,exercise, don't drink or smoke too much, don't do drugs. You know the drill. Everything in moderation is ok. We all age, but you can slow down the process more by factors you can control.
/r/seduction06/04/25 12:07 AM
1

If she's at the bar and open to being approached, she knows what's up when you're talking to her. You won't have to drop hints as to you just wanting a one night stand. You should really read my "ultimate pickup guide" I wrote. It goes over everything. It's about a 20 minute read. It'll be life changing for you when it comes to picking up women. DM me and I can get you a link for it.
/r/seduction29/03/25 11:57 AM
2

Same here bruh. I used to really enjoy casual sex and had a lot of partners. Now I feel numb to it. Trying to find a quality person that isn't taken is difficult these days.
/r/seduction29/03/25 07:20 AM
6

Do the one second rule. Give yourself one second to determine whether or not you'd fuck her. If it's a yes engage.
/r/seduction29/03/25 07:16 AM
12

They kind of know it's a friendly opener. You gotta break the ice somehow. When a woman says "oh I'll walk you home." Do you really think she's just wants to walk you home? She wants to get laid without saying she wants to get laid. When you two are outside your house and you invite her in for a drink and she says "yeah sure!". You know what's up. You gotta pickup on the subtle cues and body language.
/r/seduction29/03/25 06:55 AM
3

You did it right. You commented first. But as you learned, looks aren't everything. For a one night stands they're fine. But trying to find a quality person is another story.
/r/seduction29/03/25 06:42 AM
3

They really appreciate it when you don't mention or say anything about their looks. I've gotten comments about that. They'll say, "You're the first guy I've talked to all night that hasn't said something about my looks." After she said that, I knew that was the winning formula/algorithm.
/r/seduction29/03/25 06:29 AM
5

You can compliment on something she's wearing. But not her looks. It's just white noise to them. They already know they're hot,beautiful,cute,adorable. They don't need someone telling them what they already know and have heard. This is especially important with the 8's 9's and 10's. If you can approach one of them and not comment about her looks you're in the small percentage of guys that are doing that.
/r/seduction29/03/25 05:19 AM
6

You never comment about her looks. They've heard it a million times and it means nothing to them. You always comment about the situation place or something happening. Then you introduce yourself. Make some small talk,flirt,sexually escalate aka get closer to her make good eye contact,go for the kiss and then go for the pull. That's how you approach and take a woman home from the bar.
/r/seduction29/03/25 05:03 AM
3

I always just ask them if they're doing anything after this. If she's not busy or doing anything I make up something to show her like "I'd love to show you my so and so collection". That should be the subtle hint/ adult code to come over. After you show her said thing (like a collection)get her a drink and turn on the TV. Be sure you sit right next to her. After you been watching TV for a bit try to go for the kiss. If she's receptive, start unzipping her pants. Take her by the hand and lead her…
/r/seduction29/03/25 02:50 AM
1

It's to get to know them and become comfortable around the other person. Generally speaking the more you talk to the other person the comfortable they become around you. It's the psychology behind it. This is why I tell guys you need to be a good talker to get good at picking up on women. They need to feel comfortable around you before you take them back home. It's a good skill to have regardless. It works good for making new friends and networking.
/r/seduction26/03/25 01:40 AM
1

Say stuff like "tell me more about that" Be sure to tease her, say stuff like "no way" "I don't believe you" "you're so full of shit" etc. You need more back and forth/push pull. The conversation will naturally flow without it being forced.
/r/seduction25/03/25 09:26 PM
9

This is the way. Have a good rotation of ladies so you're not wasting your time/putting all your eggs in one basket. This is works well for FWB. I always had at least 2-3 in my rotation that I could text for sex.
/r/seduction23/03/25 04:10 PM
28

I'd say from 25-28 I was pretty succsuful I just don't go out as much as I feel like I've conquered that scene.
/r/seduction10/03/25 07:25 AM
3

You have nothing in common other than you both wanna have a hookup/same day sex. That's why they never last. You need to find a common bond that you two have. And most quality people don't meet and bang the same day. Look elsewhere besides bars and clubs for women. Unless you just want a one night stand.
/r/seduction02/03/25 05:38 AM
45

Pretty much what you said. Go out a lot, approach a lot. Know how to read and talk to women. Escalate quickly. It helps if you live in a bigger city too. It's a numbers game. The more women you can approach the better your odds are.
/r/seduction01/03/25 09:41 PM
0

Yep and always get her number. Never let her take yours down. She'll never respond back. Women never take the initiative.
/r/seduction19/02/25 09:08 PM
2

She's just looking Let her look but don't reciprocate back too much.
/r/seduction19/02/25 03:51 AM
18

Go out all the time Be comfortable at all times in any situation and any type of person If you don't keep going out you'll fall out of practice just like anything else.
/r/seduction19/02/25 03:38 AM
10

I tried online for years and never got anywhere. IRL I got FWB's, one night stands and dates.
/r/seduction18/02/25 07:10 PM
8

Yeah people are shallow on the apps. People in real life are much better quality.
/r/seduction18/02/25 04:19 PM
36

You already figured it out. You just comment about something first. It could be what she's doing what she's looking at, etc. And then introduce yourself. Make some small talk and then ask for her number Say "well you seem pretty cool can I grab your number real quick?" Or you can ask, "What are you doing right now? And then ask if she'd like to get a drink at the nearest bar. Or a meal at a nearby restaurant.
/r/seduction18/02/25 04:12 PM
166

Yep the conversations never go anywhere and you never end up meeting up. Stay off the apps and approach in real life.
/r/seduction18/02/25 03:57 PM
2

I've always found party bars to be the best places to go for pulling for sex.
/r/seduction17/02/25 03:13 AM
1

Say "I don't really know why you care but I'm I didn't get married nor do I plan on getting married."
/r/seduction15/02/25 08:29 PM
1

lol
/r/seduction12/02/25 06:47 PM
10

I tell guys to be well trimmed. As in make sure there's no ear hair, nose hair, eye brow hair sticking out. Be decently dressed. Women pay attention to how a guy is dressed. Especially his shoes. Be confident in your own skin. Women can sense when a guy isn't confident and is nervous. Don't use pickup lines. They're beyond cheesy and don't work. Just comment about what's happening and then introduce yourself. Make her laugh, smile, and feel at ease. When a woman is comfortable around you she's m…
/r/seduction12/02/25 04:02 PM
16

I give myself 1 second. I look at her and if I'd bang her I engage. There's no need to take longer than that.
/r/seduction12/02/25 03:29 PM
10

Never comment about her looks, ever. Like you said they've heard it a million times and are tired of hearing it. Comment about the situation place or something happening first. Then introduce yourself. Then make some small talk.
/r/seduction09/02/25 03:08 PM
1

Rough usually means something along the lines of fast sex. So thrust her hard and fast. When your doing her doggy style hold her arms from behind her straight back. Be in command.
/r/seduction04/02/25 07:15 AM
0

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/r/seduction03/02/25 06:56 PM
10

Normally you say "I'd love to take you out to dinner sometime" or "Hey lets grab a coffee or a drink sometime". And afterwords you kiss her and make another time for a date. You keep doing this and eventually it kind of just settles in as boyfriend and girlfriend. I never heard of someone asking "Oh hey you wanna be my girlfriend?" lol. After you two have been seeing each-other for a while it just kind of settles in.
/r/seduction03/02/25 06:11 PM
25

It can help a little I suppose. Being around women all the time can desensitize you and make it easier to be around different women.
/r/seduction03/02/25 05:42 PM
-5

A lot of ladies like the older, more mature look. It's just a fact. I think that's why baldness developed. It was to show the make was oldrr,wiser,more developed.
/r/seduction03/02/25 05:33 PM
3

Why wouldn't you want him to be bald?
/r/seduction03/02/25 05:30 PM
4

Johnny Sins probably could too. He's so good looking he could get any woman he wanted.
/r/seduction03/02/25 05:16 PM
141

I mean it's literally their job to get paid to bang women. And the women are getting paid to bang the guy. It's all scripted and predetermined. So I think most porn stars game isn't any better or worse than anyone else's.
/r/seduction03/02/25 05:02 PM
5

You gotta tease her Say things like "no way!" "Come on" "I don't believe you" "your so full of it" Make her laugh smile and feel at ease. Give her some shit in a good way.
/r/seduction28/01/25 03:33 PM
6

Nothing
/r/seduction28/01/25 01:59 PM
36

You ask her if she's working. A lot of times the first thing that'll come out of her mouth is "where are you staying?"
/r/seduction28/01/25 12:56 PM
455

Las Vegas You only have to talk to a woman there for like 15 minutes and she'll go back to your room.
/r/seduction28/01/25 02:32 AM
2

"Say this one line and women will melt at your feet"
/r/seduction23/01/25 06:10 AM
5

You need to be sexually escalating. You do this by getting closer to her and start teasing her. Say things like "no way!" "Come on" "I don't belive you" Start lightly touching her like a brief hug,holding her hand, or a high five all work. After you've been flirting with her the next step is the kiss. She might look down at your lips or she might look at you and smile. Both of these are indicators that she wants you to kiss her. Then you ask "what are you doing after this? " And then you take he…
/r/seduction22/01/25 02:56 AM
1

This is where flirting comes in. The eye contact is good but you need to be teasing her. Say things line "no way!" "Come on" "I don't believe you". Give her some shit in a good way. Get closer to her and start lightly touching her. And when she gives you that devil look in her eyes and smiles at you go for the kiss. She might look down at your lips too. These are both signals she wants you to kiss her. Then you go for the pull. In a soft sensual voice you ask "what are you doing after this? " An…
/r/seduction22/01/25 02:33 AM
11

I get stared at a lot by women too. They say "You look like an actor." that doesn't mean they're interested in talking to me or getting my number for a meetup or want to hookup with me. Try and talk to them. If they're interested they'll let you know. It depends no the place too If you're in a bar this is usually a sign she's interested in talking to you and is a good possibility for her hooking up with you. The setting matters too like I said earlier if you're in a bar or club it can have a dif…
/r/seduction21/01/25 10:32 AM
3

If your out and about during the day get her number and take her out on a date like dinner or drinks and then invite her back to your place for a movie, you tube, play video games etc. If it's night game at a bar you need to sexually escalate. Get closer to her start touching her a little. And when the time is right go for the kiss. then ask "What are you doing after this?" and if she says "nothing" say "I'd live to show you my dorm room" And she should say yes.
/r/seduction21/01/25 07:03 AM
5

If you don't have a place to pull it's much tougher. You can try staying at a friends house or get a hotel room. But a place to pull back to is key for pickup. As you've seen it's tougher to hint at going back to he place. You could say "I'd love to see your house/apartment/room"
/r/seduction21/01/25 12:46 AM
-3

I made a guide called "The Ultimate Pickup Guide" I'm a just about done with it. This version is like 98% done. It'll set you up for a good time. https://fastupload.io/4f67b2376e43a145
/r/seduction20/01/25 07:06 AM
1

I just always say we'll you seem pretty cool. Can I grab your number real quick? Then you can text her back that same night to meet up for drinks or dinner. Or you can just say "I'd love to take you out sometime. When are you free next?" Don't overcomplicated it.
/r/seduction19/01/25 04:32 PM
3

Yes, report back. Remember, it doesn't have to be a full-on makeout session, but a 1 or 2 second kiss will do.
/r/seduction19/01/25 02:55 PM
4

When your flirting you should be sexually escalating too. This means making good eye contact, getting closer to her, lightly touching her like a brief hug or a high five. After a little bit of this she should give you a look, like a devil look in her eyes and kind of smile at you. Or she'll just look at you and not say anything. That's when you go for the kiss. She might look down at your lips too. You have to pickup on the subtle body language cues she's giving off. This is what many guys lack.…
/r/seduction19/01/25 11:44 AM
1

Yep Don't ovrrthink it
/r/seduction19/01/25 06:43 AM
2

You just gotta make some small talk and then transition to flirting. You can really talk about anything. Ask how their night is going or if they've seen anything weird or what their plans are for tonight and expand off of that. After you do that there should be more of a reciprocating back and forth. But yes it's the guys job to lead. Remember to keep it light and flirty. Make them laugh and smile(which you already did) and keep the overall mood relaxed and easy going. The problem with 2 girls i…
/r/seduction17/01/25 02:07 PM
0

I just wrote a pickup guide called "The UIltimate Pickup Guide" I go over pretty much everything from my years of going out and studying game. I also go over Vegas nightgame and day game. Let me know if you're interested in it.
/r/seduction17/01/25 03:16 AM
4

Skip the boring stuff like what she does for work, where she's from, none of that really matters. You need to tease her when you're talking to her. So you say stuff like "No way!" "get out of here" "Come on" "Really?" "I don't believe you." Ask her what she likes to do for fun and then expand off of that. You could say "tell me more about that" or "How did you get started with that." Be sure you're getting closer to her and making good eye contact. Make her laugh and smile and feel at ease. When…
/r/seduction14/01/25 04:20 AM
1

If you're going out always carry 2 condoms with you. In case one breaks or she wants to do it again. A lot of times she wants to do it twice. In the taxi be sure to be sexually escalating still to keep the sexual tension going. Kiss her and grab her boobs. Rub her crotch lightly. It sounds to me like you weren't very prepared. It happens but be ready for next time.
/r/seduction13/01/25 07:28 AM
4

Buy better clothes Get a better vehicle live in a nicer aprtment Get a gym membership and start working out Clean up your house/paint it/organize it you kind of have to think like a woman and think what would a woman want from me.
/r/seduction11/01/25 11:57 PM
1

Get a hotel room in town or stay with friends in town that are ok with you pulling girls back to their place. Logistics are key when ur comes to pulling.
/r/seduction11/01/25 02:06 AM
8

This ALWAYS wear one!
/r/seduction11/01/25 01:38 AM
7

Flirting is getting to know someone in a playful teasing manner. So you'd ask "what do you like to do for fun?" And then tease her response by saying "no way!" " really?" Say "tell me more about that". People love to talk about themselves.
/r/seduction11/01/25 01:18 AM
2

Yeah, you can try. Logistics are key. Always try to have a place to pull back to for sex. And remember to keep sexually escalating throughout the entire interaction. You don't want LMR last-minute rejection/resistance. If you two are in the back of a cab, keep making out with her and touching her boobs. You wanna keep that sexual tension going.
/r/seduction11/01/25 01:13 AM
4

If she has a place to go back to, I guess. This would be better if you're in a place like Vegas and say "I'd love to see the view from your room." Or "let's go have a drink in your room."
/r/seduction11/01/25 01:00 AM
7

Yeah I try to be as honest as I can. This method/system has worked well for me for many years. And yes, the underwear line works well too. It makes them laugh and smile. It's a good transition from the talking to the sex.
/r/seduction11/01/25 12:16 AM
2

The underwear line is the smooth transition from talking to sex.
/r/seduction11/01/25 12:03 AM
78

You wanna go out to a party bar early around 10 P.M. When you see a girl you want to approach comment about the situation, place, or something happening. Then introduce yourself. Make some small talk for a couple minutes. Then start flirting. Tease her by saying things like "no way!" "Get out of here" "come on". Start getting closer to her. Keep flirting, and when she just stares at you or looks down at your lips and smiles go for the kiss. It doesn't have to be a makeout session but a 1-2 secon…
/r/seduction10/01/25 11:11 PM
2

Buy cheap "good clothes" Go on ebay or amazon and buy yourself a couple cheap collard shirts for like $25 a piece. Here's a link for some https://www.ebay.com/itm/183876329908?_skw=collard+shirt+slim&epid=19050824430&itmmeta=01JH7W8HS60DXJ2SHV6V66TEZ9&hash=item2acfe221b4:g:lw0AAOSwV4FgOC5-&itmprp=enc%3AAQAJAAAA8HoV3kP08IDx%2BKZ9MfhVJKmL9bJdAb287z4NXGh1iQmvIf8LoDf%2BkopZvFC7OfgdoNkVdMj8AlsRnLLWNDg8%2BuaiaKop7MbKoo%2BqlgRz70XksMIVgsfNGmSczvdAYGJiz9moBbP4lY%2BGGjxpCPYKdnc6M%2FvWYo%2BVjYM72HO5ctNATT…
/r/seduction10/01/25 10:47 AM
6

The casino bars have been the best place for hooking up for me personally. The nightclubs advertise like they're a great spot for hooking up but they're really not though. It's so packed and loud with the strobe lights and confetti and misters you can't really have a conversation with anyone. the only thing you really have to watch for is the working girls/prostitutes that hang out at the bars. They always ask "where are you staying at?"
/r/seduction06/01/25 08:29 AM
-3

It doesn't matter. Maybe I'm trans
/r/seduction05/01/25 09:47 AM
-1

I said "I wanted to get good with the ladies" in the first sentacne I wanted to get laid more.
/r/seduction05/01/25 09:14 AM
-1

My social skills sucked and I was kind of the shy nerdy guy that wanted to get good with the ladies. I ditched the computer guy look and got contacts and cut my hair. I dressed better by wearing collard shirts nice jeans and dress shoes. I studied game mainly from watching guys like simple pickup and Vince Kelvin on youotube. It took a lot of going out and grinding my social skills and becoming conformable in the bar/party environment and establishing a good social intuition. After about 4-5 yea…
/r/seduction05/01/25 08:52 AM
21

I'd say something like "Just to let you know so and so bar is lame as fuck tonight." And then they'd say "so where should we go?" then recommend a more happening bar". and then guide them to said bar and have a drink with them.
/r/seduction05/01/25 01:35 AM
10

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/r/seduction05/01/25 12:08 AM
120

That's the thing. I don't compliment. they've heard it a million times and it means nothing to them. you're better off commenting about the situation,place, or something happening.
/r/seduction04/01/25 09:24 PM
0

Yep it's much easier IRL. People aren't going to just ghost you or stop talking to you. Not unless you do something terribly wrong.
/r/seduction04/01/25 09:21 PM
1

good for you I find this not the case for me
/r/seduction04/01/25 08:26 PM
1

Because the guy is supposed to be leading the interaction and women expect to be approached. If your not feeling the conversation going anywhere within the first couple minutes say "Well it was nice talking to you" and move on to the next available girl. It's pure numbers. hte more you approach the better your odds are.
/r/seduction04/01/25 09:41 AM
0

you should be approaching Find a woman sitting or standing alone and approach her.
/r/seduction04/01/25 09:38 AM
1

If it works for you great. I never got them to work. I have no problem pulling women from bars and clubs. It's more fun IRL too. I can feel the sexual tension growing between us,
/r/seduction04/01/25 09:24 AM
6

If you got the system down go for it. If you live in small town or city the odds are against you.
/r/seduction04/01/25 05:41 AM
20

Yep If you want a lay go to a party bar. If you want a girlfriend approach at a mall,store, coffee,shop, etc It's not hard
/r/seduction04/01/25 01:44 AM
100

The apps are a joke Approach in real life There's way more guys to women on there and women never follow up/through with messages. The quality of people IRL is much better too.
/r/seduction04/01/25 01:24 AM
2

No pointers really. Just act normal and be yourself.
/r/seduction02/01/25 08:56 PM
1

I've been with a lot of black women. A lot of guys won't touch one for whatever reason. I think they have better booty's and are more easy going than white girls.
/r/seduction02/01/25 06:51 PM
1

You sit next to a woman that's alone and strike up a conversation. You see a woman standing alone stand next to her and start talking to her.
/r/seduction28/12/24 11:21 PM
0

Go to bars and clubs
/r/seduction28/12/24 11:17 PM
0

Just try to make conversation with them. Act normal and don't try so hard.
/r/seduction28/12/24 11:04 PM
9

I just hit on them like normal and ignore the fact that they have a boyfriend or husband. I've taken home MANY so called "taken" women. It doesn't mean anything.
/r/seduction28/12/24 06:33 PM
3

All being married changes is taxes and some other legal stuff. Other than that it's just man made. The person can still get it and leave you for no reason.
/r/seduction25/12/24 12:09 AM
4

You gotta flirt and sexually escalate with her. The mood and setting has to be appropriate though. So like at that party it would've been ideal. Try to go to another party with her and initiate with her. Say " I remember you. Let's go get a drink." And then you talk to her, flirt and tease her, get closer to her and then go for the kiss. And then find a room where the both of you can go back to and have sex. Afterwords ask "you wanna be friends with benefits?" And if she says yes exchange number…
/r/seduction24/12/24 12:31 PM
1

I'd say 4-5 years. After that it should all be the same.
/r/seduction24/12/24 12:24 PM
3

I wouldn't hold my breathe is what I'm saying.
/r/seduction20/12/24 02:56 PM
6

If she's not putting serious effort forth she's not that serious or interested. If she cared she make time.
/r/seduction20/12/24 02:54 PM
3

The main thing is to tease her. Say things like "really?" "Come on." "No way!" " I don't believe you!"
/r/seduction19/12/24 06:24 PM
1

That seems like a lot of work.
/r/seduction19/12/24 05:19 PM
1

This. I'd approach in the mall clothing stores. Remember, comment about what she's looking at then introduce yourself. Make some small talk then get her number. Text her back that night to meet up later for a drink or dinner.
/r/seduction19/12/24 10:59 AM
0

I think you scream 2 things. You can't escalate fast enough in a night and you are too picky. It's just a one night stand/lay. She ain't gonna be your wife or girlfriend.
/r/seduction18/12/24 09:31 PM
2

i think the magic of the encounter is lost if you don't do it the same night. I like the randomness of a woman I've never mt and we have sex within a couple hours if that.
/r/seduction18/12/24 08:17 PM
1

Since when do you not bang a girl the same night you meet her? I always do.
/r/seduction18/12/24 07:57 PM
-2

This happens all the time. That's why you need to escalate and do the deed the same night. Never exchange numbers with her except after you two have banged. Do you really think she's going to remember anything you talked about after being intoxicated? I doubt it. When you walked her to her house you should've hinted at coming in by saying "I'd love to see your house, you should give me a tour." In her drunken state she'd probably say "Yeah sure come on in." and as she shows you her room that's w…
/r/seduction18/12/24 07:16 PM
8

Yep. Use common sense and be defensive about going somewhere you've never been.
/r/seduction17/12/24 10:32 PM
2

Hey you learn by doing. I'm glad your out and about and gaming.
/r/seduction17/12/24 10:10 PM
2

I've pulled many women from bars and this seems to work best.
/r/seduction17/12/24 10:08 PM
1

I know it's possible to do. I'm just saying she ain't gonna go back to your apartment or room for no reason. She wants to get laid and have sex.
/r/seduction17/12/24 08:22 PM
74

If she seems super friendly and too easy to game then something might be up. If she's a local that's another red flag. S scam that' not too uncommon is she says "Oh hey lets go back to your room" and then when you two are in your room she says "Why don't you go freshen up for me in the bathroom" and then she puts sleeping drug in your drink and then when you come out she says "cheers" and you two drink and then you fall asleep from the drug and she takes your wallet,keys,phone, and any other val…
/r/seduction17/12/24 08:21 PM
0

I mean if you two are making out and she's smiling and happy I think that's a green light for sex. After you take off her pants and underwear and she still hasn't said anything and seems to be enjoying the moment, I think you're good.
/r/seduction17/12/24 08:10 PM
5

I agree with not going in the bathroom but I don't agree with waiting until morning for the sex. The magic of the interaction gets lost if you don't keep it going. Maybe talk for a bit to sober up then go for the sex. There's a difference between being blackout drunk and not knowing where you are and intoxicated but feeling good. 9 times out of ten it's the latter. Unless she's passed out drunk or puking her guts out go for it. I've never had any problems.
/r/seduction17/12/24 07:51 PM
5

I never do this, unless she guides my hands in her pants. I know of a guy that did this and got charged with sexual assault so be careful. A better time to do this is when you two are in the back of the cab/car/limo/ and you two are making out. Touch her pussy and rub it from the outside over her pants. If she's wearing a dress/skirt reach up her dress and rub her pussy on the outside of her underwear. If she's not wearing any underwear just rub her pussy. Sometimes she'll guide your fingers in …
/r/seduction17/12/24 07:34 PM
14

Say in a soft sensual voice "What are you doing after this?" And if shes "nothing" say "I'd love to show you my house".
/r/seduction17/12/24 07:15 PM
1

I tell them I'm not gonna be with just you. And then they get mad and leave. All the women I've had on rotation knew they weren't the only ones I was having sex with. And most were fine with it as I wasn't the only one they were having sex with too so it was a mutual understanding. Just keep it as sex and nothing more with these ladies. You can be friends and talk a bit before and after but don't get too attached. It's called FWB for a reason. You're friends with sexual benefits. Don't let their…
/r/seduction16/12/24 06:57 AM
2

I try. Too many guys struggle to get laid.
/r/seduction15/12/24 06:48 PM
3

Couple of takeaways. If you're out pulling for sex ALWAYS have a place to pull her back to. Whether it be your own place a hotel room it doesn't matter. The taking her outside to get her away from her friends to kiss her was a great move! Isolate her so you two can build the sexual tension together. You could've suggested going to a different bar together to get away from her friends while you were alone with her. The friends cock blocking is always a problem. You can try the line "just text you…
/r/seduction15/12/24 02:42 PM
2

Remember the conversation has to feel organic and natural for both of you. If it's not it becomes awkward pretty quickly. This is why I always say comment about what she's doing or looknig at or the about the place or something happening. That way it's a mutual thing to talk about. After you comment introduce yourself. You can keep talking about what she was doing or the place etc. then afterwords ask for her number. Say "well you seem pretty chill, can I grab your number real quick?" And after …
/r/seduction15/12/24 01:57 PM
2

Report back
/r/seduction15/12/24 07:11 AM
5

Strip clubs are just a tease my friend. Nothing more and nothing less. The girls act like they're your best friend. She's only interested in one thing and that's your wallet. If you wanna try and get lucky go to a party bar early around 9:30-10:00 and start approaching as much as you can.
/r/seduction14/12/24 11:42 AM
30

You need to escalate by getting closer to her and lightly touching her. When you've been flirting with her and teasing her for a bit, you'll know when the time is right to kiss her. Yes you're going to have to kiss her. You don't have to have a full on make out session with her but just a second or two kiss on the lips works. She'll be looking down at your lips and smiling, that's when you go for it. The you ask in a soft sensual voice "What are you doing after this?" if she says "nothing " say …
/r/seduction14/12/24 09:13 AM
1

Remember to comment about the situation si the band would be great at this point. Then introduce yourself. Then make some small talk and then offer a tour of your house.
/r/seduction13/12/24 04:20 PM
1

It's to get laid and try to get a girlfriend with whoever you want. It's a skill. And it's a skill a lot of guys lack if you haven't noticed. When your seductions skills are high your confidence is high. You can talk to and approach anyone with ease and start a conversation right off the bat. Talking to 9's and 10's is much easier now. I know the shit testing they do. And how to reciprocate back. Imagine taking a trip to L.A. or Miami and seeing all the drop dead gorgeous women. And when you're …
/r/seduction10/12/24 05:40 PM
0

I'd say "If you wanna look at it that way you can, but how about seeing it as a youthful ride to the past. Relive some of those old memories.
/r/seduction10/12/24 05:22 PM
1

You experiment around. If it doesn't work move on to the next woman. I usually do what's tried and true for the most part.
/r/seduction10/12/24 05:08 PM
3

Pleasure as in sexual pleasure? Do what he asks and wants. As long as it's within reason. If he wants to 69 then get on top of him. If he wants you to blow him, blow him. I always suggest going out to eat to a fine dining restaurant every six months to show you still are about them.
/r/seduction09/12/24 09:16 AM
4

This ^^^^^ Keep branching off what she's telling you. Be sure to say things like "Really" "No way!" "Come on." Be sure to tease her a bit too. People love to talk about themselves. Say "Tell me more about that." And you'll see the smile on her face. Get closer to her and lightly toucher her. When the time is right go for the kiss.
/r/seduction07/12/24 02:11 PM
4

My best advice is to get off the apps and start approaching in real life. Get as many numbers as you can and text them back to make plans for a date like drinks or dinner. the apps are a waste of time and a joke. Quality people aren't on them.
/r/seduction29/11/24 03:28 PM
1

I mean the ones that are on there just for that. Yeah they do. That's why I always ask. What are you looking for.
/r/seduction28/11/24 03:07 AM
1

I always start of by asking what are you looking for on here? I'd she's says "something casual" or " a hookup" you know you got the right kind of person. Ask to meet up for a drink at a bar. After you've bantered for a bit say "I'd love to show you my house." And take her home and bang her.
/r/seduction27/11/24 03:08 PM
1

I mean she can just be looknig at you or checking out the scenery. It doesn't really mean anything. If she looks at you and smiles or waves then approach. But don't let pure eye contact be the only determination that makes you approach.
/r/seduction26/11/24 03:33 PM
14

You walk around a store,mall,park, anywhere really and start approaching. You can talk to them for a bit and ask what they're doing after this and then ask to get a drink or even a light meal(or full meal) at a near by restaurant and then after your done drinking or eating invite them back to your place. Or you could say "I'd love to see your house/apartment". And then you make your move on her (god that sounds predatory lol). They key is to get her comfortable around you. And every woman is dif…
/r/seduction26/11/24 06:33 AM
13

I like to ask questions to help build some tension. I also like to get closer to her to build some tension. The way you say things matter to. Try to say it in a slower sensual tone. Not everything but at certain times.
/r/seduction26/11/24 02:10 AM
2

Yep. I'm basically ignoring her request and doing what I wanna do. It shows confidence and dominance. It also keeps the interaction going. You don't wanna just sit there awkwardly doing nothing because she doesn't want to progress forward because of a lame excuse. Keep pushing forward. A lot of times they'll change their mind If you nudge them along.
/r/seduction22/11/24 08:25 PM
3

What I mean is it doesn't really matter. We both know why we're here. So why waste time chit chatting about useless info?
/r/seduction22/11/24 01:12 PM
8

You gotta be assertive and dominant around these types of women. They do this to weed guys out. Don't be that guy that just gives up. That's what they want. If you won't be dominant, they'll find someone else that will be. Remember your the guy your supposed to be leading. I'm glad your trying to pull 9's and 10's. Remember she didn't go back to your apartment for no reason. She wants to get laid. A line that I like to use to transition from the talking to the sex is "I've been dying to know wha…
/r/seduction22/11/24 09:45 AM
8

There's usually a lot of resistance to 9's and 10's sleeping with someone or having a one night stand. If she's gives you some LMR you're going to have to counter back. 9's and 10's are notorious for shit testing. If she says she wants a date first I'd say "And what'll that tell you? My favorite color? My favorite movie? It's all the same in the end." And then I'd go for the kiss.
/r/seduction22/11/24 08:17 AM
1

Yeah that's why it's important to go out early and approach as much as you can. If you're not feeling the conversation going anywhere within the first couple minutes move on to the next girl.
/r/seduction21/11/24 07:40 AM
2

This is what you do to get yourself into the mindset. When you look at a woman give yourself one second to determine whether or not you'd fuck her. If it's a yes engage. It should be a yes for like 95%-98% of the women you see. You have to realize that it's just a one night stand/lay. She's not gonna be your girlfriend or your wife. If you want to date higher quality women you need to take steps to improve yourself. A high quality woman wants to be with a high quality guy. Make more money,drive …
/r/seduction20/11/24 01:43 AM
5

This is a decent question. You can ask her on the spot what she's doing at so and so date and time and ask her out to dinner. But you'll want her number to keep in touch with her in case if she has to cancel or has other plans. When it comes to night game never get her number. When you give a woman your number it eliminates the need/urgency for her to be around you. After you've hooked up with her, then you can exchange numbers if you want to. This is a great way to make FWB(Friends with benefit…
/r/seduction19/11/24 01:12 PM
3

No it does not. for years I tried way too hard and over analyzed. When I just acted normal and was myself things went way better.
/r/seduction19/11/24 11:10 AM
16

I think you're overthinking this Just comment about the situation place or something happening and then introduce yourself. This way the interaction feels organic and natural. Never comment about her looks or what she's wearing. It's irrelevant and they've heard it a million times. After you've introduced make some small talk for a couple minutes and if it's day game ask for her number. Say something like "Well you seem pretty cool/chill can I grab your number real quick?" and when you do get it…
/r/seduction19/11/24 03:35 AM
1

Those are good to break the touch boundary.
/r/seduction18/11/24 09:01 AM
1

Is he trying to get dates or trying to take women back to his place? A lot of women will just give you the number to be nice and then cancel the pans as a form of rejection. This is why getting a lot of numbers is key.
/r/seduction17/11/24 11:38 AM
4

You need to be sexually escalating. That's the number one thing most guys lack. Get closer to her. Get in her personal space,you'll feel the vibe change. Start touching her more, even something as simple as touching your feet or knees together to break the touch boundary. And when the time is right go for the kiss. This really sets the mood for sex.
/r/seduction17/11/24 10:35 AM
17

Be confident in your own skin. Make women laugh smile and feel at ease.
/r/seduction13/11/24 01:17 PM
1

When it comes to the kissing part. After you've been talking,flirting, and sexually escalating you'll know when the time is right to kiss her. Sometimes she'll be looking down at your lips, that's when you go for it. Other times there will be a break/pause in the conversation and she just stares at you, go for it. If she's laughing and laughing and laughing, go for it. For the pull or getting her back to your place you say something like "I'd love to show you my house" or "I'd love to show you t…
/r/seduction11/11/24 11:21 AM
7

I go to party bars and talk to the women sitting or standing alone. I do the basic night game system and take them home. It's really not that hard to do you just have to go out a lot and approach the opportunities that you see.
/r/seduction10/11/24 07:36 AM
2

I just go "next" and find another girl and try not to make the same mistake again.
/r/seduction05/11/24 05:39 AM
15

I was at a bar. This girl that I've seen there before is doing shots back to back and wants me in a group picture. She asks me "do you have condoms?" I say "yeah I do". She says "will you take me home? " And I say "I'd love to". The whole ordeal was probably all said and done in under 10 minutes.
/r/seduction04/11/24 06:08 PM
2

Yep you got the idea
/r/seduction04/11/24 03:10 AM
11

You kind of keep branching off. And before you know it you'll be talking about something completely different than what you started you with.
/r/seduction03/11/24 06:26 PM
-38

The one that I like to use that gets a good laugh from the ladies is "Well get a load of you, you're a tough little cookie and a righteous babe all in one."
/r/seduction01/11/24 08:57 PM
3

I don't use pickup lines. I just comment about the situation,place, or something happening.
/r/seduction29/10/24 03:02 AM
1

You can say stuff like "No way!" "I don't believe you!" "Tell me more about that." "Oh really?" "Come on, for real?" "You're pulling my chain." You get the idea. Tease her in a playful manner.
/r/seduction22/10/24 12:29 PM
62

Or a common one is they had a kid together from a one night stand or fling and now their together. That's very common.
/r/seduction19/10/24 09:58 PM
2

that's the next step. you gotta set the tone and mood by going for it. wait for an opportunity an d try to go for it. If she turns away wait a little bit longer.
/r/seduction19/10/24 08:38 PM
11

Get a drink with her at the bar and get close to her. When she looks down at your lips go for the kiss and ask in a soft sensual voice "What are you doing after this?" and if she says "nothing" go for the pull. "say I'd love to show you my place"
/r/seduction19/10/24 08:32 PM
1

Be sure to use lube and guide it in towards your lower back much like a tampon.
/r/seduction15/10/24 10:10 AM
35

I never comment about a womans looks ever. They've heard it a million times. "You're hot. You're cute." "you're style is cool." "I love your (insert clothing here)." They've all had enough of it. And I don't blame them. You comment about the situation,place, or something happening first. That way, she's not the center of attention. It doesn't feel like you're approaching her, and she's what you're after. It just feels like you're making conversation with her. The interaction feels more organic a…
/r/seduction15/10/24 05:02 AM
21

I got news for you most women don't give a shit what your apartment is like. As long as you got a place to go back to with a bed that's all they care about.
/r/seduction12/10/24 03:41 PM
2

get yourself some sound proof drywall https://www.lowes.com/pd/QuietRock-Common-1-2-in-x-4-ft-x-8-ft-Actual-0-5-in-x-4-ft-x-8-ft-500-Drywall-Panel/3069747
/r/seduction09/10/24 04:30 AM
21

Remember to flirt when you're talking to her. Tease her by saying this like "no way! "I don't believe you!" "Really you think that?". Your logic is a major game killer. Try to be playful, goofy, and illogical. This will make her laugh and feel at ease around you. You should be sexually escalating while you're flirting. The first step of sexually escalating is getting closer to her. Get in her personal space. You'll feel the vibe change when you do this. Make good eye contact and start lightly to…
/r/seduction06/10/24 03:58 PM
2

It's hard to tell. This is why you put out "feeler bits" or feeler tells as I call it. I'd ask her something kind of sexual like "How much fun do you have in this room?" and if she says "Oh lots!" then you know you're probably on the right track. Try to get closer to her and say "maybe you could show me how you have fun." And if she smiles or laughs you know what's up. The key is to always be subtle. You never wanna say "Oh how many guys have you fucked in here?" or "How often do you have sex on…
/r/seduction06/10/24 09:09 AM
3

You need to be a good talker with confidence and comfortable in your own skin. Read about seduction and watch seducers on YouTube.
/r/seduction02/10/24 02:27 PM
3

Ask her what she likes or wants. Does she want you with a six pack of abs? If you donlt know what to work on you're playing a guessing game.
/r/seduction02/10/24 02:11 PM
2

If you're not comfortable in your own skin or happy with yourself, change it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YUKci-qdK5k
/r/seduction02/10/24 02:04 PM
8

I recommend role play for couples. So for example say your wife is really into construction workers. Get a sexy construction worker outfit and role play with that. When your in the bathroom before going to bed, put it on and walk out and start role playing. That'll make her face smile and surprise her.
/r/seduction02/10/24 01:54 PM
1

you gotta ask or you'll never now. Or you could just say "Well you seem pretty chill, can I get your number real quick?" and then text her back that night. The point is he needs to get comfortable initiating a conversation with a random woman, holding a conversation, and asking for her number. this takes practice.
/r/seduction02/10/24 08:21 AM
6

You ask her "How long have you been working here" after she replies say "do you like it?" and make some more small talk for a little bit. Then ask for her number and say "I'd love to take you out sometime." Text her back that same night and try to make plans to meetup for dinner.
/r/seduction02/10/24 06:42 AM
-7

I'll buy a woman a drink just to get the conversation/ interaction going and maybe a shot or two.
/r/seduction28/09/24 10:32 PM
3

If you're out and about dress in a tight short mini dress with heels. You will get approached. Be sure to look at guys and smile. You can even, approach guys and talk to them. OMG did I actually say that? Yes the ladies can make the initiative and approach and start a conversation. And then you ask them "What's your number?" and then bam there you go.
/r/seduction27/09/24 08:12 AM
111

You tell her "Yeah I got standards."
/r/seduction25/09/24 09:42 AM
16

I teach everyone my basic system for pickup that's Tl;DR or the bottom line when you see an approachable woman do the following in order Comment about situation place or something happening Introduce yourself Make some small talk Ask for number (if it's day game) then text her back that night to make plans for a date like coffee or dinner etc. Flirt Sexually escalate Kiss Pull Now you know the basic system for day and night game There's a little more to night game then the day game And as I alwa…
/r/seduction18/09/24 11:44 AM
4

When you see a woman standing and watching something, do your routine. Comment about what's going on and then introduce yourself. Keep making some small talk and then transition to flirting. You could then say "Oh lets go check out ____________" and then you two are both walking together and talking together. Maybe get something to eat or a drink and continue talking. You could ask her "So what are you doing after this?" and then ask her to get a drink at a local pub. From there it's typical nig…
/r/seduction17/09/24 08:12 AM
1

Anchorage isn't the best place for nightlife. Bar hop around early and see what you can find.
/r/seduction17/09/24 02:07 AM
1

When I was in Anchorage I found Chilkoot Charlies to be a good spot for pickup. It's a great party bar that's big.
/r/seduction16/09/24 10:20 AM
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