Drunk or sober for night game?

Vox_Dissidens · 2025-12-08T01:07:13+00:00

Drunk game is fun, and definitely makes approaching easier, but you don’t improve as much from each interaction because you’re sort of borrowing social confidence instead of building it.

Personally, I did the decreasing tactic and it worked well for me.

WhatsTheAnswerDude · 2025-12-08T01:18:11+00:00

If you can't do it without alcohol....you don't exactly have game.....

Acrobatic-Show3732 · 2025-12-08T01:20:21+00:00

Pros do It sober.

burncushlikewood · 2025-12-08T01:22:45+00:00

It's not good to be dependent on alcohol to give you confidence, nothing wrong with having a drink but it shouldn't be something that's required.

dismalprognosis · 2025-12-08T01:31:36+00:00

A little alcohol makes it easier

Unless you're getting blackout drunk, you can still learn from it

Severe_Pass7567 · 2025-12-08T01:36:09+00:00

Dance 🕺🗣️

No_Fan6078 · 2025-12-08T01:45:18+00:00

Do it sober, it will help you to learn faster

Davus_P · 2025-12-08T21:01:56+00:00

Alcohol is a crutch. You don't want to be in a position where you have to rely on it. Then again, I don't think there's anything wrong about having a beer or two in a social setting

puma085 · 2025-12-09T07:04:01+00:00

I think drunk game is fun and I like it a lot but I still think doing sober is the way to go . Drunk game can get out of controll pretty fast. especially when some girls invit you to drink with them. When you are already little tipsy when approaching them and the girls chose some potent drinks to drink with them it can into the totally wasted territory rather quick. Especially when you are not a alcoho lconnoisseur. At one instance some girls invited me to have some cocktails with them. Was total noob about cocktails and did not realised that they ordered some very strong cocktail. So got from tipsy and flirty from drunk really fast and got nothing out of the evening.

One_Leadership6385 · 2025-12-09T10:21:46+00:00

Here’s the real answer from someone who’s pulled hundreds of same-night lays:

**Phase 1 (first 1–2 years of serious night game):**
1–3 drinks max. Just enough to kill the initial AA and loosen the body language. You still need the buzz to force yourself to open when your brain screams “don’t.”

**Phase 2 (once you’re calibrated and approach on autopilot):**
Switch to 100 % sober or “fake drinking” (club soda + lime in a short glass, or just nurse one drink all night).

Why the switch works like steroids:

- Your escalation becomes ruthless. Drunk-you settles for makeouts and Instagram closes. Sober-you reads the tiny buying signals and actually says “Let’s get out of here” when she’s ready.
- Pull percentage 3–5x’s. Alcohol kills your ability to lead decisively and handle logistics smoothly. Sober you remembers where the afterparty is, flags the Uber, and doesn’t slur when you tell her “my place is 7 minutes away.”
- You stop ejecting from sets that are 30–60 minutes from pulling because “I’m too drunk to keep gaming.”
- Zero hangover, zero regrets, zero “what the fuck happened last night” blackouts with ugly girls.

Current meta for top night gamers (2024-2025):
- Arrive sober
- Open sober
- First 60–90 min: pure social proof + momentum (no alcohol)
- If you need a tiny edge later: one shot max, then back to water

I went from 1–2 pulls per month drunk to 3–6 pulls per month fully sober. Same venues, same looks, just removed the alcohol handicap.

Bottom line: alcohol is training wheels. Keep them until you can ride without crashing, then ditch them forever and watch your results explode.

Title	Drunk or sober for night game?
Author	Sean04_k
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	December 8, 2025 12:58 AM UTC (8 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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