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CMVummizazi/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:22 AM
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Question For Menummizazi/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:51 AM
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Question For Womenummizazi/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:58 PM
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Discussionummizazi/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:54 PM
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If you’re not married she can’t collect child support without proof of paternity. If you are married, you have access to the baby. You can just swab their cheeks and send in. The test.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 07:55 PM
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It’s more that in the U.S., collecting DNA from every child born would be a huge violation of the 4th amendment. Could I also argue that the U.S. doesn’t care about women because we’re responsible for our own period products. They don’t even have them in school where girls are required to attend? Men have the right to a paternity test before child support is ordered. If they are still with the woman they can go get a paternity test in secret. You don’t need the mother. I know grandparents who’ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:43 PM
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It doesn’t only affect men. It affects children as well. The issue is that it’s something men can fix on their own for $100 - $500.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:34 PM
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It’s an observable fact. It’s one of the main reasons for gender disparities in education and crime rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:06 PM
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Of course not, it’s about probability. You’ll answer differently if you think the bear isn’t going to bother you as long as you make noise and it knows you’re human.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:32 AM
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More like would you rather be raped and killed or just killed. I don’t know if the bear would certainly kill you. I’m only speaking from watching survival shows like “Alone” but bears seem to be pretty predictable and not generally predatory. The advice for avoiding a bear attack is to talk to them so they know you’re human and make lots of noise so they know you’re there and avoid you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:52 PM
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In the US, 1/5 of babies are born to women over 35 it’s not that uncommon anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:47 AM
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Oops this was to the person you replied to. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:32 PM
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Some young men are clearly into older women. Some men fantasize about them when they have younger options. Some men type “milf” “mom”, and “older woman” into the search bar when they want porn to spank to. They don’t have to put milf, they can find any type of woman they want and they chose older.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:23 PM
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Isn’t this post about people 40+ with people in their 20’s? I don’t think there’s any controversy about 50 year old men with 40 year old women. How this matches your hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:49 PM
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How does that answer my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:47 PM
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That’s going to depend on what that interaction is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:47 PM
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Maybe most dudes wouldn’t, but hot, 7ft tall, young, millionaires would. Instant that supposed to be the most desirable type of man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:44 PM
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A lot means more than one in formal logic. Can you quantify a bit more than that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:31 PM
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You said women want older men for things other than looks and money but gave a reason that involves money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:30 PM
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A lot just means more than 1. Most women aren’t going to see that photo and lust. There’s a reason women bough romance novels and men bought playboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:30 PM
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So young men are into older women. Why do we make such a big deal about women’s youth?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:27 PM
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The op is about men 40 plus so that’s what I’m using as older. I think is safe to say that most relationships with 30+ year age gaps are somewhat transactional. However, I’d also wager there are more men with an elder fetish than women. For example more men are likely turned on by sagging skin than women. This issue is whether the person choosing a partner places more importance in their age or attractiveness. Some men would date JLO because she’s hot, others wouldn’t because she’s 54. For most …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:58 PM
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In this thread I’ve had people tell me that men find older women repulsive, men will fuck them but not date them, and men will date them but not marry them. On the marriage part, that’s going to be true of most relationships. Most of the time relationships aren’t going to result in marriage. With older female younger male relationships, the lack of marriages is likely to be the choice of the woman. My guess is that you aren’t interested in marrying the young men that are interested in you. I kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:39 PM
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Dude there are men who are into old women. Like if they could they would only fuck grannies. Moreover, most dudes under 30 wouldn’t turn down a hot woman because of her age. Like dudes aren’t saying “ew Jennifer Lopez is disgusting” in real life. Young dudes would date Gabrielle Union or Heidi Klum.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:57 PM
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Most young attractive people would prefer other young attractive people. The issue is whether the young or attractive part is more important. The reality is it’s a continuum from “would never date a much older woman” to “only watches granny porn. this woman is 39 and is dating and pregnant by 22 year basketball player Jalen Green. I’d think that other young men would date her. The female equivalent of the Only Fans guy could definitely date some random 20 something year old guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:47 PM
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Older women’s sexual desire isn’t the same as young men’s. Neither is young women’s. There are dozens of men I’ve thought about fucking who I’d never touch in real life. Also women’s sexual fantasies tend to put more emphasis on romance and personality. Most woman wouldn’t lust over a guy just because he looked good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:46 PM
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Wait, do boys not fantasize about having sex with their teachers?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:42 PM
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I’m going to disagree. Pretty much all the women I know over 50 could fuck significantly younger men. Most have even been pursued by younger men. They just aren’t interested in the age gap. They feel like they’re wasting the younger person’s time, and they realize the limitations of their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:40 PM
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That’s not true we’re very friendly arseholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:29 PM
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Doesn’t taking care of them financially involve money?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:28 PM
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When you’re in school there’s a hierarchy to grades and there’s a clear delineation in education and knowledge. Seniors are going to almost always have more experience and knowledge than freshman because they have 3 more years of classes. If it’s a college environment, they’d also have 4x as much experience just being an adult. Outside the school environment it matters a lot less if people are 2-5 years apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:45 AM
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I wish, but I promise you, sometimes they expect you’ll fuck them because you went out with them and they paid. They act like it’s some secret contract you both understood. They took you to dinner, they paid, and, they were “nice”. Sometimes it’s happened to me the dates were okay to good. There were more than one guy I would have gone on a second date with if they hadn’t pulled that shit. That’s not even the worse. Imagine a guy hinting at the fact they could have raped you and thinking you wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:11 AM
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Can’t have coffee that late. I like going to cool thrift stores for a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:29 PM
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I can confirm that this does happen. It’s always insulting because 1. I eat several meals a day and 2. You can’t get an actual whore for $20-$30.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:27 PM
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Don’t think that’s true. I’m a prosecutor and it seems from all the cases I’ve read that de-escalation and avoidance works. At least I don’t see as many men die when they walk away as when they respond with aggression. But my point was that women’s hyper vigilance might be effective at reducing the incidences of them being murdered. If they treated men with the same level of trust as they treat women, many more would end up dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:39 AM
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I didn’t dig. It’s a famous case. It’s used to this day to describe the bystander effect. I could point out that when women take self defense classes they tell us to scream fire. If you scream help people don’t show up. If you scream fire people will come. https://www.nrawomen.com/content/short-shots-don-t-yell-help-yell-fire/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:29 AM
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Probably not as much as wasn’t created because women were prevented from participating. I’m guessing you know enough about war to know that scientists and inventors are valuable and usually have waiver from participating in combat. Surely you know that the allied forces spared Nazi scientists from punishment because they found the work more valuable. There no way you don’t know that the only reason we able to have this discussion is because war technology enabled it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 05:45 PM
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My guess is that men fear being murdered by other men orders and magnitudes more than they fear being murdered by women. Homicide is a leading cause of death for females between ages 1-44. It’s not a remote cause of death. I’d also be willing to guess that the women you see online who are concerned about being murdered are in that age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:59 PM
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Have you considered that the wariness and fear makes us less likely to be murdered? Like the actions we take are effective?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:41 PM
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Ever hear of Kitty Genovese?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:38 PM
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Guess you don’t know how much of our modern technology was the result of the military or created for war.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:37 PM
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Cool it just something people who know nothing about her she know when making their evaluations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:18 AM
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Revenue isn’t viewership. 2 billion people watch the Olympics. Only about 125 million watch the Super Bowl. NFL players don’t even crack the top 10 of the most famous athletes in the world. Cricket player are more famous. Football is an American sport. They’ve been trying to crack into the international market for years. She’s also famous because she an amazing gymnast. Even if you’ve never watched tennis, you know who Venus and Serena are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:54 AM
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Yeah she was in foster care before being adopted by her grandmother. She was discovered on a elementary school field trip. She was also sexually assaulted by Larry Nasir and went on to speak about mental health and dealing with trauma. She’s seems like a good person, she came from very humble beginnings and she’s supportive of her husband. She’s also the one of the best gymnasts of all time and performed the most difficult skill ever attempted for a female gymnast. Every skill named for her is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:35 AM
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Gymnasts from 20 years ago. I doubt that you would recognize the names of all the NFL players on your local team. Most NFL players will never be famous. They’ll play for 3 seasons and then join the regular world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:24 AM
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Good thing she cute, fit, and humble.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:20 AM
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Gymnastics is one of the most watched events in the Olympics though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:18 AM
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The NFL isn’t that big outside of the US. The Olympics are watched everywhere. I guarantee you more people know of Simone Biles than 99% of current NFL players.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:18 AM
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Paul and Morgan were more famous than most NFL players.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:16 AM
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I think all the Olympic medals are what people are valuing with Simone Biles. But she also cute, fit, smart, and an Olympic gymnast. Bile could have a successful turn in media, or make tons of money coaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:14 AM
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Sound like me except I have a vagina and I pretty much only open instagram if someone sends me a link. If I’ve posted more than 5 things ever, I’d be shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:48 PM
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You would just incentivize voluntary submission by making recurving a benefit contingent on it. No submission you choice but no state issued licenses either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:39 PM
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So this just a rant? Cool. You could just say you don’t have the intellectual capacity to have a high level conversion. But ranting and storming off works too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:36 PM
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https://www.census.gov/content/dam/Census/library/publications/2022/demo/p70-174.pdf https://www.census.gov/content/dam/Census/library/publications/2022/demo/p70-176.pdf https://www.census.gov/library/publications/2020/demo/p60-269.html I’m not making the argument about the negative consequences of paternity fraud. That’s your side of the argument. When I say costs I mean fiscal costs to the government. Though couldn’t divorce rates also lower if women could get away with paternity fraud? Couldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:36 AM
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And there’s non contaminated DNA that solves decades old homicides. Sounds like DNA is really easy to obtain.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:31 AM
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Why, because if you look at federal legislation over the last 50 years it has beeen geared towards making sure American citizens can’t avoid child support obligations anywhere in the world. In fact you can’t even leave the country if you owe. Stopping paternity fraud doesn’t help the government. If the guy was paying support then the state is on the hook. However making child support more robust if what the government has been striving for. We make it a constitutional amendment. Due process issu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:29 AM
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Not pro abortion. I’m sure we can put both those things in a bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:20 AM
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But people just shed DNA all the time without knowing it. Can’t the government just keep a little to that the guy who got to fuck is the only one that gets fucked?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:25 AM
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The responsibility is on everyone man or woman if she is on public assistance. With this plan responsibility would only be on the people who made the baby. How much DNA do you think you threw away or flushed down the toilet today. Submitting DNA isn’t a hassle. There are ways to collect it that are completely unobtrusive. I’m not sure what responsibility all men would have that they don’t have now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:23 AM
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I’m a lawyer. I think the whole idea of mandatory paternity testing is stupid. However, we maintain national databases. I’m a prosecutor, the DNA database is still growing but it will get to AFIS level. There are due process grounds, but there are ways around that. The crux of the issue is that if there were to be mandatory testing it would be to collect child support and not to prevent paternity fraud. The former costs more economically and socially. Paternity tests are cheap. Paying for them i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:17 AM
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And the kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:02 AM
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This would also help in cases of rape and fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:00 AM
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Couldn’t you build a database just with the baby dna?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:59 AM
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It doesn’t matter if she does or doesn’t. The bio father should be on the hook. They’re the one who fucked and got someone pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:56 AM
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Wouldn’t it be easier to just run every kid and let the father know if they have a kid? That way no one can run or hide and you’d know if she cheated and who with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:55 AM
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Depends on the state. But that only happens if child support is less than government benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:52 AM
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Just chiming in to say that less than 1/4 of single moms get any child support at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:45 AM
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A minimum wage worker can afford a trip to the DR for the cost of tax refund. It’s not just for the top 1% now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:30 PM
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The developed countries will just exploit the less developed countries for Human Resources. Higher rates of immigration, more sex tourism, and more gestational surrogates.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:24 PM
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So weird because I’ve seen so many posts about “financial abortion” and those guys didn’t give a fuck about how that would expand the welfare state. Also I thought the welfare state and those social programs were the result of LBJ. No one voted for him when he started his presidency.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:25 AM
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So I should pay taxes so men can create new people to help? These dudes are going to get carjacked by their kids in 16 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:55 PM
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If abortion was non invasive with zero risk of negative outcomes, every pregnant woman qualified for abortion, and it didn’t fuck you up emotionally because of hormones. I would be okay with financial abortion provided the woman didn’t express moral/religious concerns before sex. I wouldn’t make a catholic get an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:53 PM
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So everyone else provides for the baby so the man doesn’t have to?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:36 PM
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Except only the woman bears the risk of abortion. You think men should be able to have as much unprotected sex as they want and then women should be forced to get abortions?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:28 PM
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Right so if she doesn’t press the issue there are no ramifications. Sounds like you’re allowed to do it then. If the grocery store says “we not going to do anything is you shoplift” and the police won’t get involved unless the grocery store asks, I’m allowed to shoplift.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:56 PM
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Do you think the man should have to pay the full uninsured and unsubsidized costs of the abortion and bear the responsibility is something goes wrong? Sometimes I think people think abortion are free and happen through magic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:51 PM
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I don’t consider having an abortion to be abandoning their responsibility. I also wouldn’t consider murdering a toddler to be abandoning their responsibility. The responsibility has to exist contemporaneous for you to be in the act of abandonment. How does only one gender get a chance to opt out is men with living issues are doing nothing to support or assist them? Sounds like it’s easier for men to opt out because they never have to have possession of a baby. People don’t want men to have any c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:48 PM
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Men are allowed to abandon their children all the time only 1/4 of single moms receive a single cent in child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:41 PM
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People. Only 1/4 of single mothers get child support. Women are taking more responsibility than men. Imagine how fucked we be if women abandoned their responsibilities as often as men. The state couldn’t build enough orphanages.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:36 PM
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Unfortunately we don’t live in a society where it’s okay to let babies starve to death or die from preventable illnesses. I’d much rather hold people who fucked to make the kid responsible than the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:25 PM
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Babies don’t read. Infant need to be fed every hour or two around the clock. Most of the child’s sleeping time will be when both parents are home. Have you left a toddler unattended?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:04 PM
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The issue is that most people have sex before in an exclusive committed relationship. Often they turn into committed relationships. I can think of several happily married couples that went on a couple dates, started fucking, kept dating and fucking and now they’re together. But sometimes you meet someone, hit it off, start fucking and it doesn’t work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:27 AM
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Some women cum easier, some have history of sexual abuse, some have issues with emotional intimacy, some are breaking long dry spells, some want to try something new, some have fomo, some might think it’s not casual but the beginning of a serious relationship, some like to fuck. Most are having casual sex with people they just met. Most of female friends has one, guy they fuck on a semi regular basis. Some have more. The women I’ve known in straight poly or open relationships usually have fewer …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:19 AM
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The same guy spent 100k on a different girl last year. He’s into this, he likes the humiliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:45 AM
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Yeah I can’t imagine why the states would do that. It serves no benefit it’s so hard to enforce.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:55 AM
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The only problem is the state will still sue him. Thats assuming it would be legal. You can’t sign away rights of people who aren’t alive. But the main problem is the state will still sue if she ever gets state assistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:21 AM
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All men messaged the most attractive women regardless of their own level of attractive. Women messaged the most attractive men the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:45 PM
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OKC doesn’t say. It just says women’s messages to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:14 PM
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You’re confusing different studies. In the OKC study, rated 80% of men as less than average, men rated about 50% of women as less than average. Men primarily messaged the most attractive women and women primarily messaged less than average men. There are tinder reports that say women only swipe on 10% of profiles. It doesn’t say anything about women rate the physical attractiveness of the men in those profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:43 AM
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The data from OKCupid said that women rate 80% of men as below average on the attractiveness scale but it didn’t influence how often they interacted. Women messaged below average guys the most and the most attractive guys the least. Men on the other hand rated on a pretty even bell curve but primarily messaged the most attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:31 AM
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So an attractive guy isn’t allowed to fuck an unlimited amount of women without being held accountable?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:49 PM
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In America and most of Europe, women started shaving their legs and underarms to look like little boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:27 PM
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Have you shaved you legs before? It’s awful I only remove hair below my eyebrows when in fucking someone. Shaving every day or every other day is terrible and you have stubble on the lower half of your body if you stop. Waxing lasts longer but it hurts a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:24 PM
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It’s not the drinking part. It’s that bars and coffee shops are usually so loud and crowded it’s hard to have a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:16 AM
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My only issue with coffee, drinks is it’s harder to have a conversation. I prefer to go to a thrift shop or comic book store.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:11 AM
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Yeah it’s not most guys, it’s only been a few. I’ve never been the type to keep going out with a guy I’m not interested in so I’ve never used a guy for a date. That being said there are a lot of guys who lead with their wallet and I avoid them because it’s pretty clear they want a transactional sexual relationship. This issue is with guys that aren’t upfront and are mad that I won’t agree to “pay them back” with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:46 AM
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I’m not a man. My guess would be that women have more options for sex so they want to game the system by offering more than another guy. The cynical reason is they want to create a way for women to be obligated to give them sex. I’ve definitely had men who’ve gotten mad I didn’t put out and pull the “I spent xxx” on you. I find that offensive. First because usually what they’re spending is far less than they would pay an actual sex worker. They’re not only low key calling me a whore but they als…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:34 AM
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It’s not that big of a deal unless they took me to a place that’s way more expensive than usual and didn’t mention splitting beforehand. Most of the dates I’ve been on aren’t going to restaurants, it’s like and arcade or movie or something so I usually know beforehand if he intends to pay. If I ever ask a guy out I usually offer to pay for him. It doesn’t happen often because men think you paying means there’s no chance of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:17 AM
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First there’s a difference between the expectations you have for someone in a relationship vs a stranger on street. I expect the guy I’m in a relationship with to go down on me, I’d never approach a stranger with that. Second your describing gendered relationship expectations. Men expect women to do menial labor. Men expect women to cook, women aren’t cooking objects, nor are we laundry objects, cleaning objects. Most men I’ve met don’t fix things. I’ve known maybe two or three who were competen…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:33 AM
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Most men can’t change a flat tire. Where are all the male used at toolboxes. When was the last time you were someone in public and a stranger approached woman approached you and asked you to fix something in their house, come carry something heavy, or asked you for large sums of money. I’ve definitely had strangers approach me and ask for sex, offer to pay me for sex, tell me they would rape me, comment on how I was eating, how my smile made them think of me giving them a blow job, how my thigh …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:58 PM
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African American woman checking in. In what time period did women not work?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:49 PM
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You can be sexualized without trying to be sexy. Ask any girl who went through puberty and they’ll tell you about a grown ass man that sexualized them for doing kid thing. Girls who go to catholic school are sexualized, librarians are sexualized, even nuns are sexualized. There’s also nothing you can do to not be sexualized.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:47 PM
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That’s not how it works. Neither of your labias change size because of how many dicks you have. They also don’t change if you have a lot of sex with the same dick.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 11:31 AM
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Either you like pussy or you don’t.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 03:28 AM
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The court is concerned with legal paternity. Bio paternity is just a sub-sect of legal paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:42 PM
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You can not take child support without first establishing paternity. It might not be biological paternity but the father has to sign something saying they’re the father, be married to the mother, or not show up for a court date. Even then he can appeal the decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:37 PM
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Even in prison guys make sex toys before having sex with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:25 PM
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It would be fine. There lit erotica about women paying for mind blowing sexual encounters. I don’t know anyone who has done it personally, but if there was a way I could be guaranteed good sex the way I like it from a guy, I’d be down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:10 PM
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The problem is you. Started a new job at 35. Most of the people I work with are 24-30, all the straight men have girlfriends. Most are in serious relationships. While you’re screeching on Reddit, they’re planning matching Halloween costumes. It’s funny how short dudes, fat dudes, and neurodivergent dudes in their 20’s can all find women in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:29 PM
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So wait. You take a DNA test, it say the kid is yours but you ask for another test? Just get a vasectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:14 PM
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Except it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:12 PM
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You only read the headline. Real number was 1-3%. 30% is among men that already suspected the kid wasn’t theirs. So out of guys who think he kid isn’t theirs the kid is usually theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:41 AM
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Are paternity tests 100% accurate?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:38 AM
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First, why are you having unprotected sex with someone with only blind faith. I’m guessing you have all your partners get and STD test before you engage in any sexual contact. Second how is it blind faith if you’re in a committed relationship with someone. Third paternity tests aren’t 100% accurate. You’re putting all your faith in something that you absolutely know can give faulty results.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:28 PM
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I’ve seen the show. I haven’t seen too many people who were married and living together fight over paternity. It’s one thing to accuse your off and on girlfriend of cheating, it’s another to accuse the person you sleep next to each night. Even in the show the men usually have good reason to believe the woman cheated. DNA tests aren’t 100%. But most men don’t need a test for confirmation because the child inherits your DNA. It’s one of the reasons they show the guys pictures next to the baby’s pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:28 PM
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If you’ve never been in a long term monogamous relationship this might not make sense to you. For the rest of us, if you’re with someone long term and you’re faithful it’s really obvious. I was married and it was obvious if I was ovulating based on how aggressively I pursued sex. It was also obvious to me that he was cheating because of how his sexual interest changed. If my husband asked for a dna test he would have not only accused me of cheating, but accused me of unprotected sex while I was …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:04 AM
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Older women are the group most content with being single. They might not be dating anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:48 PM
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Someone downvoted you but it’s so true. Most women don’t have 8 inch vaginas. The genitalia is made to match.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 07:30 PM
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I mean I think it’s should alway be part of the equation, but guys that are outside of the bell curve on either end tend to need it to get to yes.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 12:30 PM
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Naw average sized is the sweet spot. It’s the only size guys can get away with not knowing what they’re doing. If you’re small you need to know how to work angles so she’s feels satisfied. If he big he has to know what he’s doing to not cause excruciating pain. Average is average for a reason. But your probably a teenager that’s only watched porn.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 12:28 PM
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Or cause her pain. Dudes with big dicks better have lots of charisma and a great tongue because it’s going to take a lot of convincing for most women.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 11:28 AM
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I have a vagina why do I have to cope about dick size.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 11:26 AM
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Surprise women on a big dick dating site enjoy men with big dicks. Men prefer women who weigh 200lbs or more according to BBW friend finder.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 04:46 AM
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Right! This makes my cervix hurt just reading it. 6.5 is my max.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 04:44 AM
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Most of the dick pics I’ve received were unsolicited. On occasion a guy would ask if it’s okay to send it. Most of the time dudes just send it to you. I feel like guys just have dick picks stored on their phone. I get not having the face in the photo but why none of your body?
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 03:19 PM
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I can say the low angle make you Ron Jeremy until she sees you in real life. Birds Eye add a bit of puffery but not so much she feels completely deceived. But a little deceived. Counter top it’s the most honest. Especially if you’re naked.
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 03:09 PM
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Usually there’s going to be something in the photo besides your dick. Your face, your hands, your pants, etc. But look are the articles the woman shows the effect of different perspectives using her finger.
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 03:02 PM
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Sorry here’s the right answer. It’s just forced perspective. If you tilt the camera so your dick is in the foreground the items in the background look smaller and your dick looks bigger by comparison. Here’s an article https://www.gq.com/story/a-girl-on-snapchat-made-the-perfect-guide-to-dick-pics
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 02:52 PM
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Guys can be deceptive with dick pics. They can use different angle to make it look bigger, or longer.
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 01:38 PM
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If that’s the case then women are born at the wall. Most women will never get commitment from high value men no matter what their age or body count. There aren’t enough high value men to make this happen.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 08:51 PM
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There is no wall for women. There will always be at least a few dudes who are genuinely interested a a woman no matter her age or size. In fact there will be dudes that are into her because of her age or size.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 05:46 PM
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Big dick is 15 out of 15 more women prefer no dick or transdick. Do anal and gangbang always have big dicks?
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 10:27 PM
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Women here. The dicks are too big and there isn’t enough focus on foreplay or women’s pleasure in most straight porn. I’m not into Japanese porn but I do find that more scenes have things I enjoy like kissing in all parts of the scene. Also, again, the dicks are too big. It looks painful and there’s emphasis on it being painful..
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 08:20 PM
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almost 1/2 of black men arrested by 23 1/4 of black go to state or federal prison Assuming that some get arrested for the first time after 23, it would be at least half arrested. DOJ said it was 28% in 1991. It increased to about 50% in the late 90’s and hovers around 20% for those born in the 2000’s. cities like NYC says that 26% of black men will be jailed by age 38. 1/4 seems reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:06 PM
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80% of black men have children so most are getting attention. However, even If the other 50% had all the attention that would still leave more than have of black women women with nothing better to chose from. Given the intermarriage rates, it’s would be literally impossible for most black women to find a decent black man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:19 AM
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More than 80% of black men are fathers by age 50. It’s impossible for 18% of black men to father 80% of black babies. Men with 3 or fewer kids count for half of births.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:01 AM
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When I was in college and law school there were always black women trying to date the black men. There were also way more women then available men. But the men usually played games because they were so desirable they could. The black nerds who were into other black nerds did the best in terms of relationships/marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:05 AM
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What’s keeping these men from being in their kids lives? Half of them aren’t even on child support so that isn’t an excuse. None of these moms want weekends off? None of them would rather their bad ass sons go live with their father? Men should value their legacy and aren’t interested in raising children and instilling them with values.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:59 AM
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At least half 1/2 of black men are arrested by age 23 and 1/4 of black men serve jail time. Almost have of people who are in jail are there for drug offenses. Why wouldn’t a drug dealer who has money and shows it, not be more likely to have a girlfriend. How many black men with money can’t get a girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:52 AM
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The women themselves defend the criminals mostly because they’re black men. It’s really weird that black men really say black women don’t support them after George Floyd. Instead of throwing black men under the bus, most black women do anything they can to justify black men’s behavior. No one defends back men and uplifts black men more than black women. Black women have been leading the black civil rights movements since at least the 70’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:10 AM
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The brick woman is a scammer. This isn’t about her. You agree that black women should cut off black men? That’s going to be hard for those without the status to compete for other races.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:57 PM
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Being strong and independent is the result of black women’s circumstances. Black men have the highest rates of domestic violence, highest rate of DV homicide, highest rate of rape, highest rate of commuting child sexual abuse, highest rate of illegitimate children, highest rate of infidelity, lowest rate of paying child support, lowest amount of child support paid. What do you expect black women to do in this situation? Should they be independent and do for themselves or should they keep choosin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:51 PM
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Black men are also the loudest at dragging black women. I feel like the mainstream media drags black men more, black women are exporting negative stereotypes about black male criminality and sexual depravity on a global scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:46 PM
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Earl Silberman’s shelter closed because of lack of funding, not protests or harassment by feminists. The truth is that even other men didn’t want to support the shelter. This is the opposite of what happened with the first women’s shelters. Women banded together to support the movement. The Boy Scouts started letting girls join to poach membership from the Girl Scouts. The Girl Scouts even sued them for it. The BSA had to settle massive lawsuits for the the child sexual abuse it allowed to conti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:32 PM
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All statuses besides married have a higher rate of suicide. More never married men kill themselves than separated, divorced, and widowed men combined. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2352827321001282#:~:text=For%20instance%2C%20a%20never%20married,in%20the%20highest%20income%2Dgroup. https://www150.statcan.gc.ca/n1/pub/82-624-x/2012001/article/chart/11696-02-chart7-eng.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:27 AM
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I think it would be hard for the government to tell who’s a playboy and who’s an incel. Should someone who’s had multiple options for marriage get the same benefits as someone who did get married and stayed married for a decade. Marriage benefits the government, your more likely to produce children and less likely to need welfare benefits. You’re more likely to they stimulate the economy, married me commit less crime, and married people are less likely to have substance abuse problem. In short, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:51 AM
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Social security benefits are for anyone in the US. You pay taxes in your paycheck and you get a monthly stipend when you reach retirement ag Can’t speak for other countries but most will have som legal/financial benefits because it’s a government institution. For social security, It doesn’t matter whether you have kids, but you have to be married for at least 10 years. After that you get spousal benefits even if you get divorced. It’s hard to say if anyone is getting punished. They just don’t ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:22 AM
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I’m not a man and this is a Q4M. The government wants people to be married and, accordingly, incentivizes marriage. Social security is a huge one. If a spouse didn’t make enough or doesn’t qualify, they can get half of what you get in addition to what you get. I have a friend who’s a cop, he gets a pension but no social security. When he and his wife retires, he’ll get his full pension, his wife will get her full social security benefit, and he gets 50% of her benefit on top of his pension. If y…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:58 AM
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Tax benefits, lower car insurance rates, more job offers, higher salary, higher social status, social status for the children, social security benefits, legal benefits for wrongful death, retirement benefits, longer life, less depression, lower suicide risks, higher standard of living, more likely to receive check ups and medical care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:07 AM
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I think Emma stone is hotter but I have a thing for gingers. I think prefer the shape of Emma’s face over Rosie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:07 AM
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You’re comparing being a sugar baby with a wife when you should compare it to being a “kept woman” or mistress. Wives provided more than sex. They provide legitimate children, they controlled social interactions, and they bestowed status. Even gay men took wives and produce children. It wasn’t about the sex. Any man that was wealthy enough to have a kept woman also was constrained by the social order that required men to be married to be taken seriously. Marriage was seen as a civilizing and mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:23 PM
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Marriage to a woman of the right class definitely conferred status on single men. Even today, married men are hired more and get paid more than their single counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:49 PM
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That’s not why dowry was invented. Most dowry systems allowed daughters to inherit the wealth of their families because only sons could inherit at death. The dowries were for the women and her children. If the wife died the money could only be inherited by her children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:43 PM
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There are plenty of single moms that have never been married. If they got pregnant to trap a man, it wasn’t very effective. She had a kid three years after they started dating but they knew each other either longer. She had already went back to his country to meet his parents. It wasn’t a spur of the moment thing. Also he sound very much in love with her and not trapped at all.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 07:31 PM
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I try to give reasonable advice. Very few men are going to have multiple women changing and fantasizing over them. Most of those that do will be famous. If you’re an incel and conventionally unattractive, a great personality/charisma and going after someone looks matched is your best chance of getting laid. That of course assumes you have the basics like hygiene and presentation covered.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 05:28 PM
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I’ve experienced multiple pedophiles. Most just said things to me but didn’t touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:12 PM
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I feel like you’re confusing baby trapping with having a child with someone you’re in a multi year relationship with. But I don’t know I see way more single moms out here than single dads. I’ve seen and experienced men trying to get women pregnant to keep them. I know a lot of women who have kids with men who don’t see their children nor pay shit. It doesn’t seem like a trap to me.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 04:51 PM
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First you can’t baby trap a man. If that were possible there would be so many single moms. Second they were together for 3 year before they had their first kid. That just sounds like a relationship. I agree with your other point though. Celebrities are generally massive outliers in terms of attractiveness and usually get a little bit of surgical help to get and maintain looks.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 04:41 PM
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Definitely. Black don’t crack and Asian don’t raisin.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 03:58 PM
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Ryan Gosling is married to a woman that is almost 50 and gorgeous.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 03:54 PM
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A date sure, women lining up to fuck him, never.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 03:49 PM
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A grown man molested me at age 7. I knew enough to know that he wasn’t supposed to touch me in those places, tell me to take my clothes off or threaten to kill me if I told anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:30 PM
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This is also true, but boys most commonly get abused by men. Not saying there aren’t female predators. They can burn in hell too. But most of the fathers I know won’t let an adult man watch their children alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:28 AM
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I received sexual attention from adult men years before I reached puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:37 AM
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So many women I know were molested as children it’s terrifying. All races, all religions. All socioeconomic classes suffer from this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:32 AM
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I was molested by a grown man at age 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:24 AM
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It’s also because they usually have wives to handle all the domestic labor and support them. Bezos worked on the business plan while his wife drove them across the country. She was a writer and did a lot of early drafting. She was the first employee at the company. When they had kids, she stopped working to take care of them so Jeff could focus on Amazon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:25 PM
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People argue that affirmative action hurts minorities. Clarence Thomas spoke about it extensively.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:19 PM
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Women who are attractive don’t hit the wall at 30. Women might not have as many guys interested at 30 vs 20, but she’s still going to have more options than men because she has a vagina. The most successful men in the job market are generally already married. Married men on average make more than any other demographic. Most marriages are assortative. Men who are wealthy and educated marry women who are wealthy and educated. Men who have wealth and want children care about who’s going to mother t…
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 05:32 AM
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Exactly, couldn’t it be possible that she’s already in a relationship or not into men?
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 07:48 PM
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If the men are typically married, doesn’t that mean the women are married in their 30’s too?
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 07:47 PM
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Jennifer Lopez played a sexy role in her 50’s. I didn’t see bullet train, it doesn’t sound like a heartthrob role.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 03:30 AM
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None of the men you named are being cast as heartthrobs either. Most of the women who think these men are still hot are women who thought they were hot 20 years ago.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 12:42 AM
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I don’t mean to suggest that it’s the best possible, but for the majority of children, it will be the best possible time in human history, especially on a global scale. I’m African American. My generation has the best possible outcome of any time in the last 400 years. We’re only exceeded by our childrens’ generation. Unless you come from generational wealth, you probably had a more stable childhood than your parents. Most people in America only have a blip of generational success with the post …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:19 AM
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Children have been born in slavery. In concentration camps, on the trail of tears, during genocides, and during plagues. Modern American society is easy mode by comparison. At bare minimum, you child is extremely likely to survive to adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:33 PM
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It’s counterintuitive because the men who slay them most with women are those that are the most comfortable with women. The men I know who get laid the most are comfortable being in a room full of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:20 AM
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Billionaires have enough money to buy any type of woman they want. They can breed a child, have it raised to their liking, and marry them when they turn 18. They have tons of money. They never have to settle for a stripper or playmate.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 01:58 AM
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Isn’t that comment simplistic black and white thinking? Regardless it works very well in my profession.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:11 PM
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I know that, that’s just the dichotomy you have without feminism. Madonna/whore, virgin/slut, or Trad/loose.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:00 PM
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Alphas don’t pay for what other men got for free. They will 100% pay for dates for women that have that as a consistent requirement. Girls that give it up to broke dudes because of looks or feelings, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:59 PM
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I’m actually just surprised at how many people are supporting feminist thought in this thread. I believe in egalitarian relationships and have no problem paying for myself. I’m also a lawyer and not struggling for money. It’s just weird that people are supporting countries like Spain with higher amounts of feminism and gender equality and turning away from the desire for traditional women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:55 PM
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That’s one implication. It could also mean she’s from a patriarchal society where men pay, it could mean she doesn’t have much money, it could mean she only dated alphas. On the other side sleeping with men who never pay can imply low self esteem, preoccupation with looks, poor reputation in the community. There was a saying when I was growing up that broke men where only good for one thing. It meant that a guy who couldn’t provide for you financially, what fuck you senseless and fulfill all you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:30 PM
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So if a woman slept with 10 guys and they all picked up the tab for dates, that’s worse that a woman that had sex with 10 guys who never paid for anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:51 PM
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It’s strange that women who want to fuck guys must refuse to let him pay or be considered a prostitute. I guess I’m just too Trad. A woman who fucks anyone just for attention was considered “loose” when I was a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:45 PM
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Most men on this sub complain that women use them for free meals and drinks which implies they aren’t having sex after the date. The women aren’t prostituting themselves to the men they do have sex with. They are setting another hoop to jump through first. This further limits the number of sexual partners a woman If you’re going to have sex with someone regardless or whether they pay or not, is it worse to have them pay for dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:40 PM
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I keep seeing this prostitution line. Do you think the girl who had sex after paying for her own meal is superior than the girl who had sex after someone else paid? If so, why? I would imagine the girl who gets more from having sex is in the better position. You obviously disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:13 AM
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Is that worse than fucking for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:10 AM
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My guy friends tend to offer to pay for things because it easier in someways. I always remember birthdays and other special days, I remember favorite foods and restaurants, I remember clothing and shoe sizes, and I remember favorite colors. I’ve made them themed gift baskets, bought tickets to cover band of their favorite defunct band, made them their favorite food, and I also buy and pick up thing for them just because. Sometimes it’s just easier for them to pay or offer to pay to reciprocate t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:57 PM
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Traditional women are the most hypergamous and entitled. If you’re marry a tradwife you have to completely finance her lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:00 PM
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There’s not a lot of social housing and it’s usually easier for a woman to find cheap housing without children because you can stay with people. Programs like section 8 have waitlists that can be a decade long or more. The vast majority of the low income single moms I’ve ever known lived with family.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:14 PM
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It’s like cereal and wheat bread. It’s not a lot of food.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:11 PM
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Yes. A lot of women think of it as a baby and not a fetus when they are carrying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:10 PM
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Neither person can abort a child once it’s born. Men can chose not to financially support the fetus. Women can chose not to continue carrying the fetus. Once the kid is here, it’s here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:07 PM
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Nobody watched the episode. Johnny gets cursed into being a woman. Spend the first have going to painful rituals to not be humiliated, and spends the second half realizing that women are harassed by men constantly. All of the guys are described as thinking they are god’s gift to women. They weren’t incels. The entire purpose was for Johnny to realize that girls were smart and had things to offer besides looks.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 05:56 PM
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That makes no sense. If that were true, everyone would be thin because there are way more thin celebrities than fat ones. Unless you’re stalking Lizzo, how do you know what she eats or how much she works out? She works out a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:26 PM
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The person who married this guy https://lapagina.com.sv/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/momoa.png
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:15 PM
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She could definitely find someone younger and more attractive than Momoa. She’s wealthy and famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:14 PM
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Do you think people get fat from looking at fat people?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:05 PM
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Yeah he has that child star type face that doesn’t age well. There are men his age that are sunning, he’s just not one of them. I wouldn’t say he’s mid though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:57 PM
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You must not know many black people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:53 PM
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https://static.wikia.nocookie.net/baywatch/images/b/b9/Jason_momoa_1000.jpg/revision/latest?cb=20160110024058
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:53 PM
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Naw he’s not that cute anymore and his eyes are weird. In his 20’s I would have agreed he looks better than Lisa does now. If they were both in their 20’s she wins hands down. I swear a lot of men on this sub really want to sleep with chads though. That’s the only reason someone would call Lisa Bonet mid and talk about Momoa could do better. Only people who want to fuck him would say some shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:33 PM
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I love evil! I can’t wait for the new season.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:01 PM
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Luke Cage has a seen where they called Zoe “The Godfather part 2” because she’s almost as good as the original.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:50 PM
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I mean after Lenny Kravitz and Jason Momoa, she’s done well for herself. Now she can just shack up with hot younger men until she’s tired of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:27 PM
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https://i.pinimg.com/1200x/df/4d/25/df4d251eeebd1059b2de7d47d63166ce.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:32 PM
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Homie, Lisa Bonet has been that bitch since the Cosby show and still looks amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:26 PM
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Being 55 doesn’t make you mid. Lisa Bonet looks better than most people half her age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:20 PM
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I think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:54 PM
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You think Lisa Bonet is mid?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:31 PM
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They are acting like dimes or they are acting like they are better than you? Women have an advantage because men want to fuck any women more than what women want to fuck any man. If I have 100 guys that are better options than you, why should I chose you? Are you better looking? Are you more charismatic? Are you wealthier? Are you going to be a better, dedicated, and more caring boyfriend? So many guys on this sub aren’t even women’s best option for a longterm relationship or marriage and are ma…
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 04:39 AM
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She weighs 173 according to what she posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:31 AM
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At 35, I’ve had guys that are over zealous and guys that should know better. I’ve never had the issue with a smaller guy. It’s only been an issue with guys 6 inches or longer. Some guys are caring and show consideration. Other guys think they know your body better than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:05 PM
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There are definitely guys that want to hurt you or think hurting you means it’s good. There are other guys that will risk hurting you if it’s good for them. This is one of the reasons I dislike big dicks. If a guy has a big dick chances are high he’s going to hurt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:56 PM
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Yeah considering they were both featured in popular Netflix documentaries, I’m guessing most people can identify Bundy and Dahmer. They’re done if the most prolific serial killers in the last century.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 12:16 PM
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Most probably could but they were edited out.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 02:41 AM
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It doesn’t have to be forever. It could be until the kids start school and she starts working.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:43 PM
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Lawyers cost a lot of money. It might be cheaper to keep her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:40 PM
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He might do that, he might not. Either way she gets more by not filing for divorce. If money was really the primary motivator. Women would stay married longer. You don’t have to file divorce to get support. Men don’t have to marry every woman they date. They don’t t have to combine finances, most importantly, they can get a prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:38 PM
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Men who are married tend to get paid more and get more interviews than single men with the same resume https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-single/202110/married-men-paid-more-than-single-men-get-more-interviews?amp The most glaring example I can think of for jobs thing is politics. Very few never married politicians. You can get separate maintenance in most jurisdictions without filing for divorce. It’s a better deal because it can last indefinitely. If I was after a man’s money I’d j…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:01 AM
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Marriage has social benefits for men. They tend to make more money once they are married. They are seen as responsible. There are plenty of higher echelon jobs where marriage is makes a huge difference because wives control the social order. What men initiate divorce paperwork. That doesn’t mean that they dump their husbands. Women probably do most of the paperwork for the household. Women are incentivized not to file paperwork. You can get spousal support before a divorce petition is filed. Fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:02 AM
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This sounds like how welfare works in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:25 AM
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I’d pay to know about a guy’s porn habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:36 AM
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I agree I just think that is it might work better if other races did this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 10:25 PM
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That’s also surprising. I imagine just being in public places would have you around someone with that BMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:23 PM
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I don’t know, I used to know a lot of strippers. You’d be surprise what men prefer when there are no risks to their reputation. There’s a reason why there are so many different types of bodies at strip clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:15 PM
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Right so it’s not that she’s fine, it’s her look is something some men actually prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:00 PM
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I might have missed this episode. I feel like the issue is not committing to it though. Balding black men don’t look good. They just shave it off. I’ve see this in Latinos too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 08:57 PM
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And many people lose weight and look like melted candles.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:48 PM
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I mean the pic we’re talking about is of an obese woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:46 PM
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Women don’t like bald guys? Is that like a racial thing because I’m black and this hasn’t been an issue. I’m into bears, cubs and beefy guys. I like a little squishy The height thing goes both ways men love short women. While being 3-4 above average benefits men being 3-4 inches below average benefits women. From what I’ve see. The tallest men go for the shortest women and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:39 PM
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The US is not the fattest country in the world. Not even in the top ten.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:31 PM
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Jenny was sexually abused by a her father as a child and it fucked her up. She then had a series of fucked up relationships, was a stripper and died of AIDS. Forrest was diagnosed a retarted, and was literally the only guy who was good to her. She was the only girl he had sex with and only once. She then hid the child from him until she knew she was about to die.
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 06:02 AM
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Bill gates daughter is not a celebrity. You didn’t even post her name. The top white male musicians can pull more white women than the top black male musicians. The top white male actors can pull more women than the top black male actors. The top white athletes can pull more white women than the top black male athletes. The Weeknd is the top male musician right now and Justin Bieber can pull more white women than he can. Harry styles can pull more whites women than Drake and Drake is more white …
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 05:47 AM
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Sweet heart I’ve been black my whole life. They don’t like apple shaped women but they definitely like jelly because jam don’t shake. They like big thighs, big legs, large breasts wide hips, and a fat ass. They like obese women because they are more likely to have at lease three of the 5. They will except a fat stomach if you have them, especially a fat ass. The size ass black men prefer only happen if you’re obese or you have surgery. If you get a BBL the thighs don’t match and they like nigh t…
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 05:28 AM
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Yeah because they’re black celebrities. What white man with similar celebrity status gets fewer white women?
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 04:37 AM
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Dude they definitely fuck obese people. Black men were are the only race of men that have ever told me I’d look better if I gained weight. They are the only group of men I’ve seen that wanted women to be over 200lbs Ever hear the the phrase “you gotta be two something to do something?” If not, chances are you’re not black.
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 04:35 AM
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Literally since they saw black people.
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 04:32 AM
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Tell me you know nothing about history without telling me you know nothing about history. People were writing about low whites with black men 150 years ago. For the most part white women who can get a top tier white guys don’t go for black men at any level.
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 04:24 AM
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I’m okay with cold approaching as long as it’s respectful and the guy can take rejection. Warm approaching works a lot more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:05 PM
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I have been aroused by men I was not physically attracted to at all because they had amazing conversational abilities. One guy in particular physically turned me off, but he caught me on a phone call and was able to work some kind of voodoo on me. It wouldn’t have worked in person but I found myself getting legitimately turned on by the conversation and wanting him to call back again. It didn’t end up going anywhere but damn he got closer then he realized z
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:37 PM
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When people mention the statistics of overweight and obesity, they’re using the clinical definitions. I see post after post that does this. That’s why I posted images so people can understand the what the terms mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:15 PM
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She normal weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:21 PM
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You’re literally stating the point I’ve been making. Clinically obese is a BMI of 30 and above. That’s what obese means
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:04 PM
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Yup. Unless you’re at the extremes at either end muscle tone and how you store fat makes a lot of difference. I got these pics from https://www.mybodygallery.com/ Check it out to see how different people can look at the same height and weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:32 AM
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Here’s an album. https://imgur.com/a/0Oi5pIs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:42 PM
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Yes I fixed the first one. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:41 PM
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Show me where anyone is saying guys don’t get dates because of their taste in underwear. Better yet, show me a guy that gets to the point of seeing underwear and rejects a girl because he doesn’t like the style. But I’m curious. What kind of underwear should they be wearing when they post to a website dedicated to showing how different people look based on their height and weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:40 PM
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They are just normal women. Most of buy what’s on sale.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:41 PM
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They are both ranges on the BMI scale. Someone can be 20lbs overweight and be in the overweight range, if they gain 10lbs they’ll be in the obese range. If they gain 40 lbs they are extremely obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:40 PM
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Fair enough. I tried to explain to someone that you can’ always tell what someone’s body will look like based on bmi. Especially between normal weight and the first level of obesity. Their muscle tone and fat distribution make a huge difference. Someone who’s clinically obese can have a more attractive body than someone who’s normal weight. That’s not always the case and it’s not equally distributed. But fitness and genetics play a huge role. That woman is probably clinically obese because ass a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:08 PM
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That woman is also probably clinically obese. This woman is also clinically obese. https://i.imgur.com/WssedZs.jpg This woman is normal weight https://i.imgur.com/ImZ7bdD.jpg This one is overweight https://i.imgur.com/oPQPz1t.jpg All of them are the same height.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:00 PM
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In your mind is chubby something different than overweight or obese? I’m just asking because men often use terms interchangeably.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:56 PM
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I didn’t take drugs then and I wouldn’t want to do that now. At that age I would pull a few all nighters a semester during finals. I can’t do that shit anymore and I know how to manage my time so I never have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:49 PM
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I went out mainly in college. We mostly went to queer bars and clubs because a lot of my friends are gay, the drinks were cheap and strong, and we could dance and have a good time. We all left with who we came with. I danced with lots of gay men. Every so often there would be straight men there who would fuck up the vibe, but most everybody was there to have a good time. Straight clubs were the worse. They were pretty much like you described but you left out the awful music, No I just don’t have…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:47 PM
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I mean I was a virgin at 23 and have had more prospects for relationships so far in my 30’s than I did in my 20’s. My prospects are also better, they’re better in bed, they have better personalities, they make more money, and they’re better educated. 20 something party girls are hooking up with 20 something party boys. No one is wasting anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:35 PM
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I used to be able to get shit faced on cheap vodka, stay up til 4am, and get up at 8 the next day, have breakfast, and be fine. Now if I get that drunk it takes days to recover. I also have real responsibilities that I can’t blow off because I’m hungover. I don’t have it in me to party like that anymore. That’s true of most people. A woman can still fuck guys. Her pool might be more shallow but it not going to dry up. The truth is that shit gets exhausting. A 30 year old is still young to guys i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:23 PM
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How old were you when you started watching porn? I can’t think of one guy in their 20’s that didn’t start watching porn before adulthood. Most weren’t even old enough to have sex when they started watching porn. I’ve known guys that had full blown porn addictions in their freshman year of college.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:12 PM
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this woman is overweight <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:16 AM
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Yes weight will still be there but it won’t stop you from being attracted to her. If you see a woman you’re attracted to and you think she in the normal BMI range, are you going to stop being attracted to her I’d she’s really in the overweight or obese range? Are you going to say “she’s 25lbs heavier than she looks so I’m not attracted to her anymore”?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:12 AM
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I’m saying that your body looks different depending on the amount of muscle you have. Here’s an example. This is the same woman with 2lb difference. The main difference is she has more muscle mass so her body looks completely different. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:58 AM
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Didn’t you say the other example are guys that lead a woman on by pretending to want to be their boyfriend? That sounds like seduction. What you’re describing doesn’t sound like a secret, non disclosed transactional relationship in his head. It sounds like a very open transactional relationship that he’s saying out loud before asking for sex. What you’re describing sounds terrifying. Either way, if a guy is that pushy the strategy you described has failed. He didn’t get sex by keeping his true i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:46 AM
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Not necessarily pear shaped, I’d think anything but apple shape or heart shaped could be attractive at a larger size. Weight and fat are not synonymous. A person who weighs more, but has a higher percentage of muscle mass, can have an attractive body. The photo of number 8 is probably her low weight. The weight she has around competition. Her normal weight is probably ten pounds more than that. Her bulking weight could be 30lbs more that that. 20-30 lbs of bulks is normal. Even with the extra 30…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:26 AM
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I just explained it to you. Nice guys decide when they have done enough work to deserve sex. Whether the woman agrees doesn’t matter. Players know they deserved sex once they they get it. If the woman doesn’t agree he deserves sex, he didn’t deserve it. To put it another way, if the player didn’t get sex, they didn’t do enough to get it. If a “nice guy” didn’t get sex it’s because a woman cheated him out what was rightfully his. That’s why they’re so mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:54 PM
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This chart is deceiving there’s more body differences between 5 and 6 then there are between 1-4. Also, can’t necessarily tell what someone body looks like based on their weight. 8 is probably the 3rd heaviest. People can overweight or obese and have attractive looking bodies and good proportions. As for what happens when more people are obese, they’ll just continue to date while obese. Unless thin women are mostly dating fat men, thin men should be able to date thin women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:57 PM
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You can dislike the strategy even if it works. For instance guys don’t usually mind paying for a date if they like a woman and she’s genuinely into them. Some women pretend they are in to guys just to get free dates. Men don’t like this strategy, but it works. You’re comparing failed attempts to successful attempts. If a guy’s strategy is to pretend they want a relationship to get sex and he doesn’t get sex, he usually just moves on to the next victim. If a guy’s strategy is to keep a balance of…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:13 PM
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You’re thesis is flawed because get upset about both situations. Women are upset to find out the guy pretending to want to be her friend was just doing it to have sex with her. Women are also upset to find out that the guy pretending to want to be her boyfriend is just doing it because he wants to have sex with her. The difference between the to is that “nice guys” think they’re deceptive behavior entitles them to sex. They create an imaginary ledger in their heads. This can happen over several …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:36 PM
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I think a lot of the women were also gay.
/r/AllPillDebate17/07/23 01:13 PM
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For most of history all married gay men were married to women. Today, most straight women would only do this if it were an open relationship. It’s so weird to be upset that women will marry gay men they don’t want to fuck and therefore be able to fuck more straight dudes.
/r/AllPillDebate17/07/23 04:33 AM
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Glamorizing big dicks bad, saying big dicks are gross also bad. How about: as a woman the thought of having sex with a big dick fills me with dread and fear. Imagining the pain it slamming into my cervix makes me physically nauseous. Unveiling a huge dick is probably the one physical thing that would make me yeet the fuck out during what was supposed to be a sexual encounter.
/r/AllPillDebate16/07/23 03:36 AM
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You mean like the anime and manga?
/r/AllPillDebate16/07/23 02:52 AM
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Big dicks are gross.
/r/AllPillDebate16/07/23 02:50 AM
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This actually is something I called my 4’11 friend out for. Swear she only fucks giants. To be fair the tall guys fetishize her just as much Women use the term fetishize quite frequently among ourselves.
/r/AllPillDebate16/07/23 02:50 AM
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Men have to be fertile to produce children. Also, women were shamed if they displayed “fertility” outside of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:51 AM
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Neither are born. Only infants are born.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:50 AM
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Guys with I’ve rejected guys because I’m they’ve had a giant penis. With the first guy you might give it a try but every guy after that is screwed. Guys that big will say they’re huge as a warning not a brag. They’ll follow it up with all they ways they know how to make it not hurt, how they’ll go really slow, how they won’t try to put the whole thing in. They are trying to head off rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:02 PM
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Yup and the same is true for men attracted to dark triad women. If a guy met a pretty, in shape girls, who that seemed to be just nuts about them they’d fall head over heels.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 10:21 PM
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This is legitimately delusional. How many middle aged middle class men do you think their are? How many of them do you think are single or has a wife that will go along with this? You know women age right? How can a woman do this for the rest of their lives?
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 09:30 PM
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Just want to point out the same data that shows that women rank 80% guys as below average say that women are more likely to respond to below average guys. So women might think guys are ugly but it doesn’t effects how much they talk to them.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 08:43 PM
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No vibrators don’t turn me on. Once I’m already turned on I use it to make me cum. Usually I need some combination of my imagination or porn before I’m in the mood. I have a connection with the vibrator because it’s an extension of me. I’m controlling it. I just need to be comfortable with myself. If someone else was using it on me, I’d need a connection to them
/r/AllPillDebate08/07/23 05:21 PM
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That might be true but I can tell you as a person that owns several vibrators, none of them feel as good as someone’s tongue. That’s something that no toy can replicate. Girls don’t get excited by dick at all. Guys likes disembodied body parts. Girls like people who have dicks. If she’s not excited before you’re dick’s out you already fucked up. Once it’s out she cares about whether you can make her cum.
/r/AllPillDebate08/07/23 04:01 PM
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You’re comparing two different things. Our attraction is influenced by our culture, upbringing, and traits. We all have different upbringings and culture. That doesn’t mean we can choose who we’re attracted to. It means that our preferences can change over time depending our experiences and maturity. It’s not that we depend on our peers for mate approval, it’s that our peers are likely to share our values. It’s the different between cause and effect. I’m geeky and nerdy. That influences my taste…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:19 AM
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I’m 5’7 and had say the wished I was shorter. My sister is 5’10 and had guys say they liked her but wished she wasn’t so tall. My 4’11 friend gets so many men that are attracted to her height.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:55 AM
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That looks sub looks horrifying. Most women don’t use dildo’s at all. Clitoral stimulators are by far the most popular type of sex toy. I don’t know why guys just won’t believe that have a guy bang against your cervix is really fucking painful. Guys with big dicks have issues convincing women to sleep with them. The first 1/3 is where most of the nerve endings are. No matter what size your dick is, you’ll be more successful making a woman cum with your hands and fingers. Does that mean size does…
/r/AllPillDebate08/07/23 01:20 AM
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I’m not being autistic, you’re just being purposely vague. I don’t think that playful flirting is going out of your way to gets someone’s attention. You have to have their attention to flirt. I also don’t think that’s a fair way to judge whether someone find you attractive compared to having sex with them. I’ve flirted with a lot of people I’m not interested in at all. When my bestie is getting dressed and I say “damn girl that ass is looking fat it makes me wanna slap it!” Or tell my gay friend…
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 11:58 PM
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What do you mean by “going out of their way to get you to notice them.”
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 11:11 PM
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What do you consider a sign of physical attraction. I think spending time with someone, making out with them, and putting their penis in your mouth and vagina are all pretty good signs of physical attraction. Do you think men are having random dry sex?
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 10:26 PM
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A greater amount of men stay single by choice. Out of 100 percent of young men 31% aren’t look for anything and 12% only want casual dating. That’s 43% of young men. Out of 100% of young women, 22% aren’t looking for anything and 5% are only want casual dating. That’s 27% of young women. More men choose to be single. The disparity comes from the men and women who want to be in relationships but aren’t. About 8% of young men want to be in committed romantic relationships but aren’t and about youn…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:29 PM
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How does that change what I said about guys wanting to bang a bunch of women? Do you think the hundreds of men who hit on those girls are all looking to be in a monogamous relationship them?
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 02:11 PM
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So the obese ugly girls, who are they sleeping with? Are they in relationships. Do you notice them at all? I remember being jealous of an obese ugly girl because she found a guy who was super into her and they dated all through college. Meanwhile the average guys wanted the opportunity to bang a bunch of girls and did not want to be in a relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 05:33 AM
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So honest question, are there unattractive girls on you campus. I found that unattractive people were partners up and participate in party life. As an an average girl I found that hot guys weren’t interested unless they just wanted to fuck and they stuck out with hot girls.
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 04:01 AM
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That’s interesting because went I went to college girls would dress up, go out together and come home together. There was a code that you didn’t leave your drunk friend behind. The only exception was if they were with a guy that they had been obsessing about beforehand. Are you saying that at your school only 20% of guys are getting laid?
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 03:09 AM
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So now we’re going to rely on our own personal assumptions. If that’s the case I’d argue that fat-shaming behavior is less tolerated than thin praising. A man would get much more negative attention for telling a woman I don’t think you’re attractive because you’re fat than I think you’re attractive because you’re thin. Really I was being generous by saying the two things received the same amount of backlash but in reality, in public expressing a dislike of fat people is going to cause more issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:08 AM
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The premise is illogical because he specifically said he’s learned not to mention weight at all because it would incur a negative reaction. Therefore, when it comes to negative reactions it would make no difference if he said he preferred thin of did not prefer overweight. If both response will result in the same downside than logically you should chose the response with the higher upside because it’s provides more value overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:53 AM
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So GSS number indicates that 50% of guys age 18-20 haven’t had sex since their 18th birthday not that they are virgins. The number is an average. Let’s say that 75% of 18 year old are virgins but 25% of 19 year olds are. The average would be 50%. That why the average for 18-25 is like 27% even though it a 18% for 20-22 and 7% for 22-24. The only age range What the data shows it that a lot of men are having sex in their last year of high school and first year of college. The age where people lose…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:46 AM
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If he said fit thin and in shape it would tell people what his preference is and there wouldn’t be a need for deductive reasoning. If I said sprite there wouldn’t need for people to guess what I want. I don’t know if you’ve taken the LSAT but this sound like an analytical reasoning problem. Instead of having to deduce the preference you could just tell people what your prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:24 AM
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I don’t believe that most men will only have one woman that’s interested in them for their entire lives. If that were the case, most men would just marry the first girl the ever had sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:16 AM
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That’s a weird way to state a preference. I’m guessing that you probably don’t want someone severely underweight either. You probably wouldn’t be attracted to some one who lost a ton of weight but has loads of loose skin. You might not like a woman who’s super muscular. By saying not overweight, you’re not stating you’re preference. If there are a lot of soda’s available, I’d prefer sprite, I might take an orange soda but I don’t like cola and I hate root beer. If someone asked for my preference…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:09 AM
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Men can't sit on their fat asses and swipe on dating apps? Pretty sure more men do that than women.
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 11:49 PM
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I'm really trying to figure out why yall think this isn't a looks matched couple. They are both very good looking people.
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 11:46 PM
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Men live in an alternate reality. Going out in public dressed promiscuously to reject men sounds like a good way to get, harassed, assaulted, sexually assaulted, or raped. If you are raped people are going to blame you for dressing like a slut and leading guys on. The math ain’t mathing in this scenario. Places that women go dressed promiscuously are usually going to have a lot of guys. Clubs let women in free so it won’t be a sausage fest. How are all these women going home with 20% of men? Who…
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 10:44 PM
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You should read the report. 62% of LGB men are single vs. 32% of all men. 37% of LGB women are single vs 28% all women. 35% of single women are looking compared to 50% of single men. 41% of single women who are looking, only want a committed relationship. That means that 4.8% of young women and 7.8% of young men are involuntarily single. About 30% of young women and about 40% are voluntarily single. The most often cited reasons for not dating for not men and women are 1. Have more important prio…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:36 PM
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That's not what I'm saying at all. Here are some key points about the Pew research 63% of men under 30 describe themselves as single. 50% of single men are not looking for any kind of relationship. 19% of single men are only looking for casual dates. Single means not in a committed romantic relationship. So casual dates and looking to hook up, still makes you single. So let's take the half that are not looking at all out of the equation, and you get 31.5. Now take out 19% that are only looking f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:28 PM
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There’s a huge gap between. ONS and committed romantic relationship. A lot of young guys with options want to keep their options open. Long term casual, FWB, open relationships and serial monogamists can all be categorized as single under the pew definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:46 PM
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The 63% number includes fuckbois and chads. It’s people who aren’t in a committed, romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:58 PM
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If a woman is attracted to a guy his pass failure with women won’t change her mind. If a guy is attracted to a woman her past promiscuity can change his mind. If a man and a woman are married and she finds out he used to get played by women it probably not going to make her feel differently. If the husband finds out she banged a 100 guys after going out once, he’s probably going to have issues. Your husband used to be a simp doesn’t carry the same stigma as your wife used to be a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:18 AM
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It not because if you kept getting used and kept wasting money, it wouldn’t diminish your value once you stopped. If you went on dates with women 100 women who used you for money, you wouldn’t lose value with women you met after the fact. If a woman was used for sex by 100 men for sex, or even just had sex with 100 men, a significant amount of men would view her as less valuable. Let’s say you took a different woman out every week for 5 years, paid for the date and didn’t get laid, you’d be upse…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:11 AM
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I think the discrepancy come from saying no vs saying not at this time because of xyz. I truthfully told guys that I was very busy and if I took their number chances were I wouldn’t be able to talk or meet up much. If a guy that said okay well good luck that was the end of it. If I guy said “I understand, I’m okay taking my time, can we talk sometime and if you have some free time maybe we can go out, they had a shot. If I told a guy no that meant no, but I didn’t always say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:57 AM
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My pop pop used to say that “crazy pussy is the best pussy. Men will go through hell and high water for a crazy bitch” He also taught us that men don’t value women that don’t create a continual challenge. Men respond best when they have to work to get you and work to keep you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:46 AM
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I don’t think your experience is equal because you don’t lose value with women because you were used for money. If you did that 100 times and stopped, women wouldn’t say you’re low value, not husband/father material, ran through, or have lower SMV. If a woman did that 100 times things would be a lot different. I do think that your example can give men insight and hopefully empathy into how it feels to be used by the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:34 AM
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The study used a novel methodology. It asked people who they though way romantically desirable and then asked what factors might contribute to their desirability. So think about like this. They asked men and women who’s likely to be pursued. Then they asked if those people were hot, outgoing, a trendsetter, and so on. There are a few issue with that methodology. First they didn’t ask about personal preference but rather what people felt others were interested in. Secondly, if all men thought guy…
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 04:00 AM
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Results revealed that romantically popular men are physically attractive, outgoing, and seen as trendsetters. So two of the three traits have nothing to do with physical attractiveness? I didn’t dismiss your article, I conceded it’s thesis. I just didn’t feel it’s appropriate to only evaluate it based on the abstract. The same is true for this study. My thesis is that looks aren’t the most important factor in who women chose to have sex with. I didn’t say that it wasn’t a factor and that it didn…
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 03:19 AM
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This is just an abstract about initial attraction. I concede that if you only interact with a guy for 3-8 minutes, their physical attractiveness are the most important factor in whether you find them attractive. That doesn’t mean that attractiveness is the most important factor when it come to having sex with a man. Most women won’t have sex with a guy after talking to them for under 10 minutes.
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 02:54 AM
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They really aren’t though. A looks matched guy who’s charismatic will be more desirable than a guy who’s significantly hotter than you. At some point being much hotter than a woman causes to cause a decrease in interest. According to okay Cupid, most attractive males received the lowest absolute response rate of any group with the least attractive women. Ugly men did better than chads when it came to ugly women. Average to low average did the best. The same wasn’t true for men. The three top cat…
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 02:11 AM
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A super charismatic man with below average looks can get more play then as super good looking man with below average charisma is everything else being equal.
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 01:37 AM
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They aren’t even the most important thing.
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 01:32 AM
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The truth is the most important factors to sleeping with women are personality, looks, and money in that order. Think about it like assigning points to a character. If you have 18 points and you spend 10 on one trait and 4 on the other two the, rizzed up dude is going to slay more than the chad, and the high income dude. The 10 point Chad will be able to get more initial attention but won’t be able to close the deal. The 10 point wealthy guy will only get women by buying their attention and only…
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 08:58 PM
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TikTok gives a warped view of male appearance but it’s know where near as warped view of give of female appearance. Just look at how the filters alter make vs female faces.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 08:23 PM
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That and men and women might define single differently. Pew asked if you were in a committed, romantic, relationship. Women might be more likely to infer commitment based on romance and intimacy. Men might be more likely to view commitment and romance separately. In my experience, if a woman is in a monogamous romantic relationship with a man, she’s less likely to think of herself as single regardless of whether she has a label or not. Men on the other hand are more likely to view themselves as …
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 06:51 PM
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I find this answer strange since so many men on this sub complain about the standards of women they say they don’t want. Who cares is fat women, high body count women, and single moms call you incels, say you’re creepy, and make fun of you for being short or broke? A lot men on this sub care.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 06:08 PM
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First that happened in the 80’s it was like 40 years ago. Second he didn’t say any of those women were exclusively having sex with him. He said he was dating around a lot in NYC and LA. They were probably dating too. Finally stats say that only 14% of men have ever used hooker in their lifetime. 98% of men have sex by age 25. That means that men are having sex with women.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 01:20 AM
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Moving to the city might give you better opportunities but it will also increase your living expenses so it’s not fair comparison. It’s really hard to start a family on a single income these days. I was in the same boat and went back to get a law degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:29 PM
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You said family, but would you be okay working that much if your wife didn’t want kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:27 PM
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I was under the impression that you thought a man could support a wife and kids on the average salary. The OP mentioned kids and the post you responded too said most men can’t afford that lifestyle. You said it’s doable. With one kid you might scrape by you won’t have a dime left to even go out to dinner on occasion. You couldn’t even afford a modern gaming console. A guy could probably support a wife on 40k but if there’s no kids, why wouldn’t both of you want her to work?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:14 PM
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For a family? That’s barely doable. You make 50k a year. That mean you net about 35k after federal withholdings. On the low end. It’s $1,000 for a decent 2 bedroom. You have 23k low end cost of utilities is $400 a month You have 19.4K USDA says a thrifty food budget for a family of 4 is about $1,000 a month. You have 7.4K Add 200 a month for clothes and toiletries. Kids need a completely new wardrobe every season. You’re at $5000. You’re probably going to need a car unless you’re in the city. Ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:44 PM
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My guess is they don’t actually have many male friends IRL and if they do they are mostly young or maladaptive. There’s no way any one in their 20’s who know men in their 20’s or older think only 10% of men are getting laid.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 10:00 PM
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Dude almost everyone wants someone dark triad traits. Being charming, taking pride in your appearance, using flattery, being good at diplomacy, knowing how to act appropriately in social situations, are all dark triad traits. Dark triad women are more likely to be thin, exercise, and keep up their appearance and reject feminism those are things that men on this sub claim they like. Dark triad traits aren’t enough, you’re attracted to people who embody the negative traits of the three conditions.…
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 07:08 PM
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If that’s true it would go against the idea that she’s attracted to dark triad personality types. People in the dark triad don’t care about being nice to children and especially not nerds because of their sense of superiority and lack of empathy. Being a nerd and engaging in nerdy behavior does not signal dominance and superiority found in narcissists and Machiavellians. Being nice to children and animals doesn’t show psychopathy. I don’t see how Geralt is dark triad given he’ll often risk himse…
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 05:26 PM
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Superman is so boring. He’s not even in my top 50 of fuckable superheroes. I’d fuck The Thing first, or Night Crawler. Hell I’d fuck Aquaman first and not the Jason Mamoa version version the silver age version. At least I’d have something to talk about. Besides the you can’t actually have sex with Superman because it would kill you. It would be boring as fuck. What would talk about?
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 01:46 AM
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Why are you ignoring the part about him being into D&D being the hottest? Henry Cavil playing Superman is boring, Henry Cavil showing up to his nephew’s school to prove his nephew wasn’t lying about his uncle being Superman is hot. Henry Cavil in a nerdy gamer franchise is hot. Henry Cavil being an actual nerd is hottest.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 01:40 AM
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Most men do have some level of gay sex experience. Mutual masturbation is quite common in male adolescence. Men also are more likely to watch porn with each other.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 11:49 PM
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Guess you’re an incel since that’s who I was referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:15 PM
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Good thing women aren’t begging for dick. But incels shouldn’t complain about fat chicks and single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:12 PM
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TLDR: No woman wants to be the pussy of last resort.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:08 PM
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Women aren’t dumb. They know the level of attractiveness they can pull in real life. A hot guy who’s into them on Tinder is going to set off alarms. A guy who’s just looking to fuck is not going to spend time crafting good messages and chatting back and forth. They probably won’t even read their bio. If they are able to get multiple matches they will spend the most time on the hottest women. Most women don’t want to fuck a guy just because he’s hot. Most women want men who are genuinely attracte…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:05 PM
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How many women are into sport fucking? Do you think women want sex with a guy who’s just fucking them for sport?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:50 PM
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Mostly because few men are going to be shorter than 5’7 and men prefer women shorter than them. I think that it’s a confluence of factors. That being said, I don’t have an absolute cut off.
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 03:16 PM
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I’m 5’7 the shortest guy I dated was 5’8. So in general taller than me.
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 02:01 PM
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I want to address your post as a woman. It seems like a lot of the issues you mentioned concern a lack of intimacy and not simply a lack of sex. I say this because I don’t think you’d feel better if a girl came over and used you as a human dildo and left. If she just wanted to fuck someone but had zero interest in you as a person it wouldn’t solve the loneliness. In fact it might make it worse. If I said just go to a prostitute, you’d pushback on that. That’s at the root of the pushback on telli…
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 04:25 AM
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They met at a conference in New York at at Microsoft. They obviously weren’t around each other at work in Seattle. Also according to the article Whatever first attracted Ms French to Bill Gates, he was struck by her forthrightness and independence. On Steve Jobs I looked to my right, and there was a beautiful girl there, so we started chatting while I was waiting to be introduced,” She snuck into the reserved seats and joked that she had won a raffle. She didn’t know she was talking to Steve Job…
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 12:06 AM
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They didn’t meet at Microsoft. Nonethelessis a huge company, they have over 200,000 employees. Most of the people who work for Microsoft are not wealthy. About half of Stanford students are not in the top 10%. There are more people at Stanford in the bottom 20% than the top 1%. Steve Jobs didn’t just happen to choose another entrepreneur accomplished and financial analyst. Those were the traits that led him to marry her. Most doctors meet their partners at work dating in med school is extremely …
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 09:19 PM
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There are lower income women at all of those places. Steve Jobs had dated and had an illegitimate daughter with a lower income woman but married someone who had more status. and But aside from your three examples, it happens among people who aren’t billionaires. Male doctors are most often married to female doctors even though there are way more female nurses.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 06:39 PM
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Most men would fuck most women but they wouldn’t publicly claim most women and tell everyone who would listen that she is their girl. They wouldn’t be faithful to most women if they had more desirable options. Is your rebuttal “most women would fuck Superman?” There is not a man on earth that most women would randomly hook up with. Henry Cavil would get more pussy but a guy who looks just like Henry Cavil would get significantly less. There are guys who only date wealthy women. In marriage, weal…
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 05:46 AM
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You have to drop the double standards. When a woman shaves her legs and underarms is that part of grooming? What about when women curl, flat iron, or blow dry their hair? Grooming or not grooming? Men don’t have to shave their legs, but I’m guessing you’d have an issue if your date showed up with exposed hairy legs. True or not, that’s ridiculous. And if true, why don’t women stand up against this stuff? A woman did stand up that why it went to the Federal Court of Appeals. Three courts ruled th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:09 AM
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Grooming and make up are 2 different things. They really aren’t though. Just lookup tips on how to be well groomed as a woman, and almost every site will mention makeup. Even Federal Appellate Court have held that makeup was part of women’s grooming. Regardless, I said Not just makeup and clothing but all the things that going into making yourself attractive. Followed by I preferred paying for myself because then I wouldn’t be obligated to spend all that time getting ready. If I just put in make…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:09 AM
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By the same normative standards that say that men should pay and if they pay women are supposed to show up as the most groomed and attractive version of themselves. Also men believe that paying for dates gives them leverage and in some cases, obligates women to have sex. The only time I’ve heard men complain was because they felt like it wasn’t fair if the women was going to fuck them after. I’ve had way more men refuse to let me pay because they felt like if I paid I wouldn’t have a reason to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:03 AM
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I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:55 PM
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Not just makeup and clothing but all the things that going to making yourself attractive. I guess he expects women to be completely shaved if not waxed, have hair and nails done, wear perfume, and apply makeup as well as a TikTok creator. It costs a lot of money and takes a lot of time. I met a guy once that was complaining about having to pay for first dates. I told him I preferred to pay for myself because then I wouldn’t be obligated to spend all that time getting ready and he wouldn’t expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:20 PM
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The vast majority of men could get a girlfriend by learning to chat women up and trying it with women their attractiveness band.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:22 AM
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Women don’t care as much about looks. Highly attractive and desirable women will be in long term committed relationships with ugly men if they have other attributes. Highly desirable and attractive men will rarely do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:01 AM
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Women don’t orgasm because a guy is hot. Your article didn’t show that. They couldn’t even say whether the orgasms were caused by being hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:51 PM
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I have. The biggest difference is spontaneous desire vs responsive desire. Men have much more spontaneous desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:47 PM
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But gay men cum less than straight men. So guys with guys less than guys with girls, and girls with guys with less than girls with girls. Also lesbians are more likely to have sex without both people wanting or trying to achieve orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:44 PM
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I haven’t experienced that. But even still, women have significantly more orgasms masturbating vs having intercourse. One afternoon session can produce more O’s than a month of regular sex with a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:40 PM
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It’s cute that you cited the daily male headline and not the article https://www2.psy.uq.edu.au/~uqbziets/Puts%20et%20al%20EHB%202011%20higher%20orgasm%20freq%20with%20more%20masculine%20partners.pdf If you read it you’ll notice that the authors point out relationship length as being one of the determining factors for orgasm, and specifically say the results could be based on skill and not on attractiveness. Basic correlation vs causation argument. So women in long term relationships have more o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:37 PM
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Who’s having constant sexual activity? Male and female sexuality is different because women are better at making people cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:18 PM
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You can’t have sex with an ugly girl? If you have no attraction to her, you couldn’t fuck her with the lights off?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:17 PM
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Both men and women like orgasms. For men sex = orgasm. For women, sex might lead to orgasm. That’s why there are so many sex toys for woman. In a relationship with a reliable partner, a woman’s libido can easily exceed the guys. But in causal sex you’re more likely to get the result of a bad dry handjob at worse and blue balls at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:15 PM
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I’m pretty sure both people are going on the date. Also I didn’t know that men didn’t enjoy eating, having conversations, watching movies, playing mini golf, going to the arcade, driving bumper cars or the host of other activities people do on dates. I’m pretty sure they dates comprise people going out to for mutually enjoyable activities. Secondly women don’t orgasm because a guy is hot. Only 40% orgasm when they have sex outside of a relationship. So either most woman are hooking up with guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:05 PM
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After the civil war men got the short end of the stick? Care to explain how?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:44 AM
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Who were you talking about when you were talking about the civil war? Who got the short end of the stick?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:36 AM
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But that’s the problem. Women want hugs and intimacy with no expectation or desire for sex and they want it from people. Men want intimacy from women with at least the possibility of sex. It’s hard for us because we experience non sexual intimacy that’s fulfilling and platonic. So when men on this sub talk about sex in relation to this issue, it feels disingenuous. It sounds like y’all really just want to have sex and hopefully get hugs and stuff in between. It also means that what every girl yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:32 AM
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Are people born without family? I talk to my sisters more than anyone. I didn’t need a partner to create them. I also have friends. Also I’m in my 30’s and all of my close friends have families and they still have time for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:22 AM
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Do you think that Lizzo can’t get men to fuck her? Do you think that men won’t fuck fat women if that’s the only people they can fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:12 AM
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The closest I can compare it to is having women only use you for dates while never having any plans on being intimate with you and you have to eat food you don’t like and listen to them tell you about other guys. Yes you are going out and getting what a lot of other people complain about not getting. But, they don’t like you and are only using you to get what they want. They don’t care if you enjoy it at all. Now imagine if they actually pretended they were into and gassed you up only to ghost y…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:08 AM
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Women did get the short end of the stick when compared to men. Black women weren’t treated equally to black men after the civil war. Was it wrong of them to complain about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:59 AM
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Definitely. Black men prefer black women overall. It’s just that a vocal minority says despicable things about black women, some even while continuing to date them.
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 01:30 AM
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The majority of woman don’t respond back either so I don’t see your point. My point is looking at who women message first would give you a better understanding of who they are seeking out. What you’re not accounting for is the number messages received. Let’s say black women get 1000 messages on average and reply to 10% of them. Out of the messages, 950 are from black me and 50 are from non black men. If they respond to the 6 non black man and 94 black men, statistically they are more likely to r…
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 12:20 AM
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This doesn’t show overall preference. It just shows that for the messages black women get from other races they are slightly more likely to respond. Part of it could be due to the most of their messages coming from black men. If you get 95% of messages from members of your own race you might be more likely to answer messages from other people just because of novelty. Does the book show that black women initiate contact more often with non black men?
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 10:39 PM
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What percentage of black men do you think are bigger than 6 inches. I promise you white women are fucking black men with average sized and smaller dicks.
/r/AllPillDebate16/06/23 05:58 PM
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First black women are the least likely to request child support, get the lowest amount awarded, and receive the fewest amount of payments if any of any group. Only 1/4 of black single moms receive any child support. You’re more likely to get put on support if you have a child with any other race of woman. Secondly, there are so many broke black men who absolutely slay. Most studies report that black men have more frequent sex and more sexual partners than their counterparts of other races.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 04:27 PM
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Most black women, the only other group of women I’ve seen be similarly race loyal are Native American women.
/r/AllPillDebate12/04/23 01:17 PM
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Yes it’s cultural. Black women think that other men will only fetishize them and shamed for dating outside of their race. It’s not about skin color. Black women will date a light skin black man but most won’t date a dark skin person of any race.
/r/AllPillDebate12/04/23 11:49 AM
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That’s how I use mine. Can’t speak for all women. But most women use clitoral stimulators over dildos.
/r/AllPillDebate06/04/23 11:36 AM
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Because you can insert less than 6 inches if you have a 6 inch dildo. That means that most women don’t need more than 6 inches not that women need the full 6
/r/AllPillDebate06/04/23 04:06 AM
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It’s crazy that men think they know what’s it’s like to have a vagina. I was sprung on a guy below 5 inches.
/r/AllPillDebate06/04/23 04:05 AM
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BBC is an acronym for big black cock. As a black woman, I know that most black men are average or below. The black guys that are above average think it’s because they’re black. In my experience, white dudes who are packing think they’re small compared to white guys. Some of it is porn. If you want to do porn and you’re a black dude you need to be huge.
/r/AllPillDebate01/04/23 03:59 AM
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Black women are almost exclusively with Black men. Dick size is not correlated to skin color.
/r/AllPillDebate31/03/23 12:05 AM
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It didn’t happen to me but it’s not uncommon for guys over 21 to give younger woman alcohol to get them loose. Happens all the time at college parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:46 PM
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Considering the people with the oldest modern human DNA are from Africa and have some of the highest neotenic faces, more likely that later humans selected less for neotany. More likely, the of the variations in neotany probably comes from a combination of mixing with other hominids, natural selection and sexual selection.
/r/AllPillDebate24/03/23 10:35 PM
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I’m not speaking for most women but I find 27 year olds that are mostly attracted to late adolescences disgusting. Especially since “barely legal” describes a body type that’s clearly adolescent and not associated with full physical or mental maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:00 PM
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We’re talking about adults dating teenagers. If you aren’t going by when people are full legal adults or even universal age of majority, you’re talking about children
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:56 PM
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So not high school and not barely legal?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:11 PM
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The age of consent in most jurisdictions is 16. Are you okay with adults having sex with 16 year olds because it’s a legal relationship? Child marriage is permitted in some states. If that same teacher married one of his 13 year old students, would you have an issue with that? It would be a legal relationship. Also a legal adult varies by jurisdiction. Some states have age of majority of 21, and some states have different ages for civil and criminal matters. 21 is the age where you are a full ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:11 PM
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You’re moving the goal posts. No not all of my relationships were healthy. None of my relationships involved an adult supplying a minor with drugs or alcohol to have sex with them. Also they weren’t whining. We were just having conversations about relationships. Some of the women I spoke too were married with teenagers of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:33 PM
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People aren’t usually in high school when they’re 21. Also everything I’ve seen says men find 24 year olds the most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:10 PM
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No they tell me about guys they were obsessed with. I don’t think you understand how women talk about sex. Generally they guys said they were special and more mature. Generally girls were vulnerable like in foster care, abusive households etc. The men convinced the them to do things sexually they wouldn’t have done otherwise because they were in a real adult relationship. The guys were controlling and manipulative. There was usually drugs and always alcohol involved. The guys almost always had a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:06 PM
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High value men don’t want high schoolers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:53 PM
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I believe the question was whether I thought both parties were equally culpable. I don’t on the extreme end, a 13 can be attracted to an adult but the adult bares all the responsibility. If it’s a 18 year old and a 24 year old, the 24 bares more responsibility. Legally there’s nothing wrong but it’s morally reprehensible to me. If someone was into barely legal I’d be disgusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:52 PM
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No, the older person definitely bares more responsibility. I had a huge crush on my 8th grade teacher. Me and several other girls flirted with him constantly, if he ever did the same to us it would be fucked up and he’d be wrong. If you’re a past college age and you’re cruising high school girls it’s creepy. If I knew a college senior and they were dating a high school senior, it would be creepy and I’d put the blame on them. If one of my law school friends was dating a high school senior or col…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:00 PM
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I must have, I meant to reply to the comment about Disney world jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:06 PM
1

Please explain how women can easily pay for relationships? Are you say that there are loads of desirable men that would be in monogamous, public relationships for money?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:19 PM
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Men are rarely arrested for soliciting. It’s almost always the women who get charged. Additionally, progressive prosecutors across US have stopped prosecuting consensual sex acts. In short, if you’re in any major city in the US you aren’t going to face jail time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:15 PM
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You’re right, a guy is way more likely to cum with his hand than a woman is with a random dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:47 AM
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Have you been to Disney world recently? The straight dudes get major play off of those jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:42 AM
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Men can very easily pay for good sex with an attractive partner in safe space. I had a neighbor that used to go a massage parlor that gave a handjob at the end. I’d love to go to a place and get a good massage and some hand action for $100 bucks with a safe person. Guys just can’t get feee sex with hot people. They can still have sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:39 AM
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By your data, 70% of men have had sex in the last year but only 40% were in relationships. This means about half of single men got laid Single doesn’t mean sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:13 PM
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Have fun, express your desires, and, pay for a full night if you can. You might cum super fast the first time so having time to go again will help. Fuck the haters, get the most out of it.
/r/AllPillDebate04/03/23 05:59 AM
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Depends on how low each person’s IQ is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:18 AM
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I think that a lot of men would rather fuck random girls than be tied down to one girl. Being single doesn’t mean you’re not fucking. People say “I’m single” as an excuse to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:16 AM
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Madonna has been dragged through the mud recently but she’s not dating teenagers so there is a difference. There’s a difference between dating a 32 year A-Rod and a 19 year old. If Leo was dating a 32 year old no one would care. I think Leo’s girlfriends are beards because there have been rumors about him being gay his entire career, he lived with “best friend” for years but never lived with any of his girlfriends, he doesn’t look interested in the girls. Most tellingly 25 is usually the limit f…
/r/AllPillDebate02/03/23 02:43 AM
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The outrage isn’t just about Leo’s current relationship. It’s about the pattern of the behavior and the absolute age of the women. I’m not outraged because I think they’re beards. I’m just explaining the difference.
/r/AllPillDebate01/03/23 01:18 PM
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Leo’s is not getting dragged because he dated one women significantly younger. He’s getting dragged because he’s never dated anyone over 25. Cher was married to Sonny, Madonna had be married to multiple guy her age, Leo only dates models under 25. I personally buy into the the theory they’re all contract girls. But that’s just a rumorz
/r/AllPillDebate28/02/23 03:54 PM
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So Alec Baldwin won joint custody of his daughter nearly 20 years ago. But maybe part of the issue is that he left a voicemail cursing his daughter out and calling her a pig? I mean it doesn’t look good for anyone to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 02:26 PM
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Two of the three cheated and embarrassed their wives publicly. They weren’t loyal. McKenzie Scott pitched Amazon to Jeff Bezos and was instrumental in the starting the company.
/r/AllPillDebate19/02/23 06:55 PM
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Men had birth control before women. It’s called condoms. It’s probably the best birth control available. Non hormonal, low side effects, cheap, and easy to use. The worst side effect is that sex doesn’t feel as good. The main reason the male pill hasn’t made it to markets is because the side effects are comparable to the female pill, mood swings, depression, list of sex drive, weight gain, and so on. Men don’t want to wear condoms, they aren’t going to put up with that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:06 AM
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Creepy guy are guys who make unwanted advances or show unwanted sexual interest. It’s the unwanted sexual part that makes it creepy. Every guy making advances at the gym is creepy because gym time is not when you want someone to make a sexual advance. If my gym crush stared at me during a set it would creep me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:49 PM
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Maybe a survey of single moms is more convincing? the single moms she surveyed wanted shared-parenting arrangements: Only 13% of moms she surveyed have a 50-50 schedule, and nearly all of them (98%) said they like it. https://www.parents.com/parenting/divorce/shared-custody-could-be-the-custody-change-all-co-parents-need/ There are also a lot of lawyers who will tell you that many men request 50/50 custody because they think they won’t pay child support. Generally it will cost them more to take …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:37 PM
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No this isn’t different for what we think about as creeps. Creeps are guys that give you unwanted sexual attention. Do you think all women want sexual attention from every attractive guy? Do you not realize that we get unwanted sexual attention from childhood?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:07 PM
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Most single moms I know would love it if their kids went to the dads house every weekend. Every Saturday and Sunday would be 28% custody. If you add Friday you’re at 42%
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:03 PM
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Do you think when his kid is older they would have wanted him to fight and maybe lose or not fight at all? Like which one would show the kid you cared about them more. Even if I couldn’t have won I would have just kept fighting and at least made them pay boatloads of money for that team of lawyers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:11 AM
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I plugged in some numbers with this site https://www.custodyxchange.com/locations/usa/california/child-support-calculator.php Let’s compare a guy making 9k a month with a wife that doesn’t work. If he never has his kid and pays $1900 a month in child support. If we give him 50/50 custody he pays $1,425 He works full time so he pays $600 a month in childcare Kid need their own room so he pays and extra $500 a month to upgrade his 1bd to a 2bd He pays an extra $200 a month on food costs. Having hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:04 AM
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Most parties in custody cases don’t have an attorney to represent them. Child custody is not very complicated from a legal perspective. Courts realize that most people are self represented and most states publish guides or at least forms to facilitate pro se litigants. It would have only cost your buddy time and effort to at least fight for their kid. There are legal aid clinics, there’s online guides, there are pro bono attorneys. I’d be sympathetic, but it feels like he didn’t think it was wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:23 AM
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Child support is calculated differently in each state. In PA if you have 50/50 custody you only pay 20% than if it were 100/0. Plus I don’t think most people factor in the cost of childcare. Let’s say you have a school age kid in California and you work a 9 to five job. You’re probably going to need 3 hours of childcare a day for at least 10 days a month, plus about 8 hours for school holidays. That’s going to be another $560-$800 a month in CA. A lot of men end up paying more if they have their…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:47 AM
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Not for the the more than 60% of parties who have no attorney in child custody cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:34 AM
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There’s legal aid services in a lot of places. I have friends that a legal aid attorney for family law and mostly represents men. The truth is most men don’t want primary custody or even 50/50 custody. Do you think all of the single moms don’t want their kids to stay at their dad’s place at least a few times a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:30 AM
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In college the baseball team were known to be creeps. The upper class girls would warn the freshman not to go to their parties, not to take drinks from them etc. They weren’t physically unattractive. They were college age athletes. Yet the actions of a some of them turned girls off completely. Creepy is when you try to get or give sexual attention without consent. There are a lot of creepy attractive dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:16 AM
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Sometime guys become deadbeats when the kid gets older. They’ll be good dads for years and suddenly switch up and start pretending the kid doesn’t exist anymore. You can’t always tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:21 AM
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Kids eat GrubHub and TJ Maxx sells stuff for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:29 AM
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Maybe it’s men that are hypogamus and they only like women who have less than them. That would explain why they are so less satisfied with high earning women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:09 PM
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So the men who are mad women aren’t sleeping with them are going to kill women and create even more disparity?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:41 PM
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If you had 200 interested women and you can only realistically meet up with 20 of them, you would be just a selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:55 AM
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But he was swiping on dudes and racking up matches. He racked up dozens of matches in just a few minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:30 PM
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This gets repeated a lot but data shows it’s not true. Most marriages are assortative. High earning men tend to be married to high earning women. This creates more pressure to marry a woman with comparable income. The lawyers I know who make 300k a year are married to other lawyers making 300k a year. That means the family income is 600k. If all of your friends had a family income of that amount you give up a lot marrying down. Your kids don’t go to the same schools, you don’t live in the same n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:43 PM
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Why is it that people equate western with white? Most people geographically west of Asia are darker than Asian outside of the subcontinent. America is like 40% non white. If you mean white dudes, just say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:07 AM
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Sexual behaviours were most concentrated among adolescents, the least educated and the most impoverished. So dumb broke kids are having the most sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:59 PM
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even white
/r/AllPillDebate24/01/23 05:14 AM
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Black women come in lots of skin colors. There is no singular complexion.
/r/AllPillDebate24/01/23 03:00 AM
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I’m 34 and in law school with people who have no first hand knowledge or 9-11, Lewinsky scandal, or OJ Simpson trial. Forget the First Gulf war, they were toddlers whe the Second Gulf War. Music is a big deal but they don’t know what it’s like to only be able to watch a tv showed the night and time it aired.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:19 AM
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Depends on the prenup and the social environment. No prenup and lots of first wives. You’re good. But women get blamed for divorces more than men so it’s note the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:47 AM
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That not what the study says.
/r/AllPillDebate15/01/23 02:18 PM
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Women need more body fat. That’s what tits and ass are made of. That’s why women are soft.
/r/AllPillDebate15/01/23 02:13 PM
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I mean he’d probably kill her if they had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:39 PM
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Right but there are studies that talk about bias and belief with much smaller sample often at only one institution. Some of the oft cited studies on this sub involves OK Cupid’s analysis of it’s user data. That’s not a representative sample of the adult population. I hope you apply this logic to any opinion that hasn’t be proved through statistical analysis of a representative sample and not just those you don’t agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:29 PM
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I mean the first part I I agree with and mentioned that the women I met were likely the more successful ones. But while I’ve known dozens of strippers I’ve met hundreds of men of different race, ages, income levels, and relationships status. I disagree with your nursing home analogy. I think a better one would be if you provided services to several nursing homes and based an opinion on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:47 PM
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So an class on Analytical Methods doesn’t count as some study of statistics. Oration and forensics like debate and mock trial doesn’t count as communication. I don’t think you know what those things mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:28 AM
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I’ve taken Analytical methods for Lawyers as well as several trial advocacy, oration, and forensics seminars. Does that count as statistics and communication?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:16 AM
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I don’t know why people assume I don’t go outside or talk to people. I’m extremely extroverted and friendly and have had several jobs that required an outgoing personality. It’s the only reason me, a girl that was a virgin all through college, could make friends with a group of strippers. I’m also in my 30’s now and have met men from all professions. My best friend from college is a doctor, my male best friend post college is a cop, an ex that was a firefighter. I’m graduating law school soon an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:41 AM
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Is it also as apex fallacy to say me love young, beautiful, fit women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 09:59 PM
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The girl in the supermarket is probably not going to do what the stripper is no matter how long he texts her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:32 PM
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Considering that married doctors will pay actual alimony just for cheating, strippers are more economically sound. They probably won’t catch feelings and break up you marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:24 AM
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It should be whether you’ll fuck people they know and whether you fuck anyone else ie people they don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:21 AM
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Most people in those areas aren’t making 100k individually. But this wasn’t in those area’s. This was in a lower COL area. You’re right it’s common for certain high earning professions buts it’s not common for most individuals even at the lower end.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:43 PM
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I’m not an introvert at all. But I wasn’t going around bragging how good my pussy was, wasn’t flirting with guys who came in with other women, wouldn’t twerk on the street or the middle of a super market, wasn’t answering face time calls is less than my bathing suit covers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:32 PM
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It’s more that most people will see in their entire lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:55 PM
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I did go to their work places quite frequently. I didn’t worship hoe life. I was a fish out of water and I got to see a subculture I wouldn’t ordinarily be privy to. It wasn’t the life for me. I stayed square, got married, had a kid, got separated and now I’m finishing up law school. Now some of my peers are the type or men that would frequent these women or the type of women they’d be married to. It made me more skeptical and challenges what I had been told about relationships. I’m just sharing…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:10 PM
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But not enough to not do it with other people and pay them for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:06 PM
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I know some who are with average guys, some who are with above average guys, some who were smart and opened legit businesses. Looks are definitely important. If you know how to use your looks before they fade you can parlay into a comfortable life. That’s not all strippers. It also depends on where you work and how you move.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:05 PM
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Strip club after Super Bowl party
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:58 PM
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This was over a decade ago. I’m graduating from law school in a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:53 PM
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I was around them and didn’t get into to that kind of work so I’m not promoting it. I’m pointing out that on this sub men say that high N-count is bad, being hyper sexual is bad, wearing reading clothes and makeup is bad, and those girls just get pumped and dumped. For a lot of men how you look, how you act, and how you fuck is way more important than you’re body count. If you look sexy, fuck like a slut, and act like you’re being paid it a win for a lot of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:51 PM
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But the why didn’t they go after cute broke girls? Why go after en with the most expensive clothing, makeup, and hair styles? Having money makes a difference even it’s it’s indirectly. A girl wearing a target outfit, makeup and perfume is going to attract different guys than one who got all that stuff from Saks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:42 PM
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This was my experience. Virgin until 23, had slept with one guy, had a college degree I was young and cute. But me and my cute thrift store outfits got passed over for girls in sexy, stylish, name brand clothing with all the stuff guys say they hate like fake hair, eyelashes, and make up. Even when they dressed me up guys would look but they wanted bold, confident, and hyper sexual. If I was all those things first then being young and educated was an additional benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:40 PM
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I’m in law school so I’m surrounded by lawyers, politicians or people who want to be lawyers and politicians. I wasn’t surrounded by those men back then. They didn’t take a second look at me. I was surrounded by the women who tried to teach me a few things. Some of it was good advice to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:33 PM
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If you were the mistress and become your old spot just opened up. My guess is that knowing what these guys were really like made the women not not want to marry them. Plus they may have had the chance to get more money other ways and weren’t ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:26 PM
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50 million is quite a lot. I would guess these guys were making 100k-500k. I didn’t here of many that were legit millionaires except for people in entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:23 PM
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Yeah pretty much this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:17 PM
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They were mostly married men with other obligations and jobs that kept them busy. It’s not like the women had to be with them or even talk to them everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:08 PM
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So like high earning Alpha Males?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:29 PM
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Well one was my neighbor which is how I got the job in the first place. I knew as much about their personal live as I did other women. This sub preaches a RP ideology that is steeped in valuing men by how much they make and arguing that’s all women care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:24 PM
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Naw she has other men in the rotation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:22 PM
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I think that red pill ideology promotes those men as the most desirable because they can provide financial benefits. Here I’m showing women who get those benefits by doing the antithesis of what RP says women should be doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:21 PM
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If they weren’t shy sexually, they likely wouldn’t virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:33 PM
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I’m familiar with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:31 PM
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But the guys that are giving out the money are in relationships they aren’t committed or faithful to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:53 PM
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I if I weren’t a virgin until 23 I might buy this. The problem is most men want to have sex before marriage and many men will cheat on someone they know has only ever had sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:51 PM
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They weren’t like that when it was done, it was done.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:28 AM
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I don’t disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:27 AM
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I worked in Philly. These women called themselves whores. I would hazard that most of them wouldn’t be offended from my post. These were the things they were telling me. This was awhile ago and most are settled down now. They never called it turning tricks though. I mentioned the dress codes earlier. Most clubs required top and bottom coverage there were very few places that were full nude and they were all illegal spots. I’ve also been present for private parties in hotel rooms. That was wild. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:26 AM
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Fast money goes just as fast. I mean you wanted them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:38 AM
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I know that because they would talk about it constantly during fittings and while hanging out and smoking weed. I worked for a prominent strippers. She also made outfits for other strippers girls who would led at the top clubs in Philly would be around. I was there almost every day. I also went to clubs frequent to deliver outfits and score more business. I was at a strip curb almost every weekend. I mostly hung out in the back with the girls because I was delivering and fitting outfits. Strip c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:37 AM
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I agree with most of what you said. The women mostly didn’t have much of a conscious. They didn’t feel loved and the never expected to. But I’ve thought about this. For many years now. These men had wives who I assumed they loved. They cheated, lied, and disparaged them. The wives got financial benefits it they all came with a lot of string and responsibilities. Now that I’m older, almost a lawyer, and have many high earning friends, I know how much these wives were fucked over. These guys are p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:26 AM
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So you want a shy virginal girl who not shy or virginal?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:11 AM
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I already got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:07 AM
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What is your issue exactly. Nothing I said was untrue. I never claimed to speak for everyone who participated in sex work and I started my post by explaining what my relationship is to sex work. I don’t get what your beef is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:06 AM
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Those are two different groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:56 AM
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I’m 34. I’m not saying there are some 18 year old that are more attractive and desirable. I’m saying that at least 51 out of 100 aren’t. A beach is a bad example because a lot of fat and ugly people won’t set foot on a beach. Look at all high school seniors and compare them and most (which is more than half) won’t be as attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:53 AM
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As a square bitch I can tell you that our priories are different. Most ordinary girls are not asking for money before the go out, asking for shopping dates, or setting price limits to fuck. They are looking for people who they like and who like them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:49 AM
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They were sec workers and that was their rate. Some charged much less, especially if they worked at lower end clubs. But not many of those girls were buying outfits so I didn’t meet that many of them. They performed on a stage and that’s how they described it. “I’m on stage Friday Saturday and Tuesday.” So that’s how I use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:47 AM
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It’s definitely not all roses. A lot of the women experienced trauma which is why they don’t care about the emotional part of it. A lot were trafficked as teenagers or abused by a male relative. The few that didn’t have that level of trauma and started stripping just to make money faired the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:43 AM
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I’m happy for you. Congrats. Most people don’t get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:34 AM
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They usually worked every Friday and Saturday, and a few weekdays and holidays. If a guys was throwing money and had a stack they would duck unless he seemed weird or was dirty. They worked in several clubs in Philly. Delilah’s, Onyx, cheerleaders, are the biggest ones. But I met girls who worked at most clubs and girls that traveled for event.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:33 AM
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Have you ever had someone fuck you so well they take your soul?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:24 AM
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There were lots of women at it then too. What I found is the cheaper you were the lower your options. Escorts that cost more have better options than street walkers even though they are selling the same shit. The women I knew should clown women that fucked for a couple of hundred dollars. But what I learned is, if you keep a high standard, men respect it. If you wait at least three dates men will put in three dates, if you wait three months. Men will go three months. If you demand money and won’…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:19 AM
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To be honest I was shocked. I think that that men who who went the traditional route and had it fail are more likely to go into to something where they know what the are getting. They also are going to get a prenup. Finally the hos I met were loyal if they had a dude giving them everything they wanted and knew fucking around would mess it up they didn’t fuck around at all. They didn’t care about romance and emotional bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:14 AM
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I don’t know what AMALT means. Maybe they were sluts. Maybe they were were always kinda prudish. They were doing the things these women did and the relationship wasn’t simple. All the men had to provide was money. They don’t have to help around the house or remember special dates or got to events they didn’t want to. I think that was the bigger part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:11 AM
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That’s the thing though there are very few single lawyers and doctors in the world. I’m graduating law school in a few months. They have two or three girls and the women have 5-10 men. They each contribute. They live for free and they only need one simp to try to square them up when they’re older. You’d be surprised how dumb men can get when they’re getting fucked right. Most won’t marry these girls as a first wife but might consider it once they’re established and they’re first or second marria…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:02 AM
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Many had marriage proposals and a lot of them ended up married. They got squared up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:51 AM
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That’s a typo it was 1000
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:50 AM
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I saw the shit they had and the lives they lived and I was a married to a man who made enough that I could be a stay at home mom. There lives weren’t all fairy tales. But if the Red pill teaches that women chose guys because of their resources, they got that without the burden most wives and mothers got.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:50 AM
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I think head is under fuck them well. But what does love get you that infatuation and lust doesn’t get you if there’s no loyalty?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:47 AM
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There are plenty of cute broke girls with lower standards. These guys didn’t look at them twice. None of these women were starving they made plenty of money working the pole and made more finessing wealth men. It was humbling for me as a “nice girl” because they got all the perks and only had to have sex and the sex came with clear financial benefits. They didn’t have to take care of the kids, house and all the other bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:45 AM
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Hell yeah! Had a huge crush on this guy in undergrad. He shot me down but said he really valued my friendship and wanted to be friends. He was the first guy I ever explicitly came on to. He’s still a great person til this day and there’s no animosity. But it hurt for a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:50 AM
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Marriage came out of one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:42 AM
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That works if you’re young and the first guy you’re with marries you. But most guys aren’t ready to settle down until close to 30. But before their ready they will make you think you’re the one for them if it’s gets them laid. So unless you don’t put out until you’re married you’re facing a losing battle. I didn’t have sex until 23. After the first time men were all over me because having a low body count was desirable. But most of those guys were just trying to fuck with no intentions on anythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:38 AM
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Ashton Kutcher was married to Demi Moore for 6 years. JLO was in that relationship for 2.5 years. How are they not viable relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:07 AM
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JLO was with a 17 years younger than her before getting with Ben again. Demi Moore was with Ashton Kutcher. A lot of young guys would be with older women if the older women gave them a chance. Celebrities have the best access to things that keep you beautiful. Laser treatments, chemical peels, face creams made with foreskin. They look better than most of the general public. I know those women are exceptionally attractive. So are the older male celebrities that women find attractive. George Cloon…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:50 AM
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It not look at the bags under her eyes dude. That’s money though. Facials, lasers. And chemical peels for smoother skin. But she has redness, dark circles and bags that not heavy makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:42 AM
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If you didn’t know how old she was and you saw her in person you’d think she was hot. I don’t think men would be into a random 50 year old from tv. I think they’d find JLO attractive because she’s legitimately more attractive, more fit and has a better body than most 18 year olds. Plus she can work a pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:40 AM
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Yeah because I’m sure she’s hideous without makeup. Almost every celebrity over 25 has Botox or fillers. That’s not going to stop most young men from wanting to fuck them. JLO looks better than most woman of any age and she’s JLO. Most 18 year olds would fuck her over most women their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:22 AM
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Yeah because 18 year olds hate women who look like this and have amazing bodies with fat asses and know how to do tricks on a stripper pole. Sure bud. JLO is gross. I’m sure if she came up to you, you’d turn her down for a basic younger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:47 PM
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Generally, men don’t unless they were out of shape of badly groomed. Then they can fix those things. The same is true for women. Generally they aren’t going to get much better. They can keep their looks with good genetics, along with cosmetic procedures. George Clooney was absolutely gorgeous in his 20’s. He continues to be gorgeous. I don’t know many women who wouldn’t date him in the General Hospital/ER days that would date him now. He’s also admitted to having some plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:55 PM
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Both men and women are attracted to older people when they’re younger. I would bet that most 18 year old men chose a 50- year old JLO, 38- year old Scarlet Johansson, or 36 year old Meagan Fox over girls they’re own age. The same way women would be down with a 30’s or 40’s George Clooney. 60’s George has lost a lot of his former appeal. When you’re younger you’re attracted to the physical attributes as well as the maturity, confidence, and self assurance that age brings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:23 PM
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Hand jobs are also called non penetrative sex and oral sex is called a blow job.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:41 PM
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Most women get married eventually.
/r/AllPillDebate05/01/23 01:59 AM
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If you only want to have sexual contact with one person for your entire life and you want the same from your one and o my partner, I have no problem. However if you want to have sex with multiple people it’s fucked up and hypocritical to judge people who want the same. Most guys on this thread are running through as many woman as they can. They’re just mad that number of women they can run through is close to zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:51 PM
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It’s so weird how men think dicks are gross. If you’ve touched a penis, you’re contaminated. I guarantee these men don’t feel like going down or fingering a girl counts for them. They also would say it counts if the woman cums. Imagine is a guy said he’s eaten 37 vaginas and slept with three girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:27 PM
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What if he doesn’t finish inside you? Does that still count.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:56 PM
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Technically no because I’m still married. Probs yes because I’ve been separated for years. But then again maybe no because I’m not a solo parent. But I was raised by a single mom and my dad was a pedophile and this is so fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:28 AM
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Just look at Tom Brady to see how this is true. Drake is getting ab surgery, Rogan got hair transplants, efron uses steroids and has his entire face reconstructed. It’s a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:21 AM
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Or a big dick and yet that myth won’t die.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:14 AM
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This is so messed up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:11 AM
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At yet most men still cum rather easily while wearing a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:11 AM
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Given how it’s more acceptable for women to use toys I’d imagine the chadbot would be more successful. Men would also hate it. I’ve had guys tell me they don’t like sex toys because women fuck them less.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:09 AM
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I’m a millennial and I’m black. Almost none of my older relatives (Gen x and boomers) had any interracial relationships. My younger Gen z relatives have pretty much all dated interracially. I think it’s more common with younger people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:05 AM
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I’m guessing you’ve never watched the twilight zone or “her.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:32 PM
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Or they could go after chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:19 PM
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If they were sentient they could chose whether or not to be with the guys that bought them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:51 PM
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That’s funny because people have asked me if my family was from Africa or the Carribean because I don’t act ghetto. Maybe it’s different in whatever country you don’t want to say you’re from.
/r/AllPillDebate30/12/22 02:43 PM
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I see this weird thing mostly among Black men where they pretend that sterotypes only apply to women. In studies that show Black women are least desired other races, it also shows Black men are least desired by other races. People who think black women are ghetto also think black men are ghetto and like women who act ghetto. If you think about the stereotype of white women who are into black guys, she acts ghetto. Also if you’re no American the ghetto thing shouldn’t affect you. Ghetto is someth…
/r/AllPillDebate30/12/22 02:38 PM
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You think Black non Hispanics sleep outside of their race more than Hispanics or Native Americans? That’s ridiculous dude.
/r/AllPillDebate30/12/22 02:18 PM
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There aren’t any hard facts on interracial dating. Marriage and cohabitation are thing you can quantify. If you just went with people who have ever been with someone of another race, the number for black women is going to shoot up.
/r/AllPillDebate30/12/22 02:12 PM
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Are we talking globally? If so Blacks are going to be way less likely to date interracially. I was using American stats.
/r/AllPillDebate30/12/22 02:10 PM
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There are 3x more black people than Asian people. Native people marry out the most, followed by Hispanic, Asian, Black, and last is White. There are fewer Native Americans and Asians than Blacks, but more Hispanics and Whites than Whites.
/r/AllPillDebate30/12/22 02:08 PM
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Dude the person I replied to basically called black women annoying bitches for no reason what so ever. I agree with your last point though. Black women get so much shit if they date outside their race.
/r/AllPillDebate30/12/22 02:03 PM
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They don’t date outside more than any other race. Both Asian and Hispanic men date outside their race more. They just date outside more than black women.
/r/AllPillDebate30/12/22 01:59 PM
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They date black more than any other race.
/r/AllPillDebate30/12/22 01:34 PM
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Well Bill and Mark married people before they were super wealthy. I’m Bezos’s girlfriend was a tv personality who was already a trophy wife. She was already a millionaire and definitely not a regular person off the street. Also I wasn’t making a point that yacht owners date Victoria’s Secret models. I was saying that if a Victoria secret model was suddenly interested in you, you’d be suspicious. I’m sure
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:55 AM
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I’d be suspicious for the same reason most guys would be suspicious if a Victoria’s Secret model was wanted to be with them. Someone with that many options isn’t going to choose regular people very often. Money is more important than looks. I can date someone who’s not attractive, I can’t date someone who can’t support themselves financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:27 AM
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For me, I’d prefer someone my height or taller. Most guys have been between 5’8 and 5’10. I’m 5’7. I don’t know how I would take a multimillionaire suddenly developing and interest in me. I’d probably be suspicious of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:20 PM
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There’s a baseline amount of money. If you make substantially less than I do, to the point that we can’t go out without me paying all the time you’re going to have to be bet cute and have a great personality for it to work long term. At that point I’m pretty much paying your your company. There’s also the baselines for everything else. Someone who’s repulsive to look at if going to have a hard time no matter how great they’re personality is. Likewise if you’re gorgeous but have the personality o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:33 PM
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The easiest type is guys who are not as cute but want what I got. Not as cute but can get pussy because of personality is higher. Depending on personality it can be higher than cuter guys. Overall personality is better than physical attractiveness. But there are levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:26 AM
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Like Kamala and Kentanji. In fact only one of the black women on the short list to be nominated for Scotus was married to a black man. Lawyers and doctors and such. Black women white male pairings have higher net income that BM/WM and WM/WM pairings. Here’s the thing. Black men are the least desirable among men according to all the sources that say black women are least desirable. Yet they still manage to date interracially. Let’s say the ok Cupid type data is true. And 85% of non black men excl…
/r/AllPillDebate24/12/22 07:51 AM
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I’m black and was married to a black man. I had a conversation with a White married man and an Asian married man who both married women of their race. I said “ I wished I had a wife who would cook for me, clean, take care of household stuff and stuff like that.” That’s what I did as a wife. Both of them said I was living in the 50’s. Their wives didn’t cook for them. They both had to clean the house. They didn’t expect the things those things. I know lots of Asian American women. I haven’t met o…
/r/AllPillDebate23/12/22 05:53 AM
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Or date guys who aren’t black.
/r/AllPillDebate23/12/22 04:59 AM
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I’m going to push back on this. A financially successful black man’s options are better in part because he will probably be okay with interracial dating if not outright prefer it. Black women on the other hand will be more likely to only look for black men. From experience I can say this pressure doesn’t decrease when you’re successful. Successful black women are pushed to find a successful black man to marry to “build an empire” with. However if successful black woman dates outside her race, th…
/r/AllPillDebate23/12/22 04:59 AM
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Bone density not so much but muscle mass makes a huge difference. That’s why the same person can have a completely different body at the same weight. like this It’s also why obese black women can look like this It also factors into health risks. The disease most linked to obesity is diabetes. Black women have lower rates of diabetes than Native Americans Pacific Islanders, South Asians, South East Asians Black Men and Latino men. We’re almost tied with Latinas (12.7 vs 12.4) but we have less dia…
/r/AllPillDebate23/12/22 04:37 AM
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I mean that’s fair. I can’t argue with your perception. To me she’s medium for black women. There a are lot of women darker and a lot of women lighter. I feel like to be light skinned you have to be able to pass the “paper bag test”.
/r/AllPillDebate22/12/22 04:25 PM
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Foundation is more inclusive overall. The vast majority cover Sidney’s shade. Nikki would have issues though. Also foundation match is more than darkness. The key is finding the right undertone. I have a golden undertone and it’s hard to find deep shade with that undertone. Some shades make me look ashy because they’re too cool and others make me look orange because they’re too warm. here’s a no makeup photo of Sidney I definitely wouldn’t say she’s light skinned.
/r/AllPillDebate22/12/22 04:15 PM
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It’s a it complicated because black women tend to have the most muscle mass and Asian the least. The WHO says Asian should be considered obese at a lower BMI. Also a lot of black women have thick thighs and and fat asses and they weight a lot. So they can can a aesthetically pleasing figure and still be overweight or obese. That’s not to say there aren’t some fat black chicks out there. But you can have a body like a brick shit house and have an unhealthy BMI.
/r/AllPillDebate22/12/22 03:55 PM
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I’m black and I’m that color and I’m definitely not light skinned. There’s light skin, brown skin and dark skin. Vanessa Williams is light skin, some people say light(or yellow), red, brown, and dark. this girlis light skin this girl is alsolight skin. That girl isn’t dark skinned but she’s not light either.
/r/AllPillDebate22/12/22 03:49 PM
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I’m black women, I dated black exclusively for most of my life. I had a perception that other races of men wouldn’t be interested. When I opened myself to other options I found them pretty easily. I have had little problem finding white men that are interested. Seriously I can pull white dudes with no problem. Latino guys and MENA guys are also pretty easy. East Asian and south Asian are rarer but not impossible. I think a big issue is that a lot of black women ignore other races of men. I can d…
/r/AllPillDebate22/12/22 03:35 PM
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The woman he posted is not light skinned she’s brown skin.
/r/AllPillDebate22/12/22 03:21 PM
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Fat men date now. Most Americans are overweight and large portion are also obese. Yet most men still get married and even more have premarital sexual relationships. Yes some fit guys are into obese women. I’ve known a couple of them. I haven’t met one that only dates obese because that all they can get. They like pretty fat girls. Lil Wayne was engaged to a plus size model, he can definitely get as many thin pretty girls as he wants to.
/r/AllPillDebate13/12/22 02:53 PM
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I went to college 16 years ago and this couple would have drawn some side eyes back then. My guess would have been they grew up together.
/r/AllPillDebate13/12/22 02:40 PM
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More like the bear/cub aesthetic with some pudge. Probably around 20% to 30% body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:11 PM
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That’s not my type but other women like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:53 PM
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So you choose to ignore the second half of the statement about my methods working for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:34 PM
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It’s not useless because the OP mentioned that women don’t know how to pull women. I was a straight woman. I decided to try other women out and I was able to pull them. While I still go for men most of the time I can pull women if I wanted to. I know what women want and how they like to be approached. I approached women the way I’d want them to approach me. I would use this knowledge to get women if I had a guy’s profile. I’ve also used this knowledge to help my male friends get more matches and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:29 PM
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I’m not a lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:01 PM
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Most guys can cover half their face with facial hair. I think you overestimate facial structure and underestimate fashion ability, grooming, hygiene, and confidence. Have you seen Queer eye for the straight guy? You have to know how to work with what you got and most dudes can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:00 PM
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Learning how to dance well with help you get girls for years. Don’t blow it by asking all all the chicks before the sessions are even over. If you’re going to ask out a girl, do it when y’all are already out or do it when if you know she’s not going to sign up for the next set of classes. Also if you know how to dance well you can bust it out at any social gathering and wow some chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:57 AM
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A few men know what to do to get pussy. It seems like men on this sub either don’t know what to do or refuse to do it. Pussy doesn’t just fall from the sky. The dudes I know who get the most ass also get the most rejections. They just let it roll off their
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:57 PM
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All you need is one better option. Guys go for the apps because it’s easy and low stakes. That’s also why there are so many more men on it than women. You have more competition online than you do irl. You know what works way better? Hobbies that put you around women. Dance classes, meetup groups, volunteering at an animal shelter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:45 PM
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Okay dude just stay fatalistic about it. I’m just trying to help get you laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:21 PM
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I think it’s worse than nothing because it makes it seem like you have options that aren’t really there. At least is you have nothing you can see it and you’re incentivized to make something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:20 PM
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You can shit talk without it being sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:12 PM
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But they don’t encounter women on apps either. They just interact with photos. It makes it seem like there are all these women to chose from but it just a carnival game. I
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:11 PM
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I’m guessing you don’t know how to get women interested based on your conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:06 PM
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Why are so many men here dependent on these apps? It’s really astonishing. Y’all know the deck is stacked against you and yet so many use it as their only way to meet women. It’s an addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:00 PM
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Most of the post was about how I’d date as a man based on my experiences. I was with men exclusively probably longer than you’ve been alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:56 PM
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Some men start from third base. I would be one of them. I don’t know why thi sub is so fatalistic. There are way more men getting pussy out here then there are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:09 AM
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I can pull women now as a woman and I can pull dudes. You have to look cute to pull dudes and you have to talk shit to get women. I wouldn’t waste my time with dating apps because it’s an uphill battle. Even if I was tall and cute I could get women easier by knowing how to approach. The key is looking fresh, being confident. The right outfit and a fresh cut makes all the difference. Also I’d have the best cologne game.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:16 AM
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Did you intentionally gloss over where I said “most” and not all?
/r/AllPillDebate02/12/22 12:45 PM
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You’re confusing the necessary and sufficient acts required to get sex. Being kind to women is necessary for most of them to have sex with you. However kindness alone isn’t sufficient to get sex from them. Showing you’re qualified is necessary for you to get hired at most jobs. However being qualified isn’t sufficient to ensure you’re hired.
/r/AllPillDebate01/12/22 10:08 PM
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I don’t think I would say any two guys I’ve been with are equally attractive. I’ve definitely fucked dudes that I didn’t find attractive enough to want to date if they didn’t have other soft factors to compensate for them. I’ve also dated people I was initially less attracted to than guys I’ve only wanted to smash and chill with. Seriously it’s like he’s cute but he’s kinda dumb and only wants to smoke weed all day so I’m just gonna smash. On the other hand it’s like he’s not as cute but he’s so…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:11 AM
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Women don’t think that. We know that most guys will have sex with us, especially if we don’t for anything. Women fuck down too. Do you think women would be in LTR’s with every guy they fucked if the guy wanted too?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:35 AM
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I wouldn’t say Muslimas are spoiled. It’s give and take. They have a lot more responsibilities than their non Muslim counterparts in other areas. Then ones I know have more children. They breastfeed for 2 years, their responsible for everything in the household. They get almost all the blame if the marriage isn’t working. Cheating by men is often given a pass. There are some wonderful things and there are some difficult things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:13 PM
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Most gym bros were formerly scrawny of formerly fat. That’s why they started hitting the gym. A believe the last part could be true. Heard dudes say they bench xyz so they can handle a big girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:07 AM
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There are a lot of shredded gym bros that are into fat women. I don’t know what it is. They can definitely date thin women but go after chubbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:35 AM
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I know but I still post it for the few guys that haven’t been ruined by the conversation here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:50 PM
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Both of those things vary based on the woman. The most efficient way to learn how to eat out the girl you’re with and make her cum is to do what she wants you to. How much foreplay she needs is going to vary, what type of foreplay she needs is going to vary, how much PIV she’s going to need is going to vary. You sound young. Do you know what experienced guys do? Ask questions. I have dealt with a guy over 30 that didn’t ask what my likes and dislikes are. Seriously be confident to ask for guidan…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:43 PM
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It’s true that women want satisfying experiences but that doesn’t mean the guy has to have sexual experience. Just being open and willing to try things can be enough. I don’t know what you think experienced guys are doing that inexperienced guy can pick up really quickly but it’s not much. A guy can pick up enough skill to completely satisfy the woman he’s with in 3 sessions or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:26 PM
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Men are everywhere. The last guy I had dated was a firefighter who came to my house when a pan caught fire. Before that is was a local artist my neighbors knew. Before that is was someone I met at a comic book store. It’s not hard if to for women meet people in the course of everyday life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:53 AM
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I want someone smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:16 AM
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This is a fetish. It not thirst they could get women. I bet half of them are married.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/22 09:45 PM
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Click on the articles on the links you posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:08 AM
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The posts where people got called out for obviously trolling and most of the post were saying they look better if not as good as before and look better than damn near every day out there? Yeah you’re fishing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:59 AM
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Well most middle class people aren’t smoking crack. If you worked in public interest law you client would have been low income to very low income. I have friends who work as domestic violence attorneys. The pro bono clients are usually very low income. The people that call the anonymous hotline tend to be much more educated and well to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:11 PM
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Women in the world doesn’t map to women in the US. WHO info is only for physical and sexual abusive. There are other kinds of abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:58 PM
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There’s also a fetish for fat women among gym rats. There are plenty of super fit muscled men that like really big girls as their first choice. If a women has a pretty face and is put together her weight doesn’t limit her options as much as you’d think for LTR’s. This is especially true if she’s pear shaped of hourglass shaped.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:27 AM
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Not only want it but degrade women for having it. It’s counterproductive if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:18 AM
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Yet most men get married and even more get sex. If we meet fixing the price of pussy someone should have let me know. I’ve just been saying no to bums, creeps and weirdos. But I know plenty of other women who fuck bums and weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:08 AM
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I hope this makes you feel more attractive. https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wypenw/do_women_actually_like_chubby_guys/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:27 PM
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Naw but I’m finishing law school so I feel like it sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:17 AM
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As long as you don’t send an unsolicited dick pic like some dude from this forum have, I’m down to give advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:16 AM
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It it makes you feel better I have sex with women so I’m a fish that catches fish. I think where most guys go wrong with sex talk is immediately talking about what they want to do “to” women. There’s no emphasis on “with” and no opportunity for them to tell you what interests them. Sometimes guys think they are being considerate but really they aren’t. It’s like when guys says they are going to go down on me because they love eating pussy. That works on dudes. If I say I love sucking dick they’l…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:54 AM
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We already dm’d each other months ago. You must got a stable homie.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:59 PM
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Trying to ease into things without ever talking about it is a bad and risky idea. If a woman doesn’t like what you’re trying to do can make her end the encounter, leave dissatisfied, or worst of all, feel violated. If you want to do it again with her this is going to set you up for failure. But you’re also not a mind reader so you can’t know what to do to get her off. You don’t have to be conciliatory. I’m fact convincing her you’ll be worth her time and the notch in her bed post is your best op…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:58 PM
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Nah I don’t make people do sexual shit they don’t like at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:12 PM
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Some people must have no finesse. Before I have sex with someone I engage in sex talk. It helps build the tension and desire. It’s easy to ask people what they like while you do this. It not the same thing as asking permission for every sexual act. Also whenever I’ve told someone “I love it when you suck on my clit” they’ve done it more. Gagging and deep throating is different than forcing someone to gag and deep throat. While there are some people that enjoy being forced, you should know they l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:10 PM
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Voluntary gagging is different than forced gagging. I gag a little on purpose because it triggers the saliva glands. But a dude forcing me to gag is scary and I’ll immediately stop. You know what works way better? Saying “I love it when you gag on it”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:55 PM
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You have to find the balance though. You can get head that doesn’t hurt her or make her vomit. Plus she’ll be way more likely to do it again. Plus you can amazing head without forcibly face fucking someone. You do that to me and not only will I stop but you’ll miss out on all of my amazing skills. Guarantee it would have felt better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:51 PM
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It’s still good advice to people who stay inside all the time. I know people who work from home who legitimately won’t leave the house for a week. That’s not going to help you find someone. Even if you primarily use OLD people want to see you doing stuff. While you might not attract women with the genre of music, just having pics of you playing the guitar in your profile is going to make you stand out. If you preform at an event you’ll greatly improve your odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:47 PM
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Right! I’d love some couch co-op action.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:37 AM
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Hobbies get you out the house and let you find people who are into what you’re into. If you said the genre and the were into it they would be more attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:36 AM
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So men want to have sex with women because their eyelid have colored powder on them or their cheeks have shimmer? I think that this is a reductive way of thinking. It like saying men are turned off by obesity so if your aren’t obese it doesn’t make you more attractive. Personally I’ve been attracted to men because of clear skin and great skin tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:46 PM
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That’s interesting because clear skin makes people more attractive regardless of their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:33 PM
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What does it help with?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:06 PM
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A don’t know, I’ve had a vagina my entire life and I’ve talked to countless other people with the same. I won’t say that most women prefer this over other guys but it definitely isn’t minuscule.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:05 PM
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I don’t mine a big stomach if you’re big all over. Big stomach and skinny legs not so much. I’ve been with guys with like 40% body fat. I’m not into guys unless they have at least 15% body fat but 20% and up is my jam.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:55 PM
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So makeup isn’t an advantage when women are already pretty. Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:41 PM
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Dad bods are sexy as fuck dude. I’m not into ripped dudes. I love it when they have some squishiness. Also, body hair? Yes please.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:19 AM
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Here’s the Wikipedia link about mahr Ask Muslim men about it. Trust me, they all know about Mahr. Most will have stories about someone they know who had to pay an exorbitant amount. I didn’t respond respond to this thread about anything another than your misunderstandings about Muslims and Islam.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:17 AM
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So people tend to gain weight once they get married. Could it because because of lifestyle changes like spending more time indoors together and not because they decided “hey I landed a guy so time to let myself go?“ Could it also be in part because so many women go in extreme diets to fit into a wedding dress that’s smaller than their usual size? Or that women have children? Or being happy make both people gain weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:48 AM
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Skin care would never turn anyone off. Conceler probably wouldn’t either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:44 AM
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All of those guys wear makeup on set and at events. They also have skincare and grooming regiments . Do you moisturize daily? Do you use skin brightening serums and antioxidant masks? Does your stylist use a separate product just for your eyebrows?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:42 AM
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Women don’t lift often as men but the cardio space at every gym I e been too. Who does Zumba, Pilates, yoga, barre and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:25 AM
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Well took my Shahada at age 7 and was a hijabi for years of my adult life so there’s that. Most Muslim women I knew didn’t work and the ones that did used their money how they saw fit. It’s a religious requirement that men support the family and their children. Women are not required to spend on their family. Also there are lots of Arab Christians and only 20% of Muslims are from the Middle East. Not all of those countries are Arab. Like Iran is not Arab. There are more Muslims in India and Paki…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:16 AM
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Is that not true for women? A girl with natural flawless skin who looks great in sweat pants is going to be way hotter the. The girl who has to cake her face and and spends 2 hours deciding what to wear.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:08 AM
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Yeah except dad bod it totally a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:05 AM
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and men in the same age group gain an average of 30 pounds during that same time, according to "USA Today," So maybe married people gain weight for other reasons or men let themselves go more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:59 AM
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There’s a great skit on “my crazy ex girlfriend” about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:56 AM
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Muslim isn’t a race, most are Asian, followed by Black, and then Caucasian. Also Muslims give women gold or valuable gifts for the pleasure of marrying them and traditional Lou pay for everything even when the women work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:56 AM
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Is the pressure just on having sex or not being virgins or is it to have sex in socially appropriate ways with women of certain status. Why can’t men only have sex with sex workers, extremely ugly and fat women, women who are highly promiscuous. Women are objectified. The goal isn’t getting sex from women, it’s getting sex from the right type of women because that gives you status.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:58 PM
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No I’m talking about the way they approach. If you approach a girl and it’s obvious that you’re only interested in putting your penis in her vagina it’s going to be more of an uphill battle. If it’s obvious that you don’t even care that it’s her vagina and any vagina will do good luck to you. You’re going to need it. Women want to feel like you like them for reasons other than you’re horny. They want to feel interesting, entertaining, smart, funny. They want to feel like if her identical twin we…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:05 PM
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I didn’t say that men used social groups the way women do. But their are overlaps. If you don’t have close guy friends who do you go to for personalized relationship advice? Who tells you you’re being to thirsty? I’ve also known lots of women who will ask a guy’s friend if their single what they’re looking for and so on. The other thing which I highlighted is women tend to do social things with at least one friend. If you also have friends you’re going out with it makes it easier to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:00 PM
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The guy she falls in love with over texts alone is imaginary. You can add texts to further your appeal once you’ve met her in person but if you have great phone game that’s going to be better, next is FaceTime, next is in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:58 AM
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I was a hijabi and got hit on more than when I wasn’t. Literally nothing else changed. There’s definitely a fetish for it. That’s why Jewish women wear wigs instead. There a lot to dissect as about Muslim relationships. First is the value of virginity for women but only if you’re younger than 21, then it’s weird. Second is sex is completely forbidden pre marriage. Third you have to pay women to marry you. Fourth is women are the ones that are forced to wear Islamic clothing . Fifth is that so ma…
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/22 01:53 AM
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I mean they could also just find dude on the street. Then there’s no trail at all, no screen shots, no evidence. It’s not like there’s a shortage of dudes who will offer dick for free. Women don’t need social media to find men who want to have casual sex. Most women don’t use it for that. They might stumble upon guys to date who share their interests, but too many of y’all sling community dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:28 AM
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2nd third Gen guys are better if they aren’t as religious. The ones from religious communities are different. I know reverts that send their kids to Islamic schools. Boys and girls are separated. These boys have a hard time. Women fair easier because they are seen as exotic and evenif they’re good Muslim girls all types of men are into that. What I see from second Gen is guys who cheat a lot. They have a good Muslim girl at home but dudes are for the streets. It also varies by region Pakistanis,…
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/22 01:21 AM
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Not MENA but raised Muslim and was a hijabi. Honestly Muslim culture is not compatible with modern dating. Almost every married Muslim couple I know was fixed up by aunties. Muslim men are very homosocial. They are perfectly fine not being with any women outside of the home. A lot get married out of obligation. I’ve seen maybe 3 Muslim couples where both were born Muslim and they seemed like they were in love. I’ve known plenty of conventionally attractive Muslim men who seemed indifferent to wo…
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/22 12:48 AM
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It’s less desensitizing then porn, requires more imagination than porn, is less addictive than porn , and causes fewer issues with sexual function, and performance than porn. There are otherwise healthy college age men who can’t orgasm without watching porn. That wouldn’t happen if they were only relying on their own thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:38 PM
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I don’t know any women who use these platforms for the purpose of meeting men. Rather, men message them and talk to them on these platforms and sometimes they talk to them. If there were no men in their DM’s most women would still use the platform. Almost all the women I know view and interact other women’s profiles more than men’s profiles. While I do know women who have met people from social media, they’ve never been ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:27 PM
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This is diffused in a group situation. A single guy approaching me and my friends to try to take one of away from the group would make the rest of us concerned. But if we saw a group of guys we’d be more likely to talk to them if they seem respectful. I think that if men approached women they were trying to sleep with the same way they approached women they had no sexual attraction to this wouldn’t be a problem. Women just have so many creepers trying to get with them that the guard it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:56 PM
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You ever here the phrase “a bird in the hand is worth two in the nest?” Well a dude who likes you irl is worth 10 Tinder matches. Most Tinder users are men. If women were really that obsessed with matches they would be on the platform. Men are hooking up less because they don’t have strong social groups. It used to be that you and your guy friends would go out to meet girls out with their girl friends. I see so many posts about not approaching women out with a group. That wasn’t an issue before.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:40 AM
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You can’t nut without porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:32 AM
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You have no idea if they were really laughing or not over text dude.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/22 11:14 AM
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No it’s allowing people to make an informed decision. Even my self proclaimed ho friends wouldn’t let me go into a situation blind if the can help it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:13 AM
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The funniest guys are professional comedians. Are they ugly and unable to get laid?
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/22 11:11 AM
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Except it really does. Try it if you don’t believe me. Start making girls laugh and you’ll get more dates.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/22 04:02 AM
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Then you share information about chicks you’re into before you fuck them. I talk to my friends about dudes I’m interested in. I send them pics and everything. They would let me know before I did that. It probably wouldn’t happen anyway because we aren’t attracted to the same guys. But I’m the rare case I was talking to some one that out their dick in them, they’d be like “ummm not that dude”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:51 AM
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Men care way too much about what their friends think of the person they’re putting their dick into. If she makes you happy why worry about what another dude thinks about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:45 AM
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I’ve never known a women who faked her sex drive. I’ve known women who wanted it all the time but then the novelty wore off and it wasn’t as fun anymore. Same thing happens to guys too. At first they want it 5 times a day and then maybe 3/4 times a week. With a virgin woman it’s almost no way it’s going to be physically amazing for her the first time and she’s not going to be great at it. If both of you are virgins it has better odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:44 AM
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Did an a comedian with Asperger’s come in second of Britain’s got talent? People on the spectrum can be funny. There’s lots ways to be funny.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/22 01:35 AM
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A few questions. Have you had more than a five minute conversation with a woman who wasn’t related to you and wasn’t forced to talk to you? If yes did you make laugh any of them full on laugh? Do you guy friends every say you’re fun to be around? Do you have a good sense of humor about your self? Like can you roast yourself and make other people laugh?
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/22 12:45 AM
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I know a lot of women who had LTR’s with guys they weren’t physically attracted to initially. I know guys who are self proclaimed ugly dude that swim in box. Initial attraction is only one form of attraction. Less attractive guys can get girls. Money is a cheat code but it’s not the only way. Being funny is a great way to land women. If you can have a conversation and have her side split that’s half the battle. Being confident helps. No one want to be with someone who doesn’t even want to be wit…
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 10:59 PM
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I haven’t had that experience especially when eating out with friends, going to parties, attending career related functions, eating at family gatherings, or if I want food from somewhere other than a national chain. Keto’s hotness is just the latest wave of low carb diets. It’s definitely not as big as the Atkins wave was. Most of the options for dining out are the same. Burgers without the bun and tacos without the tortilla and rice. There are more options at the grocery store but a lot of them…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:36 PM
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I think so. As long as he’s making your toes curl it doesn’t really matter how he does it. If you really felt like you needed deep penetration you can always get a toy or an extender. That’s way easier than learning a set of new skills or having compatible sexual energy. Conversely is a guy is too big it way more of a challenge to make it work especially if he’s too girthy. Personally, all other things being equal I’d take a guy on the left of the bell curve over someone on the right.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 03:23 PM
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There were a lot of accusations and reports he on caught on camera groping unconscious women. I this was In 2008 so I don’t think the video exists. There were however email conversations about the video right after it happened. One of the staff saw it happening on the security camera and went on to stop it happening. They then emailed higher ups and there’s messages about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:36 PM
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Seems like this guy has multiple accusations, by at least 11 different women, over more than a decade, in different states. Pretty hard sell to convince people he’s didn’t do anything wrong, especially if he had a major drinking problem. He faced criminal charge in one case and was acquitted. He also paid to settle two civil cases in Massachusetts and paid another $600k to end an investigation by the New York attorney general office. His company paid out even more for other allegations at a rest…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:21 PM
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I like men but I like giving head more than taking dick. Penetration is not my preference.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 06:56 AM
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Good dick is not caused by size. My best had a below average sized penis and an amazing tongue. Most of sexual interactions were giving an receiving head. Most women won’t really care how you made the cum if you make them cum hard and often. Even though he wasn’t big it would be so turned on that I would beg for it when I wanted it. I never had a problem finishing with him. I’ve been with bigger guys most weren’t that great because it hurt.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 06:55 AM
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Wanting lighter skinned women is quite common among African American men. I have South Asian friends that say it’s common for men to only want lighter skin there too. The youth thing is more subjective but on this sub especially men put tremendous value in youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:52 PM
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Adam Levine had cosmetic surgery so it’s not a equal comparison. Stringer Bell was way sexier than Heimdall. It’s not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:53 AM
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Women aren’t judged on genetic traits? That’s complete BS. Women are judged more on their looks than men are especially for some of the things you mentioned like skin color. The darkest men on are are not deemed as unattractive as the darkest women on earth. Old women regardless of whether their tall, wealthy, have light skin or light eyes ect are going to fair worse than a man of similar standing. Men who ate short and ugly can still get with the highest caliber or women. Ugly women have almost…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:46 AM
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Every state in the US is more than 50 percent overweight and obese. LA is 51% overweight or obese https://healthpolicy.ucla.edu/chis/bhc/Documents/BHC_Fact_Sheet_South_LA.pdf NYC is 56% overweight or obese https://www1.nyc.gov/site/doh/health/health-topics/obesity.page 72% of people in Fulton County GA are overweight or obese https://s3.amazonaws.com/media.cloversites.com/9e/9e0d3b55-561e-49d2-ac2f-afa2ad62b513/documents/Fulton_County_Health_Assessment_1-21-21.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:30 AM
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Yeah just never eat fruit, sugar, or starches ever again and you won’t gain it back. Make sure to bring your own food to thanksgiving, don’t eat out unless you go to like 4 restaurants, don’t attend social gatherings ever, and you won’t gain it back. Keto is an effective temporary weight loss tool. It’s extremely hard to do long term because of how many things that aren’t unhealthy but completely forbidden.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:10 AM
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You should really read the full study https://arxiv.org/pdf/1607.01952.pdf The conclusion they draw is a major reason for the difference is that men causally like a majority of women’s profiles whereas women like fewer profiles on average. They also not that the profiles that used real photos received far more likes than the stock photos they used proving that something other than pure attractiveness is in play. None of the stock photos received 50 likes. They all received several times more tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:06 PM
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Where are you getting 50 from? That graph only shows the first four hours. Are you extrapolating that the graph remained consistent? The article says that men get matches more slowly then men. The article also mentions that at least one of the male profiles was just a stock photo with no bio and that adding a bio or more photos gets over 50 matches in either case. With more photos they got several hundred matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:07 PM
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Where are you getting 50 from?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:03 PM
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I don’t see where these numbers are coming from. Read the article several times and couldn’t find the basis for your numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:31 AM
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Where is this number coming from. The article mentions 14 total account. They only specified 6 of the account were for men. 3 stock photo, 2 volunteers, 1 control. In 4 hours they got 532 matches with women. I’m not seeing where you are getting these numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:58 AM
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Where do you get 7 messages from? If we’re postulating there are plenty of other expositions. For example, 3/4’s of women’s profile can be bots, scams, or inactive. I’m my personal experience. I get notifications from Tinder even though I haven’t swiped on anyone in about a year. If I open the app I’ll get several swipes even if I don’t do anything else. Do you think 8% of Tinder messages are women to other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:35 AM
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There are other factors you left out though for instance men are 3x more likely to receive messages from the women they match with than women are from men they match which. This suggests that men match with women they aren’t interested in. Women tend to spend more time on their messages and send longer messages. Men tend send messages that are about 12 characters. Women’s messages are more than 10x longer at 122 characters. This leads one to infer that men are swiping indiscriminately and messag…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:03 AM
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I think it shows that men dgaf what someone looks like, what their personality is, or any other factors. They just want to fuck. Women are less likely to just want to fuck. But what’s interesting is, by inference women are most selective with each other. So they want average men more than average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:11 AM
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Majority is more than 50% I’d say 86% was the vast majority. But I think it would be interesting because it demonstrates behavior outside of heteronormativity. If women are least likely to make h with each other and guys are most likely to match with each other, that show differences about gender that is independent of other factors. It sounds like women probably just don’t swipe on many people and men swipe on everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:42 AM
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Weren’t the vast majority of men’s matches with other men too?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:37 AM
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Muslim men still have to give a gift to get married. It’s called mahr and it’s usually money or a high value gift.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:08 PM
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A lot if not most boys grow small breasts during puberty. They tend to go away after a year or two. Men and women do the same amount of changing during puberty. Women grow breasts men grow testicles, women start ovulation, men start producing semen. Women get wider hips, men get wider shoulders. Is acceptable for men to show off some post puberty features that women can’t. The main one is body hair. Both men and women grow hair over their bodies during puberty. A lot of people would be grossed o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:32 PM
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Has there ever been a time where women in the 4-7 range couldn’t get sexual attention from men. 8 and up? Do you a guy who was an 8 wouldn’t bang a girl who was a 4 in the 1920’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:06 AM
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Greatest professional wrestler of all time, Brother. Say your prayers, eat your vitamins and you will never go wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:46 AM
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I’m all for freaks. You’d be surprised how many many guys say they love pussy but act like they are scared of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:43 AM
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So you would rather be physically castrated, be paralyzed, or find out you have an incurable disease and have 1 month to live, then find out you son isn’t yours. Also if he isn’t your you have no problem making him suffer by refusing be a part of his life from that point on. Interesting priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:37 AM
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I have three tiers of guy friends in this situation. Guys who would smash if I was down for it. These are dudes I’m cool with and can hang with but we aren’t super tight. There’s like 10 dudes in this list. Guys who want to smash but wouldn’t because it would fuck their situation up. They have longterm situations or we know too many similar people and it wouldn’t be worth it. There like 3 dudes in this list. Guys who wouldn’t fuck me if I threw myself at them. These are my true blue homies. I’ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:03 PM
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I mean if that’s how you feel I can’t change that. For me the kid is innocent and wouldn’t understand why the person they love and trust won’t see them again. I guess I’m just more empathetic when it comes to kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:41 PM
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Yes I have one kid. I agree I’d die for my kid. If I found out she was switched at birth I’d still die for her. I also know parents of adopted kids who say the same thing. Kidnapping isn’t unfair because we’re talking about parenting. For me never seeing my daughter again would be worse than finding out she wasn’t mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:38 PM
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I’m saying that my friend who adopted her two nieces love them as much as her bio kid. Do you think that people who adopt kids love them less than their bio kids? If you found out you had another kid you didn’t know about and you met him tomorrow would you love him as much as your son? Or does the relationship you have with your son play a part in your love for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:30 PM
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I never said it wasn’t one of the worse thing my issue was with the superlative. Saying it’s the worst means there is nothing that would hurt a man more. Saying it’s one of the worst means it there are other things that can be equally harmful or more harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:24 PM
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I have a vagina so I can’t do that. But as someone who has no problem reciprocating, that sounds terrible. Vomit and tears are bodily fluids I keep out of sex. Then again if a guy goes down on me during my period I definitely thing that shows that he cares. Either that or he’s a total freak.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:21 PM
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D female. This is true for all my relationships platonic and otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:08 PM
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Oral sex shows that people genuinely care about you? Don’t get me wrong I love getting oral sex but I don’t think the person doing it necessarily cares about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:07 PM
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I think trusting your wife is different than trusting someone who you know cheated on you, dumped you, and got back together with you when she was pregnant with someone else’s kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:47 PM
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I didn’t say he didn’t care. I said he still loved her and was still a dad to her. He absolutely despised her mother though. If your son wasn’t yours would you care if you never saw him again?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:44 PM
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I definitely didn’t literally say that. You literally said that paternity fraud is the worst possible shit you could put a man through I was just rebutting that claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:37 PM
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I’m not denying that it’s emotionally traumatizing. But I think that even in the realm of paternity there are worse things. What if your wife kidnaps your kids and you never see them again? What if your child dies suddenly? What if you pass on a severe genetic disorder and the child has to live their whole life in agony because they are your kids. What if they were sexually abused? There have been numerous instances of children switched at birth. In some cases the parents chose to keep the kid t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:35 PM
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It’s not a defense of fraud. It’s a defense of the men who chose to continue to father the children as a result of that fraud. Those men shouldn’t be shamed and the kids had no role in how they got here. If those men want to still be a dad that’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:14 PM
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Yeah I’m not saying that guys should have to raise someone else’s kids, I’m saying they shouldn’t be ridiculed if they decide too. It’s not fair to call them simps and betas. It’s not acceptable to cheat on and lie to your spouse, but it’s okay to still love and care for the child. Not required, but it’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:10 PM
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So I graduate from law school in May. Trust me, I know what estoppel means. For clarification, it means that if you make previous admissions on a subject you cannot argue the opposite. You conveniently left out the “or” in my quotes. A person can affirm their paternity by signing an acknowledgment of paternity or by holding the child out to be their own. If they do either of these things they cannot turn around and say the kid isn’t theirs. For the latter scenario they are estopped only if they …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:03 PM
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I’m not saying it’s not a big deal. I’m saying that in the aftermath different men will want different things. Men are not monolithic and we should respect their individuality. Imagine it the other way around. If you found out your dad wasn’t your bio dad would you love him less? Would you cut off all contact with him? Wouldn’t your whole relationship be based on a lie? There’s a famous play called “Fences” the husband cheats on the wife, gets a woman pregnant, the woman dies in childbirth, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:35 PM
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Can you show me where a father is estopped from denying paternity if he fails to do so in 60 days? Paternity by estoppel requires that the father signs a legally binding document that states he’s the father like an acknowledgment of paternity, or that he held the child to be his own for a significant amount of time. Most state say that the child must believe that the man is their father. That would take several years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:17 PM
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Never said anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:06 PM
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I never said or implied it’s men’s fault. I said that some men have emotional connections with these kids and choose to still raise them because even if there isn’t a genetic bond, they still want and appreciate the emotional connection. I’m not supporting the fraud, I’m saying that even if a kid isn’t yours biologically that doesn’t stop you loving them and them loving you. It’s worse for some men to find out the kid isn’t there’s and then having the mother cut off contact between the two of yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:03 PM
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I’ve repeatedly said I don’t support or condone paternity fraud. My point was that it doesn’t automatically mean that some men won’t have loving relationships with those children. People ignore the emotional part of child rearing. In my friends case that man is her father. They love each other, they support each other and if anything were to happen to him it would likely be her that takes care of him. She’s like 35 now. He’s not supporting her financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:57 PM
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You can do that but if the kid is your you’d better make sure she never finds out you had them tested behind her back. That could make things a lot worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:47 PM
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Besides them not being biologically yours, how is raising someone else’s kid worse than raising your bio kid? Will the kid cost you more? Will they love you less? Why is it a waste? Again I’m not supporting anyone committing fraud, I’m only saying that emotional bonds can exist even when genetic bonds don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:44 PM
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Can you point me to that state law? That sounds like it would be contrary to the common law statute of limitations on fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:39 PM
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I don’t know of any states where the the presumption of paternity is ironclad. However if there is no way for a married man disavow his paternal status a DNA test wouldn’t help. He shouldn’t get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:37 PM
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It depends. In my case I was married. We know the exact night our kid was conceived, our kid looks just like him. Him asking me for a paternity test would be insulting. Other situations are different. If you aren’t living together, if the dates don’t add up, if the kid doesn’t resemble you, or if you can point to a specific reason you don’t think it’s you’re kid get the test. If both of you agree get the test. But many women who are actually loyal will be offended or hurt if you want it just in …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:50 AM
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He didn’t find out until she was like 6 or 7. I not saying that men should be tricked, but guys in this thread make it seem like it’s the worse possible thing that can happen to a guy and that no man would deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:44 AM
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I’m suggesting that if you’re married you’ve probably have been with them a long time, you live with them, you vetted them, and there’s very little chance she smashed your roommate. If they do cheat you’re likely to have some red flags about it. In this case it doesn’t even seem like she was cheating when she got pregnant. They weren’t together and got back together once she was pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:42 AM
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But according to you her mom is triflin so it would make sense to get your daughter tested. If she looked like you were married to her mom, and yall were living together and smashing when she got pregnant that a whole different level.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:35 AM
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This isn’t the situation op mentioned. This girl wasn’t his wife and they weren’t together when she got pregnant. That’s not the same as being married to someone. Also one of my friends for high school is biracial and both her parents are white. So are her older brothers. Mom cheated but dad raised her anyway. He was a single dad of all three of them when I met her. She and her dad have a great relationship and they’re all closer to him then their mom. Sometimes kids are more than burdens and ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:12 AM
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I’ve never been promiscuous. Had sex for the first time at 23. I think that most of these requirements are crap men spew. Men were actually uninterested in the 23 year old virgin me. Meanwhile I knew self proclaimed sluts in LTR’s. If I guy thinks you’re hot enough everything else is off the table. What I find men really care about is if they know the people you’ve slept with in the past. If she slept with one friend that’s worse than 10 guys you’ll never meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:07 AM
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What about a girl who’s had zero sex vs a girl who had the one relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:02 AM
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There are more antidepressants now than there were 15 years ago and it’s easier to get them. Women have always been twice as likely as men to use them. Men have always been way more likely to commit suicide. Baby blues lasts a couple of days postpartum depression can last for years. It can also show up moths after giving birth. There’s also a more severe version call postpartum depression. I was a stay at home mom and it was the most miserable time in my adult life. If you don’t have any childre…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:41 PM
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Don’t men and women get married in their late 20’s? Can’t you have and rear children without men? Having children makes women depressed. Look up postpartum depression. Single people don’t face lower rates of depression when they get married. It’s about the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:13 PM
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I think women will be fine since they are more sexually fluid and can partner with other women easily. But to my original point it make no sense have sex with any guy who isn’t the most desirable because you’ll get devalued either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:52 PM
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But you also said that men prefer virgins so having sex just once will lower you value if your a woman. It might not be a deal breaker but like you said if a guy has to choose between two identical women and one is a virgin, the virgin gets picked no?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:39 PM
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So you’re saying that sex devalues women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:30 PM
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Sex doesn’t devalue women but having sex with men lowers her value? You said that men have historically preferred virgins so that would mean having sex with just one guy would lower a women’s value.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:19 PM
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I’m most culture and religions both men and women are supposed to be virgins. It’s true in all the Abrahamic religions. To the original point, I’d you believe that sex devalues women, why would women have sex with average and below men when socially it’s all downside. It would make sense for them to only go after the most desirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:48 PM
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Not only this but guys on this sub say they men will have sex with any women no matter how gross she might me. Additionally with all the talk about n count it devalues a women to do it. So not only is sex not validating for women but it lowers her value in the eyes of many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:39 PM
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Women work 5 days a week. Some women go out regularly but most are hitting clubs and bars. Here’s a link about Emirates flight attendants, they have to wear makeup. https://www.townandcountrymag.com/leisure/travel-guide/a14437409/emirates-flight-attendant-secrets-guidelines/ Here’s an article from Allure about women who pressured or told to wear makeup at work https://www.allure.com/story/women-pressured-to-wear-makeup-at-work-as-a-double-standard The next time your on the street count all the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:20 PM
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Did you miss the part when it’s part of some women’s uniform? Or where it’s expected for certain customer facing positions? Its a requirement for some women to keep a job. PUA isn’t required by anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:56 PM
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First I’m a woman. Second there was a chick I really wanted to fuck but we both got shitfaced. So she came back to my place, we slept it off and the next morning i told her she was hot and I wanted to fuck her. I drove her home and before she got out of the car I said if she wanted to go inside and shower, get her head together and come back to my place I’d show her a good time. We fucked that afternoon. Every guy I’ve fucked drunk I let it be known beforehand that I planned on fucking them If t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:17 PM
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Makeup is pretty much expected for any job interview or any job in an office environment. Also jobs that are customer facing. There’s a famous Supreme Court case that ruled that makeup is legally allowed to be part of a woman’s uniform.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:12 PM
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Don’t drunk fuck people who you know don’t want to fuck you. Don’t prey on drunk people. I went to college over a decade ago. That was not part of college that’s why me and my female friends all made sure we came together and left together. This is why we all still to this day ask girls who look super drunk if they want us to walk them home if they look like they might be getting creeped on. Most people in college are not even old enough to drink legally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:05 PM
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I’ve fucked people piss drunk and it wasn’t SA. The trick is to only fuck people you know would fuck you stone cold sober. If you think the only reason this person will fuck you is because they are too drunk to make better choices than you’ve already fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:02 PM
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No alibi
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:00 PM
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None of those things are correlated to size.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:57 PM
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Younger women are more likely to give birth to a child on the spectrum. Under 25 a greater risk than over 35. https://www.spectrumnews.org/news/link-parental-age-autism-explained/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:54 PM
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Women over 35 are less likely to give birth to a child on the spectrum than women under 25. Younger women in their “prime years” are more likely to give birth to a child with autism. here’s the link
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:52 PM
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Shaving all the hair below your eyebrows.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:49 PM
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Then it’s not a strict limit like you suggested.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:17 PM
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That’s not true. Assuming that no man is both tall and wealthy that means only 20% of men are desirable. 3x that many get married. So that means plenty of guys under 6ft and under 100k are getting wives, more than that have girlfriends. I’m other words the vast majority of women who date and marry men are dating guys that aren’t rich and aren’t tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:44 PM
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Some women don’t but most women do. Caring about height is not setting a hardline at specific height though. It’s just taking it into consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 04:19 PM
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But why are you responding to me when I never said that? Personality matters a lot. It’s not everything. Looks matter a lot. It’s not everything. If you think that your looks keep you from finding someone work on your personality. Anything else is being fatalistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:06 PM
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No one said anything about any of the crap you’re spewing. Women care a about lots of stuff some shallow some deep. It’s called being human.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:28 PM
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The point is that women don’t chose men just because they’re tall nor will they be exclude men just because they are short. They care an awful lot about personality and will chose a a more charismatic short man over a tall dull guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:07 PM
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That wasn’t the question you asked. If everything is completely equal than height will be the determining factor. But things are not equal and personality and confidence are more important. So a 5’11 Prince will beat out a 5’2 Prince, but a 5’2 prince beats a 5’11 Lionel Ritchie.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:52 PM
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Stevie Wonder is a musical genius too wrote 13 number 1’s to Prince’s 6. But Lionel Ritchie also wrote more hits than Prince and it 5’11 compared to 5’2.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:44 PM
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The point specifically is that even among famous people short people can be more attractive and desirable than taller famous people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:34 PM
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Correlation is not causation. There are plenty of tall, good looking, famous men who aren’t sex symbols while short famous men are sex symbols. The Weekend is like 5’8 and has been banging top models, Lionel Ritchie has sold more albums and is taller but never could pull chicks like that. Then you have prince who was 5’2 and completely slayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:25 PM
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Exactly, that’s why they’re fatalistic. Imagine me saying I’m black and guys find black women to be the least attractive so I shouldn’t bother trying to find someone decent. It’s pretty much the same argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:01 PM
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There have been men under 5’9 that were sex symbols. Guys on this sub are freaking fatalistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:59 PM
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That link you posted says men are twice as good at detecting flirting than women. Just food for thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 06:07 PM
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Even if 100% of men overlapped there’s still more guys having sex than there are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:04 PM
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That’s their real problem. They’re mad these women will sleep with 30 dudes but not sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:00 PM
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You weren’t to supposed to reply back until you had an actual point. Do you have anything besides an ad hominem attack?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:15 PM
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So you admit it not about hygiene, it’s not a comparison between life and careers, and both of them share the trait of not being forced on people. Now you’re sole retort is that I made the comparison. When you actually have a reply holler at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:15 PM
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Can men be successful at things besides career/life? Can they be successful at video games? At making a meal from a recipe? At finishing a novel? That you chose to narrow the field to life/career is a logical fallacy. All of these things fall under the category of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:33 PM
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It’s not hygiene it’s aesthetics. And when did I mention a career/life?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:17 PM
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Adults grow body hair. Body hair is not unhygienic if it were than men would have to remove it too. Women shave remove hair for aesthetic reasons. It’s not basic if you’ve ever had to remove all the hair below your eyebrows, you’d know it’s quite difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:10 PM
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Why is shaving your legs basic hygiene for women but not men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:14 PM
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There are both men and women who like the chase more than they like the relationship. Since women are usually the passive participant n-count doesn’t tell you everything. She could have been stringing along several men and feeding off the energy but only had sex with a few of them. You might work super hard to get with her. Then congrats you win and you stop pursuing. For awhile it works. Then she starts missing the excitement. These are the dangerous types. Sometimes they have a high n-count so…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:12 PM
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It depends on why they have a lot of partners. Hoes are really loyal. Sex is part of an exchange for them so as long as you keep up your part they’ll keep up theirs. They also know that their appearance is a commodity so they’re the most likely to maintain their looks and figure. They won’t cheat, they’ll leave you for someone who’ll do all they things you stopped doing. Mostly it’s about money though. Thats why so many successful guys are cool with it. They will have a dutiful trophy wife as lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:44 AM
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If they’re actively reading then don’t interrupt them. If they’re looking at the shelves and it’s a subject you’re interested in strike up a conversation about it. If you know nothing about it ask them questions. Be friendly and not too forward. If it’s going well ask them if they want keep talking at whatever coffee place is in the store. Often it will take a couple of contacts to be successful. Chances of you getting a date after one conversation is slim. After a few conversations you have a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:31 AM
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Any one is attractive at last call. There are lots a men who love former hoes. From what I’ve heard, a lot of guys love women that want to enthusiastically have sex with them, are vocal about it, and do it well. If you read books about pimps in the 30’s you’ll find that men would try to “square up” women and move them out of the city. The biggest issue with girls who used to be sluts is other men knowing that. If none of the guys friends know he cares significantly less. Lots of these women are …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:24 AM
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No one forces men to be successful at anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:16 AM
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So she just has to have the right amount of sex partners, but if she’s not young then it’s better for her to be a slut than a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:04 AM
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Grooming standards are way higher for women. When’s the last time you put on jeans instead of shirt because you didn’t shave your legs?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:02 AM
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But like 1/4 of the men on child support don’t pay it anyway and only like 1/2 of single mothers ask for it to begin with. The government will only make you pay child support without an official request if the custodial parent asks for cash assistance. At that point your kid is living in poverty. If you’re working an not giving your kid anything, you’re a total piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:57 AM
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Can you show me a single source where he says he dropped her? Mia Khalifa hasn’t made porn since 2014 is is still the #1 or #2 searched pornstar in the world. There’s no way he didn’t know about her past when he met her, while he dated her, or when they got engaged. Speaking of that there are thousands of girls who make porn and most burn out after a few years. Mia Khalifa did like 12 films and she’s still a household name. Obviously there’s something about her that makes her more desirable than…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:54 AM
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But if he can get all the Stacies he wants why bother with Jane?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:25 AM
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Bookstores, college of you’re attending, nerdy meetup groups, community service organizations, non profits, volunteering events and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:50 AM
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So she’s chasing Chad but can’t get him to pump and dump? Attractive people hook up with other attractive people. Chad is not looking at Jane and they both know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:45 AM
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Even if that’s true, most guys are looking to get married until their late 20’s. I was a virgin until 23. I had guys express interest until I told them that. Then they quickly moved on to someone that would give him the goods and not think twice about it. One guy straight up told me that virgin girls get clingy when you fuck them and he didn’t want to deal with that. The only guys that valued my virginity were way older and fetishized it. It was all about how tight they thought I would be and ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:39 AM
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How can the government be trying to save money if most men are paying? Most men weren’t paying so the government was providing assistance. They changed to laws to make them pay. Even with court orders 1/4 don’t pay any child support. Some states started automatically docking pay so they don’t have a choice if they’re working.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:10 AM
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If the US gives you aid for your kid you have to pay if you’re the non custodial parent. Not for food stamps but if you get cash assistance and the non custodial parent works, they’ll dock their pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:55 PM
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The OP in that thread did not mention anyone’s looks. It also didn’t mention anyone’s income. They were mostly about high school aged boys being told girls won’t like them now but will when they’re older. You can infer that it’s looks or money that will make the difference but the rejection seems to be based on personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:16 PM
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Her first husband was her high school boyfriend, is was an average guy. They broke up before she did any porn. Her second husband is a world class chef and is what this sub would call a Chad. She married a top 5% dude. Seems like the porn upgraded her prospects more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:57 PM
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I opened the thread and none of the comments OP posted had anything to do with money. They didn’t even mention looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:35 PM
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I had a conversation with my sister 20 years ago, she told me that a man can lay down with 50 women and he gets up he’s still a man. A woman can lay down with 2 men and she gets up she’s a smut, whore, trick, or, ho. Men can fuck whoever and it’s excused. Women are judged by who they fuck. Fucking desirable men lessens that. Why would women chose to have sex with undesirable men I that situation when it costs theM so much more?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:19 AM
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Almost all societies have forced monogamy? I need some data on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:20 PM
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Being yourself is undervalued. I’m a woman and really geeky and nerdy. The best relationships I’ve had are with men who share this. The worse have been with guys who don’t. I didn’t have sex until after I graduated from college. I knew lots of nerdy and geeky guys but they only wanted “Stacy.” So I was overlooked. From what I see, men on this sub only want hot women. If they’re also geeky and nerdy it’s a plus. In reality they want Chad’s options and when they don’t get them they’re upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:18 PM
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But they’re married to most men. Presumably they dated them first.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:11 PM
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One of my best friends is a first Gen Chinese American, she married to another first Gen Chinese American, grew up in Flushings and now works in LA at an AAPI non profit. First you’re discounting survivor bias, the people who immigrate to the US are more driven generally wealthier and generally wealthier than those who don’t. Second the smuggling fee for undocumented people from China is 75k. 20x more than most Chinese people earn per year. The people who immigrate illegally are not relatively p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:24 PM
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It’s important because the conversation is about women who have children with men that are criminals and you said it was a guy. I agree that something has to be done but shifting the costs to the taxpayer is not the solution. Especially since NYC is already ungodly expensive. That women seems mentally I’ll and looks homeless maybe dealing with those issue will stop her from stealing from CVS and Duane Reade.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:32 PM
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I agree, it’s just that men don’t value women’s money so it’s not the same dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:11 PM
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And you can have sex with beautiful women if they’re desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:10 PM
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That’s still trying to sell something vs offering to buy something. If someone asked to buy my car I’d want way over KBB because I love my car. If I were trying to sell it I’d ask for less.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:48 AM
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Do you read the whole post? Women absolutely know they can’t land guys way out of their league unless they bend over backwards for them. Men on this sub feel like more attractive people being more attractive is a crime against humanity. Worse they think that have to compensate when you’re not attractive is somehow degrading.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:22 AM
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That sounds like guys don’t want to accept reality. Hot women can do anything and men will fawn over them. They can be gross and take a shit on the bed and still get with billionaires. Average girls can get away with that. They can fuck hotter men but they need to do more than hot girls to do it. They have to dress sluttier, be kinkier, be “cool girls” and accept that the guy is is probably only going to fuck them and will probs cheat on them. AFBB is the same shit. If you were hot you’d have ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:12 AM
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Thinking that men and women are adversaries is a huge problem. Men in women are partners in heterosexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:55 AM
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First that’s a woman. Second if this is your example you need a better one. Considering she stole a retail value of $150 worth of goods and it nearly that to jail her per day, it’s cheaper for NYC tax payers to let her walk. Of course if you want to pay the 35k a year to keep her in prison. By all means, do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:46 AM
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You specifically cited research about MIT grads. I mainly date nerds. None have went to MIT though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:34 AM
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I’m no where near Massachusetts. So I wouldn’t even know where I could find an MIT nerd to flirt with. Not sure how that’s passive. It’s analogous to telling a guy who can’t get laid to go to another country where the women are easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:19 AM
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When did mass incarceration end exactly? Crime rates peaked 30 years ago and we’ve been increasing prisoner in that time. Women must be superior because their the only one that get to chose mates. Men will fuck anything. That type of lower level indiscrimination leads to inferences of inferiority.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:16 AM
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Obviously you think women are the superior sex. Otherwise why would you infantilize grown men. Maybe criminal degenerate men should be in jail or treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:41 PM
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Do you think the MIT grad or the drinking violent guy with a criminal history talk to more women? What about approaches more women? What about know how to have a conversation with more women. As a black female nerd, I’ve been approached by way more non nerds. Criminals are bold, drinking makes you bold. Women are going to go knock on dorm rooms at MIT and ask if there are nice guys inside who are looking for a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:38 PM
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So why can’t men be nonviolent and decent so they aren’t making babies? Maybe we should start castrating deadbeat dads so they won’t make more violent offspring. They seem to be getting of the hook here. Btw not an actual supporter of eugenics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:33 PM
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Men control access to pregnancy. A woman can’t get pregnant if she doesn’t have a guy’s semen. If men don’t want to create babies they can not cum inside of women. And for the obvious trolls. He can also guard his used condoms so women can’t get themselves pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:30 PM
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From the article liked to the tweet you posted The various categories refer to the income level of the census tract, or neighborhood, in which a student resides, not their individual household income level.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:16 PM
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Dude the OP post says Asian Americans parents tend to be higher educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:13 PM
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You mean not for Chinese and Vietnamese? Do Cambodian, Laosians, and Hmong next.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:11 PM
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Wait you’re confusing points. The point that you’re replying too doesn’t say that poverty creates single moms. It says that systemic poverty does. Many poor Asians don’t come from relative generational poverty. Most Asians aren’t refugees for instance. It’s really hard to immigrate to the US. If you aren’t a refugee you’re typically going to be a skilled worker or come on an school visa. which likely means you’re upper class. Smuggling fee from China are 75k usd. That’s 20 years pay for most Chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:09 PM
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Just the fact that they can be in the same place their parent works is a huge advantage. I talked to a white guy who went to a majority black school. He and his friend both got in trouble for doing the same shit and both failed 7th grade math. He went to his mom’s job everyday after work. His friend’s mom couldn’t bring him to her job. He was left to his own devices. You can guess the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:41 PM
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You should look up how pimping started. Also crime peaked 30 years ago while the single motherhood rate continued to climb.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:33 PM
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Do you agree that OLD hasn’t changed society? Social media too right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:19 PM
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I’d say societal factors play a huge role too. We don’t have a problem with people eating Cheetos all day, we have a problem with them getting fat. I have a friend with a thyroid condition that makes her really then. She takes medication and eats a lot. She’s struggled to be at normal weight. People praise her for eating a ton and being thin. I also know people how eat shit all day and look fit. No one criticizes them for it. In America, we love food and dislike fatness, we want people to overco…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:40 AM
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Maybe it’s because someone more attractive is actually interested in her. There might even men out there that prefer fat women and would chose them over a skinny girl. The reason so many fat women are harsh is because there are lots of dudes who think these women should be grateful for the attention. That’s insulting and people who display that kind of behavior shouldn’t be surprised when they get insulted back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:52 PM
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Women are fucking ugly dudes now. Being attractive is not necessary for having sex. It might be sufficient, but it’s not necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:12 PM
1

Maybe it costs 90 grand a month to give your kid the same standard of living they’d have if they were with their billionaire father. Genera alimony won’t last longer than the marriage so unless you have your last child on year 20, you won’t be paying both for anywhere near that long. If a woman cheats during the marriage they are generally prohibited from receiving alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:59 AM
1

The government incentivizes marriage through a variety of ways including tax benefits. Married men make more money, live longer, and report being happier. Men die sooner than women and married men die being taken care of. Married men have some of the lowest suicide rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:57 AM
1

The average person is in 4 car accident in their life. Most 1st marriages last until death. Car accident have way higher odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:54 AM
1

The average driver will be in 4 accidents in their life. Are you still going to drive?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:53 AM
1

That study is interesting because it goes from 0 to 10k a month in income. The vast majority of Americans are in that class. For people making 30k a month situations will be very different. It also doesn’t compare relative earnings. Does it matter if one person makes 400k a year and the other makes 50k?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:47 AM
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Well unless she had kids prior to you marrying her, she wouldn’t be a stay at home mom. Most families decide that one parent should stay at home based on the costs and responsibilities of child care which is more for 40 hours a week than what minimum wage pays. Usually parents have to pay for before and after care, provide meals, clothes, and diapers, and have increased transportation costs as well. There’s also added costs of two people working full time, meal preparation or costs of lunch whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 11:16 PM
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Your first point is an apples to oranges comparison. I know lots of driven people who will never make as much as they would if they had a relevant degree. Driven with a degree beats driven with no degree. Let’s talk student loans. Payments are capped at 20% of your discretionary income. The average income for a woman with a bachelors is $58,000, At 20% of discretionary income your monthly payment are 740 a month or 8,880 a year. However if she maxes out her 401k her gross income is lowered and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:52 PM
1

Do you not date women who use social media? The shit I see on social media is way more radically woke than what I’ve experienced at two liberal institutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:17 PM
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Have you been to a casino? At those odds people would bet 100% of their life savings for a 60% chance of winning. Casinos would go out of business.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:10 PM
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That’s a vary narrow way to look at higher education. Yes some people get saddled with debt and have useless degrees, but most high earning jobs for women require some education after high school. Most careers with upward mobility require this as well. Overall, women with a bachelors degrees earn nearly twice as much as women with a high school degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:07 PM
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The only families that I see work with a SAHP think like this. If the working parent thinks the SAHP is a stone around their neck it’s doomed to fail. Conversely is the SAHP looks at their time at home like a middle schooler looks at summer vacation, the marriage is also doomed. Both partners have to respect what the other does and do their best to support them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:57 PM
1

The person I replied to said do that after they realized they couldn’t lock down chads. I don’t believe that. But go ahead and tell me, when else do women “do that”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:20 AM
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Assuming that’s true, it would mean they were trying with men out of their league, realized their mistake, and started going for guys in their own league. But they still went for them. It not true though, people tend to be married in the same attractiveness bands . same educational level, and income bands. Meaning that men in the top 10% of male earners are most often married to women in the top 10% of women earners.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:01 AM
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I’m going to need a source for that one. The absolute majority of men get married. The women went for those guys enough to make it legally recognized.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:29 AM
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Friend of mine was watching family feud with a bunch of his co workers. Question was “how hot is your husband now compared to when you married him. Him and his male coworkers all thought the top answer would be 7. The top two were 9 and 10. Women rate their partners differently then men think we do. In his mind people dropped a couple of points during marriage. But when women judge men they don’t do it purely based on looks but how much they are personally attracted to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:25 AM
1

I’m a millennial too. Our generation spends money on shit we don’t need for the convenience of it. As a kid we ate out or ordered deliver maybe once a month. We called the restaurants who advertised in our area and if it was close we got up and walked to pick it up. Our generation goes to restaurants all the time, uses delivery apps, and gets pissed if a place is pickup or dine in only. We’ll pay twice as much to get food handed it us then to go and get it and 4x as much as cooking it ourselves.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:47 PM
1

Assuming you start putting away early, you can retire. Even if you can’t you can take withdrawals later so you can at least work less. That’s one reason to invest in retirement accounts. When it comes to leaving money to your kids. Roth withdrawals aren’t tax if your heirs take them within 10 years. I just can’t think of why saving for retirement will ever be foolish. Even if you aren’t planning to retire the tax incentive make it worth saving in retirement accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:32 PM
2

Wow me?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:39 PM
2

Social security is different than saving for retirement. If there isn’t social security then is makes more sense to save for retirement. Even with job hopping there are IRA’s and 401k’s that you can contribute to regardless of where you work. I’m tying to max out my Roth so I can buy property in it and get the gains tax free. Without any of the tax incentives you still should be saving money. Even if you put them in index funds it better than keeping your money in an account of it having anythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:39 PM
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In that case the overweight woman probably has a pretty face and therefore is compensating for the weight. The same way the Healthy weight man has a less than idea face and is compensating by weighing less. If she lost weight she’d be out of his league.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:02 PM
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They’re different categories. Overweight is 25-30 bmi. Obese is over 30 bmi
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:59 PM
2

You don’t millennials should put money into retirement? That’s super important.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:37 PM
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I had a dead bedroom when I was a SAHM. I can deal with that. Child support is a given. I’m never going to be upset about spending money on my kids. I’ll never stop fighting until I get custody though. I’ll also have a prenuptial agreement that deals with alimony so I’d never pay forever. Still considering how much I’ll be paying for nannies, house keepers, and food delivery the next few years, it still might be cheaper after with a few years of alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:31 PM
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I was a SAHM mom. I tell people all the time I wish I had a wife. They would take care of my kid, make me food every day, give me head when I’m stressed out, plus I’d get to be in control of everything. Sounds sweet to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:39 AM
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That’s what people though I did as a SAHM. Sometimes they would offer to babysit. Afterwards they never said that again. Being a single mom in law school, and being a single mom working as a lawyer as in large firm is way easier than being a SAHM. Plus people don’t devalue all the shit you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:30 AM
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Just because something is legal and popular doesn’t mean that banning it is akin to slavery. Prohibition wasn’t slavery. Also it’s pretty hard to substantiate that porn doesn’t hurt anyone. Both creators and consumers are harmed by porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:40 PM
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How are they being left behind and not just opting out? I’m a black woman, black women far outnumber black me. In higher education. Schools are clamoring for black men. They can’t find them. They aren’t even taking the admission tests or submitting applications.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:49 PM
2

No porn and no video games is slavery? Damn as someone who grew up before those things were widely accessible, this is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:40 PM
3

I went to a Greek free school. Most of the couple were people who were were at the same school. This was followed by people who were in relationships before college. Dating off campus was really rare. Even then it was mostly people from “back home” not people they met off campus.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:39 PM
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Well by the logic of this sub, women are equally addicted to money and being supported. If they’re married with kids, men’s genes won’t be deleted. I don’t think either is true. I knew an actual sex addict. He couldn’t go a week without getting laid before it started negatively effecting all aspects of his wife. He’d fuck anyone. Fat. Skinny. Old. Young. Black. White. Didn’t care. He’s 40 and has never been in a relationship because he knows he can’t be faithful. Most men are not sex addicts, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:55 AM
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What happens to the women who work? There aren’t going to be many workplaces that don’t have a sizable population of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:42 AM
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No he said rough and aggressive is the same as dominant. I disagree with that part. He never fucked me like a rag doll. Usually I was on top or I put him against the wall and backed it up on him. I also initiated more then him. He had lots of other good qualities. He’s smart, he’s funny, he’s nerdy. He inspired me to go to law school because at 30 he was working at Staples, went back to school and made something out himself and had so much confidence I could do it to. He helped me learn how to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:45 AM
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He has a small dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:07 AM
1

No I want gym shorts which are shorts designed to be be worn working out at the gym. I don’t want shorts that cause chaffing and that can injure me by getting caught in exercise machines. There’s a reason why bike shorts and basketball shorts look different. Athletic shorts are not necessarily made to work out at the gym. That would be like buying athletic shoes and thinking you can play every sport in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:50 PM
1

First I said gym shorts. Second post a screenshot of the first page of the results. here’s what I got
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:26 PM
1

Do you personally look at men’s crotches if they are wearing tight pants?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:18 PM
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Or martians.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:15 PM
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If you’re not wearing a top you’re probably revealing more of your badly than a woman wearing a top and bottoms. I can see more of your naked skin than if you were wearing jeans. If a man was wearing really tight pants would you stare are their crotch? Would you fixate on the outline of their dick? If the answer is no that means. There’s a difference between what you can’t help but notice and what you choose to look at. Would you stare at you sister that way? No because you don’t want to. You ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:42 AM
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Most are just buying popular clothing in their size. That’s what womens gym wear looks like. Really tight, really short, or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:35 AM
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They’re skin tight for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:34 AM
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We probably won’t though, neither will gay guys If it’s not a gay gym. It’s only men at straight gyms who do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:33 AM
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Google mens gym shorts then Google womens gym shorts. I had to buy my daughter short for soccer. All the girls options were like an inch or two pass the crotch. If I buy womens gym wear it’s going to be tight and revealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:31 AM
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Fit men workout in less clothing then fit women. Often it’s only a pair of shorts. Are they doing that so you’ll look at their abs and come and hit on them.? When I’m going hard at the gym and making gains I like looking at my body. I will prance and pose for myself. I literally can be fucked to look at anyone else unless their effort is on the next level. If you’re really there to workout, you wouldn’t pay attention to what women are wearing. Add another plate and mind your fucking business.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:27 AM
1

Y’all lived in the gayborhood? Was she sick before she died?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:13 AM
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He was cuter in the late 80’s early 90’s he just wasn’t a star yet. He’s aged well but he was super attractive to begin with. He wasn’t an average guy who suddenly became a chad, he was a chad who kept his chadness longer than most.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:10 AM
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Attorney chick here. I pay at least once for every guy i date before we had sex and after. I pay for my plutonic male friends all the time and buy them gifts. The only time I’ve had an issue is when guys try to become hos and think they’re entitled to expensive meals every time. Once I had a guy over my place and he suggested we order from some new expensive Mexican restaurant. I said I was going to make myself xyz but you can order something if you want, I’ll pay for my part. He didn’t have any…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:51 AM
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Or the person that wants it more. If men stopped asking women out women would either not go on dates or pay for them. Some men are so afraid of option 1 that they don’t wait for option 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:30 AM
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The algorithms show you what you interact with. If I don’t click on young hot women I won’t see them. Even if there’s a level of advertising and manipulation. There are profiles with millions of followers that neither of us has seen. There difference between men and women is that it’s easier to be a famous man and be unattractive. Without looking at all I’d bet every dollar that there are more ugly men with 100k plus followers than there are ugly women. On top of that, men don’t use filters as m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:19 PM
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It’s also because that’s what they look at. The algorithms gives you more of what you like. My sisters instagram is all baby animals. The flip side is that men spend so much more time looking at above average women that they have a skewed perception of normal. They think it’s someone young, with a way above average body, and an above average face. I know both are above average because most of the women they see will be using filter, flattering poses, and makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:51 PM
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Hinge is owned by the same company. They’ve ruined every dating platform they have owned. The problem is they need to make money and can’t do that if the app works. They need one group to be desperate enough to pay. That’s pretty much always going to be men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:17 PM
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Do the men that support a family of four with two pets on one income don’t exist in 2022?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:09 PM
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What if I agree with some of those things but not all. So I was a stay at home mom for awhile but that was mostly because it was cheaper than working. I would have preferred to work everyday but since paying my half of the bills was cheaper than paying half of childcare I stayed at home. I never heard the end of it. I couldn’t buy anything I never had any money for myself, and rather than being seen as a way to help our family, it was seen as me just being lazy. Now I’m a single mom and doing we…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:35 PM
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Do you think cooperation is the same as submission? I would definitely want my spouse to be cooperative. I don’t want them to be submissive. I don’t view those things as synonyms.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:20 PM
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This question was not for you. I look at cooperation as different than submission. I cooperate with people vs submit to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:12 PM
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I’m more of a switch in the bedroom but I see how this might be ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:14 PM
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Does that mean she can’t question it. If she sees that something’s wrong is she obligated to follow you anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:13 PM
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No she wants Mike for something different than she wanted Tyler for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:00 AM
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You’re confusing two situations. Men want to be the only man a woman desires but they also want to be desired by many women. This is why you had harems. Some men would take all of the desirable women and keep them for themselves if they had the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:48 PM
2

I don’t know if you’re a traditionalist. But I think that people are born female, male, or inter-sexed. I had a conversation about a trans woman having male genitalia. There were multiple genZ’s that told me that I was wrong she had female genitals. I was really confused. They said that people are trans from birth so their body is female it just appears male. Transitioning is not about becoming a woman because you already are a woman. It’s about making your body look like what think women should…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:16 PM
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No I meant the ability to think independently, evaluate based on experience, support yourself financially, regulate your emotions, and not be as amendable to peer pressure and group think. It’s so funny that men will talk about younger women and Gen z in particular’s openness, but fail to mention the extreme liberal ideology they’ve fallen into. Gen Z might be open to. We experiences, but they are way more judgmental in other regards. I have friends that are white males. The shit I hear from Gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:34 PM
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I didn’t say anything about being disagreeable. I said that I’m more discerning than I used to be. I’m actually quite friendly and agreeable. I try to avoid conflict and try not to judge people on their identities. This is opposed to many younger women I know who follow woke ideology. Their lack of experience means they don’t have any real ways to evaluate people and political stances. That’s one of the reasons people tend to get less liberal over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:25 PM
1

Most people are “built” from premenopausal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:07 AM
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Part of it is about the responsibility. Strippers, party girls, and so on are fun and they don’t ask for anything in return. More guys will cheat with these women then leave their wives. Those that do with usually not get married to them, and those that get married will probably divorce. Smart guys will realize it’s fun because it’s transient and not serious. When serious relationships start there’s more responsibility on both side. Also when you aren’t with someone seriously they mostly just se…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:06 AM
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Women are capable of making babies in their 50’s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:53 AM
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There are lots of young women with high n-counts and lots of older women with low n-counts. I knew girls who had more bodies than I will ever have and women in their 40’s who’s been with like 3 people. These days younger girls can have higher counts than older because hookup culture is more normalized than it was 10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:50 AM
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Depends on the age, Attracted to: Prepubescent = pedophile Going through pueberty = hebephile Late adolescence but before adult = ephebophile Adults = teleiophile Middle age = mesophile Elderly = Gerontophile
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:45 AM
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First, I’m black and we generally age better. My mom is the same way, she’s in her 60’s but looks likes she’s in her 40’s. she’s older than him she was his age when this was taken and she’s over 60 Second it’s not just men who tell me this. Third I’ve always had a baby face and people have assumed I was younger most of my life. You kind of negate yourself if it was about looks then the maturity level wouldn’t matter. I didn’t say that looks don’t matter at all, I said that the men who date young…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:30 AM
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First, I’m black and we generally age better. My mom is the same way, she’s in her 60’s but looks likes she’s in her 40’s. she’s older than him she was his age when this was taken and she’s over 60 Second it’s not just men who tell me this. Third I’ve always had a baby face and people have assumed I was younger most of my life. You kind of negate yourself if it was about looks then the maturity level wouldn’t matter. I didn’t say that looks don’t matter at all, I said that the men who date young…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:29 AM
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No, a lot of the desire for younger women is also based on their naïveté and impressionableness. It’s not just because of their looks. You can’t pull the same shit with people who have earned a bit of wisdom. I was a fucking idiot in. My 20’s I’m less of an idiot now. I’m more skepticism I’m better at discerning bullshit, and I’m less likely to ignore red flags. Even though I’m told all the time that I look like I’m in my 20’s, I don’t come with the benefits of immaturity that some guys are look…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:51 AM
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The guy she didn’t talk to for months before meeting her boyfriend is the one who truly has her? We’re all the messages quick talk? If he had her she would have been blowing him up, would not have entered a relationship, wouldn’t have tiled her boyfriend, and would have contacted him at least once since they got together.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:44 AM
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My friend has two adopted kids and one bio. The adopted kids are from her sister who’s really lean (different dads). The adopted kids are both thin. Her bio kids is chubby. They oldest who’s adopted lays around and eats junk as much as she can. Her diet would be McDonald’s, pizza, and hot wings if she chose everything she ate. She has low body fat and is muscular. People ask if she plays sports but she’s 14 and is on her iPhone all day. The youngest, also adopted is a bean pole and also only lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:22 AM
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Yeah the privileges and immunities clause would probably make that unconstitutional. Citizens of any states have the privileges and immunities of every state their in. That’s why gay people went to CA to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:12 AM
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She hasn’t spoken to him for three months before they started dating. Obviously she’s not thirsting over Tyler. Even if she deletes his contact she can probably locate him if she really wanted to. Even if she couldn’t there’s countless men she could have NSA sex with if she wanted to. There’s nothing stopping her except her loyalties. The only good option is B. Why ruin a good relationship over something that happened before you met? For all you know Tyler could be in a ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:08 AM
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I feel like the “requirements” mentioned on this thread is really a wishlist. When you ask some women what they’re looking for they give you their ideal guy. It’s definitely not the bare minimum most of the time. Imagine asking men what the perfect woman for them would be. That’s not going to be the same as the woman they’d be happy marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:01 AM
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I believe it. I’m 5’7 so tall for a woman but not that tall. Dated a guy that was 5’8 and he said more than once ho he wished I was shorter. He was uncomfortable when I wore heels. I have a friend that’s 5’10 and really pretty and she struggles. I have a friend that’s 4’11 and guys hit on her without even seeing her face.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:21 AM
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And they’re more likely to r@pe you. I wonder if men would say it’s a red herring if other men were kept trying to rub their genitals when the went out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:18 AM
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If you have a birth control option that’s non hormonal, not an IUD and I can don’t have to rely on a guy at all, I’m all for it. Planned parenthood says I’m too young to get my tubes tied.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:15 AM
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How is this theoretical woman suppose to know the right size and the proper way to use them. Can you pick out an properly insert a menstrual cup? I got an IUD and it was more painful then being in labor and completely fucked me up. It was great birth control since I bled all the time. Has to get it out after 6 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:11 AM
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Blink is at least $10 and only offers generic birth control pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:08 AM
2

The fact that you see more attractive women doesn’t mean that these women are average. I see more expensive cars than BMW’s every single day but BMW’s aren’t average priced cars. Pretty sure 100k+ includes millionaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:42 PM
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They don’t have to know everything, I’m literally not asking for more than I give. In most cases it’s less because guys don’t admit to their more obscure proclivities right away and I do. What I’m saying is have a nice set of skills in your back pocket and try them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:54 PM
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I’m fine with what you’re saying, but the OP said they are all average looking to ugly. I disagree with that part and think that physically they are attractive enough to marry a high earning man, even a tall high earning man. I don’t know what these guys are packing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:51 PM
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I don’t know anyone in New York or San Francisco so that doesn’t make a difference. I’d bet that even in those cities most men are not making 100k or more. Even still that’s a baseline. I know partners at top corporate law firms that are married to women that aren’t as physically attractive as some of the women in that picture. They’re making six figures but it’s about half a million dollars a year. I can’t tell what their attitude is like solely based on them posting to FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:21 PM
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Wait are all of these women supposed to be average or below. This is what men on this sub think average women look like? I know several 100k+ earners married to women who look less attractive than some of these women. I’m not on FDS so I don’t know about the talking points, but seriously if this is what you you consider average it’s no wonder some of you struggle so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:58 PM
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But since men don’t care about a woman’s money it doesn’t matter anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:22 AM
1

But even if everyone were vegetarian, it would limit you dish selection. But would not tell you anything about what people like. It you give someone their preference they probably like it if you give someone something other then their exclusion you have no idea whether they like it or not. Imagine if you were setting someone up and you ask their preferences. They say “not fat” none of the girls you have in mind are fat. Who do you chose?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:59 AM
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If you go through the list you’ll find the things she likes and you keep doing it. I’m great at giving head. Every guys has liked differently things. I go through a list of things the shit he moans to or says he likes I do more of that and things like that. Pussy is not so different that each and every one needs a completely different set of skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:49 PM
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She Comes First My Secret Garden Nina Hartley’s Guide to Sex Try these three book. My Secret Garden is a collection of women’s sexual fantasies. The others are more instructional. If you’re more visual you local sex shop will have a how to video section.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:52 PM
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I’m that other person, What I did was show u/Nelsonmanswella a website that shows images of people at certain heights, weight, and BMI. I understand that people can have different body fat percentages at the same BMI. I also know that BMI assumes you’re white. You already mentioned Asian women. The reverse is true for Black women. They generally have more muscle mass so BMI overestimates their health risks. But all of this is a tangent because he wanted to know what people looked like at certain…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:28 PM
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Damn I’m sorry you went through that. I don’t really have any advice. I just wanted to say that sounds awful. I hate realizing that people can that shitty and that petty. I hope you and your little sister can have a great relationship again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:59 AM
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You have to find someone who raises their kids right. I don’t let my daughter play with kids with ratchet parents. My biggest concern with single dads is baby moms. I could not give two fucks about who my ex dates. I ask my kid “is everyone nice to you” if the answer is yes, that’s the end. But there are crazy baby moms and super jealous women. One of my dad’s exes was so mean to me. I had long thick hair and she took me to the shop and she had it cut off. Then she told my dad it was stripped an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:02 AM
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My best friend adopted her neice when she was dating her ex. They have been broken up for years now, but her ex is that girl’s dad. Always has been, always will be. My grandfather was not my mom’s bio dad. My grandparents were not together for any part of my life. I was the closest to him out of anyone. I didn’t know we weren’t blood until I was in middle school. Never changed anything he was my favorite person until his last day. If he were alive I’d be with him on Father’s Day. I’m a single mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:53 AM
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BMI is not gender specific but I agree that being in the morbid obese category is probably going to be unhealthy for almost anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:40 AM
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Majority means more than half. That’s basic formal logic. You can throw a tantrum and accuse me back pedaling but it’s not true. You said there are more women on eharmony. I said there are more men. I was right. There are more men. I never said there are significantly more men. That’s something you’re adding now because you were wrong. It’s okay to be wrong sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:28 AM
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Bmi is definitely not generally accurate for everyone. It over counts black women’s body fat and health risk and undercounts Asian women’s body fat and health risks. It’s one of the the reasons the WHO started promoting a different chart for Asian women. You can’t tell someone’s body fat percentage from their BMI and that ratio can change. There’s lots of pictures of women who started lifting and have the same BMI with more muscle mass. Finally there’s different body compositions a woman who’s p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:26 AM
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I don’t think that’s true. There have been countless leading men and celebrities that are short. There aren’t that many fat women that have been major celebrities. How forger do you hear about Martin Scorsese being 5’3 or James Franco being 5’7. Almost never. But Lizzo’s name is an insult. From what I’ve seen it’s just people fucking with her because she thinks she’s the shit and beautiful. She’s allowed to think that if she’s not bothering anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:20 AM
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Super obese or extremely obese. Only about 9% of women are this size.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:06 AM
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Found this great site of photos of people by bmi. These people are over weight https://www.height-weight-chart.com/505-150.html These people are obese https://www.height-weight-chart.com/502-170.html
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:57 PM
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Overweight is a medical term for people who have a bmi over 25. The women you describe are above the obese classification so even women who are clinically obese would be smaller than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:41 PM
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How are you defining obesity? If you go by BMI then their body fat percentage is not going to be take into account. I’m a woman who like’s chubbier guys. Visible abs do nothing for me. I like when me have a bit of pudge over their stomachs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:40 PM
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Because like 3/4 of adults are overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:34 PM
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That’s not what preference means. What you’re describing is an exclusion. If someone say what would you prefer to dinner and I say “I don’t eat pork” how is that answering the question. Saying I want lamb but I’ll settle for chicken is expressing a preference. I don’t have to mention anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:33 PM
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Well men are called husky, bears, and other terms. But in general there are more ways to describe women’s bodies than mens. Slim, slim thick, thick, thicc, curvy, pear shaped, apple shape, hour glass shape, ruler shape, bony. I’m sure I’m missing some. But there are lots of women that like bigger men and many more that don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:27 PM
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From the first link References DePaulo, B. (2013, May 08). Are Single People Mentally Stronger? Retrieved August 27, 2017. DePaulo, B. M. (2007). Singled out: How singles are stereotyped, stigmatized, and ignored and still live happily ever after. New York: St. Martin’s Griffin. Girme, Y. U., Overall, N. C., Faingataa, S., & Sibley, C. G. (2015). Happily Single. Social Psychological and Personality Science, 7(2), 122-130. doi:10.1177/1948550615599828 Luhmann, M., Hofmann, W., Eid, M., & Lucas, R…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:36 PM
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I’m in law school, my kids godfather just graduated from med school and his fiancé just finished her MFA. Most of the men I’ve been with have had less education than I have. It makes things difficult. First most of the jobs you mentioned are types that only require you to work at the type. It’s hard when I have deadlines and I have to be on my laptop for hours. It’s hard for those guys to understand how exhausting it is to study for finals. College requires you to read more and have different co…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:38 PM
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This is true. But my point was that starting from the first person you have sex with you have a best. If they are terrible than the next person you sleep with will be your best. Either way the idea that women get “alpha widowed” is ridiculous. Someone can be your best until they are not. Either way it definitely doesn’t ruin sex with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:25 PM
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I agree. This was to counter the OP’s point that women will just be hung up on their best. They might not have even fucked their best yet. Any guy she’s with has the potential to be her best. He seems to think there’s no skill involved and if he’s super hot he’ll automatically be her best. Every has a guy who’s the best until he isn’t. Personally I find that sex is better overall now that I’m in my 30’s than when I started in my 20’s because I’ve gotten better and learned what I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:15 PM
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Again there have been studies about this before Dolan’s book here’s an article from 2017 Here’s also 2017 about a study eHarmony’s own website says it’s 51% Men and 49% women. eharmony.com Scroll down and look for yourself. Match group just had a class action lawsuit because they were actively promoting dead accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:07 PM
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I mean that when you lose your virginity you have had sex with one person. That person will be the best sex you’ve ever had because it’s the only sex you’ve had. Until you have sex with someone else, that person will be your best.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:52 PM
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If you’ve only had sex with one person, that person is the best you’ve had. You have to have sex with more people before you have another person that’s the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:49 PM
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I’m another one. The only childless women I’ve ever known are women who didn’t want children or can’t have them. It’s super easy to get a guy to give you sperm. Lesbian couple I know found a random guy, decided who was going to fuck him, timed it right and never breathed another word to him. Their daughter is 5 now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:47 PM
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The book was written by a man so I don’t know where the revenge fantasy part comes into play. The effects of marriage on happiness has been researched since at least the 1970’s and at best it shows that marriage does not increase happiness. Data also shows that single woman are more content being single than their male counterparts especially in older ages. They are less likely to want to cohabitate or have serious relationships and more likely to say they value their freedom. There are more men…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:34 PM
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Yeah I’m a huge flirt. But there’s a difference between flirting with intention. I know guys who flirt with me and have no intention of having sex with me. They just like the attention and it’s relatively safe for them. They never try to take it further, they don’t ask me out, they don’t try to touch me or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:08 PM
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The alpha-widow thing makes no sense. The first guy a woman sleeps with is going to be the best she ever had. Are all women unable to get over their first? Also Good looking men wealthy men are not automatically better in bed. I’ve also known plenty of guys who cheat on their current partners with their ex because the ex was way better in bed. She’s not always the better looking person. I’ve had guys try to hook up with me years later because they say I was the best at giving head. A lot of them…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:03 PM
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Women on this sub get so much flack for voicing their concern about men harming or murdering them for rejecting their advances. Stories like this are one of the reasons we proceed with caution. This man who’s 28, murdered his 17 year old coworker in the Walgreens break room while they were both working a shift together. He had been making advances towards the girl for about a year and she informed management. They changed her hours so she wouldn’t have to work with him but she requested overtime…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:02 PM
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You think men watch porn based on what they can get in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:10 AM
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I think you’re missing my point. I agree that men are interested in all types of women sexually. However when it comes to marriage and long term relationships, they will likely pick conventionally attractive women because women are trophies. Men are ridiculed for having non normative preferences. What you jack off to and who you marry are not the same thing. Men watch porn that feature women acting like total sluts and they get off on that. But they aren’t marrying that girl. There are lots of d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:09 AM
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He was dominant in most other ways both inside and outside the bedroom. He was a hardcore chess player, did competitions and everything and sometimes I felt like he was running lines on me. Chess lines. As if he was just getting me in position for the check mate. He just really liked me to fuck him. But even then it was like he got me to do what he wanted. I found myself constantly trying to one up the last time as if it were a competition. Plus he made me cum so hard I felt like I both owed him…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:53 AM
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Fair enough. I'm not hating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:45 AM
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​ Grammarly does weird things to my comments when I post on my laptop. I really am making over 4k a week and I'm super hype about it because I was raised by an addict single mom in the ghetto and I'm still stunned at my own success. here's the fixed post. All women like the muscular type, that's it. You can find right here on Reddit, there will be subs dedicated to various niche female types, even up to obese and other things generally considered ugly. Where exactly is the male version of Tess H…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:44 AM
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so after you fucked her and came you felt gross. But it was cool before then? regardless there are lots of men who like the look and feel of bigger women and the fact that their asses and boobs are also much larger. BBW porn is a thing because guys are into it to the point that thin women don't do it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:03 AM
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All women like the muscular type, that's it. You can find right here on Reddit, there will be subs dedicated to various niche female types, even up to obese and other things generally considered ugly. Where exactly is the male version of Tess Holiday then, if what you are saying is true. There are far less subs dedicated to men's appearance in general. And there are way fewer post on those subs. That's because men's looks matter less. However there are lots of posts in main subs about women's lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:00 AM
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My thumb is not on the scale. Men’s appearance matter less and there’s more acceptable variations for male bodies. Some women like skinny, some like bear, some like farm boy, some like muscular. Women overall have a narrower acceptable class of bodies that are considered hot. Most require maintaining the figure or a late teen early 20’s. Read my post. Hot girls in the hood or trailer parks are usually not able to be around the type of men who can support them the rest of their lives. Even in a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:02 PM
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Sex based scholarships are only a small part of total scholarships and it’s not why there are more women in college. There are more race-based scholarships for Blacks and Hispanics than for non Hispanic white people but there is a larger percentage of white people in college. They also are the most likely to receive a scholarship despite there being more racially based scholarships. Despite myths about AA the 500 most selective schools are 75% white.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:17 PM
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Isn’t that confusing the results of work with having it easy? In that case don’t men have it easier because they make more money than women and always have? No one is talking about homelessness? What about the fact that more women are forced single custodial parent, more women live in poverty, more women are sexually assaulted, women’s look matter more regardless of how much they make. And ugly rich guy can get a loyal hot women. An ugly rich woman can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:02 PM
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But women aren’t hot for their whole lives and generally have to work very hard to maintain their appearances. Even so their hotness is only valuable if they have the means to use it. If you’re hot but poor you’re not going to be in the spaces where very successful men are unless you’re very ambitious, smart and savvy. There are way more men who just want to fuck you because you’re hot then marry you. If you make the wrong choice you’re screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:44 PM
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Having a big round fat ass is genetic and that’s what he’s into. You can control your weight, you can’t control having the weight go to your ass. I don’t know about where you live but where I’m from a big girl with a fat ass and a cute face is getting picked over a slim woman who’s cute with a regular booty. If the big girl is pear shaped or hourglass shaped she has some options. That’s why chicks are getting BBL’s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:02 PM
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They think all fat women are ugly with bodies shaped like a bag of potatoes. I’m black and I’ve mostly dated black men. When I’m medium I have more dudes trying to get me into a size large than wanting me to be a small. They say it was because I carry the weight so well I’d be sexy because the weight goes to my hips butts and thighs. I’m not saying that every guy likes chubby/fat women. I’m saying that no matter my size I’ve had people that were into it. Not settling, but genuinely attracted to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:57 PM
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Well you can be fat and have a pretty face plus he likes a fat ass. Is he being hypergamous because he wants cute women with fat asses and he’s not cute and his ass isn’t fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:51 PM
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At 24 I had 2. Guess this man has more bodies than me and I’m a 34 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:48 PM
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Guys on this sub don’t have sex at all so they don’t understand why sex with a bigger woman might be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:47 PM
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Cool then get a DNA test. No one is stopping you. You can get one with the mother knowing and even if you sign the AOP you can have it overturned if you get the test in a certain period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:36 PM
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Every state is more than 50% overweight or obese. If you tell me your state I can tell you the exact percentage according to the most recent data. But the lowest level of obesity for any state is 24.4 for Colorado and the lowest level for overweight for any state is 30.9 for Arkansas. Every state is at least 55% overweight or obese. Obligatory link https://nccd.cdc.gov/dnpao_dtm/rdPage.aspx?rdReport=DNPAO_DTM.ExploreByTopic&islClass=OWS&islTopic=&go=GO
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:27 PM
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The NYC Department of Health. https://www1.nyc.gov/site/doh/health/health-topics/obesity.page
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:16 PM
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The vast majority of men who asked me for dating advice asked for advice about a particular woman. I just talked to my brother who wanted some tips on figuring out if this girl wanted to smash or if she wanted to just hang out. I told him how to figure it out without being a creep and making her uncomfortable. If men post on an online forum and you don’t know them you can only give them general advice on how to avoid the things that make most women disinterested. When you ask a women who knows y…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:15 PM
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Where did he say they were ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:05 PM
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56% of people in NYC are overweight or obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:53 PM
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I think you’re conflating different things. Dominance does not equal rough. You can be dominant and tender. My best was dominant at but would go slowly and and tenderly and gradually increase speed and force. The build up that would set my body on edge and then when I was at the peak he would ask “do you wanna cum for me” by the time I answered yes I exploded. He was never rough though. When we did PIV I was the dominant one. I would get on top or put him on the wall and thrust against him. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:13 PM
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How is that destroying the family? There is no family at that point. There’s a couple. If there is that level of mistrust the family is doomed. If the guy knows the kid isn’t his then he must have found out someway. This is just expediting the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:46 PM
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You can get a test before the baby is born if you’re that concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:17 PM
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Only if he acknowledges paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:10 PM
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Naw most babies are with ONS if the slut had your kid most likely you were with her in some type of relationship. If you l weren’t or no longer want to, paternity isn’t going to change that. But again just because you’ve had a lot of partners in your life doesn’t mean you have multiple partners at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:00 PM
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Or use it to get her off
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:39 PM
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No they are definitely cheating because their wives don’t know. I’ve watched men lie. I had some of them hit on me at work and bring their wives in later that week and not look me in the eye. It would be fine if they had an agreement. I’m all for it. But if you have an agreement you don’t have to sneak around and tell your wife you’re stuck at work or your with some guy friends she knows of.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:05 AM
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No we are definitely more worried about strangers. Randomly killing us than a boyfriend shoving us once. That study that says 70% of women abuse more in non reciprocal relationships admits they don’t look at severe injury, men might not report when they are the only ones being abusive, and there’s issues with the sample. They say they only look at injuries like a bruise, a cut, or a sprain, and even then men are more likely cause any injury than women. Also men are complaining because men on thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:00 AM
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Women: we’re cautious with men because men can easily cause us severe bodily harm or kill us: Men on this sub: but men kill and severely harm men more that’s just victimizing. Also men on this sub: women like abusive assholes if they just chose better they wouldn’t be getting abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:17 PM
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Most of the guys I’ve dated have had less education. But it definitely makes a difference. There are things they don’t get. Like how studying works. It’s hard for someone who never went through a finals season to understand how stressful it it. The same is true for people who don’t have jobs where you keep working when you get home.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:10 AM
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Interesting. I’m nearly done with my JD. Most of the guys I know with post grads or engaged to people with similar levels of education. I know some guys who’ve dated girls with less education, but it never works out. Education, especially professional degrees have an assimilating factor that is hard to overcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:00 AM
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Women PhD’s have like an 80% marriage rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:48 AM
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Except it literally does. Women doctors, lawyers have the highest marriage rates. For women the higher the education level, the more likely it is that she gets married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:47 AM
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Does you work require you to have post grad diploma?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:45 AM
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Yet women lawyers are much more likely to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:44 AM
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High earning man care too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:19 AM
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But courts add imputed income if you refuse to work. So they would determine alimony the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:18 AM
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The guys I know who make 6 figures care more because it’s more of a strain on their lifestyle. If you’re work friends are married to women in their income bracket, their house hold income is twice yours. That makes a difference in the car you drive, the neighborhood you live in, the school your kids go to and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:12 AM
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My ideal length incorporates average.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:41 PM
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That’s what I said. A guy replied he went past the cervix to the fornix. I told him if a guy told me he was going to go past my cervix that would end any and all chances he had to have sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:40 PM
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That’s fair, thanks for your input.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:04 PM
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So you’re dick 100% causes pain. You can believe what you want. All of the guys I’ve known who were huge made promises about how they wouldn’t hurt. That goes for long, girthy and both. The bigger they were the better at foreplay because just seeing a dick that big is scary and scared pussy ain’t wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:39 PM
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I trying to say that women’s vaginas are different the way men’s penises are. Bigger is not always better because if you’re on the higher end for size you’re likely to have a bigger penis than most women can take comfortably. Most women have an aroused vaginal length of 3 to 6 inches. Meaning that guys who are 7+ are generally not going to be able to put the entire length of their penis in most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:42 PM
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So you’re basing off of the women you slept with telling you that. Meanwhile even when women masturbate, the prefer direct clitoral stimulation. When they buy sex toys that’s what they go for. After that they like indirect clitoral stimulation. Since the clitoris is several inches long there’s multiple spots to stimulate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:46 PM
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I have a uterus and was sex and reproduction educator, and grew a human being in my uterus. There are multiple vaginal shapes and they way your vagina tilts varies woman to woman. Saying the cervix moves or you go past the cervix into the fornix demonstrates you don’t understand how anatomy works. Also her menstrual cycle is the biggest determining factor of what goes on down there. Check out the beautiful cervix project. https://www.beautifulcervix.com/cervix-photo-galleries/ Can you see the fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:42 PM
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Any proof that most women can cum from penetration? Where a guy likes to nut is inconsequential. And what do you mean by the right guy? What percentage of men are right guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:23 PM
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But if you haven't been with a bunch of cut guys you might not know this, Also dicks are like fingerprints. not two are exactly the same. If it looks like what you've seen uncut guys look like you genuinely might not know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:35 AM
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I've been with very large guys and very small guys. I've had orgasms from penetration. It does not compare to the double-digit orgasms I get from oral. All of my favorite sex toys are nonpenetrative. Direct clitoral stimulation for the win.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:34 AM
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Uncut guys can look very similar to cut guys when erect. If the foreskin is pulled down it's difficult to tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:03 AM
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But it's still always between the end of the vagina and the start of the uterus.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:59 AM
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That’s not true. Latin Lover was the nickname of Rudolph Valentino in the 1920’s. It then became a Hollywood trope. It has nothing to with circumcision.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:53 AM
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No it’s just that penetration is not my favorite. I can be sexually fulfilled without it. However I’ve been physically hurt by larger dicks and I don’t want a repeat. When someone has a large dick it sends danger signals running down my body. Smaller guys are cool though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:36 AM
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In what way exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:18 AM
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No because big dick guys have no shot. Little deck dudes have a shot and if his tongue is good his chances increase. But oral is pretty much mandatory sense that gets me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:17 AM
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Homie I’m 34 my sister is 42!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:15 AM
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Naw I’m just not going to fuck if you if I think you’re dick is too big. If you’re dick is small you have a shot, especially if your tongue game is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:12 AM
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Yeah 6.5 is my limit. I’ve been with longer guys but they don’t put it all the way in. If they try I stop fucking them right there because that shit hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:09 AM
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Sis, I know a snickers bar is small. And he’s black so the comparison made sense. I’ve been with smaller dudes but I’m not that into penetration anyway so smaller works for me because it doesn’t hurt. But my sister said she didn’t like little dicks but this guy got her sprung off the stroke.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:07 AM
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If you can’t reach it you should try other positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:04 AM
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You’re assuming that small dicks can’t hit that spot and that guys with big dicks have enough tact so hit it without hurting you. You can do doggy or put a pillow under you butt and hit the spot with out the added risk of him thrusting too hard
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:04 AM
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They don’t when the buy static dildos they do when they buy vibrating dildos and they are more popular. I It’s also possible that the women who buy dildos don’t like penises at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:57 AM
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Yeah it’s based on tilt. I know how this works I have the anatomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:56 AM
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That image is misleading the fornix is a canal that surrounds the cervix. It make a little well for semen to chill while they’re waiting to impregnate you. It’s not really past the cervix though isn’t anterior fornix is the top of the vaginal wall in the back. The posterior fornix is on the opposite side in the fron and your cervix is the little domed donut in the middle. But I don’t see how you’re fitting 7.5 inches into all of these women easily if you can reach they’re cervix easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:54 AM
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61% of male customers buy dildos. The number 1 selling dildo when you click the link has an insertable length of 5.5 inches.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:44 AM
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Yeah that was my entire point. If you’re small and bad in bed you will probably be shamed. But if you’re good in bed women will praise your little dick. I’ve seen it happen to others. My sister was with a a guy who she said had a dick the size of a snickers bar. After he put it down he was the candy man. She would call me to brag about how good she got fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:28 AM
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https://www.lovehoney.com/best-sellers/ Look at the best sellers list. Longest dildo is 5 insertable inches. Men buy dildos too and tend to prefer the long one but when you look at women’s toys most are not insertable and those that are are not that long.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:23 AM
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The space past your cervix is your uterus. Do mean you enter at a tilt? That sounds terrifying. If a guy told me he was going past my cervix, I’d never have sex with him. I have a vagina and a cervix so I can tell you what I’ve learned from first hand experience. When I’m not aroused I can touch my cervix with my finger. When I’m around 6 insertable inches is my limit. So my vagina nearly doubles in length but I still would never let someone try to put 7.5 inches in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:12 AM
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Can you find a 3in dildo? Also did you miss the part about most sex toys being used outside of the vagina and insertable vibrators being smaller than most men’s erect penises. I actually bought a dildo a couple of months ago. Bought the smallest they had but it still too big so it sits in my drawer. Meanwhile my suction vibe gets so much of my attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:43 PM
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Vaginas are 3-6 inches long. If you’re getting 7.5 inches in multiple women without hitting a cervix, you’re a magician.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:39 PM
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That’s not true at all. If you want to make a girl nut, use your tongue. But most of the nerve endings are within the first 2 inches of the opening, it’s all about hitting the angle. Why do you think a girl can squirt from fingers?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:32 PM
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Yes but 6inches bottom 10% of dildo sizes. Women say 6 inches because both men and women think that’s average. No one is going to take out a ruler and make sure your exactly 6 inches. Given how much men lie about size, most women probably look at 5 inches and think it’s 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:29 PM
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Dude a woman’s vagina is not that long. After 6 inches you’re likely to start hurting people, after 7 your options start to dwindle. I’ve talked to guys with big dicks and they have whole prepared speeches about how they aren’t going to try to put all of it in, they aren’t going to hurt they’ll take it really slow. You know why? Because women see that shit and go “nope not going to have you bang against my cervix all night”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:14 PM
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If women are buying 6 inch dildos, they are choosing the shortest sizes possible. Dildos average like 7.5 inches. Most women don’t have vaginas that long. Also when choosing sex toys dildos are not that popular. Most of the top selling sex toys don’t require insertion and insertable vibrators tend to be smaller then the average erect penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:08 PM
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I don’t think women are going to take out a ruler to make sure you have an extra centimeter or two. But once again it doesn’t matter as much as men think it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:42 PM
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Well I guess we run in different circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:05 PM
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Big dicks are literally the worse! I think men are more obsessed with size than women. Women choose average sized dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:57 PM
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Yeah I think of stuff like “hard throbbing member” when I think of romance novels. Not measurements.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:37 PM
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If I asked a women if she’d prefer decent sex with guy with 6 inches or amazing sex with a guy with 4 inches she’s going to go for amazing. If they are small and they suck in bed then yeah why bother. But there are small dicked dudes that are pussy Jedis. They’ll have you thinking is magic or something. In that case women won’t care how big it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:35 PM
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I’d be way more enthusiastic about anal with a small dick than a big one. In fact the smaller your dick is, the more likely you’d be to get anal. If it’s smaller than my thumb I might actually have a chance. Also when you get head it’s always like getting deep throat. When you have sex you can put the whole thing in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:31 PM
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Sounds like you’re doing better than most men on this sub. I want you to consider whether you’re really over your ex and whether you would be able to give a new relationship the same dedication you gave that one. It sounds like it was a pretty significant loss and you might have to do some work with yourself before you’re able to find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:22 PM
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Small dicks can go more places more easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:11 PM
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Yeah I don’t know about that. Small and bad in bed definitely. But I have known women who have tripped over smaller dicks. Went cuckoo for coco puffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:09 PM
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I can’t speak to your experience. In my experience men don’t lose options for a partner if they aren’t virgins and if they have sex before marriage it’s frowned upon but forgiven.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:27 PM
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I was a virgin until 23. I thought I would get married to a guy with as much faith as I had. Instead the guys preferred “reformed” women. I was considered kind of a freak. Guys my age were so not interested in dating or marriage. The only guys that valued my virginity were at least twice my age and had super creepy reasons for wanting to sleep with me. They didn’t want to marry me, they just wanted the feeling of having sex with a naive virgin. The only religious guys I know who married virgin m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:38 AM
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Religious men also get away with non religious activity like sex before marriage and religious women don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:25 AM
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No problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 11:11 PM
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That’s not what that graphic shows. Do you think almost half of women never get swiped on?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 11:09 PM
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That’s not the study it’s an article about the study. Here’s the study https://www.gwern.net/docs/psychology/okcupid/yourlooksandyourinbox.html
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 10:41 PM
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So incels can just hire sex workers?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:14 AM
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Boys and girls club, PAL, big brother, jrROTC, FFA 4-H
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:53 AM
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So let’s do it like they do on the discovery channel
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:49 PM
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People live a long time and have lots of opportunities. I know couples married 20+ years. Each person has had the opportunity at least once. Most don’t go through with it. The ones that do never fully recover.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:18 PM
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Sometimes we are. I don’t mind if the women consent. There’s definitely been times when I went to someone’s job and got extra cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 01:14 PM
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My Arabic isn’t good enough to read article in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 01:04 AM
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Yes women with kids are receive praise when compared with women who don’t have kids for doing the same things. So I get lots of praise for being a single mom and full time law student during the school year, and working full time during the summer. But I don’t get praised just for being a single mom. Men get praised just for being single dads. Hell men get praised just for being active in their kids like and doing basic things like taking them out or doing their hair. I’ve never been to a restau…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:21 PM
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No one is swiping on the ugliest person they’ve ever seen. But if everyone only had one swipe, they would probably use it on the most attractive person they are guaranteed to get. So if you kne you could get a 5 but you might get a 6 you’ll probably chose the 5 but you wouldn’t waste it on a 7. I disagree on the ratio. I’ve talked to guys in real life that I would have swiped left on. I can get 100 matches in a week on Tinder is if tried. I’m not going doing to get 100 guys to approach me the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:51 PM
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Well that’s harsh but I’ll elaborate. If men had knew they could match with dozens of women from 0-7 they would swipe on 6 and above and maybe the occasional 5’s. They would not swipe on anything below 5. Women who know they could get with 0-7 do the same thing but their they probably would go higher than 8’s Men aren’t more reasonable, they have fewer options they have fewer options. Even if everyone could only swipe once a day men would have fewer options because there are more men on the plat…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:12 PM
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It’s not a problem for me. I’ve stopped using dating apps. But, the promise of dating apps is the ability to connect with multiple people. Guys will use every swipe available and then response to the hottest girls that match them. I’ve been sent messages to guys who didn’t reply back and I’m not mad at them for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:01 PM
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Men have dozens of interested women and still don’t pick the most attractive options and ignore the less attractive ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:57 PM
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Out of curiosity? What happens to the fathers of these children? Are they excluded from the dating market for making poor choices? Do women want to mother another women’s child? If they don’t take care of their children, do they remain unmarried because they have demonstrated their lack of responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:50 PM
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That’s how dating apps work. Do men not reject women based on looks? Do guys swipe on every woman and then write them long detailed messages to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:45 PM
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I’ll swipe on guys until it says “it’s a match” then the I’ll do it again until I have 3 matches. Maybe I’ll swipe on 50 people to get 3 matches. The next day 27 of those the other 47 people I swiped on have also matched with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:43 PM
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Not everyone is an instant match. If I swipe until I have 3 matches I might have 30 the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:37 PM
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Guys will take their nieces and nephews to a park to attract women. Children don’t work as bait when you’re a woman. When I used to take my nieces or nephew out, people would assume I was a fast assed teen mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:31 PM
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