Men love whores

cloudypisces · 2023-01-09T15:54:45+00:00

Reading this thread honestly makes me want to continue staying celibate. I couldn’t imagine the sadness of being a wife and knowing your husband had a woman half your age he throws money at and has sex with. The money wouldn’t be worth it to me. I’d rather be alone.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-01-09T14:34:01+00:00

Notice how all the men in the comments are skipping over the fact that you said many of them are married…🥴

gorilla_blanco · 2023-01-09T08:28:04+00:00

Many of you women are missing a major part…. Strippers are professional entertainers. They listen attentively, carry the conversation for him to slam dunk, have tactics on how to stroke his ego, rub his shoulders make eye contact smile try to generate the most dopamine/serotonin responses they can get this guy falling in love…. They hypnotize a man with just some basic understanding of body sensory responses and paying attention/complimenting him…. They are soo happy to get it they have a hard time thinking with common sense it’s a performance guys “fall in love in vip”. Average girl doesn’t have this type of game

Clavicymbalum · 2023-01-09T08:15:41+00:00

Of course prostitutes and johns/whoremongers exist, but trying to project all men as johns (or having that mindset) is a nonsensical generalization of what is actually a minority niche… same as projecting all women as prostitutes. Your anecdotical "experience" is just a severely biased sampling due to the fact that you were immersed in that minority niche.

LeanderGrant · 2023-01-09T06:15:46+00:00

Thank you for sharing, you seem very well thought out.

You are correct that a woman can achieve that lifestyle, but only if the woman had certain qualities and I do see one caveat.

She would have to be very intelligent, and fortunate enough to avoid dangerous men. Additionally, she cannot have the slightest hint of a conscience. She would have to be ruthless. If she possesses those qualities and the bit of good fortune I mentioned then I agree. She can have her needs met all her life.

The caveat is that she will never feel loved. No matter how many partners she has, none of them will allow her to feel anything. That is the cost of psychopathy for both men and women. It can get you everything you want, but in doing so you lose everything that matters.

It's a hefty trade, to live life without feeling. It can be done, but I would not wish that fate on an enemy.

Safinated · 2023-01-09T04:50:26+00:00

Lots of whores don’t have the positive experiences you appear to have had. I have heard it’s not all roses and fun

rickmackdaddy · 2023-01-09T15:48:06+00:00

In my younger/baller days, I dated a few of those strippers off and on for years. Kept in touch for a while afterwards with each as I tend to with anyone I date (my feeling is that if you like them enough to sleep with them, you should like them enough to be friends when you’re not sleeping with them).

Follow up: two got married to really average dudes, one is still single and lives in poverty. This was after the doctors and dealers and all that. Their looks had faded, shockingly fast, they grabbed whatever branches they could on the way down with whatever buying power they had left.

One guy is an alcoholic who lives for free on his grandparents rural property, the other has a mid level white collar career. Third gal, who is still single, still manages to get online and beg dudes for some cash when her cat is dying of cancer or other regularly occurring crisis, mostly using older photos.

Yeah, me and other guys were shoving each other out of the way to bed these women back in their day. Some literally fell in love (I did 1x), some just loved the sex/attention/validation from a hot woman. In the end, once the looks are faded and the body count remains … not many buyers.

wrathofkalima · 2023-01-09T16:13:48+00:00

Madonna/whore complex.

Virginal wife is to stroke the ego and to project a good image to society. Deep inside he despises her because she bores him and won’t do the stuff he desires.

Whore is to satisfy his needs - he’s the girl he really desires but fears because she doesn’t belong to him.

As a woman you can never win. The whore is disrespected and ridiculed in public but desired and coveted in private.

The housewife who “drinks the kool aid” and believers being a good girl is enough, is in the loser in this situation.

chancetolive · 2023-01-09T05:33:14+00:00

Ya it's called Madonna whore complex

CombinationUsed7938 · 2023-01-09T11:38:25+00:00

Perception bias. You're assuming all men are like that because you surrounded yourself with men like that.

Just like some men here assume all girls are sluts because they surround themselves with sluts and look for dates in classical slutty environments. Same mistake.

despisedlove2 · 2023-01-09T17:53:39+00:00

None of these men were trying to marry the strippers.

AcanthocephalaNew947 · 2023-01-09T08:20:48+00:00

I have said many times this subs narrative just doesn’t translate into real life.

My quiet mousy virginal ass should have been beating them off with a stick when I was younger instead it was my promiscuous friends who were getting the attention, it wasn’t until I changed my dress and attitude that I got attention. Divorced at 30 I was a low n count, quiet mousy and admittedly low self esteem type again and crickets, all I got was sex offers and disrespect , while my promiscuous friends had men lining up to date them, again I had to change my persona away from quiet, mousy innocent to even get any kind of look.

Men want the outgoing promiscuous woman, they just want them to be virginal, they don’t want actual virginal innocent mousy quiet women, I was that. I was ignored. The stereotype is right they want some odd unicorn of a woman who has all the guys wanting her but she only wants one guy. Main character syndrome striking again I guess

alphasupremacy5555 · 2023-01-09T06:30:31+00:00

Those men you described are all thirsty beta simps and they keep hose paid and it's partially because of these guys that so many men struggle with women and because of these guys that so many women are spoiled rotten. It's not that men in general love hoes. Simps love hoes. You got twitch simps sending twitch thots tens thousands of dollars. The more sexually desirable a woman looks the easier it's going to be for her to finesse whatever she wants especially money out of weak men. It's all these beta simps who's seriously make dating harder for men.

I can't fault the hoes too much. They're taking advantage of thirsty idiotic data simps. When women have no real wholesome or respectable marketable skills they default to the world's oldest profession if they're attractive enough. As long as there are beta simps who are desperate idiotic and thirsty prostitution will never go anywhere. Especially with these kinds of men who are slaves to their thirst and are victimized by their own libidos. They're basically paying for whatever the hoes need paid for

I kind of feel like these men make money mostly just so that they can rent pussy from and by sex from way overpriced hoes just because these females are the type of females that most men want to screw over and over.

This is a huge part of modern reality.

Ohyarlysmiles · 2023-01-09T04:39:47+00:00

ITT: OP believes one sided fairy tales of strippers and from this concludes the hos are "winning."

Spot the issue!

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-01-09T15:35:37+00:00

When I worked at a tech store everyone I met was buying 20k speakers for their surround sound setups.

When I worked at a car company every customer was buying some mad expensive cars

When I go to the mall I see the Rolex store is basically sold out all the time.

Now does that mean everyone is rich? Or do a lot of rich folks made by the money printing the FEDs been doing just act like insane over spenders?

I work now in high end consulting. The best consultants and powerful men don’t sleep with hookers. They have wives at home and they drive Camrys or some Ford trucks.

The type of dude who spend like you said fizzle out and never make it far. They die in a cocaine binge or they’re divorces end up make them suicidal.

You’re only seeing the dregs of society at the beginning of the hedonism. But they burn out and they never last if you follow up.

The men you actually want are wholesome don’t even know there town has a strip club and drive ford trucks with a 400k in savings and 2M real estate portfolio.

Not spending money on prostitutes.

Toss in these same dudes would also throw these same prostitutes away the moment they get to old.

There not loved there seen as products. Like an iPhone replaced when the newer model becomes interesting.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-01-09T04:28:09+00:00

I’m my experience men care about

Whether you look the part

Whether you can fuck them well

Whether you can act right

Where you’ll fuck people they know

Whether you fuck anyone else

Add this one to your list,

Whether you can give good head

Anyway, men don't love women whose profession is finessing men out of money unless hes despite or a simp. We will fuck you and lust over you but rarely love.

FlyV89 · 2023-01-09T04:51:18+00:00

Men love whores

HOT whores.

I was around dozens of strippers/ sex workers. These women were fucking married doctors and lawyers who were giving them thousands of dollars, paying for rental cars, apartments and private school tuition for one girl’s kids.

I know several men like this. Rich men. Filthy rich. Because of my job, I work closer to them and I hang around them basically all the week, and even on weekends. All rich men are cheaters. Of all ages.

You know what they are not?

Stupid. Unlike these 20 something whores they fuck around who are wasting their youth and their best years of life fucking rich men thinking they're smart because they are taking away "some money" from these men.

Wake up. She'll be running out of time before these men run out of money.

You think an apartament and a rental car is a huge load of money for a lawyer or a CEO to pay for a personal prostitute to indulge in whatever nasty fantasy they have before they come back home to a perfect wife?

These girls are only a few years from playing with babydolls and they are getting fucked dry up in the ass by some nasty motherfucker and bearing all the trauma that comes with being a sexual slave.

I've seen how it ends. Countless times.

The girl gets to 30 alone, full of bagage, an ageing body, a reputation and no job, while the lawyer and the CEO keep exploiting the next generation of stupid young women.

You know what my boss told once at a party?

"The most expensive woman I have is my wife. Divorce would cost me more than ten hot bitches, and I just need two or three."

The girl to his side was his "suggar baby" (she even bragged about it to me) she was like early to mid 20's, he was almost 50. She pretended she didn't hear that, turned her face to the other side and stared into the nothing with the most sad face I've ever seen. Honestly, that moment broke my heart.

I remember I thought at the time "damn... This girl could have been my girl in another world".

But of course, I didn't own a building or two like the guy so offering her a nice place to live rent free would have cost me actual money.

I despise that dude every now and then, but hey, he's right after all. That was 5 years ago, he of course has a younger gal now.

redbraisedmeat · 2023-01-09T04:46:18+00:00

Most of those rich men aren't marrying them though. They're settling with the "undesirable" average men.

Levelheadedlifter · 2023-01-09T09:12:04+00:00

Men forgive women’s mallicious side as long as the latter are young and hot. We all know it…..

PrettyBeautiful7030 · 2023-01-10T04:31:16+00:00

Yes, men love whores and I think they should stay with said whores. The fact that I'm " marriage material" does not add anything to my life. In fact at this point in my life I prefer to be the mistress, the whore, the fling.

KissCutMe · 2023-01-09T05:26:43+00:00

Took the stage several times… a week? Slept with almost anyone? What club was this? I’m calling bs.

AreJewOkay · 2023-01-09T06:37:55+00:00

What you’re missing is that to become a high rate stripper like this you have to be insanely hot and generally in your 20s. We are taking women who look like pornstars. Average men will simp for 9s and 10 regardless of their history, you are absolutely right.

babyphattt · 2023-01-09T05:51:54+00:00

yup men will date an ex stripper / escort if she looks good & they have the funds to tie her down..even if they claim they like ‘natural girls’ they’ll go for the high maintaince girl w lip filler

search4bigfoot45 · 2023-01-09T16:23:29+00:00

This post is rather dated. Nowadays these kinds of women usually do camming and don't have any direct contact with the guys who are funding their lifestyle. They don't even necessarily have high lay counts and may have a completely normal relationship with their boyfriend or husband. Technology has made it possible to be a sex worker without having to actually fuck gross men.

immalayhandsonya · 2023-01-09T19:31:13+00:00

I think the truth is that men want to have sex with beautiful women. That is number 1 on our priority list.

Some men will pay to experience that, even when they're married. Hell, even when they're married to a beautiful woman!

In my head the perfect woman can shape shift to look like any woman.

Basically, a woman is like a bag of chips. You can't just have 1 chip.

Are some men dogs and cheat? Sure. So do women though. I don't think it's about man vs woman and who has by nature an amoral sexuality or not.

We are all animals and nobody's sexualoty is moral.

pronouns-king-lord · 2023-01-09T20:22:46+00:00

They settled down but it wasn't with the doctor or lawyers, it was with a lower status man.

This post just confirms that high value men(doctor or lawyers) will sleep with strippers/whores but marry the good girls. LMFAO

prizefighterstudent · 2023-01-09T20:30:17+00:00

Tons of men luv whores for a while, maybe a night. Many of them will luv whores for life -- most will get over it, though.

No_sovereigns · 2023-01-09T21:35:50+00:00

Yes we do. High value men don’t marry them though. We are happy to sleep with them though.

HighestTierMaslow · 2023-01-10T16:20:52+00:00

I dont disagree with you. Very few men are actually marriage material today. There is a smaller % who wouldnt do this and would be disgusted by it. You wont have any interaction with these men though- theyre invisible to you.

I vehemently agree with most men want to marry a nice girl but fuck around. Thats why I laugh whenever men complain on this forum that they cannot find "a nice girl." LOL brah if you found one youd TREAT HER LIKE CRAP over time. They lack the self awareness to realize this though.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-01-09T09:00:04+00:00

While they were married to women who were nice girls.

These guys obviously had Madonna-Whore complex.

They love wifingup nice girls, and fucking whores.

Now, how many people spend 1000's of $$$ per night on whores?

angryearth · 2023-01-09T14:31:20+00:00

This is correct. When men are going on about n count remember everything goes out the window if a woman is hot enough. Everything.

One of the Enron guys who was smart enough to get out with money before the shit hit the fan married a single mom who worked at Scores. She raises horses on one of the biggest ranches in the country now. Probably has a huge rock on her hand too.

elfoconfuso · 2023-01-09T16:11:23+00:00

Men love whores but whores make them insecure. That's why they don't marry whores but ruin a family because they cheat with whores.

kokokimoo · 2023-01-09T07:55:43+00:00

Madonna / Whore complex

Men want their cake and to eat it too. What human doesn’t? A clean loyal virginal mother-like bangmaid wife to keep at home and a slutty freaky sexy dirty whore to fuck on the side. A lot of men like and want both to some degree.

pimoflex69 · 2023-01-09T14:18:09+00:00

You're basing this on rich men who routinely get whatever they want by paying for it. They don't care about being disciplined or loyal. They only care about their own selfish desires, greed, money drugs, food, luxury etc etc. These men make up a fraction of the population like literally 1%

Ok_Wolverine_4268 · 2023-01-09T19:31:17+00:00

They will sleep with you, sure, bit they will be significantly less likely to settle down with you.

Bucephalus-ii · 2023-01-09T21:39:16+00:00

There’s a self-selection bias here though. By definition you’re only seeing the sort of men who would do that and not all the others. Obviously this exists, but it isn’t a representative sample of men.

Sierrashoot · 2023-01-09T21:48:12+00:00

Men care about status, that’s all. Honest, caring people tend to surround themselves with a circle of honest caring people, this kind of people usually value different things rather than just physical appearance, that is to mean, strippers won’t necessarily give them status in their social circle. In other circles (often rich ones), however, appearance is one of the most valuable things so dating an insanely beautiful woman gives you status.

The second group it’s not very usual so that’s why people generalize and say loyalness (or n count as a metric to measure the probability of stability and loyalness) it’s very important to me. I wouldn’t expect meaningful relationships from that kind of people but that’s my opinion.

ninjette847 · 2023-01-09T23:58:44+00:00

Maybe the only thing you have to offer is looks?

JessicaMandarin · 2023-01-10T00:09:52+00:00

They want that short term. Long term they want the wife.

AbsolutelyNobody0 · 2023-01-10T03:56:50+00:00

Low quality men do in fact like low quality women. This is true.

MegaGigaTeraBased · 2023-01-10T05:28:28+00:00

This is selection bias at its finest. If you are constantly hanging around strippers, of course the men who you come across are going to "love whores". That doesn't mean they aren't in the tiny minority.

Buildinsilence · 2023-01-10T09:46:42+00:00

We enjoy whores but we don’t love them, at least not if we have our head on right

When I think of what it would take for me to love a girl, it’s probably a sense of understanding, that she gets me & that she’s loyal to me and willing to play her part in making the relationship successful

No whore is going to do that, whores are liabilities that you enjoy from time to time but try to keep to a minimum because you deserve better

Tuna4242 · 2023-01-11T02:06:52+00:00

If I go to a library and see a bunch of people looking at books, I'm gonna think those people like books instead of movies.

Truth is different people want different things, some men (men who I distance myself from) DO genuinely want sexually promiscuous women, but some men don't want that.

There's a lot of bias in your post and maybe if you went outside more often to TALK to people, you would realise that not all men want the same thing, not all women want the same thing and your perspective is hugely warped.

MedusaSerpentine · 2023-01-13T15:41:21+00:00

You’re right, men will say they cannot stand whores, but they will break their vows to their wives & abandoned their families for whores. Of course not all men, but I am commenting about a specific type of men that often does this.

RegularDue9718 · 2023-01-09T11:59:46+00:00

Lust not love. They will fuck them but not Marry them and they hate guys actually interested in them

Interestingly enough some of those women like for example cardi B were raping and robbing men

boomershack · 2023-01-09T17:53:04+00:00

Do you love the men that love whores? Then be a whore.

Emergency-Regret6974 · 2023-01-09T20:27:53+00:00

All you're saying is men have created a society where they can string along a nice woman while cheating on her constantly. It's not about loving whores, it's about the ability to do whatever they want, with zero consequences.

szclimber · 2023-01-09T04:54:02+00:00

If you are hot and fucking a guy the complaints will be at a minimum. Rich men have disposable income too. It's the oldest profession.

statsfodder · 2023-01-09T07:13:50+00:00

Men care about history .... Simps don't and if she can "finesse" them out of money they are simps.. btw the act if finessing is to lie, promise things you won't do etc.. how do you think it ends when the fairytale comes crashing down??

"Omg what a creep, he stalked me blah blah, I never led him on, whaaaaa, he is abusive!! ... poor me"

no, you lied, you hurt him, take responsibility and accountability..

Scarce12 · 2023-01-09T04:58:21+00:00

U saying AMALT?

The thing is, dichotomies tend to be mirrored by the other partner. These doctors, lawyers..etc probably have wives who express an austere view of sex yet had there own secret hoe phase during college, and the husbands are now dealing with the dead bedroom via seeing these strippers/hookers.

ummizazi · 2023-01-09T04:25:24+00:00

Men love whores because they know it's easy to take over someone who's vulnerable. They love whores because they know they are fucked up that they can't feed food on starving women's mouth but their dicks. Not changing your view, you're right.

VanVahlen · 2023-01-09T09:34:50+00:00

As terrible and unfitting to this sub the thought might be, both men and women are groups comprised of individuals with their own tastes, motivations, standards and so on. The experience you had was made in a place that caters to that type of Person, so obviously you see a lot of them.

Adorable-Ad6286 · 2023-01-09T19:38:13+00:00

You're wrong, women with higher bodycounts statistically have way way, waaay lower successful marriage rates, just look it up. Women that are with alot of men will suffer alot of issues with pair bonding, and they'll mostly not recover from being left and being with so many people, that's why the divorce rates for high bodycount women are insane, these are statistics.

And you should evaluate who you're taking advice from, sex workers are not very good people to listen to for advice, it's not morally correct, and it's very destructive mentally, you should rather hear from people that are in succesful relationships. Be wiser than this, surround yourself with better people, or you'll be dragged down with them.

Atomic_Thr0away · 2023-01-09T20:03:43+00:00

Once you take away the single artists and celebrities and high powered doctors and lawyers out having a wicked party, you're then left with some quiet wealthy but hungry men who's wives probably overlook the hookers as long as it doesn't bring any trouble and he keeps the money flowing.

These are the alpha men that folks like Kevin Samuels pointed out. The women share these top men.

Back in the working world women aren't going to tolerate a man spending any money on whores that could otherwise be spent on the family.

It's true that men, young men, love sluts. I mean, hell, free sex, no commitments? Beautiful. I had my fair share back in the day. I appreciate every one of them for the orgasms and practice. But none were marriage material and most have ended up broke single mothers or on some assistance for anxiety/depression.

The apex fallacy is at it again.

How many of these women actually saved a shit ton of the money ? Because if they didn't, they're going to be in the same boat as the sluts I just spoke of. Unless they pull off some miracle and end up like Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman. Not likely.

Or maybe they use their charms on some boring ass thirsty accountant and they're now playing the part of the "Volvo driving soccer mom" to survive.

The deal is, everyone will be humbled one day. And since they ain't got any other skill besides sex, life is looking pretty bleak when they hit the wall.

k_aevitas · 2023-01-09T07:38:05+00:00

I have a few questions. How old are these women who were 'winning' exactly? Like how old are they when they somehow get married to these rich guys? What country are they from, geographical location, culture etc these things make a difference.

Sure a beautiful whore at 23 years old can still get married even pornstars do I think Dani Daniels got married as well. But can she get married at age 46 when she's loose and strung out and doesn't look so good anymore or have as much stamina? It also matters tremendously on upkeep, what socioeconomic area and clients they are able to even cater to because even if you are beautiful If you were tossed into being slum dwellers of India, africa or anywhere impoverished you aren't making it, your entire life is working at a brothel as a child and dying horrifically. I've seen very beautiful women who were strippers whores etc in wretched conditions and eventually they become wrecked. The cultures there usually would forbid and prevent high ranking high quality men from EVER marrying girls like that as well as heavy status symbols and sense of shame are attached.

Also consider money isn't everything. Do you know what type of men they are actually marrying ? I'm talking who are they as people? What kind of people would marry whores and strippers ? You sure they are madly In love ? Or just madly in love and infatuated with their p*ssy and feminine charms? Have you seen their track record of how many partners or wives they have had, if they are cheating, If they are those rare type of cucks that like to actually share their wives and see them as commodity plaything instead of respecting them as women? Like just having money doesn't actually explain what type of relationship or men they are, just saying. Did you know that a lot of those instagram girls in Dubai and such actually does insanely gross shit like having sex with underage kids, getting beaten up, eating shit etc behind the scenes to seemingly have that life ? There's videos of them admitting to it

draiki13 · 2023-01-09T11:24:05+00:00

Semantics is important. Men don’t “love” whores, they love having sex and they love providing for. It’s what empowers us.

It’s just that with whores it’s very easy to achieve both of those things with very little time commitment.

PresentMission2022 · 2023-01-09T05:19:53+00:00

Men want wh*res for sex, but not to marry or raise a family with. This is not news, everyone knows this.

NockerJoe · 2023-01-09T06:06:22+00:00

People who want a sex like sexual people. No shit sherlock.

Shy virginal girls are nice, provided when you do have sex she is eager to do so. A virgin with a lot of hangups about sex makes for an obvious frustrating relationship nobody actually likes the sexual element of within like a month.

Ohyarlysmiles · 2023-01-09T06:22:34+00:00

Use your brain.

If these women were really living the high life....why are they still stripping/prostituting on top of whatever their other exploits are.

I've dated (as in not a client) a few of those types. Glamorous ones.

I definitely would never ever conclude that "men want hoes" from my experiences.

captainsaveahoe69 · 2023-01-09T05:00:47+00:00

I love sluts. No doubt about it, they are the most Intoxating women to be around. But dear lord I couldn't marry one of them.

frappuccinoCoin · 2023-01-10T12:50:05+00:00

I think you're missing the biggest difference between their wives and the strippers. The strippers will fuck them when their wives won't.

You said they have successful careers (docs & lawyers), and a family. 100% they'd prefer the girl in the supermarket over a stripper, but they don't have time for 2 weeks of texting & 5 dates just to get laid.

Affectionate_Pen_623 · 2023-01-09T10:55:28+00:00

While they were married to women who were nice girls. They weren’t satisfied.

Oh god lord.

I mean, OP you're not entirely wrong. Men definitely like whores more than they let on. BUT its about playing ones position and this statement you made is not it. Be weary of dudes who pretend as if the reason they're cheating or fucking around is because of some magical lack of "satisfaction" in their relationship. In most cases a cheater is a cheater and his wife could be the virgin mary, won't make any difference to where he's trying to put his dick.

I was around dozens of strippers/ sex workers.

Again, this is what worries about women on Reddit. A lot of you are dangerously naive and often as socially inexperienced as the men you complain about. Sex works comes with tons of pitfalls. And its kinda disturbing just how many women on this site try to posit it as some kind of wonderful, empowering thing. The statistics don't lie, sex work is a profession full of vulnerable people who are more susceptible to all manner of violence and abuse. The fantasies of female shut ins and femcels wont change that. I've known some sex workers too, one in particular I actually dated. She got in and got out despite all the money she made. Yeah, it was great...but then she spoke of how many men liked her to dress up like a schoolgirl to act out statutory rape. Just didn't seem all that appealing.

Sex work is dangerous and not for the faint hearted and you should be EXTREMELTY weary of anyone trying to sell it as anything else.

Sorry, but you sound like the female version of the loser incel/redpiller who thinks drug dealers are somehow privileged because they have access to easy sex through their clientele.

lovearia7 · 2023-01-09T21:21:35+00:00

I’m a stripper and I can confirm everything you said to be true. Guys will tell me about their wives and kids at home but beg me to fuck them. One guy told me he’s not affectionate and won’t get his wife flowers but seemed super affectionate towards me and spent $1500 on a few dances and a champagne room for an hour. Married Men have given me thousands for NOTHING but my time. I will NEVER have kids and idk if I wanna get married after everything I’ve seen. I’ve been single for 3 years and like it that way. These men have supplied me with a great life, so I can’t complain. I love my job. But many women are naïve…… “My boyfriend/husband would never do that!!!” But they do , have, and will. I’ve said it 1000 times and I’ll say it again….. MEN LOVE WHORES!!!!!!

domdomdom333 · 2023-01-09T08:36:41+00:00

It's almost as if the men are there only for one thing and paying their money to skip over the process and get down to some action.

I go to the dentist to have my teeth looked at immediately, not pay for an appointment to be told we should take it slow, get to know each other first... Same thing here.

Visual-Outcome-3709 · 2023-01-09T11:54:28+00:00

Experience being a stripper in a strip club. Try doing that living somewhere like Turkey and being Turkish lol. Just cause its the VERY normal norm in a strip club, doesnt mean it is. You could also argue that love doesnt mean throwing money at someone and using them.

Levelheadedlifter · 2023-01-09T13:29:26+00:00

Madonna Whore Complex, you should look it up.

voat_fupa · 2023-01-09T13:51:20+00:00

You know nothing about these women's private lives only what they tell you and you especially don't know anything about caliber/character of men they where fucking (besides income, generosity and hypersexuality/sexual deviancy) and getting married to. This is useless post. Unless materialism and sex is crux of your life and place it above anything else, then statement 'hoes are winning' is not gonna resonate with you.

Angrbaddie · 2023-01-09T15:00:39+00:00

Well, a "whore" is easy to get for these men, while a "nice girl" is going to be more of a challenge.

As a nice girl you're probably not going to let the married doctor/lawyer sleep with you, you're likely going to cause trouble in his marriage if he tries, so he won't.

An athlete or celebrity is obviously going to date only the most attractive women and even if a nice girl is attractive enough to fit the bill, those guys don't do monogamy, if a girl is going to insist on monogamy then that's a deal breaker.

vanillashakespear · 2023-01-09T15:43:51+00:00

Yeah because they respect their wives enough to not to do all that shit to them

KamuiObito · 2023-01-09T16:02:10+00:00

Me love having sex with whores..they don’t even respect whores…you know how many serial killers killed mainly prostitutes and nobody would even care fr

Pilling_it · 2023-01-09T16:35:56+00:00

Men love whores.

But they want their women to be their whore.

And time is cruel for women, as rough as it is.

Broseph_Stalin357 · 2023-03-30T16:10:24+00:00

You're actually 100% correct.

AntiHypergamist · 2023-01-09T12:43:47+00:00

The problem is that these women aren’t interested in a relationship the same way a virgin woman is. A virgin girlfriend will always be more loyal and is 1000x more likely to be looking for a romantic relationship with a man

calfshrug · 2023-01-09T05:58:59+00:00

Be a whore is degenerate and even women have the etching whisper of “you’re pathetic - achieve , don’t subsist - pay homage and do service to your evolved consciousness, my friend”

I want to edit this to add that many other behaviors, which all humans do, are also degenerate. I’m just focusing here on specifically why being a sex object is so

mvnnyvevwofrb · 2023-01-09T04:45:16+00:00

$100 per night lol

obviousredflag · 2023-01-09T09:43:48+00:00

Why is it always the battle for either black is right or white? There are sociosexually restricted men who prefer women with a shot sexual history, because that aligns with their own values and view on sex out side a relationship, and there are people who are the opposite (unrestricted) and don't care or even prefer women with a promiscuous sexual history.

Your specific case has a selection bias. Of course, the girls you mentioned are visited and financed by men who are super into them. I am super sociosexually unrestricted but a stripped does nothing for me. I go to sex parties, but i would never go to a brothel or strip club. I don't need to pay someone and i don't want to pay someone to fulfill my sexual desires. If you look at the whole male population, the ones that are into strippers and willing to pay them 1000s a night are a minority, if just for the money requirement.

The n-count debate is like talking about if people should prefer staying in or going out to meet people, and you had introverts and extraverts claiming there can be only one answer, and that the other side is morally wrong for preferring to stay in/go out, and that the own preference is the only one that should not be shamed.

Mr_Skurge93 · 2023-01-09T11:12:54+00:00

I assume when you say whores you mean prostitutes. I'm not paying for anyone's company, so that's gonna be a no. I do love sluts, tho. Good girls bore me to death. I don't get these dudes that want inexperienced, submissive women. I need a chick that knows her way around a dick. Bad girls 4 life.

abaxeron · 2023-01-09T11:50:08+00:00

Change my view.

How, exactly? You claim to have personal testimony from people you trust, which you obviously will value more than opinions of strangers on the Internet.

Men didn’t like shy virginal girls

Men love women. Men are frustrated that women don't love men. Men are happy that whores at least pretend. This is not love.

Call me a prude, but I see at least one easier way to make a man fall for a woman than subjecting oneself to cosmetic surgeries and fucking strangers for money dressed in fluorescent glittery stripes. It's

INITIATING FIRST.

If a "shy virginal girl" came up to a guy, given that he's straight and single and she's not freakishly ugly, and told him "I like you, I mean I like you that way, and would like to spend some time with you; how about we go to your place when you're done with day stuff, make a nice homemade dinner together, eat it with a couple glasses of wine, and get to know each other better?",

she can easily count on something that a whore can basically never.

I mean three consecutive cunnilingal orgasms.

Due-Lie-8710 · 2023-01-09T12:45:09+00:00

the majority of women engaged in any type of sex work arent actully successful even in only fansm its actually the minority, these women arent getting favors because they are sluts, they are getting favors because they are attractive, and they usually like the attetion, the thing is this is not how most women want relationships, while money is important, they want commitement and they want someone who cares about them for more than their body, at least thats what they say, men have a very low threshold for sex but relationships no but there are some who go into relationships simply for sex, they dont actually care about the woman other than that, so i dont think its love but more of lust, and its not even most men

caption291 · 2023-01-09T13:43:10+00:00

These women were fucking married doctors and lawyers who were giving them thousands of dollars

Do you think doctors and lawyers that routinely go to strippers are representative of men as a whole?

Women here keep arguing that it's silly to look at online dating because it's just not representative of reality but literally extrapolating from the world of strippers is perfectly fine?

SoldierExcelsior · 2023-01-09T15:33:06+00:00

Men like the path of least resistance if attractive women will have sex with you validate your ego and be pleasant that what some men will choose over stress and drama..

Alit of married men aren't having sex with their wives or its a hassle or she just lays there like a star fish

AuntieStJuggs · 2023-01-09T07:08:49+00:00

The real reason men love whores is that it frees them from any expectation of standards or accountability..who ever has the most money gets the prettiest pussy to pop..it's a transaction between men and women ruled down to its purest state.. I give you this banana now you give me fuck.... all other erroneous human constructs are taken out of the equation

suj1290 · 2023-01-09T10:50:15+00:00

Men like sluts for sex and virgins for marriage but irony these days only sluts are available for marriage and sex and also we like hot young sluts not post wall sluts

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JollyRoger66689 · 2023-01-09T15:23:19+00:00

Not sure where you were working but I doubt the average stripper has this kind of life, at least the one(s) I know don't (I just know 1 and her friends). It seems a lot more reminiscent of the stereotypical life where she is a single mother with terrible luck in dating and men not taking them serious for a relationship and even being the one spending their money on the man in some relationships.

With this said, there will always be a simp for these women if they want to settle since they tend to be better than average looking.

And of course numbers 4 and 5 are more important but most people (maybe just men I suppose) use history to figure stuff like that out since that's kind of the best way we have, if you ask any man here if they rather have some slut that is super loyal to them or some virgin that's going to end up fucking all his friends why the hell would anyone choose the virgin?

SmoothWaterfalls · 2023-01-09T16:02:15+00:00

Different people from the same gender can live in different worlds.

There are people whose worlds consist of partying, drugs, and the like who operate under the premise that pretty much everyone does the same thing.

There are people who are the exact opposite and lead a "clean", "boring" life who would never imagine someone in their world partaking in the above.

Similarly, there are men who love "whores" and men who are disgusted by them, even in cases where they find them sexually appealing. There is a difference between who men would theoretically have sex with for their own pleasure and to whom they would commit to and tie their reputations with.

I’m my experience men care about

Whether you look the part

Whether you can fuck them well

Whether you can act right

Where you’ll fuck people they know

Whether you fuck anyone else

Agreed, but many men have different definitions for these questions especially number three.

The only thing you've really asserted here is that there are tricks at all economic levels.

ZealousidealAd7191 · 2023-01-09T16:13:55+00:00

Are these men leaving their wives for these whores or just having a little fun?

PassMyGuard · 2023-01-09T16:48:25+00:00

Yeah, I’m 100% with you, Op. as a guy. I actually made a thread about this the other day.

These virgin ass dudes think they want some nice churchy girl who is saving herself for the one.

They’re going to be disappointed. Having boring vanilla sex is fun when it’s a new partner because her body is novel. It gets boring very fast.

Find you a girl who gives road head. Who wakes you up by sitting on your face, then riding you, then finishing you with her mouth while moaning about he she loves tasting herself on your cock. Find you the girl that wants to be bent over a desk randomly mid-day, or who thinks it’s hot to go down on you while you’re in a meeting at your work from home job. The chick who will invite another girl into the bedroom with you.

You don’t get that from the girls you think you want. You get routine, same-every-day sex that gets stale and more and more infrequent.

If a girl’s sex drive is low enough to be able to resist experimenting and fucking around when she’s young and beautiful, she isn’t going to be the freak I need when we’re settling down.

Robotemist · 2023-01-09T18:10:40+00:00

I don't think anyone debates this. Whore are awesome. We just ain't wifeing any.

2023-01-09T22:58:51+00:00

I think part of it is that these strippers etc are unattainable. In men's heads these women are too good for them and they trick themselves into thinking they're obsessed with them.

Strippers and escorts play this game really well. They know the power of the tease.

TheGenuineOne21121 · 2023-01-09T23:02:52+00:00

Men Don’t Mind Whores*

Rexagon_2017 · 2023-01-09T23:04:52+00:00

A lot of men do love whores, but men generally? I think that's questionable given the sample. I mean, if you work in proximity to a large number of strippers, chances are you're getting a skewed sample.

Not that men don't do evil shit, they do. I have seen this occur in other families and its fucking criminal.

wwwArchitect · 2023-01-10T02:08:52+00:00

Selection bias much? Men who frequent strippers only care about looks and sex. What!?

4 and 5 on your list don’t make any sense. In what context? They want you to have sex with their friends or they don’t? Again, what?

Shoddy-Donut-9339 · 2023-01-10T03:25:25+00:00

Men want shy virginal sluts that will only have sex with them.

Never mind that a women that does not sleep around is not a slut. Never mind that shy virginal girls are not sluts, men want that unicorn.

What you want does not have to make any rational sense.

Local-Willingness784 · 2023-01-10T03:52:31+00:00

imagine putting all the work of being a fucking doctor and then pay the equivalent of alimony for a stripper's child. jesus christ, do you really think thats how men work?

TheRedPillBeta · 2023-01-10T18:15:54+00:00

Men do not love whores. But they do have a primal instinct to want to fuck whores. This isn't news. Most men do not want a whore to be the father of their (acknowledged) children. They don't want to live with a whore. They don't want to spend the rest of their lives with a whore.

But they want to fuck them. Even nice guys who would never actually go through with it will still feel a physical attraction to a whore sometimes.

It sounds hypocritical, but it's really not. It's just nature. Instinct wants men to procreate, and doesn't care about higher ideals like morality, per se. Better man will know how to resist this primal urge somewhat, and not actually go through with fucking said whores. But they will still feel primal attraction, at times. Shittier men will cheat on their wives and bang prostitutes whenever it suits them (and their wallets).

It's not really news.

rpujoe · 2023-01-10T20:40:37+00:00

Your post is a giant example of Apex Fallacy. You're ascribing to all men what is only attainable/available to the top echelon of men at or near the top of the socioeconomic ladder.

It's not to say more men wouldn't do the same, but most men don't have the opportunity to do so. Women with "high value men" just need to recognize they're going to have to share them. Tate and F&F have been talking about this for years now. Women's mating strategy is hypergamy, men's mating strategy is to be as faithful as their options.

ummizazi · 2023-01-11T01:34:02+00:00

The statistics are more important than anecdotal evidence. The median income for strippers in the US is $26,003, well below the national average. Most are not fucking lawyers or doctors and earning $7000 a week.

My guess is that you are highly biased by your experience and are placing the average lives of strippers above the actual reality they face. Most likely because you work as a seamstress, you are more likely to come across high-class strippers who are more likely to employ you. The strippers who don't earn as much (i.e most of them) aren't going to be using your services, so you don't come into contact with the average worker in this industry.

So, when it comes to men, you are even more highly biased because you're only coming into contact with those using the services of a minority of people in a field that is already quite niche. You are not getting a good representative of sex workers or johns in your line of work.

It would be like me working in a care home for the mentally disabled and claiming that most people are mentally disabled because 90% of the people I see are mentally disabled on a day-to-day basis.

It's an objective fact that both men and women begin to lose interest in prospective partners above a n-count of 3-4. This has been statistically proven.

1stevercody · 2023-01-12T02:04:05+00:00

No, but men love sex. And if a man has money and wants sex he's going to have it. I would say a lot of the men you're talking about also really loved the power. There's a certain amount of power and prestige being able to use money to have sex with beautiful women. And if someone's buying then someone is going to be selling. The fact that some of these guys were married and willing to risk so much goes to show the biological drive that sex has. Trust me it's not just rich men who are willing to cheat on their spouses. It's not just men who are willing to cheat on their spouses. People do it for different reasons, but the saying "horny always wins" comes to mind.

ummizazi · 2023-01-16T00:30:50+00:00

The rich wife in this scenario still wins. She can divorce him, take the money and find another guy who would treat her right. The whores whose looks fade in a few years won't be left with anything.

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