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Well I'm certainly not, but that's because I'm a complete loser/outcast and no girl wants anything to do with me. I would gladly talk to any girl who gives me the time of day, and I can assure you I'm definitely not a volcel. Not sure about the other guy (he graduated last year), but I wouldn't be surprised if it were the same for him.
/r/AllPillDebate02/02/23 06:43 AM
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Super-tall ones regardless of looks do best and most girls fight for them (sometimes even physically, though only when I was in highschool). Lol hard cope. I'm 6'2 (currently a high school senior) and not a single girl has ever been interested in me. Last year a guy in my physics class was 6'5 and way better looking than me, and he was also a permavirgin (although he did have a few friends he played Smash Bros with, unlike me who's a total outcast).
/r/AllPillDebate02/02/23 03:11 AM
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Tall + attractive face
/r/AllPillDebate02/02/23 03:00 AM
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You make zero sense, did you even read my comment at all? I said that this an example of FEMALE PRIVILEGE, which is completely true. I'm not sure how you interpreted as "this is example of why women suck"; stating that you are privileged is not a moral judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:53 AM
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Just a few men? Why is this experience reoccurring for many women? It can’t all be the same men doing this to us. Why can't it be? That's literally the reason lmfao. Maybe like 0.1% of the male population are catcallers/harassers, but these men catcall/harass a ton of women, which ends up in a lot of women experiencing it. You must have a very low IQ if you can't understand this. It’s also not just that. It’s the blatant misogyny that men spew. Women become misandrists in response to men’s misog…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:39 AM
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If you are from Korea or Japan (rich east asian nation), it gets really easy for you to date any girls in poorer countries. Completely false, this only holds if you're above a certain attractiveness threshold (say, normie-tier or above), which I'm certain you are. Unattractive east asian men are undesirable everywhere in the world (unlike undesirable white men, who can still SEAmax).
/r/AllPillDebate29/01/23 02:32 AM
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So just because a few men are pedophiles, you think it's justified to be a misandrist who hates all men? In that case you shouldn't complain about men who become misogynists who hate all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:26 AM
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men's bad opinions about women come from bad experiences as well. are you okay with men being misogynists and hating women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:23 AM
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Lmao nobody is having a "revenge fantasy", people are just explaining to you objective reality. Nobody thinks that the girl we liked is going to "come crawling back" for whatever reason whatsoever. However, when you have 90% of women chasing the top 10% of men, you are inevitably going to have a majority of those women being used for casual sex or not getting the men they want. It's basic logic. Yes, the man who gets ignored will die alone and miserable, but so will the 2/10 woman who turns her …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:36 PM
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Lol all of this is bluepilled crap. What's his height, facial attractiveness, frace, and dick size?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:25 PM
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taller than me, long dark hair, pale skin, skinny, pretty boy face wildly charismatic 50+ n count frat boy/scene slut just fucking LOL imagine saying "HVM is a nonsensical concept" when you're dating a literal gigachad alpha male
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:24 PM
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He's 6'5. He's also ripped blue eyes, a nice smile with healthy teeth, and a good face shape This is all I took away, the rest is a bunch of bluepilled bullshit. It's quite funny how when you look at every single comment by women here, 99% of it is bluepilled virtue signaling but then there is a 1 sentence about what ACTUALLY makes him attractive to her (and every single time, it's height, frame, and face).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:22 PM
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yes, go software engineers wooo lol what? software engineering is a very low-status profession, you realize that right? . He’s a handsome sonofabitch, 9.5 easy, everyone thinks he’s handsome. Me? I feel like I’m like a 5-8, depending on which cultural standards are used. LOL of course, female privilege in action. next time you try to shut down men who complain about dating, remember that you're a slightly above average woman and dating a literal supermodel-tier gigachad. you will never, EVER see…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:17 PM
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attractive, broad and tall this is all i needed to know. everything else you said is just some bluepilled crap
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:07 PM
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All of this is bluepill crap, you havent described any of the traits that actually make him a HVM. What's his height, facial attractiveness level, and dick size? Is he muscular, skinny, or fat? What was his n-count before he dated you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:05 PM
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Hmm https://www.reddit.com/r/Marriage/comments/t4srbe/husband_doesnt_do_his_fair_share_of_chores_and/ https://www.reddit.com/r/Marriage/comments/tfydwm/am_i_reasonably_upset_for_my_husband_hanging_out/ https://www.reddit.com/r/Marriage/comments/tg3q8q/im_done_putting_my_husband_first/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/t4rjl2/aita\_for\_refusing\_to\_appreciate\_husband\_for/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:59 PM
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he’s gorgeous This is all I needed to know. everything else you said is a bunch of bluepill bs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:55 PM
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Lol plenty of alphas make minimum wage, what are you on. Alphas are defined by height, facial bone structure, social dominance, and overall masculinity. Earnings/wages are not factored into the equation at all. That's why you have plenty of alpha males who are criminal gangbangers and beta males who are multi-billionaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:29 AM
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Can't think of a logical argument so immediately resorts to insults and shaming. Classic bluepiller moment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:26 AM
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exactly lmao. that's probably why she's even dating him in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:23 AM
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lmao based
/r/AllPillDebate27/01/23 09:46 PM
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The issue is that if you’re married or in committed relationships, you’re both out of the market. I could use his previous experience, but we met at 16, we’ve both changed since that point, does it make any sense? Something that's off the market still has market value. Nonetheless, my point was simply that the traits which make him a good partner to you don't make him a "high-value male".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:38 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:34 PM
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I would rather die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:46 PM
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just LOL. even morbidly obese women can do way better than incels
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:41 PM
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He has unlimited value to me. Nobody cares because you are not a market. A high-value man means a man who's highly desirable in the dating/sexual marketplace. If he has "unlimited value" to you but no one else wants him, he is objectively a low-value male.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:34 PM
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I think who women and men here hold as “HVM” are two different men. Men are more focused on the casual aspect while women on the long-term one. Nope, it's just women completely misunderstand the definition of "HVM". A high value male is a man who's high value in the sexual market/dating market, NOT someone who is a good partner. The value of a man has everything to do with how well he can get relationships, and nothing to do with how well he can maintain them. Seriously, I don't understand why w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:29 PM
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When women say this, they are only talking about unattractive men who they don't want to be bothered with. So yes- if you're short or have an ugly face, then following women's advice would make you unable to meet women, because women don't want to meet you. Women are quite literally disgusted by unattractive men. On the other hand, if you're tall, handsome, and white, then feel free to totally ignore everything women say. Their BS is only meant to ward off betas from approaching this; they will …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:14 PM
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Ive said it and ill say it again. We can tell when your only intention is to just sleep with women or get a gf for the sake of a gf. No you can't lmfao. Women claim to be able to read men's minds but still end up with abusers everyone saw from a mile away. In reality, you can't tell shit about men, and your magical "female intuition" is nothing more than a BS excuse to deflect blame onto men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:10 PM
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ok but my point is that regardless how popular "manosphere crap" is, it is nowhere nearly as institutionalized and entrenched in power structures as feminism is. again- feminism is taught in schools around the country, and speaking out against feminism will get you fired, blacklisted, and publicly shamed. No manosphere movements have the same level influence.
/r/AllPillDebate27/01/23 05:08 PM
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Bruh do you really seriously think redpill is mainstream? The biggest Redpill influencer Andrew Tate is constantly laughed/made fun of and has a few million followers max. He literally has no influence or legitimacy in the real world. Meanwhile, the hateful, misandric third-wave feminism isn't just found on youtube channels and Reddit subs, it's institutionalized in the country's governments, schools, universities, and corporations. Feminism is completely entrenched in American power structures.…
/r/AllPillDebate27/01/23 03:12 AM
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Completely agree tbh. Honestly my experiences with women irl isn't that bad- I'm generally ignored and treated as invisible, but most women are still friendly and polite when they interact with me. It's really the insane misandry I found on Reddit that drove me to hate women
/r/AllPillDebate27/01/23 03:05 AM
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but incels choose to shit on a group that probably doesn't even talk about them literally just read fds, a very black female dominated forum. they shit on incels all the time
/r/AllPillDebate27/01/23 02:42 AM
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so what. if literally everyone shits on indian men then why dont they get to shit back on them. it would be insanely cucked to NOT judge other races/genders as an indian man
/r/AllPillDebate27/01/23 02:41 AM
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The average white guys ran through landwhales and single moms (totally P&Ds) while waiting for a looksmatch to settle for them (see above paragraph). The brown and yellow guys continue to enjoy year+ dry spells, interspersed by brief relationships with burnt-out women who are "finally ready for a good guy". Absolutely brutal. This is so very true, unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:26 AM
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So insanely based
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:18 AM
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The vast, vast majority of women don't care much about intelligence. There's a reason for the trope of the short, ugly nerd who's insanely smart but gets 0 girls. And for the women who do claim to want an intelligent guy, they aren't referring to an actually intelligent man; they mean they want a worldly, cultured man who's traveled to 50 countries and makes 7 figures. Either you are abusing the definition of "intelligent" like these women are, or you are a one-in-a-thousand exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:04 AM
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Kind, empathetic, respectful to all categories of people, rational left-leaning views, feminist pick one
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:48 AM
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That's only if the man is her looksmatch. If the man is a 6'4 Chad with a model-tier face, he can do literally anything and she'll stay with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:40 AM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:11 AM
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The bar is in hell for the select few men who meet women's extremely high standards for physical attractiveness. For all other men, the bar is quite literally impossible to overcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:42 AM
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Whining and complaining instead of working to improve yourself to maximise your chances is cucked. Nope, you've got it completely backwards. First, there are some men who are guaranteed to stay alone regardless of what they do, so for those men, "self-improvement" is useless. Second, though there is nothing wrong with working on yourself for your own sake, "self-improving" specifically for the sake of female validation is the very definition of cucked. Imagine spending hundreds of hours in the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:33 PM
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The OG RP used to tell you to STFU and accept how things are (grow past the anger phase). And that's complete bullshit. Imagine how cucked you have to be to simply accept your station in life rather than whining and complaining. Women whine and complain over anything and everything, so it is perfectly acceptable for men to complain about completely valid grievances. The OG RP that tells men to "STFU and accept things" is simply perpetuating systemic misandry, encouraging toxic masculinity, and e…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:12 AM
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Because the original TRP is bluepilled and cucked. They are slaves to female validation, and unironically perpetuate toxic masculinity and systemic misandry towards fellow men. I'm glad that the "STFU and spin plates" crowd is gone now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:05 AM
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You're simply wrong. Men's standards are literally on the floor; most average men would gladly date any non-fat women, and below average men would date any woman who's no obese or deformed. Heck, even obese and deformed women have hordes of men chasing after them. There may be some woman who are truly unable to find a relationship, but they are one in a million.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:01 AM
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Your argument doesn't work because any femcel can find a loving relationship with a man who is at least their looksmatch; there is no such thing as a woman who's choices are meaningless hookups or staying alone. The only thing holding these women back are their high standards for looks and social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:49 AM
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by not giving attention to porn or social media girls like most men do ?? most men do not do this. the only men who give attention to social media girls are simps/cucks, and plenty of men are fine with completely giving up porn if they're sexually satisfied in a relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:43 AM
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High value means nothing. Seriously, high value for who? "High value" means high value in the dating and sexual marketplace, not high value to any individual woman. Why do so many people have trouble grasping this concept?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:55 AM
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High value can mean different things. It literally does not. There is one objective definition of high value, and that is highly desired in the dating/sexual marketplace. You clearly have no idea what a "high value man" means. You don’t HAVE to make 6 figures and be 6 foot tall. No you don't, but you better compensate in some other way (e.g. having a male model tier 9/10+ face).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:53 AM
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To me personally a high value man (ew I hate the value speak) is just a man who adds value to my life. Why do women always try to make everything about themselves? The world does not revolve around you, you know. You do not get to define what a high value man is; that determination is made solely by the dating and sexual marketplace. So that means a handsome, rich, entitled, misogynistic fuckboy is objectively a high value man, regardless of what you think of him. Nobody cares about whether he "…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:49 AM
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If you can charm a woman with personality traits like charisma, humor, intelligence, conversation skills, etc. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 09:31 PM
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Let me draw in an example - and I should say, having noticed this within myself is a display of some flaws within me - as a guy, would you be more embarrassed around a fat or ugly man? or around a fat or ugly woman? I think most of us will say (myself included, admittedly), that being around the fat or ugly woman is more embarrassing - many men don't mind being around fat or ugly guys, but being around a fat or ugly woman (especially if there is no relation) can be an embarrassing presence for m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:59 PM
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Literally based af.
/r/AllPillDebate19/01/23 06:14 AM
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What he said holds for relationships too. For every alleged "incel" woman, there are going to be 10 genuinely incel men who would risk life and limb to date and marry her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:11 AM
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Enforced monogamy has been the predominant social norm among practically every society for centuries upon centuries, because such a system was instrumental to the stability and productivity of society. It was only in the last several decades (and almost exclusively in wealthy, Western nations) where the sexual revolution changed this. I don't understand why you think it's so unthinkable for the pendulum to swing back, especially with the rate at which Western society is declining.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:33 PM
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The ENTIRE POINT is that society is more dependent on the male collective than the female collective, despite the fact that males depend more on females on a personal level. Did you even read the title?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:28 PM
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What are the chances that reality is currently broken? Honestly? Life is life. This is the most idiotic thing I've ever heard. "Reality has been broken" for the entire history of humanity, in that systemic injustice and societal dysfunction has permeated human society since the dawn of time. The dating market, being greatly influenced by culture and social norms, necessarily reflects this. Imagine being so simple-minded as to think "life is life" and therefore everything is fine as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:16 PM
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Please explain how a man can be considered top-tier or even mid-tier if his own biologically given counterpart has zero interest in him. Because contribution to society is completely orthogonal to interest from biological counterparts. How are you so dense as to be unable to understand this? Biologically and fundamentally speaking, you couldn’t fail ANY more as a human, then by failing to perpetuate the species. Lol. By your logic, Isaac Newton and Nikola Tesla are complete failures, despite the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:10 PM
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A combination of arrangements that would satisfy me is the destruction of modern feminism and changing women's hypergamous nature.
/r/AllPillDebate15/01/23 09:42 PM
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Whenever a teenager posts about their frustrations with being a KHHV incel, all the replies are telling them is "you shouldn't be dating at 17 anyway", "being a 19 year old virgin is normal/perfectly fine", etc.
/r/AllPillDebate15/01/23 09:41 PM
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Absolutely brutal suifuel. I'm graduating high school this year and have gotten zero validation in my formative years so far. At this point I can already see myself becoming a 30 year old KHHV
/r/AllPillDebate15/01/23 09:39 PM
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Jfl at "serially date" or "have flings". never in my life have i even been able to make friends with a girl (save for a family friend i barely talked to), let alone date one. that's how over it is for me. 6'2 doesnt matter when i'm ugly, ethnic, and have a weird voice
/r/AllPillDebate15/01/23 09:36 PM
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Go to the mall or gym and try there. literally same thing is going to happen lmfao. at best i'd face some brutal mocking and humiliation, at worst i'd get arrested for sexual harassment and it'll go on my permanent record. no thanks again.
/r/AllPillDebate15/01/23 09:31 PM
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When you filter by race, location and economic class, the percent of overweight people decreases significantly. For instance, among white/Asian upper-middle class early 20s women who live in a big city, the average is far from overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:34 AM
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I still think it is more likely that your parents simply don't have sex while you're in the house and aren't the type to show affection around other people, similar to my relationship. I mean the past few years I've been pretty much always been in the house when my parents aren't at work lol. I stay up later than them too. They also haven't celebrated Valentine's day or their anniversary, or done any of the typical "couple things". I'm pretty confident in what I'm saying I think. Even if your sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:28 AM
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And you've asked your parents if they have sex? Of course not lmao. This kind of question is taboo even in most American families. But it is worth pointing out that my own guy and I have been together for 15 years and although we have sex twice a week, we do not engage in any public displays of affection. Not around friends, family, or when out doing things by ourselves. Anyone looking at our outward relationship would assume we are just normal friends instead of longterm lovers. I mean, I live …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:19 AM
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Unless he's asexual no man (or woman, for that matter) is going to be "perfectly fine" with a completely sexless marriage. This isn't true at all. This may be very difficult for Americans to grasp, but some cultures simply aren't very sexualized and don't emphasize sex as a key factor in relationships. For instance, both of my parents immigrated here from China, and they live together like roommates- their marriage is completely devoid of any sex, intimacy, and physical or verbal affection (I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:02 AM
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lmao idc about videos, they arent at all a representative sample. the tinder statistics say that white men are most favored
/r/AllPillDebate15/01/23 06:11 AM
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I've been on this sub for years, and the only men I see "only wanting sex" are normies and Redpillers. For truly unattractive, lonely, socially isolated men, sex is the last thing on their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:09 AM
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From an abundance perspective, absolutely From both an abundance and quality perspective, you mean. Other than that... wow a woman being based for once. Now go to r/purplepilldebate or r/askfeminists say that to all the feminists and misandrists
/r/AllPillDebate15/01/23 05:45 AM
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You're completely correct. Now are you going to admit that women are privileged and have it easier than men in dating?
/r/AllPillDebate15/01/23 05:40 AM
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giga cope. most asian men don't look like kpop stars so kpopmaxxing is bs. seamaxxing is primarily for white men, east asian men don't enjoy nearly the same status boost.
/r/AllPillDebate15/01/23 05:39 AM
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Or they don't find success with women despite self-improvement, and swallow the other pill as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:37 AM
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Well... good job on doing exactly what I described?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:34 AM
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The only man who would seriously ask such a question is a Chad with many sexual options. If you want someone who loves you for who you are, maybe don't choose such a man. An ugly, nerdy guy would not even consider a lack of blowjobs to be divorce-worthy; in fact, they would be perfectly fine with a completely sexless marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:26 AM
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Plenty of tech companies are now giving preferential treatment to women now Yes, everyone knows this, and this is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:16 AM
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lmao i've been in incel forums for years, at this point i've realized i do belong. besides, it's better to accept the brutal truth now than to spend thousands of hours in the future searching for a relationship, only to settle for and get dead-bedroomed by a used up harpie and lose half my net worth upon getting divorce raped.
/r/AllPillDebate15/01/23 05:07 AM
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according to the recent post, this isn’t what men want. so I’ve heard men want more “empathy”, but there’s only so many virtual hugs a girl can send. and if we’re all honest, virtual hugs don’t heal incels. actually, it's precisely what men want. it's true that virtual hugs from one an individual girl won't heal them (although it certainly is much appreciated); but empathy from women as a collective certainly would. to elaborate: the problems these men face are twofold- first is their loneliness…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:00 AM
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Men do need systemic change. But men are naturally competitive while women are naturally cooperative, so it is impossible for there to be male solidarity in the same way female solidarity exists. Never in a million years can men come together to form a men's rights movement with enough power to rival feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:18 AM
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And get expelled from my high school for sexual harassment, and then get my MIT acceptance rescinded as a result? No thank you. I'd rather not throw away my future over something as stupid as this.
/r/AllPillDebate15/01/23 04:15 AM
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Those are precisely what men care about. All men are asking for from women as a collective is respect, decency, and empathy- not sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:18 AM
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giga cope. i'm 6'2" and i've had zero girls interested in me my whole life
/r/AllPillDebate15/01/23 02:10 AM
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Lol no, if anything it hinders it. When you don't have to waste time on dating and relationships, you have much more free time to pursue academic and professional success.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:45 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:40 AM
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For white passing, average and above looking women yeh. Nope, the same holds for unattractive, ethnic women. The rest meh they're always resentful they couldn't be the above and have the best experience. That is true too, but regardless they still are far more privileged than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:38 AM
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I mean, when most guys stress the importance of "looks" they mean "not obese or deformed", not "8/10 face with tiny waist and big boobs". So it's really not equivalent at all. But there are a few guys here who seem very shallow with their looks preferences, which is unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:35 AM
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My ranking: Personality. I don't have a high bar for this though- she don't have to be funny or interesting or witty, as long as she's nice to me and cares for me that's more than enough. Age. I'm 17 so I'd like someone between 14 and 22, which I think is pretty reasonable. N-count. I'm a virgin so I'd strongly prefer someone who's also relatively inexperienced. Weight. I don't care too much about this though- I just don't want her to be obese. Looks and career. These are tied for dead last beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:32 AM
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Best reason to hit the gym Lol hitting the gym will not make you a chad. The determining factors of being a chad are facial bone structure, height, and frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:16 AM
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Men looking for a hot, fit, high sex drive, republican, feminine, long haired but not dyed a strange color, no tattoos or extra piercings, woman who loves lingerie and giving blow jobs is like looking for a filet mignon at a small town dinner. Literally no man demands this. Most average men would date ANY woman who's not obese or deformed, and most below average men have quite literally zero standards whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:15 AM
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I've said this so many times already but you realize this is extreme selection bias by the OP, right? There's probably like 0.1% of men would cheat with a stripper half their age, but if OP is constantly hanging around strangers, she will be seeing lots of men from this 0.1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:31 AM
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Exactly lmfao. Clearly she has no clue how selection bias works
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:28 AM
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This is selection bias at its finest. If you are constantly hanging around strippers, of course the men who you come across are going to "love whores". That doesn't mean they aren't in the tiny minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:28 AM
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why are you trying to press a preconceived, and frankly misogynistic notion onto me just because i'm a woman? because it holds for 95% of women, and it's very unlikely that you're part of the special 5%. that 5% is mostly very ugly, nerdy, socially outcasted women (or at least, as close to that as exists), so for someone who looks the way you do, there's probably a 0.0001% chance that you truly don't care about looks or social status for friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:31 AM
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im friends with them because they're caring, fun, interesting people. you just don't understand my point do you? your perception of whether someone's "caring, fun, and interesting" is heavily biased by their attractiveness and social status. it's called the halo effect, read up about it. you perceive attractive guys as fun and interesting (regardless of whether they actually are), and the opposite holds for unattractive guys. can you actually address my point for once? also, when you say this: t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:21 AM
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there has been no circumstance in my life where a man i find unattractive has tried to be friends with me and i've turned him down, like i explained in my other comment (which you clearly failed to respond to because you can't refute it), yes there has, you just don't realize it. i absolutely GUARANTEE that all of your friends are above a certain looks/social status. i don't know why you assume every single woman is an evil conniving person. we aren't a hivemind. nobody is assuming you are an "e…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:32 AM
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She has some pictures up on her profile, look at this and this. She literally looks exactly like one of the white popular stacies who get a kick out of bullying the ugly nerds. There is absolutely no way you can convince me she doesn't have a looks/social status barrier for friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:55 PM
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never purposefully this is the key word. it may very well be the case that you never purposefully refused to make friends with a guy due to his looks; however, due to the halo effect, you only "connect well"/"vibe with" guys above a certain looks threshold and ugly guys are always "not fun to talk to". so effectively, it is the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:45 PM
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The cornerstones of “charisma” are “emotional IQ” aka understanding (empathy) the other person intuitively and perceptively so that you can manipulate their sentiments/motivations/feelings in your favor. And then doing so with finesse. Not really. If that's the case then explain to me how there's tons of charismatic people who act like arrogant assholes, while many of the most understanding and empathetic people are bullied and shunned. In reality, the cornerstones of charisma are physical appea…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:08 AM
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I agree. It often correlates. And when it does, it’s usually for one, some, or all of the reasons you listed. I completely disagree. I find physical attractiveness, charisma, and social status to be the primary reasons why success in platonic and romantic relationships are so closely correlated- it has nothing to do with "low emotional intelligence" or "low empathy". In fact, I posit that many people who face extreme social isolation have very HIGH empathy and emotional intelligence- but due to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:51 AM
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Obviously there's a massive correlation. Looks, social status, and overall charisma (all of which are largely defined by innate, genetic traits) are extremely important for attracting both romantic and platonic bonds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:42 AM
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I can't answer this question because your premise is completely wrong. Contrary to what you claim, men DO prefer relationships- in fact, men want relationships even more than women do. It is only a small subset of delusional Redpillers who decry relationships and solely want casual sex. This seems to be the crux of the problem: women want relationships, not casual sex. This is not the crux of the problem whatsoever. For every woman who wants a relationship, there is a man willing to be in a rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:39 AM
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Some people don't even have a "tribe" at all. Some of the loner boys (notice how I didn't say "kids", because this only applies to boys and not girls) don't reject their own tribe, they're just so low on the status hierarchy that no one wants to associate with them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:35 AM
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Thank you for admitting it at the very least
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:32 AM
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you never (or rarely) see ugly women with “male friends”. lol what are you on? there are so many ugly, obese women with both a boyfriend and a massive circle of orbiters (aka "male friends")
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:31 AM
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I’ve seen ugly dudes be friends with gorgeous women. I have never seen this Hell I have a few drop dead gorgeous female friends. Then you aren't ugly, simple as that. As an ugly male, I'm already shunned and ostracized by average and below-average women; I'd get eaten alive if I even tried to talk to a gorgeous woman, let alone make friends with her
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:29 AM
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woman here, ive never not been friends with someone because of their looks i can guarantee you have, you just rationalized it away or didn't notice it at all due to the halo effect. just think back to the last time a short, awkward, nerdy guy said hi and tried to get to know you, but you weren't interested in talking to him and intentionally killed the conversation. you'll tell yourself that he was "boring" and "not fun to talk to", when in reality it was his unattractiveness that made you uncom…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:27 AM
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What an insanely messed up thing to say. I hope you never have kids if that's how you really feel
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:47 AM
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Can your parents afford something like speech therapy or something like that for you? Tried it since elementary school, but it hasn't worked well. I don't have any problems speaking fluently or with enunciation/articulation, it's just that my voice is weird. If you are ugly because of a legitimate, no-shit deformity (like having a very small jaw) can that be corrected through surgery? I don't exactly have a deformity, I'm just flat-out ugly. The only surgery that would help me is cosmetic. I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:38 AM
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So women aren't strong independent empowered kweens who don't care about male validation? Some feminists have a bone to pick with you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:39 AM
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because they are c0ping. you literally said it yourself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:38 AM
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I was the captain of varsity volleyball. I got along fine with my teammates and worked well with them on the court, it's just that I didn't bond with any of them off the court and was always left out of everyone else's conversations. Probably the main reason why I got chosen for captain was because I'm by far the best player on the team. And no I don't have a personality disorder. But I am ugly and have a weird voice, which is enough for make me a chronic social reject.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:36 AM
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You argue about the "duality of woman" aka effectively set A being almost equal to set B. They actually are though. The intersection between sets A and B is the set of sex-positive feminists (aka women who objectify themselves for chad but blame their objectification on unattractive men), which comprises the vast majority of women in both sets A and B.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:40 AM
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The intersection between A and B is the set of sex-positive feminists, which is a significant proportion of women (especially young women).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:34 AM
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Ok but that doesn't matter. Your lived experience is an exception to the rule. If 99% of women are shallow and materialistic and only 1% are willing to look beyond looks/height/wealth, then why isn't it fair to generalize women as gold diggers and chad chasers? What matters is the general trend, not the special exception. Your husband is lucky that he found a unicorn, but 99% of men don't have that luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:24 AM
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Explain to me how you fix a short ethnic man with a micropenis and facial deformities
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:07 AM
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Women say this and still don't have good careers lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:43 AM
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But using it as something practical doesn't necessarily mean self-improving to become more attractive to women. It could also mean opting out of dating and relationships, and solely focusing on my education/career (as I intend to do).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:08 AM
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No, you're conflating prescriptive and descriptive TRP. Descriptive TRP is the theory behind women's attraction, which includes concepts like hypergamy, 80/20, alpha fux beta bux, etc. Descriptive TRP explains how the dating market works; it doesn't tell men to do anything. On the other hand, prescriptive TRP is the part of TRP that tells men to work on themselves, lift, get jacked, develop "game", etc. I find that descriptive TRP is quite accurate; on the other hand, prescriptive TRP and the wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:57 AM
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Most adult men who are 5'3" or under are NOT in long term relationships with women who are genuinely attracted to them. It's rare to even see a man that short
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:51 AM
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yes, jordan peterson is bluepilled asf. anyone who claims that it's up to men to "work on themselves" is bluepilled. even the prescriptive side of TRP is bluepilled
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:34 AM
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Except women say that they don't dress up for men, they dress up for themselves and to feel good. Go on Twox or askwomen and everyone will be saying this. So which is it- are women victims of the patriarchy who dress up for men, or are they strong independent empowered kweens who don't give a shit about men and dress up for themselves? Yet another example of schrodinger's feminist in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:27 AM
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Why do women always do this? You always bring up some personal anecdote of a one-in-a-million exception, and act like it means anything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:24 AM
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Nobody wants women to stay 22 forever, men love women of all ages. Even 50 and 60 year old women have an army of simps
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:20 AM
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Then it's very obvious that the only men you see are chads. Average and unattractive men don't even exist to you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:19 AM
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There is no such thing as a woman who gets 0 attention from men. You probably DO get a lot of attention from men, but you don't notice any of those men because they aren't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:18 AM
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so many seem like either flat out trolls or folks that are consumed with hurt and anger. and where do you think this hurt and anger comes from?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:14 AM
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wtf are you trying to say. at least type out a complete sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:13 AM
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Engaging with blackpillers is pretty pointless because they will outright reject anything you say in favor of a blatantly biased view. Them not being opposed much here isn't a sign that their arguments are better, it's a sign that they are largely viewed as lost causes who are hopelessly mentally broken and not worth the time and energy to engage with. When I see comments about how women are all shallow insects and not worth the air they breathe, then what is there left to say for me? Sure, I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:10 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:07 AM
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I am one. Well not quite yet since I'm still a senior in high school, but I got into MIT and will probably be going there. (Yes I know MIT is not an Ivy, but it's on the same tier as HYP) And I completely agree with all the blackpill memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:02 AM
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Lol knock it off with your hamstering. I'm a high school senior and I've done a billion extracurriculars, including being president of multiple school clubs, captaining a varsity sports team, founding a 6-figure nonprofit, and winning national math competitions. These have certainly made me competitive and ambitious, but sure as hell haven't made me any friends or a girlfriend. And school social events existing doesn't mean anything either. Just because you can buy a ticket to prom doesn't mean …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:52 PM
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Lol imagine thinking that every redpiller/blackpiller is an unemployed NEET. Plenty of these people are software engineers or quant traders who went to Ivy League schools and make 6 figures, but don't have the looks, height, and bad boy personality needed to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:44 PM
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Idk, he seems pretty average to me objectively
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:19 PM
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I have never asked a woman out nor have I attempted to date or make moves on women because I know I'm unattractive. Hmm. Is there something wrong with this? As an unattractive male, I do the same- both to spare myself the humiliation of being mocked and bullied, and to spare women the humiliation of being asked out by me. Isn't this what feminists like you want- for ugly, low-status men to stay in their lane and never bother a woman ? I have seen way more women doing this to me than men, it's be…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:11 PM
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No. Men find all women attractive by default
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:49 PM
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It’s kind of your responsibility to be attractive if you want to… attract. If your posture is fucked, if you’re scrawny, if you’re fat. Lack social skills, lack fashion sense, etc. All these things are 90% in your sphere of influence. So let me get this straight. If you are a man and can't find a partner, you have become ripped and muscular, become highly extroverted and charismatic, develop a massive social circle, spend lots of money on trendy new clothes, etc. And all that just to get a 4/10 …
/r/AllPillDebate04/12/22 06:01 AM
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What you are saying has absolutely zero relevance to the topic at hand. The OP is about how women's (and the general population's) anger and blame is directed at the wrong people. Despite the fact that incels may be misogynists and despise women, all the evidence and statistics show that incels are one of the most harmless demographics to society; in particular, incels are NOT the men who are causing real harm to women, and are NOT the men who are perpetrating the violence or assault women exper…
/r/AllPillDebate04/12/22 04:59 AM
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I think that OP believes he’s doing something by insinuating that women who experience domestic violence somehow deserve it because they make bad choices. If you genuinely believe that is the OP's main point, then you need to go back to grade school and work on your reading comprehension.
/r/AllPillDebate04/12/22 04:59 AM
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Most women aren't like that. cope, even if they won't call the police on you they'll still find you creepy
/r/AllPillDebate26/11/22 06:13 AM
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that's because you're chad. if you were an ugly subhuman incel you would have been metood a long time ago
/r/AllPillDebate26/11/22 06:12 AM
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you're missing my point though. mark zuckerberg's partner is literally his looksmatch or even below, he could have gotten her without being a billionaire. if money is actually attractive to women then zuck would be with a 10/10 stacy
/r/AllPillDebate22/11/22 05:50 AM
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in actual incel forums (e.g. r/braincels which is now banned), incels would offer to date literally ANY woman, and of course no one took them on that offer. the only place you will find incels with high standards en masse is on looksmax forums (full of chadlite larpers) and .is (full of mentally ill extremists)
/r/AllPillDebate22/11/22 05:48 AM
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bruh literally just talk to him, be nice to him, and act genuinely interested in who he is/what he has to say. that's literally all you need
/r/AllPillDebate22/11/22 04:50 AM
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As a woman all you need to do it to look good not even that tbh. even ugly women still have hordes of men chasing them
/r/AllPillDebate22/11/22 04:49 AM
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all of them still have 9/10+ faces
/r/AllPillDebate22/11/22 04:47 AM
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Men don't care how wealthy a woman is, that's just women projecting onto men what they find attractive in a partner. Frankly wealth doesn't do all that much for men either. Who do you think gets more attention, Mark Zuckerberg or a 6'4" 9/10 muscular white chad?
/r/AllPillDebate22/11/22 04:42 AM
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or date ugly 2/10 girls but no one wants that false, ugly men definitely do want this. but even ugly 2/10 girls go for average or above average men
/r/AllPillDebate22/11/22 04:41 AM
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Extreme example but standardcels exist and are the majority False, standardcels are the extreme minority. The vast majority of the incels would date literally any non-obese, non-deformed woman their age.
/r/AllPillDebate22/11/22 04:40 AM
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caroline ellison is based
/r/AllPillDebate22/11/22 04:38 AM
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you don't, unless you have some kind of humiliation fetish
/r/AllPillDebate22/11/22 04:37 AM
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Ethnicity is only an issue in dating for folks who want to date interracially. There's no way in hell anyone will ever convince me that women of ethnicity X are flat out refusing to date men of ethnicity X en masse. unless you are an asian man trying to date asian women
/r/AllPillDebate22/11/22 04:36 AM
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Lol imagine being so cucked that you make it your purpose in life to chase female validation. couldn't be me And if my purpose on life isn't to chase that feeling, what is even my purpose? To wagecuck to make wealthy shareholders even more wealthy and consoom? no, a REAL MAN pursues a noble goal in life. a real man makes it his purpose to actually make an impact on the world, whether it be through scientific discovery, technological innovation, art and literature, or simply helping others. a rea…
/r/AllPillDebate20/11/22 07:06 PM
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JFL what an actual clown. zero sympathy for her
/r/AllPillDebate20/11/22 06:54 PM
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I’ve always seen bitter incels saying that after years of being rejected they now refuse to settle for less than a cute girl. If anyone says that they aren't an incel, they are a volcel. Many so-called "incels" are actually larping chadlites who are stacychasers. But actual incels like me would gladly be with ANY non-obese, non-deformed girl their age. Also funny how when they complain about women they always complain about what the average/above average looking ones do. Except below average wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:05 AM
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I'm not surprised that you are dating out of your league, because you are a woman. Pull a person out of the crowd randomly, and they are likely average. What does that have to do with anything? Your partner isn't chosen uniformly and at random among the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:30 AM
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And kids are starving in Africa while the homeless guy gets access to change and social institutions Exactly. That's why the homeless guy should not be complaining to the starving kid in Africa and acting like they're in the same boat. There will always be someone worse-off than you, but it's fine to complain as long as you aren't acting like you're in a comparable position as them. You can't compare suffering. Bruh what are you on, you ABSOLUTELY can compare suffering. Do you seriously think th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:49 PM
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The fact is that those women who say that they have a trouble getting in relationship are being openly mocked So are men men. In fact, men are mocked FAR more for having trouble getting in a relationship than women are, because female validation is a core aspect of societal standards of masculinity. There's a reason why "virgin" and "incel" are the two biggest insults towards men, whereas if you call a woman a "cat lady who will die alone" you'll just get laughed at.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:45 PM
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Only obese and deformed women. Why should a fit healthy male have to date an obese woman? But incels would gladly date their female equivalent (a shy, awkward, non-fat girl with an ugly face), while femcels won't date their male equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:42 PM
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They sit around in self pity while hiding away from men who would be interested in them and pretending that no man wants them while they make sure that absolutely no man even knows about their existence. Exactly, that sub annoys me so much. If they were willing to date shy, ugly, awkward men who are actually in the same league as them, they could easily find a loving partner that treats them well. But of course, that's the sub that closed down because they were getting too much attention from fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:40 PM
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And what exactly is the problem with comparing who has it more miserable? That's exactly the point. If I were a starving homeless guy, do you not think I would have a right to be annoyed at a billionaire complaining about his investments doing poorly and acting like we're on the same level?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:36 PM
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A few. But for ugly men my situation is overwhelmingly the case, while for ugly women it's exceptionally rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:35 PM
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You guys assume that the only shitty people are giga chads. That's just not true. None of the guys that showed interest were chads. They were just confident enough to approach. If they were not chads they were still far above you in attractiveness and quite above average too, because their behavior shows that have access to many women. It doesn't matter how a guy looks. In the end most women are just holes. Completely false. Treating women like holes comes from abundance mentality, which is only…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:32 PM
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I am definitely not ugly, and all these experiences sound VERY similar to my own. Because of female privilege. All women, even unattractive ones, have access to casual sex with top-tier men or loving relationships with men who are non-chads (but are still out of their league). On the other hand, being an unattractive man means it's truly over for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:30 PM
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Are you attracted to -insert race here- guys?Do you have a big ass?I heard black chicks were freaks.What’s it like fucking a black girl?Finally get to cross “ebony” off my list. And one guy, no lie, said: “I have a fetish for black girls. I love having sex with them. It feels so forbidden it’s so hot.” -this one honestly made me not date ANYONE for a while. As a POC man, I would be flattered if a girl ever asked me questions like that, because at least that would mean someone is interested in me…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:27 PM
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Exactly, very based. Men have a FAR more diverse range of attraction than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:23 PM
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It absolutely is. Women's 6/6/6 standards (6 ft, 6 inches, 6 figures) already filters out 95+% men (and that's being generous). And that's not to mention all the other standards like facial attractiveness, charisma, status/popularity, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:22 PM
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No, all my partners were better looking than me (population-wise, they were probably average or above average). In some cases it was a problem that eventually led to the relationship ending. jfl, why am i not even surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:19 PM
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Did you not think something was off when alpha chads who were way more attractive than you wanted to sleep with you? Or did you just have an overinflated view of your own attractiveness back then? I'm only 17 but I would absolutely be very suspicious if an attractive girl showed interest in me. I don't think I need a lot of life experience to realize she probably wants to use me for something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:19 PM
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If she wants to get married she can. Fat, ugly women get married with attractive men out of their league all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:08 PM
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I believe you, what you say is definitely more reflective of reality than the above poster. This just goes to show how much privileged females have, since even fat women can be afford to be very picky and date attractive, top-tier men. Whereas if you're a fat guy, just forget about even trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:07 PM
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Nobody trashes women who are sexually active in long-term relationships. What people DO trash is women who spend their prime years having casual sex with alphas and Chads who are way out of their league, and then settling with a betabux (who's actually in her league) and treating him terrible and divorce raping him
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:04 PM
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I wonder how much internet pornography and masturbation plays into this? Not at all. Seriously this ED thing is so insanely exaggerated
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:02 PM
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They were getting positive attention too. While there were definitely many messages insulting and harassing them, there were also many lonely men who were genuinely trying to get to know them. They didn't know what league those men were in, because, being the internet, they knew very little about them, including knowing nothing about how they looked. That just proves those women aren't actually forever alone. As a forever alone male, I would be beyond ecstatic to receive attention from just abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:58 PM
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you forgot: Pair up with attractive guys who are out of their league Because many women are hypergamous and only go for men who are out of their league, that forces many more men in their league to pair up with women below them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:53 PM
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This thread perfectly exemplifies the sheer privilege that females have in modern western society. Ugly women get lots of male attention and easily find loving relationships (often with very attractive men), while ugly men get treated like crap and rejected by even ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:53 PM
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LOL quit larping bro. no man on ppd is dating a 9/10 girl
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:51 PM
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It literally is. Unless you are a Chad, women have complete power over you in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:49 PM
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investing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:48 PM
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People misinterpret that phrase; it is men who get sex who are the gatekeeper of relationships. All women are gatekeepers of sex, while only top 5% men are gatekeepers of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:48 PM
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How many times does this have to be repeated to get it through your dense head that these are DIFFERENT MEN doing the complaining? The men who want sex by the 3rd date are NOT the ones wanting virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:44 PM
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For #1, it's like Disney/cartoon logic at play....the handsome guy is always the "creep", while the plain/ugly guy is "noble" and "deserves" the girl. Is your IQ below 50? Because that is the impression that your ridiculous replies are giving. I don't understand how dense you have to be to not be able to grasp this very simple logic: currently, women have extremely high standards regarding looks, and extremely low standards regarding moral character. So women put up with douchebags so that they …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:42 PM
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He is speaking the complete truth
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:24 PM
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Height only matters if you are below average. Once you are above 5'9", height has diminishing returns and FACE is what really matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:23 PM
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6'3" is pretty tall but definitely not exceedingly rare. I am 6'2" and see men taller than me all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:21 PM
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Repeat after me: MEN ARE NOT A MONOLITH. The men complaining about not getting casual sex are NOT the men wanting a virgin/low-N woman. It is literally that simple. How do you not understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:18 PM
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It’s stupid to be anti abortion especially for the first ~12 weeks because fertilised eggs are destroyed all the time time though the use of IUDs and the morning after pill. Also it’s common place in fertility offices. Now you see why some conversatives are pushing to ban IUDs and the morning after pill
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:04 AM
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There's a difference between "likes" and "genuinely lusts for". Only Chads/ the top 5% of men are able to experience the type of genuine, visceral lust I was referring to- in the vast majority of relationships, the woman likes the guy and is somewhat attracted but not extremely. And THAT'S when women make men court and woo them while not reciprocating themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:23 PM
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If this was true then there wouldn’t be an abundance of women who acknowledge they’ve allowed subpar treatment from less than spectacular men. They don't though. Because even though these men may be failures in life and "less than spectacular" in personality and success, you know what they have in common? Being tall, white, handsome, big-dicked, and muscular. These are the traits that women prioritize over treated well, so of course she'll make an exception for Chad and let him treat her like sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:17 PM
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They’re not. They're not FOR CHAD, you forgot to include. If a woman genuinely lusts for you and finds you extremely attractive, you can get away with almost anything. But if she doesn't, you'll have to go to extreme efforts just for the slightest bit of attention from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:09 PM
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if men weren’t so horny women wouldn’t have such an advantage in dating. it's not due to horniness though, the main thing that gives women such a huge advantage in dating is that our gynocentric Western society caters to the female imperative. in many patriarchal non-western societies, males actually have an easier time dating than females
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:02 PM
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since when do all women want elaborate first dates? literally just look on FDS for 5 seconds and you'll find many examples
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:00 PM
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FAR more prevalent in online dating, but also to a certain extent in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:56 PM
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So why do is "incel" the go-to insult rather than "misogynist", "bigot" or "women-hater"? Why don't the latter three insults carry as big a punch?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:56 PM
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And why do you think men base their ego on their sexual success? It's because Western media and our gynocentric society hypersexualizes everything and conditions men into thinking that their value is based on how many women they can have sex with. This is also why in other places like East Asia, men base much more of their self-worth on their academic/career success rather than sexual success, and being sexually unsuccessful carries a far lighter stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:53 PM
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“I’m mad women don’t have as low self esteem as I do” What a stupid way to twist what he is saying. What he is actually sayin is "I'm mad at society's double standards where men have to put in extreme effort into a relationship while women don't reciprocate and just sit back and enjoy it".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:47 PM
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All three
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:37 PM
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Modern dating just sucks for everyone. Not for women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:34 PM
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That's not true though. White American men who go to Southeast Asia will be seen as more attractive due to their race alone, it has nothing to do with betabux. That's why white men who visit Thailand and Colombia can easily find younger, hotter women to hook up with as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:33 PM
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Lemme know when MGTOW finally decides to go it’s own way instead of spending all of their time bitching about women. Let me know when feminists finally decide to go their own way instead of spending all of their time bitching about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:30 PM
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doenst matter. anyone who lets someone fuck his wife is a cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:28 PM
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normal women don't get much attention at all and can often find it harder to be valued for things than men (as what they actually do matters far less, and women are valued more for being pretty which they mostly can't control). LMAO are you actually being serious? You are seriously out of touch with reality. Normal women are literally DROWNING in attention, both socially and romantically. Even unattractive, below-average women still complain about constantly being propositioned and asked out (fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:26 PM
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While the boys around me started to grow much taller, broaden out and seemed to grow in physical and psychological confidence in themselves, etc. Idk, I've certainly never witnessed this growth in physical and psychological confidence you describe in anyone I know. Personally, when I had a massive growth spurt and went from 5'2 to 6'2, all that made me do was feel even more awkward and self-conscious about my body. Also - just being slim is not really enough to make a woman highly desirable. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:17 PM
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Y’all are so sure this man has been humiliated and shamed but he’s just out here living his best life and having a ball. Lmaoo that's literally the exact same rationalization cucks use- "yes my wife is being railed by Tyrone but so what? that makes me HAPPY". are you a cuck too?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:16 PM
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How am I being hypocritical? Please point me out to when I ever brought up Ukrainian men, I'll wait. I never disagreed that American men who victimize themselves using the conscription of Ukrainian men are just as bad as the American women who victimize themselves using the oppression of women in the Middle East.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:15 PM
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Yes, it's obviously bad for women in many third-world countries where they don't have any rights at all. The problem is when privileged western women appropriate the actual oppression against women in poor, third-world countries to push western feminism and the narrative that women are oppressed in the US/other first-world countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:06 PM
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Its an insanely stupid argument to say "well these poor underprivileged women dont have the time to worry about the societal problem that made them poor and underprivileged so YOU are being selfish by worrying about it." That's not the argument at all. The actual problem is when western women appropriates the ACTUAL oppression of women in third-world countries despite being privileged themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:02 PM
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The drive and lack of self-consciousness I’ve heard young guys talk about is enviable. Especially as most of the young women I’ve known (myself included when I was young) struggled with self confidence. What are you talking about? The very last quality I'd attribute to young guys is "lack of self-consciousness"; if anything, young men are far more self-conscious and struggle with self-confidence far more than young women. And this makes sense as well- men are so harshly judged by society and are…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:57 PM
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I think that's also part of the reason why women are more down for swinging than men. Women are hypergamous and tend to be less monogamous/less loyal than men, so if both partners open their relationship, there is a much greater chance that the woman would lose attraction and cheat/leave for a better partner. This is especially exacerbated by the fact that in the swinging scene, women would be able to easily have sex with partners that are WAY out of her league (and way out of her partner's leag…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:41 PM
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lmaoo imagine being a literal cuck 🤡 🤡 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:37 PM
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No. I would never engage in such a degenerate and morally reprehensible activity. I do think women are more open to this though, because they have much less to worry about/be insecure about as opposed to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:36 PM
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Don’t other guys acknowledge you? Not unless they need something from me Women are conditioned to be nice/pleasant Not to ugly men lmfao. In fact, women take pride in openly shitting on ugly, awkward, low-status men for the sole crime of existing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:35 PM
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Those "pills" are based on unrealistic expectations, that ageless adolescent wet dream of instant meaningless sex with women of your choice. Oh please, yet another instance of this dumb strawman that all men want is casual sex with hot models. When in reality, all the men here want is to be treated like a human being by the opposite gender and find just one woman to spend their life with, and even that is called "entitled" and "unrealistic" by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:01 AM
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Maybe your issue is with reconciling with reality. A lot of dudes on here fantasise about human interactions A LOT. To the point where it seems like they expected a Hollywood movie-like situations in their acutal real life. Who here is expecting "hollywood movie-like situation" in their actual real life? That's just something else you bluepillers make up to discredit redpillers/blackpillers Personally, as someone who does fantasize about human interactions a lot (as you described, what I fantasi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:00 AM
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I can totally relate. It's especially disheartening when everyone (especially women) mocks and talks shit about LVM, and there's no empathy at all for men like me who are at the bottom of the barrel
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:45 AM
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What’s being said is that men don’t mind being low value or being “groupies” (for lack of a better word) for higher status males (whether that’s celebrities or even men in their local friend group) I completely disagree with this. Male solidarity is not a thing like female solidarity is- low-status men hate but also envy high status men, and high status men hate low-status men almost as much as women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:41 AM
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Very accurate. All the ex-black pillers most of their solution was unironically interacting and socialising more with the the sex they claimed to know so much about. This only works if you are a mentalcel whose issues are entirely self-imposed. If you're actually a bottom-tier man (bottom 1% male SMV), "just walk to women bro" is horrible advice. There’s a dude on the PPD Discord who we personally witnessed transform from raging incel to successful guy who gets casual sex all using the advice th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:35 AM
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The difference is that everyone can buy a piano and practice it, while some people are completely shut out of dating and socializing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:32 AM
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Hey guess what, there are different men on PPD who think different things and not everyone is a delusional redpiller. Shocking!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:20 PM
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Yep. I've since graduated and have a great career in tech as a programmer at 31. LOL right, I'm sure you are. Someone so dumb they went to community college at 26 is NOT going to make it further than being a mediocre code monkey or middle manager. You probably don't work at a FAANG-tier company or even clear 6 figures for that matter I told you that you weren't being trolled. And I explained to you why I was under the impression I was. But now I realize I was mistaken and you're just legitimatel…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:17 PM
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Me detailing my perspective of your lacking abilities isn't trolling either. LOL, you literally went to community college and were working customer service jobs at TWENTY SIX YEARS OLD. Imagine being that much of a failure in life and thinkign you have ANY room to talk about anyone else's intelligence or "lacking abilities". People can have opinions of you that you don't like. Another fundamental aspect of social awareness. Another important aspect of social awareness is that if you rudely expre…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:09 PM
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Oh no, men live and die alone?! But isn’t that what they threaten women with if women don’t loosen their standards and settle for a physically repulsive man who only won’t cheat on her because he can’t and has no options! ...when the fuck have I ever said that? That's what delusional Redpillers say and everyone knows they're full of shit, I don't know how that's relevant at all to my comment Noooooooo dying alone isn’t a threat to men! Only women. Men don’t like relationships and marriage, they …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:00 PM
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Insulting my intelligence and reading comprehension ability (which is without a doubt MUCH stronger than yours) absolutely is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:56 PM
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That image is so obscenely stupid lol u can change a few words , swap the genders n make that exact opposite argument no you can't because then that argument would be false
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:54 PM
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Wow you are seriously dumb. Your confusion with reading comprehension more thsn likely is correlated with with your failed sociability. LMAOO I can assure you my reading comprehension is MUCH better than yours, I literally got a perfect score on the reading sections of both the SAT and ACT. I am not "confused" about anything, I was asking a rhetorical question (which clearly you don't understand). Imagine getting btfod on both of your points and being so mentally slow you don't have a better res…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:53 PM
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Men who want woman to perform traditional gender roles are also willing to fulfill traditional gender roles themselves. On the other hand, it's women who want a traditional, masculine guy who makes all of the money and protects her, while she herself has a 100+ body count and can't cook or clean
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:37 PM
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You are clearly the one who has zero reading comprehension, because I was disproving what you said here: The woman bashing, degrading, and belittling behavior flies out of their mouths immediately. They disqualify themselves with their vitriol for women immediately. Which immediately repulses women. and was NOT addressing the other part of your comment. But to actually address the other part of your comment, whether you "understand fundamental social decorum" has NOTHING to do with whether you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:27 PM
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It really isn’t hard. For 99% of the population, yes. For the bottom 1% of men, other people are repulsed by you even if you're genuinely friendly and respectful
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:15 PM
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Easy for normies to say. If you have a 2/10 face on top of a severe speech impediment that makes your voice sound autistic and borderline unintelligible, people are NOT going to like you just for being genuinely friendly and respectful
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:13 PM
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not true from my experience as a tall guy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:11 PM
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If their IRL behavior deviated from their online behavior, their social life and success would reflect those behavioral changes. So you think that every man who's not a misogynist will be socially and romantically successful? You don't think that there are any ugly, awkward guys who are bullied, ostracized, and socially/romantically excluded? Frankly in your own personal ancedote illustrates my point. How? I literally disproved your point, women are repulsed by me just for existing (NOT for bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:04 PM
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"Easier" means that in dating, women can get a higher quality partner (in terms of attractiveness as well as how they treat you) than an equivalent man, and has to put in less effort than an equivalent man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:01 PM
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Exactly, that is what pisses me off the most. Honestly this is why I'm support misogyny and am becoming a misogynist myself- if women assume shy, ugly guys are all misogynists anyway and treat us like shit, I might as well return the favor and prove them right
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:57 PM
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It's not a misogyny detector, it's just a general social sense of people. Correct. That's why unattractive and awkward men repulse women just by existing- women's "social sense" is just their instinctual disgust towards men with inferior genetics due to their darwnian, hypergamous nature. Most people have some ability to differentiate between someone with good intentions and someone with bad ones, in general and not just with dates. LOL, somehow that ability totally disappears when the guy is a …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:54 PM
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Misogyny in itself isn't an immediate dating disqualifier (as many women are misogynists themselves) however men with the extreme displayed misogyny don't understand the fundamental social decorum required to enter into the door of possible romantic/sexual opportunities. The woman bashing, degrading, and belittling behavior flies out of their mouths immediately. They disqualify themselves with their vitriol for women immediately. Which immediately repulses women. How do you not understand that p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:47 PM
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8/10+ male model face with chiseled jawline, hunter eyes, good maxillary and mandibular forward growth, high nose bridge with narrow alar base, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:43 PM
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Completely based.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:41 PM
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only if they're tall, white and have a chad face
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:40 PM
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of course, that's common knowledge. I think this image sums it up the best
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:37 PM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:35 PM
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0
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:35 PM
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Isn’t that allegedly “unconventionally attractive” to you all? not if he has a chad facial bone structure Amazing face face>>>>>everything confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:34 PM
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I saw a TikTok of a white family kneeling and praying to American flag on their wall then the father takes a giant flag and cloaks his wife and children and kneels over them and then they all Pray to American Jesus. That's not what any typical white person does lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:33 PM
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Exactly, I don't understand why it's so difficult for some people to understand this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:31 PM
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the ugly women are having sex with slightly better looking versions of themselves (=average guys) you said it right there lol. either that, or they stay single because ugly guys don't measure up to their standards and they feel entitled to chad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:30 PM
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Exactly. It’s a matter of valuing things differently. Men definitely have a harder time than women do getting NSA sex - but often that’s not what women want, so “having” that advantage doesn’t really feel like an advantage. I don't understand why women keep strawmanning the argument men here make as "women have it easier in dating because they can always get NSA sex." No, we're saying women have it easier because they can get both sex AND relationships much easier than men do. The point is that …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:28 PM
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Because of just world fallacy. Women are reluctant to admit their inherent privilege and would like to think that they earned it somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:22 PM
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well if you want to date a gigachad that's what happens. if you're willing to date a guy in your league or slightly above it, you'll have hordes of men vying for your attention and you'll be able to easily find a loving boyfriend who'll give you the world. i'd call that having it pretty easy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:26 AM
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They don’t want to actually put in any kind of work. They want to sit around and exist and be physically repulsive and attract hot women willing to have pornstar sex with them. LOL, yet another dumb strawman. All unattractive men want is to have an equally unattractive woman give them the time of day, and to not be treated like shit in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:24 AM
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Oh yes. Society. I notice society is suddenly going to suffer if uggos can’t get laid. Lmao, what a stupid strawman. We're not talking about ugly men not getting sex with hot women- we're talking about record low birth rates that will lead to an inverted population pyramid, a societal epidemic of loneliness and isolation, the total collapse of the family unit, millions of young men dropping out of society or becoming radicalized, an increasing polarized and toxic gender war, etc. You're really d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:22 AM
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I’d say the vast majority of men on here don’t. I’ve said it before many times. They have zero clue what it’s like to have hot passionate mutual enjoyable sex with a woman. And how exactly is this any of our fault? Not to mention, you can get a very good idea of what sex is like by simply talking to people, hearing about others' experiences, reading posts online, etc, even if you've never had it. Just because you've never had sex before doesn't mean you can't debate social and sexual dynamics. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:11 AM
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I value knowing people on a personal level now. On solving each human rubix cube one at a time. Not everyone has the privilege to get to know other people on a personal level, especially someone of the opposite gender, and even moreso in the context of a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:08 AM
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I think what a lot of these men are suffering from is lonliness compounded by lies our society had told them. Companionship is truly what they are missing, sex is just this large physical component to that. Yes, literally all of us has been saying this exact thing lol. But it's women and bluepiller who strawman us as just wanting casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:06 AM
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Going to church and pretending to believe in God just to get a girlfriend is a terrible thing to do (and definitely won't work)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:59 AM
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they do though, how is that contradictory
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:52 AM
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gigabased
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:51 AM
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Lol, women don't treat men well just for being tall. I'm 6'2 (close to 6'3 in shoes) and have been treated like shit by women all my life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:51 AM
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brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:49 AM
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It’s incredibly sad you believe something so derogatory about your own race. White men are more attractive and high status than Asian men???? Why is it sad to point out that society is racist against Asians so Asians are viewed as lower status and less attractive? I don't think Asian men are inherently less attractive to white men due to genetics (or at least, the difference isn't big), but due to eurocentric beauty standards, lack of media representation, racism, etc, an asian man is far less a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:48 AM
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straight from the horse's mouth jfl
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:42 AM
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Most women in college pursue men who are also working on their degree imagine thinking that having a degree makes you smart jfl. anyone with two brain cells can get a degree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:40 AM
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lmfao what are you on? it's not the 1950s anymore, beta game is as dead as the dodo. a man's money/career LITERALLY DO NOT MATTER even a single bit- just like women, 99% of men's SMV comes from their looks. do you think ANY women are fantasizing over bill gates or mark zuckerberg? She won’t date a jobless guy no matter how much she likes him. just LOL. if he's hot enough she will The equivalent of a woman being young is a guy being rich. no, the equivalent of a woman being young is a guy being y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:38 AM
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Being seductive it's like being confident for men. so in other words, it doesn't matter at all and is just dished out as a stupid platitude to make people shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:30 AM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:28 AM
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extremely based
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:26 AM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:24 AM
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Lmaoo I just got my second block today. the women on this sub get triggered so easily
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:12 AM
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So what is the issue then? When I say "Hi how's your day been?" to a girl sitting next to me in class and she recoils in disgust, what have I done wrong? Or do women somehow have magical personality detectors that allow them to telekinetically detect the misogynist comments I've been posting on internet forums?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:58 PM
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Interesting. Do you live in the US? If you look at this sub and the rest of reddit, you'll see women saying they are constantly being hit on and approached throughout the day, everywhere they go, and they are sick of it. Why do you think your experience differs so much from the norm?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:29 PM
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Well everything you just listed are extremely basic standards that extremely many men meet. That's not picky at all, those are the bare minimum. In fact, if those were your only standards, you could easily just go find a 5/10 nerdy programmer/scientist/engineer to date- many of them make great money, are extremely passionate about their field, are genuinely looking for a relationship, and would treat you like a queen because they've never received any female attention. But what a lot of women do…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:20 PM
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just approach us in real life and we will probably say yes just fucking LOL, tell that all the guys who've approached girls who are their looksmatch or even below, and ended up getting laughed at and humiliated in public. if women really are looking for a relationship and aren't inundated with male attention, what could explain how this is such a frequent occurrence?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:17 PM
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jfl of course you're a good-looking white guy. literally dating on easy mode. no wonder you're spouting the 'just talk to women irl" bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:13 PM
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Average girls don't want average guys, they want chads. that's literally basic knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:10 PM
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brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:08 PM
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What are your standards for men? I think that is the main thing you need to sort out. Are you willing to date a man who is also a 5/10 and makes the same amount as you? Do you swipe right on average men or only 10/10 male models? If you are then I don't understand how you aren't being inundated with hordes of men trying to date you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:08 PM
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go look up the pig woman experiment, a literal deformed obese 0/10 woman can get hundreds of matches on tinder. and you are definitely more attractive than that woman, so you are definitely leaving something out. do you have a 6'4 height filter? do swipe left on everyone but 10/10 model-tier men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:01 PM
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what race are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:58 PM
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Men their age aren’t interested in marriage. You mean CHADS their age aren't interested in marriage. Of course Chads who have hordes of women constantly chasing them don't want marriage in their mid-20s, and would prefer going to clubs, hooking up on tinder, etc. On the other hand, there are also plenty of men in their mid 20s who have make mid-6 figures a year, have a house and car, are fit and well-groomed, etc, and are focused on finding a relationship rather than hooking up (in fact, these m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:46 PM
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False, if you are beautiful you'd be able to become a model and make millions of dollars a year, or become an onlyfans or twitch thot and fleece money off simps. or you could just marry a multimillionaire and be set for life. being a beautiful woman is literally life on tutorial mode with cheat codes enabled
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:39 PM
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same for men. a 6'4 chad with a 10/10 male model face and ripped body is 1000000x more desireable than mark zuckerberg or elon musk will ever be, even if he's broke and has a criminal record
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:37 PM
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gigabased
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:35 PM
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You haven't been around ugly enough guys then. I'm terminally single and I severely struggle to make female friends, because girls are so repulsed by me they turn their nose up just for saying hi and trying to have a conversation. I haven't ever had a female friend in my life (aside from a family friend from elementary/middle school), and I can't even remember the last time I had a conversation with a girl my age
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:34 PM
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Exactly, I feel like people on this sub have seriously warped definitions of top 20%, top 1%, etc. being in the top 1% of SMV is not really all that difficult- 6'2+, handsome face, white, and a decent UMC job making mid 6 figures is more than enough. it doesn't really need any massive amounts of effort
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:31 PM
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An insane amount of luck (be born 6'-5" or whatever's considered "good enough" now, and then be born to a wealthy family). After that, just put some time in the gym and boom. 1% man. You forgot having a good facial bone structure and big dick. That's way more important than being born into a wealthy family or going to the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:29 PM
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I think you are really overestimating the top 1%- that's still 3 million people in the US. Someone like Elvis is WAY more than the top 1%, he's the top 0.00001%. To actually be in the top 1%, good genetics + upper-middle class upper middle class upbringing is way more than enough, and it's really not that much work at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:28 PM
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How is anything I said at all racist? I'm Asian myself and I don't see what is racist about admitting that white men are objectively more attractive and higher status than Asian men in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:43 AM
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I don't though. Single moms still lead better lives than very many men, especially low-status, ugly men who are truly the lowest of the low. I don't think single moms are undateable either- plenty of attractive men are simps/cucks and would be fine dating a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:10 AM
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It's easy for you to not understand when you've lived such a privileged life. Try being constantly shit on both on the internet and by everyone around you just for existing, and becoming isolated to the point you're practically mute in public- then you'll understand. But that hasn't been your experience, so you do not understand, and never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:03 AM
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How? All I see is the most hateful, vicious bile being spewed at the male gender, and all the females as well as a lot of white knights/simps agreeing with it. On the other hand, when men even try to discuss the reality of female privilege or their struggles as unattractive men, they're automatically called an incel and all their arguments are dismissed. Honestly, I never used to be a misogynist, and in fact I used to idealize/pedestalize women quite a bit. But after seeing just how cruel, callo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:56 AM
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Well people have consistently treated me horribly when I've never done them any harm, so why is it unfair for me to take revenge and get back at the world? Not to mention, good-looking men are inherently privileged, so me treating them badly is just me helping to make up for how everyone else treats them well due to the halo effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:48 AM
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Exactly this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:47 AM
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And men wouldn't go for No Sex Before Marriage because in their mind, they aren't BB, they're Temporarily Embarrassed Chads. I have no clue where you got this bullshit from either. Most average/unattractive men are not "temporarily embarassed chads" and would love for enforced monogamy to return, since they are looking for relationships anyway and want nothing to do with casual sex. But it's women who feel that enforced monogamy/no premarital sex is patriarchal oppression and an affront to human…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:45 AM
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Definitely. If I succeed in getting into a top college and securing a high-paying career, I will absolutely do all that's in my power to punish women and good-looking men. In fact even now, I try to go out of my way to treat unattractive men more nicely and women/attractive men worse. Even if it just makes a tiny difference, I'm still doing my part to help curb lookism and female privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:41 AM
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It's far easier to see this sub's insanity when you actually have a wide social circle of both genders. Sadly, that's not achievable for all men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:30 AM
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Sounds based to me. Is there something wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:28 AM
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lmao no, the type of man who is unsuccessful with women will never be able to become a politician. but i could definitely see it happening in other high-status careers that are more achievable for nerds/unattractive men (e.g. tech execs/startup founders, professors, doctors/surgeons, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:27 AM
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Completely based. Keep it up bro, you are doing a service to the world. Women and good-looking guys get treated like queens and kings by society anyway- the least you can do is help take them down a notch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:25 AM
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nah it's based. women constantly way worse thing about men and no one bats an eye
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:13 AM
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There was literally an entire post on here dedicated to how friendships with women are pointless because they won’t fuck you. Most men do not feel this way. I agree most men do not feel that way. So why do you care about what a few delusional red pillers have to say? The vast majority of men treat women well and would be happy to make friends with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:12 AM
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I used to believe that a lot of these men are just like me, desperately wanting a relationship with one woman through out their whole life's but never getting it. Well there are. I am one of those men for instance. I'm not into hookup culture at all and would be over the moon if I could find a relationship where we both genuinely love each other and could share a life together. And I am nowhere near the only one, there are tons of men like me. But of course, none of us get noticed or receive an …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:10 AM
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that's true. males have out-group bias and females have in-group bias, so male solidarity will never be a thing like female solidarity is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:30 AM
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AFBB is a real thing but what does that have to do with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:28 AM
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Each sex wants the highest quality of the sex opposite to them (filtering out the majority of the opposite sex) whilst wanting the opposite sex to have standards low enough so that they just qualify. And combine this with the fact that both sexes ultimately want to have fun in their youth whilst eventually settling down with a partner who hasn’t done the same. But see, this is where the disconnect lies- I don't think it's a "both sexes" thing. Personally I don't have high standards for women at …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:57 AM
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That's true, I totally agree with you. Honestly thank you so much for being one of the few women here (actually, the only one I've seen so far) who are actually understanding and empathetic of male struggles in modern society, rather than dismissing men's issues altogether and mocking/shaming us. I just upvoted all your comments in this thread, I truly wish there were more women like you in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:38 AM
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no need to a see a TV show or movie, just look at real life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:29 AM
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But why is human society so anti-men today? Because there are some men who are really really bad people (and outnumber women is this indicator without any degree of comparison) And you think that just because the tiny fraction of really bad men outnumbers the tiny fraction of really bad women, it's justified for life to be far harder for men than women in general, even though the vast majority of men didn't do anything wrong? Why are billions of completely innocent men to blame for the horrendou…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:23 AM
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As a woman, I don't think most women in here are posting anything hateful or demeaning towards men. Literally just read through this very thread, and you will see women (and men) talking about how women are inherently superior to men, how there are too many men and that we need to "do something" about the "excess" men, and proposing to cull the male population to a fraction of the female population. If you don't see how that's hateful, misandrist and downright sociopathic, there's really nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:20 AM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:10 AM
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Has anyone else here become a misogynist due to this sub and other subs/social media platforms? In real life women treat me terribly but honestly it's not that bad, since as long as I keep my head down and make sure not to interact with any women, they generally don't bother me. It's only when I try to talk to or make friends with them that I get treated horribly. But upon spending a lot of time on reddit (especially this sub), the hostility, hate, misandry, and overall cruelty and callousness t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:02 AM
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When you have priviledge in a society that favors patriarchy, its a no shit situation to end up with bad things that affect both men and women. This is not true though. The idea that society is a patriarchy and that males have privilege is complete bullshit and is just based on apex fallacy. In fact, I would say that in general, in Western countries, women are far more privileged than men and live much easier lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:58 AM
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The problem is men in PPD tend to only view a woman as being appreciative, validating, respecting via whether she will fuck them or not. I don't understand where people are getting this dumb strawman. Men being frustrated and sad that they couldn't find a girlfriend and have never received an ounce of romantic attention doesn't mean they only appreciate women if they fuck them. In fact I would argue it's the opposite- women only respect men who are attractive to them, and treat unattractive men …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:53 AM
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The women all seem to get along and be solidly Team Woman, while half the men here are simps and white knights
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:43 AM
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I've yet to meet one that does
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:28 AM
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Well not only white men. But the vast majority of HVM are white, because white men are by far the most high status and attractive to women. Very very few Asian/Indian men are HVM, unless they're extremely attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:22 AM
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stop bringing up one in a million exceptions as if they mean anything. 99.9% of men who are as deformed as him are never going to live anywhere close to a normal life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:23 PM
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Best post I've read on this sub by far. Extremely based take and I completely agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:14 PM
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Because it takes extreme arrogance and narcissism to think that you're special or somehow better than the rest of the population in any way, shape or form.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:11 PM
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Because modern western women are extremely narcissistic, entitled and have overinflated egos due to our cucked, gynocentric society. That's why every woman thinks that they are special princesses, when in reality they are no better than anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:02 PM
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but instead I gravitated toward other nerds and dweebs and weirdos and actually ended up with a fairly healthy social circle of other losers with whom I am mostly still friends. And I tried this too but even other nerds and losers have their own friend groups and don't want anything to do with me, while I'm very open to making friends with/getting to know just about anyone. Also from reading your comments on this forum I feel like you're still very much a normie, and not exceptionally geneticall…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:00 PM
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lmaoo imagine thinking the suit made a difference at all, literally 90% of the reason he looks much more attractive afterward is because he's wearing sunglasses to hide his negative canthal tilt and narrow IPD
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:53 PM
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based that's i find the advice on "Dressing well" and "fashionmaxxing" to be so stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:49 PM
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Only broke men are preoccupied with thoughts of women being gold diggers This really isn't true- sure, if you are rich, high status, attractive and have an "alpha personality" (e.g. athletes and celebrities), you don't really need to worry about gold diggers because you'll be an Alpha bux. But for plenty of rich but unattractive/nerdy men (especially in the tech field), vetting for gold diggers is one of their primary priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:48 PM
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Looksmaxx with a huge importance on going to the gym and building a powerful and aesthetic physique jfl at thinking women actually care about "powerful and aesthetic physiques" when what really matters is FACE. you fail to mention that the most important part of looksmaxxing is to get plastic surgery to fix your facial bone structure. everything else is secondary to that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:36 PM
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the reason why people like me spend all their time on the internet is because we've faced a lifetime of ostracization, exclusion, and social rejection, starting from elementary school. you act as if "make friends and have fun" is something anyone can do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:33 PM
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females don't want to be friends with unattractive or low-status men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:28 PM
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how exactly does that disprove my point?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:24 PM
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"just dress well and get a haircut bro" lmao literally npc tier advice, do you think people haven't tried that already? fact is, softmaxxing doesn't do shit for men, because what really matters is facial bone structure. so the most important aspect in working on your appearance is PLASTIC SURGERY. that means rhinoplasty if your nose is too big or too wide, jaw surgery if you have a recessed maxilla or mandible, canthoplasty for negative canthal tilt, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:20 PM
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just LOL if you think ugly men are being invited to any social events
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:19 PM
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If you were talking to women platonically that you had no sexual interest in would the anxiety still be there? Yes, because no woman even wans to talk to me platonically. I would be over the moon if I could find a girl willing to genuinely be friends with me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:17 PM
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jfl, that just gets you used as a betabux
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:15 PM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:10 PM
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Get comfortable talking to women platonically. Banter, get them laughing, excited, sharing interests etc, without the goal of sex. And if women don't even want to be friends with you or even have a conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:09 PM
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Give up on dating and find fulfillment in other areas of life. Focus on excelling in your education and career, and making as much money as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:06 PM
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Here's the thing: if beauty is subjective, and what a woman considers "the hottest of the hot" is subjective (but likely prone to specific features); doesn't this mean that there's quite a variety of "chads"? There is- I'm not denying that all women have their own types. But here's the thing- even though women having varying types, each woman's type is in the top 20% in terms of conventional attractiveness. Regardless if a woman likes kpop pretty boys, edgy emo guys, or roided gymbros, every wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:22 AM
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You are completely right, don't listen to that other guy. The fact is, on an innate biological level, men need women much more than women leave men. So while so many single men are lonely and desperate to get into a relationship, single women are happy and don't want to date any of the men interested in her. I don't know why some men act like women freak out if they don't get married by 30 because it couldn't be farther from the truth
/r/ExRedPill07/07/22 08:33 PM
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Except for looks, which is a universal dealbreaker for all women. That's why looks are so important
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:24 PM
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I’ve realized that I wasn’t bullied because I was quiet and weak, I was bullied because I was independent. I didn’t need to be the source of attention, I always enjoyed my own company. I was unique,I didn’t need to bring other kids down because i always found friends who I had fun with wherever I went. LOL stop the cope. It's always so cringe when people think that they were bullied because they were too "independent" or "unique" or better than the bullies in any way. You weren't bullied for bei…
/r/ExRedPill07/07/22 08:20 PM
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I'm trying to understand why OP and others seem hellbent on saying it's impossible that women could like their ltr more than a hookup It's not impossible, just rare. Like I said before, virtually all women hook up with chads, regardless of their own looks level. But there are only a tiny amount of chads, so only a small fraction of women will be able to actually get into a LTR with one- thus, for the vast majority of women, they will have to settle with a non-chad to get into a LTR, so they will…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:12 PM
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I'm pointing out that shouldn't the same rp men who discuss afbb also acknowledge that people who checkout of dating and into ltr pre-25/30 are, by their standards, doing the smartest thing they could which likely means there's higher potential they'll end up with the person they really desire? yes, who is denying this? obviously the ideal scenario is for women to only do LTRs and find their future husband in their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:18 PM
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The dealbreakers vary from person to person but for me, here’s two examples - politics and education. Will never date a conservative, or someone without a bachelors or higher. Conservative men don't want to date you either, they want a woman that shares their views. And men without a degree can go for women without a degree. These things may be a dealbreaker for you but they're not at all for women in those mens' dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:17 PM
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afbb (dual-mating straategy) is literally one of the oldest and most established concepts in the manosphere, with a plethora of scientific research and anecdotal evidence to back it up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:34 PM
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It’s morons who don’t have their priorities straight that struggle later. *WOMEN who don't have their priorities straight. plenty of men only ever seek out LTRs that they could hopefully get married to, but never find anyone because of womens' delusional standards
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:33 PM
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life on easy mode
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:29 PM
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I don't know why it's impossible for people to imagine some people may actually have satisfying and loving relationships with the best partner they've ever had. Because of basic statistics. all women feel entitled to chad but only a tiny fraction of the male population are chads, so naturally most women will have to settle down with non-chads, and they will be resentful in their relationship. Besides, isn't the idea that women can date up easier/always will and that they're more "valuable" pre 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:28 PM
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name some of those other dealbreakers. like i just said, unless you are a totally dysfunctional human being, the main dealbreaker you'll struggle to clear will be looks. and even if you are a totally dysfunctional human being, if you are good-looking you'll still do very well
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:26 PM
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i guarantee you i haven't. in fact women are so disgusted by me that i've never even had a female friend in my whole life (aside from a family friend during elementary/middle school) and can't even remember the last time i had a conversation with a girl my age
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:22 PM
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Lol what is this bullshit. Looks is the NUMBER ONE dealbreaker for a relationship, if you dont pass the looks threshold then nothing else matters, period honestly unless you are a totally dysfunctional human being, the hardest standard for you to clear is going to be looks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:20 PM
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Yep, I'm taking a road trip along the east coast to visit the colleges I'm applying to (and also visit some new places). so Philadelphia PA, Princeton NJ, NYC, New Haven CT, and Boston MA. after that I'll be going to a summer camp in san francisco so hopefully that'll be fun
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:18 PM
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height doesnt matter. im 6'2 and in-shape and have never had an ounce of female attention in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:04 PM
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if you don't pass the very basic looks bar then your personality doesnt matter at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:02 PM
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im in the US. yes ofc people of my race are dating. like i said my main issue is my looks not race Also what type of ethnic are you? east asian, which is literally the worst race aside from indian (in dating)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:57 PM
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Nobody can change my view to make me believe that being single isn't amazing being single by choice after previous failed relationships is extremely different from being involuntarily single and having never been in relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:55 PM
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It also makes you pedestalize women, most women out here are not talented at anything besides scrolling on social media and eating out , why should you pick up new hobbies just to attract people like that ? based tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:48 PM
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What about your looks? Severely recessed maxilla, nonexistent nose bridge, recessed infraorbitals, negative orbit vector, wide alar base, negative canthal tilt, lower scleral show, terrible gonial angle, the list goes on. Not to mention I'm ethnic as well How old are you? 17 What do you do for a living? I don't work What are your hobbies? Chess, video games, reddit and anime What do you do on a day to day? Work on my internship, study, work on college apps, play video games, browse reddit, and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:23 AM
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my looks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:27 AM
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based and racepilled. honestly i wish i was white
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:59 AM
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In my experience it’s the handsome men that are the nicest, see women more as people, don’t hate on women’s bodies etc etc. lmao, just say that you hate ugly men and only like chads. no need to try so hard rationalizing the halo effect
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:54 AM
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a similar percentage of women will never get in a relationship with a guy who fits their standards and is doomed to being single. But this is only because women have extremely delusional and unrealistic standards. If only women were willing to date their looksmatch/male equivalent, they would easily be able to get into a great relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:49 AM
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Be glad that at least you don't have a teenage son. Whatever pressure women feel to be beautiful nowadays, men feel it a thousand times more
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:42 AM
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I disagree. I think what really will happen is a lot of people will just give up and give up on dating, rather than putting so much time and effort into becoming attractive. Also, as naive and optimistic as this sounds, I do believe that the concept of lookism/looks discrimination will soon become widespread in mainstream society, and eventually it may be viewed similar to racism, sexism, and other forms of discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:38 AM
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yes, as long as they post some thirst traps and grow their instagram to a decent size
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:33 AM
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lmaooo "just get a haircut and approach women bro" ur literally an npc You sound defeatist. No wonder you’re an incel. lmao the shaming tactics are coming out already. just LOL at thinking that being "defeatist" is somehow what's stopping me from getting women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:29 AM
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Andrew tate and fresh and fit actually have a lot of results just LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:27 AM
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It was because I wasn’t interested in women that were interested in me, compounded with the fact that I generally don’t find women to be interesting, funny, or have anything of value. Honestly based, I wish that more men could feel this way. This way women would actually have to be nice and develop a personality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:26 AM
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based. i wish i was confident enough to go to the pool
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:19 AM
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If a 40+ year old man wants a younger woman, he either has to be a sugar daddy in the developed world, or simply move to Latin America, Asia, or Africa, and no way in hell I’d sift through 21 year old 200 pound wanna-be sugarbabies in the US. I rather move to Ecuador or some shit. That’s why many older men move abroad. based
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:17 AM
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i agree, some men look good till 50 but most men hit the wall well before 40 even
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:16 AM
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or having an unattractive face, or being short
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:15 AM
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so go on dates with men that make more than you, what's stopping you from doing that? plenty of programmers making mid 6 figures are lonely and would be happy to date you. i don't get why women feel the need to complain about the men they date when they can easily find better men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:14 AM
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Directly asking out enough women is a cheat code more men should be aware of. *more ATTRACTIVE men should be aware of
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:11 AM
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great job Chad. i'm you worked very hard to win the genetic lottery and be born with an attractive face. make sure rub in it in the face of ugly men even more, i'm sure they'll appreciate your kind and understanding remarks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:09 AM
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The most basic one is a lack of definition for a HVM. HVM has a very specific definition that's literally in the name: a HVM is a man whose value in the dating marketplace is high- or in other words, a man that many women want. So that means tall, handsome, white, muscular, big dick, rich, high status, etc. But for some reason women think that just because THEY are attracted to their partner or think he's funny, kind, etc, he's somehow a HVM, which couldn't be farther from the truth. "Value" is …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:05 AM
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False, literally just go on Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:11 AM
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life on easy mode jfl. imagine being a 6.5 and having pro athletes asking you out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:09 AM
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Lmfao how is this blackpill? It's literally common knowledge that these are the factors that make up a man's SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:54 PM
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If they were changed into a looks equivalent man, and then had to experience the practical drought of that sort of validation, what would their neurotic asses do then? I think a large portion would end up roping. Look at what happened to Norah Vincent when she tried to lie as a man for just ONE MONTH- it was so brutal that she had to go to a mental hospital. Women actually live on easy mode jfl
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:50 PM
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Isn’t this the case for everyone? Both genders? Only for men. On the other hand, men find all kinds of women attractive. Yes, each man has types, but all women, from rich supermodels to obese unemployed landwhales, will have hordes of men vying for their attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:42 PM
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how attractive are you on a scale from 1-10?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:39 PM
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life on easy mode
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:38 PM
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how attractive are you on a scale from 1-10?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:38 PM
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lol this is a dumb definition. "HVM" means high-value in the dating market and nothing more. So things like integrity, morals, intelligence, etc have nothing to do with it. The factors that make a HVM are facial attractiveness, height, dick size, race, social status, and dark triad/bad boy personality. Nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:37 PM
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The vast, vast majority of women would choose to live an Instagram life if they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:34 PM
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How you got I want her to fuck Chad out of it is wild. I got that because when women "have fun" and "be wild", it's almost exclusively with Chads. The only people it hurts are the ones left behind Who happen to pretty much all be men, but of course you left that part out. There is no such thing as a woman being excluded from "having fun" or getting into a relationship The difference is it’s not consuming my entire existence. Because female privilege. Regardless of their own attractiveness, femal…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:31 PM
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no one ever said it did. but this literally has nothing to do with sex- beautiful women are actively hostile to ugly men, mock and insult them, and refuse to associate with them or make friends with them. that's what makes beautiful women non-friendly. average and ugly women act the same way, but pretending that beautiful women are somehow better is simply a rationalization of the halo effect
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:14 PM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 08:20 AM
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Yeah, right. I always roll my eyes when women says this because it's not true at all and is simply a rationalization of their Chad-chasing behavior. Use you brain for just a moment- who do you think will appreciate a girl more: the fuckboy Chad who has 10000 other girls in his rotation, or the shy awkward nerd who hadn't kissed a girl before in his life? Obviously the guy with way more options will treat you as more expendable, put less effort into you, and have less pressure to be on their best…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 08:12 AM
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that's how you end up a 40 year old virgin as a male
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 08:03 AM
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brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 08:02 AM
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Ah yes, that's why girls use it on unattractive men before they even say anything. Knock it off with your just world fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 08:01 AM
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If young people are single more and engaging in casual sex, that’s not really an issue for anyone but the folks who get left behind. Why would it be important for a young person to rush to settle down to their ‘looksmatch’ some are some aren’t,let them have their fun! Straight from the horse's mouth. You admit that you want women to have casual sex with Chads and leave out all the unattractive men. If a woman you deem unattractive and beneath you is doing better than you dating, well guess what …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:58 AM
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Yes it must be hard to not have sexual attention from women very frequently. That's trivializing the issues that unattractive men face. Nobody actually expects sexual attention from women very frequently - only Chads receive that kind of treatment. But the issues ugly men face goes way beyond that- it's not just not being able to get frequent sex. It's being bullied and excluded in school while your classmates are having the time of their lives, never having the chance to get even go on a date l…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:53 AM
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beautiful woman are also by far the friendliest woman. not to ugly men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:44 AM
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Just a few hours in, and I've already gotten my first block lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:15 AM
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All one has to do to see that is go out into the world, most adults are in relationships, how would that even be possible if average women and below by and large refused to date their equals? The "just go outside and look at couples" argument has been debunked ad nauseam on this sub. But the short answer is 1) people settle, 2) older couples are from a different time period, and 3) exceptions exist. If a man is not succeeding at all with the women he’s choosing he can convince himself all the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:11 AM
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You mean chad. CHAD doesn't give a shit about women, he just just wants a hot chick who fucks him and cooks for him. And that's because he has a massive abundance of women who want him, so he doesn't care about women and uses them for sex and domestic labor. On the other hand, a large portion of guys are so starved of female attention they would move the world for any woman who shows them a tiny bit of interest and love her dearly, because they are that desperate for intimacy and companionship. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:04 AM
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I think it's very common that they never tried at all Even if this is the case, what do you think common denominator amongst below average people that has made them to either give up or not try at all? Here, I will tell you- it's because of how society (and particularly women) have treated them all their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:00 AM
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What question am I not answering? You asked whether anyone gets responses from the top 10% in looks. I said yes of course, and gave you two reasons why you aren't. I’m sick of the negging which is absolutely why I stopped hanging out with loser guys in the first place lmao the irony
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:55 AM
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So there are alot of dudes that are 3s and 4s thinking that they are a 5 and angry that they can’t get a female 5. Reverse the genders and you would be right. In fact it's even worse than that, many females who are 3s and 4s think they're an 8 and demand a male 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:52 AM
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So whats all the fuzz about hypergamy then ? Hypergamy is the reason why women of all attractiveness levels feel entitled to chad and refuse to settle for their male equivalent. It's why 200lb obese landwhales who work retail and have three kids demand a tall, handsome white guy with a 8/10 model-tier face who makes 500K+. obviously that throw off the dating market when assortative mating is supposed to be the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:51 AM
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7/10 Tyrone-lite. his body would look better if he quit the roids
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:46 AM
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But who consists of your rule? The rule consists of below average women whose standards exclude average and below average men. It's not just Stacies who are picky- Beckies, normies and femcels are also very picky (although slightly less so than Stacy) and reject their male equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:43 AM
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I’m convinced a solid percentage of guys don’t even like women, rather they like what women can offer them ie sex and doing chores. You mean chad. CHAD doesn't like women, he just likes the sex and domestic labor women offer him. And that's because he has a massive abundance of women who want him, so he doesn't care about women and uses them for sex and doing chores. On the other hand, a large portion of guys are so starved of female attention that they would do anything for a woman just for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:38 AM
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No one is saying it's an accomplishment to have low standards. But the point is that the fact that men's standards are so much lower than an equivalent woman's proves how women have it easy in dating as well as female privilege in general
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:29 AM
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Yeah mostly bc they don't work out or have any hobbies beyond video games You mix up cause and effect- below average men try at first, but despite their best efforts they're continuously shunned, ostracized and rejected all their lives, so they end up giving up on life and spending all their time playing video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:23 AM
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8 and 7.5, based on the truerateme guide
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:41 AM
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Women are more likely to be extroverted with sharp social skills, but it's a people thing, not a sex thing. No it's not about social skills, the difference is that women don't need social skills to make friends (especially opposite-gendered ones). This is since biologically, women have inherent value and men do not. So to join a social circle, women simply have to be there and not be too awkward, while men have to bring something to the table (e.g. being very funny/interesting, having some kind …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:21 AM
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Nope. I remember my straight male friend pointed out this cute guy with frosted tips and was like “Yummylicky look at that guy, he’s so ugly right” I mean you aren't exactly disproving my point. Yeah I agree that women have wildly different types, and that they are attracted to some types of men but find other types ugly. But the common denominator is that every woman's type is ALWAYS conventionally attractive, and conventionally unattractive men are no one's type. For instance, some women may l…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:15 AM
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I don't think I've had an actual conversation with a woman outside of my family for at least several years
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:02 AM
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But you do find the same dudes ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:01 AM
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Well maybe there's a reason all the well below average friends you have are shut-ins lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:01 AM
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lmaoo you're overrating yourself hard asf. or maybe you just don't know how high a 8 or 9 is. do you really think that you look better than madison beer and emily ratajkowski with just everyday makeup on?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:58 PM
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Is that the same experience your well below average friends have?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:51 PM
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Yes, attractive people exist. Why is that even a question? But the reason you may think otherwise is because bots/catfishes are way overrepresented among the top 10% (in looks), since people who make bots/catfishes almost always make them highly attractive. Another possible explanation is because you are not very attractive yourself, which is why very attractive people ghost you or don't reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:49 PM
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don't worry, I will soon begin posting based high IQ content
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:31 PM
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Lol I meet plenty of women at the bars some are sexual some are not , all are usually friendly and none have been like UHM AKSHUALLY I HAVE A BOYFRIEND That's because you're attractive, so women are friendly to you because of the halo effect. If you were a short ugly guy with a speech impediment, just going up to a girl and saying hi will get you laughed at and told to fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:22 PM
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Q4A: How long did you lurk before posting on PPD? I've lurked this sub for just over a year on my main, but recently I've been seeing way too many braindead low IQ takes so I couldn't resist making a new account to post.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:12 PM
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