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Like I said if I'm going to be a weirdo and there is something wrong with me for being inexperienced than promiscous women will be sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:03 PM
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We will do this when women stop calling inexperienced men weirdo's and something must be wrong with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:14 PM
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That usually happens after women tell those guys they are weird and something must be wrong with them. If you're going to tell a story tell the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:09 PM
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ULTRA COMBO!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:03 PM
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Telling men that everything is their fault or that their problems aren't real isn't therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:28 PM
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You were never in the running thats why you're on here so stop lying to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:31 PM
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Maybe they kill themselves because there is no help.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:17 PM
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You say this as if there is help for men which there isn't. If people want men to seek help they need to make sure that what they are suggesting actually exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:12 PM
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If I could casually date I wouldn't be in this position. You are right if its ok for women to think I'm weird and deserve to single there is nothing wrong with me lying and using them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:40 AM
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So what am I supposed to do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:28 AM
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You don't own me and as far as I'm concerned those women are uzed up and not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:21 PM
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But that doesn't make women attracted to him. I have never heard of a women dating a man because he was ugly too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:04 AM
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Women have still not answered this, this is why men want casual instead of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:57 AM
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So being ugly makes me attractive to other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:53 AM
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Being accepting of my situation means giving up since I won't find a similar women of my age and experienced women lack empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:04 AM
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First they tell me to not compare myself to people better than me for my own wellbeing, now you want me to regardless of how it makes me feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:33 AM
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Exactly my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:23 AM
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Why do I have to be compared to everyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:57 AM
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Why can't it be because I'm ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:31 AM
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Why does being a virgin 39 mean there is something wrong with me? No there is nothing wrong with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:16 AM
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Fine but I'm not dating a women who has had casual before when I haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:47 PM
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I'm 39 and haven't been in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:37 PM
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I never said young women I was talking about women in the same age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:06 AM
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I think this is all us guys really want but women can't be mad at us for settling since we won't find this at our age.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:15 AM
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How is it not a power dynamic between a guy who's never been in a relationship before and a women thats been in 15 relationships? How is one a power dynamic and not the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:13 AM
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So basically only women can be taken advantage of and not men? If thats the case wouldn't it be better for the guy to play with someone on the same level as him?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:10 AM
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So basically it doesn't matter if those men get taken advantage of?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:07 AM
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Thats like saying there are two guys playing basketball, one has never played before and one has played half is life but the experienced one can't take advantage of the other one because he's thirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:54 AM
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Lie about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:51 AM
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For the same reason men do the same thing, they don't have any other choice if they want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:25 AM
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Used and not knowing what a women being attracted to them looks like. Basically being ina relationship with a women who doesn't really desire him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:41 AM
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Thats not something I hope for but to each there own.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:37 AM
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So that makes them weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:36 AM
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How is men not having sex not normal? People wonder why sexless men see themselves as different and here's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:18 AM
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Yes I know if us ugly men want a fake relationship we have to date women who are way more experienced than us and who is probably meh about us. I don't want to hear another person cry about power imbalances in relationships because this definitely one with experienced women and inexperienced men but everyone ingnores this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:29 AM
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Just like you don't need to tell us that you have a relationship but you spend all day on ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:07 PM
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You need to talk to 100 percent of these men to make that claim which you haven't so stop talking out ya ass it stinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:23 PM
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It actually takes no effort all but to live
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:12 PM
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You cared enough to post and I am right and you're wrong now what the fuck you gonnq do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:38 PM
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Like I said any women who would do that is a horrible person and I want nothing to do with them period.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:36 PM
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For your information 2 years ago i had dates with six women now I didn't want to believe women would judge a guy for that seeing how they are always complaining about men judging them for the opposite( I know a few women who got around and the men that know this about them pass on them which makes them angry). So told them I was inexperienced and I never seen any of them again. There is nothing to hide any women who thinks something is wrong with men for not doing something by a certain time is …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:29 PM
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That may happen but its probably rare, I mean you have alot of men who get to their thirtys and women start to get interested . Most of these men have no kids so why would they choose a women with kids over the childless one. Most of us don't our first relationship with a women with children, thats just.too much to deal with when we are trying to learn the basics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:49 PM
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Are ghosted me because I haven't had sex before and most of there reasons were "there most be something wrong with you because most men have sex before 35. My problem with this is you always here women whining about men complaining because they slept with one guy on day one but made another wait months. If its not right to tell women when they shod sleep with one how is it right to tell men there must be something wrong with for not having sex by certain time regardless if most men have had sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:37 PM
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Look to be honest doing a lot of work just to get my first relationship at 39 with a women who will be way more experienced than me feels like a consolation prize. I know there are other men in my position who would be happy with that but I'm not then and I'm not trying to be them. This is the way I feel and there is no changing that. Like women said there must be something wrong with me for being my age and not having had sex, so why would I want someone who would be that judgemental? I'll try …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:28 PM
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I know thats why out of all the women who responded ignored that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:36 PM
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So are you telling me that since you have been here you have never heard women calling men who don't women with a high n count insecure but it comes to women rejecting men for having no n count its justified because those men must have something wrong with them? Why aren't those women insecure like the men are labeled?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:34 PM
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Look we all have are experiences so I don't understand why you would accuse me of lying. What people do is I will ask for help on how to play basket ball and people will say why don't you play baseball or soccer when rhats not what I want. I don't know why people are suprised when I say thats not the help I need.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:21 PM
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The classic yours was worse so anything they said doesn't count. That works both ways, that be the change you want to see hasn't worked in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:19 AM
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Its funny how they ignore this and start arguing about shit you never said. When women get silent you know you are speaking the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:16 AM
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Compared to me most women are used up seeing how I haven"t slept with anyone. I already know this is going to get under womens skin so just know that women did it to me saying that there must be something wrong with me for being 39 and not having had sex before. Before they come in here and say it I already know that women are perfectly justified in rejecting these men and saying it sucks to be you but men wanting a women on the same level as him is insecure and deserves to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:13 AM
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How many do you this actually helps? If anything this sub has shown is that if don't have money, looks orI want date a fat women I deserve to be single. My favorite one is men who reject a women for a high n count they are insecure but women are not insecure for rejecting men with no ncount. When I asked a question about this women ignored or said It sucks to be you, so how did this sub help me ? If anything this sub shows how women really feel about unattractive men and they start to hate women…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:06 AM
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People accuse me of lying all the time, saying that I must be lying because women don't reject male virgins after 35 or that im single because I don't qpproach anyone. So if you'e going to call me out you need to call out this whole sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:46 AM
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Sorry bruh you can't dictate mens preferences and trying to bully me would get ya shot so not a smart move lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:15 AM
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Just stoo with this bs lie, I love when men who have no success go to other countries to get an actual relationship women accuse them of wanting a slave. Sorry but no guy who is trying to get his FIRST relationship wants a slave. Further proof that most men are invisible to women and they blame us for the actions of few guys they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:13 AM
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You are exactly right, the only women to ever show any interest in me was 300 pounds and had a beard. If I were to listen to these idiots on ppd since she was the only one to show interest in me shes in my league even though I'm 6,2 186. Whats there to be happy about when you only chance at a relationship is somwone who makes me want to vomit?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:51 AM
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Damn he struck a nerve, do yourself a favor go touch some grass and stay off of ppd if the truth bothers you this much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:34 AM
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Tolerating our shit must mean being ugly and not going to live in a monestary because just looking at us gives them creep vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:31 AM
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SUPREME VICTORY!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:33 AM
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The funny thing is that women will shame men for dating younger women or going abroad because of life experience. When you bring up situations where the women has more relationship or sexual experience and that could lead to exploitation women get ghost why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:09 AM
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I have to say it, "ULTRA COMBO"!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:49 AM
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So basically any men who don't have women approaching them or they always get rejected have no power and we wonder why they don't approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:38 AM
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You're right but if thats the only reason a women would be with me how is she any different than a prostitute? Whats up with people going through your post history because I shit all on your post? Look shit was coming out your mouth because you were talking out your ass amd I had to correct you. You were wrong and going through my post history doesn't make you right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:28 AM
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Yeah but they are all used up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:08 AM
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I'll do this when women start desiring ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:02 AM
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This place is retarded, I have seen so many women complain about older men taking advantage of younger women because of life experience. Why is it not the same for men and relationship and sexual experience? Women do take advantage of men like this, I mean why would women want to get in a relationship with men like this? In my opinion it would show how much they have fallen to be dating a man in his thirty's who couldn't even afford the game when she's on level 100?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:54 AM
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They would make great partners for inexperienced women. I feel the same way about experienced women who think something is wrong with men for not having experiece by a certain age. Why would any men get with a women who would be fine wirh everything else but reject him on something the say isn't that big a deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:44 AM
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The point is that most guys don't want to be the in the only relationship they might ever have with a women who is meh about him. I can only speak for myself and I know its nor womens fault but I don't want what might be only chance for a relationship to be with a women who has way more experience than me. Women always say stick to your league, well are me and this women in the same league.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:36 AM
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The funny thing is that 5 years ago I was the polite guy who would give you the shirt off his back, which amounted to nothing. Now I just act how I feel which has changed nothing so it wasn't my attutude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:24 AM
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Well my experiences with women were horrible so what do you expect, at this point I get satisfaction by approaching women with my ugly face knowing they want me to go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:04 AM
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This right here. Women seem to think that men who were single all their life hit the lottery because he got one women who isn't really attracted to him or a women who is way more experienced but would ghost him if she knew he was inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:47 AM
3

In my opinion getting with a promiscous women is the same as using a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:44 AM
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Its not that men want casual, its that women have made casual sex better than relationships. Tell me how I'm winning when I have went 39 years with nothing and I finally get a relationship to a women who is way more experienced than me and I will probably get treated like shit but won't leave because I probably won't get another chance? Whats even worse is that she has dated and know what she wants and I haven't even got started.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:39 AM
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I can say the same thing women, women say shit on here that I know they wouldn't say to my face. I don't care if men are stronger if you can't say it to their face you are a coward of the highest order.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:29 AM
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Thanks for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:04 AM
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Well its not the earth I live on maybe you should tell ugly women to stop trying to get attractive men. I have never appoached an attractive women, like I said its hard to know what your league iz when you don't get a chance to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:33 PM
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Well you were mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:21 PM
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You're right I don't WANT to live anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:19 PM
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But how does an ugly guy date a fat or ugly women that doesn't date him. Its hard to stick to a league when you don't have one. This is coming from a guy who has never been approached or had a women show interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:34 PM
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The problem is bertha and susan see hin as a creep too because he is ugly. What world do you live in where an equally ugly women is open to a guy because they are both ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:28 PM
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What is this supposed to mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:22 PM
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Im 40 not 20
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:52 PM
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I don't deserve anything not even life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:50 PM
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Why cant we make reverse engineer it so women find more men attractive? Thats better than saying a subset of men aren't worthy of being a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:43 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:32 PM
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Im not putting something in my body just because I cant have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:26 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:10 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:45 PM
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Read all the posts about older virgin men and what women think of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:10 PM
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Therapy doesn't work there is nothing that they could tell me or give me that we make me content or happy not having a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:55 PM
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Wrong with what?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:33 PM
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That still doesn't convince me to keep living.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:15 PM
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I think this is why incels go on killing sprees, if there is no way to win might as well take something for people that they cant get back.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:12 PM
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Yeah but at least I wouldn't have to deal with it anymore and society won't be able to use me or blame me for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:10 PM
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Where did I say I hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:01 PM
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I realise that now, but I cant change what I want for a good life. I have already tried that and I was mizerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:59 PM
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I didn't concieve myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:53 PM
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Jesus shouldn't have put me here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:46 PM
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Of society would have assisted suicide I would already be gone but they would rather watch us suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:38 PM
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My mom is already dead but I hated her anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:26 PM
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Im not interested in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:17 PM
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Wouldn't it be better if just disapeared? Women don't want me, neither does society and its not like I will be missed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:16 PM
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Like I said now I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:05 PM
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So whats the point of seeking help?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:04 PM
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At this point I don't know anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:02 PM
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The funny thing is that I already fixed an imaginary problem that people who were supposed to help me kept telling me I had. Nothing changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:00 PM
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If its not to get a relationship than it isn't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:58 PM
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It wont matter when im dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:47 PM
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Me being suicidal is because I cant get relationships, if I go to therapy and I still can't get a relationships how is that mental illness? I don't want to cope anymore and thats all therapy is good for.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:45 PM
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So since everyone else isn't killing themselves there must be a problem with me? Maybe their life is no where near as bad as mine no matter how I try. Put your best foot forward and keep going backwards and let me know how you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:41 PM
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You'll get your wish permanently.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:38 PM
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We know you just want us to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:34 PM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:31 PM
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I know you won't believe me but I have been on meds and they didn't work. Why should I be put on meds because I want a relationship in my life? Most people have relationships in their life so this isn't like not making the nba.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:29 PM
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I have all that but I feel like a broken record, that doesn't replace the need for relationships for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:23 PM
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So how does a therapist convince me to live alone when thats not what I want? How does not wanting to live a certain way mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:18 PM
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I never decided anything, if no women ever wanted me how do I decide to be single? I already know this isn't a life worth living for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:16 PM
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Your accusations mean nothing compared to my lived experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:12 PM
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I lived 39 years and have been diagnosed with nothing. I guess its easier to say a man who killed himself had a mental illness than he was perfectly fine but society sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:10 PM
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That doesn't work for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:02 PM
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Because I don't want to live like that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:59 PM
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Whats the point of me sharing my experiences if you are going to accuse me of lying? This is why men don't seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:56 PM
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Whats funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:53 PM
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Women always say they don't care who men slept with so why does it matter that I haven't slept with anyone? Yes they judged me by saying they can find someone who is experienced or was there anything wrong with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:50 PM
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How does me having self worth in myself make women stop judging me for being a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:41 PM
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I know now that there is nothing I can do about my inexperience, know reason to rub it in. I get tired of people telling me to lie or not bring it up, not understanding that just because women don't know doesn't mean that they would accept that I'm still a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:48 PM
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So what about the 23 women who ghosted me and told other women my business?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:32 PM
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Its not me you need to convince, women have a problem with inexperience and it get worse each year.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:37 AM
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Im 39 and I guess by saying that most men date through out their lives says a whole alot about me then since it hasn't happened for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:15 AM
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Its not ok when it keeps you from dating. So since most men are doing we should forget about the ones who aren't right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:55 AM
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Let em go? Well thats sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:45 AM
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If she has morals yes, otherwise she is a despicable human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:35 AM
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That she lets him know her history beforebm they kids and he gets the life sucked out of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:13 AM
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Thats fine as long as she lets him know so he has a chance to opt out?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:07 AM
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Thats comforting that women will overlook my experience because I can pay the bills not because she actually likes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:40 PM
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This isn't about social skills, I have chatted women up and they were fine until I mentioned I have no experience with relationships. If women didn't expect every guy to have had a relationship before this wouldn't be a problem. Just like we tell men to nkt expect for a women to have not had sex before we need to tell women to not expect for men to have had relationships before.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:11 AM
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There are plenty of women on here telling men they are losers, creepz for wanting to experience sex but I see no one men or women calling out those posts. We know why, its because they believe the same they are just too chicken shit to say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:06 AM
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So basically men can,'t talk about there problems here, only women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:59 AM
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Is it incel if its the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:55 AM
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Those women were above me so why would they degrade themselves by lowering their standards? I mean leagues are what you can get right, they cant get me so they arent in my league.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:32 AM
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Probably because they are unattractive why do women not understand this? Especially when they rate most men as unattactive, why do I have to have done something by a certain time because everyone else did?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:29 AM
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Saying something is wrong with a man because he hasn't had sex by a certain age is bashing him. Why are all these older virgin guys who let on about their virginity saying the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:41 AM
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So because im not rich or handsome that means those women are my league? Its funny to me because in my twenties these same women wanted nothing to do with me now they are my league, why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:38 AM
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Yes they should because what good is blaming him going to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:49 PM
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It puts me above those women just like when I was younger those women were above me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:24 PM
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You may not be lying but you are an outlier on this. Thats the problem men like me face we have to find the one women who will accept us if we ever do and put up with everything because if it ends we wont get another chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:16 PM
2

Why should he be disqualified for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:48 PM
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You would rather but if you had a choice you would reject both. Your comment doesn't hold wait because you say you would take one over the other but what you would really do is choose neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:47 PM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:33 PM
1

Lie about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:32 PM
2

It means whatever I want it to mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:29 PM
1

Sorry but how am I supposed to have fun getting rejected 100 times just to get one yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:54 AM
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Most women don't want a virgin or a man who has used escorts. They are important because they hinder my chances at this point it feels impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:34 AM
4

So those men are sol?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:28 AM
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Not just them im 39 and women still act like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:54 AM
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Hey thats been my experience as well, women call men who ghost after finding out there n count so they same applies to them. These women need to grow up and realise lots of men don't have the oppurtunities that they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:52 AM
2

Women are always crying about how dangerous it is for those women but instead of doing something that would make it safer for those women you shit on the men who use them and call them losers. If you really cared about those women you would call for it to be legalized because its not going anywhere as long as sexless men exist no matter how much women cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:44 AM
0

Sorry im a skinny guy with no kids so a single mother or qn overweight women is not my leagueb I don't carebl what anyone thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:39 AM
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That means women can find out how to like men they aren't attracted to. This seems like a better option then trying to turn myself gay which is impossible. We need to do something about unattractive mens options if the only solution was turn gay smfh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:28 AM
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Yeah lets see how much my mental state can take at 39 by either being rejected for being a virgin or for using escorts. Women always say men are insecure for not wanting a women with a high n count, I have literally had women be cool with me until I revealed this and then they ghosted me. I feel the same way about women who did this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:23 AM
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I cant make myself like men anymore than women can make themselves like a man they aren't attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:13 AM
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What did you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:11 AM
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Shit out of luck, I read your answer and it amounts to women don't care about these things but life experience tells me otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:26 AM
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How iz answering something I already did an answer? Im looking for advice for men in this situation if you have none move on to another thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:24 AM
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What bottleblank is asking is what I'm asking, if these men are sol I wish women would say it. Some of these men might start hating women because nobody wants them but women can't control that. Women will just have to deal with these men's negative perception of them like those men will have to deal with no women wanting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:54 PM
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You never answered though, I already said lying isn't cool. So what advice do you have for these men that doesn't set them up for immediate rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:50 PM
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Well thats the question, where donI find these women? If its as easy as you say I should have no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:49 PM
2

Im not gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:41 PM
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But they don't want me because I havent had sex by a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:04 PM
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My point is that mention of qualities only comes up for me to compensate for my virginity. Women always says virginty isn't the problem butbif its not why do I have to compensate for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:42 PM
1

Have you considered the possibility that they are so rare that I might never find them? In that case you advice is meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:38 PM
2

Well if thus is the way it is why do women keep talking shit about the unattractive men who use them? Since women don't want these men and thats the only way for them to get sex maybe women should be pushing for it to get legalised. If women really cared about escorts they would be doing everything in their power to see it legalised like they did for their rights
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:36 PM
1

So those men are sol in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:29 PM
7

Be honest what women would date me knowing that im 40 and still a virgin and not by choice with np other redeeming qualities?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:23 PM
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This isnt about free sex, this is about men who keep getting rejected for being older virgins and fir using escorts when thats the only way to lose it. Why should men whose only way to have sex was with an escort before he could meet one women who was attrqacted to him be disqualified for relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:20 PM
4

You aren't a virgin at 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:15 PM
1

If I go by your advice I might as well give up which is what women want anyway I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:14 PM
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I think that women don't understand that alot of men struggle with dating. I think it should be made known to women that alot of men will get to their 30s or 40s with no experience to temper their expectations. Or if women dont want that we could tell all those men they are sol and watch as men and women shame those men for taking the only choice they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:09 PM
2

Why don't women believe us when we share our experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:00 PM
1

Yes if alot more women were like you I wouldn't ask the question but sadly they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:53 PM
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Its not just men who want the chad lifestyle, its also men who want to experience sex for once in their life and not beat off. My point was that women will reject these men for seeing escorts and being a virgin in his thirtys or forties so what do they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:49 PM
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I know but this doesn't make lying right. I feel women should be more forgiving of men who's only way to have sex was with escort. We all know how women feel about men in their thirtys or forties who are involuntary celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:30 PM
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Well women sure didn't mature about caring for my lack of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:59 PM
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I agree with you, looking at it from his pov most likely he had a low n count not by choice. I don't think men who have a low n count by choice would care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:46 PM
2

This is what people have been telling men forever, if it actually worked more men would do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:16 AM
1

What do you propose to keep men from killing themselves over this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:01 AM
1

Since we can't make people be with us how do we convince men to not commit suicide over no relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:49 AM
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Why are you suprised that telling men who can't get a relationship to do other things doesn't bring them happiness if its not q choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:41 AM
2

Men commiting suicide because they can't get a relationship is not a mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:39 AM
2

Trying to have fun doing other things didn't work either so whats your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:32 AM
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There is a reason why men don't like the just have fun advice, and thats because it doesn't work. How does me dwelling on the truth make me suffer more? People keep telling me there are so many things to do, but what I want is a relationship. When people tell me to give up on something I want I don't listen to those people anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:27 AM
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It is when you go your whole life with no relationships and you get one because women are done having fun. Now if it was withna women who struggled like me you would have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:13 AM
5

This does nothing for me wanting a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:00 AM
0

If I have free choice why won't society allow me a painless death so I won't have to suffer?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:41 AM
2

This is what people need to understand that the men left out of society could care less about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:25 AM
0

So what do we do about the men who fail and commit suicide? It has to be something that those men agree on and not society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:23 AM
1

You want a cookie for doing something 99 percent of women can do? You are angry for no reason at least the men on here have a reason to be mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:55 PM
3

So women don't take men seriously who commit suicide?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:45 PM
1

Is it better to get something or nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:42 PM
0

You sound like an incel lol. Is there something you aren't telling us cause its starting to make sense why you are so mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:48 PM
2

39
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:24 AM
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I see no benefits for me in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:15 AM
1

Bitch when prostitution is legal in the united states you can make this suggestion. Most men including me don't have the time or money to travel for escorts but it woulf be different if it was at my house. Stop lying you would be the women to tell a man to visit an escort than call the police or brand him a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:47 AM
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I wouldn't sacrifice anything or do amything to contribute to this world. I would rather watch it burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:35 AM
3

Why???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:18 AM
0

I'll take satisfaction in making women not feel safe and there is nothing they can do about it. If women want me to stop they have to give me an alternative reason to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:36 AM
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Opting out never made me happier only more miserable. You don't know how it feels to know that all women think you'reba loser and creep for being inexperienced after a certain age. This is why I wish for assisted suicide, if society doesn't care about us loser men give us a way out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:49 AM
1

My point is that the dregs act like they are better than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:47 AM
2

My points exactly, thats alot to ask of someone who hasn't been in a relationship before. For what its worth I have been reading your posts and it upsets me that you make these spot on posts and everyone ignores you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:34 AM
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Why should I give women what they want when I don't get what I want? I don't owe women satisfaction of me opting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:44 AM
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Damn your life must really suck for you to take time out of your day to make comments like this I'll pray for you. It would be best if you didn't respond to my posts anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:32 AM
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Just being ina relationship period, I see alot of women on here say that after a certain age no relationship experience is a dealbreaker which has been my experience as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:29 AM
1

Yes exactly but its also that I want an someone who wants me for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:36 AM
1

I don't understand what you are trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:04 AM
1

I didn't make any choices I never had q choice. This is my problem if women can't look my inexperience I don't want any relationships with women at all which 7s fair to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:59 PM
1

Those women expect for me to have a past and I get rejected if I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:06 PM
1

This is exactly what I'm talking about. Thank you for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:05 PM
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Thats a you problem, me being 39 with no experience is way more shameful than talking about my problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:03 PM
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This is more like I would like to play tennis and I see everyone around me playing tennis but I never get a chance. Me giving up on tennis is not my goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:02 PM
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I never said that there wasn't any good women but they expect me to know things that only someone with relationship experience would know. I know these are things that people learn ealier in life but what do women expect me to do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:41 PM
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Womens only answer for men who are unlucky at dating is don't date and they wonder why men don't listen. Just telling men not to date is not the magical solution you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:29 PM
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If I want to date what other choice do I have?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:17 PM
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My point was at this point in my life these women expect for me to have relationship experience. I can accept that a women has kids and multiple relatoonships in her past but if I let slip that I have no experience at 39 I get ghosted. Lowering standards doesn't work for below average men because women on here don't want men who take what they can get, which doesn't make sense t9 me. What do they expect men in their thirty's wirh no relarionship experince to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:10 PM
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Why do I have to be quiet? Your only options are to deal with it or ignore this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:01 PM
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I think so, It sucks that I got all the way to my thirtys with not one relationship and my only options were single mothers who were meh at me at best. I don't see how this optiom is better than prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:24 PM
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