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for both parties Objectively it’s much less hard for women
/r/seduction25/07/22 02:25 AM
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Yeah I’m not gonna figure it out
/r/seduction23/07/22 11:12 AM
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Yeah I’ve been trying to quit porn for years but I can’t figure it out. I’ll be doing fine for a day or two and then I just get depressed and think nothing matters and break.
/r/seduction23/07/22 05:46 AM
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This seems reasonable. I noticed orgasming with porn is a lot more intense than without it, which is definitely one of many factors why it’s so bad. I’ve tried many times to quit porn over the past 5 years but I’ve never been able to.
/r/seduction23/07/22 05:45 AM
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I mean you have to say things besides hi
/r/seduction23/07/22 05:06 AM
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Do you still masturbate, just not to porn?
/r/seduction23/07/22 05:05 AM
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I’ve tried many times, nothing changes. I’m just an emotionally weak person. I’ve tried for years and years to make friends and find hobbies and nothing ever clicks. I just think of suicide all the time
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:39 PM
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Objectively it’s a lot easier when you’re living in a college dorm and everyone is meeting everyone. Talking to a random girl in public is hard. Rejection is very difficult when you’ve had a lot of failure and little success
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:22 PM
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Ive cold approached before and it’s worked. I’m not a virgin, I just haven’t successfully done it since 2014 and I was living in a dorm in college. It’s very different when you’re not in that environment around other people who just wanna meet each other.
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:06 PM
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I don’t disagree with any of this, but I already have a job that pays way more than retail or a bar and I get no matches on dating apps. I’ve got no way to actually meet women
/r/seduction21/07/22 10:57 PM
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Last time I went teens laughed at me. I feel incredibly insecure because of how weak I am compared to other guys there
/r/seduction20/07/22 04:56 AM
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I don’t like doing things. Also, it’s “you’re”
/r/seduction20/07/22 03:32 AM
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I have time to go on dates, but I rarely ever get any and the ones I do never go well.
/r/seduction20/07/22 03:26 AM
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It’s not their existence, they need me around because they won’t go to a nursing home
/r/seduction20/07/22 03:25 AM
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I just have zero motivation. I feel incredibly insecure at the gym whenever I go.
/r/seduction20/07/22 03:12 AM
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I don’t really have any interests. I mostly just think of killing myself. I might buy a gun I guess
/r/seduction20/07/22 01:42 AM
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You’re right.
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:47 AM
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They don’t have those around me.
/r/seduction19/07/22 01:46 AM
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I’ve tried approaching, dating apps, nothing works. I can’t even make friends. I’m just too mentally ill
/r/seduction18/07/22 08:05 PM
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I’ve tried many times. It doesn’t work. People don’t like to be around me
/r/seduction18/07/22 07:58 PM
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I will change it by killing my self
/r/seduction18/07/22 07:52 PM
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Female companionship very clearly is a reward for men who are socially capable and valuable to women. Women reward them for being a desirable man. You might not like that term, but it’s essentially what’s occurring.
/r/seduction18/07/22 07:24 PM
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Yeah when I was 19 and hitting on 18 year olds in a college dorm. I’m old as hell and much more pathetic now
/r/seduction18/07/22 07:12 PM
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Girls can get sex whenever they want it and everyone knows. I have no skills. I’ve tried countless times to get a date or talk to women and I never can.
/r/seduction18/07/22 06:43 PM
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There’s nothing you can tell me to do that I haven’t already tried
/r/seduction18/07/22 06:12 PM
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It’s called childhood trauma and mental illness
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:59 PM
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I’m very weak and too insecure to regular go to the gym. I’m severely depressed and don’t want to find hobbies
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:57 PM
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It won’t go well, it will cause me emotional turmoil, and just lower my self esteem further. I’d rather just kill myself
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:33 PM
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Thanks, I know there’s no answer to my problems. I’m ready and willing to die
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:12 PM
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I will never reach joy. I’m ready and willing to die
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:00 PM
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It’s not possible
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:43 PM
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depression lies About what? Suicide would literally solve every problem I have. I’ve called hotlines before, they’re useless. They just read a script and call the cops on you.
/r/seduction18/07/22 06:56 AM
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suicide is not the answer Except it clearly is. It would solve all of my problems and nothing else will. I’ve discussed it with my family, they know it’s coming. I have mental illness and a history of childhood abuse. This isn’t some “idea of myself”. I’ve read self help books, tried therapy, meditation, psychedelics. Nothing helps. I’ll look into Tony Robbins, who I’m sure is another grifter, but it isn’t going to help me
/r/seduction18/07/22 06:18 AM
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The fact that I’m suicidal and depressed and therapy isn’t helping isn’t an excuse. It’s just who I am, I’ve tried for years to change and I can’t. It never ends. You act as though the internet has any kind of solution to this issue and isn’t a cause. People have become less social, female standards have become much higher due to dating apps and social media, fewer people than ever are having sex or making friends, more people than ever are killing themselves. These are new phenomena. These are …
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:51 AM
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nothing to lose, nothing to fear I want to kill myself to avoid pain. My life is already so painful I don’t want to live. Why would I want to make it more painful?
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:30 AM
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What should I do?
/r/seduction18/07/22 04:06 AM
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I make 200k, I have a good job. I just hate myself and my life
/r/seduction18/07/22 03:30 AM
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I guess I think “I’m supposed to talk to her but I’m too scared”
/r/seduction18/07/22 03:26 AM
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Right, because he had a wife and kids. His life was good. Mine is total dogshit
/r/seduction18/07/22 03:12 AM
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My issue I guess is the environment. In college, everyone would talk to everyone in dorms. It was like a constant mixer. But it’s so different in real life. The idea of talking to a girl at the grocery store makes me want to vomit.
/r/seduction18/07/22 03:11 AM
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I know they will hurt but I’m hurting enough to want to die. I’ve tried therapy, I’ve tried telling others how I feel, nothing works. Why do only their feelings matter?
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:57 AM
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I won’t kill myself until my grandma is dead
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:52 AM
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I was able to do it a few times in college but that was 8 years ago. Women in their late 20s like I am now are much more difficult and I haven’t improved, if anything I’ve gotten worse
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:52 AM
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I’m in a small town, we don’t have a lot of that stuff.
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:48 AM
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I don’t know how to get either
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:45 AM
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What problems would I have if I was dead?
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:44 AM
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Suicide would quite literally solve all of my problems
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:38 AM
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I don’t know how. I’ve been going to therapy since February and it hasn’t helped at all
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:28 AM
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I make 200k a year but I work from home and have zero hobbies. I’m very depressed and there’s not really anything I’m interested in pursuing. I don’t even know where I would befriend a girl
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:27 AM
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I don’t think I will ever change. I just think things are gonna get worse and worse until I finally kill myself
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:26 AM
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I don’t know how
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:25 AM
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I haven’t successfully cold approached in 7 years
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:25 AM
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I don’t know how to do either
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:24 AM
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I don’t feel like I’ll ever be able to
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:23 AM
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I’m way too scared to ever do that
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:18 AM
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good sex life I’m 27. Even if I put in years of effort, my reward would be women in their 30s. My life is already wasted, I’m just gonna kill myself when my grandma dies I don’t disagree with you though about society conditioning us to want easy pleasure. It definitely does that
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:18 AM
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you are just a coward Yup competent enough to make 200k a year I feel like I just got lucky. I majored in CS and got a job with a big company. They start at 175-200k I’m probably on the autism spectrum, I’ve never been able to socialize
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:11 AM
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I already know guitar but I’m way too scared to ever go to an open mic. I tried duolingo for a while but I lost interest
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:09 AM
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I don’t know where to start
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:09 AM
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I’m in a small town, there aren’t really any around me
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:08 AM
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I don’t even have one interesting hobby
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:07 AM
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I can’t even really get dates anymore, I got a few when I initially signed up for dating apps but since then I’ve gotten none.
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:06 AM
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I have no idea what to do
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:05 AM
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bucket list and explore hobbies I’m depressed and suicidal, there’s nothing I want to do
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:05 AM
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I’m in cognitive behavioral therapy.
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:04 AM
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If I could still get dates this would be good advice
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:03 AM
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That sounds like her period.
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:02 AM
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The problem is it’s just too broad advice. I’m not a social person, I can’t think of things to do on my own and I lack the self-confidence to try new things.
/r/seduction17/07/22 11:39 PM
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I’ve been in therapy since February
/r/seduction17/07/22 08:59 PM
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What’s a men’s group?
/r/seduction17/07/22 08:56 PM
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I don’t know how to address them. Therapy isn’t helping
/r/seduction17/07/22 08:42 PM
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Thanks. I’ve been doing a meditation app called Waking Up that’s been helping somewhat. But I feel very insecure about my physical abilities in terms of joining a rec league
/r/seduction17/07/22 08:38 PM
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I make 200k a year, I just don’t know how to find something to join and I’m too insecure to do a sports team
/r/seduction17/07/22 05:22 PM
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I used to play guitar but I have no idea how to meet people through
/r/seduction17/07/22 05:21 PM
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I’m over an hour away from a major city
/r/seduction17/07/22 05:21 PM
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I do but I’ve got no one to go with.
/r/seduction17/07/22 04:10 PM
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I can’t, elderly grandparents
/r/seduction17/07/22 02:58 PM
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I can’t, I have elderly grandparents
/r/seduction17/07/22 02:58 PM
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I live in a small town in Maryland. I can’t move because of my grandparents
/r/seduction17/07/22 02:14 PM
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things you like to do There aren’t any things I like to do, I’m depressed and suicidal
/r/seduction17/07/22 02:09 PM
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start something What
/r/seduction17/07/22 02:09 PM
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There’s nothing to do around here
/r/seduction17/07/22 02:09 PM
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I have no idea what to do. I live in a small town, there’s not a lot here. I can’t move because I have family obligations
/r/seduction17/07/22 01:56 PM
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Yes I do. Therapy hasn’t been helping, I’ve been in it since February
/r/seduction17/07/22 01:41 PM
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I don’t do anything for fun, I’m depressed and suicidal
/r/seduction17/07/22 01:34 PM
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what brings you joy Nothing. I’m depressed and suicidal.
/r/seduction17/07/22 01:34 PM
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I don’t have one
/r/seduction17/07/22 12:11 PM
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I think I could manage Meaning you’ve never been on a date? Usually they ask what do you do for fun and I don’t have a ton of answers
/r/seduction17/07/22 12:11 PM
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I can’t read them, I use Apollo
/r/seduction17/07/22 12:10 PM
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I should cold approach?
/r/seduction17/07/22 11:29 AM
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I barely leave the house
/r/seduction17/07/22 11:29 AM
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I’ve done climbing before but I’m not that good at it and it makes me feel insecure
/r/seduction17/07/22 11:28 AM
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I’m just so bad at this stuff I don’t know where to start. I cold approached a few times successfully in college but it’s been a long time
/r/seduction17/07/22 10:40 AM
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It’s very hard for me to put myself out there. I have basically zero self confidence and no friends.
/r/seduction17/07/22 10:03 AM
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Basically just meditation. They do CBT. It hasn’t helped me personally but maybe it helps some people
/r/seduction17/07/22 01:44 AM
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I have a therapist. I’ve been going since February. It hasn’t been helping that much There’s not really much in terms of meetup events near me either
/r/seduction17/07/22 01:33 AM
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Yes they know. They haven’t been helping
/r/seduction16/07/22 08:30 AM
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I’ve been laughed at by teenagers at my gym.
/r/seduction16/07/22 07:50 AM
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I’ve been going to a therapist since February. It hasn’t helped
/r/seduction16/07/22 07:48 AM
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I haven’t gotten laid in 8 years. One girl would make me feel a lot better. Yes it’s both horniness and a need for intimacy. I have no ability to make friends. People don’t like me, I don’t have hobbies, and I’m scared of rejection. I’m not on meds. I’m uninterested in taking SSRIs. I have no ambition. I didn’t really have childhood dreams. Besides getting pussy, which I can’t I don’t think I’ll ever feel worthy
/r/seduction16/07/22 07:35 AM
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No pussy No friends Life feels pointless there’s nothing I want to do I was beaten a lot as a child
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:58 AM
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Yes. I also don’t have friends
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:18 AM
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You’re right
/r/seduction16/07/22 04:23 AM
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Software engineer in San Francisco
/r/seduction16/07/22 04:15 AM
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I don’t actually work that much
/r/seduction16/07/22 03:09 AM
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instantly started getting more matches How?
/r/seduction16/07/22 03:08 AM
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What?
/r/seduction16/07/22 03:03 AM
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Yeah
/r/seduction16/07/22 03:03 AM
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Show me pictures of women you’ve had sex with and what you look like and I’ll consider it
/r/seduction16/07/22 02:05 AM
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I’m not gonna get girls regardless, my plan is to kill myself
/r/seduction16/07/22 01:41 AM
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I’m not interested. Yes I probably could get a date if I asked out 100 women but being rejected 99 times isn’t something I can handle emotionally. I’m already ready to die, I don’t need more humiliation
/r/seduction16/07/22 01:30 AM
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That shit is a total scam
/r/seduction16/07/22 01:24 AM
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I’ve been seeing a therapist since February, it hasn’t helped
/r/seduction16/07/22 12:29 AM
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The app works because it makes the company money. But the vast majority of guys using it aren’t ever gonna get laid off it
/r/seduction16/07/22 12:24 AM
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Yes, it’s basically impossible for me. I haven’t gotten laid in 8 years now and my current plan is to kill myself
/r/seduction16/07/22 12:23 AM
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I make 200k a year and get zero pussy lol
/r/seduction16/07/22 12:22 AM
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