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Many guys on the internet think that we actually consider it an insult or even an assault when an unattractive guy approaches us. That can be true for a percentage of women but I don't think the majority is like that. Believe it or not, many women actually feel sorry for the unattractive dudes we have to reject, that is if they are respectful. And honestly, we don't care enough about the ugly guys to get angry at them for trying to flirt; we forget him the moment he leaves. If we don't like them…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:49 PM
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I am not even on Twitter, but I am 100% sure that there have been men who have said the same about fat women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 01:46 PM
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I think that you need to give your definition of smart here. Social skills can be a part of intelligence for many people. If by intelligent you mean only book smarts then, yeah being good at school doesn't necessarily mean that you will be good with women. And it seems to me like you are sort of dismissing people as dumb just because you don't get their type of intelligence. And I would also argue that you have this trope in your mind: smart=nerdy aspie; if that's your definition of smart, of co…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 09:25 AM
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Of course you did, because you assumed that husband and wife within 1 year means that the husband is 1 year older. I could argue that it means the opposite or half or whatever but it doesn’t matter in that context. Because your argument was about “women” not “some women” or “many women” liking older men. If you included older by one year (when it wasn’t even stated that the man is older btw they say one year difference) as actually being substantially older, that means you are very dense or a mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:50 AM
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Yes, if you add all the percentages it adds up to over 47%... you do know how math works, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:32 AM
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Oh come on. 3 years is not significant at all and definitely not enough to make someone substantially richer than me or rugged. Also, again if you want to push it, 47,3% of married couples have an age difference within a year or with the woman being older. So your generalization about “women wanting older men” is definitely that, a generalization when almost half women are the same age or older than their spouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:10 AM
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Excuses are still excuses and not really matter. A man’s bad experiences do not justify but behavior and it will impact him if he isn’t careful. Judging by the struggles TRP men face, I’d argue their average member looks worse than the average man (not to mention that most “famous” redpillers look absolutely hideous). As far as the sugar babies, well most people make average income so I’d argue that most of the RPM will as well, but I could be wrong. In that case, good for them, they are going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:04 AM
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The older men who tend to systematically chase significantly younger women, yes, they tend to be more depraved.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:52 AM
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I mean, over 50% of the married couples have up to 3 years age difference, which is really not significant, so no, most women don’t prefer wrinkly old men, but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:46 AM
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You said you wanted to strengthen the focus, I am asking you to elaborate. Jeez never mind let’s leave it here shall we?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 09:54 PM
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I didn’t say you were trying to yell. I am trying to understand the reason behind wanting to strengthen the word feel. Maybe you were trying to make fun of me because “haha women are over sensitive they have no logic haha hilarious”. Anyway, no I am not well versed in MGTOW and I don’t see how that’s relevant to the conversation. Talking about derailing! But if you want to educate me go ahead, I find these topics interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 09:44 PM
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I will, but first I want you to explain me why you said feel with capital letters.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 09:37 PM
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Again good for you on having an opinion, you keep repeating the same point over and over. I thought MGTOWs wanted to leave female bullshit like this one behind, but you clearly miss it too much and can’t seem to let it go you silly boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 09:32 PM
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That’s your own opinion and you are entitled to it, good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 09:25 PM
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For the same reason men do it. Because they all serve their own interests so they will advice people accordingly. I didn’t know that trying to show that an issue is not gendered and that everybody does it, so you shouldn’t question it in the first place because you probably do it too, was irrelevant to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 09:21 PM
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Women want to be that minority. At least FDS women. Wether that’s very possible or not that’s another conversation, but I don’t think it’s completely unrealistic. So if they are ok with possibly being alone forever if they can’t be mutually in love with someone, waiting longer to have sex is a great way to filter if the guy is really excited to be with them. So more power to them. Your last paragraph is 100% correct btw. I’d like to add that even if someone likes their SO a lot, even if they don…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 09:17 PM
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So you don’t believe in people being mutually in love? Because there are couples where both people are in love, maybe a bit rare but they exist. But the way you are presenting it, it seems impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 07:09 PM
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Yes I get it and it makes sense. The thing is that most women want to be their man’s Rihanna, even if their RMV is similar. You might think it’s excessive, but being in love makes people see their imperfect SO as the most amazing person in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 07:01 PM
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I am not religious, so I don’t like religious men. I also like sex and consider it as a natural thing, not something big or lifechanging. I think if a man was voluntarily celibate he would other have a very low libido, or our views on sex would be incompatible. Also, I have slept with one virgin in my life, it was the worst sex I’ve ever had, never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 06:24 PM
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Level up looks and personality wise (especially work on social skills and mental health problems). Lower their standards. Keep trying. Hope for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 06:18 PM
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With your comment you are proving that women should wait 3 months and I don’t even agree with FDS. The goal of waiting would be to filter out men like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 06:15 PM
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Why do you tell people you are 6’8? 6’6 is more attractive the other is excessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 05:58 PM
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So you are a 3/10 but you’d like women average or above who are also attracted to you? That sounds almost impossible tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 05:56 PM
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No because of the creep factor others said above. If he just chased hotter women, I would date him if he treated me like I was the first choice and this includes that he is not so stupid to reveal that info to me. Like ffs why would tell their SO that they settled for them? Take a lesson from the ladies and learn where you should be revealing this information. Anyway, I get what you are trying to do here. The same way I wouldn’t want to date the loser who failed to get the hot woman, men don’t w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 05:48 PM
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That’s silly. At my thinnest I was the most insecure I’d ever been but still people on the internet told me that men liked me more because I was more confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 11:59 AM
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Well tbh men do it too in a way. To their credit, they say on the internet that being attractive is very important (women don’t usually admit it and I find it stupid) but the general advice men give to women is essentially to be a pick me: Approach him, go dutch on the date, cook for him, be nice and submissive, give him many blowjobs, don’t be clingy. This is not helpful for women at all, because that’s how the ideal relationship for the man is, not for the woman. At the end of the day most wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 10:20 AM
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I would consider it as a synonym in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:53 PM
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Even those categories can find someone to fuck them if they really want to. There are some very depraved men out there who are willing to fuck even women with mental disabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 01:43 PM
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I am from Greece and having a man with whom you are actually not even dating stay in your home with your family, seems so weird to me. I have only brought home one man (my current boyfriend) and it was after almost a year of being together (not to stay here for days, just for dinner). My parents wouldn’t want to meet all of the guys I have thought of dating throughout my entire life, they have told me they only want to meet a guy only if things are very serious. Also as another commenter said ab…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/20 10:43 AM
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I’ve done it to my boyfriend, he does it to me too. It’s a sensitive spot down there and we both enjoy the sensation. I don’t think I would do it with someone I wasn’t very comfortable with. But anyway, I get it’s not for most people. If you don’t like it, tell him it’s not something you’d be interested to try and leave it at that. I don’t think it will be a dealbreaker for him, that will be weird. Also, maybe, he is watching too much porn.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/20 08:10 AM
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That sounds hard. As a woman, sometimes you have to try really hard to get what you want, but at the end of the day, the average woman can get direct results depending on her effort. Do this for your appearance, go out that many times, or swipe that many times, vet correctly, don’t be completely boring or weird, rinse, repeat 1-2-4-5-10-20 times max and you get what you want. For men I think it can be disheartening, because they can do everything in their power and still only get minimal results…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:31 AM
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I am not saying that it is equally common, but men can be raped by women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 04:27 PM
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I have no idea how I would get laid or even a girlfriend if I were an average guy tbh. I have no idea how they do it. It’s not easy to get commitment from a quality partner as a woman, you have to put in some work but I would be navigating life in hard mode if I was an average guy, not even mentioning the ugly and socially inept men. I also like being taken care of, men don’t experience that as often as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 04:25 PM
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r/whoosh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:21 AM
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Captain save a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:03 AM
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That’s great advice. I wanted to express exactly this sentiment, but didn’t know how to articulate it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 02:58 PM
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That might be the case for you, but there are many men who are conditioned to be looking for relationships, but still willing to sleep with girls they don’t even like in the meantime. From my experience, I would say that’s the norm for average SMV in the US. In my country what you described is more true, and that’s why the default first date is coffee or drinks, while in America it’s nice dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:44 AM
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Men can only want sex from women they don’t really want to commit to, women can want only commitment and resources from men they don’t want to have sex with. It’s kind of the same thing in reverse. The fact that men want commitment from some women and women want sex from some men as well are not important here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:33 AM
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I didn’t lie but if believing that makes you feel better, who am I to change your view.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:25 PM
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Um I don’t think that is enough to conclude something like that, but whatever makes you sleep better at night I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:08 PM
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I changed how I handle things. I don’t lie, I just don’t talk about my sexual past in detail from the first day, which is something I find very off putting when men do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:32 PM
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What I was saying is that if they are in the first stages of relationship, the way he can prove that he can take care of a woman is to pay for the meal when he asks her out on a date every once in a while and not always split the cost or even worse let her pay most times. At least that’s how I see it as a woman. But stability comes down to wether or not you have a sensible amount of money and are willing to spend some of them on your partner and family if the need arises. And do so without resen…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:22 PM
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I mean, stability means that he will pay her meal every once in a while and paying for a meal means money. So, I get where he is coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 11:52 AM
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If the girl is over 20, 6+/10 and not dumb or socially impaired (which is not attractive whatsoever), she won’t have an innocent, naive personality while also being willing and capable of doing the best for you. There is an extremely tiny percentage of what you described (and probably still not “naive” enough for you) and they are very high in demand so most of them are taken by men of very high RMV. So yes, your standards are not only high, but definitely unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 11:49 AM
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Yes, men want mostly sex from women they don’t really want to commit to and women mostly want money from men they don’t really want to have sex with, in order to consider it. When we are talking about actual, loving committed relationships though, where both people actually dig each other: yes, men still want some sex and women still want to feel safe and provided for to some degree, but neither of those in the same intensity and there are many other things that matter too. Of course, these are …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 11:42 AM
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It depends on the woman. Some don’t do it. Personally, I used to do it until I was 22 or so and thought that talking about sex early on would make me a “cool girl” especially if the guy seemed like he didn’t judge me. When I stopped being such an open book about everything, I managed to have guys want to date me and not just be FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:22 AM
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There are still lib girls who are not very sexual and would judge you for it, but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:11 AM
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Actually, most women want a relationship with both, but only to fuck one, so it’s pretty much the same thing in reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:08 AM
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How would you know it would be the porn’s fault and not something else, like a possible poor performance on your part?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 11:52 AM
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Hypergamy at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:58 AM
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Ok thanks for the answer, it makes more sense now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 09:25 AM
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People don’t always know that. I am from Europe and it always surprises me that people get married so young in most of the America! Like they have a boyfriend in college and a year after they are graduate they are engaged. It is not uncommon to be married by 24. I don’t think most of such relationships were really tested and solid and in all honesty, they were not truly meant to end up in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:20 AM
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That’s actually kinda interesting. Which country are you from? Because I live in Europe, and still, if you break up with a girlfriend with whom you have kids with, it’s still kind of the same as if you had been married, just more messy. In the sense that the kids will still probably stay with the woman during the work week and visit dad on the weekends, he will still have to pay child support, she gets to keep the house because she has the kids etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:17 AM
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The best sex I have had is with my current boyfriend who is a year younger than me. I have slept with older guys and, let me tell you, a decade can do a lot of damage to a guy’s stamina lol.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 10:49 AM
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I agree that she should be open to dating older men as well, her chances would become dramatically higher to find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 08:48 PM
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I never said that a man can get a man outside of her league by being overconfident. I said that a woman can lose a man who is in the same league as her by not being confident enough. In my original comment I said that I had to get to a healthy weight and work on my self esteem. Appearance is very important yes, but I don’t believe it is 90% or whatever you are making it out to be. I mean, it could be for you, but not for most people. If I was a size 6 with the confidence of when I was a size 14,…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 08:41 PM
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Most men don’t understand the dynamics of the sexual market place. That’s why there are many men on that sub, along with the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 08:12 PM
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Yes, I am a woman. And no, I am more rational and knowledgeable of this subject than the average man or woman. Many people are not rational, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 07:31 PM
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This depends more on what other options they have than your attitude. Of course. But if we are talking about disarable men, you are competing with these options, on all fronts. And of course looks matter a lot, but other things matter too, such as your personality, or things that have nothing to do with your RMV objectively such as how closeby you live, how compatible your lifestyles are etc. A big one, is to actually believe that you are worth this guy's comimitment otherwise you are going to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 07:16 PM
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No, I am explicitly talking about the men who weren’t committed from the beginning and the girl knew that but hoped that by being low maintenance she could change their mind. It’s kind of like the friend zoned nice guy, only the genders are reversed and you are getting the d.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 05:31 PM
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I disagree. Men can and will withdraw commitment and FWBzone you if they suspect they can get away with it. And they can get away with it, if you let them because you have low self esteem and consider yourself lucky to even suck their balls and pretend to be a chill, cool girl who doesn’t care about commitment (hoping that they’ll offer you commitment because of that). If you have a high self esteem, which is a different thing from inflated self confidence (you can have both, neither or just one…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 04:44 PM
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Of course. I have done this. That’s the first thing I thought when I saw that thread. I was overweight (27 BMI) when I started going out with a guy more attractive than me, who eventually was refusing to commit and decided to pursue hotter girls. I would have been an alpha widow of sort if I wouldn’t lose weight, because the chances to have such a guy to commit to me were very low, so I had four options: Keep letting guys out of my league use me forever. Get into a relationship with a “lesser” g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 03:52 PM
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The thing is that he is probably not going to be willing to go to therapy. And she is probably not going to think about divorce. This is a sad situation. At least OP could tell him about her depression, in fact say everything she said in this whole post. If that won’t open him to see things a bit differently or go to therapy, nothing will.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 11:53 PM
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Yeah that’s what I thought. Even if the OP is bisexual and swiped for men too, he can only see the men who swipe for men, not straight men and this is a completely different demographic. Except if he trolls online as a woman, but still I don’t think he would use a fake profile in the way and frequency an actual straight woman does.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 11:12 AM
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I don’t think there is a remotely possibility. Most of those people have been shoot before, multiple of times. Granted, this attitude is counterproductive anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 11:07 AM
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That’s your personal preference. Anyway, not a BMI 27 anymore so clearly not your type haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 09:49 PM
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27 BMI is overweight. There are some guys who prefer it but it’s not the ideal for most. It was also mostly fat, because I am a lazy piece of ass and don’t like exercising lol. I still had guys liking me, just not 9/10 guys who were also not complete idiots, to the point it couldn’t be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 09:23 PM
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Yes. When I was doing online dating looking for casual flings, and matched with a particularly hot guy, I would just think to myself “please guy, don’t fuck it up. Just don’t say something too stupid that will prohibit me for fucking you”. 7/10 they would say something too bad for me to ignore. Which makes sense, because if a man is a 9,5/10 and also has some game (which is a sign of intelligence) the chances of him swiping right on me (had nice face but 27 BMI back then) wouldn’t be very high. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 08:56 PM
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Yes. I get it. What I don’t get is how you think: Women take advantage of being women while also supporting to advocate for equality in order to gain benefits. Men don’t like that but sometimes accept it for one reason or another.- bad Men refusing to take birth control because of side effects while also demanding from women to take birth control with equal side effects in order to gain benefits (pleasure in that case). Women don’t like that but sometimes accept it for one reason or another.- no…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 08:40 PM
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I just don’t understand. Do you think that women taking advantage of being women is bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 08:26 PM
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Lol ok I give you that, this one is funny, I will leave it like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 08:03 PM
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Ok because you say so it must be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 08:03 PM
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In that sense women taking advantage of their gender is not something there is a point whining about because... well, we can do it, right? And men are willing to put up with or of our entitlement, so there is nothing wrong with that. Did I get your logic right this time? Oh by the way righting like an idiot does not make you sound edgy and sarcastic. Last word ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 07:57 PM
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I will. Just a last thing though, because I don’t really like it when someone makes a final argument and shuns me without giving me a chance to respond. Arguments cannot be “won” like that. Yes, some women have low self esteem or whatever. This does not mean that the men who might take advantage of social norms or a woman’s vulnerable position and demand from a woman to do something they themselves wouldn’t do (in order to just gain more pleasure) doesn’t prove that these men are not doing a shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 07:23 PM
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I agree. It’s a shame some women are such pick mes. But it’s still a shame many men demand something unfair. In this particular scenario I wanted to talk about the latter, mainly because I was addressing a man. I don’t see what you are trying to argue about at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 07:12 PM
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I am talking about a certain scenario which is if they manage to make male birth control pills that have roughly the same severity of side effects as the female ones. I responded to a certain commenter and if you see his answer to me you will understand the group of men I am talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 07:06 PM
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I am talking about the men who say that they wouldn’t take a contraceptive pill because they don’t want the side effects, but would still expect from the woman to take them because they don’t like condoms. I am not talking about women taking the pill for other reasons, or because they want to be 100% in control of their contraception, that’s not what I was talking about at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 06:39 PM
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Yes, I am on the pill for hormonal acne and heavy periods too. But lots of times it is not the case. There are many side effects some women can experience and if the severity of them is the same for men, why women should be the only ones putting their health in danger?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 06:23 PM
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Of course make it better. But if the side effects are about the same, women should not always be the ones to carry this burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 06:22 PM
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Lol the fact that so many men rely on us to fuck up our bodies so they don’t have to wear condoms but would refuse to do the same is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:48 PM
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You can always use condoms...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:46 PM
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You should start believing in your own eyes at some point. Many men also say that they care about personality, or that men’s physical standards are low, but I see that most men hit on the prettier girls and I got the hint when I was in middle school. Why is it so hard for men observe reality and draw conclusions, I will never understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 06:14 PM
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I don’t know what you mean by problem. Let’s say a normal age to start having sex for a girl is around 16-17, ok? That means that a 24 year old woman has been sexually active for over 7 years. If she’s had sex with two different men each year on average (maybe 3-4 sometimes and maybe just one the next year if she is loyal in a monogamous relationship) that means she has slept with around 15 guys. This girl’s n count is significantly higher than the registered average and she would be labeled a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:32 PM
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It’s not only Americans, I live in a European country and trad people consider that a lot regardless of where you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 12:35 PM
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Not everyone who has casual sex is a sex addict. For many RP men, a 24 year old woman who has had sex with 10 people is a slut (or even a woman who has had 1 one night stand in her life, but whatever). I don’t think that definition of slut means that someone is a sex addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 10:04 AM
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She would be attractive if she was just lean and a bit toned. Maybe more conventionally attractive. Most female celebrities that men lust for are not that strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 04:38 PM
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What are you talking about? Most men lose their hair as they age and have a beer gut. Yes, women get overweight too, there is not a big distinction between the genders getting fat, but at least women keep their hair and can do their makeup. Also, what does height and strength compared to women has to do? Being very physically strong wouldn’t make a woman more attractive except if she was going for a very specific kind of man. Height is also way more important for male attractiveness than for fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 04:34 PM
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Jeez. I have met ugly people who are shy but not weirdos; I didn’t consider them romantically or sexually but it’s not only about looks. There are also obnoxious and annoying-socially unskilled people who are not shy at all (that makes them even more annoying most of the times). Or people who are witty and charismatic, while being shy. I said. I like some shy guys, but they have to be attractive to me first. So I am obviously not trying to pretend that I don’t care about looks/I am not shallow. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 11:40 AM
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Some people are just settling
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 09:46 PM
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I mean I like some why guys, I find it endearing, but I wouldn’t see it that way if those guys weren’t attractive and interesting. Also, some people confuse shy people with socially awkward and weirdos which is absolutely not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 12:14 PM
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Exactly. Not to mention that when you are a virgin you aren’t giving someone good sex most of the time. Like I didn’t even get on top for like a year after I had sex for the first time and it was with a different guy. With the first guy it was just... missionary with a bit of foreplay (from him to me) and that’s about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 07:53 AM
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Most surrogacy agencies require an age limit at 45, yes, but it is entirely possible to have a baby until your late 40s if you have gone the route of freezing your eggs. And still early-mid 40s is 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 10:11 PM
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If you freeze your eggs in your 30s you can have a baby in your 40s with relatively high success and low risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 09:57 PM
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This is a complicated issue and your view can be debated. Still that was not my point. My point was that people (men or women) shouldn’t be expecting sex for holding a old ass regular job, paying taxes or going to uni. It’s completely unrelated and laughably stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 09:39 PM
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You only complain about people not seeing your side but you can’t even stop to think the other perspective either. You don’t do as you preach. If you had to spend a day as a woman, you would experience another side of this nightmare: being catcalled and harassed by people with twice your strength, being followed by a man at night trying to pretend you are talking on the phone because you are scared, being considered a slut at school and bullied to the point where you had to change school because…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 05:03 PM
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I am hoping you mean women in the west because I hate to break it to you but not all women in the planet have equal rights. And yes, on average we can have non committed sex with men who are better looking than us. Have you ever stopped to think that maybe it’s because casual sex is more rewarding and less dangerous for men and that’s why they are willing to fuck down (not to mention their higher libidos on average)? For a woman to have casual sex, she has to hope that she will not get abused, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 04:42 PM
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I don’t understand. What is your actual point? That I should feel sorry for you because you are short and can only get casual sex with below average girls? Or that I am a bad person for not feeling sad for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 02:25 PM
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No, someone who is on the top 30-40-50% is not low value and you know it. 80% of the adult male population are not virgins and that’s just a fact. Maybe the average guy can’t easily get casual sex from cute girls, but why should he? Because umm he pays taxes? That’s completely unrelated. Still average men do get some dates, get in LTRs and eventually marry (if that’s what they want to) and yes they have sex without commitment a few times in their life if they lower their standards a bit and put …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 10:51 AM
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Chad is not necessarily a frat boy type. It can be any type of attractive, charismatic man for a niche. Most men are not like that in any niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 10:09 AM
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Most people do. Men did that for centuries and still do in some eastern countries. Don’t pretend that women should care about how much low value men get laid. You don’t care if 300lb women get commitment with men they deem desirable, in fact you revel in them being dumped after pumped, so why should women care?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 10:07 AM
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Most Europeans don’t do it like that on the first date. At least in Greece, France, Italy and UK that I have been and dated in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 09:22 PM
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You do have a point but what you are describing here is demisexual people. As a woman, I have seen men and decided I wanted to sleep with them after talking about 10 minutes (I didn’t do it on the spot but thought to myself that I’d hit it).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 11:12 PM
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I’d say be the best version of yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 11:10 PM
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Yeah and he didn’t even try! Edit: she is actually an unpaid sugar baby at this point. Even met him on seeking arrangement wtf.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 06:29 PM
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It's looked down on as trashy in my (European) country too. Doesn't mean we don't talk about it, we just do it more discreetly. I am 24 years old now and over the years I have had around 5 groups of relatively close female friends. Out of the 30 girls, around 25 would talk about that stuff a lot and the other 5 would be more closed off but still share a couple of stuff. I also know about the sex lives of some of my friends' friends. My sister has had the same experiences over the years. I have n…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 01:32 PM
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Well more often than not a stable woman over 22 would not live a pre med student for a drug dealer. But sometimes, if a woman is in a relationship with someone because he is a sensible choice, if he cheats on him it will be with a more exciting guy because that’s what she has been missing. I think that’s where the stereotype comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 08:49 AM
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Only very poor, desperate women would chase you for having more money than average. If you want a woman that is not like that, you will still have to put some work in. The good thing is that women who would be on the fence about you, will now probably give you a chance because of the money. But most women are not that stupid and don’t want to show that money was an important factor in their decision, because you will label them as gold diggers and you will probably not commit to them. And if mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 08:17 AM
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No. Even liberal men will subconsciously get easier in the headspace for a relationship if they have already got to know you and invested in you for a few weeks. I only date non religious, liberal men, because that’s the values I can appreciate in a man and still I’ve found that when I sleep on the first date with someone it’s harder to get commitment afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 08:13 AM
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When I said relationships, I didn’t mean that I actually got into many relationships; I meant that the men I went on dates with were actually open to, or even wanted a relationship, which had never happened before. I consider it as a win, honestly because I was always seen as FWBs material. I used to be too worried wondering how much fun a man was having or if I was cool enough, that I forgot to have fun myself, lay back and evaluate who I had in front of me. But yes, I did get into one relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 10:04 PM
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Ouch that hurts. I used to be like that too and it was very difficult to get out of that mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 07:45 AM
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That actually makes sense but consider the other side of it. I am a woman and my experiences are similar to OP’s. Deep down, I always had needs and a personality and wanted to express them. But I had bought into the myth that I had to be chill, low maintenance and not demand too much. I thought that the way to getting what I wanted (stuff like more serious commitment, gifts, nice surprises etc) was to pretend I didn’t need it. Because I thought that men would fall for me simply because I was coo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 07:23 AM
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I think most of the girls that are taken for granted actually have a personality, but they are too insecure and have bought into the myth that they have to be low maintenance, so they don’t show it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 07:11 AM
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Is English your first language because I think there is miscommunication going here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 10:58 PM
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I said I think most people can find someone if they settle enough. If they want to. I didn’t say they should do it if they don’t want to. And I don’t hesitate to own my opinions on Reddit lol. Nobody knows who I am and I can say whatever I want so I don’t feel the need to backtrack jeez. You were just triggered because you might belong to the category of people who need to settle to find someone maybe? It’s ok. Many people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 10:09 PM
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I am not advocating for anyone. Just saying that some people will most likely be alone forever if they don’t settle. That doesn’t mean they should, if they prefer to stay alone that is their prerogative. Why are you assuming I claimed something I didn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:11 PM
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No. But I think most people can find someone if they settle enough. There is a (very) small percentage of the less desirable people that is going to have to be extremely lucky to even meet someone (around the same level or attractiveness) who could consider settling for them. The thing is that most fat, poor, unattractive people with bad social skills don’t want their equals so they remain single because they reject each other. But some of them are willing to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 04:45 PM
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The ones I have rejected that approach me when I am out and about are mostly significantly uglier than me and don’t have the personality to make up for it, if that’s even possible. The ones I have rejected on tinder are all passable in the looks department (otherwise I wouldn’t have swiped right) so what they have in common is very bad game and social skills- annoying/boring/rude personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 11:44 AM
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Even if people accepted that they can’t do what they love, not everyone is able to be a doctor or an engineer. Some people are simply not smart enough or not motivated enough, or maybe what you can tolerate is what they hate. There is nothing wrong with both partners working and making average money. Our society needs baristas, teachers and librarians anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 07:24 AM
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It’s the same for men though. They wait to have sex with pretty women and dedicate their recourses to them, while they treat plain women as disposable. Life is tough and then you die.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 07:25 AM
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I think that there are men who instinctively consider those women low value because they can’t lock down a guy and keep his interest for something more than a few times of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 07:22 AM
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Long term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 11:16 PM
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I am 24 and I’ve never had a problem with limp dick in my (2 so far) LTRs. If you are addicted to porn you could consider cutting back.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:46 PM
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Well, I am not going to tell you how to take advantage of women with low self esteem, I was literally one of them so I identify still. But in general you can expect not strings attached sex from women who know or think that they have a lower SMV-RMV than you. Being more attractive and having better game yourself will make your pool larger obviously, but if you can’t identify-game women with low self esteem you should aim lower in the looks department.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 07:34 AM
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Yeah that’s true. When I realized that the same thing kept happening to me, I figured that the common denominator was me, so I had to see what the “relationship material” girls were doing differently than me. It was many things but the source of most was my low self esteem. It was hard to work on that, change my attitude and actually believe that I deserved more, but when I did I knew I was ready for a relationship. And a few months after I was ready I met my current boyfriend. Our relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 05:04 PM
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The men that didn't want to commit to me, where actually open to a relationship, and that showed when they committed to another woman when they found someone they liked more. The fact that men can sleep with women without liking them too much, does not mean they are not open to a relationship if they feel it's the right girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 10:35 AM
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Men fuck across, up, down, left and right. They don’t date down though. Maybe they don’t specifically care for income on women, but they do care about looks and most men would never marry a woman who looks worse than them. On the other hand, plenty of women do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:00 AM
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Exactly! I think it kinda makes sense from the female perspective, because we think along the lines of: if he finds me attractive enough to sleep with me and he has told me that I look hot numerous times anyway, if he likes sex with me because he has told me it’s one of the best of his life and if he likes me as a person and thinks I am cool and likes hanging out with me, WHY WOULDN’T HE WANT TO BE WITH ME? I literally tick all the boxes. The thing is, for men who do have some options, being hot…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 08:41 AM
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I am curious, why did you only talk about feminist spinsters, and not about their male counterparts; MGTOW? Do you think their situations will be any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 08:03 AM
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Thank you for your answer! It was very insightful. I sort of feel like when I was more insecure I would think stuff like: “men don’t like nice girls who treat them right! They prefer high maintenance bitches who are demanding and they get what they want in life. It’s so unfair! They say that they want nice girls but the truth is they take them out to nice places and buy them stuff, while they just friend(s with benefits)zone me.” Essentially I was a Nice Guy Tm; the female version. In the end I …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:48 PM
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Hey so I am curious about it, if you don’t mind. After reflection, what do you think draw you to this type of women? Was it because they seemed confident and exciting, or it was a challenge for you? And more importantly, how did you feel about the “nice, accommodating” girls? Did you treat them worse-do less stuff for them because you took them for granted?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 09:30 PM
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First of all, I am not American I am Greek, but I have lived in America too so don’t assume my perspective. Secondly, what exactly do you mean by “they’ve turned into men”?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:39 PM
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Of course no one is going to start up conversations. But if you are a 7/10 guy, plenty of average looking women will be receptive if you start a conversation if you are polite and socially aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:35 PM
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Yeah maybe I am overestimating how attractive but my point is still the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:27 PM
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Do you even like women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:25 PM
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I see where you are coming from. Cold approaching a woman renders the danger of being labeled as a creep. And that’s something you don’t want to happen, especially if it’s someone that you are going to be seeing regularly. I think it has been like that for many years but maybe it has been more apparent during the last decade or so. Personally, I’ve never heard of an incident when a man has been kicked out of the gym because he hit on a woman. On the other hand, my best friend used to be hit on b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:25 PM
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I am not going to try and argue with you simply because you said that you absolutely refuse to deal with any western women. You are an outlier and your personal experience is worthless in that context. Most western men do try and deal with western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:10 PM
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Speaking from personal experience, I have one thing to say. When I was fat no one would approach me ever except from creepy old men. Not at the gym, or at the bar or through social circles. When I was a 6/10, I would sometimes get interest from a guy if we were in the same social group but I had to show some interest first. I also got hit by like 2 guys in a couple of years when I was in the club. They were average looking. Now, I am an 8-8.5/10 with makeup and it's a guarantee that when I go so…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 03:18 PM
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I mean I can kind of understand why someone wouldn’t want a partner who is fat, ugly, boring and poor, even if they are all those things themselves. If they prefer to stay single than settle for someone their own level, by all means they should do it. For two years, when I was obese I didn’t even try to imagine dating because I knew what my pool would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 06:56 PM
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It’s not creepy because the men are older. It would be equally creepy if the genders were reversed or if it was a queer couple. The average 18 year old: -is either still in high school or fresh out of highschool -high chance they live with their parents -can’t even go to bars -doesn’t really know what earning actual money is like -has had zero to minimal relationship experience and not that many sexual experiences either -hasn’t been crushed by the actual monotony of everyday life yet -has been …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 12:37 AM
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I feel like the “emotional baggage” I have gain from previous relationships has made be much more mature than I would be if I hadn’t experienced that. It’s just who I am. I had to do mistakes more than once in order to realize what I want and how to behave according to that. I am glad that I met him after these experiences because otherwise it wouldn’t have lasted with him either.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/20 10:47 PM
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You were one of the lucky ones for sure. I have talked to people who waited for marriage and then realized they were not compatible at all sexually, or their libidos were mismatched and they were all very sad stories.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/20 10:44 PM
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The type of men you referred to above, do have some attractive qualities such as being handsome, smart, charismatic, driven, determined, talented etc. so I think that in many cases the women that are with them are very attracted and are not faking it. As far as status is concerned, I do find it very attractive as a woman. I don’t pretend to be attracted to get someone’s status, I truly find men more attractive because of that (only status by itself is not enough of course). On the other hand, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 06:07 PM
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I mean, some of them do it. But I think they want those women to want them, they want emotional intimacy and love, not just sex. And you can’t get that from a prostitute who barely tolerates you for some money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 05:52 PM
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I definitely agree about the young men. I believe that in Greece, the younger generation is much better in many aspects than the older ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 06:34 AM
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I don’t know about American men, I am from Greece, but maybe it’s true either way. I don’t have a huge sample anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 11:23 PM
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I have slept with an Irish person too and he was one of the biggest I’ve seen tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 06:30 PM
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Χαχαχαχαχα χαίρομαι τόσο πολύ που βλέπω Ελληνίδες στο sub!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 06:29 PM
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Oh you think? As a Greek too, I always found most Greek guys bad flirts, in the sense that their persistence can be very annoying and in general that they prefer to approach online, rather than when you are in the same physical space.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 06:11 PM
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I think it’s this RP theory that men settle to get sex (tbh I’ve truly observe that a large number of men drop their standards a lot if that can help them get casual sex) and women settle to get commitment. I don’t think it’s necessarily about someone being better than the other it’s each side caring for their own agenda I think. There are women who find men doing similar things unattractive because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 01:40 PM
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I don’t think they exactly demonize them. It’s just that they identify a lot with that “beta” and they are afraid they are going to end up in a similar position, because that would mean the woman wouldn’t truly be attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 01:05 PM
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And that’s why many women lie about how many people she has slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 01:03 PM
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As a woman bravo you understand female psychology very well for a man. Too well. I am actually impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 12:40 PM
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If women wanted to fuck for the sake of fucking women would be men. Also, if that was the case, at least the actual woman would want to fuck and that’s way different than an inanimate object. If that wasn’t the case, incels could go with prostitutes and would not be incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 09:49 PM
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That’s just a form of evolved masturbation though. Having sex with another person who is actually interested in you is a different thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 10:37 AM
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A man said that stupid quote once and people actually believe it? Like wtf people believe that we hate each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 01:55 AM
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Men would also die. You need both sexes for humanity to exist. Some of the arguments I am reading here remind me those stupid arguments in primary school “boys rule!”, “no boys suck! Girls are the best”. Like... kinda pointless isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 01:53 AM
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Well, women grouped up and gained the right to vote, work and choose who/if they want to marry. Men are physically stronger, of course, but that’s not that important anymore. A big number of the most powerful men are unfit, old guys. And they all know that women having rights is beneficial to their pockets. So women will keep having rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 01:44 AM
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And many men have had their lives destroyed by women. This is life I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 01:57 PM
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That’s like... a sign of an asshole, just letting you know in case you are not aware...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 07:30 AM
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You don’t even have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 06:33 PM
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That’s not the case at all. You forget the role someone’s family, social class and community plays in order to shape a personality. If your family is relatively educated you are expected to have at least a decent job no matter your attractiveness levels. Maybe what you are saying can be somehow relevant for women from poor, uneducated and very traditional families that marrying someone with money could literally set them for life since they don’t have the means to build a better future for thems…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 05:58 PM
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Alexis ohanion is definitely above average and zuckerberg was not ugly either (before he became a robot). I am not going to google each and every one of them, but if we are talking about anecdotes I know plenty of smart, successful hot people. Not as many as the average ones but hot people are rare anyway. There are many arguments to make about both sides and many contradictory researches. And many assumptions can be made. For example, I could say that hot people can be more confident and given …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 05:47 PM
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I can empathise with that on some level, but it's only theoretical. The same way I feel bad for starving kids in Africa. I do feel bad and try to donate sometimes if I can, but I won't go there to dedicate my life to activism and feeding them, if that makes sense. Most people don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 11:24 AM
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As a woman, I don’t see ugly men as sexual beings, indeed, but I don’t see unattractive women as sexual beings either. I guess if I were straight I wouldn’t see women as sexual beings at all, because people tend to not see people they are not attracted to as sexual beings. If the ugly guy who is hitting on me is hygienic, respectful, socially aware and prepared to leave me the fuck alone immediately when I reject him, I don’t mind being approached at all. I also don’t think that ugly men are mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 06:59 AM
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Unattractive men are more or less invisible to us. Them dying won’t make any difference at all. So no, we don’t want them to die, we don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 06:49 AM
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There are not enough demisexual women to go around. This comment is just a humblebrag.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 03:47 PM
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And it’s not only body fat; it’s also that their weight is very high (albeit most of it is muscle). The amount of dedication those women have to show is insane.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/19 06:12 PM
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It doesn’t matter what you consider fat. Those things are objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 04:26 AM
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If we prefer the natural qualities than the acquired ones, then we will still go for the second guy because he had the potential IN him to become successful, which probably means he is naturally smart and charismatic (both are natural qualities) and on top of that he is also a hard worker. The second guy inherited everything he has, so he could have almost no natural desirable qualities at all; he was certainly nurtured to be successful at least to a point. In that sense he is the one with acqui…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 05:48 PM
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Of course that’s the case in life. You want to fuck people because they are attractive to you, which is a mix of looks, personality-charisma and perceived status (the last one mostly for women). No matter if you are a man or a woman, if someone is extremely ugly won’t magically become sexy in your eyes just because they are nice. But if you value yourself, you can stop yourself from sleeping with people you do find attractive but is an asshole/crazy/abuses you; The don’t stick your dick in crazy…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 11:51 AM
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It’s not on me to fix such a big societal issue, but not admitting it benefits me would be hypocritical. Maybe I am selfish you could be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 11:45 PM
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I don’t care about why men are thirsty; I am happy for it since it benefits me. I never talked about you specifically, I don’t know you. Why aren’t average women happy dating average men? Some are. I am. Some want the best they can get because if women were not the selective sex there would just be chaos. Also, women are not a hivemind, we can disagree with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 11:18 PM
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It’s more complicated than that. If you want to talk about the sexual marketplace, attractive people in general have it better. I am sure chad is having a great time. Sure the average woman can get sex (and probably relationships but not the ones they want) way easier than the average man, but we don’t really care about it that much. That’s not to imply that it is not important at all, but it’s not our fault men are thirsty. Also, I don’t think most women care that much about why undesirable men…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:53 PM
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True. As a girl around your age I am glad that I am born in this era because that way I have a steady stream of men to pick from, even if I don’t want to go out to the usual places where guys could hit on you. And even if I did, it would be 1-2 each time and since I like only a small percentage of guys in general, it’s better to have more to choose from. What can I say, our strategies are conflicting. On the other hand, I will say that I am going to be much more receptive if the same guy who lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 11:05 AM
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Yes but what I am trying to say is that sex is part of a whole package for many (if not most women). It’s not like I look someone, he is hot and I’m like “I want to sleep with you tonight if possible and then I’d be fine going to work tomorrow and not talking to you ever again” the same way most men experience it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 05:53 PM
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Yeah but you got married to him so maybe plain sex was not the only thing you were interested in with such a high value man. You also wanted to experience other stuff with him and feel connected to him in different ways. Or how did the relationship develop?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 05:36 PM
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I think the truth is somewhere in the middle. For me if I find a man very good looking and he has a cool vibe (dunno how to explain it, like the way he moves or looks and the style of photos he has selected if it’s an online dating profile) I am not thinking about sex with him. I am thinking that I want to get him to like me and want to be with me. If I get to know him better but he seems dumb or boring or not socially aware, then I get turned off. If he is witty, charismatic and confident then …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 05:34 PM
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It depends on how you define attractive. If you mean “attractive enough” to give them a chance to woo me if they have a charismatic personality that compensates for their mediocre looks, I’d say around 50%. If you mean attractive like having to do a double take and think “that’s a good looking guy, I’d like him to approach me, he seems cool” it would be about 35%. If you mean attractive in the sense that makes me do a triple take and be extremely excited in the (rare irl) case he approaches me, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 04:24 PM
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I understand the point you are trying to make and it definitely has some truth into it but: You are comparing apples and oranges here. It’s different to not try in a relationship continuously, after many conversations about that, because that will make you not feel heard and appreciated. Not having sex with a guy until a few dates in, is not the same at all, since it’s something that occurs only in the beginning of the relationship and lasts typically for a few weeks. But I get where you are com…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 09:21 AM
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That has some truth into it, however, many women prefer casual sex with a chad, than commitment from a low value guy. At least until a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 04:07 PM
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The thing is that even the prettiest women will get old and wrinkly at some point. I am good looking enough, but want to be treated like a human person first before anything else, because I know I am not just my looks and my looks will fade at some point. It’s one of the reasons I consider myself a feminist besides, you know, having a moral compass and being against sexism.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 09:01 AM
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Well I think the women who date misogynistic men are not the same ones who are so angry at incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 07:46 PM
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I think that most people are not trigerred by sexually unsuccessful people per se, it's more that if someone is misogynistic or otherwise an asshole it's easy to use his lack of getting pussy as an insult to him. But most of the time, if someone is just not successful because he is ugly and shy, but otherwise nice and not socially inept, women don't care about them. Also, even on r/IncelsWithoutHate, which is supposed to be a non hateful sub, you get to see many misogynistic posts nevermind more…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 10:32 AM
4

You are not making any sense at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:00 PM
5

Why? She is also watching vaginas getting pounded. If it makes the guy bisexual to see the dick, why doesn’t seeing the pussy make the woman bisexual too?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:54 PM
4

Or maybe... watching straight sex makes it easier for the guy to imagine himself in this situation? Do you also think that watching straight porn makes the woman viewer more likely to be bi too?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:49 PM
2

Just curious, why would you prefer a straight woman for something more serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:47 PM
3

24F I would find it very hot for a guy to be bisexual; one of my best friends is like that too, but I understand we are the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:46 PM
4

I am not sure I agree completely. Sure, women is a factor, but still there are plenty of reasons why men (or women) could want more wealth: a nice, comfortable house, a cool car, being able to travel to places they’ve been dreaming since they were little, being able to afford the expensive steak and fancy wine at a good restaurant every once in a while etc. The same reason many women and gay men strive to earn more than minimum wage: because having more money makes life better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 07:42 PM
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I mean, the opposite can work that way too though. I wouldn’t mind a guy not taking me to a very expensive restaurant for our first date if that’s not his thing, but if I found out he took other girls to very expensive restaurants I would be pissed off. All in all though, I think we should judge our relationship by wether or not we are happy in it and not compare too much. Maybe the girl has been through a slut phase through college because she was dumped and had a couple of one night stands, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 10:16 AM
3

Nahh it’s from evolution. Back in the days, cavemen wanted to creampie as many women as possible. Women had to be more selective since they would be stuck alone and pregnant to fend for themselves in the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 07:26 AM
1

To be honest, since he doesn’t want that, that could be only a problem in the sense that he might not be able to provide you with the type of lifestyle you are used to.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 07:25 PM
1

Well, in that case, I think that you should still work on having some qualifications for employment anyway and if it makes sense financially you will consider leaving your job once you are getting ready for children. If your career is low paying it will be probably the most sensible choice to be a stay at home mum, at least for some years. But it’s good to be safe in case you ever need to supplement the income or if your husband loses his job for a while or whatever. If your relationship is good…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 06:41 PM
7

You mean you want to be a SAHM when you have children until they are older, or do you want to stop working ASAP and become a housewife forever? Because if it’s the second scenario, I get why he is worried.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 06:02 PM
73

I think it depends on the person. For me it would be a red flag since I’m not spiritual at all, so we wouldn’t be compatible, but others view it as a positive or a neutral.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 06:41 AM
1

So let me get this straight. You clean his house, you cook him dinner, you give him all the sex AND you let him cheat on you plus YOU PAY HIS BILLS?? Wtf that would be hilarious if it weren’t so sad. I don’t even understand what you get from this relationship and what’s the point of staying with him. Plus, girl, don’t fool yourself, no matter how “hot” you think you are, there is always going to be someone hotter, especially now that you are old (you are definitely over 30 after all, since you’v…
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/19 04:51 PM
1

I kind of feel sorry for you, honestly. It seems like you believe (or hope would be a better word) that by being a pathetic doormat who allows her SO to cheat on her is going to make men feel like you are a catch and want to stay with you. The truth is, men are drawn to women who have some dignity and standards. You can make your bf all the pies in the world, give him all the sex, let him cheat on you again and again and spend your money on him (judging by your own post history) and yes, he will…
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/19 03:51 PM
3

You have many options besides lying to your partner and running around with anyone willing to sleep with you and possibly putting your spouse at risk of std’s. You can talk about it with them, with the following options: They try to improve. Both of them. Sometimes the woman is not sleeping with her man so enthusiastically because he is not meeting certain needs either or because he is very selfish at sex and doesn’t put effort into making it feel good for her too. She can decide to be open to h…
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/19 01:38 PM
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Of course it’s not her fault. Ultimately it’s the cheater’s choice. I’m not saying that it’s bad if all parties are aware and ok with the affair but the husband does have a choice, even if the wife is not fulfilling all his needs. Same if it was the woman who cheated of course.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/19 08:41 AM
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There is nothing to dispute here because you don't have a point. OP is not talking about women who have been impregnated and then dumped by multiple drug addicts. He is talking about women who are not virgins. Most girls who are not virgins and are close to OP's age (18) have never been pregnant and haven't slept with that many men anyway. Essentially what OP asked was why many men here are not okay with a woman who has slept with 1 or more men before them, he is not asking why men don't want a …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 01:17 PM
2

Of course there are women who've had many partners and starfished and the opposite. But the same woman is going to be better at sex a few years in her sex life than at the beginning. So, statistically speaking, it's more possible to enjoy sex more with a woman who has had some sex before than a virgin. Especially if she is like in her mid 20's and a virgin that could indicate low libido or having insecurities around sex/being more uptight in general. It's not always the case, but it's way more p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 01:08 PM
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It's not either a virgin or " a woman that has a kid by a douchebro addict, been slapped around by other dudes and betrayed" wtf. Thinking in such a black and white is a sign of immaturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 01:01 PM
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I know what you are saying. I’ve been through periods when I didn’t want a relationship myself. But the truth is, if someone really special came along, I would be willing to consider a relationship. I think that most men who live that poor, nice girl on read after pumping and dumping her a couple of times, would be definitely willing to take out somewhere expensive that Instagram hottie they have been following and feel lucky if she considered a relationship with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 06:38 AM
30

Honestly? Let him go and go to hardcore nun mode for at least 6 months. You need to work on yourself and your self esteem so stuff like that never happens again.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/19 06:33 AM
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Girl I am sorry to break it to you, but you are being a doormat. And the truth is that if a man ignored you for three whole days and then told you in your face that he arranged dates with other women because a guy hugged you IN YOUR DREAM, well baking stuff for him is essentially rewarding that behavior of his and is going to just welcome him to respect you even less. You are 28 years old, I believe you do have some life experience by now and that you know what you want. Is this what you want? T…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/19 06:17 AM
2

Unfair because you are looking at it mostly from the perspective of the man. The man is not the important person in the situation. Read my comment again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:40 PM
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The thing is, you know beforehand that if she gets pregnant she is the one who gets to decides what happens with the fetus (and it’s only fair; it would be against human rights to force someone to have an abortion). So, in that case, just use protection even if she says she is on the pill and ideally don’t fuck women that you don’t trust. Plus, there are cases that the guy is like “yeah if you have a baby I will support you, now let me fuck you bareback” and then chickens out. In this case shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:24 AM
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The thing is, you can’t. And that’s because nobody cares about your sorry ass. It’s definitely against human rights to force someone to abort a baby but if she decides to have it, all the law cares about is the wellbeing of the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:17 AM
14

Most men on the manosphere say stuff like that, are you for real?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 03:32 PM
1

Lol you are not very bright huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:31 PM
0

You seem kind of dense to be honest. You seem to base your point of view on the assumption that all or most women claim that looks don’t matter at all which is certainly not the truth. You only pay attention to the claims that already confirm your already established bias AND you don’t know how to interpret what women mean when they say something that sounds like that to you because you clearly don’t understand how women work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 07:57 PM
2

Why do you want to work in order to convince yourself that you don’t want something that you clearly want and not put the work in achieving what you actually want?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 07:19 AM
1

Like a woman who is 28 and has slept with 6 women is a slut? That’s hilarious. No wonder women lie about their n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 07:31 AM
2

As a woman with a high n count I also want to chime in and say this is not the case at all. I always judge how good the sex life is as a whole; there is no reason to nitpick. Like, if I’m being fucked good I know it and it’s a whole experience. Sex is extremely important to me and every time I get into a relationship it’s the best sex I’ve ever had by that point (although feelings play a big part to make sex feel good and also make me put more effort in order to make sex better for both of us an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 07:27 AM
1

Sure pm
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 06:28 AM
1

Oh I see. In that case you keep putting some effort in but don’t make it a priority; I think your priority should be to create a life that you like and helps you feel confident first. Personally, I don’t think that your looks are going to be a problem, you look above average in attractiveness (I am not saying just to say it, I have been asked to rate people on PM and when I believe they are below average in attractiveness I say so) especially since you live in Asia where the girls are shorter. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 08:27 PM
2

Haha that’s a nice opening! Do you have any friends that do okay with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 08:09 PM
2

No, I haven’t heard of that term actually. About your last point, I know a girl who went out with a guy whose opening on tinder was “you look like a potato”. Even that is much better than Hey!!!! (17:51) How are you?? (17:59) What are you looking for on tinder? (18:23) Why would you even match with me if you are not going to answer?? (20:44) ~3 days later~ Hi All in all, I believe that a funny first text is going to lead to an answer which is very important and it can also help the girl feel a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 07:55 PM
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I think it depends on the person; some women feel a stronger connection to a fetus than others. I know both kinds of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 05:25 PM
1

Aw thanks 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 04:35 PM
1

I understand. Well, I took a look at your profile and see you are 5’4. There is this guy on r/short who apparently is pretty successful on tinder and sometimes uses his height as a pan and stuff like that. He posts on r/tinder some of his openings and conversations and I think that the majority of them are way better than the average tinder guy’s. I looked him up and his username is u/NanoBytesInc I think it might be interesting to check it and get some examples. r/tinder has some good openings …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 04:31 PM
1

Oh I see, that’s a common problem you have right there. I think you need to understand that women’s experiences and sexual strategies are way different than men’s. I feel like many men who want to have casual sex have a certain standard (mostly in looks but also sometimes in personality) and if a woman passes the bar, he sleeps with her. Because if she is “good enough” he will take what he can get. Women on the other hand don’t want to settle for good enough. They want to get the best they can g…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 03:40 PM
1

Lol yes sure whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 03:06 PM
1

Haha you have watched a lot of sitcoms I see, I have too. Yes, there is some truth into that, but also remember that it’s a tv series, where everything can be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 02:47 PM
1

Because if it’s just your looks they will might want to trade you for a younger model down the line and you will be a single mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 02:44 PM
1

If it makes you feel better that way, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 02:42 PM
2

Oh I agree. But when you are a woman on tinder (even if you are just average looking) you have many guys texting you and you quickly gain some experience on how to weed out the weirdos. Granted, sometimes a few good ones might be lost, but if you have a big enough supply of men, you don’t really mind. In general, if you have 100 unread messages, you can’t reply to all even if you wanted to, so you kind of have to pick out the ones that spark your interest more and make a few exceptions in case s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 02:29 PM
1

It’s okay, I get it, you are attractive chill. Also, men can find you attractive at 55 but if they want kids they will still commit to a younger woman. I also hope your mom and grandma do drugs too because if they don’t your SMV might drop sooner that 55. Btw don’t act like it’s a big deal that most men would fuck you; most men would have sex with most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 02:24 PM
1

For how long do you think you are going to be considered hot shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 02:15 PM
1

So in risk of them being horrible people, you become yourself an even more horrible person. Okay at least you know you are horrible I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 02:15 PM
1

Yeah because she will definitely reveal that information to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 02:13 PM
1

I mean do you have any evidence to support your first paragraph? Because I do know that more women are getting college degrees than men are and that most of the times, the reason why some women don’t make enough money is because when there are children involved, it can be financially sensible (and better for the family) for someone to stay at home with the kids and most of the times it is the mother who actually gave birth to them. If we are comparing childless women with men, the wage gap is in…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 02:12 PM
1

I think that the more attractive and successful you are in life, the more mistakes you can get away with doing. If a guy is just average in every aspect of his life having vs not having game is going to make the biggest difference as far as succeeding with women is concerned. He can be an incel, or he can be very successful. When you say anything can work as long as you are attractive, I interpret it as: they don’t have to do anything except to be willing and to not fuck it up. But if they do cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 02:00 PM
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No we also care about them having an exciting personality and being good at sex. I’d say those two matter the most and then it’s what you said, at least for me and my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 01:47 PM
2

I don’t get it. Isn’t hiking or reading books a hobby because many people of the same gender do it? I mean, most men have the same hobbies but instead of watching as many tv series they play video games. Most people are like that, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 01:45 PM
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That if OP uses a vibrator for masturbation, then her hymen might break and what is her future boyfriend going to think? Also that according to men it’s better to not be a virgin because you had sex with an ex than because you masturbated with a vibrator.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 04:00 PM
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r/badwomensanatomy I sincerely hope you are not a woman, otherwise I feel extremely sorry for you.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 11:23 AM
0

Depends of the type of relationship you are after I guess. Tbh I was talking more about a serious, committed LTR. In general if we women want something more casual it’s very easy to obtain it with little effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 06:39 AM
4

Yes, but that’s after you have established the relationship, not before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 10:35 PM
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I agree with everything except the second to last point. It’s ok to leave them on read for a couple of hours, but if they are generally decent at replying and the conversation flows nicely, don’t destroy the momentum of creating a frame of often communication.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 06:19 PM
2

I agree. I know many women who have been celibate for years because they are only interested in sex if it’s accompanied with commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/19 06:07 PM
2

Oh of course, but I prefer to be in casual situations with people I am not in love with, otherwise it’s just painful and I’d rather be celibate.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/19 05:58 PM
3

I was exactly at your position at 22 actually! I don’t want to remember that situationship! But now, at 24, I have a wonderful boyfriend that makes me feel very secure! I believe that if I hadn’t been through all that with the previous guy, I wouldn’t have handled my current relationship so well, so you can definitely learn from your mistakes too!
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/19 05:24 PM
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Mostly I would say to myself to stop pretending to be ok with situations I am really not okay with. Also, no, having regular sex without commitment with a guy is not going to make him love you, he will just see you as an easy lay.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/19 11:23 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/ It is quarantined though, so I don't know if you'll be able to browse.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/19 10:49 AM
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Thing is, most women have a large pool of attractive, interesting men willing to go out with them. If you have a job and hobbies you can't really go out with all of them, you have to pre-vet them somehow. Also, yes, there is a chance that you might not click as well irl with someone as you did online, at least you can be certain about some potential incompatibilities.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/19 10:38 AM
2

About point number 4: I agree with you that better bonding can happen through meeting people irl. However, it can be fleeting if you are only based on temporary excitement and you don't have established patterns of communication already. At least that's my personal experience. I think my advice is mostly for the average man, who is open in the possibility of a relationship, but is not actively seeking for one. If you are dealing with a more mature, relationship oriented person, points 3-4-5 do n…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/19 10:28 AM
2

I see where you are coming from. I am also talking from my personal experience here. I am currently in a LTR and I've met my boyfriend through Tinder. I have noticed through previous experiences with the app that when I planned a meeting for the next day after starting talking, men used to view me as more "go with the flow" and "low maintenance" so they would see me as more of a casual material from the start. When I changed that (along with some other things that I am planning to write a field …
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/19 10:25 AM
1

That's an interesting take. What do you think about points 3 and 4?
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/19 09:51 AM
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It's a tricky thing. If I were you, I would try to find a man who views a girl with such a job as a plus. I would present it in a way to make it seem like I am desired by many men, especially with this job, but since I am high quality and saught after, I will only choose the best quality men that will offer me comittment. I think that's how most women in the industry frame it in order to turn it into a plus.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/19 09:40 AM
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You don’t really have to lie, but saying that you took half of your classmates’ virginity and that you slept with men in exchange of financial favors is not going to do you any favors either. I would try to be vague, for example if you eventually change careers you don’t have to hide your current one, say something like: “yeah I used to play music at some clubs but then I got tired of being a dj mainly because of having to work night shifts, so I changed paths and now I really love what I am doi…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/19 08:55 AM
1

People say “work on yourself” because they don’t know you well enough to know which issues you have to address and how. I think the first thing would be to see in which areas you feel you are lacking and then search the reason why that is. Why are you insecure about this or that, you know? And then work on the reasons not just the insecurity itself.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/19 07:06 PM
1

You should work on yourself and confidence. Find out why you seem to be attracted to indifference. Also, remember that if someone is into you, you will know; if not you will be left wondering.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/19 06:14 PM
2

Yeah I read the comment. Well, if he took 12 hours to respond he wasn’t that into you from the beginning. I think it’s better to not expect too much from a guy who is not that interested.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/19 08:36 AM
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What has personally helped me a lot, is to establish a frame of communication where I talk with the guy every single day via phone or text. So that means to talk for at least a week or two via text a lot. I’ve found that when I am being too spontaneous and set a date with a guy for the day after he texted me, things don’t go as well as they could. I prefer that we have a more immediate relationship and I don’t idolize him or our dates; we are in this together, I don’t just put him on a pedestal …
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/19 04:42 AM
1

I am talking about me specifically.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/19 09:46 PM
0

To me it does. Low value is low value.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/19 09:19 AM
5

I want to jump on to that comment and say that OP probably felt low key disgusted after the second guy, because subconsciously she felt like the guy was not high value-powerful. It happens to me too, once I realize that the guy that I’ve kissed/dated/had sex with is not high value, then I feel retroactively disgusted, if that makes any sense.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/19 11:10 PM
2

I would be open to the possibility, but not for life. Like I would do it for a period of time, but I would know this wouldn’t be the guy I would marry in the end. I am kind of romantic at heart and feel like if I find the one, I won’t want anyone but him. I feel that way in my current relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 05:34 PM
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24F here. Well, I think that I definitely can’t have romantic feelings about someone without being sexually attracted to them, maybe because I highly value a satisfying sex life. If i don’t wanna fuck you, then I might be “in love with you”, platonically, as a friend, but I won’t want to be in a monogamous, romantic relationship with you. Now, I guess I can have sexual feelings about someone without romantic feelings being present... in theory. Meaning, I can appreciate when a person is attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 04:54 PM
1

I don’t see what this has to do with anything I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 04:43 PM
2

Nah if you are willing to sleep with gross, old men for money, you are probably open to a lot more sexual experiences than the average woman and there is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 04:41 PM
1

I think this point stands more about short women wanting tall partners. Height is pretty minimally affecting a woman’s attractiveness and that’s only if they are significantly taller-shorter than average. So yeah, you can’t really tell a short woman that a tall guy is out of her league.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 09:04 AM
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Many women said that they stayed celibate for years, you see ONE woman who said 1 month and you lose your mind. You are just looking for the answer that will confirm your already established views.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 08:48 AM
1

I had an 8 month relationship when I was 19 and the next one I had (my current one) started at 23. So, single for 4 years. I had some casual sex, but even not that much of that either. I remember there was a two year period I had sex only once (not because I couldn’t, I am a woman, neither because I am ethically opposed to it; I I just didn’t feel like it. I went through a tough period with depression (unrelated to romantic relationships) and a 50 pound weight gain for a couple of years when I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 08:41 AM
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If a girl is a sugar baby at 18, chances are she’s had her fair share of sex in high school and she is still fucking chads for free on the side in college, while getting paid to sleep with men old enough to be her father.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 07:24 AM
10

I think many men care about the n-count because they are afraid of female hypergamy. If they know their SMV-RMV is not that high, they are afraid that these women are just settling for them, because they provide commitment and that they’d rather be with Chad. If a man is hot and successful, he isn’t afraid of competition and he finds her high n-count means he could potentially get to enjoy sex more with a more promiscuous and experienced woman. (Btw, I am a Greek girl too, never expected to find…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 07:22 AM
9

I think that old men (40-70) started hitting on me (like cold approaching me and asking for my number) or assaulting me (trying to rub their disgusting penis against my knee in the bus) when I was 13. By 18 I had been followed at night at least half a dozen of times (some with friends and some alone). It is also not a rare occurrence, all my female friends have had similar experiences. I think men don’t understand how scary and humiliating that can be, especially for younger girls. I remember wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:49 AM
3

Why do you think that happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:40 AM
1

So you’d rather get cancer than lose your job?? Really? I live in Greece where the unemployment is at an all time high and chemos are essentially free, but still my health is way more important than a job. I would be willing to clean the bathrooms at Macdonald’s if that meant to be healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 10:24 PM
4

I’d love to see the citations for that because according to the Kaiser Family Foundation men are more likely to be obese than women in the vast majority of the states.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:06 PM
2

You can try to get treated, but personally, I’d rather lose my job than get cancer. Don’t tell me that it’s easier to do chemo than to find a job- especially in America. Worse case scenario, you get a fast food job or whatever until you find something better. If no one hires you, the problem lies with you, not the moron managers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:03 PM
1

Yes, I prefer it because I am like that too 2-3-4-5-6-7 same as 1 No, I wouldn’t mind, I’ve cheated on exams before. I don’t know about this one. I would prefer that he has some work ethic, but it wouldn’t be a deal breaker for me, as long as he could keep his job. I am a woman btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 05:05 PM
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I disagree. Because first of all, health problems are way more important than being unemployed; you can’t really enjoy wealth if you are dead. Also, when a person is sick you can’t blame them for it, but there are many lazy, irresponsible people who can’t hold down a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 04:59 PM
78

Look at the women they are choosing to be with. Do you see any differences?
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/19 05:48 AM
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Do men actually think that lips can be bloody red? I think wearing makeup can be pretty obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 04:40 PM
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Oh I mean the latter yes. I meant it in the context “I would be okay with this becoming as socially acceptable as makeup”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 03:44 PM
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No, I didn’t say that at all, read my comment again until you manage to grasp what I am saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 03:14 PM
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I don’t think that bad boys are necessarily that bad in general; what I described was the image through the eyes of some girls. Most of the times, a “bad boy” is not necessarily an asshole with no aspiration in life. It’s just a guy who is confident and with a higher SMV than the girl who calls him a bad boy. Since he is fairly attractive and he has even a little game, he can get pussy and probably pussy better than her, so he doesn’t really try to appear mysterious; he just appears aloof becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 01:24 PM
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Because a bad boy is aloof and mysterious. So, some women like the mystery and the aloofness also indicates that he has options (which means he is considered desirable). Bad boys also tend to be more confident, which is a major turn on and all this confidence, paired with the fact that he is desirable, probably means that he is more attractive, or at least charismatic, than the average guy. They also need to work more for his attention, which makes it more valuable in the eyes of a woman. They w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 06:32 AM
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Women who wear makeup, women who sleep with many men, gay people, men with makeup, people who go to this college, people who are or are not religious, people who did this major, people who do that job, single mums, how you dress, how unfeminine it is to say fuck etc etc. I mean, everyone is entitled to what they like, but they don’t have to be judgemental about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 06:27 AM
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I wouldn’t mind if it was socially acceptable. When I was younger, I went out with a guy who wore a beanie on the first date; guess what, after a few dates I realized that he did it because his ears sticked out; a lot. This was kinda unattractive to me, but I didn’t get mad at him for deceiving me or anything! I realized it was an insecurity of him and that wearing the beanie would make him feel better for himself. I don’t understand why it was so easy for me to realize at 17, but so hard for gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 06:01 AM
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Yeah the thing is that they will like it only if they are into the guy. If they met through online dating for example, and they didn’t actually feel attracted to the guy when they met him, no matter how dominating the guy tried to be by kissing her, they would both end up in a difficult position.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 05:27 AM
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Oh I am with you. I am just stating the facts here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 09:27 AM
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I don't really agree here. I believe that no matter how realistic, sex robots is still glorified masturbation. Men would always prefer to sleep with someone who is entousiastic about them and wants to fuck them. Yes, even today, sometimes men just jerk it off to porn because it's easier, but the only men who only watch porn instead of having sex with women every once in a while are incels: very unattractive, socially disabled people. I think the same will happen with sex robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 09:25 AM
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Well does it really matter if she gets what she wants in the end? Even if the man suspects her but he ultimately decides he’d rather not know, she achieved what she wanted: getting commitment from a man who would be more reluctant if he knew the truth. However, I believe that you probably think that because the ones that you suspect are the ones hiding it worse. I think the most common one that really works, even if the girl has some stereotypical slut traits, is that the girl doesn’t hide being…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 09:02 AM
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Sexbots replacing women is like saying a textbot can replace chatting with friends. It can be a temporary fix, but in the end you are just by yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 08:40 AM
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Sure if I liked him why not, I don’t see where the problem is here. If anything, I would see it as a plus because that would mean he had the same liberal views on sex as I do. As long as it’s not some super weird porn like extremely hardcore with amputation and stuff like that; that would make me uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 05:27 AM
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Yes, because their standards are now higher since they don’t need to get married as much as they had to in the past (for financial and social reasons) so they’d rather stay unmarried than get married with someone they deem undesirable. That never changes: there are never enough desirable men for all the women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 09:15 PM
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Women know this is true because many have tried it and it works. A woman, if she has been pumped and dumped a few times can learn pretty fast that you should approach every man differently, depending on what you want for them; if you are even moderately smart and self aware. Also, no, you don’t necessarily cross paths with guys from her past, especially if you live in a big city and she has fucked with guys that are not in her circle anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 09:12 PM
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Why you have to be so judgemental of people who harm no one is beyond me. It might be that you are just a hateful person and you need to look down on someone to feel better about yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/19 06:54 PM
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Seems like she is living the life!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:28 PM
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Yeah you don’t need to take the test to know that you are sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:24 PM
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I think the test meant it as if it’s the man’s role as a male to fight or not cry; not as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:24 PM
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No, women (and men) sometimes cheat because of their own insecurities, poor impulse control, precious experiences etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:14 PM
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Tbh I think the kind of parents that prefer to send their kids to single sex schools tend to be the ones who wouldn’t accept their kid being non binary and would force them to identify with their biological sex, but I could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 03:39 PM
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I agree completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 06:26 PM
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Yes because they have sex with you because they can, because they are in a dry spell or whatever. They don’t desire you, they just feel meh about you. I don’t know why some men feel like it’s so good to have sex with someone that feels meh about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 06:26 PM
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On the other hand, the percentage of the women that would be open to a relationship with the man they have been sleeping with, is generally higher than the men who will have a relationship with the woman they are sleeping with. Women can get sex with no effort, that’s true and as a woman I guess it’s nice to know it, but it’s more a proof of men being thirsty than me being something special, so I don’t particularly care. Regardless, sex with random men who would never LTR you and would fuck you …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 03:41 PM
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You forget that women are much weaker by men, physically, so what’s stopping a man from attacking us in an isolated setting is simply his decent personality; and we can’t be always certain about that. So if it’s night and you are by yourself at an isolated place, catcalling will sound much differently than if you are at the grocery store. Especially if you have had someone take it too far; Personally, I’ve never met a woman who hasn’t been followed by a catcaller at least once. That’s scary shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 02:55 PM
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I think the reason why the depression rates are higher among mormon women, is because most of them don't get to choose taking up more feminine/traditional roles and getting married young with lots of children; all that stuff is forced upon them. I would be unhappy too if I was a Mormon, because I do like working and having a degree and not start popping up children every couple of years since I turned 19.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/19 09:56 AM
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Well it is kind of normal to take a little time to transition, but what you are describing here is a bit extreme. I'd say ease into it; don't go on dates just because it's now time. Only go on dates because you found someone you are very interested in and you have a good communication with. Also, vet better! You went out 3 times with a dude who has now proven to be an asshole, maybe the anxiety was your gut feeling telling you that this is not the kind of guy you should be going out with.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/19 09:38 AM
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Thank you for your answer, it actually answered a lot of my questions, I appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 06:26 PM
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How does marriage bond a couple after the divorce? Aside from alimony in case the woman doesn’t work which isn’t the case in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 05:24 PM
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Alimony? I thought that only applied if the woman didn’t work or if the wage gap between the spouses was fairly big. Otherwise, there is no alimony or a very small and unimportant one, insignificant to the child support money, isn’t that so? In the example above the woman is just earning a little less money than the guy, there isn’t a significant difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 05:15 PM
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Thank you for your answer. I didn’t know that being married is more binding than having a kid together. In my (European) country, the mother is going to receive the same amount of child support wether she is married to the father or not; as long as the kid is recognized. I thought it was the same for the rest of the western world. Isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 04:59 PM
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23F met my boyfriend 3 months ago on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 04:36 PM
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Can you explain that to me please? I consider living with someone and having a planned child together a bigger commitment than just going to the city hall and signing a paper or whatever. So why would you automatically assume that he is the one who didn’t want the marriage? It could be a mutual decision. And why would you lose respect for the woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 04:10 PM
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Not at all, I don’t tend to assume things about situations I know nothing about, also, I don’t think marriage is important anyway (am a woman btw). At this point if they have a family and a planned child together, that’s bigger commitment than a pice of paper. Hmm if that’s what she wanted for her life and he was like “nope” and then she stuck around... I wouldn’t really judge her, no. Maybe he was against marriage as an institution and she decided to compromise. Maybe. But still there are prenu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 04:04 PM
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How did you decide to go for it? I am thinking the only scenario where I would mayybe be open to them, would be to be after 30, with the same job and SO for many years and no will to really evolve too much in other aspects of my life. Otherwise I think kids would freak me out because I would think that I'd have to sacrifice my personal growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 02:42 PM
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I do want to end up living with someone I love at some point, but I don't particulary care about the actual marriage because I just view it as a fancy party and I am not particularly fond of parties. However, I do want to get married, not because I care about the ceremony or being Ms whatever (I am not going to take my husband's name anyway) but because I feel like the man would take our comittment more seriously. I think most men put more importance to marriage than I do, so I would want to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 12:14 PM
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Most of the times there isn't a celebration because someone chose a career path short of a few very prestigious exceptions dear, I think you were aware of that. But still, prostitution isn't normalized in the sense other manual professions such as being a builder or a maskot for a shop are. I am not saying that prostitution should be considered a prestigious profession (even though there are a few intelligent high end escorts with college degrees that earn more than doctors); I am just saying th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 01:06 PM
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Yeah, personally I think society should normalize such professions. YOU personally think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 12:43 PM
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For you and anyone else interested, here is a very interesting post on r/changemyview on the subject: https://www.reddit.com/r/changemyview/comments/cfmlk6/cmv_prostitution_should_be_legal/ I will edit my OP to add that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 11:19 AM
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Every woman is different, but from what I’ve heard, most women just need to be comfortable. A huge number of women can orgasm by themselves in 5 minutes or less through clitoral stimulation, but have trouble orgasming with a partner, especially if that partner is a man. So I don’t think the mental component is huge, it’s just that we have to be comfortable enough not to experience that block. And when the man is fingering you for two minutes expecting for you to cum, that doesn’t help you relax;…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 09:49 AM
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Because we can get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 09:10 AM
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That’s like the exception, not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 09:10 AM
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Wtf are you talking about? If I saw a man I would try to help and the same stands if I saw a woman. That’s called being a decent person and not a pathetic excuse of a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 09:05 AM
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So I guess that’s up to debate. I think there should be more in order to make an informed decision about prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 05:27 AM
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It’s 15. When you say profiting from sex you mean as a form of sex work or in the real dating world?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 05:26 AM
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I don’t necessarily agree with that. There are many professions that don’t really require an intellectual capacity, such as being a model. A friend of mine is a model and it is more of a respectable profession but she is still getting paid essentially to sell her body. Personally, I wouldn’t mind my daughter being a sex worker (or son, I have a male friend who is a stripper for bachelorette parties on the side, while also working as a builder and this profession is great for him) if she were old…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 05:25 AM
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And why is that bad exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 05:16 AM
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In that case I was replying to the person who claimed that being promiscuous with condoms is like saying “fuck you nature”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 11:41 PM
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You are the one claiming that women lie without even being asked their opinion, you should back up those claims. Since you are an expert theorist, you should know that you can’t make an outrageous claim and say “prove me wrong!” You make the claim and you provide evidence. Otherwise I would say that there is a spaghetti monster somewhere in the infinite universe and be right because, technically, no one can prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 11:38 PM
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Yeah but the post’s question is more like: would you get this Toyota for free or pay to ride in this lambo once?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 11:14 PM
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It’s a very broad question. I mean, I recognize that my boyfriend is not as objectively attractive as a friend of mine who is a male model, but I am sexually attracted to him, even though the male model is more physically attractive objectively. If the guy has the right personality and we have chemistry, he just has to not be appalling in order for me to find him irresistible. In that case, I’ll take the guy with the money, thank you very much. Now if we’re talking about poor with sexual compati…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 11:06 PM
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Sincere and direct can be two different things. If you know even the basics about women, it can be pretty easy to decode things like “your new haircut seems... interesting”. Women just don’t want to be rude, because they can’t get away with it by being called “assertive”; they are labeled as bitches. I don’t know if nature plays any part in that, it could very well do so, but you are just making observations here; even the scientific researches on that topic are contradictory, so don’t state you…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:56 PM
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When I say interesting, I mainly mean not significantly dumber than me and having a good flow in conversation with a couple of funny stories to tell and being reasonably outgoing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:50 PM
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They don’t notice them in the sense that they are not putting any effort in pursuing them; they are just open to fuck them a couple of times. Does that make these women less interested in men with lower SMV, when it comes to hookups? Yes, it is only natural. But I am wondering, why do some men feel like it would be so amazing to sleep with a woman who is only meh about them and doesn’t desire or respect them , just because they are the easy solution? Because that’s the equivalent a random Becky …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:44 PM
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I’d be open to it, but only if I didn’t like the guy a lot; otherwise I would feel possessive and I wouldn’t feel the need to fuck around anyway. So I would try it, but it would be temporary, I wouldn’t marry the dude. If I get married I want to be head over heels in a monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:35 PM
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I agree, but you can’t say “using a condom to have safe sex with lots of people is not natural and you shouldn’t stick the finger to Mother Nature” and then be like “natural is not always good and you shouldn’t give in to your natural instincts because you are not an animal”. Don’t you see that you are contradicting yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:30 PM
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My tastes vary from Chris hemsworth to Jason momoa, to Michael b Jordan. They are all conventionally attractive, tall, fit and somehow muscular I guess, with awesome hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:27 PM
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I think I would be open to try that, but mostly for the experience. I wouldn’t marry the person I would cuckhold, because I want to end up with someone that fulfills all my needs sexually and romantically.I feel like I’d fall out of love with my partner eventually, if we had any sort of open relationship, but that’s just how I view things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:13 PM
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I live in a country where prostitution is legal and I don’t mind that at all. However, I’ve read some research results that show that when prostitution is legal, illegal trafficking also increases. If that’s the case, it’s up for debate, but I am not an expert, so I can’t have an informed opinion. I do believe though that the legal age of prostitution should be 21 and not 18, I feel like 18 is too young to make such a decision (especially if you think that people can’t drink a beer legally in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:07 PM
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You do realize that sex is natural, right? Animals can be pretty sexually promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:01 PM
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I think it really depends on the individual’s personality (including upbringing, religious beliefs, curiosity to try different things etc). They should last for as long as the person is doing it because that’s what he/she wants and not out of habit or for things such as validation, avoiding commitment due to being afraid etc. Yes and yes. I can’t disclose a certain number; if the person is mentally and physically healthy I wouldn’t see anything wrong with having slept with even hundreds of peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 09:44 PM
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For me, that has actually kind of happened, but it was more complicated than that and I didn’t realize it until after a while. Sexual attraction does come easier to lots of people when the other person is very attractive and the more attractive that person is, the more likely they are to be out of your league. And yes, many people call instant sexual attraction coupled with the enthusiasm of having someone attractive interested in you “spark”.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/19 09:31 PM
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oh a troll lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 12:55 PM
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Oh I hate those. If the guy will not commit to me, then he better not be a whiny bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 08:23 AM
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No, I think she is talking about beautiful guys that kind of look like Greek statues or angels; beautiful in a feminine sense. Some women aren’t into them sexually (I don’t know why, it could even be low T) but can appreciate how beautiful they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 07:54 AM
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I don’t think there is a certain number for me, but it’s a big enough number that I would start worrying about their mental well-being if they gained so much weight. And the mental well-being would be a bigger concern for me than the actual weight I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 07:51 AM
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N= 25 ish I would be open to waiting, but it depends on the reasons. For example, if he was participating in a research where he had to be celibate for 3 months for some reason, I could wait, if I liked him a lot. If it was for religious reasons or because he was more conservative I wouldn’t wait, not because it’s physically a problem for me, but because we wouldn’t be compatible romantically anyway, since we would share very different values and I wouldn’t want to be with someone religious/trad…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 07:46 AM
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How would you explain women fawning over Ryan gosling and not an equally rich/famous but ugly celebrity? And why do you think men get way more matches on dating sites if they are attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 07:39 AM
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People are weird and often project things to people just because they want them to be true. If you are untalkative, that means they can project even more things on you, since they'll have even less information about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 10:09 AM
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Maybe you seemed mysterious if you are not very talkative. Or they thought you were a miserable tortured soul and some women find that somehow tragically attractive? I’ve been there when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 12:26 PM
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23F, had tinder before I met my boyfriend (I met him off tinder too). I’d say I would swipe right at 1/10 people and 8/10 of them would be a match. I think it’s a pretty standard experience for the average woman on a dating app. I initially swipe left or right mostly due to looks (though if someone is a bit below my physical standards but has a witty bio I sometimes swipe right; on the other hand, if a guy appears to be dumb and/or rude through his profile, it can make me swipe left, even if he …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 11:52 AM
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I’m probably different than most in this sub, but here it goes: 1st date- after 4-5 days of talking, ideally everyday Hug- after the first date if it’s good Kiss- depending on how long the first date lasted. For example, my first date with my boyfriend lasted for about 8 hours, so I felt comfortable kissing with him at the end. If it was a quick coffee, I would probably feel like waiting one or two more dates. Sex- I don’t know, like 5-6 dates in? Provided that we have a great chemistry and we t…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/19 06:37 PM
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The last part is not necessarily true. I have lots of experience with men and the reason why I’ve stayed in some of my relationships was because my previous FWBs didn’t want to commit to me, since I had a lower RMV than them (I used to be fat). So, if I wanted a relationship I had to somehow settle in the looks and sexual chemistry department. In the end, I couldn’t bare it, so I lost the weight and dating became so much easier for me, so I managed to have a boyfriend I am actually very attracte…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 10:00 PM
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When he does ask you questions and has a deep conversation with you, definitely reward him and tell him how much you enjoyed the conversation, in order to encourage him to do that more. And when you feel like sharing something, don’t wait for him to ask you, just do it, like he does too.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/19 02:50 PM
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What I was trying to say is that the majority of women I’ve met wouldn’t want to get married into a family of elitists, and since having a PhD matters mostly to this kind of people, we shouldn’t correlate finding a decent guy with having a prestigious degree in general. Your case is the exception, not the rule.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/19 01:45 PM
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I agree, this type of people do not have a backbone in order to stand up for who they love and they care more about what their family and social circle believes, than their partner’s feelings and I believe this will show up later in the marriage,
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/19 11:12 AM
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Well I think that this type of men appeal to women who want to get a PhD anyway and not even to all of them either (personally I would be put off if my SO’s family had such a mentality and he didn’t have the backbone to stand up for me if I wasn’t how they would want me to be). But getting a PhD to find a husband like that would be silly; you would need to want to do it anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/19 11:08 AM
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I guess you do have a point, but most of men don’t ever try to fix themselves, so it doesn’t really matter irl. Of course I guess that the flip side is that being a 50 year old man who has decent genes and takes care of himself automatically puts you on the top 5% of the men your age, so you have plenty of women to choose from, even sort of younger ones (35-45), especially if you have a decent income. But most 50 year old men look VERY bad, even worse than 50 year old women.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/19 07:02 AM
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Oh I’m sorry, I made another post that asked what RPW theories you disagree with, and I got them confused!
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/19 06:49 AM
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I think nun mode can be very helpful, actually. Why do you disagree with it?
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 10:38 PM
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I don’t consider myself an important part of the community; I equally enjoy TRP, TBP and the purple pill. It’s almost of a sociological interest for me to discuss this sort of things, I find them entirely fascinating.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 10:36 PM
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True, but people want to keep the hope alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 10:25 PM
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Of course not all women are meant to follow TRP; I don’t even believe I am a good example of a RPW myself. I am not religious, don’t really care wether I get married or not (I just see it as a party and I don’t really like parties), I don’t like housework (my BF does most of it) and I don’t regret having slept with multiple people. But I do believe that TRP can provide some knowledge on how certain things work; it’s not full proof of course but it has helped me personally.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 10:15 PM
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The thing is that many women come here because no man that they like wants to commit to them. They feel used when they get told that the guy is “not looking for something serious” for the 10th time, after they had sex. And there are some very useful rules, such as “don’t sleep with the guy before you get some sort of commitment, if that’s what you’re looking for”.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 10:12 PM
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Great tip!
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 10:01 PM
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What’s the biggest red flag in your opinion?
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 09:14 PM
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I bet that deep down you knew all that, you just weren’t ready, but ultimately, maybe that’s why you found TRP.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 04:59 PM
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I have yet to meet a man who doesn’t watch porn even occasionally (even a friend of mine who is demisexual watches porn like once a month), but I am sure that they exist (even though they must be kinda rare).
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 03:46 PM
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You are being ridiculously pedantic right now. Of course balding is not caused by marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 03:15 PM
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Of course I am not holding it against them, but it is something that makes men objectively unattractive in the eyes of many women (especially if you combine it with other things such as being unfit). I didn’t say they are to blame more than women’s boobs becoming saggier with age for example.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 03:09 PM
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That’s great! What do you think was the most regrettable thing?
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 03:08 PM
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That's a bitter pill to swallow.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 02:50 PM
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It's not just about finding a man who agrees to do it; I am not willing to marry a guy that I haven't lived with at least for a year.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 02:48 PM
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I agree, especially with your first point. The number of men going bald, having a belly and generally letting themselves go (especially when they get married), is far greater and more intense than the women equivalent, at least in my experience.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 02:47 PM
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This was a pretty unique situation, but I think it was definitely a wise choice and I am glad it worked out well for you!
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 02:45 PM
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Thank you for the link! I looked into it and it was definitely some food for thought!
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 02:44 PM
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That's actually a very interesting perspective, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 02:43 PM
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Yes there are many numbers between 1-10, but in general people want the best that they can get (not only in terms of appearance, but in other aspects too). Of course there are more things, but sex is the only thing that you can’t outsource, if you are in a monogamous, committed relationship (without being an asshole and cheating at least). So, I’d rather deal with some other minor incompatibility (for example, he doesn’t like board games), because I can do that thing with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 01:27 PM
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Hm I guess that could be rephrased as "enforcing boundaries"? That would be a big one for me too.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 01:14 PM
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Hahaha ok I'd like some more details; what about yourself you feel like is counter productive regarding your dating goals?
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 01:09 PM
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In that case, that could mean that they choose to stay in an unhappy marriage just because they are against divorce. If that's true, then I am not sure that not living together is better, but I am not religious at all and only interested in dating non religious people (luckily they are the majority in my country) so I might be biased.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 01:08 PM
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Because many people need to be physiacally attracted to their partners, in order to have sex with them without dreading it and resenting them. And sex is, more often than not, an important factor for a successful relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 01:05 PM
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That's interesting. Why do you think that is?
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 12:50 PM
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The female red pill is about getting men that you find worthy and desirable-attractive to commit to you and have a successful relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 11:48 AM
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Yes, I don’t see the disagreement; I am just saying that if a woman is interested in a LTR, she could benefit by noticing the type of women her preferred men go for. I’ve found that there are some similarities most of the time. Also, she has to be happy and confident with herself, because desperation will only get her someone desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 06:50 AM
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Of course, I’ve found that only when I decided that “well, if he wants a FWB situation, I will have to leave him. It’s not a big deal, I will survive”, instead of trying to sleep with him in the hopes that he develops feelings for me in time (how pathetic); only then was I able to have a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 05:18 AM
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No I think that men by default will sometimes try to plate you instead of LTR, so you have to be feminine and also have boundaries in order to bypass that. It’s like the shit tests, but in reverse. Men think they want this or that, but in reality, their actions show that they want something very different. They say they don’t like girls who eat salads on dates, but they like skinny girls; they say they don’t like high maintenance girls who take two hours to get ready, but these girls are the one…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 05:12 AM
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I think that’s the best comment so far. From the OP’s comments I gathered that the problem was not so much that she is masculine (as she said, she is not aggressive or confrontational; she said she is more on the submissive side). The problem is that she is not good at flirting or showing affection and she lacks social skills. And I think these are things someone can improve with time and effort, without changing who they are as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 09:14 PM
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Nah I’ve been like that until about 22, because I thought that’s what men wanted and it only resulted in FWB situations because I was so chill and low maintenance, so I was alright with “going with the flow”. Let me tell you, when I became more feminine by stereotypical standards, was the moment when men started to take me seriously. That’s the hard truth, from my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 09:11 PM
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I think this is completely subjective and anecdotal but, most of all, it depends on your perspective. Speaking from personal experience, men tend to be way more aggressive when driving (I've been called names several times because I was late to start my car at the green light for half a second- and it's only the men). On the other hand, I've found that female bathrooms are way filthier than the male ones (I guess it's due to periods+not having the ability to pee standing up, so they squat and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 02:16 PM
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I don't think that unicorns exist in the sense most men I see in TRP describe them. I feel like sometimes men want to feel 100% secure that their SO will never leave them; they want to feel completely comfortable in a relationship without having to put too much effort. Don't get me wrong, I am sure there are plenty of women who are genuinely good people; but they require some effort. Someone can be nice and still get tired of you for one reason or another. Besides, even if the AWALT doesn't appl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 12:23 PM
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Well they don’t do it though, so that probably means that they do hold some sort of power, albeit different than the one men possess. Of course what you are claiming is precisely that- a claim; we can’t really know for sure how it would go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 08:40 AM
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Yes, but why? How would that benefit those men to give them those rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 06:55 PM
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So how would you explain the fact that women have (at least on paper in the vast majority of the western society) equal rights to men? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 06:53 PM
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I kind of agree that most of them are kinda sad, but I do think they have many options since they are willing to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 05:28 PM
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I’m not that concerned in the sense that I wouldn’t reject someone for having slept with 1 or 20 people. I’ve asked my boyfriend out of plain curiosity, so I know his but he didn’t ask me back and explicitly told me that he doesn’t care, so I haven’t told him mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 05:18 PM
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I agree and I’ve seen it’s actually very common for men to have a hot wife and cheat on them with someone who looks way worse. In case they are doing it because their spouses are prudes, then the fact that they choose to only have sex with the ugly ones and commit to the pretty ones (even if they don’t put effort in bed) is telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:20 PM
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So cute! I can fake right now in the middle of the work day while eating my omelette and every man would be convinced. It's hilarious!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:35 PM
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I was 17 and lost it to a (then) good friend from school. He was average looks and popularity wise, but he was kind of smart, but the bad kind of smart, the one that would be a bit manipulative and would make you feel kinda bad about yourself sometimes. He was middle class and didn't have a car (you have to be 18 to drive in my country) and we did it in his bedroom. The next guy I slept with was much more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:29 PM
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Maybe the women who do all the housework are more likely not to work? That could explain being more willing to have sex since: They wouldn’t be as tired They would want to please their husband for being the sole breadwinner
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 05:12 PM
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Maybe it has to do with the fact that if an average woman has such an objective, chances are, she will find what she is looking for relatively easily; the same does not apply for men. So, she doesn’t consider it a big accomplishment or something and she is not that excited about it because it was something obvious and expected. That could also explain why women don’t really remember the specifics as the OP said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 07:14 AM
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I mean, the specific person was nuts anyway. I was talking in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 11:42 AM
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You still gotta pay child support, even with a prenup. Plus, a major reason why women see a man being rich as an advantage and decides to have a child because of that. it's partly because she is after the child support money. Why would a woman decide to have someone's child if she had to raise it on her own and pay for everything herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 11:15 AM
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There was always a top 20% and a bottom 80% and 60 years ago women were marrying men they were not attracted to way more often (because they had to, since it was harder for a woman to support herself and women were judged for having casual sex, so they needed men to fulfill their financial and physical needs). At least now, they can use them as providers for as long as they want, have the children they want and divorce them when they are ready for the next chapter of their lives, while also gain…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 08:43 AM
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Awww that’s cute
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 08:10 AM
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As a woman, I guess a few minutes on a dating app would be sufficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 07:41 AM
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It does and that would be very convenient for men and women to be so distinctly different; I’ve commented on TRP a couple of times and men still try to convince me that I’m a man. I have a two year old account with over 70 posts and countless comments that prove that I’m a woman; why I would lie about that is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 06:43 AM
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As a woman myself, I truly believe that it could be a woman. What men often fail to understand is that many women know the red pill theory without even knowing its name, just from experience. We just don’t talk about it in a blunt way because we don’t want to be judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 10:15 PM
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Exactly! Personally I am bisexual, does that mean I can't have any "real" friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 12:22 PM
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In my opinion, the fact that someone might have had some sexual thoughts a few times towards their friend, does not hinder their friendship. For example, I (24F) have a good male friend (27M), whom I consider to be objectively above average in the looks department; we've been friends for 5 years and we've been working together (he is now my boss) for 3. During some periods in the first couple of years of our friendship, when I was single and/or lonely, the thought of flirting with him crossed my…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 09:23 AM
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Abuse, addiction of any kind, gambling, cheating, repeatedly lying about important stuff (such as finances), lack of sex over a big period of time, mental health problems that they are not willing to work on, vastly different goals in life (such as wanting children as opposed to being childfree).
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 08:45 AM
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It would be a plus for me, sure, but I would have to like him too. I think imo it would add about 1 point to his RMV. So, I wouldn’t date someone just because of that, but if I was on the fence with someone, I would probably give them a better chance because of that. And I think that kinda makes sense, because if you are on the fence with someone, romantic chemistry can be created easier in a 5-star hotel bedroom looking at the ocean while drinking champagne, than on his roomate’s couch, watchin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 02:23 PM
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I guess kissing for me felt ok because I saw it more as an expression of romantic feelings, rather than sexual feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 07:36 AM
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It’s not like my current boyfriend has more money than I do, and we don’t even live together so I don’t think he qualifies as BB. It’s just that he is willing to be committed and have a meaningful relationship with me. Is that supposed to be a BB?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 11:38 PM
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I don’t really care about marriage; maybe because I am not religious or spiritual at all, idk. But I think there isn’t a big difference in your day to day life if you are living together vs if you are married. I would consider getting married for practical reasons, such as if I wanted to have kids because it’s easier that way I guess, but I don’t even know if I want kids (I am almost 24 so I have some time to change my mind but who knows). I would also probably get married as a favor if it was v…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 11:36 PM
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I’ve actually only made a post there, because I was mostly curious about why people are still single in that age if they don’t want to. If you scroll down my post history you’ll see that my age is 23 (turning 24 in a few months).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 10:20 PM
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He doesn’t feel that way so 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 01:21 PM
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I know I am not; a couple of the girls he has been with are objectively more attractive than I am and there is that. But I would never like to hear that from him, because if he cared enough to tell me, that would mean he is not happy with me. Some things are better left untold. Personally, I like to pretend in my head that even though those girls might objectively look better, he is so in love with me that he doesn’t really see that. I know it’s probably not true, but I kinda feel like that too,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 12:45 PM
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That’s true. It was so heartbreaking and sad to be seen only as a FWB material every time, that I had to look into myself and see what I had been doing wrong. If it happens to you all the time it can’t only be bad luck or guys being assholes. I can’t imagine how some women keep going through that time and time again for decades without changing their tactics. It sounds like a miserable life!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 12:39 PM
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Yes, I think sexual attraction and love can exist without the other one being present. I’ve been sexually attracted to people in the past and I certainly didn’t know them well enough to love them. And I have been in a relationship in the past where I loved the other person as a partner and had romantic feelings for him (wanted to cuddle, kiss, etc) but I was not sexually attracted to him to the point I tried to avoid sex as much as possible, especially towards the end. And that was eventually th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 11:31 AM
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I don’t have instagram and I upload stuff on FWB mayybe once a year, but if I would never delete any social media for a man because that seems controlling to me. I would also never demand such a thing from him. Now, if I was obsessed with social media to the point where I would ignore him during dates in order to upload numerous selfies, then that’s a complaint I would understand is coming from a good place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 10:37 AM
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I am almost 24 but I think my standards are way different than they were on 18. They now are both lower and higher, in a weird way. When I was younger I had higher standards on a superficial level. I was dating out of my league and then was the embodiment of the surprised Pikachu face meme, when extremely hot and successful men would fuck me, but not commit to me. Now, I have higher standards when it comes to how I want to be treated. I still need to be attracted to the guy and I am very attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 10:07 AM
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I was ready to tell you that you’ve probably been through this before and you know the drill, so in the end you can decide whatever you want. But then I saw you are a virgin. So yeah, don’t do it and no he is not worth it and he is not going to commit.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/19 06:49 PM
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Well personally I am 23 years old and since I was like 16 it was either beta guys who liked me but I wasn’t very excited about, or the opposite. At one point, I remember that I was sitting with my (older) sister who had the same problem and we were talking about how unhappy and unlucky we are regarding relationships and why some girls (including a few friends of ours) never seem to have a problem with men committing to them. So we just observed them and talked about it with them and found the co…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 10:10 AM
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I can’t give you precise instructions because it depends on the guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 07:30 PM
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I agree, I am talking about how it is viewed by society in order to answer OP’s question.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 05:29 PM
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I mean, everyone is better than Neymar. And I know many dumb women who would sleep with him because he is Neymar.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 03:58 PM
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I’ve been fuckzoned by an alpha before, probably because he deemed my DMV not high enough for him, which is something I totally understand. Btw I am the one who decided to stop being FWB and he tried to get back with me a few times but I declined. I’d say he made it more difficult for me to go back to dating more beta guys who actually would commit to me, but if you know about TRP you can work on that. What I did was get to a healthy BMI so I can get more of the guys that I like interested in me…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 03:56 PM
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I think, although rare, they do exist and they also exist in a scale. For example the hot college guy who is very popular can get many different pretty college girls every weekend easily, but an extremely famous and hot football player can sleep with hot Instagram models everyday without putting any effort at all. The most important quality I’d say would be status and then charisma, money and looks (in no particular order).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 03:48 PM
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Because wanting sex is deemed as more shallow than wanting a relationship, since relationships require a deeper connection, feelings, respect etc. Of course, no one should be entitled to sex or a relationship by anyone, but since romantic relationships are supposed to be more “pure” and based on love (all the media contribute to that by portraying romantic relationships as something selfless and ideal) it’s considered more socially acceptable to call someone who will not commit to you (but will …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 03:43 PM
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A friend of mine is decently attractive (I’d say a 7.5/10) and still struggled a lot during the first day. After I helped him improve his profile a bit and told him to just swipe right on anyone and filter out who he likes after he gets matches, he got around 5 messages back in a week. I am curious though, if the girl doesn’t write anything in her bio, then how do you know she is borderline and has no hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 07:21 PM
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If you are not able to find someone matching your standards for a long period of time, then your standards are too high. The truth is probably somewhere in the middle. The women on dating apps have very high standards because, simply, they can. And that’s because plenty better looking and more interesting men than you, are willing to match with them, go out on a date with them and fuck them. Even an obese, ugly 40 year old woman can find ten one night stands in a matter of hours in most cases. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:27 PM
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I honestly agree with you.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/19 11:00 AM
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I think you can be a feminist and redpill too. I am more on the left/liberal side politically and socially, but still want a meaningful relationship with someone and maybe even a kid one day. I also never want to become a stay at home wife/mom, but I want my future husband to be working hard for our family and I don’t judge women who want to take on the stay at home role. Feminism is about women having the right to choose what they want in their life, not about being man hating karens who paint …
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/19 08:56 PM
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Definitely do that if that’s what you both want, but after all you are a human being, you are bound to make mistakes sometimes do building a good foundation for communication is going to be very useful for when it happens.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/19 11:25 AM
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I think that at this point it would be very beneficial to try couples counseling instead of just going to therapy individually (you can do that too of course). If it has gotten to a point that you have to walk on eggshells because of what you’ve done in the past, it will be very hard to make it work. You need to improve your communication.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/19 10:10 AM
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I’d highly recommend that you take a look at the top comment on this post right now, if that happens to you often. It really opened my eyes.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/19 12:55 PM
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You know what, you are right. And honestly, that makes me feel so much better, sort of relieved. Because that makes me feel like there isn’t something wrong with me as a person, that there’s something I am doing wrong and I was just born to be “that girl”, it is mostly about a mismatch; I can live with that because it’s something I can control. It is easy to be confused if a man seems to like not only having sex with you, but also your enjoy personality and hanging out with you in general. As a …
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/19 12:53 PM
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That was a very interesting read, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/19 12:56 AM
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Thank you for your comment, it is actually very interesting and I will definitely look to that book. Your point about some women being an equivalent of “nice guys” is spot on and I think I have felt like this in the past. The only think that I’d like to point out, is that in order for the man to chase the woman in the first place, he has to have at least the same DMV with that woman, if not a bit lower one.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/19 12:55 AM
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Hey! That’s actually exactly what I was looking for! I was mostly talking about the possibility when he is open to date you in the beginning but then you lose your opportunity after a while through not gaming him right. That was a very interesting read, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/19 12:47 AM
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Hey thank you for your comment, it was really enlightening and it actually made me happy for having made this post. I think that any woman in this sub would benefit from it. As I said in my previous comment, I was partly talking from past experience since I used to be a BMI 31, but I am currently at 25 and aiming at 20-22. I definitely think you are right, but I would also be interested to know if there is a way that RPW could maximize their DMV in other areas besides looks besides the generic a…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/19 12:43 AM
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That's actually a great point! I was considering on adding that to my OP, but it was already too long, so I decided to skip it. I can guarantee, from first hand experience, that what you are saying has a lot of truth into it. When I was fat (BMI: 31) and self consious, I knew that this was a disadvantage, but I thought that I could get an average guy, since I was fortunate to have a very attractive face, nice style and good personality. And I actually could get some average guys to be interested…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/19 03:37 PM
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I think it depends. As a woman, I have been in two FWB situations that I was really happy about and plenty that I regretted. It depends on what you are looking for in a certain phase of your life. For example, when I was studying abroad and knew that I would be back in my home country in a few months, but I still wanted sex and male company, I knew that there was no point in looking for a relationship and opted for a FWB situation instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 12:12 PM
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Well if he doesn’t compliment your body because he thinks that’s crude, why is he feeling comfortable complimenting the other woman’s body in front of you? Isn’t that crude too? I’m thinking, could it be possible that he has a Madonna whore complex?
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 06:03 AM
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So you don’t talk often and when you do he is done quickly, you were the last one to text and he wasn’t excited neither did he try to add to the conversation and now he isn’t texting you? I am sorry but, from what you’ve said here, he doesn’t seem that interested.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/19 09:05 AM
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You can text first every once in a while, if you never do you risk him thinking that you are not into him. How often you guys talk and what percentage of the time do you text first normally,’?
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/19 06:35 AM
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Well, as with everything, if a problem you have gets to a point where it decreases your life quality, you need to see a therapist. This has turned into a huge obsession/addiction for you and only a professional can help you. Seriously, your job and well being is on line here, no advice random women on the internet give you can solve your problem.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/19 08:26 PM
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Processed foods are definitely unhealthy, but not consuming them does not mean you won’t get fat. Getting fat is all about how many calories you consume vs how many calories you burn; and if you eat too many avocados and olive oil, you can definitely gain weight. On the other hand, I lost 30 pounds by eating stuff like chips, candy and pre-packaged ramen everyday, because I was counting my calories (although I don’t recommend it, since it’s not healthy).
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/19 08:27 AM
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Thank you for your answer! I agree that going to the dude’s place only to reject him when he makes a move, can make things unnecessarily complicated and uncomfortable.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/19 07:06 PM
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Wow that’s amazing advice! Thank you so much! If you don’t mind me asking, when is a good time (at which dat?) for a first kiss, in your opinion?
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/19 05:54 PM
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As a bisexual myself, I think I would actually be happy because that would mean we would have something more in common. Being bisexual can sometimes be frustrating on a level most people don’t get, unless they are bisexual themselves. As far as his masculinity is concerned, I don’t think it would take a hit in my eyes. Many men have the tendency and feel the same sex attraction even a little bit, but only a few are open minded enough to try it (and admit it) so that would make me feel that he is…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/19 06:28 AM
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That’s an interesting point. Actually, one of them (my friend who lied about the cheating) just moved in with her boyfriend and he definitely wants to get married with her since he wants to have kids and start a family (he is 34 while my friend is 24); my friend is the one who wants to delay it for a few years because she is very young and hasn’t finished her degree yet. The other couple have only be together for 2 years and they are both in their 20s; in my country that’s way too early to get m…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/19 12:07 PM
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Why are you bringing this to me again? I already said that I don’t feel like I have anything that I should hide. So why do you keep trying to insult me?
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/19 01:32 PM
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Thank you, I think that your argument is one of the most convincing in this post. I’d argue that omitting information would work for some women who really regretted their choices and feel like they are now a different person. But sometimes, a certain information about the past can create an unfavorable impression that could sometimes not even be the case; at least not anymore. Maybe the guy wouldn’t walk out on her if he had the chance to meet her, but had he known that from the beginning, he wo…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/19 01:07 PM
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Well, in the case that the harm is already done though (if you have already a doubtful past), it’s either you run a severe risk that you never find someone that you are attracted to to commit to you, or you can just lie about it (or omit the information) and be with someone that you are attracted to. In that case, it depends on wether he could easily find out the truth; if you were a pornstar, it would be stupid to try and hide it, but if you just had a lot of tinder one night stands ten years a…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/19 01:04 PM
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So, TRP is not amoral after all? I just discovered it a few days ago and I am trying to learn.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/19 01:00 PM
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Still though, I think there are more chances of success for a girl like this to lie, rather than trying to find a good looking, successful, alpha guy who would be ok with her cocaine history (and possible high n-count) right from the beginning. Otherwise she would have to settle even more. Edit to add: she didn’t lie to him exactly, she had told him from the first month that she had tried cocaine (and he has too). She just didn’t reveal him how often she did it and how much. She did that on her …
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/19 12:56 PM
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Thank you for your response. You have a point here: lying just to get laid a couple of times is different and more emotionally taxing than lying during a whole marriage. And I can understand that some people have the need to be honest and open with their lifelong partners; it makes them feel accepted. I actually think that’s the reason why my boss’s girlfriend eventually confessed him (combined with the fear of him finding out of course); he is quite alpha and she must have really felt the need …
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/19 09:03 AM
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I don’t think that omitting some information about your sexual past and murdering people are comparable. And why do people here keep trying to make this about me. I was just asking a theoretical question, since I recently discovered TRP. I read on the sidebar that TRP is amoral, isn’t that the truth?
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/19 08:51 AM
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I think that most people tell white lies if they are going to benefit from them in their day to day life. Wether lying about your sexual history is a white lie or not, I am not here to argue about that, but I do know many women who have lied about how many people they have slept with and their husbands haven’t found out. They seem to be living very happy lives, so I was wondering why TRPW is against lying. And I don’t want this to get personal, this is a theoretical question, I don’t feel like I…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/19 08:49 AM
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As you can see, most women do not agree with my post anyway, so it’s pointless to generalize due to one post. Also, as I said in my post, it’s not like I am planning to do it myself, I have nothing that I feel like I should lie about. Not to mention that in TRP, men are advised to lie and manipulate all the time on the basis that TRP is amoral (if you read that passage on the sidebar on how to get yourself a “cumdumpster” it gets much worse than that). So, it’s not like this is about gender anyw…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/19 08:44 AM
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You are definitely a man, that’s no how it works.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/19 07:20 AM
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I do believe that you have a point, but I think that most of the times, a man can’t really find out about your past. Especially if it’s a woman in her late 20’s who has moved for work, the possibilities of a man finding out about her slutty phase when she was 19 and lived 4 states away, are next to none. In that case, why would it be a bad strategy to lie?
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/19 05:25 PM
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I guess, but I think it would be better if someone used bold, but somewhat good lines.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 09:51 AM
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Most of those (especially the bad intentions one) are cringey.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 08:31 AM
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There is the ability for a woman to have sex with any man, yes, but that doesn't mean they are excited. That's why most escorts carry lube with them.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/19 06:26 PM
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Whatever you do on a regular basis that gives you money, is work. Prostitution is not only work, it can be an unpleasant one too. Even if they lie like a dead fish, think about the reverse scenario. Imagine that you'd have to go to work every day and several ugly, fat, rude women (that might or might not have an STD) ride you until they come, one after the other, while at the same time thinking they are better than you. Plus, you would have to eat their pussy until they orgasm, because in genera…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/19 10:33 AM
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This woman in particular, lied about how many people she slept with DURING her relationship with you. Why wouldn't she lie about how many partners she had before she met you? An attractive woman able to have a drunken one night stand while she is in a real, has definitely had more than two partners by 25. And besides, I don't think it works like that. You can't know the amount of guys a woman has slept with, judging by her performance in sex. You said she already had one LTR before you met her. …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 10:35 AM
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It is how it is. If you don't like it, you can become a volcel.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/18 08:33 PM
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According to the graph above a 99 year old man is more desirable than a 45 year old woman. Yeah, I don't really think so. Also, when a man is 60 years old, yes he might still ideally prefer a woman who is 40 years old or under (and that's not always the case if he wants a serious relationship because he won't have so much in common with her) but he wouldn't mind at all landing a 50 year old woman who looks good for her age.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/18 07:57 PM
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As a European, prostitution is legal in some countries yes, and several married men visit brothers, but most of the times the wife doesn't know about that. It is not socially acceptable.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 10:59 AM
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It's not like there aren't female dominated manual jobs though. Of course women aren't going to dominate a field where physical strength matters, but what's the percentage of male house cleaners? On the other hand, white collar jobs do not require exceptional physical strength or any other masculine trait, so why wouldn't women want to be able to get them?
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 09:34 AM
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TBH if your only interests have to do with science, software or electronics, then you are the boring one. And if that's all you are willing to talk about to women, I can't imagine how that would be a success. You also seem a little immature; the mentality men like computers, women like cooking is just very simplistic. Try to grow as a person, get some deeper and more varied interests and then maybe you'll find it easier to make friends with both men and women.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 11:32 AM
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Allowing to your female child to be always dependent on a "daddy" is the most guaranteed way to make her a mess of an adult.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 02:54 PM
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When we are talking about a serious committed relationship, some providing is bound to happen. Because, even if the guy is alpha as fuck (in fact, especially if he is) the woman will want him to commit to her and provide things for her, so she'll want him to take her seriously. That's why she won't put out too quickly, even if she wants to. There are three reasons why a woman will have sex on you on the first date: She likes you, but not enough to pursue a relationship with you. She likes you an…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 03:00 PM
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Needs to prove herself by appearing as a low value slut? I don't think so. Women may desire sex, but they don't think with their dick and they can restrain themselves when they have to.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 02:52 PM
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Lol. Classic red pill. In a previous post I was reading how most divorces are initiated by women. In another one I was reading about how much money your ex wife will take from you if you divorce, especially if there's a kid involved and how a divorced man's life sucks. Now you are saying that a single mum was definitely dumped by the man and the ex is definitely hanging out with younger, hotter women. Like wtf? Have some consistency maybe?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 02:49 PM
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Yeah but when girls want something more serious, they won't sleep with you right away because they don't want you to think they are a slut and "not relationship material".
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 08:30 AM
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And what if she asks for a second date but doesn't want to fuck so soon?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 06:50 AM
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Well, I don't know about the U.S. (although I figure it's no different from Greece) but personally, I know the penis size of most of my friends' boyfriends and ex boyfriends. Of course we don't admit that to men, we want to seem classy. But especially in late teens and early twenties, it happens very much, because it's a fun talk. Everybody has been saying that I seem to them like a male because I speak rationally, or because I say that girls like hot bodies and talking about sex. You guys on th…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 02:48 PM
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I get your point. Just so you know, I am from Greece, so not really an equalistic backround, even though I personally tend to view the whole "dating" game as a man. Anyway, to each their own I guess. It's pretty late here (2am) so I think it's time to sleep. It was nice talking with you :)
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 11:04 PM
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Ok, one last reply, just to clear things up. Personally, I find the whole red pill thing quite sexist, however it does seem interesting to me, so why shouldn't I leave some food for thought? Please, have an open mind and remember that a different perspective (especially if it comes from a female) could actually help you learn something. Many girls' parents have been telling them from a really young age that they should lock down a good, rich guy in order to live a comfortable, care free life. An…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 10:29 PM
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Hello! Actually I created this account a while ago and this is my second comment and yours is my first reply. I am surprised by the fact that my writing seems male-like to you, I thought that the way I write is actually visibly female. Maybe it's because English isn't my first language? Anyway, yes I am a girl, and I understand that you might not believe me, but I don't think this is the point. Wether I am a male or not, I made some points in my comment (which I consider sensible) and I would li…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 09:42 PM
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As a 22 year old woman myself, I have to say that you do have some good points. However, if a young woman is smart, attractive and knows how to work for her best interest, will either: 1) find a guy in his 30s with a good job and/or family fortune and try to make him marry her by the time she is in her late 20s. That way, she will get all the benefits of money and experience without having to deal with saggy bellies, reduced endurance and "been there, done that" attitudes. 2) find an old guy lik…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 09:31 PM
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