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DISCUSSIONunixygirl/r/RedPillWomen21/10/17 06:05 PM
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ADVICEunixygirl/r/RedPillWomen03/12/16 07:53 PM
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ouch
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/19 06:08 AM
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it’s really all about censorship at this point which is why the discussions feel so fake in many subreddits, were increasingly left with an echo chamber
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/19 02:26 PM
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I guess you’d rather this sub not advocate for traditional family values at the best interest of OP and instead tone police members of our community?
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/19 08:57 PM
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wait... you’re living with a man and you’re not married to him? girl that’s you’re mistake right there. what do you mean, youre not interested in marriage? are you stupid? the man OWNS the house and as you age and he decided he found some hot thing he can remove you from the house and guess what? you get nothing, doesn’t matter how much you’ve helped him pay for the house, it’s not yours, it’s his...
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/19 08:26 PM
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Why would anyone give up their say in the household finances? Holy crap this is the worst advice or goal I think I’ve ever seen on this sub... It is absolutely critical that both you and your husband discuss money and discuss it frequently and understand where it’s going, where it’s at, what it’s going to do long term, and what are the short term priorities.
/r/RedPillWives30/06/19 07:27 PM
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We set clear expectations before hand and eventually that became second nature. Essentially disappointment is a failure to live up to expectations and to the extent that you can have reasonable expectations you can eliminate disappointment entirely. Sometimes disappointment happens due to the world though, one of you or both you tries everything and for whatever reason or sequence of events things fail. In that case it’s critical to be understanding and kind to each other.
/r/RedPillWives30/06/19 07:24 PM
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Talk to your husband about ventilation in the kitchen. Best way to prevent lingering food smells is to suck that aroma out of the house. Stir fries are notorious for smelly after products because they’re so hot and the oil stinks. Seriously, ventilation.
/r/RedPillWives30/06/19 07:19 PM
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Yes you should be okay with this. Destination bachelor/ette parties are perfectly normal for couples getting married who are mid-upper class. It sounds like your boyfriend is in a good place with his career or the people who he knows and him reinforcing those relationships is a positive thing for his life (and your’s should you two get married). Which if you do get married it would be reasonable to assume that the same group he’s going to go with to Amsterdam would also probably attend your wedd…
/r/RedPillWives30/06/19 07:08 PM
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Wait, why shouldn't you expect to be pursued by a man? That's literally what they do.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/17 06:24 PM
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Being chased is a great feeling but maybe it's just the environment you two are in... Have you asked him to grab a drink or something after class? You could say "hey i'm really craving xyz want to come with me?" (think friendly and unassuming) and then if he accepts, really up the level of flirtation, touch his arm when you laugh, let him grab the door, get him to walk with you and and hold on to his arm. If you're in line with him somewhere or even in class talk softly and closely to him, lean …
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/17 06:23 PM
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this is really sweet 😊
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/17 06:04 PM
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totally! but he just loves it when i fix a nice dinner and treat him like a king. so it's a bit of both at our house and it really depends on how he's feeling.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/17 06:02 PM
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this makes me think of vocal fry and how annoying it is post is 10/10
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/17 05:10 PM
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Honestly I don't think the writer represents RPW at all. I mean the essay by Kris Gage she cites at the beginning is basically the blue pilled liberal woman this sub discourages us to be. Because that example is continually referenced throughout the article, all of her points are based on false pretenses. and WOW look at that comment section. Unattractive women complaining about women who keep house and defer to their man. Typical.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/17 04:15 AM
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OP you say it's hard to find a job in it (your degree: Humanities) but what exactly would you say qualifies as a job in "it"? Do you have a list?
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/17 04:31 PM
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what is your degree in?
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/17 08:15 AM
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This is just leftist drivel trying to tear apart the idea of monogamy and heterosexual relationships. Your relationship will always take work, sometimes it's with kids, sometimes it's with communication, sometimes it's with sex. The idea that women are the ones who get board with monogamy is completely offensive and it reads like the bluest of blue pill nonsense that encourages women to sleep around, dress like a whore, and hate men.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/17 11:40 PM
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You have to preface this with IF. Just note that folks. What are you going to do? Poll men she knows if they've had sex with her? You're not going to find out anything unless you a) do the above (beta) b) she's a complete whore and there's some record c) take the word of someone else over her's In all of these cases these are relationship BREAKERS and it wasn't a high n-count.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/17 12:52 AM
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of course not.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/17 12:50 AM
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job is to raise healthy children spend time worrying about unfaithful man poor choice in man sets bad example for children man is a bad example for children literally failing as a mother can't figure things out gets therapist to figure things out therapist says leave man doesn't loses therapist still can't figure things out comes to RPW "leave that man" makes excuses children come second to mom's drama selfish
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/17 05:41 AM
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I'm going to be frank. You're failing your children by staying with this man. Stop being selfish.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/17 02:36 AM
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You can't blame other people for your lot in life. That's not how it works.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/17 02:34 AM
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You can take pills for this. Talk to your doctor, work out a plan, try different medications.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/17 08:15 PM
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echoing what someone else has said i completely agree here. I earn double of what my husband makes and that's OK. He's still captain of this ship and I'd be lost without his guidance and stoicism that brings balance to our lives.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/17 08:10 PM
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For what it's worth I don't think any man, unless he's less intelligent than you, would mind having an engaging intellectual conversation. It's when you do that with him in front of company that you run the risk of making him feel undermined.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/17 01:51 AM
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OP I am so sorry. At this stage I think open communication with your husband is best, maybe show him this thread you made, actually. I also really think marriage counseling would be smart at this point. And to echo what others said—he needs to find someone else to work this job, because it's putting your family in danger of being broken (and you should communicate such to him as well) I just want to say also, I'm so disappointed to hear that he isn't prioritizing his family over dinner dates wit…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/17 04:05 AM
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Yeah well, I disagree. If you want to be a degenerate and raise a family with two wives that's your prerogative but I don't think it's healthy for a child. It's an abnormal situation and parents should be setting an example and providing stability for their child and what your describing is NOT that.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/17 04:01 AM
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"I don't give a fuck" and "I've developed self love and confidence" Are two very different things. The quotes, in my opinion, are referring to the latter.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/17 03:36 AM
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I grew up poor, in a broken home. I have only distant cordial relationships with my parents. They taught me what not to do and I've found role models and instruction elsewhere. Thanks RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/17 04:18 AM
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I can remember early on in my relationship with my now husband, he would say "unixygirl, you lack the discipline!" His guidance helped me tremendously. I can really relate with some of the comments here.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/17 04:16 AM
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Yeah it's not exclusive but it sure is consistent. Can you go into some of the differences you've observed between older vs younger libs?
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/17 03:15 PM
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I don't personally and that's largely because TRP consists of content like that (That divorce unfairly burdens men) I find that statement to be pretty misinformed, even if true. It's sort of the equivalent of saying running a business requires more work and carries more risk, and if you fail you could end up broke. That's a silly way of looking at business and likewise that's a silly way of looking at marriage. Married couples benefit greatly from tax breaks and married people are more likely to…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/17 03:39 PM
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Just inventive things, one time we needed to pick cherries high off a tree and we didn't have a ladder. We repurposed a plastic bottle with it's spout sealed and attached to the end of a long pole... the bottom of the bottle was then cut with a wide circle in the center, and then from there had a small narrow slit. This let just put the pole high into the cherry tree, and when the cherry had gone inside the bottle thanks to the wide hole, we could shift the stem down the small slit (which was to…
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 07:48 PM
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It's like the text book feminist response. I can't even count the amount of times I was told by other women and occasionally beta men "you should propose to him" during my angsty "when is he going to propose" phase. It's really annoying and a bit condescending I think to say this to another woman who wants a proposal.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 04:54 PM
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My strategy is silent withdrawal.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 04:49 PM
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That's cool OP! I'm an INFJ too, hubs is ENTP I like Meyers Briggs but I'm more laughing about it then I am taking it seriously 😄 He's very knowledgeable, and he's able to think strategically about situations, which honestly makes him a great captain and lets me feel comfortable following him. He's also inventive and hilarious. We laugh a lot and like to discuss big ideas over morning coffee, sometimes we'll build new things together. He's great ❤️ EDIT Whoa, there are a lot of INFJ's here. HMMM…
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 04:16 PM
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I once asked an old married couple what their secret was to staying happy and together for so long: "Rule number 1: Never go to bed angry with each other". Make amends with your guy. I feel like if I choose to stay with him, I will spend the rest of my life competing with whatever game he is hooked on. Completely valid. I'm really sorry you're having to go through with this. You wrote to another comment of mine that his interests are sex, video games. For me, when I was evaluating if I wanted to…
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 04:07 PM
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Mind blown, thought OP was a lesbian. Why is OP posting here? Not only is OP struggling with reasoning/critical thinking skills but I can only assume their thought process was: Girlfriend > Eggs > Babies > Better ask RPW 🙄
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 03:49 PM
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You need to sit down with a therapist.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 03:49 PM
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Something to try as well is to suggest to him 'Hey I'd really like to do X activity tonight with you, what do you think?' Text/email him before work is out This is truly brilliant advice. I use this to great effect in my own relationship and it does plant the seed, especially when it's appealing and you know your man is going to go for it. 10/10
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 03:37 PM
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Maybe this is an unpopular opinion but I feel nothing is more destructive to an individual's productivity or potential than marathon type gaming. Occasionally playing a game, sure, I can understand that. On that level I can accept the argument that it's comparable to any leisure time, heading out to a baseball game, a hike, spending some time shopping, dinning out, etc. Some may make the comparison that all day (marathon gaming) is no different then spending a day at Disney World or something, o…
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 03:32 PM
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haha that's really sweet.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 05:30 AM
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This is so well observed. I try to always thank guys when they hold the door for me, even though it's such a simple thing, I want them to know it's appreciated. A more relevant story though is my car once broke down in a busy intersection and I stepped out obviously panicked. Two guys jumped out of their truck, told me to get back inside and steer, and they pushed me to safety!
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 05:27 AM
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There's no need for gender in the workplace. People that gender things in the workplace are bad for the culture, lower productivity, and are at risk of getting the company sued. You're there to do your job and to help grow your business. Do that.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 07:45 PM
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I wish I had you to give me outfit feedback haha
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 06:37 PM
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I'm curious how the ladies here keep their hands nice and soft with so much lifting going on 💪 OP nutrition is how you set yourself up for success. Cut out the meats, eat plant based, don't eat too much, and then try doing yoga with running/cycling/walking.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 06:27 PM
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Dave Ramsey is really popular in our house because he and his wife (who was a SAHM) have used his own advice to great success. (YouTube has a ton of videos of his, sometimes directly about money in relationships) His wife would get a certain amount of money each month and so would he. This is budgeted for and is essentially "play" money. He advocates both people sit down, talk about the budget, write it out,each month. He also talks about the importance of veto power and how his wife always had …
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 06:08 PM
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My husband did this, with the sentiment that "I'm the man, you're the woman, you're supposed to be receptive and I initiate" 😪 What I did was rather than boringly asking "hey I want you to touch me like this...." I described, in graphic detail, what the best sexy time initiation would be. Him coming up behind me, breathing on my neck, scooping me up to take me to bed..." Get into it, after describing this to him, if you do it right, sex should probably happen. That's how hot it should be! After …
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 06:51 PM
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My husband and I currently live with his mom to help us save money for a house of our own. This implies you have income... You both are 25 years old, you're married! Get out of the nest and start your own lives. That's my advice. Yes money will be tight, but do it, it will make your marriage stronger.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 06:45 PM
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I am a different person at work. I'm not there to find a mate I'm there to be performant and do things that help our business achieve success and to progress in my career goals. I seriously think if you're at the office and thinking about how you can present yourself as feminine you're doing it wrong, the dudes there aren't thinking about how they can come off as masculine, there also trying to drive success for the company and to look good and grow in their careers. Honestly, in the work place …
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 06:37 PM
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I don't post often, I'm more of a passive lurker, I've gotten what I needed from here and it's worked great for my life (like finding my husband several years ago after following advice here which helped guide my first successful relationship!) I replied to you because your sentiment is what slowly chokes vibrant communities. Imagine I am someone who is new to RPW, your type of petty attitude drives new curious users away who could really benefit from this community
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 06:14 PM
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I've since learned that since he is doing the work and he wants to do it the easiest way- My input isn't needed. I just say thanks since I didn't have to do it :) This is golden advice!
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 06:11 PM
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I think defining submission is kind of tricky, so instead I broadly equate submission to following, taking direction, respecting decisions. To use a completely petty example, if he surprises me with take out, and maybe it's a new place and he picked a dish for me, I'm going to graciously accept and thank him for making that initiative, whether I enjoy the food or not. I feel like that's submission. There are some cases though I believe that submission would be ill advised, for example, money. In…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 06:09 PM
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If all we wanted was a wiki we probably wouldn't be on reddit in the first place, we're here because we want to talk about this stuff and get perspectives from other RP women who are further along in their lives and relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 05:40 PM
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Did you even read OP's post, what meaningful contribution were you hoping to make here? You can't just use her post as a soapbox to air out your "opinions" on human sexuality and suggest she has mental health problems. That's not ok.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 02:57 PM
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I feel like this is drama.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/17 08:16 AM
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Taking a break is good, when I first came here I camped, soaking up as much as I could, but books(forums) don't have all the answers, you have to get out there and try. It's been a couple years and I haven't spent a lot of time on RPW, I do lurk still, but I just want to say that sometimes that's all you need. I deviate a bit from RPW but I can't lie, it's given me what I wanted. I just got engaged and I would call my relationship a success thanks in part to what I learned here. I hope you get w…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/17 05:00 PM
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Well that's kinda the thing I'm realizing, forging alone time in a city is impossible without paying for the space I've suggested leasing a small studio I could retreat to occasionally but he wasn't thrilled about the idea, for cost reasons and concerns that it would distance us in our relationship. Any ideas on how to get some space where I can be completely alone, maybe for a day or two a month or a few hours here and there a week? Other than him being out of the house I'm not sure what my opt…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/16 05:23 AM
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That's a good point and distinction you just helped me make. I want physical aloneness, in a space all by myself. I don't need it all the time, but having something like that would be so so good. Do you have any physical aloneness, time where you're not around anyone? This is something I get only while in the shower. ;(
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/16 05:16 AM
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I can relate to this so much, how long have you been together?
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/16 05:11 AM
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have you noticed that this is more of transition phase then from honey moon phase to something else, like is maybe this part just particularly challenging?
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/16 04:21 AM
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Zero... Work is like 60-80 hours, Sundays off, and all of my off time and evenings he's there. Any ideas how to get him out of the house? We are still too new to this city and he has no family or friends here yet.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/16 04:19 AM
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We've considered getting a larger place, for this reason. We live in a nice apartment but it's downtown and even places that are a "decent" size by house standards are more money then I make right now. Maybe in a few more years, but yeah. My own bedroom would be amazing but I don't have that now. Have you found that in your own marriage, having your own room gives you a place to recharge in?
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/16 04:18 AM
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I don't really have a lot of activities outside of work, besides social events but those are typically business related 😐 I basically have one day off a week, and a few hours in the evening. And all that free time is spent with him... it's already hard for him that i'm not ever around to where if I take a Sunday to myself he feels extra sad because he hasn't seen me at all. I've been feeling like this for about 6 months but it varies wildly going from a day where I dream and even go as far as to…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/16 04:13 AM
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should go vegan and do low impact cardio(brisk walking, cycling) eat high carb low fat doesn't matter how you count calories that fat you eat is the fat you wear
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/16 05:31 AM
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