| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 860 | Key points to hold your frame with girls and succeed. | Red Pill Theory | unkg | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 01:28 PM |
| 265 | I thought I wanted a unicorn. | Rant/Venting | unkg | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 09:16 AM |
| 132 | Girl with boyfriend calls me socially awkward for focusing on my workout and not her in the gym. | Red Pill Example | unkg | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/17 04:42 PM |
| 116 | Learn to Adapt. | Building Power | unkg | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/18 07:49 AM |
| 97 | Beware: the bottomless pit of not giving a fuck to the extreme | Rant/Venting | unkg | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/19 11:17 AM |
| 25 | The red pill hit me like a brick in the face today | Field Report | unkg | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/17 04:20 PM |
| 3 | How do you handle a situation where a girl is mad at you or acting differently? | unkg | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 03:04 AM | |
| 1 | Consumed by the anger phase. | Rant/Venting | unkg | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/19 04:40 AM |
| 1 | The one minute call: keep your dignity | Red Pill Example | unkg | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/19 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Problem F-closing | unkg | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 10:28 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Date women your self esteem can handle.I'm not talking about 5 dollar donations. There are a lot of simps who literally donate thousands. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/21 10:51 AM |
| 51 | Date women your self esteem can handle.Dude, have you seen twitch lately? Just look at the amount of money some rich simps will throw at a thot just to get their name read aloud and a "thank you!" from an average girl. It's totally reasonable for them to do worse to meet them in person. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/21 09:19 PM |
| 57 | Manipulating Your EnvironmentI mean, lying about how cool your life is to some schmuck in hopes of them telling others about it does seem pathetic. I'm all for a bit of strategic social plays, but not like this. Manipulating your environment to me is more about understanding it and making it work in your favour. People will smell if you are full of shit. Better to just have an idgaf attitude and subtly adapt to each person you are communicating with. Only enough to gain their trust and forming a network. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/20 01:22 PM |
| 36 | Being good at texting won't get you laidI'm 21 and this doesn't work for girls under 25. It will actually just sabotage your chances. Let me tell you why. Their world revolves around their phone. If you want success you have to be good at texting and the other RP concepts like holding frame, teasing etc. First you have to build rapport, and while doing so, prove that you are not another simp beta orbiter. If you fail at proving you are different, you will get the slow responses, flaky mediocre interest at best, if you look good. If yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/20 06:23 PM |
| 18 | See a docHis wallet is his value* | /r/MGTOW | 23/08/19 10:40 AM |
| 14 | The indisputable superiority of "Unfortunately, I'm just not there yet" vs "Screw that shit, I'm not gonna!"Can you elaborate on the "the morning-after text"? What do you mean? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/19 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Stop being an assholeI think he means that assholes are usually attractive for other reasons such as facial features, confidence etc. Not the actual asshole part. Thus, when they act like assholes, women take their shit because of their other positive qualities. Just like a hotter woman can get away with more than an ugly girl. However, when people see an attractive guy being an asshole they assume he is attractive because he is an asshole, which is not the case. He is attractive, therefore he can get away with bein… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/19 08:52 PM |
| 8 | The Number 1 Turn Off I Keep Hearing From Women"if a girl matches you on tinder, she's super attracted to you. in those cases the hardest parts are already over" - this is not true. A very big number of girls just want validation and attention. Sure, they think you look good if they match with you, but that means fuck all. You are just another validation and attention source, or worse, someone they use for entertainment with no other intention on anything further. The hardest part is actually after you match with a girl; you have to weed out… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/19 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Why Tinder is a waste of time: [OC] 13 months of Tinder usage [23F]Same here, also met my current gf of 4 months there. Fucked 3 other girls from there as well. I really don't get why people say it's a waste of time. I mean, if you are really ugly then yeah, it probably is. Otherwise, it takes literally a couple of seconds to swipe and send a few messages when you have nothing to do/just chilling at home. | /r/seduction | 16/07/19 10:34 AM |
| 5 | How this bitch owned me, and what it took me to stop being hers.Based on your past experience and the fact that you are in a new LTR already, I'm going to give you some advice that will be helpful if you really act on it: -Take your fucking precious precious time before you get into an LTR. You need to be like a bitch who meets a guy for the first time: lots of shit testing the girl to constantly vet her BEFORE you get into an LTR. She needs to really prove her worth before you commit. -Always move slow, I mean REALLY slow when it comes to commitment, living… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/19 12:08 PM |
| 8 | Don’t even try to change things , its not worth it anymore .. just GYOWIt's funny how the extent of brainwash reaches far enough to silence logic and the truth. I wonder if the downvotes came from the mention of women being a contributing factor to male suicide, or the sympathy aimed towards the struggles of men in society. Probably a combination of both. The take away from this is that men deserve no sympathy in the eyes of society and any criticism aimed at women is strictly prohibited. "If you want to know who has all the power, ask who you are not allowed to cr… | /r/MGTOW | 08/07/19 05:05 PM |
| 4 | Beware: the bottomless pit of not giving a fuck to the extremeAgain, you assume - with no logical line of thinking - that I am talking about pursuing important things with a woman other than sex, which is, surprisingly enough, wrong. Sexual strategy is not only about sex, it is about sexual dynamics between men and women; what you do with that information is your choice. You are not restricted to put sex first, it is merely a toolbox with information to use to your advantage in pursuit of what you want. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/19 02:19 PM |
| 8 | Beware: the bottomless pit of not giving a fuck to the extremeYou're confusing women and pussy, I assume it's due to a lack of abundance. Yeah, do not assume. You are wrong. Something I see often here, a bunch of assumptions that are more often wrong than right. Who said I don't care? Of course I do care, about pussy not about women; getting my daily dose of pussy is extremely important, like food, but that doesn't mean I care about the girls I'm fucking. I only care about getting laid. You are clearly not conceiving the point I am putting forward. Detachm… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/19 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Beware: the bottomless pit of not giving a fuck to the extremeOf course. However, it is rather difficult to keep it in check. It starts with programming yourself to not giving a fuck about a certain thing, which requires detachment. Further down the line, you have trained yourself to detach and dig yourself down that bottomless pit of detachment from everything. Once you learn to detach, it is incredibly difficult to detach selectively. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/19 01:01 PM |
| 3 | Beware: the bottomless pit of not giving a fuck to the extremeIt's hard my man. My programmed detachment from feelings seeps into every area of life. Sure, I feel pumped at times. Most times, it is detachment. I'm just trying to warn people to watch out when seeking that no-fucks-given mentality. If you do not truly understand what you are pursuing, you might end up killing your inner self for protection. Caring is vilified here, but never do you see the warning about becoming a robot in pursuit of not being affected by events in your life. We are humans a… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/19 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Shit Tests As An Ejection Button From A RelationshipYou are just like me; you take no bullshit, be it big or minor. Do not listen to the other faggots who let girls get away with shitty behaivior for some pussy. You are a man who knows what he wants, his own worth and won't settle. If a girl is bringing you more headache than pleasure, give her the boot. Some people like you and me won't even tolerate the things others classify as "petty" or "minor". There is nothing wrong with that, it's up to you to decide. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/19 02:42 AM |
| 1 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.You sound like those internet ads trying to get you invested in the idea of becoming a millionaire within a month by "working online".. Look man, if you do believe you have some insight to offer me, by all means, go ahead and share it. I always listen carefully and try to really understand any critique aimed towards me, without getting emotions or excuses involved. Just spit it out already. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/19 09:25 PM |
| 1 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.Yeah man I think about that too sometimes but everything is relative in life. The problem with the logic "x has it worse" is that it can be reversed to "x has it better". Everyone has their problems, some got worse problems than others. Just because your problem is not life threatening doesn't mean it does not affect you in a negative way. Humans are not able to be grateful enough for something until they lose what they have and that is very hard to escape. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/19 03:28 PM |
| 1 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.What does that have to do with this post? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/19 11:31 PM |
| 1 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.You have my attention and you might offer me some insight that I myself haven't been able to recognize. I'm all for self critique and awareness. However, I still don't actually understand what point you are trying to make. What I'm getting out of your message is that I'm not living and I do not know how to form a true connection. You also mention that I only tick boxes and act as if I'm living. You are losing me here; being able to support your claims and beliefs with references is important. It… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/19 08:07 PM |
| 1 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.You don't even care about what she'll think of you or her feelings, you only care because you'll feel bad about yourself? Do you see your logic in that sentence? This whole post was made because I care about her feelings if I were to leave her, because I know it would destroy her, even if it only is for a month. I do not care about how she perceieves me, which is something totally different. I would be selfish if I cared about that because it concerns me more than it concerns her. If I do a shit… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/19 02:06 AM |
| 1 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.Your agonised emotional worry - should you stay or should you go - is the most terrifyingly shallow and contrived thing. The only thing that matters to you about this woman is that she's ticked X, Y and Z boxes. This means she's 'passed the test' and so deserves your long term attention. You mean to say, that I am shallow, because I've taken into consideration what she has done for me instead of selfishly looking after my own desires? If I was shallow and selfish, this wouldn't even have been on… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/19 12:00 AM |
| 2 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.You are absolutely right. This will fuck her up good time and I know it. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/19 03:36 PM |
| 2 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.Look man, obviously you do not belong on this subreddit so there is no point arguing with you. I understand what you are getting at but you make way too many assumptions about me. You also have a very narrow point of view of what being submissive means. Thank you for your input and have a good day. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 10:00 PM |
| 1 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.Woah there. Let's take it easy here with the assumptions and ignorance, shall we? If being submissive is really a trait you value in women then you aren't ready for an LTR You are wrong on so many levels here that I have no idea where to begin. Every man desires a submissive girl who will let him take the lead. That is in the nature of men and women; men are dominant leaders and women are submissive followers. Not only do men desire submissive women, women themselves desire dominant men. If you … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 04:33 PM |
| 5 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.This is exactly what adds to my guilt. I know that if the roles were reversed it would've been "AWALT, HYPERGAMY" etc, and I do not want to be like any other hypergamous whore and go for selfish desires. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 03:46 PM |
| 3 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.Glad you lost the argument to an "18 year old, still living at home" guy and turned to shaming tactics. Expected more from an endorsed contributor. I'm not 18 anymore by the way, just turned 20. Still making the same mistake with your deluded perception of your assumptions being right. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 03:38 PM |
| 2 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.Seflessness is important to me when a person has proven to be worthy of it. I never said selflessness was something I lived by in every situation, otherwise I would not have been on the red pill; it is amoral. You are making way too many assumptions about me and furthermore you have zero flexibility in your thinking. You assume that x is in y situation therefore x is in every situation, which is retarded. I can't fix your deluded perception of your assumptions being right. Thank you for your inp… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 03:04 PM |
| 1 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.I see what you are getting at. We are too young for that. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 02:50 PM |
| 6 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.If you feel you should do something that is counterintuitive to your own advancement This is exactly what being selfless means. Just because my values happen to align with one specific social rule does not mean that the social rule is the cause. Correleation does not equal causation. You assume my imperative stems from bluepill programming, but I do not see that as the case. I've thrown all social norms/rules/bluepill ideas in the garbage can, something that brought me to where I am today. I use… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 02:47 PM |
| 2 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.Yeah well, safe to say she might as well be waiting for pigs to fly. Ain't gonna happen. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 02:37 PM |
| 3 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.I wish she did, but I can basically take her phone whenever I feel like it and see who she is messaging and snapchating with for the heck of it if I want and she never does the same to me. I always made it clear that she can do whatever the fuck she wants to, but her respect for me will reflect in her actions. So far, no red flags. Either way, I really don't care. I just don't want to be a cunt myself, if she is a cunt I will find another bitch. Im pretty certain that she is not being a whore be… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 02:26 PM |
| 4 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.You can argue blue pill as you please, however, to me it comes down to my own values and my integrity. Disloyalty based on selfish desire is not something I want on my conscience. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 02:21 PM |
| 2 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.Cheapest here is like 100 bucks and I'm pretty tight on money right now, but one day.. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 02:19 PM |
| 1 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.By the way, it has been official for two months but we have been fucking for 7 months | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 01:14 PM |
| 7 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.I will marry or get engaged the day I start taking a cactus up my ass every morning. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 01:01 PM |
| 0 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.Well, I actually brought up the idea to her before and she said she would be willing to if I really wanted to do it. The problem with it is logistics; we both live with our parents. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 12:30 PM |
| 3 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.I understand what you mean perfectly and I have your mentality when it comes to girls in general, I do not feel bad about manipulating them because I know how cuntish they are majority of the time. This is a different case, this girl does not need me to prove myself over and over and never shit tests me. Therefore, I cannot justify the use of dark triad strategies. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 11:30 AM |
| 3 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.My bad, I thought it was meant for me. You are completely right. I was not looking for others to help me, I know this is my decision and I have all the tools I need to deal with it the way I see fit. I just needed to get it off my chest and, well, open others' eyes to the saying "Be careful what you wish for.." | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 10:54 AM |
| 5 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.I have the opportunity to do this, but I cannot justify it and look her in the face after doing that. It feels like such a manipulative cunt move. I have no issue using dark triad strategies, manipulation etc, just not on someone who proved that they do not deserve such treatment. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 10:51 AM |
| 21 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.You are completely right and I understood your main point in your first comment, I just wanted to be sure that it was clear that her opinion of me was not the issue: it is my opinion of myself and my integrity that holds me caged in. To me, it sounds like all this "let her go to find someone who wants to be with her" is a type of mentality caused by hamstering to pursue selfish desires when you have something good in your hands. I mean it when I say this: I do not think I can live with myself an… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 10:42 AM |
| 11 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.You are right, I cannot just fuck one girl. I know I can fuck others and I have endless opportunities right now. I've turned down multiple girls since the start of this LTR. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 10:26 AM |
| 12 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.You hit the nail on its' head. I fucked up, big time. I cannot live with myself if I hurt her. I think she is a great girl, I'm just losing attraction and finding myself always wanting to fuck others and not being excited about fucking her. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 10:23 AM |
| 49 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.Let me just clarify two things: I am not afraid of losing her in any way. She KNOWS there are girls who want me and she knows about my abundance mentality; if she fucks up it's over. I have absolutely zero consideration for how she perceives me, it is not about becoming more attractive to her or anything like that. This girl would literally eat my shit if I told her to. It's about my guilty consience about the entire thing. I really do not want to fuck her up after everything and be a selfish pr… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 10:21 AM |
| 1 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.You are wrong here for one reason: I'm not being deceitful about fucking other women because I am not fucking other women. I have too much integrity to be a disloyal ungrateful cunt to someone who has proven loyalty. The problem right now is my selfish desire to fuck others even though I have everything I want. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 10:14 AM |
| 14 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.You are partially right. I never allowed myself to get attached because in my eyes, it was only a weak move. I did however let down my guard a bit to start liking her more after she showed she was loyal at the time. I never was the billy beta drooling over her, it only felt right to become exclusive with her after everything she did for me. I really did not make it easy for her and she still did everything. She even told me to take my time as long as I wanted. After a bit I did feel some sort of… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 10:09 AM |
| 3 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.I'm waiting for that. I want her to fuck up so I have an excuse to break up with her rather than doing it because of selfish desires. Only now have I realised what I truly want: to fuck any girl I want without a guilty conscience. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 09:44 AM |
| 19 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.Easier said than done my man. My integrity does not allow me to cheat and be a cunt to someone loyal to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 09:30 AM |
| 1 | How to slide into a girls dms?You still can't explain your reasoning. I completely disagree. By your logic any idiot can also get lucky in real life which also carries some weight since its a numbers game. Pursuing online is also seduction by gaining their interest and know what things to say. From there it's just to carry it into real life when you go on a date. Again, my friends and I have had tons of success online so please don't spout ignorance to others. The best someone can do is what works for them. | /r/seduction | 21/01/19 06:26 PM |
| 2 | How to slide into a girls dms?This is stupid reasoning. Same thing can be said about pursuing a girl in real life and it can even be considered worse depending on how you do it. You do have cards to play here just like anywhere else; Gain her interest and set up a date just as you would in real life. I've had crazy success online so don't tell people there is no value in it. Times have changed and ton of people meet online. | /r/seduction | 21/01/19 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Rejection is better than RegretI didn’t have her before, and I don’t have her now. Nothing’s changed, except I killed the “What-if”, I can be free of her. This was just absolutely perfect! I literally took out my phone and wrote it down so I can read it when I'm feeling bad about getting rejected. Stay strong brothers, it's a numbers game and you have to keep pushing for results. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/18 01:21 AM |
| 2 | FR: If a girl wants you she will move heaven and earth. First hand experienceThis is true. However, you have to remember something: if she wants you, she will make it EASY FOR YOU. I remember how I used to be before; I would think to myself, alright I just have to get her interested and chase for a bit. Now I learned from experience that if a whore has me jumping through hoops to fuck her or meet her, she is not worth it. The girls who were interested in me made it very easy for me to fuck them or meet them. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/18 09:09 AM |
| 22 | I'd rather work on improving myself & my wealth instead of chasing whamenWho the hell said MGTOWs hate women? MGTOWs just think that women are not worth their time and they would rather use that time on self improvement. | /r/MGTOW | 09/08/18 12:12 PM |
| 13 | w0wMan let's be real here, he probably didn't learn shit. Got fed that "im so sorry that happened to you, she is such an asshole! You will find the right one you deserve that loves you!!" Cucks never fucking learn, they're there to be stepped on by whores who waste their time and disrespect them while licking chads asshole to get a call back. | /r/MGTOW | 02/08/18 12:17 PM |
| 2 | I am quite surprised by the reaction of my buddy's GF and her 3 friends in relation to a hypothetical scenario. This is the type of shit that I can't wrap my melon around. Are men not worth anything?I don't know this seems too far fetched. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/18 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Problem F-closingCosts way too much just for a fuck.. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 01:10 PM |
| 8 | Fix your depression firstI don't really think so, I mean I barely watch porn or have any problem with anything in particular. The thing is, it's not always just apathy. Sometimes it's an unbearable feeling of boredom to the point where I want to go out and do something like a bank robbery, speeding or anything else incredibly stupid. It either feels like nothing stimulates me, or like everything is hopeless. Sorry I kinda went off a little bit. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/18 04:14 PM |
| 9 | Fix your depression firstThis. My life is really good in all aspects, but no matter what I do or try I feel like fucking shit. I just feel that everything is pointless and besides that feeling is another feeling of nothing. No excitement, no motivation, no desire, just emptiness. Tried medication, lifting, therapy etc to no avail. For some people like me it's very hard to fix a problem that shouldn't be there and has no cause. I wish I was depressed for an actual reason so I could do something about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/18 03:57 PM |
| 17 | Fix your depression firstYes VickVaseline, he tortures his cock and left ball to cure depression. Works great, you should try it some time. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/18 03:52 PM |
| 8 | Key points to hold your frame with girls and succeed.The thing is when you've already proven yourself you can start fucking around with her mind to keep her interested. But as you mentioned you have to know what you're doing because it can backfire and she WILL try to push you again so you need to be able to handle it right when she does. I don't recommend this to newbies which this post was aimed towards. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 10:37 AM |
| 14 | Key points to hold your frame with girls and succeed.I think you got me wrong partially because I didn't go much into detail about the weakness part. Of course you can have a weakness, show it and own it. But then it's not really much of a weakness. When I talk about weakness I'm talking about ranting, showing your weak side, complaining; as you would do to a close friend. Being a bit bitchey if you will. However, exposing weaknesses should always be kept to a minimum or she will lose respect for you. It's not about being insecure, it's about bein… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 07:40 PM |
| 49 | Key points to hold your frame with girls and succeed.Getting angry is most definitely breaking frame and showing weakness. It means she managed to shake you and rile you up. When girls shit-test you they look for this, if you get angry, you lost. You will be seen as someone who can't control himself so how the hell will you be able to lead her and deal with her bs? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 06:54 PM |
| 15 | Key points to hold your frame with girls and succeed.You can never show weakness my dude, learned it the hard way. She will lose an amount of respect for you every time. You can be yourself but don't share your problems with her in a whiny, "im weak" way. Trust me on this, it will backfire. This doesn't mean you can't tell her about anything bothering you but you have to be very careful about how you do it. You can't straight up go bitch-mode about it like you do with a friend or relative. If you don't believe me, go read other posts and read the … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 06:26 PM |
| 16 | Key points to hold your frame with girls and succeed.Downplay anything she says or complains about regarding you. Bring her into YOUR frame, not the other way around. Don't take her seriously, just as you would take a child with a grain of salt. Tease her about it. Say something along the lines of: "Jesus christ it's not my fault I'm so sexy, hell, you should know." Just don't make a big deal out of it and if she really has a problem or gives you a hard time, next/demote her. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 05:34 PM |
| 9 | Guy rejects girl on Tinder, girl responds with vitriolic hatred and tells him to die, reddit responds with "He shouldn't have wasted her time!"Oh lord the hypocrisy is so juicy. If the roles were reversed people would've said "Oh men always think they're entitled to women's bodies. Just because she flirted a little bit doesn't mean you are entitled to have sex with her. I flirt all the time when I'm bored lol." I've had my time wasted COUNTLESS times by whores just looking to soak up attention and pass time, you never saw me making any threats or acting like a bitch about it. This goes to show how women believe we think we're entitled … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 02:32 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle a situation where a girl is mad at you or acting differently?I agree with you, however what do you think about verbally drawing the line the first time something happens? Something in the sense of "if something is wrong tell me now because if you keep acting this way I'm cutting you off" or is that too much? I always thought that was a pretty good way to set boundaries that if she has any problem she needs to communicate it and if not, she can fuck off. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 07:09 AM |
| 0 | How do you handle a situation where a girl is mad at you or acting differently?Thanks for a great response my man. What about asking directly if anything is wrong? I know that usually men handle their shit more directly than women do by cutting the bullshit but it's usually a bad way to go about it with women. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 03:26 AM |
| 7 | From BP to RP: unconscious incompetence to unconscious competenceI have never even understood the term "objectifying" because I don't believe in such a thing. What's wrong with only wanting sex? How is that objectifying? It doesn't mean that you see the person you want to only have sex with as an object. They're just a person you are attracted to sexually but have no interest in beyond that, what's wrong with that? I'm not bashing you or anything, I just want to wrap my head around this because I never understood what's so wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/18 12:39 PM |
| 56 | Who Do You Bow To?Spot on. I've been guilty of this myself; I make a strong lift and think I'm the shit but a week later someone smaller comes and lifts more and my self-esteem shatters. It's really difficult as a man not to compare your success with others, but you have to keep it in check. The only thing comparison will do is shatter your self-esteem and destroy your motivation. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/18 10:17 PM |
| 1 | The 4Fs: Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn (The Causes of Oneitis, Approach Anxiety, and Procrastination)Amazing post, the most informative I've stumbled across on this subreddit so far. Thank you. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/18 07:22 PM |
| 6 | Flaked on every time feel like a looser but not gonna give upI feel you. I've been flaked on every time aswell and only had one date just like you where it went to shit. I think a part of it is being 18; young, immature and lots of options so it's hard to make things work. Gotta push through it though and not take it personal, you are not the only one. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 09:09 PM |
| 5 | Learn to Adapt.I sort of agree with you but if you can adapt to anything you are clearly curious, because you need to continuously observe the world around you and be willing to understand it. That's why in my opinion the ability to adapt is critical to class someone as smart or intelligent, since it covers basically everything. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/18 01:23 PM |
| 3 | Women are extremely predictableThat was a really interesting read, thanks for sharing. I guess I need tons of Redpill because after reading that I'm extremely shocked and slightly pissed off. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/18 04:21 PM |
| 1 | The difference 4 years makes.No matter what you say, you can't change the fact it was disrespectful and unnecessary. If he wasn't worthy of her time she didn't need to set up a date and give him false hope; ghost him from the start. Although I do realize hypergamy could've been at work here and she planned another date with someone better, but it's still disrespectful. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/18 06:25 AM |
| 4 | The difference 4 years makes.Maybe evil was a bit overkill but nonetheless; what the girl did was disrespectful and wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/18 06:17 AM |
| 2 | The difference 4 years makes.I hate comments like these. What are field reports for then? It seems as if most people on TRP try to find any reason they can to shit on every post. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/18 06:12 AM |
| 7 | The difference 4 years makes.I don't agree at all. Ghosting someone after agreeing to a date is plain disrespectful and evil. If they are not good enough, why waste your and their time? Ghost them before making any plans or giving them false hope. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/18 06:08 AM |
| 3 | THANK YOU TRPShe is his LTR, nothing wrong with asking who she's texting. He also acted stoic by hanging up on her instead of getting angry and arguing with her which is good. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 12:18 AM |
| 13 | Story time: What I learned from meeting a Tinder CatfishI sent pics to several of my men of the round table and asking for their wise counsel. After she left I texted pics of the bed frame to the round table, demanding restitution for their unsound advice. Shockingly, they all refused. In medieval times this would have meant war, but alas, I had no recourse. These are the times we live in. This was hilarious to read, laughed out loud multiple times. Can definitely relate to the "wise counsel" part. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/17 11:07 PM |
| 6 | Know yourself.I do this myself to be honest, but never really thought of it as something that helps or how it does help. It's true though. Now when I think about it, it gives you a mental reminder that girls in general should only be a sidepiece in your life, nothing more. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/17 06:25 PM |
| 19 | First post, same old story. Was awared but had to experience it myself. AWALT always.Based on your comments, I don't think you've actually understood TRP or maybe you haven't read the sidebar. Staying too interested and investing too much time in a girl is bad. You have to focus on yourself, your girl is only like a nice supplement in your life, not your main focus. It's unattractive to anyone if you are putting a person as your main interest, that's not how it should be. People come and go, only your achievements and you stay. It's needy. "A girl should know you are with her be… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/17 06:22 PM |
| 5 | The red pill hit me like a brick in the face todayI've read all your comments and so far you're one of the few that actually seemed to understand what I wanted to convey with this post. This post was only about me getting a reality check that reminded me how TRP applies to everything, no girl is "special". Thank you. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/17 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Know yourself.Call women "bitches" or "hoes" when talking with men (don't overdo this) This sounds a bit weird, care to elaborate? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/17 06:10 PM |
| 1 | What to do when your girl wants to hang out with another guy 1-on-1? ==> Demote to plate or dump immediately.The place you ended up is deserving of a big round of applause. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/17 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Girl with boyfriend calls me socially awkward for focusing on my workout and not her in the gym.This is my intentions aswell. Just messing around, costs me nothing. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/17 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Girl with boyfriend calls me socially awkward for focusing on my workout and not her in the gym.I reply when I'm bored. I don't need to care about everyone I'm snapchatting with; it's no big deal. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/17 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Girl with boyfriend calls me socially awkward for focusing on my workout and not her in the gym.You said it yourself; it was an excuse to meet me. I met her and we got to say hi and that's all I was going to give her. I was there to workout not chat about guy's hitting on her. Once again, the scenarios you keep bringing up are false equivalences since they put you in a position to socialize and/or have sex. The gym doesn't do this, it's a place where you mind your business and workout. Just like the theater where you shut up and watch the movie. My actions simply had nothing to do with me … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/17 03:23 PM |
| 0 | Girl with boyfriend calls me socially awkward for focusing on my workout and not her in the gym.Let me put this in perspective for you since you seem too close-minded to understand it yourself. If you invite your friend to a movie theater to watch a movie, do you talk to him/her during the movie? No. She asked to tag along to workout, our schedules didn't match, she settled for a simple meet and greet at THE GYM. If you want to socialize, you meet somewhere appropiate to do so. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/17 11:37 AM |
| 4 | Girl with boyfriend calls me socially awkward for focusing on my workout and not her in the gym.You either didn't read my entire post, or purposefully acting incompetent. I didn't invite her, she ASKED if she should come so we could workout together. We couldn't workout together because our schedules didn't match, which lead to her telling me it would be good to just meet and greet while working out. This is why I only said Hi and focused on my workout. If I want to socialize I meet outside the gym. I don't snapchat her everyday nor do I ever, and I mean ever, intiate the conversation, she… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/17 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Girl with boyfriend calls me socially awkward for focusing on my workout and not her in the gym.It's about building confidence and getting better so I can be at my best when it matters. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/17 07:07 AM |
| 18 | Girl with boyfriend calls me socially awkward for focusing on my workout and not her in the gym.Whole-heartedly agree since I see a lot of contradiction on this subreddit. This girl is just something I mess with when I'm bored and try to learn from. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/17 06:50 PM |
| 0 | Girl with boyfriend calls me socially awkward for focusing on my workout and not her in the gym.1) No, but most women have very similar boundaries and this is just another learning experience. 2) This is her boyfriend of 3 years. Relationships, regardless how you view them, 9 times out of 10 make it harder to get laid. You have to make her desire you enough to forget about her commitment with her cuck boyfriend. Not worth the effort unless she is really hot, which she isn't. 3) I never stated she was DTF. Is she flirting with me? Yes. But that doesn't mean she will go and cheat on her boyf… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/17 06:45 PM |
| -1 | Girl with boyfriend calls me socially awkward for focusing on my workout and not her in the gym.1) AWALT 2) your point? 3) No, her boyfriend is a legit cuck. I'm just not going to put in the effort to get a girl in a relationship in bed with me. It's always twice the work and I have better shit to do. She is only a HB6. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/17 06:23 PM |
| -2 | Girl with boyfriend calls me socially awkward for focusing on my workout and not her in the gym.Not my personal gym lol, just a gym I go to. Its a public gym. I didn't invite her, she asked to meet there by herself. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/17 06:13 PM |
| 10 | Girl with boyfriend calls me socially awkward for focusing on my workout and not her in the gym.Her boyfriend knows already, he's just a cuck. She had a lot of fights about this with him and actually cut me off for 2 weeks but then came back. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/17 05:49 PM |
| 14 | Girl with boyfriend calls me socially awkward for focusing on my workout and not her in the gym.Experiment as in see what I can get away with, practice conversations that I want to carry out with girls I actually care about etc. I'm not wasting my time, as I am not putting any effort into her. Besides, if she breaks up with her boyfriend I will have a free smash. Just playing them at their own game, having multiple options. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/17 05:07 PM |
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