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He sounds autistic. Either way, don’t have kids.
/r/RedPillWives13/12/21 02:28 PM
1

I missed the part about no job. Sorry! I guess she needs to go to work and she can pay for the housekeeper.
/r/RPChristians03/03/21 02:17 PM
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Some folks just hire a housekeeper.
/r/RPChristians03/03/21 02:00 AM
3

Are you suggesting that he tie her into a binding real estate contract without the added commitment of marriage? How stupid do you think she is?
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/21 03:23 PM
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Whatever you do, do not buy property with this man unless he marries you. Just have a frank discussion with him. You aren’t getting any younger, and he needs to sh!t or get off the pot.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/21 10:36 PM
6

Yes. Because if he won’t legally commit, and then dies, then what? You’re stuck raising the kids and you won’t even get his social security benefits because you weren’t married. What about the house? Oh yeah, he owned it with his mom/brother etc—not you.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/21 03:26 AM
7

I know! I will never understand it. Women hold the power initially in a relationship, but most immediately give it away. And are not any happier for it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/21 01:48 AM
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At the end of the day, romance and religion aside, marriage is a contract. It can help a spouse get health insurance on their spouse’s plan, it provides legitimacy for future children(which historically was important because those kids would the the heirs of the manor), and it can help in situations like: spouse is in the hospital and the other spouse is the next of kin and can make decisions for sick spouse. I was raised in a traditional Baptist household where living together was considered a …
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/21 07:09 PM
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Also, why is OP driving in the first place? I never drove when my husband and I were dating, and my car was nicer than his. If boyfriend doesn’t have a car or license, that’s another red flag.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/21 03:07 PM
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He sounds like he doesn’t have his shit together. Literally. This won’t improve if you marry and have kids, so move on.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/21 01:13 AM
2

Not all people who have ADHD take meds, but okay since you are the expert.
/r/RPChristians03/01/21 02:50 AM
0

Have you ever been tested for ADHD? Sometimes it presents as lazy or inattentive or procrastinating in adults.
/r/RPChristians03/01/21 12:43 AM
2

I live in a small town in a state that isn’t locked down and it’s business as normal here. Our local grocery store has never required masks. If I let myself think about Covid too much then I go down the rabbit hole and cry, so I keep busy by reading, watching movies, and reddit when I’m not at work. I’m also doing a little more yard work. I still go to restaurants and stores. My friend is an RN and I have seen her this whole time. I’m not a hugger and I don’t lick door handles so it’s good. My f…
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/20 04:21 AM
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Is this a joke? Who goes on a traditional, conservative lifestyle reddit and asks if threesomes are important for a couples’ health? LOL What planet are you on, OP? He’s not committed to you and already wanting to bang around. Toss him back and try again.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/20 07:09 PM
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He’s not that into you. Move on or you will waste years of your life with this loser.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/20 07:25 PM
3

LOL have a great day!
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/20 01:56 PM
3

Just tell him. If you can’t talk to him, you shouldn’t be having sex with him. Men view women who have sex quickly as low value, and often don’t commit to them later.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/20 01:53 PM
5

Block him because there is no future with him. Ghost him. And quit having sex immediately upon meeting men.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/20 01:48 PM
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Nope. He would use you as a babysitter. Don’t move in unless there’s a ring on it.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/20 12:07 AM
9

Who told you that you can’t have medium steak while pregnant? It’s not hamburger.
/r/RedPillWives11/11/20 08:07 PM
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I don’t set out to do it, but if one slips out, oh well. I did #2 on the bed when I was birthing out son soooooo I think the “toot” ship has sailed.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/20 01:39 AM
2

Look up some generic vows online and then spruce them up.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/20 10:51 PM
1

Just get the pastor or officiant to do the vows. No use stressing at this point, if you haven’t written them by now.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/20 09:12 PM
3

It sounds like you have a good thing going with this guy! And yes, a great job is a plus!! Please give yourself more credit. You deserve to be with someone good. Will he be prefect? Of course not. But it sounds like he’s not a bad catch.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/20 07:28 PM
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I’m a dinosaur who met my husband at 19, and married him at 23. (We are 39 now)This was before internet dating and all that. I am sure it’s a jungle out there. Size and fitness are important, but having a sincere smile, being able to hold a conversation with a variety of topics, and making the other person feel special are probably more important. We will all lose our looks a little and puff up a little bit, but a good personality (and giving blowjobs) can counteract that. I didn’t know about th…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/20 06:44 PM
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Wow. I’m thankful that my dating years are behind me. This seems so hard and stressful! You seem kind of hard on yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/20 06:30 PM
11

Cut her loose now, so she has a chance to find someone who loves her. It will hurt.
/r/RPChristians11/10/20 06:49 PM
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I’ve always thought tattoos were trashy for men and women. I understand that now many people have ink, however. When I was growing up, only rough people or old men who had been in the military had tats. Apparently now I’m in the minority since I don’t care for them.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/20 02:06 AM
74

My husband says that no man wants to “just be your friend.”
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/20 05:17 PM
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PS always let him drive, too. I never drove until I was actually married to my husband. And my car was better than his at the time, but I didn’t mind riding in his little truck. Don’t give it all away. Make him work for it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 10:46 PM
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Don’t feel bad. Let the man pay. Traditionally, the man always paid.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 01:03 PM
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Lots of truth here.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 02:34 PM
9

How would anyone look feminine and Vintage in scrubs? It’s a uniform. I wouldn’t worry about it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/20 12:57 AM
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Ok
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/20 12:51 AM
12

A HVM won’t want a child bride.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/20 11:49 PM
3

Run
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/20 12:52 AM
2

Ok. Her relationship seems kind of one sided, though. But I get what you are saying.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/20 01:21 PM
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How long do you plan to live there? 600 sq ft is pretty small. Your boyfriend may have a point—he may feel smothered if there’s a lot of decor. If you’ve asked him, and he said no, and he pays the bills, then that’s your answer. Maybe you can satisfy your creativity with something else? A part time job at a furniture or decor store? An art class? I’m old fashioned I guess, but why are you living with this man if you need help talking to him about this? Does he plan to marry you? How old are you …
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/20 01:21 AM
2

Buy disposable containers. Problem solved with a smile.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/20 06:27 PM
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He doesn’t respect you and you don’t respect you. Wise up and get away from this man.
/r/RedPillWives17/04/20 11:56 AM
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If it means that much to him, I would hire an interior designer to help me.
/r/RedPillWives14/04/20 02:36 AM
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Talbots
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/20 10:59 PM
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It seems that you have your mind made up. Why do you care what we think?
/r/RPChristians09/04/20 12:58 AM
5

Upon further reading, it appears that boyfriend knows what to say to keep OP dancing. I hope she doesn’t end up disappointed.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/20 02:48 AM
12

I have no idea what I just read. But if you’re happy, great.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/20 02:38 AM
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Lol
/r/RedPillWives07/03/20 01:08 AM
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Ugh! That’s hard to compete with. If I had it to do over I would’ve hired more help when my son was a baby even if I had to borrow money to do it. Our marriage took a hit bc I was miserable and he was too.
/r/RedPillWives02/02/20 06:02 PM
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Yeah well he’s not thinking straight. Did his mom work? How was her housekeeping? A lot of those 80s moms acted like they did it all, but I assure you something was suffering.
/r/RedPillWives02/02/20 05:55 PM
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We hired a housekeeper to come every other Monday and we eat out a lot. I cannot do it all, and he can make more money staying late at the office. Thankfully we have my mom to keep our son when he’s sick. You may want to find a sitter who can help you since your husband won’t. What you’re doing is not fair, but has marriage ever been fair? Everyone acts like the 70s changed everything, but women are still being shit upon. We just have to change the way we react to it to keep the peace in our mar…
/r/RedPillWives02/02/20 05:13 PM
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Why should he, if she’s doing it all? He must be some more smooth talker...
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/20 03:51 AM
138

If he’s red pilled, he needs to remember that he’s supposed to be the captain of your ship. It sounds like you are doing it all right now.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/20 02:02 AM
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Me too! I wondered what I had done
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 12:36 AM
8

My dad is like this. 67 years old and still works into the evening every day. It kills my mom, but what is she going to do? He’s not going to change at this point.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/20 12:07 AM
3

Yes. It makes me not constantly focus on the next meal or snack. It has been a blessing to me. Like I didn’t realize how bad I felt before, until I got on it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/19 07:43 PM
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I didn’t drink every night but had the same “no sexual feelings” until I went on Wellbutrin, which is an antidepressant that was prescribed for me for food cravings. It was like the old me from 20 yrs ago had come back! I was so thankful. I had always told my husband that my sexual lack of desire was in my head, but he took it personally. He is glad that I’m on it And our sex life is better than it’s been in years.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/19 06:39 PM
2

I don’t know. I met my husband when we were in college and we had mutual friends. He gave me his number and I gave him mine, but didn’t call him. He called me 2 days later. I know the landscape has changed with online dating and I don’t know how y’all do it. So much ghosting. Requests for nudes, etc. I would die. I’m almost 39 so I’m a dinosaur. If/when my husband dies I’m not going to marry again. I’m just going to go out to eat with old men and then come back to my house with my soft pants LOL…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/19 12:01 AM
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My mama always said, “if a man wants to ask you out, he will call you. Do not call him.” I also never drove my car on dates and he paid for my dinner most of the time. The old fashioned way isn’t always the worst thing.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/19 11:49 PM
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It sounds like he’s not that into you. Move on.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/19 09:26 PM
3

You may stay home and not even enjoy it. I thought like you until I tried it. My mom stayed home, etc. I did it a year and found a JOB.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 08:18 PM
5

I wouldn’t want to submit either, if I was not legally married. Leave this joker. You can do better. If he wanted to be married to you, he would have done it by now. But why should he? He’s getting all of the benefits already.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 02:07 PM
3

This. Exactly. But let’s praise them and give them a baby shower and government handouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 11:15 PM
7

Wow. You just summed up how I feel. I definitely don’t want someone else’s kids in my house every other week or weekend. That would be hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 11:03 PM
2

38/f. We met thru mutual friends in college (we were both 19.) Married at 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 11:01 PM
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My mom is thin herself but bc she can see my son’s ribs and shoulder blades, she thinks he’s too skinny. We have lost sight of what a healthy weight is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 06:52 PM
0

You actually just made me feel better about meeting my husband when we were 19 and marrying at 23. We are 38 now and still together. It hasn’t been a rose garden, but we still have fun. Life has gotten better as our earnings have gone up. Travel, etc. I had a cousin who snootily told me at 23 that she “has the rest of her life to get married.” She was really fat after college. She screwed her roommate guy friend and they “fell in love”. Got married at 30. 2 kids back to back. Divorced before 8 y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 06:50 PM
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