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Besides the frame issues here, you don’t need a gym to lose weight. You don’t even need to move or exercise at all (though it will speed up the process). Just eat less. That’s it. Stop making excuses.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 11:44 AM
2

Hard pass on the tuna. Salmon is similar in macros with far less mercury.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 12:57 AM
2

How in the actual fuck did you not think to bring the plate into the fold once things got handsy with the friend? I guarantee you she was lying on the edge of the bed “sleeping”, listening to you two go at it, soaking wet, waiting for you to bring her into the fun and fuck them both. Jesus Christ.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 07:39 PM
1

Pretty sure examples from fiction aren’t allowed here because they’re fiction.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 07:35 PM
3

Because women are competitive.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 03:28 AM
7

One of many reasons why I refuse to be in a committed LTR. My #1 knows I see other people and knows that I won’t have it any other way. That doesn’t stop her from testing my resolve at times about it, but that’s what women do because they need to know that you’re in charge. She does it because: A: She knows she can ...and: B: Because you let her (see: A)
/r/askTRP22/04/21 03:23 AM
1

You shouldn’t even have to set that boundary. I’d walk away right now.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 04:18 AM
1

Go to dinner as planned. If the party comes up, mention casually that you’re going. Gauge her reaction. If she’s anxious, go anyways and have fun, but know that this is the beginning of the end.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 12:07 AM
3

Nailed it.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 12:06 AM
2

You should have dropped the vacation into the convo during the date or at least at the end. “I’ll hit you up about next time after my vacay.” as you part ways. Not much you can do now.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 04:34 AM
1

I’m laughing about everyone here trying to dance around the appearance of butthurt. Bottom line: I eat pussy and I eat it good. I expect the same from her with my dick and if she can’t at least try, then she can get shitty sex from someone else. Plenty of women out there willing to please a dude that satisfies.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 04:15 AM
2

Sure. I’ll be disappointed because she says she won’t, but I won’t be surprised if she does. It is what it is.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 12:26 AM
5

I’m in an OLTR and it was very simple: I told her I liked her a lot, but I had no desire to be monogamous. I had been seeing other women since before we met and never tried to hide it, so it wasn’t a surprise when I confirmed what she already knew. We’re also in a dom/sub relationship, so my interactions with other women are easy to pull into the framework of our dynamic as me being pleased even when she’s not around. I tell her when I fuck someone else and she’ll tell me how happy she is that I…
/r/askTRP09/04/21 01:28 AM
2

After the third time the microwave started flashing like a flux capacitor, yeah
/r/askTRP08/04/21 10:01 PM
8

Have you ever seen a million dollars? If you haven’t, that doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. Find better women. Plenty of women out there who at least attempt to use their brains.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 09:56 PM
1

The obstacle is the way, my friend: follow the IOIs and approach in person or through social circles.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 09:51 PM
1

Did you convey this desire to spend this weekend with him before he made plans?
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/21 07:06 AM
13

Have you tried not being a woman?
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:10 AM
2

“We’ll hang at yours. Wear a dress. I like steak. I’ll bring the wine.”
/r/askTRP08/04/21 12:32 AM
31

Holy shit do not let this woman convince you of her reproductive knowledge “because her parents are doctors”. The ones that say they know the most are usually the most clueless. My ex-wife legit thought she could only get pregnant 5 days out of the month. She also wrapped potatoes in foil before microwaving them, but I’ve heard similar dumb shit about birth control from smarter women.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 12:30 AM
2

Maybe you’re just bored with your life, my dude. Sex is almost always a symptom of a problem, not the cause.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 12:26 AM
0

Who cares? Are you trying to get laid or married? Sounds like you’re the one with issues. I’m sure you’re quite the catch with your jelquing and repeated posts about “that one night” you managed to get laid.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 05:21 PM
4

That sounds like a setup for drama. Stay away.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:53 AM
10

Jesus dude. I was married for 15+ years and I never wrote this much. Move on in every sense of the term.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 08:20 PM
0

Ok boomer
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:41 AM
6

Sounds like you need to go for it and get burned to learn your lesson
/r/askTRP13/03/21 03:17 AM
6

If you think she’s worth the trouble (outside of this incident), soft next her. See if she cares enough to find out why you’ve pulled back. If she’s a decent girl, she’ll start to wonder if it’s her fault and might figure it out on her own. If she approaches you correctly (submissively and genuinely concerned), clearly explain that she disrespected you (NOT that you felt disrespected). If she gives a genuine apology, move forward. If she does it again, hard next.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 08:39 AM
1

So your logic is why bother vetting because they’re all hoes?
/r/askTRP05/03/21 03:54 PM
2

Caffeine is the nofap of drugs I swear
/r/askTRP05/03/21 01:32 PM
1

smashed her at a party wants to LTR this bitch Sigh
/r/askTRP05/03/21 01:19 PM
9

Uh do you post about every woman you sleep with? I’m not sure what point you’re trying to make here.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/21 12:30 PM
5

This is basically how it went when my #1 and I admitted feelings early last year. I made it clear that even though I loved her, I had zero desire for monogamy. She admitted that she expected me to say that and had been preparing for it mentally, but it still hit her pretty hard and she took a step back for a couple of weeks to figure out what she wanted. A long email showed up in my inbox about two weeks later with a very similar theme to yours: scared about “sharing” me, but doesn’t want to giv…
/r/askTRP04/03/21 07:08 PM
1

As long as it’s the sassy one. They fuck better.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 01:59 PM
12

“Everyone you know now was a stranger first, buttercup” and then ghost
/r/askTRP04/03/21 06:46 AM
11

Keep working hard while you start looking for another job. Don’t tell your current job that you’re looking, either. You owe them nothing.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 06:44 AM
0

There are so many daygame resources out there. Stop waiting for shit to be fed to you in spoons.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 08:14 PM
0

Use her own line about carrying the convo against her in playful way, then ask her a time that works for her where she’ll actually show up. If she takes the bait and offers some possibilities, continue from there as normal. If she just wants to argue, move on.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 08:03 PM
1

I deleted everything except LinkedIn about a year ago. I still have a ghost FB account for Marketplace deals, but that’s it. I miss some of the fitness info I got in small doses on IG (shoutout to Squat Bible), but that’s it.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 07:07 PM
1

This is clearly a woman. At least I hope so because the tone is so glaringly feminine.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 07:00 PM
1

I’m saying that if you do text her to apologize, don’t use alcohol as an excuse. Own it and move on.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 06:50 PM
1

Don’t use the alcohol as the excuse. “Sorry about those texts” then leave her alone.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 01:44 PM
24

Dude. STOP. You’re letting the pussy get the best of you. She told you that she loved you the first time you hung out and is therefore automatically completely FUCKING CRAZY. Full stop. Open and shut case. RUN.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 10:29 AM
16

This dude clearly doesn’t have the frame for this.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 10:25 AM
12

I can promise you that you’re not. You’re basically standing on an active volcano going “hmmm I feel some rumbling, but the views are nice and I run pretty fast, so I think I’ll be ok”.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 10:23 AM
1

Then you have to prepare yourself for the likely possibility of cheating in the future.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 10:01 PM
14

Why did you go no contact for 5 fucking days after the trip?
/r/askTRP02/03/21 11:07 AM
21

She probably legitimately believes what she’s saying right now: she has no intention of ever cheating. She also probably didn’t “intend” on cheating before either. I’d end it not because of the past, but because of the future. The point of an LTR is to assess the viability of marriage in the future and she’s told you loud and clear that she isn’t marriage material, so why bother continuing?
/r/askTRP02/03/21 11:03 AM
1

What is the end goal of such an endeavor?
/r/askTRP01/03/21 02:03 PM
6

Sigh
/r/askTRP01/03/21 08:21 AM
7

She’s fucking with you and you’re letting her. Based on the fake IG nonsense, she’s particularly dangerous and will let you tear yourself to pieces over her and laugh about it. Ghost her like Swayze and get a real life.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 12:47 PM
3

He’s trying to write off this entire year (in February, mind you) with the light at the end of the pandemic tunnel coming quickly, pretending that it’s still March 2020 and lying about everything being in complete lockdown, then trying to play it off like he’s gonna just go monk mode instead. Reality: he’s fat/out of shape and scared to get back out there after COVID because he’s spent the last year making excuses.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 12:20 AM
1

You’re over here like “yeah imma play the fuck out of these checkers now” and she’s over there just destroying dudes at tennis. The only way for you to win this particular battle is not to play at all. You’ve already shown all your cards and you will never have the upper hand.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 11:29 PM
3

This woman is so far ahead of you with game and she’s gonna eat you alive. Run and don’t look back because you are not equipped to handle this one.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:47 PM
4

You’re going down a dangerous path, my friend.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:35 PM
0

Because I’m not letting another woman dictate what I can or can’t do I should clarify the context: also had a wife that complained about porn.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:26 PM
1

One of many reasons I’ll never be in a monogamous relationship again.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:23 PM
1

The real question here is are you worried about seeming like a creep to the girls or to anyone else that might be watching?
/r/askTRP24/02/21 07:40 AM
19

Then you tell her “hold on while I check the sidebar”
/r/askTRP24/02/21 07:36 AM
11

I’m doing this right now with a butterface. She’s a 8/10 from the neck down, but the face is a 4/10. If she could clean up the acne, her face would improve to about a 6, but anyways. I just tell her to turn the lights down and I keep her blindfolded most of the time. Sacrifices must be made when deployed.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 07:35 AM
1

You can’t “turn” it into anything. If she’s not showing clear interest through conversation, get to the point about what you’re there for and make her make a choice.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 07:30 AM
2

Most are there for a quick hook-up, not conversation. If she’s short but also still replying, she’s waiting for you to get to the point, so polarize her through an overt mention of your intention to fuck. She’ll either accept or reject and then you’ll know whether your time is being wasted or not.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 09:13 AM
1

You should seek professional help
/r/askTRP22/02/21 06:06 AM
1

Why are you ghosting her? She fucked up, apologized and then offered to make it up to you this weekend and you’re going to ignore her?
/r/askTRP19/02/21 10:24 AM
5

She’s subtly telling you to pump the brakes. She mentioned the sex because she enjoyed it and left out the rest because she’s not interested in all that and you’re already getting too clingy for one lay. Keep it chill and spin away
/r/askTRP10/11/20 02:52 AM
1

Yeah cuz then you can tell them you’re busy with your purpose like a real alpha
/r/askTRP06/11/20 06:43 AM
1

Then that’s not a good woman for you
/r/askTRP05/11/20 12:30 PM
8

Offer something that works for you and if she cancels again, ghost her.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 04:23 PM
7

Plated a mid-20’s HB8 local mid-market radio and TV personality from OLD a few months before I moved. She’d get me VIP into concerts and I met some well-known music industry people in the process. Very progressive with suggestive Insta photos posing as “female power”, has a women’s podcast, the whole nine yards. Even occasionally has stalkers. Met for drinks the first time and kiss-closed. She drove 90 minutes to my place the second time and I fucked her within an hour of arrival. Completely sub…
/r/askTRP04/11/20 04:05 PM
1

“My girlfriend doesn’t do that shit.” If she insists, then she’s no longer your girlfriend. Plenty of girls out there that don’t need or even want to shake their ass for strangers. I’d have more respect for a stripper because at least she’s getting something out of it and she’s honest about why she’s doing it.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 04:59 PM
3

Always greet with the hug on the first meeting. It’s a harmless way to calibrate. If they get weird or straight up refuse the hug, then I already start planning my exit strategy because I already know my work is cut out for me and I’m not about that life. I always drop my arms low to indicate the hug and they always raise theirs up high in response. One hand goes around the mid back, the other goes to her lower back (NOT the upper portion of the ass). No squeezing of the hands into the back (mak…
/r/askTRP01/11/20 08:56 AM
1

Congratulations on giving her both validation and power at the same time, I guess
/r/askTRP31/10/20 06:22 AM
0

I mean who cares? You were there with her. “Am I not likeable?” You’re not if you think this way. You’re projecting your own insecurities onto these people and blaming them as if this was the first time a situation made you feel this way. I guarantee you it isn’t. Even if they were just plain rude, (probable) letting one bad experience set the tone going forward is like being celibate because your first time was awkward. I mean this in the nicest way possible: stop being a pussy and just go.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 01:23 AM
2

Why was she supposed to respect him after a first date again?
/r/askTRP30/10/20 04:05 PM
1

Some self-control is always going to be necessary to keep from latching onto her. More plates is the best way to help with this, but sometimes that’s not an option, so finding a purpose elsewhere is paramount so you don’t call this chick every time you’re lonely for a quick dopamine boost.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 07:11 AM
4

Tall chicks are so neglected because most won’t fuck with short dudes and many guys are intimidated by them, so they don’t even try. I’m 6’1 and had a 6’2 plate a couple of years ago that happened almost solely because I didn’t care that she was taller and gave her constant shit about her midget fetish since she was fucking a shorter guy. She loved it.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 06:23 AM
1

We all have insecure thoughts at times. The key is to acknowledge them and then figure out why they’re in there. Is it scarcity? Loneliness? Boredom? Dissatisfied with your life and keeping this particular pussy around seems like it’s the “only good thing” in your life? Process those thoughts, man.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 06:18 AM
48

A bunch of scared losers in this thread, saying to use an excuse not to go. It’s actually pretty depressing. And y’all wonder why you can’t get laid and hate yourselves. OP: stop giving a fuck and just go. Have fun and use it as an opportunity to work on your social issues. Your scarcity mentality is the only thing stopping you from going, which means you need to go. The key is not to stay too long. Drop by and hang out for a bit and then bail because of work or whatever if you’re legitimately n…
/r/askTRP30/10/20 05:48 AM
0

I upvoted this so others can see how retarded it is
/r/askTRP29/10/20 11:34 AM
4

Well gents, we’ve finally lured him out: The Alpha of Alphas. Some would say he’s probably not human, but I bet they don’t even lift.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 04:23 PM
0

You’ll get better answers about this at MRP
/r/askTRP27/10/20 06:38 AM
1

Because it made them feel good, which isn’t inherently wrong or selfish. That’s just the way it is.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 12:34 PM
1

So let me get this straight: You’re butthurt because she didn’t immediately agree to whatever you wanted. She then offered to have you come over instead and made it clear that you’re gonna fuck....on the same day you originally suggested. You decide to blow her off because of #1 because “play stupid games, win stupid prizes”. You’re so busy staring at the covert contract, ego-driven trees that you can’t see the pussy layup that is the forest. Talk about stupid games and stupid prizes.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 12:30 PM
1

Marriage did more damage to my desire to pair bond than spinning plates ever has. I still have the ability to do so, but I rarely get feelings for anyone except the best women. Even then, my attachment to them is incomplete because I now understand their nature and (most importantly) my own. I still feel “the slip” towards beta love with one of them, but thankfully I have the memories of a lame marriage to remind me of reality.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:36 AM
2

Here’s the thing: you can do everything “right” and she can still choose to cheat on you, for whatever reason. All it takes is some dude catching her at the right time of her feelz, even if she’s happy with her current man. That is the definition of AWALT, which gets muddied here so often.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:29 AM
10

He wanted you to cuck him, dude.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 01:55 AM
2

I actually prefer that my plates have their own thing elsewhere. They’re less clingy, which keeps comfort tests to a minimum...for awhile. If you’re fucking them right, it’s only a matter of time before they get attached, but the distraction of getting dick elsewhere keeps that at bay longer.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 04:52 AM
0

You must be fun at parties
/r/askTRP20/10/20 11:22 AM
3

You guide her. “That’s a good start. Loosen your grip just a little and stroke it while you keep it really wet with that pretty mouth of yours” or whatever works for you. When she complies, moan or vocalize your approval. “Ahhh yes that’s good. If you keep that up, you’ll definitely make me cum” while rubbing her head or grabbing her hair. Positive reinforcement is the way with this stuff, my dude.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 08:16 AM
2

“Aren’t you a creepy one” and then move on as you continue to escalate. If she brings it up again, imply jokingly that you should all hang out together sometime since she’s so attracted to them and again move on while escalating. That usually shuts them up or reveals how they feel about threesomes.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 08:11 AM
0

She’s bantering with you and also covertly telling you that it’s become too predictable. You accidentally stumbled onto a good pressure flip by telling her she couldn’t watch the porn with you, but autism made you have her leave the room. You should have told her she could do something useful with her mouth instead and then gone from there.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 08:04 AM
2

Check out leangains here on Reddit
/r/askTRP20/10/20 08:00 AM
2

As long as you’re being honest about your intentions, she’s responsible for her own feelings. She has just as much choice about the interactions as you do.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 07:45 AM
8

There’s a difference between vulnerability and weakness. The former is attractive because it shows you’re human. The latter is not because it displays that you’re either unwilling to acknowledge it or unwilling to overcome it. Think about being challenged to do something “scary” like jumping off the high dive. Vulnerability is acknowledging your fear and still getting up there, even if it takes a minute to work up the courage to jump. Weakness is being a pussy and refusing to even consider or at…
/r/askTRP20/10/20 07:38 AM
67

You’re talking like a woman
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:19 AM
2

She was being dramatic. Sure you could have played it better without all the explaining, but the fact that she broke it off shows that she was going to be a bitch about it regardless. Literally impossible to please. She did you a favor by breaking things off. Forget about her and move on with the rest of your life.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 11:58 AM
3

There’s always pre-cum, dude. You’re not special.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 11:53 AM
14

I have a fantastic son from the pull-out method. It works...until it doesn’t
/r/askTRP17/10/20 06:25 AM
42

You fucked it up and she was smart to move on. Learn and do the same.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 12:30 PM
1

The only failure is not learning from mistakes and then repeating them.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 11:09 AM
6

I stopped reading at “wassup baby”
/r/askTRP15/10/20 01:35 AM
3

Incels have problems with themselves, just like everyone else
/r/askTRP14/10/20 09:35 AM
1

“Cool” If she hits you back up, great. If not, oh well. Don’t check in, though. Continue making other plans in the meantime.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 05:34 AM
1

No one can solve this self-created existential crisis for you. Figure out what you actually want, stop being a bitch and do it, whatever it is. Edit: at a minimum, at least do the things you’ve agreed to right now, such as college.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 02:59 AM
1

You want to tell her because it will make you feel better, not because you care about her. If you truly cared about her and “the relationship” the way you say you do, you wouldn’t have cheated on her in the first place. You’re trying to dump your guilt onto her and telling yourself that you’re doing her a favor somehow. If you actually care about what you claim, you’ll spare her the pain of learning of your infidelity and... oh I don’t know...not cheat on her again? Be a man and either break up …
/r/askTRP07/10/20 12:15 PM
1

She’s not comfortable because you’re not making her comfortable
/r/askTRP07/10/20 12:11 PM
3

The chances of this going south and poisoning the rest of your clientele is extremely high. You already fucked her, so that makes her a non-starter as a client.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 11:54 AM
2

Then why the fuck are you here asking for advice about it if you have it so figured out?
/r/askTRP06/10/20 11:59 AM
1

You’re supposed to attract, not chase
/r/askTRP04/10/20 10:11 AM
1

You’re only a cheater if you’re lying to them. Are you?
/r/askTRP03/10/20 01:27 AM
8

Honestly who gives a fuck?
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:58 AM
66

Here’s a thought: not every girl is worth getting.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 01:00 AM
14

Only one way to find out, chief. Play it like any other potential.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 12:59 AM
105

The only mistake you made was not fucking her, dude.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 09:21 AM
1

Try a VPN
/r/askTRP28/09/20 01:51 AM
1

Then don’t finish in the condom inside them
/r/askTRP26/09/20 07:54 AM
13

The money is for you, not to attract a woman.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 07:44 AM
2

My rotation is currently at around 6. I’m currently in an OLTR with my primary. #2 is a FWB that I see probably every 10 days on average and the other 4 are semi-FWB plates that I see when the other two aren’t available, two of which live out of state and visit me when they can, which is usually around once a month. I usually see at least two of them a week and it’s not uncommon for me to see two in the same day when I actually have time. They range between 24-45 and HB6-HB9. All but two of them…
/r/askTRP25/09/20 01:20 AM
7

If your productivity went up 800% in an LTR after caring less about sex, you probably weren’t doing much in the first place
/r/askTRP24/09/20 05:12 AM
17

Tell me why you’re still talking to this dude again?
/r/askTRP21/09/20 04:56 AM
2

Jesus Christ, dude.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 02:12 AM
1

Honestly it doesn’t matter at this point: a teenager shouldn’t be doing anything more than plating a 31 year-old woman with a kid, let alone a 31 year old with a kid that’s your neighbor If you can, keep things up until you can move and then break it off ASAP. Unless you’re in love with this woman and her child and she’s perfect (you aren’t and she isn’t) and willing to marry her now, you need to end this. I cannot overstate the amount of long-term, life-altering kind of danger you’re in right n…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 02:04 AM
1

She is slowly sinking her teeth into you and you’re too busy worrying about the long term effects of parking decisions to see it. Whether you end it now or later, this will not end well. You done fucked up, OP.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 01:10 AM
2

I’m really not sure. I’ve only been in a committed relationship with my ex-wife and I wasn’t a fan of marriage or monogamy in that one. My primary is the ying to my yang in many ways, I love her and she treats me like a king in every way, but that doesn’t change how I feel about how commitment usually ends up: unsatisfied. Perhaps that’s because I’ve only experienced the bad version of the thing, but I’m also not blind to all the unhappy committed people around me. If I did try commitment with h…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:40 AM
7

The curtains were hideous
/r/askTRP20/09/20 05:41 AM
1

That’s her problem.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:21 AM
17

Met an HB7 for coffee on Tinder. Twenty minutes later we’re in bed at her place nearby. I start taking my pants off as she reaches in her nightstand to grab a gallon-sized zip lock bag full of varying condoms, followed immediately by a dildo that was at least 10 inches long, a giant bottle of lube and one of those rabbit vibrators. She plops them on the bed and starts lubing up the dildo and her ass. “I don’t care what condom you use....fuck I needed this so bad today” she says as she starts pus…
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:16 AM
7

You triggered her ASD. Save the overtly flirty stuff for after you fuck them. Gotta keep it plausibly deniable until then.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:04 AM
2

I’m in an OLTR with my primary. I could use some help with feelz maintenance. I’m doing ok on basically instinct for now, but I know the hard mode shitstorm is coming as we’ve been at this for about a year now and I’m growing tired of reassuring. I don’t expect to ever be able to go completely hands off, but I actually like this one and I imagine my management of the situation sometimes is causing stress for both of us more than her feelz, ya know? Did you ever write that guide?
/r/askTRP19/09/20 11:40 AM
4

Stop explaining yourself. She made this a problem by being an insecure and snoopy bitch, which means it’s her problem, not yours.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 10:25 AM
275

Live frugal, not cheap (see: buy quality things on sale, not impulse or low-quality items that cost you more in the end). Save up 6 months of expenses. Do NOT acquire debt except for real estate. At your income, financing a vehicle is stupid. Max out your IRA every year. Invest an additional 10% elsewhere as aggressive as you can handle (stocks). Mix in some real estate as well. Do NOT play with options. It’s only a step above casino gambling. The rest? Enjoy it within reason while thinking of t…
/r/askTRP18/09/20 02:00 PM
3

3/10 on the troll effort. Ban-worthy disappointment.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 10:34 AM
1

It’s almost as if the point was to polarize and tease at the same time, not actually expect her to go along with it or try to squeeze a lay from a turnip, or even accept the offer to shower for that matter.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 10:12 AM
1

I’d be interested to know how you pitched it.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 09:36 AM
8

Play it as a playful logistics thing. “Do you always get all hot and sweaty before going out and eating lunch? Imma need a shower before I eat 😏” If she’s down, she’ll connect the dots for you and offer her shower. If she gives some lame answer, pass on the spin class and just meet her for lunch instead since you picked it or reschedule entirely if you’re not feeling it. Dudes here treat lunch like going to a funeral, but I’ve done plenty of lunch meets that either ended up being lays that day o…
/r/askTRP18/09/20 01:49 AM
21

Hard pass Edit: on second thought, this is an easy segway(?) into banter about showering at her place nearby after. Easy opportunity to polarize beforehand. Edit 2: If you do this, see if she can get you in to go lift or something else while she spins, then continue with the bit about the shower at hers. Edit: it’s definitely segue. Nailed it.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 12:33 AM
13

I’ve done the “swipe and bang” thing twice and both times it wasn’t fun. The definition of empty IMO. I guess I just need more. EDIT: more out of the interaction, not more lame lays.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/20 09:59 AM
6

Yuuuup. Women pull this card all the time. “For my health, I need to know if you’re fucking anyone else and if you’re using protection.” I usually just laugh and pull out my phone. “I sure am. Wanna see them? My #2 is a real looker.” Most usually back down real quick after that.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 10:21 PM
21

You spergs do realize that some women legitimately don’t do things until certain points to see if you’re just trying to smash, right? Women vet, too. “It makes me feel wike I’m not good enough for a HB6.5 boo hoo” Talk about being in her frame. Jesus. Just because you didn’t get your dick wet doesn’t mean your poor SMV is lower or you did something wrong. Shit happens. Deal with it.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 08:20 PM
3

Take it from a man that tried to help and waited for nearly 15 years on a damaged, steadily-expanding wife “with potential” to get her physical and mental shit together: get out now. She is the only one that can help herself. There are millions of better women out there.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 06:04 AM
68

I mean abuse is tough and all. No one ever truly gets over it. I know because I lived it my entire childhood. However, I never did drugs or let multiple men have their way with me on camera, so it’s almost as if choices still matter, even for abused people. I like the part where she’s confused about this outcome after being selectively honest and still tries to place some blame on him for seeing her for what she is.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/20 11:04 PM
1

It’s still too much
/r/askTRP02/09/20 08:13 AM
1

Wouldn’t even mention it until you’re fucking her and work it into the dirty talk while she’s super turned on. Make her admit that she loved it and talk about how you’re going to do it again while you’ve got her all worked up. Then, don’t bring it up again after unless she does. Rinse and repeat until she gets more comfortable with it. I’ve done this to both introduce and continue threesomes with multiple women over the years. They all at least secretly want it, but their egos and insecurity kee…
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:55 PM
13

You’re sending conflicting messages. You see her 1-3 times a week and still expect her to accept that she’s a plate? You got yourself into this. You’ll either have to start dating her or deal with her pressure to do so as a “plate” until she breaks.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:49 PM
2

You fucked up here by moralizing it and she got defensive because of it. Congrats: you played yourself. Neither is morally right or wrong. However, both are indicators of certain attitudes or behaviors, which you may or may not agree with.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 05:53 AM
3

Only one way to find out, chief.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:33 PM
18

Congrats on the Most Autistic Post of The Year award
/r/TheRedPill31/08/20 10:42 AM
1

See my top level comment about this.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 05:04 AM
3

For all the no porn preachers in here: this dispute is NOT about the porn. This is about control. A woman asking a grown man if he’s jerked off is hilariously inappropriate and should be met with a clear response about whether it’s any of her business (hint: it’s not). It’s your dick, not hers. Prepare to have your minds blown: a man can watch porn and not turn into some smut-addicted neck beard. I watch porn on a regular basis. I make my own porn. I watch porn with women while they please me an…
/r/askTRP31/08/20 02:32 AM
2

This guy nailed it. My ex wife was the same way, but it was because she was insecure about herself, so naturally it was my responsibility to make her feel better by not being attracted to women more attractive than her, real or on a screen. Of course she never made any consistent progress in getting healthy or fit, which was obviously also my fault for not helping her enough with the house and kids, yet somehow she still had time to watch hours of soap operas and play Facebook games while I was …
/r/askTRP31/08/20 02:30 AM
1

He had to dance, drink, have fun and get laid? Yeah, man. Sounds terrible.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/20 11:17 AM
1

Uh that’s probably a prostate problem, dude.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/20 11:16 AM
1

Or you could not give a fuck what bitches think about your Instagram and put whatever the fuck you want on it. Imagine being on a forum about living life outside the frame of a woman and then catering your social media to the kind of women that judge you based on what they see online.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 05:44 PM
1

She’s telling you indirectly who she really is, yet you’re still here saying she’d make a good LTR. Come on, dude.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:26 AM
2

No to all of this
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:00 AM
1

True story. My #1 is one of those rare women that looks significantly worse with makeup, so she doesn’t wear any. One of my favorite things about her.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 11:34 PM
5

For the ones that say a man can’t make them cum, it is almost always psychological. The pussy is the symptom, not the disease. The goal is not to Make Them Cum. The goal is to make them enjoy themselves (and you) by temporarily implanting your thoughts into their brain through high quality dirty talk so their brains don’t get in the way of the orgasm. It Just Happened. Don’t try to bend the spoon; that’s impossible. There is no spoon I am not the greatest lover of all time, but I’m good at what …
/r/askTRP27/08/20 01:38 PM
2

It might have started as a comfort test, but it became a shit test with the follow up “still following? Last time I’m asking” bullshit.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 06:45 AM
10

You’re already in her frame by caring what she thinks. Ignore it and move on. If she brings it up again, ignore it and soft next. If she brings it up again, hard next.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 02:41 AM
7

Apparently being literate and eating food makes a quality woman.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 12:46 PM
-1

“I’ll bring some full fat milk for the kitty 😏”
/r/askTRP25/08/20 02:39 AM
3

I’m in essentially a one-sided poly relationship with my #1. I told her early on that I have no desire for monogamy, she acknowledges man’s polygamous nature and accepts that I fuck other women and is honestly pretty low drama about it, but the jealousy does happen from time to time. It really requires that balance of comfort and dread to be maintained with more subtlety than a traditional LTR without allowing the relationship to be about her “letting” me see other women. It’s my first time just…
/r/askTRP24/08/20 12:50 AM
1

Much like we need women to challenge us, women need us to steady them and make sense of their emotions by giving them purpose as mothers. This is why most childless women seem lost and unsatisfied. Without women, we’d simply dominate each other until extinction, leaving nothing behind. Women give us children, thereby allowing us to take the risks necessary for the species to advance. It’s all about the yin and yang, my dude.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 08:35 AM
2

Looks and confidence are good bait by themselves, but most effective when combined. The difference is that confidence can overcome looks in the long-term. The same can’t be said for looks over confidence.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 02:05 AM
5

You should be wrapping it up anyways, my dude. Definitely finish though, just not inside her, even with the condom. Make sure it’s your condom, too. Her insistence on being picked up and the kid thing is worrisome. Women on Hinge typically see themselves as more relationship material, so I’d tread carefully with this one because of the kid thing. She’s probably a classic post-wall divorcee (or still married, looking to branch swing) that’s taking one last stab at a family. Regardless, she’s stil…
/r/askTRP22/08/20 11:01 PM
11

She’s 40, not 80. If she’s online and trolling for young dick, she understands the game. The same rules about paying apply and not a single older woman I’ve laid has given a single fuck about where my silverware is. She didn’t just arrive off a steam cruiser in the 40s. The same rules apply, OP. She’s still just a woman, after all.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 09:52 PM
3

I dig it
/r/askTRP22/08/20 10:55 AM
7

THIS. If you’re going to have your life temporarily blown up, at least get your dick sucked by two mouths at once. Use her for all she’s worth and then move on. I did it with my ex wife and a plate I’d recently acquired and I regret nothing.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 08:47 AM
3

This is one area where establishing a known dynamic of dominance and submission really comes in handy. All of my plates/FWBs/subs/whatever know from very early on that they “belong” to me in some way and that my sexual needs are the priority in every interaction. Once I’ve shown myself worthy of that ownership through high-quality dick game, they are happy to forego the physical foreplay whenever my needs/wants preempt their “mood” or whatever. I am free to take what’s “mine” nearly anytime or a…
/r/askTRP22/08/20 12:09 AM
43

Understanding TRP requires acknowledging and accepting that the strategy is effective at motivating male self-improvement by dangling the ultimate biological carrot in front of a man: reproduction. Although society has somewhat muddied the waters of sexual purpose with feminism, the species’ biological imperative of survival through reproduction remains at the forefront of both gender’s motivations for action. Men’s growing frustration with the incongruence of feminism stems largely from the con…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 11:53 PM
1

That’s actually a pretty brilliant way of giving your number. Imma use that
/r/askTRP21/08/20 09:53 PM
2

Then stop complaining about the shit sex I guess.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 09:15 AM
7

No, she just doesn’t like sex with you because you allowed her to put in zero effort. You said she’s hot and rich, so she’s used to nothing being required of her except existing. I’d have either talked shit about how bad she is while I’m fucking her or stopped completely and sent her home. I’ve had it happen a few times and either they suddenly start actually trying or we never talk again. It’s a win either way. Life is too short for shitty sex.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 09:11 AM
18

Well, you showed your insecurity loud and proud with that passive aggressive comment and she firmly rejected you. One can speculate all day about what she’s actually doing on these trips, but at this point you have nothing to go on except your own conjecture, fueled by insecurity. Of course there are other factors like how long you vetted her before moving into an LTR, the fact that it’s your first LTR, how is the sex/usual day-to-day disposition towards you because her response was honestly was…
/r/askTRP18/08/20 09:11 AM
1

I got catfished once. She was similar to how you described: fat and painted up like a clown. Nothing like her profile. She got in the car and I got maybe three miles towards the restaurant before I turned around. “What’s wrong?” I told her she wasn’t anything like her pictures and therefore wasn’t what I was looking for. She started crying. It was brutal. She said she understood, though. I dropped her off, told her “good luck out there” and never spoke to her again. You should have done the same…
/r/askTRP17/08/20 02:04 AM
10

You’re an online creeper, my dude. Nothing more. Stop harassing this girl and get a life. You can start by reading the sidebar. Otherwise, get the fuck off the internet.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 11:22 PM
1

My #2 is a 25 year-old HB7 FWB that loves knowing that I’m fucking someone else. I tell her when I have another date, send her pics of the other girl and then later I’ll fuck her while we watch the videos of me with others. I bring her over and make her watch me fuck someone else without participating and she absolutely loves it. She sits there and squirms constantly, so I usually have to restrain her in some way. Eventually she’ll beg to join in and sometimes I deny her simply because it makes …
/r/askTRP12/08/20 09:39 PM
2

Please ban this troll
/r/askTRP10/08/20 10:42 AM
2

Your MRP rant about putting the blame on the man is completely off base and shows just how much you don’t understand about MRP
/r/askTRP10/08/20 10:41 AM
3

Ahhh I miss MRP sometimes
/r/askTRP10/08/20 07:33 AM
1

Despite your best efforts to fuck it up with “if that’s cool with you” and unnecessary emojis, she was still basically leaving the door wide open for you until you kept accommodating her. “Which day works best for you?” is reserved for women who have proven that they are actually busy sometimes and have made time for you whenever they can, not for some rando you haven’t even met yet. Even when you texted back the day prior, you’re still leaving all the details up to her. “What time tomorrow??” T…
/r/askTRP07/08/20 11:35 AM
3

Stop spoon-feeding these saplings. Point them to the sidebar.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 11:29 AM
2

If you’re cool with buying more Chinese junk, sure
/r/TheRedPill06/08/20 05:42 PM
1

You can start by reading the sidebar. /u/TRP_Cop
/r/askTRP06/08/20 12:09 PM
2

Look, I was referring to the contradictory nature of his statement, not the validity of the respective strategies. Telling OP to provide more comfort and then advising to essentially give an ultimatum and then soft next are entirely two different things.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 06:42 PM
1

Rent-free af
/r/askTRP05/08/20 05:03 PM
3

60% of the time, they come back every time. Interestingly enough, it’s the ones that are most direct about not continuing to see each other that typically come back. I’ve had quite a few just straight up cut things off for various reasons, only to pop back up months later, happy to continue the way things were. Wish her well while expressing mild disappointment and then delete her info so you don’t drink/lonely text, then move on to others.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 04:38 PM
2

making her work for it Do YOU even WANT to date this girl? You do realize this is what matters most, right? Your ego is getting you caught up in the tactics of it all, just trying to “win” so you can say you did, which is honestly the most dangerous tactic of all because while you’re over there gloating internally about how you’re “making her work for it” like a true alpha, she’s slowly backing you in that corner while getting what she wants (allegedly). I mean if you want to actually date this …
/r/askTRP05/08/20 04:30 PM
2

You’re not comforting her enough Soft next her if she doesn’t agree Pick one, my dude
/r/askTRP05/08/20 04:27 PM
1

“Despite the fact that you have a myriad of personal issues that you’ve acknowledged without ever putting any substantial effort into correcting, we’re somehow still always working on me. Oh and you fucked three coworkers while I was overseas.”
/r/askTRP02/08/20 09:25 AM
3

Italian and Hispanic are different versions of the same entree under the “crazy” section of the menu and it doesn’t sound like this one is worth the trouble, even if you were equipped to handle her. Also: these are the kinds of girls you end up around when you’re doing shrooms and DMT, etc. Make better life choices and the girls will probably be “better” as well.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 05:45 PM
1

Can you read? It’s literally in my comment.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 05:12 PM
4

You’re letting this girl twist you in knots. She’s obviously crazy and will probably nuke your entire existence within this friend group whether you fuck her or not and sounds like a rape/assault false allegation just waiting to happen, so: Stop ignoring her when among friends, but also stop hanging around her alone. Say “whats up” if she talks to you and be an adult if she’s part of the convo, but generally try to find other things to do/people to hang out with when she’s around. If she tries t…
/r/askTRP29/07/20 05:00 PM
5

They’re like this before or after you fuck? If before, tread carefully. If after, stop being a faggot or send them my way.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 02:31 PM
1

You might just suck at sex, dude
/r/askTRP28/07/20 02:26 PM
4

She’s probing you, seeing if you’re beta enough to actually care about what she says. Proceed as usual and if she resists, bounce. If she says the “just about sex” line again, say “mhmm I understand” and continue to escalate. I personally wouldn’t bother pushing through more than that just for some pussy.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 10:35 PM
6

Where is this general rule of 2x a week for plates in the sidebar?
/r/askTRP26/07/20 10:30 PM
7

She did him a huge favor by being so open with her true nature. It’s the ones that know how to hide it that are truly insidious. His first car might be ashes, but he dodged a huge bullet in the end.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/20 10:28 PM
1

Kill the ego, my friend. It will make you over-invest in the wrong women because “wHaT dOeS tHaT sAy aBoUt meeee if she doesn’t love me”
/r/askTRP26/07/20 02:46 AM
1

Try again in the morning. If she resists, leave. Not worth it.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 02:42 AM
137

I’d STFU and see if she actually puts it out or mentions it again. She’ll reveal her true intentions soon, I’m guessing.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 02:39 AM
1

What’s your food budget? That’s my major concern with going carnivore. Edit: also, what country are you in?
/r/askTRP25/07/20 12:49 AM
6

Evolutionary biology, my friend. Women are supposed to be more selective of their mates because: The female reproductive window is small. A healthy woman will get maybe 30 years of viable reproductive opportunity. Even then, their rapidly deteriorating looks reduces their chances once they’re over 40, so their prime years are from puberty until 30 for most. Modern medical care has extended that a little, but the preference for younger women who are more likely to bear healthy children remains a …
/r/askTRP25/07/20 12:05 AM
2

She’s shit testing you. In many ways it’s the ultimate shit test because she wants to know if you’re man enough to be honest about what you want, despite her. If you are fine with her getting banged on the side, then fine. It’s your life and relationship. Me? I’m not. My primary says she only wants me (disclaimer: for now, like all women) and I expect her to behave as such. She knows that touching another man means she never gets touched by me again, so she’ll stick to her word if she values tha…
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:55 AM
1

Nope
/r/askTRP24/07/20 01:34 AM
3

I think most people define tall as 6’ and up
/r/askTRP24/07/20 01:34 AM
1

Fucked an HB9 Persian a few times while overseas a few years ago and by the third fuck she was doing whatever I wanted, just like all the others. Initially she was more coy, but the push pull eventually made her give in to what she clearly already wanted. EDIT: tall white guy, for reference.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 11:33 AM
1

Unhappy marriages are far worse for children than the alternative. You’re teaching them all the wrong lessons about relationships .
/r/askTRP20/07/20 12:36 AM
3

I’m going to go against the grain and say that there’s no better time to experience the highs and lows of an LTR than in high school, especially since you’re already aware of reality from TRP. It will be a valuable learning experience that will help you decide if committed relationships are enjoyable for you and ultimately worth your time before you truly become a man and “waste” your best years (which is probably your 20s and 30s). So, if you think she’s worth your time, go for it and see how i…
/r/askTRP15/07/20 02:42 AM
2

I like the Skyn Elites because they’re non-latex, so no “ew I’m allergic” problems. Regardless, don’t bust in the condom inside her. It feels good to bust a gut, but condoms aren’t perfect.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 07:31 AM
1

For fitness purposes? It’s electric snake oil.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 06:31 AM
1

Follow The Squat Bible on IG or FB. He addresses hip mobility probably once a week. He’s a certified physical therapist and makes excellent, well-informed content about Olympic weight lifting. He competed for years and knows his shit.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 10:31 PM
1

Clearly you’ve got it all figured out. That’s why you made this post, after all.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 12:48 PM
1

You’ve been fucking her twice a week for six months and now you want to invite her over around your friends, but you really think she’s a plate? I guarantee you she won’t think of herself as one.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 03:11 AM
3

As long as it’s in the context of you just popping in to drop a quick pic of you doing something fun/interesting and saying a quick hello and not “I miss/need you” or something of a similar needy vibe, it’s fine. I’m military and deployed regularly (including right now) and it’s always good to keep a little contact with the ones that are worth “keeping around”. I’ll send a picture of me flying (I’m a pilot) or a suggestive meme every now and then to a select few and if they respond, exchange a f…
/r/askTRP02/07/20 07:25 AM
1

You’re confusing the fuck out of her and complicating the situation by having her sleep over and asking “what’s wrong bby”, so now she’s trying to polarize your intentions by playing the “golly I just don’t know” card and hoping you’ll give her a clue as to what’s real.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 06:53 AM
1

“Disappointing, but I understand. I enjoyed our time together. Take care” Then delete and move on.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 06:40 AM
2

Yuuup. Three of my threesomes have come about solely due to the plate or FWB bragging to her friends about the sex we have, followed by hanging out with said friends. All it took was a playful suggestion, some basic game and voila: two girls one dick.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 06:37 AM
1

I was 34 and had been married to my first for 14 years with four kids. I had zero game when I was young due to a shitty religious upbringing, so I fucked and married the first woman that paid any attention to me. The marriage was decent enough, but unfulfilling because we were different people. Sex dwindled until I became the dude jerking off in the shower so I wouldn’t “bother” her with my urges. I was unhappy, so I demanded we go to therapy, where she made it clear that all our problems were m…
/r/askTRP29/06/20 10:20 PM
1

Is there common law marriage in your state?
/r/askTRP27/06/20 07:30 AM
1

Married women are NOT worth the time. Ever.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 04:40 AM
1

Has she blown you before? I ask because I’ve run into this a couple of times, and both times a little teasing pulled it out of them: insecure about their BJ skills, either because of lack of experience or a previously bad experience. The spergs will say it’s beta, but women are human and sometimes they have hang-ups that have nothing to do with your ego gasp If she’s generally cooperative on everything except this one thing, having a light, non-judgmental adult conversation about it can easily s…
/r/askTRP25/05/20 02:30 PM
1

FWB or “your girl”: pick one Tell her “congrats on the tongue” and then invite her over to clean her tongue with your ass.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 12:15 AM
6

Yeah....no. You’re literally stirring the pot with that very direct answer. Most female egos cannot handle that.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 06:47 PM
2

My go-to. My 6.87549” of meat isn’t enough for the Magnums, apparently
/r/askTRP04/05/20 02:22 AM
7

!RemindMe 3 months
/r/askTRP04/05/20 01:14 AM
3

She doesn’t like him. She doesn’t care about him at all. She’s insecure and wants to drag him down to her level. She’s garbage and should be thrown away as such.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 09:54 PM
1

As a disgraced veteran of the pullout method with my ex wife, it simply does not work. I have excellent control and still made another life in the process. It works until it doesn’t.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 03:02 PM
1

I’d like to just chime in here and remind you that your LTR and what she thinks of her PhD and you is not the biggest dilemma here. Figure out your path regarding law school or whatever else. The rest is her problem.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 02:53 PM
1

This is the answer, as evidenced by her weak attempt at a guilt trip with the “opening the window is romantic” nonsense.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 02:49 PM
2

This is another reason that dirty talk is so important. It’s not just for maintaining arousal: it prepares her for what’s about to happen and wraps that expectation in your pleasure, making her far more likely to go with the flow, even if she “doesn’t usually do that” because in that moment, she wants to please you. “I’m going to fill that mouth of yours if you keep sucking it so good”
/r/askTRP20/04/20 01:28 PM
4

Lying is weak as fuck. If they ask, I answer honestly. If they don’t like it, cool. Plenty more to choose from. If they do (and usually they come around), even better. I rarely ever lie to women anymore. They aren’t worth the effort of lying.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 10:04 AM
1

This is temp ban worthy. READ
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:05 AM
1

Exactly. Chicks don’t need dudes out of state to get laid. She’s using you for attention.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 03:50 AM
1

Sounds like a dude tbh. You sure you’re not getting catfished? Nm saw that you actually met her
/r/askTRP17/04/20 03:29 AM
2

Yeah because she knows you’re a state away and giving her attention. She’s using you as fap material.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 03:28 AM
4

Yeah the only way to win this one is to not play the “I have nothing to hide” game. Move on, OP.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 08:48 PM
2

We all have a favorite. It’s inevitable.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 08:03 PM
2

FATALITY
/r/askTRP16/04/20 08:00 PM
18

Edging. I’ve never had problems with cumming too fast, but after a few months of intentionally getting and staying close by myself (and learning when to speed up/slow down, etc), I can literally go as long as I want and only cum when I’m ready. The only downside is that, occasionally, it can be difficult to finish, but that’s more on her than anything.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 07:59 PM
2

Alert: autism detected
/r/askTRP16/04/20 07:55 PM
1

She definitely baited you, but it was both an admission of interest in the idea and a shit test at the same time that you failed by giving her the “you’re good enough” comfort bullshit. The key to bait like this is A&A and therefore making it backfire on her by making her admit that she likes the idea. If you have any kind of a dominant/submissive dynamic with her, it was the perfect opportunity to Sex God the fuck out of it and start the dirty talk about both of them. Tease her about being a cl…
/r/askTRP16/04/20 07:39 PM
5

Many early TRP adopters seem to need that “us vs them” dynamic with women before they can even think about swallowing the pill. Unfortunately, that mentality is often the very thing that keeps them from ever truly swallowing it.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 07:27 PM
2

They want what they can’t have
/r/askTRP15/04/20 10:56 PM
1

Congrats
/r/askTRP15/04/20 10:55 PM
4

Should have escalated that night. Unfollow her and move on.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 10:02 PM
0

PUA is a short-term solution to a long-term problem: you. Make yourself better and you’ll realize how pathetic PUA is as anything other than empty entertainment.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 09:30 PM
3

A better man would have been a better husband and possibly prevented the whole fiasco, but I did the best I could with what I knew at the time. Live and learn and all that.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 01:44 AM
14

Fuck no
/r/askTRP15/04/20 01:39 AM
6

It happens and it made me better in the end
/r/askTRP15/04/20 01:38 AM
1

It’s stickied at the top of TRP
/r/askTRP15/04/20 12:11 AM
13

Been around here on different accounts since my wife cheated on me in 2016
/r/askTRP15/04/20 12:10 AM
18

Have you tried not being autistic?
/r/askTRP14/04/20 06:08 AM
1

Yeah that’s basically what I said, chief. You keep knocking em down out there, k?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 05:46 PM
2

No it sounds like he has oneitis for the situation (attractive, great sex, non-committal), not her specifically. Or he has oneitis and is just rationalizing.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 04:27 PM
14

You start by reading the sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 11:20 PM
3

The women you attract (or don’t) are the symptom, not the disease. The disease is your mentality. You clearly don’t challenge yourself and then wonder why you’re unhappy. Women can smell this the moment they look at you and are repulsed. Fix you and the women will suddenly follow.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 11:19 PM
5

Comes when summoned, fucks your brains out and then shuts the fuck up until next time? You do realize this isn’t a problem, right?
/r/askTRP08/04/20 04:14 AM
24

I dunno, man. I don’t mind if a chick is better than me at something. We can’t all be good at everything and I’m still going to put it in her ass later, so I don’t see the hang up. Seems insecure to me.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/20 02:01 AM
2

She was looking for you to cross her imaginary immunosuppressive boundary that doesn’t exist or hoped it would have been “your fault” if y’all fucked. You failed the shit test, so you’ll likely never see her again unless she gets really desperate. Go no contact and re-engage if she does.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:49 AM
5

You could be God himself and a woman would still test you. That’s why they exist.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 10:18 PM
3

Calm your ego, chief. You don’t want her. You want the “upper hand” of making her want you.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 09:45 PM
46

Text her if you want to. Don’t if you don’t. Just accept the possibility that either course of action could “cause” an unwanted reaction. When in doubt, wait it out. It’s much easier to come back from “but you never texted me” than “this dude is so needy”. Don’t text her to keep attraction. They can smell that shit from another galaxy.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 09:43 PM
1

We aren’t any different, my dude.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 08:17 PM
5

That’s a hard no, my dude. 100% no, full stop.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 04:14 PM
1

I’m in the minority here, but when women ask questions they don’t want the answers to, I answer them honestly. I see no reason to ever lie to a woman about my sex life. Example: I recently soft-nexted a FWB. She apologized, begged to see me again, blah blah blah. So, I let her come this weekend and during pillow talk she started asking how many women I’ve been seeing along with her and I told her. She seemed shocked, but it didn’t stop her from waking me up with my dick in her mouth. Lying to a …
/r/askTRP24/03/20 07:46 AM
1

It’s pretty simple: she’s either a fuck yes or a fuck no. You already know which one she is, so treat her accordingly. It sounds like you have a little guilt here about moving on. Just remember this: she made a choice here too. Assuming that you weren’t making drunken promises that sober you couldn’t keep, you owe her nothing. She accepted the risk of getting pumped and dumped when she spread her legs.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 07:29 AM
2

There’s few things more dominant than having control over a woman’s entire body with the tip of your tongue while she’s strapped to a chaise lounger with a ball gag (for example). Or you can listen to the peanut gallery of a forum that was literally created to teach boys how to be men. These are also the same ones that say “get yours and get off” during sex and then wonder why they can’t get any of them to come back for another round.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 07:10 AM
1

This is the way
/r/askTRP24/03/20 07:06 AM
2

Let it be known that some girls just flat out do not like giving head You’re partially right: some don’t like doing it. But they’ll still do it. Why? Because of perceived value of the guy they’re blowing. And for the “right guy”, they’ll do it like a porn star.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 07:05 AM
1

Yeah I’m not doing an LDR. I was only considering an LTR under the premise that she would move near me. I appreciate the perspective.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 08:01 AM
0

Stop. You don’t need wipes to keep from cumming. You need practice. Edge yourself until you’re able to go an hour by yourself without finishing. Most women only need maybe ten minutes of the right rhythm and intensity to orgasm from PIV, so even above average control will make them have multiples. The key to multiples is both stamina but especially mood/mindset/chemistry, which YOU have to set for them. Good dirty talk and a little bit of stamina makes them do it even when they don’t think they …
/r/askTRP15/03/20 09:44 PM
3

“Keeping her around” is exactly the wrong mentality for this. The sidebar is your friend here, chief.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 06:28 AM
5

Soft next. If she snaps out of it and makes an effort to behave properly, act like nothing happened and continue. If she keeps up the drama or doesn’t try to make things better (or especially if she doesn’t re-engage at all), hard next.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 06:26 AM
15

She’s just giving herself an out. If she wasn’t interested, she wouldn’t be going at all. Had an early afternoon date last week that said she had to go by 4. By 6pm I was balls deep at hers.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 07:55 PM
6

You have jealousy because your ego is fucking with you, not feelings. You’re getting what you claim to want, yet you’re unhappy because she isn’t giving the commitment you weren’t asking for. Either accept that she’s a FWB or move on.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 07:46 PM
1

It’s not butthurt. It’s a boundary. Simply tell her no and if she balks, ignore, fog, etc. If she goes anyway, soft next. If she doesn’t come to her senses, you know what to do.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 06:39 PM
1

Did you fuck any of those open doors?
/r/askTRP11/01/20 11:37 PM
0

Stop gaming through Instagram. The only way it works is if your SMV is high with a lot of followers, etc. They’ll come to you at that point. Otherwise, it’s a waste of time better spent on improving.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 11:35 PM
9

Honestly it makes it easier because they latch onto anyone with a hint of self-respect. We talk about improvement here and being that top 5%, but right now it seems like all you need to be is top 50% and you’ll have a ton of options.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 10:37 PM
-5

Or I’ll just find someone that isn’t a blue-balling cunt that has “standards” when fucking a dude she barely knows. The face? I get it somewhat. I wasn’t going for that. Oh well, onto the next one to tomorrow night.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 07:09 AM
-7

Because that’s how crazy bitches get pregnant. I might have gotten blue-balled, but at least I know I won’t have another kid. Edit: Just realized what you said. I’m not nutting inside a condom after I pull out, either. Mainly because fuck that. Edit: I can nut in a condom all by myself if that’s an acceptable end result. Hint: it’s not.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 06:57 AM
1

You’re kidding right?
/r/askTRP10/01/20 06:47 PM
22

I don’t play this game. It’s either a fuck yes or a fuck no. If I have to “convince” them of anything, I move on. This is why I’ve never encountered LMR because by the time that comes, we both already explicitly know what’s going to happen. I guess I potentially pass up a lot of pussy because of this, but I refuse to convince some chick to do anything with me.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:56 PM
1

All over it. This is 100% a lose/lose scenario.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 04:09 PM
6

AKA literally cockblock yourself
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:20 AM
3

Game both of them regardless
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:19 AM
1

Only if you let her. Ghost her like Swayze.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 04:51 AM
4

Suicide (when examined amorally) is the single most selfish (again, from a purely amoral perspective, not judgmental) action one can take. Remember this when you think about why she told you she cheated on you: she did it solely to make herself feel better before she killed herself, not because she actually cared about you. There’s no other reason to admit something that could have been literally taken to the grave. Take some time and really think about this. Her actions don’t match her words. L…
/r/askTRP10/01/20 04:49 AM
1

Sounds like someone has been reading Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck. If you haven’t, you need to. He addresses your “dilemma” repeatedly throughout the entire thing
/r/askTRP09/01/20 08:17 PM
9

It’s very possible. I had a HB7 oneitis in high school that had recently become single on Facebook. I was going to be passing through to see family during my move to another state in a few weeks, so I hit her up and said we should go grab a drink while I’m in town. We hadn’t spoken in 20 years, so she kept trying to probe me about a lot of the beta things I’d done before (legit gave her a ring for Valentine’s Day once despite never actually dating or anything), but I just fogged or denied. I wen…
/r/askTRP09/01/20 08:09 PM
1

Check out Garage Gym Athlete. It’s $25/month and has different programs based on your goals and/or equipment. Constantly updated and varied workouts with excellent explanations of each workout.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 03:28 PM
3

An excellent, thought-provoking post that I needed to see as I try to kick some bad habits that I’ve picked up lately. Time to go back to the drawing board.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 03:24 PM
1

Tons of opportunities to AA, pressure flip, etc from sexual memes, especially if you've already fucked. They're telling you what they're thinking about without being explicit (cuz memes are plausible deniability duh), so tease them about it and then move for the next encounter.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 03:58 AM
1

I initially give them a name and a pic so I can remember who the fuck they are if they message to avoid unneccessary "who dis" drama. Once it becomes obvious that A: they're trying to waste my time, or B: the chemistry isn't there, they're annoying, etc, I delete the contact and messages. I've had old plates hit me up after months and knowing who they are makes it much easier to possibly re-engage them if it was an amicable parting of ways. I only block if they're truly toxic/crazy.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 03:54 AM
1

Go for it. Only something a Real Man could do.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 06:46 AM
10

Nashville is legit. Plenty of real estate investment opportunities and no state income tax. Tons of women and places to go.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 06:43 AM
4

If you’re doing a hobby to get pussy, you’re doing it for the wrong reason.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 06:18 PM
1

Cool story, bro.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 10:31 PM
30

Bro you’re so dedicated bro. So alpha.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 02:51 PM
12

Shit tests are part of the process, my dude. Treat them like a move in chess and enjoy the game. Honestly I’d be more concerned if she didn’t shit test at all because it means she isn’t very selective. Kill your ego. It’s not your friend.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 02:15 AM
1

Jesus Christ. Can we seriously ban people who ask this same question every fucking day?
/r/askTRP24/12/19 10:08 PM
5

She’ll never be satisfied. Decide if you’re ok with that.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 06:08 PM
2

Jesus Christ. Every day with this bullshit.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 05:41 PM
1

Nope. No one under 6 foot has ever gotten laid in history
/r/askTRP21/12/19 05:17 AM
0

Then go wife her up, stalker boy.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 04:57 AM
1

It’s almost like it takes effort to learn things, chief.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 04:55 AM
1

Solely to my height? Zero. That’s not how attraction works
/r/askTRP21/12/19 03:29 AM
3

This one is only going to get worse. Next.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 02:42 AM
1

I just did this earlier this week. I was in town for two nights with a FWB and told her to find a 3rd (I planted the seed months ago and we’ve discussed it briefly off and on since). She sent me prospects from dating apps, I approved or denied and she ended up finding a different chick for each night. Keys to success: Let her find the 3rd. The hotter she is, the better bait she makes. Don’t compromise on your standards. If she’s bringing you fatties or obvious crazies, stick to your guns. Prepar…
/r/askTRP21/12/19 01:43 AM
2

Why do you care? She’s a plate. If you want to fuck the friend, fuck the friend
/r/askTRP21/12/19 01:24 AM
2

Literally every question you asked is in the sidebar of either this sub or TRP.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 06:26 AM
1

You’re trending towards a BDSM version of Save-A-Hoe with this, possibly because you’re misconstruing it as a shit test. She’s telling you up front in pretty clear terms what she likes and wants, which seems like a pretty clear sign of actual dominant tendencies, not a shit test. If it’s not your thing, tell her and move on, but don’t think you can or try to change her.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 09:18 PM
2

I usually smirk and say “You gotta live a little first, ya know?” They almost always agree.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 09:15 PM
17

I never fuck with married women. Enjoying the decline is one thing, but I’ve been on the other end of that scenario and don’t want to be part of that.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 08:59 PM
1

That’s their secret, Cap: they’re always manipulating.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 01:39 PM
1

So what happened?
/r/askTRP16/12/19 03:16 AM
5

It never really goes away, despite what some will say here. This is why we say to have a purpose, so you can focus on what you can control.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 01:15 AM
3

Nah let everyone learn from his mistake.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 08:38 PM
9

Strike while the iron is hot, my friend. Don’t let this one smolder for too long.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/19 07:42 PM
5

Read those last two sentences again and actually think about what you’re saying.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:43 PM
4

Jesus Christ dude. Spooning in panties in your bed and you WENT TO SLEEP? I’m not even going to tell you how you could have easily made that happen because honestly you don’t deserve it.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 02:56 AM
1

Yup. They’re codependent.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 07:32 PM
1

Don’t mix TRP with anything else on Reddit. There’s no advantage to it at all
/r/askTRP12/12/19 07:31 PM
3

“I’m a single mom that had to leave my controlling and abusive ex-boyfriends, so now I’m just living for me and my precious babies.” Then proceeds to let me tie her up and call her whatever. Women are hilarious, man. I love em.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 03:42 PM
5

I plant the seed by talking dirty to them about it while they’re in the midst of just trying to keep breathing during a good dicking. “I’m going to fuck every part of you, got it. And I mean every. Single. Part.” I’ve yet to have anyone recoil in the moment and every single one has brought it up either during pillow talk or a random text during the day, talking about how hot it was that I wanted to “take” that from them. Soon after that I was going in through the exit. You’re taking a direct app…
/r/askTRP11/12/19 04:32 PM
4

I’ve had a steadily growing stripe of gray in my hair up top at least since my early 20’s. It’s pretty distinct and very noticeable when I lower my head. I get constant compliments on it from women, young and old. Every single woman I’ve fucked has gushed about how they looooove the fact that I don’t dye it and most have given it/me a nickname (Gandalf, racing stripe, old man LePew, etc.) It only matters if you make it matter.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 04:27 PM
98

This entire post is legitimately the funniest shit I’ve probably ever read on here. Cuddle away, my dude. 10/10 would seriously lol again
/r/askTRP11/12/19 04:23 AM
3

Yeah it’s not gonna stop me, either. Just sharing what I learned.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 03:28 AM
1

RemindMe! 5 days
/r/askTRP11/12/19 03:15 AM
93

My place? Shut the door, turn on the fan and make sure there’s some music going or something so I can shit in peace. Her place? Bomb that shit like Pearl Harbor and walk out like I just won the war.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 03:12 AM
6

Congrats on taking all of the anticipation out of the encounter and blue-balling yourself in the process, chief. What do you do? You shut the fuck up with her (do some sidebar shit if....big if...she hits you up again) and never do that stupid shit again.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 03:08 AM
-1

PSA: Non-whites (especially blacks) have an astoundingly higher rate of STDs than whites. I just saw a study about it. Don’t remember where. I’ve fucked quite a few (currently have a fantastic mixed black/white FWB and another mostly Brazilian plate) and they’re a different kind of fun, but wrap that shit up and really vet them properly before going raw or anything else without protection.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 02:55 AM
9

She was totally baiting you into the shower, dude. No stress, though. This shit can be hard to pick up on if you don’t know what to look for and it can be reeeeeally risky. Some chicks just like to get you worked up so you can “take it”. Others are fucking crazy: they will bait you and then flip on the victim switch afterwards when they wake up feeling like a regretful slut. I’m not saying to never take the bait. It’s a blast when it’s done properly. What I AM saying is never take the bait durin…
/r/askTRP11/12/19 02:48 AM
3

You’re sort of on the right track, but you need MRP before you jump into this, my man. Don’t go over there and just start asking, though. They’ll make the roasting here feel like a hand warmer. Read the sidebar just like here and start perusing their topics.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 02:23 AM
1

Saw your edit and need more context. What are you “hiding” that is holding you back?
/r/askTRP11/12/19 02:20 AM
6

Yeah...trying that without a very clearly established dom/sub dynamic is going to blow up in your face, chief. Either ignore it or stick to the basics: withdraw attention, dread, etc.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 02:18 AM
4

Don’t chase her. She seems to know what she wants and doesn’t want to get sidetracked, which is her prerogative and admirable to be honest. Had the same thing happen to me with a 26 year-old HB7 plate recently. We had incredible chemistry and amazing sex on and off for a couple of months when she deduced that she wasn’t the only woman in my life. She had it in her head that we were exclusive from the get-go somehow despite only going on one date, fucking her silly at my place (over an hour away …
/r/askTRP11/12/19 02:13 AM
2

LTRs have to have mutual intimacy to be enjoyable for sure, which means some of those boundaries are no longer necessary or helpful. That doesn’t mean your core frame or purpose goes away, though. She’s just there to enhance it.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 01:56 AM
7

Dude has it completely backwards.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 01:35 AM
19

Full ASD protocol engaged. Ignore her and if she comes to you, great. If not, leave her alone.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 01:34 AM
7

LTRs are long-term, not permanent. Better to try it and learn with a “good” one than go for it in a toxic one because “it’s time” and lose yourself in the process. Start perusing MRP for better LTR advice than you’ll get here. Btw... you want to jump from plate to LTR? Try a short-term FWB and see how it goes. A few “dates” with a potential upgrade will usually tell you all you need to know about the possible LTR future. Don’t jump from a plate to FWB three times a week, though. Just go out toge…
/r/askTRP11/12/19 01:30 AM
2

I’m not sure what the problem is here.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 11:40 PM
5

Depends on the delivery
/r/askTRP10/12/19 11:07 PM
1

Many have done it and can attest to attracting a certain kind of woman.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 08:46 PM
31

You lost me at airbrushing. You stuff your crotch, too?
/r/askTRP10/12/19 02:18 PM
4

Look: you’re causing all of this back-and-forth lame banter because you’re sending out mixed messages and she’s probing to find out what is truth and what is fiction. I’m staying at your place A good start. She shit tests you in response. Jk I’ll get my own place. DEFCON 2- She still capitulates because she’s interested, but also sends a scout to try and figure out what is happening with “jk I just want to keep my eye on you”. You now decide to tell her you’re going on dates. Now she is in DEFCO…
/r/askTRP10/12/19 02:11 PM
17

Stay in and fuck her, moron. She’s giving you free reign while she pretends to actually care for this other chump. EDIT: also prepare yourself for the inevitability of this one temporarily falling out of the rotation here soon and for fuck’s sake don’t LTR her. She’s already shown you everything you need to know.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:12 AM
4

Real game requires no technique or coercion to seal the deal. All it requires is you and her attraction. This is why we say to improve yourself FOR YOU and the rest will happen on its own. Plenty of women out there more than willing to fuck you without hacks or tricks like this moron.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 04:38 PM
8

Uncle V is all over it
/r/askTRP09/12/19 03:55 PM
4

That’s up to you once you get done with your pity party.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 12:47 AM
2

You were super pushy and borderline whiny to someone that has zero reasons to rearrange her day for you, yet you blame the girl and the medium. This is 100% on you.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/19 12:46 AM
14

Not gonna have a choice much longer, chief. Better start owning it now.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 10:05 PM
0

She’s a plate. Soft next her (even if she shows up at the door). She’ll either fuck off or put out some effort to explain AND make it up to you.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 09:32 PM
1

Please use paragraphs
/r/askTRP08/12/19 08:00 PM
2

Then by all means permanently alter your body and future job prospects for some pussy.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 05:05 PM
1

If you like variety, check out Garage Gym Athlete. It’s $25 a month and has different tracks based on your goals. Completely curated workouts on a 12 week cycle with instruction videos and an app to track progress.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 05:20 AM
1

Was at her place. We’d just finished our fun for the evening and I’d sent her to the other room to find my underwear when I hear my Tinder start blowing up. This hot little Air Force chick that I’d chatted with the week prior started blowing me up for some reason, so I open the phone and start reading when the plate walks back in with my undies in hand, visibly agitated. “Are...are you seriously on Tinder right now while I’m crawling around looking for your fucking underwear?” I look up briefly …
/r/askTRP08/12/19 04:56 AM
6

You gon knock her up or get arrested somehow with this one. RemindMe! 3 months
/r/askTRP07/12/19 12:49 PM
3

Open the box and find out, Schroedinger.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 05:14 AM
-1

Then why the fuck are you here?
/r/askTRP07/12/19 05:11 AM
1

Doesn’t see it becoming romantic Romantic? Kino her and find out, dude.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 05:10 AM
8

Chill hop and ambient stuff on YouTube, movie scores (Oblivion and Dark Knight are my favorites)
/r/askTRP07/12/19 03:42 AM
3

Pay the money, but also understand the recovery is tenuous and long-term permanent success of the repair is far from certain.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 02:56 AM
15

Just STOP. Throw your phone into a river if you have to. Whatever keeps you from doing whatever the fuck that was ever again.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 02:02 AM
20

Yeah but if he doesn’t ask here, then no one will know that he’s thinking about reading the first chapter.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 01:43 AM
24

Yeah she immediately realized how alpha I was now and then walked up to me carrying a plate, saying “thought you could use another one big boy” with a wink and a blowjob.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 01:41 AM
4

Sigh
/r/askTRP06/12/19 10:55 PM
2

I felt like he made it pretty clear that she’s doing her job (that he knows of) by also making it known that they’re together and telling him the guy’s intentions. Of course we don’t know all the conversations they’re having about it or what she’s doing when he’s not around, but it at least appears as though she’s being pretty stand-up about the whole thing.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 10:09 PM
7

Why do you care? Do YOU want a relationship?
/r/askTRP06/12/19 08:46 PM
1

It’s either fuck yes or fuck no, my friend.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 08:34 PM
6

“You mean like this week or...” with a sly grin usually gets things moving right along.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 08:29 PM
1

Dude. I’m not saying you should openly “flaunt” that you’re getting what you want elsewhere, but definitely don’t make some big effort to hide it. If they want the dick, they’ll get over it in a hurry or they won’t. That’s up to them and you shouldn’t care because a High Value Man always knows he has other options. I have two plates/FWBs right now and both know at least indirectly that the other exists with the knowledge that others are a possibility in the future. They both lament the “unfair” …
/r/askTRP06/12/19 08:26 PM
2

AKA assume attraction. The message above is outcome independence. This is all basic sidebar stuff, my dude. Read it and put it to use.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 05:06 PM
4

It doesn’t matter what her answer is. All that matters is that you make the move.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 05:00 PM
2

Who gives a fuck? You definitely shouldn’t.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 05:25 AM
1

You broke just about every rule in one profile, so congrats, I guess. Backwards hat Shirtless mirror selfie No clue what the third pic is supposed to be conveying besides autism
/r/askTRP06/12/19 05:07 AM
8

Sounds like yet another form of manipulation.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 06:10 PM
12

Nah you’re just trying to make yourself feel better about him being “different” by trying to make him “like you”
/r/askTRP05/12/19 02:27 PM
5

You’ve got a brat on your hands. They live for the struggle. I hope you know what you’re getting into because if you don’t, she’ll drive you crazy within a month. When they start “talking tough”, that is usually the point where I will polarize by alluding to “always getting what I want” in some way and if they’re truly game, they always take the bait. I had a sub that said I “irritated” her into getting a drink with me on Hinge with a very similar convo and honestly at that point you’re just usi…
/r/askTRP05/12/19 12:46 PM
3

Can we just ban this bottom feeder already?
/r/askTRP04/12/19 09:31 PM
1

Terrible. Don’t play a woman’s game.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 09:02 PM
3

Stop relying on her for all of your enjoyment AKA get a fucking life
/r/askTRP04/12/19 06:34 PM
1

It’s a zero sum game because the answer is completely unverifiable, which means it’s a waste of time and energy.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 04:08 PM
1

Bullshit is a stinky cologne
/r/askTRP04/12/19 12:19 PM
17

Been there, chief. Shit happens. Eat her out while you try to get your shit together and if little dude won’t cooperate, take a break and get some food or something. Whatever you do, don’t: Apologize. You aren’t there for her. Mention it ever again. Lie about dumb shit to a fucking woman. I know you younger bulls take pills like we took vitamins growing up, but you opened yourself up to all kinds of bullshit by doing that. I’d rather have a limp dick than be on pills and I’m pretty sure she’d ag…
/r/askTRP04/12/19 04:51 AM
-1

Sigh.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 04:18 AM
3

The depth to which you have that shirt open is the problem in this pic, not your chest hair. You look like someone caught you in the middle of undressing.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:24 AM
2

Come back and ask us again after you fuck her so we can tell you to read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:23 AM
7

Think of it this way: what other options do you have that aren’t based in fear?
/r/askTRP04/12/19 01:48 AM
2

Why did you tell her?
/r/askTRP03/12/19 10:22 PM
8

Stop giving a fuck. See above. Keep being better than you were yesterday.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 10:04 PM
6

You just...stop. I’ve done it with cigarettes, alcohol and vaping. The key is to throw away/pour everything out in that small window where you truly hate the substance that you’re addicted to instead of yourself.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 08:59 PM
7

Depends on which platform you’re using to view it
/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 07:26 PM
1

How do you deal with girls who only talk about themselves? I find girls who don't only talk about themselves
/r/askTRP03/12/19 04:39 PM
1

Dude. Stop. Just let this one go and read the sidebar. You ain’t ready yet.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 02:08 PM
1

See edit
/r/askTRP03/12/19 05:42 AM
9

Should you hit up the deleted member? That’s a technique I haven’t tried yet... EDIT: Didn’t see that it was an album. She’s flaking because you’re not making anything specific. “Cool wanna hang” ping pong means nothing. Set a time and place and see what she does. Hope the beats are sick and the pussy runs deep, my dude.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 05:36 AM
2

I rest my case. You’re gonna fuck this up sooner rather than later, simply because you care about fucking it up, but hey: failing is part of the process.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 04:13 AM
1

Fuckadoodledoo. You respond by not responding and reading the sidebar for likely the first time ever.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 04:01 AM
1

Ok so she’s: Not fun and: Not hot But you’re “trying to keep her interested”...why? Go read the sidebar some more, Backpack Boy.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 03:58 AM
3

Cool humblebrag, bro. You give so few fucks about this girl that you made an entire post about her and how much she thinks of you. Killer frame she’s got, bro.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 03:51 AM
6

What is it with you guys and asking about your “mental health” every time this happens to you? “LTR swallowed a baseball team” “FWB is my new stepmom” Having something bad/unfortunate happen and feeling bummed about it (temporarily or on/and off) is fucking normal and necessary to finish the coping/healing process and be able to move on with your life. It doesn’t mean that you need help with “mental health”. It means you’re normal and need a way to cope. The TRP community is typically the first …
/r/askTRP02/12/19 07:35 PM
5

Those last two paragraphs are the true red pill.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 05:05 PM
8

That’s what’s supposed to happen, chief. Sounds like someone has been reading Sex God.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 05:00 PM
1

It’s not a yes until she actually shows up. Pick somewhere you like, make yourself presentable and tell her where and when you’ll be. The rest is on her.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 04:28 PM
11

Terrible gameplan. The only way to win this game is not to play.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 04:25 PM
3

Keep going, but make sure you’re working some kino in there while you’re at it. Then keep going until you’re poking her from the inside.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 04:21 PM
5

No one is talking about his music here
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 02:48 PM
1

And in these scenarios, are your pants already off?
/r/askTRP02/12/19 02:46 PM
1

Who gives a fuck as long as they’re draining my balls peoperly
/r/askTRP02/12/19 01:40 AM
3

Ghost her like Swayze (without the Whoopie avatar bullshit)
/r/askTRP01/12/19 10:40 PM
6

Cool lay, bro. You can start by reading the sidebar.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 09:15 PM
1

She was unintentionally right: she was basically trying to bait you into “taking” her by talking you up and then acting scared. When you weren’t as “aggressive” as she expected (see: going down on her first instead of fucking her or making her blow you), so she basically sent up a flare to try and elicit a retaliatory response. I’ve had this happen before ( especially with Asians) and had the same head-scratching night alone until I realized what was going on. What I’m not saying for some of you…
/r/askTRP30/11/19 11:39 PM
1

Hard next solely because of your needy double-text after she dreaded you. You’ll never fuck her again. She might contact you, but only to keep gaming you.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 08:48 PM
8

Yeah the first one is creepy af if you don’t have any rapport
/r/askTRP30/11/19 12:06 AM
1

I mean... are you going to be hungry at that time? Pick the place and have a meal while she happens to be there. I’ve done lunch meets and still fucked them before dinner. My only concern here is that you don’t really seem all that into her, so maybe you’re just seeing if you can? Nothing wrong with that (I’m doing the same thing with a former oneitis from high school), but that’s ok as long as you’re being honest with yourself and aware.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 09:25 PM
2

You gotta live it and experience it, man. There’s no other way. Go out there, fuck it up, learn and keep going. There’s no other way.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 06:58 PM
1

He told her, though. She just wants the validation of being able to “explain” (see: rationalize instead of accepting fault).
/r/askTRP29/11/19 06:53 PM
3

This is actually the toughest situation because the temptation to take advantage of their desperation for an easy lay is tough to pass up. I failed a few times with my ex-wife and then had to deal with the renewed expectation of “more”. Once I stopped fucking her completely, she finally got the message and left me alone. It took a few hard rejections when she was offering “anything”, but I don’t regret passing it up. Plenty of better things to do with my dick than keep fucking a woman that cheat…
/r/askTRP29/11/19 06:50 PM
3

Never outshine the master.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 05:39 PM
1

I was married for 15 years. I have no desire to be monogamous. I can want what I want and still empathize with them without compromising.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 05:37 PM
2

In my experience, the ones that are the most put together fall hardest because they’re so sure it won’t happen to them because they don’t need a man. They have great careers and look great. Every woman I’ve plated in the last 3 years on TRP has been smart, successful, fit and great at conversation at least most of the time. Doctors, lawyers, music executives, nurses, pilots, etc. Ages ranged from 25-46. All of them were hooked after the first lay. A couple were 1st date closes, the majority were…
/r/askTRP29/11/19 05:25 PM
2

The juice is definitely not worth the squeeze with this one
/r/askTRP29/11/19 02:50 AM
9

She’s not a plate if she’s your only option. You care or you wouldn’t be here posting about it. Move on. Also, plates will fuck other guys. That’s why they’re plates.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:08 PM
2

Cynicism is toxic because it assumes and causes choices, even if reality is otherwise. Realism is neutral. Realism knows the possibility exists of both good and bad, so you’re able to choose to enjoy what is good and make a choice if the bad becomes known. This is the biggest misconception about AWALT. AWALT at face value is cynicism because it assumes that every woman is “like that” all the time, which simply isn’t true. The realist view of AWALT is that all women are CAPABLE of being “like tha…
/r/askTRP28/11/19 12:20 AM
3

This one is pretty simple: you live YOUR life. She’s an ex for a good reason.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 12:14 AM
2

Deflect if she asks and pressure flip if she keeps pressing. Only truly deny if it becomes that “ answer me right now” bullshit they like to try, but even then deflection and changing the subject is still better than a hard denial. You’re gonna have to play this perfect or she’ll sniff out your bullshit from a mile away.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 05:46 PM
2

Marriage is called hard mode for a reason
/r/askTRP26/11/19 04:21 AM
1

Y’all do realize you can just sit with your legs spread or make her lick it while you stand, right?
/r/askTRP26/11/19 04:19 AM
2

Plate or date. Pick one. You’re her plate right now and getting played like one. Ghost her like Swayze.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 04:15 AM
5

Jesus you’re stupid. Let me translate this for you: “I will totally definitely have so much sex with you, but only after you chauffeur me around to some place that I definitely can’t just put in GPS” Summary: she got you to fuck her again (lmao at you thinking she’s a plate after one lay, considering your history) and now she’s going to see what else she can get you to do by promising sex that will never happen. She’s gaming you so hard right now.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 02:58 AM
2

The answer is determined by her response, physical or non-physical, which is determined by her level of attraction to you.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 10:23 PM
2

I know this feel. I have two who both claim to be in love with me after a couple months of high quality dicking. They both lament having to share me (they know of each other indirectly), but also both say they don’t mind because I make them happy, so they’ll take what they can get. This has happened more than a few times over the last few years. I’m very dominant in bed, so it creates a “deeper” connection that makes it very tough for them to stay casual. I’ve considered backing off the dominant…
/r/askTRP22/11/19 06:27 PM
7

Sure thing, bub. That’s why you’re here asking about how to close some chick from FB lmao
/r/askTRP22/11/19 06:21 PM
2

38 here. I never lie. They’ll swipe on what they like because they have to set the age range just like you. Currently banging a HB7 that’s 26 who I met on Hinge. She calls me a dinosaur but she still happily takes my cum however I give it. Age only matters if you make it matter.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 06:10 PM
1

She wants to show her higher status to her friends on her birthday by having you there. “Wouldn’t be my first (insert number of girls there)-some 😏” would be my response. Show up looking and smelling good, work the room a little and then bounce. Staying is a no-win scenario and whatever you do, don’t give her your gift (if you got her one, up to you) in front of them.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 06:02 PM
7

You’re already headed toward the friend zone by not closing the first time and offering to take her home after this party that you so clearly care about more than her. The threesome “joke” could possibly cause some tingles and kind of reset the tone of the dynamic so far, but that’s entirely dependent on how light and flirty you’ve been from the get-go. Personally, I’d quip back with something along the lines of “sweet it sounds like you already have a ride. I’m probably headed there around x ti…
/r/askTRP22/11/19 05:01 PM
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