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| 10 | Doesn't practicing true self-love make any self-improvement impossible? | Question for BluePill | unplugged-sink | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 03:54 PM |
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| 2 | Doesn't practicing true self-love make any self-improvement impossible?I'd argue though that the best version of myself for me is vastly different from the best version of myself to be attractive For example, going to the gym once a week to lift weights is enough volume to greatly improve your health. But to build a physique most people would find objectively attractive requires going to the gym more frequently. Self-love alone for me would say that hour a week is fine and don't bother with the extra but by looking outside my own wants I'm pushed further and will b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 04:17 AM |
| 0 | Doesn't practicing true self-love make any self-improvement impossible?I'm interested, let's say one of your children has objectively not great fashion sense. Presumably, if they came to you and said "I want to get some new clothes to look better and feel more confident" you'd be onboard with them making that change? Does that change if they instead say "I want to get some new clothes because other kids say I dress badly" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 03:56 AM |
| 17 | Men cannot complain their way to sex and relationshipsOf course you are correct that complaining directly to people you're trying to attract isn't going to work. Nobody wants a relationship (platonic or romantic) with a person who's always negative and complaining. That said, I think a lot of men (myself included) have had rough dating experiences and venting about them either online or in person can be cathartic. I think encouraging men to take advice on how to get better at attracting people isn't a horrible idea and it makes sense to start from … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 12:23 PM |
| 5 | Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enoughSo I once did what you suggest and lowered my standards all the way until I got a girlfriend. Now maybe I'm delusional about my own 'objective attractiveness' but I'm in decent shape, own my home, steady job, lots of hobbies and a decent social circle. The woman I ended up with was an overweight alcoholic with no job, couldn't drive, had very little going for her personality wise and, I'm pretty sure, once stole from me... All my friends begged me to dump her and I was inclined to agree. I lower… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 03:17 PM |
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