unseemlycad Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Male Privilege Checklist I don't want to be combative because you sound young and idealistic and that you actually want the world to be better for your friends so I will try to answer even though I find that you do wish to be combative and that the hate in your heart is quite shocking. Firstly. The entire thing is amusing. I don't think there is a single thing on that list which makes much sense actually even if some of the points it is trying to make are perfectly valid. It is not written to appeal, it is written to ac…	/r/MensRights	26/10/20 10:14 AM
3	Male Privilege Checklist Someone archive this link please. I can’t reddit on my stupid phone very well but this is a gold mine of nutty and also an interesting insight into the thinking of some of the more radical folks in the feminism side of the aisle. As you might expect this ‘list’ is essentially a lot of pretty nasty minded hearsay and with zero sources. It’s written in the same format as the ‘declaration of sentiments’ so we can assume a feminist wrote it and one that fancies themselves as a bit of an authority on…	/r/MensRights	25/10/20 08:13 AM
0	Woman shouts "what is wrong with you" at a man, who pushed a woman away for spitting at him during a global pandemic It was extremely necessary to remove her from the bus. She is a danger to herself and others due to her quite clear issues not to mention being a criminal guilty of a disgusting assault. She would not have got off the bus without physical intervention and the first push did not work. He would be well within his rights to punch her for what she did but he showed extraordinary restraint by not striking her and did the right thing by removing her from the bus with as little contact as possible. The…	/r/MensRights	23/10/20 08:13 AM
2	Very interesting POV : men have always showed their feelings, but it's not accepted as valid feelings to be displayed To be honest I am always surprised so many men take this seriously. If anyone brings this crap up with you I would suggest asking what their favourite music is, or maybe painting, or book. As soon as you stop and remember that art exists and that men are not just good at making it then you can't make that argument anymore. Not to mention all the other wonderful endeavour that men express themselves through. Just silly.	/r/MensRights	26/07/20 11:45 AM
3	My experience was dismissed because I am not a women. I'm so sorry that happened to you man but i have to say it seems like you are doing amazing. Coming on here to open up about this is brave as fuck and what a real man with real courage looks like. Massive respect. As for that nasty chick? Take it from a guy twice your age, that fucker is not your friend. I've been around that block a few times and I'm sure she'd probably like to be or even thinks she is, but her hateful bias means she probably just can't be. Be polite but also be a few arms leng…	/r/MensRights	06/07/20 10:18 AM
23	This was posted on an abusiverelationships sub that I’m currently a member of & i don’t appreciate the generalization of it but when I was vocal about that I received criticism & little support. This is called psychological projection.	/r/MensRights	31/05/20 07:12 AM
1	Ever wonder how feminists as vile as Clementine Ford get away with so much hate speech year after year? The support of politicians like Footscray's Katie Hall, that's how. She is an Australian feminist who says Ford is ‘hugely important contributor’. Unless she’s been living under a rock for the last decade she’s saying these things knowing full well what Clementine’s tweets say. She’s been reading them for years and she obviously sees nothing wrong with them. Oh yeah... And she’s an MP. Let that sink in. Just... Fuck.	/r/MensRights	25/05/20 01:39 PM
50	Inequality v. Equality v. Equity v. Justice (The new political correctness call) This entire idea is anti variance, and thus it is anti human and deeply illogical in it’s basis. I’m just not going to beat Usain Bolt at a 100 meter dash. Ever. And I’m personally pretty happy Usain exists. I’m really happy people can run faster, write better, think smarter, design cleaner, dance sillier, jump higher, earn more and just do better than me. I do fine and I don’t think they’re oppressing me because they do really well. I’m glad humans are amazing and do amazing things even if I my…	/r/MensRights	25/05/20 01:18 PM
13	Male feminist reacts to vile scumbag who murdered his kids by telling ALL men to, you know, stop killing women and kids... "Dear All Men, I'm better than all men. I'm the best man. I'm superior and know better but the rest of you need to be told about obvious things. By me. Because I'm better. Yours MEEEEEEEE!"	/r/MensRights	22/02/20 09:56 AM
3	Neymar was ACCUSED of rape and loses endorsements within 3 days. Amber Heard is caught in audio, 2 weeks ago, admitting to beating her ex husband but still has all her roles and endorsements. So the “war against women” still exist? It’s not difficult information to find. For detailed breakdown by country you can look at the Wikipedia page on suffrage under the ‘History around the world’ section. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suffrage As for the UK, before the 1832 parliament had a vote on some matters, not all, and it’s powers grew very slowly over time from it’s formation in the 1265. The same is true of those eligible to vote. To say men could vote before women is just misleading. Only the male aristocracy (by custom o…	/r/MensRights	16/02/20 07:13 PM
38	Neymar was ACCUSED of rape and loses endorsements within 3 days. Amber Heard is caught in audio, 2 weeks ago, admitting to beating her ex husband but still has all her roles and endorsements. So the “war against women” still exist? No one was allowed to vote. The difference between male and female suffrage in the UK was 10 years. 1918 to 1928. The very first vote given to land owners only was less than 100 years before that. Not thousands of years as these crazy’s would have you believe. It’s a myth designed to do one thing. Twist the truth. Ignore.	/r/MensRights	16/02/20 09:45 AM
15	No men's restroom in The Habit anymore, only a women's and a mens/women's Couldn’t agree more. I was watching Peterson the other day say something like: “If you can’t understand why someone is doing something, look at the end result as the desired effect. You sir just hit the nail on the head and I believe this idea to be the whole point.	/r/MensRights	13/02/20 11:12 AM
9	Ex-Femenists what made you turn? This is probably going to sound dumb (because it is) but I identified as one when someone told me I was. I literally did what I was told. I always believed in ‘equality’ and in one of my lowest and loneliest times of life I expressed as much in conversation so a girl told me I was in her gang essentially. It felt good to be accepted and the gang seemed cool and to want nice things. So I literally called myself something without having read a word of the thing. I called myself something in comple…	/r/MensRights	11/02/20 09:24 AM
1	Second billboard sign in Manchester UK Back projected projection. One suspects that the artist in question can’t help but be quite a bad person and based on his own failings has jumped to a conclusion about everybody else. He’s obviously never heard of Martin Luther King or Mahatma Gandhi. What a tool.	/r/MensRights	23/01/20 09:35 AM
1	Why are traditional gender roles only considered sexist against women? Beethoven’s 9th is anecdotal? Shakespeare doesn’t pass muster? The entire fields of art, music, literature, design and well, most human endeavour stand as a testament to the channeling of emotion and passion in to creation which I am sure we can all agree men do rather well. That is what I’m referring to. We don’t always cry to process. I myself create to do so. Because we are different to women. If anyone doubts men’s ability to express emotion they have to discount the clear evidence all aroun…	/r/MensRights	30/12/19 09:59 AM
2	Why are traditional gender roles only considered sexist against women? Serious question. When we pose a theory we should see if there is any evidence to that refutes it. This being the case how do you think they square this idea that being masculine hurts men with the endless examples of the most extraordinarily beautiful expressions of emotion, passion and love often if not mostly coming from men?	/r/MensRights	29/12/19 11:46 PM
25	Unfaithful woman and her lover kill woman’s husband after he insulted her. On appeal, murder conviction is overturned and her sentence is reduced because he insulted her. I was in a Brighton pub getting plastered recently and a friend of mine called a girl the C word because she pushed in to him on his way back from the loo. Not cool obviously. It was busy so he should be cooler than that. Thing is. She then tried to glass him. He ducked and the empty pint glass smashed on the wall where his face had been. We’ve been drinking there for 15 years. No trouble before. Ever. When we spoke to the bar staff they said... ‘Yeah. But you did call her a cunt’ It was that da…	/r/MensRights	28/12/19 05:47 PM
1	Banned for 'mansplaining' basic truths. Interesting perspective mate. Thanks for the reply.	/r/MensRights	27/12/19 11:05 AM
4	Banned for 'mansplaining' basic truths. Okay... okay. Sorry for the sarcastic tone. I’m drunk at Christmas here. You’re not wrong about the poor me side of it. That is some ineffectual bullshit although I think you’re a little harsh in the way you talk about it. Dunno about the ‘they don’t hate men’ part, as per the links I included, which are the tip of quite the hateful iceberg. What I don’t agree with necessarily is that the only option is to check out. There must be a better solution. Not sure I can think of a successful civil rig…	/r/MensRights	27/12/19 12:17 AM
3	Banned for 'mansplaining' basic truths. Feminists obviously don’t hate men. It’s not like mainstream, highly respected, widely read newspapers publish that kind of thing... https://archive.md/xo2JF https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2006/nov/02/whyihatemen I’m so glad you felt comfortable enough to tell us we’re all pathetic. Really well researched and considered comment. You’re the edgy smart one here clearly. Must be nice.	/r/MensRights	26/12/19 07:56 PM
1	The women dying were what made it a true tragedy worth of note apparently It’s a good point and I think we could be missing a trick here around that exact idea. Anyone who writes for a living thinks about how their stuff will be read and this person certainly wrote this with their eyes up. People in the communications industry are usually pretty savvy about how people read. It’s obviously designed to outrage. Surely this is classic troll behaviour. It’s so crowbarred in to the headline that I have to assume it’s designed to raise heckles, drive clicks and possibly gen…	/r/MensRights	21/12/19 05:49 PM
2	Affirmative action: Woman manages to not lose at 1st round of darts world championship after being given a female quota qualifying spot. Everyone goes nuts. The bar for women is low. Ah you rollerblade for sure. I have often thought the same thing about the old fruit boots. It’s perception in the wider world is for sure as a girly/gay sport and yet it’s all twenty something, straight (largely) macho dudes, mainly wearing black, doing it. It’s just a really interesting phenomena that all these young, frankly kinda hipster looking guys are more interested in the respect from within the group than respect from wider society even when the group is extremely niche. Like tiny nich…	/r/MensRights	20/12/19 11:20 AM
3	An interesting title - xpost Okay. That sounds a little unscientific but let’s say that’s the case. What then?	/r/MensRights	11/12/19 03:44 PM
4	An interesting title - xpost That’s really sad to hear and I hope you’re in a better place now. Can you explain your point? What are you getting at?	/r/MensRights	11/12/19 09:46 AM
12	Now there's a whole community to exploit men with dating and sex. Had to post after seeing stuff like this: That place probably is a hate sub but this is the ranting of a mentally ill, stupid person with no upvotes so not worth worrying about too much. There’s crazy people everywhere. Even here.	/r/MensRights	23/10/19 02:19 PM
5	Academics want sex robots capable of withdrawing consent. Even our fantasies aren't safe from the virtue police Ah yes... Is anyone surprised that Marxist feminists don’t understand economics? Not only is this a special kind of shitty but it literally doesn’t represent reality. It’s like they think products just sort of pop into existence. Why would anyone buy a product that doesn’t work? I think that we can assume that early versions of sex robots will presumably cost quite a lot to make and thus be expensive to buy. This combined with the fact that companies in the future will presumably still need to m…	/r/MensRights	20/10/19 07:33 PM
2	I need help. I have had many of those thoughts brother. Feel you. Haven’t had em in a long while now tho. So I thought I’d share some captain obvious advice which helped me. Set an alarm and even if you don’t want to get up at the same time every day. This routine really helps to regulate evil morning me. Eat a breakfast which includes some protein in it. Do this first thing. I try to avoid surgery jams and juices as they usually come with a sugar crash and a badly judged e-mail at around 11am. I’ll tend to …	/r/MensRights	20/10/19 11:03 AM
6	The man who created Men in Black was sitting in a cafe when .... I get what you mean in the individual sense. It’s good to stick hateful opinions in the fuck it bucket. But the men’s rights movement, integrally, is trying to get others to see our point of view. So it is worth bringing people in where we can I think. Otherwise it’s just war, like the rad fems want.	/r/MensRights	19/10/19 10:07 AM
6	"We tell men to open up more. But are we ready to listen?" I was blown away after all these years for sure. Super disappointed but then I don’t want to hate. I’d say it’s more of a twisted by bitterness and feminism in recent years kinda thing and there is every chance he was shit behind closed doors so she drank the cool aid. I fucking wasn’t tho. Always had her back so frankly she can do one. She never had that weird hair and shit attitude ten years ago. Hopefully she’ll see her bitterness is hurting her and let it go. Get bitter or get better and all…	/r/MensRights	18/10/19 08:31 PM
20	"We tell men to open up more. But are we ready to listen?" I recently went to meet a friend of mine for lunch as she had just gone through a breakup after a long time relationship. She was my next door neighbor when we were kids so we have literally been mates for 40 years. In telling me about her relationship she opened up and admitted that she felt emotionally abused when he'd cheated on her. So I opened up to her about the domestic abuse I had suffered in my life. I have done this precisely three times before, once to a parent who acted as though I w…	/r/MensRights	18/10/19 12:39 PM
1	I remember God damn this hit me in the feels. Not to minimise or anything but... She didn’t destroy you because I’m trying to learn how to write and that was one of the better written accounts I’ve read for ages. You still have skill and your mind is obviously working at a fucking high level. Also... you are wrong about industry. I’m a freelance artist and I make a nice living with no degree at all. You wanna talk tactics about starting a design business or indeed maybe even doing a bit of work on the side…	/r/MensRights	17/10/19 08:48 PM
1	Guy enjoys playing with kid - therefore AITA thinks he is a pedo I get it. I am protective too but do try and let it go. Little children don't fully know what that means. Maybe start there? He probably heard it from someone dumb and repeated it because he's dumb and frankly he's dumb because he's 8.	/r/MensRights	26/09/19 08:43 AM
2	Boys and men need to know they can express their feelings without being made fun of. Well meaning, I get it but... This is such a nuts idea. It all just makes me feel like everyone’s taking crazy pills. Surely this ‘men need to show their emotions’ theory should at least be thought about before people adopt it? Because it clearly hasn’t in any way at all. When we suggest a theory isn’t the idea that we then look for evidence that refutes that theory? Then if we find any we re work the theory to fit the reality and try again or dispense with it? Right? If men not expressing their…	/r/MensRights	01/09/19 12:57 PM
1	Feels odd but good to hear Dude... Just... No.	/r/MensRights	29/05/19 01:50 PM
2	With all the news in the world sky news is running this as a story... We have words. I believe it's called being a patronising fuckface. Again, not gendered. Women are not treated differently. Men who are like that are like that to men. Definitely. Met a bunch of em and I think we can both agree, they are indeed assholes. Equally, women who are like that are like that to everyone. The way my partners female boss talks to her makes my fucking blood boil but then I've seen her with her husband and he is also down trodden and broken by this horrible person, so equall…	/r/MensRights	16/11/16 02:01 PM
1	With all the news in the world sky news is running this as a story... The rational bottom line is that the term itself is sexist and so when you use it, you are being sexist. Women often talk down to men on all kinds of subjects like romance, childcare, empathy, listening etc etc. Men often talk down to women on all kinds of issues like mechanics, sport, the military, philosophy etc etc. People talk down to other people when they see themselves as the authority on the subject. They especially do it when they are passionate about a subject. It happens all the time …	/r/MensRights	16/11/16 12:25 PM