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Good on ya for writing this FR. As you continue your journey it will be instrumental in progressing your ability. When she told you that she wanted to sleep in your bed she had decided to have sex with you (if not before then.) It is your job to get her aroused enough to bust the last minute resistance both mentally and physically. As you gain more experience you'll have a better idea of when "it's on" and from reading your FR you could have taken her home quite a bit sooner and had more time to…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 05:16 PM
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Do most people on here never socialize? I don't see why some of these concepts are so difficult to internalize. Hypergamy being one of the easiest to understand imho.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 08:25 PM
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Why is someone with an N count of 1 trying to f-close on a first date w/ a girl he met speed dating? While I agree that you've implemented several TRP principles into your afternoon with this girl I think you're trying too hard and failed to calibrate throughout. Logistically the date was somewhat sound but you're going to have a hard time getting the lay when you're taking your date back to your parent's place.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 06:40 PM
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This advice is so important for men to read! Thanks for posting. Set yourself up for success guys! It will transform your dating lives and lead to much more success.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 04:48 PM
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Instead of focusing so much on the number close why not explore the conversations a bit with the "girl with a boyfriend" and "the one that didn't want to give her phone number" and try to get to the next level with them? You've proven over the past 37 days that you can cold approach a girl and potentially get a number. Why not focus on generating more attraction with more attractive women at this point? Also, it sounds like you're in your head a lot when approaching and from the way you describe…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 03:02 PM
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Seems like you've already rationalized your predicament so why come to a bunch of strangers on the internet for their take? Sounds to me like you ARE negotiating your desire which is indicative by the comments you've made in this very post: "I am strongly Roman Catholic and I do not have sex." "I am in Louisiana and I am myself a southerner. What you just said is only true of the lower class." Seems like you are trying to strike a balance between your perception of yourself and your religion's p…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 07:19 PM
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Already negotiating desire and you're 3 dates deep? Fantastic.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 06:47 PM
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Not surprised that she's 37. Tons of women pull this shit and never get called out on it. Good on ya for setting boundaries and having confidence in yourself. Now use this momentum towards your next adventure.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 07:27 PM
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Have you thought about evolving your approach to build so much value / comfort / rapport in your interactions that you get the girl to ask for your number or to give you hers without being prompted? This would cut down on flakes and give you a goal to aspire to. Why take a girl out that's lukewarm on her attraction for you and waste time that you could be bettering yourself or opening other women? After this you'll have less flakes which will make your approach game more efficient and allow you …
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 02:47 PM
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You weren't going to have sex with her as soon as you agreed to take her to a movie that she brought up in casual conversation (her frame). Even worse you bought tickets in advance and eagerly text her as much. Has she trained you to bring her the newspaper in the morning as well? Do you beg for treats too? C'mon man! Women want to be lead so why not setup your own plans and invite her to join YOU? Moving forward, start things off at the rooftop bar for a drink and bounce to at least one venue c…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 02:35 PM
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Sounds like you have that approach down pretty well but got a little lost here on the date itself. Perhaps it's time to shift your focus to the next stage? Don't get disappointed about being rejected when you went for this kiss. Sounds like it kind of shut you down for the rest of the date. It should not discourage from you going in for another kiss later in the date after building momentum with DHV (demonstrating high value). You will want to become extremely aware of the ebb & flow of the emot…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 04:03 AM
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I won't get into too much detail but nothing was done that night although she displayed signs of being really into me... What were the indicators of interest that lead you to believe she was interested in you? What did you do about them? ...what troubled me was this: every other dude at the table thought the exact same thing. They were all hitting on her and she would occasionally talk to me or would listen intently, however, as soon as I looked at her she'd go back to talking to the rest of the…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 06:03 PM
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This is largely verbal diarrhea and you clearly have no idea what you are doing.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 01:59 PM
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How would you go about measuring your success at seduction? From the way you describe it your goal is more abstract and it may help to further refine this goal to make it more visceral, attainable, and measurable. For me, when I'm out meeting women my immediate goal is intimacy by Day 3 or sooner. This way I can measure my success and calibrate based upon what is working and what isn't working. If you're working on approaching and attracting girls then give yourself a number that you want to mee…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 06:37 PM
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Excellent post! You made some great suggestions on passions to pursue. I would personally recommend to anyone on their journey to get better at dancing. Whatever style of dance is apt for your area - learn it! It will pay-off tremendously.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 03:30 PM
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Thanks for sharing. Now challenge yourself to keep it up until it becomes natural! Once you become more comfortable you will be blown away at how many women in NYC you'll share eye contact with. Plenty of opportunity! Up to you to take advantage of them, though. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 03:26 PM
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I've enjoyed reading your posts so thanks for sharing. What is your goal? Given your low investment in these interactions why not challenge yourself to "stay in set" as long as possible? It sounds like the coffee date started to turn the corner as you were approaching the park but you had already mentally ejected. Why not chat her up about travel which she seems interested in? Ample opportunity to demonstrate high value with travel stories of your own. I understand why you became upset after the…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 03:20 PM
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Very insightful post. All reference experience is valuable so take what you learned from this interaction and go spend time with more women. Good luck!
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 04:14 PM
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Welcome to the fold, brother. You will soon learn to accept those things that you have no control over. Until then, take solace in the fact that you are saving yourself quite a bit of grief and unfulfilled expectations that are inherent in a long-distance relationship. Onwards, upwards. Your whole life is ahead of you.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 08:22 PM
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More ideal for whom? If I don't want an LTR than it would not be ideal for me. The female imperative has it's talons firmly in your back. Beware.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 02:23 PM
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"Never wrestle with a pig. You will only get dirty and they'll enjoy it."
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 07:59 PM
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You have only yourself to blame. Use this as a learning opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 07:19 PM
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It's going to get better but it's up to you to make it that way. The best time to start making your life better was 10 years ago. The second best time is right now. Time to get started.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 03:31 PM
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"Our great danger in this life is not that we aim too high and fail, but we aim too low and succeed." ~ Rollo Tomassi
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 03:04 PM
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Glad to hear it. Onwards and upwards! After reading "The Rational Male" your entire perspective will be changed and it will allow you to see the story you shared with us with an entirely different perspective. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 02:53 PM
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It is up to you to decide how long the soft next should last for. What does your gut tell you? Clearly she has been lying to you and became jealous & combative over during that last conversation. If it were me I'd be considering 3 days minimum. It will give you time to reflect as well on this relationship and determine the best path forward. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 02:51 PM
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Despite you mentioning your abundance mindset (spinning plates) you are very clearly operating in a scarcity mindset with this girl and seemingly have contracted oneITIS for her. (Don't ask me how I know) screams insecurity because you are probably tracking her via her phone without her knowing. Why are you implementing a soft next when you don't fully understand the concept? You're reaching, man. Fundamentally you are coming at this whole situation in the wrong way. If you are actually spinning…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 02:44 PM
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Thanks for sharing your story. Aside from getting back on your feet - what steps are you taking in future relationships to ensure this doesn't happen again? I would highly recommend you read "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi to gain perspective on how to best set yourself up in the future with regard to dealing with women / relationships / etc.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 02:38 PM
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How many of those men did your female friend sleep with after getting free drinks from them on your first night out? That will answer the question you pose about intent.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 09:06 PM
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This entire thought process is too female centric. Focus on yourself and your own goals in life and you will attract and retain people that will compliment your journey. Why would you make time for anyone else that wasn't a compliment to your own life?
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 07:48 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to post this. Very valuable information.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 03:02 PM
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Good luck. In a relationship where you are effectively leading this story would sound like this. "My LTR told me that a guy at work was harassing her and that she made it known to him his advances were not welcome then summarily filed the appropriate complaint against him." Girls don't tell a guy "I have a boyfriend" then do nothing about the trespass after repeated attempts. Girls that are content with a relationship drop the fucking hammer on shit like this because they would never risk losing…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 10:55 PM
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First and foremost you made the mistake of engaging in the shit test willingly. Why not ignore her? Redirect? LEAD HER. Then you tried to combat emotion with logic, failed, and resorted to emotion yourself and in somewhat of a jealous rage text her therefore cementing your failure. Now this is a "big deal" to you both because you made it a big deal. The real question here is, how are your currently working to improve yourself? Why is your LTR currently trying to re-evaluate your SMV and by doing…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 08:45 PM
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Next time, employ the soft next. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 06:47 PM
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Thanks for sharing. You should invest a significant amount of time in setting up a date that has good logistics to get you where you want to be; isolated with her. It's all about the ground work and it sounds like you should lead more as well. It also sounds like you should look into having more evocative conversations with your dates to elicit an emotional response from your dates. The travel / pictures is a good intro but should lead into more about her and how she feels. Keep the focus on her…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 02:49 PM
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You failed many shit tests. Keep reading.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 04:21 PM
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Rejection is better than regret, IMO.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 02:58 PM
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next time, rejection > regret.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 02:28 PM
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"Not interested in a friendship." Sounds like you are perhaps becoming too comfortable in this arrangement and your SMV is fluctuating based upon her vacillating opinion of your value to her.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 07:40 PM
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Well, you got her number so all is not lost. I think the approach is more about exploring the boundaries of the given opportunity and not always being so focused on closing. Sounds like you did well and you'll only get better as you make more attempts and gain more experience. We don't know her HB rating so its difficult to recommend further steps without knowing her qualification from your perspective. Is she an HB4? Good experience, hard pass. HB8? Different story entirely.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 05:09 AM
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I committed to this training regimen and it has worked wonders for my fitness: http://www.halhigdon.com/training/51122/10K-Novice-Training-Program Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 03:05 PM
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Sounds like you're taking a reasonable approach to it all so congrats on that. She seems to be in the market for an SMV upgrade - are you prepared for that?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 09:05 PM
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First off, great job on your attempt and not being discouraged by her refusal to kiss you initially. Second, have you thought about taking some time off from dating and just focusing on yourself and your goals? It would do wonders for your confidence.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 02:55 PM
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Thanks for posting. Maxim #161 is particularly insightful especially when you mention, "Boldness is a man's burden."
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 03:38 PM
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