Frame: Met a girl about a year ago and hit it off really well with her. Established an early EFA as as a casual, confident, social, but independent (Im self-employed and a bit of globetrotter as I travel to a new countries every 1-3 months) guy with a clear set of my own principles. Frame is easy to maintain as I’m always spinning plates and, in a worst case scenario, can completely and enjoyably immerse myself in the work I do. Decide to promote plate to LTR and so the fun begins.

Plate Profile: Classy, demure, East Asian, 30, HB8. For the past year has exhibited all the signs of a trustful, communicative mate. Hardly drinks. Doesn’t party. No crazy night life, clubbing activities, etc. Seems family oriented. By all accounts, she’s a conservative Japanese gal.

That’s the profile someone who’s still blue pilled would attribute to her anyway. Remember boys, AWALT. It doesn’t matter how the stars aligned when you met, it doesn’t matter whether she has maintained that sweet frame for years; all women are wired on hypergamy and come equipped with a hamster. Under the right context, she WILL reveal her true nature.

Context: She recently went on a trip to the land down under. Rented room in a hostel. First week was cool. Always responsive to texts. Hostels are a hotbed for slutty backpackers though. Within no time she’s surrounded by obnoxious broads in their early twenties who are enjoying the CC. She thinks they’re great and hits it off with them really well.

Before long she’s joining the girls for innocent nights out drinking. She always informs me when she’s going out. I always tell her to have a good time. I’m unphased by this as I have my own shit to deal with.

Over the next two weeks notice the communication lapses. She’s been getting back to the hostel from 2 - 3 am every night she decides to go out. Some nights she tells me she’s going to bed and (dont ask how I know) come to realize she has gone out to the club again.

The club posts regular pics every night on FB. The place looks like Sodom and Gomorrah. Pics of her and her friends are there. Her friends are on stage, some have taken off their shirts. Wet t-shirt contests, guys and girls stripping down to their underwear or even nude on the stage, etc. See pictures of her in a crowd of Chads laughing and taking pics as her friend gets sprayed down on stage with a water hose. So much for sweet little princess.

Maintained frame. Don’t mention it at all.

Situation: I don't use personal social media (closed my FB account and Instagram - though I still have a business account on FB). Reactivated my Instagram a few days back to show some friends old pics of my travels.

Chat with her is going pleasant and she suddenly starts a shit test:

Her: You reactivated IG? Me: Nah, gonna deactivate it soon. Was just showing some pics off to some friends. Her: You still follow your ex. You’re able to keep good memories. That’s nice. Me: Wow, sounds like you’re a big fan. Her: Yes, Im a huge fan. You guys look like such a great couple. I cant be like that. You’re still friends so of course it’s special. Me: You should be a fangirl of something more interesting. Her: Yeah, Im such a stalker. You should block me.

At that point she accidentally hit the call button on FB. I change the subject.

Me: Did you just call? Her: It was an accident. Me: Aw

She disappears offline until the next morning. By the way, it’s ladies night at the same club. First time in a year she has left me hanging without at least saying good night. I decide to Soft NEXT.

I’m 24 hours into this. I've since received 3 missed phone calls, an invitation to go Bali together, and messages mentioning she’s leaving the city she’s in. Suddenly more chatty than she's been for the past week.

Wondering whether I should extend her soft next for another day.

Game Plan: Keep spinning plates. Demote her. Resume things as if nothing has happened. Do an occasional shit test of my own to see how much of a liar she is (without overtly asking). I do this more for the sake of my own curiosity and to reinforce my concept of AWALT.