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Red Pill Theoryuntitled1/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 11:47 PM
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Dude, you're 19. Relax. Most guys hit their peak in their 30's. You've been at this for a year. Awesome. I started when I read The Game probably seven or eight years ago. There are other guys that have been here longer. Remember, you're in it for the long haul. The truth is, girls have it easier in their 20's, then in their 30's they hit the wall. For men, it's the opposite. Guys have it hard in their 20's, but it's easy sailing in your 30's. So the reason you're not any girl's "top dog" is beca…
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:13 AM
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She's putting up a bitch shield because your game sucks. Short answers and a dismissive attitude are the opposite of an IOI. She would probably like to get angry and tell you to fuck off, but she's too polite and doesn't want to cause a scene. There's no way to diagnose exactly what's going wrong, because it could be any number of things. But it boils down to the fact that she's simply not attracted to you. When I woman is attracted to you, she makes it easy. For tinder help, go onto the main su…
/r/askTRP16/09/18 05:57 AM
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Read this: http://archive.is/teHRM And this: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8gs63e/older_men_younger_women_part_ii/
/r/askTRP16/09/18 05:49 AM
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You're full of shit and just throwing yourself a pity party. Neil Strauss (aka Style) shaved his head and got mad pussy. I just don't seem to have a personality that's remotely attractive to women You realize that's 100% in your power to change, right? I feel you. I was almost 21 when I lost my virginity, and kept that 1 n-count for the next few years. But slowly and gradually, with a lot of trial and error, I was able to turn things around throughout my 20's. Now I'm in my 30's and this shit's …
/r/askTRP16/09/18 05:42 AM
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He already has an alpha frame by virtue of his job so he just needs to apply it Becoming a doctor won't give him an alpha frame, it will just paint a betabux bull's eye on his back and he'll fall for the first post-wall gold digger that gives him the slightest bit of attention. regardless of the what you give him he’s gunna fuck it up with his how. Of course he is, that's the whole point of the post. Bro says he lifts, but he still can't get laid. Tries to be social, but he's still too boring to…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 05:28 AM
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Gonorrhea, Chlamydia and HIV are not commonly passed when giving oral sex to a woman, even with a cut. https://smartsexresource.com/ask-us/questions/what-are-risks-performing-oral-sex-woman-when So HIV, Gonorrhea, and Chlamydia are out. Herpes can still be passed from oral sex. But herpes can also be passed through kissing. Do you avoid kissing girls? HPV can be passed through oral sex. But even if you get HPV through oral sex, the chances of it turning into throat cancer are very small. Althoug…
/r/askTRP16/09/18 05:07 AM
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Go to a shady chiropractor to fix your back, jump out of the hole that you're in, then fake your death and let somebody else take care of it from now on.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 02:21 AM
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This is the best answer. ​ Here's another way to look at it: All your life you were told that women were beautiful angel unicorn goddesses that shit rainbows and you should consider yourself lucky that one of them would deign to give you their attention. Now you've discovered that women are manipulative whores with societal privileges that play the victim card whenever they can. Eventually you'll realize that women are just people - no more, no less. You don't need to put them on a pedestal, but…
/r/askTRP16/09/18 02:18 AM
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One is fun, flirty, covert, and indirect. The other is overt, direct, and vulgar/tactless/not fun. The more attractive you are, the more direct you can be.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 02:11 AM
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Yes. I love eating pussy. And if you can make her cum three times before you even stick your dick in her, chances are she'll come back for more and become a regular plate.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 02:08 AM
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Let your actions speak first. Be fun, flirty, and sexual. Let that communicate sexual intent. If you're escalating and she's pulls out, "Let's just be friends," or if she starts dumping her problems on you and says, "It's so nice I have a friend I can talk to," THEN I would pull out the "I have enough friends" line. But like I said, if she contacted you after two years, she's probably not looking for a friend. Maintain a sexual frame, and let her fall into that frame. Communicate directly only a…
/r/askTRP16/09/18 02:05 AM
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Act like a normal human being. If she hit you up out of the blue after two years and after seeing that you got jacked, she probably wants to fuck. Fuck her. Be fun, physical, sexual, and escalate. ​ Should I straight up tell her I dont want to see her again unless its more than friends? No, women need plausible deniability. That's why they operate indirectly. If you say anything that directly implies, "I'm only here to fuck you," she will switch into anti-slut mode. Just be normal and flirty and…
/r/askTRP16/09/18 01:02 AM
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It's important to have frame and not give a fuck. It's also important to have boundaries. These are not mutually exclusive. Let's say a girl is constantly flaking on me last minute. I next her. Do I send her five angry texts telling her she's a horrible person for disrespecting me and she'll never find happiness and it's her loss for not showing up? No. That would be losing frame. Do I do nothing and just tolerate her crappy behavior and reschedule for another day? No. That would make me a doorm…
/r/askTRP16/09/18 12:48 AM
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Um, I don't think you need to change careers and move to a new city just to learn game. Because that's what it sounds like you're lacking - game. Or to put it another way, social calibration. If you're creeping women out, constantly approaching women in a different city won't change that.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 02:39 AM
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How old are you? I've found this is a very common experience for people in their early twenties. In your late teens everything seems exciting, but then in early- and mid-twenties the novelty of everything wears off and everything seems worthless. Keep looking, experimenting, and trying new things. You'll find something.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 02:10 AM
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Getting cucked means you're the beta provider to a woman who's getting fucked by an alpha. If the woman is a plate, you're probably not her beta provider, therefore you're not getting cucked. Until a woman starts talking about wanting to be exclusive I would assume she's out fucking other guys. Personally, this doesn't bother me. I see it as part of the "she's not yours, it's just your turn" mentality. I like to keep a "don't ask, don't tell" attitude with plates. I've heard of guys on here that…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 10:22 PM
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Good. Fewer people should be having kids. A lot of people are pointing fingers at soy and xenoestrogens, but obesity is a major factor in fertility. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3521747/ I for one am glad the fatties aren't reproducing.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 10:18 PM
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Women don't have superpowers, but they do have more practice than men. Men have more physical prowess than women. They dominate others with physical strength. Women, obviously, can't compete on a physical level. So they develop alternate strategies to get what they want. Women have their own set of powerful tools that are different from a man's. They're better at manipulation. They're better at reading emotions, cues, and body language. They've been fending off needy guys since the age their bre…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 02:59 PM
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Hm, this is interesting to me. Out of curiosity, would you consider these "high quality" women? Because I could see this working with one night stands with college chicks and club sluts, but not much else. But maybe that's because I'm in my 30's and I don't have a good perspective on that sort of thing. a man who they inherently know doesn't need them and is most probably fucking other, hotter women Again, non-neediness and abundance mentality. Even though you had no money, career, or passions, …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 04:36 AM
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I can agree with that. The problem is it's too general to be useful. If an incel were to come ask you, "How can I be more attractive to women?" Telling him to "be more powerful" isn't really helpful. If a woman wants to be attractive, she only has to worry about one thing: looks. And what makes a woman look good is pretty well-defined and universal. With men, it's, as you say, a bit more fluid. We generally say it's a combination of looks/money/status/game, but the specifics can get a little mur…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 04:26 AM
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When I first started coming to this sub, this is one of the realizations that convinced me that there might be some truth to this stuff: I was really good at hooking up with women I wasn't attracted to. If I didn't like them, they were all over me. When I liked them, I started thinking, "Maybe if I'm nice to her she'll pay attention to me and like me back." Never worked.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 12:59 AM
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Post this in the askTRP sub (preferably with more formatting) and I'll answer it there.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 12:46 AM
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Models by Mark Manson is a good place to start. Also, get a haircut and start working out.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 10:46 PM
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I never planned my entire life around getting women. My career has me interact with mostly men. But choosing to live in an apartment downtown above a bar has definitely helped. I lift, dress well, make decent money, and have fun hobbies. Girls message me first on Tinder. That's enough for me.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 11:22 AM
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Abstract thinking and mental exercises like what you've written can be useful, but it's also good to have experiential knowledge to solidify the idea. Here are some practical ways to depedestalize women: Have female room mates. (Don't fuck them.) If you think girls are innocent unicorns that shit rainbows, nothing will convince you otherwise better than living with some. Maybe you've grown up with sisters, or maybe you can get some female college room mates, but you'll quickly realize that girls…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 10:00 PM
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I'll add that a lot of guys don't realize that this is a journey that can take a long time. You can't just read the sidebar and learn some tricks to act alpha as fuck. The proper mindset can take years to cultivate. I'm at a point where it's becoming difficult to schedule in my plates and new dates. I literally don't have time to fuck all the girls that want to fuck me. It has taken me years to get to this point. It was a long road of developing new habits, thinking I understood it and then real…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 04:33 PM
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For another take on this, look up Tony Robbins's Success Cycle. Your beliefs determine your actions (e.g. if you don't believe approaching women works then you won't do it) Your actions give you certain results. Your results reinforce or modify your beliefs. Then the cycle repeats. As he says, this is why the rich get richer and the poor get poorer.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 12:07 PM
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Again, and I'm not trying to be an asshole, I understand your general point that in order to get results you need to take action. But it's generally well established in pickup theory that women prefer to have plausible deniability. They need to feel it just happened naturally, in a "omg that was so random!!1" sort of way. Personally, any time I have been direct about sex it has triggered a major anti-slut defense, even when the girl was showing interest. So, yes, sometimes it's good to be direct…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 03:36 AM
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ask for a number or a date or a fuck as appropriate "Excuse me miss, would you care for a fuck?" Mad game, bro. women will not chase you: you have to chase them. So much for "being the prize" and "not giving a fuck" and "outcome independence"; I guess men should be out chasing women. I mean, I get what you're trying to say: You can't just sit around with your thumb up your ass and expect things to happen. You have to take action. You have to pull the trigger. You have to be bold and forward and …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 07:40 PM
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Sorry bro, being "alpha" isn't a mindset that comes and goes within the course of a few days. You start with a small shift in your beliefs. Your beliefs determine your actions. Your actions yield certain results. These results reinforce or change your beliefs. Then the cycle repeats, thousands of times. After a few years of this, you begin to realize that being "alpha" is all about being confident in your own value and enforcing appropriate boundaries. This isn't a temporary mindset inspired by …
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 07:45 PM
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This is classically referred to as the Brad Pitt Rule. The Art of Manliness even made a video about it: http://www.artofmanliness.com/2008/02/05/the-brad-pitt-rule/ If a girl really wants to see you but has a legitimate conflict, she will offer an alternative. If she doesn't, she's rejecting you and you should move on. "I'm out of town, but we should totally get together when I get back :)" = she's into you "Sorry, I'm heading out of town" = she's politely rejecting you Asking a third time will …
/r/askTRP06/01/17 04:31 AM
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The most important thing is fit. Google how clothes should fit. If you're in shape and your clothes fit well, you can look good in a t-shirt and jeans. Some people like /r/malefashionadvice, but some people think they're pretentious and promote a single "uniform" Fashion takes time. Like anything else there is a "calibration period" or learning curve. Think of it as a hobby where you experiment with different things to figure out what works. It might be a couple years before you consider yoursel…
/r/askTRP05/01/17 07:53 PM
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Ugh, it's so annoying when girls lack basic communication skills. Anyway.... I always tell girls that I prefer meeting in a public place first ["you know, so I can make sure you're not going to steal my organs or anything :)"]. It seems like common sense, and I've never had a girl object to this. If she does, it's probably a red flag. Meet someplace close to you (or her) for one drink or 15 minutes of coffee. If she's ugly or shady, make an excuse and bail. Again, this is pretty standard for Tin…
/r/askTRP05/01/17 07:41 PM
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"if you wanna fuck me, and I wanna fuck you, why do we have to go out and do stuff???" I would be nice if the world worked that way, but it doesn't. You may even run into some feminist that argue that it should work this way, but in my experience it never works this way. If you want it to work that way, you might have to hire a prostitute.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 06:40 PM
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It varies. Some girls go out looking to get laid and all you have to do is not fuck it up. I've had some girls admit that they made a conscious decision to go through a "slutty phase" because they wanted the experience. On the other hand, I've had other girls who were genuinely surprised that we ended up fucking. "Oh my god, this was so random! Wasn't it random?! Like, when you first started talking to me, I never thought we'd be hooking up a couple hours later!" Or, "I really just wanted to rid…
/r/askTRP05/01/17 06:36 PM
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I'm not sure if linking other posts is banned here, so I'm just going to copy and paste the whole thing. This is from /u/Archiwinger 's post Focus on you first. And second. And third. And...blah blah...Worry about women seventh. A lot of people (especially new people) show up on The Red Pill wondering “What specifically do I do to improve my life?” They’re not looking for academic theory about women and power-talk and discussions about how shitty women are and how alpha and beta various examples…
/r/askTRP09/12/16 03:24 PM
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Being able to drive a manual transmission car is a valuable life skill, and a lot of women actually find it sexy for some reason. The hard part isn't shifting gears (with the possible exception of having to downshift into 2nd in the middle of a turn). The most difficult part is usually knowing how far to let the clutch out before it engages. I recommend taking your shoes off and doing it barefoot a couple of times. That will give you a better feel of the response through the pedals. Fuck the gir…
/r/askTRP09/12/16 03:13 PM
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Meh, to me it's not about being a roided up, chest-thumping, emotionless "badass" who's going to be single until he's 50. Most of those guys are just posers hiding an inferiority complex anyway. To me it's about knowing your worth. Setting boundaries. Having a mission. Putting in the work. Not giving too many fucks about shit that doesn't matter so you can invest your fucks in the things you care about. It's also about recognizing the true nature of women so that you can play on a level field. Y…
/r/askTRP09/12/16 12:59 AM
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The type of advice you want might depend on a few things. How old are you? How old are the women you're dating? What are you looking for? Where are you meeting these girls? But over all I would say dinner dates are a terrible idea especially for a first date. There's no easy escape. If she ends up being ugly and awkward you have to sit there until the check comes They're too formal. Girls just wanna have fun. Dinner dates usually end up turning into something like a job interview or a business m…
/r/askTRP06/12/16 05:10 PM
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I say keep letting her buy you gifts. I've heard plenty of women say, "Just because a guy buys you a drink doesn't mean you owe him anything," and then go off with some analogy about vending machines. Paying for your dinner is her choice, and you don't owe her any validation in return. Whenever she gets you a gift, say to her very emphatically, "Oh my god, you're so nice! You're such a good friend! I'm glad I have someone like you that I can just be friends with!!" Then go back to ignoring her. …
/r/askTRP06/12/16 04:20 PM
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The term "frame" was borrowed by pickup artists from Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). The original concept goes like this: even if there is a single objective reality currently happening (e.g. It's 68 degrees and I am sitting in a classroom with 25 people listening to a lecture about physics), each person has their own individual interpretation of this reality. Different people notice different details of what's going on. Each person has their own set of memories they compare their current si…
/r/askTRP06/12/16 02:59 AM
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Google "conversation threading" Sometimes you can start with simple questions (did you do anything fun this weekend?) that lead to long threads. Remember, conversations with women don't have to follow a logical flow. I don't know if you've ever listened to women talking to eachother, but they jump all over the place and it makes no fucking sense. It's totally ok to abruptly change the subject or talk about something totally unrelated. Google "eliciting values" Everyone has been on dates that tur…
/r/askTRP06/12/16 02:22 AM
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if she matched with you it's because on some level she likes you This is especially true if you've ever seen girls using tinder. They don't just swipe right on every passable picture like guys do. They stop, look at each picture, read and analyze the text, show their friends and ask what they think, stalk the Instagram pics, and then swipe right. If you've matched with a girl you've already been thoroughly vetted.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 02:17 PM
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One thing I'm constantly surprised by is the abysmal state of men these days. Sometimes it seems like if you can walk up to a woman and string together two coherent sentences you're already in the top 20%. I was at a bar with some friends and a guy approached one of the girls and said, "My friend thinks your friend is attractive." She shut him down. Really? Doesn't even have the balls to approach on his own? Ask to look at a girl's Tinder or OKCupid. It's hundreds of messages of "hi :)" and "u r…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 11:23 PM
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The overall strategies are gender neutral, it's the specific means by which they are employed that vary by gender. "Be attractive" is good advice for both men and women. But men are attractive by being muscular and having a chiseled face, while women are attractive if they are soft and have appropriate curves. Men wear tuxedos, women wear lingerie. "Dressing well" is the overall strategy that works for both. Not giving a fuck, investing in yourself, being high value, filtering for quality - thes…
/r/askTRP12/10/16 03:18 PM
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I'm pretty sure he used the wrong term here, because part of laundering cash is paying taxes on it (that's how you take "dirty" money and make it "clean"). What he really meant is getting paid "under the table". That is, you do work, get handed cash, then spend the cash without declaring it as income, thus avoiding paying taxes. Yes, this is technically illegal.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 01:51 PM
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On a more abstract (and less practical) level, this brings up some interesting points. This post essentially argues that women act like children due to social conditioning rather than innate biology (inasmuch as the two can be separated; I believe that biological differences in the sexes necessarily lead to social differences) - that their childishness is due to a lack of enforced consequences for their actions. This raises the questions: If society changed to hold women more accountable, would …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 03:17 PM
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A lot of people are crapping on this chart (rightfully so - your goal shouldn't be "not obese"). Here's another way: Get a tape and measure your neck circumference and waist (at navel). Go here and estimate your body fat percentage: (http://fitness.bizcalcs.com/Calculator.asp?Calc=Body-Fat-Navy) Sure it might be off by a couple percentage points, but it will give you a rough idea. If the number is greater than 15%, you should probably lose weight. If you really want to increase the quality and q…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 12:25 AM
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20% body fat (on a man) looks chubby no matter how much muscle you have. Sure, nobody is going to call you obese, but then again nobody is going to be excited about seeing you shirtless on the beach. I had your numbers about sixth months ago (6'2", 217, ~22% bf) and I was able to cut to 195 without gear and without strength loss. And holy shit did people notice the difference. Right now you have 172 lean mass and 43 fat. If you do what you say and lose 10 pounds you would be down to 16% body fat…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 11:28 PM
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saying the only valid sexual strategy is unfiltered open truth - which is no strategy at all. So many altruistic people want to believe this with everything, not just sexual strategy. People want to believe that in order to sell something, all you need is a quality product. But there's more to it than that (e.g. marketing). People like to think that it's the person who has the best qualifications that gets the job at the interview. But there are so many other factors involved (e.g. looks, confid…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 07:12 PM
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Any chance we could get a weekly "Ask TRP" mega thread, like they do over in r/fitness? I feel like the dedicated sub isn't very well populated.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 01:33 AM
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Had this conversation with a LTR once: Her: If I fell in love with someone else, would you try to win me back? Me: No. I mean, I would be sad that you were gone. But if you are happier being with somebody else, you should be with that person instead of me. Her: But... I want to be with somebody who is willing to fight for me! Me: Why would I fight for someone who chose somebody else? Why would I fight for someone who doesn't even want to be with me? And she couldn't wrap her head around this. Sh…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 11:06 PM
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No sex in the champagne room. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j9yBPcn8IqU It was a parody of that suscreen song.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 02:51 AM
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When I first heard the song on the radio, I assumed the singer had a Nikki Minaj type body. Then I saw the video. There's a difference between having a booty and being fat. She does not have a booty. I hope the term "booty" doesn't end up suffering the same fate that "curvy" did. Curvy -> ) ( Fat -> ( ) Also, it seems interesting that fat acceptance always holds some element of thin-shaming...
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 01:20 AM
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Seems to be a common theme in modern feminism: "You need to treat me like a lady even though I'm not going to act like one." All of the perks, none of the responsibilities.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 01:07 AM
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Formatting: My Personal Recommendations: Whiten your teeth: a. Use a store product like crest white strips (Slower/inexpensive) b. Or go to the dentist get a mold for your teeth (200+- dollars) start using opalescence tooth whitening with it. Use 20% if you have sensitive teeth/ gums. Use 35% if you want to see really rapid results, but expect your teeth to hurt for 24 hours the first time. Be careful you don't get it on your gums either this can cause chemical burns. You will literally see a ch…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 06:02 PM
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According to the CDC, men are raped by women just as often as women are raped by men. And now the real surprise: when asked about experiences in the last 12 months, men reported being “made to penetrate”—either by physical force or due to intoxication—at virtually the same rates as women reported rape (both 1.1 percent in 2010, and 1.7 and 1.6 respectively in 2011). In other words, if being made to penetrate someone was counted as rape—and why shouldn’t it be?—then the headlines could have focus…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 10:12 PM
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Yes. There's a difference between "I'm a strong, confident man and I would like to fuck that pretty girl, so I'm going to go for it." Versus, "Oh god I'm so lonely! Will you pleeeeaasse go out with me?? I'll buy you pretty things. Why can't you see that I'm so much better than all those other jerks?"
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 05:41 PM
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Same here. I think a weekly questions thread would be great too. I know /r/asktrp exists, but I think the main sub has better user involvement.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 05:36 PM
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I think of it more like this: If you always try to please people, keep everyone happy, and never say anything controversial or offensive, then it's true that nobody will ever think badly of you. But they really won't think anything much about you at all. If, however, you stand up for what you believe and are unafraid of expressing your true self, this will have a polarizing effect. Some people will love you for it and some people will hate you. Better to have a few people hate you than to have e…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 05:34 PM
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This is one of the foundation elements Mark Manson's book Models. In a woman's eyes the most unattractive trait a man can have is neediness. (Creepiness is an extreme form of neediness.) Therefore the most attractive trait a man can have is non-neediness. A lot of pickup (especially early pickup) is just a set of tricks to appear non-needy. They don't work long term because using these tactics is itself a form of neediness. When you genuinely invest in yourself and have a high opinion of yoursel…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 11:48 PM
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Actions have consequences. They're not always fair, but this one isn't really that surprising. If the story was, "I used to be a trial lawyer, but then I got a tattoo on my face and they fired me," would anybody really be shocked at that outcome?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 04:06 PM
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This is part of a more general problem where women don't understand the two-way nature of the freedom of choice. Yes, you're an adult, and you get to choose what you do with your body. What you don't get to choose, however, is how people respond to it. You control your actions, but you can't control others' preferences. If you don't want to shave your legs, that's fine; it's your choice. But if I don't want to date hairy women, that's my choice and you can't shame me for it. If you're happy bein…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 03:07 PM
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Isn't reddit open source? Couldn't someone with some server space just make their own version of redpill reddit? Then instead of flair, there could be different subreddits for different topics. Gold and ads could pay for server space. Then since the user bases aren't connected, we wouldn't have to worry about down vote brigades from unrelated subs. Shouldn't this be done now rather waiting for a ban?
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 02:36 PM
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I've heard the argument that a man who sleeps with many women should be praised because it is a challenge ... while a woman who sleeps with many men should be derided because it's easy... Now I agree with the first half, that men who are successful with women should be praised... However, that women should be shamed for doing the same thing because it's easy does not follow. Women aren't shamed just because it's easy. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment. There…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 07:48 PM
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Working on yourself is a great start. If you don't respect yourself, how can you expect her to respect you? If you don't value yourself, how can you expect her to value you? If you aren't willing to attend to your own needs, how can you expect her to fulfill them? When you know that you're a man of value - truly know it, not just faking it until you make it - then your tolerance for bullshit will naturally decrease. Read this post on creating healthy boundaries: Healthy Personal Boundaries = Tak…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 08:33 PM
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Stay calm. Look her in the eye. Tell her to stop acting like a child. Tell her you're not going to put up with this behavior. Tell her you're not going to talk to her until she has calmed down and can act like an adult. Then walk away. See edits above.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 06:55 PM
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Start by learning to say No. Hit the gym. Edit to elaborate: If you've been a pushover for the last two and a half years, you can't expect to suddenly go into Alpha Beast Mode. She'll see right through it and you won't be able to maintain frame. If you want to keep the relationship, try gradual changes. Learn to say no. You are your own person. You have your own shit going on. You have hobbies and passions. It's okay to make your Self a priority; your life doesn't revolve around pleasing her. If…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 05:29 PM
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That's part of it, but I believe a larger contributing factor is that women tend to choose family over career, whereas men tend to choose career over family. Men work more hours, are more likely to work overtime, and are less likely to take extended leaves of absence in their career (e.g. maternity leave). "The BLS reports that single women who have never married earned 96% of men's earnings in 2012." - http://online.wsj.com/news/articles/SB10001424052702303532704579483752909957472 Young, single…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 05:55 AM
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He has a few blog posts about it as well: http://markmanson.net/power-in-vulnerability/ http://markmanson.net/vulnerability/ But pay attention to his definition of vulnerability. Approaching a woman and telling her you think she's attractive is demonstrating vulnerability (you're being honest about your feelings and opening yourself to rejection). In this way, vulnerability represents a form of power, a deep and subtle form of power. A man who’s able to make himself vulnerable is saying to the w…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 10:17 PM
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It's funny that it has actually grown to be serious. In the beginning it was pure parody. People would copy/paste posts from the fat acceptance and thin privilege subs, then change them to be swole stories. But now people post stories about being legitimately shamed for being fit.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 10:12 PM
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/r/swoleacceptance is a hilarious parody of this.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 08:55 PM
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I just attended service in the iron temple More like you attended Evening Mass
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 03:51 PM
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Otherwise why didn't she dump him? I think the top comment has it right: I honestly think she is trying to make you break up with her. She said these things to hurt and shock you. She can therefore rationalise it as your decision, she is the unsatisfied victim, rather than the cheating whore. It's not a shit test; he has already lost. The updates in the comments pretty much confirm she is cheating. She is just trying to create a frame where it's his fault that she cheated.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 09:24 PM
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http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/howaboutthat/10111993/Men-grow-up-at-43-11-years-later-than-women.html Apparently, for the premiere of some show, nickelodeon conducted a survey to see if men or women were more mature. Their criteria for maturity included things like: Eating fast food at 2:00am Playing videogames Driving with loud music Changing jobs regularly Showing off about how girls are attracted to them Showing off about protein shakes/weight-lifting/how much they 'lift' Staying …
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 04:36 AM
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This seems to be a case of, "Chivalry is dead, and women [feminists] killed it." But the author, being a woman, prefers to blame men. There’s no door-holding, no hand-holding and definitely no free drinks. ... Men aren’t these masculine displays of strength and perseverance. Sorry, you can't have it both ways. Equal wage means you pay for your own drinks. You want a nice, sensitive guy who isn't afraid to cry? You got it, and everything that goes along with it. Why are men like this? Well, for y…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 05:53 PM
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Why Women Need To Start Asking Men Out…Because Men Have No Balls Ladies, it’s been said before, but I’ll say it again: They just don’t make ‘em like they used to. There’s no door-holding, no hand-holding and definitely no free drinks. There’s no taking off hats or courting through invitations. There are no smooth moves, no jackets to dinner. There are no flowers, no tables by candlelight. But, most importantly, there are no dates. If you’re a single woman, you probably envisioned your twenties a…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 05:24 PM
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I know that this place is anti-marriage, but this is the intriguing part to me: It is the Man and Woman united that make the compleat human Being. Separate, she wants his Force of Body and Strength of Reason; he, her Softness, Sensibility and acute Discernment. Together they are more likely to succeed in the World. Franklin is able to strongly advise marriage because he lived in a time where men were encouraged to be masculine and women embraced femininity. Neither was superior to the other; the…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 04:42 PM
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Here are some that I like: 6 Harsh Truths That Will Make You a Better Person Copy/paste of an article on Cracked, and in my opinion one of the most important RedPill introductions: http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/ This isn't a Disney movie. People want things, and they only care about you because of the value you provide. If you're depressed and you hate yourself, it's probably because you don't do anything. If you want to get girls, the first step is …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 06:43 PM
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Here's a video by Karen Straughan about male disposability: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vp8tToFv-bA Her smirky laugh gets pretty annoying, but there are some good points: Society puts men last. In any situation requiring sacrifice, "women and children first" is the rule. Moreover, society puts expects men to put themselves last. Men are supposed to willingly stay behind on the sinking ship and be happy about it. That's why stoicism is valued among men. Men are trained from a young age to rem…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 06:21 PM
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The Salesman is a good analogy. The Job Interview is another. The gist of the EMSK seems to be that having a strategy when it comes to sex and relationships is inherently manipulative, abusive, and immoral (the same is often said about the pickup community). But if a man is failing at relationships and sex, what is he to do? Just "be yourself" and wait for the right person to come along? Suppose a man goes to hundreds of interviews but never manages to get the job. He understandably becomes frus…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 06:56 PM
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I think this is the female version of red pill. Men have to free themselves from the illusion that women are princesses and that being a Nice Guy will eventually win her over. This is called taking the red pill. Women have to free themselves from the illusion that if they just wait in their tower eventually a knight in shining armor will come running, and the illusion that they are entitled to such a knight by virtue of being female. Unfortunately this one learned too late.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 04:34 PM
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User submitted the post around the same time the account was created Isn't that how throwaway accounts work? I mean, 30yoloser probably isn't a username for daily use.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 04:19 PM
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The first comment is great: I'd maybe be concerned if I dated a virgin because I don't want to teach again. Guy doesn't want to commit to an "experienced" girl? He must have issues. Girl doesn't want a guy who's a virgin? She's allowed to have preferences.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 05:15 PM
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While it may not have been the author's intent, if you look at these from a red pill perspective, a lot of them are good advice. 1. NEVER STOP COURTING. NEVER STOP DATING. Don't get complacent; maintain attraction. A lot of guys think a LTR is a license to get fat, lazy and become beta. If you do that, your woman will leave you. 2. PROTECT YOUR OWN HEART. Maintain healthy boundaries. You're not her emotional tampon. Make sure you have your own shit to do. 4. ALWAYS SEE THE BEST IN HER. - If you …
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 09:27 PM
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Not sure it's redpill related, but I like this one even better: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kI-BhQGwDO8 Craig Ferguson talks about being a suicidal alcoholic and the time he got so drunk he forgot to kill himself.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 09:28 AM
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If you don't want to read the whole thing, this was the interesting part to me: Status is more important than likability Low and high status aren’t about being liked or disliked. Some people are liked but have low status, and some people are disliked but retain high status. In general, it’s more useful and important to have high status at work than to be well-liked. It’s obviously best to have both, but well-liked low-status people get crap projects and never advance. Disliked high-status people…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 07:44 AM
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If you're looking for tricks and tactics, go to /r/seduction. I would say the Red Pill strategy boils down to: be attractive, don't be unattractive, have an abundance mentality. If you're attractive, have value, and can appropriately demonstrate that value; if you have a strong sense of self, healthy boundaries, and a mission in life that goes beyond women; if you have options other than her and she knows it; then she will want to meet you again. If she doesn't, just move on to the next one.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 08:22 PM
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The ones I tell myself I dont want to live without. This is the problem. You have to find your personal mission in life and make that your priority. This isn't a Disney movie; women aren't attracted to men that "can't live without" them. Women are attracted to confident men with a sense of purpose and healthy boundaries. If you "can't live without" a woman, you will just end up displaying neediness - the most unattractive trait a man can have.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 07:50 AM
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No, I think the solution is: don't get blackout drunk. Because men are still responsible for what happens when they drink.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 10:18 PM
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Other banned words include... “pussy,” as it “implies that having a certain feature is indicative of being a coward.” But calling someone a dick is ok. Because, you know, men are legitimately jerks.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 06:59 PM
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Here's an interesting askreddit thread about what changes transgender people noticed when the switched genders: http://redditlog.com/snapshots/489913 Some mentioned: men are taken more seriously, especially with technical issues women receive special treatment (opening doors, etc), but it can be patronizing men have more responsibility and are expected to do things themselves there is a camaraderie that exists between men but not women women feel more naked in public because of their clothing, a…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 03:27 PM
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Let's be honest, plenty of men say they lift for their own personal development and they're full of shit. I once had to wait half an hour for a girl to get ready for what was essentially a pajama party. I asked her why she needed to put in all that effort when we were just going to sit on the couch and watch movies in the dark. "Have you seen the other girls that live there?" she said. "I can't go to that house without makeup on!" Some guys lift for themselves. Some guys lift to impress girls. S…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 06:35 PM
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"So what do you like to do besides school?" "Oh, you know... I like going to the beach. I like to eat good food and try new restaurants. I like getting mani-pedis. Oh, my favorite thing in the world is the smell of freshly colored hair!" And then she's surprised when guys only want her for her body.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 05:53 PM
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Related: A first-hand account of a disastrous female-only company. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1168182/Catfights-handbags-tears-toilets-When-producer-launched-women-TV-company-thought-shed-kissed-goodbye-conflict-.html Hideously stereotypical and shallow as it sounds, clothes were a huge source of catty comments, from sly remarks about people looking over-dressed to the merits of their fake tan application. I can still remember the name of all of my staff's partners and their affai…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 02:45 AM
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"You're always so serious," she said, "but then I occasionally see you smile. It makes me feel special, like I'm the only one who can make you smile."
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 08:24 PM
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I have a female friend who is always saying, "Oh my god, people are so nice!" She'll go on about how lucky she is. When things fall into place so easily for her, it's because she "manifested" it with positive thinking. It never occurs to her that the reason people are so nice to her is because they want to have sex with her. If you suggest that her "good luck" is due to the fact that she's a young, thin, half-Japanese girl, she'll just put on a pouty face and say, "That's not truuuue!" But I do …
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 06:12 AM
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Related: Feminist mother and lawyer decides that Title IX and Violence Against Women Act is a bad idea after her own son is the one who gets accused. http://online.wsj.com/news/articles/SB10001424127887324600704578405280211043510
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 05:54 PM
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The commenter seems to be saying that women are too delicate and fragile to simply say, "No!" then get up and walk away. Sounds rather misogynist to me.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 10:29 PM
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Date. Fuck. Either way the conclusion is the same. Do you really think attractive, high-quality girls are going to be sitting at home responding to facebook ads? I don't want to deal with vapid, flaky, instagram-loving attention whores. And that's exactly what facebook has in high supply. The standard advice applies: grow a pair and go talk to women in real life. The game is easier, the girls are hotter, and you'll become a better man along the way.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 09:12 PM
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I think it's important to remember that the strategy you use will determine the results you get (i.e. the women you attract). Mark Manson calls this Assortment Theory (see http://markmanson.net/attract-women). For example, if your strategy is to go into a night club and manipulate women with low self-esteem, the type of women you end up with are the kind of women who hang out in clubs, are easily manipulated, and have low self-esteem. If your strategy is to use money to attract women, don't be s…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 06:47 PM
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Girls can have talents, money and such, but those things won't make them attractive to men.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 06:13 PM
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From the comments: I'm guessing that if you sat down with Kelly and read the exact definition of feminist, that she would agree that she is one. Any strong female should be. What is the exact definition of feminism? It seems like being a feminist is like being a true Scotsman. I've never heard a good answer. In my experience, there are two types of women who label themselves feminists: Unattractive girls who are bitter because they don't enjoy the same amount of female privilege as their more at…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 02:05 AM
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It's not a double standard. Women are shamed for being promiscuous and applauded for being virgins. Men are shamed for being virgins and applauded for being promiscuous. Sexual history is used to make inferences about a person's value. It's different for men and women because women are the gatekeepers of sex, while men are the gatekeepers of commitment. If a man has had a high number of sexual partners, we can infer that this man possesses the qualities that women find attractive (that is, he is…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/13 06:57 AM
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Is anyone else tired of this? Yes, men and women are different. Being a man comes with certain advantages and disadvantages (aka privileges and responsibilities). Being a woman comes with certain advantages and disadvantages (aka privileges and responsibilities). Do we really need to keep bringing this up? I'm a man. Rather than bitch about how hard it is to be a man, I prefer to focus my energy on becoming the best man that I can be. Instead of bitching about how easy women have it, I would rat…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/13 07:45 PM
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Negging, as it was originally introduced by Mystery, is a tactic to attempt to lower a girl's Value, thus making your own Value appear relatively higher by comparison. Basically, you try to insult her without making it sound like an insult. I'm against it. At it's core it is needy behavior, and it will backfire because most people can see through it. If you're sufficiently High Value, you shouldn't need to lower others' value to come out on top. Teasing, on the other hand, is invaluable. Whereas…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/13 06:22 AM
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In current society, men are shamed for being virgins and applauded for being promiscuous. Women, on the other hand, are applauded for being virgins and shamed for being promiscuous. There is a reason for this. Other people people make inferences about our value based on our sexual history. It's opposite for men and women because women are the gatekeepers of sex while men are the gatekeepers of commitment. If a man is a virgin, most will assume it's because he lacks the ability to attract a woman…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/13 12:55 AM
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In large cities, single women without children make 8% more than single men without children. http://content.time.com/time/business/article/0,8599,2015274,00.html
/r/TheRedPill31/08/13 11:35 PM
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