| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 316 | A man who openly admits to you that you deserve/deserved better than him is admitting to you that he treated you less than your worth. | REMINDER 👑 | upgrading2Queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 05:22 PM |
| 270 | Vetting/re-evaluating friendships makes sure that you have HV people in all aspect of your life. | REMINDER 👑 | upgrading2Queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 01:25 PM |
| 22 | No social media discussion | DISCUSSION | upgrading2Queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 03:53 PM |
| 18 | Would this be considered codependency? If not, what would you call this (assuming there is a word for it)? | DISCUSSION | upgrading2Queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 11:08 PM |
| 16 | FDS memeber’s who live in Austin or New York City, what is the dating experience like for you? | SEEKING ADVICE | upgrading2Queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Let’s have a discussion: People with no social media | DISCUSSION | upgrading2Queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 02:50 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 31 | "It's hard to make a woman come"... as ifI feel conflicted by the post because of the way it started off. I want to start off by saying there are definitely more than a few women who can’t orgasm due to certain circumstances (trauma, physical factors, mental health, etc) or maybe a combination of things. I’m going to assume that the post was made as a reminder to hold men accountable when it comes to our pleasure and not take excuses? Edit: grammar | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 12:50 PM |
| 11 | Yes, because not having sex with a man is definitely the same as domestic abuse.How many stupid people liked his comment? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 11:11 PM |
| 10 | Straight from the horse’s mouth… 🐴 Do NOT lower yourselves!Wow wow wow. Can’t believe he admitted that (although I can too because lvm, duh). Things like this make me realize that as long as there are pickmeisha’s in the world men like him will thrive (to an extent). Edited to add: I shouldn’t say thrive. Men like him choose not to be held accountable for there actions because there are pickmeisha’s in the world who feel grateful to be chosen. Would this make him a predator for going after certain women he knows he can take advantage of? I’m not sure...… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 11:14 PM |
| 30 | Imagine coaching your young, impressionable daughter for a skit about how little you trust your man. The full video is even worseThere’s someone who thinks this is cute... they also have a low IQ and no common sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 05:14 PM |
| 9 | FDS memeber’s who live in Austin or New York City, what is the dating experience like for you?Oh, I have no time to be a “Wendy” to men. I live in Houston and have been to Austin a couple of times. Visiting and living there are two different things. I’ve heard that Austin is becoming a mini San Francisco (without the crazy rent (for now)) and that the number of men are about the same as the number of women, which is nice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 08:05 PM |
| 7 | Spoiler Alert: she agrees to a second date. 🤦This was embarrassing to watch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 10:59 PM |
| 10 | Ok I’m really hanging up OLD. I unmatched after this. I’m almost 31 and want to be married. What age range do y’all search? Wait, I said I’m quitting OLD lolBasically lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 07:58 PM |
| 133 | Ok I’m really hanging up OLD. I unmatched after this. I’m almost 31 and want to be married. What age range do y’all search? Wait, I said I’m quitting OLD lolHe literally sounds like the high school kids I teach. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:39 PM |
| 11 | The way to pay it forward when you have fully committed to leveling up and becoming a HVW & FDS Queen is to modeling this behavior in support of other women, believing women, speaking out when you see something wrong, and making sure women are safe if something seems off. Manifestation is powerful!Is this taken from a particular show? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 10:01 PM |
| 40 | 👑♀️Okay mic drop!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 07:18 PM |
| 43 | I hate that this is even on my camera roll.I’m so sorry 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 01:24 AM |
| 85 | I hate that this is even on my camera roll.I’m scared | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 01:17 AM |
| 22 | That’s NO king, that’s a CLOWN! 🤡😂Male toxicity in this world is way too frightening | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 12:34 AM |
| 5 | Hinge dating appI don’t have hinge and actually wanted to try it. I’m more of a bumble girl because I feel like there’s quality men on there. But, I do feel like pictures play a big part on any dating app. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 12:13 PM |
| 8 | QueenDefinitely not okay to try and make someone be a parent when they never wanted to be in the first place. I think it’s good that he understands that it’s her body and her choice. I’d bet my last dollar that she’s hoping that once he sees the baby he’ll change his mind and want to be a father. That’s not how it works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 09:01 PM |
| 11 | I found the perfect song for my FDS-inspired breakup. Thank you, ladies, for putting so much wisdom out there! This is 'Hell of a Girl' by SAYGRACE.She also has a song called ‘Boys ain’t shit’ (which I love!). Needless to say she’s two for two. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 11:00 PM |
| 14 | What do you think? Sounds nice to me.🗣Say it louder for the people in the back! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Would this be considered codependency? If not, what would you call this (assuming there is a word for it)?Thanks for answering. I think the question was worded weird which was bad on my part. I’m wasn’t asking if she was codependent but more so the actions (because the actions could be for anyone at any age). Just trying to figure out if instances like these are where codependency starts. Again, not trying to place anything on the little girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Would this be considered codependency? If not, what would you call this (assuming there is a word for it)?I completely agree. Like I said to another reply, I feel as thought the question was worded wrong. It wasn’t my intention to ask if the daughter was being codependent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Would this be considered codependency? If not, what would you call this (assuming there is a word for it)?Thank you! I feel as though the question may have been worded wrong like I’m suggesting the daughter is codependent which wasn’t my intention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 04:03 AM |
| 34 | Some Scrote wrote an article on 9 ways to make your female partner orgasm annnd I dunno what to think ladies.I hate articles like these because it makes it seem like every woman’s body is the same. Everyone gets to the big O differently! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 02:33 AM |
| 11 | A man who openly admits to you that you deserve/deserved better than him is admitting to you that he treated you less than your worth.Yeah, same I would go out of my way to make sure he knew he was enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 07:47 PM |
| 20 | A man who openly admits to you that you deserve/deserved better than him is admitting to you that he treated you less than your worth.Ugh, so true! It feels so noble of them to say but it’s not noble at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 07:40 PM |
| 25 | Vetting/re-evaluating friendships makes sure that you have HV people in all aspect of your life.I know that not everyone is religious but I really liked this message. Because no matter your beliefs, I feel as though you can understand the message. Make sure the people you call friends have the best intentions for you and want to see your grow. Vetting your new friends is a good thing but so is re-evaluating your old friendships because people change! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 01:29 PM |
| 45 | What do you wish you could tell your 22-year-old self?Such a great question! If I could tell 22-year-old me anything it would be: Life’s not a race. If so, doctors are definitely winning (money wise). It’s okay to let go of toxic people. Burn the bridge and don’t look back Don’t stay with the man that makes you feel alone when he’s there. It takes two people to make a relationship work. Don’t exhaust yourself trying to do it yourself. Love yourself. Get know yourself. And again, love yourself. Edited to add: Don’t let people think just because you’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 02:18 AM |
| 9 | Male socialization means earnestly expecting women to act as charities that do everything for them😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 01:56 PM |
| 76 | Male socialization means earnestly expecting women to act as charities that do everything for themWhat I read: Why can’t you build me up so I can leave you for someone else? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 12:14 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, Be Patient. He'll Marry You ELEVEN YEARS FROM NOW 🤡OH HELL NO! You know what I could do in 11 years?! Not waste my time with this man. 2 year talking stage?! I’m beside myself right now omg. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 12:49 AM |
| 35 | Creative men of TinderThis is the type of man that I get annoyed with so much I’ll ask myself if can I report him before swiping left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 10:47 PM |
| 1 | No social media discussion🙌🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 10:42 PM |
| 1 | No social media discussionI’m glad my post got you thinking! I’m curious though, if you plan on having kids, how do you plan on going about doing social media with your kids? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 10:14 PM |
| 3 | No social media discussionThat’s good that you’re able to keep track of how much time you’re on social media. If it makes you feel better. I consider WhatsApp a texting app and not social media. Because it’s a good way to keep in contact with people. I use it to keep in contact with my friends Germany and Russia. Facebook is the Florida of the internet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 08:23 PM |
| 5 | Where's the lie though?I love this so much I bookmarked it so I can always come back to it. This is why I love FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:20 PM |
| 4 | No social media discussionYes! I have so many friends who post their kids (who have no say about being on social media which is another discussion in itself) and husband as a happy family. Then tell me personally not to have that lifestyle because they wish they could’ve done it differently, although they love their kids (coughbut they never say they lover their spouse 👀cough). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Making Friends AgainI would say bumble BFF, meet up, or hanging out with the friend you just re-started hanging out with friends (if that makes sense, you could find someone you have things in common with through her). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 05:42 PM |
| 240 | Just like a man to tap out before you’re done SMH. Dump him sis.I can’t with the lion’s face lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 12:27 AM |
| 59 | First thing they said to me. Seriously?🚫👎Ight imma head out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 12:24 AM |
| 51 | This was previously posted on r/EntitledBitch, but who would want to swim in a piss-infested pool? Good on her for having standards.I completely agree, definitely a better way to say that. As a person who works with inner city kids I just... idk. Rubbed me wrong too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 03:26 PM |
| 54 | This was previously posted on r/EntitledBitch, but who would want to swim in a piss-infested pool? Good on her for having standards.True... by why even bring up inner city kids. Definitely a better way to say fuck off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 03:22 PM |
| 9 | Zero to a hundred real quick 🤦🏻♀️That escalated way too quickly for my taste. If I won’t entertain your text’s why would I degrade myself to be a third in your new relationship? Common sense isn’t too common anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 02:53 AM |
| 3 | This is how you respond. See how fast his attitude switched up.Him: Assumes you’re looking for a sugar daddy and says “I’m not that kind of guy. I wish you well”. But you’re the kind of guy that subtlety demands I wear something sexy on a first date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 01:02 PM |
| 35 | LVM no having job potheadThis has to be peak “dumbest things” I’ve seen in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 12:52 PM |
| 98 | Another man (aggressively) shocked that asking for an open relationship leads to his wife getting great sex.Makes you think what was going on in the household before or if he’ll flip his shit over something his wife did he deemed unacceptable. The fact that violence crosses your mind when thinking about seeing you wife with another man after you put it together is next level mind blowing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 08:21 PM |
| 460 | Another man (aggressively) shocked that asking for an open relationship leads to his wife getting great sex.Wow, he really said “Sometimes I feel I could just punch my wife in the face”. Guess seeing another man give your wife something (an orgasm) you obviously couldn’t that mad. He should divorce her because she deserves way better than him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Anxiety about having a public profile (Career)Of course! No problem! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:55 AM |
| 101 | OLD in the south starter packWhere's the pictures showing off their "huge riffle" in front of the deer they've killed? Other than that, spot on! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Anxiety about having a public profile (Career)This best advice I can give you is to go into it thinking positive. Maybe after a while you can work on word of mouth because you have enough clients then you information can be pulled of the website?... Again, just think positive things going in. I know it's always easier said than done but I think you can do it. Congrats on the new job! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 01:43 AM |
| 5 | i am really depressedI agree with the other comments. Definitely take a step back from dating and work on yourself. Take yourself out and love you! Most importantly give time time. You will find someone worth the wait. I'm sending good vibes your way! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 12:46 AM |
| 11 | How do I deal with my (20F) mom (58F) who is the greatest PickMe of all time?Someone once told me just because you have kids doesn't mean they have to like you. You're becoming your own person and a better person than who you used to be. I applaud you for that. Keep growing! I personally think that if your mother continues to be stagnant with where she's at in life than little to no contact once you move out seems like the thing that will give you peace of mind. Good luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Saw this on Instagram, and had to share IT with you all!That is a joke and he is the joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 07:27 PM |
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