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it’s just so easy to lie with OLD. You literally see a fraction of a fraction of someone’s life the way they want you to see it and we all know men will say and do whatever to get a girl to sleep with them. I just don’t know how I could trust anyone. Whether it’s exaggerating their height or job, or even just posting pictures that make their life look significantly more interesting, OLD have become akin to social media in the sense that most people are not honest and have no real incentive to be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:12 AM
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Any use of trauma, mental illness, etc to justify treating me or other people poorly will be met with nothing more from me than a swift recommendation of therapy....maybe a link to the psychology today website if I’m feeling generous. There is never any reason for a man’s past issues to become a part of my present ones. Great point about being careful of being unloaded on too early....I used to mistake that for iNtiMAcY in my past life. I am not playing Dr. Phil for anybody who can’t even be bot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 07:03 AM
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Omg I love these!! 😂 2 -Okay I didn't realize this was a common thing guys said on dating apps...I get this message a lot! I just don't understand what he's trying to accomplish with this? Like I get coming across as self-aware is kinda funny but this just screams "I see you as temporary and I don't wanna explicitly say that so I'm gonna joke about it." no thank ya. 1 - Cosmo or some other publication told men that ironic/cheesy pick up lines were funny in 2014 and messages like these are the re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 01:49 AM
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It’s so cringe how much of a pedestal she’s put him on...like “he’s so busy and popular and he always makes time for me” She shouldn’t feel honored that a man who seemingly wants her nudes wants to make time for her. She should expect it. Also who cares if he’s “popular?” Y’all are grown lol. I think the fact that their exclusivity is “implied” is a red flag as well. If you’re confused about where you stand with someone and are too afraid to ask, you probably aren’t as serious with that person a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 10:16 PM
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thank you 💖 I actually am in therapy right now and I’m still working my way through that. It’s definitely been helpful!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 09:47 PM
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No one has ever said that she can’t be sad or talk about her relationships. In fact, more women should talk about emotional abuse so it becomes a part of more conversations. However, the way that she talks about it is the issue. She doesn’t denounce it or say how it changed her as a person or why it’s wrong, both in her songs or in real life. She just talks about how it feels so good and how all she wants is to be loved, etc. It’s fine if she doesn’t want to be an activist against abusive relati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:05 PM
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I feel like guys share everything with their friends and it’s like what is the reason??? They never explain the full context of the situation so you know they be making us look crazy. God forbid they find out we share things with our friends...then we’re “invading their privacy” and “not keeping our relationship between us” Ridiculousssss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:31 PM
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yup. We got into an argument and he stopped responding to me. That night I got a little drunk and texted that he was a bitch (lol was that right? no. but was i correct? absolutely.) The next morning I wake up to texts from my friends asking if I saw his snapchat story, which I didn’t because he blocked me off snapchat. But sure enough he posted the conversation. He also cropped it to make it look like I said everything out of no where so that was cute....and the gag was this guy and I weren’t ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:26 PM
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saving this in my phone!! I am notorious for writing paragraphs that I put more effort into than my own school work 🥴 After one of my infamous paragraphs ended up on the snapchat story of the LVM-of-the-month I was begging to love me, I realized how pathetic I looked trying to force a guy to like me who’s only problem solving strategy is making fun of me on social media. The urge to over-respond and explain is still there, I just try and remember that if it takes an essay for a scrote to like me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:27 AM
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Based on your description, it doesn't seem like he wants to spend time with your or talk to you, which regardless of how high value a man is should be the bare minimum foundation for a relationship. If a guy is HV but he doesn't make any effort to talk to me or spend time with me 1-on-1 (especially when he's free), I wouldn't entertain a relationship even if he was perfect in every other way. A 40 year old shouldn't being spending the majority of time with his SO on group dates. While it's great…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:53 AM
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If you’re a grown man and you don’t notice when someone likes you, I’m gonna automatically assume you aren’t going to be perceptive enough to satisfy my needs and wants within a relationship. If i have to over explain my feelings and thoughts at the beginning, to me that signifies I’ll probably have to continue to do that if we were to form a relationship...no thanks buddy. This isn’t middle school, I shouldn’t have to pass you a note that says “I like you, do you like me? Circle yes or no?” Sid…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 11:55 PM
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I did this from worst to least: 5 - Can we at least pretend we know how to read? This is probably someone who swipes right on everything that moves and doesn’t even know that girls can have bios too 😂 2 - I’m not even sure what he’s trying to say and like someone else pointed out...chile the spelling errors—which btw look eerily similar to the way that I drunk text lol 1 - he copied and pasted that to every girl he matched with. I don’t think they realize how obvious it is when they do that lmao…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 06:20 PM
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this^ or something along the lines of “damn that’s crazy lmao”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 05:24 PM
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Yes! Learned that the hard way after I noticed that a lot of guys were mysteriously in relationships pretty soon after they told me they weren’t ready/didn’t want one. If men don’t want to date us, that’s fine (their loss), but they should at least be honest. Are LVM that afraid of us and our emotions that being honest is impossible? If that’s the case, men have some serious work to do on themselves (which they won’t do because the pickmes of the world have convinced them that there is nothing w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 02:49 PM
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Can someone come get their creepy uncle please?? Ew. He has this look in his eye that’s just so sleazy it gives me a bad feeling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 02:35 PM
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I once had a guy offer to take me to get a $3 slice of bad pizza at a drunk night out pizza place (red flag #1) and then when I said I wanted to go get hibachi instead, he seemingly agreed. However, he picked up on the fact that I wasn’t gonna sleep with him, probably when I refused to see him past 8pm, and then didn’t tell me he wasn’t showing up until 5 minutes before I was supposed to meet him. Imagine being that entitled to someone else’s body that you can’t even bear being in a room with th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 03:01 PM
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I have never had a relationship where I wasn’t basically forcing the guy to be my boyfriend. All my one night stands were terrible, I would get really drunk and hook up with guys who were lying to my face just to get in my pants. My good one night stands and dates would end pretty badly because I would cling onto those guys and push them away, which I know now is because of my attachment style and the fact that they were probably LVM in sheep’s clothing that wanted me to cling on so they could m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 02:35 PM
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I don’t think I’ve met anyone who just poses with a weight for a picture lmao what a dumb question...but then again most guys seriously believe that the only exercise women can actually do is yoga so I am not shocked 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 02:00 PM
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where is the punctuation???? A comma, an exclamation point for some flavor or something!! My eye is twitching y’all I can’t with these low value BOYS that have the grammar of a second grader, yet still have the audacity to talk to us whichever way they please. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 02:30 AM
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According to her update, her BF thinks that their dynamic "isn't solid enough for social media." and he doesn't have any confidence in the relationship? Wtf does that even mean first of all, how "strong" does a relationship have to be to post a picture with someone? And after 5 years? OP also said that she used to fly back and forth on her days off from being a flight attendant (which is a pretty tiresome job I'm sure) to go see him in a different state even though she would be tired, and then g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 12:04 AM
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I recently realized, thanks to this sub and therapy, that I have spent so much time trying to change men’s actions and thoughts that I never spent time building myself up and making my life great. Even when I would change parts of myself to please men under the guise of “self-improvement,” I was still trying to change men’s thoughts (how attracted they were to me) to no avail because LVM cant change unless they want to and unfortunately they usually don’t see any women as unique enough to change…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 08:16 PM
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Obviously we don’t know the arrangement they have with the parents but IMO if you’re not getting paid to babysit or it’s not your child, it’s not your responsibility to entertain that child, especially when they disrespect your things. If her BF is so concerned about his sister’s entertainment, then he could step up and offer alternate things for the sister to do or like someone else mentioned maybe buy the sister a switch. I feel like younger kids are easily distracted too, so I’m sure if he pu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 08:03 PM
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The sad part is he probably wasn’t even going tell her his feelings, as he claimed she “pressed him” for answers, which probably means she asked him one time...men love to act like basic communication is the equivalent of nagging. Plus if he’s so mature, why was she the first one to actually ask what the deal was? LVM are so delusional. Making more money than someone doesn’t make you a catch and I hope this girl chewed him out and never speaks to him again. It’s not a woman’s job to play Oprah f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 05:12 PM
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HAHAH I refuse to mother any man like this. If he doesn’t want to take the trash out I’ll do it and I’ll start with him. If a man can’t see past his own “binary thinking” (aka excuses for being lazy) and only focuses on the things that bring him “value” I don’t want him in my space...no thanks!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 02:44 PM
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