upsafetynextchapter Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Advice request on this encounter? Fantastic start. Very natural and respectful and exactly what we like to see from interactions like this out on the street. Already you have a win and should be happy with yourself. From here? Let it sit. You have reached out to her and it's up to her to respond. Keep focusing on your goals and your family and friends and if she is interested she will respond. As tempting as it is there is no point double texting at this point. You gave her a time limit which is generally a no no but it's okay i…	/r/seduction	27/09/22 08:30 AM
7	[deleted by user] I understand you want to help guys. I want to help them too but a friend of mine told me some very wise advice. He said: "Don't be a nice guy. Be a good man." That resonated with me a lot. There is a lot of wisdom out there on this subreddit and in the wider world but lying, cheating and creeping your way through this world is not how to go about it. There is no point lying about your intentions. It is as simple as that. Be charming and funny and confident and all the other great things, but the…	/r/seduction	06/09/22 09:45 AM
1	[deleted by user] Re-read your comments. You advocate telling OP the truth. I am advocating he tell women the truth. You and I are both arguing for honesty. We both support the truth. Nothing to do with morals or ethics. Just telling the truth about your intentions.	/r/seduction	06/09/22 07:14 AM
33	[deleted by user] There is zero requirement to bend the truth or lie about your intentions. Be completely honest and upfront and you will save your time and her time. Every single time I have been upfront it has either led to fun or she has appreciated my honesty and moved on. By bending the truth or outright lying you are wasting everyone's time and you are missing out on women who want EXACTLY what you want. Do not do it. You are interacting with another human being and an equal. Treat her as such.	/r/seduction	05/09/22 02:37 AM
2	How to message them now? And would you? I know this is not easy to hear but if they wanted to communicate with you they simply would. If a woman or man wants to talk to you they will find a way or they will explain why they aren't speaking to you. This is not worth your time. I wasted a lot of time chasing people who simply were not interested and you will find yourself becoming frustrated. Be the best version of yourself and surround yourself with people who enjoy you and what you have to offer. Take lessons from this experience sure…	/r/seduction	03/09/22 11:46 AM
2	How to message them now? And would you? The best thing you can possibly do in this situation is to move forward with your life and keep meeting new people. There is absolutely no reason to be hung up on people from your past especially if they are not adding value to your life and your experience. If they were a really long term, special friend then maybe you would consider reaching out. Otherwise it is not worth it.	/r/seduction	03/09/22 11:37 AM
1	[deleted by user] Nah brother I was just referring to your feelings towards the situation. It seems like you enjoyed it a lot. There is nothing wrong with that. People have wants and desires. But you need to figure out ASAP if you would prefer that life because you need to let your girlfriend know if you want to be single.	/r/seduction	03/09/22 10:44 AM
2	[deleted by user] At no stage did I say you need to tell your girlfriend about this situation. You need to square away your own priorities first. Either you liked being touched and you liked flirting back and you want to live that life. Or you don't want to get turned on by that stuff and you want to be completely loyal to your girlfriend. Telling her about something that didn't really happen will cause unnecessary drama. This whole situation is about your reaction to it. It would be different if she tried to kis…	/r/seduction	03/09/22 10:38 AM
2	[deleted by user] I appreciate your words here but you said you were holding eye contact with her to mess with her and you were turned on by her holding your back. Would you be okay with your girlfriend doing this with another guy? If you are both cool with that then that's completely different. Some couples are incredibly secure and happy in their relationships and even swap partners. But I would figure this out sooner rather than later or one or both of you are going to be hurt. The issue is not this girl holdi…	/r/seduction	03/09/22 10:23 AM
8	Why do girls say they " don't usually do this " They don't want to be judged. Some people sometimes associate sex with shame or judgement.	/r/seduction	03/09/22 10:18 AM
4	[deleted by user] I will simplify this entire situation for you. Are you and your girlfriend in an open relationship or is commitment a key pillar of your relationship? Imagine that your girlfriend posted this exact post word for word on Reddit about one of your friends. Would you think it was hilarious? Would you be hurt? I'm concerned by how much time and energy you have put into this minor interaction. Whether she likes you or not is irrelevant - you've got a partner already. Having a partner comes with some c…	/r/seduction	03/09/22 10:14 AM