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I'm a dentist and works sucks the life out of me lmao
/r/askMRP03/06/26 06:37 PM
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I think that's true if you can accurately self-assess, and there are real things about yourself that you can and want to improve. But there is another set of guys out there... the ones who aren't complete shit, but think they are due to a lifetime of being surrounded by people who've convinced them of it. That group definitely does need a strong dose of "just be yourself".
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/26 02:21 PM
24

no kids blow it up
/r/askMRP14/01/26 11:40 PM
1

yep. one ninja with a headache and the other one with a floppy dick.
/r/askMRP06/12/25 06:37 AM
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Thursday night she came home and I told her she looked like she needed a back rub (her code word for prone bone), to which she agreed. I started alternating rubbing her back and grinding on her before fucking. 🤮 this sounds so fucking gross bro. did this all go down in dead silence too?
/r/askMRP05/12/25 06:47 PM
4

crying on the internet life sucks, but too much of a bitch to do anything about it has a special situation that's unlike anything mrp has ever seen better than the rest of the "blubbering idiots" here head up ass basically retarded it's the right sub. doubt any of it will help you though.
/r/askMRP03/12/25 06:06 AM
5

Blow and big checks... sounds pretty good. Why not just swap this "elite athlete" out for someone who's into it and wants to fuck you?
/r/askMRP14/10/25 04:36 PM
58

monk mode lol, no. you gave her the silent treatment. like a woman.
/r/askMRP02/10/25 12:06 AM
4

yeah just come clean with her so that that she'll recognize the effort you put in over the last 11 months of your 20+ year marriage. she'll see how unfair things are, especially with all of the work you've done, and she'll start treating you like an equal. she'll approve what you've done and be happy with you and the relationship again. everything will be fixed. then you can relax, stop this silly charade and go back to being yourself. it'll be such a relief
/r/askMRP01/10/25 05:00 PM
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if I have still a chance I'll be honest, I don't think you have a chance, regardless of whether she decides to leave you or not. You're completely fucked in the head, in a way that is beyond fixing. Best strategy for you....would be to just not get into any relationships after this one, stick to celibacy. (I was going to suggest the occasional prostitute, but I think you'd have the same issues there as well.)
/r/askMRP26/09/25 04:56 PM
8

had to use lube
/r/askMRP20/08/25 10:20 PM
1

I've tried dates, flirting, and giving her attention And she still hasn't initiated? Have you tried wearing lingerie? Or waiting for her on the bed with your ass up in the air?
/r/askMRP11/08/25 07:37 PM
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wow i tell you to reflect on your life choices and you come back with something about your wife's behavior
/r/askMRP27/06/25 11:06 PM
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Is she shit testing me? Trying to invoke dread? What's a good response besides STFU? Better question to be asking yourself is, "Why have I put up with this for 20 years?"
/r/askMRP27/06/25 12:41 AM
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You apologized already. Best thing to do now is to just let it be. If you keep apologizing and groveling and shit, you aren't really doing it because you're remorseful, you're doing it because you're trying to manipulate her into not being upset with you. Which one of those do you want to be?
/r/askMRP26/06/25 02:05 AM
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you dont have the discipline to survive in the arena I live in yeah you're right about that... the level of "discipline" it must take to put up with shitty behavior and drip feed sex for 7 years is beyond me
/r/askMRP24/06/25 11:29 PM
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lol you came here and made a crybaby post about how you have to beg your girlfriend for crumbs and how sad you are about it then when people try to point out the extremely obvious issue, you lash out and shove your head further up your ass. this is why you'll never get it. on a side note... this is why red pill gets such a bad rap. it isn't because the info is wrong/harmful... it's because so many emotionally and socially "underdeveloped" dumbasses with zero self-awareness, zero coping skills sh…
/r/askMRP24/06/25 10:51 PM
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And why do you think it's not possible for me in particular? because we're talking about living out your dreams and this is your first thought: I don't want to be the guy that has to constantly imply that if she won't give it to me, then I'll just get it elsewhere. imagining yourself constantly giving your gf veiled threats in order to get her to fuck you. this is where your mind goes when you think about your dream life. it's not possible for you to live out your dreams because you don't even k…
/r/askMRP24/06/25 09:19 PM
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I run, train martial arts, part of toastmasters, lift weights 3-5 times a week. I read, meditate, play piano, journal, cold showers, daily. I dont drink, smoke, do drugs, watch porn or fap. I attend social run clubs, communal saunas and ice baths, social clubs. I practiced and became great at pickuo in my 20s. Hundreds of approaches, 100+ lays, crazy confidence, frame was strong and sex was primal, dominant, lustful and raw. wow look at all that alpha male stuff lmao can't seem to compute why Im…
/r/askMRP24/06/25 03:49 AM
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is it over? Do you not know if this is a dealbreaker for you?
/r/askMRP07/06/25 07:55 PM
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How to handle bitchy asks? Apparently by acting like a bitch. kicker is this bitch ... thinks it's fucking ok ... fucking owed to her ... fuck it ... overpriced shit ... you can gift it to yourself Lmao... Imagine getting this worked up over your wife asking for a dress. unless I'm asked in a way I appreciate You threw a fit when she asked you to buy something, then ran to reddit to cry about it. That's who you are. And then you're all mad talking about "I want her to respect me!!!"
/r/askMRP04/06/25 04:49 PM
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Bro, you've been posting about this shit for years.
/r/askMRP09/02/25 12:10 AM
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How do you gain respect from your wife/partner, It's the goal of this subreddit. lol
/r/askMRP28/01/25 07:29 PM
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diminish my results How would what she does diminish your results?
/r/askMRP22/01/25 08:13 PM
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5'5 210lbs she won't sleep with me at all Surprised she can even find your dick
/r/askMRP15/01/25 04:50 AM
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Told me in tears Minor inconveniences, but she's crying like overcoming this is impossible because you're on the other side of the world or something. Manipulation. If she cared as much as she pretends to, putting in the effort to see you would not be a problem.
/r/askMRP15/01/25 02:04 AM
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It sounds like you have a lot of open slots in your schedule for other, more available and enthusiastic women.
/r/askMRP08/01/25 05:43 PM
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Get her pregnant so you can lock that shit down.
/r/askMRP06/01/25 06:31 PM
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You don't sound like a fat loser at all
/r/askMRP06/12/24 06:01 PM
1

Probably should get engaged Says who?
/r/askMRP04/12/24 11:26 PM
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Wife's actions aside... You don't know what the future holds. You or your kids might need that money someday.
/r/askMRP09/11/24 04:55 PM
9

lol
/r/askMRP08/11/24 07:31 PM
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never had any frame to begin with Pretty much. Just look at your post.. it's like your whole existence revolves around her. If she just vanished one day, what would you even do with yourself? Do you even know who you are?
/r/askMRP04/11/24 08:35 PM
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wants to resign .. 3 months on the job after resigning Then why are you posting here making it sound like she's never going to resign? lmao
/r/askMRP16/10/24 06:08 PM
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wtf do I do now Don't worry about it, nothing we say will make a difference. You're just going to repeat the same cycle regardless. You'll do some shit for a bit after this, then slack off, accomplishing nothing. You'll eventually dip into despair, then into anger, then you'll be back here talking about how you wasted 3 years.
/r/askMRP18/06/24 06:52 AM
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What's the best reply for That's a stupid thing to focus on. You need to become a completely different person if you want to be happy with your life.
/r/askMRP09/06/24 06:11 AM
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Proof that RP is a spectrum Why wouldn't it be?
/r/askMRP05/06/24 04:15 PM
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Sounds like maybe you're a homosexual.
/r/askMRP24/05/24 07:18 PM
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You spend more time thinking about her ex than she does. Get a life bro.
/r/askMRP24/05/24 07:17 PM
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Tons of dudes have nutted in your wife and she loved every second of it, but you'd still have the same problems if she was a virgin. At the root of all of this is insecurity, weakness, scarcity, and an empty life.
/r/askMRP21/05/24 07:39 PM
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Yeah your wife is one of a kind, and so is your situation. Very unique. You poor victim. I do believe the principles of MRP can help You believe in them... just not enough to read the sidebar.
/r/askMRP16/01/24 08:17 PM
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It's so funny how guys with zero frame who can't stand up to their wives come in here like: "Oh it's her, she has BPD...." Whenever she is upset with you, your strategy is to run away and try your best not to cry in front of her. How do you expect a woman to respond to a man who acts like that? You expect her to not hate you?
/r/askMRP16/01/24 07:08 PM
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You think a list of plans to choose from is going to solve this problem? You need to sit down and figure out why you aren't able to get to the gym consistently. mentioning phraks workout but after reading reviews people were saying it's not great It's a beginner routine lol. It doesn't have to be anywhere near optimal. This kind over analysis is probably a big part of the problem. I bet you're like 1% action and 99% hamster.
/r/askMRP10/01/24 06:02 PM
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But I'm not fat Physical Training Current stats 6'/ 191(-1)/ 20% BF. With your lifts, you're probably even fatter than 20% You're not going to get anywhere if you can't even be honest with yourself. How do internalize You practice. Whenever you start getting angry and butthurt, instead of going into a spiral of victimhood, remember where to place the blame. You aren't mad because your wife doesn't do what you want, you're mad because you're unhappy with your life and you just want someone to bla…
/r/askMRP09/01/24 08:08 PM
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I had angry phase, posted a victim puke but now my issue is more bitterness Those are all manifestations of the same issue. You're still stuck in victim mode, blaming and resenting her for your shit life. You chose this. You set up all of this. It's not her fault you're a fat loser with a fragile ego who hates his life.
/r/askMRP09/01/24 05:36 PM
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Not doing things because you don't want her to get anything out of it is right up in her frame. You're so worried about her and what she's thinking that you can't even put a toy together for your son without having a meltdown. Do things because you want to.
/r/askMRP09/01/24 06:51 AM
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You know you're in the right place when a "comeback" for yourself is based on whether or not your cheating wife wants to be with you....
/r/askMRP19/12/23 06:39 AM
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Why are you doing this to yourself?
/r/askMRP12/12/23 07:16 AM
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The main thing contributing to both your unhappiness and your wife's behavior: You value your wife more than you value yourself. That's why you're spending your time trying to change your wife's behavior.... instead of out doing things that make you happy with people you actually enjoy being around. That's also why your wife doesn't value you. Why would you expect her to when you don't even respect yourself? I'm guessing the best reality check for her is to continue my grind You see what I mean?…
/r/askMRP10/12/23 06:45 PM
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12 hours a day How much of those 12 hrs do you think she spends riding her coworker?
/r/askMRP02/12/23 07:11 PM
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Lmao Ya bro just bring a single mom and her kids into it. That should fix everything and your daughter will appreciate it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/23 07:25 PM
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You're stuck on validation. Sex for you isn't about getting off... it's about getting your wife to confirm for you that you're a man. That shit doesn't go away after just one month of sidebar.
/r/askMRP21/11/23 10:59 PM
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Wife knew about red pill 2 years ago so this time around is seemingly A LOT HARDER Why would it matter if she knows about "red pill"? Boundaries, assertiveness, lifting, having frame and being attractive don't change just because someone knows about them. Those things are dependent on you, not her.
/r/askMRP20/11/23 05:36 PM
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Yeah better do what your wife wants no matter what, or she'll cheat on you and leave you... lmao Look at the big brain on this mf
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/23 12:38 AM
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strong, anxious Lmao
/r/askMRP03/11/23 02:07 PM
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Full autism.
/r/askMRP23/10/23 09:03 PM
2

Big wife centered victim puke. Followed up by a bunch of "yeah you're right" and "I'm gonna change" replies. A couple of OYSs, maybe a workout or two before you delete out. Then you'll come back a few months from now with a new account and another victim puke.
/r/askMRP10/10/23 06:42 AM
2

how other men handle the boring relationship talk I literally just ignore them and continue doing whatever I'm doing. They don't actually care if you're listening. They're not trying to have a conversation with you. They just need to talk. They don't need you to listen.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/23 05:09 AM
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Lol.. and how's that working out for you? There's nothing wrong with giving someone a chance to figure it out and act right. But if they've done the same thing 10 times and you're still out here like "What do I do to get them to respect my boundaries?".... that isn't a boundary for you.
/r/askMRP01/10/23 05:07 AM
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If someone crosses your boundaries, you cut them out of your life. If you keep them around and let them continue to cross your boundaries, then they weren't boundaries.
/r/askMRP29/09/23 05:36 AM
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deciding if it's time to cut my losses Weren't you already doing that when you posted here? Make sure you update us when you decide to let it slide again and go back home.
/r/askMRP29/09/23 05:35 AM
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Do you know what a boundary is?
/r/askMRP27/09/23 01:58 AM
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What are you fighting for here? Is it a boundary for you or not?
/r/askMRP25/09/23 07:45 AM
2

Of course, having swallowed the red pill Anyone who has lingered here Very red pilled... still hasn't read the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/23 05:11 PM
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the sensation of working from home makes you feel like shit There's nothing inherently lazy about working from home. That's all you.
/r/askMRP24/09/23 05:04 PM
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Usually these kind of retreats are harmless for guys who aren't complete disasters and don't take it seriously/personally. For you, it'll just turn into a victim puke session because you're still an angry butthurt victim.
/r/askMRP28/08/23 05:07 PM
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downvoted to shit Who do you think is doing all the downvoting? Red pill pros who all have their shit together? lmao
/r/askMRP26/08/23 01:51 AM
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It sounds like your fiancé might be the main thing you have going on in your life. If she leaves you, will your life crumble? Is your life built around her? This is probably why you're so afraid of what she thinks. A possible side effect of this is that you're needy, since she's all you have socially. Which is going to put a lot of weight on her and make her time with you feel like work. Another thing that tends to happen when she's the main focus in your life and you're terrified of losing her …
/r/askMRP17/08/23 03:23 PM
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Doesn't make what I said any less true.
/r/askMRP17/08/23 06:26 AM
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I'm trying to help the guy. You're trying to make yourself feel better. Think about that.
/r/askMRP17/08/23 05:45 AM
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isn't rp kind of already manipulative and controlling Like the other guys said... it's manipulative if your world is centered around your wife and you're a dancing monkey. This is supposed to be about changing you... not your wife. STFU STFU isn't supposed to be something you use to manipulate her. Read the sidebar for fuck sake. It only takes a couple days.
/r/askMRP17/08/23 03:38 AM
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You should pick some books that are more practical. What you've said is the "main issue" (that I view her as an enemy) couldn't possibly be more wrong. Rereading my OP, I have no idea what you read that led you to that. Because you're fucking fighting with her bro. You see it as a battle you're trying to win. It's very obvious from your post and even more so from some of your comments. You need to change your mindset around this. She's not your opponent, this behavior is her asking for help. She…
/r/askMRP16/08/23 11:04 PM
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And is it manipulative to want to know where she is No. It's controlling. And you're controlling because you're a scared little bitch. You're probably manipulative too though. Because scared little controlling bitches like you always are.
/r/askMRP16/08/23 10:55 PM
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My primary concern is that she is not going to have a good life if she doesn't learn how to treat people with respect. Is that why you mentioned it so much in your original post? I've read multiple parenting books, most of which say to "logic her until she is no longer disrespectful" and to impose consequences on her behavior consistently (essays, time outs, taking away video games). Were they all written in the 1950s? Because most recent stuff advises against punishments and logical arguments. …
/r/askMRP15/08/23 05:13 PM
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Explaining why she needs to be respectful) Yeah just logic her until she's no longer "disrespectful" That'll work. Explaining that God says to honor your parents (we go to church 2x/week) Ahh yes, the fear of God. That's why she should respect you because The Bible. Having her write paragraphs about being respectful as a consequence Nothing makes me respect someone more than when they force me to write an essay on a topic they choose with an opinion they also choose. Time out. Send her away inst…
/r/askMRP15/08/23 04:42 PM
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ikr lmao
/r/askMRP14/08/23 03:27 AM
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I've changed a lot lol
/r/askMRP12/08/23 04:22 PM
-9

Bbbbut what about ur vows!???
/r/askMRP31/07/23 06:25 PM
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Yeah that's how you enforce a boundary... never state the boundary, just go silent and act butthurt every time she crosses it. That way she'll learn that you randomly get quiet and grouchy for no apparent reason. Which should stop her from crossing your boundaries, right?
/r/askMRP31/07/23 05:48 PM
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DEER is specifically a fear/defensive response. Not all explaining is DEERing. Re-read NMMNG.
/r/askMRP26/07/23 10:38 PM
2

OMG.... BJJ was soooo last year.
/r/askMRP25/07/23 03:44 PM
6

Your GF she isn't fat OP thinks his GF is fat.
/r/askMRP24/07/23 04:12 PM
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You wanted to let us know that she's a porker.... Why else would you bring it up? lmao It's the second thing you tell us and you dedicate a whole paragraph to it.
/r/askMRP24/07/23 04:05 PM
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She’s thick and complains about being overweight but her body is amazing and she gets away with the weight gain because it’s mostly in her hips, thighs/ass and breasts. Just say "she's fat".
/r/askMRP24/07/23 03:19 PM
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Definitely stay home and cuddle instead of spending your time doing something you actually want to do. Can't have her thinking you might be butt hurt.
/r/askMRP19/07/23 05:01 PM
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I don't want to go to AA or rehab but This has been a problem for me for years so instead you want to she could help me if I could talk to her about it but I don’t know if she can handle it or would even care to Bro, the first idea you had about getting YOURSELF sober without AA/rehab was to offload the responsibility onto your wife. Go to AA you fucking retard. Take responsibility for your own shit.
/r/askMRP17/07/23 05:40 PM
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There's no helping this guy.
/r/askMRP16/07/23 11:47 PM
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You're just digging around for more victim fuel and distracting yourself from the real problem. If you had frame, whether or not your wife was an "alpha widow" would be irrelevant.... She would just be someone who is/isn't adding value to your life.
/r/askMRP07/07/23 04:26 AM
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You spent the whole day waiting for your wife to give you the green light for sex. Sounds like a waste of a day to me.
/r/askMRP05/07/23 12:11 AM
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All that just for "which book do I read next?" It's in the sidebar. Why don't you start there.
/r/askMRP04/07/23 03:30 PM
0

Must be rocket science.
/r/askMRP30/06/23 05:49 PM
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What's the boundary though? Do you know? I'mma call it out next time That's not boundary enforcement. Boundary enforcement would be not loaning her money ever again (because people not paying you back is a boundary). Or leaving her (because lying to you is a boundary). What you're doing instead is showing her that any time she lies about stuff like this, you won't do shit. That all you'll do is bitch a little and then everything will go back to normal. You're showing her that this is not actuall…
/r/askMRP29/06/23 04:44 PM
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What is the boundary? What are the consequences?
/r/askMRP29/06/23 03:07 PM
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This sounds more like "when will my wife change?"
/r/askMRP25/06/23 07:29 PM
2

She sounds pretty annoying. Is it worth it? Sounds like you didn't get laid for a whole year?
/r/askMRP25/06/23 07:18 PM
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She hinted to me that I can get in touch with her by contacting her father OP: "Hello little girl, are you here alone?" Young victim: "No that's my dad over there." OP: "Nice..."
/r/askMRP23/06/23 08:17 PM
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Stuff it into a balloon, then stuff the balloon up your ass.
/r/askMRP23/06/23 04:46 AM
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You sound boring and retarded. Bet that makes her pussy so wet.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 03:39 AM
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"Please tell me the magic words to get my wife to fuck me because I'm too scared of pissing her off to try something on my own."
/r/askMRP06/05/21 08:05 PM
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The problem is with viewing it as a test that she gives to you for you to pass. Like a puppy sitting for a treat. Sure, you can pass the test in her eyes by having an emotional reaction, but biting your tongue instead of letting her see it, and instead saying something witty or using some other tricks from WISNIFG. But you can also skip this whole shit test game by giving so few fucks about what she says and thinks that it's impossible for her to trigger you. That is when you truly pass. MMSLP b…
/r/askMRP30/04/21 07:42 PM
0

Wrong. Also, stop listening to BPP unless you just want to be a dancing monkey.
/r/askMRP30/04/21 06:09 PM
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If what your wife does/says/thinks does not matter, does your ability to see a shit test matter? Does the test itself even matter?
/r/askMRP30/04/21 05:49 PM
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Just think of a shit test as a woman's attempt to find your vagina. If you have an emotional reaction, she found it.
/r/askMRP30/04/21 05:46 PM
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Could be. But also, who cares what she is doing?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/21 09:46 PM
1

You haven't figured out that you're the prize.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 11:32 PM
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"Fear of judgement" and "validation seeking" are two sides of the same coin. Stopping all of your validation seeking behaviors will get you half way there. If you no longer care about people thinking "good" things about you... it will also reduce your fear of them thinking "bad" things about you.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 09:55 PM
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