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urbanwizz/r/askTRP26/06/17 04:44 PM
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Young guy here, don't know much when it comes to divorce payouts. Is it common for the wealthier partner to give so much seemingly undeserved money to to the other? Shouldn't the amount of money given be roughly equal to how much money was put into the family? So in what world would 30k a year be close to 1.3 mil?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 02:07 AM
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Likewise, I bookmarked it to save for later because it seemed very useful. Did you get it?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 12:06 AM
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How does one get over the Sadness Phase? And what comes after...
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 07:15 PM
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Speaking from personal experience, try aggressively finding a new plate in order to be immune to her desire to get back together. Other than that, definitely take a day off social media, tv, video games, etc. and lay out your goals for the year. And start some too. Nothing gets you back on track more than refocusing on what you're passionate about.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 06:13 PM
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Was this at the screening at the University of Toronto? If so, I was there too (I'm a student there).
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 07:24 PM
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Would strongly recommend reading day bang by Roosh V. I can see 2 big mistakes you made with your daygame. Do not approach from behind. It puts the girl into a reactive mindset and sets the tone for an awkward conversation. You open incorrectly. When approaching during the day you should do an indirect opener, where you ask her about ____ (something she has with her or is doing) and genuinely act curious for the next minute, until you segue into more personal topics. Girls are probably giving yo…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 07:22 PM
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Hey man, Toronto-based university student here. I'm looking to build up my Red Pill and RSD contacts in this great city and am part of a couple RSD communities. Is there a Toronto Red Pill? If not, PM me and we can make one on facebook.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 12:07 AM
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Your mistake was investing so much time in her without getting investment from her. Speaking from experience, if you had one good talk with her and then ignored her, she would almost definitely say yes to a meetup if you mentioned you were going to be in London for business.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 03:38 PM
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As a fellow pledge brother, drop her. Funnily enough, my pledge brothers gave me similar advice just about a month ago and I'm so thankful for it. Who knows what sort of beta-behavior I'd be engaging in right now at the start of SUMMER BREAK if I was to get back with her... Any ways, shoot me a PM, tonight's my last night before initiation at a fraternity at University of Toronto (provided I don't get dropped),
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 01:50 AM
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I suspect it's because he's had a bad experience, such as her cheating after she began to withhold sex.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 02:37 AM
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The top comment mentions that your gf is selfish and shitty. I refuse completely (dethrone the thread's alpha!). Goes to show how much most of this thread has internalized TRP philosophy. Have we not already agreed with the "AWALT" concept? Is this something the thread is still unsure about? Because calling her shitty and selfish implies that she is in some way unique. UNLESS, one believes all women are shitty and selfish. Now women are by no means angels, but labeling someone something negative…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 09:37 PM
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Man you sure do have a lot of bitterness and anger towards reality for a 16-year old. Keep this up and you'll be light-years above most of this thread. As a wise man once said, "let the anger flow through you".
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 08:11 PM
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As a first year university student in a tiny prison cell of a room, I have no idea to convince girls to come to my room. Don't get me wrong, I've brought several to my room, but I'm sure more would have said yes if I had something better then "Want to go to my room?" My room is like 7ft×12ft, with a bed, large desk, bookcase, mini-fridge occupying all but 10 square feet. So how do I give girls plausible deniability when coming in my room?
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 04:11 PM
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I don't think abstaining from picking up women is a beneficial thing. Porn, yes. Masturbation, possibly. But practicing seduction, being social, having fun with friends (which are all included in picking up women)? All things related to self-improvement. Don't get dissuaded from women because of a bit of failure.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 05:58 PM
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If you stay in this subreddit for long enough you'll realize these occurrences aren't so rare. Feminists are women too- and because they repress their desire for men most of the time (at least publicly), they're more open to a dominant man giving them a good dose of masculine energy and semen. Hell, I'm 18 and I've experienced this phenomenon. She's at least a semi-feminist, and one of the most submissive girls I've hooked up with (and into BDSM, of course).
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 05:55 PM
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'The rules themselves are dictated by the exception' . YES It's the people on the fringes of society, that are uniquely different from the masses, that rule it. When has the average man ever done anything of importance?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 05:33 PM
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Use money as a multiplier. For example, clothing. Men with little money can still pull off a couple good outfits, but men of means can easily have more than enough great outfits. The key is not simply paying for costly clothing, but developing a foundation of understanding what it means to dress well (there's many great videos and articles online) and then using your wealth to apply that knowledge. This applies to anything really. Hunger to improve comes first, knowledge comes second, applicatio…
/r/seduction09/01/17 05:29 PM
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You say you've been around more women then men. You say that's because you have 3 sisters and many female friends. There was no mention of relationships or fucking. I think you're great at becoming friends with girls, but having them be attracted to you is a whole different ballgame.
/r/seduction09/01/17 05:23 PM
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I agree with the premise that most attractive girls use snapchat. However, you're deluded if you don't think attractive girls don't have at least a handful of guys regularly snapping them. So being just another one of those guys means you're competing for her attention with all those guys. When you're using a certain medium to communicate with her, you're going to be compared to other guys doing the same thing. Perhaps you're more attractive (in more ways than one) than most of those other guys,…
/r/seduction09/01/17 05:14 PM
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I think the rating scale is a log function. Maybe the base isn't as high as 10, let's say it's base 2. So an HB8 is 8 times better than an HB5 (23 which is the base to the power of the difference).
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 04:41 PM
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The number of times I made this mistake with my ex was unimaginable. My frustrating realization is that the more effort you put into discussing what's wrong in the relationship, the less attracted she is to you. You put dozens of hours into discussing ways to fix things, and you don't get anywhere. If instead, you give her less attention, be positive around her, instill (some) dread, she'll be after you like a little puppy. Most women (and all women you realistically want to date) just respond t…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 04:34 PM
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I agree with thoreau, negative reinforcement is more effective than explaining how you feel. Of course, it is more immature. But isn't TRP all about adding RP-behavior to natural BP tendencies in order to find the optimal "middle path"? Explain yourself sometimes but be sparing in detail about how you feel, and don't get into these long discussions the majority of the time.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 06:37 PM
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The moment a girl starts playing games with you, by pulling back when you give her more attention, teasing you about how she flirts with other guys (or more), etc. She thinks she has you wrapped around her finger. You don't have to break things off always in situations like that, but you have to set very clear boundaries that put yourself first, and if she can't follow them, then you get her out of your life.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 06:33 PM
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Give yourself a set period in which you allow yourself to grieve over your loss. A 30-minute window sometime during the day. At all other times you simply don't let yourself think about her. Remind yourself that the time when you're allowed to think about her will come soon. In all other times focus on the things you have to do and are passionate about. At night, if you're having trouble sleeping, then go do something that doesn't involve a screen or bright lights- perhaps reading. You must grie…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 06:12 PM
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Unfollow all of your friends. On facebook I mean. Your feed becomes empty except for the groups you're in. No more endless scrolling through the lives of others, and you still have the benefits of messenger and groups.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 07:10 AM
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Maybe its not the followers that gets you girls, but the personality that can get 200k followers.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 12:41 AM
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I don't mean to be rude but your weight is pretty close to or less than the weight of most women. Changing that is a good start, but don't wait until you're buff to believe you're attractive. Be confident now- fake it until you make it.
/r/seduction07/01/17 06:30 PM
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Don't cut all your friends now, but meet some new people and compare how they treat you to how your old friends treat you. If the new people treat you with more respect, your old friends haven't accepted that you've changed. In that case you should consider phasing them out slowly.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 04:25 PM
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I suggest you don't tell others your views (in person). Simply acting dominant is enough. I get the feeling that you only wrote this because it makes you uncomfortable realizing this and you're either bitter or want to be proved wrong. But words won't make you realize this truth. Act accordingly and you'll understand this intuitively and no longer be bothered by it.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 04:19 PM
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'Relax, Motherfucker'. Just because you don't feel the need to intervene in other people's lives doesn't mean you don't feel the need to constantly be doing things to improve yourself and experience new things. Think Elon Musk. If you look throughout history, it's the people with obsessions that have made an impact. For me, relaxing is only a means to an end
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 04:15 PM
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Weren't you bitter at your friend for forcing you to apologize after you stuck up for him?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 04:05 PM
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All these comments are right OP. Perhaps you're the type to not get so bothered by the fact that the girl you love got fucked by someone else. I can accept that (to some degree). But it's clear to me that she will only limit your growth as a man. Letting her go is not only good for your emotional health (after all, she obviously cares more for that other guy's emotional health) but also for your success.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 02:48 PM
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For me I can't go for round two for at least an hour unless I know the girl well or she's significantly more attractive than average.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 02:44 PM
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In that case I don't think you should worry so much. I mean, worrying is what got you here anyways. Porn simply exacerbated your worrying. Perhaps if you accept that the affects of watching porn will stay with you a little while longer, you will no longer feel pressured to perform at your best. Paradoxically, that may actually fix things (to some degree).
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 05:03 PM
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For number 1, I'd recommend adding a reminder to beginners: "During night-game: Once you've started talking to her, never give the impression that you're glad/excited or thankful to be talking to her. Many beginners make the mistake of acting cool and aloof initially, but once they start getting some investment from the girl, slide back into BP habits. Girls at bars or clubs are not looking for a good conversationalist or a nice friend, they want to experience masculine energy. Keeping this in m…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 05:00 PM
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Just because you quit porn doesn't mean its affects aren't still there. When did you quit?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 04:48 PM
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Your username must be an exercise in masochism.
/r/seduction06/01/17 04:45 PM
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I see the "Nerdy Ned" mentality in many of my friends and I always give them advice firmly rooted in TRP philosophy whenever they're having trouble. But I see they constantly make mistakes. I believe that when it comes to women, the only way guys can truly swallow the red pill is through suffering. Until then they'll logically agree with some or most of TRP philosophy, but rarely act according to it.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 04:43 PM
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