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Yeah at club, street and music festival. I don't get much matches on tinder but I go out often enough... It's not that often that I get approached by women but I've been approached by women. I've also had some that send their friend over to stated it. Please do note I'm terrible at this in general.
/r/seduction24/10/21 12:04 AM
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Just be young and good looking and you’ll have hordes of women of all ages begging you for sex. Your job doesn’t even matter. If you don't have all of those combinations then you got seduction. I'm assuming you don't got this combination if you're in this subreddit. Self improve, be happy, don't compare people too much and work on your self. I'm sure you put yourself out there enough time you'll get what you're looking for.
/r/seduction02/03/20 04:10 AM
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You can train yourself. I know it sounds not being yourself and shit. But I think it's a paradox. I love picking up new hobby and dancing at club is something I just learn to love and not give a shit. From there I work on approaches.
/r/seduction17/02/20 04:39 AM
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When you're happy, people can feel the vibe, also you don't get down so you continue to open and end up doing law of large number. The more approaches you do the more chances you get. Seriously, if you go clubbing, the main thing is to be fucking happy. Talk to everybody and enjoy it. Don't be the guy in the middle of the dance floor doing shit but elbowing people while the girls are dancing and other people are having fun. We all can see that guy not having fun and it's not attractive. After yo…
/r/seduction17/02/20 04:36 AM
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??? I've met these PUA gurus they're very good at what they do I'm very confused at this dislike for them. I've met Badboy, Mehow, mystery, squatting casanova, simple pickup, even the people in casanova crew, etc...
/r/seduction05/02/20 03:41 PM
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Wut? This just motivate me. If they could do it I can do it too kinda deal. Plus good for those dude, one day I wish to be at their level. Seriously dude you need to be positive.
/r/seduction05/02/20 10:28 AM
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college or near college
/r/seduction01/09/19 12:02 PM
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I did this sat night (it's sun now)... It worked out well. Thanks.
/r/seduction18/08/19 11:18 AM
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Depends on you and the skill you currently have. I think for me day game is easier. Night game is harder depending on the venue and I have to switch up my style to build rapport so they can get to know me.
/r/seduction17/08/19 07:24 AM
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Style is short and bald and he made it work. I used to hang with a short guy 5'4'' my height and he got girls. He's a pickup coach for a bit before leaving that gig. Even if you don't have look you just work harder at things you can do, buff, conversation, etc... It's self improvement. Trying to improve what you can improve. If you find yourself dwelling in hatred then you're going in the wrong direction. If you find yourself being more happy then you're going in the right direction. If you have…
/r/seduction17/08/19 07:20 AM
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Do indirect. Ask questions. Where's the nearest public restroom or some mcdonald whatever? Or make innocent compliment: I like your dress. After that just learn how to make small talk and then other things like flirting and noticing social cues, story telling etc...
/r/seduction12/08/19 09:58 AM
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ow long do you usually wait in line to get into a club? Depends on the club. You can go early to not wait or pay to skip line. does everyone get in? depend on club how likely is it you wait in line the entire time and the bouncer doesn't let you in? depend on club how much does it cost $$ wise to buy a "table" or whatever and what does that mean? Depend on club, I hear it could be $100s to $1000s. You get a table usually it's in this VIP section with a rope section off and they bring you a bucke…
/r/seduction26/07/19 11:38 AM
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Seriously I can't believe people think he's a natty. Steriods will keep your dick limp forever.
/r/seduction26/07/19 11:24 AM
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Like... a guy seducing another guy? Or are you talking about a girl seducing another guy?
/r/seduction28/04/19 02:25 PM
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You should try other places to get chick. Doing bar solo is hard man, either get a wing man for support or just find other venue to hit on chicks. Or you should do what my friend and I did. You go to bar and just go up to a girl and say "Hi my name is blah." Then see where that goes. Then end the night afterward. Start small.
/r/seduction14/04/19 12:03 PM
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Hey man it's cool live and learn. I'm sure your friends are trying to be caring and supportive but end up fucking up. You just learned not to share your love life with your friends. It's cool it's your decision and there's no need to get beat up about it. I got a few friend that tell me that I'm too old to be trying to get girls on our campus. I just ignore them and not talk about it. They're girls who got guys through other friends. I ain't asking no fish how to fish. The girls I like to be in …
/r/seduction14/04/19 11:53 AM
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Do you think watching porn effects your ability to get girls? No. I've seen my friend that watch TONS of fucking porn and he can get girls and dates. Dude can spot porn star and sprout out porn names like nobody business. I have a buddy who NEVER watched porn until college and rarely at all and he got shit lucks with girls. They both do pua. One of them RSD and the other some old ass company that went bankrupt. Maybe it's just two data points but there were porn way back then just with different…
/r/seduction05/04/19 11:39 AM
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Dick just go. It's a cold approach go over and say hello. You're over thinking.
/r/seduction12/02/19 12:25 PM
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I want to find a girl to spend the rest of my life with. I also like to have options, to clarify, I would like to go out there and date and figure out what type of qualities I want in a girl. Another reason why I do game is because it makes me be my best self. I end up reading a lot of self help books to boost my confidence, my social skills, personal issues, etc... It really helps me be a better person. It's like a journey or a pursuit of being better. Along the journey of looking for the girl …
/r/seduction31/12/18 05:46 AM
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Depending on the setting. If you're in hollywood or vegas you can do direct. If you practice all the other shit direct can works in many other setting. I tend to do indirect. Yes I managed to get phone numbers and a small amount of dates out of it.
/r/seduction28/12/18 04:50 AM
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Don't they self victimize and put them selves in that place. Pity just validate that the world owe them something. It's just escapism from their responsibility to change and to grow as a person to it's the world's fault that they are in this current situation. I guess it's easier to whine and hate than it is to change yourself.
/r/seduction12/12/18 10:05 PM
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That's awesome man. Get more experiences like this. You can't get success without failures. You just don't automatically be good without practice. It's cool keep on working at it.
/r/seduction08/12/18 06:52 AM
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Same. I was there with a friend and got to see Derek recently. The dude is crazy as fuck. And it's all natural and state to them. I've been with really good pick up artist and they all have structure and do some derivative of mystery. I'm glad I'm not the only one that feel this way.
/r/seduction08/12/18 06:48 AM
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You're inner game is fucked. You reek of self victimization. As a short as fuck asian guy, the majority of my gfs are asians. Fix yourself and quit the negative shit. It ain't helping nobody, not your game, your love life, and it's pushing people away. It's a free country, you can do whatever you like. If you're gonna keep going down this route it ain't no body fault but yourself.
/r/seduction07/12/18 07:23 AM
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I like what he has to say in class discussions. You can start with that and say if he wants to study together sometime or say you need help studying and have a study group. If you're more courageous just saying you need help studying and let's have a study group and maybe we can grab boba/cafe afterward as a study break.
/r/seduction11/11/18 11:18 AM
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I'm 33 bro. 1985. It's not too late. Take care of yourself and body and you'll look young. I'm doing ok and ramping up now. I accidentally pick up a 16 year old. I tried to bail but my wingmen stayed in set thinking that the girl was joking... Got her instagram and everythign she wanted to hang out. So... yeah. No thanks but just an inspiration.
/r/seduction09/11/18 01:15 AM
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You ain't learning shit. He's just enjoy fucking you mentally. Go find a wing man or somebody else in community that is good.
/r/seduction02/04/18 08:25 AM
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Hey bro I'm glad for you. I think the success of this thing is people who leave it happy. Some people want other things, you want a gf, I want the same shit. You got it and you move on to better thing in life. It's good man, I'm happy for you and I hope you get that girl.
/r/seduction23/03/16 08:33 AM
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old town pasadena, the night life there is good, thursday you can find free parking to night life there. You can do PCC, pasadena city college. There should be a mall nearby Arcadia, Santa Anita Mall. There should also be a few places where young Asian hang out in El monte, Arcadia and such. You can hit those places up, I don't really hang out there much but I did study with a buddy around there. If you can Montebello mall is 15 min away iirc.
/r/seduction23/03/16 08:27 AM
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Maybe it's a placebo effect for some. I feel alcohol have super power. NoFap for my friends didn't do shit. I don't even know how they handle the blue balls. I didn't try to do it, but in vegas when my friend and I was poor sharing a room we just no fap for 3 days. It doesn't particularly do shit. For my other friends that goes weeks on that shit they keep on saying their balls feel heavy. I'm like keep that shit low key to yourself lol.
/r/seduction23/03/16 08:26 AM
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Yep, I have two buddies I went out with they're weird. I mean in general I feel like people that go into this is because the lack social skill in general. But my two buddies are really really out there in term of weirdness and I don't want to mean but creepy. Eventually I found a better guy to hang out with and do this. He's pretty normal and nice so I'm happy now. The two buddies of mine that is weird, I kinda talk to one of them still. The other one is too weird for me as if he was hiding shit…
/r/seduction26/10/14 12:11 PM
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Day 4 (giving up challenge) Sorry guys. I need to concentrate on other aspect of my life, namely career and finding one to be doing this. I'll keep going out when I can cause I need to keep this skill sharp but I don't need to challenge. I've done many challenges indirectly before and I guess I'm at the point where this isn't needed and that I should work on my sticking points. Having a reasonable schedule of when to do pickup through out the week seems better than doing it everyday, it cost mon…
/r/seduction21/09/14 10:40 PM
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Day 3 (/w buddy). Street (day game) . Just did one and it was instant reject. Oh well, wanted to warm up. Mall (day game) . Too many families and jail baits. I only did two there. Night Game (Bar Hoping) . Opened at least 12 sets. No closes. I'm glad with the result, being out of the game and haven't done night game in a while didn't kill add to my AA. My buddy had 4 number closes and a kiss close. He have been consistently going out so I'm happy for him. Stats . 15 opens+. Maybe 3-4 of those we…
/r/seduction21/09/14 05:47 PM
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Day 2 (solo). College Campus . yar I set sail to college campus as the sun set on the ocean horizon, me guess it's 4 pm. There were hardly any booties to be found and the ones I found were unattractive. Shiver me timber I didn't open any. 40 min in I set sail to a nearby coffee shop in hope for booties. Cafe nearby College Campus . Argg, nothing just lil kids. Talk to the dude next to me while applying for pirate jobs and a lil android programming to kill those laggywagging bugs and add me some …
/r/seduction20/09/14 02:22 AM
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Day 1 (/w a buddy). College Campus . Went to a college campus with a buddy. Turns out it's not in session until next week. Approach at least 8 sets. Most were weak except for two. One I started to kino and such but wasn't warm up or ballsy enough to get a number. The last set on campus, I just went direct. She said she have a bf. Didn't care, continue talking anyway. 15 min have passed. I should close, she stayed in the set for 15 minutes listening to me blabbing. Close, she gave fb, I lie and s…
/r/seduction19/09/14 08:34 AM
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Interview questions. I started out with interview questions and from there I've learned how to make it more interesting. I also learn how to flirt from interview questions. Like from mystery method there was, "what do you want to be when you grow up?" "Don't tell me princess." You can interject anything in there such as "dont tell me stripper". It also qualify and indirectly talk about sex, so you esculate your questions more and more sexually.
/r/seduction09/08/14 12:15 PM
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Don't do this. Any guru can pick and choose videoes, and they can choose the good ones only. The guy is obviously drunk when he's addressing the camera, his face and cheek are really flushed in an indoor environment. I get pretty good when I'm drunk too. But it's just a crutch and there are very little skill involve. Your brain loosen up and creativity come flowing pretty fast, there's a few research paper on alcohol if IIRC. You can't exactly drink in public and you can pregame all you want but…
/r/seduction02/07/14 11:34 PM
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Indirect then ask in the middle of the conversation. Or just open with a qualifier. How old are you?
/r/seduction01/07/14 12:23 AM
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I don't... I've worked in several cubicle ish environments and will probably be doing that for a long time. Hardly any women. I also follow the advice of, not shitting where you eat. Bit afraid of sexual harassment and it's only office co worker.
/r/seduction18/06/14 04:56 AM
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Thank you, sometime I forget these things and posts like this remind me of it. Currently working on #4. I got every thing else decently. I think add to that list is, once and a while take the time to be grateful for what you currently have.
/r/seduction11/06/14 01:36 PM
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It's on their pimp extra product btw. You get to see Julian. To be fair these are mostly their highlight or good videoes. They're approaches TONs of set and they can just pick the good ones to show as infield. Of course in general they're better than most of us, but the conception of them having it good in every single sets is fantasy.
/r/seduction08/06/14 11:58 AM
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I cross post it to /r/puascience fyi (shameless plugin). Thanks!
/r/seduction07/06/14 10:27 AM
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I actually made friends and got some dates, I haven't pull any yet =/. I think i'm pretty average.
/r/seduction07/06/14 10:25 AM
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By taking off his glasses. edit: YEEEEEEEEEEAH
/r/seduction05/06/14 04:55 AM
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My friend coach for MeHow and he's short and decent looking. He won over girls and beat his friend a few time. His friend is at least 6 foot tall and model looking. Looks does play into it but it can take you so far. edit: Game adds to you. It's not a crutch.
/r/seduction21/05/14 08:39 AM
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Seriously, 13? He should be concentrating on his school works and making friends. This is about self improvement. And having an education and getting a good career is fundamental imo. It's how you survive and make money.
/r/seduction18/05/14 09:19 AM
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I was expecting the PUA named badboy...
/r/seduction17/05/14 05:41 PM
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Weird... I'm a programmer but I don't get the shit you're getting. I wear an A-shirt (aka wife beater) and skinny jean with somewhat musclar body. I go up do very friendly conversation and during the conversation I'll be I'm a programmer. And most of them are like oh? That's awesome they are in demand right now or shit like that. Granted the majority of these women are college/students. So yeah... perhaps I dress like a jock? But I don't get any weird looks. edit: And btw, I love my profession a…
/r/seduction14/05/14 06:09 PM
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So the deleted comment was basically: He's an asshole or something along the line. Anyway, I've first heard and met him through a friend on the street of Hollywood. He can be off putting and in your face kind of deal. "Do you want pussy?" "You want lots of girls right?" It was some weird shit like that in my face and I was starting out this was... my 3rd night out with a friend who have been doing this consistently and worship this dude. Anyway I was put off by that. Eventually, after a LONG whi…
/r/seduction14/05/14 06:05 PM
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I personally don't think he's a master. He open with a typical opener good. Transistion with a cold read which is pretty text book; my buddies and I do this. The trouble maker remark is what I do too. Right after the transistion they're instantly receptive already. So it was an easy set from the get go. What I've come to appreciate is holding a conversation. This guy does it decent for any decent pua really. I'm lacking and need more experience in this though, mostly references. My buddy does be…
/r/seduction02/05/14 09:41 AM
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Why not have a compromise and have a [online dating] tag or something? And perhaps we can filter it out? Or mentally ignore it when we come across the tag.
/r/seduction02/05/14 04:41 AM
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Shrug, I don't like most of the stuff from /r/TheRedPill but that's just me. Why don't you just try both and figure out what's the best for you?
/r/seduction30/04/14 05:04 AM
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Yeah man awesome. Love it but I do disagree with the drinking part. I've been working my ass off to not depend on alcohol and it's getting there.
/r/seduction27/04/14 11:56 AM
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Neil Strauss isn't rich. edit1: At least before The Game book. I'm not entirely sure after it. Edit 2: https://pay.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/21r8cf/an_introduction_how_i_got_out_of_my_depressionrut/ There's also this ugly guy that got a hot wife.
/r/seduction26/04/14 11:55 AM
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Looks do matter. Have you seen carrot top? Look: http://www.thedailyrash.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/orig-1139331.jpg He's pretty fucking ugly. And he got a girl friend, Amanda Hogan. Hell look at Style, Neil Strauss, the guy who wrote The Game. He's 5'6'' short mother fucker and bald and he got game. http://www.puaratings.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/neil-strauss-300x222.jpg Look at his gfs, holy shit man they're like hot. The point is if you have time to complain then you have time to con…
/r/seduction26/04/14 09:12 AM
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People are different on how to work with this state concept. One thing a friend of mine, who's going to be a coach does is believe in the system and just follow the system. As in keep on practicing and believing that this PUA shit works and just run through it. As for me, I go around complimenting people to build momentum and warm up to get in a socializing mood. Each and every open I add more to it, from "nice shoes" to "nice shirt where are you from?" kind of deal until I am just picking up al…
/r/seduction24/04/14 08:58 AM
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Thanks, yeah showing her panty took me off guard. I guess good reference experience >___<.
/r/seduction22/04/14 02:22 PM
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You can cold call. That's one of the few routine I do when I need to transistion. My other default go to is: What are you guys up to? How's your night going? How have you been?
/r/seduction20/04/14 11:32 PM
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Awesome guide thanks. I usually write one for myself and it's pretty short, just a few sentences.
/r/seduction20/04/14 12:18 PM
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I was a chod, I couldn't approach anybody. Always daydreaming about a girl I have the hot for currently but that's about it, didn't do shit about it. I was a bit of a walking door mat couldn't handle certain situations. Overall I could talk to guys but cannot hold a conversation for the life of me with a girl. I couldn't walk up to any girl to start a conversation and most strangers in general. I missed tons of IoIs when I was a chod and it takes me like years later to get the ah ha moment in te…
/r/seduction12/04/14 08:41 AM
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I find that most of the problem my friends have is when they text, they come across as wanting something off of the girl. "Hey when can you meet me?" They don't take their time to be friendly before getting that date/meet up. It seems very abrupt even when the girl gave some material my friend can build off on, they ignore it do some gamey line and "hey let's go on a date". All within like the first few texts. what is the point? I flirt in text and come across as a friendly sexual guy. Shrug, it…
/r/seduction06/04/14 03:22 AM
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That's bullshit. I've text girls the same day/night and we ended up texting for close to an hours. On average it's 20+ minutes. Hell tonight within 4 hours after the #-close, I decided to text her and in a 40 minute time span I texted her 104 msgs. She told me I was cute and shit too within the text. To be fair, apparently, I've been told by my pua friends, that I'm really good with text game (that I'm a natural at it). edit: Most of my text game, are really casual friend to friend talk with a f…
/r/seduction05/04/14 09:30 AM
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Yup, my friend and I learned this recently. We've been doing natural game with RSD and DeAngelo, etc.. mixed in. Anyway, we ended up making friend with a really good guy in PUA, he's going to be a coach soon. And he basically said, do one thing, Mystery stuff should be the foundation. From there after getting foundation you can do whatever the fuck else you want and use those whatever to tweak/style your foundation. So I ended up doing some of mystery and got the whole thing meh down and current…
/r/seduction05/04/14 09:26 AM
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I love your post. It's uplifting and inspiring in term of being a real person and not caring what people thinks as long as you have passion. I've seen other post where they talk about passion but this post is the one that demonstrate it in a way that it clicks to me. Thanks!
/r/seduction31/03/14 02:22 AM
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It's a good field report. The date sounds pretty nice and I love the hug upon first meeting and your explanation. I'm going to actually do this on my next few dates. (edit thanks for the post!)
/r/seduction26/03/14 08:48 PM
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the trick where you look at eyes and the lips in a triangle and went in for the kiss. Do you have a video for this trick for a better explanation? I don't know this trick and would like to learn it. Thanks, sweet FR, this is probably the first FR on this subreddit that I like.
/r/seduction19/03/14 07:50 AM
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It's whatever you want it to be. The tools are to get women, what you do with women such as dating, marriage or casual sex is up to you. I know of a few friends that uses for different purposes, most of them wants date and casual sex, I my self have been mostly on dates compare to casual sex. I know a friend that is using it to get a wife. My goal is to be in a relationship once I date a few and figure out what I want.
/r/seduction11/03/14 03:51 AM
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I did RSD with a buddy of mine for roughly 2 years. It didn't work so well for me or my friend. But everybody is different I guess.
/r/seduction10/03/14 06:42 AM
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You shouldn't let that get to you and you shouldn't care. If you let it get to you it's not good, not only that you don't want to build a reputation of yourself where you call people out. Calling people out or singling them in a public setting is very a douche/asshole move. It should be below you and that you are a better person in general. You should use it sparingly really or not use it at all. edit: Assuming your PUA handler is true. You're going to get a shit load of flakers via cold approac…
/r/seduction16/02/14 05:47 PM
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I haven't gone over mehow yet. But my wing man gave me a few examples. The one I remember is a neg opener, "Wow you have the cutest elbows." edit: Oh and something about mehow's microloop. I'm currently just concentrating on Kesia, conversation threading and stacking routines. So mehow is something on my to do list.
/r/seduction07/01/14 02:55 AM
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I think it's the ten hook system. Anyway, it's basically taking whatever small information they give you off your opener. Most of the time you open and you have to do 90% of the conversation anyway. So you work with what they give you and thread off of it. It's basically conversation threading. It's a mix of story time, some question to branch/thread off, and stating a fact; it's stacking routines and stuff. I don't recall if she talk about other stuff such as qualifying, push pull, etc... My fr…
/r/seduction06/01/14 08:28 PM
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Yes he does get laid. I was there with him when he pulled once. It was my second night going out with him as a wing man. Actually, I winged that set and he got laid. I basically open for him and he does the rest really...
/r/seduction06/01/14 08:22 PM
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I have a wingman/pua who is decent looking put short 5'4'' and poor. Does that count? His conversational skill is really really good. He uses mehow short opener/lines and kesia noble conversational tricks.
/r/seduction06/01/14 11:53 AM
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Analogy. Which makes me wonder - is "confidence" in pick-up just a hollow shell of accomplishment compared to a "real skill" like playing the piano? That's a matter of opinion. My personal opinion pick up skill involves many things and one skill is holding a conversation; I think that's very useful. I've also used my pickup skills to make female friends btw, to me, that's pretty valuable to me. edit: So I guess confidence in pickup isn't hollow to me, at least.
/r/seduction03/01/14 07:55 PM
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If you do piano for ten years then you should be confident to play in a public setting, say the Piano at USC, without giving a shit what people think and just enjoying it. Confidence for me I guess is the mastery and what you put into the acquiring/attaining a skill set. I'm sure there are other ways like not giving a fuck and loving yourself.
/r/seduction03/01/14 06:54 PM
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The skills involve in pickup, from how to open, hold a conversation via threading to sexually escalating with kino and flirt/banters, to whatever else. There are several skills involve in pickup imo, but I just encompass it to one blob, pickup skill. But in general it's just a progression of learn how to approach, then how to open, how to hold conversation, flirt, number, date, or pull. I'm sure you can skip a few of these steps and jump toward sex or whatever but in general I don't think you wo…
/r/seduction03/01/14 06:05 PM
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I've voted a shit tons and still no match ha! edit: At least it passed the time while pooping..
/r/seduction03/01/14 12:03 PM
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You push your self and put yourself in uncomfortable positions until it gets comfortable. This is where you get confident from because you've done it countless time. I started out scared shit less, wall flower in the club. Eventually, it gets better as I continue to put myself out there. Club is nothing now. Other settings are unfamiliar and scarier but I'm putting myself in those uncomfortable zone to be comfortable and eventually confidence because I've push myself countless of time. This is w…
/r/seduction03/01/14 11:59 AM
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Whoa... You sure it's just your look man? Like you're not a downer or anything when you socialize? You can try a wingman. But other than that I hope the best for you.
/r/seduction29/12/13 07:07 PM
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Doesn't fucking matter how I behave. I guess you're just dead set on that looks is everything? And that there aren't any other ways to win a girl over? I don't believe that looks is the only way to win a girl over but I'm going to leave it at that. But I do have one question though because I'm curious. Even if you take this mentality, of looks is everything, doesn't this imply that you have high standards? I mean if you agree that you're ugly why don't you just date ugly girls?
/r/seduction29/12/13 06:49 PM
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Scam implied that you've been swindled. And looking that definition up it means that you lost money or something. You haven't been scammed at all. It's probably your attitude. You got what you got and you gotta work with what you have. Everybody's have different games and tactics. It's a trial and error, trying different way to get the girl. You tell us that you've socialized but we dunno what that mean. For all I know, you could suck shit at conversation, have shitty posture while talking, and …
/r/seduction29/12/13 11:25 AM
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For me you want to take away their responsibilty of them deciding to have sex or not. Saying hey you want to see my apt is like hey you wanna fuck? If you give them an excuse like, hey I got an awesome collection of blah you wanna see it? Or somewhere in your conversation you mention your tv show and she never watch it. You can invite her like oh man, let's watch it over at my place. Or i got a collection of whatever, just give her an excuse to come over. Not hey you wanna come over? And it's an…
/r/seduction19/11/13 03:36 PM
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if a mistake is made that could potentially hurt anyone it'll be myself Mmmm there are activities out there that aren't that dangerous haha. You should do something that is interesting to you but if none of those involve people then I guess you should just find something with people and try it anyway. I do new stuff to be that guy that know randomcrap and at the same time it enable me to make new friends and talk to new people imo. Join clubs, multiple! and find one with decent amount of girls a…
/r/seduction02/11/13 04:56 AM
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Anyways I was just curious; how do you develop material and keep it consistently fresh? It's a combination of things I guess. I'm assuming when you say material you're asking for what to say in conversation? For openers it's a combination of the different pua friends I sarge with and picked up from them and just me thinking up of stuff. Mostly, "hey I just have to meet you, I think you're really cute". To Grandma style, from cassanova crew, on asking direction and then, "wait wait I just came he…
/r/seduction01/11/13 11:21 PM
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I try to talk to everybody, it warms me up into a social mood. Plus ugly people have sex too. But joking aside, they might have hot friends and making friends is a good thing (even if you're not attracted to them).
/r/seduction01/11/13 03:57 AM
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Sorry, I made it seem like we're still in highschool. We graduated and in our late 20s. Most of my college years were just studying my ass off for my major. So I can't say much about it really. But just get out there and talk to people. Most important thing is to have fun with yourself and your friend and women is a 2ndary goal. Eventually I just view it as a hobby chasing girl haha.
/r/seduction01/11/13 03:54 AM
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Thank you for the meditate link. I do this twice a week but informally. I don't really know how to meditate haha. Already working out and studying for career advancement. I also lurk over in /r/psychology and look for happiness post and how to hack happiness for my inner game. Acquiring a new skills is always fun and inner game ish imo.
/r/seduction31/10/13 08:52 AM
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Some of them don't. Until I winged my lesbian friend then they're like wow you're a pick up artist. I'm like DUH, I told you. I'm not good though, it's just easy to wing lesbian for some reason.. Some admire my courage but overall I don't really care either. Recently I'm helping an old highschool friend to overcome his depression by telling him my journey and that I started out focusing on inner game. He started to workout now, following my advice, and going to try to talk to people and make fri…
/r/seduction31/10/13 08:49 AM
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street and bar hopping mostly. I'm meh with clubs and dance floor Q___Q
/r/seduction29/09/13 11:42 AM
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I doubt this is him but he's from Britain, Adam Lyons is around that area just fyi. edit: I've heard of him from an acquaintance. I can't vouch for his pua skill or anything other than he's supposely a coach.
/r/seduction08/08/13 07:43 AM
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I forgot the term but I think it's watch commander. You could have ask the police to talk to their watch commander. The one in charge of them. He'll/she'll chew them out of this. My landlord did this once. Ask for their badges and ask them to call out their watch commander so he can talk about the unprofessionalism.
/r/MensRights13/07/13 06:40 AM
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I'm not sure how to word this but state dependent. I've seen a couple of friends started to bitch about being out of state so that's why they're not doing good or feeling bad. I love this quote: "One of the most PROFOUND CONCEPTS in psychology is this: When you act (or do something), your feelings (emotions) follow along behind. If you wait around to feel good or to feel non-anxious, YOU'LL BE WAITING AROUND FOREVER. Feelings never come before actions. Taking action always begins to create feeli…
/r/seduction05/07/13 03:08 AM
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What I've learned is that for most people, when they ask you a question, they want you to ask them that very same question. It's as if they are proud/pride/ego or they just want to talk about it (I think this is a bad way to word it haha).
/r/seduction27/06/13 11:16 PM
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Be social? I went clubbing at Edison in downtown LA, they wouldn't let me in cause I had tennis shoes. My friend want to check it out cause DJFuji (pua) is always there and I don't want to be an ass so I told him to go and I'mma do street game alone. So I wandered the street talking to people. Talked to random people. Dog owner invited me to a dog show sometime next month. Talked to a dude that ended up hitting on me, politely declined. Talked to two random dudes and they said they're going to E…
/r/seduction17/06/13 10:12 AM
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Video games and most tv shows. I limit myself in tv shows (game of thrones and 'arrest and development').
/r/seduction09/06/13 10:38 AM
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You can amplify it. Or Jokingly say you're a virgin with a smirk on your face. I do either one of those two.
/r/seduction03/06/13 06:21 AM
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Run her over and exchange insurances and phone numbers. Jk. I usually don't checkout girls that often while driving cause I would hit the car in front of me...
/r/seduction03/06/13 06:20 AM
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You have to focus on your other strengths. Lifestyle, health (body), personality (being funny), etc... You have to work harder on other aspects to make it up. I feel like I can over come my height when they realized how much of a bad ass I am. One of my ex fell for me because I protected her from three people. I do boxing and judo. Sure they care about height but I keep my body nice and tone and wear A-shirt (wife beaters) and some would comment how I'm not modest. And my comment would be, "I go…
/r/seduction03/06/13 06:15 AM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/j93qq/the_100_set_challenge/ found a 100 set one. ^___^
/r/seduction01/06/13 06:36 PM
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Make up does wonders. Working out. But yeah... it sucks for unattractive women.
/r/seduction29/05/13 12:22 PM
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I can't seem to find any credible resource that Hitch is base on David? Wikipedia doesn't have any citation and USAToday only have a quote of him among many other dating coachs. Shrug, I was just curious because I love the movie Hitch.
/r/seduction29/05/13 12:21 PM
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Pancakes.
/r/seduction28/05/13 08:00 PM
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It just happens.... I almost got into a fight and two of my wings, one is a classmate and the other is a guy I met through my class mate from the RSD community and they helped me. I guess just hang out often and both enjoy doing the game I guess. The fight happened cause some 6'+ Russian dude was drunk and was calling my friend and I racial slurs. We ignored it but he left and started to pick on a homeless tranny (Hollywood man...), so I got pissed and tried to stop the fucker and he bought his …
/r/seduction28/05/13 05:58 AM
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Where do you learn improv? I graduated so... I don't think I can join local college club.
/r/seduction21/05/13 06:29 PM
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... I'm asian and I'm 5'4'' and I got some... I've started going out more often to do pickup at night with my 6'2'' friend. Recently broke off with a girl. Yeah maybe it's a bit more tough cause we're short but fuck it you just have to be that much better. You have to love yourself, self improvement, meaning you don't just love what you're good at but you also have to love your flaws. Don't even give a damn about being short. Seth Green is short and he got a pretty hot wife. There were tons of o…
/r/seduction20/05/13 12:36 AM
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If you're going beta like that mind as well make it funny. Hey, I just met you, And this is crazy, But here's my number [give the paper], So call me, maybe? Or just say, "Hi, I think you're pretty" and start talking. Bored and annoy the fuck out of them until they tell you to fuck off. Eventually you'll get good at it haha. That's what my friend do.
/r/seduction29/04/13 01:21 AM
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It's ok they just miss out on hanging out with a kewl guy. Try taking out your phone and have it in front of them and tell them don't ask: "Gimme your phone number we can have coffee sometime" Don't ask for it, tell them. Most people are follower anyway. Unless your in a ghetto neighborhood, then they'll just take your phone and run...
/r/seduction29/04/13 01:19 AM
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OKc = ok cupid POF = plenty of fish just fyi
/r/seduction27/04/13 11:34 PM
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Mmmm... base on my experience (totally non scientific at all): I find you should have a flirtatious personality. If you're all friendlike shit and very courteous you set precendent in their mind you're this nice dude. So when you starts to make a move and be flirtatious they can tell, whoa what happen to you why have you changed. If you flirty in personality then they expected you to be crazy, fun and sexual so they generally tolerate the dirty things I tell them. I end up making it dirtier as w…
/r/seduction22/04/13 10:23 AM
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.... funny I knew someone from middle school that did this and he got kicked out. He basically ask a girl if she wanted to see his dick and he whipped it out. The girl was very easy to tease btw. He was also a trouble maker.
/r/seduction22/04/13 10:08 AM
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gym, coding, guitar, etc.. anything self improvement you can do at home might help. You can play video games but I don't play video games anymoe and rarely watch tv now. You can try to learn a foreign language? Magic tricks? Learn to be a bartender? The internet have tons of tutorial of learning stuff. And if you have a rough idea what skills you want to posess (aka the person you want to be) you can try to work on those skills.
/r/seduction22/04/13 10:05 AM
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27 invest in yourself
/r/seduction31/03/13 06:52 AM
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Ask them if they're Phillipino (jokingly). I know it's racist kinda but it works a couple of time. Actually, I usually asked them that when they look like Pinays, and I end up saying how there are lots of Phillipino female in the nurse sector. It's a good open ended conversation. Ask them if they have any horror stories, or how when you were a little kid you used to be scare of the needle but the nurse gave you a lollipop and if they have one for you.
/r/seduction20/03/13 07:52 PM
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Take a buddy to go out with you. I started out alone and was ok. Found a buddy that was into it and he really push me in uncomfortable situations. We both cheer each other and pump each other up.
/r/seduction18/03/13 03:15 PM
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I started at 25 haha. I'm 27. I'm still at it but I gotten somewhat better. What advice I can give you? You've wasted 25 years of your life, do you want to waste another 25 years? What ever insecurities you have over come it. I'm short as fuck 5'5'' that was one of my insecurities. Have you seen those simple pickup dudes? The Indian looking one I forgot his name but my clique see him a lot around our area and he's short and he's making out with tons of girls (I saw it first hand). It doesn't mat…
/r/seduction13/02/13 06:14 AM
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I only do #3. I'm going to try the draw you a picture one tho. Thank you. edit: Yes, #3 works everytime for me. Then again I come off as friendly most of the time...
/r/seduction31/01/13 09:55 PM
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You're 18. If you're embarrassed about it then you have time to achieve whatever you want to be. I guess that's one way to solve it. Or another is to be mysterious on answering and just banter. I'm batman...
/r/seduction11/12/12 07:01 PM
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I associate their name with someone I know (famous, or just a friend I know) or their quirks. My friend voice record his conversation so that might help. He also grab their phone and text himself, "Hey there handsome. This is Derpitta [name here]". I do the phone trick where I get their phone # and ask them for their full name so I can put it in my contact list. What's your full name? And they usually give the first and last name.
/r/seduction11/12/12 06:58 PM
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How do you feel about it? There are always zealots in any spectrum (look at atheists [I'm atheist]). It's how you use the materials. For me it's 90% inner game and 10% outer game. Once you get somewhat decent with the outer game, go and find many hobbies to do and work on yourself (especially loving yourself). As long as you go out and do hobbies and work on you're inner game the women will be there and that's where the 10% come in. I've seen some of my friends that just concentrate on the 10% o…
/r/seduction11/12/12 06:06 PM
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I dont' want to be held accountable for any of my suggestion btw. Don't save money and join the dorm life next year for one year. Set your priorities straight. Work hard now or work your your pua life. I think you should concentrate on your school work now. I fucked up first year in the dorm partying and spend the next 4 years trying to learn how to study and pass my engineer program. (took 5 years for my cs degree) Try other engineer program (I'm compsci so I'm bias but try that). And again, tr…
/r/seduction04/12/12 06:27 PM
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Ah... I've tried this. It never worked for me. It doesn't seem like meditation? That's just me. I try stop thinking about negative stuff when I realize it because I tell myself it's stupid. I've tried breathing technique and counting exhale it was decent. Right now, I've recently learned this, I just tell myself to be happy and things will fall in to place. I just remind myself to be happy, act on being happy, and everything goes pretty well. And I found out problems aren't problems unless you l…
/r/seduction04/12/12 04:20 PM
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I've done it. I've never escalate though (working on that). I did it in pac sun, h&m and forever21 (I buy girl cardigan and jacket cuz my size is XS lol...). I even talk to the bag lady at h&m she encourages me to hit on the girls there... and wishes her son would do the same lol.
/r/seduction30/11/12 06:21 PM
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I have the book. I gave up 1/3 of the way because it's really long winded. I love how you summarized it here though. Thank you.
/r/seduction01/10/12 08:01 AM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DSpJQlBJCzA >____< Make mistakes and learn from it. She most likely won't be the only girl, you'll ever try stuff on.
/r/seduction09/08/12 04:32 PM
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Women are more emotional than visual. Just cause they're not turn on with your smile doesn't mean your happy playful mood and happy body language isn't attractive. Plus people have mirror neurons if the person's smile and happiness can transfer to other people I'm sure it's quite addicting to be around that person.
/r/seduction17/02/12 05:19 PM
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He appreciates our advice but seems to take it with a grain of salt, Ha! I've learned long ago you can't change a person, that person have to be willing to change themselves. If he ain't willing to learn, fail again and again until success, then he have already failed. If you continue to do this one sided help then it's just come off as nagging, when your friend is ready to change then he'll come to you for help. The best learning experience he's going to get is go out there and start failing re…
/r/seduction16/12/11 09:30 PM
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Love everything about this. Eyeliner and mascara go a long way; I don't need a ton of color on my face. THIS. Makeup is suppose to emphasize their beauty not make them look like clowns. I've seen so many women that put on so much make up and end up looking like clowns. They end up with a layer of thick second skin that clog up their pores and ends up with acne. So they use more of it to cover up the acne! adfa;jskdfa RAGE. >____<
/r/seduction21/11/11 08:52 PM
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