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CMVurukshai/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:53 AM
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CMVurukshai/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:30 PM
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Question For Womenurukshai/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:13 PM
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CMVurukshai/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:47 PM
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CMVurukshai/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:35 PM
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Discussionurukshai/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:41 PM
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Question For Womenurukshai/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:55 AM
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CMV×urukshai/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:23 PM
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CMVurukshai/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:51 PM
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Discussionurukshai/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 03:43 AM
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CMVurukshai/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:51 PM
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CMVurukshai/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:38 PM
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Discussionurukshai/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:43 AM
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Question For Menurukshai/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:54 AM
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Discussionurukshai/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:41 PM
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CMVurukshai/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:28 PM
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CMVurukshai/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:21 PM
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CMVurukshai/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:27 AM
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Question For Menurukshai/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:39 PM
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Scienceurukshai/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:46 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYurukshai/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 11:42 PM
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urukshai/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:23 PM
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Question For Womenurukshai/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:02 AM
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urukshai/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:24 PM
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Question For Menurukshai/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:04 PM
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They destroyed dating
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:50 PM
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Most childless women will repent but it will be too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:48 PM
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They pay us back in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:23 AM
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Good thing you do not have to spend much money if there is no woman in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:33 PM
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I'm calling out resentment, not dwelling in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:51 PM
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Yes it is 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:49 PM
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mine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:45 PM
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But I am not undervaluing women's work. In fact it was feminists that called out motherhood and house work as inferior ways to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:45 PM
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Women are the oness favoring top men. Today, as in the past, common men have suffered the most death (war), nasty jobs, harahier consequences, and rejection. So far no benefits except more power but also with far more accountability and risks. If this is patriarchy, then it is women supporting patriarchy by their selection of those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:43 PM
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Women thinking that patriarchy is men oppressing women is also stupid. So far is a minority of men oppressing everyone and yet women fuck those men and hating common men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:33 PM
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I mean the mqin idea of this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/v25mc8/for_generations_a_womens_only_worth_was_her_looks/ Sorry I did not link in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:27 PM
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I tried, but what do you mean specifically? I so not pretend to know Women's struggles by a hypothetical take.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:26 PM
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Agreed, but by that logic no post in this forum shall take place as it makes generalizations about genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:25 PM
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Yet why do you resent those shitty men? They are not the ones in power that oppress you, they also are not even attractive to you. You are basically hating a group of men that has nothing to do with you nor you want to date anyway. So that take makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:19 PM
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The side I hate blames the side I love for everything
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:12 PM
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I never claimed it did.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:12 PM
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So far it t seems She uses the same vague ideas she claims on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:11 PM
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Take in this post inspired me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:03 PM
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And for most of history husbands had a lot of power over wives Sure, also men had far more responsibilities, risks and harsher punishments
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:02 PM
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Trying to shame masculinity and blaming toxic masculinity for what a few very unmasculine weak *ncels do, or example.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:01 PM
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Ants are not consciously organized either, and yet they collaborate as a unit. It is safe to assume more complex unorganized demographic groups also have organically organized trends that can be damaging or evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:59 PM
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You mean like blamimg patriarchy? Or hypergamy? Or men doing X?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:54 PM
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I understand it may not be your case, and that is great. And I have eyes and ears to perceive what is still going on, as do most women Can you ellaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:50 PM
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Cancel culture is not a populist thing. It is just powerful organizations such as ADL or politicians or CEOs flexing their power to shur down something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:11 AM
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What about denying Holodomor or WWI too?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:09 AM
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Yeah. Funniest realization ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:08 AM
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Why are you are trying to undo the sexual liberation women fought so much for? It is not like the guy is raping anyone, even if we do not agree with his ethics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:06 AM
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, it is left-leaning intellectuals, writers and leaders who either fail to fall in line with progressive party... Totally. The fun thing is when they act pikachu surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:04 AM
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Look up how violent lesbian couples are
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:20 PM
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I would say women have a simple sexuality behind all that bullshit and excuses and so. Men have a complex sexuality compared to what women believe, but men pretend not to for higher chances of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 08:01 PM
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But it is like a very hot porn film. Imagine a lubricated p*ssy with your homie's seed. Level 100 friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:54 PM
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Her fault as women control sex. Glad he did before she cheated having 5 bastards from hook ups and making him pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:33 PM
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No. Women are all counting the same top 2% guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:25 PM
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But it is same hormone body produces. As any healthy man, I prefer to die younger with a great life than at 100 with a shitty weak body and depressive period-like moods.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:19 PM
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Yeah, legally. Also some doctors still have false ideas about testosterone turning men violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:18 PM
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I blocked, canceled, and ignore Jordan Peterson when he said women need to have kids because there's a famous feminist who at her old age regrets not having kids Even if he is wrong about most women, it is not true that many women have to pick between a professional career and children? I mean, many have no issue if a stranger rises them, but moms are way picker and they know that is not very realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:16 PM
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I do believe women have real friends because they have more options and social doors open. However, for the same dynamic, women cannot really distinguish between real and fake friends. For men, only real friends stick around eventually. For women, even more fake frienda aggregate around. No wonder they become so picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:14 PM
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I have a lower sex drive than most men most of the time so I don't really apply this analysis to myself, but I've been aroused enough at times (especially when I was younger) that I can relate Same. I hear men older than me here talk about wanting to have sex like 3 times a day. For me like 3 times a week would be enough LOL. I guess it has something to do with testosterone, but it is almost impossible to get it unless you are a transman. This reality is hellish.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:04 PM
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We all are all influenced by scarcity. Women control sex as pregnancy is risky for them. Men control commitment as marriage is more economically risky for them and there is no rush for men to marry as it is for women. Women are influenced by empty promises of commitment in the same way. Even for pity promises of engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:03 PM
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I had a female mod here deleting all my posts. I had to write to modmail to stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:57 PM
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I'm not saying that. I'm saying that all value comes from existing, existing comes from reproduction, women are more vital for reproduction, so women are inherently valuable. Also, why complain that high value can be biological? I mean, a woman moving papers in an office or using Excel is not as high value if it was not for cultural views, yet reproduction is valuable regardless of our views.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 04:30 PM
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I totally understand you and you have to realize that without that craving, then our species would have died off long ago. If it makes you better, there is also a paradox: most romantic and sexual interest I received was when I let go of love or reduced importance on it. Maybe by distracting yourself with other purpose or loving a passion, you may open doors to romantic love too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 04:26 PM
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I do believe love is the most important thing, but not romantic love. Plenty of people love their country, family, God, career, etc. with no need of romantic love. We all need some form of love, just not necessarily romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 04:15 AM
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Both are equally unimpressive, but since dudes are hornier average woman wins. That is actually a good point. I think men are full of surprises. Sometimes smart men do not do so well, bit school bullies grow to be great businessmen. Indeed they cancel each other so not much on averages.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 04:12 AM
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I understand, but I would not worry. Even women losing sexual and labor value, they still have huge social value for life. Women are always the masters of social cohesion, and they are always vital at any age for it. They also help breeding women and assist rising children at all ages, which keeps value high too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:11 AM
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Why do you feel moral distress? If men were really less valuable than women, our society would probably be closer to that of bees, where females took almoat all roles. Men are dangerous and violent. Average men are risky for women, top men, society and themselves. It is unlikely most men would be allowed freely by top men or women without those common men having something equally or more valuable than that risk back to society. We see this dynamic in most animals. Most species' males are often e…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:05 AM
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I have an underlying belief in the back of my mind that women are superior and or more valuable than men Yes and no. It is a paradox, or rather, our definition of valuable is too broad. The value of women is paramount because of the fact they are vital for reproduction. You do not need many men for reproduction, but indeed more women imply a healthier population. However, this forces men to create value and be valuable. Men, even high school droppers, find a job and often end up founding a thriv…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:54 AM
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Agreed, but my point is that they are coping their way just as men are coping with videogames, alcohol and drugs. It is like statins. They are good but ideally ypu eat so well that you do not need them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:48 AM
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This would assume that every single woman is naturally born conservative, and shift towards left leaning ideology is dictated by relationship status I'm not assuming that, sorry if it seemed I suggested that. I'm assuming women decide their political views as men do and that influences their relationships. But that is my speculation. There's tons of women in relationships that are leftist. Are they left over? Of course not. I'm talking generally nd why that may explain why women you describe are…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:56 PM
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Most women are anti-republicans... I think the issue is that most of conservative women are already taken. So it seems women prefer democratic but in fact is that only left over women are leftists (usually prozac xanax junkies cat ladies). Statistics show married women are as conservative, if not more than their husbands. Most men want a traditional family wife, not a mental feminist as wife. Most women are happy with a center-traditional role, even for many who are nominally democrats. In conse…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:19 PM
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Precisely. You also see them complaining about Hypergamy in tiktok lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:04 PM
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Most people eventually find someone but have to again rely in some commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 06:37 PM
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Agreed, if that was the contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 05:43 PM
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Commitment goes both ways: accept the good and the bad, or no commitment so none. There is no other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 05:14 PM
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When exactly does commitment turn from we choose to work together to I am obligated to remain despite no longer wanting to be here? I think the idea of commitment is setting stability and trust regardless of varying emotions, highs and lows. We all know about those women who left their 10 years relationship husbands for dating the bad guy and then suffering the consequences. Or the player that ends up friendless and alone as he never opened to commitment. Commitment is a sacrifice that makes mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 05:03 PM
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fix your political views So basically turn against your own conscience for pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:19 PM
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...since it is 2022 and not 1222, there is no problem since anyone can leave at any time for any reason. Which means commitment itself is meaningless and dead, which means it makes no sense anynore to be punished by the state and laws for breaking it. Not only commitment to partners is dead... people have no trust in friends, family, government, companies, society, etc. so they live in constant survival mode, ready to attack. I do not think it is fixable at this point for most people. This post …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:18 PM
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As a man, no, my brothers and uncle and friends and father did not really gave me any serious information about dating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:47 PM
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If I thought it all was loss for love I would also do the next good thing... promiscuous sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:33 PM
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We do not like impossible games. We do not like too easy games. We love challenging, yet rewarding and achievable games. No to mention men are not one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:31 PM
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Cool way to hide the female's responsibility of opening the legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:26 PM
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You have a point. Most men have no problem with feminism, but rather with feminist hostility to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:19 PM
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If religion logically destroyed everything, we would not exist by now as we were far more religious a few decades ago. Maybe you mean that religion ruins hedonism? Hool up culture seems far more damaging. Meanwhile, so far, only faithless hedonist nihilistic geriatric countries are dying and even accepting legal suicide... not saying it is good or bad, but obviously they do not have a future which is ironic if religion is what ruins everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:48 AM
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They love psychriatric drugs and weed in Europe to fix the issues that such hedonism may cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:27 AM
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Get an upvote. This is the standard viw of reddit. Upvote = good.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:26 AM
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I lived in Norway for a year for work and the women there were very pleasant. There's a stereotype that Nordic women are Marx loving feminazis... So why are Nordic men marrying Asian amd Russsian forigners and feminists there are trying to oppose it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:24 AM
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The main difference is that only in the USA does religion dictate policy. Religion influences morality that influences policy. Religion itself does not dictate any policy. It is like saying that universities and Hollywood have political power for pushing progressive hedonistic values. We know this is true about religion in America because otherwise other religions would fight for that political power. They keep each other in check.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:23 AM
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American idolize Europe so much and Europeans feed the lie to adjust for Amerucan imperialism. They will not admit a forth of them barely can heat their houses at winter, not the violent ghettos they have where Islamic law is basically standard. Europe is a continent of geriatric countries, with no demographic future as they are now. The few young people there indeed adjust for low population so they are more horny and sexually active. I think that horniness is a trick of nature for them to rest…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:19 AM
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Same. In my 30s I finally exist for women as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:51 AM
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in terms of overall attractiveness most people find those closer to their age more attractive Nah. Men will always date as young as they legally can and still have a chance. Just as women date richest man they can in their social class.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:50 AM
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On men this makes sense, but shorter women are conaidered more attractive overall. So short genes will still there as women and men share many genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:48 AM
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There are arguments for short stature to be a biological advantage even if it is not as sexually appealing. For example, short men need less food and less likely to have heart issues. They also are less likely to die at war because they can hide easier. Short women are also often more sexually appealing to men. This all may add up so this is why we have short men and we will still have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:47 AM
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It’s not the people happy with themselves who complain about the fundamentals of being a person It is a paradox. If you have a great life it is likely because you complain about current life and want to improve so you do get better... yet if you are happy with yourself, there is often no much reason to improve. Most people are struggling between these antagonistic singularities. Only people that always 'win' on this are those who seem to have such great life and also seem to have it easy. So we …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:03 PM
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Women say a thing and do another
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:47 PM
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Only men who win sex and women are those who trick women into thinking they have such rich unsustainable Hollywood lifestyle. No wonder they complain men are using them or men are liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:33 PM
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This perspective is perplexing to me, because exercising, earning enough money to protect yourself from inflation, learning how to socialize, and engaging in hobbies are standard aspect of human life for functioning individuals who aren't riddled with mental illnesses That sounds like another shitty mold, one if many that is making people feel guilty or FOMO for just being autistic, timid or just happy with themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:31 PM
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I totslly agree. I think gender roles change but always dynamically to adjust for the survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:22 PM
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Solid couples 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:36 PM
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Bears, illness (they invent most drugs), hurricanes, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:30 PM
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All good points.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:29 PM
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😔
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:10 PM
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Authorities defend women: From other men From other women From nature From themselves (suicide, mental illness) From their own bad decisions (pay for their fatherless children)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:47 PM
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Agreed. Men also enjoy non mental women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:43 PM
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Why always CEOs as an achievable example? Like less than 0.1% people are CEOs. Better focus on putting women in risky and nasty jobs too. We need female touch there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:42 PM
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I'm not blaming you. I get there are bad men there, but those are the men women choose. They prefer hot evil men over average good men and then want good men to pay for their children with the first. NOT.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:41 PM
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Exactly. Cheap work that is now a propaganda and pseudoactivism machine for keeping a failed education system.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:40 PM
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Agree, that is why every great man needs a wife. They are a team. He does great things and she cleans. Both are necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:36 PM
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Yeah, reaped by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:34 PM
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Are you suggesting only value women have for men is a fertile womb?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:23 PM
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I'm sure you rely on the mostly male police and other security nets as anyone else. Not to mention that woman rights mean nothing without law enforcement anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:20 PM
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Single mothers often consume far more taxes and rise fatherless criminals that will consume even more taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:17 PM
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Female teachers have been bad for boys education. They also have sex with them. Male teachers have been bulled out of work :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:13 PM
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This is an utopic view. Even without men as a threat to women, nature itself would kill most of women anyway. In best case scenario, a new class of women would become tomboys and adopt all male treats needed... so men would be reinvented. Same strength that make men useful to defend women from nature is the force that may make them a threat. So far no female commune has ever really worked or became independent, while almost every country have a male only camps that do well and work, even in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:08 PM
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There is an unhappiness epidemic among US middle age women that has nothing to do with men True happiness comes from within, not other people
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:01 PM
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Usually deep rooted misogyny Those are the kind of men getting and dumping the most women, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:26 PM
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No need to make it personal. I'm not lucky with women, but I do not care as much as I'm bisexual and men are always up for sex. I'm talking about most single heterosexual men. Even for average and ugly men that do have success, it is limited and an exception. They probably even resent their wives or gf. It is a very precarious collective situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:54 PM
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The men doing those jobs aren’t doing it out of charity or because women are obligated to fuck them in gratitude I never claimed anything of that, m'lady. The difference is that men depend on individual women more and women depend on collective of men more. Men are more open to admit this than women are. Men today also depend on men to keep the water and electricity and food coming. Agreed, and men are great working together for a purpose where Women would just catfight. Don't get me wrong... wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:18 PM
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Depressiob expresses in many ways. A mallaise is a very common way of depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:53 AM
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HR jobs and many office jobs are useless, uneccesary. Customer service can be outsourced and save like 3x more. Those are the jobs women prefer the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:56 AM
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I never tried to propose an alternative, so I have no obligation to offer one Thanks for comfirming you just want those unlivable men to be unhappy and keep selling them lies instead give up on overpriced pussy. Very inhuman and cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:54 AM
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It is demonic. Only explanation. Demonic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:49 AM
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Most men are late bloomers. Even school losers are often found in some trades chief position just 10 years after dropping school. Men naturally find ways to thrive. Meanwhile, Women always find ways to get those top men and suck their coins outta them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:47 AM
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Some even do that with their chad childtrn while making beta rise them as his own. Literal sociopaths in the name of "a greater good for their children".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:40 AM
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Alpha is the winner in sex and genetic lottery. Nothing to do with morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:39 AM
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Ya, so 2 yrs of dating the beta got "im not ready" rule, and within 2 weeks of dating, that rule was broken for the Chad I don't think average man will ever forgive women for this. Disgusting and evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:38 AM
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This reality is dating hell for 80% of men and half women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:36 AM
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Beta bucks is the state oppressing all men to pay for the fatherless children of those women and their lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:34 AM
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Yeah, they are royalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:27 AM
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I think we are moving to a modern version of this. Tech has developed the work place to not need men and favor more female strengths... Tech replaced traditional woman labor too. See the washing machine and microwave. Tech will not only make men obsolete but women too. Also most women in companies are a loss that is subventioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:25 AM
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In personal aspects you are right. Women always depended less on men, as they used to go to war, exploring, etc. and women did well. However, On who keep water and electricity and food coming, women have not replaced men at all nor want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:23 AM
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They will not fix or change anything but just use more pills until death, say it started with the birth control pill and now on hard antidepressants. It already started. Middle to old age cat women are the top users of antidepressants and therapy in the West by far. It will get even worse. They as Xanax hookies are money cows for big pharma, making top pharma rich men even richer. Usually negative feelings motivated people to fix things, but repressing those feelings and you just have the perfec…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:21 AM
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My point is that resentment is toxic. An unlovable man can be dangerous. We need to give them the option to give up on women but with no resentment against them. Or what alternative you have? Keep telling them lies like "there is a woman dor every man" or some romantic shit? You shall agree with me for thr good of those men and women. Honestly, your example of Ukraine was out of place. Plenty of people like.me do not care about the Ukraine conflict (a corrupt Western buffer state used for illega…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:13 AM
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Good for you, but honestly, what reason average and underaverage men have to grow up and find women? Most men have no chance in love anyway. Not even close, and relationships are not guaranteed to be good for them anyway. They do nit even have social skills. Better if they distract themselves to death than go out there shooting or killing themselves and causing suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 10:36 PM
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I kind of agree with you, but at this point I'm trying to express what those men believe. I think socialization is over for those men. There is no way they will even try to socialize with a society that shamed and humiliated them, and still does in every way they can and then says "it was a joke bro" or "it is just humor" while also claiming hypocritically to defend minorities and oppressed people. On top of that, socialization is no longer needed to survive. All is being institutionalized. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 10:33 PM
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But women say they want to be trated as equals, as friends, and then escalate it. Yet they also want a honest direct man, honest on his intentions at first. It is unlikely they can have both.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:33 PM
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Sorry, I will not give her free labor and stuff amymore after rejection. She is a free woman. Women are not royalty. She can f*ck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:31 PM
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It is a risky restaurant indeed. Food poisoning, getting expelled, shamed in public, must be invited, no guarantees... I do not advocate men to resent women, but to give up on them. As most of history it has ever been. No resentment or hate. Just realize the men that most women want has already been selected and it is unlikely they will ever change that. In fact they prefer to share top men than marry losers like them. Those men shall stop doing ridicule. It is far better today for unlovable men…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:25 PM
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I'm not saying women are boring as much as that what most women like is not what most men like. Only big overlap of interest to interact is prospect of sex or relationship. But again, why is that bad? Why is it bad to establish a relationship with the purpose of maybe getting sex? It is not like sex is taking away or abusing someone. In fact as you enter a relationship, often it is discouraged for each to interact with opposite sex friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:19 PM
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Cringe. Not everyine wants to be famous and sacrifice their own privacy for a façade. Women are not that important. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:15 PM
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You mean women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:08 PM
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Very sad shaming me for their sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:08 PM
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Sure, women are Royalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:06 PM
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Women have a 6th sense for if you want to fuck them or not. Sure. What they have no sense of is of commitment from the guy so they end up emotionally hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:05 PM
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Men have their bros to talk and they are far more interesting, with actual hobbies, and bros do not expect you to spend money in them and keep them entertained. Only reason to talk to most women is prospect of sex, and nice guys only fool themselves on this. Women are more passive and require to be entertained. Huge investment for nothing in return if you have no ulterior motive of sex. It is mutual... Women also find guy activities boring if not for social prospects or some benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:01 PM
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But what us the point of talking to anyone anymore anyway if not for something bigger? People seem to know that, so they suspect if you talk to them, specially women. Also for guys, talking to bros is far more interesting and cheaper than talking or spending time with women wirh no intention for sex. Only the prospect of sex overrides that. Most Women also want guys to entertain them. They are very passive so why invest in something that may have no return?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:57 PM
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It is not bad to give up on women, as long as you stop complaining and blaming others or yourself. There is a difference between letting go, and letting yourself become a resentmentful guy. Either way women are not that important except for the social ststus they imply. In fact, I doubt guys would ever marry if it was not for a social reward and some of then don't care. Other things like prostitution sex and porn make relationship sex less important in this picture, but status is paramount.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:49 PM
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Yes, but porn and video games are easier, more accessible and far cheaper than females. Why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:47 PM
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Impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:21 PM
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... with plans to ask her out in 1-3 years WTF
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:15 PM
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I get your point but precisely media and society has tried to shame people for using the term slut and they failed. They made it taboo to call a clear slut a slut, but people just use other words for the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:58 AM
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You forget that women can live without men, whereas us men do love and crave women. The state just forces men to pay for those women and their bastards. They still depend on male labor to keep electricity and water running.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:45 PM
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The chad wouldn't be higher on the social totem pole if everyone look down on him instead of looking up. More failed social relativism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:42 PM
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Men need to stop pursuing/having sex with women they don't personally like Thise are not the men here complaining they cannot get a partner. But those players are the only men that exist for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:40 PM
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Statistics say conservative men often have more sex amd manly men are often.more conservarive. So don't worry. You are still more successful than leftist lego user men. Most leftist women are low value in most cases and call it "liberated", so you are not losing anything of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:36 PM
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None. You literally have to risk jail or social shame for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:31 PM
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Honeslty suicide can also be a way that they can stop being a load for people they love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:29 PM
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The can talk about mental health struggles, but not with the wife. It will make the marriage weaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:28 PM
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Precisely my point. They lose their purpose when they lose family, company and assets adter divorce, because those are the things that make and keep men mentally healthy. Just as when a woman loses children to illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:18 PM
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Yeah, I'm not suggesting for the man to close up but males express their emotions better by buildings and fixing and destroying stuff. Women prefer to express them talking. Both ways are valid. Also the issue is that a marriage can be severed if the guy is too emltional to his wife. It creates unstability and she loses respect for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:16 PM
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You mean suicide by *ncels and fedora singles? Precisely, men with no purpose or family to love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:08 PM
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Check out which men are the ones who commit suicide the most. Not often the ones with a family to keep and protect, but those with no one to love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:08 PM
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Aparently laws from the 50s are enjoyed by divorced women the most to suck moneynoff the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:05 PM
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Precisely, men want a special women for them, to give only them special commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:34 PM
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So men want the very definition of a non slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:33 PM
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It is not incel content :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:21 PM
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The real black pill. Now I get why our ancestors were so strict on sex and marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:09 PM
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It's also what mathematically happens when majority of women want the same 5-10% of men. You end up with a couple of guys who have access to a good chunk of the female population Precisely why we have for those used up women the same empathy they have for bottom 80% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:45 PM
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Ego boost
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:43 PM
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Even if the guy does not want a relationship, ghosting is nonsense. He is putting down options for future sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:40 PM
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Just different values. I hope for her to get a good Christian man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:31 PM
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Considering how fucked up people who hook up are, after all bastards and abortions, I would say religious values are more reasonable even if not popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:31 PM
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The quantity would likely spike dramatically if I had a buffet of fresh young pussy. Yummy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:19 PM
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I'm a guy at 30 and 3 times a day would be too much for me 😆 maybe it is the fluorine in water or something
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:04 AM
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Four times a day You take a shower every time or just go on?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:40 AM
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Good point, but some men are so desperate they cannot help but put them on a pedestal. They often get no sex, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:38 AM
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Yeah I agree. Like 'toxic'
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:36 AM
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Is is possible that you have autism? Many men like us often may some form of autism, and we cannot relate to people enough to date anyone or get intimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:07 AM
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Can’t really say how strong my sex drive is, as I’ve never actually had sex. I'm empathic. I never had sex with women but with men, yet I know I'm bi. Still the desire is there regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:01 AM
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When the guy opens up his emotions, she loses all respect for him. That tip is a shit test.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:00 AM
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You are not very empathic to make struggles.when only one of those points can make you incel for life and yet be jailed by a sexual desire you cannot stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:59 AM
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Same. I read 40 years old men here say they would have sex every day twice. I never had that sex drive, even as a teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:48 AM
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Weird thing is that many women regardless choose to end up alone or never marry after widowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:42 AM
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That lot is that they will likely never feel the touch of a woman for the rest of their lives. Well they may not be closed to the possibility, they just don't count on it to live on. Considering all the baggage that female touch may imply, it may not be worth it. Putting women in a pedestal is what fucked up this world so much. It is even biblical reason of the Fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:40 AM
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Yes. Also if it is over sexually, why make it worse being angry at it? It is like punishing yourself for something that cannot be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:37 AM
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Happy guys that have withdrawn from dating and sex. Call them "Content Incels". I was like this during my 20s. I simply did not care. Probably low T or some form of Autism. Also remember we have porn and drugs and video games now. Even if we do need sex, we can be distracted from it literally for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:36 AM
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Precisely they have to lower their standards because they are too delusional to think a top 10% man (not on looks only, but also money and job and personality) will pick an average boring chubby woman as them as wife. Unkess you are claiming a woman ia attracted to only 2% of top men, which is not true, they can still lower their standards and find a man they desire and will not just use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 10:52 PM
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Agreed, but it is not a binary thing. If you feel very attracted for a guy you have to realize other women will too. Many guys in between you may feel some attraction yet. It makes sense to find in a man other attractive traits such as commitment and job and personality. They claim they do. They don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:48 PM
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We should never advocate for women to settle for men they don't find physically or sexually attractive regardless of that individual woman's look.... I'm not. I'm advocating for them to realize their looks match is not a top 10% man so their hopes are delusional. If they are happy being cum recipients of those guys, good, but they shall not expect men at thwir looks level to take care of them or their bastards. I think we agree in a lot after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:44 PM
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Big boobs, not fat, agreeable, good wife, dress well... are also good standards to apply to women.... but you get shut down if you express them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 07:39 PM
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Precisely a womb having all value is why old women are worthless (using that model) and rarely strived for anything while they were young.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 07:36 PM
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Projection. They shame men for the exact thing they do... objectification, using men for resources, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 07:33 PM
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No, a lot of women are told they have to choose between physical attraction and commitment... because the sexy, charismatic guys they're attracted to have loads of options. Well, that is true. Women have to have to understand that being good looking enough to have sex with top guys but that do not imply any commitment from any of them. Remember the video where average women were asked to rate themselves and almost all of them said 9 or 10 with a straight face. Literally delusional. Of course the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 07:30 PM
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They're told to prioritize character over looks Women are the ones perpetrating the lies that they prefer personality over looks, even when guys call it bullshit on their face. If anything, guys want them to be more honest, but they still want to be seen as the nice agreeable princess. I'm not defending guys as in other aspects it is the other way around, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:39 PM
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Disgusting. Not wife or girlfriend material, a bomb of cheating and ugly divorce waiting. I would leave without even before she even ends explaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:36 PM
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Yeah, they pick that guy to rise their bastards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:15 PM
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Sorry I meant stranger. Bad English.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:09 PM
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I don't necessarily believe in asytology per se but it indeed has some archetypes and patterns that may help us understand our reality better... just as greek gods are often used to name pychological conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 01:48 AM
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At 30s, your personality becomes less flexible. I think astrologists and mystics call it "Saturn return" or something. You may not believe in it, but indeed Saturn's orbit of almost 30 years is symbolically associated to the age of maturity, establishment and order. Saturn is the reaper... the time master that cuts away the branches of life you do not use anymore. It is a hard way to grow up if you are not prepared. You may find love at that age, but the coupling is weaker. You will never feel l…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 08:00 PM
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Appartently "America shall be like the world" only includes Japan, Western Europe and sometimes Australia.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:54 PM
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It makes sense women pick men by traits that the men cannot change as they can change them elsewhere afyer they have the guy with the specific traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:20 PM
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The Industrial Revolution and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race. They have greatly increased the life-expectancy of those of us who live in “advanced” countries, but they have destabilized society, have made life unfulfilling, have subjected human beings to indignities, have led to widespread psychological suffering (in the Third World to physical suffering as well) and have inflicted severe damage on the natural world. The continued development of technology will worsen t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:25 PM
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I understand but often if they look too different, they may also have an identity crisis. Still you have a good point. I guess my vonvrrn is more on adopted children rather than babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:23 PM
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Unironically I think the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:19 PM
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It hit Avril Lavigne very hard 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:19 PM
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So the only options are to kill other men 'for pussy' or be porn addicted losers? No, but that is how easily libido for women can be overriden now, and cobaidering the horrible things men had to do for it, I glad it can be overriden. I do not like the hedonist way we are heading for, but honestly that trend has been there for centuries. Nietzche knew it and attributed it to Christianity but actually the fall of Christianity in the 20th century made it worse. The "Last man".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:52 PM
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We live in a country where we don’t have free healthcare Technically there is free healthcare for any person who needs it and cannot pay for it (Medicaid). Only those who can pay for it but don't, suffer. Not to mention that most countries with free healthcare are not Western Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:47 PM
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I think people should adopt rather than create more children if they can I prefer to rise a child with my own DNA. I believe adoption shall be inside the extended family of the orphan. Children being disconnectedd from their culture and extended family and country is evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:42 PM
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"...now take your wallet to pay taxes for my personal project"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:40 PM
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Imagine the father ends up fucking a daughter without knowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:39 PM
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Men's complacency and addiction to things like porn and video games in place of forming genuine human connections is a major issue Why is it a major issue if women say pussy is not guaranteed and those men are happy being distracted for life? I hate pure hedonism, but consuming is also a lifestyle that is increasingly acceptable. Just as older single women living off antidepressants and therapy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:32 PM
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The bl*ckpill is that they are happy to share top men anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:27 PM
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Most men are porn addicted, video game obsessed dopamine junkies with zero emotional intelligence or introspection. Thanks God they are not killing each other anymore for sex and winning the virgin. Pussy is not that valuable. Also most of those men are not actively looking anynore anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:22 PM
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Polyamorous sex is negative value sex. Weirdos having sex with weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:12 PM
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At least most female looks are very short lived. They façade falls hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:11 PM
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Yeah. That is how women end up with sociopaths. I guess that is all the reprosuctive imperative cares about anyway and enough to keep the species.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:07 PM
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...cold approaching doesn't work most of the time anyways Cold or not, most approaches will not work for men anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 03:36 PM
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I'll just walk away before she ends explaining her no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 03:35 PM
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I understand. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:39 PM
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Is there a way I can fix it? The post was doing very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:27 PM
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TBQH I prefer to rrly on a boss than self sufficient. Too much effort and not guaranteed reward. Some of us are natural slaves, I guess 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:15 PM
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I'm read genetic human diversity is not as good as in other animals so diverse men are required. Chad chasing may create a genetic meltdown.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:11 PM
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Yeah, too much effort. Better rely on porn or videogames.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:00 PM
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Men usually occupy the extremes(both in the bad and good side) while woman tends to be average. I observed that too. Even in IQ... most retarded and genious people are men. Only most obvious exception are women's moods, which vary very widely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:59 PM
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Your lack of empathy for genetically disadvantaged and autistic men is very cruel. With bros like you, no one needs enemies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:54 PM
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Good for you. The issue is when they do not necessarily enjoy yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:53 PM
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I'm bisexual so I get sex with guys as needed, so nit a celibate. I'd like to have sex with women to try but I'm not that needy or open to rejection so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:51 PM
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TBQH, the reward of dating is always diminishing returns, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:45 PM
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It boils down to that once you are or have been in a relationship, your view of women shifts in general That sounds like the reason why some fathers in the past hired a prostitute for their boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:44 PM
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Or no friend group in the first place, like my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:31 PM
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Very good points. I think it is also the inertia. If you already have a girlfriend and already have social experience, life becomes easier. Like a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:37 AM
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Yeah, but it just seems so odd. Plenty of men who are successful in dating are not even fit, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:03 AM
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Chad with Glasses = Nerd 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:02 AM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 03:52 AM
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I see a difference between what men do irl and what men say online. The ones online act like autistic incels. Maybe that kind of men are the most common but you do not see them as existing in real life. Just my speculation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 03:51 AM
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Sure. Condeming racism is what gives purpose to a huge part of population that feel morally enlightened while ignoring other struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 03:19 AM
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Easy to date other men. I never even had a chance to date women. Hellish.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:21 AM
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Honestly I do not care as a man. They will keep complaining anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:19 AM
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Women have to live in fear every time they step out of their house That's up to their insecutities. Western women are the most free and in the safest times ever. All crime is lower now. Maybe if women did not fought so much to bring foreign men, rape in the West would be even lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 07:41 PM
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BASED
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 07:36 PM
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That's because it is better to put the burden on one man instead of putting it on all men. When you socialize a problem (Let the state take care of it) you are essentially turning it into EVERY man's problem because we all pay into the state with our taxes. That is a good argiment to abolish ALL taxes instead. Isn't it? If we are forced to pay taxes for foreigners and wars in countries that that openly hate us, it makes srnse taxes are used to lesser yet relevant issues such as fatherless childr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:22 PM
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Well, women broke that natural order of things when they decided to be like men on jobs, rights, resonsibilities and decisions. They also break nature with makeup and birth control. It makes sense they also lose the few privileges they had, as they adopted the male riles. I'm not ssying you are right in a fundamental level, but if that foundation is being questioned, so must be the benefits of such foundation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:20 PM
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I don't understand your question. Possesive here is in the sense of relationship, just as her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:39 PM
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...the same people who discourage abortion also discourage reliance on government It is irrelevant. If abortion will be legal anyway, paper abortion should be legal too. But half baked lukewarm laws, are unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:38 PM
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Again, that is her fault for cheating. It is time the state keep justifying female bad decisions as if they were children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:34 PM
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Well ahe can give him the chikd custody and pay the child support herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:37 PM
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As a point of practicality? Undernourished kids, foster kids and orphans are the losers through no fault of their own and bad for society at large. I get it but that is not the case. The kid has the mother. Women work now and they can get state assistance on top of that. The tax payers shall take the distributed buderden for these reasons: They are as responsible as the father that did not want the child. The child will grow up and on average will likely pay back in taxes what he consumed. On av…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:34 PM
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Men are too comfortable sitting at home gaming or being a wall flower and not pursuing the women they want out in social settings. Complacency is death. I want to persue women, but my sex drive and risk tolerance is not as high to do that. Any sex energy can also be released in a few minutes with porn anyway. Not to mention the reward would probably not be as good as I expect, considering men I know are nit as happy with their women. Better find other ways to find peace with myself, and if it co…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:18 PM
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When all fails, yes, it all defaults to the father paying bucks and there is no way out as women have (abortion, adoption, charity, etc). Men are fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:33 PM
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You are including stuff the mother also uses, such as shelter and electricity. It is not the man's job to take care of her anymore. Dependibg on the place where you live, even 500 a month is enough. Also she shall pay her half shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:32 PM
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It never made sense to me because its no more "childish" than spending hours watching TV. Or she spending an hour putting makeup before church while the guy is ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:21 PM
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Precisely why women must have rights to their own body is why they should be able to have the child and do not force other bodies to pay for it. Many divorced women want to take away the child from the father anyway, so why do they still want the financial benefits? Child support doesn't even cover half of what most kids need Claim pulled from the ass. Sure a man earning 100k a month and paying 10k in child support "is not enough" sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:15 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:48 PM
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Her body, her choice... her responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:47 PM
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Sure but the earlier they find the actual father, the better. Just suggesting that the non father must be responsible is attrocious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:46 PM
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That is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:34 PM
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... with a shitty sex education That does not matter. 99% of teens already understand it. Education helps but only to some point. After that it is just horniness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:33 PM
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Or maybe women would have to be more responsible and take better choices of men. Funny how women are treates as children here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:32 PM
5

I wouldn't want to live in a society that lets babies die because of whatever wrong choices their parents made No one wants, yet when all fails, they put all the budern on the father instead on the state, as most other problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:29 PM
1

Technically the baby is an investment for the state as most people will grow to pay back it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:27 PM
7

Paying 18 child support seems a greater effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:25 PM
7

What's the logic behind this? If my contraception fails, of if someone lies deliberately about birth control, the man is gonna be a father? Whether he wants to or not? Whether he can afford it or not? All gender equality bullshit is a façade. When SHTF, men are put in fire. Look what happened to men in Ukraine. Even in good times, men also have to pay more taxes, harsher punishments, etc. Wlmen and the state are aligned to take away the most labor from men whike giving them the least. Men are li…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:23 PM
11

Maybe it was always that way but prople are now open about it? Racis is condemned yet lookism, which is almost always racist, is often praised.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:52 AM
3

You either settle down or you will be settle down by life in a very harsh way. Better take the option when it is still wide. Settling down is growing up. It applies.yo couples, jobs, etc. It is a huge risk but not doing it is guaranteed fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:14 AM
2

Yes I do even often being cynic about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:12 AM
1

Sure, they can live for themselves. Using them as livestock with no genetic legacy nor sexual reward is evil. In any other category it would be fraud or cohersion
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:11 AM
3

Maybe, but we can implement it from now on. Women and biological fathers will have to take actual responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:09 AM
3

Men can request DNA testing on an individual basis if they think there was a likelihood of their partner cheating Supposing the law allows the man to do it on his own, it may probably be too late and his name may be in the birth certificate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:18 PM
5

Precisely that is the prochoice argument. I'm a prolifer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:57 PM
4

I'm not defending such horrible thing more than any other crime. Sorry if it srrms I suggested such thing. But I do know that desperate people often find crime as an exit. Now add some mild mental illness and maybe alcohol and you have a bomb.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:56 PM
4

I'm not blaming the children. I just believe that their actual father must be the provider. At some point those children will ask for extra things beyond food and shelter. A car, a loan, etc... look how humiliating and abusive that is for a man who worked hard to rise kids that are not really his legacy. It is literally predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:53 PM
7

Also note that pro-life activists use adoption as their primary solution, which by definition is raising the product of another couple's DNA. Consent
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:50 PM
8

Seems like a very arbitrary point, considering we all are lumps of cells.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:08 PM
9

Isn't abortion OK?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:53 PM
28

Why are not DNA tests standard but all kind of stupid tests or uneccesary surgeries such as circumcision are?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:08 PM
15

Yes it matters. I could have used those resources for my own kids and myself and people. They are literally stealing the future of my kids and my own investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:07 PM
13

An evil woman using your resources for years, while.you are rising another man's DNA is far more evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:06 PM
12

Horrible, but I cannot blame him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:04 PM
1

Slippery slope fallacy. Actually, we need clear laws for abortion (or against it) with all acceptable exceptions, instead just relying on court decision from over 40 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:31 PM
1

Sure, but I did to show that it is not a religious vs non religious or black vs white issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:29 PM
3

Men are not the focus of abortion rights. Women are allowed to address our own issues without you barging in and saying "but what about men? Good, so don't lie trying to appeal to equality and emotional exceptional situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:51 PM
2

Women often times want the authority of a man, the privledge of a woman, and the accountability of a child. Basically royalty
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:46 PM
3

You do not need to be religious to believe a fetus is a human at some point between conception and birth. Even most pro-choice people would not approve abortion for non health reason at third trimester.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:44 PM
-3

Ideally banning abortion will make other laws be more fair to compensate, just as other regulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:37 PM
-4

Probably guy is in jail or Missing in action, or she do not know who the father is. All mostly disgusting decisions from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:36 PM
2

Still easier problems to deal with than average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 02:05 PM
2

Maybe. Regarsless, no hit no miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:43 PM
1

Ideally yes. But it is not an ideal world. Having a partner can increase your life quality or destroy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:11 PM
2

We focus on what we want. Yeah, the same 99% of other girls want. No wonder they all end up with sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:07 PM
1

Can confirm. I'm Hispanic but most "white" hispanic guys get the most chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:06 PM
1

Yeah because you all are approaching the same 3 guys. Wonder why you end up with sociopathic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:03 PM
3

No wonder women end up with pyschopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:00 PM
3

if men dont make the first move they dont get laid That explains my situation. Well, nothing of value is lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:59 AM
0

Women have the grip on sex as men have it on commitment. It is akin to men who shame old single women. So yes women are making it worse and then they ask why men want them for sex of evergirldfriends only.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:03 PM
0

Women shaming them for getting no sex is a huge contributor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:36 PM
1

"no, actually, this has not solved our romantic problems." Well, it does fix a lot of issues with sexual desire. Romance is overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:32 PM
1

Men desire both sex and intimacy, and a sense of belonging and being wan Sure, many do, but plenty are OK with sex and porn alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:29 PM
1

Some men are just destined to be alone. In fact, among zebras and gazelles, there are whole bachelor herds that cannot get a female mate. Such is nature. The most evil thing about our system is the fact those men have to pay taxes to keep alive the bastards of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:28 PM
3

But it helps. It also helps men who wiuld otherwise spend their money on women who will never give them sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:27 PM
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Yeah, so much putting sex in a pedestal. That is why it was important religions appreciated chastity as another virtuous path as marriage itself. Sex is not for everyone and not everyone will get it anyway. It is time to stop shaming people for not having it when in most cases it is not even their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:24 PM
-1

Male penis love sluts. Male heart and mind want good wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:12 PM
7

"Be selfish and hurt others to get all, but share what you get with me and protect me, ok?"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:11 PM
2

"Please hurt anyone else, even yourself, to get anything for us... but do not hurt me or our children..."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:09 PM
4

Sure, men really need better/healthier outlets to vent about this frustration than misogyny Most mysogyniatic men are the least masculine overall. Look at those virgin shooters and women murderers. Masculinity is being replaced by mysoginy rather than containing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:09 PM
-1

"Cultivating" Nah, they are given for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:55 PM
1

My hypothesis is that they whine for social status, because they are not really putting any effort for it as they did in the past. Even then the get a gf they are not eager to marry, just the status of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:49 PM
2

There is a single girl in office and she is full of orbiters. SinglebMen around her trying to befriend her. I did not care, though. Guess who picked for lunch... me. Because I'm not being a sucker. It is so funny to see guys do such stupid things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:21 PM
1

It is hellish to be the stepfather. If I was the father, it was far easier to have power in this family. A step father is at best a guess. He have to invest as a husband but he has no power. I could use those resources of my own children and on myself instead of using them to rise another man's bastards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:18 PM
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Plenty of men do want to have sex with single moms, they are just not suitable as wives. Plenty of single moms have no problem with that, often that is why they are single moms in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:14 PM
2

Ironically only men worth a thing that women actually pick think like close tk that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:11 PM
0

If the man is in house he wiil have some husbandry to fulfill. The woman will always side with the child and the man will have no real power on him or her. So he is expected to have a role he cannot really fulfill. It is a very unstable role. Hellish.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:09 PM
10

They. Do not want to rise another man's child. Who is to blame them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:47 PM
3

I don't think men today are fighting, dying for their families, nor getting married at 20s and having 7 children as their ancestors. That us no coming back. Women are not worth dying or working hard for most men anymore. Most of their persue is lukewarm.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:43 PM
1

Women are not very expressive. So far only other men has been openly interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:40 AM
1

It is harder. I don't have any friends either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:39 AM
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I think the most sickening part is that these women are most likely to cheat WHEN they're most fertile Pure evil. Maybe that is why women were always associated with fall and darkness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:37 AM
0

Usually male gay couples do this, not single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:32 AM
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Porn or prostitution will never replace the need for love, for emotional connection, for feeling wanted and desired. I never claimed it would. But it is a good distraction and fun until those men die off. Becoming the best version of yourself is a noble idea but remember if you do not have key genetics, your best will still be less than the mediocre that had more genetic luck. I do agree we shall strive for indeoendence and porn is a way to sexual independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:16 PM
3

Same. I want decendence more than an angry wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:15 PM
1

it's not going to replace love. Antidepressants can help. Ask older lonely women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:12 PM
1

By and large, though, men want (and will continue to want) real sex with real women that are really interested in them Indeed, but only marginally as long as they satisfy themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:11 PM
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All life is tradeoffs. Porn takes but also gives. Sorry for wonen who cannot use sex to manioulate male labor anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:10 PM
3

Pure evil
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:36 PM
3

That is why gay sex wins. If bisexual, I'd date Women for reproduction only.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:34 PM
1

I think discomfort is welcome by women if tgey are attracted. "Thrilling"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:33 PM
1

Yeah but everyone must know its social position on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:26 PM
4

Thanks but noe I'm confused. Why is testosterone used to treat low sex drive in women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:34 AM
4

I don't think women can magically fix mental health more than porn either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:26 AM
4

Marcus Aurelious had a good view on fall of civiliizations. He knew that those forces were unstoppable anyway, so it is better to accept the fall that his empire was suffering and enjoy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:34 PM
5

Still more available than even married women to their husbands 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:31 PM
1

I'm not sexless. Bros are 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:30 PM
3

Indeed, higher sex drive. That is why porn is so important over relationahips or friendship or similar shit that is not required anymore to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:16 PM
5

Sure sex is important in a greater context, but plenty of unlovable men do not care about continuing the species that disvowed them. Still for sexless men, porn can be a good relief and ideally a good alternative for pointless persuit of women, as sex is only thing they need from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:15 PM
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The idea that a straight male can truly be spiritually and mentally at peace without a woman and possibly kids to care for is wishful thinking... the despair WILL eventually surface in some form or another. Agree but we have to appreciate and exploit the next best options to an unattainable lifestyle for a good chunk of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:04 PM
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Yeah. It is now more a status issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:52 PM
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Women are less reliant on men financially than ever these Agree but only because men pay for the the state that subsidiates most single moms and their useless HR jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:44 PM
5

Too expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:40 PM
1

Darling, this oost is not about me. I'm privileged as I get sex from other men at least. Pick one for unlovable hopeless heterosexual men: Die mad, alone, without satisfying themselves sexually. Die alone, but with some porn to satisfy themselves sexually. Remember women do not owe men sex. Some men will be alone forever EVEN if they tried to death. Have some empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:35 PM
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Agree. That is why porn is good. It takes away the menance of a sexual desire you can rarely satisfy with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:28 PM
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Of course a housewives from the 50s is at least 3x more valuable than a wife today. Also healthier for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:23 PM
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Most single middle age men are already not chasing anymore, nor getting married. Women are sharing the same men. But Porn is indeed a huge relief for those without sex regardless if they try mating or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:20 PM
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Housing is vital, unlike sex. Women here often say sex is a privilege and they do now owe it to men. So why suddently it is so important when convenient? Better for men to find such satisfaction as porn than die mad ans angry, sexless. It is nit 100% an alternative to sex, but it is enough for many of them who will NEVER be loved anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:17 PM
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Which is a good enough alternative to sex for unlovable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:59 PM
4

Silly people with hero complexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:58 PM
2

And how can you prove that this is because of porn? Can you prove porn (rather than shitty food and no exercise) causes all the issues you mentioned?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:57 PM
1

Good point but if not the cause, porn is a great relief for such crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:55 PM
2

Ironically yes. Sex is more fundamental than tech or fire. They probably kept fire to survive so they get pussy anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:22 PM
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It is more like they want sex for status. They get orgasm at any time. Still younger people are having less sex than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:21 PM
6

Agreed, but it was never as realistic and detailed as now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:20 PM
6

So why are younger people having less sex than their parents, and why single people numbers are highest in history? I agree we cannot assume that is the explanation but it is sus.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:20 PM
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Seeing the increase of younger men having erectile issues more than ever, even when in relationships Not an issue for men who stay single. [Porn] also didn’t decrease mens need/want for real women Percent of single people are an all time high, and and birth rates are lower than ever. Maybe porn has nothing to do with that but if it is a content 80% of men watch for free, I would be surprised if it is not related.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:17 PM
1

What so you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:06 PM
8

Sure but porn makes* persuing sex even less relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:06 PM
8

In the same token, marriage is often a legal and emotional prison that fools the imprisoned into thinking that they’re happy. Porn prevents men at large from enacting the change they’d like to see in the world. Yeah sure, men who has been disvowed and shamed by society and women are so eager to fix the world that scorn them. Of course they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:01 PM
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What is an addiction anyway? Funny going out trying to get pussy with little more than a 2% success rate after destroying your own self steem, is more acceptable than jerking off an then using that time for something better than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:55 PM
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You are not free from your urge anyway, so why focus on satisfying them in the most expensive, inefficient way possible, which is persuing women who probably scorn you anyway as they do for 85% of men "under average"? Jerking off o porn is literally thousand times easier, you get nice orgasms, and its downsides (such as depression) are treatable. If you want to go natural, you can also give up on soap and medicine too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:53 PM
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Sexual market value has nothing to do with ethics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 08:14 PM
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And no. Women dont give a damn about their sexual wants TBQH those men do not care about single old desperate women either 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:29 PM
2

😔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:25 PM
1

Why do you try to make it personal?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:22 PM
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No, probably because I avoid interacting with them if I can, but they are cruel with my bros :(
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:22 PM
1

I don't think that is not evil. You are just seizing the opportunity they offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:59 PM
1

Using incel as an insult, using HR to get them kick outnof their jobs, calling them all terrorists even when most of them are just autists, etc. Is pure evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:29 AM
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Why is it assumed bad to resent women for actually being cruel to them? It sounds like women are sacred cows or something that connat do harm. I mean men as a group have responsibility amd blamed as a whole too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:24 AM
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We always knew women love the right kind of murderers. Thanks for your honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:21 AM
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It is dangerous for men to expose the ugly face of hypergamy. It threatens female sexual privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:21 AM
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they're hated because they're annoying and occasionally shoot people Women regularly get and feel attracted to criminals who shoot people for a living.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:19 AM
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Or the autistic dude who goes to the beach by himself during Summer Time... And so on. I did that once. Too weird. Worst thing about social anxiety and autistic personality is that you are jailed by all kind of judgments and assumptions that are often right. Literally no way to get out the basement and doing something visible alone without destroying your self steem and looking like a creepy lonely guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:01 AM
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"I do like short guys but all my boyfriends so far have been taller than me"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:59 AM
2

You can improve them but it is not worth it at some point that is too late. Diminishing returns. It is like learning a language late in life. You will never beat a native speaker. At beats you lose time and at worse you make yourself even more pathetic and ridiculous in public. Precisely not giving up is what keep these people miserable. Very weird people empathize with racial and gender minorities but not with struggles that people.from everywhere have.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:36 PM
1

We do make friends but they are not lasting. Some men hope to get a girlfriend at that point, usually another person with same issurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:26 PM
1

Yeah. The most evil of this reality is the fact that it gets better for the winners and even worse for the losers. Pure evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:23 PM
2

Good for you. Some of us grew with some autism, isolation, mental issues or trauma so friendship was never part of our experience and at some point it is impossible to revert that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:16 PM
1

You will just get sociopaths as partners. They are the ones that play social to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:19 PM
3

I would not me surprised women believe sex once a year is too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:15 PM
3

It was like 50-100 years ago. Now literally all needs from for relationships are covered by antidepressants, insurance, government and services. Only exception is dating. Precisely valuing people for their social performance is what made people rebel against social life as much as possible in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:11 PM
0

Women even often romantize the loner biker guy. They do not care about the man having no social life as much but they do need a social environment to meet them at the first place, which is the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:05 PM
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I mean, it does not mean I reject or despise social relationships. It is rather the effort to keep or make them that is a downer. I can navigate social situations, plenty of asocial people can, if the other person brings them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:00 PM
1

Either you can develop better social skills or stay alone. It's that simple Only enough to get a relationship, that can be enough for all your social needs. That is why married men often forget their friends as they get married. That does not remove the fact that 90% of relationships are not needed anymore to live or survive or even thrive, so it makes sense to be asocial except for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:57 PM
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Social skills are required and if the premise of maintaining them is too much effort for you, then relationships are not for you. Precisely those who get dating relationships are often the first who forget about friendships. When you have someone to give and get all your social needs, other relationships are even less relevant... but you need first relevant relationships to get into dating in the first place, sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:54 PM
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I think a monogamous dating relationships is the least you can do socially to get and give the most. This is why plenty of people who get married just drop their friends and are happy. Other relationships such as friendships are very inefficient, unstable and honestly kind of unecessary and even infantile at some point of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:51 PM
3

Synthesis: "I want enough social skills to get a relationship and done. I don't care shit about friendships, or relating, or any shit after that which requires so much effort and it is not required to survive anymore (Thanks God)."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:47 PM
0

You made such comparison, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:44 PM
3

Even social people often do not even know the name of most of their neighboors from years. It seems most relationships are more like too much work for little reward. People avoid them if they can. Even friends are not that important anymore and people have no problem forgrtting them for years after they get a partner. I guess dating is the only relationship important enough to take such risk and ideally it wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:44 PM
0

Well, if so much status and expectancies were associated with being a MLB hitter, even how others consider you a winner or loser, than that statement would be perfectly reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:34 PM
2

I'm not as sexually motivated as a lot of guys Same. I suspect most guys not getting laid are like that. I guess it may be low T.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:32 PM
3

In a world moved by institutions and legal entities, relationships and social skill seem redundant and irrelevant except for dating, which is not that important anyway but we give it too much relevance. Even for mental health people have pills so no need for relating to others, yet no pills for company and love and having a family. In the past we would die without a group. Now some people even thrive by avoiding friendships and commitment. But relationships suffer people they are defined by such…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:28 PM
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But yes, men who are successful in casual sex and relationships are not asocial shut ins.. this isn’t revolutionary. If you don’t know how to talk to people, you’re not going to know how to talk to women (who, surprise, are people). It is over for asocial guys like me. Regardless some courage is still required to fully give up and find happiness elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:09 PM
42

Saw a comment the other day that made a lot of sense to me, girls have standards but think no other girl has them "They are all whores, except me" Internalized slut shame?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:06 PM
0

You have good mental health. Keep it bro
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:51 PM
1

I hate the fact you have a good point 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:59 PM
4

Mean single man having sex like 2 times a year at most is basically a sexless life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:54 PM
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...the other used his college fund to buy a 90K house and stays inside all day, with no job, while his roommates pay him rent to cover utilities That's kinda genious. For someone with a pointless nihilistic life, it is actually a good strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:52 PM
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I'm talking about the consensus of girls here on average, specially in this forum. You are not that special.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:41 PM
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How many young men withdrew into computers, anime, tech, or whatever, instead of choosing to being outwardly social or participate in team or group activities? Be glad young men are having a way to distract themselves instead going savage into crime as they cannot get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:09 PM
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At the end, most people get married, since for every woman getting married there must be some dude, so we could say things get even at last. Yeah, to women eho compare you to their previous 20x sex partners. Disgusting and pure evil. If I designed a hell for dating, it would be this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:56 PM
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This is precisely why I resent people so much. They say it is easy when it is hard, they claim a thing and do another. So tiresome.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:51 PM
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Slut shaming is often pointing out facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:45 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:37 PM
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Nah, you are confusing them with are the celebrities you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:28 PM
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Good point. Also non ordained people were always encouraged by the Church and iften other religions to get married. Marriage has always been seen as a good thing by traditionak institutions and avoiding it most be only done for a great sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:27 PM
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What? Didn't know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:20 PM
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Sure, only accepting references from political groups who believe women can have a "female" penis is soo objective. Still there are plenty of references on the footnote of this article. Engaging in hook-ups can have negative effects on a person's mental health as well, including feelings of anxiety or discomfort.[16][66] One study suggests nearly 35% of surveyed students described feeling regretful or disappointed after a hook-up.[20][66] Experts have used qualitative analyses to gauge both the …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:36 PM
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Multiple. Here's one. https://www.vice.com/en/article/paeekv/why-conservatives-have-better-sex-lives-than-liberals
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:29 PM
2

My parent coworker said that. He did not feel connected to his baby girl until she started growing. I think it is natural and men exoress their love by providing more than by emotions or hugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:17 PM
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Men are too busy keeping civilization running.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:16 PM
1

Fact: single mothers all share the same 2 or 3 guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:13 PM
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I never had any serious dating experience and never cared until my 30s. No, I did not get random sex either. At one point I started getting desperate and still nothing... so I stopped cared again but consciously. So now women get interestes. Very weird dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:26 PM
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Meanwhile, sexually frustrated liberal men just change their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:24 PM
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Other sources say conservative men have more sex with a stable partner, while liberals had more partners (often low quality depressed fat women, negative-value sex). Pop psychology of Psychology Today is a joke. You read its articles and notice how they cherry pick their titles as convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:23 PM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:18 PM
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Sure sis. You are probably too old for it anyway. So is disgusting getting old alone while losing your memory in your own shit is disgusting. Life has many disgusting things. Better limit them to safe and controlled environments such as monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:17 PM
1

Sure, but at least it is limited exposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:14 PM
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Any aource on that claim? Seem it is very neutral source. https://www.sourcewatch.org/index.php/Medical_Institute_for_Sexual_Health
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:07 PM
2

More women are overwheight than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:03 PM
0

https://psiloveyou.xyz/what-happens-to-your-brain-after-having-too-much-casual-sex-41a206c7f303
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:01 PM
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Not casual sex. Casual sex leads to a decrease in this neurochemical production and interferes with what is called pair bonding. Source
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:01 PM
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Yet we do force others to pay for conquences of promiscuity (state-risen children, stds, broken families, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:00 PM
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I agree disgust is subjective but it is placed on stuff with bacteria and fluids similar because we objectively know the risks. Still we throw it away when it is about sex. I'm not saying it is bad... we would not exist if we avoided it. Just saying monogamy makes sense for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:59 PM
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Polyamorous have negative value sex. The most disguting people having the most disgusting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:56 PM
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I'm not trying to shame anyone and regardless shame will not change their ways. I'm pointing out how we conplain people around because no masks or social distancing or no hygiene / sanitation... just to ignore it on one key category because horniness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:56 PM
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I'm just impressed how hygienic some people pretend to be on one thing but not in another. It is weird. I guess it is a deep sexual impulse that overrides sanity. I'm not saying it is bad, just unhygienic and mostly unhealthy, so it makes sense to keep it in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:54 PM
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I don't think there is any substitute for relationships either, but what is the alternative? Suicide? Still, Plenty of people, usually religious, have sacrificed a lifelong mate and have found meaning in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:39 PM
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Putting women as a group under scrutiny is not hate. Women have done it to men for ages in the name of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:34 PM
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Many if not most had kids their ex took away.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:33 PM
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You know, exchange of fluids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:31 PM
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I don't think you even have to be conservative to believe human life starts at some point between conception and birth. Few prochoicers support late stage abortion fir aby reason. Few prolifers bellieve pill day after is murder. But where is the point? That is the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:42 PM
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I've read most likely people to adopt are conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:44 PM
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ABORTION HAS NOT BEEN BANNED. IT IS UP TO THE STATES AS ALL OTHER SIMILAR LAWS.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:42 PM
3

Ideally hook up culture dies out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:41 PM
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The case was supposed to be overturned. Let the legislative branch write laws, not judges.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:40 PM
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What interests me are the other implications. If you do not want women of reproductive age not to get abortions would it also not make sense to restrict things like travel out of state or travel? Could they be required to submit to pregnancy tests before leaving the state or country? What other rights would the state have to restrict? So, the pandemic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:39 PM
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HOT.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:50 PM
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As an asocial nonbreeding male, I HATE TO AGREE WITH YOU. DELET THIS.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:50 PM
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It seems many Women do not really care so much as good or frequent sex as men do. Women do care about other things such as status and finances, which makes far more sense than just good sex. Good looking men often have status.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:23 PM
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I agree and it is insane the state basically forces loveless men to pay for their bastards and for her too in some cases. It is pure evil, but I see it more as a system that enslaves average men rather than evil women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:41 PM
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Men have to do the same but in the field of commitment. Still they have far more time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 07:28 PM
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They often imply commitment, use words like love or romance with no intention for anything long term, use girlfriends are placeholder for a better woman, etc. Most of these things are by omission and ambiguity. Maybe manipulation is not the right word.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:40 PM
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Agreed. I used to have same views for a while, and I still have some resentment for women fir personal reasons, but I've understand so much from them and realized they are just as good and flawed as anyone else. Every day their views make more sense to me. Even if I disagree with them so far, I get why they take that path and why it makes sense to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:22 PM
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High trust communities worked and thrived before police and stable states were even a thing... even when life was far harshier. We need to restore at least part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:31 PM
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Maybe some food is poisoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:05 PM
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It is a gamer theory graph. A goodlooking predator is better than an ugly predator. Better be victim of the former. Ideally a good man is also goodlooking but what are the chances? Only looks they can be sure about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:04 PM
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Analogies are very subjective and can be abused. My analogy is very vague so I would not overthink it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:02 PM
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Of course, but it is another dynamic and a slower sex market. Same for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:14 PM
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I can’t speak for all women, but i like when men (specifically my partner) take the lead on things where they have superior expertise. BUT! I like for him to allow me to lead in areas where I have superior expertise I love that take, sis.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:26 AM
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I think you are right. Maybe male dominance is expected in a more niche area like during sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:19 AM
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Men are put in place by other men since day one, then by women by rejection. For men to be evil have to be very calculative or not care at all for the consequences. Meanwhile, women get to be entitled with no consequnces and can pick freely. They can be cruel, mean and stupid and no one calls them out. But all good privilege ends. Karens just are females that abuse this and people get tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:49 AM
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It is easier for women to rely on other women to pick a mate. That is why they like married men. Even if they have to share him. For men it is better to compete and get the most women as prizes. Both gender are very cruel if the parts are not civilized.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:46 AM
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Gay Friend Effect
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:50 PM
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They also have a free pass to escape.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:58 PM
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Just as you assume those watching porn in red states are conservative. That was my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:34 PM
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Do you bekueve they shall normalize other things such as euthanasia for their mentallly ill who are suffering?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:58 PM
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They fear being replaced by somone better. Sure, like liberals running from their states.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:54 PM
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They [whites] know their own genetics are inferior Superior races need protection from inferior races? Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:52 PM
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self reporting in a trash porn site with an obviously deviated sample Yeah, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:50 PM
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The tiny minority of liberals in red states Terribly bad assumption. Liberals are not a tiny minority in any state. In fact liberals even dominate most populated cities of "red" states (see cities of Texas). Not to mention many if not most people are even apolitical anyway. Second, many republicans are libertarians, not conservative. They may love cuckold with no issue. They are as any blue voting progressive on cultural issues. In contrast, black christians are very conservative but still vote …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:48 PM
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You must also stratify this "data" by ethnic groups, as there is more difference among "races" than between liberals and conservatives in issues such as poverty, crime and so on. Most "conservative" states have huge populations (yet minority) of black liberal-voting people. Maybe cuckold is acceptable in their culture... are you racist?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:41 PM
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Flawed logic. We can play this in many ways. E.g. Why so liberals love to shit on streets? I mean, if cities with shit in streets are in blue states, it must be that liberals love to shit in public. /s Red states are more rural, they often have less ways for non-conservative people living there to express themselves in some taboo ways, so they rely on porn or online communities. Remember also that even in the most conservative states almost half people are non political or slightly liberal. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:35 PM
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😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:02 PM
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This. A shit test.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:36 PM
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So sex must be attached to love or commitment? Careful, that sounds a lot like a typical conservative argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:30 PM
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So you accept consensual sex between a well establushed 45 years old man and a 20 years old lady? Not creepy at all if consensual?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:28 PM
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Wut
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:24 PM
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They really believe they understand it all. This is why they end up with the same lucky idiots trying to get rid of them again and again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:09 PM
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You can say that about a lot of illegal things, e.g. drugs, guns, regulations, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:07 PM
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If people are not worry about casual sex yet, now it is too late. They are damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:06 PM
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Funny how countries that have "equality" end up giving all responsibility and labor to men when shtf anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:47 AM
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Women benefited the most from men invading other countries... in fact they would fuck the winners anyway, even if the winners invaded and killed their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:51 AM
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Men often have a more general-purpose care for their country, tribe and family as a whole. That costs some care for his individual family members, as brain cannot hold it all, but also that is what keeps every family thriving in a civilized environment. Even very selfish men need to cooperate and contribute to some extend to civilization somehow to participate (e.g. taxes, or something to sell that people want). Men have to make this huge sacrifice for the safety and life quality that women and …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:13 AM
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I'm pointing out generalizations integrated as false, dangerous beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:25 AM
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Isn't intelligence precisely the capacity to describe aggregated patterns of large samples without understimating exceptions?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:19 AM
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It is not my intention in this post. Women have it easier on some aspects and men on others. For example, Women have more options (easier for thrm to know more men to pick from) but pregnancy is very difficult for them (harder). It is wise to highlight which case is which to undetstand each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:15 AM
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I live talking to older women at work. They are wiser and nice. Still I do prefer to spend that time with a single young lady when I can, or a good bro that gets me. Also talking and spending time with married or taken women can be problematic and dangerous for us, both as tentation and as fear from violence from her man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:10 AM
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Like I think most women think "I know he's capable of cleaning up after himself and remembering a goddamn anniversary" You have a good point I have to accept, but that claim also still assumes men can only do the bare minimum because they cannot do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:07 AM
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Yup. Men get a boost in social status from having a wife and children. The inverse is true for women and her career and finances take a pretty damn big hit Studies say married people are on average slightly happier and better put regardless. They sacrifice some personal goals but overall they do better than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:03 AM
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Most entitled women are already almost full infertile anyway. They are beating a dead horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:01 AM
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The do not even like sharing with each other except cheap and superficial stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:00 AM
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They ban porn and prostitution users for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:58 AM
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I would have no problem if men were not taxed to death (70% taxes) to pay for entitled women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:57 AM
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The only women who struggle with this slow down in attention are women whose only (or primary) value was solely sexual in the first place Good point but sexual attraction is paramount for getting a good partner that you may like too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 06:00 AM
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No, but you have to put real effort now, as men you want must be mature and stable and they can choose better. Unless you want teens or creepy old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:58 AM
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Creepy why? You had your teens too. Let other ladies have their chance and you your cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:55 AM
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Same 🤣 better be gay
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:53 AM
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Rude but direct.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:52 AM
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Women are maturing and adapting and thriving in modern day society Yeah, using antidepressants as vitamins.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:50 AM
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So fun. I hope it gets worse for them just so they may learn (they woudn't).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:47 AM
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Sadly, it is often lukewarm acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:44 AM
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there’s no group identity for men. They were and they literally built empires and century old institutions. They were shut down and shamed to non existence. Now they conplain why men are lost and weak, and why they cannot get good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:44 AM
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Yes and that is why it is so silly to have sympathy for these women. They literally had their chance and lived.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:41 AM
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Men build literal tech empires while women are still waiting for the high school player to pick her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:40 AM
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Your comment explains why women and up with psychopaths. Only good men get punished for honestly caring in this dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:36 AM
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Ugly women and closed lesbians are worse as they exoress their anger and resentment against good guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:32 AM
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They do not want that. Friendzoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:31 AM
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Not simply pussy, fertility. The future of the species.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:27 AM
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If a man is whole by himself, and he has it all anyway, Isn't the point to just get pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:25 AM
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Yeah. That is why they project that fear to men and they punish them by ignoring or belittling them. Lady, men have always been invisible. They have nothing to lose by you ignoring them again as an angry child.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:23 AM
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Daily reminder why not give special trwatment to women, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:24 AM
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I hope we as men had a chance to live in tutorial mode too 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:21 AM
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It is an unconscious drive. Just as women prefer some kind of men eve. If hey are terrible people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:20 AM
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They are entitled because they are used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:18 AM
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Sure, but I'm talking about aggregate behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:11 PM
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It is an issue for women who lose sex appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:41 PM
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Certainly, but it is specially common for them to prefer helping more women they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:40 PM
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No sodomy pls
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:05 PM
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I have a nice family and job and I keep all clean. No Friends, but regardless maybe I'm giving too much importance to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:54 PM
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BASED NYNPH
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:48 PM
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I'm surprised how many people have only one or two people preventing them from suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:45 PM
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Agreed. Starve the evil system.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:08 PM
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Agreed. Older women I know are nicer and wiser in every way. Sexual appeal is not everything and is not all lost suddently.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:56 PM
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My post is very empathic to women and men. Why do you fe it as an attack?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:45 PM
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Agreed, but natural male modus operandi has a very logical and calculating core, even if thinking with the dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:39 PM
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Agree, but incels are generally not pedophiles or abusers. They are just socially frustrated heterosexual autistic men. It is sad and if a woman had that issue I would have empathy for her, which they do not have for incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:08 PM
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I never suggested you are less human for not getting male gaze. Why do you and women assume that? In fact I claimed it is the opposite... female life gets better at 30s but still you miss it because you brnefit from male labor using that attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:05 PM
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Comfy fren
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:34 PM
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Good point, but weird the focus is in men instead educating those young ladies to grow up and enter the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:32 PM
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Incels are just autistic men. Have some empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:29 PM
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This. Also we cannot marry with a huge age gap as it is discoraged, so we have to consider our age if we want to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:02 PM
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But that is the point. Men conaider each other less until proven otherwise. Women don't like that game? Too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:58 PM
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Suicide is not an option for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 04:16 PM
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Good point. Maybe stability in relationships is desired but not required to enjoy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:57 PM
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Agreed, and certainly I feel better now than ever, but it is good to have a fallback plan as mental health us very important and can be affected by stuff such as dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:53 PM
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It seems older women resent richer older men ignoring them for younger ladies (because they can).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:06 PM
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Sounds like a very shallow way to compete, instead focusing on earning and learning more as the successful men they want to out-earn.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:03 PM
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And men are given [respect] by default whereas women are not. It seems women in male dominated environment get less average respect, but same for men in woman dominated environments such as nursing or stay at home parenting. Respect to women seems to be more on protecting them, and on men it is on seeing each other as equal or superior. I would say there at least two different types of respect, but I doubt anyone can have both as women want. Either you want to be protected from danger and served…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:47 PM
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But it sounds so hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:39 PM
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Experience and science show that women who are considered attractive get paid more, get promoted more, etc. Then there's attention from other women, which is something this sub consistently forgets that many women value. Isn't that an indirect result of male attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:56 PM
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Well, beside basic human dignity, no one is entitled to respect for having a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:49 PM
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But women his age who are not married are already on Xanax, after 2 abortions and 3 divorces. Better younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:48 PM
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She will get bored working for a man she hates (her boss).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:04 PM
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Mosy women here are biased. Top men will keep fucking as they can. Younger women have to be wise and not pick players of any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:29 AM
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Very condescending infatilization of grown up younger women, who can take their decisions and find older men more stable for long term relationships. Heck, even if I had a daughter I would trust more an older grounded guy than her dating a loser her age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:05 AM
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That is good to hear, but some women are greedy and miss the more attention they got younger. Also men often practice with older women with no sincere interest. It is a win win for men and women self steem, but not fruitful for relationships. I'm happy you are happy as you are and we all shall be like you on that aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:02 AM
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Agreed, but don't be fooled. Just for same reason that ugly men have a chance to go up regardless of appearance, they also have less chance to be lifted in society by just good looks alone as is with some women. It goes two ways. I see men as the extremes of the bell curve. They get the best and the worst of society. Males are the freak experiments of nature... they go very well or terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:57 AM
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Sure that is why I believe it is a moral panic, yet now some are suggesting even a 7 years difference is too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:50 AM
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Agreed, but machismo is still a great problem. I guess that's the tradeoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:49 AM
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Agreed, but the dating pool for those women get smaller quick, specially for successful men who can pick younger. It is tempting for women to just dekay it until they may regret it. It is a tradeoff women have to consider younger. But also they at least have a chance to pick anything that no man but top 2% ever get.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:47 AM
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I think that is dehumanitizing and I'm empathize with you. We need new positive archetypes for older women. Religion used to provide some but now in a secular society we need another mechanism now. I hope you do well and remember you are valuable as anybody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:44 AM
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Good point. I'm biased as a hispanic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 01:17 AM
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I understand but men regard sexuality very high and central. ED is almost taking away their male nature. Sadly, getting old sucks regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 01:17 AM
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I appreciate your honesty. I see how men at work orbit around young single women and ignore other women. I don't think men are very conscious of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 01:12 AM
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Sure, but there is a middle age gap that can be very good even without so much sex appeal. It seems they start to freak out after 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 01:03 AM
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Interesting view. How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 01:02 AM
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I really appreciate your honesty. As a man I do like more my conversations with older women, but it is not the same as sexual attraction. Older women are also wiser and have a deeper sense of humor. I see how the men in office all start to orbit around the single young lady, and all other older or married women are ignored, and often get jealous even when they do not need that male attention for anything. I understand the contrast may cause resentment but honestly it is not male fault either. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:55 AM
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Still very bizzare how they get so deranged when younger women date older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:49 AM
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I can get 22 year old men at 50 way more than a 50 year old man can without buying her being a SD. Sure the 22 year old would only want casual fun but I have no shortage if I wanted it. Sure, that is why women shall not have a problem with men who date younger. They can too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:47 AM
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Health is not generally a concern at your 30s and eaely 40s, but fertility and attraction is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:46 AM
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So no issue men find you less desirable after 30s? Good. Hope other women do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:45 AM
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My point is that generally, even ugly women have more chance than average men, because how attractive fertile women are naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:41 AM
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I thibk MILF porn is often about young looking yet mature women. Not all women after 30 can pay for big boobs, skin treatments and face lifts to compensate for lost festibity and youth. Still women can be attractive at any age, I agree, but MILFs are more like a sexualization of mature women... an exception to the rule, rather than the rule. But maybe I'm wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:38 AM
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You have a good point and I cannot deny it, but I believe often men admire their moms and sisters and grandmas, and defend and work for them Maybe they do not do it enough? I cannot know as I am not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:34 AM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:15 PM
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No, but those who bitch about capitalism are almost always marxist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:14 PM
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Most people's disgust in men dating significantly younger women is because it's always been a form of exploitation. Female children begin sold to older men for money and assets is a tale as old as time. Weird take as it is not like a 25 years gap. 10 years ago that reaction to old men dating young was not a thing, and still is not a thing except by some older bitter women online trying to meme it. It seems they want successful men to marry them as unfertile bitter women, but why would those men …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:12 PM
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I'm not sure it's so much male attention as recognizing they have a limited fertility window So why do they blame and resent men for the decisions that they alone took while younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:07 PM
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I agree. Our current heroes are actors, fake heroes... people who were considered at the same level of prostitutes 200 years ago. People whose career is literally lying and pretending. Not blaming them, but the West is fucked up on its ways, yet I do believe there will be a rebounce and a golden age, probably after a deep social spiritual reconciliation if some sort, yet we will have to suffer a few decades more before we realize this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:28 PM
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I think it is the testosterone and the fact we do not get pregnant. It is crazy. I've had even married men flirt with me with no shame, such as my doctor and a coworker. No... i didn't do anything with them, but it feeds my ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:24 PM
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I just wanted to know how it feels with women. Maybe women aren’t so inclined to sleep with you because you’re busy sleeping with guys and maybe give off a non-straight vibe? 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:38 PM
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Good point buut also very disempowering how paraadoxical this is. Too complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:33 PM
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Thanks to capitalism absolute poverty is the lowest since ever. Countries with freer markets are also richer and healthier. Communist countries such as URSS even dried a sea, so it is not about the environment either. Other econonic models often imply relying on a centralized political authority... which is just how precapitalist economies worked since nations exist after the Bronze Age. Leftists aare trying to sell old systems with a new name. I'm so tired by leftists trying to sell the same ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:32 PM
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Yes but I want sex in a natural, honest way. Not just for money. It is like oaying for someone to play your videogame. Still I'm bisexual so I just get sex with men, but it is just lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:24 PM
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Few times women did feel attracted to me were when I was happy with myself. Very weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:23 PM
1

I think a good balanced relationship by itself is the prize for both men and women. Both genders have to sacrifice and build it for it to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:22 PM
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Why would I bother developing a relationship with someone who would leave me after I “hit the wall”... They don't think that after mire variables are considered, but for initially dating younger women are more atractive on average. Still same men can pair bound and marry and stay with a good woman, ideally until death.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:55 PM
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Down
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:53 PM
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LOL only older women assume men care about age difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:52 PM
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That a girl in her early 20's is more valuable than one in their iearly 30's. Personal and social value and styke? It often Rises. Sexual value? Not so much. But don't worry... People are not less valuable for not being sexually desired, but there is value in sexual desire and attraction itself. Unless you lost lots of weight or got a very radical surgery after tour 20a... No more free stuff from guys in your 30s as in your 20s, sorry sis.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:48 PM
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If men just want to not be alone, they shouldn't be dating OR marrying. Just going out with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:43 PM
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But if as you claim, men do not want to be alone (instead just sex), then marriage is what they shall be looking for instead of dating, which is an unstable cheap form of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:37 PM
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At this point, Is it really worth the effort? I just want to be happy and have peace. It seems dating is a fast way to get some of those things, but at such a high cost and risk to make it all worse, is it worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:31 PM
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I would like to summarize then, that the reason men are unhappy, unfulfilled, depressed, lonely and unstimulated is not the fault of women, POC, LGBTQ+ individuals etc. It is because they are oppressed under capitalism and all the failing institutions that accompany it Why it is always blaming cApItAliSm? Communist gulags were the closest thing to hell that ever existed on earth. Marxism killed in less than a century far more than nazism and all historic religious wars put together. I agree the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:30 PM
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My sould dies a little every time someone says you have to work hard or some shit and you watch this, how men get anything with no effort. It really makes you feel inhuman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:24 PM
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Too bad I have no friends so its over.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:18 PM
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I'm 30 and I never had sex with women. Envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:13 PM
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It is negative value sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:14 PM
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For claiming men to be the oppressors and yet 90% of them being treated as shit by every institution is very dishonesy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:10 PM
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Those options for women are limited to a very narrow age range and conditions (no children, for example). Otherwise they have to settle for men that are far less of the men they sexually and financially desire or stay alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:08 PM
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But by that logic they would want to marry more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:05 PM
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