I observed the dating market is harsher than ever for most men, and I accepted that. Regardless, that does not deny the frustration in dating that also affects women. They do not now what men to trust or date anymore. So accepting women issues in dating does not impy to deny or undermine male issues in dating.

Just because someone points out women HAVE to be picky in this environment does not mean that Person is attacking men. Women simply have to be like that if dating is so bad and full of games, competition and dishonesty.

It is pointless to blame men or women as a group. It is a "first chicken or first egg" problem because there are millions of men and women who represent either of them in this analogy.