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| 3 | Reddit promotes hateI would support this re-phrasing. Although I would phrase it as "Reddit amplifies the extent to which society does not care about men." I don't think society hates men. The opposite of love isn't hate but apathy, and that's what men face. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Reddit promotes hateI mean, it looks like they monetized the hate movement into a steady Patreon income. Their last post was 7 days ago so I guess this happened somewhat recently. I've written to Patreon to protest their funding but not response so far (11 months later). Thanks for letting me know though. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Reddit promotes hateDo you have evidence that TwoX is a hate sub? I don't disagree; I just haven't kept any links. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 03:38 PM |
| 10 | Reddit promotes hateI've found discord to be useful. However, I honestly think we should have an at-arms-length public option where moderators are professionals who only ban for breaking sub or site rules. It would encourage discussion and force the fundamentalists to face their worst fear: having to rationally justify their ideology. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Reddit promotes hateWhoever is having their voices suppressed are not the people in power Excellent point and worth repeating. How are men the most privilege gender when it is their voice that is suppressed? When men stand up against sexism, they're told they're "whining" or "crying" or given #maletears or #notallmen (mockingly) or any number of responses that don't engage with the initial objection given by the man. That's because ANY response to a man about his "rights" snicker is a luxury bestowed upon them. The… | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Reddit promotes hateIt unfortunately feels like that's the only change that will happen: People will suddenly realize how feminism has scarred entire generations of boys and men. There's no doubt in my mind that a reckoning will one day happen and I'm not even sure the sun rose today. (Somebody may just be shining a bright light outside my window :l ...) | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 02:21 PM |
| 7 | Reddit promotes hateNice girls is half the size of niceguys but tbh I didn't even expect it to be that high. I've subbed so I can round out my perspective, thanks. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 02:15 PM |
| 3 | Reddit promotes hateYou should try discord. I've found there's a higher level of discourse there and mods are a LOT less trigger-happy. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Reddit promotes hateDo you feel that Reddit is particularly anti-Christian? I haven't noticed this myself. Anti-Christianity, sure, but people have the right to be against ANY ideology, feminism and Christianity included. You don't have a right to express any ideology without the expectation that you won't in any way be challenged on it. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Reddit promotes hateI posted evidence that admins accept hate against men. It's the same for white people or cis people. Anybody who they consider the "majority" is fair game. Their first version of the new content policy was the more honest version as it explicitly said it was only against Reddit's policy to target "minority groups". All of which means your condescending attitude is, you know. Condescending. Claiming that Reddit is a hate site is pretty much like claiming that the Internet is a place of hate. Not … | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Reddit promotes hateI never said it was a smoking gun. I consider all of my posts "just another shoulder to the wheel", another brick in the bridge. And if you search for rights you'll see men's rights as the second result. Good. It's about gender rights, after all. ...Wait...Oof. And? FDS is explicitly hateful towards men. Are you claiming this sub is the same as FDS when it comes to hate? PSSSSTTT ... I don't think that was the smoking gun you seem to think it was. It rather neatly revealed your bias, though. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 01:16 PM |
| 16 | Reddit promotes hateIf you ever want a happy relationship with women, then don't treat them like they are the enemy. Nothing to add. It just bears repeating. I'd give the same advice to FDS. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 01:10 PM |
| 5 | Reddit promotes hateI have posted and contributed here for 5+ years and have come to this realization over time. I'm sharing my conclusions regarding the integrity of this hate site. Also, unlike the woke, I don't just cut hate off and further cultivate my echo chamber. I stand up and call it what it is. I engage with it and am able to explain WHY hate is wrong because I've bothered to think about the subject instead of just parroting talking points I learned on Twitter. Anything else I can help you with? | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 12:49 PM |
| 0 | Reddit promotes hateIf your enemy is giving you their playbook why not study it and use it against them. just learn their tactics and use it against them. But you don't know who "them" is so it seems like you're advocating the use of such tactics against women who don't even know what FDS is or necessarily promote that sub's views. totally destroy them I'm not advocating for violence Uhuh, uhuh. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 12:32 PM |
| 9 | Reddit promotes hateI can't find the post but AHS (againsthatesubreddits) explicitly said they only care about the transphobia there, not the misandry. Their mods also claimed that misandry isn't real (post since deleted). FDS gets a pass because it shits on men. If they targeted anyone else (except maybe white or cis people), they'd've been banned long ago. But no. Reddit's admins are bigots, so.... | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 12:08 PM |
| 69 | Reddit promotes hateTrollx, fragilemaleredditors, niceguys, blatanmisogyny and the list goes on. Reddit not only promotes hate, it survives on it. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 12:01 PM |
| 47 | Female Social worker is accused of making sexual advances towards 40 moms —then 'baselessly' removing their children from their care when they rejected herI once had social workers at my door after my wife's friendship went sour and they called the government in revenge. I went 5 weeks without a response or any word other than we were under investigation. When I, a man, phoned and left a message where I unintentionally broke down and pleaded them to give us some news, any news, on whether our children would be unjustly taken away, they ordered me to take a "stress test"...because when a man cries, it means he's an "too stressed" and an unfit paren… | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 11:24 AM |
| 5 | My (18f) boyfriend (18m) wants to record a video of me consenting before we have sex"A man shoves a thing inside a woman", apparently. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 05:53 AM |
| 4 | My (18f) boyfriend (18m) wants to record a video of me consenting before we have sexWhy do you want to waste anyone's time, though? | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 05:48 AM |
| 13 | Found this infographic on Twitter claiming women work more than men.Dads work more hours than Moms - and that includes childcare and housecare. However, the "unpaid work" in this stat and my link are both based on self-reporting and I don't trust people's egos enough to withhold my skepticism. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/08/22 05:45 AM |
| 0 | Why cheating is now a good thingNothing. They don't want to express anything. They just want to cost us time and energy. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/08/22 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Why cheating is now a good thingMore seriously, could you please abstain from implying I'm acting in bad faith here? Your first comment was a strawman with a question mark on the end so I don't see how you have any right to ask that we not think you're acting in bad faith. Everything you've said after your first comment continues to provide evidence for your bad faith. For instance, when OP claimed the article was hypocritical, you 'fell back' to pretending that the author themselves was under discussion, and whether she was h… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/08/22 03:14 AM |
| 5 | My (18f) boyfriend (18m) wants to record a video of me consenting before we have sexIf you can’t trust your partner to not falsely accuse you, then you’re not ready for sex False equivalence. There's no relationship between those two things, at least none of that you've established. They're 18 and only dating a few months. Expecting there to be absolute trust between those two teenagers is expecting too much. Also, this is the girlfriend telling the story so you have no evidence of what warning signs the guy may have been getting lately. And it does have to be absolute trust be… | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 01:26 AM |
| 33 | My (18f) boyfriend (18m) wants to record a video of me consenting before we have sexIf you think he is planning some evil stuff, why couldn't he be just as concerned over her doing something evil? because Men Are Bad is an implicit core concept of feminism / female supremacy. Great point, though. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 01:16 AM |
| 7 | My (18f) boyfriend (18m) wants to record a video of me consenting before we have sexyoung men come in. Why do you have to be the way you are? You'd think if your ideology was so pure and true, you wouldn't have to lie all the time... | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 01:10 AM |
| 6 | My (18f) boyfriend (18m) wants to record a video of me consenting before we have sexYour definition of rape is typically feminist (i.e, not just inaccurate but inhumane as well). | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 01:07 AM |
| 19 | My (18f) boyfriend (18m) wants to record a video of me consenting before we have sexNotice how feminists always consider anything "pro-male" to be "deeply misogynist". It's become a catch-all term for "I don't like what you said". For instance, I recently pointed out in /r/DebtStrike that women have been the majority of graduates since 1982 and so would benefit more than men from debt relief. I was called an incel and a misogynist by suggesting we consider that college debt relief would be giving overwhelming benefit to women who clearly already receive societal aid and support… | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 01:05 AM |
| 10 | Overview of the rise of woke cinemaGlad to know it wasn't me. The movie was written by Max Landis and he was a producer but then he was cancelled by sexual assault allegations so they went really hard in the other direction and ended up with something that's pretty priceless. That sick feeling in your stomach lets you know you're still human. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/22 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Overview of the rise of woke cinemaI think as long as you go into it knowing what it is, and watch it with similarly-minded people, it can be a good laugh. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/22 08:41 AM |
| -2 | Overview of the rise of woke cinemaI liked the story. I didn't care what sex or race was cast in any part. I miss being able to feel like that. Unfortunately, the woke have robbed it from too many people. I'm glad you still have it and I'm not inclined to change anything about that. Thanks for responding, though. You gave a good account of yourself. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/22 08:37 AM |
| 0 | Overview of the rise of woke cinemaOkay, but what way exactly do you disagree with me? We both agree it's a great story. That doesn't mean it's media designed to frame white men in a negative light. It's interesting that people will lose their minds there is not yet an indigenous superhero but a movie like Rogue One - which is pretty explicit in its biased casting - gets a pass. It speaks to how powerful this kind of social engineering is. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/22 06:52 AM |
| 14 | National Coalition for MenI don't support the violation of anybody's privacy. However, something needs to be done about the social licence that (1) anonymity and (2) the feminist-encouraged acceptable hatred towards men provides to false accusers. Remember, in a feminist's eyes Men Are Oppressors and who really cares what you do to your oppressor? This is why many men/boys are denied due process when accused of sexual assault on a university campus and face ejection from the school and a poisoning of all their social and… | /r/MensRights | 23/08/22 06:26 AM |
| 13 | Overview of the rise of woke cinemaShadow in the Cloud is an amazing feminist film where every man is a horrible pig and the strong female protagonist overcomes all odds and stands alone at the end. [I posted a full review on the LWMA sub for anyone that's interested.] | /r/MensRights | 23/08/22 06:20 AM |
| 6 | Overview of the rise of woke cinemaRogue One has one white male protagonist who is barely on-screen and dies quickly. The antagonists, however, are overwhelmingly white and male. The message here was very clear. It was a good story - one ruined by the attempt at social engineering. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/22 06:19 AM |
| 8 | Just a reminder that Reddit is totally fine with harassment, bullying and threats of violence as long as they are directed towards white men.I reported "Sometimes I wish all men would disappear" to the admins ....not hate, they said. I reported "Women should hate men more" to the admins ....not hate, they said. But when someone reported a comment I made here about Reddit feminists (and ONLY feminists, not women).... I was suspended from Reddit for one week for "hate speech". Feminism is an ideology and is not protected by hate speech laws. Reddit mods and admin are fragile creatures who suckhole an ideology so irrational, so hateful,… | /r/MensRights | 22/08/22 11:39 PM |
| 22 | Is cheating and infidelity inevitable?there’s an inevitability that infidelity will usually be present to some degree, no? I can't tell you the sun will rise tomorrow. but I can tell you that my wife has never cheated on me. I'm a lifelong skeptic but this I know. So no, it's not inevitable. At all. If you don't believe me, believe the 3 other happily married couples I know. I don't know how else to convince you that betrayal is not inevitable. Here's an idea: The next time you're dating someone, ask if yourself if you'd be comforta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 01:40 PM |
| 156 | Gabrielle Blair, a blogger has called for mandatory vasectomies of boys at puberty and she defends circumcision as well. How do these women not see that boys routinely being circumcised at birth is a violation of their bodily autonomy?if/when the male becomes a responsible adult I'm starting to feel that even r/mensrights is understating the level of hate directed towards men on a daily basis. "The male"? "If/when?" 4K RTs? If it were about anybody else, this person would be banned from Twitter. the vasectomy can be reversed Vasectomies aren't you're fucking hair colour. They can't just be changed on a whim. Vasectomies aren't necessarily reversible. Vasectomies are only reversible in 30% of men after after 15 to 19 years (i.… | /r/MensRights | 20/08/22 12:36 PM |
| 3 | "Straight men, if you want to find love you’ll need to do better"First off, I'm bisexual so I guess I get a pass on all this? Oh, no. It's just more bi erasure, which is a health threat according to "health.com". Woke tries to be woke but fails to be sufficiently woke, which is the inevitable fate of all the woke. Straight men have not come to terms with the fact that the problem is seeded in their own toxic masculinity and archaic patriarchal values "X people haven't not come to the terms with the fact that the problem is seed in their own laziness and archa… | /r/MensRights | 20/08/22 08:24 AM |
| 6 | "Sometimes I wish men disappeared" - Not hateful, says adminFeminism: for when you hate men more than you hate totalitarianism. LOL Thanks for that. I needed it. Oh, and they also mention needing male escorts. Men are twice as likely to be attacked by strangers so they're really just inviting more danger this way. They should just walk with other woman since every woman they walk with halves their chance of being attacked. It's like Zeno's arrow. That's how statistics work right? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 20/08/22 07:39 AM |
| 7 | "Sometimes I wish men disappeared" - Not hateful, says adminExactly. It's a unique dynamic too, never before seen in human history, where a group of people are seen as utterly craven and contemptuous while at the same time all-powerful enough to create misery for a sizeable portion of the population. Completely unique. /r/menkampf | /r/EverydayMisandry | 20/08/22 07:36 AM |
| 6 | "Sometimes I wish men disappeared" - Not hateful, says adminIt's unfortunate Agreed. I'd prefer to have hard data than be forced to apply skepticism after considering the incentives for people to lie about these interactions. There are a lot of genuine cases. I unfortunately did keep the sources but I remember someone comparing the rate of catcalls between NY (the city in which that infamous 'catcall' video took place) and Minnesota, or something. There was a VAST enough differences to suggest that this is a problem with the city's culture, not men. But … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 20/08/22 07:24 AM |
| 4 | This woman Amanda Trenfield left her husband and kids for a man she met once. She got rejected then wrote a book showing no remorse for her family and now makes money off the story. Her current job is to encourage women to follow in her footsteps. Made a video calling out her bs! Hope you enjoy!Looks like she's already being mocked for this. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/22 05:10 AM |
| 14 | "Sometimes I wish men disappeared" - Not hateful, says adminThey are absolutely making up a victim persona for themselves. People make up versions of themselves online all the time. Why is it so unbelievable that someone make up a victim persona? Particularly when victimhood carries such a high social currency. Plus it's all such a passive self-compliment and ego boost. "I'm so hot that when I go outside I get constantly harassed." When there's that much incentive to lie, I have to be skeptical. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 20/08/22 05:07 AM |
| 1 | 25$ billion (and more to come) to be transferred to women's pockets. The only reason student debt is on the table is because it affects women. 70% of student loans are held by women.You have absolutely no idea what you’re talking about. No, apparently you don't since you seem to be claiming that men are vastly over-represented in homelessness. emergency shelters, have as many units for men as women. Which means that there's more shelters for women because there's women-only shelters but no men-only shelters. So women have more shelters than men even though men are over-represented in homelessness. The PIT— the NATIONALLY REQUIRED point in time count for homelessness across … | /r/MensRights | 20/08/22 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Reverse the gendersTo be fair, those are sufragettes. The sufragists didn't engage in violence and called out the violence that Pankhurst and her terrorists were committing. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/22 02:03 AM |
| 1 | 25$ billion (and more to come) to be transferred to women's pockets. The only reason student debt is on the table is because it affects women. 70% of student loans are held by women.There arne't "swaths" because men always outnumber women when it comes to homelessness. That's because we're a gynocentric society and will protect and comfort women before men so women have many more options for housing and care. Any other questions I can help to answer about your (supposed) field? | /r/MensRights | 20/08/22 01:59 AM |
| 32 | "Sometimes I wish men disappeared" - Not hateful, says adminI was recently suspended for criticizing feminists on Reddit but this is okay. Reddit is a hate site. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 20/08/22 01:54 AM |
| 1 | *Shadow in the Cloud* is a fantastic feminist filmNot recently, no. I'd recommend Michael Herr's Dispatches for a similarly accurate view of the brutality of war and the effect it had on men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/08/22 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Women act so different in real life.You do it to yourselves and you can’t even see it, how sad. I'm not a woman but I am a humanist and I won't tolerate the demonization of billions of people. Also excuse me for having a skewed view on women in general I'll tell you the same thing I tell feminists who "have a skewed view on men in general": you're excusing bigotry. You can't get around that fact when you negatively generalize about an entire gender and then defend that generalization. Don't be like feminists. Don't generalize abou… | /r/MensRights | 17/08/22 04:26 PM |
| 9 | Why we insist on rule 6 and using wording that explicitly allows for exceptionsIt is absolutely just a matter of practice. You can always add granularity to your statements to ensure you're not making absolute statements about any identity group. It's what I wish every female-focused sub on Reddit would do so it's what I owe, too. I try to keep my criticism to feminists as a whole so that I'm criticizing the proponents of a hateful ideology, not women at all. On a related note, whenever I'm talking about men I never say "us" and always use "them". It helps to de-personaliz… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/08/22 02:56 PM |
| 7 | Women act so different in real life.it was then I realised how truly fickle all women are. Nope. It was then that you succumbed to bigotry. There's 4 billion women on earth. You don't know ANYTHING about "all women". | /r/MensRights | 17/08/22 02:40 PM |
| 2 | *Shadow in the Cloud* is a fantastic feminist filmI'll admit to never reading the comics and only basing my impressions of her representation in movies. However, this gender-flip summary is great! It'd be a good project to take these misandrist films and summarize a gender-flipped version of them. Juxtaposition is a good way to open people's eyes. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/08/22 01:54 PM |
| 13 | *Shadow in the Cloud* is a fantastic feminist filmTo add to this, it bothers me that we're women-washing the past. It was men who were forced to fight in the wars of the rich. It was men who were gangpressed into the Navy or military. It was men who died holding their steaming guts in their hands while they called for their mother. Women suffered too but war has historically been exclusively a male issue that it's unrecognized as gendered violence. All of our freedoms and rights were earned through the death of men willing to sacrifice their li… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/08/22 01:37 PM |
| 4 | Reverse the genders...Hollywood is not "the communications". Okay I don't see us finding a meeting of the minds here. Enjoyed the chat, though. Have a good night! | /r/MensRights | 17/08/22 10:46 AM |
| 6 | Reverse the gendersWall Street is the source of wealth, though. It's the seat of capitalism. Not Hollywood. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/22 10:35 AM |
| 12 | *Shadow in the Cloud* is a fantastic feminist filmsome female characters are just extremely toxic and displays all the traits what feminists would call toxic masculinity if displayed by a Man. Yes! Thank you for bringing this up. Female characters will be overbearing, pushy and aggressive in a way that only feminists think is 'alpha male' behaviour. The frustrating thing is that men will still be blamed for this too 20 years from now under the guise that male directors or producers or writers or grip influenced them and pushed their toxic mascu… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/08/22 10:34 AM |
| 10 | Reverse the gendersI mean, before wall street? For the record I'm not advocating arson or any illegal activity but as a hypothetical, choosing Hollywood before Wall Street looks like social bias. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/22 10:26 AM |
| 3 | I've been Shadow Banned from TwoX. I'm Saddened for a Different Reason than You Think.I thought The Next Movement could be a unified gender movement where we all collaborate for the most fair and equal society and treatment. You should look into the "successor ideology". (Hint: It's wokeness and feminism described in different words.) The Next Movement that exists doesn't care about men because men are the lynchpin in their plan to create a social enemy which others can acceptably hate. Men are the Oppressors and so not human because who really gives a fuck what you do to, or say… | /r/MensRights | 17/08/22 10:23 AM |
| 1 | so I was told I would make a good "house husband" at work...You should just call them out on it, but nicely. "Thanks for noticing how well I clean, but I think if I told any of you that "you'd make a good housewive", at least one of you would have been offended. It's a double standard and one you might not have realized so I'd appreciate if you didn't defined me by my cleaning skills." Or something. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/22 08:29 AM |
| 10 | There’s a saying: “If everyone hates you, it’s probably your fault”.Hypo-agency vs. hyper-agency. Women are never held responsible but men are always responsible. Once you see it, you'll never unsee it. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/22 08:15 AM |
| 155 | Reverse the gendersmen are 70% of the traffic offenders. Because men are most likely to drive, which means most coupled women are being chauffered everywhere. Nobody talks about that though. This happened in germany btw. Feminism is a cancer. It's a weapon created by the rich and used to divide the working class. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/22 08:14 AM |
| 13 | *Shadow in the Cloud* is a fantastic feminist filmI suspect you didn't read past the title. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/08/22 07:55 AM |
| 5 | *Shadow in the Cloud* is a fantastic feminist filmAll the suggestions in this sub justify a "Women Are Wonderful" tag for movies. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/08/22 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Far more famous, main character paid higher = sexismI don't think women are unfit for those jobs in any way. You don't have to be THAT strong to do most of the work and blue-collar workers are always willing to help each other out (much more so than white-collar, in my experience). Dave's a fat fuck and can't lift for shit and Darryl has a bad back so I'm going to cover for each of them when it comes to heavy labour. Just like how Darryl does any work that involves heights because he knows I have a thing about heights. I've known women in the tra… | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/08/22 06:25 AM |
| 7 | Are WE really the sexists ones? Smh.Briefly, yes. Then they changed it but they didn't really change it. I wish we could FOI documents from corporations. If we did that to Reddit, dollars to doughnuts we have hundreds of emails that corroborate that their present-day policy is that it's okay to hate men, white people, cis people, etc. This is an illegal policy in Canada so Reddit should be ready for a very sternly-worded letter. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/22 06:22 AM |
| 6 | *Shadow in the Cloud* is a fantastic feminist filmI found this trend even in Spy with Melissa McCarthy. Every single man was "bad", either in their morality or competence (and sometimes both). I wasn't even pilled at the time and I still found it grating. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/08/22 05:08 AM |
| 13 | *Shadow in the Cloud* is a fantastic feminist filmI started watching Bird of Prey because it was on Netflix and I couldn't get past 10 minutes. In-your-face misandry is how the attitude that Harley Quinn embodies is expressed nowadays. It's grrl punk to be hateful towards men because wtf cares about your gender Oppressor? Imagine if other Marvel or DC characters carried the same prejudices. Every bi-yearly Batman movie starts with a monologue listing the defective qualities of the Italians and Greeks or, as he calls them, "the disgustingly hirs… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/08/22 05:05 AM |
| 20 | *Shadow in the Cloud* is a fantastic feminist filmI don't quite remember that but the ending of the movie is even more ridiculous than what you described and it's all set up to show how women are better than men. It's a female supremacist movie, ultimately. Female chauvinism is manifested in the demonization of men even more so than in the glorification of women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/08/22 03:18 AM |
| 21 | Are WE really the sexists ones? Smh.I was recently suspended from Reddit for "hate speech" simply for criticizing feminists' actions on Reddit (not women - feminists). And yet when I report comments like "More women should hate men", I'm told it's not hate. Or "I wish all men would just disappear". Nope, not hate. Twox, FourthWaveFeminists, TrollX, NiceGuys and so many other subs exist solely or mainly to provide a "safe space" for women to demonize men, to mock them, to demean them and to hate them. They're hate subs. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/22 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Far more famous, main character paid higher = sexismThere is no gender pay gap. Women just have more time off, a better work/life balance and they're a tiny fraction of the people who work the necessary dangerous jobs upon which our consumerist society survives. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/08/22 12:49 AM |
| 4 | I am thinking about starting a Men's (Male-Only) Club and could use advice and critqueYou should look at the Men's Shed movement if you haven't already. Personally I'm not very much into tools so those don't interest me much so it might be nice for men to have something that's not traditionally masculine necessarily. Mostly, though, you should have something for the guys to do. Asking a bunch of guys who don't know each other (at first) to just sit in a room and do nothing but talk? Like I said I'm not even a guy's guy but I still very much prefer something to do other than just … | /r/MensRights | 15/08/22 05:54 AM |
| 8 | When you think misandry couldn’t get worse…Check out their "Team": https://www.artichoke.uk.com/team/ Out of 19 positions, only TWO of them are held by men (I swear finance is always a guy). These are just upper-class female PMC's who know nothing - and want to know nothing - about class (be it in terms of wealth or propriety, apparently). “For this first exhibition of The Gallery, we invited artists from around the world to respond to the theme ‘Straight White Male’. Because you knew exactly the sort of art you'd get from the people you… | /r/MensRights | 15/08/22 05:50 AM |
| 3 | Should financial abortion be a thing ?Men don't have equal rights as long as they cannot abrogate responsibility for a fetus they helped create. Men don't have equal rights as long as women can choose to consign men to 18 years of debt and legal responsibility for the child. Anybody who's against men being to have a "financial abortion" / annulment of parenthood is anti-choice. The pro-choice stance on reproductive rights MUST include men's right to annul parenthood because any stance predicated on the freedom of choice must also st… | /r/MensRights | 14/08/22 10:38 PM |
| 57 | Men Have Been Psychologically Abused by Feminist Ideology For DecadesFuture generations will be shocked about how our the last 20 years have treated boys and men. Feminists seem to forget that "punching up" against 'men' means punching boys, punching the disabled, punching the abused, punching the poor and the homeless, and punching the "marginalized". Maybe just stop punching? | /r/MensRights | 11/08/22 12:16 PM |
| 11 | NOTICE: Reddit will ban you for criticizing feministsAh yes, let's say that doing the exact same thing we hate to see feminists do is fair (1) It's not the exact same thing since feminists negatively generalize about MEN while I was satirically generalization about FEMINISM, which is a chosen ideology. Whataboutism. (2) That's not what I'm saying. If you remain incapable of properly representing my perspective, I'll have to assume you're a troll. It's pretty simple: Stop misrepresenting what I've said and just represent YOUR view. ...If you have o… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/22 12:09 PM |
| 13 | NOTICE: Reddit will ban you for criticizing feministsYour limited understanding of the range of human expression has failed you once again. (1) I'm satirizing the typical view of MRAs as "misogynist assholes" and (2) It isn't hateful to criticize people of a hateful ideology. Go grieve elsewhere. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/22 11:51 AM |
| 10 | NOTICE: Reddit will ban you for criticizing feminists/r/menkampf | /r/MensRights | 11/08/22 11:39 AM |
| 11 | NOTICE: Reddit will ban you for criticizing feministsCalling people misandrist bitch is a problem. I was satirizing the post before me. By the way, I ALSO want to eat the Irish. Saying that people asked for it wearing these kind of stuff at the gym is also both wrong and terrible. And again, I didn't say that. So you're typical woke griever, eh. You deserve your warning. Uhuhuh, as does everyone who criticizes feminism, no doubt. [Edit: Ah, looking at the vote ratio on an obviously false statement that's pro-feminist in r/mensrights makes me think… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/22 11:38 AM |
| 8 | Imagine if it said boys...Didn’t read the bottom of the tshirt that it said “BOUGHT AND PAID FOR BY THE FEMINIST PARTY” Of course not. There is no Feminist Party. This is a disingenuous No True Scotsman argument you're making here. Feminism is the dominant social narrative - by a wide margin - and it regularly preaches female supremacy / male inferiority. I know that doesn't say anything good about feminism but that doesn't mean what I'm saying is wrong. Just that feminism is. | /r/MensRights | 08/08/22 03:43 AM |
| 3 | Men, I think we should start just making personal gyms.I'm simply pointing out how your arguments don't connect. Show me where you did that. That's what you want to believe you're doing. This isn't a faith-based space, however. How would male-only gyms prevent men from being murdered if it's men doing the murdering? I never said that male-only gyms would prevent men from being murdered and I never said it's only men doing the murdering. Good gosh. Have you ever read about intellectual honesty? Why are you so comfortable ignoring a value that has pro… | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Men, I think we should start just making personal gyms.while trying to claim that being perceived as creepy is a bigger problem for men than the fear of being raped and murdered is for women. Show me where I said that. Oh shit it's really inconvenient when someone's willing to call you out on your bullshit, eh? My asking you if you'd trade places is simply pointing out your disingenuity. But that's not what you asked: Ok so you’re saying that you’d trade places then? You can't even be honest about what YOU say. Feminism's really fucked you up, man. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Men, I think we should start just making personal gyms.Lol I notice how you deftly phrase it as “men being the victims of murder” so you don’t have to acknowledge the gender of the murderer. As my entire position is that the gender of the murderer is irrelevant, it's hardly deft. Only someone so committed to falsehoods and anti-male bias as you would perceive it as anything else... Again, how are male only gyms “good for humanity” if it’s men who do most of the killing? Because people who are not sociopaths like you and other feminists don't assume … | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 06:43 AM |
| 2 | Men, I think we should start just making personal gyms.Ooh, a disingenuous response to a direct request. shocking Ok so you’re saying that you’d trade places then? Please show me where I said that. I know you're excitable what with being in the midst of jerking off to how intellectually ripped the non-existent women will find you but how about we just deal with one thing at a time, eh? | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 06:40 AM |
| 5 | Men, I think we should start just making personal gyms.It's cute how you referred to that as "logic". Seatbelts don't involve restricting men from publicly-accessible places and they are actually useful in preventing a potentially-fatal event, unlike female-only gyms. Why are you spending this much time with this bad-faith arguing? Are you proving to the feminists who aren't around how STRONG and TOUGH you are? Do you think by using your intellect to "destroy" those evil MRA's that some women will actually deign to fuck you? I'm so very curious... | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 06:38 AM |
| 5 | Men, I think we should start just making personal gyms.Women being afraid of being raped and murdered by random men is just reality. Source? If it's reality you should be able to provide evidence. Not one case, but stats showing that it's reasonable to be MORE AFRAID of being raped and murdered than, say, dying in a car crash. (There's no women's only roads (yet)). Waits patiently | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 06:23 AM |
| 5 | Men, I think we should start just making personal gyms.Please show me where I said that. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 06:21 AM |
| 4 | Men, I think we should start just making personal gyms.Again, you're supposed to be backing up your argument that women getting murdered by random men is a "moral panic". Oh am I? I thought that was obvious considering the rate of murder to the rate of car crash or other types of death that threaten all women but about which they don't continually fantasize about falling victim to over the internet for validation. The fact that men also murder other men isn't really relevant to that line of reasoning. Typical feminists positioning. Men are far more … | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 06:18 AM |
| 3 | Men, I think we should start just making personal gyms.So if both genders want to avoid being murdered, it sounds like they should stay away from men. But men tend not to be hysteria-driven asshats perpetually caught in the midst of a moral panic. Present company excluded. Hence why some women would want to go to a female-only gym. Because of their irrational fear? I don't think that's a very nice thing to say about women. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 06:14 AM |
| 4 | Men, I think we should start just making personal gyms.Men are regularly assumed to be "creepy" but women are very rarely raped and murdered. So no, they're not equivalent. I agree. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 06:13 AM |
| 4 | Men, I think we should start just making personal gyms.I can tell you plenty of true cases, just in the last decade, where women were murdered by, essentially, complete strangers. LOL 80% of murders in America are men. So if you heard about "plenty of cases where women get murdered by strangers", then just do the math to figure out the jaw-droppingly number of men we're okay with dying each year. Men are also twice as likely to be attacked by a stranger. No. However it absolutely does happen Yes, violence happens. Why do feminists always view this a… | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 05:39 AM |
| 2 | Men, I think we should start just making personal gyms.I do actually agree that the sub should ban the demonization of women (or anyone else) /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates has this rule so it might be worth you checking out. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 05:28 AM |
| 3 | Men, I think we should start just making personal gyms.Ok well I think the gender of the perpetrator is relevant in a discussion of men only gyms. This is the face of me believing you've never victim-blamed men for being murdered: :l Your argument doesn't speak to the moral paranoia of women "being afraid of men at gyms because they might get raped and murdered by them". The fact that men are willing to go to male-only gyms when they are twice as likely as women to be murdered, shows HOW UNLIKELY it is to be murdered and that women's constant fantas… | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 05:17 AM |
| 0 | Men, I think we should start just making personal gyms.[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Men, I think we should start just making personal gyms.Poe's Law has daily application in my life. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 01:22 AM |
| 5 | Men, I think we should start just making personal gyms.There is no difference between a male feminist and a white knight. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 01:20 AM |
| 5 | Men, I think we should start just making personal gyms.What women wear shouldn't be problem, it shouldn't distract you. This is moralistic bullshit. What right do you have to say what should or shouldn't distract people? Women wear titillating clothes to the gym. Clothes that show most but not all the female body are titillating. They're socially-acceptable lingerie. Yoga pants and sports bras show most but not all the female body although in the case of the former the fabric is so tight that all you're missing is skin tone. It's time to stop convin… | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 01:19 AM |
| 7 | Men, I think we should start just making personal gyms.because they don't want to be ogled, stalked (and potentially raped and murdered), Yes, because of that big rash of rapin' n' murderin' at your local gym.... You're suffering from a moral panic. The good news is that now you know about it you can do something about it. The bad news is that now you share something in common with fundamentalist Christians :( | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 01:14 AM |
| 7 | Men, I think we should start just making personal gyms.I can't think of any cases, in any state, where a guy was murdered by a stalker woman Men are twice as likely to be murdered by women. The gender of the perpetrator is irrelevant when it's the VICTIMS WHO ARE AFFECTED. I'm so tired of feminists acting like men who are murdered by men aren't important. Or that they "probably deserve it", which is typically classist of your average feminist. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 01:14 AM |
| 9 | Men, I think we should start just making personal gyms.you don't want a random woman to assume you're going to ogle/stalk/murder her Yeah how about any place where women aren't assuming this about men? That seems like a good enough reason. Also you're completely making up the "stakes" so they can be as low or high as you want them to be. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 01:12 AM |
| 5 | Men, I think we should start just making personal gyms.They aren't in Canada. While gender is itself a protected class, human rights tribunals (kangaroo courts) and the Supreme Court (wallaby court) have consistently acted as if it's only women that are the protected class. You'd work hard to build something good and then get sued for your gender policy and judges would end up telling you that "you're denying women the chance to exercise locally" and "encouraging misogyny" by having a membership policy for the place you built yourself. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 01:08 AM |
| 3 | This guy is just crazy, I'm telling you. He believes that men who were abused don't matterI don't give a damn about male victims Usually it's not said so explicitly but I've heard this sentiment so many times while debating feminists about an issue that affects men too. Feminists seem to think that caring about men's issues is the same as hating women's issue (and women). They don't care about male victims because they see it as 'just desserts'. I think we're too much in this moment to fully internalize just how horrific this kind of vengeful attitude really is. These are people will… | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 12:11 AM |
| 4 | Pet Names For StrangersPete Davidson is considered attractive? He looks like a half-stoned fish. Anyways, I'm often called "honey" or "sweetie" by older women (who are colleagues!) but it would be considered sexist/sexual harassment if I ever called a woman "honey" at work. The whole thing is inequitable so I'd just go with whatever doesn't get you into trouble. It's not a hill worth dying on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Received a response from the Advertising Standards Authority re. EE's 'Stop Sexist Hate' Ad CampaignThis is a good point. I brought it up in my complaint. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/07/22 11:52 PM |
| 16 | Received a response from the Advertising Standards Authority re. EE's 'Stop Sexist Hate' Ad Campaignthat it was the responsibility of perpetrators of abuse, rather than victims, to tackle such behaviour – who, in the case of abuse from men toward women, would be men. NO. The perpetrators of abuse are ... the perpetrators of abuse. There is NO shortening it to just 'men' and by doing so the council explicitly justified the subtext you picked up on in the ads: that men are bad. Whilst the focus of the ads was on abuse by men towards women, Council did not consider the content was likely to be se… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/07/22 11:45 PM |
| 1 | So an hour ago a really angry feminist who clearly hates men to the core of her heart commented on one of the posts here on MRA trying to claim that feminists do not incite agression of rape, assault and murder of men. But what i found on her profile as a very first post there portray something elseWell feminism brought these bitches to us, so take that as you will. ....Which bitches. This is incomprehensible. I'm more than willing to debunk whatever myth, strawman or fallacy you're hastily constructing this time but you may be too far into your second bottle for this to make sense. Wanting female liberation is really the only way to be moral lmao. What part of universal don't you understand? if i dont want for infant genital mutilation to come to an end, it means im a piece of shit. Its t… | /r/MensRights | 28/07/22 07:06 AM |
| 3 | So an hour ago a really angry feminist who clearly hates men to the core of her heart commented on one of the posts here on MRA trying to claim that feminists do not incite agression of rape, assault and murder of men. But what i found on her profile as a very first post there portray something elseAbsolute faith in your own moral infallibility will do that to a person. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/22 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Indian man are waking up.Some women are so cared for all their lives that they don't understand how much support they have. ...Some might call it privilege... It's amazing how much of feminism is just pure projection. The only men who grow up this way are rich men. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/22 03:13 AM |
| 9 | So an hour ago a really angry feminist who clearly hates men to the core of her heart commented on one of the posts here on MRA trying to claim that feminists do not incite agression of rape, assault and murder of men. But what i found on her profile as a very first post there portray something elseHmm. Teachers give better marks to better behaved students. Marks are there to gauge a student's academic ability and if boys are not "well-behaved", why do you assume it's their fault and not the system's? Because they're boys and you're a feminist :) What is actually detrimental to men is not women being protected, it's men being unprotected No, it's a society that's gynocentric but unwilling to admit it. Don't you like when women can escape abuse? I don't like it when government favours one g… | /r/MensRights | 28/07/22 02:43 AM |
| 4 | So an hour ago a really angry feminist who clearly hates men to the core of her heart commented on one of the posts here on MRA trying to claim that feminists do not incite agression of rape, assault and murder of men. But what i found on her profile as a very first post there portray something elseThat's not feminism. That's equal rights, which feminism doesn't own. Universal human rights pre-date feminism by a good margin so stop acting like your ideology is the only way to be moral. It makes you sound like a Christian. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/22 02:27 AM |
| 5 | So an hour ago a really angry feminist who clearly hates men to the core of her heart commented on one of the posts here on MRA trying to claim that feminists do not incite agression of rape, assault and murder of men. But what i found on her profile as a very first post there portray something elseTrauma is a factor to be considered but I don't really think it's the cause. Radicalism is a high and you don't need trauma in your past to want to be high. However, trauma does make you far more likely to have substance abuse issues so yeah that part's a good point thank you. And in those cases, I feel the only way to change them is thru long investments of kindness to undo all the hate that’s been accumulating over time. You just seem very grounded in your humanity. It's a rare quality. Very m… | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 11:11 PM |
| 9 | So an hour ago a really angry feminist who clearly hates men to the core of her heart commented on one of the posts here on MRA trying to claim that feminists do not incite agression of rape, assault and murder of men. But what i found on her profile as a very first post there portray something elseFun fact: #KillAllMen is hate speech! | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 10:30 PM |
| 3 | So an hour ago a really angry feminist who clearly hates men to the core of her heart commented on one of the posts here on MRA trying to claim that feminists do not incite agression of rape, assault and murder of men. But what i found on her profile as a very first post there portray something elseI've known some but honestly it's usually short-lived and they end up being egalitarians or humanist (my preferred term). It's kind of like how Christians would become Universal Unitarians shortly before settling on agnostic. | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | So an hour ago a really angry feminist who clearly hates men to the core of her heart commented on one of the posts here on MRA trying to claim that feminists do not incite agression of rape, assault and murder of men. But what i found on her profile as a very first post there portray something elseGreat post, very much agree except for: The ONLY people that can marginalized radicals from corrupting the base are the moderates of that side. I haven't taken the effort here, and it is usually an hours long process, but you can definitely talk people down to reconsidering their viewpoint Saying you can't discourages discussion which from your post is something that I don't think you want so I just wanted to give you some (anecdotal) evidence that you can do it, with time and a lot of patience.… | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 10:29 PM |
| 0 | So an hour ago a really angry feminist who clearly hates men to the core of her heart commented on one of the posts here on MRA trying to claim that feminists do not incite agression of rape, assault and murder of men. But what i found on her profile as a very first post there portray something elseIt's scrotally slappin', man. | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 10:23 PM |
| 7 | So an hour ago a really angry feminist who clearly hates men to the core of her heart commented on one of the posts here on MRA trying to claim that feminists do not incite agression of rape, assault and murder of men. But what i found on her profile as a very first post there portray something elseI want to see men who hurt others and want to take away other people’s rights away bleed and suffer because they’re bad people. But not the women? What about the 40% of women who are pro-life? Should they bleed and suffer? You benefit from a capitalist system that necessitates the starvation of 25,000 people a day. You (and I) are aristocrats, living the high life while there's a genocide of the global poor going on. Should you bleed and suffer? Should the people who voted for Obama bleed and su… | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 10:22 PM |
| 30 | So an hour ago a really angry feminist who clearly hates men to the core of her heart commented on one of the posts here on MRA trying to claim that feminists do not incite agression of rape, assault and murder of men. But what i found on her profile as a very first post there portray something elseThe girl still won awards for her activism that year. Because the "adults" are too scared for their jobs to contradict her virulent hatred. | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 10:17 PM |
| 11 | So an hour ago a really angry feminist who clearly hates men to the core of her heart commented on one of the posts here on MRA trying to claim that feminists do not incite agression of rape, assault and murder of men. But what i found on her profile as a very first post there portray something elseI didn’t call for anyones death. You're being disingenuous. The picture clearly threatens violence "payback". It also dehumanizes men by pitting them all as one mega-being, with each individual culpable for every other individual's actions. That's how racists view black people. Feminism promotes bigotry. You're a healthy example of that: Aren’t you guys a bunch of whiny little baby scrotes | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 10:16 PM |
| 12 | So an hour ago a really angry feminist who clearly hates men to the core of her heart commented on one of the posts here on MRA trying to claim that feminists do not incite agression of rape, assault and murder of men. But what i found on her profile as a very first post there portray something elsewhiny little baby scrotes. Typical feminist insult which relies on concepts exclusive to traditional masculinity. "whiny" = men should always be stoic "little baby" = Men are always supposed to bigger (taller) and always competent, mature, adult, able to handle every situation (hyper-agency). "scrotes" = a known slur for men amongst radfems It's funny how men "need feminism" when feminists so consistently rely on traditional gender norms for men. ...And, you know, treat us like shit :) | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 10:14 PM |
| 14 | So an hour ago a really angry feminist who clearly hates men to the core of her heart commented on one of the posts here on MRA trying to claim that feminists do not incite agression of rape, assault and murder of men. But what i found on her profile as a very first post there portray something elseNone of which speaks to the fact that feminism is an ideology that harms men, especially in the last decade. There are hashtags about men that are clearly hate speech but still celebrated and defended by feminists. There are institutions that have accepted feminists principles that have harmed boys. That's why boys are consistently marked lower than girls of the same ability, or why government cares more about protecting women, obvious by all the programs, services, grants, loans and scholarship… | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 10:11 PM |
| 11 | So an hour ago a really angry feminist who clearly hates men to the core of her heart commented on one of the posts here on MRA trying to claim that feminists do not incite agression of rape, assault and murder of men. But what i found on her profile as a very first post there portray something elseIt doesn't matter how I'd feel. The only thing that matters is the claim, something your question does nothing to deny. Feminism hurts men. | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 10:06 PM |
| 0 | Why do feminists talk about cutting dicks off?Ironic statement is ironic So tired of snide comments like this. You're not contributing with this. It doesn't say anything and it's just a bullying tactic. ... i did say so, NO, you didn't. You made a snide comment alluding to something. It's a sign of you buying into the propaganda saying 'acting like the worst of the people who'd vote trump' Ah, this is because you're a Trump fan. Never mind then. | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 09:50 PM |
| 0 | Why do feminists talk about cutting dicks off?Okay? I think there definitely was a radicalization that took place in 2015 and onwards. As evidence I point to the extreme ramp-up of idpol since that time and its invasion into our daily lives. If you think that's always been the case, you're probably a younger person who hasn't been politically conscious long enough to experience anything but. No judgement though. Just if you disagree with me, then say so and follow it up with reasons why. Give me an argument. Otherwise you're just making kin… | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Why do feminists talk about cutting dicks off?Especially since asshole fratbro is more typical of "beta male" behaviour. Regardless of your opinion on the alpha/beta dichotomy (everything's a spectrum imo), this is a really good read and really helped me see "men's men" more positively. Alpha men don't act like jerks because they're secure. They're secure because they're good people who help others in traditionally masculine ways: military, search and rescue, firefighters, paramedics, or even just using their 'masculine skills' to help out … | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 07:52 PM |
| 13 | Indian man are waking up.Behind almost every male CEO, there's a woman who doesn't have to work to earn a very luxurious lifestyle. Anybody have stats on how many households in America have the husband being the primary breadwinner and earning well above the living wage while the wife is not working or working part-time jobs. It would be handy to have an approximate number of women privileged enough to live in the lap of luxury without ever having to work for it. Even without that, all woman have An Out. There's always … | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 06:16 PM |
| 1 | The best advice someone gave me “If a want a high value girl be a high value man”It's dehumanizing to commodify yourself like this. Go camping alone for two weeks with nothing to do but think. Alcohol, marijuana, MDMA and psilocybin have all been known to help people think. Think for three days, then get drunk. Think for three days, then get high. Think three days then invite a platonic friend on the third and take some E so you can dance in the moonlight as you peak. Think for a day, feel awful the next (Tuesday blues) and then think for another day before taking some shroo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 07:36 AM |
| 39 | Can I ask what’s with the current backlash about female criminals being in prison in the UK?Because one of the unexamined assumptions in our society is the tradition of assigning hypo-agency for women and hyper-agency to men. Women are never truly responsible; men are always ultimately responsible. You can see this in the "theory" of patriarchy. Men are responsible for everything (bad) about society while women constantly struggle against a society for which they have no responsibility but which definitely has a responsibility to them. If women are disadvantaged, it's because society h… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/07/22 07:21 AM |
| 5 | Sexist math TeacherFeminists dehumanize women all the time because they angelify women (and demonize men). They always act like all women are the best of what humanity has to offer (while too many men in this sub act like most women are the worst of what humanity has to offer). The latter is a reactionary dehumanization but a dehumanization all the same. I just think everybody should be judged for the content of their character, not the colour of their razor. | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 01:35 AM |
| 54 | Why do feminists talk about cutting dicks off?When Trump was elected, a lot of people on the Left suddenly decided they'd do away with comprehensive understanding of the issues and replace it with hate and outrage. They had to stop being "weak" because that's how Trump got elected so now they'd be "strong" by...acting like the worst of the people who'd vote Trump. Roe was just another crack of the whip for feminists, a wake-up call for them to continue their anger and to feel justified in their hate. To continue being incredibly divisive an… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/22 04:53 AM |
| 1 | That's how cruelty looks like.Out of curiosity, what sort of source would you accept for that? A news source? Court documents? If there's no evidence, it shouldn't be claimed. This is basic burden of proof. And do you always dismiss statements posted to social media with no further evidence? Pretend fantasy stories about something that may or may not have happened? Yes, of course. It's called critical thinking. Also, sometimes being right will lead one to be attacked by both sides, but that doesn't mean someone being attache… | /r/MensRights | 25/07/22 11:49 PM |
| 16 | Reason for the creation of the men's rights movement.I can't help with the history but I believe I can help with the rhetoric. the men's rights movement was created as a reactionary counter to the feminist movement. That's a positive claim so ask them to prove it. It's not up to you to prove that the MRM isn't what they say i is; it's up to them to provide evidence that it is what they say it is. Aside from the burden of proof that feminists so often forget, I'd simply say the mrm exists because society has an abusive relationship with men as a ge… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/07/22 10:59 PM |
| 7 | "Sexist hate starts with men and can end with them," claims UK ad.#KillAllMen isn't a death threat - it's iiiironic! Meanwhile, the inverse could result in UK cops bursting through your door. Sexist hate starts with men Then why is it that the ONLY socially acceptable hatred is towards men? Besides the example, there's tons of buzzwords that show a clear and unabiding hatred for men.... Oh, shit. Right. I forgot. Sexist hate against men isn't sexist. Because "men have all the power", although clearly they don't have all the power or they'd use it to stop femin… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 22/07/22 05:39 PM |
| 0 | That's how cruelty looks like.There's lots of fantasies that you could concoct that would be terrible for women but still possible and completely legal. That doesn't make it less of a fantasy. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/22 04:39 PM |
| 8 | PSA: men and women who work outside, please be careful with the summer heat waves.What I would like to see is just honesty and fairness. Couldn't agree more and your dedication to this shows in your sourced, fact-based posts and comments. Don't tell us homelessness is a bigger problem for women when the facts clearly show otherwise. Speaking of, check this out - https://www.homelesshub.ca/about-homelessness/homelessness-101/who-homeless They divide men into ages in order to hide the fact that men are the majority of the homeless. It's pretty blatant stat manipulation. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/07/22 04:19 PM |
| -1 | That's how cruelty looks like.looks up Is it a plane? Is it a flying train? No, it's BadJokeManThatTakesItHardWhenNobodyGetsHisJokeBecauseThey'reSoBad! | /r/MensRights | 22/07/22 03:27 PM |
| -1 | That's how cruelty looks like.Yes, free thinker. It's almost like you don't know what you're talking about :) | /r/MensRights | 22/07/22 03:12 PM |
| -7 | That's how cruelty looks like.This is a random tweet with no evidence or source. I'm a male advocate, but I'm also a skeptic and a critical/free thinker. AFAIK this is just fantasy. [Edit: Being downvoted for thinking critically always sucks, no matter what sub it happens in. Apparently tonight I'm due for downvotes for both not being feminist enough and now for not being MensRights enough. I must be doing something right..?] | /r/MensRights | 22/07/22 02:31 PM |
| 6 | PSA: men and women who work outside, please be careful with the summer heat waves.Yet we had some roofers (is that the correct term) dying of heatstroke in my region (near Paris). Yes, that's the correct term. And I'm surprised because I kinda held France as a pretty good example of worker and personal rights, between 'the right to be forgotten' and the right to ignore the boss after work. How is it worth killing people so as not to be 2 days late on your calendar? Because humans are treated as "resources" under capitalism, not as people. They're even pretty bare-bones about … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/07/22 02:29 PM |
| 8 | PSA: men and women who work outside, please be careful with the summer heat waves.I think I disagree. The list of reasons why it affects men more are largely choices men make to benefit their families or their community. It's a positive action that deserves to be recognized, rather than just "a thing that happens to men". I agree with your general sentiment, just not its application in this particular case. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/07/22 02:26 PM |
| 31 | PSA: men and women who work outside, please be careful with the summer heat waves.I like how you recognized that it's mostly men but didn't ignore the women who step up to the plate too. This is the way, imo. As to the subject itself, I was recently caught short by the sun and "grayed out", nearly fainting from over-exertion. Men have the tendency to push themselves past their physical limits (almost always in the service of others) and it's something we have to be conscious of. Dehydration happens before you're thirsty. Drink at regular intervals, even if you don't feel thir… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/07/22 02:23 PM |
| 87 | Pearl Jam throw out woman for violenceThey did a good job of it by humanizing the man by remind the woman that he's a person too. I was once at an outdoor concert, waiting for the show to start, when a woman sitting on a man's shoulders started yelling at me to show her my dick. It was super embarrassing and I just ignored her so she started belittling me and making comments about my dick size. Eventually she moved on to someone else. I can only imagine how quickly a man would have been mobbed in that very liberal city if he'd been … | /r/MensRights | 22/07/22 07:25 AM |
| -1 | Women who are proven to have lied about rape should be required to register as sex offenders.Hard disagree. Sex offender lists go against the entire principle of imprisoning someone in the first place. It's perpetual punishment and men have been put on there for public urination or (consensual) fucking in the bathroom - but since he's fucking a guy and the cop's homophobic, onto the registry they go. Injustice is not justice. Spreading it to women or any other identity group doesn't create justice; it just creates more injustice. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/22 01:36 AM |
| -19 | Indian Independent Women in a Nutshell SMHGeneralizing, especially negatively generalizing, about any one identity group is bigotry. It's a very simple rule. I don't want to pretend that you can't follow it, so why would you? | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/07/22 09:54 AM |
| -26 | Indian Independent Women in a Nutshell SMHOoph, super racist, super sexist. I'm anti-feminist, anti-woke, and left-wing. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/07/22 09:36 AM |
| 14 | males working in a health care settingI have no doubts about our gynocentric society. However, is it possible they just didn't like your reference to god / religion? I've noticed a trend on Reddit will asking questions like this will get me downvoted. I think this is because people haven't had the opportunity to learn about critical thought. Public schools rarely, if ever, teach it and they're not likely to pick it up through social media. So, in a slightly drunken and tangential note, it's the responsibility of those of us who know… | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 09:36 AM |
| 40 | I was a juror in a case where the prosecutor admitted that he prosecuted a man because he is a manthe defense attorney used all of her challenges on older people (for some reason I can't wrap my head around). Much like Don Dutton, older people are more likely to acknowledge that most domestic violence is mutual, not uni-directional. In other words, the defence attorney (she/her) was illegally working against her own client because any man accused of domestic violence is guilty. One of the jurors said that she will write to the district attorney and bar association, but the judge said it was … | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Man talks about how during an argument his girlfriend points a gun at him. "most comments are men telling me to leave, but all the women think differently"It won't destroy it because there's still far too many pieces of paper left over to call it destroyed. While I well know all the types of things that people will shoot, it's still dishonest to say that's WHY people buy guns. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Man talks about how during an argument his girlfriend points a gun at him. "most comments are men telling me to leave, but all the women think differently"Hmm, I don't know. I strongly feel that George would have learned the term from the military, not "gun safety courses". They probably get it from the military, more likely. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Man talks about how during an argument his girlfriend points a gun at him. "most comments are men telling me to leave, but all the women think differently"LOL this is so disingenuous! Nobody buys guns to shoot toasters! And guns don't destroy paper targets. So yeah. Euphemism. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 04:54 AM |
| 6 | Man talks about how during an argument his girlfriend points a gun at him. "most comments are men telling me to leave, but all the women think differently"It's to prevent brigading accusations of brigading. When a woke sub get inundated by intelligent and cogent arguments from another sub, they panic and claim they're being "brigaded" from whatever sub had the most users show up that day. It's part of the woke's inability to tolerate differing perspectives. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Man talks about how during an argument his girlfriend points a gun at him. "most comments are men telling me to leave, but all the women think differently"If it was a bad thing about men, there would definitely be a word for it. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 03:55 AM |
| 16 | Man talks about how during an argument his girlfriend points a gun at him. "most comments are men telling me to leave, but all the women think differently"The patriarchy is a myth, meant to shift the blame for the crimes of the rich and powerful onto all men. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 03:54 AM |
| -4 | Man talks about how during an argument his girlfriend points a gun at him. "most comments are men telling me to leave, but all the women think differently"destroy. Who are you, George from Top Shot? I don't know if this is a military thing or a gun owner thing, but don't you see the euphemism there? Kill. Guns kill people. Not destroy them. Kill them. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 03:53 AM |
| 0 | Why isn’t misandry treated the same as other forms of online hate?Didn't answer the question. Do you mind doing that please? Show me examples of people who morally attain their wealth. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/22 06:32 AM |
| 46 | These replies are disgustingly insightful.I've had the last one done to me. Bullies like this think they're being so clever but it's just passive-aggressive and an abuse of the immense social power women carry in a social media world. If you have a problem with someone, speak up. Talk to them about it so you can work it out. That's what adults have been doing in the workplace for hundreds of years. If they have a problem with every person 'of a certain gender', then they're a bigot...which is why they'll use passive-aggressive means to … | /r/MensRights | 08/07/22 07:42 AM |
| 3 | "I'll be honest, I'm starting to not like men at all." - once again broadbrushing all men over the acts of a deranged few. Yet at the same time, "NAFALT!!!"*women and men | /r/EverydayMisandry | 08/07/22 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Why isn’t misandry treated the same as other forms of online hate?lol okay buddy. Meanwhile your persnicketiness is super charismatic. Nothing you've said actually replies to anything specific I've said. So kindly sit on the nearest cucumber, relieve yourself of your pent-up desires, and then hit me back when you're not such an unrelenting cunt. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/22 02:36 AM |
| 0 | Why isn’t misandry treated the same as other forms of online hate?Yes, you're right. I'm repentant. Now show me examples of people who morally attain their wealth. Give me a reason to believe. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/22 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Why isn’t misandry treated the same as other forms of online hate?There's a vast gulf between the Illuminati and the World Economic Forum. The most significant difference is that the latter is actually one of the ways the 1% choose our course. I've debated people online for more than 20 years now. I appreciate this anecdotal but it's reasonable to believe that this amount of experience has given me a keen sense for when someone is fucking trolling me. My troll-bell's been going off more and more with every passing year. I have NO DOUBT that I've spoken with pe… | /r/MensRights | 08/07/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Latam: The "Peperas" and the "Tomaseras" are women who seduce men and introduce sedatives into their drinks. They strip them of everything of value and throw them on the streets. Some of these men die. But this is not considered violence against men because of their condition of being men.Everyone in this sub is a bully? How so? Do you play the victim card at every sense of adversity? There you go again. You turned to trolling when you lost your argument and then started with the insults when I called you out on it. Accurately describing your behaviour would only be called "playing the victim card" by people like you. Nice attempt at a kafka trap, though. By the way, have you stopped beating your dog yet? | /r/MensRights | 08/07/22 01:45 AM |
| 4 | Why isn’t misandry treated the same as other forms of online hate?By "they", I meant men and white people. Nobody else has to experience the public abuse permitted when those two identities are the target. It's not just the abuse, but that it's permissible, that really starts to dig in after a while. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/22 01:26 AM |
| -1 | Why isn’t misandry treated the same as other forms of online hate?Pulling down those who morally attain their wealth No such thing mate | /r/MensRights | 08/07/22 01:22 AM |
| 11 | The current obsession with vasectomies is creepyIt's funny because your example post was my exact experience as well. A week ago, on a different post. Assumption that all vasectomies are reversible, forever. Guilt-tripping men by saying that birth control is painful or dangerous for women Shaming any men who speak up by saying "they don't know what it's like" and should "listen to women" the idea of someone getting pressured into a vasectomy is concerning to me as well. I would only hope their doctors would be sure to tell them the facts. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/07/22 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Why isn’t misandry treated the same as other forms of online hate?Why do you say that? | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 11:57 PM |
| 6 | Why isn’t misandry treated the same as other forms of online hate?ut everyone (including men and white people) want their life to suck the most. No. They're just tired of being told that their lives suck less because of their race and gender. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 11:52 PM |
| 9 | Why isn’t misandry treated the same as other forms of online hate?Did you read that thread? It's filled with the demonization of men (i.e., hate speech). | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Why isn’t misandry treated the same as other forms of online hate?You're forgetting the value of the 'underdog' image they get to carry around. If white men have everything, then any of them "beating" white men (using capitalist goals) is that much more valuable and powerful. They just didn't succeed; they succeeded 'against all the challenges facing them as a woman'. Basically, it's a constant moral high. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Why isn’t misandry treated the same as other forms of online hate?That's because it was the mods who answered. Send your report here. It goes straight to the admins. Yes, the same admins who have been clear that the original ToS was the accurate version: they don't care if men or white people receive hate on Reddit. That's illegal, at least in Canada. With enough reports of enough obvious examples, we might be able to make a case. If you do send a report, post it on /r/everydaymisandry. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Why isn’t misandry treated the same as other forms of online hate?it's not that these corporations are all working together, It's not conspiratorial to think that the 1% are working together to secure their power; it's naive not to. It's what the powerful have done throughout human history and there's no reason to think it's not happening now. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 11:31 PM |
| 4 | Why isn’t misandry treated the same as other forms of online hate?There is no place for hate on major internet platforms. lmao. Try posting #KillAllMen with a different identity group substituted in for 'men' and see how far you get. Acceptable hate has been allowed on major internet platforms for the last decade. The fact that they don't realize this is a testament to the integrity of their echo chambers. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 11:18 PM |
| 8 | Latvia is restoring male ONLY conscription from 2023!That's why I said it was far less likely to kill you and not that it was sunshine and puppies throughout. Ever think about how many men have held their steaming intestines in their hands, screaming for their mothers as they died? You should sometime. Dispatches by Michael Herr is good. So is The Naked and The Dead by Norman Mailer. It's a good way to connect to how war is a crime inflicted primarily on men and a violation of their bodily autonomy for the sake of the state/city/tribe. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/07/22 09:36 AM |
| 3 | why do men have all these mens rights pages and fathers rights pages across various social media platform's yet nothing is ever done? As a single father being shafted by the courts and my child abuser ex I wish there were more men willing to actually do something rather than 10 people get togethers.I have a theory. It's because the way "to get things done" is very social / feminized. You have to network, get to know the right people, then convince them of your viewpoint. I think most guys would rather just explain their viewpoint at the beginning. Get down to work. Instead, it's a lot of filling out forms, overly polite emails (signed with a woman's name), and just a lot of the social lubrication at which most men don't excel. Also, there's the implicit bias against men. People are less in… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 06:31 AM |
| 7 | Latvia is restoring male ONLY conscription from 2023!Norway and Sweden draft men and women on the exact same legal basis! This should be our go to example. No it shouldn't. Conscription is a violation of men's bodily autonomy. I, at least, don't consent to fight in the government's wars and that decision should must be respected. Stop bringing up Israel. Done. I was bringing up a counter-argument to people who bring up Israel. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/07/22 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Australia: Glamorous heiress, 45, charged with having sex with 14-year-old boy four times in one daythe pure idea where everything should stop changing for the worst How do people decide if something is changing for the worse or not? | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Latam: The "Peperas" and the "Tomaseras" are women who seduce men and introduce sedatives into their drinks. They strip them of everything of value and throw them on the streets. Some of these men die. But this is not considered violence against men because of their condition of being men.Ah, so you're just a bully then. Are you here to show tough and strong you are? We're all so impressed. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 02:26 AM |
| 2 | “Women want rights so bad, so where’s my foreskin?”No honey WOMEN alone don’t vote for those laws That's the second time you called me honey. It's interesting because I learned a whole while back that calling a woman 'honey' was demeaning. Women don't vote for them alone, no. I didn't say they did. But they are the majority of the voters. MEN who make them. To appease the majority of their voters (women) and with approval of the majority of voters (women). It's shocking, I know, when you've always been told men control everything but they don't.… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 02:25 AM |
| 1 | “Women want rights so bad, so where’s my foreskin?”Oh, you've lived both as a man and as a woman? That's interesting. Can you tell me more about your experiences? | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 02:14 AM |
| 3 | "Men are whining"There's an important aspect to this that you've missed! They choose to say "whining" because men are not supposed to whine. It's unmasculine and childish (read: unmasculine). They often use other demasculating words like "crying", "sobbing", "tantrum", "babies", etc. Traditional masculinity says that men must be always calm, capable and competent. Comparing men to unruly children is comparing them to the antithesis of manhood. In short. feminists are using traditional / "toxic" masculinity to pu… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 01:34 AM |
| 12 | Latvia is restoring male ONLY conscription from 2023!Because Israel is sometimes brought up when you start talking conscription, here's an interesting tidbit I recently learned: Despite being officially classified as combat soldiers, women in combat roles are not explicitly deployed into combat situations. They are expected to respond in the event a combat situation does erupt, but are not deployed to areas where there is a high risk of combat https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women_in_the_Israel_Defense_Forces#Combat_roles So even in the Israeli mili… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/07/22 01:23 AM |
| 6 | Latvia is restoring male ONLY conscription from 2023!Interesting point. I agree that in the context of gender, the inverse of conscription is forced childbirth, something that's far less likely to kill you than war. I hesitate to use this though because the overturning of Roe v Wade was an incursion into the rights of my fellow human beings and my objection to that incursion is in no way based on how much women support society (and the state's) restriction of my rights. Good point though. I'll have to think about how to best use it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/07/22 01:11 AM |
| 9 | Latvia is restoring male ONLY conscription from 2023!"Gender equality" is always code for "making things better for women". Men don't need help because (1) under traditional male gender norms, men are always capable, always competent and (2) under feminism, men are always privileged. You don't help people who don't need it. It's rather telling that feminism copped the same line as traditional conservatives when it came to men. Men need feminism like a fish needs a bicycle. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/07/22 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Latam: The "Peperas" and the "Tomaseras" are women who seduce men and introduce sedatives into their drinks. They strip them of everything of value and throw them on the streets. Some of these men die. But this is not considered violence against men because of their condition of being men.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intellectual_honesty Using trolling as an out for your failure to defend your own viewpoint is pathetic. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 04:03 AM |
| 6 | Baby who bled for hours after circumcision was sent home from ER twice, suffered brain damage.It just seems that everybody's trauma is up for use. For instance, the July 4th shooting had everybody scrambling through the shooter's Instagram in the hopes of identifying his ideology as The Other, and score a win for their side. The guy shot kids out at a parade, but. Whatever I or you think about the cultural practices of the parents, this is still their son. Our empathy should exceed the bounds of our ideology. So using this as an example, a point of outrage, and/or a lash of the whip to g… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/07/22 02:19 AM |
| 6 | “Women want rights so bad, so where’s my foreskin?”You've been told all your life that women always have it worse. That was a lie. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 12:53 AM |
| 4 | “Women want rights so bad, so where’s my foreskin?”Your objection is irrelevant. The statement that women have protection against genital mutilation for cultural purposes while men do not have the same protection is true. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 12:53 AM |
| 37 | “Women want rights so bad, so where’s my foreskin?”We literally have a lower lifespan than women but sure 'little to complain about'. Longer sentences for the same crimes. 92% of workplace deaths. Majority of the homeless. Twice as likely to be murdered. OECD report of 60 countries found that teachers give higher marks to girls than boys of the same ability. Conscription. And that doesn't even count an entire generation of boys being raised to that they're trash, that it's okay to say men should be killed, or mocked, or demeaned at any notice. E… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 12:49 AM |
| 3 | “Women want rights so bad, so where’s my foreskin?”I very much agree but I'm going to add more granularity by asking you to consider how little society cares about men's rights and the effect that has on individual men. Every day, men who have seen that which can't be unseen are faced with even more evidence that society doesn't care about men. Since Roe v Wade has been overturned, these men have seen America rise up in outrage and in firm support of women's bodily rights. Every day, they're seeing evidence of how **important* women are to their… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 12:44 AM |
| 2 | “Women want rights so bad, so where’s my foreskin?”I agree that we don't need to have circumcision made illegal before we care about women's access to safe abortions. However, the following is absolutely false: There is absolutely no link between circumcision and carrying/delivering a baby. Bodily autonomy is the CLEAR link between those two issues and you're doing yourself a disservice by pretending there isn't a link. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 12:34 AM |
| 5 | “Women want rights so bad, so where’s my foreskin?”Who votes for those who make the laws? Women. Which means politicians have even more incentive (beyond our existing gynocentric culture) to continue to not care about men while going out of their way to "protect women". This is a pattern repeated many times in our society. Men are left to fend for themselves while women are catered to. One example is the tens of thousands of scholarships, mentorships, school programs, and other opportunities that are female-only even though that women have been … | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 12:32 AM |
| 5 | “Women want rights so bad, so where’s my foreskin?”You should add the right for[men to own their own sperm. Because right now, we don't. However, I very much disagree with you about not caring about abortion rights. You know why I care? Because those are other human beings. The poor 18yo with an unwanted pregnancy didn't make the child support laws or create circumcisions as a cultural practice. So why take it out on her? Compassion is not only a noble virtue but a traditional male value. Why shirk your duty here? | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 12:26 AM |
| 7 | My first win!No man is an island. It's not relying on women; it's accepting the help of other human beings. Human beings who want to help. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/07/22 07:44 AM |
| 13 | My first win!Any man can write and sign off as a woman though. I hesitate to attribute /u/mypinksunglasses success to her gender. Look at the work she's done, most of it essentially anonymous. I've been dismissed from these discussions because of my gender too so I know where you're coming from but I think this success is entirely a result of pink's hard work. I know you didn't mean to diminish her work, fightorfreight, but I can see how it could be read as such and just wanted to make things clear. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/07/22 07:43 AM |
| 5 | Latam: The "Peperas" and the "Tomaseras" are women who seduce men and introduce sedatives into their drinks. They strip them of everything of value and throw them on the streets. Some of these men die. But this is not considered violence against men because of their condition of being men.Well mainly because of conversations like this So you admit that your opinion is not based on statistical fact? There are roughly a billion more men than women in the world. Yeah there isn't. See, this is the trouble you run into when you just make up facts and then base opinions on them. I suspect the troll comes out whenever you start "losing" (i.e., your worldview is threatened) in a discussion, right? | /r/MensRights | 05/07/22 06:16 AM |
| 5 | Latam: The "Peperas" and the "Tomaseras" are women who seduce men and introduce sedatives into their drinks. They strip them of everything of value and throw them on the streets. Some of these men die. But this is not considered violence against men because of their condition of being men.But men are more likely to be murdered or attacked by a stranger. Twice as likely in fact. So how is it you think women have it worse? | /r/MensRights | 04/07/22 11:13 PM |
| 0 | Why is it when men don't go down on a woman, they're unacceptably selfish lovers, but when women don't go down, it's an acceptable choice for something she doesn't enjoy doing?And yet they do. How many times have you gone down on a woman after she just showered or bathed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Why is it when men don't go down on a woman, they're unacceptably selfish lovers, but when women don't go down, it's an acceptable choice for something she doesn't enjoy doing?Yeah please do. LOL typical feminist. "Please censor the facts I don't like." You said it never happens and that's the only point at which I brought my personal experiences into play. There are plenty of men who don't complain Ooh, should I be like the men don't complain? Should I also only speak when spoken to? If you wanna compare personal experiences with oral sex being incredibly uncomfortable and even painful with certain people, women will be running circles around you in that fight. It's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 05:04 AM |
| 18 | Baby who bled for hours after circumcision was sent home from ER twice, suffered brain damage.This is terribly sad. It was all so unnecessary. That baby boy deserved better. It's also a failure of Canada's medical system. On a different note: I wonder the moral ethics of using this boy's story/trauma to create inactivist awareness in others, especially if it's used for fundraising efforts. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/07/22 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Why is it when men don't go down on a woman, they're unacceptably selfish lovers, but when women don't go down, it's an acceptable choice for something she doesn't enjoy doing?Why? Why do I have to eat and taste those fluids, get in nice 'n close, in order to continue to be attracted to women? Do all women have to swallow a guy's load too lest they also be condemned with a 'should probably stick to women' by you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 04:24 AM |
| 0 | Why is it when men don't go down on a woman, they're unacceptably selfish lovers, but when women don't go down, it's an acceptable choice for something she doesn't enjoy doing?If you wash it, it doesn't smell. Plenty of uncircumcised men do not clean their foreskin properly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Why is it when men don't go down on a woman, they're unacceptably selfish lovers, but when women don't go down, it's an acceptable choice for something she doesn't enjoy doing?When women wash, we don't smell particularly bad. I guess I'm just sensitive to smell then because I know this isn't true. It's not common but it's definitely fact. Wish you wouldn't say or imply that. I should censor my personal experience on behalf of your sensibilities? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Australia: Glamorous heiress, 45, charged with having sex with 14-year-old boy four times in one dayanother term for the left is anarchy uhuh i mean that's just something you said why would you expect me to take it seriously? the right is about order, equality and justice Uhuh that's why they were all for persecuting gay people in the 90's or saw AIDS as a god-sent plague upon the sinners in the 80's? All for their "family values" that looked down on divorce, the gays, even piercings for crissakes. You know not of what you speak. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/22 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Australia: Glamorous heiress, 45, charged with having sex with 14-year-old boy four times in one dayAre your politics right-wing? | /r/MensRights | 04/07/22 04:14 AM |
| 0 | Australia: Glamorous heiress, 45, charged with having sex with 14-year-old boy four times in one dayI never said anything about self-reliance or concerned with validation. Only you. Self-reliance is a great thing - in moderation. It's okay to ask for help and many men have been taught the opposite. This leads to them carrying too much of a load, causes stress, causes heart disease. Nobody should need validation from anyone else. It's nice to be recognized by your community or people you respect, though. And our lack of validation shouldn't mean we start caring about how our actions affect othe… | /r/MensRights | 04/07/22 04:12 AM |
| 10 | Latam: The "Peperas" and the "Tomaseras" are women who seduce men and introduce sedatives into their drinks. They strip them of everything of value and throw them on the streets. Some of these men die. But this is not considered violence against men because of their condition of being men.(1) You don't know these men weren't raped (2) Do you always think women have it worse? But MensRights sub wants us to feel bad It's still surprising how outraged feminists get when you ask them to feel empathy for men. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/22 04:03 AM |
| 5 | Journey Updates from (Extremely Former) RadFem MomMad respect to anyone who changes their mind about something this foundational, particularly if you're past your 20's (it gets harder and harder with each decade). Changing your mind hurts. It's a painful process. Anyone who disagrees with this has never changed their mind about something important to them imo. Another chunk of respect for how much you've been getting done. Calling these people and asking these questions makes people reconsidering their biases, if nothing else. Especially when i… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/07/22 03:59 AM |
| 3 | Journey Updates from (Extremely Former) RadFem MomAh, Donald Dutton! All I had was a Vancouver Sun article about him saying that "up to 75% of domestic violence is mutual violence" which really isn't a great stat because "up to 75%" includes 1%. Female partners of these men use 5–6 times the frequency of physical and severe psychological aggression of the men themselves (by the men's reports) and five–six times the controlling behaviors. And then 64% of them were told they were the "real batterer". | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/07/22 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Journey Updates from (Extremely Former) RadFem Mom64% of men who report domestic violence (as the victims) are treated by police as the perpetrators Do you have a source for that? It would be useful for me. Thanks! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/07/22 04:40 AM |
| 3 | Why is it when men don't go down on a woman, they're unacceptably selfish lovers, but when women don't go down, it's an acceptable choice for something she doesn't enjoy doing?There's a huge difference between both too. A dick is out there. It's accessible. It's an outie. We all have a sucking instinct somewhere in our brains so it's pleasurable for many people. If you wash it, it doesn't smell. The same can't be said for pussy. All that mucus. A guy's cum has some but it's mostly water. The same can't be said for the vaginal domain. As a bisexual guy, I've craved sucking some dick often enough. Rarely if ever felt the same desire to eat a woman out but that's obvious… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 03:02 AM |
| 5 | Sexist body shaming like this is never aimed at women, so why does LeftBook think it acceptable to be blatantly sexist and body shame and think that this kind of shit is okay?Because the feminists narrative is "Men hurt women", not "women hurt themselves". | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/07/22 02:48 AM |
| 4 | Australia: Glamorous heiress, 45, charged with having sex with 14-year-old boy four times in one dayI agree. That's why I don't align myself to the right or left but to humanity itself. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 01:48 AM |
| 3 | Australia: Glamorous heiress, 45, charged with having sex with 14-year-old boy four times in one dayJust because it can't stand feminism doesn't mean it's good for men. It's just bad for men in a different way than feminism. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 01:47 AM |
| 4 | Australia: Glamorous heiress, 45, charged with having sex with 14-year-old boy four times in one dayHow so? Conscription is supported, for one. It's good for men to go into the military for another. Men should do dangerous jobs. Men should be "Men!" and gender roles take away people's options, restricting their freedom. None of this good for men. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 01:47 AM |
| -11 | Australia: Glamorous heiress, 45, charged with having sex with 14-year-old boy four times in one dayHow does that effect or matter to the issue of right-wing's harm towards men? It's not a zero sum game. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 01:45 AM |
| 1 | #ARightMenShouldLoseI'm not even outraged anymore that these basic moral concepts that are otherwise embedded in our culture have to be explained, again and again, whenever they're supposed to apply to men. It's such an obvious, purposeful obtuseness that helps to reveal how biased towards women (and away from men) our society really is. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/07/22 11:27 PM |
| -52 | Australia: Glamorous heiress, 45, charged with having sex with 14-year-old boy four times in one dayThe comments were from right-wingers. That's the NY Post readership base and their comments showed their political bias. I know many people in this sub are right-wing which is confusing to me since the right wing actually cares about men as much as feminism does. Which is to say: not at all. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 11:19 PM |
| 8 | #ARightMenShouldLoseAnyone using this hashtag should be banned from Twitter if Twitter's ToS was applied consistently. It's hate speech. However, the retweets and likes are in the hundreds. Both of these are true. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 30/06/22 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekSure I'm still talking. I care that you're happy to write off 4 billion people as not-quite-human, as people without agency beyond your description of them. I don't want that for you. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekI suspect they matter because (you think) they respect you. And I don't need to matter. My ideas and arguments matter - as do yours. That's what's at stake here. If you can't prove what you say, if you can't show any evidence for it, if what you say is JUST AS VIABLE as the crazy cat lady because neither of you have provided a rational or reasonable response to enquiry, then you don't matter. That's how the adult world works. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekForcing (poor) women to grow a being they don't want inside their body is harming them. Even threatening to do that is harming them. It's utterly inhumane. I get why you spoke up about feminism. Feminism hurts men (and boys), every day. I get that. But we always have to hew towards our ideal, especially when facing a knot of resistance. That's not what's happening in this thread, so I spoke up. I think that puts us on the same footing but let me know if I'm wrong. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 08:37 AM |
| 4 | I told an HR administrator to stop saying that I (and male coworkers) belong to the Patriarchy. In fact I told her if she says it about me again I would sue.YES!! It's not hateful to stand up against hate. It's not oppressive to stand up for your rights. Other people's rights end where your rights begin. The patriarchy is a myth. Men don't have an in-group bias and wealth determines power, not gender. It's a fantasy to claim otherwise - irrational, unscientific, unsupportable. You have every right to denounce faith-based pronouncements that unfairly target a certain gender in the workplace. It's no different than a Christian HR rep braying on about … | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekWomen are not used to not getting what they want and taking accountability. Not a bigot, just speaking the truth, numbers don't lie. No, you don't get to slide this off. There are NO numbers that show that your first statement quoted above is true, by majority or the totality that you first stated. You are generalizing about 4 billion people and you don't have the data to back it up. Bigotry is a faith-based belief. Emotional and promiscuous do not go hand in hand. Desire is an emotion. Passion … | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekThey’re all the same. It's impossible for you to have talked and known 4 billion people. So you KNOW what you're saying is a lie. Where's your sense of honour? Where's your sense of pride? Is this what a man is, then? Someone who hides behind a lie? ....You know, I've talked to all kinds of bigots in my life. Misogynists, the KKK, FDS, etc. And they all sound like you. Why do you think your hate is so special? Why do you think you're any different than any other petty wanna-be despot? Real men e… | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekWhy we cant Pay evil with evil Because an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind. Feminists hurting men isn't wrong because they hurt men; they're wrong because they're hurting people. Hurting other people on the basis of their gender makes you just the same as the feminists. The difference in your targets is without distinction. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekFeminism hurts men, absolutely. That doesn't give men permission to hurt other people in return. After all, honour is a traditional male value. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekYou're just furthering the bad faith argument. until the fetus can live without literally physically depending on their body Once born, a baby can live without the mother. There's literally millions examples of even premature babies surviving. Until then, the fetus is a part of her body - which does not exclude the idea that the fetus is a body and person in and of itself, just that it's a body/life that is still part of the mother. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekI know exactly where I am, champ. If you think it's a good argument, you have to explain why. You don't get to just to state it. Otherwise, society would be chaos. Bert: "The Chicken God says your house is mine now." Ernie: "What chicken god? Where's your proof?" Bert: "I'm giving you a good argument for The Chicken God." Ernie: "Oh okay here's my house." Fair enough? We live in a society built on principles like burden of proof and the need for people to justify their opinions. If we abandon th… | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 06:40 AM |
| 13 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekYou can't say an argument can be made but then say it's a bad argument. If it's a bad argument then an argument CANNOT be made. Otherwise the phrase is meaningless as I can make an argument for practically anything imaginable. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 07:57 AM |
| 4 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekSecond of all, it is not a generalization if it is the truth. It can't be the truth because it's a generalization. You're describing SOME women, not ALL women, but acting as if you're describing all women anyways. That's the essence of bigotry. Don't be a bigot. And yes, if they have careless emotionless , promiscuous and unprotected sex and have a child, then that is taking responsability for your actions. Ooh so if they have very emotional but promiscuous sex, that's okay? What responsibilitie… | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 07:55 AM |
| 3 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekI respect women reproductive rights when they respect men's But how do you know which women respect men's reproductive rights and which don't? Are all Americans responsible for the slaughter of Iraqi civilians during both Iraq wars? Vietnam, same question. Just all of central America and upper South America: same fucking question. Judging all people for the actions of some is the essence of bigotry. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 07:51 AM |
| 50 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekThis is a great idea. Men don't legally own their sperm. A woman can impregnate herself with a man's sperm without his consent and then sue that man for child support. Men who have been raped and sued for child support always end up paying child support to their rapist. None of which means women deserve less bodily autonomy. I'm not speaking for men but because we're male humans who suffer unrecognized abused by society. It's an injustice. That's it. Thinking that women somehow deserve this rece… | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 07:49 AM |
| 2 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekYou know a baby can live without all those things so all you're really doing is demonstrating your failure to put together a cogent argument. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 07:44 AM |
| -5 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekThey’ve never cared about us, idk see why we should. The essence of bigotry is to treat the actions of some people as the fault of ALL people of that same type. It's simplistic. It's cowardice. Buck up and learn about what you're talking about because what you say matters. If you're just going to bray a hateful spray of shit, maybe just close your mouth and suck it up instead. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 07:43 AM |
| 19 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekHard agree. But... Comments like this are why people think the mens rights movement is about hating on women, not helping men. No, people who think that are (1) cherry-picking hateful comments that sometimes happen and (2) completely ignoring all the hateful comments in TwoX, niceguys, fragilemaleredditor, etc., etc., etc. Feminism always gets a pass on its hate but any hateful outliers in the MRM are instantly taken as the norm. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 07:40 AM |
| 8 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekI'm a men's advocate but I'm also a humanist and some of this shit is inhumane. Women are not used to not getting what they want and taking accountability. Beyond the irrational and unscientific generalization about women (read: demonization) that are for some reason accepted on this sub, you're suggesting that women being forced to bear an unwanted child is "taking accountability". Hey, /u/SecondEldenLord. I'm sure you've been well and truly fucked by our family law system in America but you're… | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 07:34 AM |
| 18 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekThere is no medical reason to circumcize. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 07:30 AM |
| -4 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekAs a generality, fair enough. Our society has not even begun to realize how barbaric circumcision is. However, there's a HUGE difference between circumcision and forced pregnancy and bad arguments make good movements look bad. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 07:27 AM |
| 1 | DeSantis quietly vetoes Custody & Child Support Reform ReformThanks! | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 06:16 AM |
| 8 | Why are men being blamed for the overturn of Roe v. Wade when recent surveys show that the majority of men AND women are pro-choice?Yeah it is all about religion. That's why they're blaming it on men; it's part of their religion to blame everything bad in society on men. It was strictly men who ruled in favour of Roe V. Wade. From what I've read over the last few days, it was a bit of a botched job mostly intended to stop raped women from being forced to bear their rapist's child. The expectation was that the federal government would legislate a positive right at a future date. That never happened. At first I'd guess it was … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/06/22 03:21 AM |
| 12 | Peak stupidity. Amy Coney Barrett is a woman, and Clarence Thomas is black. Roe v. Wade being overturned cannot be the fault of "old white men."More women vote than men, too. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 05:28 AM |
| 18 | DeSantis quietly vetoes Custody & Child Support Reform ReformBill vetoed because it would cancel pre-existing agreements that were unfair to men I'm not American, not Republican, pretty much despise DeSantis as a politician and a person and not divorced but I still thought Bill 1796 was a no-brainer. The highlights: Permanent alimony would be eliminated. Permanent alimony continues to be allowed. It prevented alimony from exceeding a father's income. Alimony can continue to exceed a father's income. A presumption that both parties will have a lower standa… | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 08:19 AM |
| 2 | We stand with American men and women in decrying the political ineptitude in protecting abortion rightsClass-consciousness. I think the only way we can achieve that is to develop a culture of self-honesty. We first-worlders live an unimaginably privileged lifestyle while 25,000 people die of starvation every day. A genocide of the global poor is happening and we're living our best lives. We have to take ownership of our birth privilege and build on that kind of emotional honesty. It's much harder to take the latest culture war as seriously when you start to factor in how many lives the newest fla… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/06/22 07:12 AM |
| 5 | We stand with American men and women in decrying the political ineptitude in protecting abortion rightsIt was a Left-vs-Right issue which tells how disassociated people are from their political identity. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/06/22 06:16 AM |
| 3 | Proposed Title IX regulations would roll back essential free speech, due process protections for college students#BelieveWomen Imagine a world where every accused man was afforded the skepticism and research that was applied to Tara Reade's claims by Democrats. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/06/22 04:26 AM |
| 5 | Any more studies on female in-group bias?looks around Are you asking me why the UN does something? Ask the UN. We already have a wealth of evidence here to the contrary so attaching the UN's name to a claim doesn't do anything for me. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/06/22 04:25 AM |
| 49 | We stand with American men and women in decrying the political ineptitude in protecting abortion rightsAs an egalitarian and progressive community, we advocate for equal rights for all, and for the legal protection of everyone's right to bodily autonomy. Which includes, in the case of equal rights, the right of men to abrogate personal and financial responsibility for a fetus and, in the case of bodily autonomy, to own their sperm so that women cannot use it without their permission. Otherwise, yeah. This decision boggles the mind. While I'm personally against abortion I'm firmly pro-choice becau… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/06/22 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Dating women as a woman has made me more sympathetic to the dating woes of men.Thanks ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Ex-wife of Microsoft exec who was shot and killed in front of his two-year-old daughter allegedly asked a tattoo shop worker if she knew anyone who could "shut him up"Hah, it was a jump only if one seriously suffers from mobility issues. It was a perfectly natural conclusion to draw but I'm glad to be corrected: All you have to do is explain what you meant. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 06:58 AM |
| 4 | Any more studies on female in-group bias?Thanks for this. However, you may want to reconsider https://doi.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037%2F0022-3514.87.4.494. The authors seem intent on proving that: (1) men are somehow defective for not irrationally preferring people of their own gender and (2) women are justified in being biased against men. The latter IS what will be the feminist response when this fact grabs the social consciousness: women prefer women because Men Are Bad. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/22 06:50 AM |
| 8 | Proposed Title IX regulations would roll back essential free speech, due process protections for college students"Who?" -- The DNC | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/22 06:10 AM |
| 0 | Ex-wife of Microsoft exec who was shot and killed in front of his two-year-old daughter allegedly asked a tattoo shop worker if she knew anyone who could "shut him up"Not sure what you're on about but it's a big hearty Naw from me if it includes "shutting off the 'care' gland" because that sounds like you're asking people to stop caring about women as people. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 02:13 AM |
| 6 | Ex-wife of Microsoft exec who was shot and killed in front of his two-year-old daughter allegedly asked a tattoo shop worker if she knew anyone who could "shut him up"Very often there is a female manipulator or conspirator compelling a man (often with false accusations of rape, sexual assault, child abuse or DV) or contracting a man to murder men without which the murder would not have taken place. Source? While I agree it can feel this way, it's not very rational to base my conclusions on feelings. Also I think you're making a great point here (outside of the conclusion that it's "very often") so it'd be great to have a source explaining how often this does … | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 02:09 AM |
| 2 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......lol are you seriously denying your privilege? People with Attractive Woman privilege lead exactly the kind of life feminists pretend that all men have. Even when things are "hard", people are nicer to you, are more likely to help you, are more likely to befriend you, are more likely to smile at you, are more likely to do what you need someone to do. I can't figure how anyone would actually deny that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 05:23 AM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......Other people have busted some of the myths in your post but what about the disadvantages of being a man? Men die sooner Men are the minority of college graduates (since 1982 in America) but still have access to more scholarships than men. Men are 94% of all workplace deaths Men are twice as likely to be murdered or attacked by a stranger (i.e., women should feel less afraid than you at night) Men receive longer sentences for the same crimes Teachers give higher marks to girls than boys of the sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 05:16 AM |
| 7 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......Nowhere do I see any propaganda for a 60 hour workweek Because after 40 years of Cold War propaganda, it didn't need to be seen anymore. It's baked into our culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 01:53 AM |
| 16 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......When you look at the intersection of race and crime in America, do you conclude that certain races "are the problem"? Of course not. The Left long ago chose to look at the socioeconomic conditions, the history and the current politics to determine WHY that is happening. Why is that when it comes to men all of that flies out the window? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Nation Takes Short Break From Telling Fathers That They're Useless, Easily Replaceable Idiotsjust for the lulz? | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 10:33 PM |
| 9 | Nation Takes Short Break From Telling Fathers That They're Useless, Easily Replaceable IdiotsThat's from 2021. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 06:53 AM |
| 101 | Nation Takes Short Break From Telling Fathers That They're Useless, Easily Replaceable IdiotsThis shouldn't have to be from a "conservative" satire site. Meanwhile, nothing about Father's Day at the Onion. I encourage critical thought so I checked out mother's day (also "mother day" which was more effective). There were two results for 2022. Greatest Moms in U.S. History and An Onion Gift Guide to Mother's Day, both of which are jokes. Jokes which firmly recognize that (1) Mother's Day exists and (2) mothers deserve respect on that day. Meanwhile, on Father's Day.... crickets | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 02:55 AM |
| 12 | Happy Father's day to the underappreciated dadsVery kind of you and I echo the sentiment to all underappreciated dads. Have you ever visited /r/DadForAMinute? There's a lot of great men there ready to support people without dads but need one to talk to. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/06/22 02:12 AM |
| 4 | I got this ban with this question: "I'm assuming 'kill all men' isn't literal. what is the history and definition of this statement?"In what way did men oppress women? Men were forced to go out and do the dangerous work while women were able to stay at home and watch their kids grow up. The only evident oppression is that the rich oppressed the poor. Why don't feminists ever talk about that? | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/06/22 02:11 AM |
| 21 | Incels exist because no one started social media campaigns for unconventional men. They were instead continuously ostracized and their insecurities made the butt of jokes.The "Nice Guy" meme is even more insidious since it deletes the chance of any guy being genuinely and positively described as a "nice guy", thereby reducing the (already few) ways in which men could be positively spoken. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/06/22 12:17 AM |
| 1 | "I’m surprised at how little women hate men, they should hate them more"I kinda suspected that might be the case but hey more people will be reading and thinking about what you're writing now and that's a good things for men's advocacy. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/06/22 03:43 AM |
| 2 | "I’m surprised at how little women hate men, they should hate them more"Who's Felicia? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 18/06/22 12:16 AM |
| 1 | "I’m surprised at how little women hate men, they should hate them more"Thanks for doing it. There's only so long people can deny the obvious truth. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/06/22 07:13 AM |
| 3 | "I’m surprised at how little women hate men, they should hate them more"I couldn't agree more with what you've said and am humbled by your density of thought. So please know what I've done below is in the spirit of ensuring your voice reaches as many people as possible. While I suspect you're not someone to be put off by a block of words, I've found that this is the case for the majority of Reddit users. So I've just opened up what you said with a bit of spacing and let it breathe in a way that's more appealing to Redditors and probably the majority of your audience… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/06/22 07:11 AM |
| 3 | "I’m surprised at how little women hate men, they should hate them more"More white people are killed by cops than black people. Yes it's disproportional but acting like police brutality doesn't affect white people is not only ignorant, it's disrespectful to the victims. Also, a society where it's socially acceptable to shit on white people but only ever be nothing but supportive towards every other race is harmful to white people. It has nothing to do with them being white and everything to do with them being people. Any group of human being is going to suffer under… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/06/22 07:01 AM |
| 1 | "I’m surprised at how little women hate men, they should hate them more"I use 'identity type' or 'identity group' for the same reason. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/06/22 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else realize that most women don't really respect progressive men?Are you black or raised in a black neighbourhood? I only ask because of who and where you linked. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/06/22 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Dating women as a woman has made me more sympathetic to the dating woes of men.Oh okay I didn't realize. Sorry about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 05:46 AM |
| 19 | Was called misogynist at work this week for keeping my door open when alone with girls and women.Those kinds of statements show how little feminists like Sandberg actually know about male culture. Despite being male, I will never be, and have never been, part of 'The Boys Club'. First off, I've never seen such a thing as a boy's club exist. However, I don't work in finance or in the C-suite ('near the Money River' as Vonnegut would say) so maybe they exist there and I don't know about it. However2 I still wouldn't be part of The Boys Club even if I did work in those places because I'm not a… | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 05:44 AM |
| 5 | Dating women as a woman has made me more sympathetic to the dating woes of men.Well sure. Easy choice though; gardening really isn't my jam. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 05:33 AM |
| 5 | Dating women as a woman has made me more sympathetic to the dating woes of men.Hypergamy exists independent of your belief in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 01:14 AM |
| 7 | Dating women as a woman has made me more sympathetic to the dating woes of men.hard to get along with. On the subject of disposability and evolutionary advantages, being cursed with the above trait means that other guys won't want to be around you and so would be less likely to have your back in dangerous situations. Of which there were many in ye days of caves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 01:10 AM |
| 0 | Dating women as a woman has made me more sympathetic to the dating woes of men.are completely fine with a walk in the park. As a counter to your rampant generalizations, a walk in the park was my wife's and my first date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else realize that most women don't really respect progressive men?No, I haven't. Our experiences very much differ. I wonder if this is cultural. Are you in / grew up in the American South? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/06/22 12:59 AM |
| 10 | Apex fallacy and the cringeworthy irrationality of RationalWiki.orgWe are fighting an uphill battle and we don't have the luxury of moderating the public discourse. We have to argue with idiots, calmly and persistently. I mean I find it helpful not to think of them idiots if I want to be calm but yes otherwise I completely agree. You did a great job repeating your requests and showing their hypocrisy. You did exactly what each of us needs to do where we can. Patiently and calmly. The judgement on GC was "He broke the rules but he's one of us so it's okay". They… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/06/22 01:48 AM |
| 14 | "I’m surprised at how little women hate men, they should hate them more"Thanks for this. Honestly I always feel unsure about pointing out examples of even what I consider to be explicit misandry because I'm both a skeptic and someone who wants to be fair as possible to everyone. I.e., I'm able to give a big "Good, it's not just me" sigh of relief. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/06/22 07:46 AM |
| 7 | "I’m surprised at how little women hate men, they should hate them more"Thanks! I updated my comment. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/06/22 06:04 AM |
| 4 | Sign in a shared restroom in Cleveland.This is why I do put the toilet seat down at night. My accidentally peeing on the toilet seat (never happened) is far less disastrous than my wife or daughters sitting down in the dark when the seat's not there. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/22 04:29 AM |
| 3 | Sign in a shared restroom in Cleveland.I remember seeing some list around 2016 of the top issues facing women and 'men not putting down the seat' was on there. Women need the toilet seat down but it's men's responsibility to ensure it's always in that position. If men always put the toilet seat down, then it's always in the position that women need. If women always put the toilet seat up, then it's in the position that men need most often. If both men and women are responsible for putting the seat in the position that they need then … | /r/MensRights | 10/06/22 04:27 AM |
| 1 | The Biggest Groups Fighting Florida's Bill (SB 1796) Ensuring 50/50 Equal Shared Physical Custody & Ending Permanent Alimony Are.........Yes, exactly like that. :D I tuck all wonderings like this into a 'secret history of the world' space in my brain where I can play with the possibilities and see if anything comes of it. It usually doesn't but it always helps to demarcate 'hypothesis' from 'theory'. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/06/22 03:58 AM |
| 2 | The Biggest Groups Fighting Florida's Bill (SB 1796) Ensuring 50/50 Equal Shared Physical Custody & Ending Permanent Alimony Are.........I didn't know that. So not really left on social policy either. For the time, maybe but it still pretty tepid for the 90's. I looked at the list of presidents during the previous comment and realized it was JFK (killed at the behest of an unknown group) Johnson (continued JFK's social programs but also Vietnam) Nixon (Republican to the core) Ford (Republican) Carter (Weak Democrat) Reagan Reagan Bush Clinton If we recognize the Republican domination after JFK was murdered, and then read the dire… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/06/22 03:12 AM |
| 7 | "I’m surprised at how little women hate men, they should hate them more"I know this is auto but I blacked out the sub and names in the pics to prevent any accusations of brigading and posted np links and encourage everyone to do the same. We have to be careful because people who cannot counter a logic that threatens their worldview will often abuse their power to silence dissent. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/06/22 03:05 AM |
| 47 | "I’m surprised at how little women hate men, they should hate them more"I know r/everydaymisandry exists but I thought this example was particularly clear and poignant. I was going to cross-post there but I can't. Has anybody else noticed that you can't cross-post to this sub? Or MensRights? Or everydaymisandry? Either I'm missing some fine point about Reddit's system [Edit: Yes, I am. See manfromearth's comment below.] or men's advocacy subs have been removed from my/our cross-posting options. Solutions to misandry on Reddit? Keep reporting explicitly hateful comme… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/06/22 02:46 AM |
| 12 | A website that claims to be about male advocacy but is transparently nothing but misandrist propagandaExactly. I'll find more naked hate against men in fourthwavewomen or trollx or niceguys or fragilemaleredditor than I'd see in MensRights ... ever, really. Never to the degree I see on those subs. But the story is that MRAs are hateful and in a story there's only villain, so if they're feminists they can't possibly be the hateful ones because that role has already been filled. Needs to be said there is sometimes more subtle hate on MensRights, and naked demonization too, and I wish the mods woul… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/06/22 11:18 PM |
| 1 | The Biggest Groups Fighting Florida's Bill (SB 1796) Ensuring 50/50 Equal Shared Physical Custody & Ending Permanent Alimony Are.........Clinton was arguably the first Democratic president to let the momentum of the Republican's economic momentum built during Reagan and Bush to keep on riding with his "third way" (neoliberalism). Clinton is really underrated as an evil President. He (and/or the political cabal behind his campaign and Presidency) redefined what "Democrat" meant in America. Without him, we'd never have Biden and we would have had Sanders in 2016 (or sooner) because what Hilary Clinton was offering was even more to … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/06/22 11:02 PM |
| 28 | Why is it normalized for men to be in fear of their wives or submissive and at their beck and call?why are these men, many of them very desirable and attractive guys, happily adopting this subservient role? So we're talking about Gen X and Millennials here, right? These are the first generations in which feminism was no longer just an ideology to be considered but an axiom to accept. Feminism offers two choices: submit or resist. If you resist, you're scum. Obviously. However, if you submit you've committed to accept whatever description feminism cares to apply to men. Feminism is OBVIOUSLY h… | /r/MensRights | 09/06/22 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Women are not the romantic gender, men are.Ahahah, fuck me. Great point. (The title, at least. I don't agree with most of the bottom bit of your comment.) Hyper-agency and hypo-agency. It just keeps coming up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 07:45 AM |
| 7 | A website that claims to be about male advocacy but is transparently nothing but misandrist propagandaHere, I happen to have a packet of Bad Faith No More that should do the trick. Don't worry; it's the real thing. P.s. I googled 'bad faith' in search of puns and came across the wiki for bad faith as an existentialist concept. Sartre used two examples: a waiter and a woman on a date. His views on the latter show a conscious observation of the tendency for hypo-agency in women. Another of Sartre's examples involves a young woman on a first date. As he takes her hand, she lets it rest indifferentl… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/06/22 07:20 AM |
| 9 | A website that claims to be about male advocacy but is transparently nothing but misandrist propagandaAnybody who criticizes or doubts feminism is a "Men's Rights Activist". It's the 'feminazi' of the 2010's and early 20's. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/06/22 07:13 AM |
| 11 | A website that claims to be about male advocacy but is transparently nothing but misandrist propagandaI think #1 means that you believe in the gender wage gap as conceptualized by feminism, and have no problem with it. In the sense that the "gender wage gap" is a result of women choosing / being afforded the choice to work less hours, to achieve a work/life balance, and to stay home to watch your children grow up, see their first steps, hear their first words and form a bond that is (I'm sorry to say) simply not possible with a parent who only gets to spend 3ish hours with them a day when young?… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/06/22 07:12 AM |
| 3 | The Biggest Groups Fighting Florida's Bill (SB 1796) Ensuring 50/50 Equal Shared Physical Custody & Ending Permanent Alimony Are.........Thanks so much! Honestly I've been trying to screw up the courage and self-confidence to start a blog or newsletter about left wing male advocacy so your appreciation is very much appreciated :) I've been stunned since I've started down a path for explanation as to what's happened to me and my kids in family court. Eye opening to say the least. There's been a lot to absorb since I shed my guilt for doubting feminist axioms and I have to admit that I'm only recently dipping into men's rights wrt … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/06/22 06:44 AM |
| 30 | A website that claims to be about male advocacy but is transparently nothing but misandrist propagandaHere's a gem: 11 signs that you might be a Men's Rights Activist Heaven forfend! I'll save you a click: if you're a horrible person who hates women, you're a Men's Rights Activist. (The 'brand' is tainted, though. I refer to myself as a men's advocate or an advocate for men instead.) Thanks for the link! It's always useful to get examples of naked feminist hate. Feminists have taught, and been taught, that it's not wrong to hate men for so long that they're not even shy about it anymore. There's… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/06/22 05:20 AM |
| 7 | The Biggest Groups Fighting Florida's Bill (SB 1796) Ensuring 50/50 Equal Shared Physical Custody & Ending Permanent Alimony Are.........From the NOW statement: We fear this bill will come with body count for children in Florida. Jesus, they're really not afraid to exploit humanity's natural desire to protect children for their own political goals, are they? Very much like conservatives in that regard. The NOW statement is two arguments "arguments". First, they claim that alimony doesn't need to be changed and that cancelling existing alimony "agreements" would be unconstitutional and "sets a dangerous precedent for contractual a… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/06/22 10:26 PM |
| 4 | Not to take away from the other issues but…But the societal consensus on geopolitics is that every country that resists American power is barbaric and murderous, and we're supposed to uncritically accept that? My criticism of China has nothing to do with America and everything to do with China. I do think you're suffering from uncritical acceptance of propaganda, though. ...Or are being paid to induce that in others. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/06/22 01:59 AM |
| 4 | Not to take away from the other issues but…It's about the reason I don't like them, not the fact. And leftism isn't just an economic position, no. If that were true, the term 'brosocialist' wouldn't exist. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/06/22 01:56 AM |
| 3 | Any study that shows that money doesn't affect dating like women claim nowadays?Just look up studies on "hypergamy" and you'll find a lot. For instance, women have more orgasms from sex with a rich man. I got that one in this very sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 03:30 AM |
| 19 | Not to take away from the other issues but…...Yeah, I'm a leftist which means I don't support barbaric, murderous regimes like China. Tankies aren't leftists. They're left-leaning authoritarians. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/06/22 03:21 AM |
| 3 | r/news is censoring resources for male victims of domestic violence because they are associated with men's rights groupsCan I have that source? It wasn't immediately obvious when I did quick search. Thanks! | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 01:38 AM |
| 5 | 25$ billion (and more to come) to be transferred to women's pockets. The only reason student debt is on the table is because it affects women. 70% of student loans are held by women.Women graduating with a bachelor’s degree expect to earn $35,338 on average. That’s 20 percent less than men. But there's not a swath of homeless women on the streets. Why does feminism never wonder why that is? Could it be that many women graduating with a bachelor's degree have met the man they will marry, a man who then goes on to earn much more than $35,000 a year and becomes the household's primary income provider. Isn't it interesting how social benefits for women are so often used by femi… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 01:30 AM |
| 10 | r/news is censoring resources for male victims of domestic violence because they are associated with men's rights groupsThanks! I've banned from worldnews. They won't tell me why. I assume it's because I criticized feminism. That's what most my bans are for. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/22 05:03 AM |
| 5 | Women of PPD. How many of you are single?That's the nice version? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 03:53 AM |
| 11 | Feminist alternative reality on Depp vs Heard trialI'm looking forward to our feminist media now referring to Depp as a "survivor". Disney just announced a new cameo in Guardians of the Galaxy 4! Johnny Depp, survivor, will now be playing a trans-dimensional sushi chef in Marvel's latest.... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/06/22 03:50 AM |
| 9 | Feminist alternative reality on Depp vs Heard trial...unconditionally. "Who the fuck is going to believe us unconditionally", Anita. If you know who she is, you'll understand how important is it to Anita Sarkeesian to be believed unconditionally. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/06/22 03:48 AM |
| 8 | Heard Blasted Over Statement: ‘Doesn’t Realize How Much Damage Her Lies Have Done’ To ‘Abuse Victims’That's because in feminist minds, EVERYTHING is only a matter of "good for women" or "bad for women". Good for men = It's bad for women. Good for women = It doesn't matter if it's bad for men. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/22 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Being a white male isn’t automatically playing life on easy mode per seI put "definitely" in bold for a reason. There's serial killers out there too. That doesn't mean I'm going to get murdered. I'm more likely to encounter a bear than a hate crime. Like I said: Definite benefit vs. possible harm. It's gaslighting to pretend that being a billionaire could in any way be "off-set" by their race, gender or sexuality. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/06/22 01:58 AM |
| 3 | An open invitation for a roundtable to the feminists of redditI don't acknowledge silent rules. People should be taken at face value. Not only is it the human thing to do, it's also a great way to expose hypocrisy. Benevolent machiavellianism ftw! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/06/22 01:53 AM |
| 6 | An open invitation for a roundtable to the feminists of redditAccording to them, you’re only allowed to think in the parameters of what they accept. Yes. They're much like capitalists this way. Economic solutions can only exist within capitalism and the methods themselves must always prioritize profit (and those who get the lion's share of it) over the welfare over the other 90%. get you to be frustrated to where you blow up and “now I don’t feel safe” after they harass and berate someone. I've been noticing this since grade school and it's something that … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/06/22 01:51 AM |
| 30 | An open invitation for a roundtable to the feminists of reddit39 recorded bombings in one year, including churches, mailboxes and a train. They burned down residential houses too, threatening the lives of not only the children of their targets but the families of everyone surrounding their targets, given the (lack of) fire codes in 1913 Britain. Oh, and burned down a hospital. ...and tried to bomb a reservoir to flood a populated valleys below with 138 million gallons of water but the bomb didn't go off. That wiki is a hell of a read. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/22 01:52 PM |
| 12 | An open invitation for a roundtable to the feminists of redditI've been very vocal in PurplePillDebate and I've yet to be banned. The nice about there is that you can help balance out both sides of the extreme. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/22 01:09 PM |
| 14 | An open invitation for a roundtable to the feminists of redditI think this is a fantastic idea and I immediately offer my services. I've been debating/discussing online for over 20 years and have a cogent reply for every major feminist argument. I've been banned from every feminist sub on this site and I've never broken one of their rules. I know how to build bridges instead of fences but also how to hold the line and snap back when necessary. However, I simply cannot pretend the patriarchy exists. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/22 01:06 PM |
| 7 | Being a white male isn’t automatically playing life on easy mode per seSecond, race is most definitely a factor for well-being. Especially in Canada. Being the right race means you get free dental care, eye care, prescriptions, diabetes equipment as well as subsidized wages to make you more hireable, being able to hunt without restriction and even brand new racially-segregated schools that only 4% of the population can attend. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/22 05:35 AM |
| 8 | Being a white male isn’t automatically playing life on easy mode per seI just started a new job that is in a rural conservative area. I instantly get a lot of respect in the workplace relative to the women there. I can go in and talk to anyone in the C-suite at my leisure. I'm a guy. I could never 'go in and talk to anyone in the C-suite at my leisure' because I'm not that kind of guy. Having a penis doesn't instantly give you access. You have to be the right kind of penis. Also, what tool are you using to measure the respect you're getting and your female co-worke… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/22 05:31 AM |
| 7 | Being a white male isn’t automatically playing life on easy mode per seWhat disadvantages would he definitely suffer if he were gay, black and a woman? Because I already know the advantages he would definitely get with a billion dollars and I think the only thing you can bring to the table are probabilities. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/22 05:26 AM |
| 14 | Being a white male isn’t automatically playing life on easy mode per seI can think of very few disadvantages of being white in western society. In Canada, provincial governments would vaccinate 18 yo indigenous kids before non-indigenous 75 yo's with high-risk medical conditions. This undoubtedly killed non-indigenous seniors across Canada. 94% of COVID deaths from Canada are from people 65+ so no, this wasn't about need. Only 1/3 of indigenous communities are remote, so no, this wasn't about that either. I understand this isn't just "white" (75% of Canadians) but … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/22 05:25 AM |
| 12 | No matter the "pill" you take as a man, in the long run it is no match for the nit-picky nature of womenFrom your source: The present study assessed the extent to which these gender differences held in a sample of 486 older adults, ranging in age from 65-98 I'm not kink-shaming you but your sexual preferences for elderly women makes your opinions on "pills" irrelevant to most of the sub. You do you though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 02:41 AM |
| 24 | Unhappy Memorial DayAll of it was sacrificed so that we could continue to live in one of the wealthiest and most powerful nations on the planet. And what about everyone else in the world? All those men (and women, and children)? At no other time in history have we been as healthy, educated or free as we are right now. This was in no small part due to the millions of boys and men who were slain on the battlefield. In the sense that since the 1950's America has used its armed forces largely to suppress, invade and op… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/05/22 08:26 AM |
| -4 | Why are women objectified in your opinion?fungible Ugh. Human beings aren't products or goods. We deserve more than to be spoken about this way. It's especially atrocious given the context, which is that capitalism is specifically responsible for the deaths of the ~60,000 people since we started this conversation. Treating people as "fungible" is treating them shittily because every single person is unique, more so than any grain of sand or, dare I say it, snowflake. We all have something unique to offer the world and it's the world's r… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/05/22 08:12 AM |
| 0 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.Anyone in the PPD long enough knows what women these guys have in mind This is the nexus of your assumption. I can't explore it for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 08:07 AM |
| 1 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.I don't think they're making a good point and I think the way they're making their lack of a good point is dehumanizing so I'm going to call it out. offended on someone else's behalf. Commonly known as empathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 08:03 AM |
| 8 | Men who are fathers, i implore you, please pay attention to what the world is teaching your kids. It is not pretty at all.Feminist critical theory is really the only acceptable form of feminism in school because it's recognized as just one way to interpret a text. It's more of a mental exercise and not really like your usual feminist propaganda. I mean we're talking about the same academic discipline that talks about the unconscious of the text itself. This isn't really about social justice type feminism but critical lit. If you go far enough in, sure, it gets lost up its own ass but at a high-school level, it's no… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/05/22 06:43 AM |
| 0 | You're just not compatible with each otherAh, I see you're not familiar with history because there was no point in time when all men decided something for all women. The rich decided the laws and exploited the 99%. Nobody had ANY universal rights until MEN DIED FOR THEM. Funny how entitled women are about rights for which they have rarely fought and died. Funny how men think they’re entitled to things they won’t even give women Except, you know, that time men did? Men absolutely gave rights to women. ...How else do you think women got t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 06:21 AM |
| 6 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.Needed to be said as they often speak about their experience as it has any significant insight or impact on the point being discussed. Oh and now you're dehumanizing them. ...And they deserve to be dehumanized, if I understand you correct, because according to you "they aren't the sort of girls most guys are going to pursuing (sick )? Why do you think it's okay to speak about people like that, let alone someone who's just commented on this thread in a public forum? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 06:12 AM |
| 1 | A man walks into a hospital...Haha you should check out the wiki for Fourth Wave Feminism. It doesn't even pretend to be objective. Fourth-wave feminism became a movement for women to speak up and share their experiences online about sexual abuse, sexual harassment, sexual violence, the objectification of women, and sexism in the workplace. The internet gave women the opportunity for their voices to be heard around the world in a matter of seconds. Social media offered women the opportunity to speak freely about sensitive to… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/05/22 05:57 AM |
| 6 | Why are women objectified in your opinion?Except that's not what that number means. It's the number of people with whom one can maintain a stable relationship with: —relationships in which an individual knows who each person is and how each person relates to every other person Either way, I have serious doubts about this 'number' Dunbar explained it informally as "the number of people you would not feel embarrassed about joining uninvited for a drink if you happened to bump into them in a bar." I wouldn't feel comfortable about doing th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/05/22 05:43 AM |
| 10 | Why are women objectified in your opinion?I think you'd have to first show there's a "blatant objectification" of women. If a women wears a sexy outfit out in public, and men notice her, is that objectification? By what exact process do men turn women into objects when they think or look at them sexually? Prove that men see women as objects, and then explain how that's different than women looking at men for romance, or as an income provider, or as "her emotional rock"? Men do 99% of the hard, dirty and dangerous jobs in the world. Thei… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/05/22 05:35 AM |
| 3 | This sub may be perceived, as a “Incel” community.It doesn't exist. "Web 2.0" is in every way worse than its previous incarnation. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/05/22 05:27 AM |
| 4 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.This feels very PUA. You're making massive generalizations about women here. Secondly, don't encourage bad social behaviour. If women aren't interested in a guy they should have the integrity to say so. It's not up to guys to always "read the signals". Third, not everybody values texts this highly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 05:25 AM |
| 13 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.Well that's one way to call a random stranger ugly for no good reason at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 05:22 AM |
| 49 | Why do feminists defend Amber Heard?I was in another feminist thread earlier where they were complaining about this trial 'constantly coming up on my social media feed!'. They were disgusted that a narrative repugnant to their own kept on appearing on their social media feed, something that anti-feminists and male advocates see constantly but which they are not used to experiencing. I also saw claim that "JD being made to look good is just a result of his publicity team". The whole thing must be quite a shock their system, poor de… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/05/22 05:56 AM |
| 2 | You're just not compatible with each otherNo one is "entitled" to anything: Sure we are. We're all entitled to a basic modicum of respect, something that feminists refuse to give men. And we're all entitled to our universal rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 02:57 AM |
| 4 | FEMINIST gets triggered by watching "Depp v Heard" videosFeminism is a religion. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/22 02:56 AM |
| 6 | A man walks into a hospital...Damn, at first I thought this was a men's advocacy joke, playing on the idea that doctors don't take men seriously when they talk about their depression and just sideline the issue into something else. INSTEAD, it was a joke about how men "act like pussies" whenever they're sick. There was a big article once on my work's intranet about the "man flu" and how men supposedly acted more sick than they really are. However, it turned out that men really do feel the symptoms of a flu more than women! I… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/05/22 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Gotta love the sexist double standard on display in the new Thor trailerWhy do you pretend that there's not a large, vocal section of the Left that weaponizes "social justice", opposes free speech, is against worker's rights (cancelling someone is against their worker's rights) or any number of actions, behaviours and ideals that are antithetical to the Left? Acting like the woke don't exist makes you a guppy, buddy. They clearly do; you've just been convinced they don't because then they're even harder to criticize than they already are. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/22 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Gotta love the sexist double standard on display in the new Thor trailerMy personal favourites are Kate Bishop with special guest star Hawkeye and The adventures of Sylvie as female Loki guest staring Tom Hiddleston. Interesting... This was my conclusion about the last season of The Witcher, too. He felt like a side character in his show so they could focus on the female characters. Thanks for the recommendation. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/22 12:19 AM |
| 0 | This “small subset” of women who claim to be struggling could hop on Reddit right now and have their pick of the litter but they won’t do it. That’s an option most men will NEVER haveIt is your personal opinion because you have made a claim about this sub but cannot point to any hard evidence substantiating that claim. That makes it your personal opinion, yes. I don't care about the actual content of this discussion; I just wanted to point out that's a piss-poor argument you're brandishing there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 05:51 AM |
| 5 | Gotta love the sexist double standard on display in the new Thor trailer"this is how you made us feel, doesn't feel good now, does it?" Who is 'you'? You're talking to a very small group who decides what's said or done in movies, not "men" in general. Check your classism and stop pretending the poor have power just because they're men. I'm just real tired of going out to see a movie and then there's r+pe in the background, Jesus, stop lying to yourself. You're obviously exaggerating in order to feed your own victim narrative. | /r/MensRights | 26/05/22 05:48 AM |
| 18 | Gotta love the sexist double standard on display in the new Thor trailerThey're letting women watching the trailer do what they characters are doing in the trailer: "objectifying" Chris Hemsworth. | /r/MensRights | 26/05/22 05:42 AM |
| 6 | Gotta love the sexist double standard on display in the new Thor trailerDo you have some examples? | /r/MensRights | 26/05/22 05:41 AM |
| 9 | [CMV] One of the best ways for guys to get better at talking & flirting with women is to talk to women.I think a lot of guys who have trouble with women have social anxiety, are afraid of rejection, and have a huge fear of rejection. The best way to learn is through experience. This is like saying "Depressed people should be more happy". It's minimizing the reality of social anxiety and the past trauma of social rejection. Now, I'm not saying this why every guy is afraid of rejection, but I want to share all the ways I've been hurt because social rejection: Primary School Gang-beaten by a group o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Is being good with women and sex just something you're born with like height? you either have it or you don't?You like eachother being yourselves or you don't. Playing games dancing around that is due to fear of inadequacy and rejection. I agree but would like to add that playing games actually lowers your chances because (1) people recoil from falsity and (2) you can't maintain a consistent false facade unless you're a sociopath so it's just going to come off as off. Just be you. Even aside from the dating advice, being yourself makes life FAR more joyful. Revel in who you are, as long as it harms none… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 06:37 AM |
| 0 | Is being good with women and sex just something you're born with like height? you either have it or you don't?Hardly. The point is that being yourself ensures that only the right one gets in. Do you have any hobbies or interests? Art? Technical? Mechanical? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Is being good with women and sex just something you're born with like height? you either have it or you don't?K, then just "love yourself". Wasting each unretrievable hour doing the same as the day both next and past is an issue in and of itself. When I met my wife, I loved myself. I had been beaten and abused as a child but I could lay those experiences to rest because they made me who I am, and I loved who I was. If all you do is smoke weed and play video games, message me. Let's talk about how to set you on a journey to self-realization. (And I can speak about the weed too, as one of those rare peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Men with college degrees have far wider and more frequent dating options.I'm pleasantly surprised and glad to be able to help. If you're someone able to re-think their positions like this then I don't see any reason you're not someone able to form a lasting relationship. Also I picked those two hobbies because they're both very chill and friendly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 06:15 AM |
| 2 | What other socially acceptable ways to pickup women?Thanks for confirming what I suspected would be at least one of the responses. Men get The Shrug a lot in their lives. Don't think it's fair to always pay for dates? Shrug Don't want to slave away at a job you hate all your life when in 2/3rds of the households in America women have the option of working? Shrug. Don't think it's right that society cares more about women than men? Shrug. Don't want to organize your life on what the majority of women seem to want? Shrug. Meanwhile, society moves h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 06:14 AM |
| 7 | Is no one else annoyed by the Nude scene in the Thor "Love and Thunder" Trailer and the blatant double standards and hypocrisy it represents ?Oh like I said, it may be what kicked it off but I wasn't well-liked or sociable so it was inevitable anyways, in retrospect. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/22 06:07 AM |
| 22 | Two X Literally Creates a Hate Post, and Reddit Says It Is Not HateI wish that ALL women in the West would coordinate an Iceland-style strike where women just sit down for a day and do nothing. If men did the same, our system would also shut down. The fact is that almost all of us are exploited for our labour and that what she is describing is a general strike and would be REVOLUTIONARY. The impact of all workers uniting and asserting their power over the 1% would ring for generations to come. ...But no. This is about, ugh, men keeping women down, despite the m… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/05/22 03:59 AM |
| 57 | Is no one else annoyed by the Nude scene in the Thor "Love and Thunder" Trailer and the blatant double standards and hypocrisy it represents ?I remember a feminist co-worker talking to me about GoT and how she hoped the (fifth?) season would finally stop 'glorifying rape'. In a fit of rationality, I said 'Yeah then we can get back to enjoying a show about killing and mutilating men'. The Pikachu-iest surprise face of all surprised faces. I was persona non grata after that and may be what kicked off the female-dominated workplace's gossip campaign against me that eventually forced me to leave a job with good pay, good benefits, and tha… | /r/MensRights | 25/05/22 03:06 AM |
| 19 | Is no one else annoyed by the Nude scene in the Thor "Love and Thunder" Trailer and the blatant double standards and hypocrisy it represents ?Sounds like a Feminist Nightmare Wet Dream if it was the other way around. I think you accidentally misunderstood feminism's priorities there for a second. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/22 02:59 AM |
| 8 | In light of Chris Hemsworth’s nudity in the trailer of Thor: Love And Thunder, I think it’s worth asking why the notion that female sexualization is wrong was immediately followed by copious amounts of male nudityYou can see the change in Hollywood movies. In the 60's - 70's, a 'fit' guy had nowhere near the muscle tone that came with the 80's action movies and its bodybuilder stars. The ideal has become more and more unachievable, even for guys who tend to be naturally fit. For the rest of us, fuggedaboudit. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/05/22 02:26 AM |
| 27 | In light of Chris Hemsworth’s nudity in the trailer of Thor: Love And Thunder, I think it’s worth asking why the notion that female sexualization is wrong was immediately followed by copious amounts of male nudityThis really bothered me when I was in an office environment. It was fine for women to wear yoga pants tight enough to reveal their vulva but then at Halloween HR made a big deal about "appropriate costumes" and used a man wearing 'Batman tights' as the example. Yoga pants would have been lingerie 35 years ago. They're so tight that it's nudity without the skin tone. They would only be acceptable at the peak of the Noughties sex-positivity era, which is when they started being worn everywhere. If… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/05/22 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Feminists have invented a new term for false accusers: “imperfect victim.”All men are "imperfect victims" because men are never supposed to be victims within feminism. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/22 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Is being good with women and sex just something you're born with like height? you either have it or you don't?The point isn't to have a girl interested in you but to have the right girl interested in you and the only way to do that is to be yourself. You can't find a match for who you are if you aren't being who you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Is being good with women and sex just something you're born with like height? you either have it or you don't?Especially a man who isn’t popular with women. No such thing, because it presumes that all women are an identifiable bloc instead of 4 billion different people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 09:03 AM |
| 0 | Is being good with women and sex just something you're born with like height? you either have it or you don't?If that's truly the case (which I frankly doubt - being who you are requires a long and sometimes painful journey), you're either thoughtless to their feelings or not actually being who you are. Blaming women is an easy out because there are ALWAYS women who defy the portrait you paint of them. (You know why I know that? Because I defy the portrait painted of men.) If your criteria solely becomes those women who accept you for you, how successful would you be in finding that life partner? This m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Is being good with women and sex just something you're born with like height? you either have it or you don't?Yes, it absolutely does. Every one of us is unique - moreso than any individual grain of sand - and we cannot hope to find a compatible presence to ours unless we are honest about who we are. I knew who I was; I liked who I was; I acted as myself. How else would I attract someone who could fit into my fractal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 08:47 AM |
| -1 | Is being good with women and sex just something you're born with like height? you either have it or you don't?It's likely not going to happen There it is! The Assumption. 'It probably won't happen to you' because it's easier to kill hope than to live with it. It worked for you because you met a woman who really liked you from the jump Exactly! You can't find someone who likes you for you unless you are being you. Say 'fuck it' to all the rest of the advice because getting people to like a version of you traps you in that guise forever. Just be you because that's the only way to attract the person who li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Men with college degrees have far wider and more frequent dating options.Women swipe on around 1 out of 20 men on dating apps. How many women use dating apps? Which dating apps were measured? it’s absolutely true that women as a whole go for the same 20% or so of men that have a combination of immutable traits. Except no it isn't. I see the evidence of this all around me. I'm surrounded by guys of average or less-than-average looks who are nevertheless married. I'm beginning to suspect you and others like you are living in either a megacity or a very large city or yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 08:24 AM |
| 2 | Men with college degrees have far wider and more frequent dating options.I'll bet you dollars-to-doughnuts that guys YOU think are "average" would be rated as "attractive" by the majority of women. I'm a bisexual man and I'm constantly surprised at who my wife, her friends and my female friends will rate as an attractive man. Women's standards for men attractive enough to date are far "lower" than most men think. If you think I'm wrong about this, first ask yourself how many times you've talked to 'regular women' about this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Is being good with women and sex just something you're born with like height? you either have it or you don't?Ooh talk about bad faith interpretations. The point was exactly that I didn't "win the lottery". I was just myself. Your attitude that you're fucked anyways is a defence mechanism to protect yourself against failure. It's also a great way to waste the only life you get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 06:49 AM |
| 8 | What men usually say when they approach you?Most men just look at me with a starstruck face and don’t talk to me lol. That means you're very attractive. Sometimes we are literally struck dumb by a woman's beauty and it's usually not sexual at all. Some people are curiously pleasant to look at but you know that staring is rude so you don't look. Honestly, it would be interesting to be able to look long enough to be able to sound out within why those feelings exist and are provoked by physical beauty. Not at the expense of anyone's comfort,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 06:43 AM |
| 7 | Is being good with women and sex just something you're born with like height? you either have it or you don't?Most women are going to look at you as a menace because "you don't get it". And the "it" is actually referring to the dating experience many women expect. A man is supposed to play certain roles, act in certain ways, and if he does that in a delightful enough way, he's rewarded with sex. (Eventually.) See, the thing is that this is a bad-faith reading of how people act. It's no different than a feminist saying that men are only nice to women so they can get in their pants because it's bad-faith … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Men with college degrees have far wider and more frequent dating options.average people get married all the time, because women do eventually settle. Women "settling" for average men implies that all women are above-average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Amidst talks of body positivity Shoe0nHead points out some hypocrisyBruh literally tell me how many men you know that have girlfriends, then count what fraction of them look like Thor. You are confusing expectation with idealization. We’re all the way back to what I said five comments ago. Yes, but only because you just ignored what I said and restated your thesis. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/22 04:48 AM |
| 1 | What other socially acceptable ways to pickup women?So why shouldn't men use online dating? I've missed this reasoning and I'm simply fascinated to know whether it's feminists restricting men's choices or TRP/PUA culture saying it's somehow debasing to men for them to use online dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:11 PM |
| 5 | What other socially acceptable ways to pickup women?Don't interrupt, corner or pester people is good advice. However, much of what you say makes many assumptions. if you get indications of interest People like you always say this as if it's natural as breathing or can eventually be picked up on like walking. It represents a steadfast refusal to listen to all the men who say that you (and pretty much all women) are asking them to speak in a language they don't understand. Moreover, society's attitude seems to be a big "fuck you" towards all the me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | What other socially acceptable ways to pickup women?Well shit. I always wondered about this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 08:55 PM |
| 12 | Has anybody else noticed that the tumblrinaction sub has become a TERF haven?TiA has always hosted both critique of trans activism and its assumptions and what I would say was legitimate transphobia. That's probably what led to the TERFs (or they're agent provacateurs trying to get the sub banned). TumblrinAction was a great lesson for me because I posted there in quite a lot when I started writing on Reddit. There was no other sub that I knew of at the time that would allow any criticism of identity politics or feminism (even r/stupidpol didn't exist then) so I argued w… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/05/22 07:21 AM |
| 9 | Amidst talks of body positivity Shoe0nHead points out some hypocrisyI’m a man so I doubt it? You've never heard of a self-hating Jewish person? Male feminists are just as likely as any other feminist to ignore men in favour of what feminism says on the subject. Which is ironic because feminism was saying exactly what I'm saying about men (but of course for only women) in the 90's, which was when men's sexual attraction to women became 'men objectifying women'. Having women's models who look like the men's underwear models in OP was made it axiomatic that: (1) me… | /r/MensRights | 23/05/22 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Why are some people content with sexlessness?How is it weird that you'd have a hard time moving on after your husband of many years (in the majority of these "many women") passes away? Or that a statistically older woman wouldn't marry again late in her life? Feels like this argument needs some help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 06:37 AM |
| 19 | Why are some people content with sexlessness?That lot is that they will likely never feel the touch of a woman for the rest of their lives. This is something the vast majority of women will never understand because they are able to access the touch of a man pretty much whenever they'd like. It creates a difference in psychology. Just like how men have no hope of an 'out' to working every day of their lives while women tend to marry upwards financially and so go to college knowing they have that chance of an out. Even just the probability o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 03:18 AM |
| 4 | Why are some people content with sexlessness?Wow, you're super judgemental. Why is a guy an "incel" just because he doesn't actively chase sex with women like you? You act like they're the freaks when I rather think it's you that does use relationships and sex as an unhealthy form of self-medication. As an aside, ever consider sex with guys? It's far more straightforward and generally available. Some guys are happy just giving a heteroflexible guy a blowjob. Just throwing it out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 03:12 AM |
| 18 | Amidst talks of body positivity Shoe0nHead points out some hypocrisyI think y'all "refuse to believe men's lived experiences". | /r/MensRights | 23/05/22 03:05 AM |
| 33 | Why is r/askfeminists so intellectually dishonest?It's a hate sub. It exists so feminists can gather there and shit on men. There's far too many upvoted questions where they're feminists about why men do this or that, which is just a set-up for feminists complaining about men. There's quite a few of these subs on Reddit - niceguys, trollx, twox, fragilemaleredditor, againstmensrights, witchesvspatriarchy, the list goes on and on. I'm subbed to these places just to get my own idea of what's being said instead of relying on other people. The demo… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/05/22 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Double standards of beautyWho said anything about money | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/05/22 06:14 AM |
| 33 | Double standards of beautyI'd go down on him for sure | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/05/22 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?A college degree is an undeniable pass to upwards social and financial mobility and girls get higher grades than boys of the same ability. Are you trying to pretend that women are hampered by more access to education? At what point do you start asking what would you accept as a sign of women's privilege in society? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 07:45 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?Fantastic link, thank you. He felt depressed about the possibility of finding work again. He was uncomfortable because he was outside the boundaries of his gender norm. Without being the main/sole provider, would he still be value? His wife was concerned and found herself under enormous pressure to provide for their family. The pressure would have been enormous for her, yes, and recognized in its own right. However, that is the pressure that men live with every day of their lives. From the momen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 07:32 AM |
| 4 | A feminist guide to moderating male spaces: their answer? Censorship. Censor like there’s no tomorrow and remind them of their place.Ironically, my next reply in my queue is somebody accusing me of "hate" because I'm criticizing feminism. This is in a thread where I've received a cumulative -150 karma for saying that women shouldn't hit men without their permission, no matter how "playful" it is. (Apparently it's inconceivable to ask for consent when it comes to men's bodies.) Anyways I noticed that one of these people post in AskFeminists frequently so I mentioned that it makes sense s/he doesn't care about hurting men since… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/05/22 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?What do you think her reaction will be to his plan that includes a 70% pay cut? I think it entirely depends on her individual character, one that is unique in a world of 7.9 billion people. I think it depends on him, another unique entity in an infinite universe. I think it depends on their relationship, the warp and weft of which you have no possibility of understanding. The fact that you think you CAN predict what these fictional women are going to say proves that you are comfortable with demo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 05:43 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?Just because you gave your daughters toys and they didn't watch TV at home doesn't mean it was nature lol. That's not what I said. I think it depends on the person still but I can no longer deny that nature plays a part. Why is it so hard for feminists to be intellectually honest? Nobody fucking said it can't be broken. Feminists do. They're constantly claiming that they're oppressed because of 'social conditioning' (from which they suffered less than boys) and that's why they don't pick the job… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?I’m happy! I’m a big fan of meritocracy. As your first response, this clearly shows an assumption of meritocracy. It's fine if that's not what you meant but I can't pretend you didn't say what you said. Now that you know it is NOT the result of meritocracy, how do you feel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?This is so far from "Most SAHM would run away from that responsibility" that it's practically a different subject. That would indicate that when presented with more opportunities, women value other things and develop an identity outside motherhood. No, at BEST it would indicate that in a society where a woman has more choices than just motherhood, some women choose other things. Big surprise. This is about feminism wanting to paint being a SAHM as an oppressive situation to hide the privilege in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?To the person attacking me as a father? I'm all for civil debate but the moment she made it personal this was no longer a debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?It will never happen, because they don’t like to do hard things for long periods of time. Sounds to me like you're saying that women don't like to do hard things for long periods of time. Like I said, I'll agree men are more incentivized to do hard things for long periods of time because of hypergamy but your original statement is demonizing women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?Upwardly-mobile men attend college. I'm not saying that's why women go to college but your questions seems to ignore the fact that college is a great place to meet a nice, handsome, upwardly-mobile guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 05:15 AM |
| 0 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?We need to do better by men and boys in terms of opportunities, teaching style, resources, and addressing the stark difference in outcomes, but it’s possible that even with appropriate supports, women may still do somewhat better than men in academia overall. Again, it's amazing how many conservative viewpoints come out of feminist's mouths when the subject at hand is men. Why do you think 'women may still do somewhat better than men in academia overall'? Are you suggesting that there's biologic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 05:12 AM |
| 6 | A feminist guide to moderating male spaces: their answer? Censorship. Censor like there’s no tomorrow and remind them of their place."Example" is one of my bookmark tabs, along with "feminism" and "misandry", and it's how I keep track of these. I also review them once in a while so they're top of mind when feminists deny that feminism hurts men. It's a lot of work but I agree with you that it's important. As for how they let this hate reach their kids, I can't even begin to comprehend. I guess that's what happens when evil masquerades as virtue. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/05/22 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?lol okay keep stoking that victim complex. I'm sure science and technology would be 'downplayed and discredited' because women were the majority. Good gods, can someone make that happen for "public relations" (a.k.a. propagandists-for-hire), a field that's 70% women but still heavily used by governments, corporations and billionaires? Seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 04:59 AM |
| 0 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?Well, as a woman in trades, I can confirm that absolutely no school advisor advised me to go into trades. Me neither. It was pretty uncommon for school counselors to tell kids with the highest marks in school to go into the trades. You're sort of hitting on my point, though. A lack of encouragement isn't discouragement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 04:55 AM |
| 2 | Why does the manosphere despise high n-count women while actively creating those women via promiscuity?Are you okay? Did you reply to the right comment? I can't see how this related to what I said. women are getting paid more Equal pay for equal work has been the law since the 70's so maybe it's just that women are working more, eh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?Because I'm Asian and Asians go to university or we bring shame upon our families, our ancestors and our cows. That's just an excuse. Do it anyways. I came out to my parents. Suck it up. And the one time I tried metal working all the boys just bullied the shit out of me because I was the only girl so I left. Uhuh let's say I believe that and respond with: I worked at an actual mill and the men treated the women trades just the same as the men. The women were their union sisters so why would they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?Whatever that means. It can only be understood as a cop-out and a refusal to actually defend your own ideas. Typical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 08:27 AM |
| 6 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?lol you're very obviously projecting. Just because that's how YOU felt doesn't mean that's how everyone else feels. I think you might feel guilty about wanting to advance your career and get away from raising them. You were probably implicitly taught that was wrong, just like men are taught it's wrong to want to stay home and take care of their kids. You don't deserve to feel guilty. While I won't retract that motherhood was not a good fit for you, it's hard to know that until it happens + the p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?Yes, hypo-agency is something imposed on women by both conservative values AND feminist values since feminism uses female victimization as social currency. You're damn skippy they're lucky to have a Humanist dad who talks about ALL gender assumptions, ALL gender stereotypes and ALL the ways in which our capitalist society abuses both genders, in both same and different ways. We watch Star Trek together and deconstruct all gender expectations, not just the ones against women, which is what they w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 08:18 AM |
| 0 | Isn't it weird a few men seem to have it so easy with women, while the rest of men talk about it as if it was mission impossible?You're wildly missing the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?Also I can quarantee that the tradie in training being paid $25/hour is making more than your average waitress on minimum wage. So go do trades! What's the issue? Oh, right. It's hard, sweaty, uncomfortable and often dangerous work. Women don't do trades because we don't need money? What? Lol. Yes, because hypergamy exists. Women marry up. Women have a financial 'out' through marriage. Men don't do have that. They provide or they're left in the dust. So they're more willing to do uncomfortable, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Isn't it weird a few men seem to have it so easy with women, while the rest of men talk about it as if it was mission impossible?What in the world? Charisma can’t be faked. lol if you think that anybody who appears confident IS confident you are either very young or very naive. If you put on a phony persona in order to impress women, you wasted your time and annoyed others. Yes, how dare a man try to act in a way that objectively impresses a woman. Such an annoyance for him to contort himself into what he is not in order to be even noticed by women. Thanks for proving my point. Men are treated like a performance and judge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 08:00 AM |
| 6 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?Nobody said they did. There's a Grand Canyon sized gulf between "most run the hell away from that responsibility" and "children shouldn't consume your life". Stop building straw man. And don't have kids because you're clearly not cut out for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 07:58 AM |
| 18 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?I used to think that. But then I gave my two daughters equal access to toys, they didn't watch TV when they were wrong and they weren't pre-schooled but they still preferred dress-up, fashion, stuffies and dolls. I think it depends on the person still but I can no longer deny that nature plays a part. Beyond that, what you describe also excludes men from not only professions but the act of nurturing. Anyways, stop acting like social conditioning is impossible to break. I'm supposed to be a sport… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 07:57 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?Why do you assume it's meritocracy when women have more financial access to university than men and girls are given higher marks than boys of the same ability? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 07:52 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?Ultimately, as you mentioned yourself, women aren’t taking you seriously because you don’t have your life together. Wow, strong FDS vibes here. You're victim-blaming him for not conforming to traditional gender norms. Typical feminist response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 07:50 AM |
| 3 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?Being a waitress pays an assload money for the skills required. Your friends aren't being honest about their tips. But it remains that either for biological reasons or cultural reasons trades are not generally the career most women end up in. They don't have to earn money to attract a mate. That's why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?It’s fine if women still take the lead in academics Why is it a fine thing that there's an inequitable gender differential in education? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 07:47 AM |
| 7 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?It will never happen, because they don’t like to do hard things for long periods of time. Woah buddy way too much demonization in this for it to ever be anything close to accurate. I will agree that men are more incentivized by hypergamy to grind through the more difficult degrees, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 07:46 AM |
| 4 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?Think men back in the day really thought women found Solace in being a SAHM . It's so false , Yeah we just have different values then. I greatly value the time I have to spend with my children and I can't understand people who are parents but don't value that time. This isn't a men/women thing. It's whether or not you're a nurturer or have an actual investment in your kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 07:45 AM |
| 14 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?Women get better grades than me Teachers give higher marks to girls than boys of the same ability. They work harder in school than men. Rut roh. Looks like this is an assumption based on gender. That's BIGOT BINGO! for you my friend. Would you like to (A) Re-assess your priorities to better align with humanist principles, (B) insult me and deny your obvious bigotry or (C) ignore this comment? Feel free to take your best, folks. There are more ways for men to earn a good living without an educati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 07:43 AM |
| 14 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?It's amazing how many conservative talking points come out of the mouths of feminists whenever the subject of Men comes up. So it's a coincidence that men dominate in STEM right? So we can cancel all the women-only scholarships, mentorships, tutorships, networking opportunities and job placements for women in STEM then? It's about time. Women are the majority in every degree other than STEM. It's not as if it's a crime for men to be the majority in some degrees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 07:36 AM |
| 11 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?Women can earn more in trades too. They just, you know. Learn a trade. How is this an explanation for why women have been the majority of college graduates since the 80's? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?Women have been the majority of college graduates since the early 1980's and yet have more access to scholarships and more educational opportunities than men. I think inequality is a bad thing, yes. However, I'm sure the feminists here will somehow justify men being left behind in education because it's against their religion ideology to empathize with the plight of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Isn't it weird a few men seem to have it so easy with women, while the rest of men talk about it as if it was mission impossible?It's charisma. Women are most attracted to men who are confident, capable and charismatic. Men who will handle all the romantic and sexual advances, who will handle the cost of dating and who are always sure of the next step. It's like getting into a ride. You just have to strap in and you'll be inundated with delight, desire and dedication. It's also dehumanizing to men because it prohibits any show of their fear and requires a false front (or a man irrationally sure of himself). Men are no lon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 07:26 AM |
| 0 | Why does the manosphere despise high n-count women while actively creating those women via promiscuity?None of that makes sense, no. It's an irrational reaction to the harm feminism has caused them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 07:17 AM |
| 6 | Is it true that men's advocacy/movement was initially leftist/socialist/soc-dem?If you're only considering one or the other, sure. But the Democrats are AWFUL for Americans. They'll use neoliberal policies to ride America into the ground. The same thing is happening in Canada. There's nothing progressive about them and they serve corporate interests. Personally, I don't see the point in advocating for men's rights and a corporate-controlled society. Both are a limit to our inalienable rights and the latter in particular will kill our species far before feminism does. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/05/22 07:15 AM |
| 10 | Always loved this commercial./r/shills :P This is great. What I really liked is that his solution and approach was actually very dad-like: direct, supportive and a touch of humour at the ready. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/05/22 07:12 AM |
| 29 | “Privilege” is more grey than black and whiteI prefer the idea of a kyriarchy in which a single individual might be oppressed in some relationships and privileged in others It seems far more accurate. Also, I think privilege is something you use, not something you have. I'm a guy but I can't access any of my male privilege because I don't have that 'hale fellow human' guy-talk kind of thing going. Guys don't extend extra interest to guys who don't speak their language. Yes, I may be more likely to bond with guys over hobbies but I don't th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/05/22 07:06 AM |
| 3 | A feminist guide to moderating male spaces: their answer? Censorship. Censor like there’s no tomorrow and remind them of their place.criticism of feminism is what I latch onto. It's not wrong to criticize an ideology. Nobody can disagree with that without endorsing theocracies. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/05/22 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Judge strikes down California law requiring women on corporate boards as unconstitutionalNot it means they'll create peace love and flowers, just like Margaret Thatcher, Imedla Marcos, Catherine de Medici, Cleopatra, Isabelle of Spain, Bloody Mary, and all the female general and CEOs of companies that use sweatshop labour. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 06:34 AM |
| 6 | A feminist guide to moderating male spaces: their answer? Censorship. Censor like there’s no tomorrow and remind them of their place.Good point on MensLib. They have to pretend / believe that men's problems only exist insofar as they affect women. When society abuses men, and only men, it's of no concern to women and men are supposed to be responsible 'for their own selves'. Classic sexism because male gender roles have men being responsible for everything (hyper-agency) and women being responsible for nothing (hypo-agency). These norms are the foundation of feminist theory. “men are responsible for creating men’s problems” T… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/05/22 06:32 AM |
| 8 | A feminist guide to moderating male spaces: their answer? Censorship. Censor like there’s no tomorrow and remind them of their place.Ha, I know all about TakeIt and have spoken with/to him many times. I didn't read the thread because I'm banned from there and it would just frustrate me so thanks for that news and firming a belief in karma. MensLib will always be watched because the sub has 'men' in the title. They will never be truly accepted because feminism, imo, is a hateful ideology that's not capable of treating men equally. Reminds me of this article where a mother wrote a different article about 'rape culture' that wen… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/05/22 06:27 AM |
| 3 | Feminists talking about 'male violence' sound like Republicans talking about 'inner city violence'There is defintely a self-fulfilling prophecy aspect to feminism. They work to alienate men, to verbally abuse men, to diminish men, and then when the very, very, very small amount of men react violently, they can paint all men with that violence. Men are both feminism's villain and its currency. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/05/22 06:09 AM |
| 3 | Feminists talking about 'male violence' sound like Republicans talking about 'inner city violence'There's a small minority of women attracted to violent criminals. I wonder what the percentage of female hybristophiliacs is and how it compares to male serial killers or first-degree murderers. It is true that rich men give more orgasms and there's definitely a link between CEOs and sociopathy. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/05/22 10:48 PM |
| 3 | Feminists talking about 'male violence' sound like Republicans talking about 'inner city violence'"the Devil put dinosaurs here," and "well, that's just internalized misogyny" Exactly. Both are expressions of faith. Any reference to 'patriarchy' is faith-based. And it's all bad-faith faith, too. Feminists will look at something 'men do', come to the worst possible conclusions, and then act as if it's gospel - even to the extent of attacking people who don't agree with their un-proven, un-evidenced, irrational and hurtful conclusions. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/05/22 10:41 PM |
| 8 | Target getting ready for Father's DayBecause custody laws are biased in America and the kids already have a father. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/22 09:55 PM |
| 20 | A feminist guide to moderating male spaces: their answer? Censorship. Censor like there’s no tomorrow and remind them of their place.First off, By sharing our frustration and disbelief with the current state of affairs, we end up hurting more people in our search for answers and perspectives with these informations, You're not hurting us. Know that, and rant away. They're good. Secondly, what’s inherently wrong and dangerous about not adhering to a feminist perspective I'm not a feminist but I believe I can help with this because I had an in-depth discussion with a MensLib mod on why they don't allow people to criticize femin… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/05/22 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Feminists talking about 'male violence' sound like Republicans talking about 'inner city violence'This is a left wing sub. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/05/22 05:02 AM |
| 27 | Feminists talking about 'male violence' sound like Republicans talking about 'inner city violence'Immigration policy is one area where men's lives are negatively changed because of this constant dehumanization. Another is in access to foreign aid. Thanks to our 'feminist government', Canada has dedicated 95% of our foreign aid to be given to women only. Sorry boy soldiers. Guess you should have worked on your toxic masculinity eh? Actually the physical disposability of men plays into how easily it's been to cast them as evil and destructive (...while using technology in a democracy mostly bu… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/05/22 02:44 AM |
| 19 | Feminists talking about 'male violence' sound like Republicans talking about 'inner city violence'Boys being hurt by feminist hate is my concern as well but it's particularly horrible when it coming from their own mother. I don't see any reason CPS shouldn't remove EJ Dickson's son from her care if this is how she talks about him publicly. It's frightening to think about how many homes are like this. I can't dwell on it too much or I start to feel hopeless. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/05/22 02:19 AM |
| 16 | Feminists talking about 'male violence' sound like Republicans talking about 'inner city violence'How so? What I'm talking about there is how societies have reacted to the fact that men are bigger and stronger, not saying that men are attracted to those roles 'because they're men'. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/05/22 02:15 AM |
| 2 | Judge strikes down California law requiring women on corporate boards as unconstitutionalYes, it's class representation that's needed, not gender representation. This is arguably why corporate interests are so interested in feminism and wokeism: it effectively divides the working class against itself. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/22 10:29 PM |
| 119 | Judge strikes down California law requiring women on corporate boards as unconstitutionalMore women on corporate boards means better decisions They don't even have to hide their female supremacist views anymore. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/22 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man?If men did their share of child care, women wouldn’t have to sacrifice as much and men wouldn’t have to do as much paid work. Men work more in a week than women and that includes homecare and childcare. So your premise is already faulty. It also relies on the feminist presumption that taking care of kids is awful because feminism always has to make women out to be victims and so CANNOT recognize the value of being able to watch your kids grow up. However, since you already stated you won't read … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 10:17 PM |
| 3 | "It's a private company, they can do what they want". How is that going to unfold in Australia when Uber's policies allowing female drivers to refuse giving male passengers rides potentially runs afoul of refuse service laws? Corporate whims and tribunals are no friend of men's rights.Some might say that's because feminism is a CIA-backed ideology, as are the woke. They both serve to divide the working class against itself by stratifying us by identity type and de-emphasizing, even rebuking, our common bond as fellow humans and fellow workers. Some might say that their effectiveness in destroying class consciousness would make them attractive to COINTELPRO-like government programs regardless of the original intent of the movements. Not me, though. I prefer to keep control of … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/05/22 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Women will be offered three days 'menstrual leave' every month in Spain under plans set to be approved next weekSo to be clear you are not disagreeing that women have been marginalized for 99% of human history. To be clear, I aligned the question along the appropriate axis instead of your make-believe phrenological axis. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/22 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man?Society values the caretakers of children more than it values adults who do not care for children. Two-thirds of American households are supported by the income of men, not women. Men can't do both. And yet men still work more in a week than woman. Mens’ lives are statistically shortened not by ‘lack of social value,’ but by the higher propensity of males to take more stupid risks like balancing chairs on ladders. I knew a guy who had three large gouges in his flesh, running from his chest to ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 06:29 AM |
| 2 | What happens when you ask for help?I had parents I could talk to but not any longer (they're not dead but the relationship is). My wife is always there for me and I for her and I'm grateful for that. However, at a previous job it was acceptable for women to break down crying at their desks because of the verbal and emotional abuse from the (100% female) managers. Men were never given the same emotional freedom. Any hint of anger or even annoyance was treated as if you'd pulled down your pants and started to speak to them out of y… | /r/MenSupportMen | 17/05/22 05:33 AM |
| 2 | UK Employment TribunalI really don't agree that remarking on his baldness would be like remarking on the size of a woman's breasts. At all. We need workplaces to recognize general harassment, which is far more common, instead of only taking specialized harassment that's based on a person's identity seriously. If a woman is bullied at work, she can claim harassment on the basis of his gender. If a man is bullied at work, he just has to take it. Or if he reacts to it at all, he'll probably get motte-and-bailey'ed while… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/05/22 05:23 AM |
| 4 | Isn't it frustrating that people who are more likely to acknowledge issues that men face (including double standards) are anti-SJW/conservative types?I'm anti-woke for the same reasons I'm anti-feminist (neither are humane ideologies) but that doesn't mean I'm conservative. Personally I think we should start aligning along an axis of those willing to engage in civil discourse, commit to the use of logic, rationality and critical thought and don't immediately assume you're an evil person because you don't have the same views as them. The Woke ARE the new conservatives. They're anti-free speech, they weaponize morality and shame to silence thei… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/05/22 04:22 AM |
| 1 | "It's a private company, they can do what they want". How is that going to unfold in Australia when Uber's policies allowing female drivers to refuse giving male passengers rides potentially runs afoul of refuse service laws? Corporate whims and tribunals are no friend of men's rights.Thanks for your feedback. While I don't agree with everything, it helps to hear anyways. However, I think we lost track of the question. Given a hypothetical organization that overcomes all these problems, that offers people a provably legitimate way to help others while also having their basic needs taken care of, one that solves your concerns... How many people do you think would choose to join and dedicate their lives to the greatest project humanity has ever known? If I'm honest, I think wha… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/05/22 04:33 PM |
| 46 | I'm someone who was falsely accused of rape. I'd like to reach to out to other men who have been my situation so we can share our stories and help each other. PM me or reply belowYou might want to post this in r/mensupportmen as well. It's a great community and learning about your experiences may help others. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 09:55 AM |
| 1 | "It's a private company, they can do what they want". How is that going to unfold in Australia when Uber's policies allowing female drivers to refuse giving male passengers rides potentially runs afoul of refuse service laws? Corporate whims and tribunals are no friend of men's rights.As I'm serious about the exo-system, I'll have to read that book. Thanks for the recommendation. Let me ask you, now that we're in the weeds of the sub: If an organization offered to adequately supply everyone who joined them with their basic needs, and that organization was an exo-system that manifestly addressed the problems of this world and worked to solve them, do you think you or others would join or be interested in joining? I just see so many people who, in the worlds of PT Anderson, "ha… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/05/22 05:25 AM |
| 5 | Paid Menstrual LeaveDamn, that's a good point! Benevolent sexism is "It helps women (to the exclusion of men) but still technically bad because it demeans our capabilities" which makes it all about women when really it's men who are experiencing the actual sexism. Thanks. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/05/22 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Women will be offered three days 'menstrual leave' every month in Spain under plans set to be approved next weekThe term 'unpaid labour' is used to bias you into thinking that housewives aren't compensated, but they are. What else do you call having your food, clothing, lodging and everything else paid for? | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Women will be offered three days 'menstrual leave' every month in Spain under plans set to be approved next weekFYI, even accounting for housework and childcare, men work more hours in a week than women | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 04:55 AM |
| 0 | Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man?Marriage is statistically not good for women. Marriage shortens women’s lives. Lives that are lengthened, or at least 'non-shortened' by society's valuing women over men. Also, a year less of life doesn't mean that marriage is 'bad for women'. It doesn't speak to the state or quality of that life AND it ignores broken heart syndrome. That is why more women initiate divorce, fewer remarry than men, and they remarry after longer periods of time. You have NO evidence for this point because correlat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 04:54 AM |
| 0 | Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man?It sounds like you should think about the words you use and the effect they have on people. ...Presumably you still think as men as people, which is becoming a doubt for me after talking to several people in this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 04:49 AM |
| 3 | "It's a private company, they can do what they want". How is that going to unfold in Australia when Uber's policies allowing female drivers to refuse giving male passengers rides potentially runs afoul of refuse service laws? Corporate whims and tribunals are no friend of men's rights.I'd like to believe that too but I haven't really seen the evidence for it. I also don't pay a lot of attention to technology culture, however, so I'm not saying the evidence isn't there just that I haven't seen it. I don't see government effectively regulating technology anytime in the future. Honestly, it feels like the wind has gone out of them. Even before the pandemic, we have seen too many decades of listless and ineffectual governments unwilling to nation-build. We can't look to them to s… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/05/22 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Women will be offered three days 'menstrual leave' every month in Spain under plans set to be approved next weekThe rich got educated and the poor didn't. Yeah that wasn't a gotcha because I've actually thought about my perspective instead just of latching on to the rabid bigotry of feminism. A bigotry you've apparently accepted into yourself since your question implies the position that inequality in the present is justified because of (supposed) inequality in the past. This is a very stupid position since it would quickly leave all the world blind except for their king. Any other questions, sparky? | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 03:07 AM |
| 4 | There's a massive epidemic amongst men and it's not talked about at all.It's not just aggression, it's risk-taking. Starting a revolution means accepting risk. So does starting a union. The less willing the population is to accept risk, the more likely they are to just accept the conditions given to them by the rich and powerful. If men had not been willing to risk their lives in times past, we wouldn't have any democratic rights today. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 02:41 AM |
| 4 | "It's a private company, they can do what they want". How is that going to unfold in Australia when Uber's policies allowing female drivers to refuse giving male passengers rides potentially runs afoul of refuse service laws? Corporate whims and tribunals are no friend of men's rights.But they will still have replaced those legacy services successfully, thereby setting a precedent for how to be successful - flout the law until the government finally gets off its ass to do something about it. Capital loves learning lessons like that. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/05/22 02:25 AM |
| 3 | "It's a private company, they can do what they want". How is that going to unfold in Australia when Uber's policies allowing female drivers to refuse giving male passengers rides potentially runs afoul of refuse service laws? Corporate whims and tribunals are no friend of men's rights.If it didn't work for Klinger in MAS*H, it's not going to work for us. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/05/22 02:24 AM |
| 4 | "It's a private company, they can do what they want". How is that going to unfold in Australia when Uber's policies allowing female drivers to refuse giving male passengers rides potentially runs afoul of refuse service laws? Corporate whims and tribunals are no friend of men's rights.This isn't about you, though. This about the effect it has on the national psyche. To all the men who still respect feminism and think it's how they become a good person, this is reinforcing the idea that they have an inherent evil inside them because of their gender and so it's reasonable for women to turn down male passengers. The power isn't in the policy but in the messaging. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/05/22 02:22 AM |
| 13 | "It's a private company, they can do what they want". How is that going to unfold in Australia when Uber's policies allowing female drivers to refuse giving male passengers rides potentially runs afoul of refuse service laws? Corporate whims and tribunals are no friend of men's rights.(that would certainly be an irony, fighting sexism against women...only to create more sexism against women). You're describing feminism's modus operandi. In a slave morality (Nietzsche), victims are the ones who have power so it's very important for feminism to maintain women's status as perpetual victims. Making women appear frail, weak and victimized whenever it's important to cast men as domineering, dangerous dogs is an easy way to accomplish this. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/05/22 02:19 AM |
| 8 | "It's a private company, they can do what they want". How is that going to unfold in Australia when Uber's policies allowing female drivers to refuse giving male passengers rides potentially runs afoul of refuse service laws? Corporate whims and tribunals are no friend of men's rights.Yet it is being defended by feminists using the same neoliberal arguments that many here have heard before "it's a private company, they can do what they want". Those are uninformed opinions. Private companies can't "do whatever they want"; otherwise we wouldn't have ANY worker's rights, anywhere. Businesses are not allowed to discriminate on the basis of gender if there's a law against that. Ideally... Human Rights Tribunal in Ontario, for instance, ruled that since men were 'not really being h… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/05/22 02:06 AM |
| 20 | Paid Menstrual LeaveIt's pretty easy to make it a gender-neutral 'health day'. It's not as if people can't use a little extra time off, especially in America (and Canada, compared to Western Europe) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/05/22 09:39 AM |
| 0 | Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man?The benefit is in being more valued than men and from not having the gender expectation that you'll provide the primary income for the household. It's this expectation that leads to men being OVERWHELMINGLY represented in every dangerous, dirty and hard job that our society depends on. Even in an office job, men are far more likely to put in more hours in order to get the promotions that allow him to provide his family with the best lifestyle they can afford. This leads to stress, bad eating hab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 09:35 AM |
| 3 | I find it funny how feminism literally weaponized female helplessness and people still think feminism has the best interests of women at heartYour link doesn't show that "feminists' thrived off the industrial revolution". Does the idea of not appearing as a helpless victim who needs help 24/7 by soicety not offend you? No, because that's not how they see it. In their minds, feminism is balancing an imbalance. Everything done by feminist is justified by the myth that women have always had it worse during human history and so it's okay to "punch up" because it's just balancing the scales. They're not being coddled; they're being helped … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/05/22 09:17 AM |
| 40 | Paid Menstrual LeaveIt's telling that the countries (SK and Italy excepted) that have a paid menstrual leave are also countries where far more people have a very traditional views of women as fragile creatures to be protected, exceptioned, and never ever treated as a full equal. Because paid menstrual leave causes a defacto pay gap Especially if it's unpaid but if it is that won't last long. Feminists will point to the mythic pay gap to force governments to pass a law ensuring menstruating days are paid. Once a lie… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/05/22 08:59 AM |
| -1 | Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man?No, they blamed men for their own "toxic masculinity". Plus male disposability isn't part of toxic masculinity since that term only refers to tendencies that affect women. All you're doing is taking the abusive way our society treats men and shoving it under 'toxic masculinity' because that lets you blame men for their own oppression. The last bit is important because feminism is founded upon the idea of man as an 'oppressor class' and so it's VERY important that feminists never show an ounce of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man?No, just pointing out the one of many ways in which women disproportionately benefit from our society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man?That's a silly question, isn't it? I do know that in 2/3rds of American households, men are the primary income. Since your next (and presumably equally disingenuous) question is asking if housework isn't work: (1) Husbands work more than wives do and (2) child and home care isn't comparable to what a doctor or an engineer is doing. It's reasonable in a marriage to share despite the inequality of effort/education/danger/labour but it's not reasonable for that to expect to continue past the marria… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 07:36 AM |
| 31 | Women will be offered three days 'menstrual leave' every month in Spain under plans set to be approved next weekhttps://scholar.harvard.edu/files/lkatz/files/gkk_jep.20.4.133.pdf And thanks for asking for a source! That's the way it should work. :) | /r/MensRights | 12/05/22 07:31 AM |
| 13 | Women will be offered three days 'menstrual leave' every month in Spain under plans set to be approved next weekMen have unique benefits from being men. Such as? Other than peeing standing up, obviously. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/22 10:53 PM |
| 24 | Women will be offered three days 'menstrual leave' every month in Spain under plans set to be approved next weekYes, because everybody is always honest and forthright when it comes to their sick days.... It's still an extra month off a year available to all women. Acting like this isn't a huge bonus is disingenuous. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/22 10:52 PM |
| 228 | Women will be offered three days 'menstrual leave' every month in Spain under plans set to be approved next weekWomen have been the majority of college graduates in America since 1982 but still have preferential treatment when it comes to scholarships and admissions. "Equity" is sexism, particularly in a society that refuses to recognize that men are disadvantaged too. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/22 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Dating for men is not that hard as you make it seem to beI think that being who I am was instrumental in finding a life partner with whom I am compatible, as is the case. Games are children. Relationships are for adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 07:41 AM |
| 1 | What are the professions of the men on this sub?heavily male dominated professions which renders them incapable of understanding women in real life Heavily male-dominated professions are those in which the employees stand a fair chance of dying; they're also those profession that extract the resources upon which YOUR lifestyle is dependent. In my youth I worked at a place for 7 years when suddenly the safety guy comes up to me and reminds me that, on average, some (male) worker dies every 7 years. So don't let it be me. I bet you dollars-to-d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 06:18 AM |
| 1 | The problem of RP menI wouldn't relegate this to the whole, as you do, but it's certainly one thread in many. STEM people are going to want clear and quantifiable results. "How do I become the most acceptable mate?" Does those things "Why aren't I the most acceptable mate? Since I did The Things, it must be Women's Fault." This definitely scans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Male supremacy in disguise - why?That must be very frustrating. I guess the upside of feminism is that it signals possible female chauvinism from the get-go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Just because a man defends a woman's point does not mean he is a simpThey do not now what men to trust or date anymore. suffer from a moral panic. ftfy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 06:10 AM |
| 3 | Most men just take the little options they getFor the sake of just all that's holy in thisworld, please do not depend on this sub for women's ideas on men. I've only participated in 5 posts so far and I've already seen more orgiastic bigotry than a KKKey party. I've actually found that through my wife and her friends that women find men attractive FAR more often than men would think. I'm a bisexual human male and I still think women's standard for male attractiveness is far too low. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 06:09 AM |
| 1 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.However, I do think there are some many women that have a lack of understanding of the men's struggles with dating. FTFY. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man?When you get divorced, you only get half of the stuff you shared. The stuff you shared != the stuff you earned. Continue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 05:57 AM |
| 0 | Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man?Shortens your life by a year when you're expected to have 5 years more life. ~ Drinks from my FEMALE TEARS mug ~ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 05:55 AM |
| -6 | Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man?Men don't value life as much lol Yeah that's super funny lol. It couldn't at all be because men are CONDITIONED to think of themselves as disposable by society, right? Because men are always responsible for everything that happens to them. But really, men are less likely to seek therapy, more likely to kill themselves, less likely to have friends and a support system. 91% of men who committed suicide sought help before doing so. And now for the hard proof that you're a bigot: Men would rather li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 05:53 AM |
| -1 | If there is a very high chance that a woman will divorce you in marriage is there any reason for men to get married anymore?Yes, there's every reason. First off, your divorce rate information is wrong. A 2019 survey pegged it at 14.9 divorces per 1,000 marriages. Source It's a bit more complicate because age has a factor (boomers married a lot so divorced more often) but it's important to remember that: the characteristics of women, particularly millennial women, who are married today, are very different from the characteristics of their parents Beyond that, it's the trust you have in your partner. Too many people co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 05:31 AM |
| 20 | Dating for men is not that hard as you make it seem to beIt may seem extremely hard if you are playing the game wrong, And I'm out. When I was dating, I was a human looking for another human I was sexually, romantically and emotionally compatible with. I wasn't "playing the game" and the verbiage suggests that the person giving this advice is probably doubtful of any claim outside of the proper feminist discourse. Yes, women might have it easier, but who cares? The people who don't have it much harder care, obviously. However, you're sure not to care … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 05:24 AM |
| 15 | As a woman, this subreddit is incredible and helped me educate on the bullshit ideals behind feminism!Every time I question the feminist narrative (usually on /r/NoStupidQuestions for some reason), I'm treated like a devil's reject talking out of my ass Ace Ventura-style. The Faith is strong. Feminism works on the Mafia principle of getting their adherents to commit horrible acts to bond them to the Mafia's cause. Most new feminists will have actively participated in hate speech against men before they even realize they are a feminist. After that, they're all united to the cause because being an… | /r/MensRights | 11/05/22 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Anti-street harassment ads were out up in my city that make it look like only women are victims of itBecause men are being in our society, a society which views men as disposable and women as indispensable, thereby answering your question how women benefit from men's suffering. Men need to get their shit together. Ah, relying on traditional gender norms, are you? Within sexist gender norms, men are perceived to have hyper-agency: always and in all ways responsible. When our society mistreats men - as shown by the homeless rate, the suicide rate and the workplace death rate - it's up to men only… | /r/MensRights | 11/05/22 04:26 AM |
| 10 | it's interesting that women get to be traumatized by not by able to do a hypothetical abortion but men are ridiculed for disliking being circumcisedThat's a diatribe, not an argument. It looks like you're having a very emotional reaction to this issue. Paper abortions would allow the father to void their responsibility to the fetus, just as a mother can. The man has to notify the mother of his decision within x time frame and then the mother can make her decisions on whether she keeps the child from there on. Seems perfectly reasonable to me. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/05/22 05:07 AM |
| 9 | It seems I'm going to be the father of a son. Ideas on how I can protect him from the misandry of the world?Teach him to love and respect others equally and he will be keenly aware when that general love and respect is not returned when it comes time. I honestly can't think of any way in which I'd raise my son differently from my daughter. I'd love them and listen to them and provide the boundaries they need when they need them and everything else my wife and I do. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/05/22 02:23 AM |
| 8 | It seems I'm going to be the father of a son. Ideas on how I can protect him from the misandry of the world?I guess I'm not terribly keen on having a daughter either because I understand that the world wouldn't help her grow into compassionate, reasonable individual either. You can, though. Parents shouldn't be afraid to control the media to which their kids have access, and how much of it. Among other benefits, it helps to center your values rather than just accepting whatever they've been told. If you actively raise your daughters to be compassionate and reasonable individuals (and control to what e… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/05/22 02:19 AM |
| 14 | Ah yes, completely necessary in a game where women already make as much as men.If you really do have a game night, board games have come a long, long way since Monopoly. You should look into Codenames, Flick 'Em Up, and D-Day Dice. If you're into video games, I could probably recommend some board games based on which ones you like (or anyone else). Cheers and have fun! | /r/MensRights | 06/05/22 01:01 AM |
| 10 | Proposal: replace "legal paternal surrender" with "deemed donor option"I see where you're going but I think the issues falls under the 'pro-choice' banner. Men have should have the right to choose whether they are willing to take on the responsibilities of being a father. This includes both spermjacking and 'legal parental surrender' / financial abortion / 'opting out'. There's no reason men shouldn't have the same right as women to choose. Men have the right to choose whether they want to be father, just as women have the right to choose if they want to be mothers… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/05/22 08:31 PM |
| 12 | Proposal: replace "legal paternal surrender" with "deemed donor option"Huh I always read it as "parental" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/05/22 08:22 PM |
| 6 | Men supporting abortion rights by sharing their stories… and still getting shamedAs far as I’m concerned, anyone interacting in good faith deserves to be in the conversation, and I go in assuming that, let myself be proven wrong if need be. I find that shutting people out of conversations only alienates them, which can very easily morph into hatred. I’d much rather educate than alienate, and educating, to me, is a two way street. I couldn't agree more. I'd even say most well-intentioned people (who haven't been radicalized by various left and right ideologies) would agree wi… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/05/22 09:23 AM |
| 33 | Men supporting abortion rights by sharing their stories… and still getting shamedyeah man maybe sit this one out. Oof this rings true. So does the idea of a 'successor ideology' when I hear supposed left-wing men tell other men to censor themselves on a socio-political-ethical issue because of their gender. Men are never required to be silent on any issue. The request that we do drifts towards authoritarianism. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/05/22 09:10 AM |
| 1 | It's Not "All Lives Matter"Fair enough. I was just explaining where I was coming from. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/05/22 08:20 AM |
| 1 | It's Not "All Lives Matter"I fully support gender equality for men and women alike and feel it's important both have their rights upheld and protected, and I don't think being a feminist or MRA is a necessity for either. Agreed! I'd have a "Humanist" tag in this sub if I could because that's what I think you're talking about. The majority of people care about each other because they're human, not because they're a certain race or gender. That's Humanism. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/05/22 07:30 AM |
| 1 | It's Not "All Lives Matter"Rational feminists who genuinely want equality for both men and women are very few and far between. I mean to expand my previous comment to talk about 'cafeteria Christians', Christians who'll say they're Christian on any census but they only go to church on Christmas and Easter, barely know the Bible, but still have a general sense of good-will towards everyone. That's what I think most feminists are. Except we're now at the point where all feminists are Catholics and ignoring the systemic sexu… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/05/22 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Anti-street harassment ads were out up in my city that make it look like only women are victims of itWhy not? Men are being disproportionately killed. That's absolutely a gender issue. Women don't have to be doing the killing for it to be a gender issue. How society mistreats a particular gender is always seen as a gender issue when it comes to women, so why not men? | /r/MensRights | 05/05/22 05:58 AM |
| 2 | It's Not "All Lives Matter"I firmly believe most feminists want equality and the progress of civil rights and human freedoms. But these aren't the people talking about feminism on Twitter, aren't lobbying governments for feminist causes or any other public example of feminism. They're people who are being exploited by capital, same as anyone else, and trying to be a good person. Failing at the last part, since they're supporting a cause that demonizes an entire gender, but only a few years ago, it still felt vaguely wrong… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/05/22 05:56 AM |
| 2 | It's Not "All Lives Matter"The murder of Sarah Everard was used by feminists to stoke up hate against men and was probably why the UK AA was bullied and hounded when they initially said they would not help a woman needing roadside assistance before a man. The outrage lasted until they reversed that decision and said they would help a woman first, thereby publicly announcing that they were planning to break anti-discrimination laws. Just one example of many how society's bias towards women hurts men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/05/22 12:08 AM |
| 2 | fresh out of family courtNot even a reply :/ Maybe the information will help someone else. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/22 11:58 PM |
| 25 | fresh out of family courtAnd to top it off, the b*tch places me on retroactive arrears from the day my son was born despite the fact he and his mother lived WITH ME for almost 2 years!! ...Yeah, no. 2 hours later Phew. Okay, I got you, man. As best I can, anyways. First, I've read through three legal aid sites for Delaware and they either are identity-based (over 60 or disabled or other) or based on a poverty level that's 2.8x times below the living wage for Delaware. The support for women, however, outpaced every other… | /r/MensRights | 02/05/22 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Anti-street harassment ads were out up in my city that make it look like only women are victims of itAll forms of violence. Men are twice as likely to be murdered. And attacked by a stranger. Harassment is wrong; it's also self-reported. And the victim survives the incident. Most men know they live in a world of danger and I don't think most women know the degree to which there is still violence in the world because they are shielded from it. Why wouldn't we be looking at the VASTLY disproportional murder rate before street harassment? Why do we just shrug when it's men doing the dying? It seem… | /r/MensRights | 02/05/22 06:05 AM |
| 2 | Anti-street harassment ads were out up in my city that make it look like only women are victims of itThat attacker is also most likely a man. lol we're talking about victims so why would it matter who the perpetrator is? It would only matter if your intent was to prove that 'men are bad'. By saying the murderer's are also male, you're trying to "balance the scales" so that men still come out as bad agent. In other words, that was an extremely bigoted response. where women are told to ykno, not be violent. (There is the normalisation of slapping and throwing drinks which is also an issue though)… | /r/MensRights | 02/05/22 05:34 AM |
| 3 | We still have idiots that don't understand that no means nolol but men are still the victims. Why does it matter who the perpetrator was? ...Unless your only goal is to prove that 'men are bad', which seems to be feminism's core ideology.... | /r/MensRights | 02/05/22 05:30 AM |
| 52 | It's Not "All Lives Matter"Respond by saying "No, it's "Men's Lives Matter." In America, 92% of workplace deaths are men. Globally, millions of men die on the job every year , and they die to provide the world with the many minerals, timber, oil and other resources necessary for all the modern luxuries of the first-world. Men are twice as likely to be murdered than women. Men are far more likely to die from suicide than women. Men are far more likely to die from exposure, on account of men being far more likely to be home… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/05/22 03:05 AM |
| 7 | Bill Murray: “I had a difference of opinion with a woman... I did something I thought funny, it wasnt taken that way. The movie studio wanted to check it out & investigate so they stopped production” Would ANY film ever be stopped for a mans hurt feelings?It's not a reach to say that someone taking offense at something Bill Murray said isn't reason to shut down a movie production. It's way overboard. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/22 02:39 AM |
| 15 | Bill Murray: “I had a difference of opinion with a woman... I did something I thought funny, it wasnt taken that way. The movie studio wanted to check it out & investigate so they stopped production” Would ANY film ever be stopped for a mans hurt feelings?If a man's feelings are hurt, it's proof that he's fragile. If a woman's feelings are hurt, it's proof that they were mistreated and someone should be punished for it. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/22 02:37 AM |
| 7 | Anti-street harassment ads were out up in my city that make it look like only women are victims of itWhy are you only including sexual harassment? | /r/MensRights | 01/05/22 08:29 AM |
| 20 | Anti-street harassment ads were out up in my city that make it look like only women are victims of itMen are TWICE as likely to be murdered than women. Men are TWICE as likely to be attacked by a stranger than women. But that doesn't matter why? | /r/MensRights | 01/05/22 08:28 AM |
| 29 | What marriage taught me about Men's Rights"Patriarchy" is just code for "I'm ready and willing to assign everything that's bad to men". It's great for misdirecting attention away from men's abuse by society, particularly when it's a "feminist society". OP just explained all the ways in which men don't benefit and you just repeated your Twitter-taught mantras. Yeah. That doesn't work in a space with rational thought. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/22 08:26 AM |
| 46 | What marriage taught me about Men's Rights"Not everything is about you." | /r/MensRights | 01/05/22 08:22 AM |
| 10 | My sister has gone off the deep end, what can I do?Why not? You can never change someone's mind but you can give them reason to change their own. The more people that try, the more likely someone will be successful. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/05/22 08:16 AM |
| 12 | My sister has gone off the deep end, what can I do?She said that's different because the percentage of black people and muslims who do those things are much lower than the percentage of men who abuse women. Of course they are - the percentage of black people and muslims are far lower than the percentage of men. Furthermore, interactions between black and white people are minimal compared to interactions between men and women so there's bound to be more instances. There's also the fact that much domestic abuse is mutual violence and not solely a … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/05/22 08:09 AM |
| 12 | My sister has gone off the deep end, what can I do?Thanks! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/05/22 07:22 AM |
| 1 | The Pervasiveness of The Feminist MessageYou're right, the moral righteousness, "spiritual" infantilization and utter faith in their own beliefs from both feminists and Christians all taste exactly the same. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/05/22 06:16 AM |
| 2 | Australian feminist lobby group demands YouTube censor "manosphere" & "antifeminist" videos, including Jordan Peterson content, and show boys/young men feminist videos insteadIt's been noticed by others as well, many of whom comment in r/stupidpol. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/22 06:14 AM |
| 2 | The Pervasiveness of The Feminist MessageUnless you're going into that field and it's a small university, you should ask the prof after the class is over about this discrepancy. Shouldn't university be teaching critical thought? Why isn't hate against men covered in a course obviously about gender? "Men have all the power": We have so much power that society ignores hate against us? Or that we will automatically be the last voice heard in a progressive meeting? (Or any of the other many examples in which men are disadvantaged.) "Women … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/05/22 05:01 AM |
| 2 | The Pervasiveness of The Feminist MessageIf you point this out, people often just say Don't let them. Not being biased towards isn't hate and implicit bias is a hot concern within the woke world. There's no reason for them to ignore so fucking PIN THEM to their stated ideals. its just redefined as the healthy level of supporting each other that men lack. Yet at the same time, men somehow also love each other so much that they conspire together to oppress women. Which is why you insist on their attention to that discrepancy. If/when the… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/05/22 04:55 AM |
| 16 | My sister has gone off the deep end, what can I do?I, too, refuse to be friends with anybody who doesn't understand the difference between days and months. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/05/22 02:12 AM |
| 4 | My sister has gone off the deep end, what can I do?Completely agree on this. Start with an ideal that you both share and work backwards from there. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/05/22 02:11 AM |
| 30 | My sister has gone off the deep end, what can I do?you don't debate white supremacists Yeah I do. why would you try and convince someone like this? For exactly the same reason: it's better to engage with them than hating them from afar. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/05/22 02:10 AM |
| 27 | My sister has gone off the deep end, what can I do?It sounds like she just wants to believe men are bad. If so, imo it's because it puts her in the position of being an 'underdog fighting against the constant oppression of men', which gives EVERYTHING she does extra spice and meaning. Merely existing becomes her 'fighting the patriarchy'. It also means she deserves all the benefits women get in our society because even though women have access to far more scholarships, mentorships, tutorships, special loans, special non-profit progams, special g… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/05/22 02:08 AM |
| 2 | We still have idiots that don't understand that no means noMen are more likely to be murdered or attacked by a stranger. There ARE no violence and murder stats "to go along with" the constant fear of being attacked by men because the latter is a psychosis invented by women who get off on perpetually victimizing themselves. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/22 01:49 AM |
| 80 | We still have idiots that don't understand that no means noSo much projection in feminism. That's why they believe in the myth of 'patriarchy', that there's 3.8 billion men out there who are solely working for the benefit of their own gender, rather than the benefit of everyone. Since that's what feminists ONLY work to help women, they assuming men are doing the same (we are not) and blammo, patriarchy. Feminism is projection. | /r/MensRights | 30/04/22 01:32 AM |
| 8 | The Pervasiveness of The Feminist MessageI appreciate the information. I have mixed feelings about this but I absolutely feel that they're in good-faith so that mix is for me to process. I guess the issue comes to the pervasiveness I described and the difference between a nurse and counselor. As for the latter: I used to review/edit the papers written by a friend who was a nurse doing her refresher courses and I have a lot of respect for what's taught there. Keeping in mind that I'm in Canada, I feel safe in saying that the divide betw… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/04/22 08:32 AM |
| 10 | The Pervasiveness of The Feminist MessageHaving grown up in a fundamentalist evangelical cult, I can clearly see the parallels and the dogmatism. I'm sorry you had to go through that but I'm glad my description rings true. I know someone else who grew up in a cult and I've spoken extensively with evangelicals when I was younger. I crossed out 'religious' because I've seen too many examples of considered and benevolent religiosity to associate it completely with the kind of faith I'm speaking about here, the kind that will deny the huma… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/04/22 05:29 AM |
| 2 | Australian feminist lobby group demands YouTube censor "manosphere" & "antifeminist" videos, including Jordan Peterson content, and show boys/young men feminist videos insteadReset Australia, which is privately funded and has been backed by eBay founder Pierre Omidyar and mining billionaire Andrew Forrest, Why are they so concerned with young women learning feminism? This sub has a right-wing bias, particularly when it comes to economics, so it's particularly frustrating when people fail to see CAPITALISM's part in weaponized feminism and wokeness. Both feminism and wokeness are excellent tools at dividing the working class and ensuring there's no concentrated moveme… | /r/MensRights | 27/04/22 11:39 PM |
| 1 | This feminist thinks masculinity is about violence and oppression of women.I'm sorry you lived with that, man. However, I hope you see that the strength of moral character you showed is to be treasured. It proves to yourself who you are and what you can do. I hope you find / have found the kind of relationship you deserve. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/22 07:30 AM |
| 5 | This feminist thinks masculinity is about violence and oppression of women.wage gap You linked me to a 400 page document. That seems disingenuous. Why don't you tell me the problem with this sub's stance on the supposed wage gap? The idea around patriarchy. Patriarchy is a myth. It shifts the blame for the crimes of the rich onto men, as if gender was a more relevant factor than wealth. It's a silly idea. It wouldn't be the first time academia treated a silly idea with seriousness. Eugenics and phrenology spring to mind. Mansplaining is irrelevant in sociology. There i… | /r/MensRights | 25/04/22 07:24 AM |
| 3 | This feminist thinks masculinity is about violence and oppression of women.Same with a lot of this sub freaking out over things when if only people read a sociology textbook and tried to think critically they would see what is situated where. Interesting. Do you have an example? It’s not responsible for whatever snippets or misinterpretations go on social media by people who don’t bother to understand what is going on. Sure it is. Look at the way men are talked about. Toxic masculinity, male fragility, mansplaining, etc. It's all very aggressive and very much at odds w… | /r/MensRights | 25/04/22 06:01 AM |
| 7 | This feminist thinks masculinity is about violence and oppression of women.For the general population it’s not useful and can be restricting. LOL and so it goes for 100% of woke terminology. How gen pop uses it is how people understand it. And what I just described is HARMFUL. So stop fucking acting like you aren't culpable for acting as if it doesn't matter how people actually use academic terms because those terms hurt people. Motte-and-bailey. That's what all this bullshit is. Just let people be themselves. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/22 05:45 AM |
| 1 | It looks like r/menkampf has been banned.Yes, what we currently have. How is this better? We have DEFINITE censorship on Reddit now but you're going to say 'no' to a future option which promises better moderation, a more legitimate place to hold serious discussions and a distinct lack of censorship since that's part of the mandate it's fulfilling. The government provides the guarantee that we have the the right to free speech in public spaces, Yes, which is why they should be the organization who actually guarantees that right by givin… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/04/22 05:37 AM |
| 7 | Reddit is not a safe place to discuss men's rights outside of specific subs.your lack of success as a person Your assumption that CarHungry - and anyone else who disagrees with you on this point - has somehow failed as a person is the driving force here. You're going around telling people they're pathetic because they want to discuss issues that affect them and calling people names like a schoolyard bully but it's them who is pathetic? It's them who have failed as a person? I think you may want to reconsider your definition of 'success' because your current one seems pr… | /r/MensRights | 25/04/22 05:33 AM |
| 5 | Reddit is not a safe place to discuss men's rights outside of specific subs.Talking about injustice has always been helpful, though. get outside and build a real community the way you want it to exist. You mean like Earl Silverman? I do more than you'll ever know for my community but I don't talk about men's issues because if I did I wouldn't be able to continue the work I do. Therefore, it's useful and healthy to talk to other people about society's toxic relationship with men. Looking at people who want to gather to discuss their feelings as "pathetic" says far more a… | /r/MensRights | 25/04/22 05:29 AM |
| 11 | This feminist thinks masculinity is about violence and oppression of women.It's divisive and useless labeling. The point is for people to do what they want, as long as they harm none. You're not free if you're labeled as 'gender non-conforming' just because you don't meet the conditions of a stereotype. They're stereotypes. It used to be assumed that they were untrue. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/22 05:20 AM |
| 12 | This feminist thinks masculinity is about violence and oppression of women.in US it can be put into the gender nonconforming category. So men in law, medicine, social sciences and pretty much every degree except for STEM would be considered gender non-conforming? Women have been the majority of college graduates since 1982. Does that mean men with college degrees are gender non-conforming? | /r/MensRights | 25/04/22 05:19 AM |
| 16 | This feminist thinks masculinity is about violence and oppression of women.Obviously knows nothing about bdsm. 'Safe, sane and consensual' has been the motto for BDSM for far longer than whoever wrote has been alive. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/22 05:17 AM |
| 9 | This feminist thinks masculinity is about violence and oppression of women.1 is only valid if it's also practiced towards men. Otherwise it's just another form of chauvinism. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/22 05:15 AM |
| 1 | This feminist thinks masculinity is about violence and oppression of women.Of course she does. Feminism implicitly teaches that 'toxic masculinity' is the only kind of masculinity; it does so by only ever talking about 'toxic masculinity' and never any other kind of masculinity. All the good parts of masculinity were universalized or dismissed as unimportant by women. Then they called the slag pile that was left over "toxic masculinity". | /r/MensRights | 25/04/22 05:14 AM |
| 29 | Reddit is not a safe place to discuss men's rights outside of specific subs.MRAs are always told they're "acting like a victim" because the people saying it don't actually believe men can be victimized by society too. Later on below you also use "whiny" and "simpering". Plus "pearl-clutching" here. All of these are words antithetical to what a traditional man is supposed to be. You're exploiting traditional gender norms to try to shame OP into silence. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/22 11:49 PM |
| 2 | It looks like r/menkampf has been banned.This is just fear-mongering. Professionally moderated by whom? By professional moderators? There's truckloads of people who make a living by unbiasedly reviewing standards and policies are kept. How is this a scary thought? How would this be worse than Reddit? Based on what standards? Broadly keep to the subject of the sub, no explicit hate speech or demonization of any identity type, and maybe further negotiated rules required for specific subs. This isn't difficult. Change isn't necessarily ba… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/22 11:44 PM |
| 2 | It looks like r/menkampf has been banned.Do you have a better proposal? Government is the best organization to ensure free speech except for explicit hate. They have a lot of practice at balancing different priorities and interests. Your complaints aren't really relevant to the service about which I'm speaking and they certainly pale in comparison to the harm we face by NOT having a digital public square. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/22 11:33 PM |
| 9 | It looks like r/menkampf has been banned.Yes, men are presented as both all-powerful but also immoral, weak in character and craven. Nobody has EVER been portrayed this way before though so I guess there's not just a comparison to be made.... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/22 11:31 PM |
| 6 | It looks like r/menkampf has been banned.Christ. I never knew about this, honestly and I'm a big admirer of the Creative Commons. His father is right, in one way or another: the government is responsible for his death. And the death of an open internet. I'm starting to realize how much "Web 2.0" was just a very much advertised hostile takeover of the open internet. A consolidation and repurposing of a system meant to free information into one which exploited people's personal information against themselves. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/22 07:26 AM |
| 4 | It looks like r/menkampf has been banned.Meh, I don't know. First off, I include myself foremost as a participant in the crimes I state below. This isn't directed towards you personally. That being said, Humanity's magic is in making dreams come true. That's how democracy was born in America. Saying it won't happen makes it more likely it won't happen. Say it can happens makes it more likely it will happen. There's no reason we can't nation-build a public version of Reddit. We have the right. That being said, I hear you that they've ma… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/22 07:01 AM |
| 18 | It looks like r/menkampf has been banned.I've bookmarked that exchange and use it often to show the true nature of Reddit, so thanks for forgetaboutthelonely for uploaded it. [Edit: Corrected name of source] | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/22 05:30 AM |
| 15 | It looks like r/menkampf has been banned.It's a modest proposal to say that comparing how Jews were spoken about in 1930's Germany (and USA, Britain, France, etc.) bears a strong relationship to how men were spoken about in modern times. The end result doesn't have to be the same for the process to be wrong. People don't have to die for hate to be wrong. If people have a hard time recognizing that their hate is wrong, comparing their hate language to one of universally recognized hate is a useful, politically necessary way to impress u… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/22 05:01 AM |
| 2 | It looks like r/menkampf has been banned.The first amendment doesn't. Freedom of speech is a principle that supports the freedom of an individual or a community to articulate their opinions and ideas without fear of retaliation, censorship, or legal sanction. Reddit actively opposes this ideal. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/22 04:54 AM |
| 10 | It looks like r/menkampf has been banned.people don't need such a group to understand that Kam is just bigotry. Every single time I've brought up #KillAllMen to a feminist they've made excuses for it. Same with #MenAreTrash or the many other forms of bigotry promoted by feminism. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/22 04:51 AM |
| 9 | It looks like r/menkampf has been banned.The problem is that there isn't a good alternative. Free speech is a political right that should be guaranteed by our government. We need a government to make a version of Reddit that is publicly-owned and professionally-moderated. The bonus would be that there would be no subs for cat pictures or sportsball talk. It would be for (mostly) serious discussion on political, social, economic, religious, etc., issues so it would be self-selecting. You'd only get banned for breaking sub or site rules … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/22 04:49 AM |
| 39 | It looks like r/menkampf has been banned.Oh great so they'll be banning TwoX, TrollX, AskFeminists, NiceGuys, FragileMaleRedditor and all the other subs that either condone the demonization and derision of men or actively encourage it, as is the case with the latter two subs. Just so tired of the hypocrisy and the apathy. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/22 04:21 AM |
| 12 | It looks like r/menkampf has been banned.According to the capitalism-worshiping woke, Reddit doesn't need a valid reason because it's not government. "It's their site, they can do what they want." Despite the fact that there's lots of things Reddit can't do with their site, this is THE place on the internet for long-form discussion. It's as close to the public square that we have in digital form, which is a testament to how badly we need a publicly-owned site on which we can discuss important issues in a professionally-moderated enviro… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/22 04:18 AM |
| 63 | It looks like r/menkampf has been banned.It's not even a cogent argument. It's "not the same" because men/whitey 'have all the power'. They have SO MUCH power that it's socially acceptable to publicly demean and insult those identity types, socially acceptable to say or act in bigoted ways as long as it's against men or white people. It's a strange definition of power if everybody is allowed to shit on you because of your race or gender. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/22 03:59 AM |
| 29 | #MeToo failed Johnny Depp and proves that the woke movement is nothing but digital chivalrysurvivors If Depp wins the trial, does that mean he'll always have to be recognized as a 'survivor'? "Johnny Depp, survivor, to helm Disney's new franchise." | /r/MensRights | 23/04/22 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Frustrations with the Depp/Heard trialI'm saying that feminism is bigotry because it condones and encourages bigotry, not because "it doesn't include men's issues". Not including men's issues doesn't mean it's suddenly okay to dehumanize, insult, mock and otherwise verbally abuse men. #KillAllMen is bigotry. #MenAreTrash is bigotry. Mansplaining is bigotry. Manspreading is bigotry. "Male Tears", the mocking of any man who disagrees with feminists by attempting to shame them for crying - and thereby reinforcing traditional male roles… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/04/22 03:15 AM |
| 3 | Women’s Scholarships And Awards Eliminated To Be Fair To MenThat's hypo-agency and hyper-agency in a nutshell, though. It's never women's fault; it's always men's fault. If men are doing badly it's because men are bad and because they haven't fixed their problems themselves. If women are doing badly, it's because society is bad and because it hasn't fix women's problems itself. At least in the feminist world. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/04/22 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Been seeing sponsored ads for this all day, makes me sick thinking of all the gloating, glorification of discrimination, and thinly veiled hate speech that’ll go totally uncriticised in the mainstream if this event goes aheadlol who shat in your corn flakes? generalizations help us live Nope. Negative generalizations help us HATE. Look at the awful things you just said about a much-loved wife, mother, and daughter. Seems like hate is what you want out of your previous generalizations. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/22 06:31 AM |
| -1 | Been seeing sponsored ads for this all day, makes me sick thinking of all the gloating, glorification of discrimination, and thinly veiled hate speech that’ll go totally uncriticised in the mainstream if this event goes aheadWomen hit clubs for male attention, even if they pretend otherwise. This isn't true. My wife's a dancer and she would go to clubs just to dance her with friend. She'd go early when they actually had room to move, too. If a guy came up, she'd just say no thanks and keep on dancing. You can't generalize about an entire gender like that because (1) it breeds hate and (2) it's what feminism does to men. Are most women in a club partially there for the for the male attention (and partially just to dr… | /r/MensRights | 20/04/22 01:15 AM |
| 0 | Been seeing sponsored ads for this all day, makes me sick thinking of all the gloating, glorification of discrimination, and thinly veiled hate speech that’ll go totally uncriticised in the mainstream if this event goes aheadClubs are terrible for dancing. If you really want to dance, go to a local Lions / Legion hall the next time they host a dance. It'll be honest danceable music from the last 40 years instead of a DJ fucking with a good song just because he feels useless on stage. You'll also have SPACE which is essential if you really want to dance, and you'll be surrounded by 45+ who don't give fucks anymore and happy that new people are enjoying their dance too. People who dance in clubs barely even move, most… | /r/MensRights | 20/04/22 01:11 AM |
| 53 | Women’s Scholarships And Awards Eliminated To Be Fair To MenIn Canada, women are the majority graduates in every other degree except STEM. Men aren't allowed to out-perform women in any positive way this threatens the feminist narrative that men are inherently toxic to our society and it's only through God feminism that heretics men can learn how to be better. Who would refuse such gracious help as theirs? Only the insane; only those who want to stew in their own immorality, as defined by their distance from feminism. It's like Jehova's Witnesses forbidd… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/04/22 10:55 AM |
| 48 | Women’s Scholarships And Awards Eliminated To Be Fair To MenI love the caption to the thumbnail picture: University awards and scholarships for women are deemed sexist toward men. "Sexism is deemed sexist." Thanks for the good news! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/04/22 10:40 AM |
| 6 | Got permbanned from MensLibNegative stereotyping and insensitivity towards protected groups will not be tolerated. rolfmao. Feminism has made mad social currency out of negatively stereotyping men but yeah sure the feminist sub is against negative stereotyping. As to your original point: if white men are so powerful and privileged, why is it socially acceptable to discount their input or opinion on account of their race and gender? All white men have less social and economic power because a tiny minority of white men have… | /r/MensRights | 19/04/22 10:31 AM |
| 5 | Why is this ok?It's okay because the stories we tell ourselves and each other have more power than any law, any education or any ideal. Unfortunately. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/22 08:56 AM |
| 1 | UK: Sexism row as men-only farmers’ group called Lads refuses to admit women because male agriculture workers need a safe space to discuss mental healthWell as I see it, socialism seeks to redistribute economic power and wealth. As I see it, socialism seeks to justly redistribute power and wealth. Democracy also sought and achieved a distribution of power, albeit political. Concentrated power has always been unhealthy because power's corruptibility is not just a maxim. Our society is built to benefit people richer than 99% of us. Our democratic society. Capitalism is corruption. It incentivizes inhumanity. A corporation will do ANYTHING to make… | /r/MensRights | 19/04/22 08:43 AM |
| 7 | OCR 11222018 and 08221033. Anti-male discrimination at Hackbright Academy (run by Strayer University) is ended as a result of my activism.The argument is that by "favouring women" (read: excluding men) in this program, they believe they're helping to balance the ratio by pumping women into STEM and slowly "equalize" the field. What bothers me is that women are over-represented in ALL other degrees but STEM and that 'imbalance' is much smaller when you include agricultural science (which is often excluded) and another field I forget. Men have been the minority of college graduates since 1982 but the only "injustice" society wants t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/04/22 06:37 AM |
| 3 | Apparently men have to pay child support if they get raped.Ah, okay. I didn't realize it was that consistent Being called alt-right just means you're not sucking down the propaganda of the ctrl-left. You're not promoting hate or demonizing women so I'm glad you see that you have nothing to worry about when people try to shame you into compliance with their ideology. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/22 05:44 AM |
| 1 | UK: Sexism row as men-only farmers’ group called Lads refuses to admit women because male agriculture workers need a safe space to discuss mental healthFeminism is capitalist to the core. Look at the "unpaid labour of housewives" argument. It's not paid because she's not paying for the house, food or any of the bills. And she gets to spend her day raising her children or socializing with other moms while their kids play together. But feminism wants to break down every action and put a price tag on it. Just like capitalism. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/22 05:41 AM |
| 29 | OCR 11222018 and 08221033. Anti-male discrimination at Hackbright Academy (run by Strayer University) is ended as a result of my activism.Congratulations! I've read through most of your complaint and I admire your dedication, tenacity and attention to detail. You have to close every hole if you want OCR to be forced to do anything and your energy in this regard is clearly effective. The University will also be required to develop a training program within 60 days for Hackbright Academy staff, which will include statements that the University does not discriminate on the basis of sex in admission or enrollment, If only we could har… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/04/22 12:34 AM |
| 3 | Apparently men have to pay child support if they get raped.forced labor to pay 5-7 years income to his rapist over 18-21 years Is this saying that over the course of 18-21 years, 5-7 years of a man's labour will go entirely to child support? If so, do you have a source? Because that's a wonderful way to show the injustice. And thanks for the post! These kinds of posts with a ton of sources are always invaluable. [Edit: Also interesting how sources like NPR or HuffPost have this information but all the articles are pre-2017 (i.e., pre-MeToo). Maybe it's … | /r/MensRights | 19/04/22 12:01 AM |
| 12 | Being personally attacked for being part of this communityOh yeah this is just my choice and not a criticism of your choice. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/04/22 06:36 AM |
| -1 | "Incel" is the misandry equivalent of misogyny's "slut" — The difference being: the use of the latter is unequivocally seen as morally wrong & hateful by societythere is scientifical research that more male partners for a woman = more psychological instability. Source? Everything you else you said has NOTHING to do with morality, which is what we're talking about. Seems like "Rules for thee, not rules for me" attitude that I hate about femnism. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/22 06:35 AM |
| 3 | How feminists make arguments rooted in far-right bigotryHe's equivatating two very different things. Nope, he's not. And you're being pretty rude. Again. Do you not have enough to do in your own sub without constantly grieving people here? At this point, apropos of nothing at all, I start to wonder: is proselytizing feminism to vulnerable men in a place where they cannot criticize feminism not as satisfying as one might think? If only I had some old-school colonialists nearby to ask. They too told the masses of indigenous people whom they did not bot… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/04/22 06:30 AM |
| 1 | "Incel" is the misandry equivalent of misogyny's "slut" — The difference being: the use of the latter is unequivocally seen as morally wrong & hateful by society? We're talking about people. Your analogy doesn't explain WHY it's okay for men to be promiscuous but not women. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/22 05:46 AM |
| 29 | Being personally attacked for being part of this communityI understand why people do that but I refuse to do it. It's accepting the limitations placed on me by others. My history has everything in it, from /r/AntiAntiJokes to r/mensrights. If anybody complains, I tell them I'm ready to stand by anything I said and I'd be happy to talk about any specific comment I made. They never take me up on the offer because it's not about what I said but the category they can safely place me: "Them". Once I'm a Them, they no longer need to worry about the troubling… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/04/22 05:44 AM |
| 9 | UK: Sexism row as men-only farmers’ group called Lads refuses to admit women because male agriculture workers need a safe space to discuss mental healthWomen are monitoring men's speech and behaviour in every corner of society. From school, to work and often even to home, men know that someone is judging their behaviour and willing to make conclusions about ALL men based on how you act. High-performance and competitive sports and dangerous and dirty jobs are about the only place (heterosexual) men have to gather, talk and be with only other men. Women, on the other hand, often socialize in larger groups and can join any number of women's-only g… | /r/MensRights | 18/04/22 03:07 AM |
| 7 | "Incel" is the misandry equivalent of misogyny's "slut" — The difference being: the use of the latter is unequivocally seen as morally wrong & hateful by societySo in your mind only women can be slutty? What about promiscuous men? | /r/MensRights | 17/04/22 06:10 AM |
| 7 | Woman Pepper-Sprays Man Photographing His Kids: Arlington PoliceExcept yours was make-believe and theirs wasn't. Cops kill people in handcuffs. That's a fact. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/22 05:57 AM |
| 3 | Woman Pepper-Sprays Man Photographing His Kids: Arlington PoliceInvoluntary spinsters? That tracks. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/22 05:56 AM |
| 18 | How feminists make arguments rooted in far-right bigotryThe meme was an example of the right-wing thought processes that habituate in feminism. Other commenters listed others. I think all of wokeism is fairly right-wing. It's anti-free speech, anti-freethought, anti-critical thought, pro-mob justice, pro-shame as a form of control, pro-emotion-based thinking and so on. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/04/22 05:54 AM |
| 3 | Ukrainian crisis: people don't even pretend anymore that man's life has the same value as women's lifeThe white feather campaign was classist, so down to the roots it is. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/04/22 06:20 AM |
| -10 | Did I miss a memo somewhere? Apparently men are no longer allowed to have sexual boundaries.Sort of a non-issue because most guys are willing to have sex with a condom over not having sex. Also, if condoms are uncomfortable, try going to a bigger size. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/22 04:46 AM |
| 109 | Did I miss a memo somewhere? Apparently men are no longer allowed to have sexual boundaries.Modern feminism doesn't work if people remember that men are people too. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/22 04:43 AM |
| 0 | Meanwhile, a new low from Ukraine: they are crafting the law to punish non-resident men who won't returnlol you just compared capitalism to the baby and the human species to the bathwater. Lose your religion man. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/22 06:35 AM |
| 1 | "How do I force my reproductive slave to stay?"The last one was my wife's response when I told her about this. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/22 05:10 AM |
| 3 | "How do I force my reproductive slave to stay?"If you don’t want to get someone pregnant, don’t sleep with them. What if the man is raped? And this is an oddly conservative view. Do you suggest that women don't take the pill and 'keep their legs closed' if they don't want to get pregnant? It's called sexual freedom. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/22 05:03 AM |
| 2 | Meanwhile, a new low from Ukraine: they are crafting the law to punish non-resident men who won't returnWhat's better about rising temperatures and a extinction-level threat to our species? | /r/MensRights | 15/04/22 03:26 AM |
| 10 | Ukrainian crisis: people don't even pretend anymore that man's life has the same value as women's lifethey see a man being murdered by a man as more akin to suicide than homicide. It's worth repeating. I think you really hit it on the head here. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/04/22 04:11 AM |
| 12 | Ukrainian crisis: people don't even pretend anymore that man's life has the same value as women's lifeIt's such a classist perspective too. Failing to differentiate between the rich and the poor is failing to uphold basic precepts of the Left. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/04/22 04:10 AM |
| -3 | Meanwhile, a new low from Ukraine: they are crafting the law to punish non-resident men who won't returnlol as if capitalism doesn't cause issues | /r/MensRights | 14/04/22 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Hypocrites, how do they expect to be taken seriously?That sub's top post is often "Why do men ... " so that the comments can be an orgy of hate and contempt towards men under the guise of answering a question. AskFeminists is a hate sub, along with TwoX, TrollX, niceguys, fragilemaleredditor, and many other female and feminist-focused subs on Reddit. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/22 04:34 PM |
| 6 | Frustrations with the Depp/Heard trialYes, those examples are more apt, thank you. There's also a measure of social humiliation that's often overlooked but it's usually tacked on to the physical bullying (e.g., when I was pantsed in front of the entire class on the first day of Grade 8). | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/04/22 03:36 AM |
| 18 | Frustrations with the Depp/Heard trialFeminism has become synonymous with bigotry. A feminist is a bigot who believes that society shouldn't care about men, who has dehumanized men so completely that it may not even be possible for them to EVER think about men as a whole with kindness or empathy. There had been pockets of such people in the past but ever since the acceptance of "male tears" and all the hate that came after, there have been more women who were sold - and who bought - "Hate is Feminism; Feminism is Hate" than ever in … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/04/22 01:45 AM |
| 6 | Frustrations with the Depp/Heard trialWe don't have to be louder. We just have to be firm and consistent. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/04/22 12:29 AM |
| 5 | Meet Fatima Benomar, the feminist who think grid girls are sexist but happily goes to male strip club to grope themMaybe she should ask the 'grid girls' if they find it demeaning or not. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/22 02:59 AM |
| 5 | Council worker who leaked sex offender's address to paedophile hunter's group, leading to a large angry mob turning up outside his home, is not charged with misconduct in public office. Instead, she is fined £500, paid at £50 a month. After the hearing, she left the court giggling with two friendsThat's conjecture. However we do know that she still chose to have the baby after the father made it clear he wanted nothing to do with it so I'm not sure how she's in a 'vulnerable position' when it's a position of her own choosing. Oh right. I forgot that society gets offended when you expect and accept agency from women because feminism has a fundamentally conservative view of gender norms. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/22 12:30 AM |
| 20 | Men’s makeup and the pink taxNice. The normalization of female fragility also means that opposing feminism, which means opposing women, makes you out to be a monster, picking on fragile women trying to fight for their equality in a world dominated by big, brutish men. Thank you. I'll fold that into my critique if you don't mind. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/04/22 05:42 AM |
| 17 | Men’s makeup and the pink taxI don't know if it's fair for women to buy men's products. I mean...Are you joking? I can't tell. Of course it's 'fair'. if they have a complaint, they should take it to the people creating, marketing, advocating, and selling those products: Muah, excellent and understated point: women are over-represented in marketing. 80% of make-up artists are women. (Interesting how it was harder to find stats on the gender balance in the makeup industry because all Google wanted to talk about was CEOs.) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/04/22 03:07 AM |
| 10 | Men’s makeup and the pink taxBetween TERFs and regular feminists, it's also true that there's always be people telling them they're doing it wrong. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/04/22 02:58 AM |
| 8 | Men’s makeup and the pink taxIf it's anything but underwear, go to a local thrift shop. I bought 5 whole work-appropriate outfits (top and bottom) for $80 - which is what I spent on one new charcoal-grey Calvin Klein button-up shirt. Unless you're a "professional", you can save a lot of money by shopping at thrift stores who probably throw more clothes out in a week than you've ever owned in your life. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/04/22 02:53 AM |
| 42 | Men’s makeup and the pink taxThe concept of 'fragile masculinity' leverages traditional gender norms in order to manage men and their opinions. You're "fragile" if you object to feminist sexism or feminist hate speech. Traditional gender norms force men to go to extreme lengths to prove they are never fragile (/vulnerable). Most men will do whatever they can to avoid being called fragile, so most men will comply with the feminist narrative if opposing it means they're fragile. QED suckas. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/04/22 02:50 AM |
| 9 | Men’s makeup and the pink taxMuah. What a fantastic point! Excepting situations like a tax on tampons when there's no tax on toilet paper, pink tax can be avoided if you just avoid the womanly aesthetics and language. And, for the record, that's exactly what frugal women did. I brought this up with my wife before I replied and she pointed out how she and every woman she knew would just buy the cheaper version once they saw a price difference for the 'feminized' product. This is about capitalism exploitation, not gender poli… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/04/22 02:47 AM |
| 3 | Big fat list of issuesI can. I don't always because it's exhausting to do it every time. I talk about this stuff a lot. I wonder if macros could help. I wonder what macros are. Anyways: In most countries, women have a higher satisfaction with life. Women are happier at work. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/04/22 03:10 AM |
| 13 | The concept of ‘privilege’ is deeply anti-therapeuticMaybe more for men than for other groups considered privileged, This is a great point because self-sacrificing for your family is a huge part of traditional male culture. Whether it be risking life and limb to provide for your family, working long hours or on shift work and not being able to spend much time with the family for whom you're providing, or acting as the ol' meat shield and putting yourself between danger and the unprotected. Telling the kinds of people I'm describing that they're pr… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/04/22 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Big fat list of issuesWomen have a higher life satisfaction and are happier at work. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/04/22 08:54 AM |
| 17 | A glimmer of hope for boy's education.This is great news, thanks for sharing. Small pockets of resistance act exactly like they sound: their resistance allow others to use their example as a stepping stone to create even more better change. Everyone in a district smaller than Northern Ireland can now point to their example and try to use it to leverage positive change for local boys. A change that's desperately needed. Thanks to /u/ChiefBobKelso for the sources that prove: Female teachers mark down boys but male teachers treat gende… | /r/MensRights | 07/04/22 06:51 AM |
| 9 | Teachers are sexist towards boys, causing a generations old gender gap in education.male-dominated environments can have this problem too. Agreed. They can. Not in my experience, though. I've worked in both male-dominated and female-dominated workplaces. The male-dominated workplace was blue-collar and you were accepted once you proved you could pull your own weight. It's what the men expected from each other so it wasn't sexist to expect it from women as well. Once that was proven, there was no difference between the men and women...except for the occasional nudie poster in a … | /r/MensRights | 07/04/22 06:23 AM |
| 2 | UK parties response to my message about domestic violence against menYou have a promise in writing that you can now leverage. Politicians don't tend to promise something like this in writing. The response also seemed genuinely sincere. It's better to have faith in this instance. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/04/22 05:33 AM |
| 7 | UK parties response to my message about domestic violence against menIt's a political reality caused by an irrational ideology. It used to be Christianity and now it's feminism / idpol. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/04/22 05:32 AM |
| 8 | Teachers are sexist towards boys, causing a generations old gender gap in education.This is beautiful. Thank you. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/22 04:17 AM |
| 13 | Teachers are sexist towards boys, causing a generations old gender gap in education.I went to one PTA meeting. Before the meeting started, everyone there (all women) were cheering on the fact that the last male teacher left and the teachers were now all female. Then the (female) principal came in, apologizing for being late, saying that she had to change offices because the previous principal's office smelled "too much like man" and she just couldn't take it. Then she turned to me, laughing, putting her hand on my arm and saying "No offense!". I've been to one PTA meeting. inb4… | /r/MensRights | 07/04/22 04:12 AM |
| 9 | UK parties response to my message about domestic violence against menShe had to say something along these lines in case it's a gotcha reporter baiting her into saying something anti-feminist. She said she'd table the question, in writing. That's a serious response. Let's not niggle at what she had to say in order to be politically protected. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/04/22 03:54 AM |
| 2 | UK parties response to my message about domestic violence against menjfc you not only got a reply but they promised to table a question at Parliament? in writing?!? As someone who has respectfully written to all levels of government in Canada and to all my political representatives (and even wrote to the Prime Minister's wife about her work for 'gender equality' in Canada), I have never, ever, once received a reply. From anyone. You should appreciate that email and the person who wrote it. You've got a good one and it's not common. But maybe Canada just sucks. Ho… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/04/22 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Asking as a feminist: What is the ideal societal outcome with r/MensRights?I knew somebody would object to that in this sub. I live in Canada so I don't have the luxury to agree with you. However, rather than go out of my way to die on this hill, I think I'm more effective by accepting the notion in order to hold feminists accountable for their own actions. In other words, FEMINISTS agree with hate speech and what they say about men fits the bill, so it's a wonderful opportunity to point out the cognitive dissonance. Getting into a debate about free speech itself would… | /r/MensRights | 07/04/22 02:41 AM |
| 6 | Why isn’t Male Infantile Circumcision illegal?There are no health reasons to circumcize a child, as the intactivist here has kindly shown. Religion shouldn't give people the right to mutilate their child baby. Jehovah's Witnesses deny their children a life-saving blood transfusion because of an unproven, unscientific, provably irrational belief system. While I do respect the differences in Judaism, such as a willingness - a drive, even - to question, to study and to think that's less common in greater Christiandom, it still comes down to yo… | /r/MensRights | 06/04/22 04:43 AM |
| 6 | The hate campaign has already begunThis is FDS. It's a hate sub. No matter the issue, they're going to say bigoted things about men. Tellingly, /r/AgainstHateSubreddits only cares about their 'transphobia' and steadfastly refuses to acknowledge their misandry. (Probably because the mods refuse to acknowledge that misandry exists.) FDS is just more explicit about it than TwoX or AskFeminists, where people demonize men on a daily basis. I guess you could say the latter subs disseminates hate while FDS actively engages in hate. Redd… | /r/MensRights | 04/04/22 03:52 AM |
| 3 | I wish it were easier to take part in consent culture, but women and men make it hardThanks bro. I've tagged you as 'small sentences only' out of respect for your disinclination to read anything over 300 words. I'll keep it concise in the future as I'd hate for you to accidentally think about the issues or the discussion you've thrust yourself into. (46 words) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/22 06:42 AM |
| 6 | I wish it were easier to take part in consent culture, but women and men make it hardblaming women and society for their difficulties. Except that's not what happened. That's what you WANTED to happen. Feel free to show me anything I actually said that was "blaming women and society for my problems". You can't because you most likely came here to grieve on us and so you decided to hear what you wanted to hear and what would let you launch on your pre-programmed script. That's not working here. It's fascinating that you perceive someone saying that women need to inspect their rel… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/04/22 11:54 PM |
| 4 | I wish it were easier to take part in consent culture, but women and men make it hardThis woke fantasy involved getting laid pretty much whenever I wanted when I was single Ah, that kind of male feminist... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/04/22 11:46 PM |
| 9 | Asking as a feminist: What is the ideal societal outcome with r/MensRights?Men face systemic discrimination because men get longer sentences for the same crimes, are more likely to be homeless, people care less when men get hurt than if women get hurt, are far more likely to die on the job, die sooner and have less life satisfaction. (These are all sourced. I usually post them but I'm tired. They're in my history if you'd like to look.) Stop defending #KillAllMen. It's hate speech and the only people who defend hate speech are bigots. Men need feminism like a fish need… | /r/MensRights | 01/04/22 11:26 PM |
| 8 | I wish it were easier to take part in consent culture, but women and men make it hardThis is a really hostile post. Nobody said anything about every escalation, that's your straw man to dance with. That's the standard for consent on college campuses across America. There is to be an enthusiastic consent for every escalation. So it's not a straw man. women are not a monolith. There are billions of women in the world who like all kinds of shit. Never said they were. That's why I talked in generalities, not absolutes. If you'd like to dispute that my description of an average women… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/04/22 07:14 AM |
| 6 | I wish it were easier to take part in consent culture, but women and men make it hardThat doesn't mean men who don't have those traits are doomed to be single forever Nope, never said it did. I'm talking about the average heterosexual experience here. Lots of women have fantasies of being straight up raped, but that doesn't mean they want to be raped IRL Again, never said it did. The guy I'm talking about has nothing to do with rape or even necessarily BDSM (50 Shades excepting). You cut out the part where I explicitly described the guy I'm talking about. If you read my comment … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/04/22 07:08 AM |
| 10 | I wish it were easier to take part in consent culture, but women and men make it hardI think the "Just ask" advice is born of someone who hasn't had to a lot of asking or the amount of public shame and humiliation such a question can bring down on a guy. In other words, I don't think you come close to understanding the risks involved in such a question. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/04/22 02:56 AM |
| 16 | I wish it were easier to take part in consent culture, but women and men make it hardAnd for every escalation of physical contact afterwards? Asking for consent at each stage of sex is laborious and un-sexy. Nobody does this. It's a woke fantasy. As stated, it also doesn't align with what women want and expect. Many want to be taken, but consensually. It's up to guys to figure out how to balance these desires. A good step would be for women to start deconstructing their sexual assumptions and attitudes. The average women's ideal sexual partner is also someone who abides by tradi… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/04/22 02:53 AM |
| 97 | I will treat my girlfriend special. But I won’t treat female coworkers special. Why is this hard to understand.It's creepy how workplaces are so engaged in this social engineering project. Why is our place of work preaching just ONE socio-political philosophy to us? We have to call it "Winter Festival" instead of Christmas but the HR manager can still preach her religion every other meeting? | /r/MensRights | 30/03/22 06:39 AM |
| 2 | Will Smith and Performative ViolencePerfect breakdown on why the phrase 'toxic masculinity' is harmful. Yes, let's all step back together and observe what society expects from each gender so that we can help to free ourselves | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/03/22 12:11 PM |
| 9 | Bill Maher says we're becoming girly men that women bang. Thoughts?I think it's perpetuating traditional gender roles for men and acting as if they're the norm. I no more agree with his description of "man" than I do a feminist's. Saying that there's a drop in testosterone and sex since the 70's because "pussies don't attract pussy" is overly simplistic and just serves to rally his base, all of whom think they are the "real man". | /r/MensRights | 29/03/22 11:53 AM |
| 3 | a new TikTok trend saying if a guy is about to nut the girl is/should refuse to get up, people are actually defending this. reverse the genders and holly hellExcept for the fact that condoms are 98% effective, your stats are bullshit. A woman can get pregnant from pre-cum. While pre-cum has no sperm itself, it acts as a conduit for sperm to travel down the urethra and into the woman. Pulling out is not a reliable form of birth control. I hate condoms too, but. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/22 10:54 AM |
| 2 | [Sanity Sunday] Reddit recognizing the struggle of male rape victimsDo you think the experience damaged you or is it just something that happened? | /r/MensRights | 29/03/22 10:33 AM |
| 7 | [Sanity Sunday] Reddit recognizing the struggle of male rape victimsHave you been raped or known another man who has? I have a friend who was groped at a work function. I urged him to come forward but he didn't want to. I suspect that he got a bit of a thrill out of it and so felt he didn't have the right to complain. This is part of the problem the rape of men. A woman can force or coerce men into sex but men generally don't see it as rape if they had an orgasm in the end. If a guy enjoys sex he didn't consent to / was coerced into, he feels that it isn't rape.… | /r/MensRights | 29/03/22 09:18 AM |
| 2 | Will Smith and Performative ViolenceLet men be men in whatever way they like to be men as long as they don't hurt anyone else Fyi, this is basically the Wiccan Rede: Do as you will, as long as it harm none. I think I decided to be done with trying to be a "man" a long time ago. As far as I'm concerned I'm a 'male human'. Gender is the adjective, not the noun; my primary identity is my humanity and it's what I first look for in other people. On that note, I feel bad for Will. He won an Oscar and it's been marred by his behaviour. H… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/03/22 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Men Lack Reproductive RightsI'm not sure what your hysterical example is supposed to prove. If women choose to have the baby after father has exercised their right to legally 'abort' the child, then that's her choice and her responsibility. What's your issue with that? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/03/22 10:46 PM |
| 4 | Will Smith and Performative ViolenceThere is no example of 'toxic masculinity' because the concept and term is harmful to men. It's an example of a negative gender norm, though, sure. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/03/22 10:32 PM |
| 10 | Will Smith and Performative ViolenceFor most straight, cis men, being perceived as masculine is everything. Hard disagree. In my experience, far less men are concerned about this than people seem to think most still see men who aren’t sufficiently masculine to be unworthy of love or compassion I've never been outwardly masculine and yet was accepted and loved by men of different ages in a blue-collar working environment. Since men are desperate to hold on to this value I know we don't have rules against demonizing men in this sub … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/03/22 10:29 PM |
| 5 | Men Lack Reproductive RightsMen can be raped. I said consensual sex, which precludes rape. And your second objection. The last two, sure, yes. It doesn't change the point that the woman chooses whether or not to void any responsibility to the fetus and the man's fate is determined by her decision. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/03/22 05:05 PM |
| 7 | Men Lack Reproductive RightsWhile I don't think that necessarily fits under 'reproductive rights', I certainly think it merits discussion when discussing men's bodily autonomy. So as an side, sure: It's socially acceptable to limit men's sexual enjoyment for life by mutilating their infant body in a faith-based ritual. How can this be? Oh right. It's about men. In democratic countries, the nearest analogy is the non-consensual but socially acceptable piercing of a girl's ears. However, even for an ear fetishist, this has n… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/03/22 12:08 PM |
| 40 | Male Birth Control, and the Baffling Reactions To ItAs if you can trust a man to take pills! "As if you can trust a woman to take pills!"? Either way, it's a sexist response. They won’t be able to handle all the side effects! — = "women are stronger than men!" = "women always have it worse but succeed anyways" It's like the dismissiveness towards the 'man flu' - and then research showed that men take twice as long to recover from the flu than women because (shocker) there's biological differences between men and women. They’ll lie about being on … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/03/22 10:23 AM |
| 20 | Men Lack Reproductive RightsAgreed that this happens. I guess my point is that the lack of men's reproductive rights is systemic. We're not just talking about cases of personal infidelity but a systemic assumption that women deserve a choice that men should be denied. Even in cases of absolute fidelity, men's right to choose is restricted. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/03/22 09:35 AM |
| 1 | If men's rights have to be put on pause during war, then men don't really have rights.The patriarchy is a feminist myth and men have been dealing with society's expectations before feminism existed. "Men need feminism" is no different than saying "Men need women to learn how to be full human beings." Again. Typical bigoted feminist bullshit. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/22 04:13 AM |
| 1 | If men's rights have to be put on pause during war, then men don't really have rights.The patriarchy is a feminist myth that attempts to shift the blame for the crimes of the rich onto men. Typical bigoted bullshit that you can expect. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/22 04:12 AM |
| 5 | What do you guys think about this? I definitely think he should have helped, but was it his obligation to help?I don't think gender has anything to do with it. He should have helped because she was a human in distress. He should help a guy saying 'help me' as well, for exactly the same reasons. Making this about "men protecting women" is needlessly gendering the moral question at hand. Yes, the woman in OP was obviously sexist and I have no doubt that the sub's response was equally and brutally misandrist. And we should talk about the systemic sexism that allows this kind of conversation. But helping tha… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/03/22 01:09 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys think about this? I definitely think he should have helped, but was it his obligation to help?I would have helped because I would have helped a man who was asking for help. I would have stepped in even if I was alone. Someone's asking for help like that, you help. That's the humanist response. Now for the feminist response inherent to her post. I no longer feel safe with him. You don't feel safe with him because he won't jump in front of whatever danger might approach you, because he's not fulfilling his traditional gender role to die first. You don't feel safe with him because you're a … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/03/22 01:02 AM |
| 18 | If men's rights have to be put on pause during war, then men don't really have rights.What's misogynistic about OP? How is some men discussing society's relationship with all men automatically misogynistic in your mind? | /r/MensRights | 22/03/22 03:42 AM |
| 15 | If men's rights have to be put on pause during war, then men don't really have rights.Ever notice how often you use words like "crying" or "whining"? It's because you're attempting to 'un-man' us, to coerce us into thinking as you do on the iron-clad and fully logical basis that you're a woman and he's a man. Ironically, using such words is exploiting traditional gender roles against men in an attempt to silence them from speak up for themselves. Oh yes, sure. Men need feminism...like a fish needs a bicycle. | /r/MensRights | 22/03/22 03:40 AM |
| 24 | If men's rights have to be put on pause during war, then men don't really have rights.Women's rights were paused for 1000s of years. No, women were always privileged when it came to war. Just remember that it was men who caused this war Yeah uhuh. It had nothing to do with culture, power, wealth and nukes. It was all down to balls and dicks. cradles chin in hands Please, tell me more about gender essentialism, ya bigot! | /r/MensRights | 22/03/22 03:37 AM |
| 5 | If men's rights have to be put on pause during war, then men don't really have rights.Upvoted because I read through all your replies and you're being consistent and logical with your pov. I don't agree but my mind might change if I were put in that actual situation. | /r/MensRights | 22/03/22 03:35 AM |
| 3 | White House announces new initiatives towards 'pay equity'I'm sorry - I misread the context of your reply. I very much agree that prejudices don't make us human but rather just holdovers from the tribalism of evolved primates. I thought you were saying that humans were essentially not good but I see now I was completely mistaken. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/03/22 11:25 AM |
| 2 | White House announces new initiatives towards 'pay equity'I can't help but notice a religious fervor behind this statement. I think you're mistaking a lack of cynicism for religious fervour. Most people would agree that most people are good even though most people live in pretty shitty circumstances. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/03/22 08:42 AM |
| 11 | Men aren’t going to be there for women in traditional ways and most feminists I know are losing their $hit over it.Child support is to support the household the child is in. Not if there's no accountability. And your reply seems to hand-wave that everything you listed is support for their ex too. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/22 08:33 AM |
| 17 | working class men [story time]I miss people for standing up for what they believe in, rather than being concerned about how they are seen. First, for you: visit a senior's centre. I spent a lot of time with seniors and most if not all are refreshingly unconcerned with how other people see them and speaking frankly. I think it would be good for your soul / spirit / mind / whatever it is that was being nourished by the vitality of humanity you experienced among people bonded by class circumstances. As someone who's also worked… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/03/22 03:26 AM |
| -12 | Men aren’t going to be there for women in traditional ways and most feminists I know are losing their $hit over it.Look I'm anti-feminism too but this is a no-faith perspective. You're acting like all women are sociopaths, which is the only way these bullet points makes sense. I've never wanted to be a traditional guy from a young age either. I too had to do the life-long work of divesting myself of assumptions based on my gender only to watch feminists say that all of society has to help women do what we did on our own. You have to keep in mind that feminism is the problem here, not women. If you don't, you… | /r/MensRights | 19/03/22 02:59 AM |
| 10 | Men aren’t going to be there for women in traditional ways and most feminists I know are losing their $hit over it.Same with child support just being given to the mother to do as she wants instead of being itemized and accountable. what, seriously? I had always assumed child support was for specific provable amounts. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/22 02:32 AM |
| 1 | White House announces new initiatives towards 'pay equity'I'm not opposed to a spiritual consideration though I guess what I would consider spiritual in this context is the "soul of humanity" - that Platonic ideal of humanity to which we are all connected. I think there are practices and mental structures we could build that would better attune ourselves to that soul and experience the emotional release of doing so, preferably with other people. You could come up with a system that is immune to such bias, but then you'd have created a system that acts … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/03/22 02:25 AM |
| 3 | White House announces new initiatives towards 'pay equity'"Equity" is a math where everybody makes up the variables. It's equality that takes into account somebody's pre-existing privileges and challenges - except it doesn't do that at all because it only ASSUMES it knows about your privileges and challenges based on statistical data about your race and gender. It also never takes into account the challenges men face in particular because it's already decided that men don't suffer. Equity is the use of systemic discrimination in an attempt to force an … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/03/22 02:17 AM |
| 2 | White House announces new initiatives towards 'pay equity'Women make less because they make different choices that better their work-life balance because they are not under enormous cultural pressure to be the provider for the family and be wealthy enough to attract a mate in the first place within our hypergamous society. When you account for everything, women make 99% of what men make and they believe that's down to gender differences in asking for a raise and negotiating that men (men tend to be more aggressive in negotiations). | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/03/22 02:12 AM |
| 2 | White House announces new initiatives towards 'pay equity'I already do that for both my daughters. Their moral upbringing is grounded in humanism. Human has simple and clear enough moral guidelines that they already easily follow it; I'm not sure what feminists' excuse is. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/03/22 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Another Ad Targeted At " Toxic Masculinity "I looked it up because I honestly wasn't 100% sure on the definitions and TIL "mental abuse" = psychological abuse = emotional abuse. It makes sense once what I thought it through. If you're going to psychologically manipulate someone, what else would you leverage but emotions? | /r/MensRights | 17/03/22 10:50 AM |
| 6 | "unemployed" is often used as an insult against menThanks, always good to know the new language. Although if that TLC song was about the same thing, I guess it's old language. 3:37 minutes later Yeah that's totally what "No Scrubs" was about. TIL. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/03/22 07:58 AM |
| 15 | "unemployed" is often used as an insult against menI was recently told by a new female acquaintance that I had been appreciated by her friends because I "have a soft energy". It was said with a slightly curious tone. I suspect she wondered how I was gay when I had a wife and kids. I wonder if it's common for left-wing male advocates to eschew traditional male culture or just not fit the mold of the stereotypical man. I wonder how many of us don't hang out with 3 or more male friends at a time. The only man I speak to regularly is my dad I'm glad… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/03/22 07:51 AM |
| 29 | "unemployed" is often used as an insult against menI let my wife know every time I'm told that I'm a virgin or that I've never spoken to a woman before. We have a good chuckle so at least it's not for naught in our household. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/03/22 07:30 AM |
| 14 | White House announces new initiatives towards 'pay equity'I know the post was a bit long for Reddit standards but it certainly wasn't comparable Brandon Sanderson, pbuh. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/03/22 07:13 AM |
| 41 | White House announces new initiatives towards 'pay equity'As to the last question, I've seen women on our work intranet message board justify a survey that showed men still paid for dates 83% of the time by saying that women make less so that's okay. The intranet is for large-ish government so these are intelligent, unionized and/or professional women, trying to justify not paying for half their way. They know they are guaranteed to make as much as their male counterparts because everybody's wage/salary is public but still indulging in the fantasy that… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/03/22 07:12 AM |
| 50 | Another Ad Targeted At " Toxic Masculinity "The feminist version is verbal / mental abuse. How about showing a bunch of teenage girls shitting about men online and then showing a boy reading it at home, crying. You can even make the kid black and disabled so that feminists will actually care about him. (P.s., I can't be the only one to have noticed the race of the guy who spoke up. Black people are 3.5% of the population but you obviously couldn't have the white guy speak up in defence of women because that ruins the narrative.) | /r/MensRights | 17/03/22 05:56 AM |
| 1 | "Women should not be drafted because we still don't have equality"Wouldn't the father be on the hook for her education bills to? Not directly but because the loan repayments will be drawing so much of her monthly income that he would have to supplement the rest? I'm honestly not sure how custody payments work in America. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/22 05:37 AM |
| 25 | "unemployed" is often used as an insult against menYes. And loafer, sponge, wastrel, freeloader and bum. 'Bum' especially is gendered - most likely because the majority of the homeless are male. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/03/22 03:04 AM |
| 2 | "Women should not be drafted because we still don't have equality"“why should we die for a country that lets men rape and kill us without punishment?” Because the country doesn't do that. Do you have any other questions? | /r/MensRights | 17/03/22 02:02 AM |
| 1 | "Women should not be drafted because we still don't have equality"Agreed about the dehumanization. It's growing stronger, not weaker. Same with the kind of arguments you get. I recently debated with feminists claiming that men weren't the primary victims of war. So many downvotes, so many illogical statements, so few rational arguments and then I was banned. It's not restricted to feminism - all the woke do the same. Shame and censorship are their only tools. There's absolutely no critical thought in their cult, which means they don't represent the Left anymor… | /r/MensRights | 17/03/22 02:00 AM |
| 7 | "Women should not be drafted because we still don't have equality"Females can receive the same amount to federal assistance without having to register with SS. Actually women have more access to federal assistance because of female-only scholarships and programs. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/22 01:56 AM |
| 3 | "Women should not be drafted because we still don't have equality"To bounce back your No True Scotsmen fallacy, those aren't real feminists. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/22 01:50 AM |
| 10 | "Women should not be drafted because we still don't have equality"You should argue that SOLELY women should be drafted because we don't have equality. Men are already 92% of deaths on the job, the majority of the homeless, death by suicides and the murdered. Haven't men already died enough to keep society going? | /r/MensRights | 17/03/22 01:49 AM |
| 53 | "unemployed" is often used as an insult against menYes. It's implied in "loser", "slacker", "lay-a-bout", "good-for-nothing", "lazy" and "useless", some of of which are far more likely to be applied to men than women. It's men's job to work and to provide. We live in a deeply female chauvinist society so it tracks that insults directed towards men will rely on traditional gender norms because feminists aren't interested in freeing men from gender norms that benefit women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/03/22 01:45 AM |
| 31 | "unemployed" is often used as an insult against menYou forgot that men are always 100% responsible for everything that happens. So if you're at all swayed by gender norms, it's your fault. It doesn't matter that feminists regularly view female gender norms as an unstoppable force that constantly swamps women from being a politician or going into STEM. Male gender norms are the responsibility of each individual man to battle, alone, without help. And if they fail in that responsibility, nuts to them. They should have tried harder. /s | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/03/22 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Google portrays two very similar movements quite differentlyThis is a reply to /u/AndyBrown65. I can't reply to him or ANY COMMENT IN HIS THREAD because he's blocked me for some reason. Feel free to tell him how disruptive the block function has become because I obviously can't. Also please let the Reddit admins know how stupid this new block "feature" is. How?? Fucked if I know. Welcome to the technocracy. Yes, I agree with you, person who's blocked me for some reason. Men are not punished being "woman-like". They're punished for being not-men. They're … | /r/MensRights | 15/03/22 10:44 AM |
| 2 | Google portrays two very similar movements quite differentlyThis has a lot of in common with the current discussion on /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates about Wikipedia's institutional sexism. [Edit: lol this is where that post came from. Full circle, so I'm leaving it in.] It's funny how white men are always accused of perpetrating institutional sexism and racism and yet are most often the clearest victims of modern systemic sexism. Simple example: Women have been the majority of college graduates in America since 1982 and yet there are hundreds of scholarship f… | /r/MensRights | 15/03/22 09:59 AM |
| 15 | Reminder: Wikipedia has a feminist biasYou can't make changes because the edits are locked. Otherwise, you're correct in that they are sourced and I'm glad you took the time to double-check me. /g (/genuine. For all those written comments that can sound sarcastic but aren't.) However. While I agree that Wikipedia's rules are being exploited, the bias present here is still the feminist bias. It's feminists exploiting the holes in Wikipedia's rules. It's feminists acting in bad-faith on the World's Encyclopedia, one of the greatest hum… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/03/22 08:04 AM |
| 14 | Reminder: Wikipedia has a feminist biasI'm a little confused where you're seeing bias. The second sentence The second paragraph. In the Etymology section Two people they quote only to debunk them in the second paragraph. Most of the examples in the literature section seem to talk about misogyny just as much as misandry. William Farrel is never once mentioned. It's a pure hatchet job. If you don't see bias it's because you're biased. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/03/22 06:44 AM |
| 10 | Reminder: Wikipedia has a feminist biasI'm used to avoid mensrights for the same reason but now I'm there because I way more healthier comments than hateful ones. I do wish the mods would institute a ban against demonizing women. It's not hard to say "Some women seem to do/want/say..." instead of "Women do/want/say...". We're all susceptible to imbalance. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/03/22 06:43 AM |
| 15 | Reminder: Wikipedia has a feminist biasIn my experience, Wikipedia follows its own rules without overt bias That was my experience too until I read the Misandry page. The bias is there from the second sentence. There's even bias in the etymology section. It's very unWikian. Very good points about media bias, though. Who's going to risk their career by claiming MensRights isn't misogynistic? Thanks for trying! Different context but similar example: Someone contested an academic award given exclusively to women on campus under Title IX… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/03/22 06:36 AM |
| 32 | Reminder: Wikipedia has a feminist biasI'm letting them know why I'm not donating this year. Feminists shouldn't be in control of the "Misandry" wiki page. Nobody should be but least of all feminists. It's somewhere between giving atheists control of the wiki page for God and giving the KKK control of the Judaism page but it's not any of them because this seems like unprecedented fuckery. When has a group ever clearly hated K Group and then fought as hard as it could against the idea that it was even possible for them to hate K Group… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/03/22 06:35 AM |
| 20 | Reminder: Wikipedia has a feminist biasIf what you say is so obviously true, so clearly moral and so mindfully constructed, why do you have to lie, to prevaricate, to motte-and-bailley, to ban and to censor? This is a version of a question I often asks feminists when they lie about a source or a fact, or they refuse to answer a direct question because it exposes irrationality or when they pretend that they don't have to be logical because I'm a sexist, racist, homophobic transphobic and everything else they usually throw at someone w… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/03/22 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Female violence against males is normalizedUhuh, sure you do. You should tell those friends you heard some guy complaining - no - whining (it's always whining) online today about hashtags like #MenAreTrash and #KillAllMen. Make your tone dismissive of that man. (And so you're not lying: hey I'm a guy and #KillAllMen is hate speech.) Then see how many of your friends correct you. In MY personal experience of humanity, they'll defend the use of the hashtag because libs have been taught hate speech against men is a Good Thing in this instan… | /r/MensRights | 15/03/22 05:33 AM |
| 10 | Female violence against males is normalizedMale violence against women is also normalized. Except it isn't? When you include "playful" hitting, slapping, pushing, shoving and the like in the definition of violence, women are FAR MORE violent than men. Any guy that "playfully" shoves a woman in public with the exact same amount of force that a woman typically shoves a man, he will be instantly accosted by men and women who see it. The same won't happen if a woman hits a man. I appreciate empathy and considering both sides (besides Reddit'… | /r/MensRights | 14/03/22 04:40 AM |
| -9 | Female violence against males is normalizedSame, personally. The LAST thing you want to do is exaggerate your life experiences. It's what feminists tend to do, first off, and men's advocacy needs to define itself with positive traditional male values like honesty, forth-rightedness, and goal-oriented. Note: I'm not claiming that women can't or don't hold these values as well but it has to be recognized that sexual dimorphism forced two distinct gender cultures to emerge and that has only deepened between the dawn of humanity all the way … | /r/MensRights | 14/03/22 04:37 AM |
| 4 | Female violence against males is normalizedTeaching people how to avoid getting raped. If you're walking through the woods at night, you should know what to do if you come across a bear - how to disarm the situation, what to do if the bear attacks, etc. You should also know what completely different things you should do if you come across a cougar. Looking it up on your phone is not an option at that time. For any planned response to an emergency situation, it's best to practice any actions you plan because it creates muscle memory, incr… | /r/MensRights | 14/03/22 03:29 AM |
| 24 | Female violence against males is normalizedOne of the traditional male gender norms is hyper-agency. It assigns more agency and responsibility to men than anyone can reasonable possess. It's what drives the delusion of a patriarchy, that all men are responsible for society and its failures (but never its successes). Why are you guys even interacting with people like this? This is an example of hyper-agency. People often don't have a choice in what people they interact with. You're assigning more agency that to men that they possess by as… | /r/MensRights | 14/03/22 03:15 AM |
| 54 | Australian report by feminist organisation claims support for men's rights is a "significant barrier to gender equality"Or equality in: homelessness death on the job death by suicide dying sooner in general life satisfaction length of sentencing being murdered by cops access to post-secondary education graduation from post-secondary and all the other ways in which men experience systemic sexism. For the sake of intellectual honesty, of course nobody would ASK for those things. This is just a way to show how feminists don't even acknowledge society's abusive relationship with men. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/22 08:45 AM |
| 41 | Australian report by feminist organisation claims support for men's rights is a "significant barrier to gender equality"Feminists are female chauvinists. (Fist-bump to everyone who were forced to hear talk of "male chauvinists" for a decade or more.) | /r/MensRights | 13/03/22 08:41 AM |
| 7 | I haven't given up on building a homeless shelter but I have to put my plains on hold.You can use the computers at the local library to contact the city council. Or you can borrow a friend's computer or laptop. It's a big task. As someone who's had to take on similarly large tasks, I can feel how big it is and what that weight does to you. I'd like to share truisms that have helped me. Some may sound pithy or cliche but I've found a diamond-dense core of truth to each of the below that have genuinely carried me through fits of doubt and hopelessness: Remember that you only have t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/03/22 08:26 AM |
| 3 | What do you guys think about the gov.uk advert airing at the minute?And I don't know about you, but I'd prefer living in a free society with a bit of risk that a totalitarian one no matter how safe it is. Same, but I'm more likely to agree because men are more likely to accept and take risks. I also think it's ironic that women in first-world countries today are the safest humans that have ever been. (Modern men are the safest men that ever existed too, by far.) I don't know how reconcile the idea that "Historically, men kept women trapped at home" with "Current… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/03/22 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Tired of the double standards in regards to inappropriate touching and shamingI don't really agree with that. I would say that men have been taught they can't be victims. When humanity first began, it was because of sexual dimorphism: we were bigger and stronger. We protected those who weren't. So we couldn't let them see us being weak or their ONLY safety net between them and the savagery of the wilds will be shattered. Most recently it's because feminism has made it clear that men don't have the right to be victims. Men can be allies, and listen to women on how we can b… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/03/22 07:26 AM |
| 2 | Tired of the double standards in regards to inappropriate touching and shamingit should be considered a problem of general treatment of employees. This is why feminism and the Woke aren't really left. There are so many opportunities to speak for workers as a whole but they're never taken because that might actually lead to uniting people against the 1-5%. But to consider it misogyny by excluding male victims and assuming 100% of female victims are actually right about their worries? That's just absurd. We live in a bad-faith dystopia. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/03/22 07:14 AM |
| 11 | What do you guys think about the gov.uk advert airing at the minute?Focus on one gender and you can split the electorate against each other. Atomize the atomic family and you can do whatever the hell you want. Absolutely. I suspect the CIA has had a hand in bigging up feminism for this very reason. I think this is the basis for all modern identity politics, really. If you're interested in this idea, and a Marxist critique of idpol, you should check r/stupidpol. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/03/22 03:26 AM |
| 40 | What do you guys think about the gov.uk advert airing at the minute?Also these crimes tend to be serial in nature. Like that one study I didn't bookmark that showed a lot of campus rape was due to serial rapists. It feels like many women expect society to be entirely peaceful and any contravention of that peace is an indictment of men as a whole. In my experience, no man expects real-life society to be safe. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/03/22 03:14 AM |
| 43 | What do you guys think about the gov.uk advert airing at the minute?"Teach men not to rape" was a popular one about 6-8 years back, the implication being that men would rape if they weren't explicitly taught not to. It's so passive-aggressive, which is a hallmark of the toxic parts of traditional female culture (i.e., "toxic femininity" but in a less passive-aggressive way). There's no blame in that; it makes perfect sense for a people for whom aggression-aggression was simply never an option. It's just important to recognize how being an evolved-animal species … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/03/22 02:39 AM |
| 7 | Tired of the double standards in regards to inappropriate touching and shaming"demeaning comments", "a lack of attention paid to their work or ideas", and "a sense that it was harder for women to be promoted in the company". I've noticed this as well. It was also factor in the Great White Purge of 2020 where people were getting sacked for supposed racism when the comments were similar to the above. That's just normal working conditions. It's not right that they're normal working conditions but it's also not specific to women or non-white people. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/03/22 02:30 AM |
| 5 | Tired of the double standards in regards to inappropriate touching and shamingI worked in a similar environment and I had a friend whose cock was grabbed by a female co-worker during a conference. I urged him to go to HR but he just blushed and shook his head. Just refused to say anything. He was a very highly-sexed guy so I suspect he didn't want to say anything because the tiniest portion of him enjoyed it or he wasn't 100% sure he didn't enjoy it. Still sexual assault, regardless of how he reacted. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/03/22 02:27 AM |
| 26 | Domestic Violence Law in AustraliaIf a man needs help, he should help himself. If a feminists needs help, all of society needs to change how it works. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/22 01:50 AM |
| 6 | Tired of the double standards in regards to inappropriate touching and shamingSorry man. I've never experienced that from women (not tall, not fit, not especially hansome) except for my hair. It's soft and curly and women seem to feel no compunction about touching it without asking me first. Those women assume you want it because you're a guy. They think they can sexually assault you because it's pleasureable to you. They're sexists and feminism made them that way by forcing men to be nothing but "an Oppressor Class" within their hate-filled ideology. They don't empathize… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/03/22 01:43 AM |
| 1 | USA: Female Nursing assistant arrested for 'videotaping herself raping male dementia patients' at Ohio nursing home. OP: In the UK a female cannot even be charged with rape!Thank you for clarifying that. This is what I was talking about, yes. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/22 03:40 AM |
| 5 | Does anyone else have that one "pet issue" that bothers them more than anything else, even if it may not necessarily be the most objectively harmful to men in a physical sense? (In my case, rape paranoia).More and more I'm seeing this everywhere as a motivator for the things people are saying/doing. Another example is "male tears" and "male fragility". Both are accusations shot at any man who questions the feminist narrative and both of them exploit traditional gender norms in order to be effective. More generally, though, it seems like everyone is trying to preserve some status quo. I'm starting to think our society is much more conservative than we think it is. By conservative, I don't necessar… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/03/22 02:33 AM |
| 33 | Does anyone else have that one "pet issue" that bothers them more than anything else, even if it may not necessarily be the most objectively harmful to men in a physical sense? (In my case, rape paranoia).I also don't intend to downplay women's concerns for safety or act like violence against women is some kind of trivial issue not worth talking about. It is. Men are twice as likely to be attacked by a stranger and/or murdered. "My biggest concern every day is how to not get raped" is the voice of a moral panic. It doesn't describe reality; it describe that person's perceptions of reality. You as much deserve to bear the brunt of that moral panic as D&D players deserved to be labelled as Satanist… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/03/22 10:14 AM |
| 3 | How to Best Advocate for Men as a Person Who Isn’t a ManI really appreciate your super thorough answer! I'm genuinely relieved :) My passion sometimes overrides my tone so I hope my goodwill was coming through. I will definitely bring up women’s issues in future posts/comments if it’s applicable and useful, for sure I can't promise this won't meet downvotes but as someone who's suffered a avalanches of downvotes on normie Reddit, look at this way: karma is there to spend. Why have it except to use it up when you (empathetically and logically) disagre… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/03/22 09:07 AM |
| 18 | How to Best Advocate for Men as a Person Who Isn’t a ManFirstly: I will not be bringing up any women’s issues in any replies because I do not want to center them right now Out of fairness, I tried to read this as I would if a man said it in a feminist sub and so I say: you SHOULD bring up women's issues if it points out what we as a community are missing. I want to know if you think we have blind spots. I want to know if you think I've swung too far in the other direction. I want to know if you think I'm no longer fulfilling my ideal. I don't have to… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/03/22 06:19 AM |
| 0 | Florida Don't Say Gay BillI have been keeping it to attacking the view not the person but yeah I'm done on this one. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/03/22 03:31 AM |
| 54 | USA: Female Nursing assistant arrested for 'videotaping herself raping male dementia patients' at Ohio nursing home. OP: In the UK a female cannot even be charged with rape!This is thanks to Mary P. Koss who ensured that 'rape-by-penetration' is the only rape on the books in many countries the world over. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/22 02:41 AM |
| 0 | Florida Don't Say Gay BillNo idea what that means but I'm guessing (1) you've grouped me in with some other people because both of us have questioned your narrative and (2) you should read up on anarchism. It's the equivalent of saying that every fruit that's not an orange is an apple. Also, why is it such a controversial to say that teachers should be teaching the subject, not spreading their personal beliefs and cultural propaganda? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/03/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | i love this subredditThese are great tips, thanks! I'm going to use all of these in the future. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/03/22 05:19 PM |
| -1 | Florida Don't Say Gay BillIn Grade 3? This is really, really reaching. Why isn't there this level of concern with teachers being taught that all white people are racist, as Ibram Kendi teaches and which is a core part of "whiteness"? And something teachers are taught. There's all these fantastical question of "What happens if their parents are pieces of shit" -- the same thing that happens in every case. Meanwhile, the kid has access to more information on the internet than even the experts had in the '70s. My question i… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/03/22 05:17 PM |
| 3 | i love this subredditCompletely agree. I like to find an ideal we have in common and then work forward from there. When I'm at my best, I'm trying to stand shoulder-to-shoulder to someone rather than face-to-face. You also have to consider 'face'. It's hurts to change your mind and it takes time. Be empathetic to the process of change. Thanks for the addendum though! Good to hear about someone else putting thought into how to be effective rather than 'right'. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/03/22 05:56 AM |
| 0 | Florida Don't Say Gay BillGreat so there's no issue with this legislation. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/03/22 05:46 AM |
| 1 | "It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace"Biological women: women who are or were capable of having a period. I'm not sure if enough surgery can cause trans women to have a period (I doubt it) but if they do, the definition applies. Any other questions? | /r/MensRights | 06/03/22 05:19 AM |
| 2 | "It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace"It's just for biological women, yes. And you can menstruate while at work. Many women are not even that bothered by their period, particularly if they're on IUD. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 08:36 PM |
| 4 | "It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace"I'll take the question mark out and just say: Remember James Damore. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 08:22 PM |
| 7 | i love this subredditNo problem. It only took a decade of debate on IRC and forums to realize it so I'm glad I could save you the pain of arguing in real-time with someone until 3 am in the morning. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/03/22 08:53 AM |
| 0 | Florida Don't Say Gay BillIts the right of the kids to know the truth about themselves and others. Those kids who have access to the internet? Sorry but I think you're back-pedalling. Look, I peeked into your history and I'm genuinely sorry about what's happened to you but it doesn't justify the idea that a teacher's answer to questions about a Grade 3's sexuality or gender identity should be anything but "You should talk to your parents about that." If they can't talk to their parents, there's google. It is not the Stat… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/03/22 07:55 AM |
| 16 | i love this subredditI love this sub too! And I'm really glad you do too. I've been here from near the start and it's been amazing to watch it grow. Tbh I wasn't hopeful at the beginning but I tried to be helpful by spreading the word. We have had some truly amazing and dedicated mods that have guided the sub from nothing to what it is now through good sense and moderation (the other kind). Thank you to the mods and to all the contributors! This is a "third space" and incredibly important in an increasingly bivalent… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/03/22 07:45 AM |
| 0 | Florida Don't Say Gay BillPutting all of it on the parents isn't any better than putting it all on the teachers. Yes, it is. Parents have more rights to their children than teachers. Are you a teacher? Because you seem really ignorant to the idea that other people don't have more rights to a child than their parents. The kids should be able to get information about this stuff from parents and teachers. This is a bailey, as in motte-and-bailey, because the question you asked was "What if the kids want to know if they are … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/03/22 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Guy makes a noise in workplace, she proceeds to verbally abuse the man.I saw FDS and stopped reading. That's a full-on hate sub. Verbally abusing a man is the least of what they advocate. Why is a hate sub allowed on Reddit? You should go ask /r/AgainstHateSubreddits that. Just be sure to enjoy those scant before you're banned. Mods don't care about misandry on Reddit either. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Florida Don't Say Gay BillWhat if the kids want to know if they are gay or trans? Wtf that's not up to a teacher. Christ I can't even comprehend how you don't understand this. It's not up to the state to define my child's sexuality or gender identity. If they ask, tell them to talk to their parents or another older family member they trust. The answer to all your questions is "talk to your parents". Stop thinking that you or any teacher have perfect knowledge about what's best for a child, especially when you think you k… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/03/22 01:46 AM |
| 8 | Florida Don't Say Gay BillThis seems entirely reasonable, especially the gender identity part. You don't have sex ed classes with Grade 3s so the age is in line. There is far too many woke parents and teachers who want to push trans identity on any kid who acts outside of their gender norms. Wasn't freedom the point!? Weren't we supposed to be freeing ourselves from the assumptions of the past instead of making new assumptions for the future? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/03/22 08:35 AM |
| 7 | Florida Don't Say Gay BillYeah and the state isn't playing along with them. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/03/22 08:33 AM |
| 9 | Florida Don't Say Gay BillDon't take my word on this Everybody takes his word on it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/03/22 08:32 AM |
| 18 | I wish feminists would quit using me as an example to attack men.Judging all people of an identity group for the actions of a few used to be known as sexism / racism until feminists changed the definitions those words so that they never applied to them. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/22 05:09 PM |
| 11 | Russia vs Ukraine Mega-Thread🌻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 09:26 AM |
| 19 | Men are better off not watching and avoiding porn altogether.I think anti-porn advocates are really anti-choice advocates. Men's bodies. Men's choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 09:26 AM |
| 2 | Why is everybody's Ex 'abusive'?Holy fuck isn't there a rule against demonization in this sub? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 09:24 AM |
| 3 | Is Male sexuality broken ?I don’t know anyone who thinks negatively about male masturbation or masturbation in general, Men don't talk about their masturbation with their friends. Men don't talk about masturbation with their wives. Men don't talk about masturbation. At all. But that's men's fault because hypoagency is a male gender norm. It can't possibly be that men are negatively affected by gender norms! If men can be victims of society too, that would meant we're actually being really shitty to the real victims to Ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 09:22 AM |
| 7 | Women and children first policy in place in Kyiv for trains leaving the city as Russian forces approachThanks for the modding that keeps this sub wholesome. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/02/22 08:59 AM |
| 7 | This is a discussion about men's rightsIf you identify as a feminist then imo you don't get to just skirt away from its role in: its hate speech (#KillAllMen and #MenAreTrash) its attempt to silence men ("Male Tears", mansplaining, #NotAllMen) *its acceptance of gender norms that kill men (dangerous work, suicides, homelessness, murder rate) its acceptance of women-only scholarships, mentorships, tutors and other educational opportunities when women have been the majority of college graduates since the late 70's. governments across t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/02/22 08:54 AM |
| 46 | My hobby: replace mentions of "the patriarchy" with "the devil"lol at your edit. Holds water. Any (accurate) comparison between feminism/wokeism to religion enrages them because then they have to face that everything they believe rests on faith. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/02/22 08:15 AM |
| 13 | TIMU by advocating for men outside of this designated safe space. (A sarcastic title with M swapped for F because language)Do they want the little boy to be portrayed as dumb and the little girl to be portrayed as smart? Yes. That's justice to them. Boys now should suffer for what they think was done to girls in the past. No different than hating one ethnicity for what "they" did to "you" in the past. Turns out, everyone's agreed to this horrifically cruel ideology and they don't know how to back out. I honestly think many feminists would leave if they were offered something better. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/02/22 06:06 AM |
| 9 | I don’t want to hear a woman’s opinion on the draft/selective service the same way she doesn’t want to hear my opinion of abortionThat's just continuing a trend of toxic discourse. You're not fixing anything, you're feeding it. Men can talk about abortion all they want because they have freedom of speech and can talk about whatever social issue they want. Women can talk about the draft all day because they have freedom of speech and can talk about whatever social issue they want. Jesus. The worst part isn't saying men can't talk about abortion; it's saying that men can't talk. Stop perpetuating censorship. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/22 12:59 AM |
| 0 | Way to Completely Devalue the Contributions of FathersOnly 1/3 of women make 50% of the income. So she's really only talking to 1/3rd of the men reading her tweet. Do you think men are the majority of her followers? She's not talking to men, man. She's preaching to the choir. She's showing her flag. P.s., I upvoted you because you gave a different perspective that added to the conversation. You gave your reasons and didn't ask us to agree with you. Discourse without civil disagreement is an echo chamber. The downvotes are unjustified. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/02/22 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Way to Completely Devalue the Contributions of FathersAlso only 1/3 of women make 50% or more of the household income. Does that mean in 2/3rds of marriages men don't have to do any household chores?! No, probably not. The inevitable feminist hypocrisy / whataboutism will follow and the discrepancy would be justified. Not that I would take the offer up. Turns out that atomizing and analyzing every piece of labour in my life to see if it perfectly and exactly adds up to what's being done by the love of my life is pretty fucking icky. Just another wa… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/02/22 12:08 AM |
| 6 | Women suffer the most in war, losing fathers, sons, and brothers...Fair enough. I hadn't recognized the .ua part of the address. I only asked because I archived the link as a counter-example to "women are the primary victims of war" so I just wanted to be sure of my source. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/02/22 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong that I don’t want to take women on dates because in the past year I have not gotten a thank you for paying on all the dates.Huh, I was wrong. Thanks for letting me know! | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 12:59 AM |
| 10 | Women suffer the most in war, losing fathers, sons, and brothers...Excuse my ignorance, just wondering about the source. Is this the pravda run by the Communist Party of Russia or the one that is privately owned? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/02/22 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong that I don’t want to take women on dates because in the past year I have not gotten a thank you for paying on all the dates.Yeah but what's your minimum wage? I don't think it works like that. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 12:32 AM |
| -8 | Men will die in war but media will sympathize with womenYeah but I really wouldn't push hard on this right now. As always, it's best to be as human as possible and contribute to the general feeling of empathy and the public internalization of a European war in an American population that hasn't been the aggressor for the first time in decades. Ask yourself: Do you want to be seen as being right? Or do you want to be effective? If you want the latter, it's not a good time to push gender politics to 'normies'. The petition against the draft in another … | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong that I don’t want to take women on dates because in the past year I have not gotten a thank you for paying on all the dates.$7 is a good deal. I'll usually pay 8-9. In expensive places, it'll be 10+. And that's before tax, which is 17% of liquor. It was assuming four pints in total, which would be at $32.76 with tax but probably closer to $37. Sounds like basically double. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 11:18 PM |
| 5 | Is it wrong that I don’t want to take women on dates because in the past year I have not gotten a thank you for paying on all the dates.It’s inexpensive, if I pay for all of it I should get some change out of £20. cries in Canadian | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 03:25 AM |
| 8 | Is it wrong that I don’t want to take women on dates because in the past year I have not gotten a thank you for paying on all the dates.It wasn't Richard Dawkins who asked. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 03:22 AM |
| 4 | According to legal experts, child support laws are in violation of the 13th Amendment and The Peonage Abolition Act of 1867That would be a hell of a good source if you ever do find the numbers. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 05:03 PM |
| 10 | Opinion: it is a mistake to force male centric stories to have female characters, and vice versaThe push since the 90's to include more female characters has improved our media landscape, in terms of new stories being told and new perspectives being shared. I think that's undeniable. It's also undeniable that the push for equality has been poisoned by grifters and powermongers so that it's now instead a push for dominance and subjugation. And it also made sense that men would dominate in movies about war, police or any other highly risky but highly ethical situations in which men regularly… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/22 05:02 PM |
| 4 | Misinformation in AP NewsArchive link for anybody else saving this as yet another example of misandry in the MSM. I've also contacted both AP and the author. Civilly but incisively, which is all this kind of bullshit ever needs. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/22 05:06 AM |
| 5 | Google isn't as biased as it seemsThis would be great but the people who would do such a study have almost certainly been radicalized by their education. Sociology is ripe with feminist assumptions about men and if you don't agree, you fail. It's easier to just accept it for most people. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/22 05:11 AM |
| 79 | A few years ago, Australia tried 'blind hiring' so women wouldn't be discriminated against. Turns out, less women were hired after trying this, so they scrapped the programGreat point. It revealed that "diversity" means "more women". | /r/MensRights | 19/02/22 06:02 AM |
| 3 | Many men have no chance against a woman in court - I have encountered a typical heart-wrenching story.Because you say troll-y things, things designed to be on the edge of believability and to whip people up. So yes, "Why?" is my question as well. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/22 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Women want casual sex just as much as men - but only with partners that will probably give them an orgasmOut of curiosity, are you a man or a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 04:31 AM |
| 8 | Many men have no chance against a woman in court - I have encountered a typical heart-wrenching story.Patriarchy is an unconscious bias within all of us. Yes, please tell me more about the thing inside me that I can't know is there but YOU somehow definitely know is there. Do you want to take a minute and come back with a rational argument? Patriarchal norms are not a physical thing, or even an entity. Aw gawsh mister, can you tell more about the pay-tree-archie? | /r/MensRights | 19/02/22 04:31 AM |
| 6 | Many men have no chance against a woman in court - I have encountered a typical heart-wrenching story.The #killallmen trend existed so mostly women could voice their frustrations of the systemic issues that disadvantage them. It's clearly hate speech. I've never been interested in the justifications of bigots before, why would I start to make exceptions here? And when you say systemic issues, do you mean those that cause women to live longer to comprise 8% of deaths on the job to be given lighter sentences than men to be less likely to be murdered or attacked by a stranger to be the majority of … | /r/MensRights | 19/02/22 04:29 AM |
| 3 | Many men have no chance against a woman in court - I have encountered a typical heart-wrenching story.It's the definition of bigotry. I'm starting to believe you are a troll. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/22 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Women want casual sex just as much as men - but only with partners that will probably give them an orgasmNo one here is hating men for being crybabies. It's more a feeling of disgust. You're disgusted when men don't follow gender norms? You talking about men crying sounded like a 90's conservative talking about gay people, by the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 12:41 AM |
| 1 | To the scared, angry women who lurk here, can I just gently but firmly remind you that male empowerment does not mean female disenfranchisement ? It’s not a zero-sum game. We can both succeed.It makes a huge difference, actually. It changes the way people talk and approach the subject. And it's wrong to demonize women, just like it's wrong to demonize ANY group. I wouldn't be doing it for them but for us. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/22 12:38 AM |
| 22 | Many men have no chance against a woman in court - I have encountered a typical heart-wrenching story.No True Scotsmen Everytime you describe evil things that feminists have done in the name of feminism, you are told that they aren't 'real feminists'. And shortly after are trying to justify #KillAllMen to you... Patriarchal norms may as well be the reason as to why men are not being properly represented regarding sexual assault. "Satan may very well be why bad things happen." You have no evidence or support for the belief but you still cling to the idea that the patriarchy is always at the root … | /r/MensRights | 19/02/22 12:37 AM |
| 21 | Many men have no chance against a woman in court - I have encountered a typical heart-wrenching story.Feminism is simply about dismantling patriarchal norms which hurt men women and everyone, essentially. Humanism is about dismantling ALL gender norms and collectively healing each other from the assumptions of the past. Feminism is simply horrible to men. How does #KillAllMen and #MenAreTrash dismantle norms that are hurting men? How is making all men responsible for the actions of some men at helping men? Feminism hurts men. Be a humanist instead. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/22 12:34 AM |
| 24 | Many men have no chance against a woman in court - I have encountered a typical heart-wrenching story.They have to minimize the experiences because they're afraid people will actually start to feel empathy for men and POOF! goes their powerbase. Modern feminism only works if people are willing to dehumanize men. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/22 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Women want casual sex just as much as men - but only with partners that will probably give them an orgasmlol is this a troll? Because that's a perfect example of circular reasoning. Men whine and blame everybody but themselves and if any men object to this generalization it only proves the generalization! You've created a situation where you can't be wrong. There's an old atheist tactic when talking to Christians and that's to ask "What would you accept as proof that God doesn't exist?" It serves to expose that Christians exist in a tautology, a state of intellectual dishonesty. Please, tell me: Ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 06:49 AM |
| 90 | Deconstructing why men's forums "always devolve into circlejerking about women"Look at TwoX or TrollX or any other women's forum. They're filled with women demonizing men. You know why it doesn't happen here? Because the sub has a rule against demonizing women, a rule that none of Reddit's female-focused subs manage to apply for men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/02/22 01:44 AM |
| 7 | Women want casual sex just as much as men - but only with partners that will probably give them an orgasm"Hen-pecking" is a figure of speech. "Women bitching about..." is a figure of speech. "Pussy-whipped" is a figure of speech. It's amazing how many shitty conservative arguments and excuses pop out of the mouths of feminists as soon as you discuss misandrist language. it could be used referring to either gender Men have been specifically affected by this gender norm so while it could be used by either gender, it's specially harmful to men when you do use it. What's the matter? I'm using basic fem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 05:20 AM |
| 7 | Women want casual sex just as much as men - but only with partners that will probably give them an orgasmFirst off, traditional male gender roles are created by men. Mothers push gender stereotypes more than fathers. Despite your claims, the evidence says that in modern society, WOMEN push gender norms on boys more than other men. There's also the mountain of lived experiences where a man crying in front of a women was treated with discomfort and contempt. Now we're down to the technicality of men "creating" traditional gender roles but it's pretty obvious that our traditional gender roles are the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 05:13 AM |
| 5 | Why Has Academia Accepted Feminist and Postmodernist Thought?While the questions are certainly provocative, I would object to them being "gotcha" questions. No, that's what I'm saying. They're not provocative or people would have been provoked. This is a low-scoring, low-response post. It'd be a stretch to call that 'provocative'. To be clear, the following is an honest appraisal of your approach and not an attack on you personally. However, if you do feel personally attacked, please let me know and I'll delete my comments below. It feels like you think y… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/02/22 04:10 AM |
| 3 | Female friend complained about not getting DUI ticket because cop found her attractiveI'll agree it was a wrong decision to let her off but I won't agree that it was immoral for him to follow her and make sure she didn't anyone. It was the best decision he could make after he made his horrible dick decision. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/22 03:51 AM |
| 3 | Women want casual sex just as much as men - but only with partners that will probably give them an orgasmWhat do you think / feel when you juxtapose this information with the decades during which men were called "pigs", "horndogs", shallow, superficial and "disgusting" for desiring exactly the same thing? Men have experienced torrents of shame, for so long, for what women in this thread are proudly proclaiming. Doesn't it feel unbalanced to at least not recognize that shift? I'm sure generations of men would appreciate some recognition that they weren't immoral just for preferring attractive women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 03:47 AM |
| 15 | Women want casual sex just as much as men - but only with partners that will probably give them an orgasmHypergamy strikes again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 03:31 AM |
| 9 | Women want casual sex just as much as men - but only with partners that will probably give them an orgasmdudes cry and complain women You may not know it but this is a pretty misandrist way to describe the situation. Accusing men of "crying" when you are speaking negatively of them exploits traditional male gender norms against men. Men already have a hard time crying, a perfectly natural emotional response, because of their socialization. Imagine not really being able to laugh and other people using that disability to mock you. I see this is a lot in female-centric subs. Cry, complain, whine are v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 03:30 AM |
| 11 | Women want casual sex just as much as men - but only with partners that will probably give them an orgasmIt's interesting how a man giving the same list in reverse would be accused of being a misogynist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Women want casual sex just as much as men - but only with partners that will probably give them an orgasmFor sexually unrestricted women, the type of man she wants to have a fling with is very different from the type of man she ultimately wants to marry. i.e., women generally prefer bad boys when they want to fuck because they're more likely to be sexually unrestricted. Thanks science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 03:24 AM |
| 17 | Female friend complained about not getting DUI ticket because cop found her attractivelol he escorted home to make sure she didn't kill anyone but you're more concerned about the irresponsible drunk driver. Other people's lives < her comfort in your mind. That's how privileged a place women can hold in our society. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/22 03:03 AM |
| 19 | Female friend complained about not getting DUI ticket because cop found her attractiveIt would be like a lottery winner complaining about all the forms they have to sign in order to get their millions. Yes, she has the right to feel uncomfortable. I empathize with her feeling uncomfortable. Complaining about it without recognizing the much more serious consequences that would have happened if she weren't an attractive woman is pretty much the definition of privilege though. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/22 03:01 AM |
| 5 | "Girls have actually always done better than boys at school study finds but why?" - What is your opinion on this article?However what caused only men to be drafted? The misogynistic notion that all women were unfit for combat and as such should be barred. Women were considered 'unfit' to be forced to die at the whim of their country because that was a man's job. That's not misogyny. That's still misandry...which you see as misogyny because that's how female-focused you are. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/02/22 06:29 AM |
| 17 | Why Has Academia Accepted Feminist and Postmodernist Thought?Everything you say feels like a gotcha question, by the way. It's a very aggressive form of 'politeness'. Academia accepted feminism because it's liberal in nature. Feminism became what it has because it was force-grown in the labs of academia where it's 'publish or die'. More and more outlandish ideas are "published" in journals with no scientific rigour and nobody ever tests their results or their basic hypotheses because it's become a MORAL issue, not a scientific one. It's moot, anyways. Aca… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/02/22 06:27 AM |
| 6 | The Feminist narrative around Street Harassmentwhile these takes are common in faux-progressivism and on social media, it would be nice to see links to feminist academia coming to these conclusions. Why? Those are the ways in which feminism affects the most amount of men. OP correctly described the social narrative regarding street harassment and it's that narrative that drives social and government policy. As no figures or source is provided we are left to speculate on the nature of the dataset, It's interesting how "lived experiences" are … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/02/22 06:16 AM |
| 18 | Boy accused of asking to touch girl's breast was treated like a 'monster' before suicide: A 15 year old took his own life after he was accused of asking to touch a girl's breast at a sleepover and then treated like a 'monster'-'frightened' of going to school as the situation was like a 'witch hunt'It was okay to use him as a living doll and it was okay to have him around as long as he wasn't a sexual threat. As soon as he showed what they perceived as sexual interest, it was (to them) a "betrayal of trust". What really happened was they were exploiting him for their own amusement and didn't like it when their doll spoke up. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/22 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Why is it assumed that men are just making things up?(unofficially hugely appreciative) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/02/22 04:13 AM |
| 0 | To the scared, angry women who lurk here, can I just gently but firmly remind you that male empowerment does not mean female disenfranchisement ? It’s not a zero-sum game. We can both succeed.This sub could be markedly better than theirs if only it had a rule against the demonization of women. Nothing with criticizing feminism and the way feminists treat men. Generalizing about women, however, will only breed hate and lead to more grief. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/22 03:53 AM |
| 2 | I’m tired of blatant misandry being taught in school.I dont blame a group of ppl that have made it possible to talk abt these issues in the first place Are you talking about feminism? Because people were talking about universal and inalienable rights far before feminism. It didn't start anything. It's a subset, nothing more. One that's particularly harmful to men, that's viperous, insincere and flippant about the issues it claims to uphold. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/22 04:31 AM |
| 6 | Why is it assumed that men are just making things up?Unrequested advice but you wouldn't be out of line to ask your wife to not discuss those personal details with her girlfriends. You have a reasonable expectation of intimate privacy. Her friends don't need to know what you like in the bedroom or what your junk looks like. They have no right to that information. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/02/22 04:19 AM |
| 4 | Why is it assumed that men are just making things up?Ah, that makes sense now. I'm from passionate Mediterranean stock. I wouldn't do well there. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/02/22 04:16 AM |
| 33 | Boy accused of asking to touch girl was treated like a 'monster' before suicideProbably was dragged in as the ‘gay best friend’ The article says they had him dressed in a corset that evening. So it's okay to use him as a living doll but not okay for him to ask permission to touch another girl? | /r/MensRights | 11/02/22 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Why is it assumed that men are just making things up?It's unfortunate the abstract wasn't more specific since I'm not paying $40 to read their findings. Nice sub though. Definitely subbed to it because I'm always on the look out for good sources. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/02/22 01:44 AM |
| 8 | Crazy double standard at urologistconsent to sex is consent to parenthood. If they were facts, why did you have to change the language on this one? Because you know it's not a fact. If you can't be honest about your own ideology, is it really worth defending? Consent to sex isn't 'consent to parenthood' since women can abrogate her responsibility with an abortion but a man cannot. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Crazy double standard at urologistIf you're in Canada, this is actionable. If you're in FreeMarketLand (America), probably not. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/22 07:05 PM |
| 18 | Why is it assumed that men are just making things up?My last (female-dominated) workplace was very toxic. I once watched a (female) manager berate a 50 year old woman until she was crying. Sometimes a woman would break down and start crying at their desk. They would get emotional support, sympathy and understanding. When I was found crying at my desk, I was ordered to seek counselling and treated like I was dangerous and a freak. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/02/22 06:53 PM |
| 5 | Why is it assumed that men are just making things up?Mind if I ask what culture is the last one? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/02/22 06:47 PM |
| 19 | Why is it assumed that men are just making things up?I discovered that all of her girlfriends have reasonably specific of my genitals, and a rough knowledge of my preferred bedroom 'exploits'. This has always confused me. Why do many wives think their husbands don't have an expectation of privacy? Who is your life partner: Your girlfriends? Or your husband? Who is the priority in your life? Guys never talk about this stuff. It's declassé. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/02/22 06:45 PM |
| 25 | Why is it assumed that men are just making things up?In social justice circles, it's known as testimonial injustice and refers to when you dismiss someone's lived experiences because of the race/gender/etc. Men face testimonial injustice whenever we talk about feminism and its effect on men. Claim that #KillAllMen and #MenAreTrash is hurtful? Don't believe it. Claim that men face misandry and demonization daily on social media, and that it hurts? Don't believe it. Even straight-out facts like "Men are more likely to be murdered by a stranger"...do… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/02/22 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Why are jokes about cheating and abuse funny when the wife does it, but horrible when the husband does it?Are you being sarcastic, or...? If not: Anyone can be sexist, racist or abusive to anyone else. What you've just done is dehumanize straight white men by saying that everybody not in those categories can abuse people who are. Next, what power? Certainly not social power since these people are already dehumanized and can be freely abused. Financial power? News flash: poor straight white men abound in the world. Why should they be abused when they've already been exploited by the rich? Political p… | /r/MensRights | 10/02/22 05:13 AM |
| 92 | Once more, it's ok for a woman to be an abuser but not for a men to (obviously both are bad, don't abuse your spouses)Sounds exactly like /r/relationship_advice. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/22 04:28 AM |
| 13 | I’m tired of blatant misandry being taught in school.He's a teenager and yet can better write and express his opinion than you. What's your excuse? | /r/MensRights | 10/02/22 12:08 AM |
| 2 | I’m tired of blatant misandry being taught in school.Hitting people isn't advocacy. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/22 12:06 AM |
| 5 | I’m tired of blatant misandry being taught in school.A debate isn't always for the person you're debating but for everyone listening. There is no one-strike solution. It's people speaking up and changing minds, one person/classroom at a time. But maybe you'd prefer "I want you to understand that somebody's always got to be on the job. Somebody's always got to be on the job because there's always a job out there to do." -- Gil Scott Heron | /r/MensRights | 10/02/22 12:04 AM |
| 3 | I’m tired of blatant misandry being taught in school.It only addressed female victims Most IPV is mutual violence which means the man and woman hit each other. Feel free to bring that fact to your teacher. Secondly, you need to schedule a private meeting with your principal about: the teacher told all the girls not to date or have crushes on boys because they only were looking for a chance to hurt them. That is blatant sexism. I know that you are scared the principal will take the side of the teacher but they will recognize if that these views wer… | /r/MensRights | 09/02/22 11:56 PM |
| 24 | I see feminism as a form of entryism"2 out of 10 homeless are women" - actual quote from a local article about homelessness. Feminists were taught, and teach, that men have been privileged so often, and that men are collectively responsible for the state of the world, that it would be naturally distasteful for them to think about men or empathize with men. It'd be like asking me to feel bad about the misfortunes of Klaus Schwab, founder of the World Economic Forum. It's not an easy sell. So when an issue comes up, they're going to… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/02/22 01:34 AM |
| 13 | I see feminism as a form of entryismSo left wing causes get gendered, and nothing helpful gets done unless it only benefits the minority of women. Feature, not a bug. The status quo benefits the 1%. Always. Change always has to be gradual so they have time to counteract, co-opt and control any opposition. This is a great point and ties into the opinion that feminism and idpol is being used to hobble the Left so it doesn't come looking for economic justice as well. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/02/22 01:25 AM |
| 36 | Inherent hostility of feminist spaces and academiacompletely ignores women’s role in established gender norms. For anyone who hasn't seen the evidence, mothers push gender roles more than fathers. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/02/22 01:48 AM |
| 6 | "Male & female brains in humans are physically different, but a study found a common toxin used in almost all food packaging alters male brains to look more like female brains" This was just admitted-by a LEFT WING popular news source!I couldn't agree more. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/22 01:43 AM |
| 3 | "Male & female brains in humans are physically different, but a study found a common toxin used in almost all food packaging alters male brains to look more like female brains" This was just admitted-by a LEFT WING popular news source!There are almost only feminists on the left There's an entire sub that disproves your claim: /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates Lots of anti-feminists on the Left. It's not a "lefty ideal" because the Left pursues universal and inalienable rights, an idea that existed in the left far before feminism was created. I'm an anti-feminist for the same reason I'm an anti-capitalist: I support equality and inalienable human rights and neither feminism nor capitalism respect those principles. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/22 01:41 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with a College Professor (female) who call all men rapists with male privilege etc. (Alberta, Canada)This is hate speech. Record it. Then record yourself secretly when you go in to tell her that her words during class are hurtful and she's creating an unfit learning environment for you for even more hate speech. Then send it to the media. If her hate speech is explicit enough, most people will call bullshit once it's publicly exposed. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/22 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Vererinarian wife circumcises her husband for her preference. Society frowns on men encouraging women to modify their body, but American's are permissive to extreme extents when it comes to women encouraging men to change theirs.He’d be hung. Probably, if she's willing to go along with that bullshit. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/22 09:23 AM |
| 2 | Looks like we are being discussed on /r/askfeministsI do acknowledge that women have struggles in society, some of which are in fact a direct result of how some (many of us?) of the opposite sex thinks and acts around women (i.e. catcalling, molesting, sexual harassment etc.). Yes, people can be assholes. When I think of all the verbal abuse and humiliation thrown at men every day on social media, I recognize it's a combination of a corrupted ideology (feminism) and that people can be assholes. Especially when they're not well-respected by their … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/02/22 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Looks like we are being discussed on /r/askfeministsCaring about men is a threat to feminism because it humanizes them. Since feminism relies on contempt and hate for men in order to succeed, the last thing it wants is for men to be humanized. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/02/22 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Looks like we are being discussed on /r/askfeministsFundie Ah, that takes me back. I never thought I'd be debating fundies again 20 years later. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/02/22 03:43 AM |
| 3 | "That's right, we only treat women" - Manchester Mental Health Trust UKIt's scary when socialized medicine starts talking about "equity". I live in a place where race determines what medical benefits you get (such as free eyecare, dental care, diabetes medication and a host of other prescription benefits). | /r/MensRights | 05/02/22 02:09 AM |
| 40 | Looks like we are being discussed on /r/askfeminists'slib-mods Muah. I love it. today I was reading a lot of denial of patriarchy According to feminists your morality depends on your allegiance to an unscientific, unproven and illogical idea (i.e., patriarchy). Sounds like Christianity to me. We really couldn't go 3 decades without the grip of an irrational obsession invading our daily lives? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/02/22 04:53 AM |
| 9 | Looks like we are being discussed on /r/askfeministsThey always work for me. Sometimes I forget I'm on np and I click reply and it reminds me it's against Reddit's rules and I could be banned for it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/02/22 04:22 AM |
| 2 | Thousands of redditors attack a male DV victim in response to the trending video of his victimization.Hey that was my response too when I first heard about him. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/22 03:05 AM |
| 9 | This Can’t Be Said Enoughmany women have told me that they see a man as less of a man as soon as they find out he has been penetrated. Gender conformity is very important to maintain in men because of part of male gender norms is being willing to die for women / the tribe. Since most people aren't very willing to die, this requires a great deal of control. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/02/22 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Thousands of redditors attack a male DV victim in response to the trending video of his victimization.Reminds me of Earl Silverman. He was so mocked and antagonized for starting a men's shelter that he eventually committed suicide. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/22 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Social media is all about “body positivity” except for when it’s men. Funny how it’s acceptable to attack us on stuff we cannot control.Meh you should own it. I loathe that shaving your head seems to be the only option for a balding man. I bet there's lots of hairstyles you could try if you set your mind to it. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/22 01:37 AM |
| 13 | Social media is all about “body positivity” except for when it’s men. Funny how it’s acceptable to attack us on stuff we cannot control.The majority of the people on social media are women. The internet was fine without social media. Then we got "Web 2.0" and were awash in other people's private lives ever since. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/22 01:33 AM |
| -18 | What Really Happens to Sexual Desire During Marriage?—Study finds women's sex drives drop after marriage and this causes relationship problems, not the other way aroundThis is demonization of women, which I wish this sub had a rule against. It's an act of bigotry. What you're saying could be an influence or a factor but your wording strongly suggests you're talking about all women. | /r/MensRights | 31/01/22 06:40 AM |
| 30 | In 6-0 decision, Connecticut supreme court finds women only gym section to be illegal as a sexist public accommodationpotentially limiting the access of women and transgender people access to spaces on the basis of the privacy interests of men or the "moral comfort" of customers defeats the purpose of our state's antidiscrimination legislation. They're explicit that excluding women would 'defeat the purpose of the antidiscrimination legislation' but excluding men would be fine just as long as it doesn't permit the former. They sneer at the "moral comfort" wanted by people who want single-sex changerooms to be e… | /r/MensRights | 28/01/22 05:46 AM |
| 33 | My most direct experiences with misandry were when I had cancerIn my last female-dominated office, I'd get "sweetie" or "honey" once in a while. It would give me pause but only because of the hypocrisy. I know they meant nothing by it and so I let this uncommon event slide by because intent matters. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/22 04:45 AM |
| 2 | Mid-week check-inlearn how to love and respect myself. Knowing that as your goal is a fucking great start. Be proud of that. I've struggled with going to bed all my life. It was usually because I didn't want to face the next day. So I started making plans each night to do something the next day that I could look forward to. Taking a walk on my break, taking up a 365 pictures a year photo challenge, taking on a new book, starting a new hobby or sport I've been interested in. (Bowling on a team is a great way to s… | /r/MenSupportMen | 23/01/22 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Mid-week check-inCongrats on going off nicotine! Dropping an addiction is harder than any non-addict will ever know. Did you go cold turkey, patches, gum? I try to distract myself & say "everything will be OK" even though I don't believe that. It's okay to not believe it. If it's reasonably true, a truth that an outside observer would affirm, then you don't have to believe it. You should keep saying it, though. Trying giving it 5% belief until you start to believe it a little bit, then throw more faith into it. … | /r/MenSupportMen | 23/01/22 03:46 AM |
| 1 | So, how many subs have you been banned from because you criticized feminism?Yes and from what I'm reading it doesn't seem a VPN does much good. Some teen mod high on moral righteousness shouldn't determine whether I get to discuss national issues in r/canada, or socialism in r/socialism or any other subject on THE place for long-form discussion on the internet. Reddit should be a public utility. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/01/22 03:38 AM |
| 5 | Personally as a right winged male, there are a few points that both sides have in common.Everybody works hard. It's convenient that those most able to oppose and topple capitalism are paid the most while other essential workers like nurses, teachers and community workers are near the bottom of the list. But that's where we differ :) And I agree - that's okay. Sorry for the poor reception but I also agree it would have been best to bring some specifics to the table. Maybe this is a bigger step for you than it seems to us, though. I remember when I was a Christian and I magnanimously … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/01/22 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Complaining about not being treated equally whilst being treated equally- woman’s tweet to the AA. But the AA CEO’s response is even more concerning.I just realized I use RES (Reddit Enhancement Suite) so it probably looks different on your screen. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/01/22 12:33 AM |
| 9 | Complaining about not being treated equally whilst being treated equally- woman’s tweet to the AA. But the AA CEO’s response is even more concerning.Exhausting, yes, but it would add such sweet fuel to the rage and righteousness inherent to modern feminism. The more scared you are by men, the more justified you are in hatefully speaking about men. The more you hatefully speak about men, the more social currency you have. Since what these feminists are doing is clearly verbal and emotional abuse, it's important to always be angry and/or scared because they don't want to feel bad and strong emotions justify any action (in the moment). | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/01/22 12:09 AM |
| 1 | The sexism against men when roadside assistance is required.I actually did ask another guy for help when I discovered a flat at a campsite. He was super nice and showed me how to do it. We thanked him and bought him some brownies when we went into town. I honestly think you have "being a man" confused with "being an asshole". It's the males who are insecure in their manhood who preen, strut and crow. The alpha males of any species are calm, confident and in control. You should sit down tonight and make an inventory. List everything you love about yoursel… | /r/MensRights | 22/01/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Complaining about not being treated equally whilst being treated equally- woman’s tweet to the AA. But the AA CEO’s response is even more concerning.How do you go to the second image? There's small text that says "Next" just above the upper-left corner of the picture. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/01/22 11:45 PM |
| 18 | Complaining about not being treated equally whilst being treated equally- woman’s tweet to the AA. But the AA CEO’s response is even more concerning.My wife and I were just discussing last night how men generally have their guard up most of the time. I think that's why the guys recognized the sleazeball - because he's a danger (to the women). This is also why these feminists have such high levels of fear and are so angry at men for "allowing" a violent society. They think, for some reason, that society is supposed to this safe place where you can walk anywhere, do anything and not have to be afraid. You've always had to have your guard up. T… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/01/22 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Complaining about not being treated equally whilst being treated equally- woman’s tweet to the AA. But the AA CEO’s response is even more concerning.While most Western men have heeded the advice that they have to consider things from the perspective of the other gender, almost no Western women have followed - or even heard - such advice. It's always up to men to fix all gender relations (Hyperagency mixed with "Say sorry because she's never wrong") and the changes are to benefit women exclusively even though they won't be doing any of them (Hypoagency mixed with "Honeydo list after a 60hr work week"). | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/01/22 11:29 PM |
| 15 | Complaining about not being treated equally whilst being treated equally- woman’s tweet to the AA. But the AA CEO’s response is even more concerning.This was a Sunday at midday, in the centre of a city in the UK. This paranoia is strongly encouraged in female-centered online spaces as well. There's whole threads with women talking about what might have happened because some guy looked at them. It's objectively unhealthy behaviour, and 100% socially acceptable. Encouraged, even. When we're encouraging damaging and irrational behaviour, that's when we know there's a bug in the system. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/01/22 11:23 PM |
| 15 | Complaining about not being treated equally whilst being treated equally- woman’s tweet to the AA. But the AA CEO’s response is even more concerning.I read through the Twitter thread and didn't see one woman pointing out that this request infantilizes women. The reason they're okay with it here is this another battle in the war of "Men Are Evil". This was about proving that women need protection from men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/01/22 11:18 PM |
| 11 | Complaining about not being treated equally whilst being treated equally- woman’s tweet to the AA. But the AA CEO’s response is even more concerning.It it is illegal, and someone takes the time to bring it to court, the courts have to do something about it. Even if the courts did say "Nah fam, you're good", that would just give more ammunition to UK male advocates. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/01/22 11:16 PM |
| 3 | The sexism against men when roadside assistance is required.Knowledge isn't gendered. I don't know how to change a tire but I know how to counter shit arguments like yours. Everybody has different areas of expertise. That's a good thing! | /r/MensRights | 22/01/22 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrageYes, it is bad because the journey informs the destination: HOW you do something determines WHAT you do. You can't create good by committing evil. Emotions aren't for leverage. Shame is not a rational construct. And the use of it depends on a national narrative that already agrees with you. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/01/22 01:43 AM |
| 5 | UK: Fury as AA says it does NOT 'prioritise' a lone woman over a man at roadside: Customers 'CANCEL memberships' as breakdown firm confirms it does not give priority 'based on gender'That struck me as well. How comfortable she is dictating to men what their feelings are. The statement relies on traditional gender norms too. What if men are scared, just because it's dark and lonely? Her assumption is that men aren't scared of the dark because in her mind all men are expected to be strong, stoic and safe. Unless she's criticizing men. Then all men are weak, helpless and dangerous. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/22 04:30 AM |
| 11 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrageI can't believe the AA have apologised for this. What else are they going to do? If the responsible corporate head doesn't issue an apology, they'll just be fired and the first thing their replacement will do is issue that apology. I'm not comfortable with how easy it is now to shame an organization into obeying your demands. We haven't seen this much use of shame as social leverage, as power, since the Christians were in charge. Social media trebles the power shame once had, too. Now people can… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/22 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrageThat's already the case in Canada, unfortunately. At least according to our unelected kangaroo courts known as Human Rights Tribunals. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/22 04:02 AM |
| 42 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrage'I will now wait alone in the dark for 90 minutes or more, something which as a lone woman nowhere near home is far more anxiety-provoking than it would be for a man, if you follow the news. She apparently does not follow the news or she'd know that men are twice as likely to be attacked or murdered by a stranger. In otherwise, she's TWICE AS SAFE as a man but still demanding that AA prioritize women over men. Also, how dehumanizing is it to men for feminists like this to constantly tell us what… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/22 03:57 AM |
| 37 | The Swedish Gender Equality Agency classifies violence against men as violence against womenMost common form of domestic violence is mutual violence. Men are twice as likely to be murdered and twice as likely to be attacked by a stranger than a woman. Why are we lied to about who is most victimized by violence in our society? Because we live in a feminist society and nothing threatens feminism more than humanizing men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/01/22 01:41 AM |
| 7 | Mention men, and you're instantly dismissedAnd if we are honest, there is very little response we have that can compete with that. Ask them why the gender of the attacker is important. Because it's men doing the killing. Then ask them if men are the attackers, does it mean that male victims matter less. If they say yes, you've won. You can ask them why someone's gender makes their death unimportant and other such questions that forces them to say unapologetically sexist things. Go far enough and you'll have them admitting they think men … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/01/22 07:15 AM |
| 1 | UK: Female who stalked male college worker, 42, is slapped with a restraining order. She smashed up his sports car, followed him to Benidorm and spray painted 'n**ce' on his fence OP: He lost his job and she was still not jailedMale faculty, in a position of power? LOL I once had a post-colonial lit teacher that I had the power in our student-teacher relationship because she wasn't white. She even admitted she could give me an "F" on everything because I'm white and I'd still "hold the power". It's a nonsense argument. There's no metric. How do you measure power? What kind of power? Social power is almost always ignored whenever this subject comes up probably because it ruins the toxic theory of patriarchy. | /r/MensRights | 15/01/22 12:26 AM |
| 17 | Boston University requires "students and faculty to affirm that people 'rarely' make false accusations." Choosing "sometimes" was *not* an acceptable answer. Teachers who don't get it "right" will not be eligible for a raise, students who don't will be blocked from registering for next semester.Thomas Middleditch is another casualty. He was accused of groping someone at a sex club. No witnesses, nobody else comes forward but he's still losing jobs. He's such a brilliant improviser too. What's the benefit in never being able to see one of the greats, in their prime, perform again? Especially when there's not even been an attempt to get the facts of the situation aside from one article by one reporter. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/01/22 03:17 AM |
| 22 | Boston University requires "students and faculty to affirm that people 'rarely' make false accusations." Choosing "sometimes" was *not* an acceptable answer. Teachers who don't get it "right" will not be eligible for a raise, students who don't will be blocked from registering for next semester.then why hasn't any of the thousands of people involved in this research stood up and said something. Because it's politically-driven research meant to affirm feminists "facts" instead of uncover the truth. Look how feminists try to subvert the fact that most prison rape is committed by women. From https://www.uclalawreview.org/pdf/59-6-6.pdf: Similarly, Dyan McGuire acknowledged the BJS finding that “male inmates are at substantial risk of sexual exploitation by female correctional personnel,”1… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/01/22 03:11 AM |
| 0 | The Depth of Feminism's EmpathyI asked what they liked about feminism. Usually they say something about equal rights which is a nice segue into humanism. So no, I wasn't looking for a fight. Sounds like you are though. Go on, tell me more about my personal motivations. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/12/21 08:17 PM |
| 1 | The Depth of Feminism's EmpathyI asked what they liked about feminism. Usually they say something about equal rights which is a nice segue into humanism. So no, I wasn't looking for a fight. Sounds like you are though. Go on, tell me more about my personal motivations. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/12/21 08:17 PM |
| 4 | The Depth of Feminism's EmpathyLike I said - it's a hobby. I don't enjoy it but the price is well worth it as long as I can help other men realize that feminism hurts them and then justifies the abuse. It makes "Men need feminism" sound more and more like the voice of an abusive partner: "You need me. You're worthless without me." | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/12/21 09:47 AM |
| 7 | The Depth of Feminism's EmpathyWhat did they think they were talking about when they encountered the concept in school or the rest of their life? Was it all just an imitation of understanding, a rote memorization of words without any meaning attached to it, like a parrot would do it? Great questions. It's the opposite of depth. As far as I can see they've always just said the right things because saying the right things is socially important. Most of us in this sub are guilty of doing this in one form or another; very few of … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/12/21 09:26 AM |
| 10 | The Depth of Feminism's EmpathyI'm thinking of investing in a VPN and finding out. Any suggestions? I did actually catch up to this person again and dropped facts about how society treats men and how often men deal with physical violence in their lives. The Stranger responded with "Yes but it's men killing men" with the extra martini twist of "as expected of a patriarchy". When I pointed out their victim-blaming and how they are devaluing men's lives, I was accused of misogyny and another rage-quit. Another example of the hyp… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/12/21 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Politics aside, I hate and I REALLY HATE how people always resort to the "plummeting birth rates" as a counterarguement to thinking being anti feminist is the main sole basis of thatpoetical Well shucks. and at the same time offer me little of substance to engage with as an economist. Maybe you should engage with it as a human being instead. Can you offer a reason why your example of what I said isn't true? Why do you seem to look down a fusion of logic and empathy? Instead, I am interested in discussing the concrete political figures, their flawed and often counter-productive attempts to implement their professed ideals. And? Does that mean I can't talk about our social re… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/12/21 08:40 AM |
| 20 | The Depth of Feminism's EmpathyThis isn't rage-bait. This was me. It happened tonight. (Don't judge; Reddit and Omegle are how I relax.) It hurts. It always does. It especially hurts because it's so blatantly irrational, so divorced from the ideals the Stranger claims to uphold. It's like they've gone especially out of their way to not care about men, that they'd rather violate everything they hold dear as long as it means that they don't have to empathize with men. I have a theory; feminists are so scared of carrying even a … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/12/21 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Alberta announces $21.5 million to help homeless, domestic violence shelters this winterCAFE is considered a hate group by organizations like UBC so yeah no that's not going to happen. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/12/21 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Would enthusiastically embracing woke ideology on non-gender matters be a good strategy to get more of the mainstream left on board with us?Your counter proposal is basically the premise of /r/stupidpol. Enjoy, if you haven't already. Just don't criticize the founder or you'll eventually be banned, like I was, after writing well over 100,000 words of quality contribution to their sub. Because Reddit. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/12/21 02:28 AM |
| 0 | Is kneeling and presenting a ring during a marriage proposal sexist?do you want a husband that starts a marriage off on his knees? This seems to rely on some pretty traditional male gender norms. What's wrong with a guy being on his knees? It's the best way to scrub a floor, for one. It's also great for giving blowjobs. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/12/21 02:23 AM |
| -1 | Is kneeling and presenting a ring during a marriage proposal sexist?No. Almost all women spend their lives looking up at their man. Having him looking up at you at such a crucial moment in your relationship is symbolic of the balance and mindfulness he intends to bring to the marriage. At least that's how it was for me. I would encourage people to think about what it means to them rather than deciding whether it's (1) sexist or (0) not sexist. If a woman demands that her proposer bend the knee, sure, that's sexist behaviour. I think it's a tradition worth keepin… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/12/21 02:22 AM |
| 19 | It's so easy to exploit male lonelinessIt is unbelievably sad. I can't imagine a class of people that's mostly able-bodied and mostly financially secure but yet so neglected by society as Lonely Men. I count myself lucky as while I was often alone before I met my wife, I was never really lonely. Reading this had me reliving the decade of solitude I call my 20's instead this time it was a version of me that actually needed other people, with women in particular. I don't know how I'd have survived. I really don't. OP, I hope you've gai… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/12/21 02:12 AM |
| 1 | How do I explain to a feminist both women and men victims of rape need to be cared of.Ask questions and appeal to the common ideal. If they say that male victims aren't as important, does that mean that all men are less important than women? If they say yes to that, they're bigots but don't say that. Just ask them why all men are less important than women. They'll say something about privilege and then you start asking about the handicapped, the homeless, the suicides, black men, boys and all the other 'marginalized' groups they care about. They either have to say they don't care… | /r/MensRights | 26/12/21 01:59 AM |
| -1 | Politics aside, I hate and I REALLY HATE how people always resort to the "plummeting birth rates" as a counterarguement to thinking being anti feminist is the main sole basis of thattechnological development has been undeniable fueled by capitalism. No, technological development is fueled by human innovation, curiosity and passion. You're assigning those individual achievements to a system that ensures their innovation will benefit the rich more than it benefits the creator or anyone else. Capitalism has actually limited our technological progress because it by nature has no interest in an equitable distribution of resources and so we lose people who could have contributed … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/12/21 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Politics aside, I hate and I REALLY HATE how people always resort to the "plummeting birth rates" as a counterarguement to thinking being anti feminist is the main sole basis of thatI mean the same thing I mean when I talk about feminism: the system that surrounds us, affects our daily lives and whose core values are detrimental to human togetherness and happiness. What's religious about my descriptions? They're correct and pertinent. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/12/21 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Politics aside, I hate and I REALLY HATE how people always resort to the "plummeting birth rates" as a counterarguement to thinking being anti feminist is the main sole basis of thatWe went to the moon, brother. We can do this. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/12/21 06:32 AM |
| -1 | Politics aside, I hate and I REALLY HATE how people always resort to the "plummeting birth rates" as a counterarguement to thinking being anti feminist is the main sole basis of that[No disrespect here. I'm just very passionate about this subject.] but it is still the best system we have. Only because there's been a dearth of alternatives tested. Why? Because capitalism suits the people in power just fine. It is what has elevated millions of people out of poverty and keeps doing so. No, capitalism has existed while millions of people were elevated out of poverty by sane governance, a more equitable distribution of resources and MASSIVE leaps in technology. This is no differ… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/12/21 06:05 AM |
| 5 | LWMA Lounge December 2021Yeah I felt the same way. It even happened on the new season of Archer. Archer for Pete's sake. It hurts. Not just because of the casual hate but because you know that not only will nobody care about it if you protest, you're likely to be mocked, ridiculed and shunned by friends for speaking up against hate. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/12/21 03:16 AM |
| 21 | Most prison rape is committed by women[Edit: Forgot to add thanks so much for the sources and all the work you put into this!] She cautions that it would be “misleading” to read the BJS data as “impl[ying] that the abuse of male inmates by female guards is a larger or more serious problem than the abuse of female inmates by male guards. It's always this. Society can NEVER care more about men than it does women. The mere suggestion of such a thing to a feminist and they act like you just asked them to eat dog shit. That's how distast… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/21 07:48 AM |
| 6 | Politics aside, I hate and I REALLY HATE how people always resort to the "plummeting birth rates" as a counterarguement to thinking being anti feminist is the main sole basis of thatThere's not really any evidence that we have too many people. We just have an inequitable distribution of resources. America wastes 30-40% of its food every year. Most first world nations are in the same range. Plus, if we equitably distributed resources the birth rate would naturally drop since economic stability lowers birth rates. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/12/21 07:29 AM |
| 7 | Politics aside, I hate and I REALLY HATE how people always resort to the "plummeting birth rates" as a counterarguement to thinking being anti feminist is the main sole basis of thatI think they're saying that people are blaming declining birth rates on anti-feminism and (I'm guessing here) MGTOW. They're doing this because anyone who isn't anti-feminist almost universally assume that it means anti-women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/12/21 07:27 AM |
| 3 | Politics aside, I hate and I REALLY HATE how people always resort to the "plummeting birth rates" as a counterarguement to thinking being anti feminist is the main sole basis of thatSince the birth rate drops as economic stability rises, an equitable distribution of resources would be the quickest way to slow the growth of humans. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/12/21 07:24 AM |
| 5 | Politics aside, I hate and I REALLY HATE how people always resort to the "plummeting birth rates" as a counterarguement to thinking being anti feminist is the main sole basis of thatgrab up all the credit for positive economic and technological societal change that happened around the time their political activism happened. I do believe that's the plan. The normal progress of human rights will carry on as it has since the Renaissance but now it will be Because of Feminism. They just have to wait until there are enough female war criminals CEOs, generals and heads of state to believably claim responsibility. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/12/21 07:21 AM |
| 3 | Politics aside, I hate and I REALLY HATE how people always resort to the "plummeting birth rates" as a counterarguement to thinking being anti feminist is the main sole basis of thatNot when that evil is omnipresent in our society and there is not yet a defined "good". For instance, I'm anti-capitalist because I know that capitalism is an evil force in our world. Talking about "pro-" would be presumptuous because that's something we should collectively build rather than me assigning a name to whatever I personally believe or glom on to somebody else who does exactly that. It's similar with feminism. Saying I'm "Humanism" doesn't adequately say "Feminism hurts men." And so I… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/12/21 07:19 AM |
| 3 | Politics aside, I hate and I REALLY HATE how people always resort to the "plummeting birth rates" as a counterarguement to thinking being anti feminist is the main sole basis of thatI'm an anti-capitalist. I'm also an anti-feminist. These two ideologies are such a central feature of our daily lives that it is VERY meaningful to say that you are anti-feminist or anti-capitalist. I could say "I'm a humanist" but that doesn't cover the fact that I think feminism is hurting men (and boys) and that's where "anti-feminist" comes in. Sorry I think your argument is far too "Everything is Awesome". There are clear, good reasons to identify yourself as an anti-feminist. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/12/21 07:15 AM |
| 19 | How to accurately describe how "toxic masculinity" isn't helped by "acting more feminineIMO, feminism treats men like defective women. Saying men can "help themselves" by acting more feminine is just mask-off admitting this is exactly what they think. And "toxic masculinity" is just all the negative male values that were left over when all the positive male values were universalized. It's a scam. It truly is. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/12/21 07:26 AM |
| 16 | Why am I being treated like a monster?Well, I mean that's the whole idea behind "representation matters". People can (can, not will) take their cues from the media they consume. If the media consistently depicts a certain identity type in a negative way, it means there will be far more people to treat those people in the same way. Feminists can't even live by their own rules. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/21 03:26 AM |
| 18 | Why am I being treated like a monster?She doesn't know any of the other thousands of strangers who walk within 20 feet of her either. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/21 03:24 AM |
| 15 | Why am I being treated like a monster?Did you drop an /s? | /r/MensRights | 20/12/21 03:23 AM |
| 8 | Why am I being treated like a monster?Would you be just as afraid if it was a woman who was a very fit 5'10? | /r/MensRights | 20/12/21 03:23 AM |
| 9 | I find it telling that feminists regularly discuss the gender income gap, but never what it actually means in terms of quality of life.Indeed, the fact that feminists don't decry women having an overall lower quality of life shows that it's not happening, since they would trumpet it from every mountaintop if it were the case. Brilliant point. The "income gap" is just another capitalist metric that clearly doesn't translate into a lower quality of life. The other reason it doesn't mean a lower quality of life is because there is no gap, not really. There's about a 5% gap that could be explained by men tend to negotiate for highe… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/12/21 11:53 PM |
| 50 | Well it's been fun boysIt's relatively quiet now but the misandry and race-baiting will start heating up in 2023, just in time to set the stage for the next election. | /r/MensRights | 17/12/21 11:25 PM |
| 107 | Well it's been fun boysFfs I could not believe it. They are a widely recognized hate group but Patreon's letting them use their website to raise funds? Yes, report them but don't report them for misandry. Report them for transphobia and homophobia. You can even use this handy AHS link as proof. There's no AHS link for misandry in that sub because the mods don't believe misandry is real. I'm just being practical here. It's likely that Patreon will hold the same view - or, that they will be afraid to stand up against mi… | /r/MensRights | 17/12/21 11:23 PM |
| 16 | A While Back a Man Was Murdered Outside a WalMart in My TownIt was a plea bargain. This is how plea bargains work. I'd be more concerned that part of her defence was her entry into a women's-only program in Calgary called RESET, which is not a defence any man could avail himself to. | /r/MensRights | 17/12/21 01:55 AM |
| 7 | Sharing someone's frustrations is sexist now apparentlyis bullying. Yes. People need to start treating The Woke as what they are: bullies. | /r/MensRights | 16/12/21 09:57 PM |
| 1 | So i made a post on off my chest about how I wanna be strong and a women said i am a mysoginyst. The fuck?You can't afford a gym but you can afford Adderal? | /r/MensRights | 15/12/21 03:48 AM |
| 1 | My 2021 Reddit RecapGreat, really appreciate it. I may want to use this in something I'm writing but I'll contact you before I do. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/12/21 04:34 AM |
| 12 | Research Article: "while people demand equal sentencing decisions between male and female child sex offenders, this is limited by public perception when the abuser is an attractive female and, as a result, perceived as less harmful to the child, who is no longer as a victim but as a ‘Lucky Boy’."And this is happening in a culture with a strong focus on consent! Everybody knows about consent, everybody talks about consent, everybody says they respect consent. All of that goes out to the window when it comes to men. Yet another demonstration of how little our society values men. Imagine what society would be like if women were the dominant gender like now but always had been as well. If the right of consent had never been affirmed, what would that world look like? Probably men being sexua… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/12/21 04:29 AM |
| 2 | So you know the rules AutoModerator send to you when you first comment in a new sub? I followed the link, asked a question and got this responseCanada isn't so explicit about it but that's exactly the way our Human Rights Council see the situation. I just don't think anyone's ever pushed them on it, besides a guy protesting women being granted free entry into nightclubs while men are charged (court ruled that women are more oppressed than men so it's okay). Unfortunately, that kind of perseverance is not a Canadian trait. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 03:04 AM |
| 11 | Growing up, I've never had any male friends. But now my female friends are just toxic.I know these are your friends and so the following deconstruction of what they're saying won't fix everything but I hope it'll be something to hold onto. One friend of mine lost her shit at me for not using a pride flag icon during pride month, called me an LGBTQ+ hater You didn't show Party allegiance which gave her an opportunity to use her power against you (female -> male). Seems this type of person exists everywhere. Whether it's carrying their little red book or making sure everybody knows… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/12/21 02:56 AM |
| 5 | More than "just jokes": The societal treatment of men with small dicks.People might have mistakenly thought I was demonizing women in which case I don't mind the downvote as it's the right reaction. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/12/21 02:05 AM |
| 1 | My 2021 Reddit RecapI'd be lying if I hadn't immediately thought of Russia's influence. I was a good way into working on "In America, Ukraine; In Russia, Crane you" Yakov Smirnoff joke when I realized that might be incredibly insensitive. Purely out of curiosity: would it be offensive, even a little bit? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/21 06:02 AM |
| 1 | My 2021 Reddit Recaphaha well don't tell anybody. I lost Autechre when I lost my harddrive so I'm genuinely grateful for the reminder. I've downloaded and listening to Incunabula now. I can't honestly remember what I listened to back then but Bike sounded familiar so I got the album. If you like Autechre, here's a few you may or may not recognize: Tortoise, Manitoba - Crayons (he later became Caribou and Mum - K/Half-Noise (slow burn but absolutely 100% worth it). Also, the beginning of Autechre's Bike reminded me … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/21 05:45 AM |
| -1 | My 2021 Reddit RecapPeople are already saying because the finalizing of the election was held late that it's illegitimate. I Are people saying things!?! Heaven forfend! Imagine if it was actually delayed. This seems to be the primary occupation of Jan 6'ers. "Imagine if..." Biden isn't even a progressive! Okay I guess we're going to memory hole the promise to progressives that Biden would be moved to embrace their ideology. Even with, Biden hasn't even done anything great for the Left in general. What's the most ne… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/21 05:23 AM |
| 1 | My 2021 Reddit RecapThat is an odd one. I wonder if other country subreddits were ignored. Unfortunately I've been banned from all three of my national subreddits (Canada) so I can't compare. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/21 04:58 AM |
| 3 | My 2021 Reddit RecapReally?? So it's that official. LWMA doesn't demonize women but we do criticize feminism. Twox does demonize women but won't allow criticism of feminism. It's apparent where their priorities lie. If I could ask a favour: A screenshot of your recap against a screenshot of your karma breakdown by subreddit would be really useful for me. You could black out all the subs but MensLib and LWMA. Also, /u/a-man-from-earth, is this actionable by the mods? I assume not, but. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/21 04:36 AM |
| 1 | My 2021 Reddit RecapYour post is great evidence for why I think Jan 6th is hyperbolized. You thought something was going to happen but it didn't. Let it go. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/21 04:31 AM |
| 0 | My 2021 Reddit RecapIt wasn't an attempted coup but even if it was, it had no chance of doing anything. It was more in the realm of me kicking the White House in the expectation and full intent that it will crash and tumble from my Mighty ThunderKick and thereby kill the President at which point the rest of the country/world will bow before the might of my thighs. I think it's been fetishized by a generation younger than me because they watched it live and it felt momentous at the time. But because of the sense of … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/21 04:29 AM |
| 2 | My 2021 Reddit RecapSidenote but I had completely forgot about Autechre! Catching up now so thanks for the accidental reminder! I also got "Moral Compass" btw. It's disturbing an algorithm can pick out we argue a lot. I wonder what the keywords were. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/21 04:18 AM |
| 29 | More than "just jokes": The societal treatment of men with small dicks.All men are responsible for the shape of society: Hyper-agency. Women aren't responsible for how their words affect society: Hypo-agency. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/21 02:46 AM |
| 15 | More than "just jokes": The societal treatment of men with small dicks.FYI, the vast majority of women have 1 breast smaller than the other. It's usually quite subtle though. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/21 02:42 AM |
| 12 | More than "just jokes": The societal treatment of men with small dicks.Your posts are always a great resource. How do you collect all these links? Just pure determination and time? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/21 02:36 AM |
| 6 | Men have been sacrificing their lives to protect women for all of human history.Another factor to always remember is class. Only 3% of first-class women died while 54% of third-class women died. Source Men who die at work are of lower class than those who make bank by sitting in an office. All those homeless men? They're poor. Majority of suicides? Poor. It's the rich who have always benefited from the structure of our society and keeping men and women pitted against one another is one way to make sure the 1% perpetually benefit at the expense of the 99%. | /r/MensRights | 13/12/21 02:32 AM |
| 1 | The term "women are always right" "a man will never win in an argument against a woman even if he's right" just makes me sick!Sure you can have a long-term relationship with someone without legally marrying them. | /r/MensRights | 12/12/21 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Sidewalks are now sexist. Top post today on TwoX has poster claiming she will move over for anyone on a sidewalk except for single men. Why, because it’s Friday and it’s men suck day.This person is a bigot or lives in Iran or New York or something. All I know is that what's she saying doesn't match my years of observation at all. Men will generally move out of the way for women. If anything, it would be women who didn't move out of the way for others but usually because she's talking to a friend, jogging, or is push a pram. The latter is obviously reasonable and one of the cases where men would clearly give her room. I also notice that when it's raining, the woman walk next … | /r/MensRights | 11/12/21 02:33 AM |
| 3 | OCR Dismissal of Discrimination by Rutgers HackHers EventMakes me wish I was an American so I could help out. Phew. As an American, you may not know what it means for a Canadian to type out "wish I was an American". I can only describe it as a naked slide down a razor-studded balustrade. But a slide gladly made, if this at all lifts your spirits. I'm fluent in government-speak. I can first-draft professional emails that are likely to make our point no matter what their reply and I'm great at proofing other letters. So If there's any grunt work I can d… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/12/21 05:55 PM |
| 6 | Do men have a higher bar as to what they consider sexual harassments?Just want to say I love your series of evidence-based posts and think they're a really valuable contribution. only 20% of men consider it to be sexual harassment, while 52% of women consider it sexual harassment. Women have been trained early on to consider any form of a "dirty joke" as sexual harassment because feminists in the 80's determined it so. Few women in my experience have been taught to think how their words and actions affect men - only how men's words and actions affect them. Vice v… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/12/21 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Do MRA understand the feminist prospective?Yes. Much like when I debated fundamentalist Christians, I know the ideology better than the people willing to hate in its name. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/12/21 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Proposal- the creation of political party for male issues in the United States.I hear what you're saying but I'm firmly convinced that Humanism is the only way forward. Making a party about men's issues is just engaging in idpol. I want to help the poor before I want to help rich men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/12/21 05:09 PM |
| 5 | OCR Dismissal of Discrimination by Rutgers HackHers Eventgender gap in technology What about the gender gap in social sciences, education, medicine, agriculture and the legal professions? Oh right that one's against men so it doesn't exist (perhaps secretly "the way things should be"). please consider our mission statement before registering and know that by participating in our event, you pledge to follow our Code of Conduct. Just to want to re-affirm what you said. This implies men would be less able to follow a code of conduct (or of not even needi… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/12/21 05:01 PM |
| 41 | Men's advocacy tend to have higher quality contents than feminism, yet we are still viewed as the assholes fringe movement. Does anyone ever wonder why?Why are we still the bad guys? Because pop feminism is founded upon the idea that men are the oppressor class. NOTHING else makes sense if men aren't an oppressor class so it's made sure that men are always seen as the oppressor class. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/12/21 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Our school no longer allows male high school students to go to the restroomSend your civil rights complaint to [email protected] Here's more info about filing a Title ix but the most important thing is to send that email, in whatever form it takes. It's their job to investigate instances of suspected civil rights issues. You don't have to prove it for them. You just have to let them know about it and they investigate. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/21 12:48 AM |
| 11 | The term "women are always right" "a man will never win in an argument against a woman even if he's right" just makes me sick!Don't let generalizations about women define your life choices. | /r/MensRights | 09/12/21 05:28 AM |
| 20 | let's talk about gendered violence against menAll war is gendered violence since it disproportionately affects men. According to the UN, gender-based violence refers to harmful acts directed at an individual based on their gender. Be it draft or cultural coercion, men have been vastly over-represented in 99% of all armies that have ever been. Men die in war because they're men (and because of the decisions of the rich). All war is gendered violence. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/12/21 02:43 AM |
| 2 | A comparison of two movements.I hereby call the American founders into the discussion. Yes, that seems to be a very popular thing for first-worlders to do lately. It's a perspective born of privilege, of someone who's benefit from the freedom and stability that American democracy provides. The guys who established a system of governance that ...fundamentally advanced the rights of all people since the injustices you mentioned were undone by the governmental structure you deride. The Founding Fathers built in the ability to c… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/12/21 04:08 AM |
| 13 | A comparison of two movements.just want to worsen the image of feminism Quoting feminists who have never been cancelled for their hate speech isn't "wanting to worsen the image of feminism"; it's accurately portraying influential portions of feminism who were unopposed in their hate speech and are even lauded in modern society ("The Future Is Female"). | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/12/21 02:20 AM |
| 14 | A comparison of two movements.While I agree with the latter, feminism has unjustly (and incorrectly) claimed moral authority when it comes to gender. It's useful to let people peek behind the curtain and expose what's really been said by many feminists is really just hate speech. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/12/21 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Abortion should stem from reproductive autonomy rights for all gendersAnime tends to lean pretty hard on traditional gender rules and norms, though, in both directions. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/12/21 08:57 AM |
| 22 | Abortion should stem from reproductive autonomy rights for all gendersThat’s horrendous and illogical. I think it speaks to the power of feminism in our society. It contains so many horrendous and illogical conclusions that we've all implicitly accepted anyways. That's hardly the voice of the oppressed. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/12/21 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Abortion should stem from reproductive autonomy rights for all gendersI also like the general body autonomy Argument as well. As long as you have a response for the inevitable "Unborn babies have bodily autonomy too" counter-argument but that's essentially the same position they have now. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/12/21 05:54 AM |
| 15 | Am I the only one who notices that gender roles are more rigid for men than are for women?Yeah if you're a stay at home dad for some people it's because you're lazy and/or couldn't cut it 'in the real world'. Feminism sees this as proof that men look down on women but that doesn't make sense in a world where men have a bias towards women. It just means that many men treat women differently than men. Differently doesn't mean worse. It could mean better in one instance and worse in the next (but better overall). It really is just that men and women will treat men more harshly than they… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/11/21 01:02 AM |
| 9 | Am I the only one who notices that gender roles are more rigid for men than are for women?men the oppressors." Yes all those poor men, disabled men, boys, homeless men, mentally ill men, sexually abused men, emotionally abused men, and good men just trying to work hard enough to feed their family are the oppressors. Not the rich, no, no. It's only about gender. It's ironic that so many feminists are supporters of the theory that all women are oppressed by cock. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/11/21 12:40 AM |
| 0 | The worst parts of men's advocacy.While I read every word you said, it still boils down to a rationalization for bigotry. I'm familiar with your arguments. They're part of the structure that allows us to "safely" feel bigotry. It's bullshit. There's no reason to generalize about ALL people and you'd see it as well if only you spend time considering how incredibly small a percentage of people you know from that identity category, particularly for women which are nigh on 4 billion. Here's a great site for a visual representation b… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/11/21 04:10 AM |
| 1 | While we all support self defense, planning to kill someone isn't self defense. Kyle is a 2A leader, Chad's ex-wife is a Texas Judge, they hid Chads son during Chads scheduled visitation pickup time, trying to anger the Father, then kill him. It was premeditated murder.Ugh, MensLib is controlled opposition. How can anyone call themselves a men's sub if you're not allowed to criticize feminism? Or they invite someone to do an AMA who supports the Duluth model? So many other examples but that sub only exists to convince men they should feel guilty for thinking about criticizing feminism. Nobody should ever be made to feel guilty for criticizing an ideology or movement. That way lies religion. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/21 04:01 AM |
| 1 | While we all support self defense, planning to kill someone isn't self defense. Kyle is a 2A leader, Chad's ex-wife is a Texas Judge, they hid Chads son during Chads scheduled visitation pickup time, trying to anger the Father, then kill him. It was premeditated murder.Upvoted. Very humanist perspective. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/21 10:45 PM |
| 2 | While we all support self defense, planning to kill someone isn't self defense. Kyle is a 2A leader, Chad's ex-wife is a Texas Judge, they hid Chads son during Chads scheduled visitation pickup time, trying to anger the Father, then kill him. It was premeditated murder.Try /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates. They have a rule against the demonization of women. (And criticism of feminism is still fair game.) I post here because I've seen it better (believe it or not) over the years and it's because other moderate voices posted here. So I figured I might as well help with that effort. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/21 10:44 PM |
| 1 | While we all support self defense, planning to kill someone isn't self defense. Kyle is a 2A leader, Chad's ex-wife is a Texas Judge, they hid Chads son during Chads scheduled visitation pickup time, trying to anger the Father, then kill him. It was premeditated murder.Everything about the way he acted suggests SMS, which is a real fucking thing. It's not every short man, by far, but it exists and they're a fucking nightmare to be around. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/21 10:41 PM |
| 1 | While we all support self defense, planning to kill someone isn't self defense. Kyle is a 2A leader, Chad's ex-wife is a Texas Judge, they hid Chads son during Chads scheduled visitation pickup time, trying to anger the Father, then kill him. It was premeditated murder.I don't care what Texas law states. The only piece of shit is the murderer. There was NO need to kill the guy. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/21 10:38 PM |
| 4 | While we all support self defense, planning to kill someone isn't self defense. Kyle is a 2A leader, Chad's ex-wife is a Texas Judge, they hid Chads son during Chads scheduled visitation pickup time, trying to anger the Father, then kill him. It was premeditated murder.Men have been conditioned for hundreds of thousands of years to start pumping adrenaline as soon as someone blocks access to their kids. It's exploiting biological differences between the sexes, the same differences that are depended upon when danger arises and women and children need protecting. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/21 10:36 PM |
| 1 | While we all support self defense, planning to kill someone isn't self defense. Kyle is a 2A leader, Chad's ex-wife is a Texas Judge, they hid Chads son during Chads scheduled visitation pickup time, trying to anger the Father, then kill him. It was premeditated murder.I can see not taking the gun threat seriously because it seems ridiculous that someone would actually murder you with it. But hey I'm Canadian. Drastically less gun deaths up here, unless you count the animals we're shooting. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/21 10:34 PM |
| 21 | Am I the only one who thinks gender roles are worst for men?Thank you for taking the time to walk in somebody else's shoes. You mentioned the Bible and while I'm no longer Christian, I feel comfortable in describing what you're doing here as a Christ-like act. To answer your question, yes I think gender roles are absolutely worse for men because they result in our death far more often than the inverse. Women's gender roles are the result of (unhealthy and extreme imo) care-taking by men. It's an extremist version of protecting women. That being said, one… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/11/21 10:30 PM |
| 1 | The worst parts of men's advocacy."Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere." I like your point about oppression. It creates an unnecessary and untrue dichotomy. It's not how people intent on help others would frame a situation; it is how power-mongers frame a situation. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/11/21 01:25 AM |
| 1 | The worst parts of men's advocacy.We should be able to talk about what I call "Traditional female culture". It's helpful in understanding and deconstructing feminism and it's what's been done to traditional male culture. The positive aspects of the culture are qualities we all know but nobody's allowed to talk about the negative aspects. Negative aspects of traditional male culture: 'the strong survive' mentality that inevitably leads to subjugation and bullying until everyone is kept in line, showing off in dangerous or disresp… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/11/21 01:21 AM |
| 4 | The worst parts of men's advocacy.Probably the same as with any other place: negative generalizations, unsourced claims and bad arguments. The sub rules take care of the first. We can all help each other out with the second by asking for or providing sources. Here are some. Bookmarking and tagging works well. Women tend to have an in-group bias. The same link also shows that men don't have an in-group bias, and actually have a bias towards women, which is important when dismantling the concept of patriarchy. An OECD report found… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/11/21 01:11 AM |
| 2 | The worst parts of men's advocacy.It is inevitable that bursts of anti-woman, No, it's not. Bigotry is not inevitable. It's irrational and while we I appreciate we all have our little irrationalities, it's not acceptable when it comes to making negative generalizations about an identity group. We're adults who are conscious of what we're saying and so we're perfectly capable of not saying some hurt, irrational statement about more than half the world's population. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/11/21 05:07 AM |
| 10 | The worst parts of men's advocacy.we sometimes go too far in attacking the movement. Such as? It's a movement, an ideology. It doesn't have feelings. Assuming the "attacks" are logical and serve to protect the most amount of people from harm as possible, I'm struggling to see the problem here. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/11/21 04:55 AM |
| 3 | The worst parts of men's advocacy.Very well said and very worth saying. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/11/21 04:51 AM |
| 29 | The worst parts of men's advocacy.This is disturbingly common. It usually happens when they have no good reply to your argument so they dive into ad hominem. And make no mistake, that's exactly what going through your past comments is: an attack on your person. Beyond that though there's the realization that they quite literally believe in wrongthink. If you are associated with X ideology - a recognized heresy - then nothing else you say can possibly have merit. It's a crazy mix of McCarthyism and evangelical Christianity and th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/11/21 04:50 AM |
| 8 | I am not having my baby circumcised"Fine! but if you don't get him circumcised, don't go around telling people about it!" lol because your son's penis is usually the first subject of conversation you bring up in polite society. One, mind your p's and q's, Two, always use the utensils on the outside, Three, talk about the state of your son's dick as soon as possible. That's the level of rationality you're dealing with here. Take comfort in that. You have the right to choose how to raise your children (and the right to choose your … | /r/MensRights | 25/11/21 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Mark Perry provides an update to his Title IX activism and the "dirty dismissals" OCR is using to not enforce civil rights law for men.Yes, agricultural science is always excluded for example. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/11/21 10:22 AM |
| -2 | Some TikTok of a woman getting rejected went viralI agree with you. And the one of this sub is very unfriendly :/ If you're interested in more dialogue-centric men's rights activists, you can try /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | /r/MensRights | 25/11/21 10:09 AM |
| 20 | Some TikTok of a woman getting rejected went viralThe mods assumed that because you posted here you're a hateful person even though you only commented in order to mitigate someone else's generalizations. This happens constantly to anybody who speaks up on behalf of men. You can still post at /r/TrueOffMyChest | /r/MensRights | 25/11/21 10:06 AM |
| 7 | We need to not just say "I'm alright"; and if you hear it, lean in, ask, hear them, and support your fellow man. Give a damn, and let them know.I very much agree and that was a lovely post. It would be so nice to have a more supporting environment for men. However, I found the quickest way to get people stop asking how you're doing is to answer them honestly. If a woman was having a bad in my (female-dominated) office, they'd be whisked off for coffee. Nobody wanted to hear about a guy's problems, even when they're sharing the same level of intimate detail that other coworkers have in the past. There was a lot more support in the trades… | /r/MenSupportMen | 25/11/21 06:00 AM |
| 7 | Mark Perry provides an update to his Title IX activism and the "dirty dismissals" OCR is using to not enforce civil rights law for men.OCR is supposed to investigate cases with a reasonable basis ... They are supposed to say "yea that might be discrimination going on" and open an investigation. This makes it even worse. They're blatantly requiring the applicant to do their work for them. This is something that changed with the administration Mr. Perry made the same claims but I'll have to wait longer to see if it's a definite change. You could always just email them and ask. You might hit that 0.01% chance and get an honest ans… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/11/21 08:05 AM |
| 3 | what is the most sexist things against men no one cares about or aknowledgessighs Or, Treat people with the respect you expect from others and be prepared to rightfully object if somebody tries to short-shrift your social rights. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/21 07:26 AM |
| 1 | in 2021, men's right might be more important than women's rightback in the 19s or 18s, men have power. No, the rich had power. Defining these ages by which gender had power is senseless once you think about it. Who determined what kind of society we have? The rich, and they made it so it benefited them. If men were making a society for themselves, men wouldn't be dying at their jobs or on the streets exponentially more often than women. Men wouldn't be the minority of college graduates for 40 years. Men wouldn't be the majority of the homeless and suicide d… | /r/MensRights | 24/11/21 07:22 AM |
| 3 | Bernie Sanders is owed an apology from the “feminists”and Warren supportersThe pundits were confused because they didn't understand that not everyone loves capitalism as much as they do and Clinton was yet another capitalist democrat. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/11/21 02:10 AM |
| 5 | Bernie Sanders is owed an apology from the “feminists”and Warren supportersis specific line was more about party loyalty and "voting blue no matter who." There are so many ways to say that without specifically mentioning her gender. "I Like Ike", not "I'd risk limb for him". It was formulated to highlight her gender. That's all it says "Intention to vote + her gender". mr 2016 independent becomes mr 2020 "maga for life" where we just...lost those people. Don't worry. They're the basket of deplorables. It pisses me off too. The Left acts like it can afford to lose peopl… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/11/21 02:07 AM |
| 31 | Mark Perry provides an update to his Title IX activism and the "dirty dismissals" OCR is using to not enforce civil rights law for men.Please provide instances when a male applied for the “Women in STEM Award” and was denied because of his sex. No, please provide evidence that women have applied for STEM jobs and were denied because of their sex. The only reason that "Women in STEM" award exists is because of your claim that women are disadvantaged in STEM. THEY have the burden of proof and it's for a prior claim! Why are we letting that slide? This whole sex STEM push is grounded in the idea that women are disadvantaged becaus… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/11/21 01:31 AM |
| 23 | what is the most sexist things against men no one cares about or aknowledgesThis isn't hyperbole. It's called the Duluth Model for anyone who doesn't know and it's in place in most developed nations. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/21 12:48 AM |
| 11 | what is the most sexist things against men no one cares about or aknowledgesI’ve even had women presenters say that once a male speaks, another male is not permitted to speak until a female does. Speak anyways. Especially if you're a union. What, are they going to fire you for "speaking before a woman spoke"? | /r/MensRights | 24/11/21 12:47 AM |
| 55 | Bernie Sanders is owed an apology from the “feminists”and Warren supportersIt was very eye opening as to just how poisonous this discourse can become. These morons undoubtedly cost us a shot at the presidency The exact same thing happened in 2016, make no doubt about it. "Bernie Bros" was 100% a sexist attack on Bernie supporters. It was also sexist of them to assume that women would automatically vote for Clinton. "I'm with her" was an explicit call to her gender over Bernie's. Bernie Sanders worked all his life for that country and the DNC stabbed him in the back twi… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/11/21 06:16 AM |
| 9 | Schools are constantly beating down boys in order to ‘empower’ girls when it comes to the stem areaI strongly believe that if this keeps going more and more boys are going to give up in the field of stem. That's the point, yeah. It will be hailed as equality. Over here in Canada, women account for 59 percent of 25–34 year old Canadians with a college degree, and have been the majority of post-secondary graduates since 1991. Women represent nearly two-thirds of Canadians aged 25–34 with a medical degree, 67 percent in social sciences and law, and 75 percent of education-related degrees. So wom… | /r/MensRights | 23/11/21 06:10 AM |
| 3 | The Global Gender Gap ReportI don't see how that's "fair"? You're saying a situation that doesn't exist would be fair if it existed. This is a clear attempt to prop the narrative that women are always victims and men are always beneficiaries. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/11/21 03:39 AM |
| 4 | The Global Gender Gap ReportThey're the foundation of the 'reality' that all men receive privilege, are the most favoured gender and that women are oppressed. The latter's easier to do when you never acknowledge when men fall behind. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/11/21 02:28 AM |
| 3 | The Global Gender Gap ReportAnother excellent post. One clue may be that this is produced by the World Economic Forum: The foundation, which is mostly funded by its 1,000 member companies – typically global enterprises with more than five billion US dollars in turnover These are all companies who benefit from dividing the working class. Of course they are going to hire the most Woken people they can to write this kind of material. Also, the life expectancy bit was priceless. What they're saying is that "Men DESERVE to die … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/11/21 02:18 AM |
| 5 | Thanks for making me feel like shitI would argue that women are the ones who are allowed to destroy the mental health of those around them for any tiny invented occasion. While I recognize the kind of social and emotional manipulation to which you're referring, I think we should always be as holistic and universal as possible when discussing gender roles and rules. A lot of men struggle with anger and anger can absolutely hurt the mental health of those around it. I don't think either of those facts can be disputed. So people are… | /r/MensRights | 21/11/21 05:34 AM |
| 10 | Thanks for making me feel like shitAdd "Men need feminism" to the pile of lies. | /r/MensRights | 21/11/21 05:27 AM |
| 2 | Thanks for making me feel like shitThanks for your support. People's attitudes on men's rights really weeds out those who use social politics as a weapon and a fashion accessory from those who are passionate about actual justice and universal rights. | /r/MensRights | 21/11/21 05:26 AM |
| 21 | Thanks for making me feel like shitThese are the details I mention to feminists who think it's okay to emotionally abuse "men" because it's "punching up". Somehow they don't realize that being shitty towards all men means being shitty to the autistic, the sexually abused, the suicidal, boys, teens, the homeless, the marginalized, etc. etc. When you put it that way, it's harder for them to ignore how monstrous misandry is. | /r/MensRights | 21/11/21 05:24 AM |
| 15 | This is why we need International Men's Day.I love your definition. We should reclaim the word under the definition you just provided. But, as it stands, that's not the common definition. It means "worked to provide enough money for the best possible lifestyle for your family that you could afford". It's far from your definition. Let's do some ideological aikido and use the tendency to think about men as 'providers' to our advantage by redefining the word - re-recognizing what "provider" really means, ultimately. Because nothing you said … | /r/MensRights | 20/11/21 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Weekend check-inargh okay whatever then. | /r/MenSupportMen | 20/11/21 08:04 AM |
| 18 | Very disappointing that the sub recognize how annoying it is when people whine on IWD are suddenly enforcing what they’d call toxic masculinity by telling men to stop their bitching on IMDhow Toxic Masculinity hurts men as much as women. It's such a condescending acknowledgement, too. The phrasing means that the fact that it hurts men (it doesn't because it doesn't exist) was an afterthought. They are measuring how much it hurts men to how much it hurts women, the Universal Standard. It's like a Christian telling the indigenous that belief in their own gods not only makes the real God angry but it "hurts you too". And all of this is being done in an office? It seems very unprofes… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/11/21 02:16 AM |
| 31 | Very disappointing that the sub recognize how annoying it is when people whine on IWD are suddenly enforcing what they’d call toxic masculinity by telling men to stop their bitching on IMDTwox is a hate sub. Now that's out of the way... Women have an in-group bias. Men prefer women over men. It makes sense that women would be more likely to put on events and socialize. Also "volunteering" at work means you're getting paid to do that stuff so it's not really brag-worthy. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/11/21 02:09 AM |
| 42 | From the UN: "Happy mens day to all the men that help women against men". Instead of talking about sexist drafts, the job risk gap, homelessness, the lack of right to genital integrity or so much else, they choose this weird dunk on men...This is EXACTLY what they did last year, is it not? I've written to their ethics office: [email protected]. Please feel free to do the same but only if you can contribute a calm, civil response please. It's an obvious slap to the face. It's just a shitty thing to do to an entire identity group all because you believe - without any good reason or evidence - that men aren't ever victims or oppressed or suffering. It's dehumanization, which is hardly a principle for which the UN stands. It's also… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/11/21 01:58 AM |
| 3 | Happy International Men's Day from the LWMA mod team!I don't read Danish but I can see a lot of your comments are marked as controversial. That's great news! It means people are closer to being evenly divided on your comment and it's getting both upvotes and downvotes. That's honestly the best you can hope for at this point. If you don't have "mark controversial posts with a †", you can turn it on in the options. It's a great feature because a post that's -6 but controversial means almost as many people upvoted as downvoted. It's good for a little… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/11/21 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Happy International Men's Day from the LWMA mod team!We can only best hate with love. Truth. It's not hippy bullshit; it's just not smothered in today's cynicism. That's why this sub is important. We criticize the ideology, not the people practicing it (for the most part). I was brought up as a Feminist by my mother. Sorry to hear that and that you lost your friend group. That's an unfair reaction to you criticizing an ideology and shows how religiously people take feminism and wokeism. And at the time of my upbringing (the 90s) Feminism was diffe… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/11/21 12:35 AM |
| 3 | Happy International Men's Day from the LWMA mod team!Honestly I feel like I'm deprogramming myself from a cult. I felt so guilty for even questioning feminism for such a long time. There are no sacred cows. Every ideology is open to criticism, particularly those that hold beliefs that harm men (or any other identity group). It's never hateful to stand up against hate. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/11/21 08:37 AM |
| 11 | UN celebrates international toilets day. No mention of international men's day by the UN or anyone reallyI'm writing my MLA tomorrow to ask why it's not been recognized with the relevant facts at hand. They should call it the International Men and Boys Day. Maybe that would finally clue the establishment into the fact that we're people too. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/11/21 07:47 AM |
| 2 | Weekend check-inWhere you hoped you would be at 30 was probably determined by you as a teenager or young 20 yo. Why trust the advice of a teenager? You are where you are. You cannot control the past, only the future. I had a similar experience at a certain age and it ended up being the motivation for change. You have a clarity about your life that you didn't have before. Take your fear and transmute it into resolve. It's energy; harness it. | /r/MenSupportMen | 19/11/21 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Weekend check-inI mean...how straight are you? It's much easier to have sex if you're at least a little bi. My other advice is to stay indoor for a while and avoid sexual provocation, irl or online. | /r/MenSupportMen | 19/11/21 07:25 AM |
| 1 | November Art Challenge: "Memory Oasis"I don't have an oasis in my mind, a place of cool comfort to which I can travel at will. Memory has always been hazy for me. Suggestions and impressions, mental scenery that might have been a dream. For far too long, my memory was weaponized; its main use to inflict painful shame at my every gaff and faux pas. If I hurt myself enough, maybe I will learn to become the kind of person that other people liked. Perhaps that's why my memory is hazy. Mist doesn't hurt. | /r/MenSupportMen | 19/11/21 07:18 AM |
| 4 | daily interactions with strangers-male and femalenp. check out r/mensupportmen if you haven't already. We're always willing to help out. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/11/21 07:08 AM |
| 23 | Happy International Men's Day from the LWMA mod team!Bullying Too many boys have to fear for their personal safety every day they're at school. Too many boys are publicly ridiculed and humiliated every day they're at school. Too many boys are told they're "pussies" for not fighting back or for losing the fight if they do. As someone who experienced a solid 6 years of bullying, I can say that its effect on your self-esteem is immeasurable and it definitely had a hand in my decades-long depression. "Bullying" is a euphemism for physical assault and … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/11/21 06:29 AM |
| 12 | daily interactions with strangers-male and femaleThat really sucks man. It sounds like you may have some light social anxiety and it's being exacerbated by a society's dim view of men. You have a right to be in public so focus on that right to the exclusion of (nearly) all else. Also remember that strangers almost assuredly aren't thinking about you and if they are that's a Them problem, not a You problem. Hope that helps. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/11/21 02:13 AM |
| 6 | daily interactions with strangers-male and femaleI think that's what most people do. Really?? I'm always looking at the ground so I never see anybody else. I assumed they were all striding jaunty-eyed and level-gazed, moving through the crowd like they move through life: brimming with confidence, vigour and well-detailed plan. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/11/21 02:10 AM |
| 2 | How the educational system fails menI wish Canada had something like Title IX. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/11/21 02:06 AM |
| 2 | How the educational system fails menThanks for the links and thoughts. I was going to add mine but you had them all covered. We won't change how boys are treated in our educational systems until we change how men are treated in our society. Feminism is founded upon the idea of men as an Oppressor Class and oppressors can't be victims. It's left our societies with a crippling inability to help men, as a gender. It shouldn't be a taboo to talk about helping men, specifically, but it is. Especially in government. We need to show peop… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/11/21 02:01 AM |
| 2 | When Is International Men's Day and What Does It Celebrate?Ironically, it's also Margaret Atwood's birthday. Thanks for the good news! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/11/21 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Happy International Men's dayWe're being divided because it's easier for the 1% to rule us if we're divided. If you had more money than God and the only thing that could threaten your wealth is if the 99% finally rise up and demand ownership of our lives and planet, wouldn't you try to keep divided? I mean you, the person reading this, are probably a decent human being who can't imagine being that misanthropic, so no you wouldn't. But do you really believe the ultra-wealthy wouuldn't? | /r/MensRights | 19/11/21 12:27 AM |
| 34 | Happy International Men's dayI had a school counselor say that to my daughter. I was incensed. | /r/MensRights | 19/11/21 12:23 AM |
| 1 | UK: Why must every man on TV today be a monster? A tidal wave of male-hating shows depicts women as victims, this toxic sex war hurts us allIf you disagree with me, feel free to explain why. Because this comment makes no sense. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/21 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Boys once again excluded in school programPlease follow up with us. I'm also Canadian. Although schools are a province's responsibility, I'd still like to know what they said. Usually I just get ignored when I send emails like this. Also, it's legal in Canada to exclude men. At least that's how our quasi-authoritarian human rights councils have decided. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/21 12:47 AM |
| 6 | What's the deal with the condescending attitude from those that hate men?Every time it happens I feel a little shittier about myself. Like I'm doing something wrong, like I don't deserve to voice my opinions. I'm a point in my deprogramming myself out of feminism that I can look back at a point when I felt exactly like you. And now I wonder how I could ever feel that way. I say that as a constant, careful thinker who's not prone to extremism and centers all of my ideology around empathy. So I'm reaching out backwards to you right now and letting you know that it gets… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/11/21 12:29 AM |
| 1 | UK: Why must every man on TV today be a monster? A tidal wave of male-hating shows depicts women as victims, this toxic sex war hurts us allMind if I ask where you're from? I'm interested in this issue so it would be helpful to know. Suprisingly, Netflix is a good antidote. I've watched quite a few foreign films and series that I've loved: South Korean, Indian, Hong Kong/Chinese, Japanese, Belgian, French, Russian. Each of these have a movie or series I love. On the flip side, it's depressing how American all of it is. I guess there's only so many ways of telling a story but...nobody had the chance to mesh their culture with the tec… | /r/MensRights | 17/11/21 06:36 AM |
| 6 | UK: Why must every man on TV today be a monster? A tidal wave of male-hating shows depicts women as victims, this toxic sex war hurts us allIt's ironic how many people rail against colonialism but love Disney. American media is cultural colonialism. It's swamping the indigenous culture in favour of American media, filled with American terms, perspectives and attitudes, all of which are mapped onto impressionable youth. There will be a reckoning for this one day. | /r/MensRights | 17/11/21 06:05 AM |
| 5 | Feminists invite males to compete against their female teams. Blame men for the result...Best damn species in the known universe I'll let you know. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/21 01:42 AM |
| 4 | Virgin shaming as a mechanism of forcing the conformity of men.Good information. Can I make a suggestion though? Try putting two breaks after every third sentence or so. It helps to break up the text so it's not a wall and makes it easier to read. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/11/21 01:34 AM |
| 10 | Feminists invite males to compete against their female teams. Blame men for the result...+1 for humanism. It's the only outlook that makes sense. I'm for my species, which makes me anti-feminist, anti-capitalist, pro-democracy and pro-critical thought. | /r/MensRights | 14/11/21 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Hillary Clinton referred to mostly male youths as "Super-predators" in 1996 and said we "need to bring them to heel" comparing young men to animals. The comment is fused with racial undertones.No, they can try to work at some other place that will also pay them as little as possible. So little that the government had to step in and FORCE companies to pay even the pittance known as minimum wage. It's company stores, all the way down. | /r/MensRights | 14/11/21 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Hillary Clinton referred to mostly male youths as "Super-predators" in 1996 and said we "need to bring them to heel" comparing young men to animals. The comment is fused with racial undertones.Capitalism benefits the world we live in. Deny it all you want, but it's true. A world with a climate crisis that threatens the future of our species? A world where 25,000 people die from preventable starvation every day? A world where people spend the majority of their waking days to make money for people richer than them by doing jobs they hate? Capitalism benefits the rich. That's what it's designed to do so it's always surprising when capitalists like you so vehemently object. Without a comp… | /r/MensRights | 14/11/21 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Hillary Clinton referred to mostly male youths as "Super-predators" in 1996 and said we "need to bring them to heel" comparing young men to animals. The comment is fused with racial undertones.The owners added the value of, you know, employing people You have it the wrong way around. The "owners" (i.e., people richer than most) NEED workers in order to offer a product or service to be sold. Without the workers, they have nothing to offer. You own an empty shell, congratulations. It's only workers that provide any value. As way of gratitude, the owners pays the worker as little as possible and keeps the difference between cost and profit for themselves, however large it be. That's expl… | /r/MensRights | 13/11/21 11:31 PM |
| 1 | My college has a women's weightlifting club and rejected my request to start a men's lifting club.There is a long history of colleges refusing to approve men's clubs. The club committee is a bunch of woke college students. Find your ombudsman for the school and go to them with the problem. You should also contact the administration. However, it's doubtful you'll get what you want. You could almost certainly get it approved if the club was open to all genders, though. They'd have to approve that legally since there's no option for men right now. I know you want a men-only club but just say it… | /r/MensRights | 13/11/21 11:16 PM |
| 27 | Perhaps this isn’t the desired solution to feminism’s perceived problems in the context where men are “known”for being awful and violent offenders…And that's only physical violence. What about emotional abuse? The constant needling and belittling of a man who's drowning in a death from a thousand cuts? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/11/21 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Hillary Clinton referred to mostly male youths as "Super-predators" in 1996 and said we "need to bring them to heel" comparing young men to animals. The comment is fused with racial undertones.and the employees are being paid fairly; they're being paid the amount of money they agreed to be paid, which is exactly fair. A living wage is a fair wage. They're not being offered a living wage but have to take it anyways because they still have to eat. That's exploitation. "Work for us at this price or you'll starve" isn't the definition of fair to anyone but capitalists. Bezos is paying workers as little as he possibly can. There's nothing fair about. It's exploitative. | /r/MensRights | 13/11/21 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Hillary Clinton referred to mostly male youths as "Super-predators" in 1996 and said we "need to bring them to heel" comparing young men to animals. The comment is fused with racial undertones.No, "owners" keep the profit the labour creates. The owner didn't add anything of value; their only achievement is already being richer than their workers. | /r/MensRights | 13/11/21 11:01 PM |
| -1 | Hillary Clinton referred to mostly male youths as "Super-predators" in 1996 and said we "need to bring them to heel" comparing young men to animals. The comment is fused with racial undertones.That's exploitation, not opportunity. Owners make money from labour by extracting the value the labour adds and keeping it for themselves. | /r/MensRights | 13/11/21 05:21 PM |
| 1 | During the Vietnam war, 61% of US soldiers killed were UNDER the age of 21. Not even college senior ageWell I hope you make the decision that's best for you and others. I do think you have a right to be proud of how much thought you're putting in this decision. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/11/21 11:58 PM |
| 1 | During the Vietnam war, 61% of US soldiers killed were UNDER the age of 21. Not even college senior ageThanks! I'm trying to screw up the courage to write professionally so comments like this really help me out. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/11/21 05:27 AM |
| 7 | During the Vietnam war, 61% of US soldiers killed were UNDER the age of 21. Not even college senior ageAs ironic as it is I'm a young man right now who feels very marginalized and low on life Given how society talks about and treats men, this isn't ironic and a perfectly natural reaction. I want you to know that your feelings are valid and justified. And feel free to drop by /r/mensupportmen to speak to other men who better understand what you're feeling. With regards to the military, can I ask in what country you live? Please don't assume that you will have people's respect for serving in the mi… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/11/21 05:11 AM |
| 5 | Ten ways men are legally, socially, and environmentally oppressed (Challenge)Srebrenica massacre Don't look it up if you're not in good mental health because it was horrific. It also lists what the women went through and so I strongly disagree with using this event as an example. I'd rather be shot in the head than experience what some of those women went through, or to have seen what they saw, and hear what they heard. That's a personal judgement, I know, but so is my belief that it's in poor taste to use an event as horrific as this to show that men are disposable so I… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/11/21 01:36 AM |
| 17 | During the Vietnam war, 61% of US soldiers killed were UNDER the age of 21. Not even college senior ageI highly suggest Micheal Herr's Dispatches for a feel of what those young men experienced before they died. War is gendered violence. We always talk about soldiers dying and gender is discussed it's always "men and women" but this is another issue where we ignore how that these were specifically men, and boys. The tradition of men being forced to do the most dangerous work predates civilization itself but we still can't address it directly? We've spent 60 years vigorously examining society's rel… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/11/21 12:49 AM |
| 5 | John Oliver, King of "x community is disproportionately affected" fails to mention men when talking about homelessnessYou said the social safety net disproportionately hurts POC men, exposing the usual liberal assumption that poor black people are much more poor than poor white people. I corrected you. It's not a gendered issue.. it's an issue disproportionately affecting men, don't conflate the two. I'm using the language of the times. Police brutality isn't a black issue either. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/11/21 12:23 AM |
| 3 | John Oliver, King of "x community is disproportionately affected" fails to mention men when talking about homelessnessColour me skeptical. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/11/21 12:21 AM |
| 1 | John Oliver, King of "x community is disproportionately affected" fails to mention men when talking about homelessnessThen I don't think you're very competent at determining bias. I've seen many episodes as well and none of them took even a cursory glance at objectivity. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/11/21 12:20 AM |
| 7 | Domestic violence is serious, unless the victim is male!Cheating threatens a woman's sexual power over her husband and so it's considered justice for her to punish him for circumventing her power. | /r/MensRights | 11/11/21 11:58 PM |
| 11 | John Oliver, King of "x community is disproportionately affected" fails to mention men when talking about homelessnessOr as one local paper put it: 2 out of 10 of the homeless are women. Dollars to doughnuts that Oliver understands he can't talk about a men's issue while being a man. And a white one to boot. Maybe it's unconscious and/or maybe he agrees with the unspoken dictate but he definitely feels its absolute. These dictates are like black holes. We can't see them; we can just see how they affects everything around them. I wonder how many organizations, how many people, are subject to these black holes wh… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/11/21 07:10 AM |
| 5 | John Oliver, King of "x community is disproportionately affected" fails to mention men when talking about homelessnessIt does, but not as much as people think. Up to 75% of victimized women are also aggressors. It's called bilateral violence and it doesn't even taken emotional abuse into account. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/11/21 06:45 AM |
| 7 | John Oliver, King of "x community is disproportionately affected" fails to mention men when talking about homelessnessDo you say the same thing to women who talk about "women's issues" such as IPV, sexual assault, rape, sexual harassment, objectification, and every assumption made about them because of their gender? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/11/21 06:43 AM |
| 8 | John Oliver, King of "x community is disproportionately affected" fails to mention men when talking about homelessnessIt's a gendered issue and he talks about the gender in question when it comes women so it's hypocritical to not do it for men. It's also harmful to men for people like Oliver who have such a large voice to be silent about the way society treats men. And 97% of the racial wealth gap in America is between the richest 50% of each group. 75% of it is between the richest 10%. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/11/21 06:40 AM |
| 10 | John Oliver, King of "x community is disproportionately affected" fails to mention men when talking about homelessnessThere's a very large space between "not objective" and "propaganda". He's given every impression that what he's saying is unassailably true, and complete in its truth. There's a lot of kids - and adults - who haven't been exposed to critical thinking and will automatically treat everything he says the same way Oliver treats it. He's a preacher acting like a news source. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/11/21 06:36 AM |
| 7 | John Oliver, King of "x community is disproportionately affected" fails to mention men when talking about homelessnessWomen have more access to shelters. Women on average have larger social circles to whom they can turn for help. A man is more likely to financially support a woman than vice versa. Women are the preferred gender when hiring for food servers, an ubiquitous low-skill, high-wage (tips) job. There is no one cause partly because our society is constructed to benefit women in a variety of different ways. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/11/21 06:31 AM |
| 6 | Is feminism at odds with democracy?I don't agree with OP, but I have to correct something you said: There is no need for feminists to stand in the way of democracy, and there is zero precedent for them doing so. Emmeline Pankhurt was a terrorist who killed people in the name of universal suffrage. The suffragettes (as opposed to suffragists) set fire to private homes and planted bombs in mailboxes, burning the unsuspecting postmen. The Times counted 39 recorded suffragette bombings in 1913. I hope we can agree that these are hard… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/11/21 06:35 AM |
| 8 | Is feminism at odds with democracy?I don't agree with OP's premise but I can answer your question. Emmeline Pankhurst was a terrorist who killed people in the name of universal suffrage. Terrorism isn't democratic. There's also the ways feminists, and feminism, contradicts and impinges upon democratic ideals. The SCUM Manifesto is bigoted, so not democratic. Saying we should reduce the population of men to 10% is not very democratic. Feminism encourages and condones the demonization of men, an attitude that has been enshrined in … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/11/21 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Is feminism at odds with democracy?Those are two different issues. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/11/21 05:51 AM |
| 14 | Is feminism at odds with democracy?The people you elect are meant to be a political representative, not a representation of your identity group. There's no reason to expect the same number of men as as women in government because, on average, men do take more risks. However, that's also not a reason to charge all men more on their insurance because not all men take more risks and you're punishing those men for the actions of others. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/11/21 05:50 AM |
| 4 | Is feminism at odds with democracy?Equity is bigotry dressed up as equality. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/11/21 04:19 AM |
| 2 | The Erasure of Feminine Menso that word has a really bad connotation in my mind. See I never really heard it growing up. It was an outdated slur. Its power was lessened to the point of reclamation. I saw/read it more often as an alternative to 'strange' but that may have been more the result of my reading habits than a good sense of the flavour of the times. Like, for instance, I don't really understand why you wouldn't just call yourself "bisexual" I do. That or bi. I'm sorry; I was unclear. I philosophically support the… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/11/21 09:15 AM |
| 5 | The Erasure of Feminine MenPersonally as a bisexual, I support the use of 'queer' because it also means strange, different from the norm, and it's a hell of a lot better than LBGTQA2S+ (No, that's not an exaggeration. The 2S is for two-spirit, an indigenous form of transgender.) Aside from that, thanks for your story. It's a reminder of how much men have been restricted by their gender. Women wear pants to work every day, but if I wear a skirt to work it automatically means (1) I'm trans, or (2) it's a sexual fetish or ev… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/11/21 05:57 AM |
| 4 | The Erasure of Feminine MenNo, but if I were a moderator it's for me to decide within my own space. You must be a moderator to hold such an entitled view. The moderators of r/socialism don't OWN that space. It's not theirs. It's for everyone who needs to talk about socialism semi-anonymously on the internet. Moderators serve the users, not the other way around. A word ban by moderators isn't a freedom of speech issue. Absolutely is. I was banned from r/socialism because I had a question about their policy to kick anyone w… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/11/21 05:48 AM |
| 3 | The Erasure of Feminine MenI prefer the term 'ctrl-left'. It's both accurate and hilarious. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/11/21 12:52 AM |
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