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I love you. Im laughing so hard.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/01/18 07:26 PM
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I’m genuinely curious about a few of these. It’s a nice thought to think that if you catch a woman looking at you and she looks away, or down and away that it means she was checking you out. But how do you know she wasn’t just looking at you in general and looked away? Men do the same thing. It doesn’t necessarily mean she was checking you out.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 02:59 PM
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This cracked me up. Have an upvote.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 01:40 AM
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Such a wonderful point man. I had a lot of friends in the past that I thought would always be there for me, but, such is life. In any case, I had no close friends for a couple of years until, just over the course of this past year, I reconnected with some high school buddies and have worked hard to foster relationships with these men. They may not be the richest strongest or most popular, but they are there for me and I’m there for them. And that, is priceless. On a side note, I’d like to say th…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 05:22 PM
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Looking back it was pretty crappy but I’m at least proud of myself for doing SOMETHING. Anything really rather than not even, albeit badly, standing up for myself.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 04:31 AM
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Thanks for responding. Nice to see that at least an EC will take my crappy post seriously. Thanks man. On a side note, I realized that exact thing after. I realized I should have gotten physical and that I looked worse just telling at him. But like you said, progress.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 04:30 AM
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I did lose frame. Some family members of mine have been disrespecting my space and boundaries as well lately and I haven’t spoken up for myself cuz repressing my anger is something that’s been drilled into me for so long and today it just came out. People are focusing on the Cheetos too much(lol). I just can’t stand feeling disrespected anymore. Thanks for your comment.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 10:14 PM
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Yea I’m realizing this now. I’ve always thought about doing stuff like this because I know I should be but I just haven’t. So this is what I’m going to start working on.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 07:26 PM
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This is just female hamstering. In reality what she means to say is “I personally won’t wear the same dress twice because I’m scared somebody is going to call me out on it or women will be catty and make fun of me so I’m going to try and direct my anger at my own cowardice at men even though they would get called out on the same shit.”
/r/PussyPassDenied15/10/17 01:30 PM
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16 months? That's it? If this was a guy he'd be in jail for years. Decades maybe.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/10/17 12:23 AM
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Look. If somebody is into it, theres a group out there for it. Just sign up for Meetup and check how many meditation, yoga, reiki, etc.. groups there are. Humans are social creatures. If we can turn an activity into a group activity, someone will.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 09:53 PM
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Real MEN know that other MEN won't hold punches. They're gonna tell you the shit you need to hear whether you like it or not. That's what a self respecting MAN does. But it all falls down to the guy being spoken to. If he is unable or unwilling to listen to advice from other men who know what they're talking about, then yea. He should give up. And he won't ever be good enough. You gotta be fucking tough in this world man. If somebody decided they're gonna give up on their journey because they re…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 01:56 PM
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TRP isn't a democracy. The mods get to rule to rule this sub with an iron fist. And I for one am glad. If the mods didn't, this place would become pure anarchy; what with all the newbie bloopies rushing in, not bothering to read the sidebar and then posting their garbage. The main message would be drowned out before you could blink. Also considering most people barely bother to read the sidebar as it is anyway. As to your point, I've read damn near every self help book ever recommended to me and…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 10:45 PM
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Thank you for removing that post.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 07:55 PM
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Speak like everyone, think for yourself
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 04:04 PM
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Thank you dude. It's in the damn sidebar. Respect the tag.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 02:58 PM
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Can you please recommend this post be deleted and this guy banned? The fact that there's so many posts like this that never get deleted is one thing but this post is ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 11:42 PM
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And you need to respect the tag you dumb prick. He's senior endorsed for a reason. And what are you? Oh wait. Nothing.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 11:40 PM
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-Unfroze my gym membership -Hopped right back into my workout routine where I left off. Got that went-too-hard sickness by the end, but that's ok. Happy I didn't really lose any progress. -Got a higher paying job -Have the chance to start some monk mode again since I moved back into my parents house. Will never bring a girl to my parents house. Bad -Moved back into parents house. (Am 24) after losing my previous job. I don't really view t as bad because at least now I can stock away money and th…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 12:41 PM
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You're not posting anything new. People either care or they don't. The TRP app will be out eventually and there have been numerous guides over the last 3 months about how to stay safe. This post was pretty shoddy in comparison.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 04:31 AM
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I know it's pretty wild. I'm curious if there's potentially a psychological or other reason as per why the golden number seems to be 8.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 12:07 AM
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Word lol. I've done some wild shit and if I told a story about one of those times I wouldn't front and say a 3 was a 9. I'd be real about it.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 11:50 PM
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I feel like her questions are shit tests
/r/askTRP12/09/17 05:41 PM
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Flair this as Rant/Venting
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 05:28 PM
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I have a feeling this HB8 must be the exact. same. HB8. that every guy mentions. She just shows up in every guys life. Like damn. Either have the balls to say she was uglier or hotter or just stfu and say you fingered a sex doll.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 02:53 PM
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So many fights wind up on the ground, I would say BJJ, imho.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 02:10 AM
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That's totally fine. The noise to signal ratio would die down and people would finally start remembering what the most important shit to read is rather than wasting their time on mundane and useless trash. Sidebar is king. Everything else is just footnotes.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 12:52 AM
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I took out a restraining order on my ex so she fucked all my thirsty ass friends and got pumped and dumped and they all took my sloppy seconds. That bitch a druggy hoe now. Come to think of it, all my exes started doing drugs after I broke up with them. Hmm. Gotta think on that a bit.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 12:06 AM
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Hey man. Caught your story on the main sub and followed it here. Yea. Definitely cringey. But don't ever forget, you are in a forum created by guys who went this this Exact. Same. Shit. I too have depression. It sucks. Yours sounds worse than mine but you've done a good job maintaining at least some form of stabilized mental health. Definitely see a therapist, psychiatrist and take a look at CBT. Shit works wonders for those critical automatic negative thoughts that you may or may not have. Othe…
/r/askTRP12/09/17 12:01 AM
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Top shit post. Have an upvote.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 11:48 PM
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Use that search tool man. Most people forget it exists. They try to look for something pertaining to "Amused Mastery" let's say, and only end up finding something that's been posted in the past week by some froshy TRP newbie who is so stoned on happiness at the prospect of changing his dating game that he throws together some half baked idea and calls it a post. Use that search tool and keep re reading the top posts. Also, Read. Every. Comment. On those top posts. Great discussions were had ther…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 11:47 PM
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Use that search tool man. Most people forget it exists. They try to look for something pertaining to "Amused Mastery" let's say, and only end up finding something that's been posted in the past week by some froshy TRP newbie who is so stoned on happiness at the prospect of changing his dating game that he writes throws together some half baked idea and calls it a post. Use that search tool and keep re reading the top posts. Also, Read. Every. Comment. On those top posts. Great discussions were h…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 11:46 PM
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This post was shitty and pretty unnecessary considering it's been covered ad nauseam. Do a search before you post to see if it's been covered already. More than likely you'll just be posting something that's already been said before and creating more noise. Work on your grammar and writing skills.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 11:44 PM
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I hooked up with a chubby girl when I was wasted. Got the whole "bro wtf are you doing??" Thing from my friends. I said I rationalized it in my drunken stupor that if she lost weight she'd be hot as fuck. She goes to rehab, comes back 3 months later and lo and behold, every guy is drooling over. Who does she bang first? ;)
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 11:41 PM
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This post was pretty unnecessary considering it's been covered ad nauseam. Not a bad post. Just unnecessary. Do a search before you post to see if it's been covered already. More than likely you'll just be posting something that's already been said before and creating more noise.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 11:33 PM
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I'm assuming you're just friends or you just got this girls number. If either of those are the case, then she's not invested in you enough yet and therefore she has no reason to make you the shining center of her world. People are inherently selfish. If she's busy with school then ok. Move on. Keep yourself busy and worry about your own life. If she wants to chill she'll let you know.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 09:56 PM
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Pick up a hobby in each of the 3 Cardinal activities. Spiritual- meditation, reiki, etc.. Physical-lifting, biking, climbing, parkour, etc.. Creative-writing, singing, acting, drawing, etc.. Find groups for each of your picks and you'll meet people there. Master that skill then pick up a new one. Join a language class. A dance class. Etc. It's all about surrounding yourself with the type of people and activities you want in your life. Good luck
/r/askTRP11/09/17 09:54 PM
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Good stuff man. I'm not even sure I could do that yet but I'm happy you could. Props.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 06:37 PM
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I have to consciously do this. The worst part about it is that we work together and my job really just requires me to monitor peoples safety so I have a load of free time. If I don't answer she knows I'm doing it intentionally, thus negating it's effectiveness. u/TomasoJew is right. If you have to consciously do this, you're life isnt busy enough. And if it is busy, it better be with shit that's raising your SMV.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 06:31 PM
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Please repost this in askTRP
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 04:07 PM
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Telling people to wait until they've improved their character before improving their actions is male hamstering hardcore. There's 0 reason why you shouldn't be working on both at the same time. Imitating an alpha guy is not bad. As long as you understand why what he does works and then take the necessary steps to actually internalize that attitude yourself.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 04:03 PM
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As per my first point yes you're right. I'm on mobile and haven't had a chance to edit. I guess I just never think of testing the mettle of other men as Shit-testing. That phrase is stuck in my mind relating to women.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 08:47 PM
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You're not dealing with females dude. Just keep your frame tight and don't take shit from anybody. Men included. You're not fucking flirting with men. There's no need to push pull. They're fucking men. They have dicks. Joke with em a little bit. Test their mettle. See if their worthy of being in your social circle. If not fuck em. If this dude you're trying to be friends with is high status in whatever social circle he's in, humble yourself and realize you're lower status. Don't be a leech. Prov…
/r/askTRP08/09/17 07:51 PM
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To each their own I suppose. I'll never pay a woman to fuck me. She should just be so lucky.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 07:37 PM
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Don't pay to get pussy. thats the worst fucking thing you can do for yourself. Get laid and lose your virginity by your own volition. Paying money to bang some chick who doesn't even find you attractive will undermine the rest of your sexual conquests throughout your life. Develop your skills and do it in your own. The future you will thank you.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 06:02 PM
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Good post. A nice friendly reminder to not be a creepy nice guy. And a slap in the face to be grateful that you're redpill aware and not this guy.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 05:24 PM
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Fun to see examples like this from an outside perspective. Helps me to remember what never to do.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 05:01 PM
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Go post this in asktrp dude. Be happy to answer you there
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 04:58 PM
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Keep going man. Work on yourself and spin some plates. If you enjoy being in a LTR, then do you bro. TRP is guidelines, not actual rules. Don't make the mistake of thinking that just one crappy ending LTR is enough to fully ingrain TRP principals in you. Do it again. And again. And again. Until you finally have it internalized and believe it without a doubt. Sure the pain sucks. But pain is the price for our growth. Stay strong.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 04:52 PM
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Thanks for the tip bro. That's going to help me so much. thank you
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 04:46 PM
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This should be flaired as Rant/Venting. Not redpill theory. Or at least Meta.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 03:22 PM
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Good: - been working in making myself my own mental point of origin - been managing my first redpill LTR effectively. - been keeping a journal and working with CBT to help mitigate stress and anxiety Bad: - Been working doubles the past week to meet expenses and have missed a lot of workout days - college kid diet doesn't afford me the luxury to buy all the types of food I really should be eating - might have to move back in with parents unless I find another job quick Keep grinding fellas. The …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 03:03 PM
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