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usernametakenfucku/r/seduction18/01/16 11:46 PM
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usernametakenfucku/r/seduction09/02/16 02:40 AM
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usernametakenfucku/r/seduction18/02/16 01:20 AM
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you too.. wipes tear you too, mate.
/r/seduction18/02/16 01:28 AM
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Escalating becomes more comfortable over time; just do what feels right and be a bit bold if she's already turned on (obviously like listen to her). It's ok to not always lead, though (at first). My first make-out was awkward as all hell; the girl initiated and lead (I tried to at another point; I was bold). Fast forward a few more (varyingly awkward) times, and I'm comfortable enough to lead. Same concept with sex. Just relax; you'll get better.
/r/seduction18/02/16 01:12 AM
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Just laugh it off; no one cares.
/r/seduction17/02/16 04:53 AM
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"4. After a year of doing this.." Lol dear god. This was supposed to quick damnit.
/r/seduction17/02/16 04:50 AM
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Great job, man! 34 isn't that late in the game, I know of a guy who's like 42 and only fucks hot, young (18-25 yo), bi-sexual chicks (cause he likes 3-ways). He started out worse off than you, so you'll get there. (His site is PiPubs.com, btw. I've been emailing with him for a while now; he's been through every side of "pick up" since like 2003, and now he's where he is). It's not about techniques, just attitude, and you seem to have it down pretty good, but you'll get better. She was there, and…
/r/seduction17/02/16 02:20 AM
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I did, but I'd recommend just meeting people in person; it's more fun and attraction can actually be created. Facebook msging is just boring and girls don't know you so most won't want to date a stranger. TLDR; Get out there and talk to people in person.
/r/seduction14/02/16 12:01 AM
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Exactly, you are a person. Men tend to forget that in the exact opposite way that women seem to imagine; Instead of thinking women are all disposable or useless toys, men put them on pedestals. They treat them WAY too good, and women get a feeling from all this in many cases. You know what I'm talking about. Have you had a guy who REALLY wanted you? If he's super hot, or rich, or popular, this can be fun for the girl at first. Even if he isn't, a lot of girls like that feeling of being wanted, a…
/r/seduction10/02/16 02:01 AM
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A lot of it is stuff that just "clicks". First, make yourself ask a girl for her number. Just say what I said, and do that with, eh, 10 girls or so. And think of it like this: every time you ask a girl for her number, that's a GOOD thing; it means you're in control of yourself. You wanted to do that, and you DID. After that, just focus on the things I mentioned in my first post. You'll get there, don't worry.
/r/seduction09/02/16 04:34 AM
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Yeah, of course when it's serious things like that are implied, but what I'm talking about is casual dating.
/r/seduction09/02/16 04:29 AM
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Quit bitching. That's a negative mindset and it doesn't do anything but hurt you. Put a positive spin on it. If you keep going, years down the road, you'll look back at this and cringe that you almost just gave up. You don't want to give up anyways, and we both know it. If you really want to quit though, go ahead. It's all up to you, mate. Good luck.
/r/seduction09/02/16 04:10 AM
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Ah ning, didn't think it was you til the last little tag there lol. This is Mr. Pan, btw. I'm not on here much, but hey. I agree with all this. The knowledge trap one was big. I don't think of much in my past as a waste of time, I'm optimistic like that, but I make an exception for the fact that I read PUA bs for like 3 months before actually doing anything. That said, I did manage to come out the other side of the rabbit hole with it; so to speak. See, after months of reading and stressin, I ca…
/r/seduction09/02/16 04:02 AM
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7-8 weeks probably. How do you ask for a girl's number, at the moment?
/r/seduction09/02/16 03:43 AM
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Put a positive spin on things; It gave you experience. Hell, you know anyone else who'd go up to a random girl and try to get her number? Fuckin bravery. Good on you! But, you don't need to go mass-approach to get better; hell it might not even make you better faster. You see, I used to think approaching was like lifting or something. Work it right, and guaranteed (if you did everything a certain way) you'd get better. Keep the cycle up and I'll be amazing with women, but it didn't work like tha…
/r/seduction09/02/16 03:25 AM
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I approached more than that during my mass approaches, and by the end of it I was hardly better at all, just braver. What I did was focus on my mindset a bit; what do you want to do with your time besides "game". Work out? Learn a skill? Focus on those things, but make sure you go out some; not to "approach", but to run errands that revolved around improving your life (going to the gym, going to the bookstore to get books to read, idk just have fun with it). Interact with people either for the f…
/r/seduction09/02/16 02:57 AM
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I'm not even outta highschool yet.. ha ha.
/r/seduction09/02/16 02:47 AM
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When I was super into mass-approaching, I did this. I went through the mall daily mass-opening, eventually mass-asking, and I got efficient (8 asks in 30 minutes). I did this for several weeks, and what I found was it wasn't fun or efficient after a while. Hell, I got rejected most of those times, and when I succeeded, the approaches were unplanned and NATURAL. Now, I go about my life with a goal: improve myself and have fun in the process; NOT "approach more girls in the given time limit". I su…
/r/seduction09/02/16 02:35 AM
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If she doesn't text back within a day (after first texting). Just assume she doesn't fit in your life and delete her number. Nothing lost. I don't do this in a whiny, passive-aggressive mindset, I just shrug it off. I've had a girl or who that was just genuinely busy, who texted back a day or two late. "Oh joy, a girl who might fit in my life!" I respond asking who they are, since I genuinely don't know. From there I let things go however, and on the process goes. No big deal. I used to feel lik…
/r/seduction09/02/16 02:23 AM
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Think of it like this; she has to speak louder to WIN you over. Playfully tell her "I'm hard at hearing, so you'll have to speak up or this isn't gonna work out." she says something inaudable "I can't even hear you. I knew this wasn't gonna work." Playing it off in a cocky and funny way. You can overcome this; if anything it gives you something that makes you stand out. People have to GET your attention to speak to you. Think about this.
/r/seduction09/02/16 02:18 AM
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That's a bit negative imo.
/r/seduction09/02/16 02:14 AM
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You're over thinking, mate. She's shit testing you; she wants to know (on a subconcious level), whether you actually fuck a lot; and whether you're confident enough to admit it (or even to playfully leave her guessing). I usually say "Of course, look at me!" and smirk a bit. The typical response is laughing, or calling me a jerk with a flash of attraction in her eye. If she's like some weird case and she's super religious or something (hypothetical here, no girl's ever responded negatively, I'm …
/r/seduction09/02/16 02:12 AM
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Exactly; it's just a frame thing. Also keep in mind she wants to be alone with you in most cases.
/r/seduction09/02/16 02:02 AM
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You gotta be straight up about what you want, or don't want in this case. IF THEY ASK or hint that you're exclusive, just say "I don't want a relationship." Also, keep in mind you aren't in a relationship until you discuss or clearly state that you're in one. But if a girl gets mad and leaves (never happened to me, but you never know) just keep in mind she doesn't fit the lifestyle you wanted anyways and move on. You can't help that. That's how I deal with it at least.
/r/seduction09/02/16 01:59 AM
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heroine's pretty good too
/r/seduction05/02/16 01:42 AM
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Don't think rules, think attitude. Here's an article to help: http://www.pipubs.com/how-often-should-i-call-my-girlfriend-on-phone/
/r/seduction04/02/16 04:01 AM
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"Hey what was your name again? Here, put your number in." And hand them your phone with "add a contact" open already. If you built tension or flirted with them, they're likely to do as told. I'd also suggest avoiding "day game" and mass-approaching. My best approaches have been off-the-cuff and natural. Find something more productive to do with that time that involves going out, and focus on building the life you want; then approach when the opportunities arise.
/r/seduction04/02/16 02:42 AM
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Well do you want to meet them? Is it fun to meet them? If you answered yes, then fuck what other people think. Just introduce yourself. "Hey what's up, I'm _." The first is the hardest.
/r/seduction04/02/16 02:35 AM
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If anything I'd imagine being a minority would help you stand out, which is a good thing. I'm in a school where there're like 1 black kid, and he make racist jokes and stuff and everyone loves him.
/r/seduction04/02/16 02:33 AM
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Rejection is nothing but a blessing: She's saving you time and money, time and money that you might've spent on a girl that didn't really fit in your life.
/r/seduction04/02/16 02:27 AM
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Another bit of advice that you'll figure out eventually is NOT to tell this girl all your deep dark secrets; or anything that you wouldn't want her telling other people. Just in case: Trust everyone, but TEMPT no one. Oh and marriage is something I'd avoid; divorce court. Other than that, it's all just trial and error. Good luck, man. You'll do great!
/r/seduction04/02/16 02:25 AM
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You're pretty decent off. The "I didn't k close" comment sounds typical of someone not used to meeting new girls often. If you're trying to meet new girls often, simply doing similar things to what you're doing now will slowly make you more experienced. "K closing" will be a laughable phrase to you in a few months, because you'll find kissing a girl you just met is incredibly easy with experience. Hell, a few months ago I hadn't ever kissed a girl; now I usually make out on the first date, and I…
/r/seduction04/02/16 02:06 AM
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It's not about lines; it's the attitude. Honestly my jokes are being made because I honestly believe she's trying to seduce me; and she usually procedes to.
/r/seduction02/02/16 04:27 AM
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What bridge? There's no bridge there anyways at that point, it's a waste of time to respond in my eyes.
/r/seduction01/02/16 03:35 AM
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Lol you're making this complicated. It's not a script it's an attitude; my lines are all playful. If she thought it was me being serious, I dismiss her responses and move on, but I do this naturally because my attitude is a playful one.
/r/seduction01/02/16 03:06 AM
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So, keep in mind that just your social status alone will have girls ready to let you fuck them. All you gotta do is just talk to a girl some, get her to a couch or by a wall, put your hand on her leg possibly, and playfully tease her. Then just kiss her at some point; this will get natural with experience it it's not yet, trust me. If you get that far, tell her it's "loud in here" and casually invite her back to your car. Ask if she wants to get in the back seat, and there ya go. Key it to keep …
/r/seduction01/02/16 03:01 AM
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Reframe: Approaching is the goal. Making yourself break that barrier. That's it. Now in the beginning, the goal should be to make yourself unafraid of the potential rejection, so that you can make more meaningful approaches later on.
/r/seduction01/02/16 02:49 AM
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Aim for girls who are alone or with another girlfriend, then just open them, and ask where they go to school at some early point. Also, to ease your mind a bit, make sure you understand your state's age of consent laws. Most likely the age is 16 or 17, believe it or not.
/r/seduction01/02/16 02:42 AM
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"objectified" Stop taking that word seriously. Women like being seen as attractive.
/r/seduction01/02/16 02:35 AM
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"But she's a catch." You're putting her on a pedestal. She's wasting your time, move tf on it's easy to replace her.
/r/seduction01/02/16 02:20 AM
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"The last ___ few were stalkers." "Just a preference. You aren't one are you?" "They're usually boring." It's just about attitude, the lines are irrelevant.
/r/seduction01/02/16 02:14 AM
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meths ok tho quit bein a pussy
/r/seduction01/02/16 01:59 AM
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Misinterpret her comments as innuendo's and playfully get onto her for trying to "seduce" you.
/r/seduction01/02/16 01:46 AM
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This is horrible advice. It comes from a frame of you owing her something (like total clarity, or an orgasm). A long drawn out text is just as needy as "fake alpha game" (I'm cringing as I write that). To OP: I'd start by honestly asking yourself, from a frame of you building a life that you want, whether she fits in that life. Heres what I'd think (if it were me): She's shown disinterest in hanging out, so she doesn't seem to want to be in my life. I want people who want to be in my life in my …
/r/seduction01/02/16 01:30 AM
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I want in on this. Can I buy a share cheap? I got ideas. Pm me.
/r/seduction29/01/16 04:25 AM
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If I were in that position, I'd've kindly told the guy that I was straight but that he was brave for trying. Then if he kept bugging me I'd kindly tell him to quit bugging me. How it got to him following you doesn't make sense lol. Kinda reminds me of a woman who doesn't know how to say "go away" complaining she got harassed by a guy; the hell were you doing that lead him to keep following you lol. Were you flirting back or something? The fuck.
/r/seduction29/01/16 04:13 AM
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Exactly. I think we're on the same page actually.
/r/seduction26/01/16 04:19 AM
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tf's a post box?
/r/seduction22/01/16 01:10 AM
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It's all about the same the specific definitions don't matter.
/r/seduction21/01/16 02:47 AM
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You don't seem to care, and I urge you to continue doing so. I went for a couple weeks where I went through and repeditively approached in a mall for a while. My success varied, but in the end I decided against continuing that habbit. See, opening girls should be done for a specific purpose, because people can sense 'purpose' when they talk to you. My purpose for those weeks was to fill a quota. This mindset got me to approach, and that was good, but my approaches became routine and my purpose b…
/r/seduction21/01/16 02:44 AM
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Most of this advice is technical, but I'm gonna point out to you that it's NOT what angle / technique / how long you spend or any of that stuff. It's all about how you make her feel. It's the energy. It takes practice and your first time might suck or it might not. You shouldn't care. The energy should be one of ease. Don't be afraid to be rough; just give her a safeword and do what you want to. She'll be the first of many other girls that you'll do that with and you should think of it as HER ho…
/r/seduction20/01/16 09:48 PM
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That's very good advice.
/r/seduction20/01/16 09:39 PM
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what's oneitis?
/r/seduction20/01/16 09:38 PM
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Ha "and becoming suicidal over accidentally touching your dick doesn't sound like the key to success" exactly why I avoid that sub. Also because I believe that you pull from the people around you, and if you surround yourself with people on your level (trying to quit porn, but never succeeding), then you're destined to stay there.
/r/seduction20/01/16 09:35 PM
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This is bullshit. Yes, racism is a problem, but it's as big a problem (when relating to ATTRACTION) as height or baldness. All of those things are immedietly overlooked if you're high value enough. Hell, being the only minority in an area could make you stand out. Don't tell yourself you're limited by something and you won't be limited by it.
/r/seduction19/01/16 02:54 AM
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This is interesting, but I'm going to criticize it a bit. Note, I'm not a typical person in this community and don't interact in it much, honestly. I've been the quiet person who didn't interact. I told myself to be happy without women and I'd be good with women because of this; but it never worked. I got better with women by going and making my wishes a reality by actually interacting. What happened, though, and what I agree with you about, is I went out and mass-approached. This was somewhat n…
/r/seduction19/01/16 02:41 AM
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Rob a bank
/r/seduction19/01/16 02:29 AM
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