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I'm afraid to ask but how is "kitten" a bdsm thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 01:02 AM
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I think he's trying to be funny and kind of missing the mark
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 01:17 AM
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Amazing! The only critique is that dragons are awesome and LVM don't deserve that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 01:12 AM
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"Fiji's rates of violence against women are "among the very highest in the world".[8] The Fiji Women's Crisis Centre reports that 64% of women who have been in intimate relationships have experienced physical or sexual violence from their partner, including 61% who were physically attacked and 34% who were sexually abused."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 07:00 AM
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Oh my god that is unbelievably repulsive! Let's do a red flag count from this statement and article alone. Calling a woman you don't like a slut, with a racial identity. Telling your child's grandmother to stay away from her, using vulgar language about your own daughter. Referring to your daughter as "the f–king sperm that came out of [his] f–king c–k." Saying it's a private matter to the press, after literally being a public figure. Straight out denying to the public that it was that bad (seco…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 11:15 PM
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Therapy and support groups. It is so healing to be with a group of other women who understand and have gone through what you did, I can't recommend finding a sexual abuse survivor group enough. On a more dismal note, only one of the women in my group pressed charges and went through the system. She didn't even make it to the courtroom before the case got dropped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 04:20 AM
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Yeah, I was like what?? morality has always been a part of every political system since forever....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:26 AM
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There's a difference between cancelling and expressing disagreement. Personally? I didn't like Elle being on there, especially not as she proudly stated that she's a gold star republican, and repeated some bullshit about 'good guys with guns'. I was also not thrilled that the main hosts didn't call her on that. Being disappointed and unhappy with content that the mods have produced isn't "totally cancelling" fds. If you can't handle criticism of your favourite important space, YOU get a goddamn …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:23 AM
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Report him. Don't let this man become certified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:15 AM
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This author looooooves OnlyFans and I think that's about all we need to know to judge her character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:02 AM
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Yes, computer science major man, I'm sure you know much more about the structures of the brain and specifically the function of the temporal lobe in the role of recognition than I, a lowly female psychology student who is writing her thesis about this. I wish his temporal lobe was injured so he could no longer speak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 11:06 PM
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Implied suicide if we ever stopped talking. Seems like he's still alive and being an asshole 5 years later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 05:12 AM
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"I would have when I was 13. Now I value time and money."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 05:11 AM
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Kelsey is funny but such a libfem it's painful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:58 AM
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Yeah, this question triggered all the psych kids 😂me too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:54 AM
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I will scream this at people whilst waving my psychology degree I fucking hate this "test"!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:53 AM
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It's based on vague theories by Carl Jung, has very low reliability, there's zero scientific evidence behind it, was created by people with no knowledge or training in psychology and is bullshit. It's about as useful and accurate as a cosmo quiz. There is far more developed personality tests (OCEAN, MMPI) and in any basic behavioural psychology 101 class will tell you that the MBTI is meaningless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 05:31 PM
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queen shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 07:00 AM
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This is so timely for me. I'm glad you wrote this, dear stranger 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:06 PM
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He's doing it to get a rise out of you - think middle school bully mentality. Literally just ignore him - act as if he hadn't said anything and carry on. That drives them nuts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 10:37 PM
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Hey, are you my clone? I think we've had the same life. I've just been straight up saying before the meet-the-family part that my father and I are not close due to his attitudes. Making it clear that I avoid any similar misogynistic and shitty attitudes in all areas of my life, and that I only tolerate him because I have no choice. Set the precedent that you are not close because he acts like this, so your partner will see it as what NOT to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 06:37 AM
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If you don't feel you're in the right headspace to date, that's ok. Give yourself peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 10:05 PM
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DARK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:39 PM
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how dare you insult cats by comparing them to men like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 08:24 AM
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Yes! It's this horrible lose-lose because men will often not even pretend to treat you with respect if they don't find you attractive, and if they do find you attractive they will pretend to be respectful and and a good friend just to get in your pants, leaving you betrayed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 08:18 AM
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I wish men were misogynistic they way women are misandrist: Dislike the opposite sex because of solid evidence and experiences, and try to stay away from them as much as possible. If men were misogynist like that, it would be acceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 08:12 AM
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Girl this is just… the bare minimum. Raise your standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 07:54 PM
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I’ve decided to turn it into secondhand embarrassment. Like oof i’m embarrassed on their behalf they did that. This is not a long term thing, but i’m trying to flip the shame that i feel around so it’s not hurting me when it happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 07:53 PM
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Roll your eyes and walk away. Don’t entertain his bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 07:50 PM
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It's depressing because it makes sense. Hypersexuality is a common response to sexual trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 05:56 AM
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Being bisexual and choosing to only date women is more common than you think - they're called febfems. look it up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 03:41 AM
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Being sensitive is not a character failing. It allows you to be more compassionate and kind. It is the moral failing of those who do not treat you with the same respect you extend them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:08 AM
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That's fair, I suppose in very hot places it's necessary. But in some locations that would be weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 06:25 PM
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Where do you live where people get so sweaty they have to shower twice daily? That would be very strange here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 11:07 PM
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holy shit holy shit holy shit i think men should be... quarantined for a while. like toddlers in timeout.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:10 AM
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" I have so much love to give but he doesn’t want it" hit DIFFERENT I feel you. I'm sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 04:27 AM
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His parents were both lawyers and he has an English degree from the place where mommy and daddy went, met two other comedians and became famous off their backs. Unsurprising background.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 11:44 PM
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Sadly I do see if I can find new food in the fridge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 10:58 PM
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Same! And after half of one of his acts was about him not wanting kids. This is embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 09:27 PM
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Lol five comments, four hidden. Die mad scrotes! Thank you mods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 04:26 AM
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This but instead of your dentist it's your unqualified acquaintance who's trying to convince you to not go to the dentist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 03:06 PM
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Hi! Would love a flair! Also love you mods ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 05:46 PM
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Oh boy have I got some receipts for you. "Monogamous bonding makes men less violent". (Men with one wife are as violent as men with multiple wives) "Why should you wear makeup in the workplace? Isn't that sexually provocative?" (Screams in women being considered less professional without makeup) Interviewer: "Do you feel like a serious woman who doesn't want sexual harassment in the workplace wears makeup in the workplace, is being somewhat hypocritical?" JP: "Yeah. I do think that". "I don't th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 04:13 PM
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absolute BALLER move my friend. he was trying to manipulate you and you swerved him! you're my hero of the day queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 07:06 PM
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Similar to "I'm sorry you feel that way" in that it's on you for suffering or feeling negative as a result of his actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 02:54 PM
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I fully saw your abbreviation of MF's and thought "oh, motherfuckers" before realizing you meant male feminists. maybe same thing? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 02:51 PM
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"It doesn't help that the advice columns, relationship authorities, and moral discourse are dominated by women" bro i WISH they were dominated by women "The present widespread cultural suppression of female sexuality exists in large part at the behest of women." *screams incoherently* "We have all heard endless and sympathetic discussions about how hard it is for women to see beautiful female models depicted in the media, because ordinary women feel they cannot live up to those idealized images.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 04:46 AM
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Any good person doesn't take out their feelings on others. Even if you hurt him (emotionally or whatever kind of hurt) it doesn't justify him hurting you back, and worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 08:20 AM
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Alternatively: You go to the pharmacy to pick up your adhd meds and get treated like a junkie who's scammed the doctor by the pharmacist who argues with you about actually needing them and giving you a drug addiction treatment pamphlet 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 12:57 AM
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That gave me butterflies just reading this!! Thank u for sharing it put a smile on my face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 04:18 AM
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I just looked up the dread game and now i have rolled my eyes out of my head at this misogynist, incel bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 06:43 PM
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Living rent-free in the scrotes head....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 05:52 AM
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Abso-fucking-lutely. It's a horrible example to set, but at least we have the baseline of "He can't be anything like my father," I guess. Also shows me what emotional abuse and gaslighting looks like for future relationships so that I know what to avoid. That's pretty much everything good I can say about his character. For years, my relationship goals were 'i just don't want to be my enabling mother' and anything better was heaven. Even though it wasn't, obviously. Took me a while to figure out …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 05:51 AM
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I love this and you so much and i'm so here for feminist taylor swift analysis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 07:06 AM
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So, you agree. All men are predators and women should not put themselves in situations with men. insert regine george picture here because i don't know how to without breaking the rules.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 07:02 AM
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I like the classic, "i feel the same, good bye and good luck ✌"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 08:24 AM
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Dating someone who is "smarter" than you isn't bad. The caveat is that if they're going to be what you consider smarter, they also have the be more mature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 08:22 AM
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Caitlin never fucking misses, all of her tiktoks are awesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 08:17 AM
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You can just tell that this is one of the dudes whose head is not the one on his shoulders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 08:16 AM
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I feel you! There's no 'right' way to be a woman to avoid these predatory men. You can be attractive and know it and you'll get hit on, then you turn them down and they try and say "oh well you're ugly anyway" or you're unattractive, turn them down and they try and say "you're so ugly you should be lucky i gave you a chance". Dare to be a woman in public anywhere on the scale of attractiveness and men will make you pay for it. It is important hearing from conventionally attractive women that bei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 08:04 AM
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One of my aunts was in a long-term relationship with a man who would give her the cold shoulder for several days after they had an argument, and would only think to resolve it on his terms - keep in mind, they LIVED TOGETHER. Like he would ignore her attempts to work it out until HE wanted to. The last time they fought, he suggested breaking up and then didn't talk to her for four days. When he finally talked and cried about wanting to work it out, she asked "why? I thought we were broken up". I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 11:38 PM
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Also, apple pay? There's ways to pay with your phone. he says this, he wants you to pay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 11:06 PM
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Of course there's one guy out of a hundred who isn't like that, but that one guy isn't worth the ninety-nine you'll burn through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 06:30 AM
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How do we vet for this? Just like evaluate how much he works and then what? How do we tell if it's in a good, wanting-to-get-a-better-life-and-commitment sort of way, a out-partying-with-prostitutes way or a addicted-to-work-and-neglect-everything-else way??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 06:25 AM
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Lol does he think if he writes a good enough essay, you'll be like "oh damn you spent a lot of your time trying to beg me to stay with you, that's so hot"???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 09:36 PM
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There's so many good options of places to send these idiot LVM and I really like yours. Other suggestions: barns, hospitals, asylums, airports.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:18 PM
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Why would you make me look at this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:19 PM
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His friends. Are they also high quality people? Has he maintained these friendships for a long time, or are they friends of convenience? Have any of them cheated, or gone to strip clubs or been shitty to their spouses? Does he have any? Consider all of these carefully, as who you surround yourself with says a lot about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:18 PM
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HE is already a failure. That's why the marriage is like this. YOU did not fail, he failed YOU. Don't go the sunk cost fallacy. Don't dwell on the years lost, prepare for the years you will have free from this loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 11:55 PM
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This is .. insane. Like beyond perverted. why are men??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 11:48 PM
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Lmao I sure hope I end up alone instead of settling ✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:22 AM
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It's why so many men hate this movie, because so many women feel the same way as her - and they don't want the women getting ideas. 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:10 AM
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Okay this is sweet but the pet names are making me cringe lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:42 AM
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Even if you were the most beautiful model to ever exist, men will still want to abuse you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:01 AM
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I think if the wife murdered him, all she would have to show the jury is this note and then they would pay her for doing a public service.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 04:55 AM
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I've said it before and I'll say it again: a fantastic answer to get them to back off is: "Oh, I'm crazy". Creepy smile and ice cold gaze. Works every time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 07:49 PM
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I like this a lot, but I'm hoping you're maybe generalizing about not lifting a finger at home - because if you live independently, you do need to know basic life skills about maintaining a place to live, cooking, cleaning, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:24 PM
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Like even not playing to the twisted patriarchal beauty standards, putting little effort into looking sexually appealing because that's not your goal, men still harass us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:23 PM
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That's why we never. stop. vetting. This is an abuser's playbook, and good on you for not giving him the time of day after he showed his true colours. You responded perfectly. Congrats for dodging him! You're a really good example of how to handle scrotes like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:10 PM
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That's why we never. stop. vetting. This is an abuser's playbook, and good on you for not giving him the time of day after he showed his true colours. You responded perfectly. Congrats for dodging him! You're a really good example of how to handle scrotes like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:08 PM
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Ooh I'm actually qualified to talk about this one! I dated a guy not so long ago who was conservative in like a how-to-run-the-country sense and liberal in the moral-values sense, and it wasn't bad. We had some fun debates and I liked talking about it with him, because there was a basis of mutual respect. But when you have a relationship with a man, like it or not you'll be forced into having one with his family too - and even if he's the best damn HVM on the planet if his family are Trump suppo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:56 AM
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Whenever I feel myself questioning my gut, I stop and do a worst case/best case of each scenario. You continue ignoring this man and staying away, worst case is you don't become friends with a super-friendly man who isn't familiar with social boundaries. Boo hoo. You give in, give him your number and start being available to him, worst case is you're assaulted and killed. Trust yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:26 AM
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The only time you don't need a therapist is when you are such a HVW that your mental health is stellar enough to not need one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:12 AM
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Lol my ex commented on how hot an actress was and how he might drop me for her, and then I jokingly said "same" (I'm bi) and he got BIG upset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:26 PM
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My male friend in high school used to punch walls when upset. I should not have been surprised when he turned out to be a misogynistic dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 08:30 PM
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Def fake, but very funny satire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 05:10 AM
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Same. For a long time, my standards for men were just "not abusive and controlling like my father, lets me do what I want"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 05:08 AM
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Hi ladies, love the pod and am a regular listener! I wonder if you have any advice / strategies for women who date other women as well as men, and how to incorporate FDS principles when dating ladies. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 01:27 AM
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they do WHAT NOW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:32 PM
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I think my mom did the same to me, when I was eight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:12 PM
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I like this arc! Good for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 06:38 AM
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I cried at work when I read this news, and I swear I felt collective grief and anger at this lack of justice. Sending out love to the rest of you who are in my boat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 06:35 AM
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She does not seem like someone who will add value to your life when she brings along a (presumably) zvm. It's in your best interest to be friendly because always be friendly, but maybe not someone you should pursue a close relationship with - trust your gut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 06:32 AM
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lmao gonna let you down on this one buddy, imo not a positive correlation. to be fair sample size of two men with larger than average noses with average genitalia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:23 AM
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idk if that's fds-approved, but that seems like an effective and efficient way of figuring it out, so that makes sense to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:20 AM
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Easy - their dick is most important thing in the world to them, it stops working properly and they feel they have to overcompensate and deny that it's them who is the problem, blaming it on (usually) wife / kids / job and go out to find younger and better versions, deeply believing that it will help their dick. signed, a woman with a psychology degree and partial master's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:12 AM
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I'll show you how flexible my legs are when I wrap them around your head and cut off your airway. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:57 AM
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standard: does NOT watch porn with his cousin frequently and only tell me after four months...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:53 AM
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What a mindset glow-up! Honestly I hear you, I sort of had that "I'm not the prettiest, and these pretty women have it better than me, so I judge them" vibe before I learned better. But even the prettiest, richest, kindest women in the world are negatively affected by misogyny. Look at Britney Spears, being abused by her conservatorship! Taylor Swift being sexually assaulted, eating disorder and enormous hate! All of those women in the Hollywood industry who are very attractive and talented who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 04:02 AM
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GOD i was so PROUD to have low standards and be a 'cool girl', I thought I was helping when I encouraged my female friends to be like that too so they could have boyfriends. I cringe thinking about it now and how absolutely brainwashed and desperate for any sort of affection I used to be. Now I tell my female friends to only expect the best of their boyfriends - he should make you better, you shouldn't be worse to meet him at his level. I wish I'd had people like the women in this sub and OP to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:52 AM
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Lol i just learned this saying from Puppet History
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:41 AM
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So proud!! Also pls pay the pet tax.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 03:47 AM
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Is any societal institution / concept / culture biased against men? I can't name even one...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 02:17 AM
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Exactly! Technically, my cat is "low-maintenance" because she's chill, entertains herself and well behaved, but I absolutely dote on her and snuggle, play and engage with her all the time and ensure she is pampered. Cats don't absolutely need this level of engagement, but it shows commitment and affection. Honestly if a man was not at least like, half as obsessed with my cat as I am we wouldn't work out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 07:49 AM
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I'm so happy for u! this is the dream. i'm only sad because i could never fulfill the 'remembering offhand remarks of preferences for gifts' because i have shit memory and adhd, what are his tricks?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 07:45 AM
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Pretty sure you gave all of us a heart attack in the first paragraph sister
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 12:50 AM
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Yes!! Be your freaking own HVM! let the men know that this is how you treat yourself and they better have a golden standard!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 12:49 AM
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Honestly, I'm going to join OLD just to troll and make fun of men, so I'll have some good stories but put in no real effort and take notes on what I DON'T want in men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:48 PM
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"Oh, I'm crazy." creepy smile. perfect response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:45 PM
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If we're going to have the same lot of mainly LVM in a generation who hate women just as much as they did before (sometimes manifested differently, granted) then they should at least be pressured by society to provide and pay and court us tbh. also OP i love you and your post history of dunking on misogynists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 06:20 AM
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.... not to give tmi, but you're a lucky one. even with protection i've gotten issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:55 AM
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don't pay, pirate!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:59 AM
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The Hoely Hour - two girls discussing sex lives and everything related, they're hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:29 AM
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Beards are actually more un-hygienic than any other type of hair, but apparently only women have to shave body hair 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 08:53 PM
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"I KNOW my coochie is paradise" is my favourite quote ever. I want to get this as a tattoo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 08:51 PM
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"Oh, I'm crazy." Then creepy smile. Works every time, they awkwardly walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:58 PM
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I found it's easier to talk to a complete stranger about these kinds of things before people you know irl. so i'm open to messages if you want to vent, sister
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:42 AM
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I feel like this too. It's good to know it's a common response and I'm not alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:41 AM
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I fully relate to hating yourself for still socializing with your abuser after it happened and before you realized how serious it was. I still struggle with not leaving my boyfriend after I was assaulted because I tried to play it down and convince myself it wasn't a big deal and that I was overreacting. I hope I can one day come to forgive myself for that like you. Thanks for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:39 AM
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"Maybe I'm biased (and bisexual)" is the best quote I have ever seen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:49 AM
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Hell, I'd done it by 15.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:18 AM
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where do you live? i think i'm in love just from your username 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:18 AM
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that would be an awesome subreddit, lesbians and bisexuals of FDS unite!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:17 AM
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You can sign up by watching Magnum PI, wherein he is frequently shirtless and so. fucking. hot. Plus it's in Hawaii. If you can't tell, I'm a dedicated thirsty fan. 🥵😛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:23 AM
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Gonna be honest at no point will these "whales" try to cuff you my dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:52 PM
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Yes, and she's right, but she's also gorgeous wtf???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:12 AM
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You are not trapped. You are in a chrysalis, transforming into someone who can create a better life for herself and her child(ren). You are strong and tough and determined. Above all; you do not yield.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:06 AM
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This is my response too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 08:56 AM
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"Ok, so I guess [wild exaggeration] is what you want?" OP I believe you know my father????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 07:09 AM
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I like these vibes you're putting out into the universe, sister - have an award.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:28 AM
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Of course it's written by "THIS_IS_4PORN"... colour me unsurprised
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:56 AM
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This is horrible, but also "it was like kissing play dough" is the funniest thing I've seen all day. Good on you for trusting your gut and also being a hilarious person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:40 AM
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He just admitted to rape babe. Ask him more about it, record him, find his ex and send it to her so she can take him to court.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:43 PM
36

Just as a general PSA, if your 😽 smells like fish, that probably means bacterial vaginosis or STI - that's not a normal odor, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:31 AM
8

You are for sure not the only one! I had a boyfriend for a whole year, and he completed every time, I never did :) Why do we accept this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:28 AM
4

This has to be a troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:20 AM
3

I wanted to share it for ppl like you so that we don't fall into this trap ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:54 PM
67

I look at it when I need reminders not to settle just bc i'm horny honestly....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:37 AM
18

oh my god i want your life so much...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:22 AM
65

... these are so low and yet we get called bitches for it???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:59 AM
2

Honestly having this mindset like a couple years ago would have been so freaking helpful because when I start dating someone I get wayyyy too invested in the future and imagining and overlook flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:19 AM
3

No, you hate ranting to your boyfriend because he doesn't give a shit about your feelings and tells you you're being overdramatic. And of course, he's being soooo logical and reasonable, since he doesn't care and isn't invested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:00 AM
5

that made me laugh, i'll give you that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:53 AM
6

cries in female sausage fingers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:52 AM
4

My preference is like, day-old facial hair - it's a little more than stubble, just kind of working as contour. Especially if they have an angular face, it's so hot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:51 AM
13

It reminds me of the whole 'men going their own way' thing that was happening for a while. If it was just men deciding to not have relationships with women, i'd be like that's dope. But it was just straight misogyny. We are essentially women going our own way with the added benefit of not making this community just shitting on oppressed people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:48 AM
4

One date in when i got told alllll the trauma I would have to deal with and still went full on in(??)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:45 AM
2

Sneak up behind him and stomp on his hand. problem solved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:47 AM
1

I hate you for making me look up who that was and what she does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:42 AM
11

I saw this quote that said "Men who say they like strong women don't actually like strong women. They just want to be the one who breaks a strong woman". And I've kept that in mind ever since.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:27 AM
43

I don't have the link to it but "Have a romantic dinner without utensils so you can feed each other." is a classic shit. Any dinner that's romantic I am eating with cutlery, thank you very much. I don't want to get sauce on my hands gently placing a single pasta in my partner's mouth you fucking weirdos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:22 AM
42

Yes, but au contraire: show up in normal clothes and no makeup and don't treat it as a date. free coffee, get some exercise and knock him down a few pegs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:18 AM
17

He's the ideal for every lazy man ever - be as shitty and self-absorbed as you want and you are entitled to a hot girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:50 PM
14

Most married moms are only parents anyway. I cannot tell you the number of horror stories about a mom working her ass off at her job AND being a full-time carer to her kids while her husband plays video games all day and works part-time. Literally all of these women say it would be better if he moved out. You, 100%, do not need to be married or have a man in order to have babies. Don't tie yourself down with a mediocre man for kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:49 PM
52

Bruh, missing out? This guy definitely is sitting in his cheap apartment with unwashed hair, stained t-shirt with dorito crumbs on it, listening to Eminem and waiting for his microwave food to be cooked while ruminating on how he could waste his life away with just a mediocre woman (mommy) instead of a beautiful supermodel that he's entitled to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 11:01 PM
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