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uzderty/r/askMRP22/09/16 01:02 PM
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Lifting. Squat upped by 5kgs. Fuckin happy. Bench still on a plateau. I had not done OHP for a while to focus on chest and legs while on a cut. But did an OHP session this week and found that its up by 10kgs from last time. Seems overall strength improved just by doing the three big lifts. I dont know why I still feel fat. While my friends and gym buddies tell me otherwise. I am still mentally wrapped in my obese past and its lowering my confidence. This is also terribly affecting me at work and…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/17 02:20 PM
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"Man, why does it always seem like I'm struggling. Do I suck this bad? Can I not reach the top of this mountain? Is there no end?" Stole my thoughts on this one. I go through this quite frequently. Find an activity to re-focus your mind. Sift through the junk and find that inner drive once again Works for me like a charm. Thanks for this absolute gold. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/17 10:32 AM
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Still doing the keto shakes and have the bathroom issues sorted out for the most part. What bathroom issues?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/17 09:05 AM
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Thanks man, will look at this.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/17 09:04 AM
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Will check thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/17 09:04 AM
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Maybe. It was definitely not a shit test, maybe a comfy test. My answer was honest, I don't want us to get divorced right now. I have communicated to her that I have no interest in leading the family if divorce has to be brought up again and again. And that divorce is not on my mind. What I also want to communicate going forward is she can divorce me if she wants and I will be fine.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/17 09:03 AM
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Lifting. Deadlift stalled at 110 kg 2RM. Working on volume at 70% of 1RM. Squat 2RM upped by 10kgs, on a cheat day. Real test will be squat session today while I am on a deficit. Bench stalled at 65 kgs 1RM and I am frustrated with my upper body strength. I have checked testosterone levels and they are at about the average for men my age. So low-T might be an issue. Diet & Supplements. Eating a ton of food. Mostly stir fried chicken, lamb, veggies. Had a couple of unhealthy meals this week. As u…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 11:08 AM
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Wherever you started, you’ve got a certain number of degrees of alpha you can rise before you hit a glass ceiling Wtf dude! Your alphaness is in your hands, not in your destiny, nor your wife's. You decide where you stop or don't. and shit either won’t be effective or, worse, might work against you. Shit wont work on whom exactly? You building your alpha is for YOU, not for her to give you a pat on the back. Your post looks like a post-RP victim puke to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 10:19 AM
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A lot of guys here prove you wrong on this one. No. They don't. In this post he is talking about guys who 'don't get it'. There are many men here who get it, like that post the other day and it's a perfect example of 'RP is a cure, not a bandaid'. Most often this hope is about a guy wanting to ‘fix’ his broken relationship with a girl who dumped him. These are precisely the guys who 'sprinkle a lil alpha' on it or go RP Rambo and further destroy their relationship as mentioned below... A sudden …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 11:55 AM
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A man is attractive if he is strong and will use that strength to protect you. Chad.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 02:15 PM
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Congratulations brother. I'm not so sure that I will continue to hang around MRP, since I'm not married anymore. Lol, you think you can now stop owning your shit?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 02:10 PM
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I disagree with some of the posters here. I'm still often turning conversations sexual and suggesting sex. Do kino because you like doing it, not as a covert contract to higher intimacy. Kino does not have to lead to sex, first get this in your head, then let her know that through your actions. and then... I believe it was a "pity / I'm feeling pressured / duty" fuck Ofcourse you bitch. She sees through your fake desire. She sees your tactics(kino) as your childish way of getting candy from momm…
/r/askMRP10/01/17 01:58 PM
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I havent apologized because that means accepting I was wrong. Ego on my part. What still scares me is if I accept my fault, that would give her a pass at a 'tit-for-tat', maybe as worse as an excuse for cheating on me. Still means I am low on abundance mentality/ OI.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/16 06:47 AM
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It all depends on what other thoughts those feelings trigger I wanted her to fill the void of loneliness I felt at times. Some things you learn from books. Other things you learn by doing. Agreed and am on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/16 11:36 AM
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Regarding missing her, what is it that you missed I felt lonely at times and wanted her to fill that void, which I suppose is very bp. Don't know how that fits in the 3 points you mentioned, maybe 3rd.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/16 11:34 AM
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fight the constant thought that the continued lack of sex is because I am still a blue pill pussy I like to think that even if you become as red as it gets, you might still not get any sex, from this woman. How much sex you have is in your hands because no one can stop you from having sex outside. It does not necessarily mean you go out and cheat, but cultivating this mindset helps.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/16 06:23 PM
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Good that you are leaning toward changing slowly. It is definitely awesome if you can pace up YOUR self improvement meaning lifting, dressing & grooming, career and developing a calm happy head. That is definitely not RP Rambo. But do assess how mean your mean card is when she plays hers. I went RP Rambo and my marriage is in the shit. Wife resents me for hurting her, and she is right, I was angry at her for quite a while. While she likes the changes viz. feeling my muscles during sex, asking me…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/16 11:41 AM
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Lifting. Twice. Bench and Squat on track. Diet & Supplements. All screwed up. Need to get back. Dressing & Grooming. Added a couple of shirts and a jeans. Had a haircut and beard trimmed to perfection. Career. Joining the new job soon. Getting prepped. Moving from a startup to a large bank, so wardrobe has to be changed from casual to super formal suits. Hobbies. Was on a trip to my band's town this week. Spent 4 hours every day at the studio working with band mates. Things are just getting bett…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/16 08:40 AM
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Wont you?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/16 06:21 PM
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I am continuing SL. But my PT seems to be in a mood to bust my lazy ass at times.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/16 06:21 PM
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Lifting. German volume training kicking shit out of me. Only 2 good workout sessions this week. Couldn't lift one time because of a bad headache. Diet & Supplements. Ate some unhealthy food this week several times. Looking up Keto Soylent recipes this week and getting on it. Bought a 5lb ON whey barrell and planning to have one scoop a day. Dressing & Grooming. On track. But need to buy some more clothes next week. Career. Got a great offer in the same city and will be working for a large bank s…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/16 02:00 PM
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Ordering the keto soylent shake mix Didn't know about this. Thanks for sharing, this will solve half of my meal problems.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/16 11:20 AM
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it's important to work with others. Definitely.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 03:52 PM
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Lol, at home I need my wife to scratch my ass atm. And I wish I had a few plates at office. ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 01:12 PM
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Yesterday, I was giving knee pain excuses on squat, so my very strict PT moved me to bench. Made me do some German Volume training for chest. I was exhausted by the 3rd set at my 10RM. By the 10th set I couldn't even finish 10 reps on an empty barbell! My trainer was literally bullying me and pushing the bar on me. He yelled and called me a bitch ass pussy several times. Later in the shower, I almost cried. Complete ego death. There is definite fortune in being called a bitch ass pussy by a stro…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 12:34 PM
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Quoting Julien Smith from the book, The Flinch. Somewhere in the world, a lion wakes up not knowing what it's going to eat. Everyday it finds food. The lion doesn't worry - it just does what it needs to do. Somewhere else, in a zoo, a caged lion sits around every day and waits for a zookeeper. The lion is comfortable. It gets to relax. It's not worried much, either. Both of these animals are lions. Only one is a king. Good fucking post.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 01:58 PM
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Last OYS The Good: Lifting. On track. Diet & Supps. On track. Plus back to keto. Supplement stack now has Opti-Men, Ashwagandha, Creatine and ZMA. Stopped ZMA as Ashwagandha giving me similar results and cheaper. Have to order ON whey to get those last 30gms of protein. Dressing, Grooming & Hygiene: All on track. Leather shoes make a huge difference on appearance. Making it a point to polish them every other day. Career. One more decent employment offer on its way. Way bigger role for a large ba…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/16 03:01 PM
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sing her Radiohead - Creep Lol. I'm a creep, I'm a weirdo What the hell am I doin here I don't belong here....Dread ;)
/r/askMRP09/12/16 06:19 AM
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have some respect for your wife and actually be honest in your answers instead of saying what you think she wants you to say. WNS, my problem is I am myself not clear in the head as to what I want. I know how pussy that sounds. From this post of yours, /u/BetaFeelz describes that perfectly for me. I am stuck in the same issue... I will speak for myself only. After being trained from a young age to do and say and try to predict what other people want, I have to work extra hard to even know what I…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 09:21 AM
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The Good: Lifting: Back to lifting and going well. Dressing & Grooming. Nails, hair and clothing on track. Weather is hot around here, I sweat a lot. Need to find a solution for not being a stinky man. I am going to bathe atleast twice everyday, once at the gym and once/twice at home. I am going to put perfume/deo every 6 hours and especially after commute to and from work. Once I wake up, the first thing I am going to do is take a bath. Also, I will wash my face and comb my hair every 3 hours. …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 09:02 AM
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Sure, but STFU is hard. ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 05:43 AM
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Doesn't that feel great? It fucking does. Cheers.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/16 05:34 PM
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Hambley, my reply is based on an assumption that you understand that the problem is still you and not your wife. You are a fuckup. Own it. Also, because you are a handsome man, 3 weeks after you divorce, you will nail a hot unicorn and fall back to your BP ways, because you finally found the one. I have a similar situation as you, almost an identical main event this week. I almost also fucked it up like you. Here are my thoughts and learnings from the past week. I am also pretty sure, I am going…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/16 05:25 PM
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Your points on sex are golden. I never thought of it that way. All the Chad stories are fucking up my head. IMO, you missed a real opportunity to spin up her hamster and let her have a taste of life with without uzderty. Point. I am understanding where I am going wrong. You know somehow, I still think I don't want her to be pissed over me going busy and not even giving her a 3 min call every day. All my close friends advice me to give her atleast 5 mins of my day when I am out-station. I somehow…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/16 09:31 AM
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do more catch and release C&R is tempting bro. These chicks are so much more sweet & younger than wife. I tend to fall in oneitis very quick with such pussy. The problem is still me, not the wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/16 09:23 AM
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when you write the shit you write? Ok. So I am thinking about this a lot. I see mainly 3 issues in me: I still lack abundance mentality. So subconsciously I still feel that my wife owes me sex and that she is my one and only source of pleasure. I still feel guilty for being me and I still feel I could do something different to make my relationship better. I still feel I could make it work out with her and that I need to bring in that x-factor that I am somehow missing. I still am not living for …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/16 08:58 AM
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living solely and exclusively for yourself I am doing this, most of the time. But maybe I need to really do this in entirety. What about leading her? She has told me numerous times, she feels left behind and is unable to catch up with me. The thing is she is a fit attractive woman in all aspects except sex and behavior towards me. She does not have to improve on anything except her bitchy behavior and sexual availability. Both cannot be negotiated through talk. No it fucking isn't. Your wife MAY…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 09:45 AM
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She's shaming you for being a brash headed socially retarded fuck acting unattractive. That means I am still a man who doesn't "get it" and I am going to vent here and ask a few questions: What is it that I am doing wrong, WNS? Is it my communication? Is it my butthurt? Is it too little comfort? Is it too much RP rambo? She says I do not understand her emotions and can't handle them. Am I a social retard, who is unable to take care of a woman? This is something that has been going in my head for…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 07:46 AM
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can you be more specific? Yes, morning we woke up cuddling. She was on her stomach with her head on my shoulder. I put my hand between her ass and started rubbing her down there, quite vigorously. That was for a minute or so, then I went north and started making out with her, like I own her. Then she told me she is getting late and left bed. Seems that she is so repulsed by me(right now) that I came across as a pervert to her hamster. And my butthurt is causing her feel obligated to have sex wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 06:36 AM
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She's trying to shame you for it True. "I am going to have passionate meaningful sex. Whether that's with you or another lady is up to you." Instead of this exactly, this is what I communicated during when she told me she does not feel respected when I initiate: "I am a sexual being and I will initiate sex with you when I want to. You could go ahead and tell me no." On this, shit testing ensued and she shamed me again for wanting to be physical with her. I fogged and pressure flipped it.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 06:00 AM
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The Good Dressing & Grooming. Owned. Getting a haircut+beard trim done ever 3 weeks, keeping every strand in shape. Career. On track. Lagging a bit on joining formalities for the new company. I will do it this week. Hobbies. Kicking ass here. I spent this week in a different town, with the band. Spent almost 18 hours every day in the studio with the metalheads. Realizing, I should not have given up music for wife, while she gifted me guitars every bday. Highly motivated to putting in the work an…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/16 09:23 AM
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This is gold and every single word describes me. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/16 09:23 AM
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How often do you indulge the cuddling? I let her cuddle me whenever she wants. How can I un-cuddle while I am deep in sleep? She follows me all across the bed to cuddle while I roll in sleep. Actually, I like cuddling too, but I like it less than sex. Your comfort should be contingent on your happiness. If I understand this correctly. The comfort I provide should be contingent on how happy she keeps me. But at the same time, my happiness does not have to be dependent on her. I should keep a happ…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/16 06:26 AM
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The Good Lifting. Had a very informative and practical squat form session with the trainer, 1.5 hours of focused squat workout. He helped me go from empty bar to 90kg 2RM with much improved form. Earlier I was squatting 100kg 1RM with bad form(slouching). Learnt the right technique of getting under the bar, lifting the bar off the rack, taking the back-step, and breathing the right way to increase lift efficiency. Number of reps I can do at lighter weights have improved because of the new form. …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/16 01:10 PM
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Do you know how to do this? Yes. I will continue to become the best me I can be, flirt with her like she is a hawt roommate, welcome her to my awesome life. Did I miss something?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 07:47 AM
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Even I guess the same. Issue in my head is I have a gut feeling, there is someone dictating her and I felt "Please breakup with me" behavior on her part. Anyway, I will do me.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 07:44 AM
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Bro, she said no to PIV.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 07:34 AM
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The Good Lifting. BP improved 2.5kgs since last week. Trainer shit tested me on my poor DL form. I am going to take PT sessions again. Career. Manager asked me to look for other jobs. Market's bad. Got an offer already and might move cities. Hobbies. Nailing shit here. My old music teacher invited me to join his band as a bassist. First show end of this month. Social. Catching up with bros, mostly to vent relationship problems. Bros have been a huge support system. The Bad Sex, 0 since last 3 we…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 12:47 PM
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Conversely never be afraid of being wrong This is one of the most important learning I had from this thread. In fact one of my very RP friend told me the exact same thing, when I was venting my relationship at him.
/r/askMRP11/11/16 05:56 PM
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I fucking sucked when I started, I suck less now. Were you /u/TrainingTheBrain before?
/r/askMRP11/11/16 05:54 PM
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Where's the irrational levels of self confidence man? Yes. I still lack this. Noted. What drove you to write this? I am at a point where I have realised that divorce is always an option, that my wife is not a unicorn and neither am I special. That letting go would be a great relief as would having a happy relationship, as I keep improving. These are some of my thoughts I penned down while on a week's vacation without the wife.
/r/askMRP04/11/16 03:34 PM
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My first post, so was a little cautious of toning down on the MRP post quality.
/r/askMRP04/11/16 02:20 PM
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I also have a counter argument to my own comment: When my manager gives me a bad attitude on reaching late to work everyday, its almost always because the kind of projects or work he assigns me is not interesting/stimulating enough to me. So he has to force it on me. I end up not liking the boundary, and hating him for it. But when he gives me good projects to work on and invests in me by being a high value manager, I don't have to worry about keeping him happy. I reach on time even if I was at …
/r/askMRP23/10/16 05:06 PM
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1) Is there ever a good reason in a marriage where such behavior (spending the night somewhere else) is ever appropriate? If no, how would you bring this up? In some companies, there are strict in and out times. In others there is flexi-time. What is your boundary? What is it that you want? In my case, I let her get her energy from others(read top comments by jTENh). But I do have a boundary: Not more than 2 pegs/2 beers and in before 10.30 pm. She goes out once/twice a month, and never has she …
/r/askMRP23/10/16 06:19 AM
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...or he could be Steve Jobs and dump Chrisann and daughter Lisa. But I hardly feel OP could ever be Steve Jobs. Unless OP can definitively answer A). Great comment TFA.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/16 12:27 PM
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I think somewhere you might have hamstered infidelity/branch-swing on her part, when she played the divorce card? I had similar thoughts when she told me she wanted to have off-time from me(like 6 months off) and wanted to move-in with her sis. That was 5 months into my MAP. She has these BFF GFs who are not married yet who probably filled her ears to the brim. I hamstered branch swinging and a smooth way to detach from me. But I kept at my MAP while reassuring her. She stayed and has been a bet…
/r/askMRP21/10/16 04:47 AM
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I think he reposted it. Don't know why though.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 04:59 PM
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record with wife is 5 That is fkin awesome man! Well, he nailed that part. Yes he did. And its not just his body, but his mind too. Rock solid frame this dude has.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 04:45 PM
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Most men are truly DTF, women are DTF right now but not always. I believe this too. But the other day, I was startled. One of my gym trainers, a ripped 43 yr old man, bodybuilding for 25+ years asked me how my sex life was. I told him about it. Then tells me:"I am fucking my wife of 23 yrs, 3 times a day. The gym will fix your sex life too." My jaw dropped.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 01:34 PM
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Go acquiesce to them, tail between my legs (like I have done for 8 years?) Dude, you are angry at her for the way you got treated the last 8 yrs! The last 8 years is all your fault. Accept it or don't. Move on or don't. She is a woman, isn't she? Read this. and here is a quote to make it easy for you: Understand that women are not malicious for acting like women. Whether you believe that women are biologically programmed to pursue their life and sexual strategies or they are simply rational agen…
/r/askMRP20/10/16 07:38 AM
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Would you say this to your office boss?: "I'm not going to do it when you ask me like that, try again." Listen man, right now she is literally your boss. Right now. Doesn't mean you can't promote yourself to become your boss's boss, an year from now. Question is whether you would push her down to achieve that or pull yourselves up! Take stoney's advice and start living your life as a single dad of 3... Edit: And did you go fetch that child and calm it down?
/r/askMRP20/10/16 07:13 AM
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Read How to Build YOUR road to safety!, a brilliant post from /u/bogeyd6, and all the top comments.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 06:35 AM
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Tough to have any hobbies when I literally don't have the time or energy. Did you have your t-levels checked? Might be a reason for fatigue. I am getting mine done soon. Also, if you find your t-levels to be low and don't want to take t-shots, a good sleep schedule, nutrition(including supplements) and lifting heavy might be your only options.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/16 01:17 PM
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The goal was to squat my body mass. Congrats. :) I did the same yesterday, and am extremely sore today. How did you feel?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/16 11:34 AM
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I must be doing some shit wrong because she is worse than ever. No. High chances you are not doing anything wrong, because... I employ STFU, lift, go do something productive This just can't go wrong. Also, have you been a career beta? I have been one, and these comments from /u/jacktenofhearts helped me a lot. Its IMO a tougher journey for career betas. And as /u/Persaeus mentioned BPPs recent advice is golden, esp for career betas. We just can't start running asshole game suddenly. Here are the…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 04:26 PM
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I think there is nothing wrong in thinking(more importantly:knowing) that "she's responsible for her own happiness". But overtly saying it when you are a low value man(OP, are you still?) who she knows hasn't given a fuck about his own happiness in the last decade or two, comes across as being a frustrated person. /u/bigtuna45, what happened to this? And suggest you pick your battles wisely.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/16 06:34 PM
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Even I wonder why OP won't tell his wife straight:"Yes, I do care about your happiness", broken record/fogging and then go about his business, which should by now be owning his shit. Seems to me that OP is in anger phase or something is missing in this post. /u/bigtuna45, are you not re-reading WISNIFG?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/16 05:07 PM
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If you were in a business meeting with a client, would you tell them: "I care about my revenues more than yours", even if you both deep down knew that's what you are meeting him for? Edit: And why is this OP here? Why not askmrp/oys?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/16 03:52 PM
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Thanks for this advice. The vacation was good and she is happy with the bicycle. I got laid well too. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 12:54 PM
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but this sound ass backwards I had an injury in my core area. Healing from that since the last 3 weeks, so had to take a break. Starting lifting again, but isolations for now, just to get into the game. I had been doing SL5X5 for the last 5 months. This early unplugging, I would not rock your typical wife b-day routine too much. I have been unplugging for 5 months now. Is that still early? If I have a chance to set a standard, it is now. Previous bday celebrations have almost always been covert …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/16 04:45 PM
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and she burst out laughing too. All good - a little drama, a little emotion, and a little humour for her Nice going. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/16 07:03 AM
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Lifting: - Started lifting. Doing more isolations right now than compounds. Dressing & Grooming: - Beard is looking better. Learning that keeping it a bit messy & rough makes my face look better. - Clothing is on point. Bought a nice rain/warm jacket. Learning to wear the right shades of shirts inside it. - Nails cut, wardrobe cleaned up. Reading: WISNIFG. Continuing gorilla mindset and Mike's posts. Leadership: - Wife's bday approaching. I have planned a vacation to a nice beach place. - I have…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/16 06:31 AM
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I am slowing it down on the aloof asshole dominance thing (I think) I was doing. That was a big mistake and not redpill, and led to my wife's situation. Yes Cernovich is pretty much rp.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/16 12:15 PM
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Nathaniel Brandon's work Which one of his books would you suggest to start with?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/16 12:13 PM
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Lifting & Diet: I am going to resume lifting today, after healing from an injury. I want to try keto and see if it works for me in losing the remaining fat. I have heard a lot of good reviews on this from other OYSs and the keto page. Dressing & Grooming: I want to find a beard style that I can maintain well. Currently beard is slightly looking like pubic hair at certain spots. Clothing is on point. But, I want to buy a couple of jeans to add to my wardrobe. My thighs and hips are larger than th…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/16 10:55 AM
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Being a dick who doesnt care about her, playing silly games. Bad Agreed.
/r/askMRP25/09/16 12:12 PM
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Thank you for your comment BPP. :)
/r/askMRP25/09/16 12:11 PM
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I believe there is nothing wrong with the redpill.
/r/askMRP25/09/16 12:08 PM
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If a bitch wants to walk, you have to be willing to let them walk. Yes, agreed. I am letting her go. Ok, so you put in about 5 months of half assed wrong type of work for all the wrong reasons. I feel guilty that my MRP half assing has led to this situation. I went too fast and alienated her. It is me who made her an emotional mess. I think she just wanted me to lead her(in the right ways)
/r/askMRP23/09/16 08:12 AM
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First off, thanks for typing this stuff out. Very grateful to you, Sir. What attracted her to you in the first place? An alpha at work from top tier univ, we met at work. Guitarist who wrote songs for her. Planned surprise vacations to beach party places. Made her orgasm good, just through dirty talk, and I still do. Gave her chocolates, wine and flowers. Was >90% beta pussy, with little alpha behavior. To get enthusiastic dirty sex 5-6 times a week takes tingles. This is not every week. Its ver…
/r/askMRP22/09/16 04:47 PM
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"I am improving, yet my wife is still not responding" I remember you from 'Shoot this comment to the moon so that men can be happy' comment you made on an OP. You scared me when you made that comment on that OP, only meaning I am still not man enough to next my wife. She settled for you, didn't hunt for you, put her everything out there to lure you in. Story of my life. but overall you a most likely better off starting a new relationship where you are only known as an Alpha. stomach twinge. She …
/r/askMRP22/09/16 04:10 PM
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OTOH, only you know what things have been like I think I have shown really bad beta behavior all through the relationship. I have had a long anger phase and I think I still have some residual anger thinking about how she treated me and how she is still not attracted to me. I still do resent her for not being attracted to me. She can smell it and it does show in my actions sometimes. I do not have OI/Abundance mentality and have been simply half assedly planning my exit from the relationship all …
/r/askMRP22/09/16 03:41 PM
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5 months feelz like a lifetime of suffering Can confirm with seeing what she has been going through. And I see her genuinely being sad. Have you shared your vision for the family with her? No. And I am going to get bashed on this. I never share it with her. And when I think about it, I think this is where I am going wrong: My actions(and words) make her feel that I already have one foot out of the relationship: Not sharing the vision, as if I am planning my exit out of the relationship using RP.…
/r/askMRP22/09/16 03:35 PM
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