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Outer Game vanbrah123/r/seduction10/05/24 10:06 PM
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Less of right place.. and more of right girl. You need to sharpen your skills on reading women and quickly deciding if she would down on threesome or kinks.
/r/seduction12/08/26 03:53 PM
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One thing I have learnt with one night stands and threesome - it’s all about right place, right time with the right kind of girl. Lots of guys with great skills waste time putting their efforts in “low return locations.
/r/seduction12/08/26 02:18 PM
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Hotel thing only works when I am on business trip, so I am staying in a hotel regardless. Hotel bar to the room is the easiest transition ever. Otherwise “continue drinks at my place” always works for transition to my home.
/r/seduction11/08/26 01:37 AM
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Drinks first date, with very convenient logistics to get her to my place/hotel. They sleep with me fast but it’s never casual or intense like a sexy hook up, I have even got “can you be my boyfriend” talks on first date.
/r/seduction11/08/26 01:22 AM
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Yes they didn’t filter their wife well - seen it happen many times.
/r/seduction09/08/26 07:33 PM
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I still believe in marriage (my past girlfriends were fantastic) but I will say, don’t get married to a girl exhibiting low quality (high body count, impulsive, not educated, broken family, etc). Filter your women for relationship well.
/r/seduction09/08/26 06:19 PM
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Haha have you found a solution to this issue then? Lol
/r/seduction09/08/26 06:12 PM
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Mixed race, standard dating apps (the popular ones), I’m also fit athletic. My matches conversion rate is not too high (10 matches to 3 dates maybe?). But once I go on dates, I don’t miss. My game is flawed though in that these girls don’t view me as hook up material but more so like boyfriend/husband material, so I am only able to get laid because these (ran through) girls want a long term future with me which I don’t always entertain.
/r/seduction09/08/26 06:05 PM
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I’m 5ft 10, and I get laid plenty on dating apps. Most girls I match with on dating app are ran through and have a high body count. Not the highest quality of women so I wouldn’t take their words too personally.
/r/seduction09/08/26 04:15 AM
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I agree with this - every women I met on dating app was broken in someway (looks or otherwise)
/r/seduction09/08/26 04:12 AM
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How do you look?
/r/seduction07/08/26 02:22 AM
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How is this normal?
/r/seduction07/08/26 02:07 AM
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It happens, just not as common as it’s made out to be. I’m speaking about age range of early 20s to 30.
/r/seduction28/07/26 10:42 AM
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It’s not as common as it’s made out by some posters. Absolutely bottom of the barrel girls do that, in the sense that they detach dates from sex. Most people look to date for a consistent long term relationship and sex partner.
/r/seduction27/07/26 10:18 PM
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Telling you based on my real experience. Girls tend to go for the best “looking/highest value” guy in a group of friends. You will have better results if you disconnect from the group and fly solo, or hang out with someone more similar to your looks.
/r/seduction27/07/26 01:47 PM
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That’s a brilliant write up. I keep thinking of girls that I have been in relationship with - and all they wanted to do was date, wine dine, vacations; with sex being placed as secondary. The same girls would tell me that they used to be fuk buddies with guys who are “jobless and not relationship material” - and that used to be piss me off like nothing else because I always felt they were getting the better deal compared to me as the boyfriend. Of course those girls would say I am getting their …
/r/seduction24/07/26 04:21 PM
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I have only paid for uber for them to go home (after a night of sex) - not for them to come meet me.
/r/seduction24/07/26 03:27 PM
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Maybe it’s a mental block - but if a girl offers casual sex, wouldn’t they will always be able to get someone taller, more handsome, more endowed from Tinder. The girls I meet seem to only want relationship from me after a while and not pure casual sex.
/r/seduction24/07/26 03:23 PM
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I mean the casual relationship just fades off, either the sex gets boring or she starts asking for me.. like relationship. I also feel women have the option of going on tinder and getting casual sex with a better looking taller guy much easier than I can get laid with a better looking girl - so that puts the dynamic of power on their side always.
/r/seduction24/07/26 10:26 AM
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How long can you keep casual sex going? I am not able to maintain it for more than 2 months. Also how did you find out you were cheated and why do you think it happened? If you were thinking of marrying her, I am sure you vetted her personality so what happened?
/r/seduction24/07/26 01:28 AM
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Yes, but methods and efforts are significantly different.
/r/seduction01/07/26 10:01 PM
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Judging which women are “easy” versus “harder” to score in bed made my seduction success infinitely higher. I knew where to put in my efforts if I wanted to get laid. It goes against the whole being “non-judgemental” and “Madonna-whore” syndrome that Reddit is really against.
/r/seduction01/07/26 07:30 PM
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How old is your girlfriend? Yes major red flags, but atleast she calls (and not radio silence the whole night)
/r/seduction19/06/26 09:34 PM
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He is close to doing the deed, why block and delete now?
/r/seduction18/06/26 06:38 PM
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Fuck boy and boyfriend material both get laid at the end though. It’s not the worst place to be in (compared to being friendzoned).
/r/seduction18/06/26 03:17 PM
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That’s a good rule to follow by default. But I have been with women that bring this topic up themselves, and I let them flow with it. Normally ends up with us having wild sex (since she thinks I am non-judgmental and open minded).
/r/seduction18/06/26 03:12 PM
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Have you been on a date with a very promiscuous women? She tells you about fucking other guys to show that she has options (low self esteem).
/r/seduction18/06/26 03:06 PM
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Yup, that’s her logic
/r/seduction18/06/26 03:00 PM
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You’ll be surprise how many “open minded modern” women think nothing of it.
/r/seduction18/06/26 02:59 PM
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What dictates speed is attraction and logistics. I have been in this exact situation before, get a hotel and do the deed.
/r/seduction18/06/26 02:48 PM
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I would argue that misogynistic men on average are more successful with women simply because they tend to brutal and objective in getting what they want with women.
/r/seduction09/06/26 08:31 PM
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What do you mean rabbit hole? You watched some disturbing porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:46 AM
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I have noticed blue cities tend to overemphasize on the age gap dynamics being equal to power imbalance dynamics. It’s odd that they assume a young women dating an older man has no agency or decision rights and is being taken advantage of; but the same women has full decision rights to sleep around with random men from dating apps since she is an “adult” or “love is love - regardless of gender but not when it comes to age gap”. The hypocrisy is baffling.
/r/seduction22/05/26 12:43 AM
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How tall are you? Also do you pass off as Pakistani? Are girls ever physically attracted to you? Is the sex good? I am finding game incredibly hard as a brown guy in the US, because unlike black, whites and Latinos, there are no sexy stereotypes when it comes to us.
/r/seduction15/05/26 08:12 AM
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Yup that’s my biggest question now
/r/seduction12/05/24 01:30 AM
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I had a friend like this for years and I put up with it in the name of “friendship” The best decision I made was to cut him off completely and my success with women also sky rocketed after that.
/r/seduction10/05/24 01:44 PM
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Lots of variable here, and not discounting your opinion - but I would interested to know the type of girls you are getting attraction from. I’m speaking on attracting what has socially been defined in the US as top of the pile girls - slim fit 19-25 year old females. Cold approach is also tabooed these days so without having an amazing online dating profile (and your looks play a heavy part there), I am not sure how you are pulling it off but would be interested to know more.
/r/seduction07/05/24 10:28 PM
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Core concepts remain same - attraction, comfort and seducing. Everything else has changed. Social media and dating apps have inflated female egos. Without significant value or looks, you’re not gonna get laid today - if you have those, much easier to get laid today though.
/r/seduction07/05/24 09:48 PM
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