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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 48 | This girl's boyfriend objectifies and body-shames her vagina and redditors tell her he's just a pussy guy and it's a compliment. This is why you never ask relationship subs for advice; they are teeming with disgusting LVM/NVMAbsolutely. She is only 19. And the men on there are telling her she's lucky and she's bragging. Sickening!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 07:30 PM |
| 14 | A mother is concerned when her daughter comes home from her boyfriend's house with clear slap marks on her cheek. Pornsick Redditors tell her its sexually empowering, and she agrees. This is the state of women in 2022.Porn culture. Girls and women are being raped, abused, degraded and no one questions it because "kink" is sacrosanct. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 12:35 PM |
| 62 | "Men don't actually like women, they want to have sex with female anatomy, but they don't like women."Yeah. This is the one. This is why women shouldn't blame themselves or have low self esteem. The patriarchy will gaslight you to death if you let it. There is power in seeing it for what it is and then acting in your self interest and wellbeing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 01:56 PM |
| 15 | Hookup culture is a scamCountless courses, articles and podcasts about how women can improve their sex game and pleasure their men. The grooming and glamorization of OF is also so dangerous especially for impressionable teenagers (both boys and girls tbh). This whole era of sex and intense internet culture is vicious and if you don’t engage in any of that (which a lot of young women don’t), the media makes out that there is something inherently wrong with you. Thank you!! I wish these articles focused on like, how to k… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 10:43 PM |
| 22 | Hookup culture is a scamAbsolutely. Girls are being groomed on a societal level to not have childhoods and just be sexy. Look at the state of preteens on tiktok, celebrities like Millie Bobby Brown and Billie Eilish.... https://appropriately-inappropriate.tumblr.com/post/188005173985/no-they-dont-they-show-the-effects-of-the https://the-party-pineapple.tumblr.com/post/164522035721 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 10:38 PM |
| 34 | Hookup culture is a scamIt absolutely is the norm now. It's terrifying. Also, looking back that makes a lot of sense, holy shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 04:02 PM |
| 58 | Hookup culture is a scamAbsolutely. When you haven't been treated with affection or kindness or warmth ever, its hard to let it go even once that good behavior is long gone. Luckily I refused to play his games and say goodbye on his terms, and have moved to my dream country am more successful than I ever thought I would be. If an actual, good relationship is meant for me it will happen, and until then I'm fine working on myself instead of being free entertainment for the LVM/NVM out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 03:51 PM |
| 79 | Hookup culture is a scamI rly thought in my naivete that if you’re getting to know someone, get along, enjoy your time together, and eventually have sex, that you’d end up in a relationship because obv that should build intimacy and form an emotional bond, and if they enjoy talking/spending time with you and having sex with you, what else is there?? Ugh tell me about it. I totally feel you, it's messed me up too. The slightly less LVM I mentioned was also a manipulative fuckboy, and I'm still recovering from the mind g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 03:10 PM |
| 229 | Hookup culture is a scamAre you me? Lol I grew up only exposed to my peers hooking up as opposed to dating. I literally didn't know how people were supposed to treat each other in relationships until a FWB was slightly less LVM than the other NVM I had been with, and I was able to move to a new country and be around different people. My friend once suggested I don't kiss a guy for the first few dates and I was blown away. I couldn't fathom it, I thought it always had to be that way 💀 I've stopped now, and I'm slowly re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 02:52 PM |
| 99 | Hookup culture is a scamThe number of friends who told me to have a "hoe phase" when I was utterly heartbroken with non-existent self esteem is.... whew. All of them had their own "hoe phases", and ended up getting played and feeling like shit over and over. Even the men, lol. We were all kids and its actually insane how everyone stopped doing it after a heartbreak or weird experience. It's truly a scam. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 02:43 PM |
| 165 | Relationship subs give me no hope for men or the future of womenThank you for this perspective. I guess I'm just burnt out from reading about all the abuse. Men love Reddit, they will never know what its like to open it and read endless stories about women grooming young boys, women raping men, women assaulting men and the men still trying to fix it, women violating men to the point of illness for their sexual pleasure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 01:46 PM |
| 46 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupHis comments are nauseating. I truly hope that poor woman dumps his miserable, gold-digging ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 12:55 AM |
| 87 | What are some vetting strategies to ensure a man won’t turn like this on you after giving birth?Your response is truly lovely too and I'm emotional now, lol. I completely agree. We've been brainwashed into having low self esteem and putting up with shitty men. I am saying no to mediocrity, and while it's incredibly lonely (I'm in my early 20s, alone in a new country, never been in a good/serious relationship), its still better than putting up with the trash NVM. I'm never going to settle again, even if that means being on my own forever. <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 11:28 PM |
| 319 | What are some vetting strategies to ensure a man won’t turn like this on you after giving birth?Thank you for your comment. It was a huge wakeup call for me to finally get over my ex (who I blocked and deleted). I used to think he was the one that got away and miss him, because the other men I had been with were way worse. (He still had a billion red flags.) I used to blame myself that I wasn't good enough for him to commit to, but I'm glad he didn't because he would have been a terrible partner. We broke up because he didn't care when I was injured and incapacitated. Instead of coming to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 10:35 PM |
| 10 | Woman wants to stay after finding out her boyfriend of four years is still married - to his best friend - because they never filed the paperworkGirl............. what is this 🤡 OP could you DM me the post? I'm so curious to read the full clownery lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 09:46 PM |
| 419 | Women have been shamed and bullied into staying silenct and tolerating shitty, dangerous behavior so they don't look like a "Karen". Why is there no word for men who misbehave in public, much less men who creep out women?One of the many lurkers of this sub messaged me saying the word is douchebag. No common male name is associated with it. No man feels embarrassed because his name is the punchline of a shitty joke. And no man is scared to stand up for himself or his safety so he doesn't look like a "douchebag". I can't imagine anything more pathetic than the men who rage-scroll through this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 10:00 PM |
| 51 | Never take your freedom to choose to avoid LVM for granted. My heart is broken for our sisters living under Sharia law.I am awe-struck by her story. Women's bravery is inspiring. I am so glad she made it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 02:52 PM |
| 9 | The dating subreddits have become a cesspool for incels, and a bullying ground directed at women and it's sad.I remember back when incel subs ran freely on Reddit. The rhetoric was the exact same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 09:20 PM |
| 46 | The dating subreddits have become a cesspool for incels, and a bullying ground directed at women and it's sad.Tell me about it! It's just post after post of men complaining about how hard it is for them and how shallow women are. As if beauty standards arent 100x more crushing for women and we don't live in a culture of abuse and misogyny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 06:03 PM |
| 14 | I can’t believe what I just found on Facebook! Most of the comments seem to agree with her. 🤡🤮Women in love with their oppression are the weakest link. Some of us don't want to be entirely at the mercy of our husbands, Angela. Look to the state of women in the Middle East, Africa, South Asia, etc, and then talk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 03:33 PM |
| 16 | “I know it’s weird but”The "haha" 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 09:45 AM |
| 445 | Women need to know never to ask Reddit for advice. This woman was violated and berated DURING SEX – her husband covered her mouth, accused her of being an attention-seeking slut and now has zero remorse. All the top comments are about how he needs mental help, might be trying sexy talk or a new kinkAnother type of comment is about how he might have misinterpreted an article on female vocal mating calls. ????????? The fucking clownery of it all! As a culture we bend over backwards to excuse male abuse. And it happens at the expense of women everywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 12:44 PM |
| 30 | "Am I the most beautiful woman in the world?"Absolutely. Women have such a toxic relationship with beauty and self worth. It's SO fucked up. I grew up ugly, got zero attention other than one senior who used and discarded me, and then I spent the next year and a half blaming myself and my looks. My self esteem had been super low throughout, obviously. So I had a revenge "glow up", got tons of attention from the guys I was super attracted to, got complimented multiple times a day, and STILL ended up with shitty men. Because the problem has n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 02:50 PM |
| 35 | "Am I the most beautiful woman in the world?"It doesn't even matter. If you don't value yourself, you can be a supermodel and you'll still be opening yourself up to being breadcrumbed and played by shitty men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 02:34 PM |
| 20 | Going through relationship subs makes me nauseous now. Women have been brainwashed and gaslit by society to put up with so much disrespect and abuseI noticed the red hearts too. A bit suspicious but this kind of abuse is 100% a daily reality for tons of women everywhere so I wouldn't be suprised if both posts are true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 02:23 PM |
| 113 | The Abortion Sub is being held hostage by a power tripping person without a uterus, Furry Porn Enthusiast, and *checks notes* Aimee Challenor supporterOf course the Reddit admins refused to intervene (twice). This person is wholly unhinged. His replies read like a temper tantrum and he doesnt give a fuck he's putting the lives of vulnerable women in danger. Only that women and medical professionals aren't submitting to his supreme authority. Reddit hates women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 09:23 PM |
| 16 | How would you ever be able to trust him again? Disgusting.Every single post on relationships subs is about a woman being abused or treated like shit by her husband/boyfriend. More than half have predatory age gaps. It's so fucking bleak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 01:55 AM |
| 11 | Don't take romantic relationships so seriouslyDon't be at a point where your whole life revolves around him and you think you can't live without him. Most men do not see their SOs in this manner and are fine with cutting all ties with you once they no longer have any feelings for you. Always be ready to walk away if things go south. Most people you come across in life are "passers-by" who will no longer contact you when there is no reason to continue meeting each other irl and this applies to the guy you are dating. THIS. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 04:01 PM |
| 95 | Tricking women into sex work is the Patriarchy's new strategy for keeping us out of the workplaceChoice feminism is a scam. Men don't embrace dehumanizing things in the name of "empowerment" because they already have the power. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 07:30 PM |
| 17 | Indian scrotes discussing what they’d ask women before an arranged marriage. The audacity.FDS (and relationship subs) peaked me. Nearly every married Indian woman I know is miserable. Indian men are conditioned their whole lives to treat us like shit, its cultural/family tradition. To all Indian women out there: do NOT marry a man until you see your place wrt his relationship with his family. Unless he worships the ground you walk on, it aint worth it. The misogyny and violence and emotional abuse runs deeeep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 11:38 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Check-InSkincare bare essentials are: - cleanser (double cleanser if you wear makeup) - sunscreen (protecting against sun damage is very important) - exfoliant (treatment for scars and texture) - moisturizer Find what works for you but the #1 mistake people make is going overboard wanting to try/buy everything which only ever messes up your skin in the long run. If you find yourself doing this, cut your losses and go to the dermatologist as nothing is as effective as medicated products! (Also go if you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 11:20 PM |
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