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| 2 | [deleted by user]You're not an emotional wreck. You're using that as an excuse because you're scared to make a move. She doesn't sound confused to me, sounds like she knows exactly what she wants. This has nothing to do with her ego, and everything to do with yours: Get over yourself and get into her. Or keep being a wuss and whine about a girl you like liking you back on Reddit. Whatever man. No one's going to have your back on this. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 11:21 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]You don't want her in your head, but she very clearly already is. Keep talking about how beautiful she is, and how many signals she's sending. If anything, she's already got you wrapped around your finger - maybe that's what you're really afraid of. This chick's got you hooked, and you're afraid of losing control to her, because maybe you lost control to the last chick and she walked all over you. Maybe it's not a control thing, though. Maybe she's just into you. Maybe she just wants to fuck - s… | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 10:14 PM |
| 2 | In your experience, how many people actually love deep conversation and thinking as much as feeling?Don't get me wrong, it's important to have passions, and passionately unique opinions as well, but baseline should be at a place that values emotional intelligence and building chemistry through mutual understanding. If anything, it's the "mutual" part that's sometimes hard to come across, and that's just because most people are self centered in today's society. It sounds like you want something more "big picture" than hookups or casual relationships - it sounds like you want connection with som… | /r/seduction | 11/06/21 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Need some advice on whether or not to continue with one of the girls I'm seeingCall it a day, like, yesterday. If you have to tell her to "behave" like you're her Dom and she's your sub, then that reinforces the frame that she is to depend on you. If this is a regular thing that you do with her, reframing situations to maintain a D/s dynamic, then it's important to understand what implications come with that framing, and when those implications are something way deeper and more serious than "just a piece of ass". Getting into power exchange without understanding this...you… | /r/seduction | 10/06/21 03:12 AM |
| 3 | In your experience, how many people actually love deep conversation and thinking as much as feeling?Here's the thing though. Deep conversations are EXHAUSTING when there's an imbalance of knowledge or interest. If you're coming at her with modern interpretations of Kierkegaard or musings on the philosophical implications of non-Euclidean geometry, unless she shares an equally deep passion for those exact same things she is going to get burnt out on the conversation 5 minutes in, and looking for reasons to get the hell away from you 5.25 minutes in. That's why cliche "hot topics" are easy to ta… | /r/seduction | 10/06/21 02:50 AM |
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