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CMVvazeline200/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 07:28 AM
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Purge week!vazeline200/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 01:46 PM
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vazeline200/r/askTRP12/01/21 09:34 AM
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Question For Womenvazeline200/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:06 PM
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Discussionvazeline200/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 01:34 AM
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vazeline200/r/askTRP13/01/21 04:43 PM
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vazeline200/r/askTRP03/02/21 07:30 PM
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Purge week!vazeline200/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 09:39 AM
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vazeline200/r/askTRP16/01/21 10:22 AM
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vazeline200/r/askTRP13/12/20 01:05 AM
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Discussionvazeline200/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 07:20 AM
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Question For Menvazeline200/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 09:45 AM
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vazeline200/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:28 PM
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vazeline200/r/askTRP14/12/20 10:44 AM
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Yes that’s the place I want to reach. Where I just work hard and flow and am not bothered by the noise around me.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 10:03 PM
1

I’m moving but I want the gap between myself and them to be huge.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 09:12 PM
1

Problem is not that I think it’s a zero sum game. It’s that I want to be relatively better.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 09:12 PM
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It’s not like they’ll get action anyways. If she likes you you will never need to pay. Traditional dating only works with out ‘n out gold diggers or prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:43 PM
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You drew my attention to it. Laughed hard.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 06:37 PM
1

I was going to agree until I read your last sentence. By trying to stand out you’re being a performing circus clown. I sometimes agree and amplify but that’s because I’m amusing and entertaining myself. You’re doing it to stand out and people (esp women) can sense a try hard.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 06:35 PM
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Oh man then just enjoy it while it lasts. What matters is that you’re happy and/or enjoying yourself OP. I would ask why you feel the need to ltr her. Has she been pushing? If not then why stress yourself?
/r/askTRP03/02/21 01:48 PM
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You just have to be a man about it. OP there’s nothing wrong with getting your ass kicked but there is something wrong with being a bitch. Combat sports will definitely help (provided you actually get in some practically training) but I think your problem is more a mental one. Lifting won’t help you here. You’ll just be a buff guy who gets punked out by smaller guys. You just have to be willing take a hiding and potential serious injury. Remember bullies don’t like someone who hits back.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 01:39 PM
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I wouldn’t recommend you ltr her. Having a gay best friend is a red flag. I’d just keep her as a plate and wouldn’t worry about the ass slapping.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 01:34 PM
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Just ignore or say ‘nothing’ in a calm way and then change topic or better yet just stay silent. You don’t have to talk. You also don’t have to be some charismatic performing circus clown.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 01:32 PM
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The ones you actually enjoy
/r/askTRP03/02/21 01:05 PM
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You can either: Say nothing tomorrow and wait for her to remind you of the date which she won’t because I don’t think she’s gives a shit about you Go on the date and buy nothing. Pay for nothing. Just talk and get to know each other. I’d suggest you try to seduce her but judging from your replies to other answers I’d say just enjoy yourself. Make up an excuse on the day. Say something came up and then never ask her out again. Move on.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 12:24 PM
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Read the title and liked instantly without reading the explanation Edit: read the explanation. Well played bro.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 07:36 PM
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I was just making a joke since he already read the sidebar. To be fair women are looking out for their best interests the same way men do. Think about it. Does it make you any less of a person? One could argue however about how cutthroat and ruthless they can be about obtaining their goals.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 12:54 AM
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Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP19/01/21 11:34 PM
1

Get to the point. Ask her out. Let her do most of the talking. If you’re not in the mood then don’t force it.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 07:56 PM
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Damn that sounds rough. I’d suggest you partake in activities that allow you to meet and interact with women and then do those activities very well.Also dress better. There’s not much advice I can give you without seeing how you interact with women
/r/askTRP19/01/21 06:15 PM
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Oh god it’s the resident walking black stereotype. Just stay away from these types (hood girls) OP. The black community in America is apparently pretty degenerate from what I’ve seen. Don’t get sucked into that mess.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 02:54 AM
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Wait for her to cool down and come to you. If she comes back without an apology that’s a red flag. My question though is how on earth did she make it to ltr status? She sounds immature and bitchy. I know women like this. Enjoy it while you can and make sure you have her replacement lined up.You can do better OP.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 02:43 AM
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Please seek professional help. A psychologist. I’m being serious.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 10:08 PM
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Don’t listen to what she says. Watch what she does. I don’t think she’s interested.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 10:00 PM
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Wait until you start getting numbers and then graduate to unanswered texts, calls and flakes. Just ask for the number dude. It means nothing 90%+ of the time.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 09:57 PM
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I’m 80%+ sure she’s not interested but try your luck. You never know. Ask her out directly. Get straight to the point. Your answe of potential interest is her willingness to meet. Please report back with results.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 09:55 PM
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An ltr is not supposed to be a battleground. You’re actually supposed to enjoy it you know. Initiate as often as you’d like and stop with these passive aggressive games. If you’re busy you’re busy. If you’re available you’re available. If she doesn’t like that then she’s free to walk.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 05:20 PM
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It comes across as cold and game like because you’re doing it on purpose. It’s an act. You’re not a genuinely high value individual working on improving yourself or building your future (eg working out, travelling, working on a project , learning a new skill, moving up in your career, doing some fun hobby, building your business, studying hard to get into your desired program at college or to obtain your degree at college). So when you reply late it’s not because you were genuinely busy. It’s be…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:05 PM
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OP sounds like he’s one step away from actually booting up python and writing a machine learning algorithm to determine the likelihood of his prospects reaching out.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 02:23 PM
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Lol if the husband finds out...
/r/askTRP18/01/21 11:27 AM
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Fair enough but he should avoid the risk of sticking around and becoming an orbiter. Some distance until she’s single is good.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 01:55 AM
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To which section exactly?
/r/askTRP18/01/21 01:34 AM
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Make your intentions known super early (as in after the word ‘hi’). She will say yes or no. Don’t stick around after the word no.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 10:07 PM
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That is bad advice. Tell her you’re interested and then ignore her completely. Women just love attention and will keep you around for it. Once her relationship fails there’s a good chance you definitely won’t be next in line.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 10:06 PM
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It’s good to keep it fresh but you’ll find how bitter these guys are walking about women 24/7. It’s enjoyable at first but after you’ve properly internalised it and are on your purpose/mission it starts to appear lame.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 02:56 PM
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Regardless of outcome please update OP
/r/askTRP17/01/21 02:53 PM
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Regardless of the outcome please update OP
/r/askTRP17/01/21 02:52 PM
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It’s because she wasn’t that into you to begin with.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 02:32 PM
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If you’ve fully and properly internalised the red pill then I’d suggest you don’t waste your time watching old men complain about women all day. A lot of these guys are liars/larpers anyways who regurgitate info. Maybe someone else has a better answer and some suggestions. I personally watch alpha male strategies. He’s not the best source of redpill info but he seems to drop a few gems about women and staying on your purpose/mission now and again. Otherwise most guys are lame/frauds.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 07:35 AM
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Here we go
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 06:04 PM
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Your second paragraph sums up why I said what I did. After a while you notice a trend and you try to rectify it. If you are nice to every woman and she leaves you. It doesn’t mean that there’s something wrong with being nice but that being nice will not get you what you want.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 05:59 PM
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Either your dick is small or your sex game weak af.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 05:28 PM
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Looks matter OP but the looks women care about consists of your face, height and race. Lifting is more for your mental state. It also helps you with confidence when interacting with other men and women as well and gives you a sense of fulfilment. As for attention it’ll mostly come from men and women will compliment you but it’ll barely influence whether or not she wants to sleep with you. If she likes you she will compliment your abs or arms but that’s because she already liked you. If she’s not…
/r/askTRP16/01/21 09:54 AM
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She’s about to become supper vindictive. Will even be willing to fuck up her child’s life to get to you.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 09:45 AM
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Black men like curvy thicc women. Some will drop their standards though and date fat white pudges for a green card or just because she’s white and some are just settling. Very few men actually like fat women. Unless of course she got a pronounced ass and tits then I would consider but I wouldn’t be seen dead with her in public.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 06:29 AM
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This OP. I’d like to add that you should visit and talk to her often.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 06:26 AM
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Ah damn I got Bette-fied
/r/askTRP16/01/21 06:24 AM
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Think twice about this OP. I know we like to preach about fucking them and tossing them to the side of the street but seriously consider what you’re about to do with her and what your intentions are. That is all. I wouldn’t force it. Let it be.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 06:23 AM
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No. Unless they feel they’ve won you completely and don’t need to work to keep you.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 11:08 PM
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Take time to be upset. This really is devastating but please keep going. There are people who will love and benefit from what you have to offer. There’s still so much life left for you to live and brighter days lie ahead but for now do take time to be sad. It’s very understandable.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 11:06 PM
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Don’t
/r/askTRP15/01/21 08:36 PM
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Coach Greg Adams? Haha no. That guy seems like he makes a career off complaining about women 24/7 which in my opinion is pretty lame. Let your brother live a lil. Let him get his heart broken and let him experience getting fucked over by a woman first hand. The redpill will have a stronger effect then.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 07:27 PM
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Shut up and observe.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 06:21 PM
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The girls I fuck tend to see me exclusively and usually I repay the favour in kind (if nothing else comes up). Other than that a lot of guys on this sub like larping as alphas.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 05:49 PM
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To a degree yes. I don’t think Emma Watson is average (she’s at least above average on the basis that she’s not fat and is well put together). I recognize that she’s attractive(?) but she appears bland TO ME. Nothing special. Same goes for a lot of these Hollywood celebrities.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 05:46 PM
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Ok cool
/r/askTRP15/01/21 05:44 PM
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Like I said I don’t believe in getting needlessly into fights. What I’m against are guys who give advice as if they’re some all powerful alpha who believes in passive resistance.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 03:55 PM
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Just admit you’re scared. I bet if all those barriers were taken away you still wouldn’t do shit. OP was obviously rattled. This is what this about. I don’t believe in needlessly putting yourself in harm’s way but can we stop with the pseudo macho benevolent alpha who could kick anyone’s ass but doesn’t want to get his hands dirty act. Some of ya’ll are just straight up cowards hamstering away your inability to take action.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 02:48 PM
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If she indicates that she’s not interested and you continue then yes. If you’re both at work or a professional setting and she’s not interested then yes if she’s obviously not interested and indirectly trying to get you to stop or go away and you persist then yes It’s not rocket science. Some guys are just socially inept.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 02:44 PM
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Trust me. I said all that. She kept giving reassurances and acted she’d just been busy or her phone wasn’t working. As for the flake she used the period excuse. She didn’t apologize for her last flake. I know when I’m being played for a fool. I nearly even gave her the whole next speech but realised I’d already wasted enough breath trying to be mature, understanding and seeing where she was coming from. No more. She can interpret it how she wants. I said it in the most emotionless way. Some wome…
/r/askTRP15/01/21 02:41 PM
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AWALT. The only difference is the community and culture
/r/askTRP15/01/21 01:29 PM
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I said it in a very matter of factly and bland way. She needed to know. Some women do get off on making you upset (thoughI kept it unemotional) however some thrive in a passive aggressive environment avoiding conflict and working on the assumption that you’re too afraid to confront them directly about their actions.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 01:19 PM
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Lol.Well played.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 01:07 PM
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I said it as emotionless as possible. I wasn’t angry. I just thought I should let her know. I’m not one for the passive aggressive type shit.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 10:03 AM
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It’s your ego. Let it go. It could be another guy or you could’ve done something to turn her off(too available, too nice, revealing too much interest). Let it go. Learn to not need closure. That’s where strength comes from (that and being able to walk away). Use this one to practice. It gets better. Seek closure and you will be beta for the rest of your life.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 07:17 AM
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Lol what a way to justify being cowardly. The difference is the king knows he could have peasant killed at a moment’s notice. OP was obviously scared/surprised. Just take your L and move on with your life OP. Don’t let it eat away at you. These things happen.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 07:15 AM
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Nope. As long as she perceives you at better than her at something she values (looks, tall, social skills etc). You have to remember that a lot of these women are usually a bit more isolated than your average bimbo and so if you get along with people you usually have a higher social standing than they do. Sometimes they could just think you’re handsome or they don’t get much make attention themselves. I’ve dated or had women fall for me who were smarter or with higher earning potentials. If they…
/r/askTRP15/01/21 07:12 AM
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I stopped feeling guilty the moment a woman who was attracted to me stopped being. Next thing you know she was like every other woman. Gaslighting, stone walling,mixed signals and leading on. Short story is they do it to other guys or they would if they could. They wouldn’t hesitate to lead you on or friendzone you if the roles were reversed. No matter how nice the girl is. Do with this information what you will.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 07:08 AM
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‘I’m dating. Hopefully the right girl comes along’
/r/askTRP15/01/21 07:04 AM
2

Some are aware and are still very much blue pilled. They think they’re going to find the exception.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 07:04 AM
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Don’t do anything. Women are very passive. They’ll send hints but as long as you don’t acknowledge them nothing will happen.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 07:03 AM
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Shut the fuck up. Seriously. Stop talking, meet with her, fuck her and find out for yourself. What the hell. You want have a fully planned out blueprint, contract and verbal acknowledgement of what’s going to happen between you two before you meet? Stop talking your way out of pussy. She could be lying for all you know.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 10:47 PM
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If you don’t then don’t. It doesn’t matter if you are insecure. It’s your choice. Don’t let anyone shame you for it. I personally wouldn’t mind these type of women provided they don’t give me stds. I wouldn’t wife or ltr them though.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 10:43 PM
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Loool. Your problem is thinking you could wife her. This will at least force you to hunt. On a side note pass her facetime dets here. I want to see if she’s as slutty as you describe her.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 10:26 PM
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Fuck apps. Approach face to face in real life women you’ve never met before.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 05:58 PM
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He means prostitute and I personally don’t recommend you do this. Approach. There’s no other way. Approach the cute girls working in shops. Obviously don’t make them feel uncomfortable or anything like that and avoid shops you frequent. It could be a starting point. Possibly join a club of some sort like a running club. That could also work.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 05:28 PM
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Don’t say anything
/r/askTRP14/01/21 10:33 AM
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She sounds like a female dating strategy subscriber. At the same time she was willing to come over to your place which places her in a vulnerable position (women don’t usually do that). I’d have had a phone call with her to find out if you two gel and if she’s sounds enthusiastic. Anything less is a hard next.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 10:32 AM
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Turns out she didn’t block me. I ended up blocking her in the end. She asked some stupid questions and was more trouble than she was worth.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 10:29 AM
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to keep you sexually satisfied. Use them as fwb/plates.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 09:51 AM
2

So date rich girls. Simple. Although the middle class girls could keep your balls empty inbetween relationships.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 09:34 AM
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I hope I can believe that. I’m also in shape if that counts for anything.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 09:32 AM
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Um yeah...just to make sure she’s safe. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 09:31 AM
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Get rid of StephisCold and MJgetright. They’re young losers regurgitating content whilst pretending to have all this lifetimes worth of experience. AMS is legit. Other than that I think reading up in general should be fine.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 08:57 AM
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Elaborate
/r/askTRP14/01/21 08:54 AM
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Don’t care enough
/r/askTRP14/01/21 08:54 AM
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You’re thinking about it because you don’t have options
/r/askTRP14/01/21 08:09 AM
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Maybe take a break from her and start looking for her replacement. This might’ve been cute the first time but I’d get irritated.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 07:51 AM
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Check your foreplay. If you’re doing it right then she should be begging for it.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 07:45 AM
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How much time do you spend on foreplay and seduction? I want to see something here.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 07:35 AM
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Is this Bette again?
/r/askTRP14/01/21 07:21 AM
0

It doesn’t have anything to do with smv. It’s how you carry yourself and command respect. She could not want to fuck toy but still respect you but she needs to respect you before she fucks you.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 07:12 AM
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I am 30... :( Next year at least.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 02:59 AM
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Just ask her if it’s the correct number. It’s not rocket science. It’s either she likes you or she doesn’t.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 08:14 PM
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For that last reason alone avoid her. Go game other women. Learn how to socialise. Is she going to be your sole source of sex for the next year? You can call her after you have at least 10 other numbers (if you still feel like it).
/r/askTRP13/01/21 08:12 PM
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That’s a lot of words just to say you don’t have options. Add on: feel free to bang her should the opportunity arise but don’t stress yourself over it.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 06:55 PM
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yes but now YOU have HIM. Use that to your advantage.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 05:43 PM
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I wish I had the same insight at your age. Ironically my aptitude test recommended I do IT but I didn’t know what it was at the time so I dismissed it.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 04:39 PM
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You could have just replied with ‘ok’, ‘I’ll let you know’, ‘I’m not in the mood for that’. or not replied at all. Why the needless dialogue.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 01:33 PM
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Lmao! The delusion.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 01:12 PM
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‘very few people even ever make it that high especially without any silver spoons or connections of any sort’ *has a rich uncle
/r/askTRP13/01/21 01:11 PM
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Don’t do it OP. Not worth the risk.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 05:33 PM
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‘I dnt care what you give them’ then wait for her reply
/r/askTRP12/01/21 05:32 PM
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I’ve read it and I occasionally do those things. I’m talking about the guys who take it to the extreme level and sound like they’re shooting the most hardcore porno in history.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 02:51 PM
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Ironically black women would have an easier time dating out. Women are always wanted. Black men are not exactly in demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 02:37 PM
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Still not doing anal
/r/askTRP12/01/21 02:12 PM
2

Quick what’s 43+21??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 01:59 PM
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You’ve got to be kidding me. It’s this guy again!?
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:29 PM
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She would have made a better plate. You could have just strung her along.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:06 PM
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The list speaks for itself.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:00 PM
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Fair enough. Good last point. I was just commenting on the way guys here describe sex.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 12:58 PM
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Nah. Not for me.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 12:57 PM
1

What are you reading and why are you reading it? What are you trying to get from reading?
/r/askTRP12/01/21 11:48 AM
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I don’t know but at the least you’d be making the world a better place.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 11:48 AM
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Ask yourself why you want to become a doctor. The journey is long and hard and you’ll have to work abnormal hours when you start practicing. If you have a good answer or why for your yourself then you can start to seriously consider it. Don’t listen to your dad unless you want a boring average life with some boring woman. You’re still relatively young so there’s time. The only thing I’d worry about is your unpredictable personality (sorry I don’t want a low-key psychopath operating on me or anyo…
/r/askTRP12/01/21 11:47 AM
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You can’t drop them because you’ve been friends since 5? Scarcity mentality and sunk cost fallacy. Let them go if being with them isn’t serving you any longer.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 11:42 AM
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I’ve had enough sex and I act on my actual desires. I have no desire to try anal and some of the the more deranged acts. Choking is ok on occasion.Face fucking was surprisingly nice but it depends on the occasion. Have you considered that maybe you watch too much porn if that’s your sole definition of sex?
/r/askTRP12/01/21 11:40 AM
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Can confirm. Gets them wet. Do this OP.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 10:34 AM
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I never said they didn’t enjoy it. I’m just saying it sounds like fan fic.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 10:30 AM
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She likes me more when I barely have time for her and I’ve noticed this with other women. Even if they’re speaking about another guy. They will almost complain (albeit admiringly) how he never has enough time for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 10:29 AM
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Yep. Texting was next to none. Maybe a 20-30 min call on occasion although that was rare. I’m asking because this has happened with more than one woman and I noticed quite a few guys have asked about this online. When you confront the woman she will gaslight or stone wall you and claim nothing at all is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 09:26 AM
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She sounds like she’s wasting your time. Women are always on their phone and she said she spent a whole day at home doing nothing. If you really want to exhaust your options then ask her on a date and see if any excuse comes up. I predict that she will flake. That’ll be your answer.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 08:15 AM
1

Yes because seeing someone for an extra hour a week (current was an hour) is overboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 08:10 AM
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Lol ‘potential for a future serious relationship.’ Based off what!? The fact that she’s attractive and you get along. Nah. You need to vet harder. That’s a red flag. Just enjoy your time with her but don’t expect too much. You’ve had like one date and already she’s LTR material?? Come on. Don’t be desperate like that. Enjoy it for what it is at least until you receive clarification on the Instagram thing.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 08:02 AM
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No I’m not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 10:24 PM
5

Go see the psychologist.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:10 PM
9

Please go see a psychologist first.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 09:44 PM
2

Yeah in the beginning the sex wasn’t top notch for a variety of reasons. Now that I’ve figured and sorted them out I’m going through a dry spell. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 01:16 PM
1

No I’m using this as a tactic to get a consistent sex buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 12:46 PM
1

Yes I’ve experienced this in the context of dating or a fwb. Never a serious relationship. Do you listen to King Richiez by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 11:53 AM
4

Interact with women
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:36 AM
1

She’s the one who advised me to be less honest in future. She obviously doesn’t care about whom I could potentially hurt we’re into implement her suggestion. When people give advice they never stop to think of the consequences. She’s about to learn firsthand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 10:32 AM
1

What things?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 10:30 AM
1

Damn. Women sound evil but I’ve heard this before. They flirt with you to spite the woman you’re with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 10:29 AM
1

Attraction. Them wanting a relationship or to sleep with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 01:44 AM
1

Like really small. Hopefully I’ll come across them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 10:49 PM
3

Sometimes you can just tell. I’m not saying there’s no chance you will get lucky but there’s a good chance it’ll be a waste of your time. That effort and time could be better spent finding someone who’s enthusiastic about you from the word go. If you don’t believe me then continue with her. Sometimes it’s better that you learn your lesson the hard way.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 10:35 PM
2

I wouldn’t continue. It’s going to be a big waste of time.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 09:56 PM
1

Mostly because she’s small. I really have a thing for small women. I probably shouldn’t but we’ll see about that next week.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 09:12 PM
1

I don’t even know how old she is. She doesn’t seem sexually open at all. She can’t be a virgin if she’s willing to meet with me alone. She seems really young (18/19) but won’t reveal her age. She doesn’t say much. I potentially see her flaking (90% chance) but maybe I’ll let you know how it turns out next week.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 09:02 PM
1

She’s a quiet type. Barely answers her phone. I had already asked her what she enjoys doing and she couldn’t answer me until she said she enjoys movies. I’m really shooting down here but she’s pretty and small (I have a thing for tiny women). How do you deal with shy/quiet/reserved women? She apparently doesn’t drink and party. Any suggestions would be welcome. I’m thinking of cancelling the date 30min in if she’s not reciprocating and just telling her I’ve lost interest. Thanks for the above ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:50 PM
1

I’m not pursuing her. I said if the opportunity presents itself I will fuck her because she has an attractive body. I will then kick her to the curb because she’s proven herself to be unreliable. If she says no I will still be in the same place as I currently am and life will go on. I’m not all out for revenge. The reason I will kick her to the curb is if she asks for commitment. If I had it my way I’d keep her around as a fuck buddy. Nothing more. As for creating more bitter mistrusting women t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:46 PM
1

I’ve moved on. If she never contacts me again I’ll be fine. If she decides to bring herself back into my orbit then she will dealt with appropriately. Not for vengeance but because I wouldn’t mind a taste of that. She will however be kicked to the curb because she’s proven herself to be unreliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:40 PM
1

I got a date next week. Any asshole tips you’d care to share?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:15 PM
1

I’ve heard these terms before. I need to look them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:10 PM
2

Appropriate flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:09 PM
1

Fair enough. I usually walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:09 PM
16

Thing is a girl being easy for someone else doesn’t mean she will be easy for you and visa versa but here are some signs: has not had a bf (usually isn’t conventionally attractive) single mother with gay friends (this combination right here) single mother (the more kids the easier) unattractive but normal body weight/slim (see first point) quite a few ethnics if you’re white tiny/short/small women for some reason. older single women (5-10 years your senior) nerd/bookish/academic type
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:45 PM
1

I’ve moved on. I haven’t burnt all bridges. I said if she contacts me and wants to meet. I will just tell her I’ve changed since the last time and I now want a relationship. She has a nice body so I wouldn’t giving it to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 06:29 PM
1

Ok. Believe what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 06:28 PM
10

Don’t bring her around people you’ve hooked up with. Come on dude. Why are you even telling her who you’ve hooked up with in the first place?
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:07 PM
1

Like any other girl. If she wants to then she will regardless of her parents. Anything else and she’s stringing you along.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:06 PM
1

Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 06:03 PM
1

Who’s playing games?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 06:02 PM
1

Thank you for the comprehensive answer. It makes sense. It’s unfortunate that you never know what you’ll get.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 06:02 PM
1

Thank you for the honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 06:00 PM
0

Wrong women but then again +70% of them are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 05:59 PM
1

I do. Just not all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 05:59 PM
1

True that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 05:58 PM
1

Either way i walked away and I haven’t replied to her last 2 messages. If she ever wants to meet up again I will fcuk her and give her the boot. It’s that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 05:57 PM
1

That’s why I walked away and haven’t replied to her last 2 messages right? I don’t get oneitis. I come close but I usually walk away just in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 05:56 PM
1

No I’m just generally a kind soul but I’ve been reducing it significantly because people aren’t appreciative. We spoke about the situation at some point and she told me that I need to learn to lie more (i.e. pretend as if I want something more even if I know it’s not true). She said being explicit about a fwb is offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 05:55 PM
1

So your bf isn’t as clingy as you’d like but you’re still with him, happy and craving more of him?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 05:53 PM
1

I agree with everything you said. To be more specific. You meet a woman. You go on dates. She is very interested. You begin dating. She comments on how busy and hard working you are and how you should rest a bit. After some times you see her twice in one week for the first time. She asks how the project is coming along. You tell her you’ve completed the first part so you’re free for the time being. You’re still working on your project but you’re just a bit more free but she pulls back regardless…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 05:51 PM
6

Drop her. Even if she lets you fuck her do you really want to fuck someone who’s not enthusiastic about it? It will ruin the idea of sex for you going forward. Don’t do it OP. Especially if there’s been last minute resistance. She probably has poor boundaries. Move on. You might miss out on a lay but you’ll thank yourself.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 04:34 PM
1

Maybe. I won’t deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 04:21 PM
1

I see you’ve gone digging through my history. She was very into me before that. The first mistake I made was being honest about my intentions (fwb). The next and biggest mistake was giving her validation by dropping off tablets. After that day her demeanour changed. In fact when I dropped off the medicine I told her I was just dropping them off and heading straight home. She’s the one who hopped into my car and insisted on chatting for an hour. She said she enjoyed our conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 04:20 PM
1

Nope. Even when she was busy she always made time. It’s not like I was asking for much. We’d have one hour long meet-up in the week. She was in fact at her busiest before she got sick and somehow still squeezed me in. In fact her sickness lasted a day. Afterwards she’d make up lame excuses, not return calls and just stopped initiating contact. She started replying to messages slower but she was always on her phone when I saw her (in group settings or college classes). She said she can’t take her…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 04:16 PM
1

I accepted her reasons. I articulated my feelings towards her answer very poorly. The more appropriate phrases would be: ‘focus on yourself king’
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 04:09 PM
1

u/crookedsummer2019
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 04:06 PM
1

Men fall for a woman from constant exposure. Women from absence. As for your question I wrote down some possible reasons. I will try find the comment and to tag you in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 04:04 PM
1

Nope. Chat every second or third day (frequency depends on the person) with the occasional call once a week to meet up. What actually prefer calls but within reason. The moment you make a bit more time then they start to lose interest. I’ve even asked some women if anything is wrong and they tend to say nothing is wrong or they’re just busy (I can usually see past the lies). Then when you return the same energy they ask you what’s wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 04:02 PM
2

Not even. I’ve accepted several of the answers given here. I’m always willing to have my mind changed. Just because you failed or are not willing to does not change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 04:00 PM
1

I’m not the only guy who’s noticed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 03:58 PM
1

Which answers have I rejected? Your second statement makes sense and as much as I put in effort to ensure the time spent is enjoyable it’s something I could do better to internalize as there’s always room for improvement. How do you feel about my belief that once you make a woman a priority or she starts having more access to you then she will perceive you as being lower value and will lose attraction to you for whatever reason: you’ve shown that you can be pulled away from/distracted from your …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 03:52 PM
2

That’s a lot. I’ve had women pull back when I tried to see them 2 or even 3 days of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 02:57 PM
1

Thank you for your time. Maybe I didn’t specifiy enough but I was also speaking in the sense that you’ve already slept or are currently sleeping with her and are dating or in a relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 02:56 PM
0

I already addressed this in another comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 02:54 PM
2

That’s the point. You lost interest once you get the attention
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 02:54 PM
0

I wasn’t complaining. I was making an observation. Occasionally I revert back to old ways to see if anything’s changed aaaand it hasn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 02:33 PM
1

I don’t though. I think you’re confusing me with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 02:32 PM
1

As long as he doesn’t marry her that’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 02:22 PM
2

Been there. Sometimes it’s better to skip it altogether.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 02:20 PM
0

Actually from being that guy and observe other guys the single mother is usually a bitch/manipulative as well. Not average? That’s even worse then. So an above average man has to settle for leftovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 02:18 PM
0

Actually they don’t. I had more of this problem when I used to listen to them. The more ruthless I become the more my results improved. What’s it with Internet forums and believing that women can sense a man’s personality and that’s why they avoid him? If she’s attracted to you it doesn’t matter and sometimes you do borderline manipulative things to maintain or increase that attraction level.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 02:15 PM
4

because I’m always willing to briefly put aside what I believe or understand and to perhaps learn more or gain a different perspective. Some women are self aware and I’d expect to find some of them on this sub. There’s always something that to be learnt. I’ve learnt lessons from redpill, blackpill (incels), fds and bluepill. They may not be direct lessons but you pick up on something each time especially if you combine it with everything else you have already learnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 02:12 PM
1

I was speaking more in the sense of women you’re dating or have already slept with but I think I get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 02:07 PM
-3

Doesn’t matter. Either way I’m done listening to women. I prefer to observe their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 02:02 PM
4

Either way I’ve learnt to play the game. I don’t trust anything that comes out of women’s mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 02:00 PM
0

When I say below average I mean that an educated well groomed and fit man will settle for an overweight and unemployed single mother who thinks New Zealand is a city in Austria. I don’t crave nor do I think the women in porn are your average women but fuck me for having some sort of standards right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 01:57 PM
1

Lol your right. It does get tedious when you and many other men experience something first hand but ppd and other women in your life deny that anything of the sort happens. It’s a complete invalidation of men’s dating experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 01:20 PM
5

Another commentator said this which makes sense however it does not account for the women initiating contact again and pursuing you if you pull back or back off yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 01:18 PM
2

I would believe this but I’ve also observed some instances in which if you back off enough the same women will start pursuing you and will become eager to hang out again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 01:17 PM
0

Even women you’re dating or are in a relationship with. Guys report from all types of situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 01:14 PM
1

Honestly I wasn’t going to say anything or to fight you because women never admit to such things but thank you vocalising what I’ve been observing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 01:13 PM
5

It never does. Purple pill women are always the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:55 PM
2

Regular interaction. The last one pulled back after I brought her medicine when she was sick. After that she started acting distant. It’s almost as if a light switch goes off in her head saying ‘maybe I’m too good for this guy.’
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:53 PM
2

Lol. Thank you for the honesty but I meant in the case where there guy isn’t being needy. Let’s say at first the woman is eager to meet and chat to him everyday and then she slowly starts pulling back when he reciprocated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:51 PM
1

Blackgirldiaries mod. Welcome and thank you for your straightforward answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:35 PM
2

Not every woman is the same but a significant portion of women display this behaviour. The last woman who said this to me proceeded to then do exactly as the previous women before her did.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:33 PM
4

As an ugly but charismatic guy it depends. Some women will see you as a creep and some will be attracted to your confidence however I can honestly say looks reign supreme. Most of the time women will wonder why you’re so confident or see you as a clown. You have to meet the right women, at the right time and right conditions. Being handsome and having above average height with a decent personality will win most times.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:32 PM
1

with below average women/prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:26 PM
21

Dude. Thanks for reminding me why I do what I do. Despite what they say never make her your priority. Forget trying to get a proper explanation out of her. She will come with a seemingly good explanation and then promise to be better before going back to her previous behavior. I’ve been there before. This is just how some women are. Don’t try and get a logical answer out of her. Women act according to their emotions and how they feel about you. I’ve been there before. Don’t text her tomorrow. Tr…
/r/askTRP09/01/21 11:58 AM
4

Hey bro. I been there. I am there. If you can go to therapy regularly do so. Secondly most businesses fail so the best thing you can do here is to start business after business until one succeeds. Watch some Dragon’s den and Shark tank to get an idea of the type of businesses people are starting out there. Read the Forbes 30 under 30 list from different continents and different years. See what they did. Understand that it’s not so much about the idea but the execution but a lil bit of inspiratio…
/r/askTRP09/01/21 11:03 AM
3

Wrong. Just play dumb. Nice thing about women is that they’re extremely passive so as long as he doesn’t acknowledge that she likes him or plays dumb he will be fine. I’ve been there.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 09:10 AM
1

I would say your parents are too involved in your life but judging from everything I’ve read here you need them and they’re right. She’s probably with you for the citizenship or is an abuser. Listen to your mom. Mothers are usually good at picking up these things.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 09:01 AM
1

Are you mocking me or the other trpers?
/r/askTRP07/01/21 06:33 PM
7

Damn then just wait it out until you can see a doctor. It doesn’t sound like a life or death situation.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 06:33 PM
11

Wrong sub wrong app wrong website. Go see a doctor.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 06:24 PM
1

Cowardly response
/r/askTRP07/01/21 06:18 PM
2

Such cowardly responses. If it’s your gf then go sort it out. If it’s your plate then it’s up to your discretion depending on how much you like her. I would need more details.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 06:17 PM
2

I have been there. I finished school with distinction but in college I failed abysmally. My friend barely passed in school (failed initially actually) but he graduated with merit. Don’t focus on the past. Focus on the present and the future. Your past serves no other purpose then to let you know that you’re capable as you’ve done it before. Other than that be wary of letting your past achievements give you an ego. Be humble, acknowledge your current situation and be willing to move forward and t…
/r/askTRP07/01/21 02:44 PM
2

Take pride in the fact that you worked hard and put in effort. Try to improve. Do this and you can’t fault your self for the outcome. Just keep trying to get better or find something else more suited to your talents. Have you considered that maybe you’re doing a qualification that doesn’t gel with your natural strengths or aptitude?
/r/askTRP07/01/21 01:08 PM
1

Fair enough. That’s the problem with giving advice regarding such circumstances. OPs are usually socially inept, lack charisma and struggle to read the room and manage their responses.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 06:30 PM
1

That’s dumb. If you don’t want to be treated a certain way then speak up instead of trying to be some passive aggressive pseudo alpha. I don’t know what this guy is giving him shit about but I’m going to give OP the benefit of the doubt and say it’s something worth getting bothered over otherwise I’d also advocate for just ignoring. We all have different levels of tolerance.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 06:23 PM
1

Hey she was dtf
/r/askTRP06/01/21 03:47 PM
1

Take my advice with a hint of salt but my opinion is that when it comes to things like this the decision has already been made. You’ve made your impression from the time you walked through the company’s doors and interacted with everyone. All your actions and things you’ve said to them have been building up to this. I don’t think there is a quick fix besides openly campaigning and directly asking them. Hopefully someone comes up with a better answer.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 02:02 PM
1

Call her. Gauge her interest on the call. Set a date. End the call early. Move on.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 01:31 PM
1

What’s your advice then?
/r/askTRP06/01/21 07:23 AM
1

What’s wrong with it and what’s your advice then?
/r/askTRP06/01/21 07:23 AM
1

How does it make you look like a lil bitch?
/r/askTRP06/01/21 07:22 AM
5

Don’t let one part of your life dictate everything. Try your best for that last chance. If you don’t pass then start looking at your other options. This may be a blessing in disguise. See what you really enjoy or are apt at. Try your very best and be positive but understand that you are more than just your work or academics.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 12:48 PM
2

Crime is a problem so I’d think of the safety of my family first but assuming you’re a bachelor with all the above filled in then that shouldn’t be a major factor because you only have yourself to worry about. it’s one of if not the cheapest place to live in the world so assuming the same income you can buy and do more. You also have a variety of races to pick from. The weather is generally nice and you can always travel like you said. You could potentially also look at Brazil and/or Germany/Fra…
/r/askTRP05/01/21 11:53 AM
0

Just reply ‘chilled’ , ‘ok’ or ‘cool’ and nothing more. If she does come back don’t act over eager this time.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 11:43 AM
3

Depends on your race and smv but I’d say between the USA, South Africa, UK and New Zealand.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 11:41 AM
4

I don’t know how to teach you to handle this because it comes with experience of knowing your audience and the type of people around you. I’d just suggest to calmly tell him to stop. Don’t let him downplay the situation. Let it be known you are serious. You don’t feel like being jokes with.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 11:37 AM
20

Don’t do it. You’ll grow to resent and will have the urge to cheat on or leave her but you’ll be too afraid to break her heart. You also won’t be be as keen to touch and be intimate with her. It won’t help that you’ll naturally be more alpha as you won’t be too worried about losing her which will lead her to falling more in love with you and you feeling bad. Then when you start meeting women you are more attracted to and who are even 60% as nice as her you will grow even more resentful.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 11:34 AM
6

BS. Don’t believe anyone who tells you this. They’re trying to make money off desperate guys who are looking for any hope whatsoever. Most women (99%) will not want you.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:11 PM
7

Leave out the cheeky grin. It screams try hard and very few men have the panache to pull it off properly.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 09:20 AM
6

‘I’m not like the other women’
/r/askTRP03/01/21 07:40 AM
1

That’s like asking how men keep being cucked and simping despite evidence in front of them that it doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:50 PM
1

Please do go into detail
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:53 PM
2

Juuuust saving
/r/askTRP02/01/21 11:32 AM
1

Lead them on. Just be careful you don’t do this to a crazy girl.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 11:27 AM
5

Lol. You’re so addicted to porn that you’re convincing yourself something bad might happen if you don’t jack off. The answer is no.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 11:26 AM
19

You’re like 80% sure somethings not right but are afraid probably because you don’t have any other options.The mere fact that you have to negotiate for nudes and how she said ‘no’ tells me all I need to know about who has the power.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 11:24 AM
4

Wow. This really made something in my brain snap
/r/askTRP02/01/21 09:16 AM
1

Most of them are normal or slightly below average looking. Take it from me. I’m genuinely ugly. There are very few trucels.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 06:32 AM
1

If they were then most of them wouldn’t be incels
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:03 AM
152

Probably a FemaleDatingStrategy subscriber.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 11:28 PM
1

Nope. He’s permanently friend zoned. Just watch that he doesn’t sabotage the relationship in other ways.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 09:52 PM
0

ok
/r/askTRP01/01/21 09:50 PM
1

lol
/r/askTRP01/01/21 08:49 PM
1

How can you not tell who’s legal? and if you look 21 then how old do the girls you’re going after look??
/r/askTRP01/01/21 07:44 PM
1

I just tuned in. What’s your contention with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 06:24 PM
1

I think the problem is generalisation on both sides. I really do feel sorry for some incels but others are self righteous fake high iq having racist shut ins.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 06:14 PM
2

Troll post
/r/askTRP01/01/21 05:38 PM
1

Dude I’m blackpilled but incels are not faultless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 05:35 PM
1

I frequent that sub. The female mod there keeps things in check and a lot of incels there are pretty chill for the most part but I’ve seen what happens when they are left to their own vices ala r/shortcels r/celmates r/incels r/braincels r/standardcels and the worst incels.co.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 05:26 PM
1

Instead of insults why don’t you come up with a coherent counter argument you cryogenic level iq ugly ethnic , toothpick wrist having, sub 6ft entitled dicklet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 05:23 PM
3

Incels post some pretty horrific stuff. There is quite the overlap. Difference is nice guys think they get rejected for their personality and incels think they get rejected for their looks when the answer is a combination of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 05:19 PM
2

Dude. I’m an ugly man myself. It doesn’t matter if you’re right about Chad but incels act like they’re better than everyone else. You’re just as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 05:18 PM
2

I like you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 05:17 PM
2

I don’t have time to have long chats over the phone. I got shit to do. I’d rather meet. If she doesn’t want to meet then she’s probably going to waste your time anyways.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 05:14 PM
15

Please be civil
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 01:47 PM
1

It wasn’t something that I wanted to repeatedly do. I just wanted to try out something different. A bit out of my comfort zone. Ideally my hair will grow back fine and I’ll return to regular haircuts.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 01:39 PM
1

If you continue waxing lyrical like this her panties will be off in no time.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 01:35 PM
5

Dude just wait until you meet them in real life and seduce them in person. You keep her interested by focusing on yourself, continuously self improving and becoming better. Let her miss you. Be the best option she has. As for sexual tension you do that in person. Over the phone is cool and all but it’s just an opportunity for things to start dialing down especially if there’s a long gap from the time you build the tension to the time you’re actually going to see her.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 01:27 PM
5

Lol. Whilst you are right be careful. African women are not necessarily all milk and honey. They just play the game better.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 12:39 PM
1

‘don’t care so are you free tonight?/let’s grab a drink at....’
/r/askTRP01/01/21 12:35 PM
0

Sounds lame bro. I would’ve just pretended like I didn’t hear it and/or continued the conversation/changed topic. ‘I got the handsome guy blah blah blah !’-her ‘at least you got that going for you btw can you grab me one those small toothpastes they give out on flights. That stuff is legit. Thanks I’m advance/you’d be my hero/you’re be the best’-you Now you sound all threatened, butthurt and insecure. Would you be worrying about this if you genuinely believed you were the best deal she could get…
/r/askTRP01/01/21 12:32 PM
1

I’d be curious to see how you approach. One bad reaction can happen even to Chad. Some women are just crazy or went through a bad experience. As for the the rest it comes down to intense self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 12:23 PM
7

Why are you suddenly hesitant about telling her? Is it because you care about her feelings? because clearly you don’t. Is it because you’d like to string her along a bit further? In that case just say you need time to think about. A girl with a wild past is usually a bad deal because she’s usually emotionally numb, sees you as a beta (gave it up easily to previous guys but you have to work for it) and will cheat. She’s doesn’t seem emotionally numb from the sounds of things and she doesn’t she y…
/r/askTRP01/01/21 12:17 PM
4

I can believe that. If most incels were aggressive enough to follow through things they most likely wouldn’t be incels (low inhib I think they call it). That’s why I added ‘without consequence’ to see if they would if they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:46 AM
5

The women are retaliating. Premium content.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:01 AM
3

Well some of this threads created by your fellow incels have led to me to question how far you’d go.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:59 AM
1

Inboxed her on fb. Easiest lay ever. I wouldn’t go back again so yes that bad. In the moment though she knew how to fuck. I just wished she took better care of herself and didn’t lie to me (turns out she was a major hoe so putting my health at risk).
/r/askTRP01/01/21 10:28 AM
2

Slurring
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:11 AM
2

So if she got so drunk that she couldn’t speak or was letting you do whatever would you proceed to have sex with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 09:58 AM
2

It actually exists :onHow is this sub not banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 09:22 AM
3

FUCK u/Mrs_Degree!!!! Edit: not really I was just first and couldn’t think of anything else to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 09:20 AM
12

It’s because you have an ego. Nothing wrong with that because you need a healthy dose of self esteem and wanting the best for yourself but you also have to realize that you are not some famous super alpha 6ft+ billionaire with an 8 inch cock. This sub places too much emphasis on being this stereotypical alpha. Accept that for some girls you will not be tall enough, rich enough or whatever metric is being used to rate you. Then there are other factors like bad timing (this would happen more often…
/r/askTRP01/01/21 09:16 AM
1

I had something similar to this. Had sex with a ratchet unwashed ghetto girl but that bih rode my dick like no man’s business. Even looking back on it I don’t know who fucked who. She was small & easy to pick up with an incredibly tight twat. She moaned, had to adjust to taking the whole thing and pushed back every time I dared to thrust just a bit deeper which had me feel like I had one of the biggest dicks around. Even when we met for the first time within minutes of me picking her up she firs…
/r/askTRP01/01/21 08:57 AM
3

Since you like video games see if you can finish an entire duolingo tree in one week. It’ll get you started on learning a new language.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 01:36 AM
1

Imagine coming back to the world without your redpill knowledge. I’m curious. What was your relationship between you and your mother like? and then you and your father?
/r/askTRP01/01/21 01:32 AM
1

If you have to ask I’d advise you don’t try it but if you really must... Just drop a truth nugget every once in a while. An acquaintance once told me while laughing that a girl will always leave you for someone better. He was speaking about his own gf at the time but the redpill flew over my head. The message however stuck. The redpill for the most part is instilled in lot of people subconsciously. It’s just the verbal acknowledgement, especially if you do so in what’s perceived to be a women ha…
/r/askTRP31/12/20 10:18 PM
1

I agree with this.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 10:13 PM
1

Fuck. I’d heard ‘act like you have three girls ready to blow you at any given time’ but this one is so much more powerful :o
/r/askTRP31/12/20 10:12 PM
1

Inside joke? Please don’t tell me it’s THAT guy again.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 10:06 PM
1

Why should he next a plate?
/r/askTRP31/12/20 10:05 PM
48

Probably another guy or she just got bored. Maybe she found you predictable. Your stories aren’t that interesting. It could be a multitude of reasons. Sometimes women will pull back just to test you or to create drama. Just move on. Not worth stressing over. Like the above poster said. This is why you have backups. Always keep backups.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 09:38 PM
2

Yeah. Let me leave her hanging.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:37 PM
2

I laughed at this.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 05:59 PM
1

Problem with leaving her on seen is showing a sign of butthurt
/r/askTRP31/12/20 05:58 PM
1

Please keep us updated. This was an engaging read. On the note about your friend he already betrayed you when he said ‘say hi to girlname...’ blew kiss. That’s disrespectful. Friends should have boundaries. I would never joke about a friend’s girl like that. Also trust your gut.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 05:24 PM
1

‘Nice’
/r/askTRP31/12/20 05:10 PM
3

She knows you want to fuck her. The question in her mind is ‘are you worth fucking her?’ A man who is throwing compliments her way and pedastalizes her like she’s some sort of national treasure shows that he’s not used to women (at least women like her) and is thus inexperienced. Besides a lack of preselection (why doesn’t anyone else want him?) it shows that he’s likely to be needy, will suck or won’t be that good in bed and won’t make her orgasm (due little or experience), will always be in he…
/r/askTRP31/12/20 05:07 PM
1

Women are very promiscuous these days or could get it from a guy who’s hiv positive because he himself cheated on her or raw dogged prostitutes.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 04:46 PM
1

That last scenario is what I’m afraid of. Also some women are very promiscuous or bad promiscuous boyfriends who cheated on them. There are other stds as well.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 04:45 PM
2

Ohhh. Thank you :). Much appreciated.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 04:43 PM
3

Doesn’t matter. It’ll weed out women who genuinely want to enthusiastically fuck you because you’re you vs. women who see you as a beta bux.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:27 AM
2

I agree with u/RPU_mike’s answer. Alternatively you could just always ask her to be exclusive OP. Then youcan have the honour and pleasure of taking her out on and paying for these dinners. You no longer have to be jealous of whomever these guys are :D
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:23 AM
4

Set up at least one 10min call with each of them. Just ask how their day is going etc. Listen to the tone of her voice, enthusiasm etc. It’ll give you a clue not only as to how the date will go but also as to how likely she is to flake. End the call quickly while it’s on a good note. Don’t spend long. It might also give you a chance to confirm a few last min things and also to get on her mind.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:18 AM
2

Haha why so specific?
/r/askTRP31/12/20 02:13 AM
1

‘I need time to think’ or ‘I’m open to the idea but I need time to think’ or ‘are you sure about this? Let’s give it a bit more time’ or just ignore it and change the topic/brush it off or ‘my last relationship was hard or I’m recovering. I need a bit more time to full heal so I can give my all’ Basically anything to buy you some more time . You could always lie and dump her when a better deal comes along or cheat for lack of a bette word (technically isn’t cheating if you weren’t fully dedicate…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 10:44 PM
2

I would have said no. If she wanted a lift to the airport she should have asked for it ahead of time. She knew what she was doing. Very deceptive. Always put yourself first. Don’t do stuff that you are hesitant about or don’t feel like. Simple as that. If even one bone in your body does not feel like doing it then don’t.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 10:32 PM
5

Wrong sub but welldone for getting so far. Don’t dwell on your failure. Pick yourself up and try again.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 08:59 PM
1

Tbh I just skimmed through this. I read it years ago along with another article about never investing in someone what they won’t invest in you and training your subconscious etc. Thank you for that article. I don’t go out of my way to look for this stuff but it’s one of those golden pieces of redpill/dating advice I’ve read. It’s also a good way of avoiding oneitis. I encourage guys to go on your website if for nothing else than that article.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 08:57 PM
1

Thank you for using Google. I’ve never used real feel. I’ve just heard positive reviews.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 08:52 PM
2

Ask her to meet and physically escalate. Any excuse then pull back. Don’t be her texting buddy or shit like that. One word answers or better get ignore her.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 07:56 PM
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It’s not rocket science. If you have to guess then chances are she’s not into you. Stop being her texting buddy and get to the point. Organize a date. She makes an excuse. Try one more time. Another excuse then move on. Is she willing to meet with you one on one for a potentially non-platonic encounter? Yes or no. Everything else is irrelevant.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 07:53 PM
2

I honestly don’t know what genre to place it in. It’ll be fiction though.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 07:50 PM
7

Break up with her and work on yourself OP. I think a line has been crossed. Go see a psychologist. Encourage her to also go see one because judging from her response she’s either fucked up or you fucked something up in her. It may sound beta but you have to get her forgiveness. You’ve basically set a precedent for her as well that a man can hit her and it’s ok.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 07:12 PM
14

Nah I agree with him. What OP did was stupid. There are some in this sub who base their identify off hating women. That’s not it.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 07:05 PM
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watch what people do not what they say put yourself first. When you build, value and improve yourself others will want to be around and with you. always be prepared to walk away, replace or lose someone or something that compromises your inner peace, doesn’t give you what you want or doesn’t value you (eg friendzone, bad salary offer and/or poor relationship) keep your options open in both career and relationships always keep improving. The moment you stop is your death sentence. Make it hard to…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 06:50 PM
1

Lol forgive but I can’t tell if you’re being sarcastic or serious.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 06:17 PM
5

It’s called PREP or something. It’s some pills that make you immune to hiv but do your research. You can take it after sex or before. I think prep stands for pre exposure. A gay guy was telling me about it.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 04:54 PM
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Stop watching porn or jacking off completely. Use skyn or durex real feel (I think they’re non-latex) vet your plates. Find out who really doesn’t want a baby, is on the pill/injection and is ok with getting rid of it. Find out what her opinion is on this without revealing your own opinion so as to get deceived.If she’s afraid of STI’s even better. Both get tested before going raw. hiv prevention stack vasectomy (this one i personally wouldn’t do but some guys vouch by it). It’s apparently also …
/r/askTRP30/12/20 03:53 PM
1

Confront him and tell him to stop in front if everyone. Make sure he knows you’re very serious and that he feels very uncomfortable. Don’t let him diffuse the situation through humor or backing down. If you have to say ‘do you understand?’ and he gives you any answer other than ‘yes’ keep it on topic and repeat loudly ‘DO YOU UNDERSTAND?’ Make sure he gets the message loud and clear.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 03:30 PM
16

Troll level post. No dude it doesn’t mean anything.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:46 PM
1

A woman who isn’t happy to receive a call from you probably won’t accept the date either. These women are giving an answer that’s in their best interests. It’s easier to ignore a text. It’s harder to do so on a phone call and women hate saying ‘no’. They usually want to continue stringing you along without ever explicitly rejecting you.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/20 02:43 PM
1

I don’t know about cold stoic alpha male but one thing the sub encourages is to observe people(women in particular) on their words not actions as well as moving on quickly. It’s not perfect but a lot of the guys were in worse off positions before finding the sub.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/20 02:10 PM
4

start at least one business (before March) continue learning and finish my doulingo course (before March) continue learning and finish the basics of machine learning & ai (before March) secure employment or income (by March) get back in shape (continuous) eat better (less sugar and junk) (continuous) read more (10 carefully selected books before June at least) put up less with people’s bull dress better, feel better, look better finish my qualification (before Feb) -start writing my book (start …
/r/askTRP30/12/20 12:00 PM
2

This is actually becoming quite funny. Can anyone determine whether it’s a troll or real? I can’t actually tell. This is like the 3rd post today and apparently the 5th+ alt account.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:48 AM
2

What’s her onlyfans? No I’m not going to subscribe. Just curious.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 10:50 AM
2

Are you being serious right now?
/r/askTRP30/12/20 10:25 AM
2

Damn. If this isn’t a troll or he wasn’t already mentally unstable then this girl really fucked this man up. This must have been some next level pussy. Like I’ve had one oneitis but not on some some making multiple accounts and posting different variations of the same question everyday 2 years later type of shit. This must’ve been some top tier pussy. Got damn! I salute this girl whoever she is.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 08:36 AM
5

Damn. If this isn’t a troll or he isn’t already mentally unstable then this girl really fucked this man up. This must have been some next level pussy. Like I’ve had one oneitis but not on some some making multiple accounts and posting different variations of the same question everyday 2 years later type of shit. This must’ve been some top tier pussy. Got damn! I salute this girl whoever she is.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 08:35 AM
21

I don’t think I’ve personally experienced the whole alpha widowed thing (at least as it’s described on this sub). I’ve noticed more of an accumulation of baggage from past lovers. Here’s what I’ve personally experienced. So it won’t be that she’s blatantly pining after her ex whilst she’s with me but it gets harder to impress her the more men have filled specific categories. So if you’re not her best at sex, romance, finances, gifts etc then she won’t be impressed in each of those areas. She mig…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 08:08 AM
2

No prob man. I enjoy helping and receiving help from my rp brothas. Note: By ‘mean’ I mean (he he) the average. So if you speak to her she fixes her behavior it may only be temporary or until she’s hooked you (marriage).
/r/askTRP30/12/20 07:57 AM
2

I’m going to preface by saying once a week sex would be fine with me but we aren’t the same person so continuing on. ‘We enjoy each other’s company...relationship.’ So why are you in a relationship? What was wrong with the previous arrangement? ‘There could be a future.’ Evidently not because you don’t seem very satisfied with the state of things. You can discuss and sort them out but be wary of them regressing towards the mean (look it up if you don’t understand statistics). To me it sounds lik…
/r/askTRP29/12/20 09:08 PM
1

You’re reading too much into her reply. Do it because she seems to be on your mind. Just know this. I can tell you now there’s a high chance of this backfiring. You sound like you don’t have interests, hobbies, projects and other women to keep you occupied from her. She will eventually sense this and pull back. This is someone you need to address going forward.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 07:29 PM
2

Oh shit. I had forgotten despite seeing some highlights.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 06:16 PM
0

Continue seducing her. You don’t owe anything shit.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 06:15 PM
2

Lol. Do what you want (serious answer).
/r/askTRP29/12/20 05:46 PM
2

Not sure. There’s usually signs before a break up. Walk away or pull back from her first. If she beats you to the punch then accept it and move on. Point is it doesn’t matter.She’s replaceable.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 05:45 PM
1

Well you’ve done it now. Stop mentioning her now. Problem solved. If you’re intellectual then there are a ton of things you can talk about besides the other people you’re seeing.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:58 PM
9

Have you tried shutting up? You’re not dating Marley so she’s not entitled to know what you have going on especially in such detail that she knows how serious you are with Michelle. You can also continue to sleep with Marley as long as Michelle hasn’t given you any sort of commitment or exclusivity (she’d probably ghost you of a better offer came long). Just don’t say anything. Neither is entitled to know about the other.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:38 PM
10

Get over it. If he’s really your friend then it shouldn’t matter. Don’t weigh so much on people’s opinions especially if you yourself know what you like. People in public don’t know who you are and will forget about you within a minute and you shouldn’t mind people who do know you because you’re entitled to do whatever the fuck you want in your spare time. Plus you should be 100% confident in yourself and who you are. Have a look at this video for how to handle nosey motherfuckas in an alpha way…
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:27 PM
7

The way I see it you have one of a few options: -have a stoic don’t mess with me type personality. Just don’t react/ignore or tell them to stop -learn to roast back. If you’re in the US make some black friends. They tend to be good at this. -physically escalate with the first person who roasts you so as to send a warning to everyone else (do not recommend).
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:24 PM
1

What makes you think texting improves your chances? She doesn’t want to meet so let me text her some more. I’m sure that will wear her down.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 02:26 PM
2

10 bucks says you’re an incel/blackpiller trying to prove a point. To answer your question yes. Face reigns supreme. Body is a multiplier that can give you a fighting chance.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 11:40 AM
1

Look at his username. I think he’s an incel.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 11:38 AM
7

I’m surprised no one is catching on that this is a troll post.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 10:10 AM
0

Looool
/r/askTRP29/12/20 10:08 AM
0

You’re right. I am an absolute bumbling barrel head. Barrel go boom! #agree&amplify
/r/askTRP29/12/20 10:07 AM
2

Continue fucking that unwilling woman and feeling entitled to her body because you dropped a few bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 10:06 AM
3

Ignore if you don’t want to fuck. If you do then don’t give her attention. Keep it at one word answers. Don’t ask how she is back. Bang her once and then continue ignoring her (don’t ghost to block).
/r/askTRP29/12/20 09:15 AM
1

u/TheOGJammies r/FemaleDatingStrategy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 09:13 AM
1

Technically it is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 09:07 AM
1

Why are you even married :/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 07:44 AM
3

Even the name is cringe
/r/askTRP29/12/20 07:30 AM
5

Women change their minds quickly. They are so fickle. Don’t be surprised if you get her number, things go well and then she ghosts or flakes on you after the 2nd day. You’ve been warned. I’d move quickly. Don’t be needy but try and bed her as soon as possible before this attraction expires. Trust me.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 07:24 AM
1

No. Enjoy it while it lasts and don’t get attached.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 07:22 AM
7

Really? You think this is a good response? The wannabe alphas on this group amuse me. You shouldn’t be wearing lifts. Height is one of those major deal breakers for women and frauding makes it even worse . This the type of shit that’ll get you disqualified. Stop wearing lifts and just go as you are. If she asks then brush it off. She’ll either stick with you or not.End of story.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 07:21 AM
1

Damn.that makes sense...
/r/askTRP29/12/20 07:14 AM
3

I already know Stephiscold but who is the guy who got caught simping?
/r/askTRP29/12/20 01:13 AM
5

Genuinely laughed
/r/askTRP29/12/20 01:09 AM
1

Ok that makes more sense. Still being her personal jester. I’ll stick to real life approaches.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 01:05 AM
4

Sit down and write what you want to achieve or do and how to get there. Then do it. You may fail some of the times but that’s part of the process. Something is better than nothing. If you are truly sick and tired with the way your life is you will eventually get better and better at maintening the discipline. Also stop masturbating and watching porn completely if you do that. Also deprive yourself of tv, series l, sugar and music for a long while (dopamine fast).
/r/askTRP28/12/20 11:11 PM
0

Move on. I’m done with her. Find another woman.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 11:06 PM
2

Don’t waste time texting. Invite her over and try to sleep with her. If she says no then stop talking to her. Ignore her texts. Be too busy for her. See other people.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 11:05 PM
2

Got more important shit to worry about. Actual oppressive governments and shit. You know? Stop being such a snowflake.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 08:10 PM
1

I’ve moved on. She wasn’t with the program. What should happen now? Should I delete the question?
/r/askTRP28/12/20 08:00 PM
1

She’s either into you or she’s not. I don’t see such an opener working otherwise.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 07:30 PM
4

Just greet and introduce yourself. God damn. She’s either into you or she’s not. What’s with this sub and being a woman’s personal jester/clown.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 07:29 PM
1

Wait how is this horrible advice. Hi and introduce yourself
/r/askTRP28/12/20 07:28 PM
5

By doing whatever the fuck your want. Don’t be a jerk for the sake of it and don’t bend over backwards to please women and other people. Just put yourself first.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 07:02 PM
2

Ignore her. Don’t give her any attention. Stop talking to her. If she decides she likes you then use her as a fuck buddy. Don’t ever date this girl seriously or fall for her.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 07:02 PM
1

I’ve already blocked her. I was looking for a quick fuck. Thank you for your response.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 06:58 PM
1

Rapport won’t come through texting. This is how women waste your time. Make a phone call. Gauge her interest. Move on. You build rapport in person.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 06:57 PM
2

Go ask on r/sexworkers but they’ll probably lie to keep business going.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 04:01 PM
0

How can you tell which is which? Because all/most women demand commitment at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 03:07 PM
1

I tried that but she declined to come over. I’ve blocked her.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 02:14 PM
1

Well played
/r/askTRP28/12/20 01:53 PM
2

You’re right. Dry spells can have you doing desperate ish.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 01:52 PM
3

Nah. I’ve decided to block her. She’s not even worth a coffee date. I just tried her because she looked easy. Not a looker and I won’t be losing sleep over her.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 01:09 PM
0

Go fuck yourself :)
/r/askTRP28/12/20 01:08 PM
4

Don’t feel bad at all. I used to be like you. Realize that they themselves are usually leading other guys on without a care in the world and if challenged about it they’d respond with ‘you should have been straight forward/ I didn’t promise you anything/ you’re not entitled to anything.’ Right now you’re feeling bad because you’re getting their best side (probably because you’re high value as you said yourself). Best believe if you weren’t so high value or as high value as they’d like you’d be g…
/r/askTRP28/12/20 12:52 PM
1

Straight to the point
/r/askTRP28/12/20 12:46 PM
1

I’ve also used matlab. I challenge you to a code off.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 12:12 PM
5

Women aren’t like men. Men fall in love through extended contact. That’s why one of the best ways to deal with oneitis is to stay away from her and let time do it’s thing. Women fall in love through absence (at least after she’s developed an attachment to you). The less she gets of you the more she will crave you. It’s not the time you spend with her. It’s the time you spend on her mind. You haven’t seen each other for 2 weeks but you’ve been on her mind for 2 weeks. Delay the meeting and you mi…
/r/askTRP28/12/20 11:45 AM
1

She most likely is so I actually don’t blame her. Merrry Christmas and have a happy 2021.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 11:39 AM
0

you’re right. I’ll probably make some excuse as to why I can’t. I just don’t feel like making the effort right now. She may not be exploitative but her method was. I also barely know her and she wasn’t exactly enthusiastic for the little we did speak (may just be her personality though).
/r/askTRP28/12/20 11:31 AM
4

lol that’s 4 more than I can offer
/r/askTRP28/12/20 11:27 AM
-1

That’d probably be spoiling her (no joke)
/r/askTRP28/12/20 11:17 AM
-1

Cool
/r/askTRP28/12/20 11:17 AM
3

Just a guess. Stop caring what women think about you. There are so many. You are a great guy even if 1000 women reject you. Just remember that :)
/r/askTRP28/12/20 11:12 AM
2

English is not your first language huh?
/r/askTRP28/12/20 11:07 AM
8

Anything other than a ‘yes’ is a ‘no.’ Women try to avoid saying no at all costs unless you really back them into a corner. Move on. Respect yourself. Either don’t reply to such texts and hit her up a month later or do a take away. Reply ‘Nevermind/It’s cool. Maybe another time’ and then take another month or 2 before you even try again.’ She must know your time is valuable. She’s usually just doesn’t want to go out with you or is making sure there isn’t anything more interesting to do. On the r…
/r/askTRP28/12/20 08:46 AM
10

because you aren’t supposed to be her texting buddy. Logistics only.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 07:59 AM
1

Spoil yourself using money from passive income. The rest should be invested/for living necessities.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 07:58 AM
3

Stay as you were. I’m just bookmarking for the future update post.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 05:52 AM
1

How much studying would you recommend before you can confidently say you’re proficient in python?
/r/askTRP28/12/20 05:46 AM
4

Please take me with you.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 04:31 AM
2

Put your head down and work. Soon you’ll move out and you can then focus on carving out a new identity for yourself. Use this time to be productive.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 04:29 AM
19

Don’t let her come over whenever she pleases OP. Your time is more valuable than this shit. Just tell her something came up and you’ll let her know when she can come over and then don’t get back to her for as long as possible. Keep delaying the meet until you so feel like having a fuck and she’s craving you and then bang her and repeat. Don’t let it get down to talking. You can’t use logic here. When she eventually does come over (maybe in 2 weeks) just tell her you’re not in the mood to talk ri…
/r/askTRP28/12/20 04:18 AM
1

She did me a favour.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 04:11 AM
2

I’ve done it before. Things are awkward for a bit after you’ve made a move and they’ve rejected you but they get over it and start treating normally again but that’s if you don’t act or acknowledge the weirdness between you guys. I wouldn’t recommend it. Women you study or work with are those that see you often enough to know if they like you or not and if they do they make it very obvious. They’ve had time to assess your social aptitude etc. Women also tend to avoid dating men they will have to…
/r/askTRP27/12/20 06:40 PM
3

Women who have gay friends tend to be easier to bed. Just a trend I’ve noticed. The gay guys I know have hooked me up with their female friends. They also tried to hook up with me themselves but that’s a story for another day.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 06:36 PM
1

I have experience here. They’ll be selfish although the girl will usually try resist a bit because of her friend (very weak attempt though). Go for the friend you want. If she rejects you on the basis that her friend likes you then she’s not really into you and is just using the excuse of her friend as a buffer.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 06:11 PM
1

Lol she made sure it was proper because when I showed her the number (I had entered it incorrectly) she grabbed my phone and proceeded to enter it correctly and then call it to confirm. Now that I think of it I don’t recall the call going through when she called from my phone but I’m probably hamstering now.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 06:06 PM
2

Dude. She really wasn’t worth fucking (at least not more than once and to me). Anything else but that. I know why women are afraid of confrontation. I’m from a country with one of the highest fatality, rape and abuse rates for women in the world. I didn’t complain. I merely asked if this has happened to anyone else because it’s a new method of indirect rejection I’ve encountered.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 06:01 PM
1

u/LillthOfBabylon
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 05:57 PM
1

Your name sounded familiar (either from here or fds) and another commentator said you’re well respected within that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 05:56 PM
2

She should stay a plate.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 02:45 PM
-1

Haha yeah I have. I just wanted something quick. She wouldn’t even qualify for fwb. I just found it amusing how creative women get just to avoid saying no but I understand.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 02:27 PM
0

Thank you. She wouldn’t even qualify for a fwb so I’m not fussed about it. I just made this post because I find it amusing how many ways women can avoid being direct.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 02:26 PM
14

A lot of men don’t have a strong emotional support system so they find themselves here.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 02:20 PM
1

Who’s dick was bigger?
/r/askTRP27/12/20 02:06 PM
1

So you admit that the women on fds who complain about men are dysfunctional themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 02:03 PM
1

I would say that except I meet a lot of decent and inspiring women. The vast majority just happen to be dysfunctional.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 11:07 AM
1

Then that’s a problem with YOU. Maybe go seek a psychologist or evaluate what’s really going on.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 11:06 AM
1

Even your average looking women play these games. I also do but it becomes a chore when it’s a majority of women. Most men don’t do this. Edit: interesting choice of username btw. Now I remember why it rang a bell. I ended up googling it (last time).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 12:03 AM
1

Why are you guys even on asktrp. Just pay for it all the time.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 12:02 AM
3

A woman who likes you will talk your ear off. If she already likes you then why are you trying to impress her? You’ve already won. Furthermore women enjoy mystery. Even if you’re rich or whatever don’t show her your bank account or trophy. She must struggle to find out. There should be hints of how awesome your life is here and there but never outright evidence. Be unavailable. That’s another hint. Let her imagination run wild. They enjoy the process and even then they shouldn’t find out everyth…
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:52 PM
1

I wouldn’t go to a whore. You don’t want to permanently fuck up your first time but you do you.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:43 PM
2

You’re doing the right thing by trying different things but you have to learn to love the grind. The hard part is when you’ve learnt quite a bit and the improvements become incremental. Do go get tested for ADHD though.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:43 PM
1

Nowhere did I say I don’t see women as people. I’m merely saying a lot of them consciously or unconsciously play these games like pulling back and then gaslighting you if you ask if everything is ok.Asking to spend more time Kethokuhle you and then pulling away when you do. Pulling back for being nice :/ or showed interest back (this one was the weirdest one) or are you going to deny that any of this happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 02:18 PM
2

OP THIS IS THE SIGN YOU’VE BEEN LOOKING FOR. LET HER GO!!!!!!! SHE DOESN’T LIKE YOU!
/r/askTRP26/12/20 09:39 AM
3

Trying to reverse will be your downfall. Don’t do anything. Walk away. Improve your SMV. Find other women.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 09:38 AM
2

Reply with one word answers, don’t ask questions back (e.g. I’m fine ~and yourself?~). If she says she wants to meet just say ‘oh really?’ and if she says ‘yes’ then say ‘you’ll show me.’ Let her do ALL THE CHASING. Don’t initiate or ask for a date. Let her do EVERYTHING. If she organizes a date don’t even confirm with her before or on the date. She must do everything.Tbh she sounds like an attention whore so it’s unlikely she’ll chase at all. Let her go OP. She doesn’t like you.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 09:37 AM
4

Dude if you like the girl stay with her and stop being so insecure. If you’re not into her then leave her. Stop making someone’s life miserable because of what’s going on in your head.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 09:28 AM
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COPY PASTED FROM ANOTHER ASKTRP THREAD BUT SOMEWHAT RELEVANT: OP DO NOT SHOW EMOTIONS! History will repeat itself. Women always do shit like this. They will reassure you that they’re different from all the other women and it’s ok for you to spend more time with them and open up. Then when you do they will slowly pull back, won’t be in the mood for sex, too busy to meet up and if you question them or want to CoMmuNicATe they will make you feel like you’re paranoid or it’s all in your head. They’r…
/r/askTRP26/12/20 07:54 AM
1

You got me there...
/r/askTRP26/12/20 06:20 AM
1

*Chad made this bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 06:19 AM
1

Fair enough. Everyone for themselves then...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 03:04 AM
1

Give the people what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 03:03 AM
1

You’re right about that part. I tend to read FDS for two reasons: -to know what the the strategies are so I can counteract them -to internalise the mindset (I demand more/I am the prize). I will give them credit for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 02:52 AM
1

Interesting...Do you have any other insights you could share?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 02:49 AM
2

So you’re suggesting a balance? Unfortunately when I personally tried a balance it was still mistaken for weakness. It sometimes feels like you have to go to extremes at times to get what you want. The man occupying her mind is the one winning and it seems that guy is usually the one giving her the least amount of time and the most amount of turmoil.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 02:48 AM
2

Dating is also up to the woman. Men will have 1/2 dating options at most at a time (this would be an above average man). I personally believe a woman would I rather Netflix and chill with a man she finds attractive than an adoring fan willing to take her out to dinner or alternatively she will go to dinner and then call the former for sex afterwards while she makes the beta wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 02:45 AM
0

You made some fair points.’Men have just as many options in the dating realm.’ This is not true at all. Even FDS brags about how they have more options and dick is cheap and abundant. ‘A woman can be into you...’ Yes those women are worth taking on a date should you wish to pursue things further but they usually make it very obvious that they’re into you. Once they’ve made it clear that they’re into you you usually don’t even need to take them on a date. They’re very much happy to Netflix and ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 02:15 AM
1

For example joining redpill. Redpill is not growing out of thin air and for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 02:09 AM
3

Well hello there...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 12:48 AM
3

I love it when a woman adamantly tells you ‘we’re not all the same and you need to learn to trust’ before doing exactly like everyone before her did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 12:46 AM
1

Well besides knowing how they feel and which condoms to use for future reference, I ah um masturbate with them on. This way I avoid creating a mess and there’s extra lubrication provided.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 12:38 AM
1

You cook AND eat within an hour :o also you’re in bed by 9!? You must be exhausted.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 07:56 PM
203

Such pussy passive aggressive responses. Just talk to him and tell him to stop.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 07:55 PM
3

Merry Christmas
/r/askTRP25/12/20 04:54 PM
2

I’ve never had the condom breaking problem. Maybe try Skyn or Durex. I keep hearing good things. They’re non-latex so less chance of a reaction or bad smell plus apparently you feel slightly more. I’ve tried them on but not for sex. Please try for sex and get back to me.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 02:07 PM
1

Either your dick too big for the condom or you’re buying some real low quality shit.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 12:39 PM
4

How many are actively and consciously trying to get rich?
/r/askTRP24/12/20 11:21 PM
3

You should get rich but not for the reasons she mentioned otherwise you end up being a beta bux with sub standard sex. Get rich to improve your own quality of life.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 10:33 PM
2

We still get horny though. We want actual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 08:42 PM
1

Thanks for making me feel dumb today.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 07:34 PM
3

Some great answers in here. I would say be more selfish. As selfish as you can be however don’t conflate being selfish with being cruel. Don’t go out of your way to hurt people or not help when your conscious is clearly telling you that you can and should. Other than that don’t let anyone waste your time and/or money.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 07:01 PM
1

Dude I’ve face fucked a married lady (this I’m not proud of) and some people’s gfs. You’ve bought too much into the redpill. That’s like saying ALL men cheat given the chance. I and some other guys with much higher Smv’s than myself have gotten tempted and still turn down pussy served up on a platter. Trp is a guideline for general trends and behaviour. At the end of the day people are still individuals which is why you find the same tactics don’t work on every single woman or man the same. Stop…
/r/askTRP24/12/20 06:57 PM
2

Stupid argument. Everyone is capable of murder/cheating but the degree to which each individual is likely to go through with it greatly differs. There are women who would rather break up with you or would need to be pushed to extreme circumstances before they even consider cheating. Not my fault you only know club skanks who cheat at the drop of a hat.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 04:30 PM
1

Have what?
/r/askTRP24/12/20 04:28 PM
1

Wait until you’re back. This question shows that you need to address your scarcity mindset.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 04:15 PM
6

It’s more like top 1% but meh just be the best you can be. Improve for yourself. Maybe not in looks but try to be top 20% or higher in things you have direct control over (finances, fitness/body, style and fashion).
/r/askTRP24/12/20 04:14 PM
1

this you?
/r/askTRP24/12/20 04:11 PM
2

u/Atlas__B__Shruggin
/r/askTRP24/12/20 03:14 PM
1

Oh...that’s still a huge red flag (a stop sign in fact). She should be a plate at most.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 03:12 PM
2

I like how you added the ‘Oh yeah...she also cheated on me with her ex’ and tried to slip through that little bit of info like it was unnecessary you sneaky dog you :D That’s all I needed to read. Block and move on. Don’t even give her closure. End of story. Move on. Don’t fall for her shit. No explanation.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 03:01 PM
1

That’s what I said!
/r/askTRP24/12/20 02:53 PM
0

Turns him off? Nah the other advice was solid but this ain’t it. Sex is meant to be fun and a stress reliever. Ya’ll are turning it into work by being a dancing monkey for her entertainment. What does she bring to the bedroom? This ain’t it. I used to also think like this until I realized how much pressure you put on yourself and how beta af that sounds. Foreplay and mentally fucking her are good. Actively trying to turn yourself off sex is lame.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 02:53 PM
1

I’ve read all the replies and just have to say DUDE SHE IS NOT INTERESTED!!!!! MOVE THE FUCK ON!!!!
/r/askTRP24/12/20 02:07 PM
1

Don’t think about the process. The more attention you pay to it/to them the more it’ll stick in your mind. You get them out by not thinking/talking about them.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 11:00 AM
2

As long as you’re happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 10:57 AM
1

He may be full on gay
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 09:44 AM
1

Are you not worried about the fact that you initiate most of the time? I’d be a bit suspicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 09:35 AM
1

Don’t take advantage also because even if it works it’ll be taking a shortcut that’ll trick you into believing you’re actually improving your smv and the boost will be temporary . I wish you the best brother. Cheers.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 09:34 AM
2

Ah the plot thickens...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 09:24 AM
1

I’ve been there and I know the feeling so my advice is going to come from my own experience. Accept the L and move on. You don’t have to win every battle and/or war. You don’t have to be the ultimate alpha dog. In fact you’re losing because you’re so invested in winning. You did invest too much initially but by seeking revenge more of your mental resources are going towards this girl thus giving her more power and building up the problem. The best thing to do is to accept that it for what it is …
/r/askTRP24/12/20 09:24 AM
9

Ignore her. Don’t even reply. No contact, block that bitch, airplane mode etc or better yet just let it ring. Improve your SMV with your current LTR by ACTUALLY IMPROVING YOUR SMV. Work on your career, business, workout, dress better, smell nice, be less available (because you’re actually working and doing shit and not pretending), do exciting stuff (without her) etc. The fact that you’re still trying to one up high current LTR in such a cheap and lame way shows that she has you in her frame or …
/r/askTRP24/12/20 09:12 AM
1

Yes. I was even advised by a woman to do this. Just lie or omit the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 06:11 AM
1

Lol gay (he sounds suspect). Bad joke but I hope that’s not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 06:04 AM
1

I also spend time in the real world. Congrats on having a fulfilling dating life. I also know many men who are short and successful in dating but I’m general it does count against you. Women in general have lower sex drives than men. You know exactly what I mean. You’re being pedantic. Next thing if I point out that men are physically stronger than women you’re going to be BuT sOmE wOMeN aRe STrOngeR! If fact you corrected it in your own paragraph ‘on average.’ If it makes you feel any better th…
/r/ExRedPill24/12/20 06:01 AM
6

It’s going to be awkward when he comes out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 02:51 AM
1

I didn’t realize I was having 2 convos with the same person but anyways... They have good jobs and can take care of themselves financially and physically. They don’t mind that for themselves but best believe she ain’t agreeing to a 50/50 date.It’s also unlikely a woman will seriously date someone who earns below her tax bracket. As for this comment (that I’m on) Feminists can fight all they want but women don’t want their equal. Money is just the easiest metric to measure. Whether they admit it …
/r/ExRedPill24/12/20 02:38 AM
1

It’s just a simple truth. Don’t ask me if I’ve met all +3.5 billion women in the world. Mine and many men’s experiences echo this. At this point it’s even become a meme. Unless you’re saying men sucked it up out of thin air? Men are expected to pursue and put themselves out there Men are expected to pay and provide Men want women more than women want men i.e. women don’t find most men attractive. A lot of the things men are shamed for are immutable (height, face, frame).
/r/ExRedPill24/12/20 01:59 AM
0

Most (heterosexual) women are feminists until it becomes inconvenient (paying for dinner, protection, attraction to certain traits etc). Ironically the most feminist people I meet are gay men and lesbians.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/20 01:39 AM
1

Nope. I may not agree with everything but feminism is/was very necessary. Not society but dating is stacked against men but thats by design. It also depends on the individual’s priority. Women are just people. Most people are self centred. I don’t know about Machiavellian. I haven’t read the book but whatever they do I don’t think it’s well thought out and planned. People just act according to their best interests. You aren’t a very good guesser are you?
/r/ExRedPill24/12/20 01:24 AM
1

Go ahead. Let’s hear your wisdom. Despite your petty insults I’m always open to new information.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/20 12:41 AM
2

Ad hominem. Most men’s experiences have been that women do not like emotional men despite what they say. Are there exceptions to this rule? Yes. Good luck finding them and consider yourself lucky if you do.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/20 11:59 PM
2

Ad hominem. The sign of someone who’s clearly lost. Nothing wrong with not making 100k. Just consider yourself lucky and be grateful if anyone gives you a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 11:57 PM
1

Not all men were meant to pair up and reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 11:56 PM
1

It is.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/20 11:36 PM
1

Most women are immature then?
/r/ExRedPill23/12/20 11:35 PM
1

What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 11:35 PM
1

It’s a rough estimate. The actual figure is probably way more and growing with time. Get to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 11:34 PM
3

Reporting for duty. AMA
/r/ExRedPill23/12/20 11:23 PM
2

Redpill men don’t complain about not being able to cry. They just simply state it as it is. Despite women encouraging you to open up or be emotionally vulnerable it’s usually a bad idea to do so . End of story.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/20 11:17 PM
0

You can say sorry all you want but he had to live with the real world consequences of his actions.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/20 11:11 PM
0

Lol
/r/ExRedPill23/12/20 11:10 PM
1

Isn’t that most women?
/r/ExRedPill23/12/20 11:08 PM
2

She’s settling for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 11:07 PM
1

I’m guessing you don’t earn 6 figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:44 PM
3

Yeah and average men should earn six figures
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:08 PM
3

You sound bitter. If you can’t meet the standards then don’t play the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:06 PM
1

Who said I’m a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:04 PM
3

It doesn’t work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:03 PM
2

It’s called settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:03 PM
2

Women already have plenty of companionship. You need to make yourself useful as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:02 PM
2

Hence why most men are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:01 PM
2

I don’t get it. All those sound like reasonable requirements. ‘what do women bring to the table?’ Evidently whatever it is counts for a lot. It’s men chasing women not the other way round.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:00 PM
2

If you can find women willing to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 06:58 PM
1

I don’t get it. What’s wrong? Is it too little? Obviously are plenty of men who earn far more. Six figures is a decent starting point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 06:57 PM
1

No one said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 06:55 PM
1

I don’t know then. This might require professional help. I can’t help you much without actually spending more time with you and getting into your psych. Congrats on the business. Where have you travelled?
/r/askTRP23/12/20 06:49 PM
1

Regardless of if you’re doing well you’re still basing your entire self esteem and worth on what women think. It’s a deeper psychological issue. Do you have anything else you’re good at or enjoy?
/r/askTRP23/12/20 11:26 AM
1

You got deeper issues man.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 10:45 AM
5

It’s not about being nice or an asshole. It’s about attractive. Being an asshole can sometimes bypass attractiveness by giving the impression that you have many options or are used to women like her (why else would you be so dismissive and not kiss her ass like these other betas) which will make you appear more attractive to her. It will also have her chasing your validation if her internal self esteem or worth is low.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 10:40 AM
1

You’re seeking too much of your validation from women. There’s your problem. As to why that’s for yourself to figure out.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 10:37 AM
1

Delay or lie. Tell her you’re open to the idea but need a bit more time to think about it or something like that or you can agree to to it but keep acting single. Just pray she ain’t crazy.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 01:36 AM
1

Yeah possibly. That might explain it. Women tend to require that you be taller than them. Then face and race are factors. I don’t know where you get this idea that confidence is no.1.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 09:44 PM
1

Check again again
/r/askTRP22/12/20 07:56 PM
1

You’re an MBB. You must be a hard working and fairly intelligent lady. Add note: of course it’s a dealbreaker. You’re an FDSer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 07:54 PM
2

From someone who has the first three (to the point where I get complimented by both men and women) and is of average height I can tell you now that you’ve got them in the wrong order. Face, race and height come first. Afterwards you have things like muscles and grooming. Where are you getting such flawed information? Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 05:39 PM
2

Check again
/r/askTRP22/12/20 12:40 PM
2

Oh that’s fine. Like I said either country will do. Keep in mind that in the UK you can travel to other countries like Germany, France etc a bit more easily.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 10:56 AM
7

Soz. I was making a joke. I’d also be curious to know the answer.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 10:54 AM
61

Check the side bar
/r/askTRP22/12/20 08:51 AM
4

Any friend with respect for you would have avoided her. The least a friend could do (especially your BEST friend) should have been to check with you BEFORE fucking her. Anything else you’re being told here is bullshit. I wouldn’t trust anyone who can’t control themselves like this. I’ve been in this situation twice and both times despite going through a dry spell I refused to sleep with my friend’s exes who came onto me. The friendships are still going strong because the trust is there.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 07:17 AM
2

The top comment already has the answer but I’m just going to say to you other guys...THIS IS YOUR BRAIN ON ONEITIS
/r/askTRP22/12/20 07:01 AM
6

Here’s my 2 cents: -set a goals and accomplish them. The harder the better. -keep improving yourself. Dress better, exercise, finances etc. -accept that you’re not perfect. There’s an obsession in this sub with been some sort of alpha super male. I’ve noticed it causes insecurity in guys trying to live up to this ideal. You’re not going to be the ultimate Chad. Just be yourself and accept yourself. -know that no one else is perfect. Everyone has his/her flaws or is struggling with something. Eve…
/r/askTRP22/12/20 06:57 AM
9

Dude chill. Yes, maybe you did reply too quickly but the the fact that you’re panicking like this 40 min in shows a bigger problem here. People have lives outside their cellphone man. Even interested women will text back late sometimes. You need to find some interesting hobbies or projects to focus on because this is not healthy. You shouldn’t be watching your cellphone like a hawk. You shouldn’t even be replying late on purpose. It should be because you genuinely have better things to do which …
/r/askTRP22/12/20 06:52 AM
2

Guys who place a lot of value on going after non-black women. If you’re looking for variety then either would do. Go to an international spot like New York or London.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 11:38 PM
2

because as a black man your best chance will always be with black women. This is not to say you can’t date other races but you go where the odds favour you. Unless you’re one of those...
/r/askTRP21/12/20 08:47 PM
2

Go to a predominantly black city in the USA like Atlanta. UK is small and cold which means less people overall and outside.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 08:01 PM
0

Your posts and comments read like some larping pseudo alpha male conspiracy theorist.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 07:09 PM
3

Just because she’s easy for you doesn’t mean she’s easy for someone else. I believe shit tests are when she’s doubting your SMV or wants to confirm it. Women who are interested rarely shit test.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 03:25 PM
10

So many politicians, CEOs, senators, athletes, businessmen etc frequently pay for sex. I doubt non-transactional womanising will count much against you as long as you’re good at your job. Just don’t go around verbally acknowledging the redpill like some sort of weirdo and you should be fine.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 03:09 PM
1

It’s one thing to lead a woman on. It’s an entirely different matter to get the whole family involved. You know what. Go.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 10:20 AM
1

Why don’t you invite them?
/r/askTRP21/12/20 10:20 AM
1

His videos are actually 17min long on average. What’s the big picture?
/r/askTRP21/12/20 07:02 AM
1

Yes. Forget her. Consider it an L until she messages you.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 11:22 PM
3

Instead of using verbose language to make pointless ad hominem attacks why don’t you point out what you’ve contributed that’s of value. I’d be more than happy to learn.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 11:21 PM
2

What is the redpill in your own words?
/r/askTRP20/12/20 11:18 PM
1

Isn’t she supposed to get back to you? Why are you doing this?
/r/askTRP20/12/20 11:15 PM
1

If he’s a close friend I wouldn’t mind but my close friends also respect me enough to get up and offer me the seat without me saying a word.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 08:55 PM
1

Be good at your job and SHUT THE FUCK UP! Don’t be there when they discuss feminine stuff. Don’t participate in casual conversations. Be serious. Trust me. If someone likes you they or the whole crew will let you know.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 08:52 PM
1

Don’t reply. If she ever asks you why just say you were busy and saw it late then set up a real life meet like the commentor above mentioned ‘let’s talk about it in person.’
/r/askTRP20/12/20 08:50 PM
10

I became more charismatic by Not trying to be charismatic. People (especially women) can spot try hards. Following pop culture. This not only enables you to talk about whatever time wasting series is popular with the masses at the time but you tend to learn quite a bit from fictional charismatic characters (make sure you pick the right ones). Practice. Just get comfortable taking to people. Try new things. You’ll learn what works and what doesn’t but be careful to keep point 1 in mind. Observe r…
/r/askTRP20/12/20 08:47 PM
1

I’m wondering what their problem is. I think he’s awesome. He’s honest, straightforward and gives good dating and more importantly general life advice that comes from his own experiences and mistakes.These ECs are wannabe ‘super alphas’ who hide their identities behind computer screens and pretend to be perfect.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 08:40 PM
2

I’m going to ignore that you called me a dumbass because people are brave behind a computer screen. Otherwise you’d be spitting out teeth. As for dealing with blue pill men. You don’t. Let them be. It’s not your job to convert ppl. Stop spending time with ppl you don’t like. You will never be alpha until you can be alone.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 08:37 PM
2

It’s up to you and what you value. I have you some examples of my own. Whatever you do make sure it’s something that’s hard. The harder the better.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 08:34 PM
2

Are you being serious? I was just making fun of your post. Dude stop writing essays about irrelevant people. Drop them and do something more productive with your time.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 06:06 PM
9

You’re putting your self esteem and validation in the hands of women. You need to find a way to find worth in yourself outside of relationships. Are you good at anything? If not set yourself a challenge and try to achieve it. It can be a short term challenge to get you started e.g. running 5k’s in a certain time. Then set another challenge e.g. running for 30min straight without stopping or solving a complex problem. This will slowly build up your self esteem and belief. You will also learn to v…
/r/askTRP20/12/20 06:02 PM
1

What’s wrong with AMS?
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:57 PM
2

when autistic ppl discover the redpill
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:55 PM
1

Don’t go. You’re obviously not that into her. This is a recipe for disaster.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:37 PM
5

Bang and block her
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:35 PM
1

Bad idea. Bf could be dangerous and take it out on him instead of the girl.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:35 PM
29

Firstly stop thinking you’re in a position to judge anyone’s intelligence. But assuming you’re right. This is my assumption...You have to be able to relate to people on stuff and topics they’re interested in and care about. Stop trying to impose what you think they should find interesting or think. It comes back to watch what they do and not what they say. Learn to adapt and adjust to deal with and interact with those around you. Work with what is and not what you think should be.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:31 PM
2

More details please. What do you get emotional about?
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:25 PM
4

Two possible reasons They have boyfriends They’re lying. You just aren’t attractive enough and they want to get rid of you. Keep self improving
/r/askTRP19/12/20 05:49 AM
3

Please get help professional help OP. Therapy or the number someone has posted above. I don’t even think this is about her. I suspect that there are other issues you have going on in the background. On a lighter note for the rest of you. This is what oneitis looks like to everyone outside of yourself. You pining after a woman whom for whatever reasons (scarcity, nothing else going on in your life etc) you’ve built up to be special in your mind but is objectively average (sometimes below par) at …
/r/askTRP19/12/20 05:47 AM
1

What does confidence with women look like to you? What is an active social life. Pleas eve specific
/r/askTRP18/12/20 11:27 PM
1

Why do you want to make goals for women and social? What’s the issue or what do you hope to achieve?
/r/askTRP18/12/20 09:40 AM
6

I don’t know if you’re being serious or this is prime trolling
/r/askTRP18/12/20 09:37 AM
1

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 09:36 AM
9

They’re disgusted because they wouldn’t sleep with these men otherwise. It’s also possible that their clients are really into to it (the insults). My question is don’t you have better things to focus your attention on?
/r/askTRP18/12/20 08:37 AM
1

Men are degenerates who’ve oppressed women throughout time and the only reason we have a 99% rate of incompetency is because certain people’s ancestors weren’t meant to reproduce in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:06 AM
5

Eating pussy will not make women go crazy for you. I don’t know why betas still believe this.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 06:58 AM
3

Dude. Why are you having conversation at work? FUCKING GO MAKE SOME MONEY. You don’t have to hang around for the conversation. You can leave. If your gf chooses to stay around entertain the nonsense then that’s on her but since you’re not good at handling these women I’d just avoid them altogether. I would give advice on how to confront them but I don’t trust you to pull it off so just avoid.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 06:54 AM
1

Nope. Most men (99%) just aren’t good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 06:50 AM
0

It’s because you’re low key goofy and you’re not noticing it. Women are very observant. It could just be luck.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 06:49 AM
1

It’s wrong for several reasons: You’re an open book whose mystery is steadily going down. She’s looking for a reason to disqualify you. Women have tons of options and will actively look for flaws to make their selection process easier. If you don’t believe me go read female dating strategy but even before that sub it’s been a thing that women knew how to do instinctively. Alternatively she could be looking to qualify you (as a beta bux) and do you really want that? Unless you plan to fuck her an…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 06:47 AM
3

I’ve been there. Replace her even if it means you will be single for a while.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 12:56 AM
0

Stop acting goofy and like a clown when you approach. AMS warns against this.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 12:54 AM
3

Lol. Take the L and move on. It’s your ego talking . Just accept you got played and MOVE ON. If you dwell on and fight it you will lose.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 12:50 AM
5

Let me guess. You answered ALL her probing questions about your life and family?
/r/askTRP18/12/20 12:48 AM
3

Your relationship sounds toxic and you sound like you have anger issues. The relationship seems like it’s about to end and she may have intentionally polecat you but for own peace of mind learn to control your temper.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 12:45 AM
1

They are of romantic value
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 12:16 AM
1

Blackpill is true to some extent
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 12:15 AM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 12:14 AM
1

Turning to redpill wouldn’t be cheating. It’s a mere dating strategy thought I’d be interested to see actual success rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 12:14 AM
1

but my point is proven. Someone expressed interest in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 12:12 AM
1

but someone found you attractive is my point and you could’ve
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 12:11 AM
1

I’m very adept at this. To the point where the ladies will still feel comfortable coming around. I wouldn’t recommend anyone else try it.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 07:50 PM
1

How so? I’m only confirming what’s been in front of your eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 07:47 PM
1

Don’t let her come over tomorrow and don’t let her sweet talk you into anything. This is top tier manipulation.If you need to tell her anything do it over text. Don’t have any long conversations with her. If she says I think we should be friend then reply ‘okay cool.’ Don’t entertain her wasting a single min of your precious time and stop hoping she’ll crawl back. It’s either you use her for sex or let it go altogether. She’s not fit to be your gf.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 07:45 PM
1

and they don’t want to. It’s men that want this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 06:18 PM
1

Lmao!
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:17 PM
2

You ideally should settle down earlier then. Expending your social circle later on in life can be hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 06:13 PM
1

Exactly what I’m implying in the post. Women in your social groups are in a better position to assess all those qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 06:12 PM
1

Too long, still read.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 06:09 PM
1

That’s why people try and settle down young.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 06:07 PM
0

Loool. I’m not alpha at all. I’m neither beta. I’m just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 06:06 PM
1

She wants to extract resources (money, emotional support etc) out of you. Her head may be spinning because you’re not playing along. Make sure to get as much sex as possible whilst giving nothing in return and also start seeing other women.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 05:41 PM
1

The most alpha person ever
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 05:38 PM
1

There’s your real problem. That last point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 05:37 PM
0

It’s not your fault but there’s still something wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 05:36 PM
1

but not all of them choose to remain single unless they deem you not good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 05:36 PM
4

Make sure you tilt this arrangement in your favour. Have sex with her and then don’t stay to cuddle. Have somewhere you have to miraculously be etc. If she starts talking about other guys or even her problems say you’re not interested or change the topic. Don’t waste hours on the phone with her. Give her the bare minimum and don’t be surprised when she wants a full blow relationship again.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 05:35 PM
0

‘On to the next one, more fish in the sea. Girls are like buses. Miss one, next 15 one coming’ Dope song
/r/askTRP17/12/20 05:14 PM
1

:)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 05:13 PM
1

but if you can’t find even one woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 05:11 PM
28

DON’T BE FRIENDS. Walk away and stop communicating with her completely. She wants your time, validation, emotional support, attention, insight and company whilst not giving you any physical intimacy or sex in return. She’s trying to turn you into an orbiter. She’s trying to keep all the benefits of being your girlfriend without you getting anything in return. Have some respect for yourself and anyone else who might consider dating you in future. Emotional companionship is to women what sex is to…
/r/askTRP17/12/20 05:04 PM
1

People keep asking and btw it’s your fault
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 04:53 PM
2

I’ve decided to let her go. Unfortunately she’s rebuffed me one too many times.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 04:52 PM
1

I already replied with ‘yep’ but I’m going to use your reply from now on
/r/askTRP17/12/20 04:51 PM
0

and if you don’t fall into that category of specific men then it’s usually your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 04:50 PM
1

Thank you
/r/askTRP17/12/20 04:48 PM
2

There are people fighting with me over this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 04:47 PM
3

The latter
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 04:46 PM
1

What is it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 04:46 PM
2

Yes. The mere fact that he can’t do that thing means there’s something wrong with him
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 04:27 PM
2

Then they’re meant to be bred out of existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 04:26 PM
1

Where else are you going to meet women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 04:26 PM
0

Really!?
/r/askTRP17/12/20 04:25 PM
0

Lol. Really now?
/r/askTRP17/12/20 04:13 PM
2

Cool because I’m taking this approach
/r/askTRP17/12/20 04:11 PM
1

I agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 04:10 PM
-3

Lol I can’t tell if this is sarcastic
/r/askTRP17/12/20 04:08 PM
1

Lol I can’t tell if this is sarcastic
/r/askTRP17/12/20 04:07 PM
1

I don’t but in a romantic context you are a failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 04:01 PM
2

Thank you. How do you suggest I reply? I’m thinking of telling her I’d be willing and will let her know and then just not getting back to her. Mess around with her a bit. Like women do to us.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 03:59 PM
2

Something is wrong with with regard to money and career.Not my dating observations.Also I already said I’m smart enough. I have other things wrong with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:58 PM
1

You still have worth. Just not to women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:57 PM
3

How did I fail? I admitted something is wrong with me. That’s called consistency. Are you upset that women don’t want you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:56 PM
0

So these incels have nothin to complain about
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:55 PM
-1

Men want women. Women don’t want men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:54 PM
1

What’s happening is they’re aren’t attractive or popular enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:53 PM
-1

Actually let me have some fun. I’ll tell her that I’ll let her know...and then never get back to her
/r/askTRP17/12/20 03:52 PM
1

Thanks for the plug. Found the account.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 03:38 PM
1

You are if no one wants you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:38 PM
-2

So apparently I ask the worst questions .Who would’ve thought. How do you recommend I reply?
/r/askTRP17/12/20 03:37 PM
2

If women like you they will make it obvious. If no women has expressed interest in you then something is wrong with you. Your social groups have known over a period of time. Someone ideally should have expressed interest in you. Your entire second paragraph supports my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:21 PM
2

There may be something wrong with him. It’s just that it would not be in his control.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:19 PM
3

You’re right. I need to work on this. I’ve seen people not much smarter than myself making that kind of money so perhaps I haven’t been creative, hardworking or industrious enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:17 PM
1

I have to see this
/r/askTRP17/12/20 03:16 PM
2

No. Why do you ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:03 PM
0

I didn’t confirm the date with her to see if she was still interested and she didn’t remind me. She had started to pull back and act funny.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 03:02 PM
2

Not always but to some extent yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:02 PM
2

The difference is women have a lot of evidence to the contrary. Men are always asking them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:01 PM
1

So you’re saying strangers can pick up ok your defects as a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:00 PM
1

That one is a bit tricky. That can happen but because we can’t tell what’s going on in someone’s head (the crushee) we will just have to assume the guy had no one who was romantically interested in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:59 PM
3

Obviously. The 5 point different can be due to personality, looks, height, style, status, voice etc. Either way it’s the 5’s problem for not measuring up. You have to be able to compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:57 PM
1

So if a woman got to experience a man’s personality and still rejected him then he obviously wasn’t suitable for her am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:56 PM
2

I apologise for that. I’m basically saying that within your social circles and that includes college classes, projects groups, clubs and societies if no one has expressed romantic interest in you at any point (regardless of your own reciprocation) then there is something hindering your attractiveness and it’s most probably your own fault. These people having been in close proximity to you would have gotten to assess not just your looks and money but your personality, social skills and status as …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:54 PM
2

I got a bit confused there. Social skills are part of attractiveness. If no one in those social circles you already have has expressed romantic interest at any point then there’s something wrong with you. It doesn’t matter if you reciprocate. I doubt that across all college classes, project groups, clubs and societies everyone was taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:51 PM
1

Even your personality. They got to take it into consideration as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:48 PM
3

How did you determine those scores in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:47 PM
1

I would ghost but we’re in the same college class with mutual acquaintances. It wouldn’t have the same effect.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 02:44 PM
2

Something wrong as in the fault is with you. You aren’t attractive enough or aren’t doing what’s necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:43 PM
2

Either way if no one expresses romantic interest in you then there’s something wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:42 PM
1

Not just friendship groups but college classes, societies etc. If no one has ever expressed romantic or non-platonic interest in you then there’s something wrong with you. You don’t have to reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:42 PM
2

Yes. I’m glad to see someone taking accountability for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:40 PM
1

Are you replying to me or him/her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:38 PM
1

Are you replying to me or him/her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:38 PM
0

Are you replying to me or him/her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:38 PM
4

If you can’t get a job and earn a living. If that living required 6 figures then so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:36 PM
2

Lots of women choose to remain single. Men just aren’t good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:35 PM
1

Yeah but in their social circle their personality has also come into play
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:34 PM
1

Thing is there was a point where I had a chance but you’re right
/r/askTRP17/12/20 02:33 PM
1

Then they failed to be attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:33 PM
1

I don’t want to appear butthurt though. The nice thing about replying is I show I’m not butthurt but at the same time I’m not interested in or have no intention of engaging further.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:58 PM
-1

That’s a YOU problem but at least you’ve had women attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 12:55 PM
1

I stay with family and she doesn’t drive. I’d have to come to her plus she would happily come over because she’s not afraid of me physically escalating. I was so aggressive last time and even pushed past her protestations. Despite this she still feels comfortable enough to be alone with me.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:54 PM
1

She was into me and then I acted beta (like I cared and giving her attention) and she pulled away. It didn’t help that her ex is in the pic. My ideal situation would be to sleep with her even once.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:53 PM
37

Then become good at whatever your people value like fighting or singing etc then ask for her hand in marriage. I don’t think this sub help you much in that way. Just be the best guy possible.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:51 PM
3

There is no right or wrong. You compete to reproduce. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 12:50 PM
-2

Someone suggested I use an emoji
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:49 PM
1

That might just work. You gave me an idea thanks.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:48 PM
2

It’s a lost cause at that point. I don’t believe in flipping. Just walk away but if you’re like the poster above you can maybe take the time to practice new lines and storytelling however you risk training yourself to become a woman’s personal entertainer or dancing monkey
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:25 PM
1

Start
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:22 PM
7

So is your goal of to marry one woman or have causal sex?
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:22 PM
-2

Just worried about seeming butthurt.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:19 PM
3

The thing that’s wrong with you is that you can’t compete with your peers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 12:19 PM
-2

He’d be disappointed if he could see me Joe. Problem is I’ve tried kino on her. She eventually pushes me off or let’s it go far then resists.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:17 PM
-2

She did answer me and all my subsequent texts but never got back to me about our planned chill session.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:15 PM
0

That shows a lack of aggressiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 12:15 PM
0

There is something wrong with you by virtue of not having a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 12:14 PM
0

We last chatted a week ago but upvote for meme worthiness
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:13 PM
0

Elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 12:13 PM
4

It’s not. You weren’t attractive enough. I stated that in the post comment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 11:10 AM
2

Why should they?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 11:02 AM
1

No arguments there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 11:01 AM
1

Then everyone will suffer. I see no problem here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 11:01 AM
2

Lol that update
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:59 AM
1

Women don’t care about dick size unless it’s so small they can’t feel it. I once had a FWB who made me insecure because her ex had a bigger dick than and was better in bed. She had already left one of her ex’s for having a small dick (she couldn’t feel it). I used to think I would never measure up to her ex until I realized he was only her second best sex partner ever. Her best and most alpha ex had a dick smaller than mine and yet he was better in bed and more alpha in the way he acted. I also …
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:57 AM
1

I actually managed to do it quite a few times before. One even had a video even had 500k+ views and was trending. It was in my more beta days. I wouldn’t recommend it.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:52 AM
1

She’s not interested but if you really want to run this into the ground then next time set a definite date. If she answers with anything other than a ‘yes’ then next her.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:51 AM
2

Don’t say anything. Just let things happen. If you’re afraid of being framed then it’s a sign you should probably avoid that girl no matter how horny you are. Keep receipts (text messages, videos etc) anyways. Stop asking it then. It’s not like you’re there to wife ‘em by your own admission. Shut up.Don’t say anything. If she hasn’t gotten the message by now then she never will. It’s not your business. If she asks just say you don’t know and say maybe it’s the type of guys she’s going after. Or …
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:49 AM
2

Do you like me? ‘well I’m here ain’t I’ or just ignore the question and change the topic. If she pushes maybe joke about her being insecure. ‘No need to be insecure. I’m here ain’t I?’
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:43 AM
1

Damn. I thought blacks were higher up.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:40 AM
1

It’s not looking good but before I give my verdict. What was your last message to her and what was her reply?
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:39 AM
1

It’s not looking good. What was your last message to her and what was her reply?
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:38 AM
1

The student becomes the teacher. My only problem with asking her directly would be that we know each other too well so not only can she reject but she would leave with a big head. I need to ask her in such a way as to keep her ego in check. Hence why I proposed calling her getting my answer and then getting her to start talking about something but to cut the call in the middle of it and telling her that I’ll call her back and then not doing it.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:35 AM
2

Who’s expectations are unrealistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 10:31 AM
1

If you can then yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 10:16 AM
2

Elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 10:15 AM
4

It’s not going to change what they’re attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 10:15 AM
1

You’re so right. It’s hard to fight it in the moment.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:15 AM
1

People know my username now : D yeah I typically know what to do and am very detached (I’ve been described as almost emotionless). Once in a while though something slips through and I try to rationalize it. I don’t know if I should just continue ignoring her or call and see what’s on her mind with the intention of ending the call immediately if she still isn’t with the program.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:13 AM
1

Loool. Sarcasm is on point.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:10 AM
-3

I feel a bit special that someone remembered my username. You’re right...
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:10 AM
1

Thank you
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:09 AM
-4

she almost hooked up once but I didn’t read the signs. She also allows me to touch her in a sexual way but never getting past that last hurdle because she believes I’m going to tap and run.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 09:59 AM
-4

I was going to ask her what she wants from me and if she’s ever wanted anything more. I have a way of phrasing it.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 09:22 AM
3

Basically She’s compared you to and then chosen older men over you. This happens because to her you aren’t attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 09:21 AM
-6

Basically yeah. You’re not fuckable or dateble
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 09:19 AM
-8

I wanted to take one last shot.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 09:17 AM
4

Who’s problem is that? Society? The women who picked? The men who got picked? The men who didn’t pick? People make their choices. Let them live with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 09:16 AM
0

Your problem
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 09:14 AM
3

Either way if they don’t pick them you’ve lost. You weren’t good enough. It’s your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 09:14 AM
3

Lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 09:14 AM
2

Your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 09:13 AM
3

That’s still part of being unattractive. The women know him and have made an informed decision. My post was based on guys complaining about social group game not working.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 08:11 AM
-1

Either way she hasn’t picked you. If you’re physically attractive but are too shy to anke a move or have no game then that’s YOUR problem.If you get yourself friendzoned then that’s still rejection and a result of YOU not being attractive enough. You’re telling me that 100% of the women in the social circle are always paired up? Nonsense. Just admit you’re not attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 08:10 AM
2

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 08:07 AM
6

Your type is rare is what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 06:32 AM
3

A man will be rejected by the majority of women he meets. So even if he’s good at making friends and joining social circles he would have to join a ton for even a chance at success.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 06:25 AM
11

There’s always that ‘I’m an exception so I disprove the entire rule’ person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 06:01 AM
1

I guess it’s over for you then my friend
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:56 AM
2

You need to find hotter women then if that’s the main reason. Either way it’s all in your head.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 10:16 PM
1

I’d say ‘ok’ or take a quick look at him if he’s there and say ‘he really is’ or just ignore. Then change the topic. It doesn’t matter. Don’t stress about it.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 10:05 PM
6

Stop trying to sound smooth or to impress her. That’s how you mess up because women can sense that. Just say you’re busy and/or are working towards something important and then ACTUALLY WORK ON IT. The reason why many guys are insecure and need a lot of these tactics is because they’re not really high value men or have nothing to offer so they purposefully reply to texts late and act as if they have options but you can only pretend for so long. It’s better to actually be busy. When you actually …
/r/askTRP16/12/20 10:02 PM
1

‘Damn what is this? A job interview? Chill girl. We on a date. Let’s enjoy ourselves.’ Say in the right way (a bit of humor but with calmness) and you’ll be fine.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 07:23 PM
1

Then you probably just get bored. It’s life but avoid porn.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 07:20 PM
5

Start spending or making an effort to spend more time with her and watch her start pulling back, not being in the mood for sex or just making excuses in general. Women don’t want a man they can pull or distract from his purpose.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 07:19 PM
4

You want to increase the number of women you have sex with? Why? Also focus on moving out first. Logistics is everything especially in adulthood.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 06:36 PM
30

‘I’m not like the others’ or ‘not all women are the same’ or some variation of that. ‘I want you to spend more time with /prioritize me’ (she wants to have to fight for your time. Don’t see her more often!) ‘You can open up to me’(emotionally)
/r/askTRP16/12/20 06:33 PM
9

Re-read my answer. I already addressed that point. When you’re an a-list celeb almost all women appear to be nice and have good values. It’s easier to spot genuine people when you don’t have much to offer and not as easy when everyone wants something from you especially women. I addressed all those points. p.s. YOU have a rating system which is steeped in subjectivity because I fail to believe all the guys frequenting this sub are swimming in 8s & 9s (at least by my metric if I had to start rati…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 03:51 PM
0

Nope. I give advice based on first hand experience. Just lie and say you’re looking for a a relationship or omit the truth.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 03:38 PM
24

Wrong sub
/r/askTRP16/12/20 12:10 PM
2

Anyways disregard what she said. Watch what she does.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 11:22 AM
2

What was the exact interaction that led to this? Anyways this is how they get you. Women dangle the possibility of sex over your head. They’re experts at that. Either way watch what she does and not what she says.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 10:11 AM
1

She doesn’t respect enough you OP. Stop deluding yourself.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 09:56 AM
5

I’m with you OP. Nothing beats genuinely not caring and these tactics that the sub preaches will come naturally to you when you genuinely don’t give a fuck. I haven’t replied to a particular woman for the last three days. Sometimes I initiate conversation and then drop her halfway through. I don’t do this on purpose. That’s just how genuinely uninterested in her I am or I have other options to attend to. The tactics are meant for you to mimic a man with lots of options who can and is willing to …
/r/askTRP16/12/20 09:54 AM
37

Sometimes they can’t be bothered to leave due to a potentially costly and/or messy divorce (see Bezos) so they stay or cheat. They value loyalty. This I can respect. You can dump your loyal gf once you make it but I personally think that’s a dick move especially if she had been genuinely for you. The woman represents herself well in public. Just because someone is good in bed doesn’t mean you want to be seen with them in public. You’re probably young. As you grow up and become more experienced y…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 09:46 AM
6

Just say she should get back to you when she’s ready to talk then DISAPPEAR AND NEVER CONTACT HER AGAIN! You were actually doing everything right until you decided to follow up on her for her answer. Women aren’t stupid. I said the exact same thing to a girl and she told me that right now she’s seeing someone (nothing official) but she didn’t want any distraction (wait for it). Then I was chatting to a friend and this girl came up. He says she literally called him up and asked to come over and t…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 09:32 AM
4

but for 20 days!? Would she make Chris Hemsworth wait 20 days? Would she make him wait at all?
/r/askTRP16/12/20 07:52 AM
0

‘Looking for a relationship’ trust me on this. Women complain that all men want is sex. You can circumnavigate that and sell them a dream.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 07:19 AM
37

OP DO NOT SHOW EMOTIONS! History will repeat itself. Women always do shit like this. They will reassure you that they’re different from all the other women and it’s ok for you to spend more time with them and open up. Then when you do they will slowly pull back, won’t be in the mood for sex, too busy to meet up and if you question them or want to CoMmuNicATe they will make you feel like you’re paranoid or it’s all in your head. They’re not logical. If she’s complaining about you not opening up t…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 07:18 AM
7

Don’t be all buddy buddy with her no matter how friendly she is. Don’t reveal ANYTHING about your friend even innocent information. Be alpha. If you’re all goofy and shit your friend will be guilty by association. Be polite, respectful, cool and smile but don’t be over friendly. I’d avoid direct interaction or let her do the talking.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 07:05 AM
13

Social circle wins majority of the time. That mean unless you cultivate a circle in your late 20s going forward it’s going to get bleak.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 07:03 AM
11

Simple. To her you aren’t the best option. Don’t stress about it. Women pick someone over you for a million different reasons some of which aren’t logical. I must say though you do seem desperate by waiting for 20 days until a girl made her decision. Anything other than a ‘yes’ is a ‘no’. You should have taken the offer off the table or started seeing someone else immediately.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 07:02 AM
2

That really doesn’t mean anything. They aren’t correlated as far as I know.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 05:50 AM
2

It’s not enough. He needs hotter women. Trust me. This issue pops up when you’re dating women you’re sorta into but aren’t all that crazy about. I might even go further and say avoid sex with a condom because it’s one the reasons I could never go for a second round but that’s too risky.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 05:49 AM
3

I don’t approach without fear. I approach with fear. It’s natural but it also makes the process more exciting. I can’t wait to see if my worst fears will be confirmed or I will emerge victorious! Fuck I get an adrenaline rush.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:55 PM
2

Yeah that’s going to be hard. Not impossible though. Go for it :)
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:51 PM
1

Can you believe I was about to do 21k’s in 90min (I was on 96). Look at me now :(
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:50 PM
2

Hence why I said don’t let your ego affect you. Being 40 is a disadvantage depending on what exactly you want to achieve. Accept it and move on. What’s the age range of women you’re targeting?
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:41 PM
2

AMS disciple? Problem is I haven’t found my purpose. I have things I enjoy and things I’m planning to do but none of them are as fulfilling as they should be.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:39 PM
1

Stop watching porn and masturbating completely. See them less often to build up horniness. Date hotter girls. Find someone you can’t keep your hands off of. Better yet do a combination of all 3.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 07:55 PM
4

Stop watching porn and masturbating completely. See them less often to build up horniness. Date hotter girls. Find someone you can’t keep your hands off of. Better yet do a combination of all 3.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 07:55 PM
1

~3.5k but lots of hills. Very intense course.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 07:53 PM
8

I realized I’m not as important as I think I am. Like seriously even if the rejection is public and colossal (unlikely) people will laugh and move on with their lives. Everyone is the main character in their own life and thinks the world revolves around them. It doesn’t. People will forget about you by dinner time. At most they will remember someone got rejected but lord knows who. Women are used to being hit on. Don’t worry about making her feel uncomfortable. You’re not going against the grain…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 07:50 PM
2

Not even. I’m below that and size has never been a problem. Some women have even been with guys smaller than me and they were happy.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 05:19 PM
1

Anything they can’t feel which will vary according to the woman but I’m assuming like 3 inches and thin. Everything else is fine.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 04:45 PM
2

Lol you were the one inviting him!? I’m glad you’ve realized it.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 04:43 PM
1

It is too much. Don’t respond until it’s time for a meet up.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 04:24 PM
1

Assess carefully if there is anything at all you do differently before and after a hook up. Maybe you’re bad at sex or have a small dick (have you measured it?). Rule those out first.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 04:23 PM
3

Avoid having to interact directly with him. Don’t laugh at his jokes, don’t acknowledge his comments even in a group discussion and don’t turn to him when talking or addressing the group. He might as well be a stranger. Also start looking at finding yourself an alternative group just for your own peace of mind. Maybe be the one who organizes the get togethers and omit him.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 04:21 PM
1

Thank you for the offer. I will definitely keep it in mind.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 04:18 PM
2

Thank you. This rarely happens to me. I’m just going through a bit of a rough patch atm but the run was definitely worth it.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:50 PM
1

Thank you for the thorough response. I’m far from new. Sometimes I just slip up. Some things are easier when you’re looking from the outside in. I’m definitely working on all 3.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:48 PM
2

Done. Check the post update.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:20 PM
1

Please check my post update. Thank you for the words of encouragement. My run long, slow (mostly because I’m trying to get back in shape and there are quite a few hills). I will keep improving myself. I don’t know if it’s the endorphins but the future is bright.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:19 PM
2

Please check the post update. You’re absolutely right. In fact I felt good halfway through struggling up my first hill. Definitely worth it. On a side note I’ve met this girl before hence why it hurt but unless she reaches out she’s permanently nexted.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:18 PM
1

It did :). Check the post update.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:16 PM
1

Please check the post update. Thank you so much for commenting. I just came from my run. It was very much worth it. I never used to think this way because I lift and I struggle to lift when in emotional turmoil but running is completely the opposite for whatever reason.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:16 PM
1

Check the post update. Just came back from my run. Thank you for commenting. I wish I’d seen this one sooner.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:14 PM
2

Check my update. Thank you for commenting. You’re absolutely right.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:14 PM
1

Fucking hell I understood nothing in this thread but it looks so cool (p.s. am learning German).
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:50 PM
1

Men are even dirtier. Just find a clean person period.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:39 PM
1

As the above poster said. You’re just attached. She probably isn’t all that. Write down what is exactly that makes her so special. Chances are you’re just upset because you lost her and took a hit to your ego.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:11 PM
1

We always talk about awalt and the true nature of women but we also need to acknowledge the true nature of our fellow men. Some friends will fuck your girlfriend given half the chance especially if they find her extremely attractive. It’s very rare that this won’t happen. Friends like that are worth keeping. I once rejected my friend’s gf who came onto me. He found out. I think he realized the significance of what I’d done. We are still friends to this day. He’s being a bad friend (actually not …
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:04 PM
-1

I would have asked in a casual way what she uses herself. If she doesn’t use lube I would’ve made a joke about how she’s recommending products she doesn’t even use. Maybe get her to open up about her own sex life. ‘Haha so you’re recommending products YOU don’t even use. Can you not afford them? Is there no employee discount?? Are you just a cheap stake that uses spit?’ and finally (hopefully she responded positively to your humor) ‘tell you what since you’re clearly so broke . Let me get your n…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 12:40 PM
1

Leave her. I’ve been there. This is the best answer you will get. Just stop taking to her. If you want to give her another chance then maybe message her something and this time don’t put the ball in her court. She’ll probably make some excuse or ghost you. That will be your final que. Leave her.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 12:28 PM
5

This question comes from a fundamental misunderstanding we men have about women. Men grow more in love through spending time with a woman. With women it’s the opposite. I’ve noticed when women really like a guy they complain that he’s usually too busy for them or they rarely see him yet they won’t leave him for someone with more time. They gobble up any little time they have with him. The limited access to him makes him more valuable in her eyes. Contrast this with the guy who is always readily …
/r/askTRP15/12/20 11:10 AM
-2

Why should she sleep with you? It’s not like you’re going anywhere. There’s no pressure. What she’s going is enough. Would she feel so comfortable stringing you along if you were Drake or L.Dicaprio? If you don’t get attached and a bit of a sociopath you can take one of two approaches. Just spin her some bullshit about how you’d like to get to know her but she’s not letting you and you just want to show (emphasis on show as in sex) her how much you want her etc. Make her feel guilty for not trus…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 10:52 AM
1

You have to strike a balance. It’s not an exact science and there are different ways to look at it. If your natural inclination is not something that the majority of women find attractive then you will lose out on a lot of women but it will also act as a filter for the women you naturally get along with very well (as in they’re attracted to you). For me personally being stoic or no nonsense comes naturally to me since I’m genuinely sick and tired of how fickle and judgemental women can be. So al…
/r/askTRP14/12/20 06:37 PM
1

I just wanted to fuck her :( Thank you for the kind words.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 05:17 PM
1

You’re right. I deserve better.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 05:02 PM
1

Then what? Do you ask her out? Do you escalate? Is it just a staring contest?
/r/askTRP14/12/20 04:28 PM
1

It’s still quality content. I don’t really fux with these other dating coaches so I’m willing to wait. Maybe ARC but his videos are too long and he drones on.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 04:26 PM
1

Wha?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 04:25 PM
1

I’m a bit offended and taken aback but I think your DGF reponse is what more guys on this sub need.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 04:24 PM
3

I’ve watched the video you’re talking about and I am someone who is blessed with being charismatic with having a quick wit. My opinion is according to my own life experiences. I agree with AMS. I would suggest to display both but the more serious masculine frame will help you more. You will be perceived as someone who is more serious and knows when to shut up (women don’t want a man who’s going to blab to his friends). If you’re not careful the opposite you can be perceived as goofy and talkativ…
/r/askTRP14/12/20 04:12 PM
1

I get you bro. I really do. A lot of people in here like to pretend looks don’t matter and some incels like to overstate the importance of looks sometimes but you sound like you’ve got the triple death sentence (short, below average face and receding hairline). The cherry on top would be if you were an ethnic in a predominantly white country where your race isn’t seen favourably. Actually what race are you and what country are you in? I might be able to start from there. p.s. I wouldn’t recommen…
/r/askTRP14/12/20 04:02 PM
1

Thank you. Let me quickly put some paragraphs so you do read it. It will give you a lot more context.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 02:46 PM
1

Problem is I let her know I’m just looking for fun and it actually put her off. She says she only does serious relationships. I saw her take a step back when I implied I’m not looking for anything serious hence why I’m now pretending to be just a bit more serious (until I fuck here anyways).
/r/askTRP14/12/20 02:44 PM
1

What would you consider hard and what would you consider a stop (as in she pushes you off but is giggling or she turns her head slightly away)?
/r/askTRP14/12/20 02:42 PM
3

Limit your time with. When she complains and asks just say you’re busy. Start restricting the times you see her. When you do see her don’t fuck her. If anything let her come onto you and then softly push off or reject her and say you’re not in the mood. Do this a few times. Trust me she will cry kick and toss but she will also start to put more effort in. Regardless I don’t see this as a good marriage prospect. She sounds like she will disrespect you and let herself go the moment she has proper …
/r/askTRP14/12/20 02:36 PM
2

What are you going there for? Focus on that. In such settings women tend to notice the lead men who are good at what they do e.g. maybe being the best chef in a cooking and/or baking class. You will stick out if you excel.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 02:31 PM
2

You guys :p
/r/askTRP14/12/20 02:28 PM
7

If you’re physically attractive you’ll do fine. Where it will mess with you is maybe logistics. Where are you going to take her if you don’t have your own car and place? Other than that women will fuck your because they are genuinely attracted to you. You just (ideally) need to have the basics I mentioned above. Heck if you’re really good looking then you can get away without them but for your own comfort as well (you do want a nice place to live right?). Also I’m sure you will want to go on a n…
/r/askTRP14/12/20 02:28 PM
5

Maybe consider joining your local Toastmasters (an international public speaking organization) for a start.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 02:15 PM
1

I don’t think dread will work on her. I will escalate. If that doesn’t work I’ll leave.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 02:08 PM
1

Damn...To be honest I just want to fuck her. Once I’ve done that I’ll maybe keep her around if the sex is good. I’m not looking to wife her or anything.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 01:56 PM
1

Thing is she never unloads onto me emotionally or anything. As far as I know she isn’t seeing her ex (not to rule out the possibility that she could still go back).
/r/askTRP14/12/20 01:48 PM
1

Thanks for the feedback. This will be at her place. She told me her roommate finally won’t be there and she’s the one who assured me we’ll have privacy. Unfortunately it’s my last and only chance to do anything under these conditions with her for the year. Btw I already lift and workout (hard). I got accused of taking something when I was at my peak.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 12:58 PM
2

False alarm! Damn don’t do that to me again. You made me believe a new AMS episode was out :(
/r/askTRP14/12/20 12:49 PM
1

Lol ‘men are finished. ‘ finally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 12:10 PM
2

Thanks man. Sometimes you need a reality check. I won’t keep her around through. It will only serve to further boost her ego.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 11:21 AM
2

Damn and the standards are pretty low :(
/r/askTRP14/12/20 11:20 AM
1

Thanks for the reality check. I will try make a move at the Netflix session. If she rejects me then I will leave immediately.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 11:20 AM
1

This keeps me going until you meet someone who’s an exception to the rule. Doesn’t play games and treats everyone (even the guys she won’t fuck) with respect but you’re just not into her. The 99% are like this though.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 10:36 AM
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This is a damn good question and one which I have thought about in the past. Don’t be afraid of losing someone (extreme abundance mentality). I’ve noticed women even if they have a crush on a guy or notice he’s very attractive they will give signs but if the guy misses them she usually has no problem at all moving on. It’s like they just don’t care even if you’re the mythical Chad Thundercock. They do get attached in relationships but for the most part they’re always willing to lose you. I under…
/r/askTRP14/12/20 09:38 AM
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Don’t give a shit. EDIT: Sorry I was in a bad mood. I will next time.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 01:32 AM
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Can we trade places?
/r/askTRP13/12/20 07:22 PM
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The silent no nonsense type is also an attractive personality in my opinion. Just disapprove and disengage. You don’t need to be anyone’s performing clown.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 07:19 PM
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Stay strong bro. Mental strength dictates how much power these women will have over you. Let her initiate contact (whether it be physically or to meet up) for a change. If she disappears it’s fine. It’ll teach you to be ok with losing women (which gives you more power)
/r/askTRP13/12/20 07:17 PM
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She’s lost. Please come collect her u/TheOGJammies. No but seriously you’re fighting a losing battle here. He just doesn’t see you that way for whatever reason. He also has other options so pulling back or being distant probably won’t help.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 01:53 PM
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If the girl really is that attractive then it doesn’t hurt to try. As long as you’re not using choosing signals as an excuse due to fear.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 01:42 PM
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with everyone. In a professional environment I wouldn’t even agree and amplify and I would be very subtle about telling the person to quit it. You have to be diplomatic but stern.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 01:37 PM
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Realize as the above poster said that a lot of men are also taken off the table so if you play your cards right you’re in a good position to if nothing else lead a lot of women on one day. Also find a project or a passion to work on. Thats usually the void us men are trying to fill with women. That’s better than any abundance mentality and abundance mentality is still based on external factors like you just stated.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 12:31 PM
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It depends on the person. Some people really can’t read nuance and sarcasm. My advice would be to try it once. If the person continues then reprimand them swiftly and unemotionally. eg. I bet you’re talking to a lot of girls Haha yeah I’m talking to 10000 girls-you Yeah you look like a player type etc etc-they continue *make a serious face and simply say ‘yeah’ in an unamused way and then ignore them or change the topic or say ‘its not funny anymore’ or ‘ok now jokes over.’ You have to say this …
/r/askTRP13/12/20 12:28 PM
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Do it. You become very bored and agitated but that’s part of the recovery process. Do it periodically. Maybe abstain for a week then go back on and then off etc.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 12:23 PM
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STOP MASTURBATING AND WATCHING PORN COMPLETELY. FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE! It will takes a long time to heal but do it.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 12:22 PM
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No they don’t stop or reduce until you find a genuine woman (they do exist but are extremely rare).it depends what your goal is. I also used to be like you. You can look at it one of two ways. It’s your ego coming into play. Be careful of ego. It’s what women use against us. Let her take however long to respond as long as she confirms it’s fine. Your job is just to enjoy your time with her and to smash. Remain emotionally detached just enjoy it for what it is. The other side is that you risk sub…
/r/askTRP13/12/20 12:13 PM
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Take some online courses where you can learn a and become proficient at a skill that enables you start earning some serious money. That’s a lot of hours you could dedicate in the date towards one singular pursuit. As the poster above me mentioned it might be your presence. I’ve experienced this before. I don’t know what causes it. My advice to you is not stress about it. Be prepared to lose her (seriously). You’re mistaken if you think texting her and trying to get her attention throughout the d…
/r/askTRP13/12/20 10:57 AM
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Apologies ahead of time but this comment will be long and disorganised but I feel anyone could learn from what I’m about to share. Approach women and keep hitting on them but focus on and make your self development (schoolwork, building a business, learning, working out) a PRIORITY. Especially the first two. Be prepared to work hard and have some sleepless nights! The benefits of doing this in tandem will be twofold. You will likely become successful, well educated and further along in life whic…
/r/askTRP13/12/20 10:23 AM
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Leave it. Stop trying to win one over on her. That’s your ego speaking. Don’t be afraid to lose her. Just enjoy her company and fucking her for as long as it lasts. Who cares who else she’s seeing? As long as you don’t catch anything you’re fine. If you’re seeing other women or girls you don’t need to tell her. What you can dial back on are some of the boyfriend activities. Make her earn those. Otherwise stay as you were.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 10:13 AM
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Are you one of my burner accounts?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 07:31 AM
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r/FemaleDatingStrategy u/TheOGJammies. They’re low class. They even dated guys who don’t shower or brush their teeth🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 08:07 AM
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r/FemaleDatingStrategy u/TheOGJammies Lol this is so true. I’ve seen posts on fds where the woman gave in and slept with the guy on the first date. She then posts on fds because he ghosted her or she’s lost power.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 08:05 AM
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u/TheOGJammies r/FemaleDatingStrategy They know this. FDS is to try to get Chad to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 08:03 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 03:08 PM
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r/FemaleDatingStrategy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 03:08 PM
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Made an account just to answer. Yes I have. The woman in question would let some other guy take her out to dinner in what is an expensive area. Afterwards she’d text me at 1/2am to come over to her place and sleep with her (mind you I was unemployed and lived with my aunt). She eventually answered the guy when he asked if she was seeing anyone else. Despite this he continued to take her out until she just started making up excuses and flaking (her own words) on him when she got bored. They never…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 09:34 AM
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