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15

Wow. Congratulations on getting rid of the dead weight!
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/23 05:06 PM
0

Why in the world would you do that?
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 01:21 AM
2

Reminder: don’t get married you simpletons.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 12:20 AM
1

You were married for 4 years and she ended up taking your pension for a lifetime? Bro it sounds like your lawyer gave you some horrendously bad advice
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 12:18 AM
5

Make sure to get a paternity test regardless of the outcome of your negotiations with wifey, buddy boy. Even if you don’t “suspect anything”.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/23 09:34 AM
3

This will end. As unbelievable as it may seem right now. Agreed with the guy above. Do not send this letter. You are not dealing with the person you married any more. If you found writing that letter therapeutic, then you should write others as well. Just don’t send them and make sure to shred them after.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 10:11 PM
7

Niiiice
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/22 01:37 AM
5

Bro make sure you document, in an excel spreadsheet and via witness statements, the increased time you spend with the kids so you can use it as a basis to increase your custody time and decrease your CS obligation.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/22 04:40 AM
12

You’re in an excellent strategic position at the moment. You have the “marital” residence under your exclusive possession. Consult and retain a lawyer ASAP. Get a good one. Continue to attempt to make contact and inquire about the kids. Don’t do anything stupid or rash.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/22 03:26 PM
2

Sent you a DM
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/22 09:14 PM
2

It gets a lot better man. I promise.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/22 03:25 AM
2

Interesting. So she set a status quo that the court later used as basis for re-evaluating your custody arrangement?
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/22 01:36 AM
1

Was she able to litigate full away from you?
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/22 12:25 AM
4

More men need to realize this.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/22 12:04 AM
1

Congrats on 50/50! Yeah and they always do.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/22 12:04 AM
8

Wow. I’m sorry for your buddy. It just shows how broken the system is. The only answer to avoid such situations is to not get married!
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/22 11:52 PM
1

Agreed with you on everything except one thing. Depending on your state, a settlement offer can include a deviation from guideline amounts of child support.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/22 11:11 PM
3

Only after you’ve vetted the other person well enough her to your house though haha
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/22 08:23 PM
4

Excellent idea. Use this time to perfect some really cool recipe that you can eventually wow people you care about with!
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/22 07:27 PM
1

You’re going to be alright brother. I will get back to you tomorrow with a recommendation.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/22 03:59 AM
6

Take comfort in knowing that you are neither the first nor the last dude to go through this unfortunate process. There’s a wealth of knowledge and support on this sub. Be sure to remain cool, calm and collected as much as you can. The beginning of the process is the most stressful part. You’ll get through it brother.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/22 02:21 AM
8

Yes, absolutely, once you have accepted that this thing is happening, then the situation becomes a lot easier to deal with. An appropriate consulting fee will vary from attorney to attorney, typically ranging from free to $350. It’s well worth shopping around. However, you should definitely not let your soon to be ex know that you are actively speaking to lawyers. Please take the time to browse this sub also. It contains a lot of good information.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/22 02:14 AM
5

Sorry you’re going through this man. I’m sure you feel like your entire world has turned upside down. Make it your number one priority to retain a high quality attorney as soon as you can. Consult several. Do your research. But you need to protect yourself starting yesterday.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/22 02:03 AM
2

An excellent suggestion.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/22 08:32 PM
3

You need to not allow your emotions eclipse your reason. Do not let her know what you saw. Save all those messages on another device. Schedule a consult with a lawyer without telling her. Figure out a sway ahead with your attorney and come back here to vent/learn from others’ experience.
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/22 11:12 AM
2

Get married if you want to get cucked by the government.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/22 01:49 AM
1

End the relationship. 100%.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/22 01:15 AM
4

One of the greatest human linguistic flaws, in my opinion, was the Latin word for being alone and lonely. They’re one and the same: solus. The two concepts are entirely different and that difference is now more and more being recognized.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/22 02:53 AM
20

You don’t get it bigot. This one’s not like the other girls!
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/22 12:30 AM
41

Just don’t be a fool and get married again.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/22 12:29 AM
6

Victory. Congrats.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/22 04:01 PM
2

Good luck brother. Work on yourself. Sorry this is happening to you but it may be for the best. No advice aside from getting a lawyer ASAP, not moving out and taking steps to protect yourself from false DV allegations.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/22 04:34 AM
3

Why the fuck is alimony even a thing? I feel for you OP. An adult human being shouldn’t be obligated to support an adult human being.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/22 02:29 AM
7

Congrats on taking the first step. Now get ready for a shit storm. Don’t be a fool and think she’ll take it in stride. Here’s the checklist.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/22 08:42 PM
4

Precisely. 95% of divorce cases do not go to trial. And I’m sure that the same percentage isn’t settled during “mediation”—they’re concluded a few minutes before the trial is supposed to begin.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/22 02:36 AM
8

Be careful there. Mediation can be a huge billing time sink. End it if you feel you’re not getting anywhere lest you spend 6 hours paying double for fruitless back and forth.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/22 11:09 PM
1

Kevin here. Yes I agree she should focus on me.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/22 10:54 PM
2

The comment you are responding to is 100% accurate. Don’t panic. Schedule a consultation with a family law attorney today. You’re going to be ok.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 02:08 PM
3

Yeah I agree, he’s a shitposter.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/22 01:42 AM
3

I’m sorry, I should’ve elaborated further and I didn’t, I apologize: his comment about divorce attorneys in general. It’s true unless you manage yours effectively with your goals in mind.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/22 01:40 AM
0

Isn’t this true though?
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/22 01:27 AM
2

Sucks that you’re going through this man. I will say all things considered, the military does offer a host of benefits even after you leave it, that you’d never be eligible for from a civilian employer. You have to put up with a lot of bullshit though. Feel free to send me a PM.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/22 09:02 PM
3

I’m assuming you’re in the US. Going the officer route is definitely preferred. But going this route is a long process in which the Air Force may be a lot more selective. If your intent a short term stint or a career? What are you interested in doing in the military? Given the fact that you have two kids, you may need a waiver to join (I am not sure about this so check with a recruiter). Your custody situation will definitely change for the worse, for you. You won’t be able to maintain that 50/5…
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/22 08:48 PM
2

“I’m very close with a divorce attorney.” How close? “I think it’s funny you...low IQ...” Ad hominem attack rooted in emotion and not in fact. You should get into counseling.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/22 05:33 PM
7

In what way is his advice incorrect? Your assertion about “most judges”, where is that coming from? Have you recently polled a statistically representative sample of them about a matter such as this?
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/22 08:39 AM
1

Yeah that doesn’t sound right...
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/22 03:23 PM
7

Dude. This serves no purpose whatsoever, like others have said. It probably felt great writing this letter and making this post, but don’t send this and add more contention to what already appears to be a highly contentious divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/22 08:42 PM
2

You’re giving out some really bad advice. Why are you even on this forum?
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/22 02:02 PM
2

Hey buddy, don’t listen to the critics on here who are accusing you of “walking out” on your “obligations”. Abuse is ultimately in the eye of the beholder. If you think that leaving this situation is the right decision, so be it. Don’t let strangers on the internet shame you into taking more of your STBX’s shit. Do the utmost you can for your kid and stay in her life. But get yourself a lawyer so you can formulate a good plan to cut sling load on the wife.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/22 02:00 PM
6

No surprise there! Marriage overwhelmingly benefits the woman and often actually proves damaging to men, so any discussion of marriage will inherently have a “pro-woman” bias to it.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/22 10:13 AM
1

Keep your head up brother! It does get better. The best is yet to come!
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/22 11:32 AM
7

There it is. Bingo.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/22 11:19 AM
3

Looks like India is not subject to The hague convention, which upon my very cursory research governs whether child support orders from courts in different signatory countries could be enforced in others. Ever plan on going back to the states? That being said, I’d suggest you consult a lawyer in the United States to at least explore what options you have available to you at this point.
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/22 12:29 PM
4

The four universal truths.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/22 06:52 PM
4

Well if she’s Reddit bodybuilding forum shape... The only things you’ve mentioned about this person are her looks and the fact that she is DTF. Doesn’t sound like she’s “relationship material” in your mind. You should probably play the field for a bit since the divorce is so recent.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/22 06:51 PM
16

100% let your daughter stay at your place. She’s old enough to have a say as to which household she wants to stay in during the week, so long of course as that household is safe etc. What’s your ex’s gonna do? File a contempt or modification of custody? She’ll be laughed out of the court room.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/22 03:31 PM
2

How long have you been separated?
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/22 02:33 AM
2

Hell yeah. You should be like a mod or something on this sub
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/22 05:03 PM
4

Like those people splitting up their beanie baby collection in front of a judge.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/22 01:23 PM
1

Damn I just saw your posts. Sorry to hear that man. Did you try to get emergency custody?
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/22 02:36 AM
7

Did she win?
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/22 01:56 AM
2

Are you going to file on your own or do you a lawyer?
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/22 02:45 AM
12

This right here: Legally extracting yourself from a one sided contract. Wish I could give you a gold.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/22 10:45 PM
6

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS AN AMICABLE DIVORCE!!!x100
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/22 10:42 PM
3

Ooof. You fucked up big time bro. You could’ve been free and clear but you just had to get that last session with the pee sleeve. She going to stay pregnant? How do you know the kid is yours?
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/22 10:15 PM
2

The issue of who authorizes medical care and which party is responsible for paying what portion of it should be spelled out in your partner’s consent order.
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/22 05:01 PM
10

Gross.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/22 07:25 PM
6

Something like 70-90% of divorces are initiated by women. You just happen to fall into the overwhelmingly large category of men who got blind sided. It’s likely your marriage has been over for a very long time and that she was giving you hints to that effect for a while also. Now it’s time for you to prepare for the inevitable shit show that’ll soon come your way. Get an attorney and make a plan for how to best protect yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/22 06:30 PM
7

This right here. Agree with all your points. It’s so easy to enter a negative feedback loop of wallowing in your own misery. Gotta break that cycle.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/22 06:16 PM
7

It does get better. As hard as that may be for you to believe at this moment. You just went through or are going through one of the most traumatic events a person can experience in their life. The language you are using indicates that you may be experiencing depression, which may be exacerbated by your introversion. For your kids’ sake you have to try to snap out of it. Go to the gym, get outside, find a hobby, talk to family and friends. Post on this forum. Don’t keep the negativity bottled up.…
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/22 06:14 PM
8

“captain save a hoe” to the rescue. Men thinking they can turn another man’s hoe into a housewife. I apologize to all the hoes out there because they are actually useful farming implements whilst the women called by that name are anything but useful.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/22 02:08 AM
6

Count your lucky stars you don’t have kids with this woman. Consult with a lawyer, create a plan with help from your attorney, and then action it to remove this person from your life.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/22 12:07 PM
6

Care to extrapolate on your predicament so we can give you some advice?
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/22 02:07 AM
3

Please elaborate on your situation so we can possibly give you some advice.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/22 03:22 AM
1

Are you receiving VA disability in addition SSDI?
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/22 09:53 PM
4

Confession through projection gentlemen, confession though projection.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/22 11:24 PM
3

This needs to be pinned to the top of the sub.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/22 04:15 AM
2

Very little clinical or objective value in evaluating someone’s personality based purely off documentation. You’ll probably receive much the same results from crowdsourcing the “diagnosis” on this subreddits
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/22 04:38 PM
7

Call your count court house and ask them on what day family court takes place. Then, take that day off and go observe. You’ll see that the advice given to you here is spot on because it’s being given by people who have gone through this. Read and heed. An added benefit is that this will give you a chance to see your local lawyers in action so that you can gain insight into which ones you like and which ones you don’t. This is very important because you’re going to need one stat.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/22 02:23 AM
1

You the non birthing person for typing this up. Your advice should be pinned to the top of the sub.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/22 02:17 AM
2

Like marriage?
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 12:39 PM
1

Why are you offended by the term Mohammedian? Are you the arbiter of what Muslims around the world want to be referred to on Reddit?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 02:19 AM
0

What am I supposed to be mocking exactly?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 01:56 AM
2

Who cares what they care to be called?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 01:13 AM
4

You also get your own planet
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 01:13 AM
2

Ha! I like that
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/22 04:26 PM
6

“Is there no depth to this woman’s treachery”? I hope that’s an existential question. You should be happy that she’ll get the job. Lessens your CS/alimony exposure!
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/22 12:01 PM
11

You’re absolutely right. Get married: you’re signing yourself for unlimited financial liability. Don’t have the means to pay? You’ll got to jail.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/22 02:20 AM
8

Yeah because they are strong and independent and can do anything a man can do, but men owe them financial compensation if the marriage (sometimes even common law) goes south.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/22 01:15 AM
22

Alimony should not exist. Period. No adult human being should be forced to support another.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/22 01:14 AM
2

Not in my experience. However, as always, you should consult with your attorney.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/22 01:21 AM
1

Just personal experience. Same situation. Nothing happened. Advised to do so by counsel.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/22 01:09 AM
1

Go ahead and claim both kids. You and your ex will get a letter from the IRS stating that both of you claimed the same dependents. It’s highly unlikely it’ll go further than that. But have documentation on hand, as you wrote you do, to prove your case if there’s an audit.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/22 12:17 AM
4

Believe it or not my friend, with time, you will get past all these motions. It takes about a year. But it does get better. Focus on getting sober and making yourself a better version of you. Hit the gym, spend quality time with friends and family, get into constructive hobbies. Take this as an opportunity to improve yourself. Your kids need you to do that. And if you’re feeling especially bitter at the ex, just remember: the best revenge is a life well lived.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/22 12:17 PM
5

You’re doing what’s best. I think the entirety of this subreddit and anyone close to you in real life will agree.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/22 02:02 AM
4

Brother. Get out now. Like others said, cut sling load immediately. Thank god you didn’t get her pregnant. You may have been a boot when you met her. Don’t act like a boot now. Get a lawyer to make sure you’re protected and stay away from her.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/22 01:52 AM
1

Are you or your ex the one on a visa?
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/22 03:18 AM
2

There is no official parenting plan because there hasn’t been one entered by the court. Do not trust your ex. Get your own lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/22 01:17 AM
5

Bro. You done fucked up by adopting a child that’s not yours. But you already know that. You need to hire an attorney NOW to make sure your rights are defended. Do NOT trust your ex.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/22 01:12 AM
12

Sweet! I can now insult my Irish coworker more effectively!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 10:38 AM
6

Yeah here’s some advice: contact a lawyer first thing tomorrow morning. Ask them about the separation question. Act as quickly as you can. Time is truly of the essence. Of course she’ll lay claim to lifetime alimony. But if you wait any longer she’ll be certain to get it, whereas if you can quickly and decisively, you may escape a lifetime of servitude.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/21 03:18 PM
15

Have you guys watched the video of the “democratic socialist” meeting on some college campus, where they can’t get past each other’s misuse of pronouns? Democratic Socialist Convention
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/21 01:24 PM
1

Remember the best revenge is a life well lived. At least you didn’t accrue enough years of marriage to be stuck with paying child support AND alimony
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/21 03:34 PM
1

Nice use of alliteration and homophones in the title!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 09:29 AM
4

It would suck to swipe only to end up in a Nigerian police station!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 09:15 AM
6

I think she is suggesting that you have to be absolutely hammered to “roll the dice” on her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 09:13 AM
2

If I’m interpreting his comment correctly, he is suggesting that you give your STBX extra money if she “needs” it and that you simply can stipulate that the money you are giving her now can be taken out of her portion of the settlement later. Both are false. Give her as little as possible. Don’t establish a pattern of volunteering to pay for crap.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/21 09:07 AM
3

Fill out the worksheet with the mindset of the primary custodial parent. Reality is, the income of primary custodial parents doesn’t generally increase. It either decreases or plateaus. But expenses increase. You’re a good dad. You’re going to spend as much as you can on providing a good home for your kids, extracurricular activities, having a safe car, entertainment for them etc. maximize expenses (because that is most realistic) and minimize projected future income (because that is most realis…
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/21 03:24 AM
1

If your lawyer is not meeting your (realistic) expectations, definitely consider interviewing others. If you choose to replace your current lawyer: remember that in the vast majority of jurisdictions in the US your current lawyer must hand over to you your entire file, which will be incredibly helpful to your new lawyer. That would save you some serious cash.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/21 03:16 AM
1

What he said.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/21 03:07 AM
10

Hey everybody: here’s a sure way to find our whether this post is true or not. Call your county court house. Ask them when family court is. Sit through a few days of it. Come back here to report your experiences. It’s free and informative.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/21 02:50 AM
6

Agreed with you until your very last sentence. Whoever has the most money, that is who wins.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/21 02:47 AM
1

Any kids?
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/21 02:45 AM
2

Yeah here are some tips for you: Get yourself a lawyer. Don’t tell your STBX about it. Consult with your lawyer about the best outcome for your case/what goals you want to achieve. Don’t trust a mediator. They are a waste of time. If, on the rare occasion, you do happen to reach an agreement through your mediator, run it by lawyer immediately before you sign anything. Be postured and ready for litigation when and if your amicable divorce doesn’t turn out to be so...amicable.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/21 02:44 AM
2

That is one piece of bad advice.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/21 02:40 AM
3

To volunteer payment to your ex wife is effing the dumbest thing you can do. Don’t do it (!!!!) you will set a precedent that will haunt you for the rest of your life. The road to hell is paved with pity, mercy, kindness and good intentions. Don’t set yourself up for having to pay her more than you have to.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/21 02:39 AM
3

Attorneys are telling you this because they want to see how much money you have at the moment so they can adjust their billing hours accordingly. What are the categories on the worksheet you’re having to fill out? Make sure you minimize your income and maximize your expense.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/21 02:33 AM
5

The family court system is not the same as the criminal justice system. The difference between the two is that in the former, justice is not the determine factor, while in the latter it is. Unlike in the rest of the court system, the family court system is governed by a set of nebulous, ill defined notions about what is “in the best interests of the child”, the interpretation of which entirely depends on the judge and the jurisdiction in which the matter is heard.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/21 02:30 AM
9

This dude is 100% spot on with his post. You’re just uncomfortable coming face to face with reality.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/21 03:32 AM
2

The state government doesn’t care at all about what the money goes to, as long as they don’t have to pay. I think we will see hell freeze over before we see judges and lawyers allow for the creation of a dispute resolution process that doesn’t involve them!
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/21 02:11 PM
1

If only child support being used for actually supporting the kids didn’t depend solely on the decency of the custodial parent!
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/21 01:46 AM
2

Yeah you’re probably right. But nonetheless, 11 more years of this to avoid child support?
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/21 01:06 AM
5

This is a very strange strange situation. Did you have a lawyer when you went to trial or did you represent yourself? You need to try and call law firms in your area to see if anyone will take your case pro bono. That’s your best hope at this point.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/21 09:24 PM
1

Feel for you man. What you’re about to experience will likely be the most emotionally exhausting process in your entire life. But it’s like ripping off a bandaid. Do it quickly, methodically and the pain will be much less than if you drag it out. Just some unsolicited advice: Meet with an attorney and make a plan Do not reveal this fact to your STBX Protect yourself against false DV allegations by purchasing an audio recording device Good luck man. Keep us updated.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/21 05:58 PM
1

This guy is in the best position possible. He has custody and his ex is out of the country. Totally agree with your sentiment but letting her not pay child support is actually highly advantageous long term. It builds a record of her abandoning her constitutionally protected rights as a parent, which is the main basis for termination of parental rights.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/21 05:27 PM
1

That right there is how you end up with permanent alimony.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/21 05:23 PM
2

My man over here is 100% on it. You need a well planned, well thought out, non emotional exit strategy that is approved by a lawyer. For the love of God don’t: Let her know you’re planning this. Write your plan down.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/21 05:21 PM
2

Come on man. There is no such thing as a non contentious divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/21 05:19 PM
1

I hate to say it: But you really screwed yourself. The road to hell is paved with good intentions. Only thing you can right now: Do not talk to her. Or text her or call or FB message. You’ll go to jail. Get a lawyer yesterday Gather evidence that you did nothing wrong. Line up character witnesses. Do not get in trouble. Become an upstanding member of your community. Join the volunteer fire department or something. I’m serious. It’ll show the court your character cannot be impeached and you aren’…
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/21 05:15 PM
2

“Hope you make it out ok” 50% chance he won’t.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/21 05:10 PM
3

Assuming you live in the United States. The harsh reality is that by signing a marriage certificate you in effect signing a contract exposing you to unlimited legal and financial liability without much return to you. I guess you could have her sign a prenup. But prenups are routinely ignored by courts in some jurisdictions just like you said yourself. Plus that’ll probably put a damper on the romance of the occasion. Oh and all the money you’ll continue to make on your investments after the date…
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/21 05:07 PM
5

You’re making a big mistake by not hiring an attorney. You are not properly protecting yourself and are giving up any sort of tactical advantage you have.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/21 05:01 PM
19

Here’s what’s going to happen if you don’t get the guns off your property and into the hands of either a business or responsible person who can testify in court that they have possession of each firearm you have registered to your name: She will file a domestic violence protective order against you and accuse you of threatening her with a gun, a hugely aggravating factor. Protect yourself. Get the guns off your property. And carry a recording device in your pocket. And have that thing on. And ge…
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/21 04:58 PM
7

I feel very sorry for those shorts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 03:00 AM
3

Amazing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 10:49 PM
34

This is gold. 10 kilodicks. Hahaha
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 08:24 PM
10

I believe the mile count is in increments of 10
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 08:23 PM
20

They are basically human trafficking...themselves?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 08:23 PM
3

You’re welcome! I’m stealing the shit out of it hope you don’t mind
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 01:13 AM
7

This right there is an amazing comment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 11:37 PM
3

Great nose ring!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 11:35 PM
1

Unfortunately it does, nowadays, doesn’t it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 03:41 PM
3

It’s a fake profile
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 11:25 AM
2

Fake news. It’s a troll account.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 11:25 AM
6

Cogent point. Edited for height requirement.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 09:42 PM
1

Not into dating losers huh? Pot, meet kettle.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 09:13 PM
14

Again, another critical question left unanswered.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 09:11 PM
20

Left out the most important questions unanswered: Is her kid her world? Does she love to laugh? Does she have a height requirement?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 09:10 PM
5

Can she be extremely sarcastic or sassy?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/21 06:52 PM
2

Within the confines of Sharia
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/21 02:21 PM
2

She probably has at least four working theories
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/21 02:20 PM
2

Sounds like you dodged a JDAM!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/21 02:19 PM
9

Then I’m not man enough! And I’m ok with that
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/21 02:17 PM
8

But is she an open book?? Are her kids her world??
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/21 02:15 PM
7

That’s just sad!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/21 02:03 PM
2

I highly doubt that “overthinking” is this woman’s problem.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/21 04:53 PM
3

The Taliban don’t have there sort of problems. They don’t even have Reddit!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 05:14 PM
6

A month after my divorce, my ex wife bought a brand new vehicle with an 800 dollar car note payment. Exactly the support amount I was required to pay
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 05:12 PM
1

Step aside everyone. I’m diving in! Although one red flag is the fact that she doesn’t say she’s an open book
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 05:10 PM
4

😞I’m sorry! That must be tough!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 02:31 AM
1

No. It’s definitely not.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 01:06 AM
5

I just spit out my beverage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 12:45 AM
1

Well she seems nice...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 12:38 AM
4

Thanks for your service brother! Unless you were an officer.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 12:31 AM
3

How did I miss this listing? How whimsical! Get in line everybody.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 12:19 AM
29

While I agree with the substance of your comment and support it, I kindly ask that you not use the term “incel”. That is insult to me, my neckbeard and my wife’s boyfriend.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 03:16 PM
24

Correct. And then you are expected by society to buy another used car of the same type. Some even buy three of four of these!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 03:14 PM
72

Being a man in North America and getting married is equivalent to going to the local user car dealer, buying a used car without ever test driving and also signing a contract of unlimited financial and personal liability forever. And if you ever get rid of the car, you still have to pay maintenance fees.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 02:59 PM
54

I’m frankly surprised this sub Reddit has been allowed to stay. Reddit has become a censor’s paradise.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 02:57 PM
39

Actually according to the current “family court s system”, we are. Have a kid and get a divorce and you become a vending machine for 18-25 years
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 01:30 AM
8

Uh oh...truth bomb. Probably need years of therapy after gaining that level of self awareness
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 01:29 AM
3

What a shocking turn of events!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 01:22 AM
1

RLTW
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 01:21 AM
1

That’s the best way to do it right there
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 12:57 AM
33

A tale as old as the Helen of Troy! Launched 1000 ships full of simps!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 12:53 AM
1

Run! My friend, run!!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 12:52 AM
3

Seriously man. Although I’m in a long term happy relationship, I really enjoy time alone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/21 12:49 AM
1

Hate to prejudge: but to be in a relationship you have to bring something to the table. Nothing is given to you in this world. Unless you’re Hunter biden.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/21 12:48 AM
19

So stunning and brave!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 02:14 PM
2

She seems...nice
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/07/21 07:20 AM
1

Very clever. I think I need to start a dating profile when I need house work done. For example, “looking for a plumber...” I think we’re giving her too little credit
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/21 02:02 PM
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