TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

velocity2ds Archive

View 0 posts and 273 comments by velocity2ds on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

Calling her a pickme is such poor word choice and framing her vile actions as just being for him does not capture the weight of her crimes. It takes away from her culpability as an individual who hurt so many willingly for her own gain. Pickme being a catch-all word for both women who want to be low maintenance AND sex traffickers is very dangerous. She’s a complete monster. I don’t care if this sounds pedantic but pickme is so misused
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 11:47 PM
4

Yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:38 PM
15

Yes 100% but I am asking how many days of texting before you stop replying to his rapport texts? Like 4 days? Or?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:18 PM
11

How long do you give a guy to ask out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:01 PM
18

Start calling him bro and buddy and pal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:15 PM
55

This year I lost two friends to suicide, lost a baby cousin to cancer, almost killed myself in January, got diagnosed with depression, started taking anti-depressants. On the other hand I started recovering from restrictive eating disorder, my mental health is a complete 180, and I started law school. I stayed single all year and stayed away from self destructive habits. I spend all my energy now focused on my readings, working out and my friendships. This year has been a lot but I am here and t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:26 PM
2

There’s r/xxfitness and r/femalefashionadvice but there’s def men who lurk just to be invasive losers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 04:32 AM
111

I’m so glad you guys are on the same critical thought train that you aren’t “owning” your sexuality or subverting the male gaze by doing exactly what they want from you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 04:29 AM
28

It’s too much to be around cause they usually have negative personalities. What are you supposed to do then? Build up their confidence? Because what’s gonna happen next is predictably gonna be them getting full of themselves and seeking validation from other girls too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 04:07 AM
46

This book is a really important book for the analysis and research it provides. It’s necessary to understand women’s oppression by analyzing the factors and social systems so men’s behaviour and attitudes is crucial in that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:57 AM
32

this book is about critical analysis about abuse and masculinity and it remains an important and insightful pro-feminist text
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:55 AM
5

To get their dick hard that’s all they care about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:12 PM
2

Roy Mustang!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 05:25 AM
3

I’ve used the pattern before but it would get too detailed for my level of interest in it. I like co-star cause it provides me what I want short and simple tidbits daily
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:06 AM
3

The people who decided to what to ban are 100% limp cum brains
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:54 PM
13

Absolutely fucked that they deleted that pornfree sub but not any of the million rape fantasy degenerate subs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:04 AM
30

You know the jokes about how men act in december? Well past few months from corona have been like that but even bigger. For example, I had a guy ask me out yesterday with no preamble or us even talking recently and I hit him with the fake “I think you messaged the wrong person” I had an one night stand (old me) who lives across the country start asking me a lot of specific questions about how my life is going. And every other guy I’ve ever met popping out too. I get you’re bored but find hobbies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 03:04 PM
11

One of first memories is my parents watching the news early in the morning about when accident. All the memes about how immigrant women love Diana are so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 04:33 PM
8

Girl I had an ex who didn’t understand why women had to use toilet paper after peeing Edit: this guy was not a bad guy at all and I’m quick to label that but he was just so fucking stupid about this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 04:31 PM
3

She’s a walking caricature of the cool girl speech from gone girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 04:59 AM
12

I haven’t worn a bra for a month and I don’t think I’m gonna go back to wearing one after quarantine is over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:54 AM
3

I think it might be easy to fall into the mental trap of thinking if you stick around maybe you can make him change his mind about you after seeing how x y and z you are but do not try this. You will only break your own heart. Do not feel bad if you do feel sad or hurt. Don’t have shame over what you feel cause it’ll just make it worse. If you feel sad then accept those feelings but still actively work towards doing things that help you feel good about yourself too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:44 AM
17

Take his actions for a reflection of his poor character not yours and just redirect your energy towards nurturing your own life. It does you no favours to still be consumed by this guy and wanting revenge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 02:21 AM
6

I wouldn’t date any of my social media reply guys but I do know my friends have gotten into relationships w guys they met on Instagram. So there could be a chance he knows of you and is interested and social media engaging is the only way to try and start talking to you. But also the real possibility that he is someone who is trying to talk to every girl he can through dms so tread carefully
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 02:05 AM
21

I honestly have no more patience for my friends sending me screencaps of guys they dated/know sending them stupid messages in the middle of this pandemic. If you’re gonna screencap his cringey text and send it to your girls.... just block him. I told someone to remove this loser off Instagram but she didn’t cause she feels “bad” and instead is going to keep talking to him. These guys are all just mixtures of bored, lonely and horny so even in a global pandemic be above being the girl he’s using …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 01:58 AM
3

the dialectic of sex by shulamith firestone since it has some incredible chapters that perfectly capture what you haven’t been able to fully articulate Also she’s an old school feminist and they’re always important to read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 03:21 AM
4

Made tinder and I stg 2% of men on there are good looking and not ruining themselves with terrible bios
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 03:17 AM
5

Tell her imo if you are close
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 08:55 PM
3

What do you think of talking about rec drugs? Am I right in thinking “don’t mention what drugs you do” in passing to guys? Like if you were talking about your day and you got high then don’t tell the guy that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 08:55 PM
1

Oregon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 03:47 PM
24

I have a good month coming up in March and I’m excited for it while I enjoy single life. I tried OLD for a few days a few weeks ago and blah at literally every guy I saw on there. Also I curved every low effort social media attention attempt from guys I know! I need to just focus on really just enjoying myself and getting over my ex. I have nothing to gain by dating just to date so I feel I don’t like I’m “losing” to my ex and I’m glad I recognize that cause I know I’ve done messy rebounds in th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:47 PM
5

I don’t listen to her music or follow her but when it comes to Billie Eilish I like this one interview from her about what how men get egos from dating pretty girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:41 PM
17

It’s pure comedy to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:48 AM
31

Can someone breakdown why the male psyche responds to no contact over words?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:48 AM
10

Bobby is one of my fav male characters forever lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:04 PM
8

They were all contestants and like 90% of them got eliminated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 06:08 AM
3

I cannot believe the audacity of that man to ask you to help him pack which was legit an even lazier attempt at ~Netflix and chill
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 06:04 AM
5

This is so weird. He was probably trying so hard to come across as “aloof” and that’s not attractive. He was probably scared of what it might look like if he showed you that he cares so then he deliberately tried to act like he didn’t know things about you to not look invested and play it nonchalant This is my guess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 06:01 AM
3

What do you guys do with gifts/mementos from exes? Recycle/donate or keep?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:59 AM
9

What are some of your guys favourite out and about activities to do alone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:13 PM
18

I think everyone needs to know watching your stories means nothing. It could just be to the clear the notification for everyone they follow when they’re bored
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 02:15 AM
17

What do guys think they’ll achieve by trying to “call you out” that you didn’t reply fast enough? All it does is show me they have no patience and are super bratty at the drop of a dime
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 02:13 AM
7

Omg I thought donkey was slang for a guy not a literal donkey lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 06:04 PM
4

Here’s some other things I believe might help build confidence and self assurance keep a daily gratitude journal so write down 5 things that happened today that you’re grateful for read for fun be creative so try painting, stitching, dance etc whatever it helps fuel the brain I feel better when I eat healthy so I think diet can affect mood compliment others like someone’s eye makeup or hair or blouse it helps radiate positivity from you corny but try self affirmations whether by yourself or by l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:36 PM
5

Fake it till you make it. I think one important thing is having that thrill of accomplishment so what little things do that for you — experience them as much as possible For me it’s reaching new gym goals or a new cross stitch pattern/detail. I also try to make a point to write “good job” on paper or say it mentally when I’m working on something hard You gotta make yourself feel good about yourself so give yourself credit for what you are so take a step back and have some pride in your abilities
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 03:59 PM
26

Right like domestic abuse is so high and normalized! It’s so hard cause I prefer dating brown guys but they make it so hard to even find that’s not a fuckboy or a complete awkward loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:38 AM
36

Any other Punjabi/Urdu speaking ladies super familiar with “enna gussa?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:14 AM
28

FDS suggests commitment not waiting for marriage when it comes to sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:13 AM
17

It doesn’t make me think any better of the guy but it does make me pay more attention to his profile tho prob more in a critical way That said I know I’ve swiped right on super liked guys cause it usually seems like the super like is based off mutual interests that seemed evident by their bio
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:12 AM
13

This was a face to face convo in between class lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 06:43 PM
84

Once a guy asked to get coffee and I said I don’t drink coffee. Then he asked for tea and I said I don’t drink that either. Then he comes up with water
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 04:05 PM
3

This is true idk how you guys are going on so many dates through apps (bigger cities?)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 04:00 PM
24

I agree. The standards of hyper femininity are so expensive, require so much time and effort, and are just shallow. These standards are also ever evolving and you’ll just find yourself consumed chasing an avalanche. An obsession with how you look is just a recipe for disaster for body dysmorphia, body image or on the flip side becoming empty and vain Be literally how you want to be rather than projecting yourself as what most men want cause then you’re just setting yourself up to be like conditi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 03:57 PM
5

I called a friend and talked it out it was really nice :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 04:44 AM
3

What’s your bio like? Edit: one thing I think that’s happening is a lot of men have gotten super lazy with dating apps especially if they’ve been on them non-stop for years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:30 AM
12

Do you guys have any advice on how to manage the wave of sadness you get before your period? It always hits me really hard and I can just cry at the drop of a dime
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:25 AM
10

Local shop clothing is usually better quality, unique and lasts longer so it’s a good investment rather than buying 3-4 cheaper fast fashion dresses for the same price that wear themselves out fast. It’s good to treat yo self
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 06:35 PM
13

This is lesbophobic rhetoric sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 05:08 AM
19

I think your intuition will have a good sense just by itself. If a guy just wants a fuck and chuck then he won’t be sticking around for multiple dates. Also see if he’s trying to make a move early on especially when there’s no strong sexual vibe. One time on an early date I made a comment to a guy about something like “if you ever met my brother ____” for something relevant for the convo and he had the most WTF face and later I realized it was cause he had no intention of ever being serious henc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 03:13 AM
5

Lmao true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:54 AM
5

How was his tone and mannerism when he brought up asking if you would like to get engaged?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:22 AM
5

I’m currently living in a small Ish city like 200k and tinder is most popular but larger cesspool pollution of garbage men. So bumble has better pool but much smaller and so the hinge user base is nearly nonexistent here Ya in this case it would be like 1 beach pic and a few other normal clothes ones Edit: in town there’s a solidified cliche divide of tinder as hookup primary app and bumble for dating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:19 AM
10

Do you guys think shirtless pics from the beach on profile pictures on dating apps are okay? Obviously mirror selfies are douchey In other words I made bumble a day ago and am not loving what I’m seeing. I’ve swiped on maybe 4 guys total so far
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:14 AM
4

I like r/womensstreetwear and r/thriftstorehauls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 10:33 PM
14

This Bollywood movie Queen. Main character gets ditched by her fiancé before the wedding and she ends up going on her booked honeymoon by herself and just becomes so self confident. It’s really easy to watch with subtitles too This might not count but I love Celeste and Jesse Forever it’s so raw and I like how it doesn’t follow a typical plot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 07:17 PM
7

Me too and he was better looking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 07:12 PM
58

That was a really weird proposition. It would’ve been more work for you to go uproot yourself to his place. It would’ve been one thing if he offered to bring you food or something to your place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:23 PM
18

They’re always too eager to blame any woman for something going wrong Announcing a wedding at a graduation isn’t the same as proposing on someone else’s wedding at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:15 PM
6

Petty and pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:14 PM
22

Back away and see what he does next to evaluate it. I hope the chances are that you’re good. Don’t be so hard on yourself too just keep yourself busy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:13 PM
32

Not op but I love this comment as another 26 year old who sometimes worries about “my age”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 10:39 AM
42

I love the song and the mv! The line “I tried to help you but it just made you mad” best describes what really helps when you try to win your way into a guys heart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 05:36 PM
16

Exactly if you tell them what you want first they’ll just lie and try to be the guy they think you want just to get laid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:22 PM
17

hunting pictures and Snapchat filters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:20 PM
3

lmfaooo this is hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 05:19 PM
16

He dated Taylor swift when she was sooo young too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:17 PM
15

All these things are branded as empowering for women all just happen to be befitting of the status quo and what men like of sexualized images of women? Liberal feminist nonsense. No knock to the girls doing it if economically strapped but the crux of the issue is women are just sexually commodified and men just view women as objects to get off too. Even if men are paying for it it’s cause those images are dangled far away from them under a paywall and that becomes part of the sexual fantasy for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:15 PM
21

Hope his dick falls off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:12 PM
8

Pornsick men can have porn induced erectile dysfunction cause they get so accustomed to only being aroused by viciously more and more violent porn. Other stuff could still affect his boner like anxiety and alcohol etc but yes Obviously arousal and erection isn’t a one way street but I think this subs general principle on this is right in gauging how healthy a man is sexually. You don’t wanna be putting up with some degenerate who spends all his free time jerking off to women being abused and onl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 09:55 PM
9

You should check out r/exnocontact I like the community there and they post a lot of good self confidence reminders I hope you’re doing okay though! Just know the worst part is this right now and with time you’ll be better and over it. Just take care of yourself right now in the ways you know help you and don’t try to shame yourself for what you feel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 03:46 AM
5

True. Idk why but whenever you guys talk about this topic I always picture the scenario as kissing in the car at the end of a date rather than in a room or something so I guess that was the source of me asking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 02:55 AM
19

I don’t have an answer for you but I have a question for the gets hard during making out test that’s commonly talked about here. Should we check by our eyes to see if he’s hard or by touching his dick? I’m not dating right now but for future reference 📝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 02:46 AM
39

It’s uncomfortable, boring and makes every conservation so high strung on their end. And that pedestal they have you on is also built on their narrow ideas of who you are as a person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 12:40 AM
112

Men really do take pride in being deceptive monsters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:36 AM
2

Try meetup or see if your library is hosting any activities you’ll be interested in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 04:49 PM
24

Like a week ago this guy asked me out in a low effort way through social media so I dodged it cause FDS life. Then this weekend he posted a story of him holding some girls hand calling it “date night”and then a video of her eating. I then rmbrd I saw this girl a few months ago on his feed so prob someone he’s been dating for a few months Maybe she was a friend but I doubt it. Absolute trash having a gf and trying to make moves. I deleted his number and his snap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 04:48 PM
10

Don’t put yourself down like this to make him look better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 10:23 PM
14

Does he have his own life and hobbies? Some of his waiting on you and doing stuff for you could be because he has little else going on so he’s hyperfixated on your relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 09:03 PM
13

Tbh attraction is all subjective and that’s that. But tall men can easily think being tall is a personality trait and qualifier. Not to mention studies on how they’re more likely to cheat. If a guy is short and bitter about it he’s not gonna be fun to be around period. Then there’s tall guys who get too much of an undeserved ego from their height. It all depends on how the guy carries himself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 08:38 PM
53

Hope his wife or her friends see this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 11:24 AM
8

Queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 04:07 AM
13

This question is the worst cause some demon men will ask you to hear what you wanna say so they can give you the best answer back that will help their chances in getting laid Like, once I rmbr a guy said something like “are you looking for marriage and kids” in a negative tone and I said no I’m looking for a divorce and abortion then unmatched with him after he responded laughing at it just cause I wanted to know that he saw what I wrote lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 04:06 AM
18

It’s a lesbian or bi woman’s account
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 04:04 AM
117

I only ever had 1 fuckboy in my life a while ago but I did learn just about everything what to watch out for him. So off the top of my head some other signs: never or rarely calls you by your name sketchy about his phone is super insistent that you don’t leave anything at his place he hits you up late night he’s on “good behaviour” and super chatty and nice right before you see each other and lazy af right after sex to him is just him sticking it in no one in his life really knows about you he’s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 04:02 AM
55

This sub is called toxic cause it doesn’t endorse women being docile servants for men’s pleasure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 05:25 PM
23

Comparison is the thief of joy! Just work on you and self acceptance for how you are. Work on your confidence by building skills and hobbies. Don’t focus just on your looks cause your self validation should be self evident and not reliant on external factors. You need to have pride and confidence in your abilities that way end of the day at least you like yourself genuinely. I am in recovery for an eating disorder and one thing my workshops from it taught me is that even if I change my physical …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 04:31 PM
37

I like pet names that grow organically out of inside jokes or are unique I think women should be mindful if a guy only calls you baby and the like but he’s never saying your real name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 06:43 AM
4

I have 7 tattoos (mostly hidden depending on clothing) and usually it’s just seen as a sexy thing by guys I’ve been with. I think if you get that tattoo it’ll be fine and tbh you’re more at risk at heavily tattooed guys being condescending and putting down women for their choice in tattoos. Fuck those guys and their unnecessary opinions in general My first tattoo artist was w a guy and I just rmbr him bemoaning about the trends in women’s tattoos as if guys don’t have their own tattoo trends (“t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 06:16 AM
16

I’ve met 5 people off tinder in the past 2 years and I don’t have any regrets about any of them. 1 was a relationship, 1 was fwb, 2 were vacation hook ups and mini tour guides, and 1 just a really good date in a foreign country. I mostly use apps when I’m on vacation just to see what’s there and talk to locals and those ONs predate me applying FDS so I don’t think I would be doing ONs again. Main thing is I’m just super picky when I swipe in general tbh (maybe 1 right to dozens and dozens of lef…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 06:09 AM
82

Lol they love “sexually liberated” girls as these guys co-opt sex positivity language to try and manipulate girls but then they never respect or take the same girls seriously after they’ve finished using the girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 10:58 PM
50

I love all the Twitter jokes about body count resetting in the new year
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 10:41 PM
90

He’s also probably lying about his reaction to the pregnancy news and she was able to finally see him for who he really is in those conversations
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 10:00 PM
18

Paradox of choice and just being ungrateful and blind to what they have in their life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 09:59 PM
22

You can but a partner asking you to scope out dark sordid details is a red flag by itself and you might just end up playing by their rules to prove you’re “good”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 04:56 PM
22

That would kill the mood so fast if a guy asked questions about your sexual past during cuddling. Cuddling talk is always so good and comforting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 04:54 PM
24

It is absolutely fucked how much these guys think about and make up extreme mental scenarios of girls past experiences. Like you’re spending all that time thinking about some other guys dick and how he had better sex with her than you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 04:48 PM
37

IMO feminism is for bodily autonomy so the idea of a war draft is inherently anti-feminist. And men are stupid and ignorant to not even realize women suffer so much in war cause war rape is insanely common on alll sides of soldiers and throughout history to contemporary times. Not to mention women soldiers raped and assaulted by the male soldiers from their own armies. Men only want “equality” when it comes to cheating out on first dates and now military propaganda
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 04:35 PM
6

I’m not seeking validation from it lol. I was pointing out how spending time with an ex as “friends” is just bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 07:15 PM
29

“Don’t judge this man based off what he said out of free will when he could’ve say literally anything else”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 04:52 PM
27

These kinda men don’t even deserve dogs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 04:49 PM
8

Faramir is my ideal man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 04:47 PM
14

Eowyn went to battle to help her nation and her family. She was sick of being in her cage and being relegated down to court things. She didn’t do it for Aragorn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 04:46 PM
13

Here’s a mistake I won’t be making again My ex was my ride to the airport and my flight got delayed so we just hung out in my apartment. We were on the couch (two different ones) and he put the pillow over his crotch to hide his boner for pm the whole time. And I know it was a boner cause I’m really physical when I talk with anyone so at one point I took the pillow to hit him and he quickly put both hands over his crotch. Absolutely no moves were made but the whole thing is weird and obviously o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 04:43 PM
35

I agree. My ex was on a work trip and in their spare time his coworkers went to the strip club (most of them married guys) and he didn’t go and instead was on the phone with me watching anime lol So men can get out of going there’s no gun to their head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 05:18 AM
13

He could just be a lowkey person. I know some guys only have LinkedIn cause they’re just professional like that and aren’t interested in social media. I only have 1 ex who is super big into social media I don’t think it’s inherently sketchy to have no social media (unless he’s lying about it)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 04:09 PM
6

the first subtitle made lauryn hill doo wop get stuck in my head which I think is a pretty FDS friendly song for the parts directed at women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 04:06 PM
49

People, men and women, tend to lack serious empathy for women. No one ever questions why a guy does X and Y it is always instead put on the women for being treated the way she is. But think about female socialization where as a little baby you’re given toys about cleaning, childcare and cooking and then there’s cultural conditioning in the home pushed on you for domestic responsibility. Women also in the romantic and relationship sense have the message drilled in them that love and it’s duties f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 03:49 PM
17

I know what you mean lol I have a really high sex drive too and I’m not trying to date anyone so I’ve just been celibate since summer. And after finding FDS I’m not trying to do casual with anyone just to get laid consistently. I’m gonna be in between cities for the first half of next year so I won’t be able to do quality dating then too So I know you said you don’t like toys but maybe do your research to find something rly good? And same time also turn your extra energy into a new hobby. Find w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 05:44 PM
4

Andrea Dworkin’s writing she’s one of the smartest writers ever and her writing isn’t bogged down either. I like her books “right wing women”, “our blood”, “life and Death” the most Check out @dworkindaily on Twitter there’s quotes from her there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 04:27 PM
6

Meanwhile the receptionist is only thinking about her plans for after her shift ends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 07:30 PM
97

You should only propose after you’ve had the talk about marriage and then you can surprise them (not in public tho!). So in these public proposals I would guess many of these cases are guys proposing without actually talking out the future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 04:12 PM
6

I’m a materialist feminist and I personally don’t care for male feminists. I find most of them to be clout chasing or too performative and in reality ill informed on feminist work/theory. Also way too eager to condemn other women for not having their “version” of feminist which is 99% of the time them mimicking what they’ve seen online rather than own research So I prefer guys who don’t identify it cause they’re usually nightmares but are respectful about what it means to me. And who actively li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 04:09 PM
11

I find that guys at clubs/parties are the one’s who go overboard with the “you’re so pretty” type of appearance comments. Like is it the drinking that makes them not shut up? I personally when it gets too repetitive with the appearance compliments I just ignore them and always say “I’m really smart too” lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 03:52 PM
16

That’s so weird omg. Why would any other girl think damn he’s paying for his gf I should date him when that will be read as a super committed and serious relationship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 03:48 PM
29

I got off birth control this fall and I’m so happy I did. I’m saving money and not putting myself at risk for blood clots and who knows what other serious possible side effects. I’m not dating or planning to for a few months at the least and when it does happen he can just deal with condoms idc that raw feel betters anymore. I’m not gonna destroy myself just for male pleasure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 06:37 PM
192

“Seriously? I’d be giving my husband daily blowjobs for a month if I got a Roomba for Christmas.” lmfao this comment.......... yeek
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:55 PM
18

To me its pure comedy too seeing the guys who try to get attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:52 PM
13

100% a bot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 04:21 PM
4

Love your username
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 04:42 AM
16

Lmao poor sis trying so hard and for nothing I once was out at a restaurant at around 4pm with a guy I was dating and we saw this woman go to these two random guys (who didn’t know each other) who were watching sports by the bar to come join her table. Her table was maybe like 4-5 women and the guys said no thanks but she kept asking them and they went and joined them. It was so awkward and desperate. Me and the guy I was with just laughed at it going wtf cause neither of us have seen that befor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 04:32 AM
44

Shirtless profile pic and all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 04:25 AM
29

Block him and delete the convo and his number so you don’t talk to him ever again You like him cause he brings you external validation and that’s a really unhealthy situation to be in cause he’s able to have so much control over your mood and sense of self. Just understand he sucks as a person and don’t take how he used and discarded you as a measure of you but rather a measure of the kinda guy he is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 03:58 PM
1

Me too even tho I like his solo music over the bands
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 12:43 AM
1

Omg i am a huge john frusciante fan since I was a teenager and I misread this post as you saying john raped his wife and I was so shocked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 11:45 PM
1

Lmao I want the best for you but I think you’re just dickmatized now So proceed with caution!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 05:51 PM
1

Do not send gm/gn texts to this guy. I don’t think you should give him credit for not ignoring your text either. He’s probably being nice to keep you in his playbook or that’s how just he texts where he responds to all texts Unless he’s coming out to see you again don’t initiate it if you really want to have sex with him again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 05:31 PM
1

He doesn’t seem like a reliable good guy period sorry sis. He’s an immature fuckboy and you wanting to keep hooking up with him is going to blow up against you. I understand not wanting to keep wading through guys on apps cause it’s probably a massive headache. But him being someone who sexts before meeting and his first meeting offer is drinks OR sex just says so much about him and how often he does this. He’s used to going even below bare bare bareeeee minimum and he’s probably more focused on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 05:27 PM
1

What was your last convo with him like?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 05:10 PM
2

This is super hard to hear but if he has enough time to be on dating apps and hooking up then he could be dating if he wanted to. He doesn’t want to and this is worlds coldest sentence I learned from this sub: if he says he doesn’t want a relationship then the with you is silent Protect your heart first if he isn’t trying to date since I think you would genuinely want to see where it goes. Fwb is not gonna turn into a relationship cause he will have already relegated you to a specific box in his…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 05:08 PM
2

If you want him as a fuck buddy then I think you can hit him up to meet when you’re free and down BUT I’m just worried for you cause I think the way you’re perceiving him puts you at risk of getting attached and he won’t do the same cause he’ll think of your dynamic as just fucking at mutual convenience. You don’t wanna be chasing him for a crumb of dick. So this shouldn’t end up in a situation where you think xyz positive things about him and you end up taking what you can from him just cause i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 04:58 PM
3

FWB should not be a lot of work on your end. The additional benefit of it is that it should be easy and not stressful for meeting up. So don’t get into a mindset where you end up placing him on a pedestal or else it’ll end badly with you catching feelings and he’s out there sticking his dick in anything else he can Texting with a FWB should mostly just be about making plans to meet and not daily chit chat or else you’ll run the risk of attachment since you do already view him super highly. You s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 04:42 PM
97

I had 6 guys reach out of nowhere yesterday with a wide range of feeble attempts to discussing a trip attempts like go call your mother or grandmother instead I’m sure she will appreciate it way more than I or any other girl you’re doing this to does
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 04:10 PM
46

You can’t raise a man. Do an honest assessment of what he brings to your life and how he makes you feel about yourself and what he does for you— then make a decision and it might be that leaving him is what is best for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 04:30 AM
10

My dads a functioning alcoholic and for past several years pretty much once a year I have lost an uncle or had a friends dad die from health issues related to alcohol abuse. There’s the issue too of how scary it can be being around men who drink heavy so don’t want a partner who runs that risk Not to mention there’s nothing that impresses me about grown men spending hundreds at the bar or club every weekend or needing to drink just to have something to do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 08:17 PM
36

If they vote right wing parties or support right wing politics absolutely personal NO for me cause politics is very important to me. It’s a major issue when it comes to being compatible for me. I know some women who have opposite politics as their man and they just choose not to talk politics much to avoid fighting but I wouldn’t wanna walk around egg shells to date someone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 08:14 PM
8

Think of it like this: that bed frame is an important investment not only for his health but also an investment for your relationship there’s a brooklynn 99 episode similar to this lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 07:51 PM
40

My knees and back hurt just reading that lol That guy had this giant comfy chair and he was using this led light to show me some art project then he put it on the couch and all you saw was like jizz stains that according to him were from his roommate uh huh. Absolutely disgusting how men live lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 06:13 PM
38

It’s straight up embarrassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 05:30 PM
47

Tell the man to get a bed frame he’s an adult lol I once was fwb with this one guy who had a single mattress as a bed and it was insane lol he had all this money but that was his bed so it wasn’t like it was some temporary money thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 05:29 PM
93

uses any bigoted slurs big drinker (I like guys who don’t drink to get fucked up) politically conservative thirst follows on ig no emotional intelligence no care for social issues
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 04:37 PM
60

Ladies remember if he follows Jordan Peterson online then that’s a red flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 04:31 PM
176

Only surprising thing about this image is that there isn’t just a single mattress on the ground as his bed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 03:54 PM
2

One of the best songs to workout to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 07:02 PM
18

I saw a guy say he works for the govt so you think something office but he’s security. A job is a job but he was clearly deliberate in his wording to present a certain image
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 07:16 PM
36

I read this tweet as her seeing she got in a shitty relationship and mindset of putting maximum effort for someone who doesn’t deserve it. It would be humiliating to bend over backwards for someone who doesn’t give a fuck and she’s vowing not to be that girl again So it’s more about gaining awareness and learning from mistakes and being determined not to go there again so good for her so it’s not just “pick me” mantras
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 07:12 PM
46

And 3 and a half pumps before he busts and passes out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 05:12 AM
19

My boy Marx wouldn’t like majority of self claimed socialist/Marxists out there today
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 03:56 AM
65

Lmfao he’s such a loser “dangling” that wine night like it’s some major prize he was going to offer you Good for you to cutting him off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 03:44 AM
21

I would guess that most guys on bumble or hinge are also on tinder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 12:29 AM
10

BANKS - fuck with myself Every song by Fiona Apple my queen Drake - nice for what Toni Braxton - why should I care Britney Spears - why should I be sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 04:38 PM
2

I like birth control patch. It’s low dose and you gotta change it once a week so it’s easier than the pill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 02:35 PM
5

I remember in SATC one bride had only this to say to Carrie about getting married lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 03:38 AM
33

The post is gone but the replies are so annoying. Men and pick-me women are incapable of letting women have conversations about themselves and for other women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 03:28 AM
48

“I’m the worst I know/I suck/I’m an asshole” blah blah just manipulation tactics to get you feel sorry for them and reassure them they aren’t so you’ll drop the issue you’re bringing up. It’s not like they do any introspection or lose a wink of sleep afterwards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 02:27 AM
11

Chemical castration on all these freaks now please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 01:24 AM
78

Sounds like he was trying to subtlety flex that his ex was a model while same time trying to make himself seem like some non-shallow intellectual who didn’t care about her looks. She could’ve not been his physical type but still overall sounds like he was trying to show you a certain narrative about himself (it backfired lol). Her being a model was like a credential FOR him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 01:20 AM
35

he is super careful about making sure you don’t leave anything at his place you don’t know any of his friends even by name let alone met them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 03:04 PM
8

ACAB
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 02:53 PM
10

I feel like this must be someone using a random guys photos to troll on the dating app
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 02:49 AM
30

Curving all the guys popping up in my messages and not texting the one I think I miss because fuck him he sucks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 09:43 PM
9

Sis my last ex got a new job and right away bought a 2000+ dollar gaming computer and all these other indulgences then he lost his job within the 3 month probation. He acted all confused for why he was let go but he was late for work like 3-4 times which is obviously a huge deal and he was prob late cause of night time gaming messing his sleep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 04:19 PM
31

I play video games and like nerdy things so I like guys who have some sort of nerdy interest too. But guys who treat video games as an identity and have it overtake their lives are not likely going to be living responsible balanced lives so that’s the thing to look out for. Also the way some guys use slurs when mad at video games is absolutely disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 02:59 PM
59

Don’t text him back and when you see him and have to talk to him just keep it professional. He ghosted you without proper explanation and don’t let him come back from that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 05:17 AM
4

First gen = first generation of immigrants who came Second gen = their child who are born in the new country
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 08:34 PM
12

In regards to that case about the Indian doctor, there are a lot of protests and direct activism being taken to parliament https://www.theguardian.com/world/2019/dec/02/protests-continue-india-alleged-gang-rape-hyderabad I’m proud that women in the face of such misogyny and institutional contempt are still always fighting for what is right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 05:11 PM
15

I 100% do not doubt your experiences but we just have different experiences which is fair and gonna happen! I think in general it’s a common trend for some people in diaspora to become more culturally conservative over time in response to fears of losing their identity or traditions by then only overcompensating to their IDEA of what they think the culture consists of. Men definitely take this on by enforcing more rigid gender roles to women’s detriment by thinking it’s a necessary tradition to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 04:56 PM
67

From what I have seen diasporic women (second generation for example) never ever date fob men. They always date other guys whose parents or grandparents etc were immigrants cause it’s totally different lived experiences between growing up in the west and moving as an adult. So those guys are automatic left swipes/ignore in dms etc. It’s of course maybe different for other women who are newcomers Edit: I’m a south Asian diasporic woman’s who has mostly only been with other south Asian diasporic m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 04:27 PM
16

Women following FDS wont fall for or be interested in them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 01:13 AM
1

Did we go out with the same guy lmfaoo cause he would say from 1-10 too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 11:58 PM
29

Relevant quote from Andrea dworkin “i don’t believe rape is inevitable or natural. If I did, I would have no reason to be here. If I did, my political practice would be different than it is. Have you ever wondered why we [women] are not just in armed combat against you? It’s not because there’s a shortage of kitchen knives in this country. It is because we believe in your humanity, against all the evidence.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 07:51 PM
43

He was enjoying the thrill of dangling emotional and romantic commitment but could not actually follow through with it. So he got the high off saying all this grand stuff (maybe to advance a certain interest/goal of his when it came to you) but when it came to actually doing the work he’s incapable cause he sucks. Like it probably gives him a high to put out all these big statements but he can’t actually follow up and be sincere about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 07:49 PM
18

Complete lies. When I’ve been in unisex gyms I have had so many guys comment on my body and it’s so uncomfortable like to the point I wish these losers were coming to give pointless tips instead if they must open their mouth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 03:14 PM
28

I love when men send desperate boring af texts then you can see that with the timestamps that it took them a few minutes (or more) to come back with some more dull texts to try and get your attention Lol pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 03:14 AM
27

I’m sikh so I don’t have the same religious gendered restrictions/rules but Punjabi culture is all alcohol abuse and machismo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 03:11 AM
25

It is universal 100% and the crux of the issue is male socialization and entitlement which is built off the second class status of women But to editorialize since my personal lifelong interactions typically revolve around south Asian men I just really do see a bigger disparity in their sexist views against women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 12:05 AM
33

Brown girl solidarity 🤝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 10:24 PM
4

Men aren’t conditioned as much as women are to be self conscious about their appearance so it just goes unnoticed or inconsequential to them. Women have the “importance” of their appearance forced on them as little girls and we have a million marketing campaigns and products aimed at emphasizing our looks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 06:21 PM
147

I hate South Asian men so much as a south Asian woman. A lot of them are next level depraved and misogynistic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 05:45 PM
17

It’s so ugly when men use their limit space on dating apps to complain about things women do they don’t like. Like guys who complain about cliches in women’s profiles but would probably clam up and get heated if you said anything about men and their ugly ass selfies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 05:44 PM
4

And no bread
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 03:34 PM
14

Everyone is hyper aware of when they are touching someone’s else leg so men who do it know what is happening and they get off on the discomfort and power trip Like have you ever accidentally touched knees with someone you know on a car ride and you’ll both reposition your bodies to prevent it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 03:33 PM
11

Men truly do not deserve to women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 05:01 AM
12

Totally. It’s not ideal or fair to women but just to protect yourself you have to keep this information to yourself. It sucks but you can have it thrown back in your face in a fit of anger. Women owe loyalty to their own hearts first before any men! I have never had a guy ask me what my body count was personally except for one ex months after breakup when I was stupid and trying to be friends with him (ahh pre FDS me). It was higher than his 2 and mine 7 and I could tell by his silent processing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 04:35 AM
16

Just thinking out loud but I think you can also say that by sharing that aspect of her life she was able to get the real measure of this man faster. If she didn’t tell him he still would’ve had this mentality and attitude of entitlement towards sex but he would’ve just fake backed off if he thought there was a different time frame to go by. I’m not saying you should tell a man about your sexual path especially when it’s irrelevant to him but in this case she is HOPEFULLY able to see soon enough …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 04:19 AM
17

Right!! The entire thing was also a fuck you to macbeths twist about a c section Ugly mediocre men jealous that a woman did a thing without being sexualized for their boners
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 04:03 AM
29

My vag recoiled reading that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 03:05 AM
142

Mixed signals = a no Knowing that only saves women time and energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 10:59 PM
18

That sounds so aggravating I’m sorry I have two lotr tattoos one is narsil in between my chest and other is a rendering of the misty mountains and I wish I could post them on lotrtattoo sub cause I really like them but I just know what is gonna happen if I do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 09:40 PM
73

If he’s too good to be true it’s because he is Always rmbr that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 08:56 PM
19

Omg this reminds me of the one of the worst stories I’ve heard recently My cousins friends went out for drinks with a guy and she got just 1 drink and he told the server separate bills. Then the guy had the gall to invite her to his place. I’m not sure if she went that first day but they have been sleeping together for months and she very obviously has feelings developed for him and he doesn’t at all cause it’s just an easy fuck for him ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 03:33 PM
59

You are right but I still like Tolkiens world of lore and think Eowyns arc ahead of their times when it comes to male writers. She married his favourite and she best fulfilled the morals in the series by recovering after war
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 03:24 PM
131

On the flip side being a lifelong woman lotr fan is hell cause the fandom is so male dominated and sexist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 03:19 PM
47

Faramir is the og HVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 03:18 PM
36

On reflex I ignore pretty much every guy who ~slides into my dms~ cause I just assume he does this to any possible girl he can message. Why does this guy think it’s women’s responsibility and duty to waste their time replying to men they don’t wish to talk to??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 05:34 AM
68

Once after dinner I told a guy thanks and all that and he made a comment about getting a blowjob in return (I didn’t do it) but yeesh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 04:59 AM
110

My favourite appearance based compliment from a guy I’ve ever gotten was “you’re a beautiful girl and I think you know it”. The way he pulled it off was so smooth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 06:59 PM
18

“I feel like a fucking r____” isn’t about that definition
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 05:02 AM
17

Hey don’t use the r word. I’m sorry for what you are going through and I hope you can avoid situations in the future but that’s a rly degrading word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 04:53 AM
115

You can’t love, fuck, cook, favour, gift, clean, listen etc your way into a mans heart You’ll just empty yourself dry and grow resentful. Beyoncé’s “why don’t you love me” is a good sardonic take on this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 04:29 PM
68

The girl who quit her university lecturer job and moved to the Middle East for a guy ☠️ and the grandma who stopped painting cause her husband got insecure and jealous yeesh:(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 05:12 PM
111

“I’m bored and ur pretty” wow what a compliment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 07:13 PM
25

People always ask “why this and why that” about women’s behaviour/reactions to the bad shit men do to them but then just accept the men’s deplorable actions without another thought or question
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 06:55 PM
49

The edit is so sad. Why would someone insult this woman who is obviously miserable and cheated on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 06:39 PM
9

Omg I’m sorry is this guy seriously asking you if you were attracted to your last date??? Omg he comes off like such a loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 04:42 AM
62

Absolute monster. Imagine if she the woman didn’t reject him? He still would’ve been this violent hateful monster but now towards her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 05:51 PM
16

I’ve had guys on apps and guys I met at functions/events ask me what part of the city I live in and I just know it’s for some mental calculations for a potential date post-date sex lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 12:48 AM
1

If anyone has any recommendations for super fresh (not floral) scents lmk!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 04:51 PM
16

In general rape culture campaigns fixate too much on trying to show men that rape is bad but rapist men already know that—they just don’t care or see their victims (who are by large percentages women and girls) to have any humanity. Men know they shouldn’t do it but they just hold their entitlement to power and violence as being more important than anything. If men truly respected and recognized women and girls as human beings then that would change the world but no men hate women and some of th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 04:47 PM
4

Ugh probably and if true these men have no one to blame but themselves for being so depraved. He asked if I wanted to stay over and I was like nah lol but sis it was so annoying cause I have a very specific visual type and this guy was it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 04:00 PM
13

I’ve only used tinder in the past and usually I keep my account for 1-4 days lol or I use it on vacations so before I discovered FDS. But you’re right it’s legit a nuisance swiping especially if you got a specific physical type and a lot of personal NOs The last guy I met from tinder was on a trip in LA this summer and he was so handsome and fun to talk to but then he got whiskey dick or performance anxiety or something RIP straight useless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 04:46 AM
16

I feel tinder gold doesn’t offer much for women. I know whenever I’ve swiped anywhere in the world it’s legit like 1 right swipe to 50 lefts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 04:24 AM
10

Ah okay! Thanks for explaining Do you find tinder gold to be worth it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 04:13 AM
4

If a guy picks you up w no planned date then he’s just taking you to his place to put some background noise Netflix on and then deliver some subpar stroke game
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 04:02 AM
14

Does the gold mean they super liked you or are those your recommend profiles?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 04:00 AM
17

This is my brother. Him and his gf broke up and he got back together with another ex of his immediately after but kept talking to his ex gf as if nothing happened. Then I know he hooked up with some other girl too and probably more. Then once his ex gf told him she went on another date and he told her she’s dead to him and all this stuff ??? The hypocrisy?? And I call him out all the time but he was getting so mad at have his shit called out. He’s back together with the ex gf and then kept the o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 04:23 PM
81

This website is male dominated and it’s dominated lbr by a lot of loser men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 04:17 PM
21

No. Women need their own money and having to be reliant on a mans money just traps women. The issue is capitalism is awful but not working means you will lack economic agency and power in your relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 03:16 PM
2

This is my take on it from the show veep https://youtu.be/CHdjCUCpGyc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 06:33 PM
18

Women are machines that you drop a few compliments and favours in as currency in exchange for men = men’s idea of sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 04:20 PM
21

The “I can steal your man” memes aren’t even funny. Like in what world is a man some sort of prize to gain? Let alone someone else’s cheating significant other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 04:17 PM
10

Men love defending themselves and coming up with any excuses that saves their idea of themselves being a good guy rather than ever see things your way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 04:16 PM
28

Men are out here raping animals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 04:13 PM
11

In my last relationship this guy was very vanilla compared to what I’ve seen with others and my own preferences. I was the second girl he’s been with so I think he was just super sexually inexperienced cause he said they only did it a few times (I always half suspected he was a virgin). It was nice and tender after some good convos but he before that he had a lot of performance anxiety from actual nervousness and for first few months he would either lose his boner or cum in 2 mins so that was no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 03:46 AM
6

Don’t fault yourself. You want a guy that vibes with you for how you are rather than you acting in a way you think you have to attract him. You would just be robbing yourself and letting the wrong guys stay in your life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 07:24 PM
48

It’s just the chase that’s fun for these kinda guys so they just want that validation rather than a mutual good time. My cousin had legit 10 months of build up with this one guy before they had sex and he ghosted her the day after. Homeboy waited all that time just to bounce. I told her he probably would’ve done the same if they fucked on week 1 or 6 Which is why I do agree with a lot of the guidelines you girls put out but I think when if he’s the kinda guy who will ghost in the start easily th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 07:22 PM
8

You should be careful about like a 29 year old guy swiping on 21 year old girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 04:10 AM
6

You guys should see my ex’s insta photos to the photo i have of him lol 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 04:03 AM
3

Tbh that’s just how some people talk. Without even realizing it I’ll write a paragraph when talking innocuously. While some people will split those same thoughts up into 5 texts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 03:53 AM
27

Liberal feminist are about tinkering with society to include women. So they’ll celebrate celebrity feminism or more women CEOs or “feminist” T-shirt’s made by poor women in India—it’s all meaningless gestures and optics rather than actual change and liberation. Radical feminism is about getting to the root of the problem and dismantling it all. Radical feminism is critical of institutions and how deeply entrenched misogyny is in them. Radical feminists are critical and against women being reduce…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 02:20 AM
41

They have the most brain dead idea of feminism in those comments. Feminism should be about women’s liberation not some pity fest for men and slowly asking for little itty changes as long as men are cool with it What kind of feminism do you preach if you can’t name male domination as the source of women’s subjugation across societies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 02:15 AM
56

a lot of men don’t have the same friendships women have to talk about their emotional or daily problems so whenever they get a girl in their life they just use her up as an emotional sponge without ever ever ever giving the same reciprocation back when listening to her. These men have no one else so they just take their emotional dumps on women but if you share anything personal you’ll just get silence or dry af responses while women will ask more questions and actually care to listen to these e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 02:12 AM
10

I don’t like most rich guys cause to me showing off wealth is gross especially if they’re rich cause of their parents richness. There’s a very fine line where these guys can become materialistic and have ego issues. These guys are hardly down to earth. To me modesty and understanding the importance of money is important. I’m from a working class immigrant family and that matters to me and it’s hard for me to connect with guys I’ve met/been with who would drop money like nothing. It’s a values di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 04:55 PM
34

Do you want to be casually dating or do you want him as your man? Start there first I feel he was on his best behaviour in the start to get things going between you two and now he’s getting lazier cause he’s gotten too comfortable cause he thinks he has you secure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 06:13 PM
46

Even birds are much better than these kinda men https://thenib.com/if-men-flirted-like-birds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 10:19 PM
39

“But I do not feel bad” Men be sociopaths
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 10:18 PM
2

He seems impatient and entitled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 06:37 AM
5

Trust actions not words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:57 PM
31

Just back away from him. Guys are on their best behaviour in the beginning when they are trying hard to get you and he’s shown you he’s already lazy and low effort when it comes to how he treats you. Plus the age difference to me makes me doubtful of him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 05:49 PM
15

He’s just trying to get the fucking delivered at his feet with minimal effort. So transparent lol Of him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 02:10 AM
26

Don’t do it. It’s really weird for a first date and men do this thinking they’ll be able to “catch” girls as being catfishes he’s trying to set you up to fail no matter what you look like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 02:03 AM
22

Worst thing any woman he dates in the meanwhile won’t even know and they’ll waste all this time and energy and maybe even blame themselves if there are problems
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 02:15 PM
14

I use the phrase “in between girl” (inspired by a song) to talk about the mental label men put on women they know they don’t want longterm but they are just the girl for “now”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 05:19 PM
10

Any guy who says the c word is automatically BYE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 09:59 PM
3

Me too @ this whole post it’s nice living life loving yourself and without male company just to have company
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 09:58 PM
11

These men are pm automatic creeps. It shows they devalue the women their age (especially when these men are older older) through sexist and ageist ideas about women since we all know women aging is so stigmatized They go for younger girls cause they expect these girls to be naive and easy to mould for their bullshit. They think these girls won’t leave Or say anything to the stupid and shitty stuff they pull on them. They probably also think these girls are easy to manipulate and control. I’m in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 02:58 PM
1

Omfg ruthless I love you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 03:42 AM
11

This sub isn’t about the well being of men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 09:21 PM
35

Women should take “mixed signals” as a no and not waste their energy and time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 05:44 PM
33

He’s a complete loser and it explains why he at almost 30 is going out with a 21 year old thinking she will be naive enough to go for his trash life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 04:50 AM
12

It’s truly a curse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 06:46 PM
7

Leave them on read. Shows you read it and went lmfao not replying. Then move onto blocking after they’ve probably seen that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 05:01 PM
15

I agree with you guys on a lot but this line of thinking isn’t something I want to do. Obviously looks are an important part of attraction no doubt about it but I don’t want ever want to doll myself up for a guy cause if he’s into me because of the trappings of femininity then he’s not the kinda guy I want. I fall more into the radical feminist thinking about beauty and it’s heightened expectations of women being in a cage so that’s my bottom line. I am not being a douchebag but I know I’m conve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 04:46 PM
8

That’s how I found it too. It’s just men being mad at women having a place to talk without them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 10:06 PM
36

Too many women fear being alone that they settle for losers and the guys they settle for barely care about them. Those only guys only have their “I’ll get married I guess” lights on. The SATC plot about this is so true forever Women risk having unsatisfying lives in loveless marriages with ungrateful deadbeat men cause they were conditioned into thinking being by yourself is the worst possible thing. Live your own life and cultivate your own interests and hobbies so you can be more than complete…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 02:02 AM
8

A rule I stand by for plans with guys through trial and error is that if you have plans set from a few days ago and it’s almost time for the date and he never brought it up again or texted you.... consider them cancelled. No point texting them an hour before if the date is still on in the early stages (totally different situation to ask with friends or a bf)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 11:55 PM
11

Right like 49 and 40 would be one thing but in your 20s it’s a lot more defined (sorry if this is ignorant to people’s experiences in their 40s I’m still mid 20s) Yeah these guys go out with girls much younger to expand their base of who they can fuck they aren’t trying to be serious with anyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 11:49 PM
30

I don’t trust him cause of that age gap. 29 and 21 are totally different places to be in life so why isn’t he with a girl closer to his age? He seems to be fading on you too since you had to text him about the plans for confirmation then he cancelled rather than him being upfront first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 11:07 PM
4

100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 11:50 PM
27

Did that for a few months like 2 years ago and jfc learnt my lesson and never getting involved in anything close to that. Women should know you can’t fuck, cook, nice favours etc your way into a relationship if a guy is useless It felt really good to straight up ignore him when he reached out a few weeks ago. Also you really see how ugly and useless a guy after your dickmatized Rose tinted glasses are gone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 06:19 PM
4

I think it’s real if you look at their history
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 03:24 PM
18

they do. I read a lot of Andrea dworkin books and she has articulated every aspect of women’s oppression so well and I would strongly recommend her to other women cause she has changed my life. Men just hate women across the world tho sometimes in different ways but it all stems from a need to keep women controlled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 05:58 AM
4

Holy shit I am so glad I found a sub for women like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 05:55 AM
68

I would be creeped out if a random guy came up to me and said that. I would say thanks awkwardly and try to move away
/r/seduction08/11/17 09:11 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter