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It's their pride in themselves. Deep down, they just want to have fun, but they would feel like shit if they just go along with a guy that just wants sex. At least if you say you're looking for a girlfriend, they can pat themselves on the back for not being too slutty. Now whatever happens, it's your fault since she already did her due diligence.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 06:11 PM
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Most likely answer is she's probably texting other people at the same time. She gets absorbed into your conversation -> she sees another text/message/whatever she's looking at, doesn't even have to be another guy she's interested in -> she's not thinking deeply into the conversation with you and so her own response is not that interesting to her anymore -> she backtracks to your conversation -> it's on again. The female mind is even more so "in the moment" and state-based, so keeping her engaged…
/r/askTRP16/03/17 07:18 PM
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Couldn't you have just posted that instead of trolling? There's also the aspect that his value will lower over time if he becomes more and more reserved and she might not find him a high smv man anymore. It's like Patrice O'Neil's fisherman analogy, I'm about as attractive as my ability to catch more. If I can't (or more importantly, it seems to my LTR that I can't catch more), then I'm not a great fisherman in her eyes anymore. So what's your solution here? What's more is that all this could be…
/r/askTRP27/12/16 07:21 PM
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One of the reasons she brought this up and made a big fuss is to see how serious your reaction is. If it's serious, that means you do think it's flirting. If it's convincingly not, then she'll think there's nothing to it. Women use shit tests to alter their perception of reality a lot, like a blind person poking his surroundings with a stick. She's willing to start problems to see if those problems actually existed before she started them.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 06:53 PM
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8s and 9s act that way too, for the high enough smv guy.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 06:43 PM
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Haha it's ok, I must always sound outraged. I don't accuse you of writing something to get others outraged, but that's how it starts on other subs, i.e that's how feminist subs find stories to lead them to the conclusion that rape culture is a thing. I want people to remain calm and logical when reading stories. 3 more posts of wives killing someone in their family and I bet you people here would start talking about how there's an epidemic of murderous wives and link it in some way to hypergamy,…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 11:45 PM
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This isn't a redpill marriage lesson. This isn't even covering something that can happen to anybody. This is one example of an extreme psycho and you guys took the outrage bait. Is this sub like Facebook and twoX now, looking for something to be outraged by rather than finding what works in their own lives?
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 04:31 PM
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What's the victory condition here? Pride is not a tangible victory, unless it wins him something else like their genuine respect. Instead he got to fuck his gf and leave, a better win condition that just leaving. They get to wallow in their misery and their toxic behavior. Winning at all times is a lot more important than showing who's alpha, even though they correlate most of the time.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 06:27 PM
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Play off of your quiet attitude. It's showing her that you don't give a fuck right now, so it's working. Don't overanalyze what you should say, just be quiet if you feel like it. It'll still work fine.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 10:13 PM
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the love of her life In a while, she'll find another guy to say that to and she'll really mean it then too. I hope you've accepted that neither you nor her were anything special and you're both easily replaceable for one another. Nothing here is confusing or worth overthinking. Tomorrow, wake up as a free man and feel tremendous.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 01:46 AM
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She's afraid you're cheating. To her there doesn't seem to be a reason for you to improve. Changing yourself, from a woman's perspective, is unnatural and disgusts them. However once your improvements really show, you'll reap the rewards. Just carry on and stay positive.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 09:26 AM
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Fair point. I have seen the posts you're talking about on body building forums, but their outer personality would have to be really awkward to take away from their looks. If you can act even average and look good, half the time women will try to keep your attention. Basically, you get more chances to pass shit tests or even less shit testing than the average guy. Better chances of being right, less instant resistance.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 02:25 PM
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You can't use outliers to prove a point. You don't just say "but I know a guy who ..." and use that to indulge people's wishful thinking as truth. The measurable reality tells us that ugly fat guys get laid the least. Great looking guys get laid the most. Therefore looks are number one, regardless of how your friends' unquantifiable x-factor of confidence makes them successful. Have you stopped to consider that your point is what literally every fat or short man tells themselves? Then they skip …
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 08:57 AM
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You did the right thing. The longer you talk over text, the more of an orbiter you become. If she's attracted to you, she'll have all the gratification she needs and may not feel like putting much work into pleasing you, until she's completely bored of you and just wants to be friends. If she's not THAT attracted to you, you may be moving closer and closer to being a friend. Even if you build attraction over texts, she will give you shit when you happen to not reply quickly enough or miss a text…
/r/askTRP01/10/16 01:49 AM
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Did you try quitting jerking off for a while? A week or two usually does it.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 01:27 AM
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You know what? You're right. I wasn't thinking of the proof given by traditional cultures, which is stupid considering I grew up in one.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 08:18 PM
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Women would still flock to the top 10% of those men too, creating a newer definition of "alpha."
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 09:48 AM
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Instead it's used to employ somebody. Still worth it.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 06:54 AM
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They meant psychology, the institution, not psychology, as in the intricacies of the human mind. Psychologists have proven so many times that they're incapable of conducting a proper study. It's either bullshit statistical analysis of 100-1000 person groups or a professor's philosophical take on someone else's statistical study. I.E. Do you see a physicist throwing 1000 balls by hand at a bunch of cars of different makes to determine how much force it takes to bend a piece of metal? These crappy…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 06:10 AM
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Classic shit test. She's trying to see if you'd win and get what you want in the end.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 12:30 PM
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This reply got it best. It does seem like both are dumping anxiety bombs on one another and not just simply "he's being abusive."
/r/askTRP02/07/16 11:22 PM
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The way you worded it, I can't give you a solid answer. Do you have any other specific examples of what pissed him off so much?
/r/askTRP02/07/16 09:30 AM
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Work on your speech, both tone and accent. If you've got that under control and you're in top shape from lifting, you will have a much easier time.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 07:54 PM
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What you might not get is that this girl is actually turned on by all this, but just doesn't want to lose her virginity. She's still enjoying all the forced contact and the "no's." It's not surprising at all that she keeps coming back and asking "what do you expect from me?" She's literally asking for instructions.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 10:00 PM
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Your work is your social network. What do you do?
/r/askTRP23/04/16 06:46 AM
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You could define a unicorn as a woman that can satisfy you in every criteria. Or to phrase it another way, you can define her as a woman who is incapable of being like bad women. For the sake of arguing AWALT, I choose the latter. Because no matter how much she's been conditioned to show positive traits, be it by a parent or sibling, she's still an emotionally-driven creature. Under the right conditions, she'll be capable of rationalizing the bad behaviors we talk about when we say AWALT or "the…
/r/askTRP23/04/16 05:27 AM
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Even if there was, the sub owes Rollo the self promotion.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 03:41 AM
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More posts like this please. This was fantastic.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 05:32 PM
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So you had an ok relationship and you decided it's the alpha way to go fuck a lot of women and start a business, and you made all your decisions while being beta. Lesson is first become alpha then think with a successful mindset, instead of making your beta mind dictate what success is.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 08:29 PM
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You know him better than we do. If you can't deliver a clear message, we can't. The reason asktrp doesn't encourage these "how can I pull my friend out of the hell that is his mind?" posts is because the answer doesn't matter. If he wants to escape, he'll ask and legitimately try to climb. If he doesn't, he'll resent you. Bottom line, only help those who ask for help.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 03:27 AM
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In that case, would a better response to "are you fucking other women?" have been "not for now." ? I would assume that'd at least get some returned value in her thinking that you won't as long as you're satisfied.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 06:10 AM
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Absolutely. Sometimes, men learn these things young and when you see them as a woman, they make it seem easy and natural to be their brand of "alpha." I imagine it must be harder for women to swallow that males creating the natural attraction illusion is a science nonetheless, if average men need TRP and pickup advice to help them realize it. It is fantastic that they made redpillwomen, as the general advice for women on the internet can often be summarized as "be yourself" instead of "improve y…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 03:38 AM
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You almost had a good point about having guts to take action. "TRP is great for a lot of things. But it shouldn't dictate how you handle actual attraction towards someone." From a different perspective, that makes a lot of sense, but in order to get results, he needs to be calculative, and he's looking for advice on what works from men with more expertise. Think about giving the same "be honest" advice to someone who's awkward, shy, ugly, indecisive, "creepy", etc. How can we fix as many of thes…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 05:22 AM
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Lesson #1: learn to be quiet, mentally and physically. Lesson #2: learn the art of good posture and power poses. Lesson #3: learn proper tone and speak with conviction. Practice rapport breaking tonality and deepening your voice. Perfect these habits one at a time in that order. The rest, you already know: Lift, be dominant, read more, etc.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 08:18 AM
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Are you fun?
/r/askTRP14/08/15 12:40 AM
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Don't put people's arguments down as "anger phase," we've seen a lot of that around here. Yes you have a point about being alpha and having a family, but the middle eastern marriage game is very much like the western one in areas with a lot of upper middle class to wealthy families. The new generation expect a similar boyfriend/girlfriend sexual dynamic as the west so I wouldn't be surprised if they expect a similar marriage. I've already been to weddings where they went with an exact replica of…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 10:52 PM
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"Watch your step, the floor is really dirty" never failed.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 11:16 PM
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Audio books on my commute and breaks at work, 15 minutes of reading before bed. It has helped me tremendously. Don't think of it as pathetic. Fat people stay fat because they think fitting in 15 mins of exercise a day is pathetic and give up. The same can be said about ignorance.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 12:54 AM
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So that's how you make money with a liberal arts degree!
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 07:12 PM
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Good point. I didn't know about that Cosby speech but the main reason I liked Maher was that he had the balls to say that after 9/11. I would want to see him call out feminist bs, it'd be very entertaining.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 08:47 PM
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What's too general? In every post on the internet about a minor crime, there's someone calling for the suspect to be imprisoned because they get their emotions tied up in the article. Everybody seems to think harsh punishment sets an example for the insane. Reminds me of how feminists focus on being harsh on normal boys to prevent rape.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 09:31 PM
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Imprisonment helps no one, it just almost sets an example, but not quite. Demand for people to be imprisoned always comes from an emotional stance. Fines on the other hand can be used as police resources, whereas threat of imprisonment might even stop other liars from coming forward.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 06:09 AM
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He'll have to learn by experience. Be there to laugh in his face when it happens.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 05:17 PM
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It's filled with a lot of the feel good BP bullshit most of us avoid. He does a pretty good job of capturing people's realities and thoughts. Where's your hate coming from? Other than that, you're on point. The results of showing vulnerability around a woman is one of the most fundamental red pill lessons. More importantly, women will often rationalize their internal cringe as another reason they were drawn away from the vulnerable man, something that will not make them the bad person. It's impr…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 05:23 PM
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How much do you lift and how is it going?
/r/askTRP05/03/15 03:27 PM
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Play sports with your kid when he's younger, that helps tremendously. My father and I used to go out after his work and we'd play soccer, tennis, sometimes box for fun. It's not even about aggressive behavior. Teaching your kid to fix things, and showing him hobbies that develop self improvement ethics will also make him into a man when he grows up. Unfortunately in modern society, it's a lot harder to go out with your kids most days, my father used to get off work before 3. Most fathers nowaday…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 06:45 PM
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While you are right that most big meat producers have horrific animal treatment, there are usually not one but several free range farms in every big area that don't follow the same practices. Paying someone to do the dirty work for me doesn't mean I didn't earn it. I earned it by earning the money. We can't all be hunters and farmers by profession, and that's actually a good thing for society.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 01:43 PM
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Of course, it's prevalent in every human at some point. What we do is understand enough only to make it work in our favor, not so much to try to rank people. We're not interested in dissecting women to figure out all truth about them and so it's pointless to ask, as much as it is pointless for a fish to ask a fisherman, the response will always be "that's only true / that only works for the stupid fish."
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 06:17 PM
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It is correct. Women's gain of emotional maturity falls off after 18. She can learn from exp... Oh wait there she goes off with another asshole after she said she was done with them. It's a bad example, but experience should show you how strong cognitive dissonance is in women. Their ability to rationalize instead of change is also behind this "immaturity." It won't stop them from memorizing a book or a series of formulas, but it will hinder their performance in other areas.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 05:07 PM
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Heard that one a lot. I'd tell her "Don't tell me who to boss," "can and will," or stare with an eye brow raised and a smirk. At first she might protest and show some attitude, but if done right, you'll be surprised how much nicer she'll be to you in the future. Some women just demand to see some extra masculinity by making statements like these, assuming you're not being over-the-top in the first place. Also, make a mental note of statements like these. They're LTR red flags.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 06:15 AM
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Interesting thought. At first women were declared persons, and then 100 years later men might be declared not to be.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 05:07 AM
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Tell her "woman! Calm thy tits!" But no really treat them the same way you'd treat shit-tests. The more you acknowledge (logically argue against) toxic behavior, the more you'll get of it. Reward good behaviors and ridicule (agree and amplify) bad ones.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 08:48 AM
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Geez lighten up brother. You've been in 100% control of how you feel your entire life and never once tried to take that control? Who cares about what you win and lose in life, you've got an empty page to scribble whatever you want into and then die anyway. Take it from someone who's been in your situation, you've got nothing to fear in either life or death. You've already shown that you're willing to give it all up. Put more syrup in those pancakes if they're not tasting so good.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 05:34 PM
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If you can be amog in your pajamas, you can be amog anywhere. Words I live by.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 04:45 AM
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Eh I would go out of curiosity. What's the worst that could happen? If it's a prank, I'd want to know who's pranking me anyway. No harm done until you do something stupid about it.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 01:32 AM
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Relax, smile (note that smiling with your eyes is more important than smiling with your mouth), and hold good posture. Think what facial expression god would have if he was a human walking around. There's no threat to him, and he couldn't care less how you're judging him because it's all too easy. The wisest and strongest men don't need to put up a bitch face either because they're carefree of proving they're amog. That's the face of amused mastery.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 05:27 PM
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It doesn't matter what she says. Half the time, what you will hear is a rationalization turned into a belief. What matters is the result.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 07:55 PM
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Seeing so many long explanations going in circles. To keep it short, the goal behind the harsh-sounding advice on TRP is to attract women and get them to treat us better (ignoring the anger phase posts). Here, it's just reversed. If you were to apply all of the advice on TRP on your man, it's highly likely to not end well. That's where RPW comes in.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/15 06:47 AM
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The way I see it, her old lifestyle is the reason she has her current "good" personality. Coming from a war filled / poor background myself, some people had a natural ability to float above the bs and have the right attitude, these circumstances made the most quality people, and let's say a small percentage of women. Nowadays, I prefer the company of women who've developed a greater character out of them. I'd take the advice of the guy that suggested moving if you see her family and old friends …
/r/askTRP21/01/15 06:42 PM
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Wasn't trying to shame anybody, I was curious about the pros and cons to these methods because I just don't see the importance of passing on my genetics. The topic has no emotional connection to me and that's why I like the idea of adoption if I really wanted to be a parent. Does that simply change as we age? Either way when the kid is old enough, he'll want to meet his real mom, so I'm not looking to either as an ideal.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 08:35 AM
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True, that's my main concern with adoption. I would've thought there were similar obstacles to surrogacy. Are there none?
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 08:04 AM
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My main question is: why do this instead of adopting?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 07:07 PM
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I finally see what a joy women are to work with, said every employer upon hearing this news.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 04:09 AM
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I don't tell people what I think they need to hear anymore. When they're ready to search, they'll find the info. Only offer help to the ones who ask you for it. The rest just want to whine for sympathy, and r/OffMyChest is a place for those people.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 03:13 AM
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The video was for jokes. He never actually forced anybody to suck his dick. It was just very rude, no need to over-analyze this.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 07:09 PM
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Rustling jimmies is winning. You take women too seriously. her: "1 in 3 women are raped you know." me: "ONLY? I thought it was a lot more." her: some bullshit about marital rape or taking back consent me: "Did you know 1 in 3 dicks are never sucked?"
/r/askTRP03/11/14 01:25 AM
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True. I probably cant tell you the exact way to put it, since I don't know her, but that's really how I've been dealing with almost all pointless questions, complaints, and shit-tests and it works. Even a simple smile with an eye brow raised sometimes does the trick, just anything to show that the question is pointless without seeming like the petty one. Being direct is only the solution for certain cases.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 08:42 PM
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The most important part is the fun of it like the example BPtoRP gave. By answering the way you did, all you did was create tension and negativity and put it all on her. To clarify, agreeing and amplifying or just making the conversation fun makes it so the problem is only a silly thought in her head if there is a problem. That way, the hamster eventually caters to you since you provide the better feeling and more solid outcome, instead of rationalizing creating even more problems and shit-tests…
/r/askTRP29/10/14 02:52 PM
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It's very simple, people. It's a metaphor describing value not sex or relationships. Whatever you're chasing, the more you acquire of it, the more valuable you are. However, that thing you're chasing becomes less and less valuable when more people have it. If women were the natural initiators of relationships, things would be the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 06:00 AM
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There are, but the more you focus on the sluts, the more you'll find plenty of them. You're in college, so pay no attention to the party whores and focus on your career and self improvement. The anger phase goes away naturally. Main things I can thank trp for are knowing how to tell which of my options is the most decent woman and passing shit tests, both of which help in finding women with no fucked up history.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 05:38 PM
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I'd like to meet "Julio." I love how he saw right through the sweet voice the second visit. A lot of guys don't catch on to that and think the problem is fixed too soon.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 11:33 PM
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Shit testing is for bitches. Be straight forward. Remember that her shit tests are supposed to work in your favor by the end, so if you know how to deal with them, you're not just leveling the playing field, you own the field itself.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 03:31 PM
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Aside from it being wrong, why would you want a woman who'd ditch just like that to be on your side when there are plenty of better single ones? The guy worked this hard for a year to end a fellow man's 4 year relationship. If we lived in another time, you'd have a reason to shoot him.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 03:04 PM
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It's up to women if they don't want to be with a guy who's been with lots of women. The short answer for why we don't call out man-sluts is we don't actually care. Most men here are just doing what works for them to get what they want. We're not enforcing social justice or anything like that. With women on the other hand, speaking for myself, I tend to go for LTRs, and a high partner count to me shows one of two things (or both): 1. She has little to offer other than sex, so that is all guys use…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 05:32 AM
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And there we have it, gentlemen, a solid point. It's as if every young male nowadays wants to live out their fantasy villain because of how glorified they are on TV and games, so they don't even know what heroism is, or what it has to do with social and sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 01:53 AM
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Guy opinion: Don't be a plate. If I'm looking for a LTR, I'm going to find a LTR.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 03:13 PM
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