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What is wrong with these girls? If she just loves to clean things, she could join with a cleaning service or start working freelance and make some cash for her efforts! What a fool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:41 PM
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They both got that fap stare and titties. Fuck what they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:07 PM
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Because it's not about having a consensually poly relationship, it's about making a woman accept below even the bare minimum and breaking her spirit. Functional, honest relationships are the last thing these assholes want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:05 PM
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For me, my empathy for DMX is in recognizing how toxic misogyny destroys male children before they ever get a chance to be decent, empathetic, functioning humans. He was a NVM because in his formative years other NVM irrevocably killed his spirit. This is very evident in all groups of men, but it is particularly so within the black community. HOWEVER, and please don't mistake me, all of this understanding of WHY men end up shit does not diminish the damage that these shit men do to the women and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:50 PM
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Geek gatherings consistently have to remind male attendees to maintain proper hygiene, but she's a problem to them because she's "trying too hard". Losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:11 PM
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The prostitutes and trafficked women you speak of are not the ones I am referring to when I say "privileged". I thought I was very clear about that. I am referring to the precious few that have made "sex work", or more accurately, sex work lobbying (many aren't actually prostitutes), a very lucrative enterprise, and they make their money and fame doing what amounts to PR work for pimps. And while these women may not live 100% fairytale lives, they are greatly enriched by perpetuating the idea th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:07 PM
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I am really encouraged to see these young women calling a thing a thing. Maybe there is hope for us that don’t want to live in a pornified misogynist “wonderland” of dangerously faux feminist sentiment after all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:32 PM
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Two of these women made porn (sex tapes). The other two made a raunchy music video and take racy pics for instagram. But which ones are being painted as the current downfall of humanity? Two guesses, but you only need one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:29 AM
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It’s frightening how little liberal feminists care about how incredibly racist their beloved sEx iNduStRy is and how deeply inequitable outcomes are for black and brown women compared to white ones. As long as a few extremely privileged white western women can make tons of money, it doesn’t matter how many poorer, browner, non-western women are destroyed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:26 AM
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Another day, another white woman partnering with only fans/seeking arrangement/other trendy website connected to sex trafficking to be featured in yet another native ad campaign for the porn industry. There’s a new one of these all of the time. This woman is likely being victimized by her scrote husband, but she’s also a useful tool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:19 AM
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Saweetie said what she had to say and there’s nothing more to it. I’m sure he wasn’t sidelined by her announcement, he just wants to pretend to be victimized by the consequences of his actions. I hope she never mentions his cheating ass again and continues on in peace knowing that she got out of there just in time. As a semi-related aside... I hope Cardi finds it in her heart to leave her own cheating ass man for good one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:26 PM
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The returns of this “lifestyle” are meager at best, but even worse are the opportunity costs associated with it. What does a young woman give up when she spends all of her time and energy attracting men to provide for her? There’s a loss of time, energy, sanity, health, emotional resources... all of these costs compound over the time she spends in the life. Many of the first gen “sugar babies” and internet famous girls are in their mid to late 30’s now, and a lot of them that still have internet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:14 PM
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Stupid, lying men really believe that we are as stupid and dishonest as they are. She’ll notice that the ring is a cheap child’s toy no matter what box you put it in. A woman that knows anything about Tiffany jewelry wouldn‘t be fooled any a non-name brand item in a name brand box. The only type of woman that they might get over on is one that isn’t into jewelry in any way or only wears costume jewelry, the exact type that would have been appreciative of whatever decent and moderately priced thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:50 PM
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One of my favorite art history facts! They’ve been telling these stories for all of human history... yesterday it was “small peens r smart”, today it’s everyone loves “dad bods”!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:47 PM
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I know that misogyny and homosexuality are not directly correlated... but damn it, many of these men have fantasies about being sex slaves to other men. They get so mad and irrational, it’s likethey are jealous of women. How dare we choose to work and live independenly when we could shut up, make pot roasts and service men? That’s what they would choose, if they could! It’s porn derangement, and the ”bimbo” fetish is huge amongst the scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:21 PM
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As with any calls for men to stop looking at porn, the effect it has on their weenies and feels is paramount, and the greater safety of women is an unintended consequence. Men will only cure themselves of porn addiction in favor of a different method of dehumanizing women that is less taxing on their dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:47 PM
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Calling men's sustained butthurt over this subreddit a misunderstanding is incorrect. Misunderstanding suggests a genuine, unintentional ignorance, and that's not what this has ever been. They hate this space because it is not for them, not about them, not serving them. They don't like when women speak amongst themselves, especially not when we speak about protecting ourselves against misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 10:09 PM
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100% of the work of setting up the app, scheduling chores, providing the idiot man the materials he needs to do said chore (because god forbid if he has to go underneath the kitchen cabinet and find the dishwashing liquid on his own) and then check whether the chore was done correctly still falls on the woman. Men never consider all of the work that goes into managing tasks, they just do their one simple household task and think they've done all of the work (and deserve headpats and degrading se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:40 PM
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Before this... it was Future, Trey Songs, P Diddy (allegedly, and this was after it was his son? the timeline gets sketchy) and some others I don't know. It's disappointing because she has the resources to do and become just about anything she truly wants, yet all she's really known for is being pretty and having flings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:48 PM
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Their intentions match their actions. They don't just mistakenly fuck up, be misogynistic, harm and manipulate women... they do it on purpose. The socially codified ability to pretend to be ignorant of the results of their negative behavior is an extremely valuable tool for misogyny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:34 PM
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There are different ways to be lonely, and even if you don't want a romantic relationship, your need to go out, drink and hook up seems to speak to a need for connection with others, a want for community, and a desire to disconnect from other stressors in your life. And it's okay to go out and have fun (but partying during a pandemic? That's still dangerous) but you're the one that has identified negative consequences in the ways you decide to do that. You have to unpack the thought processes th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:06 PM
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You probably aren't horny... you're lonely and bored. And it's not your female hormones, it's your lack of positive coping mechanisms and you current inability to connect to your true needs. Clearly those needs aren't fulfilled by partying and having sex with random men, because you don't like the results of those actions. What are you really looking for? And if your drinking is a problem, it's absolutely not "harsh" to think about quitting. There are resources for people that have alcohol issue…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 01:38 PM
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This right here. Considering the other (older than her!) assholes Lori has been linked to, I fear that she is stuck in a loop where she gets involved with men that see her as only a trophy, and she might not be in a place to see herself as more than that due to the example of her parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 11:52 AM
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I don’t have this same experience. I’ve had weight problems all my life, was once morbidly obese, became a normal weight, but I regained ~25 lbs due to the pandemic (I can still squeeze my excess booty into my stretchy jeans, but I can forget about my work slacks!). At any size, I get unwanted attention from men, mostly because men suck, but also because of my body shape. In fact, I think it is worse when I’m very fat, because men drop the pretense of respecting me to simply comment on the size …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:31 PM
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You set forth a standard, and he quickly revealed his inability to meet it. Good for you, sayonara to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:35 PM
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You know this, I know this. Who doesn't know this? The girls that are currently being groomed by this multimillion dollar media campaign to recruit underaged girls into porn and prostitution. All of these "empowered" sex workers that allegedly make fucktons of cash are just poster girls. There will, one day, be a girl chosen by the industry to replace her once she gets too damaged or old or dies of tragic or suspicious causes. All of the new girls think it's gonna be them, but it won't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:35 AM
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If the relationship started when the two were very young, sure. If she doesn't want marriage at the moment or ever, okay. If she wants to be married, has wanted it since the very beginning but is waiting in vain for him to finally be ready too... it's terrible. And there's something to be said against men that will wait 5, 10, 15 years before deciding to propose. 9 times out of 10, he was waiting for a "better option" that never materialized, and no woman should want to be a consolation bride.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:12 AM
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I will forever remain skeptical of any reports about how much money any of these girls are making, because there is a very strong vested interest to push the narrative that sex work is easy and extremely lucrative. I'm sure the industry is making a ton off of her, but the amounts in this article feel inflated. The real goldmine is all of its new hopeful "stars". Tens of thousands of underaged girls are looking at this girl and others, seeing the legitimization of their exploitation in mainstream…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:59 AM
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Not sure why she couldn't have chosen better examples (an abusive crackhead? Where's the standards?!) but she might be on to something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:44 AM
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Her friend is the biggest asshole because she didn't have to even share the hateful nonsense her idiot husband said, but she did because she too sees herself as superior for having produced a child with a penis. Good luck to all the kids in that family, particularly those two older girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:48 PM
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Not her again. Note that while the decriminalization of prostitution is owed to these innocent incel dears, they can't possibly be expected to pay for it, because they're omg poor. Women must instead give them sex as a charity, among other things (this is why we're evil for considering a potential mate's financial and mental security, how dare women not give all of their resources to entitled men?!?!). Wonder why she isn't "volunteering" her own ass for this cause? I suppose the sacrifice, as us…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:14 AM
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What a weirdo, whether this is true or not (on Reddit it can go either way). If this is real, I hope she's blocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:37 PM
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You guys keep going on and on about being bitten... but what about the king snake that gets mistaken for the venomous coral? How dare you assume the worst about these poor creatures. Toxic snake culture has killed many a non-venomous snake! Who will answer for those deaths, huh?!?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:27 PM
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The blame is firmly with the man, but I truly don’t understand what women who find themselves being the new shiny think will happen once the novelty wears off. He threw away one wife and set of kids, what’s stopping him from doing it again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:18 PM
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The scars of abuse may never go away, but in time, with love, patience and care, we can rebuild. I really hope you are seeking help for your PTSD. You aren’t broken forever and his abuse does not have to be the end of your story. Please be kinder to yourself, and please know that you don’t have to go through this alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:11 PM
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Since the pandemic, I’ve completely avoided certain secluded paths through a park I used to go through... because even in broad daylight, I no longer feel safe out there. There have been more reports of drug addicts, irate homeless men and other violence in our area, and what used to be somewhere where I’d be on alert but not scared is a place I will not go at all. I love nature, and I love all of the places where I used to be able to stand still for a moment and not hear anything but trees and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:03 PM
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I’m quite sorry that you’ve experienced all of this, but you’re projecting a lot. I never suggested that women who are currently or previously abused are less than, but women that are free of such abuses are happier, healthier and less stressed. This is what I meant by “aging beautifully”, I obviously don’t know what you or the woman discussed in the OP looks like and it doesn’t matter. There‘s a lot of beauty to be found in a well-lived life. Ms Georgia could very well be a victim of domestic a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:55 PM
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They didn’t just discover this place, they’re already here, lurking and being mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:49 PM
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Two ply toilet paper!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:44 PM
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A key tool of oppression is distraction. Misogyny wants women to be distracted, so it tasks us with time and energy wasting chores to frustrate and destabilize us. One of those chores is fixing broken men. They’re suffering too, ya know, how dare you ignore their needs? Talk to them, be nice to them, give them your space, don’t expect too much from them because they’re hurting, waah waaah. Sometimes you have to ask yourself... if this thing they’re asking you to waste all of your time doing is s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:06 PM
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IF that comment was posted, there’s a more than fair chance that he or his sock puppet wrote it and it was deleted immediately because the mods here don’t play that shit. Reddit males have killed many a woman’s subreddit by posting violent and illegal things and then reporting them en masse to get the whole thing shut down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:55 PM
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Takes parental leave... but makes it a gaming vacacation instead, setting up his stupidbox in the baby’s room, directly interfering with the child’s sleep and care. When confronted with the negative affects, he pouts and says it’s the 7 week old that is spoiled. Father of the year!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:28 AM
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Women that haven’t been burdened by low value men age beautifully, stay healthier, and have better lives in their golden years. Either by staying single or being married to honestly good partners, something really special happens when a woman lives a life free of domestic misogyny. Ms Georgia seems to have a full and joyful life. This should be all of our goals, no matter what road we take to get there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:32 AM
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Being a landlord isn’t exploitative at its core: people need places to live, and if you own a residential property, you can rent it out to those people, providing a fair service at a fair price. It is perfectly possible to be a landlord and not exploit other people. Interesting that you seem to believe it’s logical for women to align themselves with men who own things, but believe women shouldn’t try to cut out the “middle man” and become owners because omg capitalism. That makes no sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:25 AM
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I’ve seen no official confirmation of this, but after years of observing i am 100% convinced that Seeking Arrangement is running a (probably quite expensive) sponsored media campaign with many “mainstream” publications to post glowing, positive reviews of their site with fake testimonials. It‘s always some far fetched tale where some struggling college student signs onto the site and meets a multimillionaire that immediately whisks her out of poverty and buys her a bunch of shiny things just bec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:08 AM
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She sounds inebriated and also far more upset than she should reasonably be given the circumstances (whatever they were, I truly have no clue why she’s mad). This is a “her” problem. Maybe when she sobers up she’ll work on things. ​ ETA: Yeah, she says she’s doing “whippets” and that can in her hand is what she’s huffing. How did she end up alone, in a club outfit, getting high? A lot of things are terribly wrong here. She needs help. This isn’t really a pickme issue, this is a substance abuse o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:38 PM
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I’m sure no one is really doing anything to her, and she’s seen much worse from men while just minding her business on the internet. But part of why she wrote such a ridiculous article is for attention, and she’s going to milk it for as long as she can. Watch out for a follow up to expose how meeen all of us terrible women are being to her in the near future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:34 PM
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Are you really in here on this beautiful Thursday (or Friday, depending) comparing the plight of sad males and their self-induced suffering to systemic racism? No. This isn’t it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:45 PM
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Many men don’t like dadbods, and the insecure ones just want women to deal with them despite their appearance so that they’ll feel slightly less shite about how they’ve let themselves go. It doesn’t work, and they usually end up taking their negative body image out on the women that accept them as they are. What do women gain in this situation? Nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:30 PM
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I suspect he’s been increasingly abusive towards her for a while, but it’s only now gotten to a point where he felt confident enough to mistreat her in front of other people. Good for your friend for getting out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:11 PM
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How do these poor sensitive scrotes manage being gay years old for a whole year? I’m sure it’s devastating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:52 PM
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I'm sorry you didn't make out well in the divorce, but with a career and a way to support yourself, you can rebuild in time. Your ex sucks, and that has nothing to do with your choice to maintain a job. If you were financially dependent on him, he would have simply found a different way to fuck you and your possible children over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:25 AM
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There's a good chance this is just a scrotal fantasy, but it's not as if males haven't been going into careers that put them in direct supervision of women and children to abuse them since forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:38 PM
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I don't care for either of these women and I quit watching after less than 30 seconds. Two sides of the same "look at me boys, i'm super edgy and chill!" coin. And neither of them have been picked, of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:25 PM
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In a quiet moment, you might want to figure out why you feel attacked by the idea that women will always need to ensure their financial futures whether they work outside of the home or not. The fairytale you wish to live in may come to an abrupt end, and all anyone is saying is that you must plan for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:46 PM
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Interesting to note that you feel these common sense, reality based warnings against being 100% financially dependent on any man are considered villification to you. You wanting to be a SAHM does not negate the fact that men quite often don't hold up their end of the bargain. Yes, your Nigel too might die, become unable to work and provide, or simply decide he no longer wants a wife and kids and leaves you to fend for yourself. You can roll the dice and stick your head in the sand about it, of y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:32 PM
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I sometimes fear that women in "developed" countries are living on borrowed time, keeping the freedoms we have only because the left and right can't decide how to meet in the middle in their common goal of exploiting our labor and bodies to shore up global misogyny. All across the world, where women have a choice in their reproductive destinies and can successfully support themselves, we are choosing to stay single and have fewer or no children, and this is a direct threat to a worldwide male po…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 06:36 PM
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Sex has always been terrible for her, but at one point she thought that if she played along, things would get better. She undoubtedly put this same logic to many other areas in the relationship where she suffers in silence for his comfort and pleasure. Now ,after years of putting up with his bullshit she can no longer pretend that she's happy. Inside and outside of the bedroom, this woman is tired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:15 PM
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Let these poorer, browner, less important women and girls be fresh meat for rapists so us richer, whiter, more privileged women can stay safe, dye our hair stupid colors and be super supportive of sEx wOrK on the internet, because we're pretty confident that we'll never be forced into prostitution like they were.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:19 PM
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Trollish fartsniffer projected all of his angst onto this girl that did nothing to him except foolishly believe that they were actual friends. I hope she’s safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:13 PM
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Women like her say and do these things for the attention and clout, it’s a big racket. There are some very brainwashed women out in the world, but the ones trying to make a name for themselves on social media are largely in it for the clicks, which they find ways to monetize. But beyond that, they don’t get from the males they are bending over backwards to attract and pleas. They do and say all of the right things but never get picked, and they blame other women instead of men not holding up the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:11 PM
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Interesting (not) how their ”marriage” directly coincides with the global pandemic, a time when many lost work and income. I bet 5 monopoly dollars that he was in need of a roommate...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 03:42 PM
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According to Google, Ohio State has an endowment of 5.29 billion dollars. Could some of that money go to building more resources for at-risk and in-need students? Could some of that money go into making more opportunities for part and full time work on campus for said students? Fuck no. Instead they get some ”empowered feminists” who may not even be selling ass themselves to recruit desperate young women into this bullshit. I hate this timeline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 03:04 PM
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This doofus really thought you had forgotten that you didn’t want to sleep with him. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 05:31 AM
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Men who refuse to choose age appropriate women to romantically partner with also usually refuse to bathe regularly, eat vegetables, lay off the alcohol and/or drugs, or style themselves neatly. This ugly troll is a key example. They hit the wall not once, but repeatedly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 05:09 AM
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Exactly, pure selfishness. Men have no problem leaving women when they feel they can no longer get anything of value from the relationship (like when she has a physical or mental health challenge and can no longer provide physical and emotional labor) so they should be able to call it quits long before they decide to cheat too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 02:58 AM
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One word: Beyoncé. It's never about who she is, it's always about who he is (a dishonest POS) and what he thinks or knows he can get away with. Societal ideas like this go a long way with helping men be terrible to the women in their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 02:44 AM
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So he has not one damn picture of his cat other than the video of him fucking his only just legal ex wife when he was still thin enough to see his dick? Yeah, right. She got herself a slob of a man pining after his brief peak. He'll only grow fatter, older, and more resentful. A liability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 02:35 AM
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He's a complete fucking idiot. Of course, this stupidity doesn't stop him from attempting to exploit a woman's supposed disadvantage in a way that disrespects her and elevates himself in his false superiority. A loser on all levels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 01:46 AM
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She has absolutely no obligation to give him shit. Dump him and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:37 PM
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Hopefully he keeps this same energy (considering her needs and wants first and being an active participant in making their relationship work) in all things for as long as they are together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:30 PM
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The punchline is the thumbnail. He's got all of the nerve and none of the ability to see his own dick past his gut. SMH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:19 PM
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Her daughters look more like her than they do him... and thank goodness, because if it were the other way around she'd probably be officially a single mom. That's fucked to say, but it's true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:11 PM
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Yeah, and i'm saying that him saying it on video isn't the first time she heard that stupid shit. She heard it when they first got together, but she thought it didn't have anything to do with her. Now she's stuck with his cheating ass and she's connecting the dots...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:10 PM
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That's that bullshit. "Married mothers see their husbands as bigger, more needy babies than their actual kids, not equal contributing partners. The solution? Make fun of your wife more, boys!" HOW IS THAT HELPING?!? And communication only works with receptive, mature, thoughtful people. A lazy ass manbaby is none of the above, especially since they know they're not picking up their fair share of slack and don't give a fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:51 PM
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I'm sure he let her know all about his anti-black woman beliefs when they first started dating, as many of these ash buckets think their hatred for themselves is attractive to non-black women. Unfortunately, they are often right, and these women think that because they are the "chosen" women for these fuckers they will be treated like queens. Time goes by... and they end up with emotional trauma and fatherless children (even if he sticks around, i'm sure he does nothing for those kids they have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:36 PM
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The soup kitchen is for people in need, and while they usually have enough to go around, the food they provide is for those that actually don't have other options, not cheap fucks that want a free meal. For him to think it was acceptable to take a date there shows a disgusting level of selfishness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 09:28 PM
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I am agog. Not even that they live so shabbily, men are gross and have no standards. But that they allowed reporters to fucking come into their rats nest and film as they good naturally point out all the ways they are gross. What. The. Fucccck. I am sure these three aren't the only ones living this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:37 PM
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None of what he wrote has anything to do with who this woman would be on a personal level, just the material attributes she has that makes her impressive or desirable to others. Furthermore, a high earning, high maintenance woman that is image conscious and independent doesn't want his ass and he knows it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:26 AM
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I'm sorry you have to go through this right now. As far as that last part is concerned... don't wait for his explanations, and don't wait for him to have a "change of heart". His actions have shown you beyond a shadow of a doubt that he does not value you or this marriage as you need him to. He isn't the one, therefore any further time you spend trying to make this thing work is a waste. I don't know if you still live with him or not, but after you've separated physically, speak to him only thro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:31 PM
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When I read that part, I immediately thought of stories of how women had been indoctrinated into prostitution by pimps and traffickers. It is not unusual for these men to court their victims, pretend to care for them, and them the positive attention they've been starved of (as many are previous abuse survivors). As things go on, the kindness dwindles to nothing and the hurtful and exploitative treatment gets more and more extreme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:25 PM
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It's trauma bonding, pure and simple. You never should have to mentally and physically recover from sex. It should be a positive, fun and satisfying experience at all stages, not only after you "consent" to endure abuse and degradation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:19 PM
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Thanks for this cultural context. I'm sure he is well aware of the customs of their community... so why is he bitching? Ass. If she wasn't thinking about leaving before, she might be considering it now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:58 AM
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Tired of this woman, her antics, and all similar dramallama pickme columnists that these media sites love to feature. She needs therapy, not a damn platform to be rewarded and encouraged to be self destructive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 06:52 PM
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This is either fake or he's leaving out key information because if she's got money and doesn't care that much about him or their household she would have left. I bet she is contributing her fair share and more, but he feels since her family has money he shouldn't have to try so hard to get back on his feet. Fuck that. And if she is refusing to ask her family for financial support, who really knows if she is even free to use the money he found in that account? Men suck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 06:50 PM
36

1) We all die alone. 2) If you settle for a low value mate, you're gonna die alone with regrets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 06:11 PM
35

Note that the TV has LED lights behind it... but is still on the floor. Priorities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:09 PM
38

Nothing's wrong with that phone, by itself. In fact, there's nothing wrong with people that can't or won't buy expensive electronics, and it's quite alright to prefer android. However... I find that dudes that hate apple products to a ridiculous degree are ashy as fuck. I don't know why it is, but it's always been this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 05:05 PM
77

This is likely a fake scenario (for the person that made the dumb ass meme) but it's wild how these incels dream of abusing the trust and esteem of a caring, doting "dream" girlfriend. The cruelty is the point: treating a woman who foolishly loves them like shit is their entire goal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 12:49 PM
45

I see people are trying to misunderstand here... not having a job doesn't automatically make a man trash, but an unemployed man who isn't trash would be using his time and energy to find work for himself because he values being self sufficient, not trying to become a stay-at-home boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 12:34 PM
321

I hope this is a sketch because zomg she can't be serious. And feels inappropriate to me for a young adult to unload their relationship drama on a 10 year old. Get a diary, honey!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:04 AM
12

Muhfuckas is bored and refuse to find anything better to do with their lives. This is why they troll and infiltrate women's internet spaces and seek out "penpals" on dating sites. It gives them the attention from women they could never achieve through normal human interactions. Quit chatting with timewasters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:16 PM
28

Who in the fuck wants a chicken coup inside the house anyway?!? This makes no sense. He's probably going to catch salmonella... a fitting punishment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 10:14 PM
213

1) She should seek out events and places where her cute outfits would be appropriate, and go there, by herself or with friends. Why wait to be taken when you can take your damn self? 2) She should only date the types of guys that want to go to cute date outfit places over sneaker and track suit places.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 10:12 PM
17

Beyonce isn't infallible, but i'm not about to come for her because of her shit husband or the way her parent's terrible relationship informed her to stay with her shit husband, the only adult romantic relationship she's ever really had. Her talent and her work ethic is what makes her powerful, but don't ever take relationship advice from her. I'm also not going to play black women entertainers against each other... Beyonce has her place and all of my other faves have theirs. All of the artists …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 10:06 PM
25

I, as a member of the hive, was disappointed in Beyonce's mention of it. She's representative of a lot of women nowadays... they want to be supportive of what is currently popular, but they don't think too deeply about what they are condoning and cosigning. And then there's the fact that Megan, who I also like as a person, can't take a picture without her butt in it, but that's a whole other topic. Onlyfans as a meme has been pissing me off for all of 2020. A lot of women have lost their jobs an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 07:42 PM
86

Fuck Chris Brown. That is all. As an aside... I believe that Onlyfans is paying these "celebrities" large amounts of money to start accounts with them to mainstream their platform and encourage naive young people (usually women) to get into sex work... where they will never see even a fraction of the money these famous people pretend to make. It's very insidious and dishonest, and i'm sick that its become a thing that far too many are getting caught up in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 07:23 PM
180

This girl has apparently created a tiktok dedicated to her relationship with a college football player. What could possibly go wrong?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:40 AM
77

Hence my assessment. He really thinks he's doing something exemplary by warming up some nuggets for his kid, which tells me he doesn't often prepare food for his child or even himself. Now he's fucked up the brand new stove... and i'm sure Mr Big Brain won't be the one to figure out how to clean up that melted plastic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:02 AM
155

Sometimes people have a brain fart and do something incredibly stupid by accident, but something tells me this man is just a fuckin' idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:52 AM
18

I have a childhood "friend" (in quotes because to be perfectly honest we haven't been true friends since we were very young and she's never been a person I felt I could trust) like this. We reconnected this year because her parents got COVID and it was a really scary situation... but she's a pickme, her pickme ways have ruined our relationship multiple times over the years and she was actively dating new guys she met from OLD in the thick of our shutdown. I still have this naive wish that we cou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:59 PM
28

Being that money issues are one of the top stressors in a marriage and a huge reason for divorce, this makes sense. Financial stability is key to the success of any marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:46 PM
17

Of course we don't know what goes on behind closed doors, but based on their public relationship, Jason's treatment of his wife and family highlights a very important point: men are high value mates ONLY when they place high value on being great partners (and fathers). Jason is infatuated with his wife and still sees her as his dream girl... and this is why he is constantly singing her praises. Another celebrity example of this is Russell Wilson. Basically, a man can't be half assed in his desir…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:39 PM
56

Unfortunately she's a pickme to the max and this current trainwreck was a long time in coming. It's terrible that she now has married his raggedy ass AND will have his child. Her best bet is that he leaves on his own, but I don't think he has a job so... it's only going to get worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 06:07 PM
110

This ashmonster is most assuredly laying up on some woman's furniture, wasting the electricity and internet bandwidth she pays for just to post this stupid shit. The audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 01:17 PM
49

Other women focused subreddits are either gone or have been completely transformed to serve male egos, but FDS remains (i suspect it's mostly because although this is a woman's sub, the content still largely focuses on relationships with men). Women minding their own business is truly upsetting to Reddit at large. The way they twist and turn to find new reasons to be butthurt about us is astounding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 01:53 AM
93

Something tells me she'll still have to come home and clean because him "cleaning" only means sticking some clothes in the wash but not folding and putting them away. Trash. She'd truly be better off alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 08:30 PM
36

I had to google that too. For fuck sakes, wikipedia says it's a self defense tactic. Why is it now okay for men to intentionally hurt a woman during "sex" (it isn't actually sex if it's abusive) as if he's being attacked?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 08:01 PM
258

Men who fetishize young ass women tend to hit the wall extra hard, because they don't live in the reality of their own aging bodies. While spent the last 2 decades chasing girls too young and inexperienced to know that he's a fucking lech, he forgot to eat a vegetable every once in a while and do some exercise. Just gross all around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 04:07 PM
94

Culturally enforced modesty and sexualized exhibition are two sides of the same misogynist coin. This pickme is no different from the girls she is attacking with this stupid statement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 04:00 PM
28

Emotional incest. The mothers and the scrotes need to go to therapy (at the very least) and the girlfriends need to high tail it out of there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:14 PM
92

All of these red flags can be summarized very simply: If a man can't or won't take care of himself as an independent adult and won't show you basic respect and empathy, he's not a good pick. These are bare minimum requirements, a grown ass man shouldn't give off any of these red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:04 PM
146

What do you mean? Women are just dying to meet a strange man in a deserted park! Hypothermia! Possible robbery or physical attack! So romantic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:20 AM
60

Somebody steer this poor child right before she ends up with permanent emotional scars and her overdone lip fillers take over the bottom half of her face!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:14 AM
49

Googled... he's 30 years old with a combover. I know he smells. Men should address the ways chronic gaming and internet addiction is ruining their health. They won't and it's not our fuckin' problem either way, but they should.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:04 AM
326

This wasn't the first time he emotionally abused her, and since she didn't die from her appendix bursting, it won't be the last. I hope this woman escapes before he destroys her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:32 AM
196

This has played out many times in my life, and not just from men. As a woman, many will try their hardest to mischaracterize us as problematic just to justify their irrational feelings towards us. We must understand that a good portion of the bridges we are told we burned never existed to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:49 PM
143

These are cute gifts... that a young teenage boy might give a similarly aged teenage girl for christmas, having saved up his snow shoveling money for something decent. It's the gift a grandmother might slip in a holiday stocking. It's a thing a girl or woman that just happens to be at a mall might buy herself because she saw it in the Pandora store window on her way to Bath and Body Works. The grown ass men buying these for grown ass women most assuredly have a brand new PS5.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 03:52 PM
21

There's them, but they aren't the only ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 03:00 PM
17

Silver lining: she wised up before she got past the point of no return in her pregnancy. Abortions hurt, but she'll heal best without this leech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:42 PM
21

Hilariously, it is the work of "feminists" that allows her to get her fool self on the internet and yell these pickme regressive things. The patriarchy she stumps for wants her silent, but all of this progressive liberal devilry makes her Christian grift possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:31 PM
122

There's this, and then there's "call us beautiful to sell us shit", where ad companies vapidly glorify the types of women that are not considered attractive by white western media standards and make a big deal about "including" them in the Grand Pantheon of Suitably Fuckable Women. So much empower, very body posi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:22 PM
61

The only thing that will truly help her skin is divorce. And probably some therapy. I get that her husband is shit and her brood of children are draining (although we're not sure how many kids she has) but not taking any type of care of oneself and having no energy to do anything meaningful for oneself is a symptom of depression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 02:45 AM
49

I hope motherhood is something she truly wants and will enjoy... because no matter whether she ever leaves this fucker or not, she's doing it alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:50 PM
30

Why do you need "faith in men"? How does the idea that men are innately good and decent people that deserve the benefit of the doubt help you, a woman that has the lived experience to know that isn't true? And why are you actively exposing yourself to men that deserve the very least of your consideration?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 07:18 PM
28

I ain't gonna watch an half an hour of this but LOL at that beard! Is that a bath mat?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:31 PM
46

You could look like a gremlin fed after midnight, you might as well think highly of yourself because low value men see humbleness and modesty as weaknesses they can exploit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:27 PM
42

You believed that? LOL that throwaway line about donating a kidney is just him trying to convince himself that he's a nice guy, which is why he's justified in seeing women as walking flashlights that are too stupid and evil to give him the pussy he's entitled to. I hope he continues to self segregate himself from women and functioning society and stays in that funky basement for the rest of his gross life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:32 AM
9

Holy Habsburg chin, batman! Something tells me that he conflates "being approached" by women with women generally being cordial to him (as women are groomed by society to do). Scrotes often can't fathom being pleasant or decent to women they don't wish to fuck, so they think women being neutral towards them means they have some hot, burning desire for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:05 AM
11

This man was charged with raping an ex girlfriend's underaged daughter for years... the mother of that girl didn't protect her and unfortunately he was found not guilty. This idiot bird supported him all the way, and continued to support him as he got sent to jail for drug trafficking. As far as i'm concerned, she doesn't deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:48 PM
27

It's a lovely dress... I suppose she can have the amusement of twirling around in it in her bedroom before finally deciding to sell it. Maybe at some point she'll ask herself why choosing this dress gave her more joy than her loser boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 01:11 PM
44

She makes a very low wage and he just made middle class. Yet, she pays for her own upkeep and half on most of the bills. She even contributes to rent! Where is the rest of his money, and WHAT THE FUCK?!?! She might as well go back to living at home for all of this (if that's a viable option for her). This is what financial abuse looks like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 01:22 AM
12

Yes, the dog knows not what it does... but it still has to go! She never wanted the dog, her idiot toddler husband did, and now mommy has to clean up after it and him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 12:44 PM
7

Fuck him and quite frankly fuck that dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 12:19 PM
24

I like her. I like a lot of what she has said about the construction of her image and her look, she is very upfront about her femininity being performative and intentional. I don't romanticize her or her work though. She started out a stripper, and she followed the money to burlesque... she's been very smart about making a way for herself, but also very lucky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 12:14 PM
23

Some of this sounds like he wants to marry The Rock... but he's very conflicted about his feelings, and also misogynistic, which might have to do with his unrequited feelings for large men. Go with your heart man, and find your muscley man bae lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 02:03 AM
92

Rumors of the Smith's open marriage have been going around for decades. If one of Will's former side pieces (and there have been many, according to the rumor mill) was the one to get butthurt and go public, people would still be acting like they don't see shit and men would be absolutely silent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:26 PM
29

A whole ass unicorn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 10:54 PM
35

The ease and speed at which men have embraced the mainstreaming of pedophila is bone-chilling. This fucking commercial doesn't even make any sense, but they felt so comfortable with their shit they made it anyway just because they could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 10:51 PM
35

It's really a blessing that a good 75% of these creeps are too stupid, clueless and/or arrogant to fool a woman paying even a little bit of attention. Instant block!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:49 AM
72

It ain't safe and it doesn't even look comfortable. She also looks like a child, which is a bit creepy in this context.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:50 PM
6

18 months sounds reasonable... and most importantly, it is what YOU want. He doesn't have to be the one you marry, so you don't have to wait around for him to be ready. Maybe he is a great guy, but if he isn't on the same page with the big things like marriage, he's not it for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 09:25 PM
105

This poor woman. It's as if he wants her to die of a broken heart, he's being so incredibly cruel to her. This is why it is imperative to have high standards, take no shit, and never settle. All of this asshole's "flaws" that this woman put up with when she was healthy are now manifesting themselves in dangerous and demoralizing ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:59 PM
50

He's taking full advantage of her kindness. I don't know how he's been surviving for months with no income, but he needs to ask whoever is footing the bill for wherever he's living for money for haircuts and chicken fingers, fuck that. She's really still a kid, he's a grown ass man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:40 PM
51

He's not high value if he wants you to drop your own goals to become an accessory to his life. Partnership means something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 02:34 PM
160

If "other girls" are giving it up and they're the ones he wants to be in a relationship with... why in the fuck is he bothering you? Go away, freak. So gross and manipulative. This is EXACTLY why it's important to wait to share intimacy. Let the creeps reveal themselves!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 02:50 AM
107

The perfect proposal is the one that best matches what the woman wants, a man should show that he knows his intended well and worked hard to create a special moment for her. A lot of women aren't into big flashy displays... and some are. If she is the type that wants the bells and whistles, he did a perfect job... except for I didn't see him get down on that knee!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:19 AM
27

Wealth is not a value. It isn't a belief system, it isn't symbol of moral or intellectual rectitude. Never conflate money with character. Wanting greater financial security is great, but having it won't make you a better person to yourself or to others. Anyway, looking expensive on a budget is achievable. Work on grooming first (skin, teeth, hair and nails), then move on to fashion and style.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:15 AM
4

If his family, who would be close enough to him to know whether he's in any trouble or not, is not posting on their social media that he's missing or dead, he's aight. If his family isn't calling you to tell you he's not okay, you aren't in a serious enough relationship with him for you to worry much about his well being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 11:52 PM
144

Wow, you meet (maybe) basic standards of responsible adulthood. No cookies for you! A truly confident and high value man would lead with the things that he's interested in, his values, what he does with his life (not just his job). He just has a list of "positive" attributes. I can tell he's dull and likely thinks he's the prize to be won... content to only gain from a relationship, never give. Avoid dudes like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:23 PM
174

Men sure like to worry about the sanctity of another man's marriage... especially when they ain't married themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:12 AM
86

Listen to women of his same race/culture. What do they say about these men? Always believe the women that have lived with those men the longest. This is an easy trap to avoid: don't be so pressed for male validation that you allow a scrote to use you as his racist trophy. It never works out. EVER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:02 AM
7

There's a lot missing from this post. I'm suspicious...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:53 PM
22

I want young women to stop setting themselves up for failure like this. Any type of connection we form with another human being is a relationship. A "friendship" where a guy receives all of the support, attention and affection he needs but gives no commitment, reciprocal treatment, or respect is a clusterfuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 02:58 PM
14

Many of the elderly that are dying are getting it from young people that don't give a fuck. He knows all of these older family members that have died from COVID... yet he still wants to get his dick wet. No fucking standards, no sense, no brains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 02:57 AM
31

Fuck this fucker very, very, very much. I hope she learns one day that his negging and slick putdowns of her beautiful skin has nothing to do with her or her desirability and everything to do with him being a weak self hating fuck ass. She deserves better, so much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 11:48 PM
91

Even this is too damn complicated. Men decide to have a long term relationship or marriage... and then they choose the first suitable woman that comes along after that point. Her characteristics are practically meaningless, it's all about him wanting and deciding to do and act in a way that allows him to recieve. Stop pontificating on the why's, they don't matter. What does matter is quickly identifying a mans intentions (and they really don't do that great of a job hiding them, once you're look…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 11:40 PM
116

Might be a trafficking scheme. Only a desperate and/or naive woman would think that some non creepy and totally legit guy wants a specifically wants a woman as a roommate for cheap or free. Very suspect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 11:30 PM
76

It's not a "H* Test", it's a justification exercise. Men who have it in their mind to devalue you have made that choice before you've done anything, before they've even met you, all that comes next is them searching for reasons to validate themselves and their bad behavior. Don't fall into the trap of thinking you need to play and win stupid games in order to get a man to respect you, in a disrespectful man's eyes you've already failed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:26 PM
42

Oh gag, just go date men again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 05:33 PM
22

He meant that shit. Please, PLEASE find a way out. The abuse is escalating and it is not going to stop. You have to put yourself and your babies first now, for all of your health. If you have a family member of friends that can help you, call on them. There are women's shelters and support networks in your local community, seek them out. If you can't get out immediately, make a plan and let him know nothing of it. You deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 05:14 PM
15

Things we call "priceless" are usually mind bogglingly expensive and rare, so precious that it's nearly impossible to put a market value on it. With this ring as its symbol, your "love" is worth 48 bucks, and probably much less with coupons. Stop it, Bethanie. This damn screenshot isn't priceless either , since it shows up so often lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 05:08 PM
10

Nothing about the way he has described her shows that he likes her in any way. He doesn't empathize with her at all, and he thinks she's a failure in all aspects of her life. If she's that fucking terrible, why does he stay? It's not as if he feels any obligation to care for her, because in a situation where she obviously needed help he made himself scare until it was time to chastise and belittle her again. It isn't "love" that keeps him committed. It's quite the opposite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:04 PM
169

Spoiler alert: It's not about sexual fulfillment... it's about degradation. He doesn't want her to spontaneously initiate sex acts that they can enjoy together, he wants her to willingly allow him to hurt her and then pretend she loves it. Most porn today depicts women being beaten up and pretending to orgasm from pain. They know full well this isn't how it works... and they don't fucking care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:36 PM
32

He likes very much that she has physical and mental health issues... it allows him to condescend and manipulate her into feeling bad about herself so that he can feel like a savior. He is actively undermining her, wants her to fall further down the hole. These are the type of men that "accidentally" introduce their girlfriends to hard drugs, push them into "sex work" or "kink". I hope she stays at her sister's home for good. On somebody's couch is better than unconscious on his floor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:15 PM
57

I don't know much about her, but I know she made some depressed ass music and men are creepy as fuck (as usual) towards her. But this song sounds positive and self supportive so good for her being in a better place!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:51 PM
109

These 5 shitty guys are the only ones that exist in the whole wide world, according to men... but they absolutely don't know who these guys are (it isn't them or anyone they know!). They take great offense at the idea that you think they would know them, and demand that you apologize immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:48 AM
42

"Hi ladies, don't mind me, i'm just a desperately insecure woman that has seen a long line of men compare me negatively to other women to justify their disregard and cruelty towards me, and i'm taking it out on you because I never learned how to see myself as a whole person outside of male validation. Avoid me and others like me until I learn how to be a friend to myself!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:42 AM
11

Don't be too hard on yourself, and celebrate that you have the presence of mind and the ability to pick yourself up and move on. You have a job, and you have a plan. I'm sorry you now have to move out of your place to escape your mooch ex, but anything you might have to leave behind can be replaced! You're doing better than you think!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 01:23 AM
133

The woman came to the wedding in white shorts, and the son did absolutely nothing to calm her raggedy ass down. Her marriage is doomed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 11:35 PM
40

Then she wonders why she always has UTI's. Fool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:23 PM
89

Eh, you need both. Queen treatment is mandatory. The money is battle pay. There's no point in getting married to a man if he won't greatly improve your financial, social, mental and emotional health. I would never sign up to be unhappy, and I sure as fuck wouldn't sign up to be broke WITH someone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:01 PM
28

Women grow up in "the hood" too with the same and worse conditions and the same and worse treatment, yet most manage to not become soulless criminals. Some even manage to build new lives for themselves in safer, more sane environments. When are men going to take personal responsibility? Women, especially black women, have no choice but to do so,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 11:07 AM
23

It really doesn't matter. A lot of them will cheat, but some won't... but what they all will do is find their own personal shitty way to disrespect and harm their SO. There are many paths they can take, but the end destination is the same. Stay far away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 08:23 PM
53

How can you have no chin... but a double chin? He's trying to beard fish it away, but even his facial hair has betrayed him. Genetics fail. He probably cries about it every night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 08:14 PM
35

No. But he wasn't trying to attract you, he was trying to goad you into an upsetting conversation that would make him feel marginally better about himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 09:45 PM
24

Spoiler: She's single, and will never be proposed to. Not even with a popsicle stick. That 20 dollar ring is still too much! I'd feel sorry for her but that account is full of woman hating dickmatization so let's just point and laugh because she's trying so hard to appeal to the lowest common denominator yet still won't be chose. Silly ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:13 PM
15

What's the point of sharing this information? It isn't life altering info, like you have an STD or something. You just cheated, and so what? Leave it in the past. Oh, and don't go into great detail (or any detail at all) about the therapy and self work you've done to be healthier. That's your business, protect it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 12:01 AM
16

I wish she could see how bullshit this man's excuses really are. He's breaking up because he doesn't want to be with her, not because of his "crazy baby momma". After she finishes crying about this, she needs to go to court to protect her own rights, and establish child support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 05:20 PM
9

Is that a stock picture?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:15 AM
27

"I really don't like either of these guys and know that neither of them are worth my time... but which one will I force myself to interact with to fulfill my need for male attention?!?" And this is why prude me is against this "pro hoe" bullshit. Sexual liberation needs strict boundaries and high standards, just opening yourself and your body to all comers is foolish and damaging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:13 AM
41

Of course you're overthinking things... a limp dick porn addict with a financially ruinous habit is totally your dream man! Marry him so he can waste all of your family's money and make you feel completely worthless due to his fucked up predilections! Drop him. If he wants to change, let him change on his own fucking time, not while wasting yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:09 AM
7

She sounds super jealous, TBH. Stay away from her. Some women get very unhappy when they see black women not putting up with the bullshit they resigned themselves to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 11:58 PM
39

Mainstream internet culture is waaayyyy to comfortable with pedophila and sex trafficking. And tiktok is a fucking wasteland.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 11:44 PM
64

The internet says his wife stabbed him one time. I'm sure she had good reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:36 PM
128

Ugly dudes are cursed by genetics to act this way. She's way out of his league but still chose him to be her man, so he is compelled do everything in his power to make her pay for this unforgivable sin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:20 PM
33

This isn't the first time she prioritized some man over her daughter, i'm sure of it. You gotta get to a certain deep level of dick worship to up and move in with a man you've only known for 3 months when you have a teenager. I wonder how many other "uncles" this poor girl has had, and what might have happened to her before this? It also sounds like the man is supporting them. Mommy dearest probably thinks he's "high value" because he's taken on her and her kid, not seeing the clear red flags in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:42 PM
46

Why can't incels just skip the "harassing women on social media/dating apps" stage and go straight to "living like a pig in mommy's basement as an obese socially stunted shut-in?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:36 PM
1

Oh, I know you aren't. Men will go to the ends of the earth and still decide to behave poorly. They're doomed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 12:56 PM
18

Antartica? I know it's a continent, but isn't it sorta also a country?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 02:19 AM
65

He has no other nickname, cute pet name or sweet thing to save his soon to be (heh) wife under? Yeah, that wedding isn't happening. If it does, he'll be looking for another "Hinge Girl".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:58 AM
14

Fucccck that book. I never liked it as a kid and I couldn't put my finger on why. I hate it for existing, fuck it and its normalizing of narc/codependent relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:53 AM
142

We're not even talking "disgustingly wealthy" here, "financially stable" is the bridge too far. The bar is in the frozen depths of satan's asscrack and Vivian is holding it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:47 AM
10

The justification part is her giving reasons why he's a fucking pedo with incestuous fantasies about his own daughter. She does a lot of explaining on why he's the way he is as if it fucking matters. It also sounds like there was some time between him calling out her daughters name in sex and her leaving him. Reasons are not excuses. Who knows what type of trauma he's already inflicted on her daughter (and other children)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:03 AM
14

None of this happened of course, he's a meat beating daydreamer. But his fondest wish is to mistreat the rare woman that might be stupid enough to see decency and worth in him. How fucked is that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 11:15 PM
71

If you have to ask... he ain't it. A high value, positive match will leave you with no doubt. Seems like you've given him a halo... all of the "positives" you've listed are attributes you've assigned to him, but the negatives are based on his behavior towards you, and a few of those points directly contradict his supposed positives (how can he be generous, but also self absorbed?). Believe what you've been shown, not what you wish to be true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:29 PM
16

The correct answer is "cultural grooming". It's the same reasons women of all nationalities are pickmes, but dick pandering takes on many different "flavors" depending on where the handmaiden comes from and how she was indoctrinated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:22 PM
34

Black Lives Matter was first conceptualized by black women. It doesn't have a "leader". This man was a well known protester in the Ferguson demonstrations in 2016. That same year he was arrested for alleged sex trafficking crimes involving a 17 year old girl. The case was dropped, but still fuck this guy to hell. However, let's keep it factual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:20 PM
14

... Wait, was this supposed to be a put down? Were women supposed to feel shame or upset because this guy wants to fuck a vessel filled with sandwich condiments? Because it didn't. Quite the opposite. Let's thank this roach for removing himself from the gene pool and normal functioning society. So long as he doesn't become a mass murderer, he's doing just fine!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:12 PM
35

Thanks for confirming that she's made the right decision, asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 02:22 PM
22

Being that it's on his fingers it'll probably fade at some point... but he'll still be crusty and disgusting because he doesn't bathe. This picture smells.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 02:19 PM
6

He drugged her to keep her quiet. He will go further if he wants. Hopefully she's right back with her mother now. Sounds like something inside her knew...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:30 AM
78

The bar is on the floor, but it's still too high for these losers. It's not the coffee... he could just order something non caffeinated. It's the cost: even 5 bucks is too much for his broke ass. Never compromise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 10:36 PM
19

A lot of women would date older men, and since the standards are low all they really need is to be clean, fairly nice to talk to, able to see their dicks over their guts, working and without any extreme mental fault or sexual kink. But they can't even manage that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 10:30 PM
7

You know what, let these less thans choose beans over wasting a woman's good time and energy. They won't be missed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 10:27 PM
34

I was waiting for the part where she says "and he still cheated on me. Now i'm single and in debt!" I guess that's next year. 2020 has made a lot of leeches super loyal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 08:03 PM
111

The bar is in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 08:37 PM
3

Only poor lazy loser types seem to be butthurt about things like this. Can't even afford the food on the plate. Can't even afford the pack of styrofoam plates!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 12:52 PM
26

He's jealous of her success, of course. He's also jealous that people like her so much. She's fuckin' Veronica Mars. Who in the hell is he? Sooner or later, she'll have to reconcile with herself that she made a hater the father of her kids, and keeping him around isn't going to make it better. Until then, it's gonna be arguments and bitching from his ass forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 07:12 PM
68

Fuck them. They do these things to normalize and sanitize their business, while making their money off of the rapes and pedophilia that is the lifeblood of their service. And the idiot, pornsick masses just sit back and applaud. I also see that they and other "Sex work" companies (aka pimps) are ramping up their campaign to recruit new young women that have been recently unemployed by this disaster. Fucking vultures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 02:56 PM
9

If your husband works enough to support you... get a less strenuous job, but DON’T you dare let yourself get into a place where you cannot pick up and make your own income to support yourself, or a place where you have to depend on him for every single thing you need. It sounds less that you want to stay at home and more that you don’t like your work. Fix that part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:36 PM
29

I don't make it my business, as a black woman, to minister to non-black women who keep choosing these types of low value black men, but if they believe that the type of black men that fetishize their non-blackness are of any value to them... they are lost and will have to learn a hard lesson on their own. Like, y'all out here willing to accept all of this bullshit and brokenness just because he tells you you're "better" than black women? A fools errand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:35 AM
175

Incels should fuck each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 10:36 PM
41

I hope she gets everything she is owed, and since it seems New York has laws that will award her her fair share of their assets (yes theirs, after 28 years of marriage all of his shit is hers too) she'll be able to move forward despite this decrepit fuck's last ditch attempt to hurt her. Stay at home wives/mothers who make considerably less than their husbands or have no income of their own need to be especially knowledgeable of the laws in their state that could determine what they are entitled…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 09:54 PM
284

They look content though. Relaxing with people they actually like who like them just as much, having wine and cocktails outside on a nice day or evening... if this is the “hell” old unmarried women go to, I’m signing up today!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:30 PM
55

Beyond the toll this is taking on her emotional health, I fear for her physical safety, because this is basically rape and I do believe he’d become physically forceful and actively violent if she tries to avoid him. He’s sick, and she’s in danger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 01:43 PM
8

Prostate about to fall the fuck out, about to need dialysis, never learned how to wipe his ass after going number 2. The works!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:41 AM
30

As his assistant, she’s been picking up after his messes and sorting his shit for 25 years, and now, with a limp dick and no further options he decided to marry her, probably to save money from paying her a salary for all her mommy work. She could have done so much better. He’s likely been negging and devaluing her for all the time he’s known her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 11:10 PM
24

He literally could have just went to Jared. She couldn’t tell a 6 dollar ring wasn’t Tiffany, so she likely isn’t the type to even trip off of a silver and CZ special. But that was still too much. I hope this story is fake but I know the mentality isn’t. The majority of men are selfish losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 07:56 PM
6

With silver finish! Pure luxury.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 07:49 PM
22

I’m sure the pregnancy wouldn’t have been so hard if he wasn’t being a complete piece o shit. Sounds like he didn’t want the kid in the first place, and if she didn’t either, then now she’s fucked twice. I hope she is able to get herself a job... so she can leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 06:27 PM
74

You went full paragraph, hun. You never go full paragraph. In the future, if you ever find yourself feeling like you need to explain to anyone, especially a man, how to treat you with decency... stop. No one who wants to respect you will ever need written instructions on how to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 02:14 PM
158

A real friend would not try to pawn you off on their loser ass male acquaintances. They don’t care very much for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 11:10 PM
100

“You fucked one of us, you now have to fuck us all!” Doesn’t work that way, ya bitch. Yet another reason why you withhold information about your romantic/sexual past. A low value fuck will find a reason to disrespect you no matter what you reveal or conceal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 11:01 PM
10

Eh, relationship related depression (Not with a man) made me fat, but I’m naturally a chunky bitch that loves food. Guess it depends lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:19 PM
50

Yoooo I just came in here to make this very post lol. The nastiest version of this standard shaming for black woman is the narrative that our mothers and grandmothers lived hard, unfair, struggle filled lives so we have no place to work for or demand better. We can’t get too uppity, ya know... start thinking we are worth more, getting the idea that maybe life for us and our children doesn’t have to be so hard. It’s so very damaging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:41 PM
259

You could skip over these minimum requirements, and yet...here we are, looking at a man that believes being expected to wash his nuts on a regular basis is an impossible standard to match.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:10 PM
26

A lot of these boys don't have a chance to grow up decent, especially now. It's frightening, the porn industry starts modifying their perceptions of themselves and women before puberty even starts. I am so scared for girls today (and boys, but my focus is always on girls and women).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:50 PM
69

She says she's 15 and the guy is 17. I just can't. And I don't know if it's really appropriate to talk about this case in a FDS context, given that this is a minor. I would hope she has a trusted adult to speak to about these things, but apparently she doesn't since she's been left to the cesspool that is Reddit. Who knows what these monsters might have dm'ed her due to this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:37 PM
7

I do believe that 99% of men who suck in bed aren't trying, and that they don't try because they don't care. Why? Because I exclusively date women, and bad sex isn't an epidemic with us. Now, I think women are magic... but I know that in theory, the mechanics of sex should allow for a "success" (as defined by mutual satisfaction) rate with straight couplings to be on par with lesbian ones... yet it isn't. Why? The answer is clear. And have you ever considered that if you are having unfulfilling …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 09:44 PM
18

Can we please talk about bullshit career titles of bum ass men? Because i've seen an uptick of brokeys claiming that they're engineers of some sort. It's the new "real estate agent".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 09:12 PM
22

You made this post because in an earlier comment thread, you told us that you always enjoyed yourself during sex because if your sexually incompetent mate couldn't fuck you properly you took it upon yourself to find some way to cum regardless. Meanwhile, we here don't believe you should have to work so gotdamn hard to justify bad sex with a man that doesn't give enough fucks about you to make sure he's giving you the pleasure you need. I'm sorry we are not cosigning your brave stance of giving m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 09:06 PM
23

She knows the answer to her questions... he only wants to communicate with her when he wants to get his dick wet, and he's made that clear. They are not "dating". Best case, she "tElLs hIm HoW sHe FeELs" and he learns to pretend that they might be building towards something to keep her on the hook, even though he'll continue to never make arrangements to see her before 10:30 PM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:27 PM
79

So what you're saying here is that this man frequently takes to the internet to shame and taunt his girlfriend with his cheating and disrespect, even though she is providing him with a comfortable lifestyle and full support? He hates her, and he hates himself for needing her... but not enough to change. This is the way with low value men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:09 PM
19

"Sex work" is the sanitized newspeak term y'all have given to all manner of prostitution and sex industry "work" so that you can use the one woman who makes 6 figures selling pics of her pinky toes to speak for the thousands, millions of nameless poor women and girls who are going through hell. The word "prostitution" has a clear definition, and this is why I use it. I use the word evil, because it would be evil to enable men to abuse women, which is what you are suggesting we are doing by being…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:54 PM
41

You really came in here, loud and strong, to blame women who are against women being exploited via prostitution for the violence of men? You honestly, truly believe that if us "evil" anti "sex-work" types were more permissive of men buying and selling us they would stop raping, murdering and enslaving women and girls like it's fucking legal? Today? In 2020? Cool story, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:12 PM
32

He has the skin of a 45+ year old. At 20, he didn't hit the wall, he was born a part of it. Him showing up for their date was just the last straw in dealing with his slovenly loser ass. Instead of deciding to remember all of the many other times his girlfriend tried to get him to address the issues in their relationship, he creates a narrative that makes her look unreasonable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:30 PM
261

There is nothing wonderful about making yourself available to low value men in any circumstance, not even when you've convinced yourself you just want sex. If he ain't good enough to be a real friend and if you wouldn't want to be seen in public with him, he is undeserving of sex from you.Anyway, most of these men can't fuck so you get nothing out of "h*e" activities with them. Oh, and can women stop calling themselves h*es for any reason? That'll be great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:26 PM
55

If the child lived, he wouldn't have spent one moment giving a fuck whether he had food to eat or a home to live in. He's only mad now because he was denied a chance to make a terrible situation all about him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 02:03 AM
16

There’s pickme... and then there’s just plain fucking dumb. She is the later. She can’t possibly believe that nothing is going on, but she’s willing to delude her fool self until the end. There is not Hong anyone can do for her now, she’s on her own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:01 PM
25

1300 dollars? That doesn’t even cover rent in a decently large city or a place that isn’t a complete dump. His broke ass wouldn’t know that though. Anyway, this fucker is likely still living off of his mom or auntie. A lot of black men are using black women’s hard earned and limited resources just to sit up on the internet all fucking day to whine about black women being users. What’s the point of their existence? So happy I only date women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 10:48 PM
6

You still need healing, and he isn’t high value if he degrades and harms you, even in a “sexy sex” way, just because you are still too fragile to want better for yourself. Enjoy your downvote, and please continue to reconsider and address your past traumas with more positive coping mechanisms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:00 PM
34

This was to be a first date so you don’t have a established relationship... which means he hasn’t established a pattern of being reliable and forthright with you. All he’s shown you so far is that he is poor at planning and not considerate of your time. The choice is obvious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:24 PM
44

Yeah, she was a fucking asshole, but if she made real amends to the people she hurt, I can accept that she’s turned a new leaf. If not... I don’t believe in karma but I believe mean people live in their own personal hells filled with misery of their own choosing. Maybe this is hers. Her obvious crippling insecurity made her bitter and nasty, and unfortunately for her it’s probably why she chose this fool to be her husband. That’s why women must get their own shit together before choosing a mate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:58 PM
23

Gabrielle deserves so much better. Fucking “break baby” my ass. And the “long term friend” was probably gamed too. How long was she waiting in the wings to be upgraded to the main? All she got out of it is a baby and a check. I wonder if he even spends any time with that child, since it seems to be all about Gabby, their daughter and his sons from his first marriage. A mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:26 PM
8

You are his emotional pressure valve, and he will continue to blow off steam with you, emotionally and sexually, for as long as you allow... but go right back home to his (allegedly)drunk, (supposedly) abusive girlfriend. Leave him (and her) to their own drama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 08:12 PM
26

This too. But there’s no way in hell you should share financial responsibility with a man who isn’t your husband, in a way that does not benefit you directly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 08:00 PM
1

They ain’t compatible. She’s better off... and he is too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:58 PM
69

If you need a roommate, get a (female) roommate. Splitting bills with a man you aren’t married to is bogus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:49 PM
1

And he probably kept “accidentally” sticking his dick in her ass even thought she said no anal. A dirty mess AND no respect for her boundaries. He may not want her, but he’s doing her a huge favor by leaving. And with no kids? Major win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:43 PM
4

Eh, she’s better off, and I’m sure she had very good reason to not want to fuck him. Let’s see... before they moved in together, she was sexually attracted and available to him, but once they started living in the same home, she withdrew. I have a few good guesses as to why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:33 PM
88

That’s some sick sad shit. 3 children are being traumatized by these selfish assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:24 PM
7

Even if you are okay with his “extended family” getting that many women knocked up and leaving the scene shows you that he’s reckless with his dick, doesn’t practice safe sex and doesn’t give a fuck about anyone or anything but his own fleeting desires. No HVM would create so many broken connections. Just say no. The very best case scenario has you playing stepmommy with a bunch of kids you probably won’t like and dealing with whatever lingering drama he has with his baby mommas... and with 4 of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:58 PM
7

Don’t force it, if you aren’t into him, respect that and move on. Sometimes, your subconscious picks up on yellow and red flags you can’t quite solidify. He could be a decent guy that you just aren’t attracted to, or he could be a not-decent-at-all type that you know deep inside isn’t right. Trust those instincts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:53 PM
31

I would tell my little “fans” how pathetic they are to need the attention of the same women they believe themselves to be better than... but they truly do get sexual gratification from any scraps of acknowledgement I could throw at them. So I just block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:21 PM
41

I was in a long, emotionally abusive relationship with a woman much older than me for the better part of my 20s. Sooo yeah, some of these women fucking suck too, in many of the same ways men do(when they are male identified... like pickmes but without the dickmatization). But, at least she was never cheap, stinky, porn/video game addicted, or a bad fuck, eh? Oh, and as a woman trying to get back on the field of dating other women... if you’re straight, just be straight. I really don’t want to ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 12:48 PM
8

You can go ahead and uh shmash that block button.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 12:39 PM
13

After I lost a lot of weight for my own health, I knew I could never date an obese person. I know how hard it can be to manage your weight, but fuck, I did it and I don’t want the burden of someone who can’t do it for themselves. Laying around being fat and sick isn’t my dream life, nor is taking anyone to appointments for their diabetes and heart issues because they refuse to lay off greasy shit and sugar. This is one of my strongest dealbreakers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 12:34 PM
41

Calm your nerves lady! Only 3 dates to probably Dunkin’ Donuts and you wanna go all 90’s erotic thriller on him. Gatdamn! Stay home pickme, you’re drunk. She doesn’t need dating strategy, she needs to work on her emotional instability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 10:26 PM
26

No. He knows what you look like, if he wants to see more of you he'll plan a date. All he really wants is free customized spank materials (even if he isn't asking for nudes...yet).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 12:42 AM
195

In a "traditional" patriarchal family structure, financial support is about the only thing a man is expected to provide, it's the thing that is supposed to entitle him to all of that cookin' and cleanin' and only speaking when spoken to. These broke lazy bitches can't even do that. They should feel ashamed by their uselessness, even in their own negative, hateful worldview they are shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 12:39 AM
74

“I didn’t want her, but kept tabs on her to make sure didn’t forget I rejected her... because it made me feel good to know I made her so sad. I fucked off for a little while and she was finally able to move on. What am i gonna do now to ruin her new thing?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 07:17 PM
32

Does he even have a fucking job, or is that too stressful for baby boy too? I bet his "social anxiety" only shows up when he wants his mommy to do all the not-fun things for him. Oh well, she's not leaving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:50 AM
98

Jhene is a good example of what happens to women who ignore their own emotional and mental health needs in favor of chasing a man. She doesn't need Big Sean, but she does need healing and because she's been living and practically dying off of this toxic ass never-ending thing with this equally unstable fool, she hasn't been able to do that. I hope she and women like her snap the fuck out of it. Also, therapy. She's lucky enough to have good financial resources, she can get herself some professio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:56 PM
118

Even a fuckin' cake pop is too much to ask, according to Pickme logic. Still, Cornelia's inbox is most assuredly empty, as is her social calendar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:50 PM
44

TBH he ugly with a beard too, but you don't realize how misshapen his head is with the cover of hair. Beardfishing is an epidemic tho. Women must be aware. Scroll aaaaalllll the way back through those social media accounts, ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:46 PM
35

Where the dicks were, where are today, what they look like, whether they are black/brown (because sexualized racism is big for these types), how much do they ejaculate, what that ejaculate might taste like... I would say these guys are gay but I think the homoerotic fixation they have on dicks is groomed into them by porn, just like a lot of other gross fetishes they all seem to have. Either way, penises are their true concern.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 05:12 PM
50

It's frightening to think of what she might open herself up to in her desperation to find ANY man to marry. Girls like this are sitting ducks for marital abuse, she's been groomed for it all her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 05:05 PM
54

As if any tests, "scientific" or not, that men come up with have ever vindicated women from their abuse and mistreatment. Anyway, shit like this is just incel fantasy... it's amazing how much time they have to obsess about penises and where they might have gone (because it's not really about the woman, it's about the dicks). They type this mess one handed to seek validation from their fellow chronic meatbeaters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 05:01 PM
45

It's disgusting how many men hear "no" and process it as "browbeat me until I relent". It's troubling how many women think their own preferences should be ignored when they conflict with man's selfish desires.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 01:28 PM
21

This is the tirade of a abuser upset that a possible victim got away. He thought that because she’s young, has a child and is just establishing herself, he could degrade and gaslight her into thinking she was deserving of the treatment he was planning on giving her. She dodged a bullet. And since the muthafucka had to make it racial, I want black men to stop counting a woman’s coins and being mad about weave his bitch ass can’t afford no way. As a group, black men are broke, everybody knows it. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 11:25 PM
8

I don’t understand these trolls at all. You usually can smell them through their shitty pictures, and they make these antagonistic, wholly negative profiles on dating websites telling women that they are terrible people and should be left alone. What in the fuck do they want? When the part of going their own way where they actually just fucking go?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 11:04 PM
27

“aT lEaSt He tRiEd!1!1!1!1” says the pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 10:53 PM
88

She also forgot to cut his lil’ sandwich into a heart and give him a happy face sugar cookie like she did on his birthday. That bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 08:42 PM
91

A 12 pack of ferrero rocher? Oooh he got money!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 01:23 PM
28

She has 4 kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 12:22 AM
30

Ding ding ding! Isolation is a key goal for abusers... and if the woman has few friends or close familial connections, he's ahead of the game!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 11:41 PM
6

Now that’s a loser. And he may have a halfway decent job and manage to wash behind his balls sometimes, but he’s still shit tier and he knows it. Must be killing him to know that women don’t want his ass no matter how many douchey shirts he owns. You’re not fooling anyone, buddy. These guys are easy to avoid because everything about them screams insecure and unstable. All a woman has to do is open her eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 10:02 PM
22

For all of the “interesting” things these types of men do, they are always the dullest guys imaginable. Spending all of their time checking off experience boxes as if they’re creating a resume, yet they can’t engage, can’t relate, have little to say that isn’t a boast or a self aggrandizement. This is why he can’t find a woman... he sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:37 PM
64

I’m only against sexbots because these monsters will never be satisfied with raping and destroying inanimate objects but giving them these objects to indulge their ruinous fantasies will only encourage them to hurt real women and children. But other than that... it would be fucking awesome if we could put these nasty cretins on a barge somewhere with sex dolls to keep them occupied... and then set the whole thing adrift (into an iceberg).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:53 PM
26

The attitude that all men cheat simply excuses men for their dishonesty and gaslights women into accepting disrespect. No man that YOU should accept in your life should be a cheater. Quit enabling fuckshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:43 PM
44

Fuck his problems, he lied. If he had a real emergency, was actually going to replace that money and thought of her as a partner and not just a supplemental source of income, he would have discussed taking the money with her beforehand so that they could both make a decision. His broke family will continue to have emergencies until she’s paying for all of them. Hell no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:24 PM
55

I am a bit done with the attitude that not having “emotional attachment” to the people we share intimacy with is a virtue. If I’m going to share my sexuality with someone, I have to care about them as a person... because what’s the point of them getting all of this good pussy and attention if I don’t even like them that much, don’t want to be seen in public with them, wouldn’t occasionally call them outside of a booty call to check whether they’re alive? I’m not a charity. I do believe there are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:53 PM
28

She literally could have died. She should leave, and she should tell people EXACTLY what happened, the first being the police.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:33 PM
83

Men who don't want children have tons of options for not having any kids, including but not limited to: not fucking without condoms, not fucking women they don't know very well who might want a child while he does not, or just not fucking at all. When a man chooses to have sex without contraception, he is choosing not to give a fuck about the consequences. Pickmes probably know this better than anyone else: men create children they don't want with woman they hate because they want the drama, the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:24 AM
83

Condoms may begin to accidentally get holes or completely disappear. She needs to watch her back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 11:55 PM
128

Her broke boyfriend told her that. And the Chinese is on her lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 12:28 PM
5

I am reminded of the example of Darren Sharper... professional football player, good looking, a solid career making millions of dollars. He still decided to be a serial rapist and is now in jail for 20 years... but only after repeatedly raping women even while under investigation for previous rapes (so he could have gotten away with the shit if he wasn't so bold with it). It's NEVER about sex or an inability to access it. It's about control, and males that are aroused by abusing and degrading wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:55 AM
2

Yeah, this usually happens when too many mass murderers, white nationalist domestic terrorists and other violent fuckers are linked to a given sub in ways that reddit can't pretend not to notice. All of these male hate incubators should have been shut down completely a long time ago. I don't give a fuck about the well being of incels or red pill types but if somebody with some gotdamn sense would have taken a stand against these discussion groups years ago some of these assholes might have been …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:46 AM
52

I hate that I know this, but... That's Jordyn, she didn't sleep with that guy he kissed her, he was already a lying cheating ass (which is how Khloe originally got with him) and they were never married. It was disgusting how she and her sisters dragged this much younger woman while having nothing to say to or about the man that had been disrespecting her their whole "relationship". In the end Kylie lost who was probably her only true friend over drama that had nothing to do with their friendship…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:36 AM
117

This woman placed the standards basically a centimeter off the floor (one single greeting card for V-Day? That's all? Wooooow.) and it's still too much for these dusties. Never settle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 12:57 AM
10

I don’t remember anyone even specifically tagging on short men or that sub. The preemptive butthurt is so real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 08:42 PM
23

This is how women get sold into sex slavery. Stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:13 PM
23

Blue bubble gang for life, muthafucka. Not that this particular winner was looking to date an actual woman in the first place. This has “porn addicted compulsive masturbator” written all over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:10 PM
15

You don’t have to necessarily share the same social, education or professional background (although that obviously helps) but you have to have some reason to be in the same places they are. So you’re a beautiful woman at a fancy gala... do you work for the organization throwing it? Are you friends with a person of note? Do you volunteer your time or professional expertise for their charity efforts? An “origin story” isn’t to hard to establish... especially if you’re securing success for yourself…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:21 PM
164

She’s going back home next week. She isn’t really ready to leave, so she won’t. This is what settling and “compromise” gets you. Not content to simply disrespect his relationship in the ways his doormat girlfriend convinced herself was acceptable to her, he went above and beyond, multiple times. I’m more convinced than ever that men don’t do these things because they crave sex, but because they need to degrade the women that have shown them love and grace in order to feel whole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 01:38 PM
4

You sound like you are running yourself crazy. Fuck what he's doing, do YOU like what YOU are doing in reaction? This can't feel good, checking this man's phone and obsessing over every interaction you have with him for signs that he's a porn addict. Do you want different for yourself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 11:50 PM
28

I'm gonna go see Birds of Prey this week! I hear it's amazing, the costumes are better and the fight scenes are awesome. What more could you want (except for Harley and Poision Ivy to become a team/bffs/girlfriends in the movies lol) And men that can't see that Margot is a beautiful woman without her tits aren't hanging out are men who's opinions no one has to care about. These types were gonna be mad no matter what, so let them stew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 07:07 PM
34

At this point, I think any woman asking for relationship advice on Reddit is too far gone to be saved through regular common sense discussion. They know deep inside that something is terribly wrong with the men they’ve chosen, but they aren’t ready to leave and they need reinforcement for that decision to help drown out their subconscious mind. Good luck with that, honey. Maybe you’ll be ready to leave someday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:22 PM
52

Sounds like she has not one, but TWO abusive fucks in her life. I hope she comes to reason sooner rather than later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:53 PM
72

IDK, a fully invested pickme in that moment probably would have tried to stop it a bit, maybe even go on the attack against Solange. Beyonce made no motion to do anything but watch it happen. Looked like she just went blank almost... I always felt one of Beyonce's biggest aesthetic and creative influences for "Lemonade" was her sister. But that's a whole other thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:35 AM
8

A man that needed to degrade women to "grow" into a halfway decent human being is a fucking leech. It's no prize to be chosen by a "former" loser. Truth is, most of these guys straighten up only after they realize they're getting old and will need someone to take care of them when their prostates start acting up or whatever. These are cut rate, washed up con artists desperate to tie someone down before shit hits the fan. See the game for what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:39 AM
136

The fact that he targeted her while she was still a teen is something that is never discussed enough. She was a young, up-and-coming artist, he was at his peak of actual relevancy and over 10 years her senior. This wasn't okay. Also, she has not so subtly spoken a lot about the parallels between her father's relationship with her mother (and her) with her relationship with her husband. She never had a good chance to see herself as an adult woman outside of the specter of Jay-Z or heal from the t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 01:21 AM
45

To be honest, a lot of women will accept short men, chunky men, balding men... as long as they're clean, make some effort to look decent, and aren't complete losers in life. Female socialization would give them a woman that is faaaarrr beyond their league in looks (but not an 18 year old supermodel, which they all feel entitled to) if only they tried a little bit. But nope, that'll be too much work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 12:21 AM
235

Jay Z is a perfect example of a low value man with money. Whatever that prenup would give Beyonce is chicken change for what she has already and will continue to earn herself at this point. The lesson women, particularly very young women (as she's been saddled with this asshole for her entire adulthood), need to learn from Beyonce is to watch out for damaged men. You can't save them, you can't do or give enough for them to act right, and they will embarrass you over and over with their disrespec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 12:17 AM
42

If she has a family to go back to... she needs to take her child and go. Her part time job money would actually cover the expenses for her baby and she can start saving to get on her own feet. This is the exact situations FDS is trying to prevent: being financially dependent on an abusive, selfish man with child(ren) and little means of escape. It'll only get worse for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 06:26 PM
39

Spoiler alert: If you accept a coffee date... they'll only offer you a shared bag of doritos at a bus stop. You'll always get less than what you've settled for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 03:10 PM
28

I clicked through on her website to an article where she says faking orgasms is "manipulative to your partner" and a form of "sexual deceit". Yes ladies, you evil women that pretend to cum with your no-can-fuck loser boyfriends are being really mean to him and should be ashamed! She's a fool. Unfortunately, she's a fool with a platform (and we all understand why she was given this platform, right?). And for all this embarrassing prostrating to males... men have and continue to devalue her. "H**s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 03:03 PM
15

Read what you wrote: you just said that this man paid little to attention to you, too preoccupied with his games and diddling himself to be fully present. And you want him back? You already know the answer to your question. Why do you refuse to listen to yourself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 12:37 PM
33

I do hope she has a place to go and is going to make it there safely, because this piece of shit hates her. And as far as her tenant’s rights, it depends on where they live, but in general you can’t just kick people who have established residency in a home out without proper legal processes. But this is clearly not a place she should fight to stay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 07:40 PM
23

Wasn’t this the one that liked to go on sex trafficking trips to South Asia and called you fat? We’re still talking about him? If you aren’t a troll, please find a hobby other than dating trash. I know there must be something you like or think is interesting... there’s a club or upcoming event for that thing that is local to you. Find it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 01:26 PM
3

Self esteem is an internal force, it is loving and valuing your self in full awareness of your strengths and weaknesses. It is you accepting all that you are, good bad and ugly. It is you prioritizing the work you must do to nurture and advance yourself over anything else. Looking pretty and getting male attention can never add to your self esteem because only you can give that love and acceptance to yourself. Favor from others is transient, we cannot build ourselves with such a unreliable mater…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 12:37 PM
228

I could say that this woman needs to tell her husband to fuck all the way off... but from what I can tell through google, she's been married for longer than 4 years yet her profile pic is still her in her wedding dress. It doesn't matter what that greedy slob says or does at this point, she's lost in pickme hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 12:37 AM
16

Ah yes, the sunk cost fallacy. No matter what she does now, ten years are already gone and she can't get them back. Today she can decide to waste not one more second and dedicate the time she still has to herself... or she can just stay stuck and spend ten, twenty, forever more years doing the same shit with the same loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 11:33 PM
209

Eh, too much effort, too many letters. When they show you who they are, believe them the FIRST time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 11:29 PM
6

You’re the one wanting to introduce this woman exclusive space to some dude to see if he’ll tell you what you want to hear and you can can feel you got chose by a good one, sweetie. Male validation is the only point of this exercise. Ask yourself: if he’s high value, why can’t you tell just by his actions? You must learn to observe patterns through normal candid interactions, you don’t create obvious scenarios where even the dumbest man knows how to come off well. They’ll all say they want a hig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 09:33 PM
10

I don’t know if there is a specific time frame... but I will say that if he has any inkling of marrying you he knows right after your first encounters. Men usually decide they want marriage... and then find a wife. This is why waiting for a guy to want to marry you is stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 09:18 PM
40

When I read the original book as a teen, I realized quickly that most of the rules seemed to be more about pretending to be uninterested and busy even though you’re lining away for ol dude and every single thing you do is to catch his attention. Why wait a specific time to call a guy in order to give the impression that you’ve got a life when you can just fucking get a life? And as far as attractiveness goes... who cares what these men say they want. Cultivate whatever look or style you want, bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 07:49 PM
58

Sex should not begin and end with penetration... but all these dinguses are prepared to provide is half limp dick and 3 minutes of wack strokes. This is why they don’t deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 07:43 PM
17

Why do you need a man’s opinion about your dating practices? Male validation is useless. If you refuse to internalize that, you will continue to be subject to trash male behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 05:41 PM
16

In most of posts about motherhood, I don’t sense contempt of mothers as people, but contempt for the state of being a mother in our woman-hating, mom-hating world. For many, becoming mothers with unsuitable men and without proper resources to support themselves and their kids ruined their lives. Many were born to these unprepared and unprotected mothers and know first hand how damaging that is. These are grim facts, and we cannot shy away from them if we want all women, with or without kids, to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 01:28 PM
42

In my view, it is the major key. Why are birth rates falling in most westernized or wealthy countries? Why are women in general marrying later? Because we don’t have to put up with men’s shit for basic survival. A woman with financial independence is a woman that can choose her own destiny. I always keep my ability to make my own way and cultivate my own financial resources at the top of my priority list. Get your coins in order, ladies, and trust no one else to keep you. Even if you end up in a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 12:59 PM
13

What I’m reading here is that daddy took parental leave (or at least some type of break) but mom still ended up doing the heavy lifting and now he’s nope-ing the fuck out of any future responsibility by claiming his jerb precludes him from doing anything but sometimes feeding the dog and getting together a bottle. Father of the Century! How lucky is she!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 12:39 PM
10

I can just see this infected boil sitting in some casual dining chain restaurant steaming as some woman orders a main course and drink for herself while he's trying to stretch his chicken finger appetizer until the end of the date. Thank goodness for free refills on soda LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 01:49 AM
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Hopefully she divorces, they order some of that windfall to be put in trusts for the kids in the settlement, and he uses whatever cash he has left over on medical costs that are now uncovered due to him no longer being married to the woman that was literally keeping his bitch ass alive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 11:25 PM
31

Men go to Thailand for sex tourism usually go to buy one of two types of people: very young children, or trans identified men (who are also being exploited). Your “best girlfriend” is likely a pedo. And if he does stick to adults, he’s still a fucking monster. Western men who go to impoverished countries to rape the most vulnerable people on our planet are fucking monsters. With that in mind: do you really want to hear back from him? Do you want this type of man in your life? Do you want to marr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 10:50 PM
87

I sometimes give my fave coworker the free drink I can get if I order Starbucks on Thursday afternoon. This is not a romantic overture, this is me being a pal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 07:00 PM
10

Oh gawd, it got worse! (But I’m not surprised.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 06:53 PM
19

What type of shenanigans... Don’t date a lesbian that still lives with her ex husband!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 06:52 PM
28

Noods is NEVER a good idea. Idk how sexually liberated we pretend we are, in this society a woman will face real, lasting, negative consequences for appearing in sexually explicit photos or videos. The people celebrating the “empowerment” a woman receives by freely sharing naked pics are the same ones that wouldn’t want that woman to teach their kids, work at their jobs, marry into their families or run for public office. Never take them... not even for your trusted, long term, legally married l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:33 PM
56

At this point, there are more women employed in the American job market than men. These fucks really, truly believe that women, who are likely gainfully employed, are so hard up for a meal at a restaurant that they are actively scheming on ugly chinless freaks like themselves for free meals. Astounding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:32 PM
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There’s a saturation point: after a certain amount of of exposure to toxic deranged male bullshit (And really, if you spend 2.5 minutes on any of those subs you’ve seen enough for a lifetime), you are no longer informing yourself on how these scumbags behave, you are harming yourself by continuing to dig. There is nothing of value to be gained by actively engaging with their fuckshittery. Turn it off, focus on something productive and rewarding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:05 PM
32

She probably paid for that fucking PS4 through her onlyfans... but he still doesn’t care for her at all. It’s not funny, and I hope one day this girl stops trying to make it so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:00 PM
32

This is the flip side of a tactic used by dangerous men: they gaslight single mothers with this narrative that they are unwanted and damaged, so that they can sweep in and begin hurting them and their children through abuse. Red flags all around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 12:38 PM
22

LOL at her giving him the Goofy voice. The only thing he didn't lie about was his photo! She was right to just walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 08:34 PM
16

This has got to be fake... not necessarily the sad state of that lady's nails or that uglass ring, but the caption to go along with it! There's just too much struggle here for me to process. I'm going to go play with my skincare collection. It is quite interesting to see... how fast her ring finger nail grows in comparison to other nails. Is that photoshop? Human biology is fascinating!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 08:21 PM
93

Gwen, like most women in show business and many women in general, have a vested interest in taking care of their looks. Gwen herself says she's been "on a diet" since grade school. Maybe this is an unhealthy mindset, but at 50 years old her appearance shows the results of a lifetime of giving a fuck about your body. Blake, like most men, feel no such pressure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:34 PM
44

Drunk guy says drunk thing 4 fuckin' years ago and has been taking it back ever since... but you guise he's just so shy and confused, he really does love me and wants to be married but he needs my help! Please let this guy break up with her so that she can unstick herself, it'll be the nicest thing he can possibly do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 12:53 PM
64

Women in situations like this should learn to separate the halo of "love" they have for their shit boyfriends from who and what these men actually are. She reflects the love and care she has for him back onto herself and pretends that there is an even exchange of affection in this relationship, but she's doing all of the work and he's just sitting back reaping the benefits. She's in love with the idea of him, with the story she created of their relationship... not the reality. He's had this girl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 12:36 PM
43

He'll be pimping her out, next, after further convincing her that she's damaged and broken since she allows him to degrade her in such a way. Or maybe a group rape when his buddies decide her exposing herself in public was the green light they needed to run a train. God I hope she escapes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 12:24 PM
229

"You like me as a person. You thought that this might be something i'd appreciate, but you were wrong, bitch! Let me make you regret the day you came to believe that I was a decent human being by being a curse upon your entire existence! Bwahaha!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:34 AM
33

Out of the fire, into the frying pan. She should start squirreling away whatever money she can, and if possible, get any type of legal, safe part time job she can get. It'll only get worse as she runs out of possible escape routes, and financial abuse is already in play. I feel terribly for her. I hope she can find a real support system.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:21 AM
15

Yeah, they'll "settle".... for some hard working, caring sucker that is wayyyy more attractive than he, and they'll resent her forever while living in the comfortable home she maintains for him because she's the reason he never got to really focus and become a successful rapper like he was just about to do before he met her. Pure trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:16 AM
57

The gag is... for all the talk these men have for how they'll treat these perfect women that they'll attract once they get money and status, they'll never become these wealthy men they dream of becoming because they are talentless and lazy, and on the rare occasion they do manage to come up, they'll take their trophy insta model type dream girl and fuck her over just like they did all the "regular bitches". A low value man will remain low value no matter what favor life brings him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 01:51 AM
2

He offered coffee. You said no thanks. He offers coffee again. Now he's showed you that he doesn't care about your preferences and thinks "no" means "harass me until I acquiesce". He's low value and disrespectful of your boundaries. There is nothing more for you to do. Block and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 01:07 AM
32

Lesbians like this are just pickme's that don't like dick. Same chick, different side of the fence. They are not a friend to women, and they ultimately aren't friends to themselves. Avoid them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 01:02 AM
18

Wow, that lesbian is super mad on behalf of shitty men. Handmaidens come in all types!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 12:38 AM
31

I date only women myself, but i'm here because I see how toxic masculinity and the deplorable state of males as a group effects how women, straight, lesbian or bi, relate to themselves and others. That lesbian sniffing around these loser's buttholes for headpats is male centered, which makes her a poor choice for a woman. Y'all shouldn't date low value men, and I wouldn't date a woman that commiserates with such men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 12:36 AM
5

A zoo though? At 48 years old? Because I guess you struck him as a woman that really wanted to see the giraffes. Zoosiana has a petting zoo, and really big slides in the playground, so fun! Did he think he might get a hand job by the gorilla enclosure if he got you a kiddie waffle cone and a balloon? Fucking hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 09:55 PM
81

No man of value would call a woman a "broke bitch" for any reason. Women like her relieve the pains of being hurt and used by men by using the lines they used to denigrate her to denigrate other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 08:43 PM
26

A lot of starbucks are defacto day time homeless shelters, I don't say that to shame homeless people, but it's a place where they can be warm and dry and get free wifi... it's just the truth of the situation. They can take up most of the seats in a busy location before the beginning of the work day... so how is that a proper date location? It should embarrass them to be so low effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 08:12 PM
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It's so frustrating, but it sounds as if she is willing and has been actively working to find her way. All you can do is cheer for her as she makes self-affirming choices and gently remind her of her goals when she falters. She may have setbacks and relapses, but as long as she never completely abandons the work, she'll be okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 06:34 PM
152

The girl she's trying to pawn this loser off on is supposedly a friend. This dude is a stranger that just insulted her based on her height. What is wrong with this picture?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 04:58 PM
139

It doesn't escape my notice that these soda date assholes (shit, not even a milkshake?) are the same ones always whining about how women don't cook for them like their mothers and aunts, because they are in desperate need of "hot plates". Dude, if you did meet a potential Suzy Homemaker type, you just showed her that you can't afford a bag of chips to go with your soda snack date. Homemade steak and lobster dinners are above your paygrade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 04:51 PM
12

As a young woman, your primary focus should be learning yourself, establishing yourself in whatever career/job you've decided on, finishing college, making connections and having fun. The guys you date have to show you respect and consideration, and you should expect them to make an effort. He'll want to make the best of what money and resources he does have to show you he values you. Oh, and don't confuse him spending a lot of money with caring about you, especially if you end up with someone a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:07 PM
5

Encourage her to continue to focus on getting the mental healthcare she needs to work through the pain of her last relationship and what seems to be a lifetime of trauma. With all she's done, the life she's managed to create for herself, she still feels worth-less, and that's the real issue. Tell her she deserves to be proud of herself and feel like she's enough before bringing a child into this world, she'll be a healthier, happier, better mom for continuing to do the important self-work she's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 02:48 PM
21

I'm a black woman. I can't fully explain the tendency of some black women who have these male centered, self denigrating attitudes to wear unflattering hairpieces... but it's a thing. It's not that wigs, weaves, or "fake hair" are bad, but when you can't find the time to blend your lace wig line or tweeze out a part but have all the time to be on the internet saying nasty things about other women in service of men that don't like you, I notice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 02:34 PM
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It was a flippant remark, but please note that I said her wig, an accessory, was ugly, not her or features that are natural to her. And my comment about knowing she's single was based on what she wrote, not her looks. Male attention starved, self hating women have a particular writing style on twitter...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 02:34 PM
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All of this.... and she's single. I don't even have to look her up, i just know. These types always are. And the men that may have patted her on that ugly wig won't have shit to do with her despite the promise of food and blowjobs on demand. A clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 08:45 AM
65

Fuck basic respect and decency, I will never understand how men could do this and not once consider that this shit is a problem. Dude, you are in STARBUCKS looking at porn, too desperate to watch nasty shit to wait until you are alone at home. Things have taken a bad turn in your life, have you noticed? It's disgraceful. Why are they not embarrassed? This is common in places with public wifi, and libraries. Apparently, "nothing can be done" and the rest of the world just has to deal with Coomer …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 07:52 AM
51

The level of joy this cretin found in doing so much to hurt this woman, making her into a villain and a punchline for strangers... it's unfathomable. She is so much better without him or anyone that enabled or encouraged this. How maliciously cruel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 02:50 AM
20

Realize that his current bad situation has nothing to do with you and everything to do with his own poor decision making. He doesn't deserve your empathy. Oh, and if you have any proof about that pedophilia, take it to the cops. They often don't do shit about domestic abusers, but if a man is abusing kids they'll probably do some actual police work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 01:03 AM
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Add ass eating too. It's become a thing with a lot of people and it's fucking gross. My pussy is right there, why would any sane person want anything to do with the hole I shit out of? I only date and fuck women, but still, I don't do anal anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 12:53 AM
95

If this is real... he was gonna stiff her for the bill anyway, but his brain has settled on a justification that makes him feel good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 07:02 PM
20

Do you need a written invitation to dump his ass? Cmon now, you know what he's doing hurts you and does not reflect a positive, healthy relationship. The real question here is why do you believe anyone, including this man, has the right to treat you so poorly? And if that's not what you believe, why are your actions showing otherwise?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 03:38 AM
8

This is either a cheap bastard or a hobosexual (or maybe even both!). Either way, the answer is no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 05:49 PM
1

Eh, he doesn’t have to have been hurt at all, if a man wants to be a shit that’s just what he’ll do. If they need to justify it by blaming a woman, they’ll easily just make up a villainess and call themselves a forever victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 04:26 PM
5

That post history.... ewww. I sooo hope this is a scrotey troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 03:28 PM
5

This. If you want to look expensive on a beer budget, always go for solids, avoid embellishments and stay away from shiny fabrics. Also, if you have a small wardrobe, you can’t recycle bright, distinctive prints very well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 03:26 PM
2

She’ll either finally exhaust herself out of explanations and justifications for his shit behavior, or she won’t. It doesn’t seem that they have kids, so at least there’s that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 03:19 PM
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Forget why he doesn’t have his kid living with him... you don’t want to date men with kids. Why settle?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 03:31 PM
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