Dates only, ladies.

venomous_g · 2020-02-01T16:51:31+00:00

It doesn't escape my notice that these soda date assholes (shit, not even a milkshake?) are the same ones always whining about how women don't cook for them like their mothers and aunts, because they are in desperate need of "hot plates". Dude, if you did meet a potential Suzy Homemaker type, you just showed her that you can't afford a bag of chips to go with your soda snack date. Homemade steak and lobster dinners are above your paygrade.

webweirdos · 2020-02-01T16:35:09+00:00

The power imbalance is so clear in these situations. Men complain about women being HUNGRY and wanting a FREE MEAL, while women complain about being used for SEX. As if the two are even comparable! Some women literally don’t make enough money to feed themselves, but the real problem here is men not having an orifice to fuck! Gimme a break!

themewsingone · 2020-02-01T15:50:21+00:00

So many pickmes and low effort men in the comments, it’s sickening 🤢

velocity2ds · 2020-02-01T16:05:11+00:00

Once a guy asked to get coffee and I said I don’t drink coffee. Then he asked for tea and I said I don’t drink that either. Then he comes up with water

Snugglyy · 2020-02-01T17:05:31+00:00

These guys want the girl to believe she’s going to unlock a world full of sushi dinners and martinis

But no HV HUMAN legit wastes their time getting soda and coffee dates, coffee meetups and lunch are used for real networking and business connections ...not dating first impressions.

Like bruh... it’s the middle of the day and you use your free time struggling to buy chips for girls you met on tinder?
Straight clownery is what it is.

AyemHerself · 2020-02-01T16:03:34+00:00

Cheaper option for what? Getting laid, of course.

It's not about women having to "earn" a provider like someone in the comments claims, it's about a man demonstrating his intentions go further than trying to give you the minimal amount of charm necessary to drop your panties and bounce.

Ms_Tilly · 2020-02-01T16:04:14+00:00

Oh man I loved that comment about a new batch of men😂😂😂

They want to use us for sex, but can't even afford a meal😂

kinnnion · 2020-02-01T16:10:23+00:00

A note for why black women should seriously date out. Majority of black men are cheap, how could you get sodas as a date he’s literally telling you to your face he doesn’t think you’re worth a proper date.

TullyPride · 2020-02-01T18:05:02+00:00

I suggested in the comments it wasn't fair that the gf/wife typically puts all the work in the relationship while her guy can't be bothered to buy her flowers much less dinner occasionally, and I guess that's controversial?

Oh well, at least the men over there aren't as sensitive as everywhere else.

bimbobunnyintraining · 2020-02-01T16:01:27+00:00

“these ones are defective” lmao FACT.

myousername · 2020-02-01T22:31:01+00:00

So many pickme comments like "AS A WOMAN, I PAY FOR MY OWN MEAL BECAUSE I'M NOT LIKE THOSE GOLD DIGGERS PLEASE OH GOD SIR I NEED A CRUMB OF DICK PLEASE PICK ME"

Girl, have some self respect, you don't need to be fishing for validation from strange men on reddit 😑

2020-02-01T19:14:10+00:00

Before I joined FDS, I didn't even know going dutch was a real thing XD I guess its where I live. I'm not single currently, but even male coworkers buy my lunch like its just a natural thing.

bearded_dragonlady · 2020-02-02T01:14:08+00:00

"They get real salty when they see you can provide but then learn they gotta earn that type of treatment."

BPT might as well be redpill at this point. Any guy who talks about women needing to "earn" anything is a man who has never attracted HVW in his life and has become exceedingly bitter over it. And by "earn" they basically mean spread your legs and cook/clean for him. This guy probably makes 90k as a nerdy tech guy and dates low-earning girls to maintain a sense of power over them.

noodspoon · 2020-02-02T02:35:24+00:00

LVM don’t take the time to get to know you enough to want to date you. I talk to a man long enough (no texting) to engage and want to get to know them, dress up for them, and want to be around them for an extended period of time. LVM are offering coffee/video hangouts after the 1st-3rd message because they literally do not care who you are as a person and just want attention. You’re not a person, you’re a dopamine hit.

May26th · 2020-02-02T07:37:56+00:00

So here's the thing, if it was actually about someone paying for dinner, I really couldn't care less. I can afford to pay for both of us. It's a FILTERING MECHANISM. If you're looking for a serious relationship you only want men that are genuine about their interest and intentions. Other filters include: copypasta messages, not reading my profile, asking for nudes, negging me, cancelling at the last minute, late night booty calls etc.

Women on dating apps are INUNDATED with men. I want to screen for the ones who are serious about me.

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-02-01T21:15:21+00:00

Remember in that movie Half Baked when Dave Chapelle tries to spend as little money on that date by taking her to a hot dog cart? This is very that.

RussianAsshole · 2020-02-01T22:39:09+00:00

Those are the same guys that want a woman that cooks and cleans while being unable to be the man that a woman like that would actually want.

"Providers don't judge women, takers do." - G.L. Lambert

modernmedusaa · 2020-02-03T10:59:43+00:00

LIES!!! Men want a free escort, fuck their feelings about it. Next

randomyellowumbrella · 2020-02-01T23:43:22+00:00

Next thing will be lunch break dates with the cafeteria's soggy sandwich

RadicalCardiganCorgi · 2020-02-02T03:55:44+00:00

I just had this thought, If they wanna be so cheap, why not take women out for icecream tbh? Cheaper then dinner and much better then a fucking soda. Just goes to show how lazy and low effort these males are. Not even willing to get creative if money was truely that tight and they were sooooo broke.

Also yuck these comments. Pick mes and LVM's going off 😷

Edit: hmm downvote and a pm already. Must be doing something right ☺

Title	Dates only, ladies.
Author	TheOGJammies
Upvotes	158
Comments	49
Date	February 1, 2020 3:32 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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